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Is not being able to bring anyone to my place considered a turn off? or in other words, does this create a trust issue? Possibly a convenience issue. She might have a similar situation as well, but your value as a sexual partner does to some extent involve having a place to have sex. Am I getting ghosted because of this? What is the general norm? "Man takes a woman to his place"? Hard to tell. It's certainly possible she thought you were a bum who couldn't afford your own room. It's also possibl…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 11:51 AM
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Get physical. If you're going on "dates" but not doing that you're gonna get classified as "just a friend" soon enough. Get her to a good date spot, dont make a huge deal out of it, then isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:10 AM
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Everyone is selfish and many people express that in a "shallow" manner, from both genders. Men and women don't love each other, they love what they get from the relationship; or what they think they can get it they keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 08:01 AM
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TRP is reactionary in that those who feel or realize something is "wrong" investigate and find out what's actually wrong. It might be something systemic (feminism or gynocentrism) or personal (low SMV or mental instability). This may be an extreme case, such as having your trust betrayed by a woman, or less so, such as wondering to yourself why you are seemingly undateable. However, in this way all philosophies are reactionary. People adapt them based on experience whether they like it or not; w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 07:58 AM
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Men die earlier for uncertain, biological reasons that we can't change. We don't have to risk our lives in childbirth or deal with the hassle of it, so that's saying something. Men are a lot less likely to get help when it comes to mental illness and poverty. Not only are they less likely to have financial or emotional support from their SOs (women are less expected to be the provider and often don't take kindly to "weakness"), they often get the "suck it up" treatment even in a very difficult s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 07:35 AM
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Subjective term for treating divorce as a way to get things from the other party or destroy their life, or for when the courts make unfair expectations of the man. Usually used to indicate the woman is gold digging, as assets gained dueing the marriage are split even if she had no part in gaining them (in which case it can occur without child support involved), or that the courts are expecting an unreasonable amount of child support. It could happen the other way around, it is just less common d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 07:18 AM
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I don't give a shit about hypergamy, while it exists and I'm fine accepting that. But you're just objectively wrong on your talking points. Hypergamy is a natural byproduct of Patriarchy. If women are restricted from the ability to provide for ourselves or feel safe in our communal environments, then women have no choice but to engage in hypergamy - it’s a matter of survival. Women are not restricted from the ability to provide from themselves (keyword: themselves, if they want children they may…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 07:11 AM
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Have you ever brought up her sexual past? If she lied to you then she's out instantly. If she just didn't talk about it she could still be LTR material; she's not crazy, she's just not likely to have actually changed, therefore a not yours-just your turn situation. Either way, don't get married. Will probably end your relationship when you say you want to call it off, but tough shit; better than divorce.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:24 AM
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There are successful people who work 5 hour days, and there are successful people who work 16 hour days, and everything in between. It depends on a million factors too numerous to list. If we think of a 9-5 being about average, with a hustle at work of course so you are actually achieving goals, you could potentially spend hours more on reddit or a blog than you would ever need to in order to become a "guru." From what I see it's all about telling people what they want to hear, which doesn't tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 09:51 AM
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I guess I used to have that problem a little bit. Sidebar and lifting helped, as well as the little push you get from reading TRP regularly where asking girls to do stuff with you is extremely normalized. Personally, I think "what do I have to lose?" I already don't have her, if I ask her out and she says no I will lose NOTHING. Same with texting. Most people use it as a normal means of chatting up people so it's not like you're some weird minority messaging them. By the same token, since everyo…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:35 AM
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Intelligence does not scare mentally healthy men. Women with an exaggerated idea of the worth of their intelligence use it as an excuse for their lack of success with men. This way they can write off their failures as the fault of men, not themselves. Personally, I find a woman that can hold an intelligent conversation and understand the world we live in to be more attractive than a ditzy one. The girl can be smarter than me for all I care. As always, physical attraction still matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 02:18 AM
