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5-8 reps aren't ideal for hypertrophy. 12-15 are.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 04:42 PM
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Thanks bro. I just need to chill out.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:53 AM
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You said it yourself, you moved on. It's obvious that you should ignore her. She hasn't even contacted you so this is all your hamster spinning.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 07:51 PM
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WTF are you talking about
/r/askTRP09/06/17 07:28 PM
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Yeah, I know I fucked up a lot. I don't have my shit together right now when it comes to relationships, and like vandaalen said below I guess I am taking the easy way out in some ways. I guess for the past month or so I've been trying to go monk-mode while still getting consistently laid and it's not working out so great.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 09:07 PM
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I actually did read the entire sidebar, read The Rational Male, hooked up with 5 chicks and got bored of that lifestyle. Some people don't want to just fuck with no emotion dude. I can do that if I want but it's just not for me.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 09:02 PM
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I honestly took the RP stuff too far with her at the beginning. The second time we met up we hadn't had sex yet, and I was with another girl and ended up making out with that girl in-front of her (St. Paddy's Day: I was drunk and didn't do it on purpose). She freaked out. Then about a month into us seeing each other she asked me if I had been with any other girls lately and I told her yes because we weren't exclusive. She freaked out. Then I was a complete dumbass and sort of hit on her best-fri…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 08:56 PM
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If having a conversation scares you then you're going to have trouble even if you get her number. You can just ask for her number but unless you're super good looking, your success rate is going to be a lot lower than if you talk with her and build rapport. One thing you need to keep in mind is girls are just people. They're basically like you and equally as nervous about approaching, which is why they never do it. By approaching them you're standing above 95% of guys already. Just treat them li…
/r/seduction31/05/17 11:11 PM
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Work out so you gain some confidence. The rest is just pulling yourself up by the bootstraps, walking up to girls and saying "hi". I've been approaching girls for a long time and I still get nervous. You just need to have a "fuck it" attitude and be willing to get rejected.
/r/seduction31/05/17 09:08 PM
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Why would you skip creatine for years? It's cheap, widely studied and it works. It's only going to help you get 1 or 2 more reps but compound that over years and you'll have a noticeable advantage over the guy who's not using it.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 09:02 PM
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Not worth losing the 20 year old. I've tried something similar before and it blew up in my face. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:56 PM
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We've all been on a date like that. Don't get angry about it, or think that you're ugly/too skinny/whatever. Just treat it as a learning experience and do things differently next time. Sit next to her, take her somewhere that you've picked out, touch her, be cocky, don't apologize or act submissive, maintain eye contact and be sexual. There are plenty of other women.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 08:03 PM
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You're odd.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 07:47 PM
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So you admit you don't get laid.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 07:34 PM
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Practice makes perfect. Start off small with things like handshakes, high-fives and touches on the arm or shoulder. Gradually if she's into you she'll start bumping into you while you're out on a walk or she'll put her hand on your arm. At that point you can put your arm around her waist or on her shoulder, then if she's receptive to that you can try to kiss her. Just go for it man. Being a virgin at 20 years old isn't a big deal at all so don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:55 PM
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For lifting - Protein & Creatine For general health - Daily multivitamin & Omega 3 Fish Oil
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:50 PM
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I seriously doubt you even get laid.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:49 PM
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Seriously. You would have to either be a complete idiot or a sociopath to do something like that.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:48 PM
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Not sure what I just read... The last two paragraphs are hard to understand dude.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:46 PM
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When I started reading this I thought I must have got drunk last night and forgot that I wrote it. Same situation here - divorce at 2, visitation with my dad, then he cut off contact. I'm slightly older than you but not by much. I honestly don't think you can "deal with it" and you never will be able to. You just have to move on and recognize that people are going to act how they want to act and you're not always going to be a priority for them. My dad literally took me out to eat when I was 10 …
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:23 PM
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From the sidebar - https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3m45p7/what_is_and_is_not_plate_spinning/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3zd6q3/the_bitch_management_hierarchy_study_guide/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2kg7zc/spinning_plates_the_care_and_maintenance_of_your/
/r/askTRP31/05/17 03:46 PM
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This is just the start. She's going to demand monogomy soon. Don't tell her when you've been with other girls. She doesn't want to know, even though she says she does.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 04:26 PM
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I have a sleeve. No issues whatsoever. If you don't take care of it during the healing process it can get infected but if you're semi-intelligent that will never be an issue.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 04:24 PM
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Some of them are fucked up, sure, but some girls just like getting tattoos.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 04:22 PM
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That's shitty of her. Just do what you wrote there... lift, be social, work on yourself and keep talking to women. You'll get over it quick man.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 04:21 PM
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I hated the side effects, like ED and low sex drive. My doctor put me on them as a teenager and I got insane night sweats that would wake me up every night. IMO if you have really bad depression or anxiety then maybe they'll help you, but I personally found more benefits from daily exercise. But if they help you then that's great man.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 04:18 PM
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She's just saying that to try to make you jealous. Young girls do that... it's a way of lashing out. Your reply was perfect. Don't acknowledge stuff like that. She's not going to actually do it, she just wants you so bad that she was trying everything she could think of to get you to come over. You like her and she likes you. There's nothing wrong with having a relationship dude. If you want her to be your girlfriend then just keep hanging out with her.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 04:14 PM
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6'3'' here. I was 270lbs two years ago and today I'm sitting at 200. I'm a completely different person. I'm more outgoing, talking to women is a cakewalk, I get laid consistently whereas before I hadn't been with a woman for 4+ years, I feel incredibly good and medical issues I had before have vanished. One of the funny things was that my OKC profile went from around 2 likes to now where I have 65. I didn't change anything but my pictures. With that said, don't do it for women, do it for yoursel…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 01:12 PM
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I've got the haircut and clothes down... I make edm music too but I've always been too self-conscious to share my music. DJing would be cool. And I'm leaving the state tomorrow for a wedding, so that'll give me some time. Thanks dude.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 01:30 AM
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She's cheating on you and you still want to be with her? Have some self-respect man. I get wanting to stay with her, but you need to realize there are tons of other women out there and she's disrespecting you.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 09:51 PM
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What would you say your SMV is? I'm fairly decent looking and I lift a lot so I have a better than average body. Work in advertising and I don't tell girls how much I make but it's not a lot for where I live. The main thing that hurts me is I don't have a vehicle because I live 5 minutes walk from my work and it would be pointless to own one. I can pull 8's and 9's and I've done that recently but I can tell not having a vehicle makes them think less of me. I just don't see the point in paying fo…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:59 PM
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Lmao. You're ruthless huh. I don't feel dumb for sending the text the next day because it was an inside joke but I got the vibes like she thought I was just going to use her for sex since I made out with her an hour into our hangout. I do feel stupid for sending that 2nd text. I'm just gunna leave until and if she texts me first. You already know where you goofed, which is good. Next time wait 2-3 days after seeing her to text her, then only text to set up a date. It's not a big deal man. Girls …
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:47 PM
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I agree. She kept telling me how stupid she felt that I hit on her friend. It's like she thinks it's about her when really I just can't help but try to make a move on girls I'm attracted to. It's a problem with myself I need to change.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:40 PM
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Ehh, I'm not that successful on there. Only met a few girls. I have more success at bars.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:23 PM
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Yes. 6'3''
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:19 PM
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It was a situation where she was just a fwb in my mind, then she asked for exclusivity and I told her no, then I started treating her like a girlfriend. So I was at her place and without telling me she invited the friends over. I told her I didn't want to hang out with her friends, but I guess this was her way of pushing the relationship towards something more serious.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:06 PM
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The thing is we're not (weren't?) officially exclusive. But the fact that it was her friend and at her apartment is the fuck up here. I'm just in disbelief that I would do something like that.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:00 PM
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Yeah I've realized I need to get my drinking under control because it makes me way too carefree, which is good in some situations but absolutely horrible in others. I guess this is a good lesson to learn... I'm 25 and I'm way too old to be doing shit like this still.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 07:58 PM
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Online dating has worked for me...
/r/askTRP25/05/17 07:55 PM
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Yeah, you're probably right.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 07:52 PM
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she is in a different city and that, along with the fact I have a kid with my ex-wife, are the main reasons she cited for not wanting to continue Sounds like she already told you why she's not interested.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 12:24 PM
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That's why I always get a confirmation "damn that was fun" text. Protects you from bullshit SJW "rape" claims.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 04:09 AM
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Can't really blame them. I've been there too. Once you get with a few girls and ask them about their sexual history shit gets a whole lot clearer. I was with this girl recently who told me she's only been with 3 guys and her last boyfriend only fucked her twice in six months. It's sad as fuck. I fucked her 4 times that night lol.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:33 AM
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Like red said, you're still thinking about your last girl. You need to get over that. The quickest way is to go out with other girls and have fun. You deserve it brother.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:29 AM
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Women aren't always down to get intimate right away. You need to stop worrying about making her uncomfortable and give her time to warm up to you. If you really make her uncomfortable she'll let you know. Otherwise just take it easy, don't be too eager and enjoy the moment. Like I said, go on a second date, maybe even invite her over for dinner and drinks and skip the restaurant/bar, then take a fucking half hour to let her warm up. She might just need a little time to accept that she wants to o…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:26 AM
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But my emotions/ feeling have become almost non-existent and today sorta "drew the line" : Found out that my grandmother got admitted to the hospital due to having a heart attack last week. She won't be home until Saturday.. . and I don't even care. The fucked up thing is that right after the call, I chuckled and went "guess I'll have the house to myself for the next few days". Listen dude... some people on here think emotions are a sign of weakness. That's simply not the case. That woman is you…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:20 AM
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After one drink she went back to your place. She let you give her a massage. Dude... She's into you.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:12 AM
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After about 1 to 2 minute of massaging her back, she says that she's okay now. I took it as a sign that she wasn't interested in anything physical so I didn't make a move after this. That was your mistake right there. Just because she didn't let you escalate right away doesn't mean she wasn't going to let you in 10 minutes. The strategy is to escalate, then if she isn't into it wait about 10 minutes and try again, if she isn't into it then wait another 10. If at that point she isn't into it then…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:05 AM
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See a doctor. You sound like you might have something off with your hormones.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 08:26 PM
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I swear the people on this sub are retarded sometimes. Half of them want a virgin who's great in bed, cooks, cleans, doesn't talk to other guys EVER, has a good job, a loving family, big tits and a tight ass. Women like that basically don't exist. And when it comes to sex, like you said, if they've been with one guy then chances are they'll either suck in bed or turn out to be a weirdo you don't want to be around. I'd much rather be with a girl who's been with 5 guys than one who's a virgin, sim…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 07:37 PM
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You should go to a doctor and talk to them about jaw surgery. They can fix that - one of my friends was extremely self conscious about his underbite and ended up getting it altered. Completely changed his life.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 07:11 PM
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8 isn't even that much for a girl her age. Most girls could do that in one month if they wanted to... I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 07:09 PM
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Are you kidding me? Your life hasn't even begun.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 07:06 PM
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Alaska - with the bears. Serious answer - why do you give a shit? People are going to disagree with you wherever you go. I'm from the Twin Cities and yeah, there are a lot of stuck up people in some areas but the same goes for most major cities.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 06:39 PM
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There is no such thing. Go out and work on a hobby, workout, talk to women, make friends, play a sport. Movies and shows are good to help you relax now and then but you learn the most by going out in the world and experiencing new things.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 04:29 PM
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You're one month into lifting? Continue lifting and cut down to 175ish. Then go on a slow bulk up to around 195. It takes a looooooong time to get close to the body you want, man. We're talking at least a year of consistent lifting 3x a week.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 03:13 PM
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I'm not the best guy to ask - I do online marketing/advertising. I was in landscaping for a while though so I had a lot of friends who were plumbers and electricians. My brother has been welding for around 15 years and he makes shit, works in horribly hot conditions, and hates his job. Pay for welders is pretty bad in some areas of the US... you'll be lucky to make $15 an hour. My electrician buddies seem to make the most, but plumbing can be lucrative if you get with the right company or have y…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 02:39 PM
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If you want colombian women, come down here to Florida. If you want mexicans go to SoCal. But really you should come to Florida - the women are gorgeous, the rent is insanely high, but the weather is nice year round. Overall you shouldn't make decision about your career based off what type of women you're attracted to.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 01:49 PM
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You write like an aspiring primatologist and it's a bit creepy. This is asktrp and you have no question. Good on you for discovering the no-fap=higher sex drive secret, but that's pretty common knowledge 'round these parts.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 02:46 AM
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Protein causes back acne for me too, but good luck getting 1g/pound of lean mass from foods. Use a bodywash with salicylic acid such as neutrogina body clear. Use it at least once a day and your back will get a lot clearer in about a week. Shower right when you get done working out and wash your bed sheets once a week.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 02:41 AM
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How do I tell her I am not interested in marriage but I still would want kids with her as I do not have a heir? First off, lol at the "I do not have a heir". That's just an odd way of speaking but I get what you mean. If you don't want to get married then don't do it. If she can't accept that then she's not worth keeping around. How to go about reasserting control over my social media, phone, and leisure activities and if this is even worth it? Social media should only be used for occassional co…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 02:37 AM
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She's being submissive and playful. It's a good sign in my opinion. My girlfriend says stuff like this and I just say "good girl. talk to you soon".
/r/askTRP24/05/17 02:26 AM
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Don't let the actions of one woman influence your thoughts towards all of them. She pulled some messed up stuff while drunk. That's not cool at all and if you want to keep seeing her then you need to address it with her. Keep your emotions in check and tell her that's not acceptable. If she freaks out over it then ignore her and leave/tell her to leave if she's at your place. If she's a decent person she'll realize that was fucked up and apologize. If she doesn't then you need to be prepared to …
/r/askTRP24/05/17 02:23 AM
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Sounds like she was joking around, bro. I don't see why that would make you upset...
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:59 PM
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TL;DR: It's important to have a life. What's you're point? I have a girlfriend and it has nothing to do with some transsexual blogger on youtube. Other guys don't have girlfriends and it has nothing to do with this Riley dude either. Seems like you posted this just to incite an argument.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 09:57 PM
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Yep alcoholism is a bitch... I'm mainly past those days though.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:50 PM
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Basically. Once you have ~24 beers a day for a solid 7 days alcohol withdrawals get pretty nuts.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:45 PM
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If you ever want to experience anxiety for real, heavily binge drink for about a week straight then stop completely and wait about 6-10 hours. You'll genuinely believe you're going to die, start having crazy thoughts, sweat like crazy and feel like you're having a heart attack. A lot of people do tend to over-exaggerate stuff like anxiety and depression but when you experience it and then take an anxiety med it's very obvious that they're necessary for some people.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:40 PM
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I go to the gym for at least an hour then come home, listen to some pump-up music (whatever gets your energy up), take a shower then put on some nice clothes + cologne. Have 2 drinks and I feel on top of the world.
/r/seduction19/05/17 07:39 PM
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It's not a big deal at all bro. I was with 4 chicks in the past couple months and I couldn't finish the first time with 3 of them - it was from booze. So the next time I was with them I took it easy and had water in-between drinks. Just try to recognize the problem and don't do it the next time.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 01:09 PM
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some of the stuff taught here is a bit clinical almost sociopathic when it comes to girls and I might have taken the advice to far. Nothing is really "taught" here - it's recommended. This is a discussion board, not a guide to life. Ignore the dudes who take this shit as gospel and live your life according to your own values. The stuff on here can be helpful but a lot of it is bullshit. Personally I hooked up with 4 girls after I started reading this board, then I felt like the whole "spinning p…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 07:38 PM
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"LOL - gay"
/r/askTRP17/05/17 07:34 PM
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She isn't your girlfriend, so what does it matter? If your FWB gets mad about it or asks you about it, tell her you're not exclusive so she doesn't have a right to be upset with you. The other girl is probably a lost cause but you might be surprised... she could pursue you more now that she knows you're with another woman.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:29 PM
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This is bullshit and just in your head.
/r/seduction16/05/17 07:56 PM
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I'm not sure what I can say. This community helped me a lot. While I may not buy into all of your philosophy and whatnot, the people and advice I got from you all helped a lot. Support was being received for months after that huge post. That's awesome, man. This kind of stuff is very inspiring - glad to hear that things are looking up!
/r/askTRP16/05/17 01:26 PM
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I was with an overweight chick for a while (not obese, but she had a good 30lbs or so extra). She had a genuinely awesome personality - huge basketball fan, very nice and funny. I hadn't really dated anyone for years. We had sex about 5 times and then I just couldn't do it anymore... I realized I wasn't attracted to her and I didn't want to lead her on. Told her I wasn't feeling it and we should stop seeing each other. That's just one example. My brother was dating a girl in decent shape - not b…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 06:57 PM
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"How much do you make?" "enough"
/r/askTRP12/05/17 06:44 PM
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Have some drinks on the weekend or whatever. You can lift and still enjoy alcohol/drunk chicks. Drink whiskey & diet coke or shit like vodka w/sugar free redbull. It's way less calories so it won't fuck up your diet for the week.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:19 PM
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If you need to deal drugs and be drunk every night to get girls then you got issues dude. Just sayin'. Step your game up.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:11 PM
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You're calling me a nerd and your username is about kpop. Let that sink in.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 08:08 PM
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Some girls, especially 18-20 year olds, would rather hang out with a guy who's getting drunk and smoking them up than hang with a guy who's focused on getting in great shape and advancing his education/career. Just do what's best for you. Girls come and go.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 07:35 PM
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Lmao - we got a tough guy over here.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 07:24 PM
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Or worse I could be accused of rape, which is something I hear does happen. Quit worrying about that. If she's the one initiating then she's into you. Girls don't just grind on random dudes at the club unless they're attracted to you. It really depends on the job but if this your steady job then you did the right thing by not hooking up with her.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 07:06 PM
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"I'm going to (place) at (time). You should come." If she says anything other than yes, like "Maybe" just say "Ok, let me know tomorrow" and stop texting her.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 07:05 PM
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I don't see how fucking her is being a white knight - I'm not trying to save her from her shitty ex. I don't even acknowledge it when she tries to bring the subject up... as far as I'm concerned it's none of my business.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:49 PM
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I have other options. I didn't say she was the only girl I'm seeing... she just happens to be the best in bed. If she was shit I would have ditched her months ago.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:46 PM
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My thoughts exactly.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 05:35 PM
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Seeing a ton of girls at a time is a fucking pain in the ass dude. I settled on 3 because with my schedule it's hard enough making time for them as it is. I just can't do it working a full time job, going to the gym 4 nights a week and maintaining a social life. If one drops off I have other girls I'm talking to... so you thinking that having one extra girl is the difference between having abundance or not having it is pretty ridiculous imo. She's a cool chick and every one of them comes with th…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 05:33 PM
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The sex is really good. Plus she buys me shit and cooks for me.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:42 PM
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Thanks brother
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:15 PM
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Pros - Faster gains, better looks, higher attractiveness to the opposite sex and improved health & self-discipline Cons - less free time to use socializing, stricter diet, potential injuries There are more but those are the basics. I don't think you need to be in the gym 6 days a week to see noticeable gains. In fact, I would say 4 days a week of intense training is much healthier for your life overall. There needs to be a balance, and hanging out with people, being social and having a drink if …
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:11 PM
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I'm looking for input. Advice is something you take into consideration and use to make your own decisions.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:08 PM
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That's what gets me about this sub. I don't think these guys who tell you to hard next every girl at the slightest shit-test are getting laid. ALL GIRLS do this shit. You're never going to be with a girl who sucks your dick on command and does everything you tell her to without her testing you in any way. They just don't exist.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 01:59 PM
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I told a chick I loved her after she told me. I don't really love her but it seemed like the logical answer when she kept saying "You don't love me?" over and over. I just wanted her to shut up about it so I said it. Would you backtrack in that situation or just stop saying it?
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:55 PM
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Lmao he hasn't chased me off anything. I would rather avoid an unstable dude who has threatened suicide, yeah. I guess I'm a pussy.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:42 PM
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You should dump the girl but not for the reason you think- you are a pussy and this guy's crazy routine (and that's all this is) is successfully scaring away a more cowardly man. I'm a pussy for wanting to avoid a guy who's obviously unstable? Whatever dude. I have my own shit to think about - career, etc. I'm not about to put myself in a situation that could jeapordize that over a plate. People who try to play the tough guy are egotistical dumbasses.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:11 PM
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Go with your gut man. It's hard to say without knowing what she sent...
/r/askTRP11/05/17 05:04 AM
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Ignore it and carry on the conversation, or A&A.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 04:59 AM
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Girls send boring texts. At least she's showing interest. I would leave it until tomorrow then respond with something equally as uninterested. I'll sometimes just send a single word, or Lol. Then wait for her to text you again.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 04:53 AM
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Well the difference here is they've been broken up for almost 5 months. The way I see it, it's not my problem if the dude can't find another girl, and she's told me he was a complete mess - pissing himself and throwing up on the floor because he'd get so drunk. The dude seems to have issues. My only concern is that he'll do something crazy like try to fight me if he catches us together. I really don't know much about the guy because I avoid the subject when I'm with her.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 04:23 AM
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That's exactly what I was planning to do. I have no reason to quit fucking her really... she's good in bed and I enjoy spending time with her. I guess I'll just ignore it.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:53 AM
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Plate - she's constantly trying to turn it into a LTR but I've shut that idea down twice... I even told her I fucked another girl while she was out of town - she got pissed (understandably) then we fucked the next day 6 times. No way I would ever consider a LTR with her though.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:40 AM
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Yep, like Brinkley said, quit texting her. Wait for her to hit you up then set up another time to get together. Go out to the bar again and see if she wants to head back to your place or hers afterwards.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:38 AM
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I usually wouldn't care. It's just with her telling me about the dude being suicidal, and that he was/is a raging alcoholic it's not exactly the "normal" ex situation. Plus the dude got in her building and was at the door while I was in bed with her... that's a little too close for comfort for me.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:28 AM
0

