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| 9 | Strong ioi's After Rejection | nogatcord | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 08:41 PM |
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| 3 | Why women shit testWhat is your question | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 03:06 AM |
| 8 | Why women shit testWhy women shit test To check if your frame is STRONG and congruent. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Are lesbians real?Who cares. How does it relate to your life. Keep spinning, keep lifting. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Why is it so painful to go against some of the beta instincts?My personal problem is texting ok. I sent her the beta text wall anyway I like to adore her Bingo. Problem solved. This is the root of your troubles. I drool...all over her...and of course tell her that often haha. You've got to be kidding me. Right? I Guess this is more of a beginner thread. Yes. This a thread made by someone who has not read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Old plates and LTRHow you guys handle sexual fantasies that are hard to fulfill By fulfilling them. Life is short. Better to live than to regret. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever OK to tap a mentally unstable chick?Is it ever OK to tap a mentally unstable chick? No. Nobody here should be that desperate. Better rub one out than have some crazy bitch accuse me of something thanks, I guess haha. You seem to have answered your own question. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | [SURVEY] Where/how did you meet the last three plate(s) you’ve spun?What is the purpose of this? 2.2.2. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 08:29 PM |
| 8 | I feel like this sub undermines the importance of good looksStop using this place as your hamstering playground. Work towards what you aspire to achieve. There is no time to sit here and sulk. We will not validate the lazy quitter mindset you have. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 08:27 PM |
| 2 | When dealing with plates, what's better for a bang short term hit up or further in advance?low smv's seem to get anti-slut shield out yup. At the end of the day if their putting up too much of a front, just drop them. There's always a girl that is more willing with less shit to put up with. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 08:24 PM |
| 4 | When dealing with plates, what's better for a bang short term hit up or further in advance?Might seem like I'm less invested Correct. If you want to set something up later in the day, that's fine too. Also, realize that the higher value (SMV) you are, the more a girl will "bend over backwards" for you. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Advice when Friend Tried to AMOG/Shit Test in front of GirlMy buddy(more of an acquaintance) chimes in quickly with "OP, you're not getting into X grad school" with a smirk. Agree And Amplify. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Swallowed the red pillGood. What is your question. Remember the the path to self improvement is never ending. Don't stop to celebrate. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Need help on how to stay purposeful and focused during quarantineCool. Read the sidebar. Study. Get a cool hobby. Set goals. You'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 04:17 AM |
| 39 | What to do about dick size holding me back with women?unfortunately I’m nowhere near what women want Strike 1. You've made this your reality by believing it. This is your frame now. It’s a huge part of women not wanting to get with me. Strike 2. Yes. But it is your own doing ^ that has caused this to become your reality. Also, any initial attraction they have for me goes away after they find out Strike 3. Your frame and mindset is causing yourself all this trouble. I really don’t know what to do about it. The reality is that you want us to validate… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Need help getting over guilty feelings for my asshole actions in past LTRshort temper when she didn't meet expectations Why do you allow girls' actions to shatter your frame. Am I supposed to feel guilty for these actions You have already adopted the frame of guilt. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 04:05 AM |
| 6 | Need help on how to stay purposeful and focused during quarantineCurrently I’m working out an hour a day and biking good. If you want to rapidly increase SMV find a way to get some weights and a bench. p.s. If your trying to bulk, biking will increase the calories you need to consume, keep that in mind. Also would it be recommended to delete social media’s ? That's up to you. I find it to be a distraction. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Well I'm definitely having the silent treatment pulled on me. Any tips?she was explaining to me how when she went camping with her ex it was always so difficult and they would argue about how to set up the tent and blah blah and how he's an asshole. If she's not currently fucking him, she will at a moments notice. I've been supportive of her and her feelings about her ex in the past. You sound exactly like an orbiter. if she ever wants to talk about how she feels or what's going on, we can. Translation: If she ever needs an emotional tampon, im here. thinking of ma… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 03:54 AM |
| 8 | is this true?Get on that sidebar bum You are just spewing garbage. Gather your thoughts and analyze what you just wrote. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 03:45 AM |
| 12 | Soft Next or Hard Next?she ended up profusely apologizing for ghosting me, She realized her pickings are slim. Your the backup After this night, she basically went MIA. We'd text every now and then but I'd find myself getting left on read or open frequently Another dick is a higher priority for her. And why would you text for anything but logistics? As a rule, you can't increase attraction through text, you can only decrease it. I have other girls in the rotation but this girl sticks out a bit This whole post is about… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 03:42 AM |
| 1 | What are some lies people tell themselves that end up hurting them long term?do people lie to themselves about? Everything. Goals, Income, fitness, sexlife, etc. As a matter of fact your lying to yourself right now. You should be focused on improving yourself, instead of coming on here and rambling about how you have no hope, suicidal, depressed etc. If your not willing to put in the work, don't waste our time. Sidebar is all you need. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 03:12 AM |
| 6 | How is it possible to soft next while quarantined?How do I soft next an LTR (Quarantine style)? Cut all contact until she sincerely apologizes. The End. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Glasses... Yes or no?I posted IG stories because I wanted people to comment saying 'I approve of your status. Your on the right path. Men don't require validation like girls do. Want to know what I lack? Experience. Good. You know your shortcomings. Go out there and fail. This is what the spergs who come on asktrp fail to understand. The best teacher is life. Every failure is a lesson learnt. They're afraid to fail. Afraid to lose the only girl that they're talking to. Don't be like them. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Good ways to reward good behavior and give some validation/affection without losing frame?Her reward is getting to be with a high value man. (i.e. you) Make sure to Fuck her good and keep doing what works for you. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | LMAO I found this gem on relationships, confirms the red pillWho gives a fuck. What is your question? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 01:57 AM |
| 4 | ANGERIt’s almost as if I get a shot of adrenaline no matter what I do Good. That means your a man. Channel that energy into lifting bro | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 01:42 AM |
| 12 | ANGERAlmost as if I’m a ticking time bomb, does this happen to anyone else? Self control is one of the hardest things to master. It's easy to sit at home and binge watch Seinfeld It's easy to watch porn, instead of attracting and fucking real girls. You need to practice self control. Channel your anger into the gym, use it as fuel. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 01:16 AM |
| 8 | Is e-dating really in the up spike because of all the lockdown?"I've been told by friends "virtually" that I should hop on to online dating before this whole lockdown ends. Blind leading the blind. Or, blue leading the blue one of my closest friends somehow formed a relationship (they were able to meet up) out of this pandemic. This is happening. However, the risk outweighs the reward. Idk about you, I'm not going to risk dying for some pussy. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 01:10 AM |
| 9 | Glasses... Yes or no?girl saw me without my glasses and told me I looked wayyyyyyyyyyyyy better without glasses. My friends some times say yes other times say no. My family doesnt really care because like they say they are used to seeing me with glasses so without glasses is going to be weird. This goes deeper than just glasses. You are too reliant on other peoples' approval. You need to strengthen your frame, so that your not constantly asking questions on asktrp seeking others approval. You have not read the sideb… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 12:59 AM |
