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| 8 | The Social Credit Score system takes hold in it's first bold move "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date." This will become a norm. Blackballing people and reporting on bad dates will follow. MARK MY WORDS.Tinder didn't think it through. Guys will try to get records just to get more matches | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/21 09:50 AM |
| 10 | You soon will be 'cancelled' for dating a younger womanMen are attracted by youthful women. To add to that, the idea that 17 year old women are in any way psychologically different from 30 year old ones is a scam ran by old undesirable women. Older women are not "more mature", they're just used up and jaded. It makes sense for men to be attracted primarily to youthful and healthy women, and believing otherwise means you've already fallen for the gaslighting of feminism. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/20 07:56 AM |
| 3 | A young woman goes on Tinder and discovers guys have it harder than she expected.Jesus Christ. Not only does this sound dystopian, but this man has internalized defeatism and non-offensiveness to such an extent that he has castrated himself. The worst part is, he will never attract any women with that mentality, but he's too terrified and "respectful" to realize it. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/20 08:59 PM |
| 3 | How To Be Unattractive: A GuideI can see how this can be interpreted the wrong way, but I'm not advocating that people do not evaluate others based on how they look. The only reason why women are more attracted to tall, muscular, handsome men in the first place is because it makes emotional sense in women's minds that those are men who are more likely to feel unstoppable as they carve their way through life. Women want the emotion, the attitude, and the experience that comes with those qualities, not the qualities themselves.… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How To Be Unattractive: A GuideYou confirmed what I said in the post, but you still missed the point. The reason being tall is so effective is not because women logically evaluate how tall men are - it is because it's one of many qualities that makes women feel that a man can reach farther into infinity than them. Of course it makes you more attractive, but it doesn't come down to some logical consideration of how tall a man is. If you can make a woman feel you are unstoppable in a desirable direction, no matter how tall, han… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/20 08:31 AM |
| 4 | An atypical dateWhat you are talking about here is masculine value. A woman with a successful and rich life does not really "bring" that value to the relationship. A high-quality woman is not one who lives like a purposeful man - a high quality woman is one who compliments your own journey and rich experiences. You are right that you have a long way to go with regard to enriching your life. However, this is not the proper way to vet a woman. If you are a man who is complimented well by that woman - great. In an… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/20 09:22 AM |
| 4 | Societal programming - or - if you can't explain a conviction you have, it's likely not yours in the first placeThat's exactly it. Societies that normalize selfishness and degeneracy are destroyed by ones with strong values. Tradition is then the means by which the values are sustained. I'm not religious, but even the Old Testament has a metaphor for exactly that (see: Sodom and Gomorrah). A society that becomes too loose inevitably destroys itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/20 02:14 PM |
| 78 | Societal programming - or - if you can't explain a conviction you have, it's likely not yours in the first placeWe live at a time where people constantly use moralizing to present selfish or obscured agendas as "morally good". It's a common thread across all postmodern morality. Feminism for example is the epitome of "moral and just", and neither the people in power, nor the women who subscribe to its beliefs are upfront about their real agendas (sometimes not even to themselves). Politicians and corporations support feminism because it's easy pandering to women's selfishness. Women strongly support femin… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/20 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.I would define adventure as any activity where you explore the abstract "unknown", either with a goal in mind or with just the aim of having fun. Any type of activity that either improves your life or enriches your emotional state can be put into this category. Lifting, healthy eating, working out, meditation, reading, good sleep, etc. are the obvious ones during quarantine, but this can be expanded to include any type of beneficial activity: real socializing, hiking, sports, rock-climbing, ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/20 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.This contradicts nothing in my post. A woman who is interested in conversations is a woman for whom purely intellectual experiences are just as meaningful as physical experiences are for other women. This means that creating an experience is still the goal, it's just a different type of experience, since it's with a person who finds meaning and excitement in intellectual experiences (it's still about feelings). Texting isn't inherently bad, but a man who is willing to sit and have entire convers… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.I think you got the wrong idea about my post. Game is essentially about the experience you are creating - how you make a woman feel. The mistake that I am bringing attention to is talking to a girl for an unnecessarily long time and never taking the interaction further (texting is no good for creating physical attraction either, since the physical energy of being with another person is non-existent). Game is ultimately no good if it does not build up to real experiences, since there is only so m… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/20 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.Talking to a famous guy who knows how to elevate the emotional state of an interaction is still very much an experience. There is nothing idle about a conversation that is fun and uplifting. I don't think it's proper to put the conversations of masters like Craig Ferguson on the same level as the mind-numbing smalltalk that some people partake in out of pure boredom. