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Reminds me of "The Walking Dead", and why that show is becoming unwatchable - too much we need to show that we are the more enlightened "better" person as opposed to just facing the cruel reality of the situation and the unchanging, indifferent laws of nature. If his ex, as he described it, did some fucked up shit to him - why is it his responsibility to "be there for her"? What does he get from being her unpaid therapist? In fact, couldn't this be considered as her taking further advantage of h…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:47 PM
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Youtube. There are literally videos created by carpenters, electricians, plumbers, etc + Lowes, Home Depot, etc. Just search on the item/part of house you want to fix and you should find videos that describe how to do it. I've fixed my dryer, microwave, plumbing and rescreened some windows - saved a good bit of money. Other main pointer is patience - a big part of doing repair work is knowing when you CAN force something in and when you CAN NOT (or should not) - take your time, and over time you…
/r/askTRP17/02/18 05:34 AM
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It's your life and it's your body. You can either a) do it and never discuss it - medical procedures (even cosmetic ones) are no ones damn business b) do it and discuss openly if someone asks -- if the conversation goes from " did you"? (asking a question) to "I could never", or "Cosmetic surgery is for vain people" - just ignore.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 01:28 AM
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Agree with idea of giving a wisea** reply. Kind of similar to Gene Simmons from KISS -- whenever people say "Hey Gene, show us your tongue" - he replies (with a smirk) "Can't, floors too dirty". In general, clever, confident, slightly humorous can defuse most of these type situations.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 01:24 AM
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Don't try to figure her out, don't try to make it work, don't try to "Win" in a loser of a situation. DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT!! How many times do other guys have to write that? FOCUS on your work and find 3 other women OUTSIDE of work. that is all.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 01:27 AM
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Credit where credit is due, boss. You called that shit a month ago and you had it nailed. Smarter, better and not going to step in a pile of shit like that again.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 05:17 AM
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Because I had bulshitted myself into believing that she was "different" - and went running downfield at full speed like Charlie Fucking Brown...and we all know what happens next....
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:56 PM
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Excellent point and hard learned lesson.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:55 PM
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Simple Answer - Stay later, but bring stuff to get done for yourself. Pay your bills, email family (might be issue on company computer) - if you're reading a book, you can copy/print the pages that you're on so it looks as if you're reading an "official report" Unfortunately, face time office cultures are the worst and if people really are keeping track of who comes and goes and at what times, might be forced to get into that. Can also slow down during the day like everyone else, and the have mo…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:24 AM
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Need pics that show you doing fun stuff, preferably with other people (SMV) - that can cover a lot of ground. There are a number of articles that have covered this, sorry, can't find them now to post link _ would suggest you doing some research on it, you'll find answers you're looking for
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:44 PM
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Physician heal thyself. You've identified the problem, you know the solution. Take 1 small step and then take another. Don't look at things as a large group, but small pieces, one at a time. You will be back in the saddle in no time.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 02:06 AM
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You do NOT need me to tell you this, but you have nothing about which to be ashamed. First off, there are tens of millions of people who gratefully acknowledge your service to our nation. Secondly, as the other guys have said - maximize your opportunity. In exchange for enlistment, the AF provides benefits - they are YOURS and you've earned them. Harvest those benefits be they - job training, free gyms, educational opportunities, travel - all of it - you have earned it. Speaking of earnings - be…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:39 PM
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The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is 'What does a woman want"? -- Dr. Sigmund Freud. Good Luck.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 08:24 PM
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I don't know that any explanation is possible and even if one were - it would likely not make sense. it may be profitable for you to think about why you want to understand and whats driving that.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:21 PM
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Keep your focus on your self improvement efforts. Don't worry about their reactions or gossip or anything.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:10 PM
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All good examples - Basic element - Your buddy isn't being a true friend - taking your back, helping you out, sticking to his word -- just not a force for good in your life.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:05 PM