| 12 | Is Redpill "K.I.S.S" All I Need To SucceedDo you think i'd get great results or am I better off actually studying game and continuing to read and study up? At some point you need to put the theory into action. Whether you approach and get rejected, or you end up fucking her in the Taco Bell bathroom :) The way I internalized TRP was testing what works and what doesn't. Failure is the best teacher. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Is most of the advice on here geared more towards girls who are sensors?Since 75% or more of girls are sensors, using a lot of these techniques will definitely work on them. Not true. My NAWALT unicorn wife of 25 years is a non-sensor. Your overthinking your interactions with girls | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Whiplash - how many of you seen it?We love it over on /TRPFILM | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Did I handle plate breaking it up well?Me: (5 days later): it’s like that ehh, ok ok You sound butthurt. There is no reason to double text a girl who doesn't respond. Have Abundance | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Did I handle plate breaking it up well?Me: how’s your exams going? Me: (5 days later): it’s like that ehh, ok ok Double text. She can smell the desperation a mile away. Double texted (playfully I thought) Remember you can't convey emotion through text. I might’ve been too blunt not asking why but idk This is girl behavior. Girls need closure, you don't need closure. Yes i’m talking to other girls, but no other actual plates. Start spinning. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 09:39 PM |
| 17 | Congratulating a girl I'm interested in.I've been texting this check in my rotation since the start of quarantine Strike 1 she's my personal "favorite" Strike 2 I don't really wanna fuck up Strike 3. Your out. Making a question about one girl is a sign you haven't internalized the sidebar. If you had read the sidebar, you would know the answer. Once you are in the frame of desperation, it's all downhill from there. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 09:21 PM |
| 10 | Girlfriend installs Snapchat, am I paranoid?"Girlfriend installs Snapchat, am I paranoid?" Once you care this much, you've already lost. If you keep asking questions like this on here, it lets us know you haven't read the sidebar. You are just like these losers that seek the "5 simple tricks to get her to text you" Give a Man a Fish, and You Feed Him for a Day.(asktrp) Teach a Man To Fish, and You Feed Him for a Lifetime. (Sidebar) You choose. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 09:03 PM |
| 17 | Met a girl w/ a bf but we have chemistryAn angry beta is dangerous. Instead of breaking up with the girl, they'll focus their attention on the guy she chose to fuck. Instead of realizing that his "bae" is a unfaithful ho and cutting her off, he'll likely try to fuck you up and direct his misplaced anger at you. Avoid | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Do I cut this this friend outta my life?I woke up a couple days ago to quite possibly the gayest, and most pathetic swarm of texts from him, blowing my phone up because a girl he fucks followed me on Instagram and I followed back. He is obviously very desperate. He then threw an ultimatum as me, telling me to block & unblock her or he’s walking out of my life. lol. What do you have to lose if he walks out on your life. He's low SMV. Desperate. Acting like a bitch. You know what to do. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 08:50 PM |
| 13 | LTR is leaving. Im hurting. Pt. 2Writing all this shit is what women do. Your Behaving Like A Girl. STOP Do you have any balls? Man the fuck up | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 08:43 PM |
| 34 | You're talking and your wife/ltr cuts you off and makes an excuse to not listen. What do you do?"she says "oh I got so and so to do" and walks away. " It is obvious she does not respect you. She thinks your a pussy. When this happens walk out, I don't mean out of the room. Walk out of the house. Fuck your plates, hang out with the bros, anything. Dread her ass I personally wouldn't tolerate this and would hard next, but you do you. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 05:27 AM |
| 12 | Help Please.."I'm a guy that's about 5'4, 5'4.5 on a good day, I'm okay looking, but it's obvious I was always going to struggle with women from the get go." You've already lost the battle with this mentality. "she will almost always say okay the door is right there, then I'll backtrack and say "Why are you like this?" or something similar." The roles in this example you describe should be reversed. You are acting like a girl. "oneitis for these girls no matter if she used to be a slut" You have a low self e… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 04:56 AM |
| 11 | Potential Restraining Order"M was only 16 at the time. MAJOR RED FLAG. Instantly dropped her after finding that out." ok "kept her on my snapchat and instagram. Fast forward 2 years" Translation: I Orbited for 2 years. "letter from an attorney stating that I was harassing M and they were motioning to file a Protective Order against me for her" Your in for the ride of your life. No contact AT ALL. "Her claims are completely unfounded" Welcome to 2020. Allegations are treated as truth. "this could ruin my reputation at the … | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Advice: (Male 39) and (Female 28) Are the dynamics for long distance dating different? First meet up was like an instant relationshipGuys, we can't forget that u/remotedesktop is a special snowflake. The sidebar doesn't apply to him. OP has spam posted this to many "relationship" subreddits so a Red Pill lesson can be learned by seeing the differences in response he will get compared to here. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 03:09 AM |
| 12 | How to handle this shit test?This is a prime example of desperation, (i.e. lack of abundance). OP is so thirsty he feels the need to create two posts to get his answer. Remember, he is special so he refuses to read the sidebar. He seeks the "perfect line" to get this one girls' pussy. He will continue to do this until he realizes that if his frame were strong, he would be outcome independent. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Best response to "you really want my number don't you!? Lol""Talking to this girl on tinder" Considering the circumstances, why talk to girls that you won't be able to fuck. ."You really want my number don't you!?" Agree and Amplify. It will come naturally, because your not invested in the outcome, right? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | How to percieve this"Sorry for another post" Four posts in one day, really? For your benefit, stop seeking our opinion so frequently. We're not your father. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:29 AM |
| 5 | What would you do in this scenario"Still got some action atleast." Did you fuck or not? I'll give this example, If you were out on a date with a HB9 and wanted to fuck, would you invite your bro to come through? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:18 AM |
| 5 | OLD is a waste of time during Coronavirus"video-conferencing dates with women as an alternative to real dating" If you do this, you will only serve as entertainment for her. (i.e. orbiter) Can you escalate online? Why would any man go on a video date? "I just don't have any motivation to interact with any women unless there is a possibility of meeting them in the near future" You hit the nail right on the head. This is the perfect time for monk mode | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:11 AM |
| 3 | 19. Question on about plate chasingThe reality is that your one of her plates as well. Nothing wrong with this at all, your both enjoying each others company. Enjoy her not being a stage 5 clinger. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:05 AM |
| 9 | Just texted my oneitis this. How beta and needy I looked?This is exactly what you needed. Do you want to feel this way again? Use this as fuel for your self improvement Use your failures as motivation | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 6 | How to stop obsessing over looks"I'm doing things to improve my looks but I dont have the slender face and distinct facial features that attractive people have." All excuses. Looks matter but only to a certain extent. Looks generate initial attraction. Game is needed to close the deal Currently you are your own worst enemy due to your state of mind Stay focused on increasing your SMV. You are the Prize. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | One week off work. What's something productive I can do in a week?Nice. I've loved HipHop since I was 12, and it's so satisfying to be able to craft your sound after appreciating the sound for so many years. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | One week off work. What's something productive I can do in a week?Learning the entire program. Hip Hop mainly. I love sampling | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Would this raise my SMVshould I soft next Why would you soft next a girl you want to fuck? Your overthinking this way too much. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:31 PM |
| 6 | Would this raise my SMVBut if you really internalized the sidebar, you would know that your response is the result of your current frame. You are not practicing abundance. Instead you are asking us about this "one girl". | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:27 PM |
| 15 | Would this raise my SMVStop wasting your time, and our time. "Or is it too much of a beta move being like"im bored and lonely hmu" hmm. This sounds like exactly what Chad would say . "I have read the sidebar 3-4 times." lol | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Am I Bipolar as Fuck?"I just have this self-limiting thing going on, so I don't even try" When you fix this, your life will change. Until then, your the only person standing in your way. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:21 PM |
| 2 | My [19M] life has been a disaster"I [19M] have not had an easy life." Will you continue to use this as an excuse for your current state. This is no different than overweight people who blame their childhood circumstances for their weight. You can take action to improve right now. Talk to a therapist if you need it. Set goals, and crush them Lift (your lifting right?) Increase SMV Spin plates Outcome independence (big one) Do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway If you can do exactly this, your life will change. Guaranteed… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over this behaviourIt's normal for humans to feel needed, and want attention. Your just relying on it way too much. You should have the feeling that your enough. Enjoy your company, and don't rely on anyone for happiness but yourself. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Am I Bipolar as Fuck?"My purpose, I don't quite know yet." Finding your purpose, whether it be a career, running your business, getting a degree, will no doubt change your life. Set short term and long term goals. Then crush them. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | One week off work. What's something productive I can do in a week?You asked this same question a week ago. Read up on some TRP theory, read business books. Personally, learning ProTools is what i've been doing. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:01 PM |