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/20 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.Whether one takes their health seriously, really boils down to personal choice during these times, and that is why I've avoided moralizing on the topic. Quarantine aside though, the situation that you describe is exactly in line with what I described, so I don't see any disagreement there. If you can meet a woman face to face - no one's stopping you, but use texting sparingly. If you have no physical way of doing it, keeping digital contact can only harm your relationship in the long run. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/20 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Don't Ever BreakPatrice is a cool guy, and really wise, but he's not a god. Everyone has flaws in their approach. It's the single biggest issue I've found with Patrice's game - that he was always trying to explain to women how they think. To be fair, he made a career out of it, but the approach does not translate well into reality. He was doing it for his buddies and the audience, not because he was changing the women. To change the women within a community, you change the community. Women biologically reject a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/20 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Don't Ever BreakWhen talking to women, less is more. You need to be explicit about the boundaries you set, but it's unnecessary to verbalize the dynamic between yourself and a woman - it leaves nothing for her imagination and makes her process the whole thing rationally, instead of emotionally. Most women don't even have any conscious idea of what they're doing, and even if they are, they are unlikely to admit it, so it's a fool's errand to bring attention to shit-tests and discuss them explicitly. Given, it's … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/20 12:53 PM |
| 9 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.You can't really escalate during virtual meetings, and there is no physicality involved, which really doesn't work in your favor, since it saps the sexual tension. Best course of actions is to ghost all girls until it blows over. The more time you spend video-calling, the more comfort you build, which isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it makes you more boring and familiar over time, without the added benefit of it actually going anywhere during that time. A girl's imagination can make you at le… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.Any type of activity that either improves your life or enriches your emotional state can be put into this category. Lifting, healthy eating, working out, meditation, reading, good sleep, etc. are the obvious ones during quarantine, but this can be expanded to include any type of beneficial activity: real socializing, hiking, sports, rock-climbing, martial arts, playing music, writing, drawing, starting a business, networking, volunteering, traveling, visiting artistic and cultural events, any ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/20 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.Quality over quantity, really. If you create the precedent of texting her and get her hooked, and then not text her for 2-5 days, every day that goes by she'll feel more frustrated. Then when you text her with an offer, she will most likely agree out of anxiety that she might let her "only" chance slip. Just give her some food for the imagination and the rest does itself. The real art is in what you don't do and say. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/20 09:43 PM |
| 15 | Talk is cheap. Action and experience are worthwhile and attractive.True, but it pales in comparison to face-to-face experiences, and especially ones that involve engaging activities. What good texting game does, in essence, is to create excitement and anticipation for future shared experiences. It's why it could backfire during the quarantine, since it's implied that there are no shared experiences to be had in the near future, and yet the guy keeps texting for some reason. It's for the same reason that long-distance relationships don't work that well. You can'… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/20 07:10 PM |
| 9 | Dual mating strategy can happen at the same time.I hope you're still somewhat new to the Red Pill, because those are some rookie mistakes. You did not set proper boundaries; you ignored blatant red flags (her keeping communication with "male friends" being the most obvious); you gave away too much of your time, attention, resources, and commitment for this woman; worst of all, you put the pussy on a pedestal and let yourself be won over through sex and validation alone. Yes, you can't be truly your own man until you learn abundance and let go … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Barriers to EntryMy point exactly. Effeminacy and emotional mastery are two vastly different things. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Barriers to EntryThere's nothing feminine about processing emotions. A woman who can effectively process her own emotions is a rare thing. Emotional self-mastery is a male pursuit, because men are the solid rocks that others hold onto. Emotional mastery is a skill, and mastering skills is a masculine pursuit. One that has since been adopted by women. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 07:50 PM |