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Fair enough. I am far from an expert on this stuff, and you apparently have given it some thought/research. It may very well prove to be interesting. Good luck.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:02 PM
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This is a great example _ boils it down to it's two essential elements - a) Strong focus on taking care of/ improving self b) Disregard of other people's drama and silliness - in fact this second point is really key, as it frees up the energy for you to attack number 1 One additional point - I think that guys struggle with the second point b/c they want to be right, want people to know the truth, and, worst of all, want people to "like" them. All of those are wastes of time - people are nuts, mo…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:52 PM
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Wouldn't you run into issues with privacy? (especially if you're looking at people in EU countries or something)
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:41 PM
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Fully agree with your perspective on this -- the whole idea of taking offense at an objective business judgment, or specific business related question is just insane to me. It's a crazy world...wear a helmet.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:31 PM
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All the more reason not to get back into any kind of situation with this person - you saw enough things you didn't like to send her packing before - chicks who were dumped with often make big concessions to "get even with the house" - but they often exact serious retribution on the back end. Move on...abundance abundance abundance.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 07:18 PM
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Find the hottest chick you can and bring HER to the party. then the night after the party, take another chick out and bang her. You didn't do all of this work on self-improvement to share the benefits of it with someone who didn't appreciate you. Read the Sidebar
/r/askTRP07/06/17 07:06 PM
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You start out the post by referring to it as your relationship and then citing all of the goodies you're receiving. You then add the cherry on top of...well...her cherry for you. Sounds to me like she kind of has your number on this one - she senses that you're getting really comfy and feeling like you've snagged your unicorn and she's now feeling urges for Snapchat Chad. She's lost her dread - if she ever had it. SOFT NEXT AS A MINIMUM
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:57 PM
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I think you got your message across. If she's interested, then she will come back around. If not, then she was just letting you know that "she's not into you" - why else ask to bring your cockblock friend? Now be sure to move on and focus on other women - abundance, abundance, abundance.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:53 PM
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I know this sucks for you and kudo's to you for being a great friend and really caring enough to want to help. You already know the sad reality though - you can't force this guy to face the truth - he seems determined to go through with this fiasco and to fuck up his life Best thing you can do is keep trying to get him to face the truth (and don't be surprised if the witch he is with eventually wants to get you out of "their" lives) and then be there when he crashes and burns - which he will. Tr…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:39 PM
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Dont know you and don't know your life. Still would say DON"T DO IT Suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problems. However, in deference to you as an independent being who has the right to make his own choices - If you want to do it - plan carefully. Make sure that the method is quick and as painless as possible. There are lots of resources on the web where you can find that info. Also echo other poster advice about not making it loved one's problem to discover you. Also - if you plan to…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:28 PM
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Good for you - you can't want it more than she does or it's a slow and painful death. Keep it up man.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 12:32 AM
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As failingtheturningtest suggested - Use the "important for us to document approaches and processes - just in case there are opportunities for improvement for all" - then - What is the specific issue you're encountering? What have you done to get you to that point? What solutions have you tried? Can you provide examples of the code you developed so I can maybe see the flow of your thinking? Can you isolate the action or task that you think is generating the error? Do you think this needs to be e…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 12:27 AM
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Up to you... personally, I wouldn't be into taking skanky seconds that had already been with a buddy. Abundance, man, Abundance...time to move on.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 11:45 PM
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the average home mtge is held for about 7 years - that's why 30 year mortgages are priced off of the 10 year treasuries -- they are the nearest term "risk free rate" against which the mtge loans can be calculated. If you have the cash flow (income) to manage the payments- rates are currently pretty low. Would suggest that you look for the cheapest home in the nicest neighborhood, as opposed to most expensive home in cheapest neighborhood. If you want some "insurance" - ask your realtor about the…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 11:38 PM
