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It’s interesting, because I witnessed my own father, who is a very strong believer, make a terrible life decision to “get around” the restriction of sex before marriage. My mother passed away and he was lonely and hadn’t had sex for years, so when he started dating a woman that had tons of red flags, he quickly married her in order to be “allowed” to sleep with her. I tried advising him that “technically” marrying someone on paper to be able to sleep with them probably isn’t what God intended wi…
/r/askRPC24/01/22 07:12 AM
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Sometimes people need to be broken down a bit before they can be built back up, I get what you mean. This post is getting some flak but it could be a much needed reality check for some people. Me included. I’m going to start reading “when I say no I feel bad” because I’ve been easily manipulated in the past.
/r/RPChristians30/12/21 04:27 AM
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I appreciate the explanation, but you didn’t answer the second question about if you’re trying to catfish people. Why else would you use old photos that don’t resemble your current body?
/r/newTRP27/10/21 02:37 PM
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Wow this guy is a mess. Good for him for seeking advice but I really hope he actually listens to it. Guy definitely has issues, is married but only “receives” a set amount of money per month that he blows on internet girls who humor him. Sheesh.
/r/askRPC27/10/21 01:58 PM
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You said you were fat and balding in a different post, and have a wife. You trying to catfish people?
/r/newTRP27/10/21 01:56 PM
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Wow, you weren’t kidding. I definitely wasn’t expecting that profile. That said, I do agree that OP seems to only be considering dating this girl because it’s convenient, which isn’t a good reason.
/r/RPChristians18/10/21 12:32 PM
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Happy for you, man. I understand needing to get this off your chest and talk it out, and wish you the best!
/r/RPChristians24/05/21 01:26 AM
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Oh man, you really triggered that person but you’re right, their post history shows they actually hate Christianity and I’m confused why they even lurk here.
/r/RPChristians24/05/21 01:24 AM
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Imo it depends on your end goal. Especially as a Christian, if you want to have a family I think you should get married. However, too many people seem to rush into marriage, which is what I would be wary of. If you never want to get married, you’ll have to find a partner who is okay with that.
/r/askRPC10/05/21 01:59 AM
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Yeah, but I think I do it more out of fear and laziness. I’ve been the more attractive one in my last two relationships. Turns out 6’s can be just as crazy and high maintenance as I imagine 9’s to be. I’ve just mostly been content to have a girlfriend, which has lead to some problems.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:39 AM
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I think he was agreeing with you, saying that there is no mystical “one” you should have oneitis for, just one that you will end up marrying if that’s what you want.
/r/RPChristians07/05/21 02:14 AM
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Just curious, on bullet point two do you mean undoubtedly unattractive? Why else would you mention American body weight?
/r/askRPC11/04/21 04:58 AM
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Hmm.. I’m interested in this, but a bit wary of the no-fap mentality. As far as I’m aware, the scripture about “spilling his seed in the dust” is not meant to condemn fapping as much as it is about a man running away from his responsibility by tapping instead of impregnating his dead brothers wife to give them an heir. The other argument I see (which I admit has merit) is the idea that you can get tempted into a state of lust by fapping to dirty thoughts. I admit I know nothing. It just seems to…
/r/RPChristians06/04/21 09:49 AM
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I’ve seen the same thing, and the only way I can really explain it is that some girls are just dumb (same as guys). And you can sniff it out. A slutty girl who posts Bible quotes will probably be easy to distinguish from a legitimate Christian girl once you talk to them for a bit, though a “troubled past” could still be hard to identify sometimes.
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 12:42 AM
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Really appreciate this post, it’s definitely my biggest hurdle because so many people say to focus on your mission but I don’t really have one. Thank you.
/r/RPChristians25/02/21 01:39 PM
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Really appreciate the effort you put into this. Merry Christmas to you too! On your point about her denying physical touch as a love language, that’s a great example of “watch what they do, not what they say.” I’m looking forward to trying some of these in some form.
/r/RPChristians25/12/20 07:38 AM
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I’m pretty skeptical about the idea of couples never experiencing sexual incompatibility. My theory is the people who post on RPC are inherently better at communication and knowing themselves, so they might be in a better position to solve any potential problems like this with their partner before it becomes an issue. However I’ve been worried about this potential issue just like OP is concerned about it. I’ve seen lots of arguments in favor of living and sleeping with someone before marriage to…
/r/askRPC24/12/20 09:37 PM
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It’s a bit of a technicality, but I know what you meant to get across. Good on you for not entertaining her further
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:05 PM
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Really well written post IMO, and I’m curious about the podcast. Thank you for sharing. Gave me a lot to consider
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 01:40 PM
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As a bystander, this was a very interesting exchange and I appreciate you taking the time to reply, even though it went over OP’s head. It’s interesting because I’ve been thinking almost the exact same thing as him (being young, wanting to sleep around and “get it out of my system” before settling down) and I’m still torn, not looking for validation about it, but your post really did help put things in perspective a bit. Thank you.
