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Definitely.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 07:42 PM
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No worries, I appreciate your honesty. I thankfully don't have actual clinical depression, but you're right that I'm mentally unhinged lately. I have indeed given TPE some consideration before.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 07:33 PM
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I cook meals for him every day at his request. He just doesn't like when I spend money on him. Of course I try to be someone of value, both for him and for society at large, but my understandable fear is that it ultimately isn't good enough to justify my continued existence. Eventually I'll be too old for anyone to find pretty and he can easily just find someone better, and then what? In terms of contributions, I feel like jobs that actually usefully contribute to society, those involving physic…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 07:04 PM
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Ah, I see. That's unfortunate.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 06:50 PM
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Yeah, I've realized. Of all the broken young adults in the modern world, it's usually the men who speak so boldly like this about being at the end of their rope ("doomers"). Women with mental issues nowadays tend to swear upon therapy and "self-love" and "self-care," which I'm understandably disillusioned with. My mental health was much better when I was an active faithful Mormon; now that I know it's not true, I'm finding it hard to muster any hope and justification in my existence at all.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 06:47 PM
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If that's all it takes, sure. But he has actively refused to let me spend money on him when I've offered, even cheap things. At the same time, I feel like no one should hire me for anything of value and I'll be a drain if I keep living to 30, 40, 50, older.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 06:42 PM
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me on March 24, 2019: https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre/comments/b4z289/a_fitting_analogy_for_waatgm/
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 06:37 PM
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Never. I feel terrible enough for not being particularly good for anything; I don't want to make life worse being actively bad.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 06:32 PM
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Thanks, pal. This is genuinely assuring to know; it sure can be hard for me to put my worries into perspective sometimes.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 06:24 PM
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Oh, I'm not worried about that. I know it's not time to have kids anytime soon because he's working on his PhD. I just fear that even if he did have the means, it wouldn't be worth it to invest in me, and society would just be better off without me.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 06:18 PM
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I feel bad that he even feels like he has to spend money on me. As much as I work to please him, he's going to eventually realize he can do better and regret even spending time and emotions on me.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/08/20 05:56 PM
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I'm 19 and I'm taking it to heart -- been reading these kinds of things online since age 14. Lest I get tempted to stray from the straight path to young marriage, I remember what kind of future I can expect. It's been said many ways, but there's always some nugget of original value in how it's said differently each time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/20 04:54 AM
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Maybe you thought I meant "he doesn't really care about whether I feel satisfied" rather than "my presence would not be inherently necessary in order for him to feel satisfied in life." The latter is what I meant, and what I've gleaned from plenty of posts on here and related subs. I certainly don't believe the former. My bad for not articulating myself clearly
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/07/19 10:25 PM
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Interesting if true. Communities like MyProAna and r/EDAnonymous tend to skew largely female, as do real-life treatment centers - do you think most men with them are just struggling in silence? I know my boyfriend has been hesitant to seek help because he sees these issues as "feminine."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/19 10:52 PM
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Yeah exactly
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/19 01:56 PM
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That's who I was responding to (fat women who claim to be "curvy" misunderstanding the true meaning of that word). You were mistaken about the spirit of my message. Read again. I said that even though curvy is a shape and not a size, a woman with much fat around her waist can't be curvy just like how underweight women typically can't be. I thought it was a useful clarification for the discussion and was not trying to criticize any commenter here. :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/19 07:47 PM
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I was making a point about how a woman of this size probably can't be curvy, despite what she claims.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/19 07:43 PM
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Curvy is a shape, not a size, and such a shape usually only appears within a certain weight range. A bony emaciated woman can't have a real pronounced bust-to-waist-to-hip difference, nor can a woman with lots of fat around her midsection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/19 06:54 PM
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I've seen men proud of their "big" biceps that are actually mostly fat with about as much muscle mass as a leaner muscular person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/19 06:51 PM
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I'm not trying to convince anyone with a MGTOW mentality that I'm a worthy partner for him. How futile. My husband-to-be already has strong family values and wants to become a committed father, and I strive to build those qualities that would make me a great wife and mother. I have good reasons to believe it's in the best interest of all of us (him, me, our future kids, Western civilization), regardless of what the degenerate modern world says a woman should be like. I'm sure he wouldn't need me…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/06/19 04:01 PM
