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| 265 | Are you a "romantic"? If so, this way please ...I have a several thousand hoops for you to jump through... | Blue Pill Example | _the_shape_ | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 04:13 AM |
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| 4 | Are friends for life as BP as finding a unicorn?Despite my having four friends for more than half my life (two for about twenty years, and another two going back to very early in my life, almost forty years back now), in my personal experience, the answer is closer to "yes", lifelong friends are more rare than they are common. Even though I can pick things up as if we spoke just yesterday with any one of them, each of us has been pulled in some direction or another that's led to an inevitable degree of separation - "life happening", if you wi… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Are you guys cold approaching with masks on?As far as I know, Lincoln's Beard is mask optional outside. A bar I frequent in North Beach is also mask optional, but both outside and inside. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 02:49 AM |
| 3 | As men, what weapons do we wield when our LTR is acting up?Username checks out | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 01:08 AM |
| 3 | What forms of sports do you recommend besides lifting and bodyweight fitness to get fit?Cycling, especially if you have access to steep hills, can help you build monster legs. A lot of cyclists have zero upper body though, so take that into consideration too. Maybe lift 2-3 days a week to balance things out. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 08:59 PM |
| 3 | I’m pretty lost.. not gonna lieHave to record those half-baked thoughts somehow though (i.e. voice memo, video recording, journal) to review once the trip is long gone. What might seem like the answer to all of life's problems (at the time) can be pure retardation, and what might seem stupid and trivial might just be more illuminating than originally perceived. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Hinge Advice for this One Case. Don't want to fuck it up...Do you got any book recommendation for my situation? Less theory, more action. Get more prospects and/or focus more on your own personal life goals. Stop thinking with your downstairs head so much and more with the one above your shoulders. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 06:09 PM |
| 7 | Hinge Advice for this One Case. Don't want to fuck it up...Took the pill around 3-4 years ago when I got separated/divorced. You must have coughed it back up because you never ought to have this mindset ("I REALLY don't want to fuck this one up") floating around within. That's a oneitis weed buried inside, one that must be yanked out fully, roots and all, and not wanting to screw it up with any one particular girl is essentially giving it all the water, sunlight and nutrients it craves to blossom into a full-blown monster that'll systematically reduce y… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 03:33 PM |
| 2 | I (32M) fell in love with a (33F) coworker and I feel it was mutual. She left the company last week and because of COVID I didn't even get to talk to her before. What can I do ?Strongly consider surgically removing whatever you have between your legs and then aim to get a job writing poetry for Hallmark. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 12:41 PM |
| 3 | People call me buddy?Good job proving me right buddy #muah | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 07:13 PM |
| 5 | People call me buddy?If being called "buddy" triggers you the point of making a post like this one, consider it a wake-up call that you have a lot of inner work to do. For the time being, go ahead and casually call them buddy back, like it's a term of endearment that only you and your coworkers use amongst each other, but really look inward and meditate on how soft you currently are within. This can be rectified, but you must look inward, not outward. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 13 | Does regular sex fix the feeling of loneliness?Substitute "regular sex" with "alcohol" or "heroin" and see if you can (then) answer your own question | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Why do I still act awkward AF around people I used to be super beta/awkward around?But as you get older I thing you just generally stop giving a shit. Yes, because the same pattern repeats itself over and over and over again - that is, you do X, and assuming "X" is not something obscenely egregious (ex. whipping your dick out in public, assaulting someone, raping a woman), majority of people will disregard and move on with their lives. Another key part of the process is what you have your eye on. If your focus is on your own development, if you pursue the things you find inter… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Won't be seeing LTR for 6 months beacuse of duty, should I just breakup right now?I tried it once, and it was a (predictable) disaster only a month in to our separation. We were officially calling the whole thing off circa the five month mark or so. I really don't recommend giving it a shot, but your's has an endpoint, mine didn't, so there's that to throw into your pipe and spark up. That's six months though where you definitely won't be giving her any anal, much less seeing her in person. Will some other dude(s) step up to fill her up your shoes while you are away? Well, th… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 12:27 AM |
| 12 | Won't be seeing LTR for 6 months beacuse of duty, should I just breakup right now?If you're being forced into a LDR sort of situation, say something like: "LDRs won't work for either of us, regrettably, so let's end things on a positive note and remain on good terms with one another. Who knows though? Maybe we can pick up where we left off if we find ourselves living in the same city again..." Keep in mind, that you must accept the truth that she will eventually get plowed by some other dude. The last line I wrote above is to potentially keep the door open, but under no circu… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 9 | My LTR (7 years) Just Moved OutTime goes by fast and before you know it the wall is here. Extremely fast. Girls who, from an early age, think putting the marriage/baby question on the backburner until their 30s is a solid idea are playing one dangerously risky game and are actually setting themselves up to make a move of complete desperation and panic once that time rolls around by either shacking up with the first gullible beta willing to put a ring on it/put at least one in the oven, have one of their gay friends donate som… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 12:09 AM |
| 6 | Disinterest in marriageYou have an interest in developing frame? Well, this is a prime opportunity right here. Now you get to test how true you are to yourself. Be straight up. Tell her exactly where you stand, and let her decide whether she wants to stick around or not. Ask yourself, what comes first: your standards, or your dependency on her vagina her? You have to always be ready to walk (or allow them to walk) at any given moment. Step right up and see what you're really made of. Let the chips fall where they may,… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 04:05 PM |
| 8 | How exactly does a woman's attraction to a man work? I feel its somewhat complicated.Guys are simple. We see a hot girl and we want to fuck. Girls can be surprisingly simple too if they're attracted enough to a guy. Comically, they're typically pretty simple too to the guys on the complete opposite end of the totem pole. Why? Because their pity and disgust is so palpable that even they tend to get the message loud and clear. They're more complex to the uninitiated and every other average joe-schmoe who finds himself among the middle of the pack. For a man to attract a woman I fe… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 05:16 AM |
| 0 | How to cold contact in Costco"Oh, wow. Your face diaper really brings out the color in your eyes" | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 04:49 AM |
| 1 | All the men around me seem to be settling down or going MGTOW, but I can't stop thinking about fucking hoes. Is this a sign of immaturity?A couple of things to bear in mind: whichever route you elect, see to it that it is the result of a deliberate choice you’ve made you have plenty of time to make up your mind, but like a girl, you too have a window, although your’s can be made significantly bigger than a girl’s if you conduct yourself properly (ie take very good care of your body/ keep your finances in order/ be a man on top of his shit) there are women out there who are completely accepting of an open relationship. This is abou… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | All the men around me seem to be settling down or going MGTOW, but I can't stop thinking about fucking hoes. Is this a sign of immaturity?Get it out of your system, as they say, if you feel like you must. It's extraordinarily liberating to be able to assess the value of something from personal experience than from observation, something you read, something you heard etc. How many men are suffering a slow, quiet death from buyer's remorse because they wifed up the second girl to ever fuck them, or because they found themselves in shoes similar to your own, started to freak out at the prospect of getting shriveled up and old, so the… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 08:39 PM |
| 3 | I love women, but they annoy meTurn this into a Don Quixote-sized book someday, please | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 03:05 PM |
| 56 | How did you find TRP?It's self-respect all the way down. I'll show you: >How do I get over this? By having enough self-respect to say that you've had enough and you won't 'take it' (translation: sacrifice your sense of self-respect in exchange for whatever a woman can provide you) any longer. >How do I let go? By realizing that you've reached a fork in the road, meaning you must choose between respecting yourself by showing her the door, or choosing the short end of the stick by showing your sense of self-respect th… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 09:10 PM |
| 3 | LTR wants to move a couple of hours away, should I tell her I will break up with her?I’ll concede both, yes | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 09:12 PM |
| 3 | LTR wants to move a couple of hours away, should I tell her I will break up with her?Yeah stuff like this is really making me regret leaving the greenest of the green pastures that is Brooklyn. Not sure why I left when it was actually getting "safer". | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 08:51 PM |
| 8 | LTR wants to move a couple of hours away, should I tell her I will break up with her?The red pill birthed by Corona: to those considering a move to the city or currently living in one, GTFO of dodge | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 8 | How do I change myself from looking like a kid?I'm 37, and when I was 19, I too was frequently mistaken for someone who just entered High School. I still get told that I appear younger than I actually am, usually somewhere in the 29-32 year old range. Be glad that this is your 'predicament'. Probably seems like a major disadvantage at the moment, but you'll come around to seeing the upside as you get older. Don't fuck it up though by bombarding your system with alcohol, drugs, poor sleep, stress, shit diet, excessive time under the sun etc. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Give a young man some adviceEvery time I pick up a new hobby I get obsessed over it and try to be the best at it Do you ever actually move into the 90th percentile of whatever it is you decide to try your hand at, or are you one of those who immediately give up when you realize how much work you'll have to put in to elevate? Also, if you are as competitive as you say you are, you should be seeking out the top competitors in whatever you decide to compete in. In addition, find something you have an interest in, but know you… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 10:43 PM |
| 5 | No friends and hopelessNo, stoicism is about learning how to control your passion(s) and emotions in order to prevent them from controlling you, not excising them like a tumor so that you're some hollowed-out NPC. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 11:55 AM |
| 6 | Tracking girl’s location / messagesIs this simply a girl or your girl we're talking about here? If it's the former, you have some serious issues. If it's the latter, you still have issues. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Very disrespectful comments from LTR after broken frame, soft or hard next?Yes, he should slam shut, pave over the door with cement, and be done with this one forever. Any "advice" suggesting he 'play it cool' or 'give it some time' or go no contact for a short period time as a tactic to reel her back is completely neglecting or hamstering how she's (continuously) spit in OP's face as something forgivable, as if this girl was one of the very few women left in the World, and this degree of disrespect ought to be accepted because, you know, vagina reasons. In short, it's… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 04:06 PM |
| 5 | Very disrespectful comments from LTR after broken frame, soft or hard next?The girl who brought me to TRP some time back now never said those exact words to my face, but other things she said and her overall behavior in the relationship amounted to the same thing (i.e. "I don't need this shit") Without question, the biggest L I've ever taken in the dating world. Good to read that update that you ended it, but now you must enforce it too. It would behoove you to go no contact on this one for the sake of telling yourself that you "can do better". Don't be surprised if sh… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 12:33 PM |
| 11 | Is TRP too ruthless with breakups?she will forget you in a matter of weeks. This right here OP. Whatever emotional lacerations she allegedly sustained from the sudden, unexpected tearing out of the emotional tampon that you allowed yourself to become, will get patched up rapidly. Don't worry about "making the breakup easier for her". Some other dick will take care of that soon, if it's not doing so already. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 05:35 PM |
| 6 | Why do a lot of females get angry when you talk about how they are like?Poor emotional restraint, which makes sense when your feelings and emotions serve as your primary compass to navigate your way through the World. Emotional composure is akin to putting a muzzle on a woman’s soul, a painful, oppressive pair of shackles that prevent her from tasting life. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 6 | Guys who found the redpill how long did the side affect of the pill to work on women?Get the thought of any magic, one-size-fits-all number out of your head (i.e. "take the red pill and start banging girls left and right in under three months or your money back!") Some get it faster than others, and the journey is not an assured progressive shot upwards. As with anything, there will be 'setbacks' - or should I say, the opportunity for real growth. You have to want the adversity. Face the rejections head on. You want to become impervious and gradually cultivate an immutable degre… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 02:33 AM |
| 2 | LTR watches trashy shows constantlyThe real question here is: when will you declare that enough is enough and be done with this one? | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this is good reason to hard next Fiancee?We don’t know how long they dated (ie he vetted her) before slipping on that ring (which is a mistake anyway - I digress) We also don’t know how throughly he vetted or how good of an eye he has to discern between solid and poor character (and this tends to largely come from the amount of experience a man has with women) | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Just got a knife pulled on meSerious question: have you ever seen footage of someone getting shanked to death? Do you realize how easy it is to die from a stab wound(s)? If you think you have the stomach for it, head over to liveleak or livegore, type in "stabbing" in the searchbar and school yourself. Almost always, in well under a minute, they begin to wobble, then dramatically hit the floor like a dropped sack of potatoes. It's not the sort of situation you want to F around with - ever. I understand where you're coming f… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Just got a knife pulled on meHave you seen him before? Was anything possibly caught on any surveillance camera? You can file a report, but odds are it'll just boil down to the ol' :"ok, well, we'll call you and let you know if we find anything", never to hear from them again. Not trying to discourage you, simply pointing out what's likely to take place, especially if you answer "no" to the Qs I wrote above. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 12:55 AM |
