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| 2 | That's a lot of damage.It's not. It's just straight up misogyny....which is what most of the comments sections of this sub turn out to be | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/06/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Pancakes don’t get the passIf your dick is bulging from your sweatpants, you're probably either trashy or need to buy bigger pants. You could be packing a yule log and a proper pair of pants will hide it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/12/19 06:15 PM |
| 3 | There’s this beautiful girl in college whom i’ve been dying to date for a while. Whenever i catch sight of her, it’s like i lose my balance. I do wanna approach and establish more of a connection. Yet, there’s no common ground that i can think of. So have you people got any idea how to move forward?You have more of a common ground with more people than you think. One of the biggest assets one can have in their social life is learning how to find them. Now - with that said, I am not very good at this. My go-to method that worked for me well was simply humor. I'm in a committed relationship now, but when I was dating years ago, and using the methods here, I found that deadpan humor worked out wonderfully for me: If you're the type that understands deadpan humor you tend to find all of it hil… | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).Learning how to suck dick is one of the easiest things btw, even good deepthroat could be learned in a week. Spoken like an A+ student | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 06:25 PM |
| -2 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy)./r/ihavesex | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 06:24 PM |
| 43 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).If you get older, the tide turns. the highly chauvinistic dynamics of some forms of PUA are really great for going after people who are not mature (as immaturity seeks more immaturity). I knew guys who would pound pussy like crazy. It'd frustrate the hell out of me because I had no problem being overt, sexual, and assertive, but I was not going to resort to referring to women as "lesser" than me. I'd hook up with 1/10 the women they were. But... "Don't put the pussy on a pedestal" does NOT mean … | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 02:45 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Tinder pull, something that I noticed myself doing this time that was helpfulThat's what I did back then. Cranked. Then eventually I stopped. I got a match with someone on Tinder and the message was like: Hi, My name is [male name], Would you be willing to come over and fuck my girlfriend in front of me? (I politely declined) It was weird. I wouldn't mind banging someone in front of their boyfriend, but it just seemed so odd and fishy that I figured that either: A.) I was gonna get stabbed B.) I was gonna get stabbed in the butt | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 09:22 PM |
| 11 | [FR] Tinder pull, something that I noticed myself doing this time that was helpfulif a girl starts messaging you late at night, she's probably thinking about you One time I got a 2am text from this girl I was kind seeing with the late night "hey, what are you doing right now?" I would have been so excited...if I was awake to get the message. | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 07:05 PM |
| 26 | Something to remember: It may seem obvious, but when it comes to girls, nobody is ever “too busy.” You’re either a priority, or you’re not. It’s that simple./u/puzzydestroyer13 lacking nuance? You don't say! | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 12:35 AM |
| 11 | Something to remember: It may seem obvious, but when it comes to girls, nobody is ever “too busy.” You’re either a priority, or you’re not. It’s that simple.What? No. I mean "I'm too busy" is a vague response dedicated to distancing yourself from someone, but this talking about absolutes...come on. I mean, would you apply that to yourself? 90% of the advice in this subreddit has ALWAYS been something to the tune of "don't be a doormat" or avoiding any validation-seeking behavior. So would you drop what you're doing for a girl you're gaming? Why would you expect the same the other way around? | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 12:35 AM |
| -1 | STOP Dressing Like Sh*tin terms of how much you care about you look - there's a balance, and god knows I've learned what the limits are for both ends of that. You can try too hard to look good. I remember trying to adopt a persona in the mid-2000s days of pickup (Mystery's TV show.....) and because I'm a musician, I adopted the NY ska-punk look/indie punk look. All black, skinny white tie. I worked very had at it, and it looked good. Once I got out there, I felt like a fucking ass and it showed. Wore that getup one ni… | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 02:33 PM |
| 7 | I’m trying seduce an older woman [24m/mid 40sF].Even though this is a "risk taking" or "leave your comfort zone" subreddit, I agree wholly. Shitting where you eat (sleeping with people at work) is generally a bad idea, but there are scenarios where it's still bad, but less-bad: You work in a big place and you date someone in another department (some find this actually very cute and some companies like to actually cite this as why they're a "great place to work.") You were on a work trip and drinks led to a one-time-thing You were at a happy h… | /r/seduction | 29/10/18 02:45 PM |
| 2 | My best friend sleeps with majority of the girls I've ever liked or wanted to date and it hurts.Or if I'm an accountant or bookkeeper for some mega rich drug lord, who is also my neighbor, and he pays handsomely. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 04:44 PM |
| 10 | My best friend sleeps with majority of the girls I've ever liked or wanted to date and it hurts.1.) You need to find a new friend. No - not replacement friend - keep this guy (he's your friend!) - but add someone who isn't going to just make you feel bad about your failures. You said in a comment that you're unable to learn from him - so if you can't learn from him AND he's competing against you, then you need to find a way to expand socially without him because you have NOTHING to gain sexually from being around him. Separate your friendship accordingly. 2.) You are trying to copy his sty… | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How does one become a fuckboy?Yeah - me neither, but there are some reasonable posts a lot of the time. /r/malefashion may be more frugal at times - both are good subs for inspiration, if nothing else. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:22 PM |
| 14 | How does one become a fuckboy?"Fuckboy" is kind of derogatory. "We had sex, I liked him, but he doesn't want to continue this" BOOM automatic "fuckboy." You can be clear and forward with your intentions, and you'll always run the risk of being called an asshole, a jerk, a fuckboy, or whatever. Girls with shitty personalities seem to constantly be complaining about fuckboys. If you're looking for casual hookups, you need to spend 10% of your time reading shit on here, and 90% of your time getting out there and failing. You've… | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 01:43 PM |
| 87 | Guys a little help here?Any joke will do. "Puke all over me? Oh boy, don't threaten me with a good time!" "Haha yeah, I was joking about the thong. My mom won't let me have my first thong until I turn 40. Until then, it's granny panties for me." "How dare you thong-shame me?" "I'm thorry, you mithunderthtood me. I have a lithp when I textht. I meant a thong that you thing, like with muthic" | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 01:14 PM |
| 2 | I accidentally cold approached the same girl...fuckThe fact you went "wait" shows that you at least were aware. Many girls have the story of the BAD cold approach "Hi I saw you from over there and you looked interesting" and then getting it again a week later, with no awareness. Just learn to laugh at your mistakes...and not make them again! | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Girl at CVS thinks I'm a creep.Not worth worrying about. If she's not attractive, then just ignore it, don't consciously do anything to violate her personal space, and just put it out of your mind. What's likely is that, like RBF (resting bitch face), there are mechanisms that women put forward to just shut themselves off from anyone, attractive or otherwise because they simply don't want to deal with people. My money is on the fact that she doesn't really think much of you beyond that you look vaguely familiar, and she's jus… | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 02:10 PM |
| 3 | She likes me but it's too late I think.Both. I kind of was in the same situation as you. I was seeing someone before going to college, we split on bad terms, and then she couldn't keep her mind racing about what was going on with me and other girls at college. She likes you, and she's very uneasy about you going to college. Not only is she left wondering what you're up to, but you're essentially in a hotbed of sexuality with a bunch of new women. So - go to college, and focus on that. Go ahead and spend 5-10 minutes TOTAL a day texti… | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 01:44 PM |
| 33 | Just a reminder guys: Don’t ghost on women you had sex withITT: An example of why Ghosting can bite you in the ass being completely ignored by most of the thread. People used to advocate "leaving them better than when you found them" meaning - don't be a dick to a woman you close with. Finding someone out in public that you wronged and having them blow up at you is definitely NOT something you want. In OP's case, he's got an actual girlfriend to be embarrassed in front of. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 12:58 PM |
| 78 | How to keep a girl interested if you can only arrange the first date in a few weeks?Date other women. This will: Allow you to take your mind off of the upcoming date in a few weeks Give you practice and added confidence for that date Take up your time so you're not overtexting her Give you a potential better girl you might want to date more As for the actual communication, /u/andreboy says a few days before, and I think that's a good time to wait until before you shoot out a message. Keep it light, confirm logistics, and as little as possible. You'll do great. | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 05:16 PM |
| 28 | 15+ rejections last night, heres what i learned.Thank you for sharing. We need more field reports with failure, as failure, in this game, is one of the easiest routes to success. Being able to fail and reflect on it as you've done is going to make your next night more successful. Keep building! | /r/seduction | 28/04/18 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Movie pass subscribtion has gotten me lots of dates and laysThis whole account of his seems kind of bullshit. 16 days ago: "I met hot chick who is wife material. I need flat out beginner's advice" Today: "me fuck so much with moviepass." And worse yet, people are falling all over him for saying the absolute worst date idea will get you laid. I think he's just some guy testing a theory with us before he tries it. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Movie pass subscribtion has gotten me lots of dates and laysI'm not saying you aren't doing this, I'm saying that Movepass specifically has letting more than one person use a card against their terms of service. I'm all for you using it however you want - I'm just saying that if they get wind of it, they'll cancel your account. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Movie pass subscribtion has gotten me lots of dates and laysSo you're telling me they're advertising using a method that goes against their terms of service? You are not supposed to use one moviepass for more than one person. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Movie pass subscribtion has gotten me lots of dates and laysYeah...moviepass is totally advertising with a method of violating their terms. They don't want multiple people using the same pass. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Movie pass subscribtion has gotten me lots of dates and laysA bad plug. Moviepass is not very happy when one card is being used for multiple people. It's against their terms. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Movie pass subscribtion has gotten me lots of dates and laysIf we had the time, I'd be all for seeing a movie after meeting someone for a bit, but movies make horrible early dates. No talking. Just staring at the screen. Kino kind of works with basic handholding...or you can try kino too early and creep her out. I love moviepass, but you simply can't lay down game in the theater. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | The most common mistake I see hereWhile I agree with you, this is easier said than done. I can only think of two times where I managed to have more than 2 girls I was seeing, and while yeah, scarcity played in my favor, it wasn't simple to achieve. | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 03:12 AM |
| 34 | The most common mistake I see hereI think everything got easier when I learned to cut my losses. Everyone finds a girl where everything clicks at first. You both enjoy each other's company, you both make each other smile, and many times, you both flirt. But maybe she puts on her brakes. It sucks. You thought you were getting somewhere, and you were either wrong, or she just changed her mind. It happens. It blows. You feel like maybe you fucked something up. You play shit in your head, overanalyze, and feel like shit. This might … | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started?before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started? This business is quite old. There have always been, at least in larger cities, cassanova types that coached men. It wasn't until about 20 years ago when message groups and chats online started that it became something online. Books on how to get women were also a thing. Before the internet PUA days, you saw several things: Less intense virgin shaming. Guys were virgins until ripe old ages...many more than today. Despite this, pa… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 11:36 PM |
| 2 | How do i stop getting so fustrated how bad i am with girls?Most of us have been there. Honestly, the only way to get better, is to keep reading, and keep failing. When I was your age all the way until I was probably 25ish, I was terrible with girls. Sure - I got laid here and there, but it was probably via the definition of "getting lucky." Once I started really putting myself out there, being goofy, not caring, smiling, making more eye contact, things began to click. By the time I was 27, and this is after some slow progress, so don't think this is gon… | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 03:05 AM |
| 14 | A girl I know (red) posted this... a few guys responded pretty appropriately.With a pinch of denial... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/18 06:29 PM |
| 9 | Models by Mark Manson, No More Mr Nice Guy, How To Win Friends and Influence People PDFs, are these websites the real deal? They are authentic right?People who make this promise fail in general. The date doesn't necessarily matter. January 1 sounds like a failure prone date simply because more people are looking to change themselves, so you hear more stories associated with the date. January 1st is a good date to start because: A new year feels like a refresh, so you are in the mood to "refresh" The holidays are over, so if you're looking to do something like diet without distractions, the next real "food based holiday" is Memorial day. You … | /r/seduction | 31/12/17 01:28 PM |
| 4 | I did read this interesting comment online. I never had a gf (M/20) and this comment is frightening me that I’m going to experience the same thing? any ideas to calm myself down?Are you 20 or are you in your 30s? You have posts in your history all over the place. Are you a student, or do you make "well over 6 figures"??? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Nobody Owes You AnythingI don't know what saddens me more: The fact that this tired commentary constantly gets reposted, uploaded and applauded The fact that, as evidenced by a number of posters from a number of subs here (one of which recently got shut down), it still needs to be said. | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 01:53 PM |
| 23 | why does she think i will be friends with her and not change my behaviour after she becomes a non sexual option?It's understanding when the girl is cool with being actual friends, but in these cases she wants more than friendship but less than anything you want. Friendship with the powers that are normally granted to girlfriends. | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 04:59 PM |
| 71 | why does she think i will be friends with her and not change my behaviour after she becomes a non sexual option?why do women think they will get treated like a date, if they are no longer a date? Because it's worked on guys before. The problem now is that she's run out of doormats, and is looking for a new one. | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Should I be ashamed of having sex with a chubby girlYour friends will always do this - it's what guys do and it's meaningless. If you're enjoying yourself - who cares? Friends - even good ones - occasionally tear you down for stupid shit. Just learn to ignore it - once you get older, all the good friends stop and it because obvious who the assholes are. You F-closed and I'm guessing they didn't. The only reason why I was not keen on chubby chicks is that some things were less than pleasant. I dated a girl who had pee smell linger down there even … | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Mia Khalifa gets shut down by a Steeler’s player who knows that she has a record of publicly posting DMsShe also maintains two Snapchat accounts. One for paid subscribers, and another that just posts pictures of her in the kitchen with a big "WANT TO MAKE $2500 A MONTH?" ads. Yeah...I'm going to want to pay for your premium content even more because your free content is just ads for stuff like in the comments of unmoderated news articles. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/10/17 11:39 AM |
| 57 | Texting guide.NM YOUR A BITCH ANYWAY AND NO ONE WILL LOVE YOU EVER. I WAS JUST KIDDING ABOUT GOING OUT WHO WOULD WANT TO GO OUT WITH A LOSER LIKE YOU LOL YO HEY HEY HEY FUK U | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 07:36 PM |
| 4 | How to handle other men coming to hit on a girl I'm *currently* talking with?AMOG - Alpha Male of the Group. This is a version of that, and usually it comes to light when someone intervenes like this. I've never really dealt with this, but a search for AMOG will bring you a ton of good resources on how to deal with these situations. As I understand it, if you're able to keep your cool, most of your work is done. Just keep your cool, stand your ground, and engage while being willing to disengage. Bonus points if you can get the AMOG to absolutely lose his shit or get frus… | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 03:18 PM |
| 2 | How to Be Invited Into Social CirclesThanks for the reminder. Saving so I can get my old friends back together. I never organize or invite anyone to anything unless my girlfriend does it (yes I have a girlfriend - I still thoroughly enjoy /r/seduction). | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 11:45 AM |
| 2 | The key is to stop caring what people think of you, especially what beautiful women think of you.Tinder was like training wheels for this very concept. I suggest everyone who hasn't already done it give it a try, but promise yourself that you'll get the fuck out of tinder after you try it and get some success. I remember the anxiety and shitty first messages I'd write, and they often led to unmatching. Instantly. You know the type "Hey" or "I see you are into [think from her profile that is extremely popular and everyone likes anyway]. That's cool." Then at some point, I remember getting dr… | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | My journey to finally getting laid. A full break-down.This was hilarious and informative. We need more tactical [FR]s on here. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if someone is lying to you. A breakdown of famous liars Bill Clinton and Lance Armstrong. Discerning Incentives and observing micro-expressions to reveal Pinocchio's. | Useful for seduction and life in generalAside from the fact that you can't argue with a statistic like this, I agree - you can only detect when someone is nervous, which is easy anyway. When I tell a story that's awkward, or I'm nervously explaining something, I exhibit a bunch of the major "tells" that lie detectors rely on (placing objects between me and my audience, looking down and to the left to recover thoughts rather than up and to the right, avoiding eye contact, etc). | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 12:58 AM |
| 5 | How do I stop dwelling on past rejections and mistakes?I don't care about your mistakes. Girls out there don't care no do they remember your mistakes. You friends don't care about your mistakes. There's no reason for you to either. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 07:19 PM |
| 56 | For Over 40: Is your % of success increased or decreased ?I'm not 40, but I'm 31. It got easier with age. Before seduction, I found that me at 27 had many more times where I'd "get lucky" and hit it off with someone and sleep with/date them than anytime before. This is despite a dwindling sense of confidence and self-image. Post-seduction, and really working on myself and inner game, and as I got older, it became very easy. I'm in a committed relationship now, and I haven't practiced formal game in a few years (I still read daily though), but I'm findi… | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Anxiety has never really gone away?Yup. The butterflies never go away, but I think the way you perceive them or react to them changes. If you're anxious, they're associated with dreading something. You fear rejection, or being embarrassed, or something bad. But if you're confident and have your shit together, those butterflies become kind of an indicator that something great is going to happen. Think about it - let's say you're waiting to hear back about a job, a number you don't recognize rings you, you answer, and on the other … | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a guy that is trying to pickup your my girl? The guy is actually her dance partener.This is abusive behavior dude... on your part. Girls have guy friends, and if he's a ballerina dancer (I don't know if there's a name for males who dance in that style), there's a decent chance he's gay and that's how he talks to his friends that are girls. It's common. Your worry over this whole thing is likely showing, and it's bound to come off as needy and annoying. Hell - it's already become abusive. If you can't deal with you not trusting her, whether its because she lied in the past or yo… | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 05:26 AM |
| 15 | How to deal with a guy that is trying to pickup your my girl? The guy is actually her dance partener.That's a good point, and not necessarily in the "are you snooping?" sense. Is she being secretive and did she need to be called out, or did they just kind of show up as she was texting there and she didn't think much of it? | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 02:09 PM |
| 8 | "Just to be clear it's not a date haha"You're not a bad person if you reneg and say "well I think I'm going to hang onto it for an actual date." It sounds like a really good opportunity for you to get used and ghosted, even if you lay down some of the world's best game. Don't do it. | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 06:21 PM |
| 21 | "Just to be clear it's not a date haha""Quick, don't think about an elephant standing in this room." Now I know why people use this as an example for various things. I just assumed it was a conversational trick to warm up an audience. | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Need advice: good looking guy with ZERO self-confidence with womenI agree with you but I also see it one other way in addition to what you said, as you very concisely stated something that's very true. If someone is like "hey, describe /u/davidgolani11" and they're like "he's nice" then out of every adjective in the world - out of thousands - they can only think of one of the most basic, common, unexciting ones. nice This means you're basic and common. Which is why I think self improvement and breaking out of the status quo is so important. Nice is awesome, bu… | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 07:11 PM |
| 18 | 'Attention-seeking' woman who falsely accused 15 men of rape and sexual assault after claiming she was a lesbian 'and would never have sex with a man' is jailed for 10 years.A good lawyer would find a very tactful way to demonstrate this. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/17 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson says the only real dating advice is self improvement. What would be your top 5 tips for someone to improve themselves?Drinking enough water (generally 64-100oz a day, depending on your body composition, size, and diet) is like a cheat code. Are you overweight? Drink a ton of water, it helps. Is your skin shitty? Drink some more water. Foggy Brain? Water. Just don't overdo it. Water poisoning is real, and some people get addicted (think "my strange addiction") | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson says the only real dating advice is self improvement. What would be your top 5 tips for someone to improve themselves?Don't overpay for a mattress. Please. Please Please. Don't. Most mattress stores are negotiable. I overpaid for a nice mattress and kicked myself for it. I love it still (6 years running), but I should have dropped $600 on it rather than the $1000 I paid. You should definitely get one that's good. Don't cheap out by any means, but get one that is as comfortable as you can afford. If you have to make low-interest payments to get it, do it. You can do a lot of good in the $600-800 for a great, fir… | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 06:28 PM |
| 81 | Mark Manson says the only real dating advice is self improvement. What would be your top 5 tips for someone to improve themselves?If you feel like you can't get exercise, or you live a life where you crave shitty food, or you can't break the cycle of eating to stay up to study, work, do whatever, start with sleep. Seriously. Give up something small and force yourself to at least TRY to get your 8 hours (30 minutes to wind down, followed by (5) 90-minute sleep cycles. If you're sleeping well, and you're rested, you tend to not want to compensate by eating shitty to get that energy. You start to see some cravings disappear. … | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 04:45 AM |
| 10 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?I know, how dare someone share how to get laid? He should be like all the other people who get laid and keep it to themselves, even though they do the same exact thing. Crazy! You're new here. Can we help you? | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 03:38 PM |
| 15 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?How do you mean? I can't think of a thing in the world where a 33% conversion rate is considered bad (sales conversion, click conversion, approach:date ratio, applications:interview ratio, etc). | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 01:42 PM |
| 7 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?Wellbutrin - It's an antidepressant I take for ADHD. | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 01:24 PM |
| 18 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?I just need to take the gamble That is the #1 theme of this sub. Make no mistake. | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 01:24 PM |
| 240 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?So I'll tell you what worked for me fairly consistently. First of all, let's assume that you have interesting pictures of you doing stuff. No selfies in your office/computer room/bedroom. It should be of you doing cool shit. In your description, just keep it short. "I like to go on adventures." A subtle sexual joke is fine too, but if you're the least bit overt, then it's going to be harder unless you are a 10/10 in terms of ripped body and facial structure and all that. So - you've swiped and s… | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 03:14 AM |
| 16 | Let's be Honest Here About VirginityI guess it depends. If I found out through the grapevine that a particular person was a virgin, I probably wouldn't think much of it. Maybe they're timid or religious or asexual. Some people just get old enough and it's not a priority. I think once some people hit a certain age with their virginity intact, they just focus on pursuing other endeavors. If it was way more apparent like - this person openly talked of their virginity in a self-deprecating manner...then I'd say 30. It then becomes unc… | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 11:30 PM |
| 6 | Girl I've been talking to sent me this. Does this mean anything? Am I over thinking it?you should keep acting like you are. Bingo. Always assume this. Until you've expressed your intent and given a solid "no I'm not interested" or similar, always assume you're in. | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 01:08 PM |
| 3 | My God. These people are clueless.The OP was about sex and pleasure. That's what is being referred to. Of course if you want to start a family, it's probably not really advised to go after someone too old to have kids. | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 07:36 PM |
| 36 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.You are going to say stupid shit if you're trying to be successful. It's okay. You are going to say awesome shit and fail if you're trying to be successful. It's okay. You are going to say stupid shit and it'll work. That's learning. You are going to be completely in the zone and fuck up. That's learning. You are going to watch others do stupid shit and it'll work. They did something right. Learn from it. You are going to watch others do everything right and get shot down. Understand that failur… | /r/seduction | 15/07/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | When do I ask her out after she has broken up?Just ask her out. From what you wrote, it seems you have no idea of: Exactly how long they dated (were they bf/gf, but broke things off after 3 months of dating? Were they deeply committed for a long time?) He may have broken up with her She may have broken up with him The nature of their relationship in general So just ask her and not overthink it. "Hey, there's a band similar to Casiopea playing at such and such a place, why don't we grab a bite and then head over there on Wednesday?" End of s… | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 01:44 PM |
| 3 | NEVER Do This On A DateQuick question. What is everyone thoughts when you experience these things on a date? One - Complaining about being single. I don't know if I experienced this one specifically. Maybe, if at all, it was in a throwaway comment like "oh, I guess that's why I'm single!" which was probably supposed to be funny anyway. I think a flat out complaint would turn me off incredibly. Two. Never complain about being a failure and how no women like you. Fishing for a compliment. This can be a good thing if you… | /r/seduction | 28/06/17 12:41 PM |
| 3 | A man helped a lost toddler find her parents, police say. He was smeared online as a predator and fled town.Man - it must be a hell of a day to be a lawyer today in Lakeland. I know two guys who are probably going to want/need representation. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/17 07:19 PM |
| 6 | How do I get a girls number at the gym?Did you not bother reading my entire comment that agreed with everything you said? I was reinforcing what you said, not arguing with you. | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 01:52 PM |
| 6 | How do I get a girls number at the gym?I do agree with the "meet anybody anywhere at any cost" mentality, but I do know that rules have their exceptions. Remember in the old days when IOIs were talked about (indicator of interest)? This is something that's still important in certain situations - like the gym. Like you said - unless you're getting a STRONG IOI, then don't do the gym approach. | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 01:18 PM |
| 24 | I started saying "how's it going" instead of "hey" to cashiersOne thing I learned from this sub is that if you meet someone new, talk to them like they're a long lost friend, or at least someone you know well. "Hey, how's it going?" when I meet anyone. Men, women, important people, unimportant people. I am a laid back person, and I think that conveying this early is important, especially in seduction when comfort is so critical. If you're laid back and you look comfortable, you make others comfortable. If you're an introvert (like me), you understand fully… | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Vid on "How to escape The Friendzone" I found quite entertaining, and with some good points also applicable to standard flirting.yup...that's friendzoning! Yeah - you seemed to have played that one well. | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 11:41 PM |
| 8 | Vid on "How to escape The Friendzone" I found quite entertaining, and with some good points also applicable to standard flirting.Question: Was this a friend, or was this a proper friendzone situation? I have hooked up with girls that were friends before, but only once did I end up hooking up with someone who had put me in the friendzone (i.e. I expressed how I felt about her and she said "I think we should just be friends" and of course, I rolled with it like an idiot until I started to get more confident and then we dated for a while after that). I see the difference - I think there's also that other form of friendzoning… | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 11:12 PM |
| 8 | Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly.I found this out, after, well, decades, once I made an account on Tinder. A girl asked me "so, what brings you to Tinder?" I told her "Well, at the risk of being blocked, I'm on a new medication and it's made me hypersexual." Now I wasn't lying - I actually did start taking welbutrin for ADHD, which really does boost my libido incredibly. She didn't skip a beat, but kind of had a weak response of "me too, let's meet up." She said: "Yeah, I'm on a medication and it does the same thing to me." Fri… | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What is a "nice guy" ?Easy. If, of all the adjectives in the world - "interesting" "smart" "cool" "stupid" "mean" "amazing" ....thousands of them....if the only one that someone can conjure up to describe you is "nice" then you're a boring nice guy. Nice is a good thing to be! But - if that's the only word that someone can come up with to describe you, well, you suck. That's my operating definition. There's also "Nice" guys, which is much more sinister: The guy that goes out of his way to be a doormat for a girl, act… | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.I'm sorry OP. Everyone gets rejected, but this not only is rejection, but it's also bringing up the racist shit you've probably had to deal with before. I realize that the girls may just lack tact, and they're not racist assholes, but I know that doesn't make you feel better. There's a business theory that you are supposed to build your strengths and not focus on your weaknesses. The idea goes that you can make more improvements holistically by building what makes you good or the things you're g… | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 04:22 PM |
| 12 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Yeah but there's a way to tactfully say that. Regardless, this happens to everyone. It's brutal, it throws you off your game (at first) and it can be a real downer - especially when there are things that this particular rejection have surrounding it that have nothing to do with seduction. But most of the people here are right. Get used to it. Even the most handsome guys have something about them that many girls will simply go "nope" to. There's a business theory regarding strengths. That you nev… | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Judge Judy Not Having ItMaybe, maybe not. That's why I referred to it as his public demeanor. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/17 02:16 PM |
| 185 | Judge Judy Not Having ItShe and Gordon Ramsey kind of share a common public demeanor: neither one stands for bullshit and will call you out on it with incredible anger, but there is a soft gooey side that they show for people who are genuine, good, right, and try hard. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/17 12:53 PM |
| 17 | Would anyone be interested in a website which detailed many different hobbies and how to get started, equipment needed, etc?Not to shoot down your idea, but Reddit has done this extraordinarily well if you're a beginner to something (advanced hobbyists aren't going to be so lucky). It's almost as easy as just going /r/inserthobbyhere | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Lost virginity, whole new person all the sudden?Same here. My first was between Sophomore and Junior High school during the summer. New exchange student and I met, she uh...wasn't really a looker...but we hit it off, and slept together most of the summer. She didn't go to my school, so we fell apart quickly, but it greatly improved my ability (short term) to simply talk to women. I ended up finding a girlfriend later that year. She was cute and I was happy. Turned into a really shitty relationship that morphed me into a terrible AFC. I inadve… | /r/seduction | 13/05/17 03:40 PM |
| 6 | If you are ever looking to get motivated and to improve yourself. A reading from Models by Mark MansonWow - the comments here. It's like /r/nofap just came in and planted their cult-like flag in the ground over here at /r/seduction. Mark Manson's book is great, and a required read, but you don't have to find value in EVERYTHING in there. Jerk off a lot or don't. Unless he's going to give actual reasoning why abstaining is so beneficial, (like evidence, or contrasting the bad effects with the good), then I'll choose whether or not I want to follow it. | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 05:03 PM |
| 42 | She is risenBecause the audience is less "Finally! Someone who has abused advantages all her life is finally getting her comeuppance!" and more "I hate women, look at dis dum bitch!" | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/04/17 10:57 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate hooking up at a house party?Yeah - small of the back is much better than the shoulder. To me, shoulder says "hey buddy!" while the small of the back is intimate without being creepy. | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 06:00 PM |
| 5 | If you're using Tinder/Bumble for dating here are some red flags to look out forThe real takehome isn't about what she's doing, but rather "does your profile look like this at all?" If so, adjust accordingly. | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 07:36 AM |
| 32 | What the fuck is wrong with being a Dad?I'd love to see a source, Mr. Scientist. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/03/17 11:45 PM |
| 38 | Came across ex-girlfriend for the first time after 2 years of self-improvementI agree with what you're saying, but not how you're saying it. | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 06:22 PM |
| 44 | How do i get sexual without being creepy/weird/offensive?Yup. You know those guys laying down cringey game? The ones you see at the bar getting no hits, just making an ass of himself? Yeah - in a few months he (probably) won't be so unrefined and cringey. He'll probably be doing alright if he keeps at it. | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 07:47 PM |
| 60 | How do i get sexual without being creepy/weird/offensive?Women decide if she will sleep with yoi pretty quick Just to explain what this means because I didn't get this for a long time. It doesn't mean that she sees a guy and goes "I will fuck him" it's more of a "I won't fuck him" or "I won't not fuck him." Most people, including those here fall into the latter category. You really have to be particularly terrible to be written off so quickly. Now, you take this and then if you lay down the right type of game, you can be successful. | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Have you talked to your female friends about "game"Agreed. Girls constantly openly talk about this stuff in their social circles. Guys simply do not (I think Neil talked about this in "The Game."). Overall - lesson is "first rule of fight club..." | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 03:50 AM |
| 6 | Have you talked to your female friends about "game"Agreed. Not to sound like a gender inequality guy, but men have an expectation not to be honest about sex today while the very concepts discussed on /r/seduction are made women-centric and openly published in magazines without any criticism other than an eyeroll. The pressure to uphold chivalry and tradition in modern dating still exists, and revealing that you're using any resources other than your own acquired social skills to date is for some reason a taboo. | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Tinder helpI literally just used Facebook pictures that I was tagged in or that I put up myself. I'm not totally sure what's going on, if some method of shrinking the image is messing it up for you. | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Tinder help/r/Tinder does pretty good at this as long as people are okay with the extremely harsh criticism that comes along with it. Also - /r/okcupid has served as a catchall for dating website criticism | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 12:13 AM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT: Hottie From TinderI'm surprised you didn't get lost 5 words in. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 11:16 PM |
| 6 | Tinder helpYeah. At the time I was on Tinder, these were my profile pics: Featured Pic: Me busking on a street corner with disheveled hair, cheap sunglasses (like neon sides and plastic lenses), and a guitar Professional pic of me playing trumpet on stage in front of a packed house. I have quite a gut in this picture as I was close to my max weight at this time. Don't care, it's a cool picture. Picture of me at Dracula's castle in Romania. I have a goofy smile. Not my best picture, but it shows I'm outgoin… | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 11:11 PM |
| 42 | Tinder helpBetter photos is #1. Colors. You having fun. You travelling. You doing something funny. No selfies. Nothing unflattering. Fuck - stage a picture if you have to. Seriously - just make your pictures awesome - you WILL get matches. I am overweight, balding, and probably a solid 5/10 in overall looks, but I was getting 10 matches a day when I was tindering. Out of those, 2 were spam, and 3 were people that upon further investigation, I wasn't interested, and 5 were viable. Next - and this might not … | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 07:26 PM |
| 2 | FIELD REPORT: Hottie From TinderITT: people complaining about physical looks miss the whole point of this subreddit | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT: Hottie From TinderYeah. Seduction should be easy and require no reading and now work. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Want to ask a girl out, but you're don't know if she'll say yes? Here's the secret...The only reason it ever gets any upvotes is because it's true and it works And based on the types of replies this type of post always gets, everyone's full of excuses why not to try basic stuff that EVERYONE who finds a mate successfully does. Basic vulnerability. Remember when people would get downvoted to oblivion when they'd post stuff like: "Tell me how to be successful" [someone replies with basic, actionable, and easy method] "No not that!" Now they're close to the top. Why are people here… | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Why guys aged 30-40 are usually more desirable to women than younger men.I wouldn't go as far as to call this type of survey fact. I mean, yeah - the respondents gave a stated preference, and they don't have any reason to lie, but it's much harder to determine this beyond a loose relationship this way. For instance, my company had a massive recall on one of its products a few years ago. I had to work on reaching out to understand the damage. This was done anonymously, and there was no overt indication that we were initiating the survey. We found that most consumers c… | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 03:41 PM |
| 7 | What do you talk about in the first 10-15 minutes of a date?15 minutes? Finish the minor logistic points - where you'll be seated, picking out a bowling ball, all that garbage Cracking jokes. I'm naturally a funny person, and it's hard for me to turn off. This is a strength of mine, so that's just me. If you have any social strengths, introduce them now. Topical shit. Humor, current events, anything. Yeah - it's a date, but I just find myself and my date in a much more comfortable situation if we just kind of rant about our environments ahead of the seri… | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Unless you're a hot girl or a guy from a well off family, it's normal for your younger years (<25) to suck but don't get too down about it.I would go out to nice bars and meet people for the most part. Our group are all a bunch of nerdy engineers and professionals - we all met in business school - so we kind of hang in professionals bars. I also hedged my bets with online dating. I liked that because it kind of forced me to not suck at talking to a woman since we would at least be talking for 30 minutes or more. | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 07:07 PM |
| 27 | Unless you're a hot girl or a guy from a well off family, it's normal for your younger years (<25) to suck but don't get too down about it.You're right - and you make a good point, but the overarching theme is "you are going to suck...but don't get discouraged. Push through the failures because you will get better - and as you get older, getting better is actually easier." I'm in an LTR now, but as I was approaching 30, it became MUCH easier. As you kind of settle into adulthood, you grow much more confident in yourself and comfortable in your own skin - and it shows. I started seriously reading up and practicing everything from th… | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 05:53 AM |
| 3 | Is Cougar Life legit?Nope. So a few years ago, I signed up with my buddy to see if this was really a thing. We set up the most ridiculous account. Fat 40-something male who only had the words "who wants to fuuuuuuck!" on the profile. Mind you, we also put up a profile on ashley madison. On both sites, we got identical messages from different girls (based on picture) and we got different messages from the same girls. We could only read the headlines (pay to read and respond to messages) and we didn't want to pay shit… | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 07:38 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I did almost everything wrong but still got laid just by putting myself out there and not expecting sex.Sidebar. | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 03:40 AM |
| 23 | I feel like I did almost everything wrong but still got laid just by putting myself out there and not expecting sex.I never "expect" sex. I'm not owed sex. I don't even deserve sex when I do everything right... ...but there are steps that I take to increase my odds. Owning your strengths as well as accepting your shortcomings (I guess...by owning them too), is a great way to project confidence. Many of us on /r/seduction who are not virgins seem to have "stumbled" onto sex. Whether it was with an unlikely partner, a drunken night, a huge mistake, or whatever, there was something in the equation where it at le… | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 07:14 AM |
| 58 | I highly recommend watching the documentary "The Science of Sex Appeal." Learn how the subtlest sounds, sights and smells can affect sex appeal, and how genetic, hormonal and neurological factors create sparks between people. Here are a couple of clips from the documentary.Buy better clothes, get a better haircut. Work on new opportunities for more money and/or better standard of living. Stop being a homebody and volunteer or get out of the house. No one's gonna wanna be with you if you're a defeatist. You are your own worst enemy and it's pretty pathetic. | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Looks don't matter. Just be confident!I'm sorry. Didn't realize it was a troll. A lot of people here actually believe that looks are what's holding them back and they just post garbage that you'd normally read in /r/incels | /r/seduction | 02/01/17 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Sex tips? Things you wish you knew the first time!If sex is in the cards, and you're at your place or her place, then know that you're in the clear. Know that you're gonna rock, and even if you suck, doesn't matter; had sex* (Oh yeah, you can fuck it up big-time and not have sex at all. If you act confidently like you're gonna have sex and you're good at it, then you're going to have sex. Even when I was a total AFC, I had one thing going for me - if we were near having sex, I was able to go into autopilot and make it happen. This is because I … | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 06:46 AM |
| 1 | is it ok to talk to a girl after she told shes seeing someone?I think "seeing someone" is plausible deniability language. To me it's like saying "I have a thing going on now, but I could be convinced otherwise" By contrast "I have a boyfriend" is stronger, more definitive. Shes leaving her options open. I say pursue. It doesn't hurt to know someone. | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 09:27 AM |
| 26 | She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence.Fuck you dude. In the last 6 months of your history, you've posted NOTHING in this sub aside from this comment, and your previous comment. Feel free to contribute any day, rather than posting peanut-gallery style comments because you're not entertained. If you want to learn, ask a question. If you want to help, then share. Don't sit here and be a pissant. Also - in response to your dumb post's content - yeah - some people need this shit. They're fucking coming to the internet for help on social … | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 03:36 PM |
| 19 | She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence.Hi, you must be new here. EVERY post has at least 5 comments of "woe is me" guys who see themselves as ugly, hopeless, write everyone else's success to luck, etc. There are people here that absolutely need to hear this. | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 06:09 PM |
| 3 | She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence.This idea transcends looks, and it's 100% true. You can be ugly but interesting; you can be handsome but a boring shitbag. If you want more success with women, always work on yourself. Show that you're independent and awesome. OP - thanks for sharing and reaffirming this. | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 06:08 PM |
| 244 | Wait, what?A million guys will either do one of the following: Stare her down like a goober and not do anything but make her uncomfortable Chat her up casually but not do anything Chat her up and go into how beautiful she is and request her number Do something else incredibly boring and common. And you found a unique way to pique her interest. Well done. SEDUCTION IS ABOUT CREATIVITY AND CONFIDENCE. If you're confident, you can open and close. If you're creative, you can take that ability to open and close… | /r/seduction | 18/11/16 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Why Girls Aren't Attracted To Nice Guys (Repost)Bologna. There are enough posts on this subreddit and the hundreds of other PUA forums on the internet where people assert what you're saying, and then it completely gets refuted by people who are uglier but more successful at pickup than the self proclaimed "ugly" people. Yeah - if there's no attraction, then welp - there's no attraction. You should be doing a few things anyway: Playing to your strengths. You are more than your (lack of) looks. There are handsome men who strike out all the time… | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 12:59 PM |
