| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 246 | Legal and moral obligation of Tinder to vet rapists | DISCUSSION | newuser20202020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:43 AM |
| 147 | What would happen if we stopped sleeping with LVM 🤔 | DISCUSSION | newuser20202020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:02 PM |
| 109 | LVM and NVM specifically target women with low self esteem | MALE DEPRAVITY | newuser20202020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:37 AM |
| 91 | Tinder rape dates. Not the first app date. Ladies, please be careful | STAY WOKE | newuser20202020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 05:55 AM |
| 37 | He looks like this and has the audacity to even go near a woman. 🤢🤮🤮 | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | newuser20202020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Political opponent says that politician was punching below her weight with an average guy. | GREEN FLAG 🟢 | newuser20202020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:04 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 98 | I'm posting it here because i want women to see anf be aware of what porn really is, This came up in google while i wasn't even looking for pornThey have to tell themselves this BS. Men are gods? Women are the ones that have periods, and give birth multiple times. Not enough 🙄🙄 for drivel written by an angsty tween | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 11:05 AM |
| 17 | List of men with jobs to avoid. Please bear in mind that women in these jobs could be fine, as we are socially conditioned to continuously work on self-improvement, whereas men are not. I’ll start the list in comments, please contribute.Engineer- a dismal lack of empathy, and a micro managing, anal control freak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 10:59 AM |
| 70 | Never meet a guy at his home.Don't bother explaining. Just so NO and move on. Do you ever see men over explaining themselves? Jaysus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, I want to decorate my flat with framed poems and sayings that focus on female empowerment, FDS principles and just general boss-b*tch vibes. What are some of your favourites to quote?She believed she could, so she did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:06 AM |
| 11 | Alright ladies! How many of you have been in a fight like this?! (The Break Up)Yes, I've also reached this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 11:31 AM |
| 49 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Hi lovely, that sounds really hard. Have you tried Bumble BFF? There's a whole bunch of women online that want to make connections with like minded women. When covid is over, meet up groups that are into hiking are a fun way to spend the day with other people. Perhaps a friendship won't eventuate, but you got to get outside and have fun. All the best xxxxx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:40 AM |
| 6 | DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!Said no woman ever!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:36 AM |
| 95 | Ugly guy want you to see past his looks but only if you are good-looking.Men are far more supercial than women!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:13 AM |
| 53 | Tinder: Investigation reveals the dark side of the dating app | Four Corners. Watching this has reaffirmed that you need to block immediately after the first red flag, be it asking for nudes or after 6 months of communication and he suggests you go to his home for sex.I will also add do not fall for the, want to go for a road trip to a beautiful beach. You will be trapped. As FDS says, never get into a man's car. These scrotes are dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:10 AM |
| 39 | Tinder rape dates. Not the first app date. Ladies, please be carefulYes, I totally agree. I have also found that they use BDSM without consent. I'm never up for anyone choking me!! And there is no assurance that they won't remove their condom/won't have holes in it in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:05 AM |
| 18 | Shower thought about the term gold diggers....Too right. Men also use women for money and a better lifestyle. I've been used in the past, and thanks to FDS for exposing the 50/50 BS. I just wish that I could get past my submissive conditioning to even try to be a good digger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:10 AM |
| 14 | What a beautiful story! This is how us women should look out for each other!🥺❤️❤️❤️This gave me chills xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:56 AM |
| -27 | Zero percent surprised he's still singlePlease no screen shots of faces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:29 AM |
| 1 | The audacity of this LVM!🤩🤩🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:25 PM |
| 86 | Ladies all men want the same thing on OLDPay for an escort you turd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:29 AM |
| 3 | My experience as a 33 old woman on Tinder - The wall is a lieYou are not alone. Sending you love xxx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Exactly.I love this so much 😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Same pal, same.Yes! I used to pet sit and one sweet male dog hated men with an absolute passion!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:21 AM |
| 9 | Pickmeisha talking about the "normalization of abuse towards men" like men don't do worse things like rape, beat, torture, and murder women.Not her again. I couldn't get past the first 3 minutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:45 AM |
| 6 | Girl this is not it.Would he do it for her? Hell no!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 17 | More men with this mentality please.Yes I agree, he's very attractive. My theory is that hot men treat women well because they're used to having female attention. Ugly men have a chip on their shoulder about not getting any female attention in high school. In their 30s they revert to teenagers, looking for a hook up and treating women like garbage. Their beliefs and experience of women come from porn, which makes then entitled, toxic and dangerous losers to be around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 66 | God forbid the man has to *gasp* keep a conversation going. Give me a break.I scoffed at the last paragraph where he wants women to impress him. Reminds me of a feature on Hinge where men ask women to initiate the conversation first. How much of a lack of interest does this indicate??? I think that OLD just encourages LVM who have no interest in a relationship, to sit back and get attention from women with no effort. In the real world men that are interested will actually talk to a woman. Granted it's not an indication of being a HVM, but at least there's some effort. O… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:08 AM |