| 8 | Just got a knife pulled on meBrazil? | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Let it die? She’s gone cold, no contact for 7 days now.Yes, shit test indeed. You have to strike a balance between not stressing it, but keeping your eye on the overall pattern of your relationship. If those childish little games begin to add up, step back, and honestly look at the entire picture. Could it be you? Are you slacking in some area of your life? Or is it possible it's her, in which case you must begin to remind yourself that this ride is bound to come to an end at some point ("she's not your's; it's only your turn") Enjoy it while it las… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you overcome feeling like shit about actual physical traits in your appearance (ie. freckles, splotchy skin, stuff that can't be changed)?I realize that this is much easier said than done, but you want to be able to look in the mirror, see your actual physical self, but be able to look beyond it and become mesmerized with your frame. That's what you want to get off on when you see your reflection, who you are inside. You want to build yourself up mentally to the point that you've literally flipped your currently perceived weaknesses as strengths, as resistance you used to propel you to an unshakable state of mind. Ideas like a sle… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Did I handle this situation properly?Did her a favor, and inadvertently screwed over at least the next guy she gets with. Not his problem any more, but I guarantee she’ll recoil like she felt a roach crawl up her leg the next time she’s in the zone and a guy tries going down on her. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone tell me how fat she is?You do you (and her too, at this rate), my man. Godspeed. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 03:45 AM |
| 2 | The long game, have you ever done it, and has it ever worked for you?Before y'all tell me how it's pointless and a waste of time, save it For starters, don't be coming in here asking a question and preemptively dismissing responses your precious little ego doesn't want to hear. The truth gives zero fucks about your feelings, and neither does anyone else here. With that out of the way, "the long game" is acceptable as long as you have girls on the front burner - you need to be near a close on a deal or actively closing deals, not sitting around on the sidelines wi… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 03:41 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 22yo guy without direction in life. I need some guidance.Start removing things from your life and learn to simply fucking deal with it. Cancel your Netflix subscription if you have to. Give your game console away, stash it in some storage facility or tell a relative that you intend on doing the Indian giver thing with him/her with the console and all your game. Walk away from your laptop. Get out of the house more. And resist the urge to rationalize why you need those things in your life (you don't). Consider the uneasiness that will bombard you immed… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Can anyone tell me how fat she is?That shoulder is quite telling. If that's her only pic, or her other pics are similar in nature (upper torso & head shots only), you're at least dealing with a chunky chick. To drop some numbers, if she's, let's say, 5'4", by the information I have available to me with that picture, I'd say she's at least 160 lbs. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel really scared to voice your opinion on what’s going on in the current world. I feel like if you don’t agree with the masses , then you will be ridiculed , and protrayed as racist , bigot , sexist , etc. ?That's actually an excellent tactic (i.e. "if you agree with me, it's because it's self-evident that I'm right, and if you disagree with me, you've proved my point that I'm right") A real-life, current example goes like this: "you need to acknowledge your inherent racism. If you do, well, you just admitted to being a racist, but it's ok, we'll get that sorted out with a wealth of anti-racist materials, and if you don't, well, that's clearly proof that you're a racist in denial. However you cut i… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel really scared to voice your opinion on what’s going on in the current world. I feel like if you don’t agree with the masses , then you will be ridiculed , and protrayed as racist , bigot , sexist , etc. ?The poster above is giving you a solid pearl of wisdom. I had a number of occasions living in Brooklyn where being at odds with certain people would have made life substantially more difficult. This applies to anywhere else you happen to live, but especially so in a dense city like that one, where the hivemind is thick and heavy and word gets around rapidly and easily. Strive for self-reliance, but be wary of taking the flamethrower to anyone and everyone. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 06:42 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop my brother being a weirdo on social mediaTwo things: 1) If you yourself are not getting some serious success in the field, in his eyes, do you think he'll ever recognize this crown of red pill awareness you've placed upon your head? Based on what, exactly? The drunk, desperate milf that landed on your lap a few months ago? The sidebar you've "carefully studied" over the course of the quarantine? If you can't roll out an impressive resume, I'd simmer down on the savior complex if I were you. 2) Once you handle what I wrote above, then y… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Does anyone else feel really scared to voice your opinion on what’s going on in the current world. I feel like if you don’t agree with the masses , then you will be ridiculed , and protrayed as racist , bigot , sexist , etc. ?I lived in Brooklyn from '15 to '19, so I know what you're going through. That's not a bad idea what you brought up (note taking for your own amusement), and if you can keep a lid on it, yes, you can study them and make a game out of guessing (probably just to yourself) what the NPC is going to do or say next (ex. "bet you the girl with blue hair is going to say she hated Joker because omg, are you kidding me? He's liKe fUckInG wHiTe! How do you expect me to sympathize with a wHiTe Male!?! Ughhh… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else feel really scared to voice your opinion on what’s going on in the current world. I feel like if you don’t agree with the masses , then you will be ridiculed , and protrayed as racist , bigot , sexist , etc. ?He's looking to commiserate, I think. Not that I don't understand where he's coming from. Yes, the pressure to be openly, affirmatively "anti-racist" is cranked beyond the max setting at the moment. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so jealous in LTR?I hate the fact/don’t understand why the fuck I always become jealous in a LTR. I’m really just trying to understand the psychology behind why I always feel this way Let's start with a few questions: do you dread being single? how quickly could you get yourself another girl of equal or higher caliber (and this one should be easy, I hope, considering how low the bar is currently set)? Sincerely answer those and you'll start getting to the heart of what's happening internally. my current girlfrien… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 05:38 AM |
| 3 | How much competition is there age 30-40 really?also kind of feels like it's too late It's not too late, but start making it a habit to make each and every day count at least to some degree. Once you ingrain that as part of your normal everyday routine, then focus on 'progressively overloading' that very routine so that it both becomes intertwined with your character and continues to propel you upward. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 09:50 AM |
| 3 | How much competition is there age 30-40 really?Everyone gets a ride. Don't say that around an incel (or do, if in need of some comedy) | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 09:45 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go to BLM protest, I am strongly against. Thinking of breaking up with her if she goes. Am I overreacting?According to OPs post though, she hasn't made her move. It would be utterly impulsive and unmanly to break up with her if she hasn't even attended (yet). The test of his decisiveness would come after she made her move. Will he put his money where his mouth is, or will he fold and give her a pass just this one time ("...but no, seriously babe - please don't do that again") | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go to BLM protest, I am strongly against. Thinking of breaking up with her if she goes. Am I overreacting?I understand where you're coming from, as I a dated an SJW for a handful of years, and we too were good so long as we stayed away from the subject of politics, but I don't think you're overreacting in threatening or even following through with a breakup if this truly is centered around a health-related reason and not a political disagreement. Every single one of your points are valid, and yes, the icing on the cake, that you guys are situated in Europe and not here in the U.S., really drives thi… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you find yourself rejecting a lot of women because they're fat/low value?Average weight of women in the US currently sits at 168 with an average height of 5'4", so unless you're into that kind of thing (fat girls), yes, rejecting a lot of girls is to be expected | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Has your opinion on today's music changed after discovering TRP?Anyone got some red pill song recommendations From the golden era of rap. The song is about strippers strictly speaking, but applies to women in general, especially the last verse. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Movies about man going forward and wife/girl "stays behind"The Shining | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 66 | Is quarantine increasing the female hypergamy?You just gotta screen then Nasal swabbing at the gate, anal swabbing in the bedroom? | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 11:50 PM |
| 1 | LTR Lied about something stupidIt depends where you place gaslighting on your scale for red flags. I'd say it belongs considerably up there, and not only because of the egregiousness of the transgression itself, but more importantly, the precedent it sets for the relationship moving forward, as it lays the groundwork so that she can get you to fold and submit to her manipulated version of reality if she simply tantrums hard enough and/or threatens to take away your favorite toy aka her vagina. Before you know it, you'll be no… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Does this mean i'm over my oneitis/ex?The torment eventually goes away (but will persist the more you keep stalking, reflecting on her, engaging with her), but you don't forget Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind style, no. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Does this mean i'm over my oneitis/ex?You'll know you're over her when several months go by, perhaps something triggers a memory, and you realize to yourself: "Wow, I can't even remember the last time I thought about my ex". | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Women never in the wrongI won't get into the "why", but I'll point out to you that this is the dynamite you're tethering yourself to should you get married. You can quite easily tell a plate to see herself out, you can bring things to a close with an LTR, but your wife? You're likely going to have to choose between butchering yourself some (YMMV) to free yourself from her, or give up any hope of winning any more battles and let her win the war (translation: you forfeit your balls and begin the process of becoming a she… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 01:04 AM |
| 5 | What's your opinion on illegal money making?What's your opinion on doing a couple of years in the feds? | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 03:19 PM |
| 8 | Potential LTR I’m seeing asks me a hypothetical question about vacationing with friendsHere's what you keep stored away in your noggin should an occasion like the one you've described ever arises: "Go ahead, live it up, have the time of your life out there, but don't expect us to be a thing whenever you get back" And if she tries to hit you back with the "...but that's not fair! You're dropping an ultimatum on me!" nonsense, insist that you are giving her the freedom to choose, but no, just because she wants X (tour Europe for 3 months/become a webcam model/turn the relationship i… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Do women tend to sap the male "fire" and passion? Noticing a diminished "drive"The questions I’d confront if I were you are: 1) am I afraid of losing this one? 2) hypothetically, at least for the sake of argument, would I be willing to sever ties with her for the sake of my drive? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do BP guys want to make their "woman" happy as their ultimate goal?Yeah but shouldnt people think like "If I get paid, I get laid" They do, but there’s a red version of this line of thought, and a blue one (which plenty of guys end up doing) The former entertains the possibility of sharing a slice of his hard-earned wealth (within reason, of course) after she’s paid her dues, whereas the latter thinks his career/wealth is his golden ticket to Vaginaville that’ll effectively make up for his flabby body, boring or annoying personality, complete lack of style in e… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How do I get over my self loathing and regret over missed opportunities?What do I do? You replace the dead-weight that is "regret over missed opportunities" with the ability to consistently create new opportunities. Forget the past. It already happened. You can't reach back there and rearrange it to your liking, but you can set yourself up for one hell of a feast moving forward. Your focus ought to be on that, on slowly building up momentum so that you can maximize your odds of living a life far beyond any expectations you've ever had. Every minute, every hour, ever… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 07:18 PM |
| 85 | Love my LTR girlfriend, but she has gained weight and doesn't care/try to lose weightShe’ll gain it back for him too. Expressed a little differently: “Here, she’s your problem now. Toodles!” | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 06:45 PM |
| 21 | Love my LTR girlfriend, but she has gained weight and doesn't care/try to lose weightIt is an insult to a man And it is precisely for this reason that many women will double-down and shoot from the (expanding) hip at a man who adheres to this mode of thinking. Why? Because “the patriarchy” decrees that women ought to strive for such a figure, to please him at her ‘expense’ (“you really think I’d rather be on that treadmill for several hours a week instead of binging on more Netflix if not for you wanting a fit girlfriend? Pfftttt”) Because a man not accepting her as the beautifu… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Red pilled series/movie i can watch?Without question, the greatest movie I was ever shown in an academic setting, and I agree: most people fail to realize that coffee is for closers only. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 02:59 AM |
| 4 | Good idea to eventually leave this sub?Every single girl will place a man in one of three boxes: a) "I don't even know that guy's name, but I'd let him fuck the shit out of me in the bathroom right now and I wouldn't even care if he came inside of me" b) "I might give that guy a chance, but I have to see if he can clear all of the hoops and hurdles I lay out for him first 'get to know him' first" c) "Omg, ill! That guy so much as lays a finger on me and I'm railroading the F out of him with a false rape accusation" All you have to do… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on prenups?TRP’s general consensus is that pre-nups are nowhere near as foolproof as likely believed to be by many. TRP is not necessarily against marriage, but staunchly advises against going down that path. The choice to embark on that journey is for you to choose, but you were repeatedly warned. TRP, in general, also advises against cohabitation if marriage is not in the deck of cards. Not sure if what you wrote implies an understanding that a married man and woman ought not to live together in the same… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 12:29 PM |
| 1 | How to fully detached from your emotions and be cold towards women?There's not much of a need to portray yourself as some sort of icy monster once you fully internalize that "she's never yours; it's only your turn" and that you have more important things to do with your life than devoting large chunks of your time and energy to sticking your dick in a hot, wet hole women, anyway. The "cold(ness)" you're referring to will naturally follow from this in the form of detachment, detachment from any outcome, more specifically. It's about accepting that the 'party' wi… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 01:08 AM |
| 6 | I feel like this sub undermines the importance of good looksLet's start by how you dropped the ball on at least two fronts: 1) No one cares about your "feelings", especially on this sub ("I feel like this sub blah blah blah") 2) Where's your question my man? Or is this just another chapter from Emesis From An Incel? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 08:23 PM |
| 15 | Ex LTR can't look me in the face.The 'correct' title of this post ought to be: "I can't get over my ex and keep looking for different ways to rationalize my oneitis" Once this truly sinks in, you'll realize that you're like the man getting looks of confusion and disgust from people passing by for crawling inside a dumpster to find something 'valuable' you're sure is in there (plot spoiler: it's filled with trash exclusively and nothing else) | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 08:05 PM |
| 21 | What is the strongest frame a man can have?The strongest frame would rhyme so closely with complete insanity that, to many, it would appear indistinguishable | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 07:58 PM |