| 6 | Why Girls Aren't Attracted To Nice Guys (Repost)Nice is great. Nice is a genuinely good thing to be. But if the only word...out of millions of words...that can describe you is "nice" then you're boring. You're unattractive. You've met the minimum basic requirements toward being a decent human being. And shame on any "nice guy" for thinking that that's enough. | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 12:31 PM |
| 48 | Practicing seduction as a woman without seeming desperate or out for just sex?I have a friend who just naturally picks up a lot of girls. He makes self deprecating dick jokes all the time. The difference between that and just pathetic dick jokes is that they're clever and not like he's fishing for a compliment or anything like that. The "your hands would look so big holding my tiny dick!" sounds like one of his lines. | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 11:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you let a girl know you want her in bed.I think in general, it's really about where you are. Some alleys are in highly urban areas, and they keep it swanky and updated...like a fancy nightclub with bowling. You will absolutely pay out the ass to bowl there. Most alleys are, well, what you'd see in a movie like "kingpin" or "The Big Lebowski." Wood paneling on the inside, smoking (if allowed), and a feeling that you might be in a building that hasn't been touched since the 1970s. Despite this environment, young people, older people, pr… | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 02:42 PM |
| 2 | How do you let a girl know you want her in bed.Most places in America are about that much for 3 games for 2 people with shoes. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 06:21 AM |
| 18 | How do you let a girl know you want her in bed.Forewarning: I've never been good at the casual, rapid getting into the bed. What I was good at before I got in my current LTR was getting into bed through escalation over several dates. I found the greatest success looking at things in terms of checkpoints. Checkpoint 1: K-Close. Checkpoint 2: Isolation. Checkpoint 3: Sex. Checkpoint 1: K-Close. So first of all, your major point of parity should be casual escalation. You need to physically touch her somehow. I found the most success with the ve… | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 01:13 AM |
| 8 | Feminist woman photographs & mocks a disabled man on an airplane, and posts his photo on the Internet.They manspread so much that they occupy the cockpit all by them two (with the co-pilot). This is the real reason flights are so cramped. People don't realize that you could lay spread out in the cabin and accommodate roughly 1000 people like this. Unfortunately manspreading pilots take up so much space that they have to cramp everyone else in the rear. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/10/16 08:02 PM |
| 3 | "Don't try to sell meat to a vegan"I see it as both. You are 100% with physical escalation. That's critical, and without it, you're really betting on something with shit odds. Make your odds better. I think OP's advice also isn't applicable for the short game. If you're looking for a close that day, your odds rock with physical escalation. With that said, stating intentions is more part of the long(er) game. I'm not talking about getting a girlfriend, but just someone you'd like to hook up with soon. Sometimes you can't get the l… | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Who should I vote for?From a purely men's rights viewpoint, neither will do much proactively to help. But here's what could happen: What she'll do proactively: Hillary will likely more focus than any other president, on women's issues. Things related to health care, things related to employee's rights, etc. She will be the highest ranking advocate for women. Part of it is that she can easily see what women go through, has lived it, and will act accordingly. Why she isn't good for Men's rights: She will also likely al… | /r/MensRights | 06/10/16 11:13 PM |
| 2 | I can hold conversation with a girl but dont know when to "pull the trigger"I'm just trying to be the diagnostician! It would be irresponsible for a doctor to jump to a diagnosis on one symptom alone, and it would be impossible for a doctor to find a patient with EVERY perfect symptom. A doctor looks at the symptoms presented and makes the best guess. If you're doing your job right in the field, you need to quickly be able to "check for these symptoms" and make a diagnosis. | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 04:36 PM |
| 18 | I can hold conversation with a girl but dont know when to "pull the trigger"Think of this the way a doctor would. You walk into the office, you feel like shit, you are 100% certain that you have something. Flu? Strep throat? Something else? Well - no doctor is going to cut in with a diagnosis without a few classic indicators. He's going to check if you have a fever. He's going to check if you have a sore throat. Swollen Lymph nodes. Aches. Clammy skin. And other symptoms. You need to diagnose the girl. You need to find out if she's down to kiss, or if she's just being n… | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 03:46 PM |
| 14 | Good News. The guy who hooked up with a girl who lied about her age has been removed from the sex offenders registry.Well you're not wrong, but shit - even though it's the right thing to do, expecting "all or nothing" just leads to disappointment. This is progress. Not ideal. We have a long way to go. But it's a step in the right direction. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/16 01:20 PM |
| 222 | Good News. The guy who hooked up with a girl who lied about her age has been removed from the sex offenders registry.FMR REGISTERED SEX OFFENDER There's no need to HIDE YOUR KIDS, HIDE YOUR WIVES! He is not a DANGER TO THE GENERAL PUBLIC | /r/MensRights | 06/10/16 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Wow...just wowGotcha. You just need to be more specific I guess. I don't like being given scraps either, but I do like to see where someone's taking a genuine effort to make things better. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/16 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Wow...just wowI agree, but it's a fucking good thing to have it rather than nothing, right? You can't see how there's some good in this? | /r/MensRights | 05/10/16 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Wow...just wowAgreed. Which is why "if you're worried about becoming violent" should be a message directed toward women as well, especially since they are more likely to be the perpetrator of DV. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/16 01:40 PM |
| 4 | Wow...just wowAnd tend to more easily bruise. So if a man defends himself (read: doesn't hit, but maybe extends an arm or grabs his attacker by the arm), it might look like he was the actual assailant. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/16 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Never run out of things to ASK: Asking open-ended questions is key having longer and more interesting conversations. In case you want some inspiration on what you could ask your conversational partner, here is a list with a ton of questions I've put together.I honestly believe if a person is not much of a talker, they should go on dates where they do not have to talk much. Point taken, and while I'm a firm believer in focusing on strengths over focusing on weaknesses (i.e. it's more valuable to improve a strength than a weakness), I think that conversation is table stakes - it's part of a wider net that you need to cast. You're meeting complete strangers...how are you able to get to know someone if the situation doesn't require much talking? The lis… | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Never run out of things to ASK: Asking open-ended questions is key having longer and more interesting conversations. In case you want some inspiration on what you could ask your conversational partner, here is a list with a ton of questions I've put together.That's actually a brilliantly bold question in itself. Sure, it's pretty much a joking question, but it's funny, and it has the added benefit of maybe someone opening up and go "Whips and chains excite me." | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 01:00 PM |
| 16 | Never run out of things to ASK: Asking open-ended questions is key having longer and more interesting conversations. In case you want some inspiration on what you could ask your conversational partner, here is a list with a ton of questions I've put together.A frequently cited weakness by many people on a date is "the awkward silence" and a frequently cited weakness in seduction in general is "I can open, begin the conversation, but things fall flat." Being given a list of questions that are intended to spark conversation is a starter for those who literally have no idea how to keep the ball rolling. The thing is, you're skeptical about this list. If by this you mean that someone using this list as a memorized "cheat sheet" is going to fail? You're … | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 12:59 PM |
| 12 | 5 Cheap & Simple First Date Ideas That Don’t SuckI've been saying this here for years!!! It's so good to see this at the top. I've yet to get a rejection for a second date after bowling. Unless you are disabled or have an illness, or have a pain problem, everyone loves bowling. I always liked to do a few things: Teasing. I would give standing ovations when she threw a gutter, and pretend I was distracted when she threw a strike. Kino. I don't ever let onto this, but I was a starter on my High School varsity bowling team. I still "suck" (sub 17… | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Got a K-close after workFor searching. If you see a wall of text and you search for the word "sex" or "fuck" or "number" you might find a number of words that lack the context. If you search for "close" or "k-close" you can get to the text with the full context. Plus, it at one point was used when "closing" was the mentality that was stressed. A lot of guys on the old BBS and Usenet groups would have "great conversations" with girls, but no close whatsoever. This helped facilitate that mentality that your goal in the f… | /r/seduction | 28/09/16 12:52 PM |
| 0 | How do you snapchat a girl you barely knowSubpoena Snapchat to release the image. They save everything. https://www.snapchat.com/static_files/lawenforcement.pdf?version=20150604 | /r/seduction | 25/09/16 11:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you snapchat a girl you barely knowWelp...it got me laid on several occasions, so take it for what you want. It started the conversation, and it was funny, and described to me as "cute" each time. So - am I being serious? 100%. Would I mention it if it didn't work? Never. | /r/seduction | 25/09/16 05:58 AM |
| -5 | How do you snapchat a girl you barely knowSwede her story. "Swede" is a made up term from the movie "Be kind, Rewind." The operator of a video rental store learned that all his tapes got erased when Jack Black walked in, magnetized. They only had a few customers, so they began refilming each movie, very low budget, but containing all the plot points. They said the movies were from Sweden, so they used "swede" as a verb. If she's got a clip of her walking her dog, go tie a string to a picture of a dog and copy exactly her snap. Now, if y… | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 11:31 PM |
| 11 | How do you snapchat a girl you barely knowIt's considered sexual harassment. In classical harassment ("stop bothering me!") you technically need a request to stop in order for any further contact to constitute harassment. Sexual harassment is different though. Generally speaking, the law says that you don't get the opportunity to receive a request to stop (depends on your area). One and done. | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 11:25 PM |
| 3 | PUA Meets Girlfriend On CameraThere are few things more cringeworthy than guys on the Internet giving people advice on how to get laid. Why is this cringeworthy? There's an entire magazine industry dedicated to the same thing for women, and women don't have ANY trouble getting laid if they want. | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 02:22 PM |
| 26 | PUA Meets Girlfriend On CameraIf you cringe at videos like this, stop watching them. The original intent was to show how easy pickup can be if you find ways to be confident, approach, and keep the conversation going. Unfortunately, newer videos are about one thing MONETIZATION. It's very hard to find a [FR] type video that doesn't clearly have some element of staged production. What you have to do is simple - go back in time about 15-20 years... The PUAs on Usenet and some web BBS communities didn't have videos - the bandwid… | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Who has the ballsDon't know why you're being downvoted. I used to be a keyboard jockey up until I learned the term from "the game". Theory is useless if you don't practice it. | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 08:15 PM |
| 4 | How to be more sexual and less "friend-like"?Yup. When in doubt, state your intentions. | /r/seduction | 19/08/16 02:58 PM |
| 3 | How To Keep Girls, By Being SelfishShe suffers from what is known as "villainous thin upper lip" which is probably why she was kind of cast as a bitch in early roles. She's super hot though and this wouldn't bother me whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 05:50 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop putting my crushes on a pedestal?Put yourself on a higher pedestal. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 04:03 PM |
| 3 | To my friend, Mike, who I anonymously sent this sub to."The Game" to me, is a mixed bag. On one hand, after I was done with it, it felt like it was a great book with tips, the [FR]s were wonderful anecdotes on how to work in the field, and it told a good story about how to break into pickup. On the other hand - and a lot of people miss this - it's a huge cautionary tale. Much of what's going on with some of the people (Mystery) shows how low this lifestyle can sink you. I think it's an entertaining read, it definitely energized me, and it's good for… | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 10:49 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Field Report: Tinder date brought her dog, f-closed three hours laterI'm guessing a name pun. It's always a name pun. | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 02:15 PM |
| 51 | [FR] Field Report: Tinder date brought her dog, f-closed three hours latermuch jealous so seduction very f-close | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 02:14 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Field Report: Tinder date brought her dog, f-closed three hours laterCame close though. Came close to the dog? Probably. | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 02:13 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Field Report: Tinder date brought her dog, f-closed three hours laterHe's just commenting on how "oh wow, I've never done this before!" is a common thing women do to appear innocent. She was doing a lot of "not on the first date!" type stuff...all which ended in sex. That sub is more for the people who flat out deny extremely likely shit, like someone claiming to have a girlfriend or someone claiming to once having sex with someone. | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 02:13 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Field Report: Tinder date brought her dog, f-closed three hours laterIsn't that why we're all here? | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a giant femaleI have dated a woman who was the same height as me (and taller with heels), and I have to say it only matters how sexy and attractive she is in general. The woman I dated really wasn't sexy. Clumsy, awkward, and since this was pre seduction, not extremely pretty. I always felt odd next to her. A tall, pretty woman...doesn't bother me one bit. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 11:27 AM |
| 14 | The 15 Golden Rules For SeductionAnd it's definitely worth saying. Not only is it a dick move to just be like "pfft fuck you then" but try doing that at a bar and then trying to meet anyone else at that same bar. Some people don't understand how basic, polite candor should be handled. Women included - ever see the total trainwreck do this at a bar? She eventually goes for the just-passable-on-the-attractive-scale dude with low self esteem. You know, the AFC who actually lucked out. As a total aside - just because I'm thinking a… | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 10:38 PM |
| 13 | "Can you hold my bag?"See - this is why people are making fun of you. You're incredibly defensive, and you should just walk away. No one cares if you're 100% telling the truth - you're ruining ANY credibility you have in terms of being an alpha or an expert because you're exhibiting to us the validation-seeking behavior that's so incredibly unattractive in general. Your best course of action would have been just to shake it off, ignore it, or just make a joke of things. Instead you got incredibly defensive. Is this h… | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 06:28 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when women are bullying you at a party? (How do you disarm asshole chicks?)If you keep the banter going, you really run the risk of over investing and even getting emotional. You'll look bad to her and you'll look bad to everyone else. Low value. Cutting things off quickly after the first back-and-forth is ideal. Keep quiet, smile, let her pull away. She will, and she will be angry. Which is good. Let's pretend that she's at least physically attractive, and you want to be with her. You've done something that few do to her: You didn't let her just shit all over you You … | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 06:52 PM |
| 19 | What do you do when women are bullying you at a party? (How do you disarm asshole chicks?)To add to this, maintain a demeanor similar to one you'd keep if you were complimenting them. Never show anger when calling someone out like this. Extra points if you're clever. "It's a shame they ruined a perfect cunt by putting teeth in it and teaching it how to talk!" Smile and wait for a response. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 12:18 PM |
| 3 | I am going on a date with a hottest girl on my school and why you should just do it.I mean - it was the most basic form of respect, and he wasn't slaying pussy at all, but his life was better. He had enough confidence to join up on the bowling team (which I was also a part of) and got to wear the same Varsity jacket that all the Football guys wore. Maybe it's coincidence, maybe it's something greater, but I know that something about his confidence going into asking that girl out made everything better for him. | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 05:40 PM |
| 7 | I am going on a date with a hottest girl on my school and why you should just do it.I have had my share of shitty high school shit like this happen to me. No one really remembers any of it except me. Or at least no one cares. Most people forgot after a few days In retrospect, more good came from these experiences than bad Now I was a total pussy, and I have nothing good to share from High School that wasn't magically presented in front of me. I remember when one of the learning disabled kids asked one of the hotter girls out. Now, this kid wasn't mentally disabled, he just spen… | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 05:19 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with guys cockblocking youGet out of the group situation altogether. Invite her and her alone to get coffee/drinks/bowling. Your best bet is to just not worry about the group. If you like her and want more than friendship then you owe it to her to state your intentions. This will make her at least be able to reciprocate too or reject you (which is good - then you're not wasting your time). And it'll grease the wheels and get things going. In a group situation - you need to treat this as an AMOG interference (Alpha Male o… | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Where to meet girls if you are a 9-5?100% Safe for work: http://cornholeworldwide.com/ | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet girls if you are a 9-5?I realize you don't like bars, but is this because you don't drink? In my city (~100,000 people), we have microbreweries that have GREAT young adult environments. They're high energy, not loud music, and you don't need to drink to have a blast there. At 6PM, these places get filled with people, girls included. The one next to where I work has games of cornhole, darts, and large-scale jenga. Outdoor patio, all that. I was actually there just to hang with workers and get my girlfriend a growler (s… | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 12:05 PM |
| 13 | I feel like only desperate girls likes me how do i get rid of this feelingIs someone telling you this? They're assholes if this is the case. You do you. If you like the girl, enjoy her. If you think she's desperate, let it be because you came to that conclusion on your own. | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 09:39 PM |
| 7 | How do I keep girls interested (and not be boring)Surgeons don't get good just by performing surgery. Surgeons get good by spending 8+ years in school, they intern, have a residency, and much more. The stuff you do FOR YOU, offline, is important. INNER GAME. If you're getting bored you haven't either: Been able to tap into your life experiences to communicate how interesting they are Had the actual life experiences to be interesting Either way, the easy solution is to challenge yourself more and have more experiences - talking about them will b… | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 05:37 PM |
| 17 | If you’re asking women for dating advice, you’re probably making a mistake. Here’s why.They really do, and to flip things around, I have lesbian friends that really appreciate my advice because it's unusual for what they're used to hearing from their straight friends | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 09:40 PM |
| 1 | When you should ask a girl out on dating apps (Hint: sooner than you think)I don't use it anymore because I'm in a relationship, but I didn't use it that long ago, so I can definitely share. I live in a smaller city, so OKCupid worked well for a while, but then girls that are attractive begin to dry up after a few months. Regardless, I got to the point where on average, I'd say I got 20-33% return messages. Of those, I wanted to proceed with about 50% or so. Of these, I'd say I got numbers 80% of the time, and then about half of those got dates. The 20% were mostly "I'… | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 08:53 PM |
| 1 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]No worries. This is reddit, tl;dr is a big part of some of the time wasting stuff. When it comes to self-improvement, a summarized version of a longer story in only 3-4 paragraphs is a godsend. | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 05:16 PM |
| 12 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]Okay I'm going to be blunt because you posted about why this sub sucks and then you made this comment, which is a huge part...of...why...this...sub...sucks. There are no shortcuts. Someone just took the time to post a few paragraphs summarizing a much longer story. FUCKING READ IT. This is for you and everyone: Stop asking for shortcuts. Stop looking for excuses. Stop criticizing other PUAs because "I'm not interested in sluts". Stop thinking that you need to be physically attractive and that it… | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 05:04 PM |
| 6 | When you should ask a girl out on dating apps (Hint: sooner than you think)I think 15 isn't aggressive enough. My framework went as follows: Introduction message. Usually with a witty comment about something in her profile, avoid cliches, and of course, innuendo and subtext By my 3rd message, I have her number (5 messages total). If not, then either I'm no longer interested, or it's clear that i'm wasting my time. We text, or fuck it - I call her. Calling today, as stupid as this is about to sound - it's bold and unexpected. These are qualities that you should exemplif… | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 02:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 25 years in field: Pickup in a plane with the girl next to meOther posts? You mean the one? | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 05:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 25 years in field: Pickup in a plane with the girl next to meHere's a downvote. Feel free to SNATCH this one away. (Also...I think you're looking for /r/writingprompts) | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 05:49 PM |
| 7 | [FR] 25 years in field: Pickup in a plane with the girl next to meNormally I would disagree with you but this story is so bad. Either OP made it up or the girl is mentally disabled. | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 05:48 PM |
| 36 | Is withdrawl a good way to escape the "friendzone"?This is so key. This does two things: OP will be doing a service to himself, above all things. If she wants to go do her boyfriend thing, she can, and then OP can find someone that will be more receptive to him romantically and sexually. Withdrawing and explaining why (and /u/_the_unreal_ uses really good words to describe this) will leave OP with his intentions stated and allow him to keep a clear conscience as he breaks away. OP will get one of several reactions from this girl: She will be com… | /r/seduction | 27/03/16 08:10 PM |
| 7 | We keep saying that circumcision is not a safe sex practice"I want him to be normal" What about what he wants? "I want it to look normal" Good thinking mom. "How do I explain to him why his penis looks different?" How do you explain to him that you cut off part of him without his consent? | /r/MensRights | 19/03/16 12:30 AM |
| 2 | What to do/say when the girl compliments us?VERY try hard. It always comes of as insincere, even when you're being sincere. Just carry on with the usual enthusiasm and positive nature that prompted the compliment. | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Statistics show that on okcupid, profile pics account for 90% of the attraction, profile text 10%I have to admit, it's probably a big disadvantage being shorter than most guys. You need to probably work harder on showcasing your outgoing nature, letting your inner game shine to the world, and hell - shoe lifts might work if you can endure the discomfort. But my coworker - he's really skilled with women. REALLY Balding, short hairy dude (5' 6" or so), and women love him. He's chill as fuck, doesn't really appear to give a shit about anything other than his own passions (Beermaking, his job, … | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Statistics show that on okcupid, profile pics account for 90% of the attraction, profile text 10%I just know I'm not objectively attractive (gap in teeth, not great teeth overall, balding, huge eyebrows, probably some other things). I realized years ago that objectively ugly dudes are only mostly prevented from hooking up randomly at clubs. If you're living an attractive life, it trumps aesthetics almost every time. | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 10:29 PM |
| 7 | Statistics show that on okcupid, profile pics account for 90% of the attraction, profile text 10%Ehh. I'm pretty ugly, and when I was using online dating, I was easily going on 1-3 dates a week. My photos eventually were: devoid of selfies unless it was a selfie at a cool place like the Taj Mahal. full of me doing exciting things, with friends, and with me featured funny/conversation pieces. We built a throne of beers at a lake house rental and I was sitting in it seductively, and I captioned it something like "go home beer, you're chair!" I was constantly complimented on my outgoingness an… | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Joe Biden at the Oscars: "Too many women AND MEN on and off campuses are victims of sexual abuse"While yes, the onus to support an argument is on the person making the argument, I urge others to show a shred of empathy to /u/drgk23 If "it is rampant...I have seen some shit" is referring to him and other men being taken advantage of, and he's seen it from time to time, that means he's a male victim of sexual assault, or has at least seen it. No one is asking you to stand up and throw facts out the window, but if another brother believes that it's a problem: Educate him Understand that there … | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 05:39 AM |
| 0 | Joe Biden at the Oscars: "Too many women AND MEN on and off campuses are victims of sexual abuse"And they recognized in the performance that men are victims...what's happening??? EDIT: God dammit. Is nothing good enough? We were here a year ago still fighting EVERYONE over the definition of rape and fighting a fucked up consensus that "men cannot be sexually assaulted." Now - on a worldwide stage, the Vice-Second-Most-Powerful-Man-In-The-World actually vocalized the distinction, followed by a performance recognizing that it's not just women, and all of you still have a stick up your ass ove… | /r/MensRights | 29/02/16 04:16 AM |
| 102 | “Don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish” Or "A word of advice from a woman"I've been here a while, and I've grown a lot. I don't know about your history, so I can't make any real assumptions, but I do know one thing... ...people come here from a number of experiences and social skill levels. Some guys have only known that they're the lowest of the low, and women, other men, coworkers, peers...they view them as pristine cherubs high up on a pedestal. "We're not worthy!" is the internal battle cry. These people have never approached a girl, and need ANY perspective to gi… | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 01:56 AM |
| 3 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.Dude - don't mention it. Seduction comes in many flavors. When I first looked at it, all I saw were superficial scumbags. As I read a little deeper, I realized that it was more about honesty than anything. People come here for multiple reasons - some want to flat out get laid all the time, some want more confidence in general, others are looking for the best way to find the best long term partner. Luckily, for the most part, judgment is forbidden, and those who take it seriously come out winners… | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.When a girl won't take no for an answer, she becomes a stage 5 clinger. It doesn't have to be sexual or anything like that. I've had platonic friends who liked me romantically and who made our friendship very uncomfortable because they wanted more than friendship and thought that negotiating and smothering me would be the path to romance. I've also had a girl that I was very up front with, like I described in my first post. We had sex, and she wanted more, and got clingy and again - tried to smo… | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 01:50 PM |
| 9 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.Who said giving it up for everybody? Having multiple FWBs doesn't mean you give it up for everybody. OP doesn't want a relationship. What's wrong with that? Why is a relationship automatically better than no relationship? They're different. That's all. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 04:44 AM |
| 17 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.Agreed. It's this simple. You will be met with the occasional plea or stage 5 clinger, but as long as you're being honest, you're also being fair. Before I began studying seduction, these opportunities would pop up and I stumbled upon ways of dealing with them. Much like many 18 year old men, I was convinced that college was going to be a constant fuck fest. I met a girl who I was VERY upfront with, we hooked up in September, and then she got VERY clingy. I remained honest, and as tough as the w… | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 08:20 PM |
| 21 | I need to learn how to weave sexual topics into conversation. Anyone have a good resource on this? Bonus points for infield footage.This always worked for me. Don't be an annoying 12 year old about it, and try to avoid the slapstick humor. My favorite go to? Whenever you have an opportunity for a "That's what she said" response, simply go "Ahhh...I've heard THAT before!" It's "That's what she said" without the Michael Scott thing. (and yes, the joke is wayyyy older than the office, but most people are aware of the connection). | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 03:37 AM |
| 1 | X-post from r/sex - casually mentioning sex 30-60 mins beforeI'm done. You're not supposed to take this post literally - but you need to take the spirit of this post. So far, the top comments completely ignore this, and everyone's circlejerking about playing it safe. What the fuck happened to this subreddit????? If you're a goober and you hem and haw this type of line - of COURSE you're going to blow it. Of course it's going to fail . Of COURSE you're going to look like a creep. But if you're confident. If you have built up rapport. If you study seduction… | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | X-post from r/sex - casually mentioning sex 30-60 mins beforeI think it's risky. You're fucking right. Seduction isn't about playing it safe - it's about being confident, bold, and attractive. Am I taking crazy pills? The top comments on every post are people rationalizing playing it safe. How the fuck do any of you guys get laid??? | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | X-post from r/sex - casually mentioning sex 30-60 mins beforeWith all respect, I disagree about it feeling less organic. I think it depends on the person. The level of confidence and rapport you build prior will make anything you say sound organic....or if you bring no confidence and build shitty rapport, a usually-organic phrase will sound forced and shitty. I embarrassed a close female friend of mine with a similar phrase. Now, I never really was romantically interested in her, so, even though I was a total goober (read: pre-seduction), I was super comf… | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys even go out?By "Brag thread" I just meant a paragraph with no elaborating comments. It's wholly unhelpful. It's overwhelming to newbies, and it doesn't spur growth to people who are trying to fine-tune their methods. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 04:43 PM |
| 9 | Do you guys even go out?Do you want to know why [FRs] are so light? Here are the reasons I can think of: Instant irrelevant criticism. "OP is lying" or "OP went on a date with a slut, that's not for me." or "OP probably looks good." These should be bannable phrases. I'm tired of seeing good reports being written off to anything other than what the author describes. Too many brag threads. I think if your [FR] is one paragraph long and ends with "and I fucked her" it should be instantly deleted. [FRs] should be mini essa… | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Do you guys even go out?I have been calling for challenge threads, and even tried to document my own challenge in /r/askseddit. The scenario: When visiting my alma mater, I'd be going out to the bars. The challenge was to NOT book a hotel room, and try to run enough game to go home with someone, and THEY would be my hotel (dorm, townie home, or otherwise). 100% of the responses were "play it safe or you'll be sleeping outside!" I'd love to see Challenges, I'm all for it, and I'll support it. Don't be surprised if the m… | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Sanders: Law enforcement should handle campus rapeI'll give him the benefit of the doubt on the "wage gap" myth. His history has shown that he will analyze a problem before addressing it. If he hasn't already figured out the the "wage gap" is a myth, he will. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/16 04:12 PM |
| 10 | "Sorry, i have a boyfriend..." What do you answer?The fact that you were downvoted for this shows that too many of the members around here take themselves way too seriously. People: You know that /u/rummager wasn't being literal right? You know that humor goes a long way in seduction, right? If you come up with a funny quip like this, no one's going to think you're gay. If they do, then they were too dumb to be worth knowing in the first place. | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Six Harsh Truths Which Will Make You A Better PersonHey cool. This was my first front page post (before the author updated it). One of the top of this sub. The timing is perfect on this one. The new year starts in a few days. Let this article sink in. Study it and understand what you can do now, tomorrow, and later into the future to be better at everything you do. | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 05:33 AM |
| -1 | Teenager who twice accused man of rape to get to resit an exam is given two years in prison.whoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooosh | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/12/15 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Fuck your "she's a tease next girl up" mentality. I just called a HB9 out for leading me on and she fell for me like a flimsy Jenga set.No one detected your sarcasm apparently. | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Fuck your "she's a tease next girl up" mentality. I just called a HB9 out for leading me on and she fell for me like a flimsy Jenga set.It's so you can CTRL-F a post. The lingo sounds dumb, I used to cringe at it, but it makes sense. If you're wondering about if OP fucked a girl, you can't search "fuck" or "sex" because it could come up in other contexts. So you can search for "close" or "f-close" and it'll come up. Similarly, numbers come up in various contexts, so we tack on HB to it in case it's important to do a quick find of that text. ...so why downvote me for rationally explaining why we do something? Sorry for trying to … | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Fuck your "she's a tease next girl up" mentality. I just called a HB9 out for leading me on and she fell for me like a flimsy Jenga set.Exactly. So what is the thing about "phony hoops" that OP is talking about? I haven't read anything about that bullshit since the mystery days about 8 years ago. If this post was made in 2007, I'd say "hmm, interesting approach" but Mark Manson's philosophy has rightfully dominated this sub. But nevertheless - OP is being incredibly vague about everything - this is the most unhelpful post I've read in a while, and people are eating this shit up. | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 04:09 PM |
| 12 | Fuck your "she's a tease next girl up" mentality. I just called a HB9 out for leading me on and she fell for me like a flimsy Jenga set.Communication helps. Like in this instance if OP would communicate something less vague in his post to us then maybe it would be helpful. He criticizes some "rule" in the seduction community that I've never heard of and then vaguely states he addressed an HB9 using something I think this community talks about a lot. Until there's any elaboration, this is just a shitpost | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | This is how some men think.Show of hands: How many people think that this guy's got a girlfriend? (oh most of the hands went down). Okay...of the people who still have their hands up, how many people think that this guy's girlfriend has cut a deal with him: he gets to have sex with her once a year (by this I mean he's allowed to masturbate while she's in the house at the same time) if she gets to have sex with any guy she wants, as much as she wants, meanwhile, he has to stay at home and do 50 "hail sarkeesians" to check … | /r/MensRights | 06/12/15 06:53 AM |
| 10 | So many girls on Tinder say they aren't looking for ONS but is this really true?Don't take fishing advice from a fish. | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 08:51 PM |
| 9 | Prostate Cancer is a Privilege (X-post r/TumblrInAction)Fine you can have my prostate cancer if I can have a better shot at keeping my kids and money after a divorce. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/15 08:50 PM |
| 3 | How do I get over my ex. Probably a unique situation.Breaking a lease, paying fees, finding someone to sublet, moving expenses, getting your deposit back, paying deposit on a new place, taking time off of work to do all this... | /r/seduction | 17/11/15 06:39 PM |
| 3 | I think I hate my English teacher.Scumbag Teacher Teaches English, which usually involves reading long stories. Refuses to read research articles saying they're "too long." | /r/MensRights | 14/11/15 10:20 PM |
| 1 | I don't fucking understand what to talk to girls aboutFor me - there's a mix. 1.) Everyone likes to talk about themselves, so talk about them. To start, think FORD (Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams). Don't go all clinical with this, but just use it as a guideline. 2.) Listening. Don't try to relate EVERYTHING to you, but shut up and listen. Let them talk, and don't fear the 5 second uncomfortable silence. 3.) Passion and Storytelling. This is huge for me. Everyone, girls and guys, like to hear a good story, and it's even better if it's someth… | /r/seduction | 14/11/15 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How to take a second step? (at distance) or have a better relationship?La traducción es realmente malo. Por favor, hable en español. | /r/seduction | 09/11/15 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Choose a seduction style (and lifestyle) based on your strengths, not your weaknessesAgreed. While there are weaknesses some possess that undoubtedly need to be worked on, you ALWAYS play to your strengths. I believe Steve Jobs has talked about this. Additionally, research has been done on the subject. In terms of the corporate world, there is a book/system called "Strengthsfinder 2.0". My team completed this and it has guided us to success and working well together because we know our strengths and build our working strategy around them. These particular strengths found in the … | /r/seduction | 06/11/15 08:58 PM |
| 38 | Ronda Rousey shuts down feminist reporter on female superhero objectification"I love the strong female sorceress character! You know, the one who despite being a sorceress, she uses her breasts to get the things she wants instead of her mind/powers/learnings? So - let's talk about the 3rd wave playbook, shall we?" | /r/MensRights | 29/10/15 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Meta discussion: What's going on?Ugh this question has been asked about once a week for the last 1-2 years. The answer is complex, but in short, you can blame the unwarranted criticism of TofuTofu's book (killed traffic, drove animosity), an increase of people who want to learn seduction but want to also be the moral police against others who fuck on the first date, and of course the abandonment of fundamental ideas and reading the sidebar (oneitis posts are strong). https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/31nivb/fr_what_an… | /r/seduction | 23/10/15 10:44 AM |
| 7 | 40 woman sexts underage boy, waves the "unhappy marriage" pussy pass, escapes punishment. Why do I feel this would have read differently if the genders were reversed?His point was that the arbitrary age of consent might not be set at an ideal age. The article doesn't state the age of the victim, but if the age of consent is 18 and the victim was 17, it's illegal of course, but OP is questioning if the law is stupid. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/15 11:10 AM |
| 13 | 'Kind, funny and bright' student, 17, hanged himself after being falsely accused of rape and finding it 'difficult to cope with the investigation'Oh it exists, but not in the form modern feminists want you to believe. Reading this article, looking at all the innocents, looking at the number of girls who casually joke about "I'll just say he raped me! tee hee!" you start to get a clear picture about what the REAL rape culture is. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/15 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Appalling trend: innocent young men are deemed necessary collateral damage in the war on rapeI agree. In addition to what you said, it would be incredibly easy to just make the policy "if a student reports a rape, then authorities should be called to investigate." Colleges won't do this. If they can handle their own heinous crime investigation without an official record, then they can pad their mandatory crime reports with "no rapes this year!" This is a lie and a disservice to rape victims, and it's a disservice to the people who are wrongfully accused of rape. Imagine if you were rape… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/15 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Appalling trend: innocent young men are deemed necessary collateral damage in the war on rapeThe sad thing is that we really do. I have been in numerous programs, classes, and orientations where the "what to do after a rape" procedure is spelled out. Everything from "Call the cops" to "get a rape kit" to "it will be incredibly emotionally difficult to do any of this, but you need to reach out for support - friends, family, and here's a laminated list of numbers you can call" are covered. If any college girl says "I didn't know what to do!" after a rape, then she's lying. She is either e… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/15 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Male Priviledge?Some context: http://m.snopes.com/new-american-way-life/ | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 10:14 PM |
| -4 | Neil Strauss demonstrating social reactions are never as clear as you thinkFor those wanting a TL;DW...come on guys...I get trying to be efficient, but sometimes you've just got to do the work. Climb out of the "instant, get it done yesterday" culture, and take some time to learn. Take some time to better yourself. Do you really think you can learn much from a 2-sentence summary of a 60-minute video??? This is information that took Neil years to craft...you can afford the fucking hour... Is this really your approach to seduction? Let everyone else do the work and hope … | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 06:58 PM |
| 4 | How I picked up a 10Agreed. When I was larger, I learned that pants don't sit on your natural waist - they either have to go up to your belly button or low on your waist. The belly button is what old men wear. Don't do that. My dad used to pick out pants for me and instruct tailors to go for that height. It was awful (years ago, of course). Low on the waist isn't right, but it'll work. The problem you run into is a baggy crotch. Very comfortable, but it looks like you shit yourself, and makes your ass look like an … | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 02:53 AM |
| 31 | How I picked up a 10I want to reinforce what you're saying: You feel fat; workout and diet Just start working out and dieting. After a few weeks, even if you don't see much in terms of weight loss and gainz, who cares? You're probably feeling pretty good about yourselves. Remember - there are dudes out there who do lose a ton of weight, get jacked and still can't talk to women. Game is 90% mental, 10% physical. You feel stupid; read and learn Read one book. Learn a hobby YOU want to learn. It makes you interesting.… | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 11:45 PM |
| 21 | How I picked up a 10Dude you don't need to post a picture. You posted a good field report and that's enough. I guarantee someone will claim your "10" is their "6" and it'll just fluster everyone. You did good son. | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 11:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] From a first timerWell done! Keep sharing your journey with us! | /r/seduction | 28/08/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Just a reminder: your female "friends" can often be trying to cockblocking you.By observing, sure. Or maybe you can dip in your bait and see what type of bait you get the best, most delicious fishes from. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Stumbled across a good laugh. If only it weren't true...Do you like plain, vanilla, consensual, penetrative sex with women? Congrats - you like rape, since all sex, ever, even consensual procreative sex, is rape. You're a rape baby, your parents were rape babies, and every child ever born right down to Cain and Abel were rape babies. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/15 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Teen's plight: From dating app to sex offender registryMRM Pulse check time. I'd like to point out what I think is good news for our movement. It's small, but I think it's a positive indicator of actual progress. Pretend this story is from 2008, and message boards and general discussion are as lively as they are today. I have a strong feeling the popular sentiment would be "he's a rapist and should die" or something along those lines. Now look at the coverage this story's getting. Obviously a lot of writers are posing him as a predator (but not all)… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/15 10:01 PM |
| 17 | Had a revelation after my workout tonightExactly. If you don't think highly of yourself, you're only going to find someone who is, at best, going to provide you that same value or less when they consider you. If you do become so lucky as to date a hot, awesome girl, how highly is she really going to think of you? And in turn, how highly are you going to think of her? I'm in a relationship now, but when I was running game, studying seduction and dating, I ran into a funny thing that I think a lot of people run into around here a lot - t… | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 11:15 PM |
| 4 | 19 year old boy forced to register as a sex offender even after 14 year old told police and judge she had lied about being 17.Some girls get their periods at 8 or younger. Some girls fully develop breasts and reach their maximum height before they're 13. Similarly, some girls (particularly in hollywood) can pass off for a 14 year old when they're really 24. OP needs to realize that there isn't a magic biological moment that says "NOW I look 17!" and the age where a woman begins to look like an adult varies by over 10 years. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 04:45 PM |
| 5 | 19 year old boy forced to register as a sex offender even after 14 year old told police and judge she had lied about being 17.You are brave to be spouting your double standards rationalization bullshit here. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 04:43 PM |
| 3 | 19 year old boy forced to register as a sex offender even after 14 year old told police and judge she had lied about being 17.And where it's not, 17 is often legal as well. /u/HOBONATION is confusing age of majority with the age of consent. They are different concepts, and in only a few states, that age is 18 for both. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/15 04:42 PM |
| 80 | Student Expelled for Rape Has Evidence He Was the Victim. Amherst Refuses to Review It.That's an Onion headline in the making. "College Expels Two Gay Students After Alleged Mutual Raping." | /r/MensRights | 21/07/15 11:04 PM |
| 4 | "Last year, 239 men and women died in prison" reports the BBC, neglecting to mention that 94% of those were male.Something sort of related just dawned on me. We often see SJWs, feminists, and others claiming things like "the job market is inherently anti-female" and such. Basically if a situation exists, they claim it's anti female. Which gives us and them two choices really: They shut the fuck up and stop claiming that [insert institution here] is inherently anti-female, and we'll go on with accepting the fact that institutions aren't as sexist as they say, unfortunately leaving many men in jails. We both… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/15 09:12 PM |
| 1 | [Cross post from /r/tinder] Great handling of a shit test. Be fearless and always remember that the opposite of love isn't hate and hostility...it's indifference. If she's shit testing you, well...she gives a shit!Not me, but I hope that this was done. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 10:37 PM |
| 1 | South African boys saved from forced circumcision by PoliceI still can't believe that guy posted those pictures on a pubic website. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/15 10:35 PM |
