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1

U R right. He was a willing participant.
/r/MensRights09/07/16 04:42 PM
0

This is not rape. They did not penetrate you (as I read your story anyway). So, no rape. They did use you. But they were only kids too.
/r/MensRights09/07/16 04:29 PM
1

There have been plenty of guys who are just plain out assholes too. Don't forget them.
/r/MensRights06/07/16 11:29 AM
2

While some extreme feminists are crazy, most main-stream traditional feminists are not. They are interested in fairness and human rights as many of us here are.
/r/MensRights05/07/16 03:54 PM
1

This. We all need daughters! The bass are biting!
/r/MensRights27/06/16 04:15 PM
2

To be fair, this is Detroit we are talking about here....
/r/MensRights27/06/16 04:09 PM
3

Women want equal rights, which is good. But, they do not want the responsibilities that come with those rights.
/r/MensRights26/06/16 01:48 AM
1

S/he said. Some Muslim bs here....
/r/MensRights23/06/16 05:17 PM
0

Only if we make it happen. In other words, no.
/r/MensRights23/06/16 05:15 PM
1

I think it will just double the number of poor fools they can pump into their machine. Wait and see. They have a huge budget and the best PR that money can buy.
/r/MensRights21/06/16 03:19 PM
3

Nobody should register and nobody should participate in their killing for profit machine.
/r/MensRights21/06/16 02:52 PM
1

998 is a lot of mass shootings! I must have missed them on the news.
/r/MensRights14/06/16 03:52 PM
1

Universities are not capable of trying crime. Crimes should be tried in the courts.
/r/MensRights14/06/16 03:49 PM
0

What happens in one case is not what happens every time.
/r/MensRights14/06/16 01:45 PM
1

I do not know what was found in her blood if anything, but it did seem fishy to me too, which is why I thought her drink might have been spiked. Most people at frat parties are going to be buzzed or drunk or high or more, so they may not be the best witnesses....
/r/MensRights14/06/16 01:43 PM
1

Ok, but do you have to participate so actively? You could just sorta ignore the stupid class. Sit there, but don't say anything.
/r/MensRights14/06/16 01:38 PM
2

No.
/r/MensRights13/06/16 05:56 PM
-4

Yeah, but her crash and burn type black out seems more like drugs than booze?
/r/MensRights13/06/16 04:57 PM
-6

I think maybe her drink was spiked?
/r/MensRights13/06/16 03:27 PM
1

No, the title is wrong. This is what happenED in one case. This is not what happenS every time.
/r/MensRights13/06/16 03:17 PM
6

How much is this class worth and how much do you care about your GPA? My basic response is: Try not to get involved in their stupid drama. The reason is that it will drive you insane and you will not gain anything by getting involved in it. I think you should look at it like you are talking to a crazy person. Try not to get stabbed....
/r/MensRights13/06/16 03:09 PM
1

Women ARE better long-distance swimmers, I seem to remember....
/r/MensRights13/06/16 03:03 PM
1

It depends on how much other stuff you have on your plate and your personality etc. but I would not say anything about it because I never want to show up on their radar. If you fight back, they may attack you, and it could fuck up your life.
/r/MensRights07/06/16 03:16 PM
3

I had a couple of questions as I read this.... Were you actually cheating on this woman by fucking your ex? You should block her on Whatzup as well. Filming a person is not rape. Did you tell the guitarist that she is lieing and you did not piss in his water bottle? You should not allow him to withhold your money. Demand it. If he will or cannot pay, leave the band. You need to go on the offensive a bit and talk up how crazy she is about the break-up to your mutual friends. Don't be super cruel …
/r/MensRights07/06/16 03:06 PM
1

Maybe. But you are reaching a bit. There is no evidence for your conjections.
/r/MensRights06/06/16 03:23 PM
1

Spice is a shitty drug. Smoke weed instead. Good dope and you will not murder anyone.
/r/MensRights05/06/16 07:20 AM
2

After the first bottle, you can go very far down the list price-wise, your toungue will not notice the difference.
/r/MensRights05/06/16 07:18 AM
-5

This is the class/patriarchy thing that feminists are talking about. Exactly.
/r/MensRights05/06/16 07:11 AM
1

It depends on the age and maturity of the student. I could be rape or sex depending on many factors. I know I wanted to bang my Spanish teacher in hs.
/r/MensRights05/06/16 07:09 AM
1

I think it depends on the definition but there are a few small tribal societies that are. I think that CWBECK does not know this.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 03:19 PM
1

The white's position in society is under attack as their percentage of the population falls. One way that they have tried to retain their position is to have women take part in the control structure. It raises the level of competition making it harder for non-whites to get ahead. Women also play the role of "underrepresented minority" so they can hire minorities without hiring non-whites. It keeps the power and the money in the family.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 03:17 PM
-2

A large part of the quest for women's equality has to do with preserving the status of whites in the US.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 09:25 AM
5

There are 2 possibilities here. He did commit domestic violence or he did not. I do not know which is true.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 01:18 AM
1

The system is screwed up and unfair. You should try to find additional sources of income that you do not need to pay taxes on. I will not say more than this. Line Read Line.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 01:15 AM
1

There is plenty of evidence for the existence of matriarchies.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 12:40 AM
0

A large part of the quest for women's equality has to do with preserving the status of whites in the US. Go figure.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 12:38 AM
1

Yeah, you can say it is class more than sex, and I guess you might be right, but it seems to me that men have had more power in most societies in the past.
/r/MensRights26/05/16 04:27 PM
-5