I'm seeing two other girls so I'm not attached to her, but she fucks good. Still, it's a fucked up situation.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:24 AM
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No reason to pump n' dump. Treat her as a booty call when you get bored. Have fun. Why throw away a FWB?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 10:28 PM
1

I'm no better than anyone else, and I think OP has a great attitude. Not sure how you got the idea that I get no pleasure in what I do judging from my comments. I just think the posts on here have sunk a bit into the "tell" spectrum almost like diary entries, other than the "show" and I don't think these types of posts are particularly helpful. It's fine to disagree, bro.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 10:17 PM
2

That would have been a lot more interesting at least. I also struggle with meditation via breathing. The purest form of meditation I've ever experienced came from looking for agates on streambeds, riverbanks and the shores of lakes. Back in college I would occasionally go to this stream out in the middle of nowhere in Wisconsin and stand in the ankle-deep water looking for them for hours. Another great activity is fishing, like you mentioned. I feel a lot more benefits from calming activities li…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 10:02 PM
2

it's a good story and it's exactly the kind of mentality you're supposed to have with it. Like I said, I'm happy for OP improving his life. But how is this mentality anything special? You go to the gym and lift. You're not going to see results instantly. This is obvious stuff.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:31 PM
2

His post was essentially: I went to the gym and gave up multiple times. One day I went and didn't give up You won't see changes from lifting for a while so stick with it. The story is great and all, but this doesn't provide any value unless you're a completely weak-minded individual with no self-discipline or common sense.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:26 PM
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I hate to be negative, but I swear this entire sub is turning to shit. First off, congrats man - I'm glad to hear you're getting healthier and it's having a positive impact on your life. With that said, this post and others like it (that are becoming more and more frequent) are turning TRP into the sub you go to when you want to read wannabe self-help gurus talk about their minor successes like they've made some world-altering breakthrough. Yes, you need to go to the gym consistently to see resu…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 08:32 PM
3

Workout your abs every time you go to the gym. Rotate these workouts each day. Workout A is going to hit your upper and lower abs the most but it's also important to develop your obliques if you really want your abs to pop - (Workout B). Workout A: Cable Crunches 4x15 - pay very close attention to your form with these Hanging Leg Raises 4x15 Workout B Dumbbell Side Bends 4x15 Cable Wood Chops 4x15 When that becomes too easy, up the weight or increase to 5x15. Other than that, you need to lower y…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 08:16 PM
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That's normal. Most chicks don't suck dick like pornstars. Well... fat chicks do but you don't want those girls beyond a drunken ONS. Quit masturbating and watching porn. If you do, limit it to once a week or once every other week. Personally I don't masturbate at all because I feel like it drains my sex drive.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:47 AM
13

Nerves are always an issue for me the first time. I rarely finish from penetration because I'm usually a few drinks deep with new girls. The 2nd time is a different story though... no problems there. One thing you can do is use some ultra thin condoms (I use Durex but some chicks don't like it because of the "lube" they coat it with). Other than that, if you can't perform well due to alcohol or something else just give them some good oral then tell them to return the favor. Put your fingers in a…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:42 AM
4

This is why people avoid TRP.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:00 AM
6

Dude, they're masters of the mind. Don't question it. Just put your fedora on and contribute to the collective knowledge for 1-2 minutes a day. Why don't you see the value in this, you dumb ma'fucka?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 02:59 AM
39

Congrats man, but... what's your question? This is asktrp.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 02:55 AM
23

Your Facebook account doesn't have to be filled with literally everyone you have met once or barely know. Better yet, delete your facebook account.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 09:29 PM
14

If you're judging this sub by posts like this then yeah, it's pathetic. Most of the shit people are posting on here recently is completely idiotic. You're better off going to the top posts of all time and reading those from the top down.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 08:51 PM
3

Don't go actively testing girls. You see how they act and if it's not what you're looking for you quit seeing them. Women don't consciously try to test you, it's just something they naturally do.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 11:01 PM
2

If I invite a girl out then I'll pay. Hell, if I feel like paying for an entire meal or drinks then I will. I don't think it's necessary to make a big deal over it every time you do something, but there should be a back and forth and imo she needs to show a desire to pay now and then if I'm going to keep going out with her. It's like if you were out with your best guy friend and he expected you to pay for his meals and shit all the time - it wouldn't fly. But in my case I will buy my buddies a b…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 08:06 PM
1

I live in Miami too. Believe me dude you don't want those girls for anything more than one night. Most of them are super stuck up and a pain in the ass. Don't waste your money trying to impress them.
/r/seduction08/05/17 04:35 PM
4

I've been that guy too. Not a grand, but a few hundred bucks on "dates" only to get the Let's Just Be Friends line. Now if I'm with a girl we trade off paying.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 02:39 PM
2

You're fine. She'll be mad for a while and there was no reason to tell her that but she'll get over it.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:42 PM
16

Poor guy. He'll spend a grand on her before she finally caves and has some lame-ass sex with him. I think most of us could have been that guy so I feel some pity for him. The main takeaway from this is never be him. On another note, just because she says she's bi it doesn't mean you're automatically getting a threesome. You gotta frame that shit in the right way. Find a random girl at a bar when you're with her, have her pick the chick up and have fun. Go to another bar, then bring the new girl …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:20 AM
1

Thanks brother
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:12 AM
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25 here. I'm worried about money... constantly. I could give a shit about girls... I do ok in that department. It's just long term security that worries me. I have no retirement savings, about 7k to my name and very little possessions. It's terrifying.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:42 AM
6

This probably isn't normal, but in my case I told the girl (who was much older than me) that I was a virgin and it turned her on. After we were done she didn't believe me, and honestly most guys are so fucking lame in bed that if you put some effort in you'll get the same reaction. Go down on her, take your time and use your hips. Overall I would just recommend you to stop viewing it as a big deal. It really isn't. If you get questions like the ones you mentioned in your post you should just def…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:34 AM
1

Don't mention it brother
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:29 AM
1

Lookup Francoman's Dumbell Only workout in r/fitness. You won't get huge but you can get ripped. I've been doing a modified version of it for about 3 months and it's been great
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:13 PM
1

Eat less. Work out.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:11 PM
1

Great post bro. Applying this to women, the one thing that I struggled with for a long time, like most guys, wasn't actual rejection. It was the FEAR of rejection. I felt like IF I was rejected by a girl it would mean that I wasn't good enough. I wasn't a real man. I didn't deserve to hold her damn hand let alone kiss her or have sex with her. So I completely avoided approaching girls. I had crushes on girls in college that never amounted to anything because I never even had the balls to walk up…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 09:25 PM
1

Let's compromise. A squirt-gun filled with chloroform will work.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 07:08 PM
9

Don't try to see her more than once every 8 days or so. That's right. 8 days. Why? Because once you start reserving a day for her, that is getting close to special treatment, and also it makes it easier for you to have some weekend nights free to game. That's the most important point. You don't want to give off a desperate vibe. It helps if you're genuinely not desperate (aka you have other girls you're seeing). I've gone a month and a half between hooking up with a girl and seeing her a 2nd tim…
/r/seduction05/05/17 04:49 PM
4

Also, it's a good idea to have a gun on you in case there are any raccoons in the bush.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:50 PM
3

Don't worry about it bro. Just go read the sidebar because if you don't then a lot of stuff on here won't make sense and people will keep telling you to read it. Once you're done with it, go and read the top posts of all time. Then come back to the main board and discuss.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 02:41 PM
1

I'll just ignore it... I've got other options so even if she is fucking him it's not a huge deal. I just don't want to catch a STD or something.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:35 PM
1

Yeah, I'm a little too invested in her. I am seeing two other girls but I see her the most. Idk why I care about that shit still... I'm pretty new to TRP (only like 2 months into it) and I'm still digesting a lot of the material and working on fully applying it to my life. I guess it's just my old inner beta rearing its head.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:31 PM
2

That little weasel is gonna try to fuck her, I guarantee you that. It might not be this month, it might not be next month, but somewhere down the line he's gonna try it. Imo you're doing the right thing by telling her to go have fun. If she wants to cheat she will. If/when you find out about it, don't feel an ounce of pity as you dump her ass. In the meantime, try to line up some backup chicks whenever you're out. Plan a "friendly" outing or two with a female friend. Flirt with girls in front of…
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:28 PM
13

Step 1: At a club or bar having fun with a girl Step 2: Tell her "come with me for a second" and take her hand. Bring her outside away from her friends (they're pretty much never alone but if they are this will work even better). If she's hesitant, tell her "I can't hear you, come with me for a second." Step 3: Go outside, bring her to a spot that's a little secluded and say "hold on". Step 4: Kiss her once. Pull away. Go back in for a 5 second kiss. Step 5: Push her up against a wall. Make out …
/r/askTRP05/05/17 03:03 AM
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OP is still in the process of learning... I can empathize with him. He's likely very inexperienced when it comes to relationships so it's understandable that he thinks the public interactions that these "Disney" couples have is how they always act. The truth is that most, if not all couples have an insane amount of drama they've been through but you would never know it by talking to them in a public setting. Get the guy drunk and away from his girl and he'll tell you about some of the fucked up …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 12:11 AM
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I prefer to book dates right next to my apartment, then if she flakes I just go to the club that's a block away and pick up girls.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 06:47 PM
5

Fuck no I flaunt that shit like a peacock. I'm trying to bang women, so why would I conceal my veiny arms or my gigantic dick? I generally arrive to the club in my Lambo then step out shirtless in crotchless chaps with a sign around my neck that has an arrow pointing down and the words "BIG DICK SWANGIN' YOU WANT A TASTE?" written on it. Then I throw a stack of 20's in the air and walk through them with my head thrown back and my chiseled pecs flexed and flaring. I figured this was standard beha…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:41 PM
1

Lifting should give you confidence. If you're a weak little bitch and you go out and try to meet people then they're going to treat you like a weak little bitch. If you're ripped and you go out and try to meet people then they're going to have a stronger image of who you are subconsciously because your physical presence is stronger. People like you who minimize the importance of good physical health are advocating for weakness. Saying that your physical presence is less important than your menta…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:53 PM
6

OP wrote this so he'd have something to jerk it to later.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:22 PM
1

You're probably bi dude. I don't think of stuff like that and I'm sure most guys here don't either. Nothing wrong with being different.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 01:49 PM
0

Ghost her.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 01:46 PM
1

I told her last night. She didn't take it the best but I think she's fine with it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 12:04 PM
1

25 years old. I'm dealing with an anchor right now (35). It's a total mindfuck to be honest. By far the best sex of my life but she told me she loved me after 2 months and about 10 fucks. Now she's saying stuff like "I've never met anyone like you", "nobody's ever fucked me like you do", "you're my king", and "I want to be with you no matter what it takes". I've been incredibly brutal with her - even had her read the beginning of The Rational Male which talks about monogomy being bullshit - and …
/r/askTRP04/05/17 03:44 AM
1

it's all good dude just don't fuck it up
/r/seduction03/05/17 08:35 PM
2

I'm 6'3'' - been fluctuating between 195 and 205 for the past month or so. Sorry to say it but you have another 40 lbs or so to go. Just keep dieting and working out. If you work really hard and stick to a calorie deficit of 800 you could lose that in around 4 months.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 06:56 PM
1

I have this same problem. One of my plates cried and said she didn't want me seeing anyone else and I broke like a little bitch. Told her she was the only one from here on out. I do like her but there's no way I want a family with her. Should I just keep seeing other girls or outright tell her that I can't be monogamous?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 04:49 PM
3

Are you retarded? She's into you, dumbass. Have her over and bang her like a caveman.
/r/seduction03/05/17 04:12 PM
1

Exercise your ass off. Lift.
/r/seduction03/05/17 04:11 PM
3

Smaller city just north of Miami. Lots of tourists because there's a hotel right by my apartment and I'm 2 blocks off mainstreet, which has around 20 restaurants, 10 bars and 2 clubs. Needless to say I can walk one block out of my apartment on a Friday or Saturday night and be in a great position to pickup women. I got 4 chicks in 2 weeks about a month ago. Before that I was living in Minnesota and I hadn't been laid in 5 years. Florida forced me to get in shape though and that has a lot to do w…
/r/askTRP03/05/17 04:06 PM
7

You don't need to "hit on" every girl. Just talk to them and if you feel like they're into you then say something like "we should hang out sometime. let me get your number".
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:10 PM
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The fastest way to improve any skill is through repetition. You need to go out and approach as many girls as possible. Get rejected, learn what works and doesn't work... you'll have some success and some failure. Just keep plugging away.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 02:54 PM
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In that situation, if it's a weekday then fuck that. On a weekend I'd tell her you can't but that she should come over for a nightcap. If she's desperate enough (and not too drunk) you have an easy lay and most likely a morning fuck. I'd keep things casual with her and maybe invite her over for a drink this weekend.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 02:51 PM
7

From what I hear single digits isn't worth it. I'm in the same position as you - get called attractive... rarely get approached but when I approach I'm received well most of the time. Imo 12-15% is great and you'll be able to see a few of your abs at the very least, which is probably your goal if you're anything like me. I would recommend getting down into that range then maintaining that for as long as you can. Don't worry about looking like a dude on bodybuilding.com.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 08:44 PM
1

It's more satisfying, yes. My first time with most girls usually isn't that great because I'm almost always 2 drinks deep, but the act of picking them up and fucking them the same night is a huge self-confidence booster. I assume this is what hot girls feel like when they post a pic on facebook and get 30 likes from all of their orbiters.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 06:08 PM
1

So she's awake at 3am on a Tuesday morning... probably out at a club or getting fucked up at a friend's place. I wouldn't worry too much about her. Keep her around as a plate but withdraw all investment.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 02:03 PM
3

Sneak up behind her in a dark corner of your office/warehouse/fast food kitchen. Gently lean and whisper "pussy juice" into her ear as you slip a picture of Patrick Swayze with your number written on it into the front of her shirt, then stick your tongue out like a lizard and flick it back and forth as you let out a primal moan.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 12:05 PM
10

