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ninjamuffin/r/seduction28/10/14 02:35 AM
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ninjamuffin/r/seduction10/11/14 08:07 AM
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ninjamuffin/r/seduction03/05/16 05:23 AM
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sort of, almost unconditional love from your partner, ‘as you are’ I am relatively new to RP, and this is the hardest one to let go of, even though I have more than enough real world evidence that this has to be done. I can't help but think that I will always be longing for this no matter who I'm with or how successful a future relationship could be, and that this mentality of expecting that type of love will inevitably poison any relationship I'm in.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/23 08:18 PM
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I could tell this was JP inspired in the first paragraph, great analysis. This is why outcome independence and an abundance mindset are so key to success in any competitive domain; they allow you to always progress in the correct direction regardless of your current place in the hierarchy or the result of any particular 'game'.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/23 07:01 PM
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Ngl maybe just tell her your nervous about having sex and I think you’d be surprised how she responds. If you feel comfortable with her getting hard is gonna be the last thing on your mind
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 08:09 AM
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Probably because the girl sent her tits and wants something in return...
/r/seduction15/04/17 01:51 PM
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You dont put effort in if it would compromise your position within the relationship. What effort are you talking about? showing her how much you love her and care for her? You shouldn't have to go out of your way to prove that to her, she should assume you spending time with her means she is of value to you. Are you in this stalemate because you are afraid to break up? Usually if a girl is aloof it means she isn't that invested and is testing you to see if you will lower your standards to be wit…
/r/seduction13/04/17 05:12 AM
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its called body dysmorphia and is absolutely a real thing. People whos confidence is high have a more positive body image and would never say things like you just did. You think the root of your lack of success with women is coming from you or your personality or your looks but its really just your self confidence. The depression has to be solved before any of this other shit is even worth reading, and im POSITIVE everyone else whos spent time on this sub will agree with me.
/r/seduction09/04/17 05:07 PM
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From personal experience don't ever cross your arms or close yourself off when trying to seduce, it's rooted in low self confidence and instantly subconsciously tells the woman youre feeling vulnerable. I like to pretend I just slammed 3 shots when I go talk to a new girl, regardless if I do. I know how it feels to act after doing that and you don't really care about petty shit, perfect frame of mind for a good first visual impression.
/r/seduction06/04/17 10:13 PM
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You should have already watched... fuckin bird
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:37 AM
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Dennis is a visionary
/r/seduction16/03/17 09:57 PM
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Demonstrate value, then offer value. Nice dude
/r/seduction16/03/17 08:10 PM
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I'm kinda in the same position, I know all the facts this sub could ever give someone as advice but I still have mental blocks when it comes to face to face, idk if you've had any improvement in this area
/r/seduction28/02/17 02:04 PM
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I guess anything can be porn nowadays...
/r/seduction21/02/17 05:04 PM
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I think he just needs one shred of veritable evidence, don't think like that's a huge ask
/r/seduction21/02/17 02:06 PM
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It will die out in the future, that's what gives me hope
/r/seduction02/02/17 03:45 PM
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Yeah but you say it like you're proud of it haha, like it makes you edgy and confident, but it actually just makes you look fake and insecure
/r/seduction01/02/17 12:15 AM
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are you regularly getting dates with these hot girls? or are you basing their attraction off of these small interactions
/r/seduction31/01/17 10:04 PM
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Thats not really an answer. Where do you like to go when you're not on a date?
/r/seduction31/01/17 06:35 PM
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Dinner if you're into that, seems a little high investment for a first date and I don't like to eat in front of girls I'm courting if it can be avoided. Night in the city bar hopping is great for getting her in the mood to bone, coffee shops are good for building attraction too. Whatever environment you'd feel most comfortable leading her around in and she'd also like following you through, because that's the real goal of a date.
/r/seduction31/01/17 04:29 PM
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I also noticed you said you were only waiting to go after attractive girls, I'm assuming you're being pretty picky to make your effort worth it. You instead should just go for girls who will keep you busy and learning, if your goal here is to become better at pickup. Go for some 5s and 6s, they will be more receptive and you don't lose out on any potential if you fuck up. It's just a more comfortable training environment with lower stakes. Now if you just want to fuck the hottest girl given your…
/r/seduction26/01/17 04:01 PM
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I think it has to do with the intent of the touch, it shouldn't be to get pleasure, it should be because you aren't uncomfortable while touching her.
/r/seduction22/01/17 04:34 PM
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It's fine bro a lot of the people on here are new and don't know what makes a quality post, a lot of people would think you're being mysogynistic, just what comes with the territory
/r/seduction22/01/17 04:31 PM
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You must be new here
/r/seduction20/01/17 05:20 PM
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You clearly were very concerned with your roommates thoughts on your virginity which shouldn't be an issue.