Men have been on top and have done a lot of fucked up shit over the years. Women may be fucked, but that does not alter the facts of history.
/r/MensRights26/05/16 03:34 PM
0

Well, if you murder someone, you better pay a whole lot more than $400k.
/r/MensRights26/05/16 03:28 PM
0

I could not read this for some reason...just my computer?
/r/MensRights23/05/16 02:36 PM
1

I am saying that calling the police will get his ass arrested. Police cost money. Every time they go out, they want an arrest. It looks good for them and money for the system. Wife/gf beater is an easy tag. I wish it was not this way, but you know that it is.
/r/MensRights11/05/16 02:11 PM
5

I disagree. Adding the police to the mix will not make it better, and it could make it worse. Better to just let everybody cool off.
/r/MensRights10/05/16 04:28 PM
1

I understand but it all seems a bit unfair to me.
/r/MensRights06/05/16 02:26 PM
1

Ok. But in the case of child molestation, the kid may not feel that they can fight the adult. For this reason, perhaps it should be a bit different for this crime at least.
/r/MensRights06/05/16 02:10 PM
1

Right. I see that now. I do not understand the "statute of limitations" thingy. Why does a crime cease to matter after X years? This is illogical in my mind.
/r/MensRights06/05/16 01:54 PM
1

That sounds about right. I wrote 5 years in an earlier comment today.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 11:21 AM
2

Should be 5 years x 5 boys = 25 years.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 11:16 AM
3

Violence is violence. I don't care what sex does it.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 11:07 AM
3

You are doing a good job! Thanks for that!
/r/MensRights05/05/16 11:03 AM
2

This is similar to the thing where they give detentions to both parties in a fight in hs. You get to get bullied and then you get a detention on top of it. It is total bs.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 11:00 AM
1

I think it has to do with equality of humans before the law, but getting our daughters killed along with our sons for the 1% and their profits is not progress.
/r/MensRights30/04/16 02:32 PM
2

People care more about women, but the 1% does not give a fuck about us.
/r/MensRights30/04/16 02:29 PM
3

Getting our women as suppressed as our men is no victory.
/r/MensRights30/04/16 08:58 AM
-2

No comment. I was banned before.
/r/MensRights27/04/16 03:50 PM
3

I would say something here, but then I will get banned again... I think you can figure out what I would say here....
/r/MensRights27/04/16 02:06 PM
1

They were real enough in the 50s and 60s. Much less after the 70s though I think. There are certainly still real incidents, but there is made up bs too.
/r/MensRights20/04/16 11:58 AM
2

Try to get the doc to take a photo of the black eye. Tell him there may be a court case and you need accurate records in your file. The minute you mention lawyers, your file will become much more complete. Use it or not.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 05:35 PM
1

I donno. I just thought it was funny because he was bitching about the same thing that they were bitching about.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 04:30 PM
1

This is the "mansplaining" complaint in reverse.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 04:21 PM
3

Just break up with her. And try to stop drinking too, if you drink. You can see the effects of alcohol on your ex-gf here. You do not want to become like her. If you have a black eye tomorrow, go to the doctor's and have them look at it. It will make a record of your injuries, but you will not have to press charges. It may save you later.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 04:13 PM
2

Neither one is anything to write home about.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 04:11 PM
1

Sorry but the new bf and his brothers are controlled by the gf. They need to grow a brain and think for themselves.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 04:10 PM
2

"I'm on my way home, if you'd feel more comfortable I can go pick my fiancee up first so that you are not alone in the car with me." This strikes me as a bit weird. Once she proved herself to be an asshole or a drunk. You should have just left. Maybe you felt bad for her cause you almost hit her? Maybe you worried about her because she was a drunk female at 1 am? Anyway, if you got her in your car, it could have gone south. But it did not happen and I doubt she has your license plate number or a…
/r/MensRights16/04/16 06:03 PM
-1

Ha, Ha, Ha! This is hilarious!
/r/MensRights02/04/16 12:00 PM
1

Shit, if she'd have pm-ed me, I would send her a dicpic.
/r/MensRights31/03/16 02:29 PM
1

You should take this opportunity to sit your dad down and have a long heart-to-heart with him. Tell him that he has poor choice in women, and that he should check with you or other people he trusts before getting involved in another one like this.
/r/MensRights31/03/16 02:27 PM
4

I think talking to your gf would be the best route. Wait, you are broke up? Anyway, just talk to her. Tell her that the kid is your son too and that you want to see him.
/r/MensRights17/03/16 03:37 PM
1

That was his mistake. He should have took the kid and ran.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 11:57 AM
1

This is correct. There is a wide range of sexual behaviors in humans and some of the "stranger" ones may be more common than we imagine.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 08:04 AM
1

The problem here is that this is Peru. He should have gone thru the courts there, or fucking grabbed the kid and flew back before Mom figured out what was happening. He got caught out by the police in a foreign country. That means he has to follow their justice. Good luck to him!
/r/MensRights16/03/16 07:46 AM
2

Interestingly, neither black nor elder people exist, according to Google.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 07:40 AM
1

True. But you can change schools to get away from that stupid shit. A rape conviction will not go away.
/r/MensRights14/03/16 11:56 AM
1

She can still come back with the rape charges. But, hopefully, you have a long record of lovey-dovey interaction which will disprove them.
/r/MensRights13/03/16 04:34 PM
4