Jesus fucking christ dude why are you sending emojis and telling her she's good looking over text? Only text for logistics and get off social media. Honestly I have no advice because I don't compliment chicks on social media. That's what her orbiters are for.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 12:00 PM
1

Dick pic. Send her one.
/r/seduction02/05/17 03:45 AM
4

-"Michael Scott"
/r/seduction02/05/17 03:42 AM
1

That's what I was doing. It's easy as hell surprisingly. But I've been sacrificing a lot of my time with this chick and I've fallen into borderline oneitis. Just gotta snap out of it. I guess I'll have to risk pissing this chick off... it's whatever though.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 02:22 AM
3

Yeah good point. I've only been with 5 women. No fucking way I'm ready to settle down with her. I'll just keep her as a plate and chill the fuck out.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 02:18 AM
2

For me it depends on the setting. If I'm on a first date I'll usually be pretty chill but if we go to a club I get pretty hyped up. I'm always kind of a dick just because that's what I find funny and I have ADD (supposedly) so I literally can't stop talking or thinking about random shit. I think you need to go with your own personality and don't worry about what they think. If you're having fun they will too.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 02:16 AM
2

You think guys get shamed by post wall women for being with younger girls? That's just jealousy. Shaming is legit for a guy who has to go 10 years beyond his age. You've literally only been an adult for 3 years. She's been one for 13. Yeah, it's jealousy, and I didn't handle it the best. I wouldn't say there's anything wrong with going for older women though... I enjoy my time with her more than the 24 year old I'm fucking regularly or the girl my age who's 10x hotter than any chick I've ever be…
/r/askTRP02/05/17 02:10 AM
3

Alright my man you have some balls. Good shit
/r/askTRP02/05/17 01:10 AM
1

Why not? Just curious. I feel the same way but I kinda backed myself into a corner here...
/r/askTRP02/05/17 01:05 AM
2

Is this r/dating_advice?
/r/seduction01/05/17 07:14 PM
5

WTF are you talking about bro?
/r/seduction01/05/17 07:13 PM
1

True, you should do what he did the first time you have an opportunity to.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 06:36 PM
1

It's completely normal. The easy ones get kicked to the curb because I assume they're easy for any guy with a shred of game (which may or may not be true). I find myself thinking about the challenging ones a lot more too.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:35 PM
1

Intermittent fasting with a 500-1000 calorie deficit, hit the gym hard, keep protein intake around 0.8g per pound of your lean body mass and reduce carbs as much as you can. And do some cardio.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:31 PM
1

At least two days if not longer.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:11 PM
1

If you hate your life then quit, but always have a mission in life. You should always be focused on something and have a goal in mind.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:21 AM
1

Not every female is an air-headed bimbo yearning to be bred by chad That's not RP philosophy. Women can be intelligent and still like a guy who controls the tempo of the relationship. It sounds like you're young and a bit confused about all this stuff because you went to one side of the spectrum and didn't fully explore all the material here. TRP is meant to empower YOU. Focus on yourself and above all, always respect the women in your family and treat them good. TRP does not apply to family imo…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:18 AM
2

See a doctor. Pretty obvious answer. You may need to see a chiropractor. Outside of that, lookup "posture correction" on youtube and do exercises every day.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:12 AM
2

You're 17. Live life for now and worry about this shit later. Focus on getting your mind right - lift, travel if you can, read a shit ton and go out and experience the world. Make mistakes. Do things you think are fun and gather that XP. Life is kind of like a video game. You gotta fill up that bar before you can level up.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:10 AM
2

Anything can be "Red pill". I like arnold movies personally. Running Man is the shit.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:08 AM
5

You're overthinking shit. Do not talk about feelings with a chick until you've known her for a long ass time and fucked her a few times. I only talk about my feelings when girls do comfort tests ("I love you", "I don't want you seeing other girls", etc.). Be honest, yes, but don't go spilling your guts out to some chick you've never even been intimate with. That's beta as fuck and super unattractive to them. You're a virgin, so you're a dumbass when it comes to this shit. It's not an insult, it'…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:02 AM
5

You're a virgin and you're talking about hurting girls? Dude... Not trying to be a dick but you have no idea what you're talking about. Stop masturbating if you do and go talk to that chick. Ask her out and if she agrees to a date, escalate like a motherfucker. Your nervousness is all tied to your own image and I guarantee once you get a few girls under your wings it will go away.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:00 AM
1

There is no response. You string her along. That's the rough answer but it's the truth. You ignore any and all attempts by her to turn it into something more and keep seeing her. Just hit her up like normal.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 03:57 AM
3

Never tell them they're pretty. In fact, never give them a compliment initially unless it's sarcastic and slightly negative. I don't really follow PUA but from what I understand that's called a "neg". Don't apologize. It's a public place, you can talk to whoever you want. You're not bothering anybody. That's a bad mindset to have. Think of it as a compliment. She was good enough for YOU to come up and talk to her. She missed out on you. It wasn't the other way around. The "I have a boyfriend" li…
/r/seduction28/04/17 10:33 PM
12

Don't do it.
/r/seduction28/04/17 07:56 PM
29

Quit using the word cringey for starters. Your personality is a collection of your life experiences, so go out and try to have new ones. Learn not to give a fuck and lift.
/r/seduction28/04/17 07:56 PM
5

Wait, wait, wait.... I believe you're referring to the study conducted on the Apollo 11 mission. That was indeed flawed and - in the words of Command Module Pilot Michael Collins - "gay as fuck". The study I'm referring to was performed back in '62 and was recently declassified via a FOI request by the New York Times. As the article states: Participants who screamed "no homo" at the precise moment of ejaculation reported much lower levels of "homo" feelings post-intercourse in comparison to part…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:57 PM
16

No, you have to scream it right when you cum. Whispering is homo. I believe this was confirmed in a NASA study back in the early 60s.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:21 PM
14

I've sent one before and I'm still seeing the girl. People on here will tell you not to do it but like he says in the article, it's fine if they ask for "a pic" or in his case "more convincing". Girls just don't like getting random ones. Of course, you need to have something worth showing. edit for context In my case we met at a club and around 4 am she ended up at my place. She was way too drunk so after her piss-poor attempt at a bj I told her to go to sleep and the next day she apologized for…
/r/seduction28/04/17 01:46 PM
1

You're right. That's the joy of capitalism. For me, all those PUA classes/self-help/lifestyle design programs are ridiculous anyway. You should be able to figure things out on your own if you're a semi-socially intelligent person. I enjoy all of Rollo's content and hope he does well.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 12:31 PM
3

Your friend is a faggot.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:52 PM
1

So just keep seeing her and somehow ignore the constant comfort tests? Sorry for the constant questions I've just never had a girl act like this before, at least not to this level.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:32 PM
1

Dude I did the nuclear comfort comment when she said she loved me. I said "I might love you too". Then immediately I was like "WTF did you do!!" Fucking too much alcohol.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:35 PM
1

Well I told her the first night we were together so that's on her. I've been 100% honest with her and 50% of the time she acts like it's fine and the other 50% she doesn't. She told me I can't sleep with another girl within 2 days of seeing her (yea right). Also told me I can't bring other girls to the club I met her at because she still wants to go there but "doesn't want to see me with anyone else." I'm just about to say fuck it and tell her we can be fuck buddies but she needs to mind her own…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:32 PM
0

How is being honest dread? I'm not threatening to cut things off with her, I just told her I'm not looking for anything serious and she said the same thing. Then I spent the night one time, she cooked for me, had a marathon session in bed and she completely changed. I probably shouldn't have done that...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:24 PM
1

Yes, she's aware I see other girls. I told her I do and will continue to do so and she said she just wants me to see her. She's fucking 35 though. I'm 25 and even though she's great for being 35, the other girls I get and can get are way hotter.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:21 PM
2

Lmao, so true. Plus she doesn't have kids. She "wants them" though. No fucking way that's gonna be with me.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:20 PM
1

She sends me nudes all the time. Then gets pissed when I don't respond fast enough.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:18 PM
7

Even $800 is fucking ridiculous for a convention. This is why people think stuff like PUA and "Lifestyle coachings" is all a scam. I bought your book, and would have been willing to drive up from Miami to see this but the cost is kinda crazy. I know that's not in your control though and you guys need to make money for your time. Still, I don't think this is going to be lucrative for any of you guys and you would have been better off doing small classroom and infield group sessions like the RSD g…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:34 PM
1

I definitely do. I'm only seeing one other girl at the moment (just broke it off with a different one because I lost attraction for her) but I can easily have ONS's or meet more girls and get dates with them. I've tried dread with her and it just exacerbates the issues. And I do like her even though ever fiber of my body is telling me she's going to fuck my life up in some way. I'm leaning towards having a harsh talk with her and leaving right after sex, then going no contact for at least 2 week…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 01:27 PM
1

The thing is I don't know how. I'm afraid if I cut things off she'll do something really crazy like accuse me of rape or something.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 01:22 PM
3

In my experience, this doesn't happen as often with younger girls. This chick is post-wall, which I'm sure has a lot to do with it.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 12:49 PM
3

You deleted your comment, but this was my reply: You're thinking about an outcome. Now, that could be the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th date, or it could be a relationship in general. If you go in thinking you WANT to see them again you're creating an internal expectation not only for that date, but for the future. Would it be nice to see them again? Sure, if you like them. But you should never WANT it too much. Your mind should only be focused on the present moment. Have fun and she'll want to see you aga…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 12:46 PM
3

Thanks
/r/askTRP26/04/17 12:22 PM
3

Also, stop giving a shit about the outcome. Plenty of women out there dude.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:58 AM
2

... dude that was in my post haha
/r/askTRP26/04/17 02:06 AM
6

All true, but it's also all about strengthening your presence in every way. It's not about getting women to me. It's about dominating and managing life. Everything else comes when you do that.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 01:58 AM
23

Sometimes you gotta dig through mountains of dirt to find gold. There's good stuff here. I'm a new guy and honestly I don't think I fully understand everything on here but I try to contribute positively. Some guys on here seem to have radicalized the basic message from the sidebar readings which - to me - is all about empowering yourself both physically and mentally while learning to have healthy relationships with women as a dominant but respectful man. Some people seem to have taken the readin…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 01:41 AM
1

Thanks man. I know they're probably just mad that I'm fucking their hotter friend and ignoring them. Bunch of post walls who can't be as slutty as they want to be.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 10:14 PM
1

I don't remember saying anything. So I'm not apologizing for something I very well didn't do. You're right, the reputation doesn't matter. And I don't give a fuck about her friends, they're all 10 years older than me. I'm not doing anything... fuck it.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 09:56 PM
1

I did. She's gone.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 12:05 PM
1

I had 3 - just "broke up" with one of them because I wasn't feeling it anymore so I'm down to two with one ONS I'm trying to turn into one but I'm losing that idea with each day - her SMV is a lot higher than mine. It's manageable for me but I go to clubs every friday saturday and pussy is literally my life right now too. I just bought a shit ton of books recommended on here intend to really crush the gym so I think a small break will be healthy.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:30 AM
24

The word you're looking for is "Simba"
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 03:27 AM
1

Will do. Thanks dude
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:23 AM
1

Thanks for the honest advice. I'll expect it to end... it's fine really. She's scaring me with some of the stuff she's saying and I feel like I'm a wolf escaping a snare of pussydom everytime I leave her place. It's not healthy and I'm not ready to "grow up" yet and do the whole family or even LTR thing.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:22 AM
1

Ok, I'll be prepared to move on. I'm going to take a while off from her and get back to focusing on myself. Idk if it's common for you guys when you started following the philosophies on here but the girls are burning me out a little. I just don't get emotional over them anymore and it's like I'm just fucking to raise my count. It's fun as hell but I feel a little bad about it sometimes.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:17 AM
1

But why not insist on using a condom and just tell her I'm not ready for a relationship? She's great in bed and treats me like a king (Literally calls me her king which I know is emotional manipulation... but everything is good with her except that) otherwise I would have left already. I'm still seeing other girls and fucking them regularly, btw.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:48 AM
3

Do what you want but just know most times these girls need the lies just to not feel like whores This is the absolute truth. I sort of follow the same pattern but sometimes I can't handle the shit tests or comfort tests. I'm trying to learn asap but a lot of this is happening too quickly with these girls.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:46 AM
2

35 dating 10 yrs younger is a HUGE red flag - she's looking to lock you down. Well we're just fuck buddies and I'm 90% sure she has other guys, but I totally agree. This is my absolute biggest fear. I told her I see other girls and she says she doesn't want me to. I've had some extremely deep conversations with her and it's making me uncomfortable to be honest. I don't talk about feelings with anyone and I don't talk about my past due to it being pretty fucked in all areas. She has brought up ki…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:45 AM
7

Tug her hair at the scalp, move her around - don't tell her what positions to get in - use your arms and put her in them. Choke her a little (test the waters and see if she's ok with it. Don't cut off her air or anything, just like a claw grasp on the sides of her neck. Spank her. Pin her hands down to the bed. Fuck her in the kitchen, on the couch, anywhere you want to. Talk dirty to her. Tell her you own her. Tell her to beg you for it. Make her call you daddy. Or do what 1v1 said lol.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:19 AM
6

LMFAO
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:17 AM
1

Haha true man. I'm experiencing it at a gradual pace. Life is good
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 11:19 PM
1

Same to you sir, a little back and forth is what this shit is all about. I'm 25 and it's way more fun talking to older dudes like you than talking with most of the guys my age who take everything so seriously at face value... I guess you could call it old school banter or whatever. Anyway thanks man, I had a great day. Woke up to a gorgeous girl in my bed and spent the day with her, then I made plans with another older woman I've been seeing for a steak and lobster dinner. Sounds like you're doi…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 10:02 PM
2

Jack and diet cokes. Vodka soda w/lime Mojito Vodka cranberry Rob Roy Manhattans Old fashioned
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 08:11 PM
1

Just one note... You don't need 1g of protein per pound of body weight. 0.8g per pound of LEAN body weight is generally regarded as the sweet spot and I would argue 0.6 is enough. If you're spending 2-3 hours in the gym every day go for 1g, sure, but for the average guy you don't really need to go that far.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 07:48 PM
1

Lmao it's all good dude. Not spazzing, it's pretty funny that we were even dragging a conversation about iron out that much. I do what works for me. I like to think all of you dudes on here are trying to help everyone so I don't get upset at anything on here. TRP has been great for my life and I appreciate opinions that are different than mine.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 01:08 PM
1

You got it from Walgreens, must be safe. Yes because the same pill for three times the cost from GNC is so much safer. How much red meat, spinach and cereal are you eating bro? There's no way you're getting 45 mg of iron in a day unless you actively try to. I take a multivitamin for general nutrition reasons because I'm on a cut. I don't have a balanced diet lol. It's a different story if you're bulking but considering you piss out a good chunk of the vitamins in there anyway I'm not really worr…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 02:59 AM
1

I haven't seen a multivitamin packaged for men that includes iron I guess you learn something new every day.... My multivitamin from walgreens What is that? Research and experiment, guys. Ok... "Iron deficiency is the most common nutritional deficiency in the United States" - http://www.health.com/health/gallery/0,,20798655,00.html
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 12:36 AM
1

Bitches love beowulf. Don't believe me? Go to the club, pull out Beowulf and chill in a booth. I get 8 hj's a week using this method.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 09:12 PM
1

If it's not your thing it's not your thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 09:10 PM
1

Think what you want. Some books are about more than the words on the page. You seem to only be concerned about the actual words, other than the subtext and historical significance. Like I said, these are about expanding your world view. Get over yourself and read the most significant poem in the english language - you might learn some deep shit about the sounds that come out of your mouth every single day. Meditations is one of the easiest philosophical books to read and it's short as hell. You …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 08:34 PM
1

I flirt with them but generally when I find out they're married I don't try to do anything more than have a flirty conversation. It would depend on the situation though - I won't say I'd never do it because some people have open marriages and in that case I would do it if the guy was down with it and knew about it. I would not do it in front of him though because I feel like that's disrespectful to their relationship.
/r/seduction19/04/17 05:22 PM
2

His study (which he didn't even bother to read) was referring to 15 minutes of complete body immersion in 57 degree water. Unless you're soaking in a tub of 57 degree water every day I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 05:15 PM
2

Totally agree.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:39 PM
2

I can't dispute that cause you know, I'm no scientist. Don't worry, neither is he. 30 seconds of cold water isn't going to do shit to your testosterone and serotonin. The dude is fucking retarded.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 03:33 PM
1

You are beyond helping.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:26 PM
1

I know I should stay away from beer. I need to switch to vodka soda or something low carb but I just fucking love wheat beer and IPA's so I have a hard time giving them up.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 03:21 PM
0

Jesus dude, I mean if it works for you that's awesome. I tend to eat high protein, extremely low fat, extremely low carb, then re-cycle my carbs on Friday with a lot of beer. I feel fucking amazing surprisingly because I pound water and maintain just enough fats and carbs during the day to keep energy up. Mixed nuts for fats, bagels for carbs (with peanut butter) then all out protein. And I'm losing 2 pounds a week while maintaining and even growing muscle. (Some of my less developed areas are g…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 02:55 PM
1

Exactly. Even 70g of carbs is low. You can be "low carb" and be at double that per day.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 02:27 PM
2

Lookup PPL routines. There's a lot of choices out there. You should consider going for a hypertrophy-focused program since you've already built up considerable strength.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 12:48 PM
1

Not my story but a friend of mine who was 21 at the time went to Punta Cana with his family and his mom's best friend's family. They all went out to a club and got wasted when everyone decided to leave. The friends mom told her husband she wanted to hang back and "wingman" for my buddy, ended up getting absolutely hammered and started hitting on my buddy. This chick was 45. Long story short they end up back in HER hotel room with her daughter (who my friend was trying to hook up with) sleeping o…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 12:45 PM
3

You're doing it the right way. Aggression is natural. Don't let it get the best of you though. Have fun with your girl, she likes you and she thinks he's a joke. You have all the power. If you pay him attention then he gets what he wants. Don't let him.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 03:41 AM
6