/r/seduction13/01/17 08:04 PM
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Just think about what it will be like when you try and lose it for them and then you go to tell them. You're still gonna be in the position of the bitch because you did it for them. You have to do things in life for yourself to gain respect.
/r/seduction13/01/17 07:11 PM
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i love how most people wouldn't get that she dated another guy, that's almost for sure what happened and completely explains the erratic behavior. She's just a young girl living in ABUNDANCE, try and live like her.
/r/seduction06/01/17 02:53 PM
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Next on /r/seduction, how to fuck a girl just by texting her! Jk, this post was really good and cuts through all the PUA bullshit we see here all the time.
/r/seduction27/12/16 05:22 PM
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But drugs are bad mkay
/r/seduction26/12/16 01:39 PM
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Just spreading the gospel mayn
/r/seduction24/12/16 05:20 PM
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Ha ya don't do this ^
/r/seduction24/12/16 02:22 PM
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Damn what a good saying, buddhists have life on lock
/r/seduction24/12/16 07:23 AM
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I have found slowing down and not talking right away have helped me not start sentences I regret.
/r/seduction24/12/16 07:14 AM
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Yeah, the guy has to be determined and focused in his interactions with a woman because the girl's emotions follow the guy
/r/seduction18/05/16 11:04 PM
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You think that by talking to her like a friend and not escalating is somehow protecting her and doing her a favor, when really shes just another adult who wants to fuck, just like you. Don't try and do her any favors by pulling back. You obviously wanted her that night and you were incongruent by not asking her back to your place at the end.
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:34 PM
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Lot of work tho
/r/seduction15/03/16 09:31 PM
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Or just working on yourself and feeling successful in your own way. That confidence makes women come to you.
/r/seduction15/03/16 07:23 PM
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Isn't this just negging?
/r/seduction25/02/16 06:07 PM
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"this is the greenest of lights"
/r/seduction01/12/15 09:05 PM
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reflective?
/r/seduction18/11/15 10:50 PM
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Great post, however it doesnt seem like there was a lot of "seduction" going on. First girl was set up for you, and the second one literally did all the heavy lifting. All you did was say yes.
/r/seduction20/10/15 04:39 AM
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*some men age like wine
/r/seduction08/10/15 04:20 AM
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Hopefully :)
/r/seduction02/10/15 01:19 AM
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True player status Edit: o shit just realized ur the huge guy from r/bb
/r/seduction02/10/15 12:50 AM
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You give off a very Julian-esque vibe, I like it
/r/seduction17/09/15 08:15 AM
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it kinda just blows my mind is all
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:47 PM
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I think what happened here was a girl liked you and you liked her and she wanted to have sex and you didnt....
/r/seduction16/09/15 10:09 AM
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but after a few minutes offered to take my virginity and invited me back to her place... which I declined. wat
/r/seduction15/09/15 11:09 PM
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Was it them literally asking you, or was it just that they were really into you and you could tell if you made a move they would oblige
/r/seduction15/09/15 05:33 PM
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The Legend
/r/seduction03/09/15 06:41 AM
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You just have tender hands
/r/seduction20/08/15 08:07 PM
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Panini style
/r/seduction18/08/15 08:48 PM
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Usually if someone could be considered too jacked it means they aren't doing it for other peoples admiration
/r/seduction12/08/15 11:40 PM
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you must be new here
/r/seduction21/07/15 05:02 AM
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You should never read in environment where you could pickup, do that shit on your own time
/r/seduction20/07/15 06:00 AM
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What are some good pickup podcasts?
/r/seduction20/07/15 05:59 AM
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Pics? It would be cool to see the transformation
/r/seduction01/07/15 02:51 AM
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This is probably better than a situation with a girl who is inexperienced. Let her lead and learn from her. If you maintain confidence she won't lose respect for you.
/r/seduction20/06/15 07:35 AM
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Your self confidence is low. I would suggest checking out /r/bodybuilding and going to the gym to build up your physique to a point where you start noticing girls noticing you. It's a great feeling, and it really helps you gain confidence. Turn your body into the body of some guy all girls want to get with.
/r/seduction20/06/15 05:31 AM
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if you're a hot girl
/r/seduction11/06/15 06:53 AM
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It only looks weird if you feel weird doing it
/r/seduction23/05/15 02:59 AM
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what do you mean "tactics"? Tactics to make her like you? If she's already saying that, shes definitely into you. It doesn't matter what you say.
/r/seduction06/05/15 01:31 AM
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But I want to escalate with the ones I'm attracted to, and I feel awkward when I attempt to.
/r/seduction04/05/15 10:13 PM
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I'm just painfully inexperienced with women, and I think I'm just defaulting to interacting with them like I would with other dudes.