| 23 | Man sentenced for sex with girl who lied about her age even though girl and her mom ask for leniencyWhat the fuck do they want from us? A girl can lie, produce a fake ID, demonstrate every aspect of the lie of being of the age of consent and we still have to demonize the man on this shit? "Intent" and "Reasonable expectation" - two components of law that play into every aspect of every crime for the most part are completely thrown out the window. If I hired a sex bouncer skilled at detecting fake IDs, bought a government ID scanner, asked for 2 forms of photo ID, hired a sex notary, provided a… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/15 10:34 PM |
| 2 | South African boys saved from forced circumcision by PoliceI saw your comment and had to take a second glans | /r/MensRights | 19/06/15 10:28 PM |
| 2 | South African boys saved from forced circumcision by PoliceStop acting like a bunch of prepuce-escent boys. EDIT: "prepuce" is another term for foreskin... | /r/MensRights | 19/06/15 07:24 PM |
| 30 | Tyler Kost is still in jail after a FULL YEAR, despite Facebook chats proving that 13 high school girls conspired to frame him for sexual assaultHere's why I'm okay with someone calling out and blaming feminism for something like this. I fully understand the feminist goal, in terms of what the more level headed activists want - they worry about equal rights, they want to empower women (with great power comes great responsibility), and whatnot. Whatever, both sexes have a great deal of inequalities, and I'm for making things equal...I mean REALLY equal. And I don't really expect them to jump up and do really anything other than walk away … | /r/MensRights | 14/06/15 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Emma Sulkowicz reenacts "rape" as "performance art"I was talking in hyperbole about the former to demonstrate how ridiculous the latter is (which happens to be rather true). | /r/MensRights | 07/06/15 05:44 AM |
| 9 | Emma Sulkowicz reenacts "rape" as "performance art"Well one size says "don't ever have sex unless you're making a kid" and the other one is like "don't have sex unless we as a collective cluster fuck approve, which is never" So your answer is no...both of their policies seem to be identical. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/15 03:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 3 Day H-closeClose one! | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 3 Day H-closeOP deleted his post...I have a feeling that it was a hug close. If this is the case, I'm H-closing before the date even gets started. #AlphaAsFuck | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 02:18 PM |
| 5 | [FR] 3 Day H-closeI googled, and it looks like some people use it to refer to a handjob... ...unless we're for some reason talking about a hug close... | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 09:48 PM |
| 9 | [FR] 3 Day H-closeI like your narrative, but I'm confused...what's an H-close? | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 09:41 PM |
| 31 | "The reason why men refuse to ask for directions? SEXISM! Males are judged more harshly than females if they ask for help, study reveals" (May 15, 2015). Experiment controls for everything except genderI find this actually a double edged sword. Men are judged and devalued when they try to be vulnerable. If we happen to be good at being independent, great! If not, well then we are judged for being a failure of a man. Women aren't judged, and perhaps that's because the view - that doesn't change - is that they're weak and helpless. We know this isn't true. Women are capable of a lot of good and a lot of bad. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/15 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Student 'diversity' officer who banned men from meetings and tweeted #killallwhitemen KEEPS her taxpayer-funded job despite petitions calling for her to be removed.hateful subreddits ...on a post where we're decrying someone who wants to murder members of a specific race/gender. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Student 'diversity' officer who banned men from meetings and tweeted #killallwhitemen KEEPS her taxpayer-funded job despite petitions calling for her to be removed.The problem with this comment is that even if 100 people posted intelligent rebuttals, sourced with concise, easy to understand articles that supported the MRM, OP would only remember your childish comment. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Student 'diversity' officer who banned men from meetings and tweeted #killallwhitemen KEEPS her taxpayer-funded job despite petitions calling for her to be removed.Everyone is created equal, but some people are created MORE equal. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Student 'diversity' officer who banned men from meetings and tweeted #killallwhitemen KEEPS her taxpayer-funded job despite petitions calling for her to be removed.If you don't care about men's rights, then why in particular does this case disgust you? This is exactly what Men's Rights is about. Institutional marginalization and discrimination. From something as minor as being forced to use porta-potties while our toilets are re-branded for women, to being the usual loser in a custody battle because of some asinine belief that a child needs a mother (even if the mother is jobless, on drugs, and/or a criminal), to having to suffer the brunt of bad domestic … | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 09:29 PM |
| 3 | I miss seduction but I have a long term relationship.The chase is fun. I was just thinking about how learning to become my own man was a hell of a journey. From going out alone, to bringing girls back to my apartment, to managing a few girls at a time wondering at which point I'm going to call one by the wrong name. I remember being able to have the luxury of being clear with a girl before a hookup, requesting we keep it casual, and not having to worry beyond that night, or any other night I was hooking up. I remember being able to go out with fri… | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | These comments give me hopeIt has to be a pretty violent rape of a child, but it's a capital offense. Treason, aggravated kidnapping, drug trafficking (of course), bombing, aggravated assault by a murderer, kidnapper, or persistent felon, and much more are candidates for the death penalty. http://www.deathpenaltyinfo.org/death-penalty-offenses-other-murder I feel however, based on the low number of actual times these punishments have been carried out, it's rare, and easier to convince a jury to sentence someone to death i… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/15 03:22 PM |
| 1 | These comments give me hopeNot to mention this: light sentencing Not only is rape treated very seriously, it's a capital offense (death penalty eligible) in a number of US States. Furthermore, because it falls under a sexual offense, even once you do your time in prison, you will forever be labeled an offender. Murderers don't even have to put up with that. And worse yet, the mere accusation of rape, even if you're 100% innocent is almost as bad as being put on a registry. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/15 02:40 PM |
| 7 | The boy (allegedly) falsely accused of raping 13 girls is still in jail after evidence surfaced of their plot to frame him. - This is a fundraiser pageI'm trying to find the piece of what you said that warranted -191 karma. Paragraph 1 admits that privilege exists for both genders. Then it says that in Washington, it's routine to destroy male privilege but female privilege remains intact. Paragraph 2 explains one thing that Bernie Sanders said, then says that while there might be some merit (might), that Bernie would commit political suicide by suggesting what we've already known - that Female privilege exists. What did he say that was so bad … | /r/MensRights | 19/05/15 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Why Texting Her Is Ruining Your ChancesI agree with you 100%, but there are still members who defend doing everything by text to the death. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 11:43 AM |
| 10 | Sitting at the bar by yourself -- just letting women throw themselves your way."It must be nice..." This is the cynic's motto. The faithless critic always looking in but never joining in. I have no way of knowing you, but when you portray yourself here as a cynic in a subreddit dedicated to self improvement, I have to assume that you pull off the same demeanor in public, and that's why no one approaches you. You can be anyone you want online, and you choose to just kind of dismiss a cool interaction as "must be nice to be approachable. " Fuck dude...I'm not trying to sound… | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 03:22 AM |
| -17 | Sitting at the bar by yourself -- just letting women throw themselves your way.Your attitude is exactly why no one approaches you. You sound like a miserable cynic, and someone no one wants to hang with. Your body language likely reflects this. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 01:22 AM |
| 21 | Sitting at the bar by yourself -- just letting women throw themselves your way.Rather than be a cynical "you must be attractive" jackoff like others in this thread, can i do something different by asking you to tell us more? HB# of the girls interacting type of bar what were you wearing what work did you do to get to this point Well done. Please tell us more about your journey to this point. I love it! | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 01:14 AM |
| 12 | If my husband was home, he would have been arrested.It fucks over families yes, but as a result, it creates only one demon (man/father/husband), and rewards a compliant woman with money she doesn't have to earn. It's a consolation prize that isn't better than the original life, however after the lawyers and femiculture work their magic, the woman becomes convinced that the consolation prize is actually better. Free money and brainwashing! Why would any woman want anything less? After watching my buddy's aunt instruct his mom to "take him for all … | /r/MensRights | 06/05/15 10:31 PM |
| 3 | I'm a trans woman and I just got bullied by a couple of feminists.Sorry. Dany is a female character and "ser" is a title given to men. Thought it was a play on being a transgendered gueen of the realm. And instead I said something horribly offensive. I'm sorry. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/15 04:09 AM |
| 5 | I'm a trans woman and I just got bullied by a couple of feminists.I don't have anything to add, but your username + the fact that you're a trans woman = a great sense of humor! | /r/MensRights | 06/05/15 03:52 AM |
| 2 | I F-closed last night but with a girl I'm not attracted to, and now I feel like shitIt sucks, I know. Communicate your intentions always. I learned this lesson the hard way with a stage 4 clinger (she wouldn't leave me alone for 3 months after we hooked up one night). If she wants to hang, just explain that it was a one night thing, you wish you'd been more forthcoming, and you're sorry. It happens. She'll get over it (I hope) and you will too. Just remember this the next time you go out and sarge. As long as you were safe, respectful, and kind, outwardly, you didn't do anythin… | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 04:15 AM |
| 15 | TIL that a member of the National Guard was accused of kidnapping and raping a woman. He lost his job, wasn’t allowed to deploy with his team and began suffering health issues. The woman later admitted that she lied and the sex was consensual. She was sentenced to 32 days jail (Repost)Depending on the size of the lawsuit, plenty of lawyers could take the case on a contingency fee (percentage of award/settlement won). | /r/MensRights | 03/05/15 10:26 PM |
| 8 | Am I crazy in thinking that girls can tell I'm a virgin?They probably can't tell you're a virgin, but confidence - or the lack thereof - is detected by nonverbal body cues. there's so many times where I get stuck and don't know what I'm doing and the girl might be picking up on that. Absolutely she is. But that's okay. This is you learning. You need to keep approaching and trying new things. If you don't make any headway, study up some canned openers (available by search, throughout the book "The Game" and all over the internet). Practice them, and g… | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 01:18 AM |
| 14 | University at Buffalo student slams professorWhile it seems that the professor isn't going to budge much on her stance, and probably won't right the bias issues in front of the class, I do think she should be credited for at least carrying on a civil email discussion with the student. The professor likely appreciates the challenging of ideas as presented by the student, and although it's clear she disagrees, I like that she doesn't follow the classic dismissive tone that other professors and feminist preachers follow with the "I'm right, y… | /r/MensRights | 29/04/15 03:10 AM |
| 2 | A social experimen of gender-segregated ATMs in Stockholm, Sweden. Many feel it's fine, because they see it as feministic thing.The idealistic part of me is outraged. Everyone - including the men think that having a separate ATM 3 feet from the other one is a "good" thing. This is a "separate but equal" as it gets. What does this accomplish? A woman who's oppressed by the patriarchy is now safe from harassment 3 feet away from the men's ATM??? It's insulting to me to think that the public finds men so vile that the simple act of having a nearby, unsecured, but different ATM is "equality" - like women will catch my patria… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/15 01:57 AM |
| 1 | "You're too young for me, short for me, I don't like black guys, etc" Dealing With The Stupidest Type of Shit Test.Somebody in that group probably likes you and hates her being opinionated. Boom. The girl who constantly goes "I don't date..." or "I don't like...." probably does it everywhere. Where are we gonna eat tonight, how about pizza? "Oh I don't like pizza" Let's catch a movie, how about Cinderella? "Oh I don't like theaters." Is it okay if I bring Troy with us to hang? "Oh, I really don't like hanging with your boyfriends." Negging this girl (and this is one of the FEW cases where a neg is warranted … | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 07:08 PM |
| 5 | I'm scared of sexThe video that /u/AdmitsToWeirdThings posted is great. Watch it over and over again. However, you're to wear pants and a belt while doing so. This is purely educational! :) | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 01:26 PM |
| 3 | I'm scared of sexWhy not? Genuine question. I lost my virginity to a girl I was dating for about 2 weeks. I regretted it at first because I knew going in that it wasn't going to be a lasting relationship. Today, I'm happy I got laid when I was 16. There's no telling how much being a virgin would have bogged me down as I got older. | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 01:25 PM |
| 3 | I'm scared of sexWell if I was just looking to get laid, and didn't have a whole lot of rapid-closing experience, I'm certain a girlfriend is more money. Dinners, activities, gas, etc...Hookers probably are cheaper than 2-3 dinners at a halfway decent restaurant. | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 01:23 PM |
| 14 | I'm scared of sexIf you want to go that route (and fuck anyone that judges you for it), then there are ample resources online regarding reviews, safety, and making sure you're not getting burned. You can study them for a day or so and go ahead and take the leap. Even if you just get a handjob in a massage parlor, the human intimacy and touch will be unlike anything you've experienced, sexually. You'll begin to appreciate wanting to achieve that on a regular level, whether it's with one monogamous partner for you… | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 12:57 AM |
| 94 | I'm scared of sexLet me provide you with a framework you can use to help you get past this. First of all...AWESOME JOB ON THE APPROACH!!! Keep it up. Everyone fails all the time. Really - if you're not making an ass of yourself, then you're probably doing it wrong! The best guys fail all the time! Stuff to do right now: Cut out the porn and masturbation. It's not bad per se, but you're using it as a crutch, which is essentially abuse. Subconsciously, you've got a "Plan B" that will always follow you around. You'… | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 12:11 AM |
| 7 | Woman Has Sex With 8 Year Old. Not Rape Because Patriarchy...separate, non-threatening way Impossible. Even if they somehow volunteered the information via a completely separate, safe, protected discussion free of any "triggers" they would get incredibly offended, they would rationalize rape some more and then we'd all still be shitlords at the end of the day. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/15 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Why Dating Apps Are Cock Blocking The Shit Out Of YouI disagree. I don't have looks, and I don't flash the cash. I had plenty of success dating online. My photos were the biggest asset. Smile and have fun in each picture. No selfies unless you're a mountain climber taking a pic from the peak or something like that. Have a picture with friends, but make sure it's not your featured pic. Fill out the "about me" sections with playful honesty, mystery and don't take anything too seriously. Don't ramble on and on. | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 11:57 AM |
| 15 | Why Dating Apps Are Cock Blocking The Shit Out Of YouWhen I was dating, I adopted this strategy. I found it worked very well. Online dates were always set up during the week - Wednesday at a fun place like bowling or something like that. Less expensive, kept me busy on a "school night" (I was 28 and gainfully employed) and added a touch of IDGAF to my persona because so many guys and people in general seem to be scared to hang out on a weeknight. Friday/Saturday nights were for approaching and closing at the bars. I would also go on second dates w… | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 01:21 AM |
| 0 | Feminism: Then and NowWho cares? If she wants to be a slut she can go ahead. As long as her actions are responsible (read: protects herself and others from STDs, doesn't use the law to retaliate against regret, doesn't have a child that her partner never agreed to), then she can knock herself out. This post isn't very constructive... | /r/MensRights | 14/04/15 08:44 PM |
| 18 | "I had sex with 25 men at a party and now I'm pregnant"... but it's the men's faultAnother example of the mentality that's applauded by feminists that manages to undermine women as well. By blaming the men, it's like saying "you poor thing, even though you were of sound mind, and no one forced you into this, you're incapable of making decisions for yourself." Does anyone remember Senator McCarthy and how he demonized everyone for being a communist, pointing fingers at everyone in hollywood, destroying careers, and all that? How long do we have to wait before feminists finally … | /r/MensRights | 13/04/15 02:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.No I know. I was just saying that all those cliches we talk about are meaningless of you are your own person and the best man you can possibly be. | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 11:13 AM |
| 5 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.It's worded funny. I understand why someone would think they meant the "ask permission" route. | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 01:24 AM |
| 9 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.Because he's posting his story on the internet for all to see? Because it's posted right above a comment section where, guess what?--people make judgments? Sure, but when every judgement is some form of "that'll never work for me" or the classic "post a picture of yourself OP" then they're just defeatist comments. Maybe I should have clarified this - when you judge someone's actions and you're just coming off as a defeatist, you're doing yourself a disservice by blocking out potential opportunit… | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 01:23 AM |
| 3 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.Agreed - and hell - I'm even okay with putting the pussy on a pedestal, being a nice guy and all that. Just don't forget to put yourself on a pedestal, and if you're going to be a nice guy, don't let it be your defining quality. When people say "describe him" when they talk about you, the first word out of their mouth shouldn't be nice - it should be something reflective of the great person you are! | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 01:17 AM |
| 3 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.keep posting!!!!!! We just need to revisit the whole reason why we're here. We need to stride forward, stop judging each other and learn that some of us make a WAY bigger deal about what other people do too much! | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 01:16 AM |
| 23 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.Once I adopted this mindset, everything became clear - going into bars became slow motion. I felt in control of my own romantic destiny. It's not easy, and no - of course it's not as simple as "I'm going to be spontaneous..." it takes a lot of failure, making an ass of yourself, heartbreak, mistakes, and all that garbage, but the rewards coming along with being your own person and really expanding your lifestyle are huge! | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 01:14 AM |
| 34 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.Enjoy Social Security and your eventual lonely death? | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 09:14 PM |
| 25 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.I think OP meant ask about aspirations, not what they're doing on Wednesday. | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 09:13 PM |
| 560 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.I'm going to jump in before you're lynched by the people who stymie their own progress with their cynicism and pessimism. Every post like yours gets shanked by less-successful people looking to impose their moral superiority on everyone in lieu of their unaddressed failures in seduction. If you're calling "bullshit" on this guy, or you're going to criticize this guy's choices, just stop. This subreddit is called "seduction" and whether this guy is REALLY successful or if he made what you'd consi… | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Guys, do you have a texting "rule" that you live by?Well generally, if you're texting a few girls at once, you kind of learn to go "fuck it" and not worry about it so much, generally, at least for a few girls, you'll get a reconciling message from someone who fell off the radar, and they get a new little prioritization because you know that you left a positive impression on them. They're looking forward to more you. I would dig up an old number (old = a week or two) and just literally shoot a "hey, let's do _____ on _____ and catch up a bit." or … | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Guys, do you have a texting "rule" that you live by?Just a few thoughts that used to go through my mind: I would text funny nonsequitors, send pictures of WTF or funny stuff I came across in real life. I tried to avoid long conversations. You can get "too safe" in a girl's head and she can get quite comfortable keeping you as a texting buddy. Similarly, I would get kind of annoyed when a girl just texted me about every little thing. My big goal for texting was ultimately setting up dates. I like spontaneity, and so do girls, so I usually would te… | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 09:26 PM |
| 7 | Found this on Facebook. No title needed.It's sad when real life is so fucking crazy that it's hard to discern between that and satire. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/15 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Female university teacher destroys feminists claims in a short videoNot sure why you were downvoted for this comment. The way I see it, you're pointing out a real hurdle. A university of Phoenix professor is likely to be taken less seriously than...well...probably any other professor, even a community college professor. It's a real hurdle, and it doesn't mean you're against the message - it means you realize that it's a challenge. Speaking to this, we might wonder why CHS is representing/represented by a college with...less than prestigious accreditation. Well -… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/15 09:49 PM |
| 3 | The biggest lie that men of this generation are told, and how I found out it is a lie.#Butthurt | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 08:23 PM |
| 14 | The biggest lie that men of this generation are told, and how I found out it is a lie.#Humblebrag | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 06:52 PM |
| 2 | How To Text A Girl Right After You Get Her Number- Fun InfographicThen leave a clever message and make a joke about her screening her calls, or text her the same thing, then leave it at that and wait for her to respond, then go on calling someone else. She'll probably text you with something like "did you call me?" or something. Explain that you called her from a rotary phone and didn't feel like sending a text because it takes so long to wait for the rotary to turn on each letter. The point is that you're building a fun, carefree rapport, and you're different… | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 04:01 AM |
| 1 | How To Text A Girl Right After You Get Her Number- Fun Infographicehhh you'll be surprised. My boss used to online date and she would get dick pics a lot before and after the first date. She was grossed out and it guaranteed that there would be no further dates, but some guys really think they can do it. I personally can't think of a better way to establish a tidy trail of evidence in a sexual harassment case than to send unprovoked genital pics. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 12:45 AM |
| 9 | How To Text A Girl Right After You Get Her Number- Fun InfographicWhy? She knows a little about you since she met you online, and the same goes about her for you. Seduction is about being bold, courageous, and a little unpredictable. You need to stand out from the rest. If you're not taking chances, then you're setting yourself up for failure. Calling is different from texting - it's a perfect way to stand out. I like to call before I text, and usually the girl says it's refreshing, and made her feel comfortable because she could hear my voice. It's only weird… | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Do you guys actually go on "running errands" dates?I have. Ended in my first F-Close with this one girl. I went out with her twice. Once bowling, once for dinner and to see a random band. I was feeling her out still (she was cute, but a little nerdy - like...got excited about weird things), but I was having fun with her, so I rolled with it. The third time - I had just gotten back to the east coast from Vegas, and I was tired, felt disgusting from flying, and all that. I had nothing to do that evening (was a week day, work the next day), so I ca… | /r/seduction | 17/03/15 12:13 PM |
| 8 | Men working with women for true equalityBecause when someone cries "Patriarchy" you can show them exactly what patriarchy looks like. It's not about someone grunting at the gym, it's not about a nonexistent income disparity. It's something that exists in the Middle East. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/15 03:48 PM |
| 1 | The state of r/Seduction.But the people like us will sit here and complain but that's not productive or helping the community the best we can do for now is utilise the stuff that's good on here still while providing quality information to the guys out there that need it. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2wtgnn/there_is_nothing_noble_in_being_superior_to_your/cou02le | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 04:29 AM |
| 1 | [Help] Stranded in NY till the 22ndAgreed. I live in a bigger city now, but when I lived in a tiny town (<7000 people), there was so much to do for next to free. Plus, just being able to work on a little weekend project here or there, only this time you get to do it during the week? That's therapeutic. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/15 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Child support....I'm pretty fuckedYou will need to get a lawyer. Chances are that you're going to be on the hook for this, even if the kid isn't yours (welcome to male privilege, right?). But - the lawyer may be able to help you immensely. The lawyer will help you keep payments reasonable, or depending on the facts surrounding your case, may get you completely off (however, there are plenty of stories that support why you will probably have to pay even if you're not the father). The lawyer will help you understand your best cour… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/15 10:12 PM |
| 6 | [Help] Stranded in NY till the 22ndCan you talk with an agent about moving your return flight up? | /r/MensRights | 14/02/15 09:49 PM |
| 4 | My college just built a brand new gym and guess what? No men are allowed from 3-5 p.m.!3-5pm are often prime times to use the gym. While it's not the case for everyone, I constantly found myself getting out of class no later than 4 (with maybe one or two exceptions). I was a science student, and this is even taking lab classes into consideration. It's also right before the well established "dinner hour", a prime time to work out It's also during daylight. Your gym is probably also in a centralized location. So the girls get to go from class to the gym, but you have to either wait,… | /r/MensRights | 10/02/15 01:41 PM |
| 11 | What are your fun first dates?This doesn't get mentioned enough. Shopping is pretty awesome for a (part) of a first date. This wasn't my first date, but it was my 3rd date with this one girl. I had flown in from Las Vegas to the east coast, and I was exhausted, but I really felt like going out, but then again...I had shit to do because I had to work the next day. I decided I would manage to do it all. I texted her when I landed and said "why don't we grab dinner tonight at ________?" Turns out she had already eaten, but she … | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 09:02 PM |
| 0 | [Meta] (TheRedpill) SJWs are reportedly working with admins to develop a stricter "no harassment" policy at Reddit. We should have an action plan in place for when TRP is banned : TheRedPillI fully appreciate the concern - people who have never read this sub only get the highlights expressed by those who we end up downvoting to oblivion anyway. I was reading through these sources you posted, and while we should definitely be concerned that this sub along with the others you mentioned are at a degree of risk, I'm not sure that they have the evidence, the numbers, nor the ability to form a logical argument to bring us down... ...yet | /r/MensRights | 04/02/15 04:16 AM |
| 12 | "25 Invisible benefits of being Anita Sarkeesian"Pro-tip: Something something rape something something wear provocative clothing. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/15 07:51 PM |
| 6 | I did it! I kinda screwed up but I did it!In hindsight I should have lied but oh well. Honesty is still your best policy. You succeeded because you probably owned the fact that this is who you are. If they're going to get hung up on the fact that you're not a college student yet, then it's their problem. You laid solid game. This is why you got a # close. Well done. Also in regards to your title: I kinda screwed up If you're not screwing up some of the time, then you're doing seduction wrong! | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 06:46 AM |
| 9 | A girl was offput by my quick interest, shut me down, and I shut her back down. 1 week later shes crawling back. A good lesson.I sort of agree. While I've unfriendzoned myself into a full relationship before, I've also unfriendzoned myself just long enough to end up back in the friendzone. Sometimes women who reject you and then want you back again are so unsure of themselves that this essentially sets the tone of your time knowing her. It's extreme push and pull. In order to lead this girl, you essentially have to pull away and turn your back in the direction you want her to follow. My ex girlfriend from about 3 years … | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Replacing "men" with "Jews" in feminist Anita Sarkeesian's tweets is quite revealing...Does it fucking matter in this context? Being pedantic just makes you look like an asshole, not an enlightened beacon of knowledge. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Question for successful 30+ Year old sedditers that had no luck in their 20s and Teens...I found the best place to start is here | /r/seduction | 24/01/15 12:06 AM |
| 6 | Question for successful 30+ Year old sedditers that had no luck in their 20s and Teens...http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1n765b/have_any_of_you_successfully_gamed_older_women/ccfzyej | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 01:13 PM |
| 32 | Question for successful 30+ Year old sedditers that had no luck in their 20s and Teens...I'm 29, but I've dated younger and older women. My take: The baggage is there, but it's more about your approach to it rather than what's presented to you. Probably the biggest piece of baggage comes with previously married women with or without children. They typically require that you work harder to earn their trust. This will be something you either have to deal with, or walk away from completely. There's a perception that people in their 30s are "unmarriable" and this comes from antiquated b… | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 04:00 AM |
| 6 | A list of Men's Rights Issues That Feminism Is Already Working OnThe list reads like satire, but the source website says otherwise... | /r/MensRights | 20/01/15 10:35 PM |
| -2 | NSW police not all bad after allYeah, two rights at an intersection means you're going straight. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/15 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Friend of mine posted a link on FB. I decided to call her on it.It was an excellent point made by (what I assume) are the guys. They kind of belabored the point after she conceded. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/15 02:31 PM |
| 133 | Female coworker entered the stall three times while I was in it. I reported it and they asked "how is this sexual harassment?"If OP goes to HR and says "I won't put up with Sexual Harassment" HR will do whatever's necessary to avoid a lawsuit. This may include firing OP (anti-retaliation law comes into play however), or it might result in disciplining CP, even by firing her. They want to protect their asses. Avoiding a sexual harassment suit is one way they'll do this. Either way, OP should discuss this with a lawyer - you're right. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/15 03:53 PM |
| 10 | Female coworker entered the stall three times while I was in it. I reported it and they asked "how is this sexual harassment?"There's an assumption that when one is in a private stall that: There's an expectation of privacy You're going to have your junk out You're going to be seen in a sexually vulnerable state CP violated OP's expectation of privacy, may or may not have caught a glimpse of his junk, and possibly saw him in a vulnerable state. Also - the nature by which CP attempted to resolve the conflict was not reasonable - She literally barged in on a man peeing into her "private" bathroom. OP has a right to feel … | /r/MensRights | 12/01/15 03:51 PM |
| 6 | Woman spared because of her gender - this is male privilegeYes! We're always told to "check our privilege" by the nutjob SJWs (okay, I'm being redundant). We rarely hear someone with a voice of reason simply lay it out. Privilege isn't a discrete, almost binary concept - you are or you aren't. That's just bullshit. SJWs want us to believe this bull. HOWEVER - there are some things that give us privilege, whether it's related to social constructs or if it has to do with our physiology. Men are privileged to usually have stronger bodies. There are probabl… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/15 11:47 PM |
| 0 | Man banned from school board meetings wins $147K settlementAhhh I thought you were being sarcastic. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/15 11:57 PM |
| 29 | Man banned from school board meetings wins $147K settlementIt's very hard to say. My dad was a village board member, and he fired a well-liked, but popular village employee because she was insubordinate, a liar, and while this didn't come out until years later, she was an accomplice to embezzlement. In essence, she was a terrible person, but well-liked. So after this, a large crowd of "concerned citizens" would come to every board meeting and scream and shout so loudly that the board would take 3 hours getting through a 1 hour agenda. Measures that can … | /r/MensRights | 07/01/15 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Would you take this bet? The simple maths behind why more approaches increases value of approachWayne Michaels Mark Scott Gretzky Manson. | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 08:14 AM |
| 8 | Quota nazis demand all corporations release their gender stats.Okay - why does ANY of that matter in terms of gender disparity? That's the whole point that the article's making, and it's the point that I'm making. You're arguing semantics and minor details that don't have anything to do with the big picture. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/15 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Quota nazis demand all corporations release their gender stats.Good point on the risky jobs. But on the flip side of that - the teaching profession where women dominate. A good reason for this is the high risk that men face in education of being falsely accused by students and parents for sexual assault. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/15 01:36 AM |
| 8 | Quota nazis demand all corporations release their gender stats.Why don't you exhibit non-troll behaviors by...y'know...providing some positive discussion to the conversation? Explain to me the difference. Pretend I don't know, or pretend that someone who's reading might not know. Educate us. Explain to me why the difference is relevant. The first paragraph and title of the article mention board appointments. The rest of the article talks mostly about total employees. Why? Because that's the majority of the hidden data. In public companies, board appointment… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/15 01:35 AM |
| 12 | Quota nazis demand all corporations release their gender stats.I'm not sure the point you're trying to make. It's irrelevant. Women are far overrepresented in teaching, and those stats have full transparency. Yet no one (other than the people within the MRA) give a shit about changing that. Being a male teacher is not only hard, but it comes with added risks. In corporations, well - much of that is private, and for the most part, should be. Do you know what will be accomplished by making these numbers transparent? Well, any company without a 50/50 (or woman… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/15 01:14 AM |
| 10 | Quota nazis demand all corporations release their gender stats.You know what gender stats are widely available? Public school teachers. Guess which gender dominates? Good to see someone's doing something about making our world equal. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/15 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Woman found guilty of defamation in deceitful Facebook post which (wrongly) accused her ex-husband of 'domestic violence and abuse'.I have a question. In Chrome, you can pretty much alter any content you see by going to "inspect element" and just replacing text in the console. Is there a way to capture evidence while also showing that I didn't previously do the "inspect element" thing? | /r/MensRights | 02/01/15 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I have never been so lost..."Models" will give you a framework to build on. Chapter-by-chapter, it'll help you understand where you might fall short, and how to start taking steps to build it up. It more or less deconstructs you in order to build you back up. As for the movies - These are popular works of art that many have seen, and some haven't. Few have seen them all. By watching them and appreciating them, you can gain new perspectives all around you. Also - they're great stories, and it's my belief that good storytell… | /r/seduction | 01/01/15 02:02 AM |
| 2 | A tip for you to use tonight if you find that you weren't able to lay down enough game by midnight...It's a good mix of humor, quick decision making, and assertiveness. Just go in for it, don't think, don't hesitate, make eye contact, and win! | /r/seduction | 01/01/15 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Disturbing Video Shows the Moment a Womans Rape Allegation Falls Apart as the Man She Falsly AccusedI don't think there's a law that says you can, but there's no law that says you can't, barring a few conditions. I like to read /r/legaladvice and 40% of the questions seem to be something along the lines of "Someone lied about something I did at work, I was able to prove them wrong, I was fired, they kept their job. Can I sue them?" | /r/MensRights | 31/12/14 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Disturbing Video Shows the Moment a Womans Rape Allegation Falls Apart as the Man She Falsly AccusedIt was! Thank you - IANAL and I get the terms mixed up. Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/14 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Disturbing Video Shows the Moment a Womans Rape Allegation Falls Apart as the Man She Falsly AccusedOkay fair enough. My bad. Is the rest of my post accurate? | /r/MensRights | 31/12/14 08:37 PM |
| 1 | I have never been so lost...They're not worse per se, but if you just decide "hey, I'm going to start learning guitar" because you think guitar will be cool and sexy, it probably won't work. Now - if guitar and music, or in your case photography, is something you can do with huge levels of enthusiasm and passion, pursue it. It's all about a hobby that you're passionate and genuine about. The popularity of cheap $100 guitars with single 20-somethings attests to this. Women aren't impressed with "Wonderwall" anymore. However… | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 08:09 PM |
| 10 | Disturbing Video Shows the Moment a Womans Rape Allegation Falls Apart as the Man She Falsly AccusedGenerally, firing over a wrongful accusation doesn't fall under wrongful termination protection. Wrongful termination is generally for cases where you're fired due to a discriminatory reason specified by law. This includes race, gender, sometime sexual orientation, and a few others. If you get arrested for DUI and the officer made the whole thing up, your employer can fire you for it. Hell, they can fire you because they don't like how you tie your tie. Edit: took out the right to work nonsense. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/14 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I have never been so lost...Only take on a genuine hobby. If photography is your thing, fuck....do it. If not then don't fake it because it's sexy | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 12:28 AM |
| 9 | I have never been so lost...This is the first day of the rest of your life. This is the day where you took inventory. This is the day where you can look back and say "it all really started here." /u/windowtothesoul said it well. You're awesome - and if you ever doubt it, you should quickly find a reason to alleviate the doubt. Before you focus on ANY outer game, you need to focus on inner game first. The bible for this is Mark Manson's "Models." Read it. Take notes. Do the exercises, and re-read the book. The major thing y… | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 04:08 AM |
| 3 | The meme that 'one-in-five' college women are raped was all the rage -- until it proved indefensible, so now "statistics don't matter"A reddit admin is a mod at srs. That sub is untouchable as a result. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/14 05:21 PM |
| 16 | Privilege indeedDomestic violence vs. Government mandated violence. I love it. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/14 04:39 AM |
| 2 | 40,000 suicides per year (mostly men) yet mental health is a women's issue that needs special attentionWho's "we?" In this case the "we" is a private company. They can do whatever the hell they want with it. The only thing they "should" be able to do is to donate as they please. If this was tax dollars, then we'd have an issue - a big one. This is a company's money. What if someone took your discretionary income and said "well, you should be spending it on x, because it's needed more than y." You'd probably think they were an asshat. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/14 04:18 AM |
| 1 | 40,000 suicides per year (mostly men) yet mental health is a women's issue that needs special attentionWhen the alternative is no one gets helped then yes. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/14 03:46 AM |
| 1 | 40,000 suicides per year (mostly men) yet mental health is a women's issue that needs special attentionYes. Controversial, but good. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/14 02:21 AM |
| 1 | 40,000 suicides per year (mostly men) yet mental health is a women's issue that needs special attentionMoney goes to suicidal support for men too. What's your point? | /r/MensRights | 23/12/14 01:31 AM |
| 1 | 40,000 suicides per year (mostly men) yet mental health is a women's issue that needs special attentionMore women die of breast cancer than prostate cancer. By your logic we should not let anyone fund prostate cancer research anymore. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/14 12:40 AM |
| 6 | 40,000 suicides per year (mostly men) yet mental health is a women's issue that needs special attentionWe sit here and bitch about some relatively small company doing something that happens to benefit women and not men. It's a dumb battle to fight. I recall a post where some company tried to make movember about breast cancer. THAT is a move that's troubling and deserves our attention. Just because fewer women commit suicide doesn't make it unimportant. Let them help their cause and let's focus on fighting the troubling male suicide numbers without tearing someone else's otherwise harmless cause. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/14 12:31 AM |
| 7 | 40,000 suicides per year (mostly men) yet mental health is a women's issue that needs special attentionsigh Suicide is mentioned only in the first paragraph. It's an attention grabber. Nothing else - your title is clickbait. The proceeds are going toward mental health awareness, with a special focus on those that affect women. The brand is a brand that probably has something like a 95-99% female customer base. This is who they communicate to, sell to, and make all their money from. It's strategically important for them to communicate that they focus on what's good for women. They can do whatever … | /r/MensRights | 22/12/14 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Always with the double standards.That's a good reasoning and I agree. Others were saying that this was a double standard, so I mentioned it. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/14 04:19 PM |
| 10 | Always with the double standards.Holy shit someone needed to say this. Sometimes we get in this rut where we feel so fucking sorry for ourselves that we make ourselves out to be a victim or we just villainize others for the sake of villainizing them. Height is the only actual double standard that was mentioned. Penis size is massively irrelevant. Unless your penis size physically makes you incapable of performing in bed, few women cite this as anything more than a "nice to have." Most don't care, and neither should we. Wealth i… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/14 03:15 PM |
| 23 | Always with the double standards.Penis Size? Really? How many job interviews did you land/fail because of your penis size? Height, yes. Penis size no - unless of course you want to land that porn gig. Also - anyone who rejects you for your penis size is either a twatrocket, or you suffer from a medical condition. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/14 02:50 AM |
| 0 | One question in the mandatory sexual misconduct quiz for all students at the University of Oklahoma.While the subtext of this quiz angers me: It suggests that only women can be raped Intoxicated men = capable of accountability, Intoxicated women = innocent princess It was formed because of a fictitious sexual assault epidemic ...It's still useful. While we'd like to see change eventually to provide accountability for shitty actions by women, face it - it's not happening today. For now, men have to get by in a shitty system that's constantly out to get us. Change will be incremental, and slow, … | /r/MensRights | 13/12/14 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Men are nine times more likely to die homeless"Urban Nature Privilege" | /r/MensRights | 12/12/14 10:36 PM |
| 5 | The Drowning of OpinionsWhile I didn't hear the arguments presented, all I have to say is please - whether it has to do with Men's Rights, or anything else, please - continue to be brave, and never be afraid to be the voice of dissent when you think you're right. With that said - I would tend to agree with both your argument and their argument. The book is very much a commentary on society, and anyone who fucking understands the words in that book, Mr. Darcy also faces societal pressure to conform, which isn't complete… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/14 03:45 AM |
| 3 | CDC accepting comments on circumcision recommendation. Now is the time to tell the CDC that genital mutilation of boys is unacceptable.I'm also circumcised. However, I reluctantly had to make the decision when I was 24. It was my choice, and I was happy to make it my choice. I would have much rather have kept my foreskin, but I was given the freedom to choose to keep this sensitive part of my body. When you are a few days old, you cannot make this choice. You cannot consent. This is the issue. The public falls all over themselves about being drunk and sexual consent, but a fucking INFANT and GENITAL MUTILATION? No one bats an e… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/14 06:35 PM |
| 8 | Seddit I've reverted back to AFC but I'm on the come up and I need your help.Okay, so you've got to put out the fire, and then fireproof your house so to speak. First of all, reflect back on who you were when you were on top of your game. Your body is not what I'm talking about. You did your own thing. You probably were closer with your male friends. You had certain hobbies that you dedicated your free time to. You were more outgoing. All that. Begin NOW on how you're going to recapture all that. You need to get these things back. You need to begin to rebuild your inner … | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 11:16 PM |
| 8 | How to Get the First Kiss (High School Edition)As a 28 year old male, I 100% agree with this information regarding me trying to get the first kiss with a high schooler. Spot on! | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Why I hate clubsIt's a valuable insight. | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 09:28 PM |
| 15 | Why I hate clubsI hate clubs because I just can't have fun. I hate the music I hate that it's crowded I hate the fact that you can't hear anyone talk But that's okay. You don't have to like clubs. You should be going to places where you can have fun. You're your own man, and you should be going out where you can have fun, memorable nights. If you're visibly having fun, you're probably displaying value through confidence and through not giving any fucks. When this happens, approaching becomes easy. When this hap… | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 07:10 PM |
| 24 | Why I hate clubsGood for you - that's awesome! ...but I have to ask...what club plays YMCA nowadays? | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 07:06 PM |
| 5 | I was finally banned from r/feminismAgree. Even though they spew total trash and I disagree with them, it's more or less spelled out. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/14 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Girl noticed my Tinder activity and accuses me if being a 'playa'. Response?Just tell her that the Playas gonna play play play play play And that she shouldn't hate hate hate hate hate and when she says that she was on tinder "for a friend" just call her out. EVERYONE embarrassed about tinder is there "for a friend". | /r/trpGAME | 12/11/14 12:26 PM |