| 7 | DGAF attitude is effective in getting women. But is it also effective in other areas of life?Women love men who do not care about them. This is partially true, so I'd revise it to read: Women love when men do not prioritize them, but this also, on occasion, includes women "who not care about them". The idea is to keep them outside of, say, the top 5 priorities or so of your life, with the 5 occupying the bulk of your time and energy. It's a balancing act, more or less, when dealing with office politics, with a full-blown sociopathic display of IDGAF-ishness on one end (don't do this), a… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Am I attracting women with mental health issues or is every woman carry heavy mental health issues?She admitted that too and that at least half of her class was profoundly interested for the same reason, to "figure themselves out" | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Feel weird after talking about my dark past. Am I alone on this?Don't forget to play back what you've said to hear yourself out in an attempt to try to get as close as possible to some sort of an objective, birds eye view of your own thoughts. Barfing up pent up ideas and emotions is useful for sure, but study them too to see if you can discern patterns. Best of luck to you dude. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Feel weird after talking about my dark past. Am I alone on this?The upside is that you caught yourself and (hopefully?) won't step in the same pile of shit again. Yeah, the paste isn't going back in the tube, but no use in beating yourself up over that. Might want to try capitalizing on the momentum you currently have (momentum to tap into and divulge details from your past, that is) and pour as many as you can extract into a journal of some sort, be it in the written form or video format, something secure, of course, that she or no one else can easily gain … | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 04:55 PM |
| 31 | Am I attracting women with mental health issues or is every woman carry heavy mental health issues?he amount of women going for a PhD I come in contact with who really are just doing it for the clout will astound you. lol I dated a girl once who fully confessed that she was getting her doctorate in psychology because she believed that, with such a move, people would "finally begin to treat her seriously". Nearing the completion of her degree but drowning in debt, addicted to psych meds, even admitting to possibly being BPD (in my short experience with her, I'd lean toward yes, chick was the t… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Covid-19s impact on the SMP?It'll take some time for the water to find its level as economies slowly open the gates, but the shakeup of the landscape appears to be fascinating. Speaking of water, the footage we've seen of people storming recently-opened beaches, I think, serves as a nice little representation of what's bound to happen once women are 'emancipated' and free to satiate their starved libidos. Anyone who wanted out of their relationship pre-Corona now has the perfect scapegoat, gifted with a pandemic and ensuin… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 02:43 PM |
| 27 | LTR hits me with «When are we getting married?»That’s the real question. OP, I personally like to be upfront about it if they ask me and put the burden on them to see if they are willing to “waste their time” can get me to fold or not (they can’t), and if they wait too long to ask the question - say, two years or so into the relationship - then I throw the burden back on them for not raising the question earlier. Moral hang ups? Neither route is disingenuous nor misleading, so nothing to sweat there. One year into an LTR is too early to be p… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 11:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm getting paranoid about everything women do/sayWhat can I do? 1) check out completely and treat every single woman like Medusa, someone not even to be looked at 2) double-down on blue and continuously tell yourself (and others so as to better fool convince yourself) that yes, there really are unicorns out there and "true love conquers all" or some other Hallmark one-liner about finding "the one" etc. 3) play the game as a red-piller, either keeping it to juggling plates only or going for an LTR with a crystal-clear understanding that your re… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 10:00 PM |
| 6 | Is it bad to be friends with girls?You sound like you've grasped the concept (relaxed and non-needy with the ones you simply want to shoot the shit with, and willing to press onward with the ones you want), so as far as you're concerned, I'm more inclined to say there really isn't an issue. Being friends with women is double-edged: it's often a very useful way to have them do the legwork for you by introducing you to a multitude of other girls, but if you're not attentive to what's going on, it can also lead to you pissing away t… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 10:21 PM |
| 5 | LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturerIn your case specifically? Just (continue to) be yourself | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 08:58 PM |
| 13 | LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturerI deliberately left that option out because the nature of his question does not reflect someone who instinctively knows how to handle these sorts of situations. Funny enough, dropping her completely will put him in a much better position (mentally) by internalizing that "his turn" is up, likely making the whole downgrade thing with future girls moving forward, should he choose to do so, much easier. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 08:37 PM |
| 30 | LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturerDecisively end this. Don't even give her a split second to hear out her 'appeal' (unless you're curious in witnessing the hamster version of Cirque Du Soleil) Trust that she's very interested in further pursuing this path of sexual "exploration", probably much more than towing the line and remaining faithful to you, and will find ways to go around your disapproval behind your back. If you choose to stay with her, your options are: a) steer yourself toward blissful ignorance and pretend none of t… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Career ideas for those with confidence and muscle? 22 years old and feeling a bit directionlessI imagine sales but don’t even know where to begin or what types of sales jobs Think of the times we're presently in and what might lie around the corner. I'd get involved in a commercial/residential sanitizing service of some sort, work your way up until you become your own boss, and sell that. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 07:30 AM |
| 19 | Do you think the quality of women have dropped?Spoken like a guy who's either never tasted the life of a 10 percenter (more likely possibility) or had no idea how to wield his power, continuously fumbling the ball and passing on the blame to women instead of where it appropriately belong: on himself. A man who belongs to the elite, the 10% as you say, does not "have to deal" with women. He's not resentfully trapped in the same endless line of losers who have to take a number and 'put up with' long wait times and never-ending woman drama (for… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 06:16 AM |
| 20 | How do I stop being jealous?Because you haven't handled, perhaps even confronted, deeper questions like: what am I without a woman? what am I left with if she leaves? how much of my self-worth depends on a woman? Meditate on those for awhile instead of more topical questions like the one you used to kick off this thread. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/20 01:35 AM |
| 8 | Why do sluts get into relationships (if they're inevitably going to cheat)?Not exhaustive, but could fall under any one of these, with occasional overlap: fear of being alone fear of being perceived as less in value by her peers (ex. "I don't understand - why is a girl as pretty as you [still] single?" / "ugh oh ...crazy cat lady in the making lol...") laziness (bf/husband finances her lifestyle, fully or to some degree) puts her in a position to have access to the "best of both worlds" (AF/BB) | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | More philosophical question, why are men "hated"?A scorned woman will unleash her “fury” in one way or another. Their estimation of you (that is, the amount of validation they would have received from you had you given them the formal blessing with your meat-stick) grew to towering heights (no pun) until it collapsed, no longer able to hold up the increasing weight of their exasperation, leaving their egos black and blue. Despite the (minor?) heat you took, you played the game beautifully. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 07:07 PM |
| 5 | OneitisBarring few exceptions (which, by the way, you clearly are not) you don’t earn your stripes until you experience at the bare minimum one or two soul-crushing breakups. Until then, go ahead and take pride in having her boot firmly planted on your neck. Shit, tell your friends even how spineless and weak you are, but say that too with pride, like you lucked out and won the little bitch sweepstakes. Finally, make sure to thank her for castrating you and reducing you to the woman that you currently … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 05:12 PM |
| 9 | Is anybody married or have you been married?Never been married (zero interest in trying my hand at it as well), but have had to end things because, perhaps like you, have reached the fork in the road where it came down to marrying her or splitting apart aka the ultimatum. I don't advise you to fold and give into her demands if that is not what you truly wish for, to get married. You will likely end up hating yourself for being such a spineless twat ("bro, that pussy was just too too good to leave behind forever" / "what if go through a se… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Would the following mindset be considered toxic and not useful to have?The issue is that I'm viewing it from the context of someone watching the cringe interaction as an observer. I strongly suggest you train yourself to re-frame it so that it's something more like: "I know other people are watching, and I know they're all thinking: 'Jesus, I wish I had the colossal balls that that guy has. Fuck man, how can I reach that jaw-dropping, jealousy-inducing level of IDGAF?'" Don't worry about taking it to narcissistic heights just yet. Get there first, and then worry ab… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 10:13 PM |
| 7 | How to cope with my parents getting old?This right here. I still have both my parents, although both are even older than OP's, so I'll use my grandmother instead, who passed a couple of years ago shortly after her 80th after a 7-8 year long battle with Alzheimer's, as an example. All of the 'regular' and 'ordinary' and mundane experiences - the trips to do bloodwork, her singing in the car, in waiting rooms, her spot-on impersonations of other family members, her unabashedly unfiltered and un-PC sense of humor, even her rants - all sh… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Does not having social media makes you look like a loser?Here are some important questions to confront: would you cave to outside pressure and allow yourself to be corraled back into the social media world? whose view of you ultimately matters more? people who are not you, or your own? This isn't a "does not having social media make you look like a loser?" question, this is really a question of who runs the show that is you here: you, or other people? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 04:05 AM |
| 4 | My psyche is damagedYou're still very young, so you're also still perceiving women and the dating world as a tragedy, but I can confidently assure you, that as you get older, as your physique develops, as you make headway into your career, as you learn how to vet better, as you go through (even) more women, as you learn more about yourself and what you want out of life, what's actually worth giving a fuck about in this world from your point of view, there will be an excellent chance that you'll come around to see t… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 12:23 AM |
| 18 | LTR speaks about her body with other guysIt's Plausible Deniability 1101 "Omg, relax! I'm just like, talking, they're just words. I'm not actually doing anything lol" If "soft cucking" were a thing, this would qualify. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | At what age do women fix their standards?From my experience, in general, most women under 25 might have an eye on the abstractions you listed (success/career/financial stability etc.), but are prone to minimize all of that in the name of Chad's D "fun" and "finding themselves". Much of this will come down to what sort of environment she finds herself in too (small town with religious roots firmly in place vs big city life promoting and celebrating promiscuity, how she was raised), but any of those variables I listed falls within the pa… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Surprise surprise ex birthday textBirthdays are so enticing to women in cases like this one because they present themselves as the perfect opportunity to play their treasured plausible deniability card ("omg, I'm not like, trying anything! lol I just like, wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday and like, see how you're doing and see if I can make you grovel and get on your knees for one more taste of my pussy, which of course I won't be giving you anyway lol") A simple "thanks" and keep it moving. If she tries to engage beyond that… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 05:30 PM |
| 5 | I don't know what the fuck to talk about with women.It's only thing that I get scared about. Running out of shit to talk about. Flip the script so that it reads something like: "if I run out of shit to talk, well, too bad". The way you've worded it above will send you straight into the pits of scarcity and make a dancing clown out of you. You need to become comfortable with periods of so-called uncomfortable silence. See how much of the conversation she can hold up. Put some of that pressure back on her and gauge to see if you're dealing with not… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What is the best advice you got from a natural?The point I’m making is not in the deed itself - I’m not contending that - but the language used. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 04:50 PM |
| 8 | What is the best advice you got from a natural?Not advice I myself received, but becoming a “natural” often has a great deal to do with how you frame things, the language you yourself use to describe things. A PUA would likely call an interaction with a woman a “pick up”, while a natural would define the interaction as “just talking”. The former lends itself to tactics and cheap parlor tricks, while the latter normalizes and makes the whole thing, well, natural. There’s utility in breaking it down to a science (ie “negging”), but it’s easy t… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 04:25 AM |
| 5 | Is Nietzsche the most Redpill philosopher?“Most people on the Internet” will never go on to publish multiple books leaving a profoundly indelible imprint on an entire Century and beyond. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Is Nietzsche the most Redpill philosopher?What truly makes Nietzsche fascinating is that he was about as red-pilled as it gets in his philosophy, but in person? Through his actions, he'd be exactly the sort of person we'd cringe at and obstinately insist he take the time to devour the sidebar in its entirety (or what he wrote in his own books, amusingly) | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 03:02 PM |
| 5 | Getting out of the Friend Zone?I can smell the early onset oneitis in your post, so I suggest that whenever you speak to her, act as if you already lost her and couldn’t care less if she fvcked off to another planet never to be seen or heard from again. Talk to her like one of your guy friends. Make yourself laugh with the shit you tell her. Treat whatever you have going on with her and everything you wrote like one big hilarious joke, as if it was written by an emaciated hipster crying over his keyboard, desperately willing … | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV, we shouldn’t use nature as an ideal to strive towardWhat use is a chiseled jaw and tall height when sat upon a pile of ashes? You haven't grasped AF/BB yet, have you? Women desire that (and the men attached to them) to feed their carnal desires, to indulge in mind-blowingly euphoric sex and (eventually) produce a child - that is their utility, or to phrase it a bit differently: to give women what the majority of men cannot provide (meaning, the satiation of her feral attraction and, potentially, genes from which she will produce a child) The men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 01:14 PM |
| 7 | What does it require to be a high value personYou can have (or cross out like a checklist) every single thing you listed up above, and if you loathe doing those things, then I'd argue you're paying way too high of a price for, what, status? Access to vagina? Now, don't get bitter either because women or society or whoever can't "love" you for "who you are" (translation: why can't I just roll out of bed, walk into the world like that and have everyone tell me how "awesome" I am?) The truth is that yes, you have to contribute value to, well, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 11:02 AM |