| 39 | One of my all time favs.Code for lazy AF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:57 AM |
| 13 | Keep away from self-proclaimed atheistsAre you me? Oh dear, we have had very similar experiences. I have such hatred for the religion that I was raised in. I am very open about my atheism because it took until my mid twenties to rid myself of the brainwashing. For example, virginity was everything. I remember believing that I was going to go to hell for eternity. The mental shackles are hard to shake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:39 PM |
| 7 | Pickme’s are dangerousI don't even want kids, but I would 100 percent choose them over a spouse. Kids are innocent, beautiful and helpless little being. WTF is this drivel???? Oh the irony of childless women contending with a stigma of being heartless??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 8 | Sharing a drink and wanting her to buy him bubblegumThey keep giving us such good reasons to be celibate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 25 | Lazy, low-effort "date" suggestions got me like...I no longer drink, so that weeds out cheap LVM that suggest drink dates. In my experience the men that ask for drink dates as a first date are incredibly cheap and lazy LVM. It's so easy to vet at this stage as they can't even be bothered putting in the effort for dinner. And they don't get any better. Thank you, NEXT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:36 AM |
| 22 | It’s always the best ones, isn’t it? 🤣🤣🤣The biggest oxymoron - how can anyone be an ethical, STD spreading, two timer?! And agreed, always the fuglies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:33 PM |
| 14 | The audacity of a LVMGood bye Johnny 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:51 AM |
| 26 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedWould you be able to start a go fund me page without posting your pic? All the best Queen xxxx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:46 AM |
| 17 | FDS Mantras as quick reminders. Any suggestions?You are the prize! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:41 AM |
| 3 | How did a conversation about working out turn into me cooking for him? That’s so cute, the lil’ baby wants something for nothing.🙄 (I have a food blog.)I used to block whenever this messages was received. I wish I turned the tables and said, you first! Ha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 09:14 AM |
| 11 | A good lesson for our lovely male lurkers ;)I'm so sorry 🤗💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:11 AM |
| 2 | What is the correct FDS answer to 'What are you looking for?'?Not sure, how about you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:49 AM |
| 5 | Are there any FDS approved podcast?I love Deborah Cooper. She's on YouTube. Kevin Hicks is good too. Also YouTube | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:14 PM |
| 6 | She asked what it's like to sleep with a guy on tiktok lolDed 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:30 AM |
| 4 | This is the kind of guy that would say "wOmEn aRe ToO pIcKy" despite listing TWENTY-NINE extremely specific things he wants in a woman...He wants a small little girl, with cute little freckles that keeps miniature indoor plants. How young is he? I'm guessing about 9...m | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:25 AM |
| 4 | The magical brick wall that women hit when they hit 30 that makes them suddenly unattractive lol 😂 even if you hit the gym in the regular and get that Botox. Meanwhile men got limp dick and a receding hairline. So tired of their shit.Can't stand this attitude. No, I haven't spent the better part of 10 years trying to find a life partner. He's single too dahhhhhhhh. Finding a life partner is not an achievement. And stop trying to impose it on females. Be gone already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:22 AM |
| 5 | Pathetic males😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:20 AM |
| 46 | The audacity... At least he's honest, I guess.Cheapskate. Pay for a prostitute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:57 AM |
| 2 | I found this on Facebook today lol🤭🤭🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Why Do They Keep Repeating This Stupid Lie?The anthem of the ugly, boring AF males. Any excuse not to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:34 PM |
| 7 | Just say you are broke and go. 🥱Damn right I can, but because of male privilege I wpnt be a sucker any more and dip my hands in my pockets. I await the day that females have the same pay, can walk safely at night, aren't subject to violence and sexual assault, and aren't judged by their appearance bc men are visual. But until then, show some effort and interest and pay. 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 20 | LVMs confuse trauma with the consequences of their actions. Reserve your sympathy for the deserving.You articulated the perspective from real suffering so well. ❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:20 PM |
| 4 | I hope they pick her.My literal reaction 🙋♀️🙅♀️🤦♀️🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:15 PM |
| 18 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.Urgh too many, not too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:08 PM |
| 84 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchTo all the male lurkers 🖕🖕🖕. Now go spend your time levelling the fuck up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:04 AM |
| 7 | Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown.Totally agree!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:16 AM |
| 17 | Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown.Men going to brothels has been cited as one of the reasons that covid has spread so rapidly through Melbourne. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 09:43 AM |
| 16 | He just wants someone he can abuse (Original post from another sub)Must do what I say, repeated twice. What is he, 9 years old? What a waste of time reading his BS shopping list of demands that no one is entitled to. 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:42 AM |
| 6 | At least he's honest about the fact that he will put zero effort into getting to know youUseless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:52 AM |