| 4 | Best clubs/activities to meet and interact with women?This is so incredibly important. Photography is an incredibly "sexy" hobby...that I find boring. The Raspberry Pi is an incredibly geeky hobby that I find exciting. A woman would rather hear me talk about building shit with a Pi or an Arduino over photography ANYDAY because of the passion I have behind those words. Now, if a TRUE photography nerd was talking to a woman, then he'd have the upper hand. Find your passion, and chase it! If you're gonna downvote me, contribute why you think I'm wrong… | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 04:23 PM |
| 26 | Local Delaware radio station WDEL asks the "age-old question: should a mature woman having sexual relations with an underaged male be considered as predatory as a man having sex with a girl?" [x-postI love it because the radfem answer is incredibly misogynistic as well as misandric. We know the misandry. I don't need to repeat. It's misogynistic because it always makes women out to be helpless and defenseless, incapable of making decisions that require they assume responsibility. It's as if an adult woman is less important than an underaged boy. Why would you be so incredibly in favor of women's rights when you can't even respect your sex enough to say "hey, you are capable of good judgment… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/14 01:43 PM |
| 14 | Washington state court says accused rapists cannot bear burden of proving consentIt's ALWAYS worse for an innocent man to be imprisoned. When the hammer of justice recklessly swings in the direction of punishing the innocent, then justice has failed. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/14 06:51 PM |
| 0 | How To Be More Physically Attractive In 6 Unusual Steps (really)But does it? Maybe marginally, and that's my point. I lost about 70lbs while studying seduction, and I looked great in the mirror, but I was only marginally "better" in my head. I think this story is true for a lot of people. It wasn't until I embraced my inner and outer game fully (read: put in hours of gruelling work in the field, reading books, and discovering and exploring my passions). However, putting in the mental and fieldwork are where the vast majority of gains are achieved. There's a … | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 08:11 PM |
| 2 | How To Be More Physically Attractive In 6 Unusual Steps (really)Just remember as you're reading this - these are incremental steps. You need to follow the 80/20 rule. 20% of your game will come from physical improvements. Losing weight. Building muscle mass. Carotenoiding the shit out of your skin. You can make some advancement, but make no mistake that it's the minority of your work. 80% is emotional/mental/social. This means improving inner game, approaching often, and reading up and discussing technique. The most improvement occurs here. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 03:35 PM |
| 1 | According to a redditor who was there, this exchange between Stephen Colbert and Anita Sarkeesian, in fact, happened. For some reason it was edited out of the TV broadcast even though it's Colbert inBazinga! | /r/MensRights | 03/11/14 11:53 AM |
| 17 | The "A Beautiful Mind" TechniqueI recall reading a til or something that said his spark of genius related to his prize winning contributions was dramatized using this example in the film. Regardless, it's definitely food for thought. | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that simply disagreeing with modern feminism warrants hate and anger toward you?What decent contribution are you trying to make? All you did was call feminists fat and ugly. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/14 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Act like she already likes you.Exactly. Chances are that if you just say "hi" and be sincere and open her, she'll like you a little bit anyway! | /r/seduction | 28/10/14 12:47 AM |
| 7 | [FR] I hooked up 3 new girls last night - Long educational FRYou Keep Using That Word, I Do Not Think It Means What You Think It Means | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 11:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I hooked up 3 new girls last night - Long educational FRYou're right. I'm sorry. "10/10, would omnom" | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 11:40 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I hooked up 3 new girls last night - Long educational FRI'm saying that for being a judgmental prick over something you find unsavory, you yourself have some pretty unsavory posts. | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 10:56 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I hooked up 3 new girls last night - Long educational FRSays the guy who posts quite frequently in /r/gonewild | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 10:41 PM |
| 6 | The most important thing I've learned.I like what you're saying. 2 weeks ago, my marketing team and I went on a teambuilding ropes course exercise. This was a big, 100% high ropes course. We had one of those 2-carabiner systems where you're always on. There were some people doing this course that couldn't get over the fact they were so high up. They spent 10 minutes on each traverse, and would hold up entire lines of people. They would take an entire minute to work up the courage to go on the zip line. At some point it dawned on me:… | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 07:44 PM |
| 12 | Get The Hell Out Of The Friendzone Forever By Risking Never, Ever, Seeing Her Again.Sidebar, like now. Everything you need to know to get up to speed is there. | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 07:26 PM |
| 2 | How can i start a fb conversation with a girl i like but don't know well enough to be casual?I second your post. It's a great way to connect with someone without really risking being called out for being a creeper (I've seen some of my female FB friends call out dudes who came on a little too strong). But I would like to add that humor goes a long way. By this I mean something playful and funny. Commenting on ONLY HER MAIN PROFILE PIC, or something funny about when you casually met or something. Something light, and maybe a bit bold - I always would operate under the assumption that sex… | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 07:50 PM |
| 1 | I feel like no girls look at me sexually, at any place?No girls look at me sexually. I'm rarely the most physically attractive person in a room. But. I go and talk to girls. "Hi, I'm nobody2000" and then just try. It goes nowhere most of the time - this is true for even the best at seduction. But the more you try, the more you can plant that seed in her head that you ARE attractive. Because to be attractive, you must act attractive! | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 07:21 PM |
| 1 | I don't feel like girls can be attracted to meHey - I'm a dude who was exactly where you're at. Here are some words that you NEED to hear. Listen up. First, a little bit about me. I post here a lot, and while I don't have a ton of [FR]s, I can say it's mostly out of laziness and not having a profound victory to share. Before I began dating my current girlfriend (long term), I was going on Dates every week, closing frequently, and having the time of my life. This came out of me feeling shitty about myself and feeling like no girl could ever … | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 05:38 PM |
| 64 | Sedditors who have improved. What have you done or changed that has had the most positive impact on your game?Let me give you the top 3, in order of importance. Learn to love myself. Holy shit. Looking back, I can't believe how incredibly dependent I was (emotionally) on others. I needed constant reassurance from my friends. If I had a girlfriend, I felt complete with her. I needed to watch my words so as not to piss anyone off. All this led to was me being bummed when my friends couldn't offer reassurance (or were sick of me being so needy), girls breaking up with me weeks after we began dating, and me… | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 06:46 PM |
| 2 | I went for itYou miss 100% of the shots you don't take. ~Wayne Scott | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 02:07 AM |
| 8 | So how do i know if a girl find me attractive or is 'checking me out'?Why is this being downvoted (-2 as of this post)??? This information is absolutely correct. The best way to look like a huge creep and end your night without closing is to stand there like a little bitch and wait for an "Indicator of interest" (IOI). Seriously - if you are studying seduction and you think you need an IOI to approach, then you're going to be spinning your wheels. Approach. Don't think. Just do it. | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 04:06 PM |
| 3 | My son's school had 'take your dad to school day' today. This was the literature they handed out. [x-post from /r/daddit]Wow pamphlet. You managed to be misandrist AND misogynist all in one wall of text. I'm impressed! | /r/MensRights | 01/10/14 01:07 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with HPV?It's true. | /r/seduction | 24/09/14 04:13 PM |
| 43 | How do you deal with HPV?HPV (wart version) and herpes can be spread through skin-to-skin contact, even when there is no visible breakout. OP - this is something you'll have to deal with, but it clears up on its own over time. Be as careful as you can and listen to your body. HPV is the cause of a number of cervical cancers in women, but there's speculation that it can cause other cancers in men (throat cancer etc). Listen to your body, take anything that's abnormal serious, and just keep using condoms if you weren't al… | /r/seduction | 24/09/14 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Mackin' For Survival: Homeless Guy Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night!It's too bad this was mostly missed by the subreddit. This guy is a complete douche, but unfortunately the analytic, the cynical, and the skeptical will all dismiss him for his doucheyness. Face it - he's homeless, he's not really "attractive" from a physical sense. Honestly - physically he's only tall. He's got a bit of a gut - his 5:00 shadow doesn't say "rugged" it says "loafer." But he's getting laid. Why? He doesn't own much, but he has COMPLETELY owned his fear. When you're homeless, you r… | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 02:33 AM |
| 2 | NFL cheerleader assaults boyfriend, then calls police to falsely accuse him of DV. Article lionizes her for her military service.The claim was that it was a factor. Not an excuse... | /r/MensRights | 21/09/14 09:55 PM |
| -3 | NFL cheerleader assaults boyfriend, then calls police to falsely accuse him of DV. Article lionizes her for her military service.It must be comforting to live a life where you clearly don't know anyone that has ptsd. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/14 09:02 PM |
| 17 | Surely everyone carrying out circumcisions should be registered? No! As the law currently stands, anyone can carry out surgery on a baby boy’s penis without qualification, training or regulation.I'm torn. On one hand, if you're going to perform this barbaric, non-consensual procedure, you might as well be registered and follow strict requirements to do so. On the other hand, a formal registration solidifies the legitimacy of the procedure. In terms of routine infant circumcision, it should be the opposite of legitimate. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/14 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Jessica Valenti thinks no one will use Vasalgel, because *various anti-male reasons*.How hard is it to get a male to wear a condom? I dunno. Most of my girlfriends suggested not wearing a condom on multiple occasions because they said it felt better without.... | /r/MensRights | 18/09/14 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Adrian Peterson. Where's the Ray-Rice-Level of outrage?I actually had this conversation with my roommate who was all apologetic. "Dude - the kid was helpless." "Yeah but that's how he was raised, so he did the same thing." "That doesn't excuse it. Why is no one as outraged as they were over Ray Rice?" "There was a Ray Rice Video. Plus she got knocked out." "The kid has scars and lacerations. Some on his SCROTUM" "Yeah...but that's how Adrian Peterson was raised..." This issue frustrates me because it's a time where a lot of men are allowing a legiti… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/14 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Adrian Peterson. Where's the Ray-Rice-Level of outrage?I agree that the video evoked stronger emotions 100%. Ray was suspended before the video went public. His suspension was extended upon public release of the video. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/14 03:11 AM |
| 13 | I'm getting married today!Funeral jokes at a man's wedding, believe it or not, are older than you and the red pill. | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 08:44 PM |
| 2 | No half measures. (How to avoid the friend zone)I don't mean any offense to you because I used to think this way, but I think that "I don't like to be pushy" is a shitty mindset if you are pursuing seduction. Formerly, I used to say things like: "Well I'm going to see a movie tomorrow, and if you'd like to come, you're more than welcome to, but I'd understand if you can't." I know - it's extreme passiveness. Bear with me. This was me being very accommodating. It's kind and courteous, but honestly, no one cares about kindness and courtesy when… | /r/seduction | 07/09/14 04:39 PM |
| 1 | No half measures. (How to avoid the friend zone)Add a specific time (...or a coffee on Saturday at noon) and baby, you've got a stew going. If you're assertive and decisive, you'll find that girls, if they're interested will either move their schedules around to accommodate you or simply suggest a better time. | /r/seduction | 06/09/14 02:57 PM |
| 7 | No half measures. (How to avoid the friend zone)Are you this pedantic around women? | /r/seduction | 06/09/14 02:34 AM |
| 73 | No half measures. (How to avoid the friend zone)Agreed. Two rules that have worked for me: State your intentions You'll be surprised at what people will do for you just by asking Seriously. That's it. It's a super fair way of going about it. Women don't need to be "unlocked" we just need to actually reach for the fucking doorknob. | /r/seduction | 05/09/14 09:44 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome being "the guy that never gets laid"The best way is to keep trying new things. Be offensive. Step outside your comfort zone. Experiment. I have a really shitty PUA book that explores the nuclear option - that if you go up to enough women and go "you and I should fuck" then eventually one will want to go through with it. While I think the rest of the book sucks, I think it's a valid idea - that it's simply a numbers game. Mark Manson explores the numbers game as well. Additionally, I believe that it's not what you say, but how you … | /r/seduction | 04/09/14 12:46 AM |
| 3 | How to overcome being "the guy that never gets laid"You say you've been here for a while, but...have you been reading? I don't mean to be a critical ass, but I do mean to be critical. There are so many people here in various situations worse than yours that have overcome much more. I think you need to dig deep. I feel like you haven't done this... Methinks your biggest obstacle is your confidence. Do you avoid eye contact at work? Do you have shitty posture? Do you talk to people all passive and nervous like? They smell this on you, and it's so b… | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 03:47 PM |
| 1 | In a wheelchair, and rich enough that I don't have to work. I don't know what to say when girls ask what I do...The problem is that sometimes money goes away. OP's money isn't because he was successful at a business venture - he was injured and likely collected on a settlement or judgment. It's probably guaranteed, but there are plenty of programs out there that let you cash out your annuity or settlement... If OP's like "I have money," gets in a relationship, and then the money dries up, he hasn't worked in years, he won't have a job, and now his value has plummeted as he has NOTHING to fall back on. He'… | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 02:19 PM |
| 15 | Insider tip from a girl: Stop taking so long to ask her on a date!/u/xamotorp gave a great answer. I'm going to weigh in as well. What have your experiences been like with women when at less than 'average' physical attractiveness? Lousy at first. My ex girlfriend broke up with me and with all this free time, I joined reddit and eventually found /r/seduction. I was familiar with PUAs and stuff, but now I figured that I had some free time to look into it more closely. I used to weigh about 265. I yo-yoed a lot, and every time I lost some weight, I'd feel margina… | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 12:24 PM |
| 6 | Insider tip from a girl: Stop taking so long to ask her on a date!I'm 100% with you, man. The number of relationships I fucked up within 3 months because I would get boring is astounding. Seduction turned everything around for me. I keep things interesting for us all the time. Missed opportunities are simply opportunities to learn. You wouldn't be where you are now without those experiences. One missed opportunity I learned from was the 2am text from a girl I had dated once or twice. My phone was on silent, and she texted me to see what I was doing. The plan o… | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 01:28 AM |
| 27 | Insider tip from a girl: Stop taking so long to ask her on a date!Kino is situational and you can fuck it up pretty bad by putting yourself in a situation where you don't get to touch her. First of all, I like the girlfriend mentality. I have a long term girlfriend now, but I would interact with new girls the same way I interact with her now. Always open the date with a hug (if you can). Lead her with a gentle brush of your hand on the small of her back I only sometimes resort to lines of questioning, but I might go "if you won the lottery, what would you do..… | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 11:58 PM |
| 20 | Insider tip from a girl: Stop taking so long to ask her on a date!Thanks. I would honestly roll my eyes at my advice a year ago - I always thought that people who gave this caliber advice (i.e. very open ended) were good looking, tall, full-head-of-hair men who didn't even need to be on /r/seduction. This balding, overweight, 5'10" dude now knows that it doesn't have to be the case. | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 11:13 PM |
| 75 | Insider tip from a girl: Stop taking so long to ask her on a date!Literally anything. I mean - don't do a movie where you can't talk, kino, and whatnot, but yeah...anything. Generally - the more you get to move around and talk, the better. Hiking. Geocaching. Museums. Biking. A walk. I went grocery shopping with a girl on our third date and F-Closed her that night. | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 10:36 PM |
| 175 | Insider tip from a girl: Stop taking so long to ask her on a date!I was dating a girl and she told me something that really was the reason she loved going out with me: "You always know what you want to do, where you want to go." And you can take this phrase at face value, or consider it a metaphor for something greater, but if you can communicate this value, the sky's the limit for you. I did a lot of online dating, and at first I would be shooting the shit with a girl for two weeks expecting to get the right opportunity to ask her out. At some point I realize… | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 10:01 PM |
| 34 | Overcoming sexual anxiety as a virginThis is easy to give you advice, but you'll have to work hard to internalize some of it. Let me tell you what to do in order of easy steps to hard steps: Buy some condoms right now. "Her Pleasure" is a marketing gimmick that only a few women actually say enhance her pleasure. Get something that fits your dick. You're a virgin, so you're sensitive. Plain old trojans with light spermacidal lubrication are cheap (free all over the fucking place), and are super common. Get them. If you are worried a… | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 08:00 PM |
| 5 | If a guy turns you down, splash hot coffee his facefeigned feminist outrage. This is the type of joke that SRS gets all bent out of shape about. We need to ignore stupid jokes like this. We're not SRS. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/14 04:25 PM |
| 24 | What are good strategies when the girl is nervous?When she's nervous, you need to lead her. Think about when YOU'RE nervous or inexperienced (project at work, new sport, etc). A mentor or someone who can lead the way for you helps immensely. You need to lead the conversation, build comfort, and engage her. Some ideas: Smile and just be comfortable. If you're lively, inquisitive, friendly, kind and talkative to your date and others, it'll help relax her, as well as build your value in her eyes Light kino. If you sense that she's uncomfortable, l… | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 04:47 PM |
| 10 | Whoopi Defends Stephen A. Smith: If You Hit a Man, Don’t Be Surprised if He Hits BackOne thing that you learn in US Law school in your first year is that in this exact scenario, you can and probably will be charged with manslaughter if he dies from his injuries unless the guy was brandishing some sort of deadly weapon (well you'd be charged in that situation too, but charges will likely be dropped once enough evidence shows that you were actually defending yourself). | /r/MensRights | 29/07/14 04:21 PM |
| 37 | Mini-[FR]: Hitting on the girl that's taking my bloodwork... for an STD.Social Proof to the max. If you're going in for an STD test, it means that you're probably sexually active, and there are women that are interested in sleeping with you. So the only question in her mind is "what caliber of quality are these women?" The test result can go two ways. Each way says a lot: Positive for something. Not only are you a risk to have sex with, you're not careful, and you're having sex with low quality, careless women (it doesn't have to be true, that's just her opinion, ma… | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Feminists send death threats to 13 year old because he thinks rape jokes should be allowed [x-post from /r/TumblrInAction]No, moron. Passive aggressive would be me just ignoring the requests and internally going "that'll show those cunts." Aggressive is me telling you straight up: "No - I described to you exactly how to get to the link, and I described the link. Now go look it up for yourself you lazy twat." Do you see the difference? | /r/MensRights | 22/07/14 02:29 PM |
| 18 | Feminists send death threats to 13 year old because he thinks rape jokes should be allowed [x-post from /r/TumblrInAction]Don't worry, if you look at the thread of retweets, Jon is getting his ass handed to him, and the best zingers are coming from the 13 year old himself. He calls him out for starring on a show that relies on sex jokes (that most feminists would probably consider misogynistic). EDIT: Holy fucking shit you people are lazy. Go to Jon Cryer's twitter, find the tweet (was made today) and click it. Then read. Asking for a source is unbelievably annoying when the body of my text describes where you can … | /r/MensRights | 21/07/14 07:58 PM |
| 8 | I Saw a Man Get Arrested For a Sex Crime Because He Made a Scheduling ErrorWhen an unusual situation arises with your kid, and you don't know how to handle it, it is the correct action to call a professional. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/14 03:02 AM |
| 15 | I Saw a Man Get Arrested For a Sex Crime Because He Made a Scheduling ErrorRight, but if she abstained from doing so, would the counselor just do it? It might have been one of these "I'll let you do it, or else I will" things. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/14 09:18 PM |
| 39 | I Saw a Man Get Arrested For a Sex Crime Because He Made a Scheduling ErrorIt was the counselor that did it. The mother was concerned, and sought out counseling (which honestly is the correct course of action). Policy apparently dictated that the counselor was required to notify the authorities. I'm willing to bet that the kid didn't even get an actual trial. Juvie prison has been known to skirt the actual justice system. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/14 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants to have our 14-year-old son circumcised. Need help ASAP.Agreed. Someone in a similar situation will hopefully use the search function and stumble upon this. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants to have our 14-year-old son circumcised. Need help ASAP.Check her internet history and tell us what fucked up site she's browsing. "Cut tight" or "high and tight" is terminology used only by the fucked up pro-circ-because-we-hate-masturbation community. Also tell her this: I'm 28. I was 24 and I got cut (voluntarily). I was cut high and tight. I still masturbate daily. Dry. And while you're at it, ask her if she'll circumcise herself. Just lop off her labia. It's only fair. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/14 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Mom jailed after letting kid play in crowded park while she worked, because "what if a man would've come and snatched her"I dug up some stats, but I know better, more quantitative ones exist: http://www.missingkids.com/KeyFacts 800,000 kids are reported missing each year More than 200,000 were kidnapped by family members More than 58,000 were kidnapped by non-family members ~115 were kidnapped in the stereotypical fashion. This means someone the child did not know Similar statistics here: http://www.pollyklaas.org/about/national-child-kidnapping.html So - out of 258,000 kidnappings, 115 are "stranger danger" abduct… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/14 08:16 PM |
| 14 | Mom jailed after letting kid play in crowded park while she worked, because "what if a man would've come and snatched her"Isn't there a statistic that says that most child abductions and child abuse are committed by...well...not men? | /r/MensRights | 15/07/14 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Adriel Rivera's TED Talk on How to Flirt "Leveling the Playing Field"Let this be a lesson to everyone. 3 comments picking on this guy's suit and manner of speaking. Remember that. If this guy's being judged by us, you're being judged similarly! | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 08:34 PM |
| 9 | [FR] My Night With a Bike ThiefAnd this, gentlemen, is why when you go out to meet women, you keep your wits about you. | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 01:22 AM |
| 12 | [FR] My Night With a Bike ThiefWho else but Kickstand? | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 01:21 AM |
| 28 | Teen charged with sexting girlfriend will be forced to get an erection via an injection and be photographed by police for evidenceI think "refusal to breach ethical responsibility" is actually one of your best doctoresque qualities! | /r/MensRights | 09/07/14 06:19 PM |
| 4 | 14yo introduces 8yo to sexual conduct. Mother of the 8yo complains to police, who arrest and charge the 8yo.Grosbeck says the Salt Lake County District Attorney told her both the child and teenager were equal participants. Equal participants...except one got to be MORE equal. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/14 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Hug or nothing!Everything is rape, isn't it? OP did not say "sex or nothing" and fuck - "nothing" is a choice that the woman is free to use. | /r/seduction | 08/07/14 03:42 AM |
| 4 | How To Kiss a Girl in 15 SecondsI've done this, not in 15 seconds, but definitely within a minute or so. I'll break it down in bulletpoints like I'm wont to do: It was early on in the night, so there was excitement about where the night could go, and everyone had 1-3 drinks in them already I was completely on top of my game. I went out well dressed, nice shoes, with my friends, and when I used to be the wallflower, I was now the life of the party. I always showed that I was having a good time. Laughing, dancing, slapping hands… | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 04:58 PM |
| 2 | "During prom season at my school, we're actually required to go to a mandatory anti-rape course, girls have to go to a self defense course.""Good. Before I took this class, I was going to rape everybody. Now I know better." ...thought no one ever. Rapists gonna rape and every other guy who took this class is just going to have more man shaming shoved down his throat | /r/MensRights | 30/06/14 10:58 AM |
| 6 | Oxford updated their "rapist" definition to "...typically a man".Ahh - we've gotten so used to editorializing everything that even our dictionaries are editorialized. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/14 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Pope Francis: “What I would like to add is that feminism, as a unique philosophy, does not do any favors to those that it claims to represent, for it puts women on the level of a vindictive battle, and a woman is much more than that,... it runs the risk of becoming chauvinism with skirts.”what circlejerk are you talking about??? | /r/MensRights | 24/06/14 01:42 AM |
| 0 | Pope Francis: “What I would like to add is that feminism, as a unique philosophy, does not do any favors to those that it claims to represent, for it puts women on the level of a vindictive battle, and a woman is much more than that,... it runs the risk of becoming chauvinism with skirts.”It's fucking close. Why the pedantry over a fun phrase? Jesus fucking christ... | /r/MensRights | 24/06/14 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Pope Francis: “What I would like to add is that feminism, as a unique philosophy, does not do any favors to those that it claims to represent, for it puts women on the level of a vindictive battle, and a woman is much more than that,... it runs the risk of becoming chauvinism with skirts.”Anyone else want to throw some pedantry my way? | /r/MensRights | 24/06/14 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Pope Francis: “What I would like to add is that feminism, as a unique philosophy, does not do any favors to those that it claims to represent, for it puts women on the level of a vindictive battle, and a woman is much more than that,... it runs the risk of becoming chauvinism with skirts.”What's the term then? "Phat Farm" sounds like "Fat Farm" but it has an alliterative feel despite not having the same first letter...I figured this it the same idea... Educate me. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/14 08:38 PM |
| -3 | Pope Francis: “What I would like to add is that feminism, as a unique philosophy, does not do any favors to those that it claims to represent, for it puts women on the level of a vindictive battle, and a woman is much more than that,... it runs the risk of becoming chauvinism with skirts.”The phonetic alliteration and imagery make it awesome "Shawvonism" with Skirts | /r/MensRights | 23/06/14 08:25 PM |
| 1 | [TW: Jezebel] Women should masturbate, but men that masturbate are lonely creeps/u/miroku000 found it: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/27oz99/tw_jezebel_women_should_masturbate_but_men_that/ci3buy1 | /r/MensRights | 09/06/14 10:07 PM |
| 2 | [TW: Jezebel] Women should masturbate, but men that masturbate are lonely creepsThis is exactly what I was thinking. Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 09/06/14 10:07 PM |
| 5 | [TW: Jezebel] Women should masturbate, but men that masturbate are lonely creepsIf I remembered the link I would have linked it. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/14 08:12 PM |
| 16 | [TW: Jezebel] Women should masturbate, but men that masturbate are lonely creepsI believe one tenet of this radical philosophy (based on something I remember reading) was that the only role for men is that the most attractive men would be the only ones who would not be euthanized. They would serve only a reproductive role, and to a point, the role of sex slave. It might've been the most insane thing I ever read that wasn't a joke or satire. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/14 07:44 PM |
| 39 | This is what happens when you defend your girlfriend and refuse to hit a female who is abusing you...But then when you get a: "HE THREATENED ME AND SAID HE IS GOING TO HIT A WOMAN" You will find every white knight crawl out of the woodwork to take her side. ESPECIALLY if she's attractive. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/14 02:22 PM |
| 7 | How Nightclubs Work and Why They’re Bad Places To Pick Up WomenNot sure why you're being downvoted. Even though we're not at 100% agreement, this is a helpful post. What it means though is that nightclubs give you extremely quick feedback about how well presented you are. Captured what I was saying well. Not true, not in the slightest. I'm a massive introvert. I often stand round in clubs looking dark and broody, and have had some of my best lays as a result. I would love to hear more about this. How does this affect your approaches? Are you standing in an … | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 02:01 PM |
| 28 | How Nightclubs Work and Why They’re Bad Places To Pick Up WomenThe issue that a lot of people have with nightclubs within our community is that it's simply not who a lot of us are. There are some people who get on here say they're new to seduction, a week later talk about a random F-Close, and then thank us and leave - they never needed us. They just needed some way to bounce back from their recent break up. But I think the bulk of the people who "study" pickup just don't like clubs, and that's okay. A lot of us are introverts learning to maybe push ourselv… | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 12:06 AM |
| 8 | Life Ruined, Thanks to Pussy PassYou're 100% right. Believe it or not, courts depend greatly on evidence. She had none. OP had scratches and bruises, and even eyewitness testimony. This is completely a fake story. | /r/PussyPass | 01/06/14 05:28 AM |
| 2 | If women are constantly afraid of men as feminists say then women are not competent to hold public jobsThere's no "campaign" per se, but if you want to at least talk about tolerance let's look at it this way: You post dribbling garbage that doesn't even begin to challenge our outlook on things, you merely belittle without any evidence. We still let you ramble on even though everything you say is excrement. If someone posted something respectful, but dissenting on a feminist site, there's a pretty fucking good chance it would mean the banhammer. So campaign? No. Blatant fucking bias? You bet. So f… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/14 03:56 AM |
| -4 | Sometimes /r/MensRights makes me scared of womenM'Lady Oh please. You're just downvoting me because everyone calls us neckbeards. I'm sorry but /u/BaconCatBug is completely a neckbeard. We need to learn to laugh at ourselves. Except /u/BaconCatBug. Fuck that guy. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/14 03:53 AM |
| 4 | [FR] This girl threw me off my game when she told me her boyfriend died last month.You're correct, but there's a difference between: "I opened, crashed and burned when this one girl gave me this shit test - how do I avoid this in the future?" and "There's this one girl I see on the bus all the time and I need to know what to do to ...." (who even cares how that sentence ends? The former is a question worth entertaining with advice pertaining to the situation, and the latter is a question worth entertaining with advice that says "stop worrying about this girl." I'm seeing more … | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 06:48 PM |
| 10 | [FR] This girl threw me off my game when she told me her boyfriend died last month.they miss the big picture Agreed. This should be on the /r/seduction sidebar. It seems like 10% of all new posts are "this one girl..." type questions when I thought it was pretty clear that seduction is very much about NOT having that mindset. Meanwhile, a bunch of people will: Give advice how to get "this one girl" Applaud OP when OP puts in WAY too much effort into "this one girl" and wins her (that's not seduction, that's luck). Talk about reverse friendzoning like it's the holy grail of sed… | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 03:56 PM |
| -1 | Creep shamed, because I wouldn't let a woman return a sweaterShe made a scene at a store - if she said "you asshole" or if OP was a woman, similar levels of distrust would have probably risen. Again - this is a case of a jerk making a scene. Not a creep shaming incident. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/14 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Creep shamed, because I wouldn't let a woman return a sweaterBut nothing happened after she called him a creep...they left, and OP wasn't reprimanded, or even talked to. "you're just a creep, I don't care what you think. Cmon kids, let's get away from this awful creep!" That's it...I'm not arguing that we don't have plenty of issues as men, I'm saying that this isn't one of them. She just used the term "creep." If she was the type of mother who swears in front of her kids, she'd have probably said asshole. This is NOT creep shaming. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/14 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Creep shamed, because I wouldn't let a woman return a sweaterIs this a men's rights issue? if you were a woman she'd have called you a bitch. This is simply a case of an entitled jerk not getting what they wanted. Their choice of language was merely circumstantial. Nothing to see here. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/14 05:15 PM |
| 15 | Married guy here, I read this /r/seduction for self improvement, unexpected # close at grocery storeHe didn't even ask for her number, she gave it to him (which is fucking awesome). A lot of seduction has helped me outside of sex and relationships. Being able to be outcome independent has focused my mind through conflict (you win more arguments when you're never worried about losing them). Confidence, learning to improve myself, working hard on inner game, and just simply practicing interactions has helped me a lot. I'm a market research nerd (analytical, sits at my computer a lot), and I'm ab… | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Three tips you would give yourself on your first dateI probably have to preface this with "Welcome to Seddit!" A lot of great beginner information is in the sidebar. Everything that'll get you up to speed, including what all the acronyms are. "I F-Closed an HB9 and became FWBs all because of DHVs!" In short - Kino is flirtatious touching. | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 03:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you lot fall in love?"Was all this legal? Absolutely fuckin' not!" | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Three tips you would give yourself on your first dateOh trust me. You don't want to not picture me nailing her. | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Three tips you would give yourself on your first dateGotcha. When I posted the edit, I was drowning in downvotes. It's just a mentality that I kept in my head that kept me focused. For whatever reason, me personally - I've always been very confident once the bedroom door is shut. I don't know why. I used to stumble when talking to girls. I used to overthink everything. Dates were interviews. It was horrible. Then I heard the advice to think of her sexually when you're talking, and it changed the way that I acted, and of course, how she responded t… | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 02:05 PM |
| 28 | Three tips you would give yourself on your first date2) Don't act interested if she's not being interesting I love it. I've been on lousy dates that ended up with me not being interested about 10 minutes in. My only mistake was not being honest and going "I don't think this is going to work out." Even though I didn't express interest, I stuck around, and she clung on. Luckily I was able to say that I wasn't interested in a second date after she asked, but holy crap - I'll be up front next time! | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 09:20 PM |
| 20 | Three tips you would give yourself on your first dateHere's what worked for me (past tense since I've been dating someone exclusively): Kino. Have you had a girlfriend before? Remember how comfortable you were touching her casually? Do that (well - don't molest her if that was your thing). Conversation. You need to lead the conversation, but only participate in conversation about 20-40% of the time. Let her do the talking. When you DO talk, you have to be funny, flirty, use cheesy sexual jokes, and of course only do about half the talking out of y… | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 09:16 PM |
| 1 | She admitted to making a false rape accusationJesus christ. If you're going to get pedantic about it and argue semantics, I'm done. I thought it was crystal clear that OP by "notorious" was implying "typically" or "all" bad, and not simply that their reputation alone was bad. The fact is, as I was stating is that the reputation is a misconception. They're very good. Want to pick apart my casual use of the English language any further? | /r/MensRights | 13/05/14 08:22 PM |
| 2 | She admitted to making a false rape accusationBut the original words were "notoriously bad." I would say that there's a fair amount of separation between the two ideas. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/14 07:49 PM |
| 6 | She admitted to making a false rape accusationpublic defenders are notoriously bad--largely due to overwork I have to disagree. /r/legaladvice frequently touts how public defenders are actually quite good at their jobs - this includes the words of verified attorneys who post frequently. Yes, they're overworked, but they're often good lawyers. Litigation isn't this crazy art that requires a ridiculous amount of talent - sure - people like Johnny Cochran can come up with a crazy "If the glove doesn't fit..." argument, but a lot of litigation … | /r/MensRights | 13/05/14 07:13 PM |
| 4 | She admitted to making a false rape accusationYes - I agree. This story is complete bullshit. Convicted of rape on shoddy evidence. Wait no not just that.....the case went to trial on shoddy evidence. Bullshit. 6 months. Was he convicted of rape, or was he convicted of some sort of assault charge? Either way, someone who was charged and convicted of that crime wouldn't confuse the two. People shout at him, calling him "rapist" and spit at him. Riiiiight. The girl is nonchalant about the farce, even going so far as to laughing it off. If OP … | /r/MensRights | 13/05/14 04:14 PM |
| 28 | [FR] Was I in the wrong?You've got to take the good with the bad. I'm all for egalitarian relationships, and with that, comes equal pay. Now, I tend to pay more often than not, but that's because I'm pretty financially well off. I remember this one girl. HB8. She and I hit it off, she specifically commented at how she really liked how direct, confident, etc I was. When I asked her out on date 2, she said "I don't think it's possible that I could have a bad time with you" or something like that. So we had the date, and … | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 03:51 PM |
| 5 | This is what my "best friend" thinks of MRAs.It's ignorant. It's incredibly vague, and it sounds like something that someone who wants to belittle someone else, but doesn't have a good enough argument to do so would do. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/14 05:30 PM |
| 4 | This is what my "best friend" thinks of MRAs.Don't be ashamed that this person is your best friend. (I assume you have some degree of shame due to your use of quotes). He or she is misaligned on one idea. I'm sure that you're friends with this person for a number of reasons different from his or her opinion of men's rights. It's possible that outside of his or her opinion of gender rights, they're probably an alright person (which is why you're friends with them). If we all demanded that we have matching sets of ideals among all our friend… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/14 05:22 PM |
| 3 | PUA blogs and Youtube videos are creating an army of angry douchebags that have invaded sedditNice guys hate him! | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 08:20 PM |
| 3 | The Reaction Of Feminists To A Male Rape VictimI've even had to post my tits + retired police badge or GTFO Wait - so in order to prove that you're a woman, you have to give in to the very thing that feminists allegedly are trying to protect women from? | /r/MensRights | 29/04/14 02:40 PM |
| 3 | [poll] How would you guys feel about a weekly opener/routine challenge?Yes. No caveats. Just yes. Someone initiates the challenge on a Wednesday, and the [FR]s are posted in a new thread the following Tuesday. Let's not overthink this. Edit: Maybe we need caveats. 1.) Challenges are broad and can be used by novices and experts. This is a dumb example, but "Approach someone with a well known line from a movie" would lead a novice to think of something romantic, an intermediate person might think of "come with me if you want to live." and a total pro can recite the m… | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 07:42 PM |
| 20 | Get inspired by job applying mistakesNot cocky. Confident with no actual skills. We hired a person who could talk a great game, but she really just stroked the ego of the hiring manager. She was...stupid. Like...box-of-rocks stupid. She had no substance, but she could talk a great game. We fired her, and then I was asked to contribute in the hiring process for the person I'm talking about in the previous message. The analog to seduction is this: Outer game might get your foot in the door, and you might even get lucky in one night. … | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 12:42 AM |
| 42 | Get inspired by job applying mistakesI used to think this shit was total bullshit... Then I became a hiring manager. The interview is VERY much a seduction routine. I felt like confidence was king, and luckily, a committee of us vetted the candidates so that we didn't do something stupid like hire an overly confident idiot. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 11:51 PM |
| 59 | Dear MensRights - A False Accusation Through My University Has Me Terrified For My Future, Please Help.I hope you're documenting everything. Not only will it help you in case you face legal troubles. It'll help you when you unleash your civil suits against the school and her for the defamation of your character. Hell - you know what? Talk to a lawyer NOW about it. Go on the offensive. If she's served, and the school's served, she will have to pony up cash for a lawyer (you won't - you can easily find a lawyer who'll work on a contingency if he or she decides you have a case). The school will sudd… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/14 04:47 AM |
| 5 | Feminist claims to have PTSD from mean twitter comments and is actively trying to get military vets fired for calling her out for it - [5:01] (x-post from /r/military)Can you share with us what you found so that I can value my jimmies? | /r/MensRights | 17/04/14 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Massive dragnet....Hundreds of French students and teachers DNA tested to find rapist, anyone refusing becomes a suspectNo. Not at all. Everyone is throwing around numbers that can be explained by the birthday problem. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birthday_problem So first, let's get into how DNA testing works. It's simple - they look at the evidence DNA and 13 specific loci within the DNA. They look at the suspect DNA next. a 9/13 match is acceptable. So if you compared my DNA to yours, we would have to match on at least 9 of these loci to be a "match." Next - the question is "what's the likelihood of matching o… | /r/MensRights | 15/04/14 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Massive dragnet....Hundreds of French students and teachers DNA tested to find rapist, anyone refusing becomes a suspect"Talk to my lawyer" are the best words. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/14 09:57 PM |
| 4 | Massive dragnet....Hundreds of French students and teachers DNA tested to find rapist, anyone refusing becomes a suspectNo. My logic is sound, and it's a concern that's been present in people before DNA evidence was even a thing. Think back to Fingerprints. If your fingerprints are on file, they can and will be used to compare against newly collected fingerprint evidence. Everytime. If they're not, this simply won't happen. Same goes with DNA. By your logic, just existing out in public makes me a suspect to any crime perpetrated by a white male, average height. Yes it does - for a fleeting second many times a day… | /r/MensRights | 15/04/14 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Wil Wheaton posts an infographic on Tumblr regarding a survey of this subreddit. Where did this come from? Is it legitimate?You said his name 3 times. Now we wait... | /r/MensRights | 15/04/14 06:15 PM |
| 22 | Wil Wheaton posts an infographic on Tumblr regarding a survey of this subreddit. Where did this come from? Is it legitimate?I write surveys for a living. This must've been one of the worst crafted surveys in the history of the practice. An example of how shitty this survey is: "Which of the following issues do you support?" Now - either this is one of the world's most incredible coincidences, or this question was worded like shit. The percentages add up to 100 AND THEY SHOULDN'T. I support a few of those issues - I'm sure others do too. Nope - this was a single-answer-radio-button question. "Which issue do you most s… | /r/MensRights | 15/04/14 02:49 PM |
| 20 | Massive dragnet....Hundreds of French students and teachers DNA tested to find rapist, anyone refusing becomes a suspectBut with that sample provided, are you now in the system forever? Your DNA is now in a database and for a millisecond anytime a crime is committed and investigated using sample collection, you will be a suspect until the computer looks at the next database entry. All because you're a man who wanted to avoid being treated as a suspect for a crime you didn't commit. Investigation is the job of the police. Its lazy for them to demand all men comply or else automatically be a suspect. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/14 12:03 PM |
| 6 | /r/Mensrights I need your help! My sexist (ex) boss has just made a new rule banning ALL MALES from being hired SIMPLY FOR BEING MALES.Are we talking about a metric fuck ton or an imperial fuck ton? These are VASTLY different things... | /r/MensRights | 09/04/14 10:01 PM |
| 3 | /r/Mensrights I need your help! My sexist (ex) boss has just made a new rule banning ALL MALES from being hired SIMPLY FOR BEING MALES.https://i.imgur.com/sg017lt.gif | /r/MensRights | 09/04/14 09:58 PM |
| 2 | What is your Iron Law?Especially since MM published Models in 2011, and pickup has been around for much longer. I read Models, and it was good. It'd be ignorant to just assume that my phrasing wasn't influenced by this. However, if anyone thinks that MM invented this concept, then they need to stop their idol worshipping. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 04:40 PM |
| 1 | What is your Iron Law?Again: Which Part? | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 03:30 PM |
| 2 | What is your Iron Law?Which part? I know he's big on "hi I'm Mark" but that's not exactly something I would say belongs to him. As for the rest....that's been parroted in seduction for over a decade. I don't think it belongs to him either. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 02:23 PM |
| 26 | What is your Iron Law?She wants you to approach. She is rooting for you. She doesn't know who "you" are, but that's your job to let her know. "Hi - I'm nobody2000" | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 01:01 PM |
| 10 | What is your Iron Law?This goes against a pretty good rule that applies to seduction: You don't ask advice on how to catch fish from the fish. You ask the fishermen. I wouldn't fuck half of you guys, but shit - the advice from the /r/seduction community is for the most part, not bad. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 01:00 PM |
| 13 | Any older virgins successfully turned it around?I'm pumped that you're taking action - this is critical. I want you to remember, however, that the things that you're self-conscious about can be replaced by other annoyances: If you hate your glasses and get lasik, you might find an excuse about the clothes you wear; if you change your clothes, you might think that your car is lame...and so on. I'm forging a friendship with a guy at work that gets out way more than me Boom. Right here. One little piece of advice that gets mentioned here a lot b… | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 08:39 PM |