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Except, RP is a double dupe. Just like a cult. RP is going to produce a lot of men who arrive at age 38 wondering what the hell happened. Really? So a guy who's lifting, eating right, and working on his career and "mission" is gonna be left high and dry at 38? What exactly is going wrong for this guy with a well-paying job, healthy body, and good social skills? Ignoring the comment about a "cult" because it's a worthless jab that says nothing about whether the ideology gets anything right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 02:10 AM
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Is it not at least equally as true that all the faults redpillers ascribe to women (promiscuity, independence, careerism, etc) are societally impressed upon them? You'd have to be blind as a bat not to see the overwhelming social message to girls that the only acceptable life path is a college degree, a career, modern dating, etc. Um, yeah, I think we all get that society has impressed things on women. Feminism is pretty damn popular, for one thing. The BP isn't just for men, gynocentrism just g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:26 AM
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it would help if we stopped blaming each other and realise that we're conditioned to be cogs in the machine.. Yep, and its up to you to either break away or be stuck in the machine. I don't blame anyone for my problems, I wish things were better than they are but owning up to your shit lets you get better. Women could have given themselves to me, men could have been my friends, and people could have given me jobs, but they don't owe me shit, and most of the world's people are in the same positio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:28 AM
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I think people who have been damaged seek others to fix them unless they have developed the strength to fix themselves. Both men and women seek sympathy and care for their issues because they want society to give them things, such as relationships and friendships similar to the ones they lost. Does it work? Not really IMO, but it lets them discuss their issues. Sometimes its constructive, usually its a pity party where they are comforted in the short term but gain nothing. In the case of incel o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:18 AM
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No one here can stop you from being BP to be happy, and that goes for anyone. That's not what TRP exists for. If you can't handle the truth, don't try. However, the world does not exist based on what makes you happy, it just is. I would rather know the truth of it so that's why I pursue real knowledge and reject bullshit: the BP, religion, political parties, etc. Not everything on TRP is necessarily true but at least it tries to find the truth. You can pursue fulfillment when you understand the …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 07:20 AM
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I don't see any reason to become exclusive with either. No reason to change the dynamic with these two, instead just keep looking for a better "family-making" type of girl to eventually LTR after vetting and keeping as a plate.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:10 AM
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You're way too needy or desperate, the post proves it. Abundance mentality means not worrying too much about "fucking up" a date because there will always be more. You said yourself you don't mind cold approaching so just keep doing it. Your game will be way better when you don't give a fuck about "that one girl." Text for logistics mostly, she gets the "I had a great night" text only after you have sex and mostly to establish evidence it was consentual. Otherwise it's just validation seeking be…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:17 PM
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OK cool. Some people came to some conclusions which you are egregiously misrepresenting (at least as far as TRP goes, I have never associated with "Ilbe" so I don't know how accurately you represented them). So whats your point? What are we debating in this debate forum? All I've seen you do is screech ad hominem against both Ilbe and TRP, not actually confront their arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 06:46 AM
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This is a philosophical question, TRP is a praxeology. To most philosophies of morality, of course it's pretty bad, similar to other kinds of emotional damage. For the sake of the discussion, I favor the golden rule. If you're gonna cheat you damn well better not expect your girl not to. So I don't cheat in an LTR because I don't want my partner to, and I have no grounds to expect them to remain faithful if I'm fucking around. I don't think it's as clear cut as the BP would like you to believe. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 04:35 AM
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Teen pregnancy sucks. We can all agree with that. But your argument doesn't say anything about how often it happened in nature. We can talk all day about how we don't want our kids or anyone else's to be becoming mothers before their time, but we know it happened in nature and it must have worked out in the course of our evolution for 14 year olds or even earlier to be viable parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 02:23 AM
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Seems like there's nothing to worry about, they got your back for now. If it becomes too much they will show signs of it, otherwise it sounds like this is in your head. Just do what it takes to get it out of your head without wasting any of the short life you have; lifting for example, or some productive hobby you can focus on.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:11 AM
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