| 17 | SOURING ON FEMINISM ~ Are We Witnessing the End of Socially Acceptable Hatred of Men?Yeah, it's one decade at the minimum. A social movement of this magnitude and momentum does not disappear overnight. On the other hand, it's good to see that more and more men are waking up and rejecting the delusions they have been fed. To be fair though, we're not here to hope for things to fix themselves somehow, but instead make the best of the current situation, no matter what it may be. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 10 | Why ‘Assholes’ Get Laid, And You Don’tTo expand on this, Nice Guys and White Knights are inherently unattractive because they demonstrate that they are willing to sacrifice their time, energy, and attention, and that they are projecting their made up rules onto the world. What that sub-communicates to anyone with a basic level of awareness is that: They do not enforce any boundaries on their time, energy, and attention, which makes those things worthless, since it shows that they are not pursuing anything worthwhile or valuable (fun… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Thank you TRP. But my time here is up.I don't think The Red Pill stands for demonizing women and reducing them to some evil entity. The Red Pill has always been about one thing only - truth and honesty. Honesty with yourself about the nature of the world, men, and women. Men are what they are, and women are what they are. There is no good or evil in that. There's a reason why one of the rules is NO MORALIZING. That said, I think there is nothing wrong in believing in higher meaning in life (which love is part of). Loving uncondition… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Hypergamy as female nature; femininity as social programmingThis is a great post and exposes a lot of truth, but I'm going to strongly disagree with the points about submissiveness and nurturing being socially enforced behaviours. (1) Women's nurturing nature is the only reason why we have survived as a species - it's the defense mechanism that ensures that in the general case women will not throw their babies away, since babies heavily rely on their mothers in their early years. All the women who have thrown their babies away, failing to form an emotion… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/20 01:05 PM |
| 2 | "It's my responsibility" is a far better phrase, and a far better frame than "It's my fault"There is certainly a very important distinction between fault and responsibility. Fault implies guilt in a way, and feeling guilt over everything is a famous mark of the nice guy. There are many occurrences in a man's life that are going to be outside of his control. Assuming fault sounds like beating yourself up needlessly, while assuming responsibility means acknowledging your agency in the face of circumstance - things are going to happen, and often there might not be anything you can do to p… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | You aren't a clown. Stop trying to entertain every fucking femaleIf you beat your meat every single morning, how do you have a reference experience of how you would feel after some time of abstinence? It's entirely possible that you have a higher-than-average testosterone that drops to average. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/20 04:12 PM |
| 2 | You aren't a clown. Stop trying to entertain every fucking femaleMy thoughts exactly. It's nonsensical to entertain people as a social strategy, but most people are bored and closed-off by default, which means very often we have to carry the weight, at least initially. The post mentioned that we should focus more on improving our lives (which is spot on), but it's borderline insane to think that women will swarm a guy like flies just because he "has a cool life". Learning to communicate that higher-value experience effortlessly to people (and make them feel i… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/20 03:32 PM |
| 7 | You aren't a clown. Stop trying to entertain every fucking femaleThis right here. Most people are bored because they have been conditioned by constant stimulation to be boring and never take initiative. Most people are a drag, but you can still have a quick conversation or a one night stand with them. Vetting for people with value is for male friendships and girls you keep around. Most people are in a half-asleep state where they expect for good emotions to be served to them on a plate, it's just how things are nowadays. A quality man should see to his own go… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/20 03:21 PM |
| 3 | To The Next GenerationTranscendence is not something that can be received from others - it's something that you need to go out and get for yourself. All advice is in essence a pointer, not transcendence on a silver platter. But goddamn, this is a good pointer. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsYeah, since posting I've realized I might not have worded it correctly. It's not so much about them being pragmatic as it is them being focused on what is tangible, which includes both security and stimulation - they very much like pursuing stimulation that has already been made accessible by someone else. Women don't have the capacity to "pursue transcendence", if you will, while still very much fascinated by it when it is served on a silver platter. I made this reply earlier: To clarify, what … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Demonstrating Unique High Value to Mitigate Subjective Hypergamic Calculations as a Partial Solution to the Problem of Fungibility.Why you gotta be a hater, my guy? I'm pointing out the merits and the shortcomings of the post. We gotta be strict about quality, but it doesn't help anyone to be aggressively anti-constructive and mocking. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 01:34 PM |
| 6 | Demonstrating Unique High Value to Mitigate Subjective Hypergamic Calculations as a Partial Solution to the Problem of Fungibility."Always build attraction before comfort" - the level of attraction must always be kept substantially higher than the level of comfort. It doesn't mean that there aren't ways to build comfort quickly while maintaining high attraction, but this requires a high-level mastery, which makes it an rarely used approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 10:11 AM |
| -2 | Demonstrating Unique High Value to Mitigate Subjective Hypergamic Calculations as a Partial Solution to the Problem of Fungibility.This is really surface level, but I am going to acknowledge that you bring to attention two very often overlooked aspects of man-to-woman dynamics - namely, making the woman feel understood, and making her feel as if her existence becomes transcendent when she is around you. However, it's inevitable that this post will be massively misunderstood for the simple reason that the process of making a woman feel deeply understood is a double-edged knife with extremely destructive capabilities, which i… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsI'm going to assume the implication is that you're a woman. I feel this post might explain things better: https://www.woujo.com/blog/2017/1/5/how-to-be-a-transcendent-man | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/20 06:17 AM |