Chill the fuck out. Why would she accuse you of rape if she wanted it? Just keep a happy open vibe between you two and tell her it was fun and you want to see her again when she is free (even if you do not want to). Keep the vibe chill!
/r/MensRights13/03/16 02:33 PM
2

Try to get some free legal advice somewhere. This is the only thing that will save you. Ask for some pro bono advice/help.
/r/MensRights13/03/16 02:26 PM
0

This is miscommunication. Things which are "obvious" to some may not be to others. Woman seem to like this catty way of communication.
/r/MensRights13/03/16 03:32 AM
1

I think it might be more accurate to say that it has been a WASP's world or a 1%er's world than the white man's world. But, things have changed for the better now. There is more equality now.
/r/MensRights10/03/16 02:43 PM
7

His real crime was being so poor he had to walk.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 03:10 AM
0

Yep, as I read it, it has nothing to do with men's rights.
/r/MensRights04/03/16 02:46 PM
1

As others have said, make sure that it is yours first. If it IS yours, watch out for SIDS.
/r/MensRights04/03/16 07:55 AM
3

Sounds more like the apartment dwellers told them to shut up and he told them to fuck off and they got pissed.
/r/MensRights04/03/16 07:47 AM
1

While this sucks, why was this guy with this girl? I have the feeling that he knew that she was using. Men should not hang around with women like this. Protect yourself.
/r/MensRights02/03/16 02:08 PM
1

Is this real? Sounds like a joke to me.
/r/MensRights27/02/16 04:02 PM
5

This is the type of logical thinking that we need to support. Cold rationality, not emotional argumentation.
/r/MensRights27/02/16 03:58 PM
1

If she was a black punk, she would go down for a year at least.
/r/MensRights24/02/16 03:13 PM
-1

No it would not. It would be a shitty day and the week after would be bad, but things would get back to normal quick enough.
/r/MensRights22/02/16 04:09 PM
1

The time span between the leaving and the death is unclear. The dad could have had a woman and then later broke up with her also.
/r/MensRights22/02/16 04:00 PM
1

I think the colored people are the racists, not the feminists.
/r/MensRights22/02/16 03:48 PM
1

This type of thing should not be taught in school now-a-days.
/r/MensRights19/02/16 02:40 PM
1

Equality before the law. "All men are created equal" remember?
/r/MensRights18/02/16 01:44 PM
1

Right that is exactly what I said! Just read it again so you get the full import!
/r/MensRights18/02/16 01:42 PM
-1

Sorry, but this is just total bs. The idea that you should get extra time for the same crime because of the job you happen to do is just total bs.
/r/MensRights17/02/16 05:51 PM
1

I totally agree with you. There is such a variety of personal experience and readyness at the teen years that there is no hard and fast rule as to when teens are ready. Most guys are not into teens, but some definitely are. Some guys like fat girls too. It is not my thing, but who am I to tell some other person, teen or older, what type of partner they should have?
/r/MensRights17/02/16 05:41 PM
-2

This is bs. Just because you are a teacher does not mean you should get mandatory time. It is not like teachers are highly paid or anything. This is just non-sense. If teachers get 10 years, cops should get 20.
/r/MensRights17/02/16 05:36 PM
1

Have females gotten THE rotten deal? Worse than men? I guess that you might say that. But, a lot of it depends on what you want out of life too. I think the main thing that determined your fate was where you were born and how rich/important/plugged in you were.
/r/MensRights13/02/16 04:32 PM
1

Not really. Just the meaning of the word "guys" has changed is all.
/r/MensRights13/02/16 01:37 AM
2

Dude, you need to end this relationship PRONTO. This girl is NOT your girlfriend. She is not EVEN your friend. She is a person who is willing to hurt you physically. She could kill by mistake or on purpose at any time. You just do not know where a fight will lead. Will she pick up a knife? Will she try to run you over with the car? You just do not know. The fact that she has done this type of shit multiple times before and you are still going on like "I love her." shows that you are quite insane…
/r/MensRights07/02/16 03:49 PM
1

Protecting the white women from the evil asian man...
/r/MensRights06/02/16 05:20 PM
2

Here is the thing. Nobody wants the training. We all just want to act normal. But, we all have different lines, and if somebody does not like you for some reason, say you have a job that they want, then they can bring out the "sexual harrasement" thingy, if you have a sexy cake. It is only real when they want to be.
/r/MensRights03/02/16 03:25 PM
3

Dump the screensaver. It is non-professional. Don't fall to their level.
/r/MensRights03/02/16 03:20 PM
1

I think that if you are charged with a rape that never occurred, you have a duty to mankind to countercharge that she stuck her finger in your ass against your wishes.
/r/MensRights03/02/16 03:09 PM
2

WTF? This girl is so pretty. She could have any number of guys. She could work an honest job and be fine. She lived at home so she did not have to pay for an apt. I just can't understand it. Why did she feel like she needs luxury goods? And then why accuse the guy of rape? She could have just blown the thing off as a mistake. Then to kill herself. While she did fuck up, she could have spent a year and jail and then gone on from there. She could have claimed she was in Spain or someplace.
/r/MensRights29/01/16 03:34 PM
1

What is "the hand"? Did she give you "the finger"?
/r/MensRights27/01/16 02:17 PM
3

No.
/r/MensRights26/01/16 05:04 PM
5

Fuck this guy! You should never throw a cat against the wall.
/r/MensRights26/01/16 02:23 PM
0

No, you are wrong. Patients with physical problems are in a different situation than mental patients. Maybe it is because psych doctors/medicine are less developed than say heart disease doctors.
/r/MensRights11/01/16 04:28 PM
1