| 0 | How to get her to chase you?Its nearly been a week since we last texted do you think she will now chase me after building up that initial attractive then ignoring her? Instead of telling you to take down the entire sidebar (which you should do, anyway), go straight to where it says "Frequently asktrp'd questions" and click on the first link below it that reads "There's this one girl...", because that is your core problem: you're too focused on this one girl, when there should be multiple girls in your funnel, or at least t… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you resent women for getting you horny?men, in some way, do you resent women for their ability (“power”) to turn you on? Once you, as a man, are capable of doing the same thing (even if not in the hundreds of thousands assuming you're stupidly comparing yourself to some Insta-thot, or even the landwhale who can pull in a handful of slimy, desperate suckers), it becomes foolish, even ridiculous to perceive women this way, as someone to inherently resent. Above all though, resentment is something a man should drive out of his life, lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy?It's not a marketplace man, you are not competing, you are not winning. It's a free for all. Today it's you, tomorrow it's her gardener, the next week she loves her husband dearly. You do not matter, you can't set any conditions, you are not gaming, quite the opposite, when she gets even the smallest feel that you're trying to "get her", she cuts you off fast. And my game is pretty good, not to brag but I am quite funny. They don't want any of that. They want you to be a complete mistery. No tex… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?"There you go bro, I removed the extra words. Brevity and such." The real unsung hero in all of that "editing" was your Autism | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 12:11 AM |
| 34 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Your main issue is as clear as daylight to me: you're focused on the wrong goal. I'll get back to this point in a minute, but first let me begin by recognizing that it's completely understandable to desire another woman as mindblowing as you describe your ex following a breakup, but keeping your sights set on scoring another hit of the dragon prime piece of ass will drive you absolutely mad and will bring you closer to your own destruction in due time. Look at how you're admitting that despite h… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:40 AM |
| 22 | itiswr1tten Answers All Your Questions Today!Do you know for fact the girl you're eyeing doesn't know anyone in your own department? Are you 100% positive they wouldn't pull a stunt like calling your manager should shit go south, maybe inform them that you smoke and that they really ought to drug test you (assuming you do)? But above all, if you lost your job because of this girl, how badly would it fuck you? Are you rich? Do you have a ton of connections and can easily get another job? Do you have other side hustles that'll keep you afloa… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 05:22 PM |
| 3 | How important is having a “good” job?What is it with girls and looking down on your “physically” demanding jobs? You realize you can return the favor and look down on these exact women, right? Thing is I don’t really understand it cause to me in the end the only thing that matters is how I feel performing my job and what’s on my bank account at the end of the month. You know the answer to your own question. The more you stick by this line of thinking, the tighter your frame will be for it. There's a lot of people out there working … | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 05:01 PM |
| 3 | I messed upStart with no contact. You played right into her game and allowed yourself to become a sad little bitch. This can be undone, but first, she's dead to you. Pictures, texts, social media connections, anything and everything having to do with her? Delete. NOW. Whatever you keep that binds you to her in some way, consider it to be a desire to remain a pathetic little bitch. It's that simple - you're moving the fuck on, or you're not. There's no in between. Read the sidebar over and over until you ca… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 04:47 PM |
| 5 | My dog just got killedHow long are they abroad for? I wouldn't say anything until they get back. Tell them you didn't want to ruin their trip or whatever, and that's why you didn't fill them in. Sorry for your loss. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Need a workout routineGet yourself a gallon and take it with you everywhere you go. Several big chugs an hour. It eventually becomes habitual, like chewing gum. If you start early in the A.M. and take big gulps without giving it much thought, you'll probably be done a few hours before sunset. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 11:15 PM |
| 7 | “If you don’t know you want marriage in the next 5 years, I gotta move on.”If you were transparent about your stance on marriage, you have absolutely nothing to be down about. She essentially ran the risk of hoping or believing she could change your mind at some stage in the future. Taking that gamble falls squarely on her shoulders. Because she stuck around does not oblige you to acquiesce. She is not entitled to you as a husband because she gave you her best years. She could have walked and found another partner inclined to get married whenever she liked. There is an… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 10:59 PM |
| 14 | “If you don’t know you want marriage in the next 5 years, I gotta move on.”I’ll be losing a good one if I let her go, but I’m tired of bearing the responsibility of her biological clock. I was in almost your exact shoes once - we were just a little younger than you two (I was about 26, she was 28) - but the ultimatum dropped around the four year mark as well. Sadly, I knew the relationship was over once she issued it, and anything the two of us had going on from that point onward was running on borrowed time. Why? Because I also knew that the resentment of caving in to… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Really mean females (rant)Flip the script. While you're still living there (I think you should begin plotting your exit strategy if you hate it that much; living in new, dramatically different terrain is a great learning experience, anyway), make it a point to become impervious to whatever bullshit gets thrown your way. Have fun with it. Tell them you just broke up with your sister and aren't looking for anything serious. Truly learning how to stop giving a fuck is freedom (losing all hope is too, I suppose) | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 05:10 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with your woman if she tries to control you?You start by always learning and always endeavoring to control the most important person: you Solid frame and exceptional self-control tend to go hand in hand, as a general rule. The tighter your frame, the less likely this will take place as women will take note (women have a good nose to sniff out and separate the men from the boys) The more on point your frame, the more you care about you, and the less you do about the noise around you. Address the root cause instead of writing down a couple … | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 04:33 AM |
| 20 | Would I appear butthurt if I ignored her now?I'm very red pilled. No, you're not, because if you truly were, you'd try running game on her/telling her whatever the fuck you wanted should you two cross paths with zero worry about any outcome, zero concern for how you may be perceived by her - shit, zero concern for whether or not you'd ever see her again, really. You still care too much about specific girls. Re-read that entire sidebar again bud. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 04:19 AM |
| 5 | I'm thinking I'm losing my frame with LTR... and my mindYour sanity is non-negotiable. You're probably young, so you shouldn't be reprimanded too harshly, but this is what makes the blue-pillers the bitch-ass chumps that they are: they submit and buy into the idea that the end (pussy) justifies the means (time/energy/money/friends/family/state of mind, you name it). It's the drug they just can't live without. They'll pawn off whatever it takes for the stuff. I won't tell you what to do, but I'll entertain how it'll likely play out should you kick thi… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend potentially moving in with male roommates.Not sure how to approach this, whether I talk to her about it or just leave her and go next. Skip any "talks". She's made her move, so ball's in your court now. The dudes could be gross, they could be gay, they could be beta to the bone, so keep that in mind before making your move, along with the fact that she could move in with a flock of busted-ass chaste girls who'd stand up for The Sisterhood and never snitch on any wrongdoings committed by her under another roof. I'd play it very cool, rem… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 12:40 PM |
| 2 | I am running a bar on my own tomorrow. Any advice?Hold it down as best as you can. I'm sure your buddy is fully aware that you've never done this sort of thing before and is putting you in a position you're probably not suited for (at the moment) due to an emergency. No matter how insane it might get, the night will come to a close, and life will go on. If there are any other managers or bartenders with a considerable amount of experience, give them a heads up that you'd appreciate if they kept their phone close by just in case you may need the… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Are positive affirmations helpful or just feel good shit?If you don't apply them, it's not too different than, say, jerking off to porn and trying to convince yourself that that's actually "helpful" (in respect to getting pussy) instead of what it really is: "just feed good (bull)shit" | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Is the redpill right wing, politically speaking?You could say it 'rhymes', to a good extent, with right wing views (i.e. take full responsibility for yourself; don't rely on or wait for the world to pick you up when you're down), or that it might more easily be embraced by those on the right, but it doesn't belong to the right nor the left. For instance, what the fuck does "AF/BB" have to do with either side of the aisle, politically speaking? Same for a concept like "she's never your's; it's only your turn". | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Lone Wolf lifestyleYou're getting a taste of the downside(s) of carrying out your life in this fashion, but you probably need to be humbled even further judging by your post if it's growth you're truly interested in. Look at your own life, pick out a thing or two that interests you (ex. making money, getting fit, some martial art, getting girls even), and seek masters in that department, people who'd put you to humiliating shame if you tried to outdo them in what they're obviously far better at than you, and learn… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 02:04 PM |
| 7 | What is it about the dark triad personalities that usually alpha widows most girls?I still care to an extent, often too much, but I sure as shit don't care as much as I used to and it shows, big time. One way to do it is to develop your sense of disgust. If there is something, anything, in life, that profoundly disgusts you, then all that is left is to connect that same degree of repulsion with being trampled over, with being other people's little bitch, with allowing yourself to get played, with gobbling up lies that eat away at your conscience when deep down, you know better… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Is there anyway to discover if your plate did amateur porn?You're essentially asking if you can get the truth and nothing but (which, something tells me, you probably couldn't handle anyway) out of a plate. The answer, unfortunately, is that you'll probably never know the full truth, so either accept that 'truth' and move forward or check out and join the incels on the sidelines. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I need helpdo your work away from a computer/smart phone if you have to work on your phone, put it on airplane mode for hours at a time tell others you are only available for help within certain parameters of the day (i.e. office hours) | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 04:57 PM |
| 15 | What is it about the dark triad personalities that usually alpha widows most girls?A big one is the willingness (and ease) in walking away from any given girl, like grabbing another napkin if one slips from the hand and onto the floor. A true-blue dark triad is damn near impossible to ensnare. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | What's my next step?More prospects = more opportunities to build up your rotation. Seek congregations of women, and ye shall find more pussy from which to target. Approach, remain fearless and carefree in the face of rejection, and continue to crush your goals. Rinse & repeat, rinse & repeat, rinse & repeat. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 01:58 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend keeps talking about her male friend...Make a list of all your priorities in life - every single one. Nutrition/health/fitness/family/social life/money/side hustles/career/hobbies - the greater and more thorough the list, the better. Really give it a lot of thought and write it out somewhere, with no particular order just yet. Once you've extensively strained your mind, make sure to add "girls", "pussy", whatever, on there. Once you've done that, begin to prioritize your list, with only one category going straight near to or right at… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Dating 5-6's as a training groundThis right here. I caught up with an old friend recently and was floored by his admittance to taking up a second job largely so that he can keep up with an obvious gold-digging thot. So long as a guy believes something along the lines of: "that's just how it is, man - gotta shell out that cash if you want a piece of that ass", then that man is a 'forever white belt' in the ways of the game. Heartiste has been escorted off the premises of the interwebs, but his "skittles guy" post addressed this … | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 01:23 PM |
| 3 | How to change personality to be more outgoing?Let me tell you a story about some cringey shit I did close to twenty years ago, but I believe it'll shed light on your situation: I used to roll with a group of dudes in my late teens, and one night, I decided to wear a stupid bandana on my head to a bar. They gave me a bunch of shit for it (rightfully so too, I'll admit now), calling me "Tupac", "the pirate" and I can't remember what else, but I owned it. Anyway, long story short, we get to the bar, link up with a bunch of chicks, the alcohol'… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 01:04 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend keeps talking about her male friend...Mind you, we've both equally invested in an expensive trip in late June so I don't want to fuck that up.. Sunk-cost fallacy. A more extreme version would be something like: "I mean, yes, the truth is that I fucking hate her, but we have to have kids now that we're married. What am I going to do - throw it all away? I spent close to $100K on the wedding and reception, I'm 35, all my friends are also married, and everyone's going to think I'm a massive loser if I call it quits. It's too late." But… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Back with ex-8YR-LTR, she drops a bomb that she was seeing another guy before we broke upThere's what it is, and then there's what she told you. The two are not necessarily equivalent to one another. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Back with ex-8YR-LTR, she drops a bomb that she was seeing another guy before we broke upFrom plating etc, it's quite hard to find low n count girls these days... So let's take back an ex because, oh god no, it's too fucking harsh out there. You've always put pussy above your self-worth or is this just part of the 'new and improved' you? The sad part is that she broke up with you, either fucked some other guy (or was getting her holes ready for him) while together with you, fed you some bullshit line about being "unhappy", and you're now ready to take her back with open arms 'contem… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 12:21 PM |
| 3 | So basically most women spend their lives fucking muscular assholes and when they become old they want to settle down with some poor schmuck? That’s female nature in a nutshell, correct?They aren’t worth the effort These type of posts are fucking great - a rhetorical question posed by a gentle, dime-a-dozen, sour-grape flavored incel, basking in defeat and looking to take others down with him. You the real MVP yo. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I transfer Universities?Isn't the fomo legit though? Aren't college times suppose to be good? Yes, but don't forget that, in all likelihood, barring some catastrophic accident, you will have roughly 60+ years of living after the college experience reaches a close. I'm not telling you to become a monk, but I am telling you to keep the bigger picture in mind. College is a very unique experience, absolutely, but it's entirely possible to make an amazing life out of what follows as well. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Should I transfer Universities?You're halfway home, so to speak. Make sure not to fuck it up because of some FOMO itch eating you up. Also, look very closely at those numbers before transferring. The 'good times' and school itself comes to an end, but the debt will endure. the city which is a lot of $$, but I think I can manage | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 01:51 PM |
| 0 | How to keep up in dark times?Get yourself a notebook, a calendar, a few scraps of paper - whatever - and write yourself out a schedule for the remainder of the year that'll look a little something like this: 6:00 A.M. - wake up; 1 hour rubbing one out on Xvideos only 7:00 A.M. - 1 hour rubbing one out on Pornhub only 8:00 A.M. - 1 hour rubbing one out to 80s Pornstars only So on and so forth. Fill up every waking moment of your day with something like this, and at the very least you'll begin to drill the concept of commitme… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Plate gets distant. How to manage ?Eventually, you come across one that's not about that childish bullshit or is too attracted to you to engage in retarded headgames, unless... I might be too beta ...you start behaving in a way that ultimately drives them away. How you perceive yourself, how driven you are toward your goals, your sense of autonomy/independency as a man, what sort of life you have outside of women, helps even things out greatly. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 01:35 PM |