| 2 | My case against game and against PUAIn my view game is just a fancy word for social skills, social awareness, social mastery, etc. In that sense game is necessary. I think what you are advocating against is putting a focus on picking up girls, bringing to attention its inherent inability to fulfill our deeper emotions. I would say you are right, and unnecessarily chasing poon could be a huge detriment to your life. However, I also believe that a stage in which a man achieves sexual abundance is a necessary phase to pass through to… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/20 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsTo clarify, what I am saying is that women do have the capacity to think abstractly, but only as a means to an end in the four interest categories I listed (purposeful, stimulating, meaningful, relevant) - what this means is that they have the ability to think abstractly just as much as men can, but not about anything their mind registers as extra-necessary (not immediately relevant to them personally). This is one of the main reasons why women do not care for the struggles or points of view of … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsThe right word might not have been pragmatic, but it is crucial that we take practical steps in the pursuit and understanding of the transcendent ideals we create. And yes, you do seem to understand what I meant with the tendency of men to get stuck in the fantasy stage and very often not set concrete steps to pursue their set purpose. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsI did not say that there are absolutely no women who have a mode of action similar to a man's, however, those women are a minority, and very often have masculine tendencies, and in the majority of cases, higher than average testosterone. Even so, these more-masculine-than-average women adopt ideals, which were already created by men. I did not say that women cannot adopt ideals, and they do so very often in an effort to conform, or to pursue some other pragmatic goal. Only men can create ideals,… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 07:05 AM |
| 10 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsSpot on. Female minds have evolved to be interested in the concrete; male minds have evolved to be interested in the abstract. Men do create meaning, but since women were forced to be part of meaning-based societies for thousands of years, their brains are equipped to adopt those meanings, if not for any other reason, at the very least because it means staying in the tribe. However, if there is no practical relevant reason for a woman to adopt an abstract belief, she will quickly abandon it. It'… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsThat's social conformity. Women travel a lot because in our day and age it's made easy and accessible (meaning stripped of any excess anxiety). It a combination of: - the illusion of the excitement of exploration (women do enjoy exploration, but only when it's someone else doing the heavy lifting and setting the path, which society has done by making it accessible and very common) - pursuit of social status (doing it with the intention to talk about it, and demonstrate a rich life in front of me… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 06:35 AM |
| 8 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsIf you disagree with what I have written, you are free to present counterarguments. Simply saying that something is empirically wrong and leaving it at that does not create any opportunity for further pursuing the truth through discussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsMy focus here is not on female dating strategy, it's on the chief determinators of female motivation and interests, among which I did list stimulation. The main point was that women's primary and only concern is themselves, which I think covers Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/20 11:19 PM |
| 11 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsYou are correct. Both women and Men seek comfort. The difference comes when the destination is reached. Women's entire existence is oriented around optimizing security; women have no natural innate drive to build on that once they have achieved it. Men on the other hand continue their pursuit of purposes and challenge what is considered impossible, because security is not our highest ideal. About your concern with my previous posts, you are correct to be taken aback, but you make vast leaps in l… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/20 11:14 PM |
| 61 | Why women are first and foremost pragmatic beingsExactly. Women hold onto a man so long as they feel excited and/or secure about it. A man will (foolishly) hold onto a woman despite his negative or cold feelings, purely based on the ideal or principle alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/20 10:40 PM |
| 14 | You're Not an Introvert, You're Just an AssholeExactly, introversion can be a valuable tool as well. Gotta be careful you don't get too comfortable on that raft, though. Introversion is a means to an end in this context, nothing more. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/20 02:43 PM |
| 1 | You're Not an Introvert, You're Just an AssholeAbsolutely spot-on. The word introvert gets thrown around so often by people who want to jerk themselves off over their self-importance. The ability to socialize is a skill like any other skill - learning and mastering it might be a hard, complex, and confusing process, but it's a necessary one for anyone who has any intention to live as a part of society. People are naturally invigorated doing activities that they understand and feel like they have mastered, while on the other hand doing activi… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Set a course or someone else will set it for youI never said it was supposed to be easy. If it were easy, then it would be a non-issue and my entire post would be redundant. It is difficult, and that is precisely why we so often fall for other people's frames. And that is my point - It's hard to develop a purpose, but it's a necessary pursuit, because otherwise, you're doomed to be led astray by every external frame you encounter. If you're interested in the specifics of cultivating a purpose, I'd recommend Woujo's Purpose Series as a good st… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/20 02:52 PM |
