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We also wrote our own vows, somewhat similar to yours. Mine was "love, serve, and obey" His was "love, protect and guide"
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 11:11 AM
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Definitely! I don't think there are many popular good traditional women because the nature of becoming a celebrity often conflicts with being a submissive wife and a good mother. Spending time attending to one's children/husband, as well as cooking, cleaning etc. leaves little time to become famous.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 03:49 PM
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I'd recommending doing more for your meals, if you can. As a mother of four, I'm still able to make large and interesting meals for my husband every day. For example, yesterday I cooked him sausages/mushrooms/eggs for breakfast. For lunch I made a homemade quiche, and for dinner a chicken soup followed by a casserole.
/r/RedPillWives06/05/18 11:25 AM
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Where I live people don't really look down on having lots of children, but it doesn't seem to be very common, so I do wonder what reaction others will have. I am friends with a lot of other mothers whose children go to my children's school, most of them have 2 or 3 children and often say they wouldn't be able to deal with more. What do you mean about only disciplining female children?
/r/RedPillWives05/05/18 01:14 PM
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As a further question, does anyone think it would be rude to expect my BIL's wife to help with the cleaning too? Her help will be extremely useful while cooking, but I'm wondering about cleaning the next day. My BIL assured me that she will be able to help, but since there's no time pressure the next day, so it's not really so important to have another set of hands, would it be more polite to just get up early and do these chores myself?
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 08:56 AM
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I wouldn't go as far as to say I'm exhausted, and my mood isn't down as I do love raising my children. The main standard I struggle to meet sometimes, is my husband expects all the chores to be done before 6PM (when he gets home from work), as this means I am not doing housework all the time while he is home (except for washing dishes and cleaning up after dinner). I don't voice this explicitly, but he can tell as occasionally I'm forced to do some chores in the evening, and I often become a bit…
/r/RedPillWives04/05/18 08:51 AM
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Does your husband man the grill? That could be a great way to have him help and get him out of your stress bubble. That's a good idea, but my husband won't be helping cook as he's going to be keeping the guests entertained. The way our house is laid out means the dining room and living room are connected, but the kitchen isn't, so whoever's cooking can't really socialise with the guests. And I don't think I should take him away from seeing his relatives either.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 11:36 PM
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Thanks for the tips! Ok first off, you need to find out any dietary requirements - once you know of any vegetarians/allergies you can start planning a menu. My husband has checked this already, and there are two vegetarians coming. The meal is almost certainly going to contain meat so my husband told me I should make separate food for these two. What is the formality of the dinner? Is it for a special event? It's not actually for anything particular - it just happens that my husband's sister's f…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 11:32 PM
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Why do you have doubts now? I didn't have many worries before the fourth actually! But for some reason I've found four to be a lot more trouble than three. That's why we didn't have another child shortly after the fourth, but this year my husband has expressed that about six! seems ideal, and if the next two are both girls he may even consider pushing to seven (but I think he thinks himself this is unrealistic) That said, I'm reassured by your comments about having young children making raising …
/r/RedPillWives03/05/18 05:57 PM
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May goals: • Schedule chores better so I have all housework done by the time I'm serving dinner, so all I have to do in evenings is look after kids, wash dishes, and clean the kitchen+dining room. • Try and do some bible reading with kids every morning • Try and wake before 6am each weekday, so I have time to cook better breakfasts + iron husband's work clothes
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 05:08 PM
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What are some other good subreddits for traditional marriages/housewives? Apart from this subreddit and /r/redpillwomen
/r/RedPillWives03/05/18 03:26 PM
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I know several people with more than four children, and I would be ready to have one or two more. Do those mothers of more than four children struggle with the amount of cooking/cleaning/childcare they have to do? Or do the fathers have to help a lot?
/r/RedPillWives03/05/18 03:24 PM
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Yes, he stays to chat. He also helps keep the kids out of the kitchen while I'm cleaning.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 08:17 AM
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It might also be worth her waiting a few days before helping, to see how she runs the house and what she'll want help with. When I first visited my husband's parents, I would try and help his mother with cleaning, but it turns out this is something she prefers to have control over herself. So I'd recommend finding out what sort of help your SO's mom likes in terms of chores. She'll almost certainly appreciate help washing/drying dishes though.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 09:03 PM
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I'm wondering, how many do people think is 'too many' children to have? I have a 9 year old boy and girl (twins) and two other girls (age 6 and 4). My husband would like another child, and we are currently trying for one. I am very aware that 4 children is already a lot of work. But I'm a housewife so I should really be able to handle it. Does anyone have experience with 5+ children? I don't know anyone myself with this many.