| 48 | Update on the Men's Pride club at my school.Is the 63% figure all males or is that out of males who were attacked by their SO's? If it's the former, it seems a bit high. If it's the latter, it's very believable. Also - even though radfems will tear these down or try to belittle you, there are lots of level headed people who will appreciate good facts. Please use the whitespace on the flyer as an opportunity to support your facts using sources. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/14 01:53 PM |
| 1 | You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do?OP wrote "cockholds" and I was clarifying. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 08:39 PM |
| 2 | You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do?Search for AMOG. There are great resources on how to disarm one. I just gave the quick version. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 08:07 PM |
| 33 | You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do?You had me up until spilling your drink. That's 100% being a dick, and that's not what we do. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 06:46 PM |
| 66 | You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do?That generates a great image. OP at the bar, getting a handy from his girl, while some dude hits on her. Alpha as fuck. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 05:16 PM |
| 207 | You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do?Well first of all, you need to know what to expect. Is he simply more alpha, or is he a classic AMOG? If he's simply alpha, you're going to need to seduce him. Yes - I said it. Befriend him. Joke with him. Even tease him a bit. He won't respond to particularly deprecating jokes, and they'll only make you look like an ass in front of your date. Oh - you'll need to playfully touch your date a lot too. Hand on the small of her back. A true alpha will understand once you befriend him that when you t… | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 05:08 PM |
| 40 | You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do?cockholds you Cuckolds you? | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 05:01 PM |
| 46 | The consequences of Feminist-influenced 'creep hysteria': Passers-by too afraid to approach lost children in fear of being branded creepsUgh. I remember in college watching a car slam into a guardrail as my friend and I were driving to the store to pick up some things. It was dark and he didn't even see it happen (was in the wide periphery). "Dude - I think that car just crashed. Back up." We backed up, and saw if the driver was okay. She was. It was a 16 year old girl who just got her license about a week prior. She called her mom, and we waited with her. I kept my distance because I know how these things can go... Once her mom … | /r/MensRights | 24/03/14 09:04 PM |
| 18 | Because abuse is funny if a man is the victimtl;dr - We need to pick our battles, gentlemen. "Shit Pussies Say" is a symptom of misandry, it's not the cause. You can whine and shut down these people one by one, but you're not going to achieve anything as more pop up. Public policy fights, educating men on how to protect your assets and visitation rights after a divorce, and speaking out against the toxic leaders who try to belittle our movement - THESE are the fights worth fighting. But a Twitter account/Tumblr page/Facebook page? It's a w… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/14 05:57 PM |
| 5 | Interview with Philip Roth: 'In some quarters, “misogynist” is now a word used almost as laxly as was “Communist” by the McCarthyite right in the 1950s — and for very like the same purpose.'And when feminists see this far right winger speech they dismiss us as fundamental nut jobs. Thanks for doing everything to set our cause back!!! | /r/MensRights | 17/03/14 02:05 AM |
| 9 | My experience approaching a true 10OP needs time to make them up so that his story actually sounds believable. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 03:27 PM |
| 7 | My experience approaching a true 10This is bragging. I know he didn't label it as an [FR], so I guess I shouldn't expect much in terms of the description of the situation, opening, escalation, and closing, but it sounds like a brag post. Totally unhelpful. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 03:25 PM |
| 1 | To those who have arrived here for the first time because of the SNL sketch... Welcome. Please join the discussion.You're a little wishy washy to be participating in a debate. You're debating. I'm not. I'm telling you "I don't know, but there's plenty of shitty posts that support OP's gripes." "I don't know" is a perfectly fine answer when all you're doing is saying "I don't know." Get with it. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | To those who have arrived here for the first time because of the SNL sketch... Welcome. Please join the discussion.most people who are active here are not interested in real advocacy Maybe it's true, maybe it's not. OP is describing something where there are ____ ample examples____ that only have to do with petty facebook related shit, and not real stuff like Alimony, Child support, the anti-male definitions of rape, and the like. A "My friend is a stupid feminist lolz" post isn't helpful. An actual discussion of injustice and forwarding the agenda of true equality is. Sure there are plenty of posts that are… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/14 11:36 PM |
| 4 | To those who have arrived here for the first time because of the SNL sketch... Welcome. Please join the discussion.And you're acting like a tumblr feminist by dismissing this post the way you do. We are a legitimate movement with a valid set of injustices coupled by the fact that the world reduces our problems as gripes due to the illusion of privilege. There are some great posts...and there are some really nitpicky posts. Stuff that you would see on tumblr had the genders been reversed. Juvenile. Irrelevant. Awful. Why be offended by this comment when you can use it to guide the arguments past nitpicking an… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/14 02:49 PM |
| 24 | Feminist charity demands UK Govt. statistics authority change its methodology because it 'suggests men and women are equally affected by domestic violence.""Change your methodology! The facts are just too...factual!" | /r/MensRights | 07/03/14 05:46 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do I learn to dance?Easy: Watch YouTube Videos and ask friends. Get out and practice Are you good or are you bad? The answer is irrelevant Are you having fun dancing, and do you look like you're having fun? If the answer to either part of the previous question is "no" then don't bother dancing. At least you tried to learn. Dancing doesn't make you more attractive - always looking like you're charismatic and fun does. I've seen guys just plop down at a hightop and attract women left and right. If you hate dancing, a… | /r/seduction | 07/03/14 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Male PrivilegeMandatory military service for men is quite common worldwide. Some countries demand that you serve for a period of time, others demand that you simply register for a draft, should the time come for people to be needed. In the US, draft registration is mandatory, but no one's been called to active duty via the draft since the Vietnam Conflict. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/14 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Male PrivilegeI guess it's about both really. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/14 02:57 PM |
| 12 | Male PrivilegeWhile I agree that many level headed women believe that the draft in theory is something that should be fair across all sexes, the more vocal feminists tend to conveniently ignore the draft issue, or completely speak out against extending mandatory registration to women. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/14 02:46 PM |
| 11 | I'm quite enjoying my latest psychology book."...also shortchanges men and women..." YES! How fucking hard is it for feminists to realize that by being "more equal" than men, they're building up the perfect scenario to screw over other women?!?! By coddling them while still insisting on some sort of independence, you have the human equivalent of raising a cat indoors, declawing it, then releasing it into the wild. I'm proud to have had a female boss. Why? She understood that she could lead without having to fight the nonexistent "privilege… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/14 08:45 PM |
| 18 | Feminists finally realizing that Amanda Marcotte cares more about jailing men than helping womenEh. It's the lesser of one evil berating another. The author is quite liberal with her use of the term "rape culture." In any other context, we would be ripping this author a new one. This is simply an instance of one extremist getting mad at another for taking things a little too far. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/14 01:54 PM |
| 7 | How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - if you've ever asked that question, this will shift your paradigmIt unfortunately results in a catch-22 of sorts. Ultimately, you have to become outcome independent and stop giving a fuck. If you don't give a fuck, you no longer want the girl you're trying to get back, even though you can probably do it. The only secret is really for every 1 hour you spend reading shit, you should spend 4 in the field getting your hands dirty and failing. A lot of guys here sling a lot of theory ("keyboard jockeys"), a lot will passively apply theory in the field ("I approach… | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 05:45 PM |
| 4 | How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - if you've ever asked that question, this will shift your paradigmI wasn't disagreeing with you really. And you really didn't say that... | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 05:21 PM |
| 34 | How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - if you've ever asked that question, this will shift your paradigmI came here to get my ex back. Once I was equipped with the knowledge to get her back, I really didn't want her back anymore. | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 04:44 PM |
| 9 | Cesar Millan's wife (The Dog Whisperer) filed for divorce in March 2010. She ended up receiving a single payment of $400,000, monthly spousal payment of $23,000 (that's $276,000 a year), AND $120,000 a year in monthly child support. Cesar Millan then attempted suicide.It's a good thing that the law is so wonderful about letting someone renegotiate their alimony and child support if their circumstances change! /s | /r/MensRights | 20/02/14 09:46 PM |
| 2 | THE ULTIMATE: A COLLEGE ADMINISTRATOR THINKS AN ACCUSATION IS ENOUGH TO WARRANT EXPULSION FOR SEXUAL ASSAULTI agree with you, but I do agree with the need for this type of news to be seen. Dartmouth is an Ivy League School, and thus, one of great prestige. Colleges, while they're not required to abide by the law of the constitution, it's unfortunate that they choose to not adopt the practices of due process, and "innocent until proven guilty," favoring peer tribunals. Couple that with a militant liberal mindset (liberal/conservative isn't bad per se, but the fundamentalist/extremist philosophy is wron… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/14 06:23 PM |
| 6 | Finally we have an agreement (xpost r/TumblrInAction)My favorite part? The circle jerking over the definition of feminism, yet no two commenters can really agree on a definition. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/14 02:00 PM |
| 1 | "We're not having sex" Past 2 weekends this has happened to me while I've had girls in my bed.Ok - downvotes on a perfectly valid comment, followed by 2 unhelpful replies. First of all if /u/STylerMLmusic is a troll, apologies all around. We talk about how this is a numbers game - Mark Manson breaks it down based on his own experience and intuition. We also talk about just walking away from situations where it's clear we're getting nowhere. One girl won't have sex with you - time to try the other 3,499,999,999 girls in the world. You move on. This happens. A girl will get you back to her… | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 05:15 AM |
| 15 | From woman to man to red pillHmm...spellcheck must be an invention of the patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/14 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Heard this gem yesterday at a college. Stay safe, men!And all men are true scotsmen! | /r/MensRights | 29/01/14 03:42 PM |
| 73 | Heard this gem yesterday at a college. Stay safe, men!What's so troubling is that this mindset is consequence-free. The law is 100% in support of this woman trapping a man for a paycheck. If she's wealthy and the man is poor? Paycheck. If she's poor and the man's wealthy? Paycheck. If she's poor and the man's poor? Paycheck. And the reason is to "protect the kid." I agree that children who have no say in whether they want to be brought in this world deserve some nominal degree of support, but shit - the decision maker (the woman) can bring a child … | /r/MensRights | 28/01/14 07:22 PM |
| -3 | In Memory of all the Men that Protected Women from DangerI'm demonizing Hillary and people who think like her. On one hand, there's this push to shatter the glass ceiling. Women (like any human being) deserve to be empowered to be independent. But to suggest they're the "losers" of war encourages the "look for a man to support me" attitude. It's the mixed message that a lot of modern day feminists send. I just used hyperbole and went a little overboard. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/14 08:31 PM |
| -4 | In Memory of all the Men that Protected Women from DangerThis just proves correct what Hillary Said - that women are the true victims of war (and other incidents). The woman has to lose her husband and provider for the rest of eternity, and she's burdened with having to find another sugar daddy. The husband merely dies an icy, painful, horrific death, or simply faces crippling lifetime injury and pain and an inability to work and provide for himself and his family. Men are victimizing women by sacrificing themselves!!!! /s - every fucking word | /r/MensRights | 27/01/14 05:38 PM |
| -1 | Denmark may soon be the first country in the world to issue a ban on non-therapeutic circumcisionReally? So someone who happens to be a male describes a voluntary positive experience, he's a shill? Fuck this shit. If you voice an ounce of dissent in this sub, you get slammed. Just like /r/feminism. Good stuff. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/14 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Denmark may soon be the first country in the world to issue a ban on non-therapeutic circumcisionHey! Me too! I was 22 when I began to get phimosis. I didn't realize what was going on - I thought honestly that my penis was getting bigger and my skin would stretch to accommodate. After it got tighter, I looked into it, and I saw that I had phimosis. Unfortunately, leaving it so long meant that through sex and masturbation, microtears left the end slightly scarred and hardened. As a result, circumcision was the only option left. The only difference I notice is with blowjobs. For some reason, … | /r/MensRights | 24/01/14 05:12 PM |
| -4 | Denmark may soon be the first country in the world to issue a ban on non-therapeutic circumcisionYou can wash everyday and still have smegma buildup. It's called body chemistry and it differs from person to person. Some intact individuals don't even produce smegma. It's ignorant to think that smegma automatically means that a person is unclean. It's thinking like this that pro-circumcision assholes use to promote cutting. Just stop. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/14 04:50 PM |
| -4 | Female Philadelphia Cop 'Stops and Frisks' African American Teen, Literally Destroying His GenitalsWhat literature? The introductions of papers on testicular rupture surgical repair, mostly. I stand corrected on my confusion of the word "fracture." The article you linked describes fractures, and then discusses specifically how fractures are not as serious as ruptures. A wrestling incident involves the whole body, a great deal of leverage, and momentum focused on the small surface area of a foot. This has more energy than that of a grip. You really need to support that claim. For the grip stre… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/14 11:50 PM |
| -1 | Female Philadelphia Cop 'Stops and Frisks' African American Teen, Literally Destroying His GenitalsI've no doubt that /u/Aleksander73 is not a doctor (he should know that it's physically impossible to fracture a testicle because fractures only happen to bones). However, the literature shows that a rupture would require: Incredible blunt force trauma, like being hit by a fastball Some sort of sharp instrument to pierce the outer layer Some sort of high-energy force. With that said, one cannot rule out that the man arrested didn't have a genetic condition or a pre-existing injury (at least we h… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/14 11:16 PM |
| -1 | Female Philadelphia Cop 'Stops and Frisks' African American Teen, Literally Destroying His GenitalsWhile your first comment was rude, I don't think you should be downvoted for this one. Everyone else: Voices of dissent are NOT trolls, and they are not automatically feminist sympathizers. If we don't try to verify that the news articles we read actually are what they say they are, we're arguing over pure hypotheticals. While I have no way of verifying /u/Aleksander73 on whether or not he or she is a physician, I CAN verify that after having owned a set of testicles and have seen porn featuring… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/14 10:37 PM |
| 19 | Thank you for giving me solid facts:Yes, but here's a startling fact that pretty much proves rape culture exists no matter whether you're talking about the US or Western Africa: 100% of women who are raped have once met a man in their life. Even more startling, this statistic remains unchanged for victims of woman-on-woman rape. Tell me that this isn't the patriarchy at work... | /r/MensRights | 21/01/14 12:48 PM |
| 7 | Can Male Birth Control Save Humanity? Reversible male birth control would help the male gender immenselyI would much rather deny men of reproductive rights than save humanity, solve overpopulation, fix world hunger, achieve complete world peace, and cure cancer. I am a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/14 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Making out tipsFun fact - when you're with a terrible kisser - she will think that you're terrible too. The easiest way to prevent this, ask her to slow down. | /r/seduction | 15/01/14 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Making out tipsIt's really this simple. I like to dig my hands into her hair in the back of her head, caress her head, and give the hair a little tug at the root. | /r/seduction | 15/01/14 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How to date rich womennone of those neckbeards would say that shit to my face Ding ding ding ding ding. Redpillers employ the strategy of "keyboard jockeying" which is really not a strategy at all, but idealizing a philosophy so deeply that you create a community where it supposedly "works" when in reality, none of these guys know what they're talking about. | /r/seduction | 13/01/14 09:20 PM |
| 11 | How to date rich womenSo tell me - have you ever been in an awkward situation where the bill comes at dinner, and you'd like to split it, but when you make the suggestion, the person you're at dinner with scoffs at you, bitches at how "the man should pay for things," or anything like that? Because I have, which is why first-date-dinner-dates are something I don't do anymore. If a girl even hints to me that "the guy should pay for everything.." I walk. So while reversing the mentality doesn't solve anything, you certa… | /r/seduction | 13/01/14 07:55 PM |
| 4 | How to date rich womenIf you're ever wondering if someone's truly an asshole, or they just had a poor choice of words, simply check their post history for /r/theredpill posts. | /r/seduction | 13/01/14 07:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Fclose in the Caribbean/r/seduction is the best resource for beginners and intermediates. I think that once people get this good, they begin to kind of get off the computer. There's a lot of churn in lower level PUA advice here. The advanced seddits, in my opinion, are the lair subreddits. There's a lot less keyboard jockeying, and a lot more [FR]s that can be vouched for by someone who was sarging with the poster. | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 09:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Fclose in the CaribbeanHonestly, if you can't get laid on a week's vacation, you're screwing something up or not trying. Can't this be said about any location during any period of time? In fact, that's probably not a bad mentality to have all-in-all, but I think it's a pretty universal idea. | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 09:45 PM |
| 23 | Compilation of responses to rape stories from news sites. Male on Female? "Lock him up, put this animal on death row!" Female on Male? "Little sissy girly boy - shameful, pitiful, man"... But MRAs are the rape apologists, right?But on the other hand they do like to pull unsavory quotes and completely ignore the context behind it. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/14 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Can we do a date idea megathread?Sushi's old news. Shawarma is where it's at. Sushi used to be the universal "Look how sexy and cultured I am!" You could demonstrate value by preparing your soy sauce, wasabi, and ginger while showing off on chopsticks. Well - you can buy Sushi at gas stations. It's no longer special. I took a girl out to sushi a month ago because I really wanted sushi. She never tried sushi before and was fascinated at the whole ritual. Then she wouldn't stop with the commentary on sushi and how it was her firs… | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 05:51 AM |
| 5 | NYE tipsUnless you're going for the show of it and you can afford to waste a bottle. Point that sucker in a safe area, and just pop it with your thumb. Let it flow, spill, and make a mess. Offer to pour it down the gullets of the drunk girls next to you. Sometimes you just need to be the popular guy in the room who opens the champagne like the asshole on TV and in the movies. (Oh and unless you're doing this in your own home, or outside, you WILL get booted from the party, just sayin) | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 11:59 PM |
| 6 | Dating Is Over - AskMenRead up on the "Escalation Ladder" and "Escalation Anxiety." Escalation is the difference between "I chatted it up with this amazing hottie last night" and "I fucked this amazing hottie last night." | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 03:47 AM |
| 1 | This comedian sums up texting girls perfectly.NOOO!!! COME BACK!! WE NEED SOMEONE TO GIVE US CRITICISM WITHOUT CONTRIBUTING ANYTHING!!! | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 11:15 PM |
| 1 | This comedian sums up texting girls perfectly.I expect you to justify being a critical fuckwit. If you're going to criticize a sub, at least fucking show you're doing something to improve it, cunt. | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 06:59 PM |
| 0 | This comedian sums up texting girls perfectly.Ahem... You have no submissions. No Field reports. It took me a whole 10 seconds to figure this out. Prove me otherwise. HOW HAVE YOU CONTRIBUTED VALUE TO THIS SUB? | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 05:40 PM |
| 0 | This comedian sums up texting girls perfectly.I took a brief glance at your post history...You have no posts other than comments. This means no field reports. This means you didn't share any sources, sites, or anything like that beyond a comment in a thread. No fucking field reports. You've "fucked probably more girls than the majority in this sub" but you haven't talked about any of your experiences. What have you given back, unless it's on another username (you appear to have had this one for a month)? I see you make the occasional one-of… | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 05:17 PM |
| 3 | I was asked by a girl at a bar "How big is your dick?" ... I fucked up and didn't have a good responseOkay - that's elaborating, and you're not wrong. However, humor - at least when it's a result of confidence and being witty - is pretty good at building attraction. Being a comedian? Not necessarily, but quick quips are definitely good tools. | /r/seduction | 27/12/13 12:08 AM |
| 3 | I was asked by a girl at a bar "How big is your dick?" ... I fucked up and didn't have a good responseI have a friend who sleeps with a lot of girls. He often brings up dick size voluntarily in conversation, and how he has a small dick. The fact, in my head, is this: He's confident. If you're trying to validate yourself when she asks how big your dick is, you've lost. If you handle the question calmly and with confidence, you won. While I'm not a huge fan of self-deprecation, you can use a little bit of it to your advantage. Some things that would probably work in your favor: (Very lively) "oh i… | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 11:01 PM |
| 3 | I was asked by a girl at a bar "How big is your dick?" ... I fucked up and didn't have a good responseYou wanna know what's useless? Not elaborating. Thanks for the contribution. | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 10:56 PM |
| 4 | Some things I'd love to see from /r/seduction in 2014 - what else?I posted a question like that and I got a message saying to post it in /r/askseddit . I'm okay with that type of regulation. | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 01:28 AM |
| 5 | Some things I'd love to see from /r/seduction in 2014 - what else?I'd also like to see more empathy towards posters who try something unique This! I wanted to turn seduction into a type of a game. I visited my Alma Mater and ran a fun "test" I made up for myself by everyone. Basically it was this: go back to my alma mater for the meeting I had to go to. The next steps were: At the meeting, recruit as many women as I could to come out to the bars Do not arrange a place to sleep ahead of time. No hotels, on-campus housing, or bunking up with friends. If I crash … | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 01:27 AM |
| 4 | Some things I'd love to see from /r/seduction in 2014 - what else?The thing is - if you approach learning about seduction (or anything for that matter) with humility, patient people will help you. If you read up on an element of pickup - let's say the simple approach - and then go out into the field, and write about how hard it was to breathe, how you managed to introduce yourself to someone, and then how you got slapped in the face - you're going to learn: That everyone has been exactly where you're at. That's why we're here! If you provide enough details, we… | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Some things I'd love to see from /r/seduction in 2014 - what else?You are my reasoning for highlighting the "bad" [FR]s. I think I recall reading some of your posts from early on, as well as some posts from other people who are very well versed at the game, and I greatly appreciated the value: First of all, being able to show the pattern of growth - how some people went from "I'm going to go for it" to "Let me help show you how it's done" is amazing. The way some of you, as long as some of the archived messages from other boards have shown novices turn into ma… | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Texting someone who is away for two months.I'd personally do this: Run a few days of text game and let it die. Be clever, flirt, tease, and then kinda extend your response time out so far that you forget about her, and she's left wondering why this clever, smart, fun dude stopped talking to her. Then maybe 3-4 days before she's supposed to be back, just text her "Hey, are you back yet?" Then you can start laying down game, and more importantly organizing logistics. If you demonstrate value, and keep her attracted while texting, when you … | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Is it OK to be a Nice Guy when you look like a tough guy?This. Before I was into seduction and all that, I was frontman for a band. We weren't that good, and of course I was an AFC for the most part. It still didn't prevent me from the occasional hookup (literally "getting lucky"). I'm certain that if an AFC like me could get some tail here and there after a gig, it means that there's something to be said about the value of this particular status. The big thing is this - after a gig - you don't need to approach anyone - they'll approach you. Now, the … | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Good friend fucking my crush - need advice how to get over itTime for you to find the book "models" by Mark Manson. It's 99.9% inner game, and probably the most valuable publication in terms of seduction. You can probably read it over a weekend. Hang onto it because you'll want to reread it. Someone also posted on here a summary of the book about a month ago (but read the actual book). | /r/seduction | 22/12/13 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Good friend fucking my crush - need advice how to get over itYou're in copious good company. I'd put money on 99% of the men on this sub having experienced at least half of what you're going through. Luckily, we're here to help. While you will be living with your buddy and this girl will be around all the time, you're going to have to do what you can to forget about her. You're no longer allowed to spend more than 2-3 evenings per week in your house. You're to start going out. Doesn't matter where. If it's going to the library to read fucking books, do it… | /r/seduction | 17/12/13 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Fear of Rejection isn't the only fear in Approach AnxietyWell get it next time! I remember early on going on a date and I didn't K-Close when I really should have. There was 0 chance of rejection and I knew it. Date #2, I pulled her close and K-Closed her and straight up apologized "I'm sorry that I'm a week late on this." She didn't know what to say, and just kind of told me "it's okay" and we kissed (later we did more). My point is that we all fuck up sometimes, and there are excellent ways to recover. It might be cute or endearing to her if you cat… | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Fear of Rejection isn't the only fear in Approach AnxietyWhat's good about approaching girls in your class is that if you don't get the chance to close, you might get the opportunity next class. However, keep in mind the number of distractions in college, and of course the short window you have to demonstrate attraction. Close quickly! | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 06:03 PM |
| 2 | OKC PrimerI read /r/okcupid every once in a while. They discuss things like how you can machine-gun fire messages in OKC, but not in POF and how it's pretty much the best thing ever for them. I disagree with them. My thought is this: If you post a generic "Would you rather fight 25 duck sized horses..." type question, you're only going to get messages back from pretty girls who: Have kids Are really fucking dumb Are new to the site (actually this is your best chance of a quality girl) Aren't interested, b… | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Fear of Rejection isn't the only fear in Approach AnxietyAre you able to go out to a bar or other area where there's almost a zero chance you'd run into anyone you know? If so, try it out. About a year ago, I went on a trip across the country for work, and unfortunately I was dressed in work clothes, but I was hanging out at a bar that a bunch of college kids were home partying at. Pretty packed for a Wednesday night. I opened a two set - this was my first open ever I think. I went into it pretty fearless - partially because I had read up on seduction… | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Today I want to talk about: Pauses as you talkThen you must be familiar with Robert T. Oliver, who spoke how silence in the manner in which I described is respected and pleasing in Asian cultures. Am I misinterpreting him, or is he a quack? Also, my former point is mostly for people who tend to currently speak too quickly. It's a means of training so you can adjust your cadence appropriately. If you get the hang of it, you're obviously not going to pause on each comma like I said. However, it's exactly how I slowed down my rapid-fire speech… | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Today I want to talk about: Pauses as you talkThat's a good point - which in casual conversation is good, but can also turn you into a pushover. If you find this happening a lot, you may need to adjust the way you tell stories - you aren't captivating your audience. | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 12:40 AM |
| 55 | Today I want to talk about: Pauses as you talkEast Asian culture utilizes the power of silence with mastery. In the US/most western cultures, silence is uncomfortable because it's so out of place. I watched some tapes of me doing some presentations/public speaking, and a tape of me acting in a musical. Even when I got rid of all the "ummms" and whatnot, I noticed that I was rapid-firing my words. I was confident, but I didn't sound confident and commanding because I avoided silence and pauses. I work in international business, so when I pre… | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 11:50 PM |
| 6 | From a friend's Facebook page. I never realized it was this simple!I love the analogy, but I think it really goes more like this: Episode IV. Lucas has some experience directing professionally, but he's not taken on anything like this. He writes a screenplay and directs the film trying to make it come to life, but finds a great deal of constraints, whether they be due to budget, available technology, studio issues, or talent issues. He revisits his original story over and over again so that he may tell it right within the constraints. The result is a great stor… | /r/MensRights | 06/12/13 05:27 PM |
| 12 | Probably obvious for the rest of you guys, but coming to this realization was a revelation for a recovering passive-aggressive "nice guy" like myself:I also shouldn't only "act nice" because I EXPECT to be rewarded for doing so. If I end up acting "helpful, kind, or friendly," it should be because I'm genuinely a helpful, kind, or friendly person, not because of some passive-aggressive form of manipulation wherein I hope to be given what I'm too afraid to ask for in exchange for my good deeds. This is the takeaway from this post - the true revelation that people should have. I think the former two paragraphs aren't really relevant because I t… | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Kissless virgin here, how do I stop that from keeping me down?Let me tell you about a story where I showed a great deal of balls (in every sense of the word), and it all worked out. This is the story of how I first had a sexual experience. I was 16, horny, and full of piss and vinegar. I only made out with one girl, and the only reason it happened was because we were drunk at a party and was dared to in a game of Truth or Dare. So months later, I was with my girlfriend at the time - we just started dating days earlier. This was the first time she was ever … | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 04:36 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The importance of befriending the AFCNice story, but do you mean AMOG? | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Does having a big heart mean weakness or strength?It depends on what you do with that heart. When you have an affectionate heart toward others - help them out monetarily, make sure they're "okay" in the sense that they have a ride, they have a drink in their hands even though they're broke - stuff like that, you run the risk of looking too convenient and passive. Why? I'm not sure, but part of it might be any of the following: You don't really have any substance other than you give a lot - i.e. a pushover You're hanging around people who simply… | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Proper way to react to an ass grab?The best part about this step, by the way, is that you'll notice that 80% of guys will be holding it chest high. Unless ALL of your other body language is horrible, you're already ahead of them. You'll also find yourself a little bit more naturally handling conversation and approaches in general. | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Proper way to react to an ass grab?When you hold it up toward your chest, you look closed off, reserved, and like you're trying to protect yourself. At your waist, you look relaxed, laid back, and "natural." | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Proper way to react to an ass grab?Honestly, your words were fine. I'm guessing that it didn't go anywhere because: Your ensemble was a little too "bright." I have only your description to go by, but I'm picturing a caricature. Sorry if I'm wrong here, but your description might make a woman go "omg, he's peacocking!" Your body language was weak. Always make sure you're smiling, standing up straight, trying to determine the color of her eyes, while your drink is held at your waist, not your chest. Maintain an open stance, and get… | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 07:17 PM |
| 3 | College game vs. Adult gameRight, definitely, but she also has platonic friends in there. She's glued to her phone and being bukkaked by messages from everyone. If you're skilled enough to make her look forward to each text from you, that's good, and anyone should go for that provided they have the skill. I do think that phone conversations are easier, more powerful, and lead to easier successes. Why waste my time focusing on something I'm weak at when I can build one of my strengths? | /r/seduction | 25/11/13 10:13 PM |
| 1 | College game vs. Adult gameBasically what I'm saying is that I like to approach it from a point of differentiation. What makes you stand out? If she's texting with 20 other guys, you MUST either: Have better texting game than all of them Find a different means of communication I like to call. Usually it begins with the girl being a little uneasy ("why is he calling, and not texting?") but the value is pushing her outside of her comfort zone without completely alienating her. Next, I usually get some sort of comment like "… | /r/seduction | 25/11/13 07:24 PM |
| 2 | College game vs. Adult gameI'm going to preface this with a "let's agree to disagree." I think text game is fundamentally lame. There's no opportunity for emotion beyond 160 character messages and emoticons. She's reading way into what you're saying, or not reading into it at all, and you're doing the same. And everyone texts. You're probably lost in a sea of about 12-20 other people she's texting at this moment, both romantically and platonic. Sure, if you've got game, you can be competitive, and you'll fare out well - b… | /r/seduction | 25/11/13 03:37 PM |
| 8 | College game vs. Adult gameWhen you have a # close, your texts serve only one purpose. Date logistics. That's it. The only thing you should be texting is: Quick open with funny joke nonsequitor about the night you met A "Let's go grab some drinks..." or "Why don't we grab drinks on...." suggestion. NEVER ask if she's free. NEVER ask if she wants to 'hang.' You're a decisive, attractive man. Be decisive, and attractive. Tell her you'll see her then, or discuss other logistics like picking her up, or meeting there. Don't ca… | /r/seduction | 25/11/13 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Q. What do you talk about in a loud night club?I hate clubs. I just don't have a fun time. Rule 1: Always have fun - or at least look like you are. So if you find yourself in a club situation, you need to realize that you have several options: Find a quiet place (good luck). You can shell out for bottle service in the VIP lounge, but there's no guarantee that it'll be quieter - or that there will be any girls there other than the ones that came in with all the dummies shelling out for bottle service. Smokers. I always carry a lighter on me w… | /r/seduction | 25/11/13 05:20 AM |
| 2 | 15 Texting Mistakes That Stop You From Getting the DateAgreed. I always get comments on how girls like how I'm decisive and great at picking date venues. Funny thing is they're the same venues as before, only it was all about how I arranged the date! | /r/seduction | 21/11/13 03:45 AM |
| 18 | Billy's Guide to Not Knowing What to Say (Reverse Your Plan)As someone who used to lurk, and kinda keyboard jockey my way through this - it's so mindlessly easy to do this, and TONS more effective to just approach and fail. Here's the thing - if you have an impeccable memory, if you've read every book, essay, post, and watched every video, you're going to fuck up. Not just get rejected (the best get rejected), but you'll fuck up. So why waste your time? Fuck up now with no knowledge in your pocket rather than fuck up with all the knowledge in the world..… | /r/seduction | 21/11/13 02:07 AM |
| 22 | 15 Texting Mistakes That Stop You From Getting the DateAsking for a date rather than suggesting This so much. One reason why the friendzone exists is because of the unsavory position of having to reject someone. If a woman can ease a boy down to the friendzone, she can have her cake and eat it too - having a great "friend" while not having to formally reject him. And many guys are too afraid to clarify where they stand with a woman. Additionally, it's kind of a dick move to put that pressure on her: "durrrr do you like me?" When you take charge and … | /r/seduction | 20/11/13 07:02 PM |
| 2 | What women mean when they say they want a nice guy.Words don't cut it. Actions do. But how do you go about it? Easy - be someone who's unapologetic and plays by his own rules. Everyone's got their own taste in terms of what they're attracted to. Many women like the bad boy. Hell - it's refreshing when so many guys are bending over backward for her to have someone who is his own man. Your typical "bad boy" is someone who ultimately carries the coveted "I don't give a fuck" attitude. He's on a date with a girl, but he's not afraid to flirt with th… | /r/seduction | 20/11/13 01:14 AM |
| 0 | What women mean when they say they want a nice guy.Why do people make this concept so fucking complicated? WOMEN WANT NICE GUYS. Don't think for a second that this isn't true. HOWEVER - if your most notable quality is that you're "nice"...then you lose. If you're so uninteresting, but nice, and someone has to use that word to describe you, you lose. It's as simple as that. If you're charming, teasing, quick on your feet - it all ties to charisma, and you'll be described accordingly. If you're a dick, you'll be described accordingly. If you're a … | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 10:04 PM |
| 11 | How much should looks matter?Are you talking about HB's or us? If you're talking the former, then that's just personal preference. Hell - I'm attracted to some HB5s now and then if they just carry a sexy or interesting way about them. In terms of us? They're a point of parity, and not nearly as important as many people believe. One of the most commonly cited joke are the two rules to getting a girl to sleep with you: 1.) Be attractive 2.) Don't be unattractive. And in the way that this joke is often used, "attraction" refer… | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 06:16 AM |
| 10 | Are you MR INTERVIEW when you approach girls? - Transform your conversation in 5 minutesYou don't have to fear silence, but it is not really that ok to have so many moments in a spontaneous conversation where you both are just silent and staring at your phones or looking around. I agree, but I do want to add that excellent body language + silence is an incredible communication tool. If you're smiling genuinely, maintaining strong eye contact, standing up straight, and position yourself very open (hold your drink to your waist people, NOT your chest), and you can be comfortable with… | /r/seduction | 16/11/13 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Essentially how it goes.Nothing like white guilt to lead the witchhunt against someone. I remember in high school when Tyra Banks was only a model and not a TV show host, my classmates would go on and on about how hot she was. I agree, she's got a rockin bod. At the time, I didn't find black women attractive. They asked me why I wasn't joining in with the comments over Tyra, and so I told them "I don't find black women attractive." You would have thought that I was the Grand Dragon of the entire KKK organization based … | /r/MensRights | 11/11/13 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Good openers for online datingI'm good at getting messages back as long as there's enough in her profile to make a joke. The last girl I dated had something in hers that said something like "I don't want to date my twin." I opened with: "You say you don't want to date your twin...well I have great news, I'm 99% sure that we didn't share a uterus together." Then pretty much anything I say is good, provided that I at LEAST get a number in 2 or 3 messages. Arranging a date works well too. One girl had in her profile: "Farts are… | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Reverse [FR] I found elsewhere - Lance is awesome.Lance did it right in terms of having solid inner game, but I have to say - I picture him working a room a little too aggressively. If you're making rounds and hit the same girl twice, you really run the risk of lowering your value, and having people wonder why you're unable to capture the attention of one girl long enough to make a full night time acquaintance with her. The inner game mitigates that risk, and this is why Lance walks away smelling sweet. | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 05:29 AM |
| 16 | I heard an obese friend say "I'm going to go out after losing weight". What's the best advice you can give someone about not giving a shit about what people think?Why waste your time? That's the advice I'm going to give. I was once grossly overweight. I still managed to score a girlfriend (then she dumped me because I was very needy and dependent on her). Thinking I was unable to recapture that in my then-current state, I lost weight for her. I lost a lot of weight, and became an AFC for a coworker of mine. After hemming and hawing, I got the fucking green light, and didn't seize the opportunity. She began dating someone. It was then when I realized that … | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 05:16 AM |
| 4 | I noticed something interesting in my health insurance policy about birth control coverage...So much wrong here: "What do you think, should we make a vastly easier, safer, and cheaper procedure more or less expensive? More, because patriarchy. Also - I saw this on some stupid online jpg, but it makes sense. Would you rather be shot at by a gun that cannot fire bullets, or be shot at but be wearing a bulletproof vest? Finally, if feminists aren't also making a stink about this, then they're fucking pathetic, and it shows that maybe they're a bit more concerned about economics than actual… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/13 12:56 PM |
| 6 | What's the opposite of a white knight?A lot of "White Knight" males who support feminism are honestly doing it for the worst reason possible - to parrot everything a feminist girl he likes so that maybe one day she'll fall in love with him. I get it. Feminists are typically very tenacious - and if you 100% believed all the "facts" that they build their arguments on, you might think that a feminist is an example of a strong woman. "That patriarchy isn't gonna get HER down...man I love this woman!" But seriously - any male with at lea… | /r/MensRights | 05/11/13 03:25 AM |
| 30 | BE HATED.Hated is one way of looking at it, and addressing/ignoring fear is definitely a way to get there. I see it as this: Be unapologetic and controversial. If you approached every woman in the world, you'd have 3.5 billion chances to fail - that's more lives than you get with the Konami Code in Contra. So - why "play it safe?" Go ahead and be bold. You have more "lives." How else are you going to pass a shit-test? By saying what she expects? No - say something that will make someone go "WTF!??!" Outs… | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 01:42 AM |
| 3 | MRA's, please don't do this! What other groups within MRA do you think give us a bad name?I never said that, and I think you know very well that I never said that or even remotely implied it. Those were two completely separate arguments within this conversation and I think you're intentionally mixing them to paint me as something that I'm not. I'm not going to dignify this, whatever it is, trolling or mere idiocy, with a response. This was the example I provided, and you argued against it! As for your argument about slavery - what about natural selection and whatnot? If you want to m… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/13 11:09 PM |
| 5 | MRA's, please don't do this! What other groups within MRA do you think give us a bad name?Voting rights aren't rooted in biological differences though. What qualities do females possess that make them unqualified to make these decisions? Additionally - servitude. We rationalized for centuries enslaving entire races (gender unspecific) and we were wrong. Flat out. Why does it differ for women? If you're talking strictly biological generalizations (breast feeding, having babies, etc), then I agree. Otherwise, I think it's incredibly ignorant. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/13 10:36 PM |
| 7 | MILF guide?Not a guide, but a retroactive [FR]. I was 20 and I (inadvertently) gamed a professor of mine. I tried to break it up into how I did it, as I'm 27 now, and have only been looking into seduction for the last year or so. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1n765b/have_any_of_you_successfully_gamed_older_women/ccfzyej | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 10:12 PM |
| 5 | MRA's, please don't do this! What other groups within MRA do you think give us a bad name?1.) I didn't downvote you. I didn't upvote you either. 2.) How about we settle on this - if you paint an entire gender one way or another, you're a fucking moron. Hatred or ignorance, it's fucking stupid. Feminists do it to us all the time, and it's wrong. We shouldn't do the same for the exact same reason. Furthermore, what does women not voting and women being servants have to do with male sexual liberation anyway? It's completely off topic if you ask me. For every one good discussion about ho… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/13 10:07 PM |
| 7 | MRA's, please don't do this! What other groups within MRA do you think give us a bad name?Let's take a moment to play devil's advocate here. What is necessarily misogynistic about either of those opinions? A person can believe in a caste society without "hating" the people different from them who would be in a separate caste. When I go to the bathroom as a man, do I therefore "hate" women because I don't want them in the same bathroom as me? It strikes me as rather naive and childish to blindly scream "MISOGYNY!" at every right wing opinion about women. Misogyny is a real word with a… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/13 09:25 PM |
| 6 | MRA's, please don't do this! What other groups within MRA do you think give us a bad name?The Red Pill. I fully understand the point, and I agree with the Red Pill. It's the men's sexual liberation movement. Feminism has allowed women to rise to sexual liberation by shaming men's sexual freedom. As a result, and most MRA's will agree with me - we are seen as dirty predators who rape all that we see. The Red Pill is a great movement in theory. We want to be sexually liberated - we want to reclaim our piece of the pie without having to say "I'm sorry" for it. We deserve to be able to p… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/13 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Feminist Forces /r/science to Change Its Banner From One With Fair Distribution of Sexes to One Of All WomenFor a sub that's pretty good about deleting nonsense comments, they sure put up with a lot of nonsense when it comes to their banner. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/13 06:23 PM |
| 95 | My daygame openerpique their interest. Cool opener. It's the perfect amount of boldness, humor, simplicity, and cleverness. | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 05:38 PM |