"by your own choice" and "against your will" are very different animals.
/r/MensRights11/01/16 01:28 PM
1

To each, his own. The reasons for discouraging people from seeking help are quite clear from the original post. The doctors can and will lock you up against your will. You should try this out sometime. The experience may change your mind.
/r/MensRights11/01/16 06:14 AM
1

It is not misinformation.
/r/MensRights10/01/16 05:32 PM
2

I see that you disagree with me. I will still advise people to avoid seeking "unprofessional help".
/r/MensRights10/01/16 05:12 PM
-2

This is the reason why you should never talk to psych doc. If you do, they can label you as crazy at their will. No matter how bad you are hurting, you should deal with your problems by yourself as best as you are able. It is sad, but it is the truth.
/r/MensRights10/01/16 03:13 PM
1

You are attempting to deal with complex problems with simple pop psychology.
/r/MensRights28/12/15 02:31 PM
5

This is the idea of communal responsibility. Because I hold some trait in common with some other individual(s), I am somehow responsible for the actions of the other(s). You cannot control other people's behavior (especially in the past) so you cannot be responsible for it. This title is irrational.
/r/MensRights27/12/15 03:14 AM
2

Maybe you could approach the court pro se, explaining that you have tried to get legal representation, but no one would take your case. The other route you could go is to call the local bar and ask them to recommend a lawyer after you explain that you were refused respresentation. The lawyers are turing you down because they think that Texas has jurisdiction, I guess, but you might be able to get a decision where you live.
/r/MensRights23/12/15 05:42 PM
2

I would try to get a lawyer to petition the original judge for custody.
/r/MensRights23/12/15 04:56 PM
1

For me, there is a big difference between sex and rape, and other bigger jumps to torture and murder.
/r/MensRights23/12/15 04:52 PM
1

Depends on the facts of the case.
/r/MensRights23/12/15 04:40 PM
3

I think I understand what you mean. I was thinking more of the situation in Syria and all where they report on the refugees and the attacks in Paris, but they do not REALLY tell you that the West at war with Syria and trying to overthrow the government there. For me, the fact that Asians are grooming white English girls is an example of a crime where the race of the criminal is an important fact about the story. There are lots of cases where it doesnt matter but in some stories, it helps you to …
/r/MensRights21/12/15 03:29 PM
2

It is less "factually wrong" than "report this, ignore that". Report "the superficial event" ignore "the real causes for the event". The BBC is among the best. Don't get me wrong. But, they have their own problems too.
/r/MensRights21/12/15 03:12 PM
4

BBC's factual reporting is also extremely biased. You should look for some other sources too.
/r/MensRights21/12/15 02:50 PM
1

You de-escalated the situation, which was the correct move. You are one smart dude and you should feel proud of yourself.
/r/MensRights21/12/15 02:45 PM
1

I really think there is a huge variation in how mature the kids and the adults are. I think it is perfectly OK for a 30 year old teacher to sleep with a 16 year old if both parties want it. In the past, it was not that unusual for teachers to marry their students. I guess that many 16 year olds would not want it and many teachers would not want it either. But, there may be some who do. Look at the news reports.
/r/MensRights21/12/15 11:53 AM
7

Here are my honest recommendations: Talk to the girl. Offer her a one time payment in return for the abortion/giving the child up for adoption. Make it like $5k~$10k. Enough so she can buy some shit she wants. It will be much cheaper over the long run. As others have mentioned. Change your identity and move to Cali or Maine or FL or someplace. I hope there is no record of your brother's fingerprints anywhere.
/r/MensRights20/12/15 02:29 PM
6

They should just lower the age of consent to 16 or 17.
/r/MensRights20/12/15 02:17 PM
2

I would hope to find the old vehicle that has been well cared for by old people and parked in a garage in the suburbs. But, the times have changed and the people are all over these things now.
/r/MensRights11/12/15 04:54 PM
2

Xactly! And wheels, and make to work on time, and no waiting for the bus in the rain. It is expensive but cheap if you have a reasonable job.
/r/MensRights11/12/15 04:30 PM
2

Kinda sucks but rents are too high now. This kid seems like he needs a way out.
/r/MensRights11/12/15 04:02 PM
2

Old vans too.
/r/MensRights11/12/15 03:59 PM
-2

Yes, you can but do you want to? Police can fuck up your dad's life, and the lives of anyone who depends on him financially etc. Is this what you want? I think it might be better for you to move out on your own. Find a job and a place to live. I recommend that you buy an old Ford F-150 or Toyota truck with a camper top and put a mattress in the back and live in it. Or you can live with your bf if you think it would work out. The point is that you are an adult so you should get a job and support …
/r/MensRights11/12/15 03:04 PM
1

You need to save more money. Try to cut expenses and improve income. Document everything and talk with your lawyer again. If they say no-go, you have to give up or change lawyers. Or hope your ex gets sick of the kid/your money. You might be able argue that since you are paying, you should get to keep the kid more.
/r/MensRights09/12/15 04:05 PM
1

I think there is a wide variety of sexual development/experience/desire among people. I think this one-size fits all, you must be 18 thing is riduculous.
/r/MensRights09/12/15 03:54 PM
1

Eye rape! It is a felony I fear!
/r/MensRights08/12/15 11:51 AM
1

What does "sexually harrased" mean? If I try to pick up a girl in a bar when she is not into it, is it harrassment? Stare at her drunkenly? Touch her arm? Butt? If I was tall and handsome, would it still be harrassment?
/r/MensRights07/12/15 02:24 PM
5

