Ok, in short order, i'm pushing 40. I have 4 plates, 1 of whom is my favourite. 20 years old. She was a virgin before we slept together. I am her only since then. She had a roommate for a little while who recently moved out. The roommate was giving me many signs that she was open for business. I did not act on them at the time because I didn't want to disrupt things with my primary. It would have been way to stickky with them living together. The roommate moved out inexplicably. Now I would like to make a move on her. I was going to start by adding her on Facebook or whatever. I am unsure about how much contact she is having with my primary. I still would prefer not to disrupt things with her as i genuinely like her, however she is still a woman.

Is it worth the risk? I suppose worst case scenario i lose both girls. Should I put this new girl out of my mind and be happy where I am?

I am average at best in my own estimation. Anyhoo. Thanks Guys.