| 11 | Prague is introducing "singles only" dating cars in the middle compartment of every subway train. How would you approach a girl here?These cars will be comprised of: 45% desperate men, awkwardly trying to see if these will work for them. 45% overly aggressive men who will AMOG every other guy there, while also making the few women there incredibly uncomfortable 5% men who are true alphas. People who are either well versed at seduction whether it came natural or rehearsed. 1% homeless dudes/crazy guys 4% women who will probably never venture onto the car again unless they're looking for a bukkake party You would have much bett… | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 01:55 PM |
| 6 | A woman can't make you happy. Only you can.As a corollary: I wrote this piece which served as my 'aha' moment which finally got rid of the AFC in me. It's funny how you're bombarded with advice - GOOD advice - and it takes a stupid experience for it to click. It's been over a year since I wrote that, and I've built up this sense of "invincibility" ever since. | /r/seduction | 26/10/13 11:16 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with someone trying to lower your value?It happens like this: You have a 100% amicable social circle. You're friends for a reason. Someone either gets drunk and turns obnoxious, or someone brings in an outsider. This outsider is welcomed because at first, he's quiet and is figuring out the group. Then he begins to start this shit. The "competition" happens, and rather than building his own value (as there's probably none), he positions himself on top by trying to remove everyone else's value. | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 08:09 PM |
| 2 | How To Become More Interesting To Womenits about the fact that a lot of white guys are actually boring. This - to an extent. Now that we live in a society where "mixing races" isn't universally frowned upon, and in some cases will have others seeing you as open-minded, we can freely date pretty much whomever we want. Now, if I'm a white woman, white men are going to have a lot of the same experiences as me. It's simply a part of our culture. Now, other cultures have other experiences and stories. It's different than our own, and much… | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 06:42 PM |
| 14 | How to deal with someone trying to lower your value?3 is great. I've done this and I found that usually it elicits a response where the guy loses it, can't get his shit together, and then tries to angrily give you one last shitty comment. Then the AMOGing stops. It shows that you're unphased by his assholery and it exposes his insecurity. He's probably trying to strike down OP because he sees him as a true competitive threat. I get this all the time from acquaintances who don't get my laid back nature. They try to cut me down in front of people. … | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 04:06 AM |
| 15 | [FR] Early godmode on a night out.I feel like you're going to get downvoted for this, and I think people will accuse you of White Knighting, but I agree with you. Seduction is very much about hooking up, and becoming better with women, but it's mostly about self improvement. Being good at seduction will seduce women into your bed, seduce hiring managers into giving you a job, and essentially position yourself to living a more fulfilling life. OP might have accomplished something, but it's because he was playing on "easy mode" no… | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 07:35 PM |
| 1 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.It can be - there are plenty of [FR]s on this sub that begin with bitchiness and end in some sort of close related to it. | /r/seduction | 18/10/13 01:27 AM |
| 3 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.Exactly - and here's the thing - if anyone catches that, and you react confidently while you smile and walk away, you're going to look sympathetic, and she's going to look like a terrible person. This is a silver lining. If you run off with your tail tucked between your legs, or you whine about her bitchiness, you will kill your value. If you react correctly, you'll actually see a bump in value! | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 02:11 PM |
| 19 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.Thing is - "Fuck off" is usually just code for "not tonight." Which is fine. It's easy, emotionless, and distances the girl from having to invest any real time in a proper rejection. The idea is that we're not creeps, and this girl has probably had her fair share of creepers harass her when she is moderately cordial. I've seen polite girls be followed by creepy dudes that never got the hint (and wasted a completely ripe room of beautiful women chasing this one girl - a type of micro-oneitis). An… | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 03:05 AM |
| 83 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.Being told to "Fuck off" and not doing anything at all have the same outcome. So essentially, everytime you don't man up, you're letting every girl tell you "Fuck off" without even allowing her a say in the situation. | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 10:36 PM |
| 7 | Man Tip Tuesday: How to Shave Your FaceIf I want a beard, I'm going to grow one. If I don't want a beard, I'm going to shave it off. I'm going to do whatever the hell I want - that's what a man does. | /r/becomeaman | 16/10/13 03:56 PM |
| 5 | My ex-wife got knocked up (Not by me) and had a kid. My child support obligation increased by about $100.00 per month.The system has the opportunity to make things right. A reasonable amount of child support ordered is fine. Unfortunately in reality, and "for the sake of the kids" the system: Forces fathers to destroy any standard of living they can keep in order to actually RAISE the standard of living for the mother and her kids Forces "fathers" to pay for kids they were deceived into raising, but had no role in the procreation. The issue here is that there's some sperm donor completely off the hook, and you'… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/13 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Dear r/seddit I'm currently feeling like shit but have learned a painful lesson that might help others - It has NOTHING to do with how you look.You should let this galvanize you as it has done for me. You know what's important now, and you can shoot for the stars. I do think that being fashionable is important. It helps me feel good about myself, and it does give you a modest bump in value. You should work hard for any incremental improvement on yourself - it's what the best golfers do - even if they shave fractions of a stroke off their game, it's good. A friend from high school who I never saw as a romantic prospect lives far away but… | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 10:50 PM |
| 13 | PSA: Stop TELLING girls you like them and instead SHOW them!!!You were so close until you said "you should be her doormat." You're right. "I like you" is incredibly selfish. It makes you incredibly vulnerable way too quickly, while also expecting an immediate response. Vulnerability is good - don't get me wrong. "I like you" is just very selfish, uncalculated, and rushed. It's too much at once. And "be nice" is actually a positive part about your post too. A lot of PUAs unfortunately are successful at quick flings by being assholes because "nice guys finis… | /r/seduction | 10/10/13 06:27 PM |
| 6 | I reported an abusive page yesterday, I was glad to see Facebook act so quicklyWe see a lot of posts here where FB will take down a "misogynist" page, but allow misandrist pages to remain. I think people assumed that the positive aspect was that they're actually applying their censorship equally. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/13 06:10 PM |
| 148 | I'm probably not the first to come up with this, but aren't a lot of feminist concerns really just humanitarian concerns arbitrarily applied to females only?Bingo. I totally agree. If you are a feminist and you wish to end some aspect of women's suffering, I'm 100% for your cause. I understand. But if your strategy is to demonize an entire gender, while also downplaying the suffering that the other gender faces, going as far as mocking them, then fuck you. Women don't deserve to be raped (no one does). But to call me and all other males rapists, and then going as far as to say that I cannot physically be raped, and that I actually like being attacke… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/13 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Did not expect to see this on my trip.This is probably true - I mean - how many people go after men for their money, livelihood, and family, right? After having law students as roommates/best friends, I've gotten off the "all lawyers are bloodsuckers" bandwagon, and feel that if you can find some good space in the market to play around in (e.g. Men's Rights) then I say all the more power to you from an economic sense and a humanity sense. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/13 12:19 PM |
| 3 | I just got dumped a few weeks ago. Here are the resources that have been helping me get through the breakup. Good for people with oneitis.Since this is probably why 80-90% of people find this sub, this post should be on the sidebar. ESPECIALLY since I had to buy into all the shitty "Get the girl back" PUA bullshit a few weeks after my breakup last year. Hours of Youtube videos gone by and my inner game was no better than it was weeks earlier. I knew about this sub, but felt I wasn't ready - I was always ready. A fucking Mark Manson article though? That girl could be having bukkake parties and you wouldn't give a shit after reading… | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 12:15 PM |
| 4 | Man Tip Tuesday: Think smart, argue well-How to spot a Logical FallacyThe beauty of understanding common logical fallacies is that when you identify one being used, you can use it back at them - possibly with hyperbole - to shut them down. Or just expose the ridiculousness by breaking them down. Yes, making someone feel stupid is kind of a nuclear way of winning an argument, but hey - if you use a stupid logical fallacy, you probably deserve it. | /r/becomeaman | 09/10/13 12:09 PM |
| 5 | Man Tip Tuesday: Think smart, argue well-How to spot a Logical FallacyBut being a man isn't about making a right or wrong argument, it's being educated and confident enough in your stance. That's it. If you are 100% right, and articulate it like a fool, no one will listen. This is why the tactics of conversation are so important. What comes to mind, and maybe this is a stretch - maybe it isn't - is that video of Joe Rogan confronting his hecklers. Here is the summary of what happened: He was on stage He was being heckled on stage by two drunk girls, one of whom ap… | /r/becomeaman | 09/10/13 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Streaking: a woman's prank is a boy's sex crimeI streaked once in College. Got in trouble. They bypassed the judicial panel and took me right to the housing dean "to save embarrassment." The dean asked me why I thought I was so special. I asked him to clarify. "Why did you think you could bypass judicial?" I never requested such a thing. I was left with a "lewd behavior" mark on my judicial record at school, and I was requested to pay a $75 fine, and conduct a seminar on "responsible behavior." The thing is - we have a rule that specifically… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/13 03:12 PM |
| 5 | How to give a compliment for greatest impactAnd let me add to this how important these compliments are in terms of subtly communicating intent. Many people new to pickup get very confused "Wait - if I'm supposed to be negging (old hat), then why would I compliment her?" "Looks good on you" shows that you're noticing her physical beauty. There exists a sexual subtext. This sort of subtlety is exactly what women pick up on in a positive way. Physical beauty in this case means her body, her fashion, her overall style. While I'm a proponent o… | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 01:22 PM |
| 3 | "But this one girl", "she's amazing", "she's different", etc. One vid to fix a lot of people here's problems with girls. 10 mins to change your lifeHint: EVERYONE has situations like this. The anxiety associated with ending a relationship may be higher than the anxiety of being broken up with. However, some are better at tying logic to their actions. Others (me, formally) thinks that maybe someone will rip that band-aid off for me. I will be honest with you too - after we ended things, and we did the whole "hey we used to date, why not fuck here and there too?" I needed a break from relationships (also I was ready to have surgery that would… | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 01:43 PM |
| 54 | "But this one girl", "she's amazing", "she's different", etc. One vid to fix a lot of people here's problems with girls. 10 mins to change your lifeEDIT: TL;DR at bottom, and a thanks for the gold! I think that true connections - the genuine, lifelong, strong connections are built over time. I used to be very polar when it came to connecting with women (before pickup). Either women were fucking awful and unappoachable, or the ones that were real catches were instant clicks. Unfortunately, it's these flashes in the pan that rarely pan out to anything longterm and meaningful. I used to get hung up on these. I remember being 17 (a decade ago),… | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 04:16 AM |
| 15 | Only men body-shame?Hair loss Body Hair Facial hair Adam's Apple size Shoulders "the V" And then a number of shame factors that can be used on both genders. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/13 06:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] + Rant - Razor's edge of an F-Close followed by blue ballsThat's a good point. When we dated I was a huge pushover, and I'm sure it's why it didn't work out. Today, for any other girl, I do what I want, I refuse to compromise, and it's done well for me. I suppose I just slipped up, and she had a whiff of the AFC she dated before. (edit - this was directed at your other post. In regards to the post about white knights, I agree - white knights are wishy washy pushovers. I don't have any reservations against closing a drunk girl, but if she's absolutely w… | /r/seduction | 29/09/13 03:07 AM |
| 2 | [FR] + Rant - Razor's edge of an F-Close followed by blue ballsI see what you're saying, but I think this was just one instance rather than an ongoing battle (unless something is going on in her mind). I mean - aside from the feelings of uneasiness I sensed on her when she'd ask "oh you had another date this week?" and maybe the nonchalant reaction - possibly of relief - when I told her about a flake, she, to me, was really just one of the guys - she wasn't someone I needed to game, let alone act like an AFC around. But when I was liquored up, and she gave … | /r/seduction | 28/09/13 08:52 PM |
| 5 | Lets make the seddit app bettertl;dr - ppl lazy | /r/seduction | 28/09/13 04:03 PM |
| 4 | [FR] + Rant - Razor's edge of an F-Close followed by blue ballsI was gonna go for the couch. That was the plan (or if I was sober I would have just driven home...but I wasn't). Sometimes though you are so close to closing that you make stupid compromises. One thing I've read only a little bit about is push and pull in the bedroom - I'm normally very assertive and good once the clothing comes off. I slipped up. Emotional control is a really good point. Its been her thing methinks. She asks about the girls I'm seeing and I'm intentionally vague (since its not… | /r/seduction | 28/09/13 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you successfully gamed older women?She was separating from her husband, so it really just began that semester. Our school wasn't that crazy about giving professors a hard time. When she hung out in the dorms, it was during the week, and only would stop by to drink on a Thursday night (like the bar night when I first closed). For 42, she couldn't pass for a college kid, but she definitely didn't look like someone's mom. It just never raised any flags. She was cool. | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you successfully gamed older women?I don't remember it being sexualized - maybe it was for her. Micropipettes are very precise instruments. You dial in the volume (microliters), and then you dip it into your reagent bottle, press the plunger down (not all the way - only to the first stop), and then bring up reagent, and transfer it to a cuvette (or vial, or whatever). It is here where you press it down all the way. If you're transferring reagent or bacteria or DNA or protein to a solution, you should also backwash the solution in… | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 11:40 PM |
| 19 | Have any of you successfully gamed older women?Before I knew what the hell seduction was I slept with a professor of mine. I can retroactively pick apart why it worked out best I can. For the most part, the strategies are the same, you just have to be tactically different. For instance - since she was a Ph.D, my DHVs were heavily routed in my enthusiasm with research and biology, along with my proficiency in the lab. The Approach It began on the first day of class. I was the first to arrive, and I recognized that she would be the professor, … | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Is being easy-going attractive?I believe there is a fine line between "easy going" and "being a pushover." Years ago, this one dude had a very short temper. As a result, everyone was uneasy around him except for his good friends. I was merely an acquaintance. At a party, he was stone cold sober, and looked depressed - the soccer team won Sectionals and he was benched all game that night. I congratulate him, not knowing his circumstances, and he looks at me and tells me he didn't play. I apologize. An hour later, I'm shooting … | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 01:36 PM |
| 3 | One of the "joys" of being a male teacher in a primary schoolHey that's cool that there's at least an ounce of justice in this story. It's very cool that the teacher and principal are proactive and actually tell this woman that what she's doing is wrong. Many people would just let it happen. Good for them. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/13 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Just treat every girl like you already know she has a crush on you."When I was just starting..." Also, personal logistics prevented it. | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Just treat every girl like you already know she has a crush on you.Playing into this idea - You know what REALLY helps drive this idea home in your head? Go out with a desperate chick. Like someone who might not be a very high HB, or even someone you're that attracted to. Just make it your goal to make a physical close (K or F). Really. Allow me to explain. When I was starting, I got a random Plenty Of Fish message from a chick who had a pretty profile pic (face), but something didn't seem right about her body shots. I got the feeling that she was a "fit" perso… | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 04:56 PM |
| 49 | Finally started reading "Models" by Mark Manson.The best part about this book is that unlike other guides rooted heavily in tactics and how they tie to strategy, "Models" is timeless. It talks fundamentals, and it's brutally honest. YOU WILL NOT SUDDENLY BECOME A LADIES' MAN AFTER READING THIS but you'll suddenly find yourself on the road to that destination. Nothing's particularly brilliant, but it does organize a perfect strategy toward achieving outstanding inner game. I'm a firm believer that if you establish strong inner game, then outer… | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 04:34 PM |
| 3 | I am a midget.Her loss. Imagine if you tried to sell someone a brand new car for $50 and they said no. They'd be passing up a great deal. Any girl that says no to you is passing up a great deal. If any girl says "no" then give the deal of a lifetime to someone else. | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 12:40 AM |
| 2 | I am a midget.I get what you're saying. "don't sell yourself short because of your unfortunate disposition." And I agree with you. OP doesn't need to be "a midget" or even "a regular guy." He needs to be "The fucking shit." However, as an aside, I have a buddy with crazy inner game. With great inner game, I believe, comes great outer game. He gets laid all the time and self-deprecates way too much. He talks about how small his penis is. Small or not, it gets used a lot. | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 12:39 AM |
| 2 | I am a midget.Well if you're already hitting it off conversationally, and you're the fun guy in the room, ask them if they want a ride. It definitely helps to slip in innuendos too. Rock back and forth, maybe pull a trick, and tell her to hop and and the two of you can go for a ride all night long. Don't be the guy that gives everyone rides all night - just the lucky girl - remember...YOU are the prize. You're the award. No one likes the award that EVERYONE gets, so give that lucky lady a ride around. Even be… | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 12:35 AM |
| 12 | I am a midget.Question - Are you in a wheelchair too (relevant username)? I only ask regarding the tactics of kino, frankly, it doesn't matter if you're in a chair, or if you're vertically challenged, with the right inner game, there's no reason you can't be a giant in any room you walk into. With that out of the way...your strengths are your points of differentiation. You can get creative with kino, but your major obstacle is not becoming too self-deprecating. Little people are unfortunately quite ripe for r… | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Posture/Self ImageHoly shit posture. If there was one "What can I do NOW?" thing, this would be it. My posture is not great, but it's much better than it's ever been. I had a major operation on my heart when I was 10. My ribs were cut open, and as a result, I slept using raised pillows for almost 3 months. Afterward, I used multiple pillows to sleep. Couple that with the fact that I was a growing boy put out of active commission not really using my back muscles, and I spent the next decade of my life hunched over… | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 08:52 PM |
| 14 | Remember, being a stay at home mom is "the hardest job in the world"Some see this article as "men as bumbling oafs" and I can definitely see where you're coming from. It's a ridiculous stereotype in the media that we can't seem to shake. However, I can see this article another way: We don't bitch and moan about our job. Every. Stay at home. Dad. I've ever known loves their job. They say it has it's demands, but they cherish being able to spend all that time with their kids. They don't bitch. They don't moan. Many of them have dinner ready by 5 or 6 because they … | /r/MensRights | 09/09/13 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Hi guys, I'm a female redditor and I have to say that I am disgusted about the double standards I've been seeing lately.I would rather die than be locked up in a prison during the prime of my life for a crime that labels me a monster (that I never committed). But that's why were all here, right? So we can make it so that no man has to make that choice. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/13 08:16 PM |
| 1 | What's your favourite post or comment on Seddit that completely changed your game/success for the better?I think if you're already reading seddit, you don't need to read "the game." The thing is - when you get through the book, it is CLEARLY a cautionary tale. For some reason, a lot of PUAs and learners use it like an instruction book, and speak of the stories as if they're glorious to Neil, Mystery, and all the players in the book (to be fair, I'm sure Neil had this somewhat in mind - you know - to sell copies). It reminds me of the people who watch "American History X" solely for the curbstomping… | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 01:54 PM |
| 16 | What's your favourite post or comment on Seddit that completely changed your game/success for the better?Dude - you're 21, and based on your post history, you're probably in college. You are immersed in a 24/7 social situation for the next year or two...of course no woman who's 21 would bother with OKC. But what if I told you that some of us are older than 21, have full time jobs, and mix in online dating with going out because we're making the best use of what little free time we have? This includes attractive women. There are plenty of hot women with their shit together online. Start learning to … | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 09:34 PM |
| 4 | What's your favourite post or comment on Seddit that completely changed your game/success for the better?No it's not when your toolbox lacks any sort of pragmatism. If you spend 15+ years in industry and you consult, you're offering constructive, practical experience. If you have your Ph.D in Marketing and 100% of your non-academic work life is simply writing business cases on an industry in which you have zero practical context, then I don't value your advice. We purposely avoid consulting groups that don't employ actual industry experts with field experience because anytime these agencies tout "P… | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 09:26 PM |
| 16 | What's your favourite post or comment on Seddit that completely changed your game/success for the better?Yes. It was an OKCupid date, but it counts. I realized that spending too much time here made me a theoretical expert but in practice, a moron. ...which is exactly why I think my old marketing professor is terrible. He's the highest paid professor in our State University system, but he's worked 100% in academia, only consulting for companies. He's never had any practical experience, and I learned a week after starting my first internship that he was full of shit. There are many sedditors that do … | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 07:39 PM |
| 17 | What's your favourite post or comment on Seddit that completely changed your game/success for the better?When I was reading "The Game" I noticed the frequent use of the term "keyboard jockeys." That's when I realized that Neil was criticizing me. I decided to get myself laid soon after. | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 06:50 PM |
| 31 | I've heard about it, but it finally happened to me.I just have to wonder... Feminists complain about being judged or harassed because they're wearing something slutty, or they can't wear what they want, or act a certain way. I get it. Judging people in this way is still wrong. But...why can't feminists understand that men are harassed, judged, and accosted just for....existing...and we're done all that by people who can take away our rights, our freedom, and all that??? | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 03:09 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with "You guys should get together" comments...I'm reading the comments, and finding myself constantly agreeing with what people say. And because of that, the answer is simple, but takes some work. It's constantly repeated around these parts: It's not what you say, but it's how you say it. Play around with these lines. Use them. Figure out delivery. Spend time in the mirror, and rock it out. Eventually you'll be able to say something stupid like "We would - I'd pee in her butt" and you'd fare out well (thank you Mark Manson). | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 02:17 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with "You guys should get together" comments...Not only that, but really should be the way you're thinking anyway. If you see yourself as the prey (the high-value 12-point buck, so to speak...or whatever, I'm no hunter), then you'll be able to let a super hot huntress track you down and get you. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 02:15 PM |
| 19 | How to deal with "You guys should get together" comments..."I'll sleep on it" is perfect. Maybe even a "Maybe we should sleep on it," depending on your delivery, is gold. But then again, I operate under the belief that success has little to do with what you say, but how you say it. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 02:12 PM |
| 6 | My therapist told me to check out this video this morningThe TED site offers the translated stream to many videos automatically. | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Pheromones?I read an ebook on pickup (like 100 pages) that devoted a few pages to this. I forget the author because it was in 2005/2006, but the author casually talked about pheromones but only here and there. The biggest tips I recall were: To not shower too often, but when you do, scrub three times (apparently pheromones can get "old"?) To not ever use antiperspirant. Not being able to sweat out that "musk" or those pheromones means that you won't have any of that natural attractant. Put on cologne like … | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Pheromones?My friend (a girl) was at her (gay male) friend's house and washed with this stuff. She told me that "the rest of the day I smelled like balls." Seeing that the soap probably doesn't smell like grundle bacteria, I'd say that there's some truth to what you're saying. | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Where's the line between being persistent/showing interest and being desperate/creepy?Absolutely. To be fair, he IS a chiropractor, but kinda the stereotypical one (had Cs in college, all that). He's so good at pickup that he can't stop. He knocked up his current girlfriend and when she was still pregnant, he tried to fuck anything he could (and did). They knew the kid would have some complications. The kid's been born, and he's still with her, but partying on weekends, and hooking up. He's an all-around asshole. He's also a huge fucking AMOG. It's funny when you can get him in t… | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Where's the line between being persistent/showing interest and being desperate/creepy?I'll do you one better. I have a friend. He's a total douche, and not even that good a friend. Has barely left his town, likes to tell tall tales, and the only interesting thing about him is that he has spent a decent amount of coin on a damn good tattoo artist. However, somehow, he's confident as fuck. How confident? He'll talk about how small his penis is before bringing a girl home. | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 02:19 AM |
| 18 | Some gold from an old PUA forum, advanced kino techniqueLean in with a cold, sweaty drink. As you rest your hand there, she'll be THRILLED that there's a wet spot right over her right nipple... This is an awful way of looking at kino. Goddammit - this makes us look like fools and creeps. What SHOULD be noted is being perceptive to "reverse kino." Let's say that that girl you think you have chemistry with at work comes to your desk and you have to show her something on your computer. If she leans in close, and rests her boobs on you - don't think she … | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 02:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I screwed up REALLY bad when going for the kissYou know what the best recovery for this is? Start chatting it up with another girl in class. Get REALLY friendly with her. I believe this girl was already into you. Things are NOT good with her and her boyfriend. She played a dangerous game and when things got too hot for her (a kiss), she backed out. She wants you, but she doesn't want to cheat on her boyfriend. This is friction - very good friction, but whatever. It's pretty simple how to proceed from here on out. Thou shalt give zero fucks T… | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 03:54 AM |
| 10 | I just realised how true this depiction of society's view is...Well personal preference isn't an issue of rights. If someone isn't attracted to a fat guy physically, as long as they don't use that lack of attraction to dictate something societal, there really isn't a problem. With that being said, yes, there are a handful of extreme feminists who believe in what I just said. They envision a world where fat men do not exist, 10% of the population are males, and all are super attractive. These men are imprisoned, solely for the purpose of insemination. I forg… | /r/MensRights | 22/07/13 05:15 PM |
| 73 | I just realised how true this depiction of society's view is...I agree. There are just as many examples that switch the roles. This isn't a Men's rights issue - this effects both genders equally. However - women do tend to be the loudest voices in the "fat acceptance" culture. While I think that NO ONE deserves to be insulted flat out because of how much they weigh, I do think that fat acceptance culture is toxic. It ignores the health issues associated with being overweight, and demonizes those who try to bring it up. It'll lead to their own undoing, but i… | /r/MensRights | 22/07/13 05:10 PM |
| 10 | 23 Y/O (m). I'm interested sexually in older woman but have no idea how to approach them.Older women are straight forward and don't require the gaming that younger women need. It's actually quite easy to seduce someone older than you. Storytime. I was 20. My professor was 42. She was married, but word on the streets was that something was up with her relationship with her husband. This was before I was into PUA/seduction, so this is a post-analysis [FR]. So obviously I was forced to interact with her. I was very interested in her class from the get-go, so I showed up early (was the … | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 03:55 AM |
| -1 | Banned from /r/feminism: Close-minded, irrational, unavailable to dialogue.I've given up on having any faith in the mods of any particular sub. I was a member of /r/theredpill because I liked how they want to sexually empower men, much in the same vein that feminism did in the 1960s. I ignored some of the speech that accompanied this (I'm talking stuff that even /r/mensrights would find misogynist like "no woman deserves the right to vote"). A mod ended his post with something like "No trolls, or else you get the banhammer." I criticized him after he swung the banhamme… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/13 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Reminder about OC seddit lair. If you're in the OC California area come joinSorry to post this on your thread but I figured it would be better to ask here than to start a new thread. Is this the proper way of promoting a lair/club? I'm thinking about doing one for my area but I don't want to be a nuisance to the community. | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 01:55 PM |
| 2 | A great part, of a great book. Will apply to a lot of you.Yes. It sounded familiar, and when you said this I googled the passage. The whole book appears available online. Probably not on the up and up, but it's there. | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 07:18 PM |
| 38 | A great part, of a great book. Will apply to a lot of you.I believe Neil Strauss refers to them as "Keyboard Jockeys" I often wondered why this happened, even to myself. I'd acquire all this knowledge, actually become confident enough that I'd know enough to use out in the field, and then blow it, sitting in the corner. And then I thought about trivia back in 10th grade, years and years ago. I'm a musician, always have been. The question was "Name 3 Bush Songs." I'm not a fan of the band, but I definitely knew 3 songs. Shit. I couldn't think of one. An… | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 04:28 PM |
| 19 | Unable to do first cold approachYou know what worked for me initially, just to build comfort? Talk to them like they're dudes. A lot of guys who are new to this, or just terrible at talking to women get anxious when they talk to potential prospects. Fat ugly girl? No problem. Some bro at the bar? Easy. Attractive woman? Forget it. But if you can just ignore sex, ignore the pressure, and understand that you can just have a benign conversation, you'll get more comfortable. At first, none of these women will want you, unless you … | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 03:57 PM |
| 0 | "What attracted you to me?"[PIC]Well if she's willing to walk over a joke and a false perception of who I am, then that's another bullet dodged. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/13 08:06 PM |
| 2 | "What attracted you to me?"[PIC]I would guess a few reasons: 100k+ is slightly greener because a completely uneducated golddigger doesn't think strategically. She'll message the shit out of these guys because "Hey they're 22, I am a high school dropout that's almost the same age as them, and I'm super hawt." There are probably TONS of these girls. They're so focused on this massive income that they ignore lower incomes which may (or may not) be more rational. Go big, or go broke, right? This leaves fewer golddiggers digging at… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/13 05:39 PM |
| 5 | "What attracted you to me?"[PIC]Or they use it to supplement their dating in total. It's like having a great corporate management position, but working at McDonalds on nights and Saturdays to supplement your pay because you want to save up for a house. I go out and meet girls - work, bars, through friends, etc. But I also go on dates online. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/13 05:30 PM |
| 3 | "What attracted you to me?"[PIC]Only if you don't work for Verizon. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/13 05:28 PM |
| 31 | "What attracted you to me?"[PIC]I haven't gotten a first message since taking my salary down. I changed my image (lost a lot of weight, posted some great times with friends). I get a lot more profile views. My thought: I used to be fat and unattractive upon first glance. Wasn't worth looking at in terms of spontaneous profile viewing. HOWEVER, my salary was searchable, and I got a lot of messages. I am now skinnier and at least from a strict visual attraction point of view, more attractive. Removed my salary (it's tacky), and … | /r/MensRights | 11/07/13 05:27 PM |
| 16 | "What attracted you to me?"[PIC]What pisses me off so much is that while you're more or less talking in hyperbole, the majority of "conversations" that I've had with feminists are exactly what you said. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/13 05:20 PM |
| 3 | So a woman at the park just said this to my auntI've found that it doesn't work because crazy women like the one in OP's story generally will scream at you over your voice before you can finish. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/13 02:11 PM |
| 29 | So a woman at the park just said this to my auntIt feels good, but laughing while you get to see them get angrier makes my day. dem endorphins. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/13 10:30 PM |
| 185 | So a woman at the park just said this to my auntPeople like that want you to do the following: Do nothing and walk away. They told you! Get angry and argue back Stay level-headed and present your counter argument (they'll just yell their same argument louder. What they DON'T like is: When you arrogantly laugh in their face like you know better than them (because you do). No words. Just a laugh. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/13 10:18 PM |
| 4 | I have seen the face of evil.... and then I helped her clear out her garage."I come from mountain folk" Sent from my iphone 5 using Alien Blue Reddit Client | /r/MensRights | 08/07/13 08:38 PM |
| 8 | "why do guys come on so strong for the first few months and back off at the mention of a relationship?"I recall someone posting about how they dated a former prostitute, got engaged, and then he found out once he got engaged that she was still working the first year they were together. I would say about 20% of the comments were something to the tune of "Forgive her - you're happy now, that's what matters." That advice, to me, is more toxic than what you wrote (which is actually good advice). This isn't even a red/blue pill debate (although the guy asking the question was quite blue). And these pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/13 08:09 PM |
| 3 | 12 Year Old Boy Raped On Bus and No One caresIf you want to to point out gender differences, you should point out that bystanders are more likely to help a girl in this situation than a boy, as the boy is believed to being able to defend himself alone. The whole "girls need protection" thing. I'm not sure why you're being downvoted. This is exactly relevant to the issue. I think you and OP are BOTH right. Bystanders will help a woman out even when she's clearly at fault. If a woman took a bat and threatened her boyfriend in public with it,… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/13 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Is the "strong silent type" just a hollywood trope? How does a man attract by simply being comfortably handsome in a corner and grunting a suave comment once and while?This is how I see it: As far back as I can remember, anytime I went to a bar alone just to chill, back when I was an AFC, or even today now that I'm more experienced, women came by and at least talked to me. As an AFC, my self-esteem was so low that I just assumed that she smelled my loneliness and was lending a sympathetic ear. Since I assumed this, I pretty much acted in a way where she wanted to leave. Today - and you know, it's funny because I don't think I really noticed it until now - wome… | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 07:50 PM |
| 1 | "Circumcision of Male Infants as a Human Rights Violation." - published in Journal of Medical EthicsLet's back up. Phimosis doesn't mean my penis doesn't work. It only means that the foreskin doesn't retract. Never in my life did my foreskin retract on its own when I got an erection. It does for some, it doesn't for others. I was able to have full function with phimosis. The fact that my skin didn't retract was totally irrelevant. I got it cut because eventually the opening would have been totally closed. Weird. It's been a few years since my circumcision, and I've had zero mechanical or struc… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/13 05:50 PM |
| 3 | "Circumcision of Male Infants as a Human Rights Violation." - published in Journal of Medical EthicsI think what I meant is that it's misdiagnosed as phimosis, so some parents and doctors will do a cut at 7/8 years old because the foreskin wouldn't retract all the way. Phimosis can happen to anyone, but it's highly misdiagnosed in children | /r/MensRights | 26/05/13 05:41 PM |
| 1 | "Circumcision of Male Infants as a Human Rights Violation." - published in Journal of Medical EthicsThe reduction was virtually negligible. It's not like I lose my erection during a blowjob, or they're not really pleasurable. The difference is really small. Sensitivity is slightly affected. Function is not. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/13 05:31 PM |
| 3 | "Circumcision of Male Infants as a Human Rights Violation." - published in Journal of Medical EthicsI never said there wasn't a difference. Also - how does it make my opinion invalid? It's my opinion. My experience. I dont expect you to change your mind because if you chose to do this at 24 you'd be mentally damaged to accept it. You are really condescending. Sorry about your experience, but how the fuck am I "mentally damaged" if I opted to do something medically necessary under sound mind? | /r/MensRights | 26/05/13 05:30 PM |
| 15 | "Circumcision of Male Infants as a Human Rights Violation." - published in Journal of Medical EthicsIAMA man who was circumcised when he was 24. First thing because my words often get twisted when I share my story. I'm against routine male circumcision. There, can we all agree not to attack my views on something I'm simply trying to share? Okay, so I had a bad case of phimosis that no therapy would fix. Steroidal creams, stretching...antifungals. Everything I did made it worse (stretching in particular caused micro tearing and micro scarring - thus tightening up my foreskin). (side note: Adult… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/13 02:30 PM |
| 5 | I Need Feminism Because...Well the clearly he doesn't need feminism. However, he might need to check his privilege. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/13 02:00 AM |
| 25 | I Need Feminism Because...I need feminism because my communication skills are that of a 3 year old with Downs Syndrome... | /r/MensRights | 24/05/13 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Professional privilege checkerEvery college major requires a background in all of this. Also, most liberal arts degrees only require 3 hours of math(algebra lol) and 6 hours of science. You're outta your mind if you think liberal arts graduates have a strong set of analytical skills. Weird. I thought we were talking about college grads vs. High schoolers. Everything you said is true, but irrelevant. A high schooler has none of this. Also, I NEVER claimed anything about analytical skills...Also - please tell me what analytica… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/13 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Professional privilege checkerI didn't think I needed to mention impeccable grades, leadership positions in clubs, a 35 or higher on the MCAT (40 or higher really) and preferably some sort of health care volunteer experience. Those are givens. Source: Applied, and got into several schools. Was also a volunteer EMT during my summers in college. Held off a year because I needed heart surgery - the entire experience killed my dreams of medicine, earned my MBA instead | /r/MensRights | 23/05/13 11:46 AM |
| 6 | Professional privilege checkerRight? The girl in the picture is herself a shitty person probably. She is trying to connect the dots from Feminism to Gender Studies, and sucks at it. She's trying to prop herself up, delivering a "holier than thou" bullshit argument. But that doesn't mean that someone with a B.A. in Gender Studies is valueless. It certainly doesn't mean they have less value than someone with only a High School diploma. But that's what this sub has become. No more discussing issues. Let's post an infuriating pi… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Professional privilege checkerIt's DEFINITELY never too late. However, it's important not to downplay the importance of the core, liberal arts background. Honestly, any school that offers a "Gender Studies" concentration likely has a general History concentration to which a student can shift at the cost of maybe 3-4 wasted classes. This may be a stretch for a 1st semester Senior, but not so bad for a 2nd semester Junior. As for "making excuses for these people." Fuck that noise. The girl in the picture is a cunt - I agree wi… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 08:56 PM |
| -1 | Professional privilege checkerThe degree's course material accounts for a portion of their education. The rest of their education is shared by biology majors, math majors, english majors, history majors, etc. So if 60% of their coursework is women's studies, then 40% is going to be liberal arts. I would rather have a candidate have that 40% of stuff that EVERY COLLEGE GRAD HAS, rather than the 0% that the high school grad has. If you're older than 18, then you at least never attended college. You need to do like 5 minutes of… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 07:56 PM |
| 10 | Professional privilege checkerLook at state grad schools (they're cheap!) I graduated with a degree in Biology and Math. These are USELESS without grad school (ok not useless, but I didn't want to pursue a career in being a lab tech or a salesman, or something along the generic liberal arts line). Luckily, I did have a passion for business, so I earned my MBA. My background made me perfect for Market Research. So I assume that with your Applied Linguistics and your mention of EFL, you know another language? You could earn yo… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Professional privilege checkerA liberal arts DEGREE is any degree where you might have an area of specialty (in this case - Women's Studies)... BUT YOU HAVE A BACKGROUND OF ENGLISH, SCIENCE, MATH, HISTORY, POLI SCI, AND FINE ARTS ALONG WITH IT. So if you took the "Women's studies" garbage out of the equation, you have someone that a university decided to say is a well rounded candidate because they have these liberal arts fundamentals. A high schooler does NOT have these. This is why I truly believe you're under the age of 1… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 07:45 PM |
| -4 | Professional privilege checkerWhat is a "liberal arts position?" I think you just dated yourself here, and that date is some time AFTER 1995... | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 07:37 PM |
| -7 | Professional privilege checkerWhat if I told you that someone with a bullshit degree has still taken a great deal of all-around-liberal-arts courses??? And how many of those "women's" courses were just simple history, poli sci, other courses not DIRECTLY focused on women, but provided history in context? And how many non-women's studies majors took the bullshit women's courses? Maybe you should screen them out because they're also dumb, right? Also - you're probably judging them on their decision making skills when they were… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 07:15 PM |
| 23 | Professional privilege checkerCan't speak for OP, but with few exceptions, you can get into Grad School no matter your undergrad major. Want your MBA? Don't worry about having zero business background. All you need is calc. Want to go to Med School? You don't need a bio/chem degree. Make sure you have 16 credits of Bio and 16 credits of Chem (maybe some physics too). Want to go to law school? Take your LSAT. Ph.D/research Masters will differ depending on the discipline. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 07:10 PM |
| 7 | "Can you carry my bag for me? I'm tired."I like this. This has a ton of good things built into it: Communicates intent (a little). Clearly this means you don't just want to be her guy best friend. Answers the shit test - you're not some pushover It's short and to the point. Nothing drawn out. Disarms her completely. Few people come right out and say "y'know, you kind of are using me, aren't you?" and this says it in fewer, better words. It makes her go "holy shit, not only is he willing to not be my little bitch boy, but am I really th… | /r/seduction | 03/05/13 04:46 PM |
| 7 | Dear Prudence advice: Wife is resentful that husband makes more $ than her & maintains completely separate finances [although he pays all the bills and gives her pocket $]. Prudence tells her "TelThere's not enough information from the wife for me to understand if she's being greedy or oppressed. How much is she paying toward the mortgage? If they have a big, huge house, then she's probably exhausting her paycheck. I would have the tendency to favor her argument because her entire livelihood is going into their shared life and he gives her "an allowance." How much is this "allowance?" If he buys a boat for $10,000, and he lets her do her own thing with $200 or more a week, then they're p… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/13 07:37 PM |
| -2 | During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.I find it hilarious that despite your username, you're calling out someone pointing out meaninglessness by pointing out something meaningless... | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 07:04 PM |
| 7 | During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.I'm not saying they don't. I'm saying that it's pretty clear what OP meant, he just used the incorrect idiom. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 03:07 PM |
| 6 | During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.Hashtag? "#Close" reads "Number close." Is this your first time here? | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 02:57 PM |
| 34 | During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.Does everyone know what the dude means though? Good. Move along and discuss semantics elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 02:56 PM |
| 3 | During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.I think there's a lot of power in taking a woman out of her comfort zone - the easiest date-to-F-close situations for me are when I find out the girl I'm with is kind of a homebody. Going out for sushi followed by a show downtown is usually a good way to portray yourself as a leader, as interesting, and as long as you can keep up the sexual vibe through kino and talking, you shouldn't have a problem. Now that was just an example of the power of removing someone from their comfort zone... Here's … | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Threesome strategies?lol "gentle" | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 03:03 PM |