| 7 | Plate gets distant. How to manage ?The idea is to never drift into "there's this one girl..." territory. You can fuck the shit out of a girl, have her drench your entire bed, eyes rolling back, moaning and screaming that has your neighbors plotting retaliation, and still inexplicably never hear from her. More on the rare side of things in my experience, but it happens. Trying to crawl into the mind of a woman is somewhere up there with settling, once and for all, if free will exists or not - fuck, if God exists or not. Move onto … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Girl [23F] I've [25M] been dating for 1 month wants to take a breakI'm not going to pretend to know where she stands psychologically, but I'd break it down like this: Moving in together is a very, very big deal. I don't care how sharp someone can claim to be a 'judge of character', one month of being together is not even close to enough time to evaluate whether or not a girl is suitable to live under the same roof, especially when one takes into account that the first and most crucial step was sloppily bypassed: whether or not she's fit to be a LTR candidate to… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 11:09 AM |
| 7 | Girl [23F] I've [25M] been dating for 1 month wants to take a breakYes, especially coming off a 5 year relationship (even if only a measly 4 months post-breakup). I'd let this one go OP. Don't take this personally, but odds are you're going to play yourself if you choose to stick around and remain involved with her. However, the reason this short term relationship moved so quickly was not just me, but also her. Stop deflecting. Next time something like this pops up She said stuff like "I feel like we've known each other for ages, I am soooo happy and comfortabl… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 08:43 AM |
| 2 | More "beta" than "alpha". Women/ most of the world seem boring. Am I wrong?If you think I am completely wrong, don't reply. I really don't plan on changing. I am arrogant, but kind of weak too. So you're looking for an echo chamber? You're intending on masking your weaknesses with a doubling-down show of arrogance on top of that too? Extremely bizarre and strangely contradictory stance to take when placed side by side with this: I am more a scientist type, so happiness for me comes from working on idea/ building things | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Is she really into me?Two prominent problems right off the bat: 1) see that hyperlink titled "There's this one girl..." in the sidebar over on the right side of the page, immediately below the red bar titled "Frequently AskTRP'D Questions"? Go read that right meow. 2) and because you're desperately obsessing over "this one girl" and shitting out painfully oneitisy blocks of text as a result of pure scarcity, you've devolved into this. If you want to continue being that, write a follow up mountain of text with more em… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Ltr wants me to meet her guy friendsYou have any female friends you can invite her to meet? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 07:11 AM |
| 4 | I told a girl I couldnt "sext" her because I was watching nba yesterday and she is still really upset and is saying "oh so nba is more important than me huh"?Raptors qualified for a trip to the Finals and this girl disqualified herself from ever being your LTR. Treat her as a forever-plate (that will absolutely smash apart, probably sooner than later at this rate) and nothing more. You maintain frame by reminding yourself to enjoy what time you have together (I'm assuming she's not always a fucking annoying cunt like this?) and that whatever you have going on between the two of you will come to an end at some point, you will be fine once it ends, the… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Frame exercisesStandup comedy. Pat yourself on the back if you have the balls to even get up there for a few minutes, but the real challenge lies in keeping everyone engaged, perhaps getting a few laughs, and avoiding making a total ass of yourself (which will both likely happen and help feed your frame the nutrients it craves) | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 02:18 AM |
| 11 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?I'm more in the don't threaten camp. I'd encourage her to go get that coffee and unilaterally end it with zero advance notice. If the LTR I'm with is growing/has grown audacious enough to start looking into how much she can get away with, to ask if she can essentially shit all over me and have me wait for her like some securely stored-away safety blanket, then I'm much more likely to cut my losses, accept that I badly fucked up somewhere, skip trying to balance things out with a daily applicatio… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Navigating a break-upShe begged that I consider an LDR with her, but I decided to end things even though my heart really didn't want to. Considerably wise beyond your years making an executive decision like that. LDRs very rarely work, and are highly looked down upon in this community for good reason. They're like shitty copies of a copy of the real thing. Unless one or both of you is filthy rich enough to constantly commute back and forth, your LTR will be no more than a voice on a phone, text on a phone screen and… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:21 AM |
| 3 | How do I overcome my fear of male group interactions?Like-minded activities and humility, my man. What I mean is, find something you genuinely enjoy, find others who partake in this as well, and approach these participants with questions. Ask them how they do this, how they do that, how you can get better at X, what got them into doing Z instead of Y, what their thoughts on such and such are etc. No pre-judging on anything superficial. Approach like they're a good friend with a wealth of valuable information to share with you. Do this enough, and … | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 08:37 PM |
| 3 | What could have been an interesting reply to thisI'm average when it comes to bantering with girls and want to improve If you want to up your game in this department, you're going to want to be engaging in back and forths with as many girls as possible. Think of your objective kind of like, let's say, getting better at drawing. You wouldn't purchase a sketchbook with a single sheet of paper in it, would you? And if you did embark down the right path by getting yourself one with a 100 sheets inside, you wouldn't tremble with fear because you do… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | At what point are you getting too invested with a plate?Play it cool like you've done this a thousand times before (and really bring yourself to believe that too) and stop anticipating a text from her/checking your phone to see if you catch her on snapchat etc. You always wait for the girl to make the move on anything pointed in the direction of commitment to some degree, at which you point you can (then) unzip your trusty ol bag of "mehh, let's just keep the good times rolling, eh?" and take it from there. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Be solid, get plates. Promote one, catch feelings, start slacking, get dropped. How can I break this cycle?By whom? 1984 International Posse | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 11:47 AM |
| 10 | What can I do with stupid ass shitty jobsBite the bullet for a couple of years, get yourself a career that 1) you can at least tolerate 2) is in demand 3) at least pays moderately well, and you'll be able to not only easily go right back to working out, hanging out, getting laid, and putting fuel in your bike, but affording more supplements and nutrition for your workouts, more $ to spend/throw away when hanging out with your friends, a better bike, more $ for better logistics in order to (continue) getting laid, more $ for fuel, and -… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 10:53 PM |
| 7 | Found LTR on tinderAnd why not keep her for the rides. Demote. And continue looking for a LTR. Because resentment may very well begin to build up, and flushing resentment out of one's system is not so easy. He may continue to fuck her, but odds are high that thoughts of her infidelity will slowly eat away at him each time she sees him, each time she tell him that she "misses" him, each time she does something nice for him. The entire LTR will likely, from that point onward, seem like one massive lie, like a repeat… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Found LTR on tinderWhat would happen if OP ended it but told her it because she wasn’t attractive enough? Two things a lot of guys fail to realize: 1) Far too many feel compelled to make a move of some sort, but not making a move (as in, vanishing off the face of the Earth with zero conventional retaliation, such as confronting her merely to vomit up a bunch of rage and resentment directly at her) does, in fact, constitute a "move" (on the chessboard), bringing me to the second point 2) walking away without saying… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Netflixing bad experience, what can I learn?What can I learn from this? To put the fickle on the back burner immediately and keep shuffling through the deck until you get the card you're looking for. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 02:57 PM |
| 2 | How do you act around other Alphas in the group?Let's run it back to Frame Fundamentals 1101. "If you're not winning, you're learning" Keep this in mind, play it cool, take (mental) notes, and some day soon, that will be you in the center leading the pack, selecting which girl you want to roll with you. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 04:04 AM |
| 6 | why do i keep thinking about my ex?I hate to use the expression, but "trust the process" - 1) Go total no-contact (i.e. de-friend/unfollow on social media, do NOT stalk her account, essentially delete/remove anything that reminds you of her, don't bother replying to anything she sends your way) 2) Workout like a motherfucker 3) If in school, aim to ace all of your classes 4) Avoid idle time as frequently as possible. Rekindle old relationships with friends, make new ones, hang out with family, find something else you like to do a… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Woman meeting an ex - always a red flag?How do I solve this then? Drop her and/or get yourself another girl. This right here a pity because sex is really good with her. will get you to hamster away all sorts of horrors in the name of good pussy. Give this some thought. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Service Industry & proper nutritionMan, I worked as a FOH for a couple of years in NYC and everywhere I worked I got at least 15-20 min, Where on Earth on you working? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Service Industry & proper nutritionYou can't bring your own food? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Can you be TRP at the strip club?I'm not going to give you any sort of list, but I'll tell it to you like this: the reason why you're "struggling" to maintain a conversation with these women is because you care too much about how you're perceived by them. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Can you be TRP at the strip club?just seeking some free comfort If I'm following you correctly, this would be like looking for warm, sandy beaches in Oklahoma. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Can you be TRP at the strip club?Guide the conversation the entire way, and guide it away from the inevitable once it gets brought up ("how about a dance?") In my experience though, depending on the strip club, you can only play this game for so long until they explicitly tell you to start dropping cash on something (alcohol, lap dances etc.) or get the fuck out. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Can you be TRP at the strip club?if you have cash, which is kind of RP because they're being upfront about their own hypergamy In other words, you're openly getting played/allowing yourself to get played. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Can you be TRP at the strip club?Treat them like a cool ex you prefer to keep deep in the friendzone. You've been there, so you know how it works: the second you walk in, the bullseye gets placed right on your wallet. Unless you have fuckloads of $ to burn, ask yourself what you're actually doing there. If there's any silver lining I can remember from my days when I used to infrequently pop into strip clubs, it's that gaming women on the streets was significantly easier after dealing with the money-hungry sharks inside the wall… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 09:10 AM |
| 9 | What to do if you see an ex?Depends. If we finished on good terms, I'm cordial, might even catch up a bit. If we ended on a sour note, I'll carry myself as if they're not even there, as if they don't even exist. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 08:39 AM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Thank you man. It was failing to follow that advice that brought me to this subreddit, funny enough. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameI think if we had that answer a lot of our game would go up ten fold. Maybe, but some food for thought: of what value would it be to understand fully where someone's razor-sharp game came from if it's not implemented and put to action in real life? Further, what if (like the case I mentioned above) it was revealed that this guy's nearly flawless game was borne from years and years of psychological lacerations and subsequent scarring; would anyone seriously attempt to deliberately experience all … | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameI know a guy who fits this description. About 5'6" and a scrawny 130 lbs with zero muscle definition, but gets ass left and right. I worked with the guy for a bit, so I was able to get a closer look at not just how he does it, but where it potentially emanates from, and in his case, I believe he crosses the line of genuine confidence into the realm of deep-rooted psychological issues. I could speculate about it possibly being due to his short height and stature, maybe he got picked on a lot as a… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 06:23 AM |
| 4 | I find meeting and gaming women more fun than actual sex itselfThis is blasphemy to MGTOW, boiling-hot acid to the soul of all incels. ...but it's also perhaps the surest path to inexhaustible, endless abundance. Disregard whether or not it's "normal". All that matters is that you enjoy it, and that you will come out of it a shogun of game. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | I get jealous when I see my girl talking to other guysWhat should I do? What can I do? What is preventing you from talking to other girls? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Girl says “I should’ve made a move” when we were laying alone in her bed?I don’t know where I stand with her romantically but like you said, there’s only one way to find out. If you had more girls in your life (plus you were actually making "moves" on them instead of keeping your dick tucked between your legs), you'd be able to compartmentalize them into the ones who 1) quite clearly want nothing to do with you (so you move the fuck on) 2) the ones on the fence (which you should also move the fuck on from too, especially if you have some in the final group) 3) the on… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 08:48 PM |
| 23 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?When a plate breaks, let it. Move on and forget trying to glue it together in a desperate attempt to resemble something it once was (but never will be ever again). | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 06:59 AM |
| 8 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?I think he means that revealing some sort of a disadvantage will inadvertently turn into a card he can (not necessarily will) use against you. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Family guilt tripping me hard for moving outDon't wait for the 'perfect opportunity'. The time piles on faster than you can imagine. I wanted to shoot across the country shortly after graduating at 18, so I decided I'd do it as soon as I graduated from college. Slipped into a nearly 5 year long LTR at your age, and my plan of moving out of state got further delayed. Before this gets long-winded, the condensed very of the story is that more stuff took place, more life happened, and I didn't finally take the plunge until I was 32 (I'm 36 no… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | I need help. My life is a mess, how do i get out of this period alive?No, it's a very serious suggestion to reinforce perspective into your outlook on life, that there are tons of people out there right now who'd kill to have the issues you currently have instead of the ones they're faced with. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 12:52 PM |
| 5 | Rules of an LTR?Off the top of my head, a few basic concepts in no particular order of importance: Always be prepared to walk, always be ready for the relationship to come to an end ("she's never your's; it's only your turn" / "better alone than in miserable company") At the very least, keep your game sharp by chatting up other women whenever possible and as often as possible. This works in conjunction with the point above as you want to keep it drilled in your mind that there's no need to fear the end of your … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 12:40 PM |