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Your new job actually provides you with two benefits - a) financial reward and, b) you will learn, very quickly, that rejection is NOTHING. Sad to say , but you are going to get many doors slammed in your face - people telling you to fu#% off, etc. The first couple may sting a bit..but if you can transcend that and keep going - you are on your way to success. And that's almost the exact mindset of "outcome independence" that translates into success with women.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 05:13 PM
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Definitely. Also - practice gratitude for having had the blinders taken off at THIS stage of your life.. think of the vastly improved future you get to experience b/c you've committed to all of this. Can be helpful in putting your Beta Version of you in your past.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 05:08 PM
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Toxic combination of oxytocin from the sex and rush of personal validation (misguided) in putting on your tights and cape and rushing in as "Captain Save-A-Hoe". You will be fine.. some unpleasant withdrawal, but good for you - you did the right thing and got out of a toxic and fucked up situation - No further contact with her (she doesn't deserve your attention) and move on.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 05:05 PM
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Embrace your mistakes... learn from them - if you avoid them, you cut yourself off from the learning. You can't change the past, only the future. I do think though that there is a kind of "mourning period" when you transition - it's like "if only I had known then" and also, you wish you could go back and "help" your old self. You Can't. Best you can do is to move forward as strongly and decisively as possible and say "never again"
/r/askTRP05/06/17 05:01 PM
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You sound like you're trying to be a friend - admirable. Question - Where are YOU on your journey? Sometimes we get into a mode where "helping friends" can be a means of avoiding our own work... I call it "noble bullshit". Most people would say "he's a stand up guy, want's to help a friend", but you're friend is a grown man who's decided he wants to make as many mistakes as possible so that when this woman finally does deliver the dim mak to this poor sonofabitch he will be as big a wreck as pos…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:54 PM
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Operant conditioning. She wants a jolt of sympathy and validation and with 95% of the world, she gets it. "It's so hard" "I saw the most fucked up thing..this family hurt their kid", etc - don't get me wrong, these are tragic and awful things. BUT - you aren't gonna change them - can't do a thing about them and all you are allowing to happen is that she is associating you with those events, as she relives them in gory detail. What to Do? Be stoic. Sit there and listen for 3 minutes or so. Don't …
/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:44 PM
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Let me try to be more constructive (b/c I personally hate the guys who post snotty replies with nothing constructive to say) - your story may in fact be true -but as another respondent has noted - it's incongruous to think that someone could have the ability to succeed in business at a high level - not once, but twice and then lack the ability to discern a gold digger. if it's truly the case, then other respondents have posted some helpful thoughts. I would say that unless you're a local celebri…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:43 AM
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/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:28 AM
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HUMBLE BRAG ALERT -- This post needs to be filed along with the following - a) How can I keep women from wanting me only for my 11" cock? b) Now that I am completely jacked at 5'10", 195lbs with 8% bodyfat, how can I know she will love me for my sensitive and introspective nature? c) Tips for getting extra sleep b/c I am so busy spinning plates 6 nights a week (cause I take 1 night a week off to work at animal shelter)? If a guy has spent 15 years on Wall Street and was then able to open a succe…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:21 AM
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My ex was a doctor. LAST thing you want to do is to sit there while she "gives report" about her patients and what happened. It becomes never ending and you can't help. If you're not a doc, she's like "well, you can't really know what it's like" - if you ARE a doc, she's like "Well, I would have done it differently" . You don't talk about your work to her and she shouldn't talk about her work to you. This goes for EVERY job, but definitely for lady docs, teachers, social workers, counselors, nur…
/r/askTRP04/06/17 06:06 PM
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From your description, your current buddy is NOT the guy who screwed you over in the past. Why be a dick to him? Sure, his game may not be up to yours, but you can always collaborate on that kind of shit. Worse comes to worst, you are being a standup guy and a good wingman - good karma. Finally - as other posted noted - abundance abundance abundance - so many out there - why risk what sounds to be a solid friendship over just one?
/r/askTRP04/06/17 02:28 PM
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HUMBLEBRAG alert - Feel like this post should have started with "Dear Penthouse Forum". If it IS true, then OP, you need some help b/c you can't see when you've got it really really good- An investing/legal business maxim holds very true "Hogs get fed, but PIGS get slaughtered" - know when to back the fuck away from the buffet line. One other point - If your alpha/bdsm master/Chad Thundercock the Warlord of Pussydom roommate wants to give you something like that - maybe it's a weird bdsm thing h…
/r/askTRP04/06/17 02:01 PM
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Do you think she doesn't realize that she's gained a quarter or more of her bodyweight in the last 3 years? Of course she knows it. She even asked you "what do I have to change". Here's the sad, sad part - there is no way to tell her without her resenting you for it and wanting revenge in the future. Look at the scenarios - YOU TELL HER - a) She loses the weight - now you are eternally the asshole for whom her "real" (fatter, lazier) self was not good enough. You selfish shallow jerk b) She does…