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My family-minded boyfriend would feel so trashy for saying "My girlfriend and I are expecting a kid" rather than "my wife and I." That's why he believes marriage is the next step. I told him the legal aspect of marriage surely isn't necessary, but he thinks a "fake" marriage is ridiculous.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/06/19 03:54 PM
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There are plenty of women who've rejected marriage and motherhood, though, and they seem to be increasing in prevalence. r/Childfree is filled with women who've gotten their tubes tied for the sake of their career and personal development.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/19 12:02 AM
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Yeah, would it kill him to be honest with her about his intentions and spare her the pain? Maybe he's worried she'll leave him, but surely that would be for the better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/19 11:12 PM
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Women who value lifelong marriage are not very rare in the Mormon community. I no longer believe that the Church is true, that marriage is a matter of eternal salvation, but I still believe there are plenty of reasons for a woman to value it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/19 07:27 AM
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Oh, I do trust him. He's shown no serious problems that would disqualify him as life partner material and plenty of green flags. I just know many may consider it naive if I act like "it'll never be me!" I'd never end it unless it were something severe (e.g. gambling addiction, abusing kids). You can't know those kinds of things for sure until they happen; some people are good at masking their true nature. Again, I highly doubt it'll happen
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/19 07:25 AM
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Yeah, my thoughts. He didn't think that kind of marriage alone would be official though unless we were lawfully wedded.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/19 07:16 AM
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Thanks. I'm shocked that it isn't obvious, though, if one just puts a little thought into it. AWALT is true, but it doesn't mean all women act the same - it just means some foolish and toxic inclinations are part of women's nature. I'm no "unicorn"; I get those urges too, just like how even a devoted upstanding Christian man gets the urge to watch degenerate porn. One can live against their base nature - it's just less likely in an age when the culture isn't strongly discouraging it. My main rat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/19 03:51 AM
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Thank you for sharing! :) I've read enough to realize divorcing a good man is foolish in the long run - I would never be able to land a quality man like him again, and for what benefit? Money? Money surely can't be as fulfilling as a stable family life, as many post-wall divorcées sadly realize. But yes, it would still be wise to have some "what if we have to split" plan in mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/19 03:30 AM
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I brought these issues up to my serious boyfriend who wants to become a father, but he found it ridiculous to be committed with no real marriage. It would surely sound so degenerate for him to say "My girlfriend and I are expecting a kid" as opposed to "my wife and I." I guess it's because he's from another culture. 🇷🇺 What would you tell him?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/19 02:54 AM
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I have an eating disorder, so going to restaurants or other situations with food has gotten pretty stressful for me lately. For a date, I'd prefer going somewhere else. But yeah, "foodie" is an annoying self-description that basically says nothing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/19 06:28 AM
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The idea is that maybe if they accepted from a young age that they need to make wise long-term decisions, rather than choosing the path of promiscuity and irresponsibility, they wouldn't be such a mess. The "crazy" need not be an inherent part of their genes - we're all a product of the choices we've made and the mindsets we've embraced.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/19 09:10 PM
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Hey, I'm a young woman and I think posts like the ones on this sub are informative and insightful. It's the same core message I've read repeatedly, but I learn something new every time. I'm glad I learned the truth at age 14 before making big life decisions - now I'm 18 and in a great marriage-minded relationship. :)
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre08/06/19 08:20 PM
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It's in my nature to enjoy high-calorie sugary junk and seek it out - it's high-energy! But I know better, and when I do better, I naturally feel better. The same is true of chaste self-restraint and striving to become a wife and mother. It's not the "easy" path, but thinking in the long term, I trust that it'll all be worth it. A young adulthood of casual bed-hopping will have no fruits to show and do nothing for my sense of purpose in life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/19 11:36 PM
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Yep. One of the very first red pills for me was finding out that women reported higher happiness levels before the "women's liberation" movement!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/19 11:31 PM
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Words of wisdom - thank you for sharing. :) I think it's worth noting that the answer to "How does marriage benefit a man? Gotcha, it doesn't!" is "Marriage isn't meant to be for his benefit; it's for the children's," at least in the modern West where women aren't married off against their will. Two-parent homes ensure a stable upbringing. We know that trope of the dad who says he's going to the store and never comes back; it's damaging to a kid's psyche. Usually that happens when the parents we…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/05/19 08:41 PM
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There is no equality of consequences thanks to biology. Single men in their late 30s, 40s even may have a change of heart and realize they want to start a family (as Roosh V realized). They'll be much more likely to still be considered attractive and much less likely to have kids with health problems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/19 12:23 AM