Keep it logical + rational.
/r/MensRights07/12/15 02:16 PM
1

The only way that it is worthwhile to get into the military is thru one of the academies. Otherwise, you are an economic draftee or an idiot.
/r/MensRights04/12/15 02:49 PM
2

Well, to be fair, a man should have more sense than a woman....
/r/MensRights04/12/15 02:46 PM
0

She is just a cunt.
/r/MensRights03/12/15 02:25 PM
1

Yep, except that TV stars are beamed into your house, while porn stars are less so.
/r/MensRights03/12/15 02:00 PM
2

I never said I believed what the women said. I just don't care very much about these people. The women's claims could be true, but once you are on a porn set, I think you have to expect to get fucked.
/r/MensRights02/12/15 01:58 PM
0

Because it is a slimy business that attracts a lot of low-life. It used to be very illegal. I am not saying that it should be illegal, but the whole thing is just very very iffy.
/r/MensRights02/12/15 01:55 PM
-1

If you are on a porn shoot, I don't think you have much grounds to claim rape. Of course, it would be easy to imagine situations where it would be clearly rape. But, again, I just quickly reach the point where I don't care.
/r/MensRights01/12/15 02:58 PM
-1

Frankly, I don't care that much about porn actors.
/r/MensRights01/12/15 02:28 PM
-4

Fox News....it is unwatchable for me. I had to quit half way thru.
/r/MensRights01/12/15 02:23 PM
1

You may not understand me, but I recommend that you move to some country where the UK can't touch you legally, and start a new life.
/r/MensRights30/11/15 11:55 AM
3

If you are a victim of violence, do not contact Mensline. Contact your local police department.
/r/MensRights30/11/15 11:51 AM
-4

Why did she do this? Did you cheat on her?
/r/MensRights29/11/15 02:17 PM
2

Covered under "rich".
/r/MensRights28/11/15 06:33 AM
1

I apparently have trouble with reading comp.
/r/MensRights27/11/15 03:02 PM
1

Srly, I had thought gayness was biological, and you can't just decide to become gay.
/r/MensRights27/11/15 02:54 PM
1

I would need to see video to decide if this is fair or not. But, my guess is no.
/r/MensRights27/11/15 02:38 PM
7

Not exactly like we can suddenly decide to be gay, afaik.
/r/MensRights27/11/15 02:35 PM
8

Yes, you are not handsome/rich/tall/white/Christian enough to play.
/r/MensRights27/11/15 02:34 PM
8

Where you gonna go?
/r/MensRights27/11/15 02:32 PM
-3

Just ask her to fuck while you record her answer.
/r/MensRights27/11/15 02:30 PM
3

I think you handled the situation OK. You could have called the cops after the push, but it would seem like an overreaction to most people. Your real concern was your kids and you took care of them so it was OK. The only thing I can say is go to the same park as often as possible and try to strike up some innocious relationship with the moms you see there often. Keep it strictly light. Talk about the weather or whatever. But make a group of people who can vouge for you slightly.
/r/MensRights21/11/15 01:45 AM
1

Really, the only way thru legal land is with a lawyer. If you can get a good one, it will cost you $ and save you $$.
/r/MensRights20/11/15 01:52 PM
3

You are indirectly making fun of them and they got pissed. Why did you feel the need to bring up the problem of sex roles in the first place? You know that it is only going to cause problems. If you want that, it is fine, but if you don't, it could have been a pirates and princesses party or any other thing.
/r/MensRights19/11/15 02:04 PM
1

Depending on how good your lawyer is, you may or may not want to avoid court. Why do you want to avoid it?
/r/MensRights19/11/15 11:55 AM
1

You need a good lawyer if you have the money. If no, you need to try to find some lawyer that will help you for free. Anything that you say, or worse, put down on paper, can be used against you. You have to be very careful here. You need a lawyer.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 02:29 PM
1

There are many complexities to this story. Do you think that a man should be allowed to make a child and then not pay to raise it? This is the origin of alimony payments. Why did your friend stay with the woman when she cheated on him, making 2 children? This is more your friend's problem than that of the West. He is stupid. His community is as it is. No one has to listen to the stupid community. Moving to an Eastern country is not easy to do for most Westerners. There are language and culture p…
/r/MensRights18/11/15 02:23 PM
1

Oil, massage, and work any knots out of 'em. Anything you want?!?!
/r/MensRights18/11/15 01:37 PM
-1

Yes, of course, after a hard day's work of video making, a shoulder massage should help relieve stress.
/r/MensRights17/11/15 01:48 PM
-6

Nice shoulders!
/r/MensRights16/11/15 11:34 AM
1

I know the women are better. Both seem dangerous. But, the US is dangerous too....
/r/MensRights08/11/15 08:43 AM
1

I don't know much about Russia but if you end up on the wrong side of the government/Mafia it could be bad. I guess that is true anywhere though. Maybe some south American place? Bolivia?
/r/MensRights08/11/15 02:21 AM
4

A $600 fine?
/r/MensRights07/11/15 04:19 PM
1

A $600 fine?
/r/MensRights07/11/15 04:19 PM
-3

When the justice system fails to provide justice, we must provide justice on our own.
/r/MensRights07/11/15 02:54 PM
7

I will give you a very different type of answer. Get a job in some country that does not have extradiction with the US. Save your money live a new life. Never return to MO ever again.
/r/MensRights07/11/15 11:39 AM
1