The dot dot dot is because I have no thoughts on it. You shouldn't pay any attention to what he says. Whether he's scared should have no affect on you. He's nothing to you but another body in the crowd. Do not worry about pussying out. Doing nothing is the most alpha thing you can do. If he comes up to you, look right through him like you're looking at an ant. Say nothing. He's not there. when someone gets in my face I'm gonna do the same to them. Then you've missed the entire point. Nobody can …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 03:34 AM
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I find it funny how you mention the lack of science on this sub then provide exactly no science to back up any of the shit you wrote above, and you label this a science post. LMAO Cold showers They are nothing more than a 2-5 minute exercise to stimulate your body into a state of awakeness. Useful in mornings for a mental jolt and generally more healthy for your skin than warm water. IMO they're given far too much emphasis by some users. Supplements If you don't have a balanced diet, a multivita…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 03:26 AM
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I was ready to fight him if he escalated it. No. Don't fight. Fighting is the ultimate breaking of frame. Keep your cool. Always. Defend yourself if need be but get rid of this toxic mindset. Zen. My girlfriend pulled me away (beta I know) and that was the end of it. It's not beta. Your girlfriend recognized you were being a dumbass. I know what you're thinking, why is your girl fighting your battles. Not at all. You don't have a battle here. You're letting the guy get in your head. He's weak-mi…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 03:05 AM
1

Oh my god I'm 21 and haven't had sex. My life's over. Waaah. Waaaah. Waaah. I haven't stuck my dick in a girl yet. Jesus christ dude shut the fuck up. Nobody gives a shit. Read the sidebar and take your whiney bullshit to the gym and get to work.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 01:43 AM
3

Don't even waste your time.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:53 PM
15

I'm so fucking sick of hearing comments like this. They didn't find me attractive once upon a time either. Go do something about it.
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:57 PM
60

You take a look at yourself in the mirror on a Friday night, sitting at home, drunk, taking a break from playing a video game, alone, depressed, and say "enough". You make a conscious effort to change and you shrug off rejection. Tell yourself to man up and stop taking things so hard. Go out and embarrass yourself. Do it over and over and over and over and over until it doesn't mean a thing. In between those rejections you'll kiss girls, fuck them, love them, hate them, forget about them, and go…
/r/seduction18/04/17 08:59 PM
0

"Oh, she thinks I'm great! Stable, worthy of "settling down" with!" Cynical much? This attitude is great for her to have. Go over to her place, let her act all "doe eyes" then leave and go back to your normal life. She wants to hang out on a saturday night? Sorry, you have plans (i.e. you're fucking another plate). If anyone's deceiving themselves it's her. Keep your wits about you and you literally get all the benefits of a relationship with none of the downfalls.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 07:30 PM
1

This entire conversation just left me confused. Not upset - just no emotion. I need more coffee. Good day sir
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 04:15 PM
1

Maybe I'm completely misinterpreting this conversation. I'm at work so I'm just skimming on my downtime. If they ever say something like that I just flip it back on them with a similar question.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 03:25 PM
3

Reread your post: I always get hit with "Do you always invite girls who you've only met/seen once over to sleep over." And I reply with "Yes, generally." Hasn't worked thus far dunno if I need to re calibrate but I don't really give a sh1t because those girls have been > long ghosted." Are you saying you hooked up with these chicks? No. You said you ghosted them. I'm saying you're fucking up by saying that "Yes, generally" line. You don't want them to think you're fucking a new chick every weeke…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 03:06 PM
1

Lol just giving you an idea for how to turn those failures into successes. You don't need to be a passive aggressive dick about it. I'm saying that if they say they don't want to/can't stay the night you completely ignore that and make it about something completely different.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 03:00 PM
2

You don't invite them to sleep over. You invite them back for a drink and tell them you want to show them your (insert random thing) collection. Get them inside, HAVE a drink back there just so it feels like the party is still going, then start making out and grinding. Lead them to the bedroom and you're good to go. Fuck them for at least 45 minutes and wear them out. Makeout 10 minutes, rub and grind for 5 or so minutes and continue to makeout as you take her clothes off, then go down on her, m…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 02:16 PM
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I swear to god you guys who write these things have no social awareness. You don't need to breakdown a party into sections and adhere to certain strategies for each time period. Walk in, notice a girl, walk up to her and go to work. Then walk up to another one, and another one. After a few girls you'll know who's dtf and who's a bitch. The only rule you really need is never try to close until the party starts dying down. As soon as a few people start leaving, that's your cue to gtfo and bring th…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 02:11 PM
7

Why? I've had three girls spend the night the first time. One of them pulled the LMR and we just fooled around (she's a plate now though) - ended up fucking the other ones multiple times that night and in the morning. If they've been drinking I'd rather have them stay over than risk a DUI. Of course if they want to leave I don't stop them.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:57 PM
3

It's all genetics, man. If you can't grow one then shave it. A lot of girls do like the scruffy look if you can grow something, just keep your neck shaved, a bit under your jawline to avoid the double chin look.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 11:44 AM
2

And that's totally fine, man. To each their own!
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 04:34 AM
5

Well it was me. So I'm not allowed back there. That's why I use amazon
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 04:30 AM
0

From what I can tell they're full editions. I'll be receiving them on Thursday and I can respond to this comment when they come in if you remind me.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 02:44 AM
4

Nothing on here is the be all end all truth, regardless of what people say. If it's making you cynical, then maybe it's time to come at it from a different angle. Personally I have a very idealized view of the world. I like to think everyone is good deep down and they only decay because the world is a harsh place. A mix of nature and nurture. Some might call that cynical whereas I call it being realistic and it helps me rationalize the way people treat me and each other. There's plenty of stuff …
/r/askTRP18/04/17 02:35 AM
4

Dude but have you heard of Meditations by Marcus Aurelius?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:36 AM
1

Last time I went to my library the staff actually caught a homeless guy jacking it at one of the computers.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 12:29 AM
1

You made a minor fuck up, but it can be easily fixed. Here's what you do: Stop "ghosting her". Continue like you have been and next time you're with her fuck the shit out of her then leave. Don't stick around and cuddle or anything. Just say "that was great. I'd better head out." Make up an excuse about something you have to do if she asks why you're leaving so suddenly. Do not talk about the little outburst you had. It's in the past. Quit thinking about a LTR and enjoy your time with her. You'r…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 12:24 AM
1

She has baggage, but she's mostly got her life together. Solid job, amazing apartment, ex boyfriend she talks about now and then (ugh red flag I know), great in bed, cooks for me, a bit of a bitch now and then but in a playful way. Overall a great plate, and I should keep it that way. You're right.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:55 PM
1

Online marketing/advertising. You can land an internship fairly easily if you know some basic coding/graphic design stuff (I had a background in creative writing and taught myself HTML/CSS & Photoshop - which I'm horrible at). I'm going back for computer science
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:37 PM
1

Great list, and if you prefer to read on a screen these are obviously a better option for you. I prefer physical copies but that's just personal taste. Thanks for the contribution, sir!
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 10:52 PM
15

Haha I'm being sarcastic, bro. Of course I don't buy books to show them off to girls. I enjoy having physical copies of books and I always have. I loved it when a family member would give me a book as a present with a little inscription on the front cover or my sister would sit down and read to me. That's very different than looking at a kindle or something to me. Maybe it's just nostalgia, but I like looking at a shelf, taking a book down and looking back at the notes and comments I wrote in it…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 08:42 PM
13

Like I said - The Persona. You boys are amateurs. Have fun showing off the folders on your desktop while I'm brushing the spines of all these discount books on my walls like I'm petting some majestic beast of knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 08:27 PM
42

Yeah but you look way smarter with a shit ton of books on your shelves. It's all about cultivating that persona, G.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 07:52 PM
2

Don't give it to him. Talk to him and back him up but try to let him forget about it. He knows what happened.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:15 PM
1

Local library might be worth checking out. I prefer to buy paperbacks so I can fill up my bookcase. Girls are always impressed when they see it because it seems like nobody reads anymore. **Off topic but Mediations by Aurelius is $1.00 right now. I picked it up last week because I was sick of reading it on my Galaxy. https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Thrift-Editions-Marcus-Aurelius/dp/048629823X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1492454670&sr=8-1&keywords=meditations+of+marcus+aurelius
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:44 PM
1

https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_c_1_19/135-4431634-4057331?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=the+way+of+men+jack+donovan&sprefix=the+way+of+men+jack%2Caps%2C144&crid=2MWGYWGUFL9ID Less than 9 bucks. not bad
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:41 PM
1

Yeah, it's complete bullshit
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:37 PM
1

You're right. My point was that you need a decent amount of muscle to look good at 12% body fat. If you're starting out untrained and cut with a 500 cal deficit you might have abs at 12% but you're going to be skinny as hell. On the other hand, if you bulk up a little first you could have visible abs at a higher BF% and look good. The truth is most guys don't have the discipline to consume 140-180g of protein every single day while lifting 3-5 times a week and stick to a 500 cal deficit. If you …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 06:34 PM
2

You don't. I dropped out of college after 3 years and I make $17/hour. Working the same job with a degree would have me at $25-$30 an hour starting though. Which is why I'm going back to school at 25. Your earning potential over your life time is significantly higher if you have that slip of paper.
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:22 PM
3

Go to school. Live on campus. Get a degree so you're not making minimum wage for your entire life.
/r/seduction17/04/17 04:37 PM
1

drop your BF to about 12% FIRST. Lift all you can, but eat less (500 cal deficit, endless resources about this online) and do 20-30 mins cardio 5-6 times per week. This isn't as easy as it sounds though. When you're eating at a 500 cal deficit you're not going to be gaining muscle unless you're an absolute newbie. So getting down to 12% BF is a constant cycle of losing weight, losing muscle, and repeating that cycle. If you don't stick to a clean diet, lift like hell and pound protein you're goi…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 03:48 PM
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If you're good you can chain this attitude into multiple nights with different women. For example I met a regular plate on a Friday night, we did our thing. Then I was completely worn out but decided to go out to a bar/restaurant with my brother on Saturday night. The bartender pointed out two girls on their own and I couldn't have cared less because I was spent from the night before. Went over and sat next to them anyway for my brother's sake. Had a casual chat and was flirty with one of them w…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:20 PM
1

Sometimes taking a minute to appreciate our achievements can be very centering and help us to appreciate our current situation more. Absolutely. It's so easy to get wrapped up in the negative parts of life that sometimes we forget about all progress we've made. I think this applies to everybody, and taking a moment to think about it here and there can help you stay motivated to continue improving.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 03:03 PM
8

My current boss lets our accountant come in an hour late, take 2 hour lunches and leave an hour early. She's a good looking woman a year younger than him. Last week I was 3 minutes late back from lunch and got an email detailing exactly when I left, when I got back and he said it seems like I'm lacking motivation and this isn't what he expects from me. Guess I should consider growing a pair of tits.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:56 PM
1

True, I'll check it out.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:53 PM
1

I would return it but amazon has this new shitty policy where they charge like 8 bucks for a return. The book was $11 so I'll just keep it. Thanks for that link though - I'll check there for some other stuff I'm looking to pick up.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:52 PM
7

Your fucked
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:40 PM
19

I've had the most success the nights after I've been with a woman. It's like they can sense you just got some. I tend to have a no-fucks-given attitude so that probably plays a big part in it too.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:27 PM
1

Fucking amazing. And I still do. I swallowed it before I ever found this sub but the stuff on here has just reinforced the thoughts I already had. Before I was a bitch and I couldn't get with a girl at all. Now I'm completely confident and get laid whenever I want. Not to brag or anything but the difference is night and day.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:45 AM
1

Honestly, I'm glad the media perpetuates the bullshit beta sterotype. Just makes picking up girls easier for me.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:40 AM
1

First of all, you're not a loser unless you buy into what other people are saying. Cut that shit out bro. You are absolutely equal to every other person on this planet. We're all on a ball in the midst of a random collection of planets and stars. None of us are better than anyone else. How do you stop caring? You develop a life of your own. Hobbies. Interests. Things you want to pursue... then you go after them and ignore anyone who tries to tell you it's a waste of time. Fuck 'em. Your life IS …
/r/askTRP17/04/17 02:52 AM
1

Very true. I have a feeling she'd be a nightmare as a GF.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 02:44 AM
1

Yeah, but I kind of want this to be more than a once or twice a week fuckathon. Idk. Guess I just need to chill out.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 02:40 AM
1

Yes. I'm an introvert. I use alcohol to pick up women. I turn into the life of the party after 2 beers. If you can maintain a buzz and stay on top of your game you don't need to be a social butterfly.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 02:37 AM
1

Also, use creatine whether you're on a cut or bulking. It will make you gain 2-4 lbs in water weight but most of that is going to be in your muscles. It's one of the only supplements that's medically proven to work.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:03 PM
2

You need to approach. I'm 6'3'' and some women get intimidated by me initially. I don't pay any attention to it. You also need to have a fun attitude. If you're at the club or at a bar it helps to be with a friend. Just have fun, smile and act like you're the happiest fucker alive. That generally works for me.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 02:42 PM
2

Good for you brother. Keep that up. Today is all you got. Make it a good one.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:52 AM
4

Fuck off dude. You're delusional. Go make up more excuses to be a weak bitch.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 12:20 AM
2

Commenters here have even said that they don't go to the gym because they enjoy it, but to better the perception of themselves. That's the whole point. Women are shallow. If you don't understand that then you need to re-read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 12:10 AM
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It's all good. You have gusto, I like it. I'm just saying, who you become is who you are. You'll just have more options to pick from. People are shallow, so you might be a great dude and all but maybe some awesome girl who wouldn't normally talk to you might talk to you because you're in better shape. And would you blame her? Would you go talk to some 200 lb. chick and date her just because of her personality? Or would you go for the 115 lb hottie who was just as cool? Nevermind*** downvote me? …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 11:55 PM
1

Not me. I'm looking to understand women better so the ones I see don't drive me fucking insane. So far it's been working. Also, developing peace of mind is important. There's a lot of good philosophical discussion here if you dig deep enough.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 11:39 PM
4

Wtf are you talking about? Do you realize how stupid you sound?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 10:56 PM
3

Same here. Depression, anxiety, alcohol abuse, trouble with the law. OP, you need to work at life if you want it to get better. Do it for yourself. If you want to give up then fucking give up and spend the next 60 years being a waste of a body. Otherwise man the fuck up, forget about her and get back to work.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 03:02 PM
2

True. But you need to be wary of your decisions the further you get in the tree. If you invest too much in the renegade branches you can end up imprisoned or die early from the harsh side-effects of PEDs.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 02:34 PM
13

In my case, I was drinking a 12 pack every day. My point wasn't that you shouldn't relax and get drunk with your friends. I'm all for that dude. For me, drinking was mainly a form of self-medication. You sound like you can moderate.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 01:44 PM
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Exactly. And OP, don't try to hide it. There's a chance they'll get pissed, but most of them want you even more when they find out. One of my plates was hesitant to put out for a while but when she found out I was seeing other girls she got horny as hell. She wants me every day of the week now.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 02:31 AM
1

I agree man. Lifting is a huge part of the mental aspect though.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 02:26 AM
2

Like Rudeyyyy said, put this in asktrp. Quick note: never think of yourself as anything less than a 10/10. You're the star of your own movie, bro.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 07:45 PM
1

Well what are you going to tell him to help then? Go ahead. When I stopped giving a shit my life got a whole lot better. And it sounds simple because it is. He needs to have an epiphany that triggers the "not-giving-a-fuck" attitude most likely and he's not going to get that by posting on here. The dude needs to go out in the world and submerge himself in uncomfortable situations.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:02 PM
1

Those two phrases couldn't be any further apart. Not giving a shit about what other people think is the basic mindset you should have all the time. It applies to your interactions with women, your actions around other people, problems you might have with approach anxiety and social anxiety in general, and much more.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:50 PM
3

Do you really need a book to tell you how to stop being a pussy? Just do it. Stop giving a shit what people think about you.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:34 PM
3

Then there's no problem. She's probably trying to trap you as a boyfriend, which is a good sign. Just keep escalating and ignore any serious talk. Ignore these dumbasses too. Chicks get weird ideas in their heads sometimes, have a bad day, start their period and feel subconcious, etc. You can't expect them to want sex every time you do. If you next them every time something like this comes up then you're not going to have any plates.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:29 PM
5

I can't believe these responses. Soft next? Ex-plate? Kick her out? Nah dude, it's probably too late now but you should have woken her up by sliding your hands between her legs. If she didn't want morning sex, then you soft next her.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 03:57 PM
6

Drink/smoke too much? Get a handle on it. Off to buy a handle. Thanks for reminding me, OP!
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:33 PM
2

Come to Miami. There are so many people here from all over the world that nobody gives a shit. If you're an Arab dude in bummfuck nowhere Arkansas you're going to be worse off than if you were in New York or Minneapolis. That's just common sense. Any big city will be better than a small town in rural America.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:33 AM
1

You should get into some sort of martial arts or boxing. You have anger issues. Give them and outlet.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:28 AM
3

25 here. I don't have any friends around my age. All my friends were my buddies from high school and I moved out of state. Now I have cigars with some old guys once a week and go out to clubs with my brother. Works fine for me.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:02 AM
3

Why are you telling jokes? This isn't a talent show man, you need cut that shit out around women. Jokes don't get them wet.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:00 AM
3

Lmao. Sorry dude, that sucks and she's being out of line. Listen to the top comment on here. Tell her you exactly what he wrote and be prepared to walk away. It might hurt now but putting up with her bullshit for another couple months and then finding out she cheated on you will be worse.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:31 AM
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Yeah I went a little rough. Just trying to give you an idea of how that can feel because I think that's probably how you guys made that dude feel. Good on you for having self-awareness to look at your actions honestly. I think you're probably a good dude, but maybe you need to look at your friends and see if they're the best people to help you reach your goals. Respect to you as well for manning up and writing this comment.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 09:55 PM
2