| 1 | I need help. My life is a mess, how do i get out of this period alive?I am here because I am lost, worn out, and ready to just say fuck this and kill myself. Before you go off doing something rash, do you have a paralysis rehabilitation center nearby? Try to coordinate a meeting between one of the patients (the closer they are to your age, the better) in order to explain to them in as much detail as possible why your life sucks ass, why you want to throw in the towel, and see what they have to say in return. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 12:17 PM |
| 35 | Anyone seen this - 27% of men 30 yrs or under have never had sexA couple of things I'd want to see from a deeper inquiry into this very report: 1) How many hours a day do these guys average staring at a screen? (social media/video games/YouTube/Netflix etc.) 1a) How many hours a day do these guys average viewing porn? 2) Do any of them even lift? Any sort of physical fitness routine? 3) How many were raised by just their Mother? How many had both parents, but Father was an easily-controlled and submissive weakling? 4) How many think their situation can be im… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 02:41 AM |
| 4 | Insecure about going for a date because I'm not fitYou tried hanging as a way to treat it yet? I went from roughly six months with something seriously wrong with my shoulder/upper pec muscles to virtually completely healed in 2-3 weeks just from consistently hanging from a bar. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Physical dangers of fucking taken women?This is primarily what's at the core of this inquiry: her loose lips (no pun). Just because you are dotting all your i's and crossing all your t's does not mean she can't get sloppy or slip up somehow. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Joe Rogan and Andrew Schulzthe people that claim that a male and female baby are identical regardless of hormones and evolution and that the reason boys play with trucks and girls with dolls is social conditioning It's a sloppy way to shoehorn "equality" down society's throat, to which I say: "let's give it a shot then!" Let's start putting women in the NFL and seeing how even the biggest, strongest woman alive handles someone like this charging straight at them. I also see no reason why they should be kept out of an envi… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 07:33 AM |
| 1 | I’m not experiencing the life I want.The more you feed this line of thinking I feel like I’m forever destined to be a pussy ...the further you'll get away from achieving this to create a good network/group of friends. Start knocking off goals that are very much in your control, like consistently hitting the gym for at least a couple of months straight, consistently giving it your all in respect to your grades. Stop sitting in front of a computer or fiddling with your phone when you start to feel nervous. Work on becoming someone ot… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do women always go back to their abuserYou get worked up incredibly easy for being the biggest, baddest, wisest alpha to drop in on this sub. And you keep barking up the wrong tree. Get on the mod's cases to throw out all of that outdated trash featured on the sidebar and replace it with your candy-ass know-it-all manifesto for keyboard-alpha larpers. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do women always go back to their abuserlol You're sweet little bitch ass hasn't made two weeks on this sub, but yeah, let's go around swinging haymakers at chicks, immediately unzipping right after and watching them instinctively doing what comes to them next. Please, write up THE guide of all guides and instruct the mods to use it to replace the entire sidebar. Adorable, candy ass LARPer. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do women always go back to their abuserSlap her next time she is mouthy You offering to pay his cash bail too, maybe even explain that to the judge as his attorney, with those two cents? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Lost my cool in front of whole office, now everyone avoiding meHB7s, and 1 HB9 who i still try to hold frame and still care what they think for some reason I'm going to guess that this traces back to a severe lack of women in your life outside of your job, so that the few women you do see on a regular basis grow to become greater, hotter, more powerful than what they truly are. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | I've maxed out my looks, I work out regularly, I'm well read and knowledgeable and I'm confidently pursuing my mission in life, yet women still aren't attracted to me. What gives?That's another method of handling the situation: aloofness to the point that they're uncertain if you even heard them. If they ask (if you're listening), a simple "yep" as if you're busy chewing on another thought (which, to be honest, your mind should be on other, bigger, more personal problems) should suffice. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I've maxed out my looks, I work out regularly, I'm well read and knowledgeable and I'm confidently pursuing my mission in life, yet women still aren't attracted to me. What gives?girls start telling me their problems and I listen and give them advice Start giving them alternative advice, like that maybe they should write to a lifer or someone condemned in San Quentin. The feeling of allowing yourself to get played (which is what's happening when you sit there and soak up all of her issues) has to overtake the feeling of wanting to be there for her as her guiding light, otherwise it'll continue to happen again and again. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I've maxed out my looks, I work out regularly, I'm well read and knowledgeable and I'm confidently pursuing my mission in life, yet women still aren't attracted to me. What gives?How do you do the whole caring, empathy, listening without coming off as your typical NiceGuy? By demonstrating that you have limits and aren't some 24/7 on-call therapist. So you lend an ear, genuinely give yourself over for a few minutes, then you pull the plug on the conversation (example - "Geez, really sorry to hear of all that. Well hey, listen, I've got a few things to work on, but let's catch up some time later when there's more free time") | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 03:43 PM |
| 5 | Girl im fucking taking days to respond and ignoring messages.Whatever you two have going on may be coming to a close, but I can guarantee that if you don't dial your hysteria down, you will either speed up the inevitable, or bring about a premature ending where there really wasn't an issue to begin with. This is early onset oneitis presently taking over you. She's not your's, bud; just your turn on the ride. The one who cares less is the one who controls the relationship, meaning, she, not you, is currently in the driver's seat. Go talk to other girls. Ge… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 03:26 AM |
| 4 | I've maxed out my looks, I work out regularly, I'm well read and knowledgeable and I'm confidently pursuing my mission in life, yet women still aren't attracted to me. What gives?good enough to coast on looks alone. From his post and his replies, I'm under the impression that this is largely what he's aiming for. His post probably should have been titled: "how much more work do I have to put into my looks/career until girls start throwing themselves at me (without saying a word) like the super hawt guys?" | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 07:12 PM |
| 3 | What to think about ex hitting me up?Two months later, she hits me up asking what I'm up to, and she said she's trying to be "friendly" with me and see how I'm doing She hasn't fully moved on. Probably checking to see if you're waiting around for her. Chances are she made a move to level-up, and it either didn't work out (failed attempt), worked out, but grass didn't turn out to be greener, or it's proving to be more hassle than previously anticipated. In other words, she wants to know if she still has you around as a fallback opti… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 03:55 PM |
| 32 | I've maxed out my looks, I work out regularly, I'm well read and knowledgeable and I'm confidently pursuing my mission in life, yet women still aren't attracted to me. What gives?I'd say I'm an interesting person to talk to Yes, you probably genuinely believe that to be the case (and it may even be true), but nobody knows that right off the bat. What are you expecting: to seamlessly segue straight from "hey" to "how postmodernism is eroding the bedrock of Western civilization", followed by plunging balls deep inside of her 15 minutes after that? You may think you've "maxed out", but you still have a glaring bindspot: being relatable to others. Want to know what an overwh… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Who here on TRP has NOT been cheated on in a relationship and how did you find TRP?Not sure if I've ever been cheated on (and would rather keep it that way, to be honest), but my last serious relationship definitely felt like it was drifting in that direction at the very least. The growing distance, suspicious behavior with the phone, palpably diminished chemistry, rise of duty sex in place of more spontaneous, fiery sex etc. Getting women has never really been difficult for me, but that relationship specifically was the one that truly broke me, an excruciatingly painful lesso… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is being intelligent a HUGE handicap when it comes to girls and life in general?You'll find yourself feeling much more at home over at the Incels sub | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 01:29 PM |
| 2 | how long does attraction lasts ?I forgot where it was that I came across a girl explaining what she called "prison dick", but the idea goes something like this: girl A is fucking some guy who majority, if not all, of girl A's friends don't like for one reason or another, maybe even girl A herself doesn't "like" him all that much either, but she can't help but go back over and over for more of his D (as if she were locked up in prison). The friends obviously take note, but also come to the conclusion that if she keeps going bac… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Do women seriously just travel for dick? I've noticed whenever I'm backpacking, the women I'm around act more horny...Right now, there's only one thing holding secular women from expressing their true dark sexual natures: their social image. Even that concept is being turned on it's head | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Stopping being a TRP NPCAny thoughts on how to minimize self conscious thoughts on what to do and what to say next without feeling like flipping through my mind's pages like a dictionary? Same as it tends to be with newbies and procrastinating, excuse-making info-junkies who find themselves trying to claw their way out of the dark and into the light: step the fuck away from all the theory, all the "advice", all the blog posts, all the seduction books etc., and go out there and interact, interact, interact. The idea is … | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How to beat depression?20 seems like a week or two ago to me, and I've drifted almost twenty years from that point at this stage in my life. Time flies, and 20 is way, way, waaaaaay to early to "give up". You could be living a radically different life in five years (or less!) with enough work and commitment. Here's what I'd do if I were you: Cut all smoking and drinking out. Aim for zero. It's pulling you away from arriving at or devising some sort of solution. Get back in the gym. Start showing yourself more apprecia… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Whats worse, my snooping or her lying?Advices? Be much more selective and much slower to promote a girl to an LTR. Vet more thoroughly. Also, you always have to be prepared for a relationship to come to an end - always - even when, if not especially when, things are going great and you'd theoretically least expect an abrupt termination of the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Whats worse, my snooping or her lying?Bigger issue is that you're going to be incredibly suspicious of her going forward and so you will find yourself in an indefinite cold war with her, always ready to pop off on her, even when whatever suspicions you may have are tenuous at best (ex. "The fuck you take your phone with you into the bathroom for? Huh???") If you can't get over her lying, you're essentially going to be trading in your peace of mind in exchange for a piece of ass and a giant serving of resentment to go with it on the … | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Is political leaning a red flag?Character trumps political leaning/affiliation (forgive the pun). And by "character", I mean the qualities that transcend "the issues", like where she stands on climate change/abortion/gun control/ immigration etc. I'm talking about how she treats people in practice in her day to day life, how she treats you, if politics aside, she'd be considered more of a generous person, or a me-me-me narcissistic twat. Take it from someone who's currently dating a girl with very, very little in common politi… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Need to put om weightIf you have a food processor, I highly recommend buying a couple pounds of peanuts and making your own peanut butter. Extremely easy to make, and you can customize the taste to your liking very easily too. I personally don't trust the majority of peanut butters found in most store shelves, but if I had to buy one, I'd go with Smuckers natural peanut butter. Consistently drop a spoonful or two into your shakes/smoothies and you should see your weight begin to climb again fairly quickly. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Is this forum filled with nerds pretending to be alpha?Been lifting 3x a week (compound exercises) while bulking. Keep doing this. I'd even start pushing it into the realm of 4-5x of week as soon as you can. The more progress you begin to see with your own two eyes, the more likely it is that you'll want to keep going, propelling yourself further up instead of down (by reading more, asking more, ruminating more etc.) Also, getting involved with as many different social circles as you possibly can will make things significantly easier for you too. Do… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Is this forum filled with nerds pretending to be alpha?I'm open to advice here. Of course you are, just as countless others are as well. Your main problem is that you just horde more and more information and "advice", but do very little or nothing with it. You also make really sad excuses for yourself, like saying you have "bad logistics" and that's what's prevented you from approaching any girls. That's about as bad as saying "I can't talk to any girls today because I'm not wearing my favorite boxers". Do you now see how senseless that sounds? That… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 04:48 AM |
| 9 | Good red pill channels on youtubeYeah, decent content, but the narcissism makes him fucking intolerable, as if he assumes that the bulk of his audience is comprised of braindead fucktards who just rolled out of bed and missed another day of school or work again. His arrogance doesn't match his dad-bod either. I don't know much about his backstory, but I also get the impression that some 'special lady' (and/or someone else) viciously screwed him over at some point in his life. I don't think even someone like Molyneux talks down … | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | What single piece of information on trp made you realize it is real/works?whoosh.net/faq | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 03:06 AM |
| 4 | What single piece of information on trp made you realize it is real/works?Write on your Tinder profile that you've been studying TRP for months, years, asking several questions a day for close to a year, diligently examining every piece of advice like a fragment of hardware, looking closely to see how it fits, how it doesn't fit, devouring theory like a starving madman, reviewing the entire system with the careful eye of a socially-retarded programmer, filling up notebooks with tons and tons of notes, ideas, and thousands upon thousands of questions. I can't guarantee… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Is this forum filled with nerds pretending to be alpha?hah so it fell apart. Any time I step away from this place and return to it after some time, it rarely seems like the quality has improved, only an influx of incels and people asking the same questions over and over. I remember guru (vaguely). I also remember Mauser, Espi, and another older dude (for the life of me, can't remember his name now). I wonder if they're still around. All gave fairly solid advice. Back then, I remember the place to avoid at all costs, the place that was dishing out th… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Is this forum filled with nerds pretending to be alpha?Sosuave! That was the first forum I frequented, back in 2013-2014. Much smaller community than TRP for sure (at least back then - I never went back after leaving it behind) Did it turn into "just be yourself"-ville? That's where Rollo cut his teeth way back in the day, if I'm not mistaken. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Potential LTR hit me with this text....Choose between: "ok", "cool", or no answer at all. Rather than giving you any more specifics, the basis of everything you do ought to come from a place where you enjoy her company (I'm assuming you do?), but won't stand in the way of her leaving should she grow restless and desire the safety offered by any one of the millions of betas out there. She'll come back with a proposition - that you can count. Beware of the ultimatums though (i.e. "officially recognize me as your "girlfriend" or we're t… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Is this forum filled with nerds pretending to be alpha?It could be the second-coming of Wilt Chamberlain (sans the fame that came with his career) feeding him pearls, clearly pointing out which ropes to take, which to skip, and he'd still be asking for more and more advice, more tips, more success stories, more insights. The guy's probably a textbook "hard case", convinced that he's just an article or two away from finally 'getting it', but when faced with an opportunity to put theory to action, retreats to the comfort of the online world, asks more… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 07:09 PM |