This is actually kinda shitty. You should hang onto the pole with your hand so other people can use it too. That is why it is called "public transport". It is not just for you alone.
/r/MensRights05/11/15 04:18 PM
3

You try caneing some Sing girl. The parents would eat you alive.
/r/MensRights30/10/15 04:24 PM
2

No...
/r/MensRights29/10/15 12:51 AM
17

In many countries, it is against the law to publicly release the name of the accused, but OK after found guilty.
/r/MensRights28/10/15 05:06 PM
0

Yes, that is a definite yes!
/r/MensRights16/10/15 03:11 PM
3

This has no basis in fact. Women will try to protect their own company just as much as, if not more than men.
/r/MensRights16/10/15 02:30 PM
-1

I think rape is a serious crime and allegations of rape should be handled by the police. University cops work for the University and therefore can be influenced. Universities obviously do not want rapes reported because it makes their campuses look unsafe. I think the claims should be investigated by the city police.
/r/MensRights16/10/15 02:00 PM
-7

Lots of parents don't want their sons to be responsible for their actions?
/r/MensRights15/10/15 11:35 AM
2

I think it is fairly obvious that she is mentally ill.
/r/MensRights15/10/15 11:33 AM
1

Thank you!
/r/MensRights15/10/15 11:08 AM
0

I am guessing 15.
/r/MensRights14/10/15 01:26 PM
0

You got the worst luck in the world.
/r/MensRights14/10/15 11:57 AM
5

The age of consent in Australia is 16? So, the kid was under that?
/r/MensRights14/10/15 11:54 AM
1

Damn. Pizza.
/r/MensRights09/10/15 02:34 PM
2

Canada is part of the British commonwealth, and, partially as a result, has a different culture and level of education than the US.
/r/MensRights08/10/15 03:05 PM
3

Does this mean that they are in stocks and bonds or have no money?
/r/MensRights08/10/15 02:59 PM
0

whtevr
/r/MensRights05/10/15 03:57 PM
0

Well, some people don't have any concept of the correct side of the sidewalk to walk on, and don't have any idea of public space/other people's rights.
/r/MensRights05/10/15 11:04 AM
1

or a wealthy black lesbian man...
/r/MensRights05/10/15 10:51 AM
1

I have read that it was an attempt by the middle class whites to maintain their position against the colored masses.
/r/MensRights05/10/15 10:50 AM
4

To be fair here, some guys walk down the sidewalk and expect everyone to get out of their way.
/r/MensRights05/10/15 10:43 AM
5

No, same is good here.
/r/MensRights03/10/15 04:10 PM
2

Need more info to make an intelligent comment. Depending on the situation, get a loan or take the plea.
/r/MensRights03/10/15 04:09 PM
4

Not exactly the same. Sex trafficking generally involves slavery. I am against slavery.
/r/MensRights03/10/15 04:07 PM
1

15 is a bit low. 16 would be better. And you should always use condoms.
/r/MensRights29/09/15 03:05 PM
1

Because we are too stupid to get ourselves organized.
/r/MensRights28/09/15 04:26 PM
1

No loss!
/r/MensRights27/09/15 03:12 PM
2

The other message is that real men fight in the military, and that American men's job is to fight and die for whatever the 1% decide they want.
/r/MensRights26/09/15 01:35 AM
2

This is correct. Rape is a serious crime and a serious accusation. Universities cannot handle it. It is a legal matter.
/r/MensRights24/09/15 11:48 AM
2

You got lucky. You got out of a relationship with this girl. Now is the time to fight. As others said, do not take a plea bargain. Get the best lawyer you can afford. Were you drunk/stoned when this happened? If you were sober and she drunk, there may be slight hope there. Lawyer UP!
/r/MensRights23/09/15 07:16 AM
9

I vote with rifinwono. Move to some country without mutual agreements with the US and start a brand new life. Save as much money as you can while you cut off payments. Get a passport and move to China or someplace.
/r/MensRights23/09/15 07:09 AM
1

I would not email her. Just drop the matter. The policy is actually a good policy to have but I would be on my guard around this female grad student. She may OK, or she may think that she is god....
/r/MensRights22/09/15 09:54 AM
2

I think she means that she did not offend with a minor.
/r/MensRights22/09/15 09:50 AM
2

You might vollanteer to testify for him in court. Tell the plain truth about what you heard happened and your friends situation. If the judge has ears, he might listen.
/r/MensRights22/09/15 09:48 AM
1

I am somewhat in favor of this. I don't want to be accused of molesting some kid.
/r/MensRights21/09/15 12:24 AM
-3

It IS disgraceful. And very profitable. This is why the Jews pushed it so hard.
/r/MensRights19/09/15 06:14 AM
2

This is why they started to have uniform sentenceing guidelines/rules. Different judges give different rulings.
/r/MensRights18/09/15 02:27 PM
1

Some woman become smarter/better after a divorce, no doubt, but I would never do it.
/r/MensRights17/09/15 01:26 AM
1

Not if the guy is in control of the family finances.
/r/MensRights17/09/15 01:24 AM
3

Well, if the guy runs the business in his wife's name, I think it should be Ok....
/r/MensRights16/09/15 03:13 PM
4

Ban dildos too!
/r/MensRights16/09/15 02:25 PM
7

Start your wife a business!
/r/MensRights16/09/15 02:20 PM
0

One of the worst choices you can make in my opinion. Biologically speaking, it is a lose for you and an win for him. I know that there are a lot of guys who have married single mothers and it can work, but it is not for me.
/r/MensRights16/09/15 02:15 PM
0