/r/RPChristians11/12/20 03:11 PM
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Absolutely, I just meant more that it was sad these girls sell themselves out for so little. Not that they deserve more
/r/askTRP10/12/20 06:13 AM
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This is me. You got a lot of backlash for this comment, because some guys do get away with it, but I think you made a good general point still. I’ve gotten away with life on Easy mode (so I thought) by being able to jeri off and play vidya so often... but it’s clear now how much it’s hurt my development. I’m really interested in a woman I just met, I know the guy she’s currently seeing and she wants to upgrade because she’s essentially a plate and on paper I’m more attractive than him. I won the…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:35 AM
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I’m still unsure what the long term effect will be. I’ve definitely seen girls who get a few semi popular TikTok videos or whatever and then say they made an OF. They’re just trying to capitalize on the hype and I think it could die out. However I’ve also seen girls I know irl posting onlyfans with free samples and they’re literally just posting their naked body for free with their identity attached. Pretty crazy
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:27 AM
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Yeah, idk all the numbers but I actually heard about a local girl who had an OF, asked her for the link, and saw it was $7. That’s less than the price of one drink at a bar so I checked it out for science. Talked to her about it outside of the site and we met up at her house and smashed. (I have no illusions that subbing to OF will get you laid, it was luck) and I asked her about it, she told me she was going to take it all down because 1 month of selling herself out was worth less than taking 1…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:26 AM
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Honestly, I feel like I’m slacking very much in all aspects. I’m at least trying to begin again (though I haven’t taken up lifting again yet, told myself it’s unsafe to go to the gyms and I haven’t bought equipment yet) but I wanted to comment specifically about your line about “nice guys hiding their flaws, putting on a false impression to impress others.” I did that on Friday. I went to a social event where there were gorgeous women and put on a facade to impress people, which totally fell apa…
/r/RPChristians09/12/20 10:25 PM
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Good question, I don’t have the answer but a similar one myself. I find that a lot of things I “want” to do I only want to do for the external validation, and there seems to be a slight paradox between that and the idea of DGAF, valuing yourself not what other people think, etc. However I’m also aware that “just be yourself” is often a trap guys fall into where they just play video games, watch tv and expect to be valued. Agh.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:16 AM
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Did anything happen like getting noticeably more fit, which led to that happening? I’m trying to figure out who I am, too. My total lack of constructive hobbies is definitely something I’m aware of.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:16 AM
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Definitely true. I wrote too much, but part of it was about a woman who tried to “guide” me with gaming a girl and me being uncertain if I should listen to any of it - just more overthinking, I guess.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 02:23 AM
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You’re right. I’m too wordy, always trying to include tons of context because maybe I can’t identify what is and isn’t important. Didn’t mention I’m 6 months out of a 2yr LTR, later realized I was likely using it as a “buffer” to avoid being single and rejection. Trying to face it now. You’re right about hobbies. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 02:01 AM
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I’ve been going through a really hard breakup and I did actually ask her to explain my flaws from her POV so I could learn from it (I had nothing to lose at that point). She did make some valid points about me being beta and not taking enough initiative and responsibility. From my POV, a main reason I ended it was she was fat and WOULDNT put in effort to lose weight. I thought it ended on relatively good terms but then she started texting me and asking to be friends. I told her no, and she did n…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:32 PM
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Holy shit, basically same thing happened to me too. I know “AWALT” etc, but it’s still really crazy seeing the same thing described so much here. Supported her for 2 years, broke up within weeks of getting her degree.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:08 AM
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I think you summarized the issue well, but you didn’t seem to expand more on the specific demographic of gen z like the title implies. I think it’s definitely interesting to consider how differently the new generation interacts with texting. Actually, I’m really curious about meme-game. I’ve personally never really sent memes to girls (as I’ve been trying to minimize texting for the reasons outlined here), but I’ve seen tons of chicks have bios saying to send your best memes, or they love guys w…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:04 PM
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How can you be talking about “facts” when you refuse to acknowledge Islam was spread through violence, which is the reason why it was fought back against with violence? The person you’re replying to never said the west is above mistakes, he was just stating factual history.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:15 PM
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Could you expand on that? Is that a criticism of rollo not mentioning religion / politics or not?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:10 PM
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I can’t seem to find that post, could you potentially link the thread here? Thank you
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:06 AM