| 8 | Am I Bipolar as Fuck?"I find it hard to get out of bed" This is not good. Get a blood test done. Check your T-Levels, and Vitamin D. If those are fine, ask yourself, What is your purpose? What motivates you to get out of bed in the morning? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Should I be direct or act as if nothing is wrongYour trying too hard to not mess this up because your over invested i.e. desperate Your trying too hard to not mess this up because your over invested i.e. desperate. What confirms this, is the nature of your post. Your asking about "a girl" because you lack abundance. Practice abundance mentality, and outcome independence. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 07:48 PM |
| 16 | How did gaining muscle improve your self-confidence and the amount of attention women gave you/IOI's?If you are writing this post to hamster away not-lifting then stop. "mental health, stability and self-confidence" Lifting will change your life for the better, guaranteed. But it is not the only piece to the puzzle . As far as ioi's go, I went from being invisible, to literally being stared at from across the room. Life is easier the swoler you get. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | How do I get over this behaviour"but I'm only nexting them to get off on seeing them crave my attention." This is a girl-like thought process. You feel the need to make others chase you in order to validate yourself, and boost your ego. At least it's in a girls nature to seek validation, but as for you. Your self esteem is low. Fix it. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 07:36 PM |
| 2 | People with ambition and not enough talent, howd you move on?Your forgetting to enjoy life. Every day that passes is one that will forever be gone. Will you sit on asktrp and sulk like a child, or will you change your belief system. What are your goals, what are your hobbies? All you have are excuses Most importantly, what is your purpose ? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Should I be direct or act as if nothing is wrong"she's really my only option for any type of sex or companionship" Why are you not spinning plates? Additionally, no girl is worth the risk of getting infected. "In the case I get the "you're different" or "what's wrong" question, curious if I should be blunt and straight up with her?" Your trying too hard to not mess this up because your over invested i.e. desperate. You know what you need to do. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 07:22 PM |
| 2 | People with ambition and not enough talent, howd you move on?"I dont have the skin, my ability to maintain connections is dogshit, and im naturally shy; my childhood has made me very self conscious, but im sure im also very naturally neurotic." Excuses, Excuses, "but I know im not good enough." This thinking is why you'll never be a "top tier male" You are the prize | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Am I weak due to struggling over lockdown?"How are some of you coping or keeping sane?" Lifting and brushing up on TRP theory. This is the perfect time for monk mode. "Also am I weak because I am struggling mentally?" You seem to have convinced yourself that your "weak". Ask yourself, why do you feel that your weak? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Posting your girlfriend?"do you guys think showing off your gf here and there raises your SMV in the eyes of other girls and is therefore worth forfeiting whatever investment it creates in your current relationship?" It is preselection. Girls want what other girls have. The best way to get plates is to cold approach, or if your good with a camera and your decently built, tinder and bumble. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Advice from Chad thundercocks ( a bit long)"Calls me the next morning to scream in my ear and hang up on me. She can be wierd like that, Idk wtf to think about it, I text some smiley emojis and blow her some kisses she responds." Aww. A match made in heaven. Invite us to the wedding :) Don't fuck crazy. Ever | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 07:22 AM |
| 5 | Do you have any oneitis stories?"Anyone else have or had a oneitis?" No because only faggats ever get oneitis lol All sarcasm aside, almost every man here has experienced oneitis. It is the result of lack of abundance mentality and desperation. The cure is to spin plates | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 06:17 AM |
| 3 | How to avoid getting settled for?It may seem overwhelming at first, but your life will change after you read it and internalize all the core principles. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 06:13 AM |
| 87 | First One-itis"what exactly is the end goal of trp?" Every man here will eventually ask himself this question. The answer is to lead the life you desire. The best teacher is life. Every failure is a lesson learnt. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Average looking dude barely speaks to women and has no experience. What should I do rn to make sure I change my life for the better.Your welcome. Another thing though, "It’s really hard bro" Yes, it really is hard starting from the bottom, I've been in your shoes. It is because it is so hard that almost every man today has basically given up and spends their time freely validating girls in gonewild, and donates to twitch streamers. It is so hard hard that men hamster themselves into the belief that working out is only for douchebags and fuckboys. All these men have one thing in common, they undervalue their time. Fortnite vs… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 06:00 AM |
| 3 | How to avoid getting settled for?It is the #2 post on asktrp titled "I created a PDF of asktrp' sidebar". | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 05:31 AM |
| 6 | Plate asked to be in a relationship. Said no, shit test galore ever since."We got physical and I was down for round two and she said she wasn't in the mood." "5 minutes later said I probably should get some work done. She all of a sudden was in the mood, but I told her I need to take care of some business." She's attempting to use her pussy to control you. I can almost guarantee that every other guy would have changed their mind (weak frame) and fucked her after she changed her mind. You showed that her pussy is not high on your list of priorities, with this line as w… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 05:27 AM |
| 47 | Girl in a LTR showed me a screenshot of a conversation with her boyfriend. Am I beta if I make fun of her bf?"giving you hints she's down to fuck" "Can I roast him a bit for how corny he is or is that beta?" Sure, when your balls deep inside her. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Is this quarantine making it easier to fuck girls and turn them into plates or is it much harder than before?Haven’t been able to find any affordable home gym equipment. Bro works at Dicks let me check if he has a discount code. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 05:12 AM |
| 5 | Average looking dude barely speaks to women and has no experience. What should I do rn to make sure I change my life for the better."The sidebar will teach me all this terminology like SMV right?" Yes "And since we are in quarantine what’s a good way to do this stuff ?" Focus on improving yourself. 99% of people are not improving during this quarantine. Instead they choose to spend their time freely validating girls on gonewild and jacking off. Be different. Sacrifice short term pleasure for long term benefit. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Would askTRP fuck a liberal woman?no. but only cause there's 70 thousand of us, who would have the special honor of fucking her first? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 04:47 AM |
| 10 | Average looking dude barely speaks to women and has no experience. What should I do rn to make sure I change my life for the better.You control your destiny. Ether you wallow in self pitty, or you take action to improve your life. The following is what I live by: Set goals, and crush them Lift (your lifting right?) Increase SMV Spin plates Outcome independence (big one) Do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway If you can do exactly this, your life will change. Guaranteed. Anything else? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 04:41 AM |
| 11 | How to avoid getting settled for?It's Simple By reading the sidebar Don't settle for post wall women | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How do you take the power away from words?Improve your social skills, and stop being so overly invested in others' opinion of you. I know your SMV is low, and you know it too. Lift + Monkmode. Thank me later. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 04:37 AM |
| 6 | Is this quarantine making it easier to fuck girls and turn them into plates or is it much harder than before?"All there is to do is read books" Read up on TRP theory, and reap the reward once the quarantine is over. "How is it perfect when gyms are closed" Lift anything you can. If your dead serious about keeping your gains, order quality bench and a set of Powerblocks from Dicks and arrange for curbside pickup. This is gonna last a couple months, might as well invest in yourself. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 04:34 AM |
| 38 | Is this quarantine making it easier to fuck girls and turn them into plates or is it much harder than before?"no one wants to come and meet up" huh. I wonder why "Dan Bilzerian lol This is the perfect time for monk mode. The perfect time. You can be the 99% of men who are sitting at home and jerking off, or actually take this time to internalize TRP, and improve yourself. Sacrifice short term pleasure for long term gain. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 03:39 AM |