Still... wait 4 months then see if you want something long term with her. You don't even know her
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:30 PM
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Who gives a fuck? You said yourself you're seeing other girls too. Why are you thinking of a LTR after meeting her once anyway?
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:27 PM
2

My dad told me the day he kicked me out at 19 and 3 months after he divorced my mom "I want to start my life without my kids" No warning. My dad did the exact same thing except I was 10 years old. If I got a call today that he was in the hospital I don't think I would go. Good on you for being the better man though. He's a piece of shit. You're not.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:28 PM
1

Grow some balls and go for it. Touching leads to making out, which leads to feeling her up, which leads to you inviting her back to your place. Inside, re-escalate with making out and feeling her up, then the rest is you.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:23 PM
2

Yeah, I laughed. Of course if you actually ever do this you need to stop and slap yourself. Just pump and dump em.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 04:12 PM
1

Go through his posts and comment history. This dude is a straight up retard - no offense to you, OP.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 03:48 PM
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You're an even bigger retard than I thought, davie. At least you didn't use "Da" instead of "The" throughout this post though.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 03:47 PM
2

Hey man if it works for you that's awesome. I wish I could do it but I'm on a cut and I do IF so my energy level is shit as it is. Any little deviation totally fucks me up haha. I envy you.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:48 AM
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Not when you need to get up early for work. I've had two first dates in the past three weeks. Both of them were Friday nights and I fucked both of them for several hours. No way I'm doing that on a week night. It fucks up my entire day at work and my energy levels in the gym. I need at least 7 hours of sleep otherwise I'm screwed. If it works for you and you can handle it that's awesome, I just personally can't get in the right mood if I know I need to work the next day.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:43 AM
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First of all, never assume they're going to flake. That implies you're insecure. You should give 0 fucks if they flake. Second of all, why the fuck are you doing a mid week date, dude? You're eliminating any chance you have of getting laid. Always do dates on Friday or Saturday night around 9 oclock. Go to a bar, get drinks, skip the food, then walk to another bar nearby. Make it as close to your place as possible. Now onto your question. If she flakes again, I don't blame her. People have to wo…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:37 AM
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You are moving waaaaaaay too fast. Just tell her "I had a fun time too. You're hot as fuck". No emojies. No smileys. Just text her that. If she asks when you're going to hang out next tell her you're busy this week but you might be able to hang out Saturday. Then ask if she's free. Try to slow down so you're only seeing each other once a week. Do that for at least a month, then if you're still having fun maybe move it to twice a week.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:08 AM
2

Go fuck a different girl
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:05 AM
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Yep, I've done it before. She's an older woman and she liked it. I sent it as sort of a half joke, half serious thing when she asked me to send her a pic after we fooled around for the first time. I would never do it with a girl my age though because younger chicks get them all the time.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:03 AM
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It is like TRP tells guys to raise their "SMV" in regards to lifting weights, learning game, and making money Are you doing these things? If not, go out and fucking do them then come back here in 6 months and see if you still think this question is worth asking.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:01 AM
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Quit worrying about being an orbiter, your SMV and your "ability in amused mastery". Jesus man, this stuff is meant to be a general guide. You don't need to think in RP terms in your daily life. Those girls sound like they were trying to give you an opening to make a move. Next time something like that happens, get their number first of all (maybe you did, I didn't see you mention it though). Ignore whatever bullshit they make up to talk to you, they're shy and they're not going to ask you out. …
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:56 AM
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NEVER TELL A GIRL YOU'RE INTERESTED IN HER This shit drives me insane because it's the most common mistake I see on this sub and the dating advice sub. Saying something like that is the equivalent of chopping your dick off. You need to maintain mystery, keep her guessing, and SHOW her that you're interested. When you blurt something like that out, you're basically taking any tension you've developed with her and thrown it away so that you can try to skip ahead to intimacy. Surprise, surprise; it…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:38 AM
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You're the one who edited your comment. You're butthurt because you came off like a douche. Also - so you "look worse"? Lmao dude I'm not trying to make you look bad, I just think you should be less of a dick to people. Go iron your Tapout shirts or something and chill out
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 01:59 AM
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I've thought about it but TRP isn't really about seduction and I don't want to come off like a know-it-all because I'm sure there are other guys who are a lot more experienced than me. I'm not one to go out and approach 5 chicks in a night and hope that one of them sleeps with me... I have 3 girls I can call for that any time. At this point I really just go for 8's and 9's because I want a challenge, or I wingman for my brother and generally don't give a fuck about hooking up with anyone at the …
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:05 AM
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Maybe I've been lucky but I usually get their number and end up making out with them about 75% of the time and hook up around 40%. This all takes place at bars or clubs and I'm very specific about who I go for. I don't just approach any girl I'm attracted to; she needs to look like she's in a good mood, with a friend or a group of friends, and she needs to be a little edgy with the occasional shit test at the start of our conversation because I like girls with a personality. If she's got a reall…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:48 PM
2

Wut?
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:38 PM
2

She likes you. Quit overthinking it.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 09:30 PM
2

Ignore, either she'll hit you back later or not. Why would you have to (or try to) explain what you want to do? I shouldn't have to... and up until this point I've been ignoring her. I guess I'm overthinking it.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 08:48 PM
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Plates are not girlfriends. If you want a girlfriend, by all means bring her around your friends and let her into your social circle. Otherwise, only meet up at your place or hers and keep it all about sex.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 07:19 PM
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Was out with the gang last night and one of da girls had a tinder guy whom she'd hooked up with before come around (to be clear, guy invited himself). Da boys have a good time messing with this guy. Really get in his head, he lets himself get dominated in body language, conversation, you name it. He gets mad. You all sound like idiots. Why are you messing with some dude just because he fucked a girl you chill with? You should be giving him props. "Da boys" sound insecure and jealous. Why are you…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 06:59 PM
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you also have some growing up to do
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 06:02 PM
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If you can come to the terms that she's not worthy of having a LTR with you then keep seeing her by all means. Some guys on here will tell you to cut her out completely but I don't see the problem of having a FWB, as long as you keep your feelings in check. Based off the way she acted with your friends and what she told you about no contact at her party I would say there's a 97% chance she's having sex with other guys right now. Use her to experiment and treat her as a plate, which means only se…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:57 PM
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Seems like a lot of younger guys just spouting random theories. I would guess most of these dudes barely get laid
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 04:43 PM
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Just chill. You've only gone out 3 times. Keep talking to other women. You've got a scarcity mindset right now and it's going to drive you insane if you don't do something about it.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:40 PM
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A.) Leave and never look back. B.) Record her on video if you have the awareness to do so, then file a police report.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 04:27 PM
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this last weekend i brought her to my innercircle of friends and she basically went ahead and sat on the laps of three of my friends Major red flag, buddy. You're fine with this?? Really?? I would mentally next her the second she pulled something like that. That's a huge sign of disrespect imo. (Never bring a casual girl around your friends by the way) Again i dont want a relationship with this girl anyway but i would like for her to talk about her feelings a bit so i can gauge her interest. You…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:54 PM
3

You need to start living like a caveman. No porn or anything like that, keep exercising regularly and run at least 40-60 minutes a week (break it up into chunks). If you do drugs or use alcohol cut back on it or eliminate that entirely. The first time you do anything with a girl can be nerve wracking, so try to relax and enjoy the moment. It might just be anxiety.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:46 PM
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Your friend isn't himself right now. I think most of us have been there. The best thing for him right now would be to talk to other women, so try taking him out this weekend and getting his mind off things.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 03:00 PM
1

I believe that you make the most positive change in the world by working hard to improve your reality. You need to focus on yourself and let others find their own way in life. You can't help every poor sap you come across. It's simply not possible. You can give them a nudge in the right direction but ultimately people are going to make their own decisions. *On another note, wtf is going on in these comments?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:59 PM
1

It's a vague term but personally I don't view 2 months as anything special. Imo a LTR starts around 6 months in and it doesn't necessarily require exclusivity.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:14 PM
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Never believe anything they say early on. They're playing their own game just like you are. I would soft next her. No contact for at least 5 days. If she texts, ignore it. Any social media stuff? Ignore it. If she doesn't contact you at all in those 5 days, extend it to two weeks. Then act like nothing happened. Dread is the way my friend.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:09 AM
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I'll never not upvote this ridiculous shit.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:53 AM
1

Keep approaching the really attractive ones. If they say they have a boyfriend say "Nobody's perfect" and carry on like she didn't say anything.
/r/seduction11/04/17 01:46 AM
6

You approached 2 women dude. I get rejected by at least two women every time I go out. It's not a big deal at all. Laugh it off and move onto the next.
/r/seduction11/04/17 01:04 AM
1

Whenever you have a negative thought, think of something you've done recently that you're proud of. You sound conflicted bro. I'm younger than you but I've been there. I would suggest fucking some chicks.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:16 PM
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2 months is not an LTR. That's still the dating phase. Don't be so quick to rush into a serious relationship bro. Just have fun and see where things go. You're better off without her. Go no contact and focus on other girls.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 10:10 PM
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I see your point and that can work, but that's not even close to the best line unless you're an absolute beginner. Something that shows her you're a playful guy works a lot better in terms of speeding up attraction. For example I was at a bar two weekends ago and it's sort of my spot. Hot chick is sitting there with her friend and the bartender tips me off (very cool dude), so I go sit next to her and silently drink a beer. Her friend goes to the bathroom and she orders a beer of her own, so I l…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 10:00 PM
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I'm trying not to... I hung out with her last night and this afternoon because it seems to have driven her insane and she's horny as hell. It's great but she keeps bringing up the other girl in a sort of comfort test thing and I just stay silent and distract her. She wants me to take her out on "a date" now and I don't want to. Not because I don't like her, but I typically only do 1st or 2nd dates, then I prefer chilling at my place or theirs. Hopefully she drops it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 09:47 PM
1

She's not letting it go at all. She's obsessing over it and it's basically all she's talking about now. Starting to get annoying
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 09:27 PM
2

I use a vaporizer. Smok Alien to be specific. Started off with 6mg nicotine juice and I'm still using that after 2 and a half months. It's not as healthy as not smoking at all, but I feel much better than when I smoked. You could try weaning yourself off with a similar setup... personally I tried gum, lozenges, and going cold turkey and I couldn't stick with any of it.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 01:07 PM
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Yep. One of my plates remembers literally everything I say and most of it is just bullshit I make up because I think it's funny. I have a scar on my groin from a 4x4 accident and I told her I got stabbed by a mexican gangster. She brought it up the other day and asked if I got nervous around mexicans and I had no idea what she was talking about lol
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 04:58 AM
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You need to read more. She's not a plate if you're not fucking her. Sounds more like oneitis to me.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 07:35 PM
2

Delete anything you wrote on your tinder profile and put something minimalistic like "Chill guy looking for someone to have fun with". If I were you I would keep going out to clubs, tell them to buy you a drink and be a cocky, friendly dick. Social media is worthless, but you should get a snapchat just to message chicks without a trail.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 06:41 PM
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Now watch her come crawling back to you. No need to end it. She's a plate now.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 06:32 PM
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Listen dude. You're fucking 21 years old. You haven't even started life. I didn't start until I was 25. I've fucked 4 chicks in the past three weeks. Before that I hadn't been with a woman for 5 years. It gets better. You just need to put yourself out there and forget the past. You aren't who you were a year ago. You aren't who you were yesterday. Today you start over.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 04:48 PM
2

Brother listen. You haven't made a mistake. You've done something worth being proud of. Now work on the mental side of things.
/r/seduction09/04/17 04:14 PM
8

I'm white and I've never been with a white girl. If they're a 8-10 they've been spoiled by beta dudes most likely and they play hard to get. I find latinas to be way more outgoing and black chicks are a lot more fun. Maybe my game just sucks
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 03:47 PM
1

I was going to respond with something similar but figured there was no way to reach this guy. He's got a little bit of self evolution to go through
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 03:40 PM
1

She's the only chick I've met who texts like that. I tend to go for younger girls 21-25 and all the ones I've met text normal
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 03:36 PM
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Happened to me more than once bro. Ask how they got their name
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 03:32 PM
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Dude, I don't remember shit from my dates. I'm in the zone and all I think about is fucking her. It works in the moment but it's kinda bad when I can't even remember any details. They always pull that shit out on the 3rd or 4th meetup and I have to blame it my concussions from football
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 07:47 AM
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You're a faggot edit** Love ya, dawg. It's all fun and games on here. No reason you should be downvoted for an opinion.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 07:04 AM
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The key is not asking any questions that will allow them to go on wild tangents like that. Keep things high energy, short, and sexual. If she's on the date with you it means she already thinks you're attractive, so don't try to dig into her life or expose yours prematurely. She doesn't want an intellectual conversation, she wants to feel excited. If a girl takes her phone out I'll actually tell her "no phones tonight" and that usually gets her attention.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 01:40 AM
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This technique works for me. Read the text. Realize how ridiculous it is. Go to her place and fuck her brains out. Seriously though she's intelligent, high up in the corporate ladder at her company. I have no idea why she texts like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 08:39 PM
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I am but the ones I meet are usually way too introverted for me. I've been with a few though.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 08:04 PM
1

Done. I spiced up the title though
/r/askTRP08/04/17 07:56 PM
8

Yep. Came back quicker than usual haha.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 07:55 PM
2

Yeah, you're right that would be petty. And I'm fully prepared for the drama. It's constant with this chick but I don't acknowledge it. I've soft nexted her twice already.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 07:53 PM
2

I know. It's something I have to work on. I've only been reading the stuff on here for about a month and a half and I still have beta tendencies when it comes to dealing with women. Do you think if I flaked on her tonight and soft nexted it would help, or is that a bad move?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 07:40 PM
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In her mind it means "meeting". I was just as confused as you were.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 07:20 PM
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They are logical. But only when they're in familiar territory. I try to think of it in terms related to my own game. If I meet 9 girls and my methods work on every single one of them, then girl #10 comes along and she's an alpha female it's going to throw me off my game a little bit. I might still get a lay, but the entire dynamic is different. This is what happens with women when you're not the typical beta bitch. Because let's admit it, about 90% of dudes out there (if not more) are beta as fu…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 07:16 PM
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Because she's a manipulator. (Aka, a woman)
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 07:02 PM
25

You're right and I know it, but I like crazy chicks. It's a weakness of mine that'll probably fuck me over some day.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:59 PM
23

Yeah, she's pulling shit to try to squash me. I know exactly what she's doing but maybe I'm being too relaxed with her. A week or two of no contact might not be a bad idea (after I bang her of course).
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:54 PM
6

I definitely will be man. I've had the same concerns for a while now.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:24 PM
6

I have multiple texts from her saying "Thanks for last night" and shit like that. I think (i.e. HOPE) that would put an end to any accusations.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:23 PM
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Probably too many to count. She's 35.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:20 PM
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I honestly thought it was funny. I get down at times, yeah, but I've been through a similar situation with this same chick before so I already knew how it was going to play out.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:08 PM
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A lot of you guys are too quick to next chicks imo. The set up is way too convenient for me to next her over something so trivial. She has her own place, cooks for me, buys me beer, great in bed and she's hot as hell.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:55 PM
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Good point. I'll have her read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:30 PM
4

Pre-selection is the absolute best when it comes to picking up women. When I was single I barely got looks from 8's and 9's. Now I walk into a club with a girl and find myself getting looks from tons of chicks I used to think were out of my league. It's basically playing the game on easy mode.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:27 PM
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They're completely irrational, want everything to go their way and if it doesn't they flip out. They really can act like children at times. All you need to do is stay cool, ignore them and if they really freak out give them a little bit of comfort. Once they find a dude who they feel comfortable with they're terrified of change and they'll overlook anything you do to keep you.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:21 PM
1

I really need to be more careful. This is the second time this has happened with her. And I was with different girls each time.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 05:12 PM
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That's exactly what she'll do. When I told her I was seeing other girls she pulled the same shit then she hit me up, we fucked and she made me eggs haha
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 04:17 PM
11

I've already soft nexted her twice. One week the first time and 3 days the second time. She cracked and asked to meet up both times. At this point I might have to hard next her, which is a shame because I enjoy chilling with her.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 03:45 PM
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Yep. She's already backtracking and I told her she treats me like shit so we're done. I'll probably fuck her again by Monday update: I was right lmao. She wants to hang out tonight
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 02:48 PM
5

2 months is not a LTR. That's still the initial dating period. I would suggest you act exactly like you do on the first couple dates. Be cocky, a bit of dick and fuck her brains out. If you want a LTR start comforting her a little bit around 2 months in.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:45 PM
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Have some drinks. I know people on here talk shit about alcohol but if you're in good shape a few beers won't hurt anything. I always have one beer before meeting any girl on a date or talking to girls at the club. 2 drinks is my sweet spot, then I just maintain the buzz. It can fuck you over in bed if you have too much so you need to regulate it by drinking water throughout the night.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:39 PM
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She'd probably cut my dick off lol
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:35 PM
11

I like em too. I followed up. Probably a bad idea but she's good in bed so I figure there's nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:18 PM
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She always texts like that. It's fucking hilarious. She once sent me "Thnx 4 mtg me 2nite. I had a gd tm". And yeah, she always does this shit. I just respond by turning the dread back on her. So far its been working but this shit isn't worth it.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:01 PM
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Yeah, fuck it. I guess I did. She's always trying to play mind games and it's not even worth it
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:47 PM
1

Fine then, just stop texting her.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:08 AM
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Blackmail her back. Take a screenshot of any weird texts she sent you and threaten to post it on Facebook or send it to her job (of course, never do that, but that should put an end to it).
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:02 AM
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Real answer: there's no such thing as an "Alpha" career. By you posting this you prove you're concerned about what other people think of you. That's not alpha. Own what you do, whether you're a nurse or working on wall street.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:54 PM
1