| 8 | Is this forum filled with nerds pretending to be alpha?I too knew I'd seen his name around here many times before, bombarding the forum with questions, many of which come loaded with incel-reeking rationalizations. He knows the world of theory is safe, and he's very accustomed to it. Binging on more and more information, questioning things relentlessly, being "so INTP", love-hating the struggle with being so hopelessly entangled with knowledge to his own detriment. No girl will brutally reject him while sitting behind a keyboard. Dude belongs in som… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Is game being able to talk the talk?You're buying in too much into a black-white paradigm, that you're either the life of the party, or you're Mr. dark & brooding. They're not mutually exclusive. Both of those personalities can absolutely exist within the same individual. All of this is absolutely pointless though if you lack the balls to not only speak your mind, but to simply initiate conversation. I also suspect that you're the type to stick a toe in "action" - maybe it goes you're way (for a minute), maybe it doesn't - and the… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Stock in pussyRecently, I had a female (HB7) approach me directly to have sex. She cut straight to the chase, no small talk, just laid it out on the table for me. So you nobly and respectfully declined, and now here you are, about to take the next step and sell us your "Gentleman Explains Why You Should Go Forever Incel Redpillers Hate Him!" instruction manual. Beautiful. Genuinely love these sort of posts. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Do women miss their exes as much as men do?That's right boi! Maintain frame!!! | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Discussing dress sense with Ltr in general for relationshipsSo she was like if you dont tell me your unhappy im wearing something revealing then your not husband material. "Whoever said marriage is on the table?" Unless you two have discussed this topic? I don't get the sense that you run this relationship, nor am I under the impression that you properly vetted this girl before sliding into an LTR with her. Another (slim) possibility is that things have spiraled out of your control, and now you have a girl cranking up the disrespect with threats and ulti… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How does the red pill not make you bitter, depressed, and cynical?So you prefer going back to the oh-so-sweet world of lies, like "just be yourself" and "happy wife, happy life"? Nobody said it'd be easy, but if you ask me, I wouldn't promise it being "worth it" either just by default of (now) knowing what's up for real - that's contingent on you using the knowledge and information to your advantage and making it happen. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 05:32 PM |
| 58 | Hard next after revelation from LTRDamn, you didn't even have to tease it out of her? I'd be thanking her for her honesty (but keep this token of appreciation to yourself, of course) I'd also stay the course if I were you. Keep driving (to the destination) with her currently in the rearview, soon entirely out of sight. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 04:55 PM |
| 11 | I made a list of TRP key points that I thought myself/others may have a hard time remembering, and I’m looking for additions that I may have missed.Good stuff. Best way to use it to your advantage? Get out there and socialize/game/lift/make money etc. for 80-90% of your time, and reflect on this list habitually for a only few minutes a day, grading yourself on what you're doing right, what you're doing wrong, what you're doing too much of, what you're not doing enough of etc. Apply the 80/20 rule to action vs. theory (always a disproportionate amount of action to theory) | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How to stop attention seeking behavioursyes | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 10:04 AM |
| 1 | What's the most weight you have lost in the shortest time? How did you do it?What's the most amount of times you've ever posted the same incel-esque sort of questions in a single day? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | I tried to save a hoe. Her response doesnt make any senseThe game is filled with rules, and as is the case with rules, there are always exceptions that defy the rules. When dealing with something like women, highly emotional creatures prone to making, on occasion, highly illogical choices, sometimes even to the point of complete self-ruin, this is, from time to time, to be expected. Even the George Clooneys and the Ryan Goslings of the World will get turned down. Might be very rare, but they're not God, just mortals with an exceptionally high level of… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | I tried to save a hoe. Her response doesnt make any senseThink of yourself like a business for a second. What would that say about you, again, as a business, if you spent the entirety of a workday, fuck, a workweek, pondering and contemplating why a former employee left despite you offering them a raise and other incentives? What would that say about that specific business (meaning you) in general? Why would anyone want to date work for someone like that? You want to get back to work, making the business better, or spending time thinking about this on… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 09:34 PM |
| 13 | How to properly finger?Refer to the thousands upon thousands of hours of porn references you must have seared into your brain. There has to be a "big tit bimbo gets fingered.mpeg" clip in there somewhere.. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 09:03 PM |
| 4 | I tried to save a hoe. Her response doesnt make any sensethe #1 point made continuously on TRP is that women exploit betas for their own aims. You're being autistic about this and treating it like a hard, immutable scientific law. Women will use betas, yes, but they also find them to be easily disposable considering the highly disproportionate ratio of betas to alphas in society, so turning their back on one is no big deal, because there's 100 more down the block, and that number only grows larger the hotter she happens to be. There's also the possibi… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 08:57 PM |
| 13 | LTR to study abroad in Europe this summer. Advice?Problem is, you'll likely never know. You can try prying it out of her, or you can make a stealthy attempt to lure it out of her, but that'll almost surely fire back on you badly, making you look outrageously insecure, and you still might not even get the actual truth. To level with you, the issue with cases like this one is that they're very, very gray in nature - many different outcomes are possible. Best advice I can give you is to assume an outcome, and proceed as if it's a certainty. In oth… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Ariana Grande with the anthem for hypergamy and branch swinging?how about we not be like SJW women complaining about “misogynistic rap music “ Do they actually yap about this? I thought they didn't call this sort of thing out because of the "intersectionality" (i.e. they'd be treading on another oppressed group, just like calling out Islam for misogyny is essentially forbidden because orange man has his crosshairs on them/enemy of my enemy is my friend bullshit) | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 10:19 PM |
| 6 | When the woman is acting like the man in the relationshipTRP is not evangelical by nature, and those who try to steer it in this direction, by spreading the good word of the Lord TRP are both doing it wrong and a great disservice to those who use TRP as the toolkit that it is to enhance their lives. Let the chips fall where the may. If your buddy enjoys getting bulldozed up the ass with a telephone pole, keep your disgust out of sight, or stop associating with him altogether if it sickens you so much. Stick to doing you (no pun). Amen. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Why are women obsessed with Horoscopes and Zodiac Signs?And to make matters even harder, part of turning on everything you've come to believe to be true also involves essentially telling your tribe (likely soon to be former tribe) that they too are mistaken in their beliefs. In the case of something like TRP, it's probably even harder than convincing a Republican to see things like a Democrat, or a liberal to lean more conservative, because in cases like those, the tribe can be seen as pre-existing, validated, chock-full of real-life examples to help… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 07:53 PM |
| 11 | Why are women obsessed with Horoscopes and Zodiac Signs?Her: "Omg, yesssss!!! You're soOOo totally a Pisces, just like my Dad!!!" You: "I was just fucking with you - I'm actually a Scorpio" Her: ::pauses for a second or two, stunned:: "Mmmmmmm, yess!!! I can totally see that too since Scorpio's are so mischievous and into camouflaging their true intentions in order to test the waters!!" | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 07:59 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most useful purchase you’ve made that’s improved your game/life?Shaving your head with either a razor or a single blade is about as low maintenance as it gets. Post a link to an image that most closely resembles your current hair/hairstyle and a basic idea of what you're after. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 08:50 AM |
| 3 | What’s the most useful purchase you’ve made that’s improved your game/life?No doubt. It's all about getting the tools (or something very close to) that the barbers have, and going after the haircut you want, very very slowly at first, of course. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 10:50 PM |
| 6 | What’s the most useful purchase you’ve made that’s improved your game/life?Learn how to cut your own hair. Yeah, I know, it might sound overly ambitious, and I probably could have reduced the amount of time it took me to learn how to properly do it (I stubbornly went down the trial & error route versus carefully studying online videos and tutorials, then giving it a go), but I promise you it can be done (one more example), and at this point there's almost no way I ever step into a barber shop again, especially considering how much $ I save in the long run, how much fas… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to take a few steps back in order to progress?Yes | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 07:47 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend made a comment that made me thinkingFrom my experience there are situations where a woman approaching this phase will “lock in” the provider male with overt displays of affection that tail off once the male succumbs to being deeply over invested. True, and nothing says tethered "invested" like marriage | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Best thing to do after LTR dumps you?Or Whales, but go insert your dick into other vaginas, then worry about getting the smoke-shows when you can prove to yourself that you: a) can get other women besides your ex b) have unequivocally expunged any and all traces of oneitis for your ex Edit: this advice is primarily for the profoundly beta types, but still applies if, post break-up, you continue to "only have eyes" for your ex, who probably dumped your lame-ass for precisely that very reason, and deservedly so | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 11:08 PM |
| 15 | I have a problem, a lot of women I see aren’t attractive enough for me, yet when I do see one that is, I get scared as a mf.Lower your standards, raise your attractiveness/up your game, or go kick dirt with the incels. Choose. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Having a roommate at 31?I'd be more worried about this friend of your's staying much longer anticipated. I've seen it happen before, and it can absolutely put a strain on a friendship. Very uncomfortable position to be in. I'd play it like it's totally normal, and only address it if it gets brought up ("oh yeah, this is my good friend [insert name]"). No need to get into the finer points, but if probed, keep it short and simple ("yep, he's crashing with me for a bit") | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Ex messaged me after 5 years NCI have absolutely no intention of fucking her so obviously won't be messaging her back, but how do I clearly convey that to her? The only way you can guarantee not stepping into a giant foreseeable pile of shit and feeling like a complete jackass for doing so is by disregarding her message entirely, including sending a covert message back that you don't care. The receipt issue is immaterial. You give a fuck, or you don't. Trying to figure out how to cleverly get it back to her that you presumabl… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Talking to ex againused to be really into this girl You still are buddy. Move on to another girl or go full-beta, beg her to come back into your life (I'm talking getting on your knees and letting the tears flow) and smash the wall with everything you've got (and maybe that will finally teach you). | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Why am I struggling so much with obtaining abundance?especially when i live in such a small town. Your options then are: a) move to a bigger town/city b) push harder, talk to even more girls, become even more attractive, develop and segue into more social circles, essentially maximize what's available to you at your current place of residency c) passively accept your lot and periodically jump on this sub, only to state the same problem and receive the same response(s) ad nauseam | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How to be funny and masculine ?What you really ought to be aspiring to achieve is how to become (a) funny and masculine (man). Once you do that, being funny/masculine will follow as a natural expression of who you are versus the on-off button effect, where you can act funny and/or masculine but potentially aren't either at your core. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Advice on how to handle LTR being with other guy/sCutting her off would seem to mean I care more, if I care less shouldn't I be cool with it to a point? You're rationalizing ways to keep her in your life. You are (presently) nowhere near the level where you can be that guy who's "cool" with her getting plowed by other dudes without getting attached in any way. It's similar to completely cutting a girl off following a vicious break up: whether or not that makes it seem like you're reeling in pain is entirely irrelevant as it's a move you make fo… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Plate spins plates herself and it bugs meI meant "read" as in what that (trying to get her to drop her plates) ultimately amounts to. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 12:20 AM |
| 11 | Plate spins plates herself and it bugs meBetter to end it (or at least begin to distance yourself from her) than to begin some foolish campaign (read: feed your oneitis) for her to drop her plates or some cringey shit like that. More options can help, but if even that's not working, cut the chord before you make yourself look like an idiot/lose a bunch of sleep & energy over just another girl. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 11:04 PM |
| 12 | Advice on how to handle LTR being with other guy/sYou're getting strung along, but it's not her fault - it's your's. You call yourself "empathetic", but your post reads like it was pumped out by a textbook Nice Guy. I mean, come on man. Read some of this shit back to yourself: So she hooked up with another guy this past weekend. She wasn't dishonest about it, but I had told her to tell me if she ever wanted to do it beforehand and she didn't. I was hurt and upset, and I told her. The harsh truth is that she probably views you like some sort of … | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Women who enjoy dominating less masculine men for sport“But...he still fucked you. Does that make you double submissive?” She probably initially thought that she fucked him, and even after your momentarily paralyzing observation, she probably reverted back to her original narrative, that she screwed him, both literally, but more importantly, figuratively. Women do the "notch in my belt" thing too. Physical attraction is not a necessary pre-requisite nor is the acquisition of any resources from said guy. Sometimes, it earns her stripes just by fuckin… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 06:34 PM |
| 4 | Tired of Sex Denials with LTRGetting denied 5 months in is considerably early. Earlier than that is even worse. Give dread a shot, but keep your finger over the "hard next" button, and be prepared to go that route. One of the surest ways to die slowly inside is to lay beside your LTR, knowing any move you make to escalate will be ultimately rejected, and to repeat this scenario over and over and over and over until you break. Strongly consider being single for awhile or getting another girl more willing to your sexual advan… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 03:44 AM |
| 7 | Is it ok to be very available with a girl you see as a LTR prospect whose super into you?I’m pretty available most of the time What does this mean exactly? You're unemployed? You inherited millions, so you don't have to work ever again? You're glued to your phone so you respond immediately? You have nothing going on outside of your job? Elaborate. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 07:40 AM |