| 20 | Do I start spinning plates right after an ended LTR?"get over the LTR" Spinning plates will get your mind off her. Nothing like being balls deep in your plates to make you forget your ex. :) | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 03:35 AM |
| 3 | I don't like that you don't talk about your feelingsthis 100% | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Strong ioi's After RejectionThanks for the reply. What do you suggest? The ioi's are unmistakably strong. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Is LTR lying about her body count?In your situation I would give things a break. Game some girls, have fun on your own, get your mind right. What is your mission? | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Is LTR lying about her body count?I can’t end it any second you know. I'll assume you meant I can. Determine what red flags she's displaying. Then Make Your Decision, (Ether Next, Demote, or Stand Pat) | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Is LTR lying about her body count?Is my she lying about her body count? She is never going to tell you the truth. The real question is what red flags does she display? But then again, your already in a LTR with her so..... what does it matter. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | How to be more effective from here? How to proceed?"Should I pay a hooker?" No. "I just got a girl's number yesterday, I texted her a pic of the sea that she liked" Don't text for anything except logistics. 1-2 texts beforehand is fine. "she read it and hasn't answered yet" She was with Chad, thats why. "so I know It's a shit test" No. She's just not interested "I still feel my thirst." Believe me, I can feel it from here Forget the girl. The following is what I live by: Set goals, and crush them Lift (your lifting right?) Increase SMV Spin plat… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | So how do you accomplish goals?Get your T levels checked. Get bloodwork done. You might be Vitamin D deficent. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Hated by my class"but when I realised I was hated I felt bad because I thought I was liked" I know you don't have alot of things going on right now in your life. Stop wasting time talking about the past. You should have bigger things to worry about. Lifting, spinning plates, getting grades up etc. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 10:02 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with being shipped?Tell them your about to propose to her. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | So how do you accomplish goals?"Why is willpower alone not enough?" You need to find your motivation. Is it building your business, getting to the top at your company, etc. It's different for every person. Once you have your answer, it will start to click. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Hated by my class"Hated by my class" Who gives a fuck. Why do you crave their acceptance so much? Don't change for others. "realised people still disliked me and graduated with 0 friends " What did you do that caused you to have zero friends? Seems to me that your trying too hard in social situations. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 09:47 PM |
| 11 | Anyone feels like 80/20 rule is becoming slowly outdated and going further into 99/1?"I won't waste all of my resources just to be somewhat noticeable in the sea of overblown standards." Then don't. It seems you've made up your mind anyway. "media portraying being a slut as a good thing" Sounds good to me. Im failing to see the problem here. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Where to meet women?Where ever you happen to be. (Except work) | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Epiphany"Maybe all this self-improvement to become alpha is making the majority of us guys reading this miserable" Speak for yourself. My life is fantastic, and it's getting better everyday. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 02:01 AM |
| 3 | What do I do if I am unattractive for everyone"it hurts when they do reject me" It shouldn't. Stop being butthurt. "Overall your tips are basics that I know already" If you knew these tips, this post wouldn't exist. If you following the list, except the plates part, and your still suck, your fucked. You need to help yourself, before we can help you. "you just copypasted that stuff from somewhere" I wrote this. I use it for everybody. You are not special. It is proven to work. Follow it like everybody else. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 01:03 AM |
| 6 | "we should be friends" - would next but we work togetherShouldn't have shitted where you eat. From now own, just act like normal with her. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 12:55 AM |
| 5 | How to respond to a idk"she said idk" I can assure you she has nothing to do. Move on. If Chad invited her out she wouldn't even hesitiate. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 12:41 AM |
| 10 | What do I do if I am unattractive for everyone"Now, I've been internalizing TRP." For how long? I dress alright, I shower and I shave. This is the bare minimum. "I'm very skinny but that's better than being fat" Not really, i've been there trust me. I would get hardly any ioi's @ 6' 130. "I just want to be desired by someone" Your desperate. Girls can absolutely sense this. The following is what I live by: Set goals, and crush them Lift (your lifting right?) Increase SMV Spin plates Outcome independence (big one) Do whatever the fuck you we… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 12:37 AM |
| 14 | I'm 20 and have one week, where do I start?"I have never been very interested in dating girls (I'm still very straight though) as, you know, porn is easily accessible" Quit porn immediately. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Is she like me (what to do)Marry her before I do. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | What to do?" I met this girl at a party" I have no other options so I'll make this post to be sure I don't fuck up. "If she had genuine interest for me, she would have took the “you should hit me up(I said jokingly)” and did something about it, but the fact she didn’t, I’m assuming she doesn’t want to get my contacts?" Maybe if you were Chad. Regardless you are the man, and as such you should be taking the lead. Because you didn't, your feeling regret. If you were abundant, you wouldn't even be making this… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 07:08 AM |
| 5 | What would be your rules expectations or boundaries for a gf/LTR when for marriage?We will begin directing all efforts into developing this comprehensive list. We will leave no stone unturned. We will go without sleep until we have completed such list. For our survival depends on it. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 06:57 AM |
| 53 | Do women prefer lean like a swimmer, or big like a rugby player? I've heard that it's best for naturals to be within the 10-15% body fat range but idk if this is true?"The instant you start worrying about what a woman likes/doesn’t like, you’ve lost." Preach. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 04:08 AM |
| 7 | Got in a fightFirst things first, you would NEED a lawyer. You'd be arrested, released on bail. If you have priors then you'll have a harder time just getting probation. Almost all jobs order a criminal background check these days. The turnaround time is quick about 48hrs tops. Assuming you have an assault charge on your rapsheet, you would definitely be turned down for some jobs. Even landlords are checking backgrounds. Stay out of trouble. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 04:06 AM |
| 18 | How much validation should we give women?Validation should be used as a reward to reenforce positive behavior. Women NEED validation. From social media posts, beta orbiters, girls eat it right up. Used in an LTR, or even with a plate, you can more or less influence her behavior. To receive the validation from Chad is the ultimate goal for girls. They will fuck him at a moments notice, bring him food, do his laundry, just to receieve those good ol' tingles that Mr.Thundercock himself can provide. The sex itself proves to her (ie. valida… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 03:59 AM |
| 2 | How should I proceed?Good. Fuck them good, and they'll be coming back for more. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Getting SMV back upYour frame is essentially your reality. It is what you believe, what you think, self image etc. Your frame consists of jealously, desperation, lack of abundance and so on. Outcome Independence is basically not caring about a specific outcome. Lets say you ask a girl out, you might get her number, you might get rejected, you might even end up fucking that same night. Point is no matter what the outcome, your ok with it | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 01:03 AM |
| 3 | FFM threesome in drama-charged LTR (long post)Yes. And even 4 some lol. Now go and read that entire sidebar. Thank me later. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 12:56 AM |
| 8 | Getting SMV back upYou need to strengthen your frame. You caught oneitis, therefore you lack abundance. The following is what I live by: Set goals, and crush them Lift (your lifting right?) Increase SMV Spin plates Outcome independence (big one) Do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway Are you following all of these? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 12:55 AM |
| 3 | How should I proceed?Ignore her and move on. If this continues, it's more likely than not you'll become an orbiter. It seems that you lack abundance. Are you spinning plates? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 12:52 AM |
| 3 | FFM threesome in drama-charged LTR (long post)This is what you need to do. Get some plates. Girls who you fuck 1-2 times a week, and enjoy being with. Keep lifting. Once you have a rotation going, you'll see why this post was a waste of time. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 12:49 AM |