President
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:37 PM
2

I go for 6's and above. Most of them are flakes anyway so you're better off going out to a bar or club.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:29 PM
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He's also 85 and banging a 88 year old. And his son has autism.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 03:28 PM
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Quit making out with multiple chicks in the club. Focus on one and focus on getting her back to your place. Take her to a secluded spot and makeout there, say "let's get out of here" and leave.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:01 PM
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As a stoic, one of the most basic goals is to free yourself from anger and hatred, so you wouldn't justify abortion based on negative perceptions of a group of people. You would recognize that abortion exists and that people are going to turn to it for different reasons, both moral and immoral. You would try to sway someone toward the virtuous path - related to their circumstances - if you were confronted with a situation involving abortion, but ultimately you would recognize that it's going to …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:45 PM
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That doesn't mean anything. ONS's are just that. A one time thing. Until you sleep with her again you really don't have anything with her.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:08 PM
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This is why dread works so well. If you deny a horny woman (that you've already fucked good) sex, they'll freak out, get angry, say crazy shit and escalate with their own dread. Go silent on them when they do this and they'll start thinking they're losing you and act 10x more desperate than the most beta guy.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:02 PM
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You never had her
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:55 AM
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Why the fuck would you tell her best friend. And why are you friends with him on snapchat?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 04:35 AM
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If she's hot you teach her how to kiss and fuck. You found yourself a fresh one man, wtf are you even thinking?
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:56 AM
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Alcoholism completely broke me. Women are nothing compared to that.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:52 AM
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Did you suck that guys dick at least?
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:51 AM
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Cheap ass t-shirts from target with no designs or pictures on them. Get them a size too small and some skinny jeans... it helps if you're built. Light shirt, dark pants and dark shoes, or dark shirt, light pants and dark shoes. Get a nice leather belt with a minimalistic design on it too.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:50 AM
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You should travel. Experience different cultures and places. That will change the way think, give you stories to tell, help you identify with more people you meet, and expand your worldview.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:47 AM
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You improve by approaching more women.
/r/seduction07/04/17 03:43 AM
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It's all good G. I feel ya.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:10 AM
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Wear a condom even if she says she's clean. Do some crazy shit and make it memorable. BUT DO NOT CUM IN HER BRO, WTF HAHAHA.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:08 AM
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Man you gotta try taking it slow some time. A good caveman fuck is necessary, yeah, but sometimes you gotta build them up to it. Tease em a little. By the time I even get their panties off they're already soaked through.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:05 AM
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Idk maybe it's a fetish or something. I just get tired of the tank top and shorts. I'll tell her to get off her ass and go to the mall
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:44 AM
1

Honestly Creed is pretty damn good if you're working out. With Arms Wide Open? Put that shit on when you're doing dumbell flys and try not to get pumped up
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:39 AM
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Yep. That's what I was going to do but sometimes I have moments of retardation, that's why I posted. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:33 AM
2

Never apologize for liking Creed. We've all been there bro
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:32 AM
1

Nope. You do what makes you happy. If she's not making your life better then cut her loose.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:30 AM
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Alright I won't. This shits just frustrating. I swear she wears the same fucking stuff every time I see her.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:28 AM
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LMAO I might have to use that.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:25 AM
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She's going to get mad. They always do, then they try to turn it back on you like you've done something wrong. You haven't. The best thing is to not respond to this stuff. At all. Don't text her anything. Wait 2 or 3 days and if you don't hear from her text her like nothing happened. And I've had a girl pull the period card on me twice. The first time I hung out with her and she gave me two BJ's. The second time I told her we could hang out another time. She hasn't pulled it since.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 07:55 PM
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Yeah, the culture's definitely a little different. But the sentiment is the same. You've got plenty of time to worry about sex when you grow up. Enjoy the freedom you have right now and just have fun living without responsibilities.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:40 PM
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Yeah, I haven't hit her up. I've been kinda busy with work and I got the impression she wasn't that interested since she didn't offer another time. I'll give it one more shot tomorrow night and if she doesn't want to do anything I'll forget about her.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:07 PM
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You want a tip? Have fun being a kid. Do some crazy stuff, TRY to have sex with some girls if you're in highschool. And always use a condom. Don't do anything too crazy, but try not to worry about the law. All of that gets erased once you become an adult anyway. Go out and create some crazy memories.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:05 PM
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So tomorrow will be one week since I've texted her. You're saying I should wait another week?
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:00 PM
1

Welp, time to hit the gym I guess.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 01:59 PM
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18 is an adult, I think he can handle it. This guy might make bank, but he's definitely arrogant and bragging a bit. I don't really see anything related to TRP in the post. I just see some kid trying to convince himself that he's figured everything out.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:27 AM
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Yep. One of my plates is throwing a tantrum right now. She's not doing it to test my value as a potential father. She's just pissed at me lol.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:43 AM
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I honestly don't subscribe to that NoFap stuff. Yeah, you'll be hornier if you don't whack off, but now and then is fine. I have a pretty high sex drive so it doesn't really affect me. I haven't fapped in about 3 weeks just because I've been with a few girls consistently but I don't think it's as big of a deal as a lot of you guys think it is.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:10 AM
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Well I fucked one of them like 7 times and she hasn't asked yet. I can feel it coming though. She already complained about me not texting enough so it seems like she's on that war path to try and lock me down. I have a feeling if I tell her she's a goner. It wouldn't be a big deal but I might just avoid the question.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 11:43 PM
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If a girl doesn't ask about seeing other women should you still tell her? I'm seeing multiple girls right now and one knows because she brought it up. The other two have never asked so I haven't said anything.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 10:25 PM
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Don't listen to this dumbass. You did the right thing by ignoring them. If you had spoken up there's a chance (a small one, but still a chance) that those 5 dumb faggots on the street corner could have turned into 5 dudes in court on murder charges. You can't predict people in this world. And 5 dudes who are trying to act hard could seriously fuck you up, even if you know how to defend yourself. One punch could knock you over, you fall and nail your head on the concrete and you're screwed. I've …
/r/askTRP05/04/17 09:08 PM
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Somebody didn't get enough hugs growing up.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 07:17 PM
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Lmao. See dude? You're not so different than us.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 06:45 PM
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You obviously have a very active and fulfilling life. That's why you feel the need to go on a message board and take time out of your fascinating day to write troll comments based off pre-conceived notions of the users who find value in the content. If you have the time, please do a thorough write up detailing your success and ways we can be like you. You are everything I want to be and more. Like a shooting star. In fact I think I love you. Yes. I'm gay now.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 06:09 PM
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Good on you, man. Keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 05:48 PM
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Joke's on me? Why, because some girl I fucked is getting fucked by other guys? Who cares?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 05:44 PM
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This is horrible advice, man. I see what you're trying to say, but it doesn't really make sense and it just isn't a healthy mindset. You're running through girls and focusing all your attention on one of them, which is only going to burn things out faster. If you focus on yourself and keep some distance you and her will both be better off. Not to mention that you cannot have an abundance mentality by succumbing to oneitis, even if you're seeing other girls.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 04:39 PM
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Finally someone who actually relates. Like you said, she requires so little effort that I think it would be a waste to drop her. My thought process is that I'm a decent looking dude because I've been with some gorgeous women. After the last chick I got with I feel like I can go for any girl and be successful.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:53 PM
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There is no quick fix. But these are a few things that work for me. Lift consistently and do cardio at least 3 times a week for 20 minutes. This is behavior but it also changes your mind. From WebMD - "When you exercise, your body releases chemicals called endorphins. These endorphins interact with the receptors in your brain that reduce your perception of pain. Endorphins also trigger a positive feeling in the body, similar to that of morphine." If you're going out to a club and plan on approac…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:27 PM
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You're overanalyzing like a motherfucker. I use emojis and winky faces all the time to communicate sarcasm or cockiness. Texting is largely emotionless and you need to liven it up now and then. Just don't overuse them.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 04:27 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. I'm going to cut my time with her and get back to the stuff that got me here in the first place so I can find some upgrades. I feel kinda heartless but she's gotta go.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:48 AM
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Fuck geography. Do business or IT systems management, web development, psychology, firefighting, law enforcement, whatever you can get A LITTLE bit into. Most jobs aren't going to be fun 90% of the time. But if you can ride that 10% and be happy when you go home you'll be fine. Just get it done. Get that paper. Because even if you decide to switch careers, they're going to see you have a degree and automatically put you at the top of the pay scale. Your life is not your job. But a good paying jo…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:42 AM
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I've actually got a lot more action since I started seeing her. It has cut into my gym time once or twice though, which pissed me off. I still approach girls and feel confident though.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:38 AM
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You're not going to have any interest in working a cash register either bro. I've been where you're at, dropped out of college and took menial jobs, and it got me nowhere. Now I'm 25 with no college degree and I make shit doing a job where my peers make double than me because they have a slip of paper. I'm going back to school this summer and I wish I had done it earlier. Just get it over with.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:35 AM
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The thing is, after hooking up with these hotter chicks I don't even get turned on by this girl. I had to think of another chick the last time we hooked up just so I could finish. She gives some mean head though.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:32 AM
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Maybe I'll just save her for during the week. I don't go out on weeknights because I have to get up early for work. I usually meet new chicks on Friday and Saturday nights at the club, and this girl has cut into that a little by wanting to hang out on those nights.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:31 AM
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Go back and take it seriously. Go into business administration or something that can be applied to a variety of industries. If you waste one more year of your life I will personally find you, accuse you of rape and get you fired from whatever shitty minimum wage job you're doing at the moment. And when you find a new one I'll do the same thing. Ok?
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:23 AM
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Enroll in school, get a job, workout. You know what you need to do. So go and do it.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:11 AM
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All I know is that as soon as I started fucking girls, fucking other girls became a whole lot easier. There's something about jizzing on a chicks tits the night before that makes approaching a new chick a lot less anxiety-inducing.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:10 AM
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The answers are in the sidebar. Your question is so fucking vague that any answer we give you is meaningless. You probably wouldn't even listen to anyone's advice anyway. Look at the sidebar and read what's relevant to you. This has already been covered in better posts.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:06 AM
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Then go to a different sub. If you won't even follow rule zero then why should anyone here waste their time giving you advice?
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:02 AM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:55 AM
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Get tinder chick hot and bothered in her room. Stop and say "one second". Leave the room. Knock on girl 2's door. She answers - say "Wanna join?". Get ready for 90% chance of a shitstorm.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:54 AM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:51 AM
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An interesting hobby. I play guitar, make EDM music, flint knap, kayak, play basketball, write, code and fish. Something that's relaxing but productive would be beneficial to you.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 10:54 PM
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ASALT
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:37 PM
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Get them outside the bar where it's a little less crowded and she's away from her friends so she doesn't worry about looking like a slut. Go for the kiss there, push her up against a wall and make out with her. Then invite her to your place. If she doesn't come, leave and text her your address in about 20 minutes saying "Come over".
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:28 PM
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My bad, I edited it. You should be fucking new sandwiches regularly.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 07:42 PM
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ELI5 version Lack of Abundance: You're really hungry and you have one sandwich. You lose the sandwich and get really sad. You're searching desperately for that sandwich, because it's all you have to eat. Abundance: You have 5 sandwiches. You lose one sandwich, but it's no big deal. You still have 4 other sandwiches. You're always looking for more sandwiches so even if you lose all of them, chances are you'll find some more fairly quickly.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 07:28 PM
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She sounds like a nutcase. I would downgrade her to plate status ASAP and go find some other girls. One of my plates has been doing the same thing and I'm ignoring her at the moment. I'll text her in a week or so if I feel like it, but I don't put up with that "intentionally trying to make you jealous" bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 07:20 PM
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I don't think anyone here says that. You gotta go approach them. Women are more beta than the pussiest dude.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 07:18 PM
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She was unstable - liked to play games and I knew telling her about it would just make her try to manipulate me or make her get angry and try to tear me apart emotionally. I just didn't want to deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 04:19 PM
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No, that wasn't the case. Maybe I didn't explain it well enough.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:51 PM
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I think you misunderstood. I ghosted her.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:44 PM
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I haven't told her anything or hinted at anything more than a casual relationship. When we first met I said "I'm not looking for anything serious" and she said she wasn't either. Should I just make up excuses whenever she wants to hang out?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:37 PM
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I go to relax and have fun. If I see a girl I'm into I don't really try hitting on her... I have a chill conversation then start doing lots of eye contact and flirting. It's like a game, and you win just by playing it. Sure, you aren't going to hook up with a girl every time at first but each interaction builds up your game and eventually you'll be able to pull some gorgeous chicks with ease. I also never try to get dates from the bar. I invite them to another bar, and if they come with we usual…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:47 PM
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Even if she worked out every day she wouldn't be in good shape for like 6 months. I take my health very seriously and having her around has caused me to gain weight (only 5 pounds, but that's a lot to me). Plus yeah, she doesn't dress up at all and that turns me off. I like girls who show some skin and I can tell she's ashamed of her body.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:29 PM
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I've fucked her 6 or 7 times though. I feel like ghosting would be a little harsh in this case. If it was once or twice I would do it without a second thought.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:14 PM
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I think you're too invested, and like you said, you have oneitis. If I were you I would soft next her, cut off all contact for at least 3 days and see if she texts. If she does, tell her you're busy (and actually mean it. go out and do something). She's got other options, I can guarantee you that. Don't make her your only one.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:10 PM
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Does your mouth still work? Give them an orgasm or two and tell them to come back this weekend.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 01:59 PM
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I think you're wording it strangely. Are you a teacher or a student?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:55 PM
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You don't see this going any further and you don't think its a good idea to keep it up because you're not in a place to maintain an on going 'relationship' with her This is what I was thinking. Something like "I'm not totally invested in this, and I don't think it's fair to you to continue stringing you along". Don't text her enough? Pfft... Control much? Bye. Yeah, I know. I went silent when she brought that up. Then she kept going and I just laughed it off and said I'm busy and I forget about …
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:51 PM
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I usually reserve soft next's for times when a girl disrespects me, which she hasn't done. And I don't want to leave her in the dark on this because she's a decent person and she's texting me already, saying Good morning and saying she had a great time. I feel like breaking it off right now would be a complete 180 from last night though so maybe I should wait.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:50 PM
1

Undaunted Courage is one of my favorites. It's about the journey of Lewis and Clarke, but it also explores Lewis' interactions with Thomas Jefferson and provides examples of how life was back in their day. There's some crazy shit that happened on that expedition that your high school history class wouldn't dare to cover. 1491: New Revelations of the Americas Before Columbus is another good one. It's about the New World before Europeans had touched it. It also goes into the conquest and some woul…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 12:26 PM
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It's when I see goofy shit like "what's the most redpill music" that kills me. I'm literally listening to John Waite "missing you " and having a beer and about to go meet a girl. Hahaha yeah man that stuff cracks me up too. I was just with a girl and had a few beers while she did her thing. Meanwhile I'm blasting the corniest EDM love songs because I dig the bass. I think a lot of these guys try too hard, but I completely get it. I've been there. I was a beta, and I still slip back into that at …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 04:46 AM
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I usually set up the second date during the first date if I feel like it's going somewhere. I don't think waiting 2-3 days is a good strategy. If you like her then why wait? With that said, I tend to rush things and we end up fooling around at the very least the first night. If we have sex then she's already hooked and I can basically do whatever I want.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 04:39 AM
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I take a lot of the stuff on here with a grain of salt. Some of it adds value, and some of it goes too far. Overall I feel the message is positive though and it's meant to empower guys like me who never grew up with a strong direction.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 04:32 AM
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I agree in almost every scenario. But there are situations where I think giving an explanation can only make things worse for each of you and you're better off vanishing. Sometimes splitting from someone in the traditional way is almost a way of holding onto them. That's not healthy imo.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 04:26 AM
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To me ghosting is practicing self respect. Exactly. Holding on to a woman who doesn't treat you like you treat her leads to the self-destruction of your ego. Keeping your self-worth intact and refusing to let anyone damage it is what this is all about. For the longest time I would hold on to any woman who showed me an ounce of affection, and all it did was whittle me down to a person I didn't want to be. When I stopped allowing myself to be treated like that I finally realized what it meant to b…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 04:17 AM
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That's a great quote. And I agree completely. I feel like this sub and most of you guys who are on here have helped me grow up extremely fast when it comes to dealing with women. I'm really in a good place in my life mentally and I think a lot of people who stumble upon TRP just see it as a mysogonistic echo chamber when in reality all of this is meant to help men mature.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 04:14 AM
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You don't need a personal trainer. Motivate yourself and go do it. Go to the fitness subreddit. Read the wiki on the sidebar. Lookup programs and decide on one. Train at least 3 days a week to start. You said you were in collegiate soccer. They didn't have you lift at all? WTF.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 09:48 PM
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I use condoms. It doesn't matter about the girl though, I'm always worried about that
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:26 PM
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They are attracted to me but in comparison to their eyes mine are blank and I don't really care about them at all, I'm just trying to get them to have sex with me and thats it. You need to build attraction. They're not hookers. (Well, maybe some of them are, but they won't tell you that.)
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:18 PM
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Because I like having sex consistently. And she's hot.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:12 PM
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Yeah, I know she's lying. Which is why I'm soft nexting her. But we fucked 5 times on Friday and Saturday and she gave me beer and made me food so I know she's interested. She's definitely a major slut, but most single women are.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:10 PM
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I don't care if she fucks other guys. But if that is what she's doing - texting multiple dudes then ignoring me - I would drop her without a second thought. The thing is, I have no proof that's what she's doing. It's just a gut feeling.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:00 PM
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I've been in your situation before and this is what worked for me. I smoked a half ounce a week a few years ago, sat around and played video games all day, drank anywhere from 12-18 beers every single day, and was a complete mess overall. I ended up leaving my home state and completely changed my life around. You need to get out of that environment, because it's very difficult to change your mind when everything else around you is the same. If you have any money at all go on a camping trip by yo…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 08:09 PM
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If there's any way you can get out of town for a week or two without your friends, do that. Don't bring any weed with you. In fact, get rid of everything you use before you leave. Any bags, grinders, pipes, stems, whatever. Everything that could potentially remind you of it needs to go in the garbage. Go somewhere and take some time to just live. Bring a book and try to be active. Do it for as long as you can - 2 weeks would be ideal.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 07:53 PM
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Well I only have two at the moment. Another girl who I had a ONS with might turn into one but she's further away so getting together isn't convenient for either of us. Personally I can only really manage 3 or 4 chicks at a time so if I start seeing the other girl and meet one more then I'll soft next her permanently. Until then I'll just follow your advice and go with the dread. I already planned on doing that but I like the way you put it. I'm going to use that line next time she texts.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 07:18 PM
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Yeah man, you should be fine doing that. It's all up to you and how your body responds to it. At times I've done 125g of protein a day purely from shakes because I was on an extreme deficit (1000 calories under my maintenance). Personally I felt fine as long as I had carbs here and there but I've been cutting for a long time so I'm used to feeling like shit.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 07:00 PM
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Thanks bro. I don't listen to her. She definitely knows how to play games (she's 35). I'm younger and I honestly don't give a fuck if she thinks I'm being mean. I've been straight up with her like I am with every girl and she's the only one saying this shit. I'm seeing another girl right now who is exactly like you described - putting herself around me, picking me up beer on her way over, working with my schedule... and I treat her good. The only problem is I'm not as attracted to her. Regarding…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:40 PM
1