| 5 | Threesome strategies?I'm going to recommend going the Neil Strauss route. Get the two women isolated at your place, preferably with a little bit of libation. Neil discusses some exotic massage technique that basically is so good it confuses the senses. He asks one girl to lay down, while the other girl and him perform the technique. He then asks both girls to perform it on him. By this point, one or two of you are shirtless, and everyone has quickly become comfortable with at least partial nudity and sensual touchin… | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 02:19 PM |
| 2 | A question about circumcisionYou are making a permanent body decision on someone when they cannot give consent. No significant benefits exist in deciding to circumcise versus leaving it intact (at least in the developed world). Edit: I was fortunate to be born and left intact due to (unfortunately) larger medical concerns. When I was 24, I developed phimosis, and no degree of treatment (stretching, steroid cream, etc) would make it better. The circumcision was necessary, but to a degree "my" choice. Routine circumcision is … | /r/MensRights | 19/04/13 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What a lot of beginners don`t seem to understand, I know I didn't. BE the man you want to be.This is probably the most important revelation. Until you make this revelation, you're only flexing theory, and at best, making lucky, "unsustained" gains until you learn this. I wrote a similar revelation just under a year ago after getting over my last ever case of oneitis: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/wb2h0/i_finally_figured_out_what_is_meant_by_do_it_for/ If you don't work on yourself, then you are nothing. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 01:46 PM |
| 56 | Pro tip: if your date tells you halfway through that she swallows ...Let's dig deeper: Have enough confidence in yourself to know how to react to these cues. Basically, if she's talking about sex with you, she's trying to portray herself TO YOU as a sexual being. She's selling it, and she wants you to buy, and it's a buyer's market. But if you pause, get in your head, and fuck up, the price goes up, and she's no longer interested in selling. "Immediately" will work if you can be very sexual, physical, and dominant. A laughing giddy teenager vibe won't work. Other… | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Wildest thing happened last week and i need to ventI wasn't sure if the lapse in time was a factor of hasty storytelling (meaning he missed the part where it was actually after a few days) or if it really was an afternoon. I gave him the benefit of the doubt - he sounds emotional - I figured his storytelling had some gaps. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 11:01 PM |
| 10 | Wildest thing happened last week and i need to ventWarrants are specific documents. The fact that OP is not his friend means that anything of his is pretty much off limits unless the police presenting the warrant request SPECIFICALLY SAID SO. Many judges will refuse to sign warrants that don't contain specific things in it. "Every nook and cranny of entire house" type requests aren't usually signed unless it's pretty damn likely that the suspect is an immediate danger to others. I am SUPER skeptical that the warrant said "And the electronic devi… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/13 08:26 PM |
| 1 | 19 year old male with really scary heart symptoms- found plenty of free heart screenings...for women. So because I DON'T think people should be denied medical care because of their gender, I'm a sexisWould like to point out for others that intermittent fasting not only an effective way to control weight, but has other major health benefits. There's a great deal of research coming out that backs this up. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 08:11 PM |
| 1 | 19 year old male with really scary heart symptoms- found plenty of free heart screenings...for women. So because I DON'T think people should be denied medical care because of their gender, I'm a sexisAhh I stand corrected. Thank you. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 08:10 PM |
| 41 | 19 year old male with really scary heart symptoms- found plenty of free heart screenings...for women. So because I DON'T think people should be denied medical care because of their gender, I'm a sexisOP is doing a 2 week water fast. OP is either: Stupid Careless Artificially baiting health care providers to get us MRAs fired up This post is trash. Drink some fucking water, get some fucking electrolytes, and address the problem of sexism at free clinics in a more diplomatic manner. YES - you should be afforded free help. NO - not because you're a moron and you decided to stop drinking water for 2 weeks. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Why are feminists so hypocritical about circumcision? Whatever happened to "my body, my choice?"Former phimosis sufferer here. Steroid creams and stretching can offer relief for some but can actually make things worse for others. I fell into the latter before getting my circumcision. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/13 11:47 AM |
| 2 | I'm going to a huge college house party tomorrow. Give me everything you can arm me with, Seddit.and while you're at it, pretend to not see when she's made a shot, and high five her when she totally biffs it. | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Expressed my interest to my friend, she friend zoned me. Responded that I don't need anymore friends. Did I do the right thing?Thanks. After being crippled by a stupid breakup (I was dating a girl for 2 months, wasn't even sure if I wanted to stay with her for much longer, and she broke up with me and it threw me hard), I really want anyone in similar shoes to be able to get over it quickly, as it's really for the best. But yeah - no need for gold. Had it once. Once was enough. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 09:23 PM |
| 8 | Expressed my interest to my friend, she friend zoned me. Responded that I don't need anymore friends. Did I do the right thing?1.) "I have enough friends" is the correct response, but it should have never gotten to that point (but that's why you're here, right?). 2.) I'm going to say what others either have said, or will say - let go of your oneitis. You invested, got burned, and it sucks. That's the problem with oneitis. 3.) Treat this as a mini-breakup. You will need to cut off contact 100% for a little while. By cutting off contact, she's not going to have her "friend" that she did all those "friend" things with, and… | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 09:05 PM |
| 11 | Oh, really? I must have been imagining parts of my childhood this entire time. (X-Post from /r/rage)I'm not saying male rape doesn't happen. I'm saying it happens much less often than female rape. Irrelevant. More Americans die of heart disease than anything, but we're still going to fight the shit out of cancer....and suicide...and other diseases. And also, we don't sit here and value heart disease patients as being "better" or "higher priority" than cancer patients. The point is this: this isn't a pissing contest. This isn't the olympics of suffering. This is pointing out that men suffer jus… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/13 02:57 AM |
| 29 | Oh, really? I must have been imagining parts of my childhood this entire time. (X-Post from /r/rage)Are you a man? Let's assume yes for the time being. Have you ever had an erection that wasn't provoked by sexual contact? You know, like the ones you hide in 7th grade, or the ones you wake up with in the morning? Okay. Well imagine that you're drunk, and you're with a woman who is not. You are not attracted to this woman. In fact, she's very aggressive. She's scary, and you're nervous around her. She somehow gets you into a bedroom. Perhaps she uses a number of techniques like "help me find som… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/13 11:28 PM |
| 0 | The poster I made for the recently linked "My Bad Sex Wasn't Rape" article.YOU MISOGYNIST TURD! "BOY!?!?!" /s | /r/MensRights | 26/03/13 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Little Victories for a BeginnerIt's about being witty, interesting, and quick-thinking. It's very easy to return to a seductive state after this type of self-deprecation (I'm not sure that's even the right word for it). But you're right - it takes orbs. Big brass orbs. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 09:37 PM |
| 8 | If you have trouble keeping conversation going, follow this easy tip...I believe there was a sudden clarity clarence made up of this. Still - solid advice. Oh and if you only remember ONE question, let it be the one about a horse sized duck or duck sized horses in a fight... | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 02:15 PM |
| 24 | If you have trouble keeping conversation going, follow this easy tip...I'll play dumb, and ask her questions until she says something like: "There's this one guy...'nobody' something. I'm positive that in real life, he's the worst person in the world." At which point I'll just keep calm and kino on. And hopefully she won't detect the smell of shit coming from my pants. | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Bad sex is not rape.I enjoy the storytelling on the show, so I too watch (and honestly, it exposes pretty blatantly why extreme "girl power" is pretty flawed). Did Adam's new girlfriend even tell him to stop? Wasn't she just more or less confused? After giving him consent, all he did was flip her over. He didn't strike her, bind her, or even really hurt her. And IIRC, she didn't make any more of a fuss over it other than the "that was weird, awkward, and unusual" face. I seriously wonder if I'm going to ever be abl… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/13 03:14 PM |
| 1 | In college, asked a women's rights activist about men's equality issues & about men being raped She exploded at me, and offended her gay guy friend next to her.So I'm assuming that since you're pointing this out, you're advocating that sexual education can take the place of strict sexual regulation. So - if they taught sexual education to kindergarten students, then would you see a problem with adults having sex with them because they're educated on the topic and can verbally consent? | /r/MensRights | 19/03/13 05:36 PM |
| 7 | In college, asked a women's rights activist about men's equality issues & about men being raped She exploded at me, and offended her gay guy friend next to her.Yes it absolutely should. Many sexual education programs aren't available to kids until they're old enough to drive. This would leave many youths being sexually developed, but oblivious to the consequences of their actions. If there is nothing set up to protect these youth, then they're at a huge risk of harming themselves and others through sexual carelessness. Proper education - including education at public schools - falls under the umbrella of "government regulation." | /r/MensRights | 19/03/13 05:27 PM |
| 39 | Turning the conversation sexual?This is one thing I'm actually good at. First thing is to understand that women want sex, and many women will want to have sex with you, but only if they feel comfortable (this is why we always talk about value). How do I make things comfortable? Easy - witty and cheesy jokes. The easiest "trick" that I can provide is to repackage "That's what she said." I was on a first date with a girl I recently f-closed and we were at the bowling alley. There are always opportunities here of all places to dr… | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 05:13 PM |
| 15 | "Man jailed for poking holes in condoms to get his girlfriend pregnant" ...but if the shoe was on the other foot he'd be on the hook for 18 yearsBut one judge who disagreed warned that this decision would have dangerous repercussions on women who secretly stop taking the pill to get pregnant. I'm not sure what to think about this part. On one hand, it's a fantastic point - if you want TRUE equality, then punish people who perform this despicable act equally. On the other hand, I'm not sure the judge's heart was in the right place... | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 02:20 PM |
| -11 | Talking with a pen in my mouth has helped me become a better communicator.Cool tip. It's like you put an instrument in your mouth so that you can eventually put an instrument in HER mouth! | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 05:05 PM |
| 6 | A bit of info about Marissa Mayer's (CEO of Yahoo) work at Google just blew my mind. (Or how equality can be achieved by someone denying all association with feminism)I will say that raising kids IS a fucking hard job, and the labor involved would pay a great deal, BUT: Women have ALL the power to choose whether they are pregnant or not (see? Feminism has constructed an environment where on multiple levels women are granted superiority - they can choose to have a kid, and they can choose to whine about raising it, and for the most part, they can choose who is going to fund their baby without reciprocating anything in return). Working Mothers are in the same b… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/13 06:52 PM |
| 2 | My Unofficial Seddit Achievements listI don't know. Most of us here are looking to simply improve ourselves and we'll quit the game when we find the right women, but others are truly in it for the game. It's like replaying a game on hard mode - you gain a type of satisfaction out of introducing new challenges. | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 03:53 PM |
| 18 | My Unofficial Seddit Achievements listOne can only hope that while I'm wearing my google glass, racking up achievements, there is a 10 year old asshole calling me a faggot in my ear. Otherwise, it's just not the same, man. | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 03:50 PM |
| 8 | Don't text her, CALL her.I really like the idea of calling a girl when everyone's constantly texting. Here's the deal though - because everyone's ALWAYS texting, people aren't making themselves available to talk. You run the risk of getting a "hey I can't talk now" or simply getting screened via voice mail. So I think the solution is to really practice it out and be willing to risk failure a few times (which is the theme of all of seduction, really). I'd be interested to discuss ways to deal with these inevitable annoya… | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 06:38 PM |
| 0 | 1 in 4 Swedish Women Will Be Raped as Sexual Assaults Increase 500% [Is this even true?]Fair enough, but if there is one major black mark in terms of the actions of men, some religious-based "rules" might have them. That being said, there are also plenty of "anti-men" religious rules. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/13 01:22 PM |
| 0 | 1 in 4 Swedish Women Will Be Raped as Sexual Assaults Increase 500% [Is this even true?]1 in 4 isn't accurate because it implies randomness, when in fact they note 77% of the rape activity is in muslim communities. So most of the growth, presumably is attributable to muslims, so it would probably be more accurate to say 3/4 muslim women will be victims of rape in Sweden. But then they wouldn't be able to exploit a minority population's suffering if they pointed them out.... | /r/MensRights | 27/02/13 08:35 AM |
| 3 | [FR] (mini) - Confidence, Passion, Shutting the Fuck up, and an easy way into a K-Closethis Notice that his arms are closer to her body than her arms - if you pin down her arms, she'll feel uncomfortable. You can just start by grabbing her hips, and slide around to the back. I'll ALWAYS end a date with at least a hug, but lately it's a big bear-hug, which almost communicates "I'm hugging you like a brother." When I'm really comfortable with a girl and I'm in-state, I never do this, and automatically go for the lower torso hug. As I discussed, I've been out of state a lot. I'm pump… | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 06:22 PM |
| 1 | 6 Steps to Meeting New People (For the Socially Intolerable)Not that I'm immune to pain, but I feel that some hidden conspiracy has prevented me from being able to thoroughly enjoy painkillers. I once had chest pain and got prescribe vicodin (which was super handy when I fucked up my knee traveling in Europe). That was it. I had 2 heart surgeries (stuff I was born with). Got morphine obviously, but despite having my chest sawed open both times, sent home with tylenol and Ibuprofen. I had an adult circumcision (on a Tuesday), and then found out I had a jo… | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 02:11 PM |
| 43 | 'Men SHOULD be afforded anonymity in rape trials - it's a human right': High Court judge Maura McGowan is correct, says Peter LloydThis is a perfect example of what's wrong with the justice system: Obviously the favorable treatment of the woman Crimes are prosecuted by how likely a conviction is, not by anything else. Superstar D.A.s get into the system, and push and push and push for high-profile convictions in order to look like they're "tough on crime." Look at Casey Anthony, i.e. the perfect storm. That case blew up because they went after her for 1st degree murder (which is always a difficult conviction). There was lit… | /r/MensRights | 20/02/13 09:29 PM |
| 2 | 6 Steps to Meeting New People (For the Socially Intolerable)I remember thinking how ridiculous it was that my dentist wanted to take out my wisdom teeth (especially seeing that my teeth came in straight and weren't coming in all impacted and whatnot). Then I read an article on cracked that mentioned how unnecessary they are. I am now open to the idea of having them removed... | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 08:57 PM |
| 3 | 6 Steps to Meeting New People (For the Socially Intolerable)I know seddit contains all kinds of people - some who are pro PUAs, some who are beginning, extroverts, introverts, and everything in between. I think that this article can help bring anyone in there a little bit more social awareness, and hopefully will improve your game, reducing AA and EA. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 02:30 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of this exercise for when you're out of town?Coming off as desperate is a matter of my actions, not my motivation. My biggest struggle is being thrown out of state, when I'm in-state, I have no issues with k-closing or better, but other timesI just walk around with this storm cloud over my head for no reason. I'm thinking that if there's a way to force me to be in-state, this is it. Plus I don't approach it so much as "It's eat or starve to death," but rather "Looks like the only way this night is ending is in an extra long twin bed back i… | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 10:50 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of this exercise for when you're out of town?I hope you're right. Generally our school sucked for ragers (My housemates and I were #1 for parties, and a good friend of mine was #2) - you never know how lame/awesome the current classes are. I'll have a guaranteed good time, no doubt. I just want to close! | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 10:48 PM |
| 2 | I love "the game", but I met a girl... What do?If you think this is something serious, obviously begin casually and don't lock yourself down until it's time to become official. However, don't "quit" the game. You will want to keep seducing/attracting your girl. She'll want you do to do this to her too. It keeps things interesting. Keep your inner and outer game honed. You won't be approaching, or running sets on her, but you'll need to keep things interesting. Basically, you'll want to carefully contract a case of 'oneitis.' In addition to k… | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Opener that I have been using with my wingman... what do you think? Also do you have any recommendations for other wing man openers?It sounds dangerously close to one of Mystery's well known, and probably well-practiced canned openers. You run the risk of being outed as a PUA very quickly. Pre 2005/2006 girls couldn't detect it, but today girls smell "PUA" from this opener very quickly. I'm glad it works for you, but depending on who and where you use it, I wouldn't be surprised if someone called you out on this one. RonnieLibra's comment is a better routine, and while it's not "unique" it is effective, and harder to detect. | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Found in r/facebookwins thought it more appropriate here.If the hardcore-feminist culture didn't constantly belabor the inaccurate "Men need to be taught not to rape" concept, then this shit wouldn't happen. She could politely say "no thanks, AAA is coming" or "I'm sorry, I just don't feel comfortable accepting help" not "no, I don't want to be raped." Something taught her that men are predators. What other parts of her life are affected by this irrational fear? How are others affected by this attitude? This woman's mindset is a symptom of a much larg… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/13 08:58 PM |
| 3 | HBO's <i>Girls</i> and the female privilege of domestic violence.Jessa is portrayed as the most fucked up character on the show. She's got no defense when she's essentially called a cultural freeloader, and the only thing she has is "you're boring." I think that the point of this show is to expose how girls REALLY ARE fucked up sometimes, and to let the audience understand it. I don't think there's any apologizing for mysandry in the show. The divorce "settlement" was kinda fucked up, but Jessa isn't a glorified character - she's a weak mess, and few feel sor… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/13 06:36 PM |
| 18 | [FR] Introvert, clubbing HB-8 w/ K-Close. How I acted.Congrats on everything, and thank you for the good [FR]. I've been saying this, but take note everyone: OP describes a tactic (an action), and then reveals the type of strategy it's a part of. This is a well written [FR]. Remember, you can read a PUA book in a day and you'll know the strategy. Being successful is about having the balls, and getting the practice so you form good actionable tactics around that strategy. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Something that completely changed my game.I'm a manager at a major food company and my secretary (who used to kinda be my "boss" when I was an intern...go figure) was kinda bitching about how she assumed that I had been working here for a year and made more money than her and she has been here for 25 (which was my age at the time too). I struggled with my words, so I stayed quiet - the last thing I wanted to tell her was in some way, shape, or form that she's not valuable (because she is, but I struggle with words on occasion). I learne… | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 02:26 PM |
| 114 | Something that completely changed my game.OP: You seem down to earth and genuine with your explanation. I'm sure girls pick up on this too. I think people should take note. Everyone else: take note & throw this type of information in your [FR]s. We are literally being bukkaked with strategy all over the place. But the tactical explanations are a little light... TACTICS - the "doable." "Initiated kino" is a strategy. "Pretended I knew how to read palms to initiate kino" is a tactic. You can read ANY PUA book in an afternoon, and understa… | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 03:57 PM |
| 70 | Apparently the way to justify calling all MRA's violent and rape apologists is by making every man a straw man......obligatory HITLERALLY | /r/MensRights | 06/02/13 03:46 PM |
| 27 | Double StandardsPoor girl. If I had to watch a football game in the same room as Roger Goodell, only one of us would be leaving the room alive. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/13 03:05 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Grocery store day game, #-close.TL;DR Failed twice at asking a girl for her number, 3rd time was a charm! I really liked this part of your [FR]. Few admit that true failure is doing nothing. Nice work! | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 06:24 AM |
| 1 | OkCupid Newbie GuideI thought the same thing, but his pictures are of him doing lots of social activities. I'm willing to bet that if you had 3-4 pictures of you having a blast with friends, doing interesting things like skydiving, with a completely blank profile other than "send me a message!" you'd get a ton of messages from interested women. Ideally you'd have both great pics and a great profile, but I bet awesome pics would do the trick. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Hooray! Equality at last! Legal scholars say women will have to register for the draft now that they are deemed fit to serve in combat.In terms of women serving in the military in this capacity, hardcore feminists (many of whom tend to oppose women in combat....hmmm how fair!) need to realize that this will improve the experience of the woman in the military. The argument against female involvement in the military is commonly: "All women get sexually assaulted in the military." Let's PRETEND for a second that it's remotely true. Having additional women in the military will probably reduce these rates dramatically because it wil… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 03:32 PM |
| 4 | If you know a girl likes you, and wants to kiss you, what's a good line to make this happen?This is also a good move if you've had a great date and you don't know if she likes you and you don't know if she wants to kiss. | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 10:39 PM |
| 15 | It must seem like a really evil world out there when you interpret every behavior as a product of "male privilege."Yes. It came from an extremely reputable, peer-reviewed........blog post on a feminist site with no citations. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/13 12:00 AM |
| 22 | It must seem like a really evil world out there when you interpret every behavior as a product of "male privilege."I asked this question and got verbally attacked on my friend's facebook wall by 5 women. Their reasoning: Because you don't get raped, we do. You don't have to deal with it daily. 95% of women will be sexually assaulted at least once in their lives, possibly 100%. You know, feminist boilerplate bullshit. Was the event that had me search reddit for a sub that would have me not walk away from an argument feeling like I was wrong. Found this one, was not disappointed. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/13 09:42 PM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I think the biggest one that often gets overlooked is a corollary to my previous post. "You wouldn't believe what you can get if you simply ask for it." Now, I'm a very dry-humored person. I can tell a joke with a completely straight face; When I was once asked why I was pulled over by a cop (speeding), I responded somberly "Public masturbation." Now, I have had success using this attitude toward others. I recall being propositioned by a friend after I explained to her that I do aerobics in my d… | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 10:02 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I think the fear stems from horrible interactions in grade school, and the consequences that followed. I think about being the awkward, picked-on kid in middle school. Girls would literally snap at me: "DON'T TALK TO ME" just for saying hi. I wore sweatpants and childish t-shirts to class and everyone else had cool, stylish threads. I didn't play sports. When I hit puberty, for some reason I became more "alpha" and got a great response. I didn't realize what had happened. It took me years to rea… | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 09:47 PM |
| 10 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I think the best way to combat the friend zone (in the future) is to operate under the mentality "It is easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission." I've been zoned hard in the past because I try to be nice, accommodating, a doormat, and I give and give and give without taking a step back and say "why the fuck am I giving so much without being selfish?" I have had luck being sexually witty. I've written how an easy way to do this is to turn every double entendre into "That's what s… | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Askreddit thread asks "what's the worst thing you've ever been accused of?". Thread EXPLODES with false rape allegations.Possibilities: Male-hating judge looking to get rid of the "rape mentality" that every man ever was born with Connected parents on the side of the female The kid isn't telling the entire story I assume that he doesn't have to register, which is a plus. It's still sad he had to do all that community service. Total bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/13 06:16 PM |
| 7 | Askreddit thread asks "what's the worst thing you've ever been accused of?". Thread EXPLODES with false rape allegations.He wrote his story very poorly, so those types of details got jumbled. It wasn't clear to me exactly where he got the Ecstasy from, but it sounds like the one he hooked up with. My guess is that he lives in a jurisdiction with a juvenile punishment system where people tend to not hire lawyers and are provided one for "minor crimes." These people act as facilitators, not true advocates, and he was probably afraid of the lawyer as he/she is a "part of the system." He probably didn't want to fess u… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/13 06:11 PM |
| 34 | Askreddit thread asks "what's the worst thing you've ever been accused of?". Thread EXPLODES with false rape allegations.One does. Sorta. In the dumbest sense, and actually makes a good ethical grey area case. A 15 year old (so off the bat he's a minor) went to a rave and was given what's probably ecstasy by another woman. I'm not sure he caught her age, but he went home with her and another friend, and fingered her. He was busted by an adult and charged with rape. He was found guilty (so I assume the girl was also underage). He had to do so many hours of community service. The problems were obvious (everyone was … | /r/MensRights | 09/01/13 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Approaching a "mean" or "cold" girl..it's like the whole interaction was a stream of shit tests.This relationship has an expiration date. That being said, see how far you can get with her. If she's CONSTANTLY shit testing you, and you can penetrate it, you'll do great with others. She doesn't seem like long term though. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 08:21 PM |
| 3 | 6 Habits of Remarkably Likeable PeopleSaw this article. Yahoo articles are terrible - they're written by lazy writers and are based on anecdotes. For instance - "They Lose the Power Pose" is complete bullshit. 95% of likeable people keep a sturdy, powerful pose. The other 5% are so well rounded in other things and carry their charisma and maintain a purely alpha attitude in other ways that their posture and stature doesn't matter. Unless you've got the rest of everything covered, you might as well keep a sturdy, strong power pose. | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this mindset?Well yeah I'm not defending it, I'm just explaining why people are utterly afraid of being shot down. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 07:11 PM |
| 2 | How do I get rid of this mindset?I'm over it now seeing that it was like 15 years ago, but I remember being in school, trying to get a girl's attention - not because I liked her, but because I simply wanted to tell her something. "Don't talk to me." Her immaturity hit me hard. Comments like that dug me into a hole that I've managed to dig out of over the last few years because anyone that bitchy isn't worth hanging around. A lot of people have similar experiences. The result is often being fearful of approaching women, and clin… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this mindset?But Homer's actually a pretty good satirical representation of the lazy, bad parts of society. "Fear of Failure" is at the heart of approach anxiety. This quote is taken literally by millions who don't live up to their potential. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 06:46 PM |
| 3 | (FR) NYE day two f-closeThis reeks (positively) of Alpha acting. My favorite part was the stranger approach: Being comfortable asking help of a stranger in front of your date is totally alpha. Being friendly, human, and also knowing how to manage when your original plans aren't 100% going to work is the hallmark of a leader. The date was kept on the edge of her seat the entire time "Why is he talking to her on our date?" You've created a space where you can reward her by bringing her in later on in the night with atten… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Thanks Seddit. I'm 25 and I just had my first girlfriend, lost my virginity and had my first breakup in a matter of months. What a crazy end to 2012.It's VERY HARD to keep seducing a woman when she makes you feel very comfortable. It is by far and large the reason why I have short-lived relationships. My most recent relationship (10 months ago) sparked, ignited, then fizzled out quick. When we were casually friends and we both wanted to fuck each other, I (inadvertently) acted cool, with a "I don't give a fuck" attitude. I knew about seduction, but didn't study it very close at that point. By sheer luck I managed to do all the right things t… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 03:24 PM |
| 17 | How did you guys begin to improve and change yourselves? What did you stop or start doing?I used to booze a lot in college and my game wasn't so good. I quit boozing for grad school, and my game improved. I began studying seduction and my game improved much more. Worked out, even moreso. I noticed I began making rookie errors with HB9, HB10s once I started boozing again. Alcohol has two major factors with it that hurt your game: The crutch factor. If you are only comfortable when you're buzzed, then your game is only halfway there. The sloppiness factor. I've ruined a number of chanc… | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 06:28 AM |
| 42 | How did you guys begin to improve and change yourselves? What did you stop or start doing?I need to comment on why "Start working out" is great. First of all, people always ask about magic bullets. "What can I do to be successful at this?" In my opinion there are two. "State your intentions" is the first one. After overcoming approach anxiety, and even being okay at escalation and kino, I realized that i was just the straight version of a gay friend. Stating my intentions, even in a clumsy, awkward fashion is the best way for me to land where I want to land - closing with some chick,… | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 06:17 AM |
| 20 | I don't know why, but there is something about this gif that is male-positive on so many levels. (repost from r/funny)Professional sports, despite the copious amounts of alcohol and fights, are still very family focused. You may get booted. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 06:39 PM |
| 4 | How about just saying "kiss" instead of "kiss-close"?I'm generally skeptical of using some of the [FR] terminology, however, now that I see sales a lot in my job, the concept of "closing" is very smart to point out. I've had a million conversations with women in numerous situations. Our goal isn't "To have wonderful conversation!" but rather to get a number, kiss, or have a sexual encounter. I can have conversations with anyone. I'm no conversationalist, but I'm good at keeping a dialog going. I think the importance of "close" is to help push peop… | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 04:40 PM |
| 10 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequence"Wanna fuck" is much better than saying nothing. That's what it means. Everytime someone posts advice like this, someone usually comes back with "what about this caveat" or "what does this mean?" Most of these things work only if they're vague. I read about the nuclear option. That 2-5% of the time, if you go up to a girl and get close with her and go "Wanna fuck?" she'll go home with you. Now I'm a math major, but I don't think it takes much to realize that 2-5% is much greater than 0%. This is… | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 10:11 PM |
| 45 | Reading the "what hints flew over your head" thread got me thinking... Escalating has NEVER lead to a negative consequenceMake your intentions known. This needs to be the theme for this sub. Every [FR] that ends in a close call or "I was beta as fuck" or something like that is a result of not following this simple rule. People often ask on here for "What's that one thing you did?" or "What's the magic bullet?" Making your intentions known is the closest thing to a magic bullet. It's amazing what people will do for you if you state your intentions and just ask (and then this also dives into the push/pull dynamics a … | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 03:06 PM |
| 1 | 6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better personHe didn't. He lived with us for a few months (I'm sure this fact contributes to my "He's a piece of shit" attitude - never live with brothers - it'll drive you crazy). In that time, he brought 6 girls to the house, and unless he convinced them to partake in a clever ruse, their moans and screams confirm that he fucked them all. I 100% believe his numbers. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 03:54 PM |
| 3 | 6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better personThere's an app that makes a chain and a new link is added each day you complete a task. Miss a day and you must start over. I imagine once you get a few days in you really don't want to kill that chain. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 06:28 AM |
| 6 | 6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better personNot sure if you're responding to the tl;dr or actually giving a tl;dr. My response is yes | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 10:48 PM |
| 21 | 6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better personOr if you have a life, learn to embrace it, be proud of it, and share it with others. Too often I used to know someone for months and then the subject would come up: "Oh my god, you're in a band?? I didn't know that!" MONTHS and they didn't know one of the biggest parts of my life (musicianship). Oh yeah and being in a band tends to get you laid - but you have to communicate it the right way. Our band fucking sucks. We are terrible, and I'll be the first to admit it. BUT - do I tell anyone that?… | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 10:45 PM |
| 7 | 6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better personCynical, misinformed, and ignorant. I can see why you had to make a troll account to post this garbage. | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 09:51 PM |
| 43 | 6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better personPlease stop thinking like that. The worst person I know in the world is my former roommate's little brother. He was not mentally challenged or anything, but I've honestly met people with Downs Syndrome that were smarter and more capable than him. He slept with 35 women by the time he was 21. He isn't very good looking. He isn't accomplished. He just skates by. He slept with 35 women by the time he was 21. He doesn't have motivation. He is more or less, a turd. He slept with 35 women by the time … | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 09:35 PM |
| 86 | 6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better personCouldn't agree more. This is probably why retirement is a guarantee expedited death - many retirees love the downtime, and think that laziness is their ticket to happiness. They become crabby and die quickly. My dad retired 16 years ago and stays super active, and even is on a few boards of directors. He's super happy, active, and even though he's happily married to my mom, there have been hilarious instances where younger ladies blatantly hit on him (and he's pretty old, and no one in my family… | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 08:52 PM |
| 78 | 6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better personI know Cracked is a comedy site, but it echoes a lot of what we've been saying around here a long time for inner and outer game, and it's nice to hear someone who is presumably outside of our community saying this stuff. | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 04:28 PM |
| 7 | How can I make this about meeeeeee?Nope because all those things happen to women too. This isn't the "suffering olympics" this is merely Men's Rights trying to fight having our problems being marginalized by people who refuse to see things in an egalitarian light. "Women have it worse" is appalling - but it's ignorant to say they don't have it bad either. Men are dying on the front lines, but women at home, or in the service, or at the other end of the gun - many are having their worlds turned upside-down because of losing their … | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 05:31 PM |
| 1 | A story of how a false rape accusation caused a dear friend of mine to commit suicide.Because the "All characters appearing in this work are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental" line would be a lie in itself. In essence, the phrase would be 100% ineffective for someone who realized what was going on. You can serve anyone with a lawsuit. Considering a large degree of this story can be verified by news stories and such, a borderline libelous passage could bring my buddy a great deal of pain. He may not lose in court, but he'd be out t… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 02:57 PM |
| 29 | How can I make this about meeeeeee?...and being captured, tortured, raped, developing PTSD, not having any transferable skills (when they were told that they would receive them)... EDIT - wow...did I say something wrong? All this is happening to men... | /r/MensRights | 12/12/12 08:32 PM |
| 43 | How can I make this about meeeeeee?While this quote is appalling, and soldiers have it bad, it's important to recognize that no one is necessarily suffering "more" but we would like the world to know that women aren't the only one's suffering. "Males having a worse time" is subjective. Being imprisoned and tortured is hell, but so is losing your partner when you have a family to support. My point is this: we shouldn't be in the business of saying "who has it worse" but rather "we both have it bad, don't marginalize MY suffering."… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/12 08:30 PM |
| 5 | A story of how a false rape accusation caused a dear friend of mine to commit suicide.A buddy of mine did a biography about someone from his town. He left out so many good stories, and still doesn't want to sell it on Amazon because the fact checking on non-fiction has to be so incredibly detailed or else you'll set yourself up for a major libel lawsuit. He sells it independently with limited distribution on purpose. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/12 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Woman here, quite the feminist, but reassessing my views.Then am I'm belittling misogynists too in that same sentence? Being critical of someone isn't the same as belittling (I assume my comments hit home for you). I find their brand of commentary off-putting and distasteful. They have an opportunity to educate and they royally fuck it up by putting down anyone that opposes them and turning them into a joke. A small percentage of people here act similarly - they post feminist blunders for laughter, not for education. They make a belittling argument an… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/12 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Woman here, quite the feminist, but reassessing my views.By pointing out that belittling someone is unconstructive? Look up the word before you accuse me of being one... | /r/MensRights | 11/12/12 11:24 PM |
| 8 | Woman here, quite the feminist, but reassessing my views.A lot of lurkers will downvote good arguments in order to marginalize against what they otherwise can't defend. It's much easier to silence your opponent than compete against it. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/12 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Woman here, quite the feminist, but reassessing my views.While some of the men here at in /r/mensrights are downright old-fashioned misogynists who use the /r/atheism method of supporting their own cause (i.e. putting everyone else down and belittling them), you'll find that they are in the minority. The remainder (and vast majority) of the members of this sub definitely are pro-equality. We shudder at misogyny just as much as we shudder at misandry (and I'm shuddering right now at how "misandry" is not a recognized word by my spell check). Most of th… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/12 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Teacher supports MRMhttp://thatschurch.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/tumblr_maq77ecMHG1qejf6u.gif | /r/MensRights | 11/12/12 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Rape of men legal in some states?But we need to be able to appreciate how the law differentiates the two because not all people will see eye to eye with you - I've heard even (mostly) reasonable people consider ass-grabbing on the same level as rape. If only the law could operate like this more often... | /r/MensRights | 10/12/12 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Rape of men legal in some states?I'm excited to hearing one of the following: Members of the Todd Akin "legitimate rape" opposition to band together and protest this gross injustice. The sound of crickets. I know Todd Akin is a moron and a jerk, but I feel that this is no different. Anyone that demands equality needs to fight for this too. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/12 08:55 PM |
| 12 | [FR] "Stop staring into my eyes, you're making me want to cheat on my boyfriend"and wants to be my friend and a wingman for me With Benefits Wingman With benefits I'm more just busting your balls, but you are saying two completely different things in this comment versus your actual post. You did some excellent work, and I would definitely say you were successful, and you posted an EXCELLENT [FR] (i.e. you were detailed and you didn't brag, and you truly made it educational). The takehome is that you did push, but probably right to that fine line between simply pushing and b… | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Hired gun becomes cockblock. Thoughts? Suggestions?Fuck it. Assume she's attracted. Ignore her vague text. Act accordingly. You're the man. Tell her that on Saturday you're going to be _______________ and she should join you. But tell her this tomorrow night. Go on a texting hiatus until then - even if she texts you. | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Hired gun becomes cockblock. Thoughts? Suggestions?Her? http://cdn.crushable.com/files/2012/06/AV1.jpg | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Hired gun becomes cockblock. Thoughts? Suggestions?Yes. Go for it. Call her today and set something up for soon - just you and her. Be creative and don't ask for her permission. Insist on it being just the two of you and make sure HG doesn't tag along to fuck things up. Based on what you're saying, she's bukakking you with IOIs and this situation is yours to fuck up (by that I mean you're in a good spot). I think now you just have to do the following: Set up something with Ann - isolation is key Right now she trusts you and feels comfortable wit… | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Hired gun becomes cockblock. Thoughts? Suggestions?(we'll call her Ann) Her? | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 08:43 PM |
| 14 | Hired gun becomes cockblock. Thoughts? Suggestions?Couple weeks may be too long. Sounds like a college/dorm situation where relationships tend to begin fast and hot and heavy (and then end within months). HG plan backfired, and it sounded like she wasn't 100% on board with OP's plan. Either that or HG wants some of OP. The rapport with Ann has been established, we're forgetting that OP didn't isolate. He can achieve this with a simple request to hang out for dinner/studying/snow angel making session. The only other issue I see is that maybe OP i… | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 05:28 PM |
| 2 | How to make it clear you are interested in her sexually, without looking like a perv?I think someone else said it on this thread. It's about groundwork. You need to establish that you appreciate her as a whole, and not just physically. She wants to feel like someone special finds her special. I think good conversation, proper kino escalation, humor, and general comfort establish this. Once you've achieved this, let the eyes casually look at the wares. | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 08:00 PM |
| 119 | How to make it clear you are interested in her sexually, without looking like a perv?What works with me is a mix of kino, forward compliments, and joking around with an adult theme. Some examples: "That's what she said" used to work before everyone said it all the time. I changed it to "I hear that a lot" or "I've heard that before" and give some eye contact and a wink. It generates genuine laughter (and not the nervous type). Kino is big, but kino by itself will only let her grow physically comfortable with you. This is critical, but you've got to escalate, escalate, escalate. … | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 10:35 PM |
| 33 | Let me tell you a storyCheck your facts. It's 130% | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 04:51 AM |
| 4 | Female teacher convicted of having sex with teenage student. Gets probation.ROT IN HELL, DAN!!!! Oh wait....Danielle??? I'm sorry for the misunderstanding. Here's some sunshine and rainbows. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Baby bleeds to death after circumcision - mum says not told of risksFirst off, I'm 100% against routine infant circumcision. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/12 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Baby bleeds to death after circumcision - mum says not told of risksThere are a lot of important facts about circumcision that make this particular story awful. First off, I'm 100% against routine infant circumcision. It sickens me having conversations with people who have nothing to do with male genitalia why it's better (hint: the people I'm talking about don't even cite the statistically insignificant benefits related to penile cancer and STDs). That being said, no kid should ever bleed to death due to a circumcision. There are good methods to do this that mi… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/12 06:04 PM |
| 7 | How do you deal with Alpha's who want to fight? [story inside]Most people have hit on it, but there is a clear difference between "Alpha" and "Alpha Acting." "Alpha" is pretty much universally good. Alpha males in this situation back off and read cues quickly and are polite but not pushovers. Otherwise, they take what they want without stealing it. "Alpha Acting" is the dude described in this altercation. Forcing himself on the disinterested. Picking fights. That's just shitty. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 09:18 PM |
| 3 | The best thing you've done to improve your attractiveness? Any other quicktips from you pros that's not game related?I think this is turning into a discussion of quick fixes of inner game and outer game. This is okay, and should be encouraged. It needs to be emphasized that these are only marginal, and no substitute for actual improvement. Hair, teeth whitening, any visual improvement is probably 80% inner, 20% outer improvement. I like the fact that my rogaine is working because it helps MY confidence. The truth is that I've scored more while balding than without. Knowledge and confidence win. Cologne is prob… | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 08:40 PM |
| 9 | As a young adult with open eyes from experience, I am upset by what I've seen in USA public education system.I think winning arguments is important because the science used against Men is so soft, and we actually have hard figures to support our stance. Arguing is one of many opportunities to educate. If you're in a lecture hall, and a female professor demonizes men, and you stand up to her, you're placed in a vulnerable spot. College professors - no matter the issue - are known for being smart, but not known for their debating skills. Unfortunately, as they sit in a position of power, they never find … | /r/MensRights | 20/11/12 02:55 PM |