| 7 | Set a course or someone else will set it for youYeah, the Purpose Series is a must-read. I would recommend it to anyone who has trouble defining their purposes. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 8 | Breaking the Oedipal RelationshipIt's proactivity, as opposed to reactivity. Acting out of volition, not out of necessity, fear, or pleasurable stimulation. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/20 05:41 PM |
| 14 | Set a course or someone else will set it for youFor simplicity's sake, let's say that the five major frame categories I discussed are positioned in a three-level hierarchy, where each level affects and shapes the one below it: Long-term frames Activity frames & Social frames - medium term-frames Physical frames & Interaction frames - short-term frames The obvious starting point is the long-term. Here, the goal is, as I said, to determine your needs, wants, and basically what is most important to you in life (your values). So let's say that yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Stop fetishizing the end goalI'm not saying you need to bend reality in any way. I'm saying that the human body and mind have a natural drive to be active, build connections with people, etc. It's subconscious and built into your DNA. There's always going to be some amount of struggle, pain, and tension if you push yourself to your limits, but that's not a bad thing if you get in tune with your natural drives. What I am an advocate for, is the belief that the only things in life that we enjoy are the things that we understa… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Stop fetishizing the end goalThere are some things in life that are objectively more beneficial to you than others - lifting, eating healthy, communicating with people, etc. - the two options you give are both bad ones, since one advocates for defeatism, and the other for unnecessary suffering. The answer is - learn to find joy in the process. If you think activities are just supposed to immediately "click" with you, then you are in for a surprise. My point was that you are supposed to dig hard and dig deep to find passion … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/20 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Stop fetishizing the end goalNot really. My post uses some already established information as a setup, but my point is very specific - it's about mental masturbation and comfort-seeking behaviours, which I don't see too often explored in detail. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Stop fetishizing the end goalWoujo already made a killer series of posts on the topic - I'm drawing inspiration from him, but with the explicit focus on mentally masturbating over reaching your end goals. A link for anyone interested in the topics of Journey Pleasure itself: https://www.woujo.com/blog/2019/12/5/the-purpose-series-part-1-of-3-purpose-anxiety-fear-the-unknown-and-the-purposeless-epidemic-in-modern-society | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 01:48 PM |
| 7 | Stop fetishizing the end goalExactly, your comment is precisely the mindset of someone who enjoys the process. There's nothing wrong with having goals. What I am against is the act of pursuing goals for the sole reason of indulging yourself in them afterwards, and losing sight of the journey. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 01:33 PM |
| 9 | Stop fetishizing the end goalYou are right, there are plenty of posts on this topic in the sub, but my focus here is specifically on something I have never seen discussed - falling in love with the idea of a goal for the sake of it - just having the warm feeling of the fantasy of reaching the goal without giving it a second thought as to whether you simply want to "consume" the pleasure from the end goal, in the same way that you would consume things like junk food or porn for pleasure. Perhaps I should have gone into this … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 01:30 PM |
| 1 | The Purpose Series (Part 2 of 3) - How Women are Attracted to Men with Attractive PurposesThis has been mind-expanding You have led me into the unknown, and in doing so, you have provided me with the tools to do it on my own | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/19 09:13 AM |
| – | Going out with a sexually conservative girl, but I feel that I am being led onShe's from northern China | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 09:03 PM |
| – | Going out with a sexually conservative girl, but I feel that I am being led onwhat's the 3rd date rule? | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 08:08 PM |
| – | Going out with a sexually conservative girl, but I feel that I am being led onWe were completely alone at night when I tried to kiss her right after we had drinks. My main concern here is, assuming that I do keep seeing her, when would be an appropriate time when she would not feel "too easy". I'm guessing there might be a way to flip the whole thing on her and actually make her want to kiss me, but I have not idea as to what that might be | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 04:29 PM |
| – | Going out with a sexually conservative girl, but I feel that I am being led onChinese. So very sexually reserved. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 03:56 PM |
| – | I have no history of sexual experienceI don't think I was clear enough about what I was asking: what kind of hints can I even drop if I've only ever been on three dates in my life and none of them led to anything? I have never kissed a girl or slept with one, but somehow I create the impression that I have kissed and slept with tons. Also thanks for the recommendation, I'm gonna look into it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 12:09 AM |
| – | Good conversation topics for a date?Yes, this is exactly right. Can you give me a couple more examples of questions like these just so I get a feel for what sorts of questions would be good? (She is from a different country so that's another rabbit hole of potential questions). | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 07:12 AM |
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