I have pimples on my back but I don't really care atm. None of my girls look at my back. My arms and legs are clear. In another month when it's beach season I'm going to reduce my intake to 2 scoops a day and see if it clears up. I've been lifting on and off for two years and using isopure for most of that time because I was on a cut the entire time (265 > 195). Now that I'm bulking (195 > 210) I'm still using it to hit my requirements but there are definitely side effects. I'm probably overdoin…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:29 PM
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Yeah, she's been trying to pull shit like this for a while and I don't go along with it. Then she gets pissed off and tries guilt tripping me by saying I'm mean to her. I just ignore it. The thing is that she lives alone and I live with my brother so I would rather go over to her place, but I don't want her to think I'm some dog that'll come running every time she whistles.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:20 PM
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I use Isopure Zero Carb. 2 shakes a day is 100g of protein and only 400 calories. Any other protein you have from eating should be enough to hit your requirements. Other than that just eat whatever gives you energy and try to stay low carb. Focus on lifting more than cardio.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:12 PM
0

I'm with you on this. Who cares in the beginning? I expect my plates to be seeing other guys at the same time as me. The dude says zero, which is completely unrealistic in this day and age.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:04 PM
2

NEXT
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:30 PM
1

No offense op, but you sound like a woman with this post. You should be happy women are "objectifying" you. It gives you more options.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:18 AM
1

Yep. Fuck that noise. So full of herself she's just a time bomb waiting to explode. If op rejected her she would be a completely different person and go for the lowest blows possible right off the bat.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:16 AM
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There was a post on here the other day about making girls cum almost instantaneously by positioning their ass on the edge of the bed and angling your dick upwards into their g-spot. Push them down with your arms and just keep your dick angled up. Look it up in top posts of the past week. I did it to one of my plates this past weekend and she fucking freaked out. Came multiple times in a row and literally shook like I've never seen any other girl. I thought she was epileptic for a second haha. An…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 03:17 AM
63

Even the announcers are thinking "What a beta bitch".
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 02:53 AM
4

Say "Mr. Big dick needs to pee pee" then quickly waddle to the bathroom while stretching your pants at the crotch with both hands.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 12:05 AM
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You don't need an opening. While you're walking and the conversation is going good just stop, say "hold on a second" and kiss her. One slow kiss, pull back and look her in the eyes, then go back in for a good 5-10 second makeout. It doesn't matter where you are. Even if I think she's not completely feeling it I still do this and it works every single time. ps. All women say shit like "I'm not that easy". It's a shit test. Laugh it off and carry on like it never happened.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 12:00 AM
2

You're right. I meant if she has plate status. I wouldn't do that to a girl the first or even second time she came over.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 11:40 PM
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You don't need to be an "asshole". That's not what this sub is about, even though it might come off like that sometimes. The term asshole is really just used to describe ways men naturally act that society has recently deemed wrong because everyone is so far up their own ass with feminist bullshit rhetoric. According to society, if you call a girl out on her whiny, fake mind games nowadays you're an asshole. If you take a day to respond to a text you're an asshole. If you tell her to leave when …
/r/askTRP02/04/17 11:27 PM
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I wouldn't even respond to that. Wait for her to text you again
/r/askTRP02/04/17 10:51 PM
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Yes. Go for it. Beware of mindgames afterwards though. She might become insecure if you focus too much on the other chick, so try not to. Maintain eye contact with your girl and make it about her and you with the other girl being a third-wheel.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 08:33 PM
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Cut back on the sodium. Stuff like pizza should be a once or twice a month thing. Your diet doesn't matter as long as you're on a calorie deficit and you're getting around 0.8g of protein per pound of body weight. Start lifting.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 03:52 PM
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Don't worry about it. I felt the same way at first and it goes away fast. You sound like you're way too into the first chick so it's good that you did this. Girls use us, we use them, that's the way of the world.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 02:01 PM
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She's not a problem, but I don't want to be fucking some chick who's getting with a new guy every week. I'm doing the same thing though so I guess it's kind of hypocritical. Still, I don't want a slut in my bed.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 07:06 AM
2

Somethings wrong. Are you on any medications? Do any drugs? If not, do you do cardio? Running helped me a lot with my sex drive.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 02:23 AM
2

Alcohol is a depressant. If you have some drinks at a bar/club mix in some water after your 2nd one.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 10:27 PM
1

Tupac, Dre, Eazy E.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 10:25 PM
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Don't do it. One of my plates has tried this twice and I straight up told her I didn't want to hang out with her friends. Tell her to hit you up when she leaves.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 10:20 PM
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Maybe this isn't exactly relevant but imo there's no problem with sleeping over. It's the morning conversation that gets you. I literally just dealt with this a few hours ago. She was asking about my other plate (I was a dumbass and tried to set up a threesome with both of them a few weeks back and the other girl was into it but she wasn't having it). She lobbed a shit test my way and said I couldn't see any other girl the same day as her. I laughed, deflected and immediately escalated. Fucked h…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 05:51 PM
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As always, the answer to this problem is maintaining your abundance mentality. If you have one plate, she's not a plate. She's oneitis simmering in a crock pot on low, and succumbing to oneitis is beta as we all know. If they make comments related to exclusivity deflect them. Don't fall into the trap.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 05:47 PM
1

You think guys 30,000 years ago gave a shit about their fucked up childhoods? I doubt it. Dad raped mom in a cave somewhere in Southern Germany then fell off a cliff when he was out fetching water. Mom died from the flu when you were 6. You were raised by the clan and lived a hard, malnourished existence that ended when you were 30 years old because you scraped your dick on a rock and got an infection. That's how I process my childhood. Billions of other people throughout human history have had …
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:24 PM
1

Women: Most of them are loose. Try harder and stop giving a fuck about getting rejected. Sex: Quit jacking off so much. Focus on that 17 year old at work that wants your dick. It's not statutory. Life: Don't think about the past or the future. Live in the present and do what you feel like doing. Education: Go to fucking class and start paying attention. You're paying thousands of dollars for it. Relationships: Good job on avoiding one. Alcohol: Quit binge drinking. Learn to drink socially and le…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:19 PM
1

If you care about her cheating on you then you're doing it wrong. If she cheats, you dump her and find another one. Otherwise you let her live her life and assume she's faithful until red flags start popping up. Like Rollo says in that post, if she wants to cheat she'll find a way. It doesn't matter if it's at the festival or with the mailman. The best thing you can do is tell her to have a fun time and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:10 PM
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Just re-download it. It's not that hard to set it up again. She obviously wants you bad so I would view this as a sign that you're doing well. It's weird as fuck, yeah, but don't throw away consistent sex over it. Put a password on your phone, then when you guys are chilling out casually open up Tinder and start swiping. Fuck with her.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 06:43 PM
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190g of protein is fine. Stop masturbating at all if you have a girl/girls you're seeing. Save it for them. If you're not seeing one, then quit anyway and go out to bars/clubs on the weekend. You'll be a lot more motivated to get laid.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 06:34 PM
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Find one hobby and learn everything about it that you can. That should take you months. Repeat. Delve into a new social scene. Learn about people, study them, learn how they think and take a real interest in them. People are fucking fascinating dude. You don't think about it often but they're like another world that's right in front of you. They see things differently, have different memories, opinions and habits. To me that's very interesting. Also, explore nature. Stop for a moment and appreci…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 05:56 PM
1

Sometimes the crotch grab isn't far enough. Consider sending a butthole pic, OP.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:21 AM
1

Bang his mother. Become his father.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:18 AM
1

Go by yourself. Look for a group with more girls than guys. Preferably no guys. Introduce yourself and ask where they're from. Ask questions. Soon you'll be part of the group. Bring up another spot nearby and say "Have you ever been to (place)? We should go!" Focus in on one girl but still talk to all of them. The rest is up to you.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:15 AM
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It really depends. If she says no when I ask for her number or talk about setting up a date, I erase her from my memory. If she says no while we're making out or in bed I keep trying.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:12 AM
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Yes. I deleted them from my phone and unmatched them. No desperate messages asking them for another time. Nothing. I've been stood up twice by girls on tinder - still went out both nights and ended up making out with a girl and getting their number each time. I use it as motivation.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:09 AM
1

Are you into electronic/dance/club music at all? If you have a little extra money and a mac you could try Logic. It's a digital audio workstation you can make beats and songs on and it doesn't take any musical knowledge. It is $200 though. There's also Fruity Loops, Ableton, and tons of other programs that you can try for free. Every girl gets excited when I tell her I make EDM music, so that's a bonus too.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:00 AM
1

Yes. Do it. I lost my virginity to an absolute whore - ugly broad I wouldn't even glance sideways at today. I don't even remember her name I was so drunk. But she taught me some good moves. Just get it over with. Virginity isn't anything to be ashamed about, and there's no reason to covet it. Sex isn't that big of a deal.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 02:55 AM
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At some point you need to go out into the world. You can't bury yourself in books forever. Elon Musk is a nerdy guy. He spent his entire childhood buried in books and getting bullied. Nearly got killed as a result. But in college he hosted some absolute ragers at his house. Books will give you a leg up on people in some ways, but being able to socialize and talk to people is just as valuable if not more valuable. The sooner you start doing that the better.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 02:53 AM
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Some of them are really nice. If she has really wide hips and a big ass (like a lot of south american chicks) they tend to make her look way better. The downside is they basically lose all feeling in the nipples and as a guy who likes to suck tits it can be a bummer because they just get bored.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 02:48 AM
5

These are some of the guys in that Man Up Against Violence group. I don't know what I expected.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 07:31 PM
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Step 1: Go in and start jacking off. Step 2: Scream "I'm a sinnnnnnner!" right as you finish.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 07:24 PM
8

Well I'm at work getting paid to sit here and monitor network traffic and post on reddit. So actually I'm getting a pretty good return right now. Social media is a tool for ego stimulation that I personally don't find satisfying. That's nice you get results from it but it's just not for me.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 06:56 PM
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rap increases SMV This is where I stopped reading.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 06:53 PM
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Every second you spend staring at social media is a second you could be spending doing a hobby, reading, working out, or socializing with people in real life.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 06:45 PM
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I have a facebook for checking up with family and friends back home (I live across the country). But as a man with goals there's no reason you should be posting status updates, memes, or little random thoughts. And yes, he should have blocked her the day after they broke up.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:30 PM
1

My god that thread is rage inducing.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:19 PM
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A primary example of why you shouldn't use Facebook right here. Dude was being petty and posting memes for attention. Wannabe alpha tries to show off and ends up destroying 2 lives in the process. And the bitch who drove both of them to do it gets to go on with her life like nothing happened.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:13 PM
6

You were born 6'4''? Did your mom survive the birth?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:34 PM
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No, there aren't. Read the sidebar. Read the top posts on TRP. Go out and fuck a few more and you'll see for yourself. I used to be like you, dude. Trust me, that's just not the case in today's society.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 04:22 AM
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Oh boy. How old are you man? How many women have you been with? One? Two? Go out and fuck 10 chicks then come back and read this comment you posted. I guarantee you'll laugh. Not that there's anything unnatural with your thought-process. But you're naive.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 04:12 AM
2

The amount of retards posting on this sub is staggering. Don't know why I even come here.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 02:03 AM
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I got one date from it this year and she was insane - total catfish and told me her parents committed suicide on the first "date" out of the blue. So I went to the bar by my place and got more action in two weekends then I've ever gotten from girls online.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 07:57 PM
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Herman wasn't a normal BP faggot. He had some issues. I wouldn't generalize men based off Herman.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 07:54 PM
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Yep. I lost 70 lbs in the past two years and the difference is night and day. Went from getting rejected by ugly chicks to fucking milfs, college chicks, and the recent one I hooked up with looked like a pornstar. Picking them up is 1000x easier if you're in shape and you dress good.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 03:40 PM
1

Invite her over to "help her" on that school stuff. When she's at your place change the subject away from school right away and ask her normal stuff like how her day is going, etc., do some touching and joking all while maintaining heavy eye contact. Take her into your room, say "I want you" look deep into her eyes and kiss her, then escalate.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:04 PM
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No. Like I said, you're retarded.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:42 PM
6

Read your post.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:39 PM
9

You're a fucking retard
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:14 PM
1

Yeah, idk what was wrong with me man... it was like I was still drunk but I didn't even drink that much. Maybe I was just out of my element because she's the hottest chick I've ever been with. I've gotta go for it though. If she ghosts I still have two plates I can fall back on.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 03:23 AM
1

How long would you wait? I feel like tomorrow would be too soon.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:21 AM
1

She lives about 20 miles away. I picked her up at a bar, we went to a club, made out and I moved things along then her ugly friend had to go so she drove her home. Then she texted me saying come over. We fucked til 4am and she said to stay. Fucked again in the morning but it honestly wasn't my best performance. Couldn't even finish because the condoms were so thick. I think that's why it was awkward. She gave me her number the night before and we texted briefly on Sunday.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:19 AM
2

Seriously though, I always watch comedians with girls and we end up fucking every time. Watch the new dave chappelle stuff on netflix.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 08:50 PM
1

Yeah, that's a possibility. Haven't had that happen personally.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 08:47 PM
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Think of her like a child throwing a fit. What do you do to a child? Ignore them and go on with your life. They'll settle down eventually. If they don't you have to punish them. When it comes to women that means completely ignoring them for a long stretch of time (a week or so). No texting. No calls. No social media shit. Nothing.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 08:39 PM
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No, if you initiate then she gets what she wants - attention. Don't give it to her. Act like nothing happened and all is right in the world. If she brings it up again change the subject. If she won't drop it then say "This conversation is over." Don't stoop to her level and get angry.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 08:35 PM
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If some chick came up to me at the library and started telling me about her smelly pussy I'd tell her to fuck off. This post is retarded. OP, what's the point of all this? This story has no relevance to TRP.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 07:52 PM
1

Well more power to your method then. As long as people are getting healthier that's a win in my book.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 06:53 PM
1

Personally I think IF is great and you very well might be correct, I just don't see the point in ever ignoring the gym.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 06:49 PM
1

I have 3 plates right now. All it takes is one or two texts and you can have a date. If they're being difficult just go to the bar and hit on girls. If you have decent game you can pick one up about 75% of the time.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 06:43 PM
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That's a question the greatest minds have struggled with since biblical times. I'm not qualified to answer.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 06:41 PM
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You very well might be right - you seem to be a lot more knowledgeable when it comes to the scientific aspect. But if you're lazy, you're lazy. The sooner you break that cycle of laziness the better. That takes determination. If you're truly determined then waiting 4 weeks is just going to be a waste of time, and if you're not determined then I believe you will ultimately fail either way.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 06:40 PM
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I can see where you're coming from for sure. But imo if they don't have the mental fortitude to force themselves to work out then they won't be able to stick to IF for two weeks. Even going to the gym for 30 minutes is enough in the beginning. But you need to force yourself to get into a routine early on and stick with it.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 06:23 PM
3

Good advice, but he should start lifting right away. If you just diet and don't lift you're going to lose more muscle along with any fat you burn.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 06:14 PM
10

Watch toy story again. If she complains tell her to stop it. In the middle of it, say "Wanna see my Woody?" and whip your dick out. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 05:59 PM
1

Never complain. In the future if a girl denies you, wait 5 minutes and re-escalate. If she denies you again, do the same thing one more time. If she denies you a 3rd time stop trying. Don't text her anything. And definitely don't worry about it. A lot of girls do this the first time - in my experience about 1 in 3 will. If you stop texting them they get crazy horny and they'll usually hit you up to fuck a few days later.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 05:44 PM
3

It's cool. I am too sometimes
/r/askTRP28/03/17 05:40 PM
9

You're a fucking retard
/r/askTRP28/03/17 04:21 PM
1

Are you sure you're not gay, OP?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 04:21 PM
4

Play a sport
/r/askTRP28/03/17 04:14 PM
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What is this shit?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 04:08 PM
3

Do not respond to her tantrum. Finish your day at work and carry on like nothing happened. Ignore her if she tries arguing with you - go to the gym.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 04:06 PM
5

Your friends sound like faggots. I would tell them to shut the fuck up next time they pull something like that. You need some new friends though.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 04:04 PM
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Then yeah, ghost her. Keep going to the gym, lift, and do at least an hour and a half of cardio a week. If you can handle it, do more. Keep your protein intake high. She said she only wants to be friends. That's a rejection - no point in keeping her around.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:34 PM
0

Quit trolling.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:25 PM
14

I'm always tipsy when I meet girls, I just like to drink. But you better believe I'm pounding waters at the bar before we go back to my place.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:24 PM
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You should really ask your doctor. For normal upkeep I always take a multivitamin and make sure to drink tons of water. That, combined with regular exercise and quitting smoking, got rid of my anxiety. Other supplements like Iron and Magnesium can be helpful if you have deficiencies due to your diet. Some people recommend vitamin b12 and L-theanine for focus but I haven't tried those. I'm not going to comment on the other ones you mentioned because I don't have any experience with those.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:17 PM
10