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Went through a similar situation OP. I know all about oneitis and it’s been hard to overcome. In my situation I was the one who broke up with her because she got chubby and refused to do anything to lose weight. After a few months of scarcity mentality (hard to date in a pandemic, plus I was lower SMV than I realized, since I was too comfortable in my past relationship) I ended up trying to get her back (which everyone here rightly says was a mistake). She was already seeing a new guy, but she l…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:02 AM
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Yup, been thinking about this a lot lately. Rollo even talks about how you can only do so much reading, and you need to just get out there in the world. It’s not easy though.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:36 AM
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Surprised by the harsh responses, it’s definitely an upgraded form of Netflix and chill. It’s a limited time event so it provides a solid reason for her to come over on a certain night, it’s something she’s interested in, you get to have some drinks and get close on the couch and can turn it off whenever you want if things heat up.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:26 AM
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It’s not for everyone (or me), but tons of chicks dig the “alt” look with black nail polish etc... rollo talks about this in his book, and how if you don’t want to do it you don’t have to, but it can make you stand out more.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:22 AM
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Women simply aren’t usually that forward. That’s one example out of all the times you’ve met women who were attracted to you.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:50 AM
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Genuine desire can’t be negotiated, but even if that desire exists you still often have to “game” them to actually get them out of the bar and into your bed. Just because a girl thinks you’re hot doesn’t mean she’s going to walk up and ask to sleep with you, I think that’s the point.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:44 AM
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Thanks for the link man
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:36 PM
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It seems to be pretty popular and I’m curious too. I’m not exactly proud of this anecdote, but it’s kinda funny; one girl from my hometown advertised her onlyfans on Facebook, I checked it out and subbed for $7 because I went to school with her and was curious. Flirted with her and she invited me over and we fucked. So for less than the price of a single drink at a bar, I fucked her and got a bunch of nudes. I doubt that’ll happen again, because the whole point of the site seems to be to rope in…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:29 PM
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Thank you for the link
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:27 PM
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Interesting, I figured social media had something to do with it but I’m surprised to hear the 5 year figure. It actually aligns with my personal experiences and I was starting to wonder why it seems so much harder lately. Huh... times change quickly
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:44 PM
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Highly suggest you read The Rational Male, he goes deep into it. It’s not so much that it lowers your value, but it ruins her perception of the situation. She wants to be able to tell herself that she’s special while also being aware you have options. If you straight up tell her you’re banging other chicks then she isn’t special, I guess. I know it sucks, as males we try to solve problems with logic but it doesn’t always work with inter gender situations.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:19 AM
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Thank you for the link, I gotta do this
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:02 AM
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Really appreciate this write up, thank you.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:55 AM
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You’re missing an important aspect: a lot of this is meant to be covertly implied, not overtly stated. You want to be so high value / successful / confident that she suspects you’re capable of juggling plates, but you don’t have to explicitly tell her about it
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:47 AM
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Nice. Surprised I haven’t seen this comment, but it seems pretty clear she’s withholding sex in exchange for commitment. In fact, it’s notable that she explicitly told you as much , because women prefer to use covert communication. She told you she wants to be the only one you fuck. Sounds like you have a good setup going so you probably don’t wanna make that commitment, she might change her mind (she must be pretty down for you if she drives that far just to blow you) or she might get tired of …
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:40 AM
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Widespread on the west coast. Had one class in which they said white men would be called upon last in class for the sake of equality.... That said, if you keep your head down and grind in a stem field, it probably won’t affect you much
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:36 AM
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Honestly the quote you posted from her doesn’t really sound disrespectful. I think the bigger thing at play here is so many modern girls hate Christianity because of muh patriarchy / rebelling against their parents / think you’re gonna drag her to church. Regardless of the reason, her concern may be genuine and not meant to be insulting. I’m no expert, but I also don’t think we have to cut contact with people who disagree with us. You can always lead by example by being a good man. If you want t…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:33 AM
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Same as girls who wear chokers, it gets memed on the Internet but I think it’s hot so whatever.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:25 AM
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You’re blowing my mind, GLO. Appreciate the wake up call. Interesting that even when discussing philosophy, I forgot to “question everything” when it comes to stoicism being pushed lately. I assume Marcus Aurelius still a good role model aside from that aspect?