| 3 | FFM threesome in drama-charged LTR (long post)yea? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 12:40 AM |
| 3 | FFM threesome in drama-charged LTR (long post)If your serious about learning, read the entire sidebar. It should take you a couple of hours. Then come back if you have any questions. Understand? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 12:39 AM |
| 3 | FFM threesome in drama-charged LTR (long post)Good. Did you read the required information before posting? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 12:36 AM |
| 5 | FFM threesome in drama-charged LTR (long post)"I expect the regular "tldr; she's an ex for a reason, move on", "oneitis, GFTOW", "dude, she's a chick, who cares", "just do what you want, overthinking" comments." This is exactly what you'll get. Why post here if you know what reply you'll get. Go lift | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand women"is it wrong for me" That is your decision. Personally I don't really care, im just interested in the girl. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:46 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand womenShe's not yours, It's just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Dealing with Pedophile Accusations"she was being rude to me so I made fun of her laugh." The correct move her was to ignore her and keep walking. Making fun of her is only going to make her vindictive. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Going out during the weekDay. Sometimes night. Point is im always getting my 8 hours of sleep, no matter what. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:37 PM |
| 2 | The beauty of red pillLikewise bro. May the iron be with you. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand womenGame. Money. Plus if he's a beta fag she can treat him like a puppy. When she comes home after getting it up the ass from Chad, beta Steve will always be there. A guy like Steve is a regular deadbedroom poster. He won't cheat, he won't say no, and he'll gladly accept the pitty fuck she'll give him one every six months. He lets her take control of the finances, decisions etc. Will you be Chad or will you be Steve? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:32 PM |
| 9 | I have multiple opportunities to get laid tonight. But I feel morally conflicted as to whether I should or not. What should I do?"So I hired a hooker" Do we read the same TRP? "She was in front with a guy, that she needed to give money to or something." Her Pimp. "I want to leave, but this girl turns out to be aggressive and rude as hell" Her frame is stronger than yours. "Then, she takes a fucking GLOCK out" To intimidate you. "if you have sex with these girls, you’re putting them in danger" Yes they are in danger, of being with an idiot like you. Don't fuck girls from craigslist ads. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:26 PM |
| 9 | How to come off less "creepy" at work? Or am I doing something wrong?"So, a new girl started at work" Lack of abundance. "Turned me down" Shitting where you eat. "her body language seems to sort of be almost like "I want to get away from this person I don't know, it's just strange." Not really. Women are repulsed by low SMV. "Any feedback or insight you guys might offer" Be more abundant, be ready for HR, and don't shit where you eat | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Going out during the week"sacrifice sleep" Will never sacrifice sleep. Sacrificing sleep = sacrificing Gains | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:03 PM |
| 71 | What's the most alpha thing you've ever doneHaving the ability to walk away. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | The beauty of red pillJust lift. Don't try to hamster away an excuse. In fact you'll wish you started sooner. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 08:59 PM |
| 20 | Dealing with Pedophile Accusations"I am not worried about the police arresting me in my house" To start, there are multiple witnesses. They know your address. They can spin the interaction which ever way to police if they choose to do so. Ignore them. Watch out for white knights. You should find a lawyer and hope they don't accuse you of something other than what really happened. "Her friend was laughing making fun of me" Second, you are definitely giving off a creepy vibe. Most likely due to low SMV. "One of them was like "Stop… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 08:46 PM |
| 61 | The beauty of red pill"I also watched a guy who sits next to me hit the wall, but he was kinda of being ignored for ages and kept giving her atention... he is kinda of depressed this days and dont talk as much..." Imagine being depressed because some girl didn't pay your attention. If your reading this right now, you might be saying what a fag, what a pussy lol. And you'd be right. I was that guy at one point, sad because some hb5 wouldn't pay me any attention. I didn't lift, looked like shit, had nothing going for m… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 05:56 PM |
| 8 | Losing confidence?"everytime I try to motivate myself to work out I don't do it" You need to ask yourself why you workout. Is it for you, is it to prove your ex wrong, is it to get girls? Motivation will come and go. It is your job to maintain focus. Your 15. You've found the holy grail that is TRP. Use it to your advantage. Read the entire sidebar. Read the top posts on the main sub. You control your destiny. Ether you wallow in self pitty, or you take action to improve your life. The following is what I live by… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 05:48 AM |
| -12 | Any proven exercises to work on intonation and loudness of my voice?It was posted this year idk. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 05:21 AM |
| 6 | I’m completely overwhelmed by TRP and it’s driving me insane. Where’s the positives in any of this?"I just dont see much positive in any of this outside of knowing how shit really is." The purpose of TRP is to discuss sexual strategy. You are then supposted to take action to improve your situation from no sex, failed shit tests, no abundance, to a life where you become Chad. Constant sex, passing of shit tests, spinning plates, etc. The path to improvement is here. Do with it what you wish. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Any proven exercises to work on intonation and loudness of my voice?There's a great post on the main sub. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 04:03 AM |
| 16 | How to deal with exes?You posted this one month ago: "was an alpha my whole life until an alpha widow gave me Oneitis" Get on that sidebar, bum. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 03:49 AM |
| 3 | How did you breakup with your LTR?Yes exactly. Tell her you need to meet. If you want to break up with a plate, you can hard next. They may want to seek revenge though. So the safest way would be to say that you found your "forever one" and that your going to commit. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Just downloaded Tinder for the first time at 22; how do you open?The translations are how girls perceive your messages. Ask yourself, why would a girl reply to you? "And is that not a decent way to validate them" Why give a girl you haven't even met validation? If you match, build some rapport for about 5 mins, then ask her to coffee, skiing, rock climbing etc. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Just downloaded Tinder for the first time at 22; how do you open?Assuming this is not a troll. "My current line is; “ Good Afternoon/Evening" Way too formal, this isn't your boss/coworker "hoard of messages a beautiful woman like yourself must endure" Translation: I know theres better options than me. Im worthless. "I ain’t much of a texter" Translation: Im not experienced "Therefore, I’m trying to express myself in a relatively nuanced and polite fashion." Translation: I will dry your pussy up, without fail. "swiping on women I perceive as quality." Translat… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 01:56 AM |
| 3 | How many plates is too many for you?Personally about 5 | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Got shredded at 16 but then gained it all back and more a year later, whats wrong with me?"whats wrong with me?" You don't know your TDEE. Get your TDEE. Then eat at a caloric deficit. Tada. Your losing weight. "because I went from 165 to 130" 130? At what height. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 01:04 AM |
| 9 | How many plates is too many for you?Depends on the person. Your mission should obviously take priority. Lifting, hobbies, etc. It comes down to preference basically. Ask yourself is time with plates a high priority or a low priority. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 01:00 AM |
| 8 | New semester new goals--but will I be creepy?"I'm insecure" This is singlehandedly the worst thing for any guys frame. "do you think I'm a creep?" Who gives a fuck what I think. If your frame was strong you wouldn't be asking this question. You have the frame of a child looking for someone to make his choices for him. You do not need our validation to make choices for yourself Now that you realize this, promptly eliminate it. What is rule 6 that I live by? "6. Do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway" Repeat this to yourself. Do you t… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 12:55 AM |
| 8 | "If your profile weren’t verified I’d think you were too good to be true."Sadly yes. A former friend of mine actually said this to a girl online. Never underestimate the beta. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 12:27 AM |
| 5 | How did you breakup with your LTR?Have you been running dread on her? You'll have to appeal to her emotional side. Tell her that you "feel" that there is someone out there for you and her. That "your heart" knows that there is. Then you can probably demote her to plate if you want. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 12:26 AM |
| 23 | Have guys been able to love a girl the same since taking TRP?"You don't find red pill women, you make them" That is truly sidebar material | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 12:13 AM |