/r/askTRP04/06/17 01:55 PM
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Shit like this gives the rest of us and "the manosphere" in general a bad name. Are you fucking kidding? She's a little girl - no matter how she has developed physically. You think 21 year old woman are nutty and obsessive - what about a (barely) teenaged girl? And what about her Dad? OK - he's dead - brothers, uncles - the COPS. You think that the average cop (who might have a little girl himself) won't bounce a nightstick off your dumb skull for this kind of thing. This shit is just wrong.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:23 PM
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Do NOT do it -- She is trying to 'get even" with the house. Your reply was solid GOLD - can't think of a better one. Don't snatch defeat from the jaws of victory. Move on. If she asks why you won't talk to her - "Nothing to discuss - you wanted Us to be done, you got what you wanted/I got what I wanted" BYE
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:18 PM
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Why Ask Why? or, more precisely - what does it matter? how would getting the information change anything that you need to do for yourself? One of the key benefits of TRP is that it REMOVES the element of "trying to figure out what she wants" from the realm of problems you need to solve. You know what to do , or as the Buddha once famously said - "The Path Before You is Clear...Why then do you throw stones"? Good Luck.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 09:03 PM
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anything that sounds relaxed, interesting and NOT like a dumb PUA kind of contrived line would be fine. If nothing else comes to mind..the truth (god forbid) - Hi, I noticed you/you look interesting and wanted to introduce myself/meet you. Approach completed. More important is that you minimize the gap between thought/action - as others have noted - approach quickly before your own mental machinations mess with you.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:53 PM
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Sounds like humblebrag bullshit to me - lots of that around here.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:51 PM
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That whole section on Continuous Self Improvement is some seriously on-point, deep wisdom type stuff. Pay attention to that and reap the benefits.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 05:54 PM
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Take some personal pride in doing the right things - you did tell her to get lost - that's really strong. I echo what the other guys have said and encourage you to follow it - a) If you feel bad, it's a sign you're wasting time and mental energy which could be used BY you FOR you. Clean the fucking toilets in your apartment, if you have to, but keep DOING for YOU. (cleaning apt, washing car, dealing with old paperwork - all potential good choices). b) Change your key and chalk up the $300 as the…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 05:44 PM
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Really great insights -many thanks. Appreciate you're having broken it down to different elements and how they work. All the Best.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 02:28 PM
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Ok, but then doesn't this fly in the face of "nexting" and "radio silence"? I thought the idea was that - you pull away, without complaining and she sits there trying to figure out what went wrong. Eventually, you re-emerge and she is so happy for your attention, that she tries to do "good stuff" and you intermittently reward it. So, are you saying that it IS advisable to tell her she's fucked up? If so, how to do it without triggering all of the stuff you've mentioned. Figure the case I raised …
/r/askTRP29/05/17 01:51 AM
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if you are legally prohibited, then it appears that you're going to be "confined " to your bedroom during the times when your mate brings "Psychorella" back to the flat.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 12:01 AM
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I was the other person who replied about getting a consult with medical license attorney. I think you are probably on solid ground with the only exception being any kind of "duty to inform" wording in their regs. That creates the dreaded "had you been forthcoming about this incident, we would have examined it and likely held you harmless, however, your choice to "conceal" the information has led to us needing to take disciplinary action" blah blah blah bullshit bullshit bullshit etc etc ad infin…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 11:23 PM
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Right and you've likely taken enough Organic chem and biochem to recognize that there are variations in levels of impairment at the same reading, to say nothing of the reliability of the instrument, the person operating it etc. This isn't to say that it's cool to get blind drunk and then hit the road - we know that it's not. BUT, it's also not cool to basically have a nuke aimed right at your future career (a career spent helping people) just because you had 4 - 7 extra ounces of beer that night…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 10:35 PM
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PS - Don't over dramatize this - sounds like you've bought into some of the SJW bullshit - "I could have killed innocents" - you know what, you didn't. So don't let them bulldoze you into taking on a huge load of guilt over what you "could have done' -- you were a young guy who made a mistake and learned frm it - so have thousands of other people - OR, do you think you should surrender all that you've worked for and all that you might become just because you could have hurt someone?