I like the arm in the kitchen scene.
/r/MensRights14/09/15 11:36 AM
1

At least report it to HR, if a pattern develops, you can sue.
/r/MensRights12/09/15 12:20 AM
1

Maybe you can just build it up gradually where you document that you took them to the appointed place at the appointed time and waited a reasonable amount of time, and then she did not show. After you have done this enough (and I do not know what enough is, your lawyer might) then you just do not show up any longer. Then, she takes you to the judge and tell him that you made good faith efforts before you decided not to go any longer. Then, he would have to decide. The goal here is not to try to …
/r/MensRights11/09/15 11:57 PM
3

I would push the "disassociation" thing. Try to get your wife to think logically about the situation. You have never shown any signs of disassociation, but she believes this is how it happened. Try to get her to see that this is illogical thinking. The therapist may be a factor here. Is he planting ideas in your daughter's head/mouth? He clearly has a financial intrest in keeping this thing going as well as a professional bias that "abuse must have occured" (because why else would the kid be her…
/r/MensRights11/09/15 04:30 PM
1

Why doesn't your wife trust what you say? How long have you two been together and what is the background to your relationship? I understand that she needs to protect your child, but she also should believe an adult over a 3 year old. If your relationship is as good as you say, why wouldn't she? I know that kids do sometimes send SOS signals about abuse that get ignored and this is a big problem, but I am wondering about communication between you and your wife now... Try to hang tough and maybe y…
/r/MensRights11/09/15 03:10 PM
-2

Yeah, and I don't see this. Try to outlaw every boss who fucks his secretary. And the boss DOES have power over his employee. The kids are kids, but you should see how they try to use their sexuality to get whatever it is that they want. The other thing is that teacher spend all day every day with students. It is not so strange that a attraction might develop. In fact, it was quite common for hs teachers to marry their ex-students back in the day.
/r/MensRights10/09/15 04:48 PM
2

This is all bs. They should just lower the age of consent to 16 or so.
/r/MensRights10/09/15 04:07 PM
1

So, she does not actually take them 2 days a week? Couldn't you ask the judge to give you total custoday 7 days a week? Or you could just ignore her and keep the kids 24/7 and explain the situation when she tries to take you to court? I would try to document everything that happens anyway. You need a lawyer's opinion in any case.
/r/MensRights09/09/15 11:58 AM
1

The part I like is the fact that the he is appropriating an imaginary identity, and that identity does not have access to the literary world. And he still got published!
/r/MensRights09/09/15 11:46 AM
1

How do you know that the intentions are bad? My intentions were good when I suggested it. I swear on the Bible and my mother's grave! I just want to protect women from "lad culture" whatever that is.
/r/MensRights07/09/15 11:49 AM
2

I have a great idea that would solve this problem. They should have all female colleges.
/r/MensRights06/09/15 03:33 PM
1

Rule #1: When we do it, it is OK.
/r/MensRights06/09/15 11:49 AM
1

After her son committed suicide?
/r/MensRights06/09/15 11:10 AM
1

Talk to a lawyer asap. If this is your wife, divorce. Gf? Break up. In the future, look for a sane girl. They do exist. Don't do crazy.
/r/MensRights05/09/15 04:06 PM
5

Everybody is the main character of their story.
/r/MensRights05/09/15 04:04 PM
1

What are your options? Say OK and go to jail. If you have a good support system, this might work, but if they do not reduce the payments, you just go back again.... Pick up a new/2nd job. This is what they want you to do. More money for the system. Run. Vanish. Set up a new identity. There is info out there. Once you get a new passport, move overseas to some country that does not have extradition rights. Wait until you are clean. you tell me?
/r/MensRights05/09/15 04:00 PM
1

This is just too stupid to deal with.
/r/MensRights05/09/15 03:46 PM
5

She does not come off as a very sympathetic character, but I have no idea what she is feeling. She sold her son's death in an article, but she did not reveal much about how she feels. Maybe she is hiding how she really feels. Maybe she is a shitty writer. I don't know. But I don't really care either.
/r/MensRights05/09/15 03:44 PM
6

Well, he is a Maori. What do you expect?
/r/MensRights05/09/15 03:38 PM
3

It sounds like a shitty experience. But you have to find some way to deal with it. Maybe you can talk to some other friend? If you want to escalate it, you can go to the police and try to get the tapes. She was drunk and will probably get a slap on the wrist. You can sorta avoid studenty bars, if you do not want to repeat this experience. If you go to a nice restuarant that has a bar, it will quieter and you can drink in relative peace.
/r/MensRights05/09/15 03:34 PM
1

This is GREAT!!!
/r/MensRights04/09/15 02:08 PM
2

Increase the underclass and lower the price of labor!!!!!!
/r/MensRights04/09/15 02:02 PM
3

The jury did not know what actually happened so they pinned the lesser charges on him via "where there is smoke..." thinking.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 06:50 AM
3

Sorry, but this is not how human languages work. You can't just order people to use certain words, comrade! Way to go! Donna
/r/MensRights29/08/15 06:19 AM
2

Bernie is smart! Going after 50% of the vote.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 06:08 AM
1

What does "involentary" mean here?
/r/MensRights27/08/15 03:56 PM
2

Ah, she is 9. Give her a chance to grow up and learn. But, I would throw counter-arguments at her so she hears the other side too.
/r/MensRights26/08/15 12:08 PM
3