| 6 | How did you breakup with your LTR?Whatever you do, always breakup with a girl in public. You can avoid many false accusations that way. Alternatively you can ramp up the beta game, by being clingy, emotional (crying), etc. This will cause her to feel disgusted and sorry resulting in a clean breakup, preferably while you spin plates. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 12:09 AM |
| 7 | I've been feeling down for two days and I don't know why. Any thoughts on my situation?"I don't want this to be an endless cycle of a depressive state" What have you done to work your way out of your "depressive state"? What are your goals, what are your ambitions, what makes you want to get out of bed every morning? Your 16. You've found the holy grail that is TRP. Use it to your advantage. Read the entire sidebar. Read the top posts on the main sub. You control your destiny. Ether you wallow in self pitty, or you take action to improve your life. The following is what I live by:… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 11:53 PM |
| 65 | Have guys been able to love a girl the same since taking TRP?Yes. It helps you understand them better. Passing shit tests, dread, makes them act differently. They become willing to please, and more feminine. TRP has changed everything for me. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it the right thing to do to put my foot down on a girl who’s in denial about being a whore by ending the convo with “HMU if you want to have sex lates”Yes. Promise to orbit her, till the end of time. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 10:15 PM |
| 2 | I have no idea what should I doYou can. I guarantee you that you won't even be thinking about her in a month from now. If you want to stay with her than do so. These are your decisions. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Restablishing frameBe willing to cut ties with anyone, at any time. It's tough to leave what you already know, but you never know what you may find. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | I have no idea what should I doYour 22. Spin some plates. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:00 PM |
| 7 | I have no idea what should I doYour 22. She's not special. Spin some plates, have some fun. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 08:55 PM |
| 16 | "If your profile weren’t verified I’d think you were too good to be true."You can type whatever. Seriously. Your frame dictates your response. A beta would say: I never get hot girls like you to respond. RP Reply: We should meet up for some coffee just to make sure ;). | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Restablishing frameMake new friends. If you've followed TRP for any amount of time, your going to want likeminded people in your social circle. Have abundance | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Her "boyfriend" picked up the phone when she says she had none. Why would women lie like that?"But i am still lost as to why women lie like that?" SImple. She wanted to keep you oribiting around her. Women will make men think they have a chance so they stick around. Im sure she used you for rides, food pickup, homework, and so on. Meanwhile Chad is enjoying the fantastic steak dinner you picked up for "her". Become Chad. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Height AdviceIt's fine. It's only 2 inches. Make sure to read up on those fantastic posts on the main sub about optimizing tinder profiles. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Am I weird/the only one that doesn't want to be the guy everyone knows/the social guy/the guy that leads everyone/the guy everyone knows?Aww. Have fun at 2x. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Am I weird/the only one that doesn't want to be the guy everyone knows/the social guy/the guy that leads everyone/the guy everyone knows?Sadly, he'll find a way to blame TRP for his ban. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Am I weird/the only one that doesn't want to be the guy everyone knows/the social guy/the guy that leads everyone/the guy everyone knows?You wrote this two hours ago "Get off of trp subreddit and reddit as a whole (if you can), but mostly try avoiding trp sub, because it's toxic as hell. Today's legit first time I came here in about half a year and I can clearly see why I quit." Either your a troll or just a fucking idiot. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:10 PM |
| 15 | How do you handle rejection from a low-quality female who is promiscuous and does not desire you?"She's only a 5/10 with mental health problems" Why go after damaged goods? "a degree in the STEM field" You are a perfect example of beta-bucks in action. I'm sure you mention your degree to these women as if they should fuck you because of it. "She has flirted with me and touched but it never leads to sex". This is how women keep orbiters around. You are an orbiter. I've asked her out properly via text such as ''Let's go and get some coffee together on your day off''. It still ends in rejectio… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:02 PM |
| 8 | Does losing weight change things a lot?Women are attracted to a man with a stronger frame then them. As long as you can work on mastering this, you will be spinning plates. I guarantee you this. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Feel myself developing oneitis for a ONS from out of town. how do I stop being bluepill about this - would like advice from some older folks hereYou will carve your path with every decision you make. What makes this girl "special" and why is she different from any other girl you've fucked? Why are you so obsessed with her? I've asked myself these questions over and over again. And i've reached the same conclusions. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 06:26 PM |
| 5 | Does losing weight change things a lot?That is great to hear bro. The more weight you lose the better your going to look. Just make sure your lifting, setting your goals and spinning some plates. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Plate shit tests by spamming insults, how to handle?Don't tolerate her behavior. Either go radio silent for a couple of weeks, or next her. Abundance | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 05:56 PM |
| -4 | Depression phaseYou think that your a special case. That your the one and only special snowflake. Do you think your the first person with your problem? There is tons of shit in on the main sub specifically about your "issue" Your just lazy and want us to do the searching for you. Grow the fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 05:16 AM |
| 1 | ASD or lack of interestya son it hapen 2 me i had the same shit yo. I endud up readin tha SIDEBAR Get it? At least proof read your fucking post. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 05:07 AM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on psychedelicsExperience. I wasted hundreds of hours cutting class, smoking, and just being a fucking idiot. Time is your most valuable asset. You choose how it is spent. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Depression phaseHahahaha | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 05:01 AM |
| 6 | Depression phaseIt got really bad. So bad that I started having threesomes, flying to tropical countries, and READING THE FUCKING SIDEBAR | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 05:00 AM |
| -3 | What's your opinion on psychedelicsIt wasn't until I took LSD that shit just started to click in big ways in my head. Ask yourself this question. Do you really want to go on for months wasting your time & money on getting high? Your 20. Don't do what everyone around you is doing or you'll end up like them. Instead of buying LSD, you could be spending your time lifting, reading, socializing, working, starting a business. Your just following the crowd. what are you guys opinion on this or experience with this. Your using us to hams… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 04:53 AM |
| 4 | Social Circle and not being a Beta Orbiter"Would you be friends with a woman who is married/dating someone/sexually interested in another dude to expand your social circle more?" "I do find her attractive but she's not available atm" That's fine, im sure she has some cute friends, but im getting the feeling that your trying to hamster your way into spending time with her as opposed to trying to expand your social circle. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 04:07 AM |
| 8 | Those who got into a LTR/Marriage with a HB8/9/10, tell me your story."Let's hear your love stories" "what the RP community would label as a "unicorn" "She's not a oneitis" Hahaha. Surely you can see your bullshitting yourself | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | If you’re a really cute/handsome guy, how do you interact with girls?Ok. Read the entire SIDEBAR. Should take you a couple days. Then you'll understand why your being an annoying idiot. Stop wasting our time and yours | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | LMR keeps screwing me over. How do I close successfully?There's a ton of material regarding this in the mainsub, don't be lazy. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 03:31 AM |
| 10 | How to react to compliments?Law 30 of the 48 Laws states: Make your accomplishments seem effortless Accept the compliment, always assume attraction, and make it seem like it's effortless | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 03:26 AM |
| 5 | If you’re a really cute/handsome guy, how do you interact with girls?The fact that you've made multiple posts here in under an hour shows that you have no respect for the community. I've already gave you advice and you just won't fucking listen. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 03:23 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop being a beta male p*ssy?You get it. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Not getting the attention I should beThis sounds like a woman wrote it. Replace girls with guys and you'll see what I mean. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Girl is acting jealous/bitchyThank you. Next | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 02:55 AM |