/r/askTRP28/05/17 07:22 PM
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Sounds like your attorney gave you good advice - if you're really terrified (and willing to invest the $$$) find an attorney who specializes in med school/law school/dental school admission violations (there are attorneys who specialize in pretty much everything) and get an opinion from that person - get the facts and move on with your life. Good Luck.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 07:20 PM
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How can tubby get in the way of your game, if you're working it? You need to give a little more detail on how exactly she "cock blocks" - cause, no offense, sounds like you're looking to "snatch defeat from the jaws of victory" with this one - Worrying about fat bitch complaining - smh, kid, just smh
/r/askTRP28/05/17 07:18 PM
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Yea, I think you handled it fine. More importantly though is not dealing with this knucklehead again in the future.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:55 PM
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Stop hanging out with AMOG-ing douchebags - once a little more alcohol or some possible tail is introduced into the mix, this guy will definitely get violent.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:38 PM
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This is a two part reply - first the rational - You are correct - you are likely not the richest, best looking, best personality dude in the world. Or the USA. Or Your State. Your City. Your School - Etc. So fucking what? You're likely not the worst and also - while that stuff can help some guys - there are still rich, good looking guys with 6 packs, who bomb like fucking Hiroshima every night of the week. So, focus on self improvement and get the most out of what you've got and what you're livi…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:24 PM
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Assume she is "actually concerned about something" - well, then you two have something in common - you're both concerned about the same thing (or should be) -- YOU. Tell her to stop asking silly questions and plant a heavy kiss on her and then bang her til she's dick drunk and can hardly stand - that ought to make her quite comfortable.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:17 PM
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This is priceless - Her - "Cheer Up, Act Happy" -- Why? a) Because you're with me, you lucky man b) Because I want you to be cool with the idea of my eating your food, and sleeping at your place for free while having no intention to fuck you c) Because it will make me forget about how badly I have fucked up my life and having to face reality d) Because I am a psycho and people around me need to be that way too e) Any others.......?
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:12 PM
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That is some "tough love" that some of the boys are dishing out today - but the focus is accurate. Would you expect an ex worrying about YOU with another woman to have an effect on your actions? No, that would be stupid. Oneitis is a bitch to overcome but that's where you can get the most benefit - focus on getting past that and your scarcity mentality. good luck.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:05 PM
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I think you are correct. There are a lot more of "us" on here than many people realize and I think that TRP is as valid (if not more) for us than for the 19 - 28 year old guys. One thing we need to deal with is that we were brought up as generational understanding about relationships changed, so our earlier years were spent in "traditional" surroundings/teachings and our later years (through today) are spent with "modern" ideals. etc. It can definitely get confusing,
/r/askTRP27/05/17 02:52 PM
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Don't drink too much...some just to be socialable, but take it slow. Listen more than you talk - but be prepared for direct questions - "What are your plans for the future"? "where do you see yourself in 5 years, 10 years"? "What are your strengths"? They sound like job interview questions, but there is a crucial distinction - these men are getting to know you and looking for ways in which they can help you get to where you're going. If they ask if you have any questions - you can always ask - "…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 10:54 PM
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I call BS on OP -- this entire post is humblebrag.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 02:32 AM
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https://www.thefire.org/category/cases/due-process/ there's a lot going on at campuses all over the country where (male) students, grad assts, faculty, staff and others are all being denied due process b/c the Universities (and the Obama administration) take the attitude of "we believe the "victim"" - what the other guy said is really true - all it takes is an accusation. -don't be so hung up on one girl/woman - there are many many others. One other point - the faculty member who gave you the TA…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 07:12 PM
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I would suggest that you not do anything. If you are a TA, then I assume you are a grad student. If you get into any kind of an issue, you might forfeit your whole grad program. Most American universities are hypersensitive about anything that could even remotely be called sexual harassment or assault. I hate to piss on your parade, but it's potentially a bigger risk than you think - and to those who think I am overreacting - again, the chance of something bad happen may be low, BUT the conseque…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 05:50 PM
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You care about not caring, so by definition, you are NOT emotionless. What other guys have said about monk mode, etc - probably true.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:26 AM
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Yo Psychofucker, You're right - you only live once and if doing this sort of shit makes you happy then go for it. You're probably also right that it's not LIKELY that anything as serious as to what I pointed out might happen. All I was saying was that while the risk is relatively small of a complete jackpot, it's there and the damage is really large. So, do what you want, good luck and have fun. And don't call someone a pussy for responding to a question you asked.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:21 AM
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If you have depressive episodes, then get to a good (male) psychologist or counselor. That's what you're using this woman as, and in the long run, you will get better results and not risk any confusing feelings by seeing a male professional. At the very least - as the other guy said - no male friends or family?