| 36 | As a young adult with open eyes from experience, I am upset by what I've seen in USA public education system.So do we have a good cheat sheet for these types of situations? Numbers backed by science and good statistics are pure power - none of this wishy-washy subjective crap like the 200 various definitions of 'rape' that generate 200 different statistics on female victims (true story, 140% of all women are violently raped each hour). I truly love this subreddit. I walked in expecting a bunch of men bitching about injustices, and I'm seeing what's better described as a bunch of egalitarians who in fac… | /r/MensRights | 20/11/12 02:12 PM |
| 2 | does anyone else use dancing to pick up women?http://www.cracked.com/article_20098_5-lifes-most-mundane-problems-solved-with-math.html Check out #3 | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 10:13 PM |
| 2 | All I can say is thanks guysA lot of what's written here seems unbelievable to total noobs. This is stuff that we've been taught is "impolite" "rude" and "ineffective." Reading it flat out is surely to be met with heavy doses of skepticism. But with the occasional fluff piece - it helps noobs embrace these lessons quicker. [FR]s ARE the most productive, but seeing that we're not being flooded completely with these types of posts, I see no problem letting a few of them in. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 07:19 PM |
| 33 | All I can say is thanks guysThe most important lesson I've learned is easily told, but hard to accept: The only obstacle in your way the whole time was you Not your looks Not your job Not someone else Not the ocean in which you're fishing | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 07:17 PM |
| 88 | How long should I wait to ask a girl out after a flake? Should I avoid texting her for a while?Plot Twist - She has multiple personality disorder and her "sister" is really her. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 10:50 PM |
| 5 | What to text girls you haven't talked to in a while?It's super downvoted but somehow DTF / ASCII penis aren't. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How to be the guy the girl comes back to at the clubAnything. Be interesting. Ask her questions. Learn to identify and respond to shit tests. Challenge her. Joke. Be playful/teasing. And then of course don't focus on words. Kino + kino escalation accelerates the connection-building. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 05:47 PM |
| 8 | 3 second rule: I think I finally understand the reason for it, and why it is so important.What the hell does eating food that fell off the floor have to do with seduction? I keed. Nice analysis. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 02:49 PM |
| 9 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go OutI have a friend who has crippling social anxiety. As a result, he can destroy a case of beer in a night. He's wildly successful with women out of his league in terms of looks. On paper, they're not very attractive (high school dropouts, not much going on for them), but damn, they are super sexy and hot. So he makes his moves on them while drunk, and of course, he's become quite functional while drunk. But then when he begins a short-lived relationship, he often gets verbally abusive when he's so… | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 05:57 AM |
| 4 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go OutThis is true, and also the barrier at which it's no longer safe to drive for me. 3 pints of an imperial ale will push me above 0.08%. I learned that it's at this point where women will cross the threshold from 'homely' to attractive. I discovered this at a work event where I began to approach a coworker who suddenly became attractive. I immediately backed off, took a piss, asked for a water, and waited out for about an hour before I took off. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 05:55 AM |
| 1 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go OutGreat video. On a slightly unrelated note, a while back I had one of my worst crash and burns due to alcohol. This is more of a tactical error while the video says that drinking is a strategic error. I am not a "drink-to-reduce-anxiety" guy. I can approach and hold conversation just fine. I think the social lubrication effect is real, and has an effect on me, but I don't use it as a crutch. Anyway - one night I went to visit my buddy who lives far enough from me that I took a plane to see him. S… | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 05:52 AM |
| 1 | I was just falsely accused of rape.You're giving out terrible advice and you need to stop. You have the right to remain silent and you never know what cop is going to twist and use anything you say against you. Yes, in this case it would have resulted in OP getting arrested - but in this actual case, OP was lucky. But by not speaking you can't incriminate yourself. There's plenty of good information out there on the internet that is clear: "DON'T TALK TO COPS" And my two roommates from grad school have been lawyers for some time … | /r/MensRights | 03/11/12 04:09 AM |
| -11 | Was told to give up my seat on the train for an able bodied women - I have a broken leg.dude you are wayy too butthurt over a comment. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/12 01:15 AM |
| -12 | Was told to give up my seat on the train for an able bodied women - I have a broken leg.Why does this post necessitate a throwaway? Is the crazy lady going to find him based on his reddit account and break his good leg? I'm wondering if this is a copied story. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/12 12:01 AM |
| 85 | Was told to give up my seat on the train for an able bodied women - I have a broken leg.Welcome to a world where women are equal to men so simple, concise and perfect! | /r/MensRights | 03/11/12 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child.Aren't we supposed to be promoting chafe sex? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/12 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child.Asbestos is the best policy... | /r/MensRights | 31/10/12 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Women Who Own iPhones Lose The Ability To Love - Underneath the topic, you MUST keep gaming your SO, while in a relationship, or lose her.I think that what you're saying needed to be said. This is completely fear mongering. It's like the saying "Guns don't kill people, People kill people." Whether you think it's true or not for firearms, it's true in this case. As motherducker describes, the Words With Friends girlfriend has always existed, and the Attention-whoring-give-me-praise girlfriend has always existed. Smartphones are just another tool. Do they open women up to a bigger world? Maybe. What's true about technology is that i… | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 05:25 PM |
| 11 | Women Who Own iPhones Lose The Ability To Love - Underneath the topic, you MUST keep gaming your SO, while in a relationship, or lose her.What? K-close, #-close, f-close, HB#, and the like are robotic and ungenuine? Man what you're saying is a total DLV. | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 05:19 PM |
| 5 | A feminist's view of the ideal society: "all the women would share one good-looking local stud to have babies with..."I love this. Her knocking at ugly, unattractive men, and all that. The comment "98% of men are redundant." Ok. Let's entertain the genocide that would probably get her all wet inside. BAM - let's knock out all but the 2% 'studs' (her word). Get rid of all the ugly guys who have only been able to get laid because of patriarchy. So now, we have what? 3.5 billion women and 70 million men. Do you realize that you just ENHANCED the patriarchy via the law of scarcity???? These 70 million men are now a… | /r/MensRights | 29/10/12 06:00 PM |
| 3 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Haha. Well any message can be broken down. Like I said, you take a phrase, an occupation, anything...and reframe it. A challenge would be something like "Janitor" because if you say "purveyor of the custodial arts" it's funny, but kind of tired and transparent. I'm not sure offhand how I would rephrase it. I might try to emphasize what the company/institution does that I clean up for first. "I work over at HSBC - I'm part of the sanitation team" or you might try to skirt the question completely,… | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Humor goes a long way... | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 07:25 PM |
| 26 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?All repertoire. All how you communicate it. All about your passion. Even though I'm a marketer, I design things for my company online on occasion (I'm primarily a marketer). I built a few handy databases that are used globally off of some scripts I found and Wordpress. I would never phrase it like that. I'm sure you, the reader is already asleep. My approach which seems to work: First of all, usually the "what do you do?" thing comes up. I could say that I'm a marketer, and I work very much in k… | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 06:18 PM |
| 90 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Can we just take this comment for what it truly means (fundamentally?) Every motherfucker in there is trying in some way shape or form to make themselves better. This is it. Find ways to make yourself better. Another poster said he hates the gym, but plays guitar. There you go. I think one of the fundamentals to not giving a fuck and to making yourself be more valuable is to make yourself better. Expertise. Passion. These are silver bullets in seduction. We talk of Mystery like he was a caricatu… | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 02:54 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012Why is it that I never take into consideration the shotgun approach? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 09:08 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012The "black book" (Cell phone contacts) has a few contacts of girls who I haven't talked to in some time, left on okay terms (just kinda both got busy, stopped chatting), and of course all are people I actually know face to face. What are some killer ways to re-open the conversation? | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Do YogaI'm a fat dude that does yoga on his own in his basement (P90X yoga) some things: 1.) EVERYONE should be doing yoga if they're able to. It keeps your mind and body right, it burns calories, and it keeps you healthy. You ever see old people who don't look old or old people who are super fit? Yeah, they probably do yoga. Keeping your mind right is critical in seduction too. Hell, if I don't have a good night's sleep sometimes I flub around with my words and I'm no longer sharp with my tongue. 2.) … | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Powerful image in protest of Male Genital MutilationWell to be fair it was more like I "hey I'm gonna be in town, wanna meet up?" and I knew that even after 2 years apart she wasn't quite over me - total mess - but she was willing to help out. ...for science. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/12 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Powerful image in protest of Male Genital MutilationYou know I was watching "The League" and I cringed and cringed and cringed when in last week's episode, Kevin's new baby's circumcision was a huge part of the plot. I know it's supposed to be a plot device, and I'd be a hypocrite when I say that I wasn't equal parts laughing and offended (comedy is supposed to be offensive), but it reminded me that there still exists a strong crappy tradition inside and outside of the US. I know the statistics show routine male circumcision is on the decline, bu… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/12 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Lifestyle Guide (crosspost from /r/YouShouldKnow)Can any experts out there (I'm using the term broadly -seduction, life, psychology, etc) comment on the career aspiration pieces of this? It says do what you love (agreed), and some are disagreeing with the "get your B.S./B.A. no matter what" piece. I think I can conditionally agree with this. I really think there's a lot of power being a well-rounded individual. I see people who are AMAZING at one thing, but then can't even work the toaster in the morning. In terms of seduction, I've captivated… | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Lifestyle Guide (crosspost from /r/YouShouldKnow)"Understand that at age 22 you are your most energetic and most creative" While the piece of advice following it is true (stand up for yourself), this "fact" is completely wrong. A great deal of workplace psychology research has looked at how age affects the flow of ideas, energy, and creativity. In short - age doesn't. If you're on the brink of retirement, you still contain a lot of creativity. YES - you should strive to be your best at any age (and THAT'S the advice here, I know - be your best… | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 11:55 AM |
| 2 | [FR] How a lanyard got me laidFirst of all, I thoroughly enjoyed the read. Great advice. I'm going to put it into action because it seems to fit me well. Second of all, THANK YOU FOR WRITING A PROPER [FR]!!! | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 05:24 PM |
| 2 | 3 Steps to Quickly Getting Over Your ExI might add that your step #3 is essentially at the heart on how to not give a fuck. Additionally, A suitable #1.5 would be something like "don't google on how to get her back." There is a subset of the seduction community that promises that if you spend $90 on a kit, you can learn how to text your way to getting your girlfriend back. The practice seems very predatory to me. I came very close to biting when I realized that I just need to move along and start going out more often. I feel that eve… | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 09:24 PM |
| -3 | I'm going to a "write on your shirt" party tonight. What can I write on it to get some attention?"I write on your shirt, you write on mine...funny thing is it's located on my cock..." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhQIxA2VaCk | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, we need to talkTo be honest, I thought the sidebar had the strategy, the [FR]s discussed the tactical, and the rest was just ideation/inspiration/motivation. I don't see the problem... My beef is only with the [FR]s that don't really break anything down, and ignore the tactical application to strategy. Luckily, they don't usually see their way to the front page. Edit - I do have another beef, and it again has to do with [FR]s. Often, a sedditor will be posting an [FR], and be vague about a certain step. This s… | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 01:53 PM |
| 1 | How many of you guys have bagged milfs? Especially the 19-21 year old guys? Any tips?I thought that it'd be fun, even after lots of lube, proking, and prodding, it just wasn't a pleasant experience. Most girls are willing, it just takes the right way of asking, and possibly some alcohol to convince them. They're usually concerned not about the pain, but the idea that it's unclean, and that it makes them feel more whorish than they're usually willing to go. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 12:00 AM |
| 2 | How many of you guys have bagged milfs? Especially the 19-21 year old guys? Any tips?This is actually a funny part of the story. A week prior to us first hooking up, some of my friends were smoking weed by the lake (one was my roommate, and I wasn't with them). They saw three drunk adults 100 yards from them, unaware they were being watched by students. The adults were 2 males and 1 female. Abruptly, the female began yelling "nothing is going up my anus!" or something like that. She kept repeating it. My friends identified her quickly as the professor I ended up banging. One of … | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 10:29 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experienceRelevant Links: http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/czter/male_redditors_as_a_female_i_can_say_one_of_the/ http://www.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice/comments/vq2f3/basic_mens_fragrance_guide/ | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How many of you guys have bagged milfs? Especially the 19-21 year old guys? Any tips?Joke or not - no, no anal involved. I'm used to fucking girls with pink assholes (sue me - they're pleasant to look at / stick things into). Hers was black. Not black from being dirty, but black from...I dunno. She would benefit greatly from an asshole bleaching. It repulsed me. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 03:12 PM |
| 10 | Strategy with Shy GirlsThe further you get in the game, the more you'll see girl's being awkward, not us guys. Lol starting off I found plenty of awkward women. It usually was enough to ruin the next few approaches because mentally I'm just going "wtf?" (Was at a club, and spotted a HB8-ish and her friend. They were in the corner of the club just chilling with their cell phones. I came up to them and teased them a bit about what they were doing, they smiled, and wouldn't budge. They stayed that way the entire night) | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 08:50 PM |
| 7 | How many of you guys have bagged milfs? Especially the 19-21 year old guys? Any tips?Warning - long post, I'll try to tl;dr it up in the end nicely. I bagged a cougar when I was 20 (she was 42, no kids). My buddy bagged his boss - a 33 year old "Milf" (we never saw her - only the messages, and he refused to show a picture, so we figured that the "ILF" part was subjective...) My backstory: The cougar I banged was actually a college professor who was doing a summer program with a small class doing research. The people who were of age (and me with a Fake ID) would go out on Tuesday… | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 05:46 PM |
| 1 | So /r/seduction, what is something interesting about yourself?Yup. I forget how bad I got at lyrics some shows, but I rolled with it. I'm into indie rock (think early Radiohead, Replacements, Yo La Tengo), and when I'm up there, lyrics have to be generally clear. I'd be 2 days fresh off of writing a song, and by the second verse, I would just "ahh" and "ooh" the melody. But today, as drummer, sometimes I'll carry the melody when our frontman is fucking around or something. It's kind of funny, and probably super unprofessional, but IDC. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 06:56 PM |
| 1 | So /r/seduction, what is something interesting about yourself?effin' frontmen! our frontman is also bloody nervous minutes before a gig, while I'm in a little cocoon of explosions and excitement. :) I'm pretty intense and excited before gigs that I front. I had a great rapport with my old drummer in my former band because of this. In my current band (where I drum), my frontman will let the first song ruin the gig if it's at all bad, and he'll point out all of our flaws, and not the fact that he doesn't know how to just ignore any minor hiccups. Those gigs … | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 06:01 PM |
| 1 | So /r/seduction, what is something interesting about yourself?Ahh I'm the exact opposite. I can't get on the stage fast enough. Once the magic is over, though, recalibrating is tough. I'm over a good deal of it now, but now, as a drummer, I used to go approach a woman and once I caught her eye, she didn't really react - I would think "I saw you watching us, and you enjoyed yourself...don't you recognize me as the drummer?" The answer is usually yes, and I've got to make the effort to just strike up some conversation. I'm not so pathetic now, but shit - I l… | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 05:34 PM |
| 1 | So /r/seduction, what is something interesting about yourself?Fronting a band - I used to do it and I don't know if it's good or bad for AA On one hand, you literally are in the spotlight putting yourself out there. These is an entire subset of anxiety. On the other hand - when you rock out a show, everyone approaches YOU. This is great at first. I never was in a big band, but our night college shows in the weird basement places of dorm buildings and small bars were great because I didn't have to try. I learned very quickly to carry my own sharpie because … | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Thank you Seddit. F-close thanks to your help.If you could post this as a proper [FR] with strategies on how you went from point a to point F-close you would get a warmer response. "...so I just kinoed everyone there" is not very helpful. We use [FR]s as learning opportunities more than just opportunities to thank and brag. Congrats to you, but a generic bragging/thank you post doesn't do much to help the community. | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Cyrano, the fun pickup game my friends and I invented.Wow - awesome. This is the equivalent of learning how to type by typing words and word fragments to blow up little computer spaceships. Bravo! I'm borrowing this. | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Awkward silences 30 minutes inAll the literature for seduction, public speaking, networking, and basic conversation have some form of this piece of advice. Often it's something like "stare THROUGH the person you're talking to, as if you're focusing on something directly behind them." or "Stare at them like you're penetrating their soul." If you can just do this and turn on the dirty mind, it works wonders in terms of seduction. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 01:57 PM |
| 20 | Awkward silences 30 minutes inRead up on the way that the Chinese and Japanese use silence as a tool of power. Westerners hate silence. We like to fill in every gap as we present, talk, whatever. BUT - as a part of the Eastern Cultures, they kind of are programmed to harness silence really well. Look at any great orator. Look at how they enchant a crowd by frequently using silence. Since westerners hate silence, moments of awkward silence are great ways to recalibrate, solidify eye contact (stare at her in the eyes and pictu… | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 05:30 AM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend, but if i was single i really would give you my number!" - Shit test?What's the opinion of everyone on this as a response (I believe I've read this one over and over again elsewhere - it seems familiar)? "Whoa! I never said anything about being your boyfriend. Listen, you are moving a little too fast. Why don't you just give me your number and I'll call you when I think you're ready to make this friendship work. I've used some variant of this and it usually comes with a smile, pause, and an "okay." Granted this is just on the "I have a bf" - I've never had someon… | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 10:18 PM |
| 13 | The guy who made me tell my best friend, "WOMAN, FUCK THIS MAN TONIGHT."It's about being a great alpha guy. Alpha guys are so magnetic not because they're magical, but because they do things like this. They are genuinely good guys. "Nice" guys hone in on the hottie - the girl they have in their sights, and see no one else. They treat her like a queen, and at best, are cordial to the others. This is classic beta behavior and is dumb. I go about this with moderate success as follows: A lot of seduction guys are adamant about "don't buy her a drink - ever." I tend to a… | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 05:48 PM |
| 4 | What's the biggest lie told in the seduction community?How do you mean? I'm advanced-beginner at pickup, and I guarantee you I could go into a bar with a crappy, ripped t-shirt with a stain on it, and mesh shorts, and get a number from someone. ...but not anyone. I also wouldn't put money on me getting any more than a #-close I just would like to know what you mean. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 09:50 PM |
| 5 | I'm amazed at thisThe theory behind no fap applies to regular masturbators mostly. The idea is complex, but common. They discover fapping early in life They use it as a crutch Orgasm delivers a dopamine rush, so they're dopamine junkies They have low sexual sensitivity, and low sex drive They've compromised their testosterone levels. Now, I hate the cult-like attitude of the subreddit, but I do like the research that backs up what they're saying. Basically, men who stop fapping and go orgasm-free for about 2-3 we… | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?Scaremongering or not, it is a real (but super rare) concern. My really good friend went to high school with a girl who had HSV encephalitis. It's the classic story too - she was a good, churchgoing girl, great future, and then the entire town discovered that she had gone "retarded." Since it's a small town, word got out that it was HSV. Also, since it's a small, dumb town, someone "traced" it back to a gas pump that she used after cutting her finger - you know, the exact same way Queen fans use… | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 10:49 PM |
| 2 | I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past?I think most of us here have been in the same boat as you. Let me offer an analogy - You're at the pool. It's a decent day - 83 degrees Fahrenheit. You want to get in. You want to splash around in there. A bunch of people you know are in there having the time of their lives, and you've been imagining swimming in there all day... So you test the water with your foot. Holy shit - it's freezing. You immediately start to think of the dreadful things: Jumping in and your whole body stinging Being in … | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Paradox of casual sex and not hurting herI like this question because I bet a lot of people in the seduction community have this same issue. I also like the responses here and how everyone has a different outlook/perspective. My own is simple: If you're upfront about your intentions, you're being responsible about it (i.e. a good person). I think a lot of us make the mistake of not being upfront once, and only once, and then play carefully afterward (especially after hooking up with crazy). Just like we're supposed to understand this i… | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 03:07 PM |
| 2 | What are the ways of isolating a girl? How do you do it?I think if someone was striking up the right tone of conversation it would work, but only in jest - unless you were with a girl that maybe you don't want to be trying to seduce... | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 02:43 PM |
| 6 | What are the ways of isolating a girl? How do you do it?"What?!?!?!? You're telling me that these are BAD FOR ME?!?! This is news to me!??!" The better you can act obnoxiously, but convincingly makes this line perfect. My buddy who's a fucking wreck gets the "you shouldn't smoke" line from girls all the time, and fires this back. And these are the girls he brings back home. His obnoxiousness and early "violence" intrigues them - but then he kinda gets really violent and can't hold on to a relationship for longer than 3 months. But shit man - he can p… | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 04:45 PM |
| 21 | What are the ways of isolating a girl? How do you do it?Boom. If you're being bukkaked with IOIs, then you could be like "I have a dead body in my car, wanna take turns putting our fingers inside of it?" and she'll be like "okay." $100 goes to anyone that tries this line btw. | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 04:42 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Lorded the wedding reception; threesome F-close with the bridesmaids.Agreed. I stopped associating "Luck" solely with chance. Luck is the result of hard work, opportunity, and good management. Chance plays a very small role in it all. | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 01:54 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Lorded the wedding reception; threesome F-close with the bridesmaids.Depending on the open bar situation / driving situation / where I'm going to end up that night, I'm with you. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 10:59 PM |
| 17 | [FR] Lorded the wedding reception; threesome F-close with the bridesmaids.GG HumanSockPuppet: Explains how he got a 3some without bragging. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 09:07 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Lorded the wedding reception; threesome F-close with the bridesmaids.Thanks. I suck at pickup in the attracting ladies sense, but I've improved my networking skills, so all is not a wash. I'm getting there slowly. I read a lot of business books, and know poker very well. Luck is a theme that presents itself everywhere. Being lucky (i.e. successful) happens because of two things: Making your own luck Managing the luck you get Making your own luck is hard, but necessary. This in the business sense involves never letting a phone call go to VM, even though it's 5:15 … | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 06:43 PM |
| 18 | [FR] Lorded the wedding reception; threesome F-close with the bridesmaids.Boom. It's like a poker game. You can be dealt any hand in the world and play against any set of players. The more you play, and the more you learn to read people, the better you do. Always remember - a Royal Flush is the best hand, but clearly a majority of the hands are not won with this type of luck. Pairs, 2-Pairs, and even high cards win the game. Being able to identify your luck is key. Before pickup, bringing women home is a factor of being dealt really great hands. After pickup, bringing… | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 06:16 PM |
| 19 | [FR] Lorded the wedding reception; threesome F-close with the bridesmaids.Most FRs that end with an F-close are very poorly written - as if the guy wrote it on his phone while laying in bed with the girl in total disbelief that he got his dick wet. This, however, was worth the read. Much of what was done requires outside practice and overall social comfort, but this was no fluke. Well done! | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 02:23 PM |
| 12 | A warning to everyone. (The result of not being honest).This is a great post. My ex broke up with me after 2 months of dating - I took things pretty badly, but recovered quickly. Reading your post awoken in me some things that I completely forgot. We were seeing each other for 2 weeks before we hooked up (she's friends with a lot of my friends, so I preferred to have an easy escape if needed). I remember liking her, but not enough for a relationship. We hooked up and not long after (minutes), she wanted to know what we were. I gave her the exact answ… | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 05:18 PM |
| 2 | The best advice I can give:Honest smiling portrays you as someone who's having a good time. People are clearly attracted to people who have a good time. People also can detect false smiles. There's a way around this... Some time ago, I made an effort to watch video and catch myself in the mirror with a genuine smile. I made note of how my face looked, and how I felt while doing it. I practiced my 'fake' smile, and got it down pat. Now I can "fake" a smile pretty solidly. For me, if my eyes squint a little bit, and my mout… | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Advice on seduction as a couple?Bull. Even if it's for a passing moment, EVERYONE goes through this in their head. No it's not "OMGZ he's the one!" but it's more like "maybe? ehhh nahhh." | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Advice on seduction as a couple?Really? You can't see how someone should care about gossip that can devastate their social and professional life? People just don't understand this lifestyle, and unfortunately act accordingly. In a time where jobs are hard to come by, you certainly don't want it to get back to work. Depending on who your friends and family are, something wildly out of the blue can turn them off. And before you say "They were never your friends and true family in the first place" I say fuck that. We haven't gott… | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 03:05 AM |
| 3 | I finally figured out what is meant by "Do it for yourself, don't do it for her."You're welcome! Thanks for reading! | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 02:24 AM |
| 2 | I finally figured out what is meant by "Do it for yourself, don't do it for her."Microsoft Project (am I doing it right?) | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Advice on seduction as a couple?I think I totally skipped the last line of your previous post. Classic, and probably true lol. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 08:28 PM |
| 21 | Advice on seduction as a couple?A lot of swingers tend to be "closeted" and have to fight a stigma. An acquaintance of mine and his wife swing (full swap), and he admits that he has to pursue others within the culture rather than pursue friends. Many level headed people refuse to understand why one would want to invite a third person into their sexual lives. As a result of this, a casual "are you down for a threesome?" can blow up into "Georgieorgy and his wife are sexual deviants - stay away from them!" It's my belief that th… | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 07:52 PM |
| 2 | I finally figured out what is meant by "Do it for yourself, don't do it for her."LOL! Yes! She had just separated from her husband a week earlier. Tell me - have you dabbled in time travel at all, or have been a part of some freak experiment??? | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I finally figured out what is meant by "Do it for yourself, don't do it for her."Wow - very similar boat. What are you going to do? As for me, my plan is simple: 1.) Keep improving myself 2.) Continue to meet as many women as possible 3.) Keep the conversation open with this girl. I've been a "game changer" for several women, and I always forget this. My ex from years ago was dating a dude that treated her well and she broke up with him because I called her and said "I like hanging out as friends - it was fun." We had sex a few times, and that was it. This was 3 years ago. F… | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I finally figured out what is meant by "Do it for yourself, don't do it for her."Agreed. I would have the girl no doubt if I took a risk. BUT - and this is merely a silver lining - I wouldn't have learned anything. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 01:45 PM |
| 4 | I finally figured out what is meant by "Do it for yourself, don't do it for her."Kudos to your exercise of discipline! I stopped drinking so heavily - I'm realistic now - no more flat out WASTED nights. Just casual drinking here and there. I had a year of downtime after graduating college due to surgery. It killed my ability to meet people, BUT being single for so long really made me appreciate myself and be comfortable in my own skin. I'm not a pro - and like I said, the journey isn't over, but when it comes to "doing it for myself" I know that any rejection from a girl is … | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 01:44 PM |
| 2 | I finally figured out what is meant by "Do it for yourself, don't do it for her."I don't know how to keep it up other than find ways to remind yourself. Exercise, which is evil to a 265 lb man, becomes a drug once you start doing it. You realize that you'd rather be chasing that sort of feeling rather than one of self pity, and all things lacking motivation. And that feeling carries on to other things. All it takes is for one girl to have given me the time of day for me to go "of course I can do this." It's easy to forget. And slipping back out of the motivated state is easy… | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 01:13 PM |
| 6 | I finally figured out what is meant by "Do it for yourself, don't do it for her."Already fell in the trap. Got snared badly. Vowing to never do it again. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 12:11 PM |
| 21 | I finally figured out what is meant by "Do it for yourself, don't do it for her."lol thanks. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, we need to talk about FRsI'm all for strict guidelines on [FR]s. I made a post on someone's thread titled "Kino is Hard" that talked about how [FR]s were way too focused on getting to the end, but none of the details were presented. My problem is that so many people in their [FR]s will tell their story, and then say 'Then I performed kino' I get there's the Dicarlo escalation ladder, which is great, but being able to share kino tips and sharing the creativity in performing kino related to the escalation ladder is key. T… | /r/seduction | 06/07/12 12:06 AM |
| 5 | KINO is HARD.I'm a data nerd (consumer data - give me a year, I will append my name with the title "guru"). I THRIVE on qualitative example in ALL aspects of my life. This is why I like [FR]s. BUT so many current [FR]s are "abstracts" when I need the entire research report. My biggest anxiety moment is kino - I only can do it when I take my mind off of it and I lose control. I know that's kind of the point, but that doesn't always happen. With more examples, I can have more confidence. These aren't exactly t… | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 08:58 PM |
| 15 | KINO is HARD.My major problem with the field reports on seddit is that many almost read like this: 1.) Perform Kino 2.) ??? 3.) Profit! Kino is such a wide concept with a billion examples, that it's frustrating to a noob who's reading a [FR] and comes to "so I performed kino on her..." Oh good. You performed kino. What did you do, put her in a headlock? Punch her in the gut a bunch of times? I know I'm being crude, but those are technically two forms of kino. The escalation ladder is a GREAT start. BUT it do… | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 08:35 PM |
| 3 | I think I realized why I'm so shit at this.Tact isn't your strong suit, is it? | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 12:09 AM |
| 1 | What's a good way to disqualify yourself?I work at a rather large company with about 600 employees at this particular location. Dating and marriage isn't a big deal unless it's within the same department and there's a subordination issue. | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 04:14 PM |
| 3 | What's a good way to disqualify yourself?Agree because it's a new job, disagree until we know the size of the company. | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 03:44 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Even when you're just talking to someone, someone else may well be listening.THIS is a [FR] I enjoy reading. Nice! | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 03:08 AM |
| 12 | Hi seddit. I'm a woman and want to know what drives you men crazy when you're making out/having sex with us women.Not much on driving us crazy, but some thoughts that might prevent you from driving your man crazy the OTHER way: Make mouth noises when you're going down on us. Moaning, hums, all that. It's great. If you need to prop yourself up a bit while you're going down on us, use your elbow ON THE BED. My thigh hurts when you put any more than about 30 lbs of pressure on it with a surface area of a square inch. If you pee. Wipe well. Please. If you wipe well, do know that some toilet papers leave pieces … | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 01:39 PM |
| 13 | WHO has more interest? Interest Cycles...I tend to agree, but there are a few clear cut exceptions with this widely spoken rule of thumb. It's only true if the person who cares more works to correct this. Some people with keen insight and a different set of priorities will break things off, thus being in control when they sense that their partner isn't that into them. Case in point. When the girl wants to get married, and the dude just wants to kind of ...coast...through the relationship. He still cares, but she cares MORE. Women who d… | /r/seduction | 05/06/12 02:49 PM |
| 35 | [FR] Grocery Store # ClosePlease reply to this! Edit: A quick downvote. Sorry if I offended you, Mr. Downvoter, but this is an important question. We'd like to know on what level the OP's physical features complimented his awesome level of confidence. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 05:44 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Grocery Store # CloseThose lines are great! Very well done! | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to socialize at a party.Emails are more of a business thing here. I've met people who've preferred to give out their emails, and have met up with them later, so it's not completely off-base. I think it's a universally odd thing. Most are content with Phone numbers, or "look me up on Facebook, I'm friends with __________" | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Best ways to socialize at a party.I cannot agree with #1 more If you greet the host early, without distraction, you are instantly a good person to them, and they are now your ally. If you've hosted a party before, you already know how nice it is when people show up on time. Unless you act like an ass, or have a negative history with the host, you are already in a good light with him or her. Now, the host, who will be likely automatically mingling without any effort on his or her part, is more likely to "...have you met Ted?" if … | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 01:57 PM |
| 7 | Hey /r/seduction, IAmA personal stylist for men. I teach men how to look attractive. AMA.Dude when someone gives you advice that you disagree with, you thank them and offer your $.02. You acted like a dick. | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 09:32 PM |
| 2 | For 2 years I've written about seduction and self-improvement. Now I'm giving it all away for free to Seddit this week.I figured as much. I'm familiar with marketing and promotions, but it's more of the sustainable, non-seedy sense (MBA, marketing manager for a company, blah blah). Thanks for the insight. | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 04:31 AM |
| 1 | For 2 years I've written about seduction and self-improvement. Now I'm giving it all away for free to Seddit this week.Thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 07:57 PM |
| 1 | For 2 years I've written about seduction and self-improvement. Now I'm giving it all away for free to Seddit this week.You can't knock free reading material. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 07:24 PM |
| 2 | For 2 years I've written about seduction and self-improvement. Now I'm giving it all away for free to Seddit this week.I would like to know this too. I reached out to the interwebz after my most recent breakup on "how to get her back" resources that all led back to commercial seduction links eventually (if you're curious, I realized that I was better off not getting her back). I got the feeling that I was being sold something unhelpful, and full of fairy tales. Many seduction publications are advertised through those really long, vertical web pages that tell a story in 16 point font, have a few video links, audi… | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys can finish first--a good read for fellow nice guys :-)BOOM you get it. Don't forget too, that everyone is interesting in some way. The nerd who spends 8-16 hours each night playing W.O.W. isn't interesting to a lot of us, but if he has a way of conveying his passion for the game in an interesting light, he'll get the girl (odd, unlikely example, but you get my drift). | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Nice guys can finish first--a good read for fellow nice guys :-)You're interesting, but you're not sexually interesting - or at least you're not conveying it. | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 07:27 PM |
| 36 | Nice guys can finish first--a good read for fellow nice guys :-)I think i'm preaching to the choir, but I think success in anything boils down to two words: Be Interesting. It's vague, but universal. Being nice has zero to do with being interesting or uninteresting, and I like the perspective the OP gives. I think the actions he speaks of all boil down to him exhibiting a type of power - a confidence. I think that's a universal trait we all look to hone here in Seddit. And shit - Power and confidence - They're interesting. | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Something to sayI decided to just be myself and not care whether a second date would happen and just try to enjoy myself. I think that this is about 95% of dating success right here. | /r/seduction | 24/05/12 02:19 PM |
| 2 | How Seddit changed my life, and landed me my perfect 10.While I think martijn_nl may be romanticizing the situation a touch, I almost have to ask "why not?" Also, he directly mentions the major hurdle - why do you think he didn't read the article??? This woman, according to OP is his "dream girl" and he's going to let that come down to a night of sex??? DREAM. GIRL. And this wasn't just about sex and physicality. This was about emotion and personality. Unless the OP took extra liberties in describing how he felt about her, it's a shame if he lets thi… | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 12:51 PM |
| 16 | Anyone else have trouble trusting in relationships now?I think that this piece of advice is key in making otherwise good guys know why they can't hang on to women for long relationships. Upped. | /r/seduction | 21/05/12 01:35 PM |
| 18 | Best advice I've ever given myself: JUST FUCKING DO ITWell yeah. I think the best thing I've learned, even from the crazies in the seduction community (something about a VH1 tv show...), is that EVERY. SINGLE. LESSON. AND. TECHNIQUE. has a non "seduction" application. I'll always be a true introvert, but my interactions with everyone in my life have been enhanced and pushed toward extroversion from these techniques - they built an awareness inside of me I didn't realize I had. Even though I guess Freud is mostly seen as an idiot in the psychologica… | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 05:41 AM |
| 78 | Best advice I've ever given myself: JUST FUCKING DO IT"Just fucking do it" will turn into "haha what a fool I was being a pussy all that time" It's a great feeling! | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Giving out your card...I think there's a strategy to giving out a card. 99% of the time you shouldn't. It reeks of pretentiousness and desperation. If you have a sweet job, or you designed it yourself, there might be a way to use it. I think if you go to get her number, you set an interesting tone if you choose to write it down rather than plugging it into your phone. It adds to your overall mystique and intrigue. "Why is he not just typing it into his phone?" "If he loses the card, he'll never call" So, if you carry … | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 08:43 PM |
| 5 | My rule of thumb for getting the environment you want.I agree 99%. That 1% is if you want her to need you, acting like you need her will have her leaving the bar with her friends. I think that's a fundamental rule we all know anyway though. I like the rule though. Nice! | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Do women find intelligence attractive?You have to know how to engage a woman with intelligent conversation. In a club, where you have 1,000,000 distractions and can't really hear conversation, you have to maintain conversation on a quick beat, with more emotional, to-the-point, primal conversations. You have to be quick with intelligence, or focus solely on quips and wit until you can be in a quieter atmosphere. On the other end of the spectrum is the girl you meet at the book store, or in an otherwise quiet area. They appreciate pa… | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?I think i know what you're talking about. Going to find it and watch soon! | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?I think it's great practice and fun. The thing I dont see many talking about is the mother hen bitch shield is innocuous to a point since often times the other girls in the group think she's a bitch too. This chick is the one who always seems to have final say on roommate decisions even though she lives with 3 others. The evil alpha chick. The girls aren't sure why they're with her. Chances are she has a bf she never sees, is very churchgoing/judgmental and doesn't really like being out. Bitch. … | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?I tried very hard not to say that lol | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else really hate clubbing?I'm not a good looking individual, and that's the lead-in to why I hate clubs. Clubs tend to be filled with the 18-23 crowd. I say 18 because of fake ids. They tend to be easy to seduce, but it's not for me. I've never been able to get past the whole immaturity thing now that I'm older - I'm looking for interesting people just as much as I'm trying to be an interesting person. Next, you have a great deal of bitch shields to fight. This is great practice at best. Many girls go to clubs with multi… | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Seddit Pocket Notes AppI agree with the glossary thing. If I'm on the toilet at work, and I'm really into an article / piece of advice, it would really be beneficial if I could go to the menu and refresh my memory as to what some acronym means - especially some of the lesser-used ones. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 02:08 PM |
| 8 | Good line to use when your wingman's girl isn't into himThis totally works. When she walks, it means she really wasn't that interested. | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 09:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My first solo PU attempt after finding SedditYeah that's probably it. You could have escalated quicker or implemented some pull - I bet you gave a killer backrub and she loved it, but if you stopped short after 5 minutes, she'd be wondering how she could get that going again. Then she would work with you to escalate. | /r/seduction | 05/05/12 02:42 AM |
| -2 | "You can go fuck yourself."Wow - all I said was "when girls don't want to feel like sluts after acting slutty..." You're only as slutty as you feel. If you feel like a slut, and don't want to, you get defensive, ashamed and angry. Such is the way of women. Maybe you need one? | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting this girl to talk about the guy she's seeing?Well you already are focused on her. Be nonchalant about it. This is where innuendos and eye contact come in. Really. I have a few platonic girlfriends (i.e. my male-friends are dating them) and I 'flirt' with them by getting dirty. They all used to tell me "You have so much trouble talking to girls, but really you know how. Say these things to someone you want to get with - they love it" The point is they're not dirtbag things to say. They're tension breakers and they communicate that you're se… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Ever have your legs felt up by a girl in school?Lol awesome. Don't dwell on missed opportunities. Make a mental note, learn something from it, and move on. I was 13, and this beautiful girl that neither me or any of my friends new had her friend approach me and say she liked me (her words were "she totally wants to fuck you - come with me"). This was a definite first for me. I froze up and blew it. Lesson learned: play it cool, be confident (fake it!), and flirt. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Are there any Guides on Teasing? I suck at this...Teasing is a tricky game. Rip into her like she was your buddy - girls know guys tiptoe around them. When she says something fucking stupid, call her out on it playfully without making her feel completely stupid. If her clothes or something alterable about her appearance is amiss, call her out. Do the same for other things that aren't about her - those jokes belong to the both of you. NEVER appear cruel or vicious. Relent quickly and often. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 04:20 AM |
| 15 | "You can go fuck yourself."She feels like a slut. Even though there's nothing more that can be done relationship wise, she wants to not feel like a slut. When girls don't want to feel like sluts after acting slutty, they get angry. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Best response when a girl asks "Do you work out?"If you say this sarcastically and playfully, a girl will laugh and be comfortable around you. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting this girl to talk about the guy she's seeing?Before my ex and I started dating, she used to tell me about all the guys she wanted to fuck (in the past) and hinted at the guys she had. I realized she was trying to appear easy to get my penis. Apparently she had a crush on me years before we had formally met. She wants you to see her as a sexual being, or she wants to be able to vent to a 'friend.' Solution to both - you gotta find a way to portray yourself as a sexual being interested in her. The cold game won't work. Be comfortable, and be… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 04:14 AM |
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