| 4 | How can I get over the fact that my dad has a beta mindset about women?Look. It's your parents house, their rules. Work on something now, ie. build a business, so that you can move out as soon as you turn 18. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 02:26 AM |
| 10 | How can I get over the fact that my dad has a beta mindset about women?it will probably never end until I move out. Your right. Move out | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 02:21 AM |
| 22 | Got in a fight and have a cool scar on cheekThe fact you felt the need to "show" somebody your not a pussy, says it all. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 02:11 AM |
| 2 | im struggling how do I agree and amplify. because at the moment im just remembering from a "script"Exactly. The more you use this, the easier it gets. Soon you'll naturally pass all shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 02:10 AM |
| 18 | Got in a fight and have a cool scar on cheekIt was good. Now you'll understand the power of self control He said I wouldn’t pour water on him and I did You gave right into his frame. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 02:03 AM |
| 8 | I ghosted this girl a little while back because she invited me to the beach, but when I got to her house, two of her guys friends joined us in the car. Anyways now whenever I go to these 2 clubs on Thursday and Friday I’ll see her and she’ll make a point to walk in front of me and stop, or pass by.What's her # | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 01:58 AM |
| 4 | What should I do about this girl?I saw your post, and without clicking on it I knew what your issue was. "What should I do about this girl?" The remedy: SIDEBAR | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 01:56 AM |
| 17 | How do I stop being a beta male p*ssy?lol, you've noticed. Why waste my time writing an eleoquent response when these idiots can't take time to read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 01:39 AM |
| 8 | im struggling how do I agree and amplify. because at the moment im just remembering from a "script"What would you normally reply if a girl said: Plate: "Your such an asshole" You: Aww really, thats sweet. Basically don't logically respond to what is said. Beta answer: Sorry princess, I didn't mean it that way. You get it? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 01:36 AM |
| 25 | How do I stop being a beta male p*ssy?Glad to hear. The following is what I live by: Set goals, and crush them Lift (your lifting right?) Increase SMV Spin plates Outcome independence (big one) Do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 01:16 AM |
| 5 | So what’s a proper way to respond to a girl shit testing you by saying “your handsome too young for me”?If you read the SIDEBAR you'd know the answer. A&A or ignore. Understand? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 01:12 AM |
| 6 | What is going onHow have you worked on improving your SMV? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 01:01 AM |
| 19 | I got my shit together and everything started to click?Great to hear that bro, your living proof that TRP can change lives for the better. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Catching feelings for a fwbhow do I get rid of this oneitis Set goals, and crush them Lift (your lifting right?) Increase SMV Spin plates Outcome independence (big one) Do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 12:47 AM |
| 167 | I got my shit together and everything started to click?Is the trick to simply get your life together first and everything else will follow? Yes. This is exactly what the spergs who come on asktrp, and write a essay about their issues need to understand. The below is what I live by Set goals, and crush them Lift (your lifting right?) Increase SMV Spin plates Outcome independence (big one) Do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway If your doing this already your fine. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 12:45 AM |
| 11 | Got low SMVWow i have the perfect solution for you. SIDEBAR. Your not special, your not the exception. Internalize it like everyone else, then come back for clarification. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 12:27 AM |
| 4 | Should i even trying without social media?You need to help yourself by reading the SIDEBAR before we can help you. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Should i even trying without social media?"Should i do it or not" I'm not your father. You need to get in the habit of making decisions yourself. It will change your life. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Rarely actually getting off during good sex? Feels like never ending "edging".It's all about what you want. Your making the little things a big deal. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 06:57 PM |
| 14 | Should i even trying without social media?"She wont hang out when she finds out im a loser" Jesus christ. You think your worthless and it's fucking disgusting. I know you don't spin plates, I know you don't have abundance, I know that you have no outcome indepedence, and I fucking know that you haven't read the SIDEBAR. You've given up. Let this serve as a reminder to all that lifting is only a piece of the puzzle. Be a man, grow some balls, stop coming here so we can coddle and pitty you. SIDEBAR | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Rarely actually getting off during good sex? Feels like never ending "edging".This will be the solution. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Rarely actually getting off during good sex? Feels like never ending "edging".Cut out the porn. Completely. Immediately. Will change your life instantly. Learn to have self control, something few men actually have. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Cause for concern or just libido issues?Yes. Cut porn out completely. Don't hamster watching it, just cut it cold turkey. Thank me later | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Cause for concern or just libido issues?Stop watching porn. It's corrosive. Read studies about it and come back when you put some effort into reading the sidebar. I highly doubt you lift and spin plates. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Next move?On to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 05:21 AM |
| 68 | Why are there a lot of women who lie about not liking muscles?Because it may be a sign of a guy trying too hard. Girls prefer a man whose acomplishments seem efortless. Actually one of the Laws of Power (fantastic read) Edit: It's Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Advice for military servicenot approaching though. So zero women in my life at the moment. This is it. Change your actions and your results will differ. Your life will change, but only you hold the power to make it a reality. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | I just can't seem to get over her cute face."Developed oneitis" Ok follow my instructions to seduce your forever one innocent princess. Ask her to meet your parents. Then propose to her with the biggest ring you can find, because after all she is your princess loveyy boo. Then comes the best part, your going to get married and spend the rest of your life wondering why your wife won't fuck you anymore. Then you'll spend the rest of your life wondering why you didn't read the fucking SIDEBAR. The end. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 04:08 AM |
| 2 | How to make a move here?Do this. Delete the word anxiety from your vocabulary. It's just pathetic. Have a pair and be confident. That escalation would be too foward imo. Follow the escalation ladder. And remember be OUTCOME INDEPENDENT | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | I need advice from experienced red pillersI don't want to hear any "do what you wanna do" replies do what you wanna do | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | How to make a move here?Ether instant date or number. When you get the number make up some bullshit about studying with her. She'll say yea, meet up, isolate, escalate, and you know the rest. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Improving negotiation skillsSell or Be Sold was a great read. Goes in depth into various scenarios, the best thing is that it helps create a confident frame when it comes to selling. You can pick it up at your local B&N | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Plate broke my fingershe seems pretty crazy Quick men, For the GRAND PRIZE: Don't stick your __________ in crazy | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Girl being weird over textJust banter. Set the date. Escalate. Procreate. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How to make a move here?There's no script needed, no "top 10 pickup lines". What's you need to do is go out and approach. Trial by fire Just say whatever comes to mind, and when in doubt escalate. And remember Keep Lifting (you are lifting aren't you?) | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Do second chances exist?I broke ties with a girl I've been talking to for about 3 months Oh ok. Plate broke correct? Replace plate Proceed. You broke up with her for a reason. Don't forget why. There are thousands of options and your writing a post titled Do second chances exist? It's sad. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Bad tattoo related questionIs your frame stronger then theirs? That's all that matters. Raise your confidence. Your tattoo isn't holding you back, your holding your self back. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Can oneitis ever be ok?You seem to understand TRP concepts. At the end of the day you are a man. Men forge their own path with every choice they make. If this is what you desire then you know the answer. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Is pissing in the sink alpha or betaPromote her from plate to Long distance relationship. Then ask her parents for their blessing and buy her the most expensive ring and marry that girl. You'll be together for ever!! | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Is pissing in the sink alpha or betaYes it's alpha but only if your girl allows you to do so. Always have permission from your 40 yo innocent LTR boo. Good Luck | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 02:00 AM |