/r/askTRP24/05/17 09:57 PM
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Good point - these states typically have higher sales tax - governments gotta get its money somehow. However studies have shown that individuals who live in these states are able to preserve a higher percentage of their income as compared to those who live in states/cities with income tax.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 07:33 PM
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Economically - there are 7 states with no income tax - Alaska, Florida, Nevada, S. Dakota, Texas, Washington and Wyoming. New Hampshire and Tennessee have no income tax either, but do tax interest and dividends (usually not a big concern for a younger guy). If you're trying to maximize your economic gains, those might be good places to consider looking. Most of them are "red" states and if you stay away from the major cities (in some cases even 25 miles can be a big difference) and the counties …
/r/askTRP24/05/17 06:19 PM
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Amen...like polished obsidian.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 11:21 PM
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So, you want to go to a support group for Borderline Personality Disorder b/c you think you can score some girls and "get even" with some of the guys. Again, this is a group for people who have BORDERLINE FUCKING PERSONALITY DISORDER. Is a (potential) roll in the hay worth the (highly probable) risk of - drama, false charges, getting your shit broken/burned/stolen, having your reputation smeared, having your family/friends potentially harrassed, being harassed at work - and that's just what the …
/r/askTRP23/05/17 07:22 PM
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You admitted to using the internet, but you didn't admit to how MUCH you used it. Unless there's clear evidence on the scope of your transgression, no reason to accept the full blame. Also, never forget what he has on the line - you aren't a bunch of kids in remedial math - you're in AP Stats which means you're part of the "bright kids" - and he's got pressure on HIM to make the school look good. High Schools pride themselves on having high participation in AP, and in those students doing dual c…
/r/askTRP23/05/17 03:08 AM
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Short answer - yes. You haven't mentioned a couple of things though - a) Did you make some kind of "extreme makeover" kind of change? Were you scrawny or fat? the more dramatic the change, the more dramatic the reaction b) It's very likely that you are giving off a stronger "vibe' now that you've honored your commitment to yourself through consistent lifting and personal development. I don't know, maybe they smell that in some pheremone kind of way? c) Just curious - how many days a week did you…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 10:57 PM
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There are tons of resources about becoming a better conversationalist - and you can find them on here and elsewhere. One idea comes to mind prominently though - Stop doing all of the work. Conversation is a 2 way street - you aren't there to fucking entertain her. Maybe you should think about how you can stop talking to boring women? Good Luck.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 10:53 PM
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I think that those are all pretty much the same - 1) have fun, fuck, enjoy breakfast, get on with your life 2) have fun, don't fuck, enjoy breakfast, get on with your life 3) have fun, fuck, make your own breakfast, get on with your life 4) have fun, don't fuck, make your own breakfast, get on with your life Notice the common themes here - a) You are focused on your own shit and doing what you want b) You have fun no matter what happens c) You don't spend any energy figuring out/dealing with/or …
/r/askTRP22/05/17 10:02 PM
12

Let me get this straight - You are considering rewarding bad behavior by giving her what she wants? Ok, but I would expect to see more of that, once her brain associates that she can get comfort from you if she throws enough crap at you and then has a tantrum. My two cents -if it's helpful, great. If it's not - feel free to disregard. Good Luck.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:42 PM
10

Every orchard will ultimately be fully harvested. You've had a good run and whatever reason she has for changing it - that's on her. I agree with the other guys - don't invest time into hanging with her unless you have a high (over .80) probability of getting her alone that night. She knows what she's doing by not giving you sex anymore and arranging circumstances this way. You don't need to call attention to it. Simply know your rules and live by them. Also, be prepared for some shit tests when…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:31 PM
1

Not sure what you mean by adventure..do you want to run away and join Captain Jack Sparrow's crew or something? If you want a career - then seek out the best opportunity you can find. If you want the higher probability chance to be financially successful - then sales, definitely. Just make sure that you're selling a product that's higher value (definitely B2B) and working for a company with a good commission structure. (and good sales managers that are there to help the sales team, not fuck them…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:20 PM
3

Driving her to work? What did she do before she met you - get carried to work on a could pulled by rainbow unicorns and accompanied by a choir of little fat cupids singing a song of praise to her sacred mons pubis? focus on yourself - don't let anyone derail that. I am likely (much) older than you and can tell you with complete certainty - you will look back on it and thank yourself if you do and regret it if you don't. Do what other people will not do now so that you can do what other people ca…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:30 PM
2