| 8 | Love this!!!!!!! No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.I need to play this on loop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:36 AM |
| 13 | I don’t believe this man has ever had sexSmug yanker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 11:00 AM |
| 14 | BLACK PILL PPD TRUTH SERUM TIDBITS ON HOW MEN DISTINGUISH BETWEEN GF/WIFE & FWB MATERIAL...EYE ROLL. NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING A SO-CALLED "NICE /GOOD /LOYAL WOMAN"😱😱😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:28 AM |
| 13 | I "kink-shame" men who prioritize their own sexual interests over the safety/well-being of women. The pick-mes who support them can die mad about it. Sorry not sorry.I'm so grateful for this community. Kink should never be normalised!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:04 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone seen Netflix Love on the Spectrum?Yes Queen, it has made my week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:55 PM |
| 5 | To you who message me warning about FDSI would rather be alone than suffer a LVM. Peace, my cat, own home, career, friends and hobbies are priceless. Women that make their own money don't need to put up with these NVM fools. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:46 AM |
| 131 | Where's the lie though?👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 18 | What the fuck lmao.He should be so lucky. She is stunning and way put of his league. What a disgrace- what does he actually think that he's entitled to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:50 AM |
| 24 | A suspect? Lol😂Thank you for posting. She is gorgeous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 12:36 PM |
| 11 | This woman has a bunch of tiktoks similar to what FDS preaches. This one is about Netflix & chilling!Love her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:45 AM |
| 8 | Recovering Pickmeisha in need of advice. How do I react when the bill arrives at the end of a date?This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Do I tell men that I have these things wrong with me?I was on my period, so any additional bleeding wasn't obvious. Also, the guy was a super experienced NVM that just wanted action. I just let him lead as he knew what he was doing. He didn't offer oral, so I didn't either. I suggest packing lube, as it will make it easier for the guy to get in. Explore your body in the mean time and discover what makes you orgasm. Every one gets nervous, so you can always say go gently, or take a break. Bleeding can occur even if you're not a virgin. For example,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 12:39 AM |
| 3 | This group has made me realize how HV my husband is.We need more good stories! This is how it should be x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:13 PM |
| 49 | Thoughts? 🤔Yes, I've been watching Kevin Hicks' videos and they are on point. He's an advocate of no sex before commitment and the man paying for the date. The difference between Kevin and someone like Matthew Hussey, is that Kevin is all about vetting players and low effort men. Matthew provides tips to get a LVM or NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Why one of my standards is a guy who had a happy childhood with still-married parentsSame experience here. And totally agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:47 AM |
| 11 | Do I tell men that I have these things wrong with me?I don't think so. I never told the first guy that I slept with that I was a virgin. Just as long as you have a strong sexual attraction to the man, everything comes naturally. That's just my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Does physical attraction grow over time?I think that you should meet him and see for yourself if the physical attraction grows. He may have non physical qualities that are attractive, like a wicked sense of humour. Having said that, you cannot suppress a gagging reflux. You will know when there isn't anything more you can do to be attracted to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Men have NEVER HAD IT EASIER than today. Always remember that.❤❤❤❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 08:17 AM |
| 7 | Self righteous woman condemns mothers for holding dead beat partners/fathers accountable. Defends her abusive ex’s reputation out of “respect”.Speaking as someone who experienced domestic violence from my poor excuse of a father to my mother, I couldn't agree more. My mum is still with him and has never said a bad word. Abuse in a sad nut shell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Saw this in a Facebook group, girl was asking for advice on how to respond❤❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated meI'm so sorry this happened to you x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 10:50 AM |
| 2 | So helpful when they tell on themselfHaha love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:57 AM |
| 3 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsYes! Or crazy, or a bitch 😴😴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Quality over quantity. 💁🏽♀️Yes and thanks to FDS, will not be engaging in casual sex any more. LVMs don't deserve my time and also why should I expose myself to the risk of a STD? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:23 AM |
| 7 | Women pay to listen to a male dating coach telling them to split the bill, yikes!Totally agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Peak Pickmeisha humor is promising blow jobs in exchange for basic responsible adult behaviorWhat an embarrassment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:51 AM |
| 6 | pick me spotted.Pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Gay men are proof that men are perfectly capable of understanding how to groom themselves to be more physically attractive, it’s just that straight men don’t give a single fuck how women feel and figured out its easier to just collectively bully us to lower our standards.Totally agree!!!! Very well said x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:12 AM |
| 3 | The Defining Difference Between a HVM & LVMThank you xxa | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:25 AM |
| 2 | He proposed!!Congrats Queen. So happy for you xxxxxx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 09:49 AM |
| 5 | Boundaries and Standards. Nice remindersSame!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:08 AM |
| 10 | Does everyone know a girl like this?Laughed out loud! Thank you :)) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:43 AM |
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