Risk = probability = 0.002% yeah, she is right. There is some microscopic probability.
/r/MensRights26/08/15 12:05 PM
1

You can have 30% of my lunch money honey!
/r/MensRights26/08/15 12:00 PM
-2

I think these are "natural born human righters" or whatever they are called. They argue that they do not licenses because they do not use their cars for commerce and therefore they have the right to pass down the highway at per the word of the law. A lot of the stuff they say is sorta true, even if it will not fly in a court of law. I don't think the cop acted like a saint. He acted sorta normal in my book.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 02:52 PM
-10

While it is not rape, the cop probably does not have the right to stop those people and tow their car.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 10:52 AM
1

When you work hard to get a job, it is hard for most people to imagine that some other guy might be working harder, or just have more natural talent, or grew up in the business etc. It is a fairly normal tendency of humans to think that they themselves are the best, even when it has no basis in fact.
/r/MensRights23/08/15 03:55 PM
0

15>14 so it is OK...
/r/MensRights22/08/15 03:28 PM
3

I think that you can win 50% or even more if you just keep letting the mom fuck up. You should go to the Sheriff's lobby to pick up your daughter and every time she does not show document it. I personally can't handle the court documents so I need a lawyer, but if you are smart you could probably get by without one. You would be as good as a bad/mediocre lawyer. The other question is how rich you are? If you are hurting, I would try to do it on your own. Any route you take, it is a roll of the d…
/r/MensRights21/08/15 04:21 PM
1

This case is hard to prove 30 years on. Sure maybe the kid was too scared to say anything, but still it is a very very hard case to make.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 04:07 PM
1

It does apply to men as well. You should listen to women talking about male athelete's bodies. There is not that much difference between that and man-talk. Lots of guys do react to women in public as physical objects (without a brain or feelings). I think this is cultural (I am thinking of how post-WW2 Italian men used to cat-call women) and socio-economic.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 04:03 PM
6

Women are physical objects1 that can be seen and touched (although not by me but...) and men can have sexual feeling toward women objects2. You may not like physical and biological reality but it does exist, I think.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 03:19 PM
0

Yur lookin atit.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 03:00 PM
3

If you can't win, it is better to cut your losses. I would try to send a letter or email to the children to explain what happened and how you feel about them. I agree with other posters that you should try to lead an exampliary life and be ready for the day that your children come to talk to you and find out if what mom told them was true or not.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 02:51 PM
34

But, girls ARE "sexual objects". Just like men are. You may not like that fact, but it is a biological fact.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 02:40 PM
1

Yes, I agree. That is why I think that if he is seriously worried about getting arrested, he should not comment on that site any longer.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 02:19 PM
2

She can try, and if you get a bad cop, you might get arrested. (that is 2 hypotheticals already) Then, the DA has to procecute (3) and then the judge/jury has to find you guilty of some crime (4). I am not saying it can't happen, but it is unlikely.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 03:26 PM
3

While this is fucked up, I think 18 is too high for a definition of sexual adult. It should be more like 16.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 03:22 PM
1

This is why private car can be better than the train.
/r/MensRights19/08/15 02:42 PM
1

Sounds more like a gang of criminals than feminists.
/r/MensRights19/08/15 02:41 PM
1

8 year olds are children.
/r/MensRights19/08/15 12:24 PM
3

This is fucked up. And her reasoning is fucked up. And the judge is fucked up. We are fucked.
/r/MensRights19/08/15 12:19 PM
1

In penis vagaina?
/r/MensRights19/08/15 12:18 PM
1

Well, what the university would do is say screw you too buddy and they would try to throw you out of the university, I suppose. There was one fellow who was allowed to bring a lawyer, but the lawyer was not allowed to speak....
/r/MensRights18/08/15 05:09 PM
8

This is my feeling exactly. Universities don't have the expertize or knowledge to deal with this sort of crime. Of course, they want to make it go away because nobody wants to send their daughter to a school where they are likely to get raped. So they are an interested party and hence cannot act fairly. The whole thing just stinks.
/r/MensRights18/08/15 05:08 PM
38

Rape is a serious crime. Universities are not able to deal with it. The only place for it is with the police and the courts.
/r/MensRights18/08/15 03:15 PM
-5

This sucks, but people do weird shit when they are cheated on. The guy should have just broke up with her and dated the co-worker, if that is what he wanted, or asked for an open relationship, or done something that he didn't.
/r/MensRights18/08/15 03:08 PM
3

It is illegal and very common.
/r/MensRights17/08/15 02:41 PM
2

I think this is true in a lot of cases, not all. It does not need to be that way of course. It is more of a cultural or class issue than sex if you ask me.
/r/MensRights17/08/15 02:38 PM
1

Loudness warning please!
/r/MensRights16/08/15 05:05 PM
2

Yeah, well, I guess we have to look on the bright side. At least your record is sealed. That much is good.
/r/MensRights15/08/15 08:43 AM
5

Rape is a serious crime. I don't think that universities have any place in investigating or trying crimes. This should be a matter for the (town) police and the courts.
/r/MensRights15/08/15 05:07 AM
1

If you have lots of money and time, you can sue the uni. But it would be a waste of uni funds too. Better to just complain, I suppose.
/r/MensRights14/08/15 04:05 PM
1

Fuck this ugly cunt with rusty barbed wire.
/r/MensRights14/08/15 03:49 PM
-1

What is the legal age for sex in the UK? Can't the teachers get into trouble for indoctrinating under-age kids?
/r/MensRights13/08/15 07:55 AM
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