/r/seduction04/05/15 09:49 PM
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It's definitely not this for me. There's this one particular girl I find very physically attractive, like a 9 on my scale, and when I'm with her I am able to only really interact platonically, and I feel like there's no way for me to escalate without coming across awkward and incongruent.
/r/seduction04/05/15 09:11 AM
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Because smoking hookah gives you a crazy head high that puts you on your ass. what
/r/seduction30/04/15 12:00 AM
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Its a date, but its also just hanging out, just be chill and she will feel what you're feeling.
/r/seduction29/04/15 03:45 PM
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Molly
/r/seduction29/04/15 05:57 AM
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Lol I just got rekt
/r/seduction05/04/15 04:38 AM
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dude, you need to watch your language
/r/seduction04/04/15 07:22 PM
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Rekt
/r/seduction27/03/15 06:10 AM
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Did you need weed to do all that? If so, you've got a problem. I don't know how I've been unclear here, and I certainly don't know why you're being defensive about your success to a random dude on the internet.
/r/seduction27/03/15 05:05 AM
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It sounds to me like you depend on weed to do school. Just saying.
/r/seduction27/03/15 03:21 AM
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Seems like an expensive and involved study tool
/r/seduction27/03/15 12:51 AM
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You need to smoke to focus on school?
/r/seduction27/03/15 12:13 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wdipRFDlzOk
/r/seduction22/03/15 10:49 PM
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yoked
/r/seduction26/01/15 10:53 AM
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"Guys, someone just handed me a briefcase with 1 million dollars and said 'Go Wild'. Should I spend this money?"
/r/seduction13/12/14 11:21 AM
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This is one of the few cold approach recordings that didnt make me cringe at the beginning! I really liked how you did the compliment, but didnt make her stop walking, it seemed less intrusive. However, i dont l know if circumstances werent in your favor but you asked for the number too quickly, gotta build more rapport first
/r/seduction01/12/14 09:44 AM
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dayum, throwaway layin it down
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:18 AM
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not if you have already established intense eye contact
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:15 AM
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he should frame the interaction in a way that could lead to her asking for his number
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:12 AM
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Im pretty sure it means they were interested, its just another sign lf kino, initiated by them, i mean what more do you want haha. go for it
/r/seduction10/11/14 12:32 PM
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Spokane
/r/seduction10/11/14 12:28 PM
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Dont change your behavior around them because they are an attractive girl. talk to them like you would talk to a male acquaintance, but with the subcommunication of seduction
/r/seduction10/11/14 12:28 PM
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maybe play a little game where it forces eye contact, and youve "broken they eye contact ice" it will be more natural going forward
/r/seduction10/11/14 12:25 PM
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its probably because they havent actually studied aocial dynamics, so they dont really know what they are doing wrong
/r/seduction10/11/14 12:13 PM
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did you have to work up to being able to not talk and not feel awkward abt it?
/r/seduction08/11/14 08:39 PM
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isnt that kind of a defeatist mindset? justgive up at first sign of adversity?
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:39 AM
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ya you're not actually not really apologizing, its just a way induce yourself into the situation more smoothly. U did great man
/r/seduction07/11/14 01:25 AM
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Its like jumping off a cliff into water. It seems insane at first, and is really hard to pull the trigger, but once you do it, every time after that is super easy. Just man up and do it once, with the knowledge that you will be better for it in the end. GLHF man
/r/seduction06/11/14 07:50 AM
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I am having a similar problem, and I think you need to do something else in your life that you know you excel at, or something that gives you value, so you dont have to fake the mentality that "she should be lucky to be dancing with you", you can believe it, because she actually is. I know its cliche, but go to the gym, make you some gains, and when girls dont look at you sexually its a problem on their end. Good luck brotha
/r/seduction05/11/14 08:13 AM
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This basically says "be a God at life and you will get laid." I mean I already knew that...
/r/seduction14/10/14 05:09 PM
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ikr
/r/seduction29/09/14 06:26 PM
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I think you're right. I mean, if I saw some of the best PUAs go up to 100 girls, i really dont think any one of them would label them as creepy. Maybe very forward, but not creepy, because they would respect them as people and would sense that they were not coming from a place of scarcity.
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:29 PM
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ya i realize this. do you realize it literally kills you?
/r/seduction28/09/14 09:53 PM
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seems like everyone here smokes. why?
/r/seduction28/09/14 06:47 PM
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im saying the reasoning for him to ask her is never random. Guys are expected to be attracted to girls.
/r/seduction27/09/14 10:01 PM
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Its not random at all for a guy to ask a cute girl on a date...
/r/seduction27/09/14 08:43 PM
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This is honestly probably the most difficult way to kiss a girl and have her like it. It only works if she is immediately attracted to you.