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:23 AM
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Fair point, so what does one do in that case?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:54 AM
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Late reply, but thank you for this comment. Man, I’ve been suffering from major ONEitis and am only beginning to realize how much I’m “idealizing” her and how we “went through so much” together etc.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:56 AM
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Interesting timing on this post, as I’ve been watching videos on this topic and also “noticed” myself wanting to tell the truth more often lately. I think my subconscious has been getting tortured from some lies I’ve built up throughout life. I’m sure people can use lies to get ahead in life or certain situations, but “when you tamper with the fabric of reality by lying, your reality can fall apart.” However, I think JP’s book chapter titled “tell the truth, or at least don’t lie” is very applic…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:10 AM
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If you haven’t watched the matrix (where these terms come from), they actually explore this conundrum in it. The bright side is with the red pill we have the power to control our reality and not let it control us. I’m still working on it myself.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 12:14 AM
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Wow, that’s a powerful remark about the wrong mindset of being motivated by fear of loss more than prospect of gain. I’m definitely in the fear of loss phase right now and not thinking nearly enough about what I can really gain.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:00 AM
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This comment was exactly what I needed to hear today, thank you for taking the time to write it. I’ve definitely been struggling with this issue and being a lower value man than I could and should be. It’s been killing me that I know she found a new guy to date while I don’t even have any plates yet. I need to take some responsibility. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/09/20 12:45 PM
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Man, this is good advice. I’m in a very similar situation as OP, except my girl was objectively a lot less attractive... like a 5 (average?). I told her after 2 years of encouraging her to lose weight that I wasn’t attracted to her anymore and we broke up. I was watching a lot of porn and that probably amplified the problem. Then I realized I actually have ONEitis and really miss her even tho she was pretty chubby. I still watch too much porn and that might be making it worse too. Dang...
/r/askTRP06/09/20 08:07 AM
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Good reply... I’m in a similar situation as OP. Except I broke up with my 24yo LTR after going through a hard life event, and then tried to get her back this summer (she’s not even hot, ONEitis hit me hard). She branch-swung to a guy with a better job very quickly. She told me “my heart wants to get back with you, but you have a lot of work to do still so my brain says to go with someone else.” It really hurt. I was slightly aware of TRP before this, and now I’m reading sidebar + rational male b…
/r/askTRP06/09/20 07:58 AM
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Thank you. Part of what’s killing me is thinking “WHAT IF she suddenly gets in shape now that we aren’t together anymore” yet she never changed in the 2 years we were together. You’re right, there really are so many better women out there... hope you’re doing better now too
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:47 AM
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Thank you for the reminder. I told myself for a long time that she was cute, had “potential” and I’d help her lose weight, and now I know you can’t just expect to change someone. I met her by blindly swiping right on every girl on tinder. I don’t even remember seeing her profile, she was just one of many I blindly swiped on cuz I had no standards. Now, dipping my toes back into tinder on occasion, I’ve noticed I actually only swipe on girls who are actually genuinely attractive. Realizing I do n…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:39 AM
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I’m in a similar situation OP, back at home, 4 months out of LTR and pondering the pros and cons of living at home. I’ve been terrible at online dating this time around and haven’t had any girls actually agree to come over yet, but I’m a bit worried about having them over when that happens. Other comment about hotels, car etc is valid tho.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:45 AM
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This is awesome advice. My problem is I really can’t find anything irl I’m very passionate about. I keep hearing about pursuing your quest, your vision, your mission etc and it sucks to not have an objective in mind.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:34 AM
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Man I know what you mean... my ex was way less physically attractive, (5 maybe?) and wouldn’t work out with me so I told her I lost sexual interest in her, and we ended up breaking up. It did kinda feel like I “won” in those terms. Then I started to feel like I missed her so I started simping trying to get her back. She played games with me before eventually closing the door. Now I feel like I lost, by putting so much effort into trying to get her back and her being over it. Ahhh. Gotta work on …
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:32 AM
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Agreed, I have been hung up on my longest LTR for several months and it’s crazy how powerful it can be over you if you let it... I’m finally becoming more aware of her many flaws again, and TRP would probably tear me a new one for being such a simp... she’s fat, bipolar, etc... and doesn’t have the best genetic potential for the future; her mom literally looks like Alex Jones wearing a wig. She isn’t a unicorn. It’s just hard to remember that sometimes.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:29 AM
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How’s piano been? I have a keyboard and I’ve been too intimidated to actually practice much.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 10:24 PM
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This is awesome... yet, what does a guy with a shitty body do? I have a beer gut I’m working on and I’m trying to work on my game in the meantime. I’m finally realizing how much the Brad Pitt phenomenon relies on the body more than the face.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:01 AM
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