| 14 | How do you truly stay happy?Set goals, and crush them Lift (your lifting right?) Increase SMV Spin plates Outcome independence (big one) Do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 01:03 AM |
| 25 | Girl I work with who spent the night last Friday ignored a test I sent yesterday, I called into work today due to illness and she texted me around 5pm saying "Hey are u ok?"I know you've definitely read the side bar. Tell her that your in love with her and that you want to move in immediately. Then tell her that she'll always be your one and only innocent princess. I have the elixir for what ails you. SIDEBAR | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 12:59 AM |
| 22 | I have a cutie redhead with freckles mini-oneitis and I'd like you wise brothers to guide me.Ok ready? OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE You might get rejected, you might get your dick sucked. You might even have a threesome with her friend. Just have fun, and limit your investment. Girls can sense desperation. Lift, and do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How to increase confidence?Set goals, and crush them Lift (your lifting right?) Increase SMV Spin plates Outcome independence (big one) Do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 12:17 AM |
| 3 | How to be sure of girls age on tinder without sounding like a dick?Completely understandable. Ether you ask for her ID or she's underage and you get charged when her parents find out. There's too much risk to not ask. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 12:14 AM |
| 7 | my best friend fucked upLets see. Feminists Social Media Man with career (Your Friend Joey) Tell him to get a lawyer asap. At best his reputation is fucked around, town, school etc. At worst he's gonna be getting a visit from cops. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Looking like shit when bulkingCalculate your TDEE, start counting your calories and you'll know. Remember a big chunk of gains & losses are made in the kitchen. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Does this mean I dont have enough confidence in myself ?Are you really follwing what I wrote? Secondly your too invested in the outcome. Be outcome independant and things will completlely change for you. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 11:58 PM |
| 2 | I'm not sure anymore if being red pilled is worth it if I'm an aspie.Listen, your taking a robotic approach to all of this. Go out sometime this week and approach a girl you think is cute. Be outcome independent, whatever happens, thats great. You might get your dick sucked, you might get rejected, so what. The more you keep doing this the more easier it will get. I guarantee you'll be spinning plates a month from now if your SMV is decent enough. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 11:54 PM |
| 2 | I'm not sure anymore if being red pilled is worth it if I'm an aspie.If you follow these instructions you'll see an immediate change. Set goals for yourself and crush them Lift if you aren't already Spin some plates Stop overthinking everything. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 11:42 PM |
| 4 | Does this mean I dont have enough confidence in myself ?if a girl likes me I feel that something is wrong with her Simple. You need to raise your self confidence. If you don't have the "I am enough mentality" your not gonna reach your goals. Set Goals and break them consistently. Lift heavy. Get some plates going. And do what the fuck you we're gonna do anyway. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | What do I think?In my experience, taking a break for a couple weeks is the way to go. Interactions you have in daily life will reenforce core TRP values because you'll see things you've read about, and things will click. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:09 AM |
| 2 | How to answer thisbut anything u say will sound pretty beta If you say so. Sidebar | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:04 AM |
| 8 | Why/how was r/theredpill quarantined?Admins Cause they felt like it We already have our backup site online. trp.red | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 01:37 AM |
| 7 | Approaching at parties?There's no script needed, no "top 10 pickup lines". What's you need to do is go out and make your first approaches. Trial by fire Just say whatever comes to mind, and when in doubt escalate. And remember Keep Lifting (you are lifting aren't you?) | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 01:35 AM |
| 1 | 25, unemployed, living at home, no friends. If I can't see a way out is there any reason I stick around?You're living in self loathing that's a fact. Now that we've established that, this is what you CAN do to change your life. Read the SIDEBAR LIFT harder Ask yourself what is it that you want, What are your goals for the short term, and what are your long term goals? | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 01:30 AM |
| 5 | How to optimize weekly lifting routine so alcohol affects my progress the least?Reduces muscle growth/recovery | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 12:42 AM |
| 4 | How to get a previous bad label reversed?sometimes they'll tell other people that I'm a cuck. For example, I work with one of said friends, and a few weeks ago he told one of my female coworkers that was previously showing me some IOIs (I wouldn't have chased, im just adding that for context purposes) that I'm a cuck, He's attempting to AMOG you because his frame is weak. He knows that your SMV is higher than his, so he finds a away to put you down. He definitely noticed that girl at work giving you ioi's. Instead of improving his life… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 11:52 PM |
| 5 | Am i too ugly for the red pill to work for me?I have seen a friend of mine, going to the gym everyday. He is skinny, white but is short. Unfortunately he is also a fellow red piller and has not been laid since swallowing the pill 4 years ago. lol he must be a genetic anomaly. Four years of lifting and still skinny. Do you think the red pill wont actually work for me? The reason why your asking this is because your frame is weak. The sidebar will work wonders for you. Also LIFT. Do not take lifting advice from your autist friend. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 11:10 PM |
| 6 | How to get a previous bad label reversed?Whatever you do don't break frame. Sounds like your friends are insecure, especially when you mention that your of higher SMV compared to most of them. Just treat them like you would a young child trying to challenge you. If anyone brings it up, just agree and amplify. Just don't break frame. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 10:58 PM |
| 2 | So according to TheRedpill knowledge all relationships lead to cucking:She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken. - Sums up everything | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Concerned about going one on oneYour putting girls on a pedestal. Thats why your nervous, can't think. etc. You're the prize. In reality she should be nervous because a high smv guy is talking to her. Once you reframe your interactions with women it'll be smooth sailing. No script or "10 proven lines to pickup girls" needed. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I just found the red pill and need to get my shit togetherDo it. I'd sign up for as many activities you could do without affecting your schoolwork. Make friends in track make friends in debate, make friends in class. You'll be in a abundant mindset, you'll have 20 friends to hangout with, you meet friends of their friends and so on. Just work on yourself and the women will follow. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I just found the red pill and need to get my shit togetherDon't neglect your schooling. You need to build some self esteem, and yes even though your in rowing, you really should lift. The reason we recommend lifting is not just because you'll increase your attractiveness (SMV). But because it helps instill character and discipline that most men lack. Consume the sidebar and internalize the core trp principles. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I create the protector vibe without risking my health?A rock solid frame will work. Also the size that you'll gain from a solid lifting program will as a byproduct give off that protector vibe. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 04:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle my friend? Advice pleaseI've experienced the exact same thing. Friend was blinded by pussy, came back after getting cheated on. Became bitter that his one true luv was a whore. Just phase him out of your life bro. You have abundance, you've met some new friends. Be surrounded by positive vibes instead of negative ones. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 04:42 AM |
| 1 | (24M) What can I do to make myself a better person so more attractive women will find me attractive?Your getting great advice and your just ignoring it all. Ether A: Your just looking for us to validate your thoughts that your and your weak, unlucky, virgin, too short, or B: You really want help and will be willing to shut up and follow the good advice your being given. Your using us to help you hamster into the thought that your just who you are and you can't improve. r/ relationships would tell you: bro your fine the way you are, just be yourself, and the classic, you'll find the right one, … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 04:31 AM |
| 7 | (24M) What can I do to make myself a better person so more attractive women will find me attractive?"Being fit, apart from health benefits, is overrated on here" Sure is. Hamster your way into using those sweet McDonalds coupons. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | r/TheRedPill - Where to reconveneSub is accessible read u/JamzeNeu post. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Did the red pill get removed?look at u/JamzeNeu post to view the mainsub | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 01:46 AM |
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