What app tells you that they swipe right?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:11 PM
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That text is fine. Not a slip up at all and it doesn't make you look weak. You don't have to be a robot... I usually just respond with "Me too" if they send something like that, but it's up to you. Don't overthink it too much dude.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:09 PM
1

Oneitis. And you feel that way because your gut is telling you you're being a little bitch. Your focus shifted from you to her and you need to get the focus back on you and your frame will line up again. This is the best advice you're going to get, OP. Go lift, focus on yourself for while and forget she exists for a few days. And quit texting bitches that you love them.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:21 PM
3

If one of my plates said that to me I would ghost them.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:15 PM
1

Yeah, definitely. I'm not going to date a chick 10 years older than me. Just not my style.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:08 PM
1

Dude I'm 25 and I still have bad nights. You'll have them now and then and this was your first time. Sometimes they're not doing their part and you have to do all the work, sometimes you're a little too drunk and you can't fuck them as good as you know you can. Sometimes it just takes being together a few times before it actually gets good. If you keep working on it with her it'll get better.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:16 PM
3

For sure dude, it's definitely a confidence booster. Even if I don't see her again it's all good. At least I know I can pull in some quality tail now. Thanks for talking some sense man. Reading TRP has completely changed my life and I'm basically in shock with the shit I'm pulling off recently haha.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:26 AM
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Nah, you're right. I'm overthinking it way too much and already putting her on a pedestal. Honestly I don't usually get like this about any girls I hook up with... And like you said, I don't know her at all. I gotta get back on my game.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:12 AM
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No my purpose isn't to brag. I'm just explaining why I would even post this. If she was a normal girl I wouldn't be asking this but since she's better looking than the girls I usually get I guess I'm just overthinking it.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:51 AM
2

I am a little worried to be honest. I have 2 other girls at the moment but this chick is insanely hot, like a pornstar basically. I'm just trying to stick to my usual techniques but it hasn't been easy. She's the hottest chick I've ever been with by far.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:26 AM
1

Jesus christ man. Good job dodging that bullet.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:00 AM
1

I kind of had to say something. She saw me making out with this other girl I'm seeing on St. Paddy's. I was in a bar she just happened to walk by. Totally random bad luck but I still fucked her afterwards. That was actually what got her to loosen up, as weird as it is.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:59 AM
1

And the "I'm not texting you until you apologize" sounds EXACTLY like something a chick would do... Yeah, you're right. It's petty. I didn't actually say that to her because I realized how it sounded. I still want to fuck her though so it's tough. Like a lot of guys, I've always had a thing for older women and she's really attractive. Totally my type. So of course I have this innate desire to chase the pussy and it's fucking with my head.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 11:16 PM
1

Yeah, I kind of did alter the pattern, but she acts like I should drop everything and go see her whenever she wants. And I'm really not opposed to hanging out with older people, I just don't want to hang out with her and her friends because we're not dating. I told her straight up I didn't want a relationship and she said she didn't want anything serious either, but after I fucked her for the first time she started to get clingy and began asking me out on all these date type activites. Maybe I l…
/r/askTRP27/03/17 11:12 PM
2

Thanks brother. That's why I come here - to learn.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 11:03 PM
1

Yeah. I couldn't even finish because it weirded me out so much. I've begun flushing condoms with all these girls because I don't trust any of them.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 11:00 PM
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Just confirming my thoughts even more. She also wanted to fuck without a condom the first time and basically pulled it off of me. I'm getting a "crazy chick" vibe from her more and more each time I see her.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 10:02 PM
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You gave her an opportunity and she didn't reciprocate. I wouldn't text her again.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 09:20 PM
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Seriously. She was playing hard to get for the longest time until I finally told her I would just go find someone else to fuck. Then she was all over my dick. And now she's playing these games... I don't even know if it's worth the trouble.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 09:08 PM
1

I don't hit her up to talk. I only text her to invite her over. I'll ignore it ever happened and wait for her to text me. Thanks for the advice dude.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 08:53 PM
2

I know. I did chase a little bit and I recognized it right after, but I'm kind of inexperienced when it comes to shit tests. We're not even in a relationship and she's pulling this shit, meanwhile I have other chicks who are way lower maintenance and they put out a lot more. I'm not going to contact her.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 08:47 PM
1

Yeah, you're right. I feel like I should wait a few days and ignore her a little just to show her I'm serious though.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 08:37 PM
1

You're right in a way about embracing yourself. I might not have worded it the best. What I meant was that you need to embrace who you are while improving yourself. If you're not constantly improving then you're stagnating. But if you're a little weird then that's a part of your personality and you can't throw that to the side in your quest for pussy. There are plenty of chicks out there who will find you attractive simply because you're passionate about something they haven't heard about.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 06:10 PM
1

Shout out to u/thebeginer - thanks for the gold!
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 01:33 PM
1

Yeah, I think that's the main issue. I'll get some new ones
/r/askTRP26/03/17 04:56 PM
2

It's natural to feel a little angry. The good thing is you recognize your emotions and know that it's a pointless endevour to keep being angry. I get the sense that you're a fairly intelligent dude. Good on you for not letting those emotions take over. Keep it up bro
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 04:20 PM
5

Don't get me wrong. Lifting is key. Running is key (for performance reasons especially). But being comfortable with yourself trumps all of that.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 09:58 PM
5

No resentment here. Just amusement. It's all a game.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 09:25 PM
13

The insecurity on this sub is a fucking plague, and you can smell it like an open wound. There's an influx of pussies who won't stick around, and those of us who actually get this shit can recognize it.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 08:05 PM
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Yes it is. It's a concept invented by pussies. Like you said, you can be a fat fuck chugging pabst on the street corner and you'll still get HB10's if you believe you can.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 07:52 PM
1

Knowing it is the entire battle. Most of us were weak for a good portion of our lives, and you can't help but look back sometimes and be bitter about the time you wasted.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 01:02 PM
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You know why it's sad? All of us knew this shit deep down inside but we never admitted it to ourselves because it's easier to have an idealized outlook on the world. As a normal guy, you don't want to know that girl you've been chasing has fucked more dudes than you can count. You don't want to know that picking up women is easy if you just have a good body. You don't want to admit any of this shit to yourself. Because the world becomes a colder place. It's not warm and fluffy like the movies te…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 02:21 AM
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You're right, I think we're both on the same page but I didn't explain myself very well. What I was trying to say was that /u/livefreeordiemaga saying he looks like he has "10-12% BF on [his] face, arms, legs" was a moot point because ultimately, as a man, the best indicator of body fat percentage is going to be your stomach and lower abs. Of course that's not exactly the same for women since their body fat usually lingers in their stomach, hips and thighs. He is right to a certain degree though…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:00 AM
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That's a great mindset to have dude. Go out there and take what you want from the world. Someone has to do it. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:57 PM
17

Some people on here will tell you that epiphanies are bullshit and you'll go back to the same mindset you had before eventually. Well, THAT is bullshit. I had an epiphany last year at a business conference in New York where there were so many people and I was so damn anxious I felt like I just had to get the fuck out of there, so I did. I went back to my hotel room and found a post about mindfulness on the front page that basically said "If you live in the past you'll be depressed. If you live i…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:49 PM
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I'm not arguing with anyone. Merely saying that no matter who you are, your fat will always be most visible in your gut. You're not going to have fat shoulders and a 6 pack.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:38 PM
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You're not a woman are you? Genetics have nothing to do with having a gut. Your body doesn't decide to burn face fat or gut fat. It just burns fat.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:23 PM
1

That's completely irrelevant. Everybody's genetics "store it almost completely around" their waist once you get below 20%.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:07 PM
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Your genetics don't store shit around your waist. Your fat is distributed throughout your body and the waist/lower abs just happens to be the last spot to go. Cut your daily calorie intake, do some cardio and continue lifting and you'll drop that in a few months.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 07:33 PM
3

Right there with you. You're reasonable. For some reason I've been seeing a lot of guys on here that are way too quick to delete girls, or cut off contact completely for some little indiscretion that's not even a big deal. There was one dude who told a chick he never wanted to talk to her again because she wouldn't fuck him on the first date. In this case, the dude already got her number, something came up and she flakes. Maybe she got nervous, maybe her friends hit her up, maybe she just didn't…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 07:24 PM
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If it bothers you then tell him it bothers you. Otherwise let him go for it. That dude's been your friend for 8 years. They're just women.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 03:15 PM
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You were too pushy. Alpha doesn't mean you get to fuck on the first date and if you don't you act like an asshole. A lot of girls will make you wait, so just go with it. If she doesn't put out by the 3rd date then I would be frustrated, but never throw a tantrum because you don't get your way. Accept it and stay chill. I've fucked girls the first night I met them, other girls on the 2nd date, and I've had girls who I didn't see for a month hit me up and ask me over to fuck. It's all about being …
/r/askTRP23/03/17 03:11 PM
1

I play guitar and make House music. I do it for about 2 hours every night but I didn't know that counted as meditation.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 03:06 PM
1

Lookup affiliate networks, go on mymediads.com and post an ad (they're free). Look into free affiliate platforms (Revive Adserver is decent), pick a few CPL offers from one of the affiliate networks you find and set them up in placements on your site. Measure the performance and test them against other ads.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 01:34 PM
1

Any specific meditation techniques you're willing to share?
/r/askTRP22/03/17 07:49 PM
4

I don't value her that much. If she was hotter I wouldn't leave her alone but it freed up time for me to talk to some other chicks that were there.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 05:55 PM
1

O_O
/r/askTRP22/03/17 04:21 PM
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Exactly. There's no reason to cut it off - usually. OP fucked up though and said some of the dumbest shit you can ever say. I'm not sure there's any way to salvage this one. @OP - Just stop contacting her as frequently. See if she chills out. Maybe she'll go out and fuck some other guy and get over herself. Then you can go back to just seeing her for sex.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:57 PM
2

Compliments aren't a bad thing imo. But I say it if she makes a bad joke or gives me shit for something I said. It's more playful than complementary.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:50 PM
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lmfao
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:48 PM
2

Wtf are you talking about? There are such things as "boyfriends", just like some of us have "girlfriends". We're talking about the real world, not RP.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:40 PM
1

There is no other option than self-improvement. I accept that and embrace it. Want a huge meal? Nope. I need to lose 10 pounds because I told myself I would. I'm a man of my word. Want a cigarette? Go fuck yourself brain. I told myself I quit. Want to skip the gym and play video games? Fuck no. Get your ass dressed and lift. Once I decide to do something I hold myself to it. Always have a goal and you'll always have motivation.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:31 PM
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After 5-10 minutes of talking say "There's no way you're single. Where's your boyfriend?" If she says she's single keep talking to her. If not, move on. *For a little more context, don't just blurt this out. That is too much of a compliment. Say it if she makes a bad joke or if she does/says something kind of weird and say it in a sarcastic way.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:26 PM
1

I'm mainly just focused on working out so I can get around or below 10% bf. I'm really close and these girls always want to drink when we hang out so it's holding me back. They're both legit plates too - I've fucked em both but only once each. I don't consider anyone I haven't fucked a plate. And honestly I'm really new to this sub so I might not even be using the term correctly... all these terms and shit are confusing as fuck and I've read the sidebar thoroughly.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 12:29 AM
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She said she was on her period last Tuesday, then yesterday she was supposed to come over and she said she missed a dose of birth control and her period came back. Then she asked me if we should wait to hang out until it was over. It sounded like bullshit to me so I told her yes, we should wait. She's a little overweight and I think she's self-conscious about her body but we've hung out 2 times since we had sex and both times she hasn't put out - (on her period the first time and the 2nd time sh…
/r/askTRP22/03/17 12:22 AM
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I wasn't asking about my situation specifically. I was looking for other people's input on how they manage them, how many they consider a max, etc. I didn't word it the best way that I could have. A lot of you guys gave good input though.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 12:08 AM
1

Well 2 is kind of a pain in the ass, but one of them wants a relationship. If she was more casual I think I could handle one more, so maybe 3 tops.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 10:18 PM
1

This is me right now too. I really only have the weekends free, so I think 3 might be the max.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 10:17 PM
2

I can really only stand it once a week with this chick because unfortunately I'm not that attracted to her and she's been pulling the "on my period" card lately and just wanting to hang out, which is getting old fast. I think twice a week max is a good balance though. I'll try that moving forward.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 08:20 PM
2

Now that I think about it, one (23) is more of a FWB. I only talk to the other one (35) when I want to fuck her or she wants to fuck me. She's very low maintenance. This first chick is taking up quite a bit of my time though... wanting to hang out two or three times a week, and we've gone on 4 dates on Fridays and Saturdays, which I usually reserve for going to the club with friends. Maybe I just need to slow her down and stop responding for a while like you said. It's starting to impact my gym …
/r/askTRP21/03/17 07:04 PM
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You didn't even cheat, first of all. Second of all, quit going on tinder to feed your validation. Either be willing to meet up with the girls or don't use it all. Using it for validation is something a woman does.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 02:27 PM
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Some of the funniest shit I've read on here. We've all been there though. Thanks for sharing dude.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 12:33 AM
2

I agree. An anger phase is almost necessary for self-improvement. Getting rejected by a woman you've been chasing, or having a woman crush you emotionally feels terrible at the time, but it spurs positive change in the long run. It's important to get through that as fast as you possibly can and switch to a phase of positivity. For the guys who haven't begun talking to women consistently, the key is to go out and make yourself vulnurable. Get rejected. Have your heart ripped in half. Learn what t…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:33 PM
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Idk the dynamic of your relationship, and I'm fairly new to this sub, so maybe I did. It just seems like a lot of stuff on here seems to be posturing and I don't see the point in it. I don't think every interaction needs to be a contest or about holding frame.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 10:07 PM
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This type of shit isn't necessary and it's not holding frame. I swear, some of you guys don't know when this sub ends and the real world begins. Taking your girl's glass and putting it in the dishes doesn't make you a pussy or beta... quit overanalyzing things.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:55 PM
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I don't see how shit like this and posts about mentoring young guys get upvoted on the same sub. This is like some schoolyard bullies poking fun at the fat kid. Not what I come here for...
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:40 PM
1

True shit.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 07:41 PM
2

You guys are right. I've been focusing on getting women for the past 2 months, and even though I've been successful it's not healthy. The problem is both of these girls are doing all those things. They're very respectful, nice (buy me stuff all the time), and I completely dominate them. Reading this has me thinking I might need to dial things back though and really crack down on myself. I have no goals at the moment and that's a big problem. I just go to work, try to kick ass, and go to the gym,…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 06:02 PM
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Good point. I'm focusing on them so much that I've lost sight of my own goals. You're absolutely right.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 05:51 PM
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I have this problem too. It's all about anxiety and trying too hard to please them. I think it's natural though because you're trying to feel the person out and see what's working and what's not. It's just a matter of too much thinking.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:34 AM
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This is common sense, not worthy of a post imo. Good on you for finding some freedom though.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:27 AM
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Not to stroke your ego, but there's nothing wrong with you. You're young and we all go through phases. I'm not going to tell you that you should go out and fuck a ton of girls, because that's not what this sub is about. Women don't think of your past until you get intimate. They don't give a shit if you've been with 0 girls, or 100. They want security and they want to get fucked good. That's it. Don't tell them you're inexperienced, because it doesn't matter. What matters is self-improvement, gr…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:19 AM
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You don't find them. If you do then you better play the lottery because it's fucking rare. I have a girl right now (23) who's well off. Cuban jew, good family, graduate student and into all the shit I'm into. I thought she was a unicorn but it turns out she's sucked more dick than the 35 year old I'm seeing. Debating whether or not I'm going to cut ties but she's a fucking expert so I don't think I can do it yet.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:33 AM
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You're right. OP needs to let it go. It's a valuable lesson to learn and one I think we all know can happen. She's not worth it though. He needs to cut ties and put a tourniquette on the wound so to speak. A lawsuit would just keep that wound open and that's not healthy.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:27 AM
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We can't trust these women. Good on you for working on yourself. You've got it figured out brother. Keep doing what you're doing and find a loyal woman when you're ready for it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:34 AM
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I don't hang out with guys my age (mid-20s). I hang out with a few successful dudes once a week and we smoke cigars and have some scotch. One is a real estate agent, another is a neurosurgeon, and the other guy is a big-wig at AT&T. A while back I realized most guys my age are chasing on Friday nights and it's pathetic, so I only have one buddy in my age range and the rest are just aquaintances. It might sound harsh but if you have a mission and you know what you want then you need to cut out an…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:23 AM
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Maybe those guys do stretches before the gym, like me. Quit judging people and focus on your own shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 07:21 PM
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Yeah, try it some time. You just might get laid.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 07:12 PM
2

Nah, I got a few girls who'll do that for me
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 06:13 PM
1

Field reports are dear diary. The point is don't focus on one woman, even when you're with her. It's all good though.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 06:13 PM
2

You're right. I use that on okcupid. For tinder I just use the first part.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 11:58 AM
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Yep. I was going to link to it but I don't know if that's allowed on this sub. I changed a few things to fit my own style but a lot of this comes from his blog. He's a lot quicker to delete girls if they don't give him the right response, which I thought was short-sighted.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 04:26 AM
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After they reply I improvise. If they give you any variation of yes (they are trouble), say "Good" or "my kind of woman". Then immediately say "how are the boys treating you on here?". They'll usually say "I can't complain" or "not bad" then most of them will ask you "how are the girls?". Copy their response but rephrase it. Then say "what are you looking for on here?". Most of them won't admit they just wanna get their brains fucked out (which 90% of them do) so they'll say something like "a co…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 02:08 AM
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It helps to be in a big city. I'm in Miami so I basically get my pick of the latinas (seeing 3 at the moment).
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 01:57 AM
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I say "you look like trouble ;)" I get a response every time. The girls who say "I kind of am", or "How did you know?" are always DTF.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 10:27 PM
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