/r/RedPillWives01/05/18 07:35 PM
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You could try incorporating some of the housework into your relaxation time, eg. if you and your SO are watching TV you could iron/fold laundry at the same time. After dinner my husband often stays at the table and chats with me while I clear the table/wash the dishes/clean the kitchen, which makes the chores less of a bore.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 06:39 PM
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Gifts might be a bit much for a first time meeting them (or maybe just some chocolates - ask your SO about this), but you should offer to help his mother clean up after meals, and help her with laundry/cooking chores etc. once you see how the household is run.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 06:35 PM
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This is an interesting idea actually, and I think your situation is very similar to mine. However, my husband is usually very hungry by the time he gets home (he has quite a tiring job), and I'm not sure he'd be up for having dinner much later, but I could probably persuade him to watch the kids for a half hour or so after getting home, which would give a nice boost for me in the kitchen (and having to look after four young children while cooking definitely makes it harder! So him watching them …
/r/RedPillWives01/05/18 06:32 PM
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I don't think so. If he'd expected me to work as well, there might have been problems as I would have been so drastically far behind him in the world of work, but I've lived the last 9 years as a housewife so it's worked well.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 06:05 PM
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I'm 29, husband is 42 and married my husband at 20, when he was 33. Had children at 20 (twins), 23 and 25. Through our marriage he's had a lot more life experience than me, so is a very capable leader of the family! My own mother taught me a lot about housekeeping and cooking when I was a child, so despite being young I was prepared to be a wife at 20.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 05:53 PM
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That's a two year difference, doesn't really matter.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 05:42 PM
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This is a good one. Personally, I find it more beneficial for my marriage to simply do what he says even if I don't agree with it, instead of arguing about it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 11:43 AM
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I find myself needing to remind myself simply that he's been out at work. With four children, keeping the house, cooking, and raising the children, is a lot of work, I often felt like I was doing all the work at home, and I used to be often asking him for help with little things - things that I should really be doing myself. For example, clearing the table, washing the dishes etc. So I need to remind myself that even if he's not helping at home, he's working 45 hours a week anyway, and it's not …
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 11:42 AM
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That's great! I hope you cooked him a really nice dinner to seal the deal.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 11:33 AM
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A lot of my hobbies are closely linked to being a wife; cookery, sewing, knitting and makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/18 03:03 PM
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Sex dolls can't cook or clean which are seen as desirable by men.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 07:40 PM
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I think some women might be happier as an 'equal', but personally I'd rather be cooking my husband his dinner and cleaning his house than working out of the home. I think it's natural for most women.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 07:13 PM
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Personally, I don't agree with a lot of the 'redpill strategy' stuff, but I do as a wife myself think my marriage is helped by taking a traditional, submissive, feminine position, as this seems to me like the natural position for a wife. It's nothing to do with attaining a valuable man for me, as I mostly took this position after already marrying. I'd be happy to answer any other questions about this if you're interested.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 06:25 PM
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Exactly. Being obedient to my SO wasn't something that came naturally to me as soon as I became a wife, it had to be learned.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 04:54 PM
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You could try it for a couple of weeks and see how well your relationship works like that. This is similar to what I did shortly after marrying. I cooked him nice meals every day, kept the house clean, let him make the decisions etc., just for a couple of weeks to see how well it would work. It worked well for me (though I'm naturally quite submissive), and have been doing so since.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 02:37 PM
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I agree that everyone should be able to feed themselves, but I think it's especially important for mothers to teach their daughters. Men tend to like it if their wives can cook or keep house like their mothers, so passing down housekeeping skills to daughters helps them to make better wives in the future. :)
/r/RedPillWives23/04/18 07:47 PM
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Just curious, how are you able to maintain a traditional marriage with your wife and you both working? Does she still have time to most of the cooking/chores?
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 08:40 PM
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I was working as many hours as my husband when we married, and I think this was important to him. But over time, his ideals moved more to me working less. Shortly after marrying, he decided I should work part time so as to focus more on cooking/cleaning and then when I had our first child he decided I should stop working completely. I wonder if it's common for men to place less importance on a high-earning wife as the marriage progresses?
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 08:28 PM
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