/r/seduction02/07/14 08:10 PM
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Then you take their back and look for a triangle
/r/seduction02/07/14 04:08 AM
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usually physical improvement creates self confidence, which is the real attractive quality
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:21 PM
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if youve learned anything from this sub its that attractiveness doesnt matter that much
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:05 PM
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ya but if its awkward or not, youre already running away from her, so the problem never arises
/r/seduction21/05/14 05:21 PM
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This is one of those gimmicks that I think would have actual success.
/r/seduction21/05/14 04:02 AM
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Remember, you might begin to adopt the frame that you have to have her, and that will kill you. When you're around her just act as though you two together would be fun, and she can join your fun if she want's, you won't be put out if she declines. This will lower her guard.
/r/seduction06/05/14 10:47 PM
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I think it was Julien who said that he learned to become addicted to the emotional pain he felt when he was uncomfortable, embarrassed, or confused, because it meant it was changing his character, and he was growing as a person because of it.
/r/seduction06/05/14 08:57 PM
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The community is composed of people too, they don't always know what's right. Im sure the SimplePickup "community" would disagree with opinions of seddit.
/r/seduction30/04/14 08:53 PM
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Remember, she is not the end game, she is just another girl along for the ride, and just happens to be very pretty. Don't put her on a pedestal and you will be fine. GL :)
/r/seduction29/04/14 03:00 AM
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Quick Question: Are you me?
/r/seduction25/04/14 05:22 AM
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ya, dont do this
/r/seduction13/04/14 09:56 PM
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I'd say you look better than average, not that it matters that much for game, go slay it!
/r/seduction11/04/14 08:46 AM
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Brilliant example
/r/seduction10/04/14 07:45 PM
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Guys, we've found a natural
/r/seduction27/03/14 07:07 AM
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So are you moving closer to her throughout this entire interaction? I cant tell because its audio, but I can assume it would have stimulated more attraction. However the friend was there and it could have been taken the wrong way because you might have alienated her.
/r/seduction26/03/14 08:17 PM
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coke :)
/r/seduction15/02/14 10:35 PM
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Congrats on your mod status, you earned it
/r/seduction15/02/14 12:50 AM
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You don't act like a virgin, just do it lol. Were literally giving you permission to have sex, its not that close to the worst situation you could be in.
/r/seduction12/02/14 04:37 AM
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Yeah, if you are the one slowing things down and being the one with objections, she is most likely going to take the other side and want to push things further.
/r/seduction10/02/14 07:25 AM
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doing that will prob get you laid
/r/seduction26/01/14 01:51 AM
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f
/r/seduction02/12/13 02:52 AM
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I feel like u could have fclosed the first one...
/r/seduction24/11/13 02:56 AM
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talk to her again, but without seeking anything from her, that should increase your value to her.
/r/seduction24/11/13 02:44 AM
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but be confident, dont be defensive about it, act like it wont be a problem, because it wont
/r/seduction10/11/13 06:07 AM
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I think this response is only warranted if they took time to say the insult, and it wasnt just an off the cuff kind of thing. I would say, "Yo, you finished" instead, sounds more dismissive than threatened.
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:52 AM
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That's just how interactions in general should work, its not a front you put up; it is who you become. You become a person that is confident expressing who you are and what you want, and that naturally attracts people of both genders.
/r/seduction14/10/13 09:05 PM
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I am wondering how I can put myself in these situations in college, I am not a big party lover, so where could I go to meet girls?
/r/seduction12/10/13 08:56 AM
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too beta, you have to flash a knife in your pocket so they know your intentions immediately and you establish the relationship as man to woman.
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:32 AM
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This is why I dont think text game works at all, you have to just use text to lead into real interactions.
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:19 AM
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just a slight, 2-hand clamp on the back of the neck should do the trick, and let here know that YOU are in the control of the interactions.
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:13 AM
0

How are you going to walk up to a random girl and comment on something you know shes done?
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:08 AM
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fakin kebabs
/r/seduction02/10/13 12:00 AM
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K, Ill try and hang out with the friends of mine that are more outgoing and social, aka do things on the weekends. I just am seeing people online simply walking up to girls and getting their number, and I dont think my confidence is there yet to make a good impression on her, at least for a random approach. If it is during a party with some alc. I might have more luck.
/r/seduction24/09/13 06:02 AM
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This is exactly what I want, I just dont know how to get out of my rut. All my friends dont really go out much, really at all, and I would like to get to know more people, and be more involved in things. I generally think I would do very well if I could put myself in situations where I could encounter girls, but I just never have those situations arise. What is something simple I can do to get out of my current social group and meet new people? I am at University btw.
/r/seduction24/09/13 05:22 AM
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not if you wanna get laid.
/r/seduction21/09/13 09:58 AM
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