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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?Tbh i can't tell lol | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?Actually i did think something similar initially, but then doubted myself (in my typical fashion) as to whether I'm conveniently rationalising it because of my lack of know how to deal with the situation. Hope reading your comment puts me in the proper frame. Thanks a lot. 👍👍 | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?What bothers me though is when I end up actually acting her way. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 07:46 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?Will do. 👍 Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?I was personally trying to not address this directly to her as it might look as though I'm asking for respect. But I may well have to say that. Thanks for your comment. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?just look at her and say I got it Will do. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 03:30 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?Well our team leader has left us to our own devices to finish the project, and we talk to her over the phone when we get stuck. Don't attack her, but this is inefficient use of company time. Ask your team lead if this was how your team was instructed to operate. Actually the concise version just lasts for like a few seconds. I can't attack her, so i just try to ignore her and start leaving before she's done repeating herself. Then she has to like talk after me. This may not be the most professio… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 03:28 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?Yeah well we're just as new to the project. And what she says isn't that insightful generally. She's been here just a few days earlier. I generally do try to shut up and listen at work though. Perhaps a bit too much... Thanks for your comment. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?I was looking for something just like this, brilliant. Will try to do that. Thanks a lot. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 03:08 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?I firmly believe that I deserve to be treated with respect, no question. But in the heat of the moment i end up acting like a beta which may be what invites her to talk that way. I did ponder saying something like that but if my frame isn't proper it may sound like I'm asking for respect. I'll work on my frame. Thanks for your comment. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?When shit like this happens never acknowledge the frame because it make you look bad instead. A less experienced me would have ended up looking bad as hell. That is the kind of actionable advice i was looking for. Thanks! Will try and see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?Well she's two years younger. I'd totally take notes but often her comments are common sense instructions. Thanks for your comment. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 02:57 AM |
| 3 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?We're both equally good at the job as far as i can tell. Even she's just as new to the project, has 5-6 days' more experience. Thanks for the tough love, but I don't whine. My precise problem is the struggle to not show resentment and still turn this around. I try to act composed around her and may have come across as bitter/resentful only on 1-2 occasions (that too because i couldn't control sounding butthurt for literally two seconds. She may not even have caught up on it). Basically what I'm … | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Does telling a girl that you want to see her topless (or something like that) turn on her anti slut defense?Sorry? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Does telling a girl that you want to see her topless (or something like that) turn on her anti slut defense?Actually we don't text. How about in person when we're chatting? | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | What does this body language cue mean?To make things more confusing they've all talked pretty normally to me - neither invitingly nor disapprovingly. I'll be alert for the other cues you mentioned. Thanks to all commenters. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Is an introvert fucking doomed?Haha true. Technically there was a talkative guy next to me and we did engage but the conversations probably weren't that frequent or noticeable. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Is an introvert fucking doomed?BE WEIRD and normal will be easy. So hopefully the more I do it the more it will become second nature and the less withdrawn I'll appear in situations like these. Sounds like a lot of hard work is coming up. Fingers crossed. Thanks a lot for your comment. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 04:04 AM |
| 1 | When you're interacting with others, how to be polite yet command respect?I'm sure I've read that before but it hasn't resonated like now. Thank you. I'll make this my default mode now. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Just saw a girl I like with a boyfriend.Okay cool. I thought with the way I'm writing/overthinking stuff you noticed something which I could fix. I've decided to move on since yesterday's comments. The only reason I'll approach her now is if I get eye contact which I think is an ioi from her. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Just saw a girl I like with a boyfriend.I'm less than a week in the gym - so I'm doing basic stuff like pushups, dumbbells, etc. They'll start me with weights in a few days. I'm committed towards lifting. I'm sure I'll have a satisfactory answer to that question in a few months. Just to clarify in case you're wondering, I'm pretty good looking, lean, and not some fat. I've been told on numerous occasions that if I work out I'll have an athletic looking build. I get plenty of eye contact. I'd got some from this girl too on more than on… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Just saw a girl I like with a boyfriend.Could you elaborate? Like because of what exactly are you getting the pussy vibe? | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Just saw a girl I like with a boyfriend.Alright, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Just saw a girl I like with a boyfriend.So if I understand this threads comments correctly, i could approach but not expect anything cause it's a bit unrealistic. Something may happen but chances are slim. Better to write this one off and go for other chicks. Is that correct? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Just saw a girl I like with a boyfriend.I will. Haven't figured out how to fuck multiple girls on rotation (I'm from a country which is much more conservative than western countries - but it should have definitely happened by now regardless). But that too I will soon. Thank you for your comment. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Just saw a girl I like with a boyfriend.Yes I suppose. I'll just talk to her and see where things go from there. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Just saw a girl I like with a boyfriend.I'll do that. 👍 Sorry for the repeat comment, I replied via alt account like a retard. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 08:06 AM |
| 0 | Just saw a girl I like with a boyfriend.will do anything I can Within the bounds of reason of course! If there's nothing I can do, I have zero issues moving about my day. But if there is, I'd like to take a chance. Sorry to spam inbox, i forgot to switch accounts. True to my retard form. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Just saw a girl I like with a boyfriend.I just read the link. In this case since she actually has one, I'll just treat it as a non-issue. And approach. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 08:00 AM |
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