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Lori Gottlieb did this and regretted it, telling the tale in her book Marry Him. It's not that she wanted the bucks; she was well off with her high-powered career. It just made her sad to see how her child didn't have a father figure and how her married friends were grateful to have a loyal life companion. I think I might write about her perspective in r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/19 12:17 AM
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Women with college degrees are more likely to have lasting marriages. 78% of women with bachelor's degrees were still married after 20 years, compared to 52% of women in general. For comparison, the oft-cited sex partners study found that 80% of women who married with zero sexual partners were still married after 10 years. A college degree isn't some impressive accomplishment, but as we often see on here, being 30 and not having one at all is often a red flag for instability and low work ethic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/19 05:11 PM
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I was surprised to find out that "sugar" is actually slang for the money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/19 04:14 PM
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Ah, thank you for clarifying. :) Yeah, I was just worried about that one thing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/19 08:36 PM
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I'm aware of the concepts of RMV and SMV - I was just talking about that statement in particular, that being debt-free is essential or else a woman is worth nothing more than being a cum dumpster. Do you believe it or not? Do medical bills count? I'm not trying to debate. It sounds like you're dodging the question after you said "we can have an intelligent conversation." I am an 18 year old virgin without tattoos by the way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/19 08:06 PM
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I'm just taking what the commenter said at face value; how else was I supposed to interpret it? The commenter said being debt free was essential to assure paternity or else a woman can only be treated as a "cum dumpster" (if you didn't get this, read the comment again), and if this is true, this scares me. I've made it my life goal to become a wife and mother and I hope my medical scare hasn't ruined that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/19 07:41 PM
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So if I still have debt from an ER bill, I'm a "cum dumpster" and not marriage material? :(
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/19 07:33 PM
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A group of mixed gender defaults to male (-o ending) in Spanish, so that would still be correct. :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 08:52 PM
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Not all of them. I've heard plenty refer to their marriage as their "first marriage." It's sad how divorce is considered just a casual fact of life these days. Yeah I made clear after a few dates that I was a virgin and had never made out. He said he wouldn't have cared either way, but he respected my decision.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/03/19 11:32 AM
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same could be said for the women so quick to judge men when they are at the bottom of the barrel That's what I was referring to.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/03/19 08:41 PM
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This is when "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" is truly worth noting.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/03/19 08:29 PM
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2,500+ words of excellent social and biological analysis. Thank you for putting the time and effort into this insightful contribution. :)
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/03/19 08:26 PM
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I see why marriage would be a risky investment these days! :/ I wonder if a solution would be for my man and me to have a vow-exchanging ceremony and celebration, get my last name changed to his, and call ourselves married, but not sign any legal "marriage" contract. I don't plan to initiate divorce for any reason, but if he's understandably wary, it surely wouldn't hurt. Are there any downsides to this plan?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/03/19 08:21 PM
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Yes, that's true. I guess that's what I was trying to get at with "hasn't taken off as expected." Just as a "promising startup" will eventually become a successful, stable business if it demonstrates high value and makes smart choices, a young woman who becomes a loving wife, then a nurturing mother, and then an honored grandmother will grow a more meaningful life and contribute more to society over the years.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/03/19 05:50 PM
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Because this sub is about the truth about marriage and always talking about the risks understandably. I was wondering if there were any downsides I wasnt seeing. It isn't just a lifestyle sub I thought
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 02:39 AM
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Why is it still immoral if it causes less suffering than the alternative (divorce)?
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 02:32 AM
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I really mean it! I'm so worried I'll die unmarried and useless that I'll risk my LIFE. Is that an option?
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 02:07 AM
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?
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 02:04 AM
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That's a Blue Pilled sub. They'd just be horrified and wouldn't give any real answers
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 01:56 AM
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I don't mean to support murder at all!!! I'm just talking about a last resort. Ideally we'd NEVER separate.
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 01:55 AM
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I'm not. What's a better place to ask?
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 01:52 AM
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No hate! I see why divorce would be a scary concern. I don't want to get divorced EVER for any reason but I see why a man would be wary.
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 01:51 AM
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