This is some serious shit. And I get the point that it's tearing you up inside - that is really hard. At this point, you are a man in quicksand. You're in a frightening situation and struggling against it is very likely to make it worse. You can't/shouldn't fix this woman and all of her problems. They happened before you came on the scene and they will be there afterwards. Focus on the things that you can do to protect yourself - don't let this mistake ruin your life - you're really young but yo…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:18 PM
2

Your frustration is coming through at jet engine decibel levels and I understand it completely. But, all due respect, I think that is exactly what is fucking with your mind and tormenting you. You believe you've done the right things (which it appears you have) and therefore you "deserve" the hotties (which by logic you do). Maybe it's a shift of focus to "the hotties DESERVE you" as in TRP teachings about YOU being the prize. FINAL IMPORTANT POINT - DO NOT JUICE. You are already pissed off and …
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:00 PM
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Well, is it something you need to work on "accepting", or is it something you need to work on "being ok with walking away from"? That was my reaction to your reply. I am FAR from being able to dispense advice on here as I am really busy trying to prevent myself from making any MORE dumb mistakes than I already have - however, consider the following question - Precisely same situation, except this time it's a good buddy of yours who is relaying this fact pattern to you. What do you tell him to do…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 02:46 PM
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thanks.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:42 AM
3

Those are great points , starting to get your' evidence together now - in any litigation, the better prepared side usually comes out on top - there are firms that specialize in representing men in divorce actions - not sure where you are but in the Southern US - there's a firm Cordell and Cordell which specializes in that - get with a firm like that and let them tell you precisely what you need to do, to be "bulletproof" - and, if possible, try to maintain appearances in your current situation -…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 10:36 PM
3

I echo what the other guys have said - and would add this - the whole "attracted to the students thing" really stood out for me. You say that she's younger looking AND that she is a paraprofessional (not a teacher) at an "alternative school for troubled urban high school kids" - That's some potentially volatile shit right there - she looks young; she's a para (which means she has flexibility in her schedule and interacts with kids who need more help) and these kids are "troubled". Some 17/18 y.o…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:42 PM
1

Fucking Priceless...simply priceless.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:28 PM
1

Do not talk about this with anyone. There is a reason why the "Miranda Warning" is delivered by police when speaking to a person of interest - (You have the right to remain silent and anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law). Most law enforcement officers will tell you that people constantly talk their way into deeper and deeper shit. If anyone asks you about it just say " not sure what you mean, not going to dignify rumors", or change the subject. If things can calm …
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:10 PM
17

First things first - he needs a good attorney..NOW A solid one will advise him about taking the necessary steps. Another angle - he's got a child with this woman, so he can fight her for custody -doesn't need to lose his son in all of this shit. As to the other two children, lawyer would know better, but I would think that documenting how he expects their Dad to support them (and he hasn't) might again put a dent in what she's expecting to recover from him. I can't locate the link - but there is…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:00 PM
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♂ Doesn't that conflict with the idea of "just moving on" and "radio silence" (nexting?). I am not sure about being part of this generation of pussies - b/c I am older than many on here Hoping that this old dog can learn a few tricks and make up for past mistakes
/r/askTRP21/05/17 06:45 PM
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♂ Thanks BPasFuck Great points. #7 would actually be pretty funny, if I weren't reading it about my own situation. Some of this stuff is difficult to read but it's what I need to see/think about.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 06:30 PM
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♂ Thanks for the reply. What are the red flags that you're seeing and are they typically "terminal" ?
/r/askTRP21/05/17 04:33 PM
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I hear you and even said I was reluctant to deal with her b/c she does that - her reply was that it was the best way to make money in fewest hours, while she finishes school. Also, she's got 2 kids and babydaddy is shy on the cs payments. Finally - she sent me pic of her hand showing fake wedding ring she wears at work, and claims that it wards off most guys and the ones that are persistent, she just tells them that she's happily married, or if customer gets too pushy - she says she calls bounce…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 03:52 PM
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♂ The "she's fucking dudes left and right" comment - you basing that on the job (as in majority of women who work in clubs will bang customers who look good/smell good/have bucks - insert other tingle inducing attribute - OR basing it on the she's just generally unreliable - fades in and out of picture?
/r/askTRP21/05/17 03:46 PM
2

If you're really into your hobby, then just give a generic description of your job - I work in XX field. My main thing though is YY and then talk about your hobby. OR, Just describe your hobby - after all, the question is what you DO, not what's your profession. Besides, it's not a damn job interview or providing info for a loan.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 03:28 PM
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