| 3 | 34M Feedback on current Life stateI am less serious about my diet and alcohol intake because what's the point? You've acknowledged that your in a bit of a rut (happens), so your tentative plan is to shrug your shoulders and dig yourself deeper into the rut? What? At the very least, do not go down that path. I'm sure you can still work your legs and core out, right? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 07:32 AM |
| 3 | Friends turning on you once youve gone RP?Take note: this likely won't be the last time you'll be faced with the decision to leave dead weight behind. No need to get confrontational, but no need to put up with abuse because you two have a nostalgic connection to one another. Simply disengage more and more until it becomes a non-issue. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 07:25 AM |
| 5 | New coworker making a move? Or just a natural Stacy?what are your thoughts? Your "recovery" has a very long way to go. Stop jerking off to these fantasies about a woman who dropped a pen 18 feet from you and briefly looked in your direction before picking it up ("omg! guys, does that mean anything!?") Keep reading through that sidebar. When you're finished, read it again. Somewhere in between, find time to start working on getting the body you want. Also, go talk to girls OUTSIDE OF YOUR JOB - lots of them. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 02:15 AM |
| 4 | Where to find RP bros?The key is to accept the good with the bad (to a point, of course - some people are simply insufferable). You're going to be seriously let down if you hope or expect to find other guys people who agree with you on everything. If their LTRs/wives give them a buzz and you notice that they have them down as "Babe" or "Love Of My Life" or some other cringey shit in their phones, mentally laugh to yourself for a second if you feel so compelled, then get back to working on handstand pushups, weighted … | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 12:42 AM |
| 3 | So love is fake?Then, the woman ends up turning the beast into a loving mortal with feelings and emotion. Even as a kid, I used to joke about a hypothetical sequel, with slamming of doors and shouting at one another from opposite ends of the house, an explosion of pent-up resentment and contempt after years and years of monotony following the total evaporation of the honeymoon phase. Would probably be thoroughly enjoyed by the crew over on the deadbedroom sub. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 12:03 AM |
| 2 | For those who refused to marry their SO: how did you handle the marriage talk?Why can't women realize that pushing for marriage is essentially saying that they don't trust our commitment? Especially after 4 years (in your case)? Bitch I've been with you for years, what else is there to prove? It's a multitude of factors, but one of the bigger ones is that all of her friends have either done it, are en route to making it happen, or at least aspire to make it a reality some day. This pressure is a very real thing to a woman, to not be the odd one still standing, humiliated,… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 09:18 PM |
| 5 | For those who refused to marry their SO: how did you handle the marriage talk?I'm not married, but in an LTR for a little over three years now, and I addressed this issue from the very beginning and I made it very clear: nothing personal, but I have zero interest in getting married to anyone. I'm ok with some sort of a partnership, but marriage (in the legal sense) is entirely out of the question - no exceptions. I was in an LTR with a great girl close to a decade back, she tried to get me to "put a ring on it or the relationship is over", so I walked. Yes, it fucking hur… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Is there a complete guide to having conversation?Keep your eyes peeled for people who are good at doing it in real life. Pay close attention to how they handle lulls in the conversation, how they toss questions, how they make observations, how they give compliments, how they take them etc. Reading about it is much more illuminating and helpful as a backdrop to the real thing, not as a manuscript to memorize and regurgitate in a horrifyingly cringey way. The last thing you want to do is become some "perfect" albeit autistically robotic facsimil… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Red flag degrees and jobs?You're not even sure if you will be "surrounded by sluts", but even if you are, is simply ignoring them too much for you to pull off? Afraid they'll pants you or smother you with their tits and ass against your will? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Red flag degrees and jobs?Assuming you're not a troll, you have nothing to worry about with that overpowering stench of beta. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Red flag degrees and jobs?Nursing is an excellent career. Lots of options. Great pay. Some environments are brutally toxic, some you'll actually look forward to working in, and others may bore you to tears (ex small private practice). Stay the course. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Red flag degrees and jobs?I can't speak for every other hospital in my city (Miami), let alone every hospital in the US, but that was what I observed in the near decade I was there. Your fellow students in nursing school may not be an accurate reflection of what your co-workers may look like once you graduate. You may find yourself in NICU with a bunch of young moms, older women, zero other men, and an absence of drama amongst staff, for example, something completely different than what I witnessed (and experienced). | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 07:18 PM |
| 12 | Red flag degrees and jobs?I worked in an ER for many years and can confirm from my experience that there was an outrageous amount of fucking around and infidelity amongst staff. Long hours together, frequent stretches of downtime, tight scrubs on curvy, slender girls, almost always a disproportionate ratio of girls to guys ( with many of the guys being ugly/geeky etc, so the Chads stand out even more). Total recipe for disaster. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 09:39 AM |
| 2 | LTR of <1 year offered a 6 month overseas assignmentI can tell by your tone, how you're steering your life and way of reasoning that you will come out fine in the long run. It's not easy. I'm in very similar shoes to you at the moment, only my LTR recently eclipsed the three year mark, meaning I too will have a decision to make in the very near future. Even when you know what you have to do, and even if you've done it before (cue abundance), it still cuts, something like euthanizing a dog who's been by your side for quite some time. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 12:14 PM |
| 6 | How did you stop wanking and quit pornLearn how to get in the habit of assigning yourself things to instead of waiting around for others to tell you what to do. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Plate has boyfriend - how to handle?Definitely could be that. Could also be frustration that he apparently can't be bothered to put a drop of effort to retain her, a rejection of sorts, and no girl appreciates being rejected, especially when delivered by a guy she finds attractive, something we can assume to be true in OP's case. I know I can say, from experience, I've had several girls in the past tell me some variation of: "wow, you seriously were going to let me walk out of your life, just like that????" | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Would you confront an LTR if you suspect them of being unfaithful even at the risk of looking insecure?Why do you have to do either of those things That's a response to your original question how do you function in a relationship with that uncertainty? Unless you meant that specific level of toxic uncertainty you were responding to and not just uncertainty in general. If the former, I agree with where you're coming from; it'll break any man eventually. If the latter, then it's a case of being entirely unfit for a relationship as the man can't have his eyes on the girl to see everything she does, … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Would you confront an LTR if you suspect them of being unfaithful even at the risk of looking insecure?By that logic, you either can't ever let her out of your sight or need to have someone spying on her when you're not around, in which case I'd say the concerned party is just not fit to handle a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Simple Fitness QuestionNo doubt. To give you an idea, unless I come down with a cold, I very rarely use my inhaler these days (compared to my childhood and through most of my 20s when it is was multiple times a day), and I haven't done an aerosol treatment in at least a solid 5 years or so. Strengthening my lungs, in turn, has made working out a thousand times easier too. Best of luck dude. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Simple Fitness QuestionI'm asthmatic myself (hospitalized for a week back when I was 12 for a collapsed lung - that bad) and the best thing I ever did for my asthma was to take up the one thing I dreaded the most growing up: running. I haven't cured my asthma, but it's very controlled compared to the days when I'd panic if I left the house without my inhaler. In fact, I'm 36 now and my lungs are in the best condition they've ever been in my entire life. Give it a shot, little by little. If all you can do is run 50 fee… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Would you confront an LTR if you suspect them of being unfaithful even at the risk of looking insecure?To turn the tables a bit, the higher up you drive your SMV, the more other people will either wonder if you are fucking other girls or at least assume that you can easily get yourself another piece of ass, so there's that, but your peace of mind, the preservation of your frame, trumps any concerns whether or not a girl you're with is fucking around behind your back. There's a bit of an art to it - keeping track of the signs while not losing sight of your own life - but it's far better to ditch t… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 09:27 PM |
| 14 | How the fuck do you guys do itI just want to Be in a relationship. Explain why you think it is that women are not presently clawing and scratching one another to get to the front of the line for the honor of being your girlfriend. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck?I just need to let these girls know I won’t tolerate flakiness And what exactly will that achieve? You think this will get them to change their ways and start dropping panties for you left and right? If you carry this chip on your shoulder (ex." if this bitch flakes on me, I swear to God my boiling rage will set off a wildfire nearby"), it won't matter how good you look on the exterior, as internally you'd still be a spiteful, wounded little boy, ready to make war on the world for not getting yo… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Do I confront a girl who ghosted me?their attention whoring shows me that they want me to do something in order for them to open it Exactly, so they can laugh at your expense when you fall for the bait. Seems like you answered the question to your post, but I have little doubt you knew what you were going to do all along, you just came looking for validation on the wrong sub is all. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Do I confront a girl who ghosted me?Ugh, no buddy. She closed the door on you, and now you're the one trying to get back inside while I'm trying to tell you to stay out, but if you want to get played, go ahead. Seems like it's the sort of thing you enjoy. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 08:29 AM |
| 5 | Do I confront a girl who ghosted me?So you have oneitis. Cool. Reach out and let her burn you, then come back on here and ask how you can get her back (plot spoiler: everyone will tell you to move on ...again) | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Do I confront a girl who ghosted me?If you even suspect she has BPD, you should be widening the distance between the two of you, not closing it. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Do I confront a girl who ghosted me?Garden variety attention-whoring. If she wants to get ahold of you, she knows how. Ignore or block her ass if that's even option (I don't Twitter, so disregard if that's not possible) | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 07:34 AM |
| 8 | Do I confront a girl who ghosted me?I want to confront them on ghosting me. If you're fine with coming off as laughably pathetic, then go ahead and tell her how you really feel. The cherry on top will be her staying the course - far the fuck away from you. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 07:23 AM |
| 5 | Searched, didn't/haven't seen much on this. What are the loose rules on how long to wait to text back?You can always get more girls and start caring less about appearing indifferent (because you'll likely become indifferent) Abundance ftw. Also, the more you text, especially without getting what you want, the worse you look. The rules are that texting a girl you're interested in is primarily for meeting up in person. If those millenial urges are driving you batshit and you still feel compelled to text, text one of your buddies or family. Keep it short and simple with prospects. In fact, fucking … | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 06:59 AM |
| 7 | Turning to be married Muslim ex into plate?If you're willing to roll the dice on her cracking one day and uncorking the truth to god knows who of getting secretly rammed by you, then so be it. Buy the ticket, enjoy the ride. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Advice for dealing with potential shit test in LDRam I reading too into this? I'm essentially telling you to close the book, put it behind you and get some zzzz's, but you're insisting on keeping it open and driving yourself mad with questions. Tell yourself that it'll all get sorted out some way, somehow, either with her or with another girl, and leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 05:56 AM |
| 7 | Turning to be married Muslim ex into plate?That will clash with your wish to preserve your own life. Do it at your own peril. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 05:47 AM |
| 11 | Turning to be married Muslim ex into plate?Any advice? A question first: why does your itch have to be scratched by the vagina of this one specific girl? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Advice for dealing with potential shit test in LDRTo answer a question you posed near the end, yes, you are overreacting. You're too rattled for something too petty. The attitude you need to incorporate is something like: "Doesn't matter what happened today; she'll be back for more, and if she's not, I can get myself someone who will. Further, I will endeavor, from this point forward, never to have something as precious as my sleep disturbed by something so trivial. Amen." | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Advice for dealing with potential shit test in LDRWhat's with the wanting to "turn you into a LDR" then? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 05:24 AM |
| 4 | Advice for dealing with potential shit test in LDRwhat is the next move here? The next move is to get yourself a girl (or girls) who you don't have to drive several hours for or get on a plane to see. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 05:14 AM |
| 4 | Why is Chad Thundercock portrayed as a blond haired white guy? Is that supposed to be the look women are head over heels crazy for?You probably always heard "just be yourself" too, and how'd that work out for you? It's ok. Cut the retarded questions out and start reading through that sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 05:08 AM |
| 6 | What are some other forums or communities similar to TRP?At this juncture, you're asking for the revival of the golden age of TRP, before the "you need to pack 12 inches/look exactly like Ryan Gosling", or it's all over" crew found their way over here. You might have to ditch the all-in-one approach and select what you want to focus on specifically, then head on over to the sub dedicated solely to that subject (ex. finances, fitness/bodybuilding, cycling, nutrition/diet/cooking). However you cut it, a fresh, hot plate of unadulterated "self-improvemen… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 04:54 AM |
| 10 | How could i get a girlfriend if i have somewhat geeky interests?Time to throw some weights into the mix, and pronto rather than later. The heavier, the better. Start lite if you must, but start. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Would rather suck dick than work another day in ITNo shame in starting over, but give it some thought. Think about the things you are after - Money? Free time? Job satisfaction? Amount of energy required for doing the job etc. Then make your decision. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 03:33 AM |
| 13 | How could i get a girlfriend if i have somewhat geeky interests?Describe some of the heaviest things you regularly lift, and how much they weigh, more or less. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Would rather suck dick than work another day in ITLet's say someone gave you a list of "red pill majors": you chose one, went on to do considerably well in that field after only a few years, only to find yourself back where you started, consumed by the same sort of soul-crushing misery you consistently faced working IT. Would you stick it out simply because it happens to be a red pill major? In fact, would you disregard a career change if 100 people flooded this thread, telling you that they too work IT, love it, and just so happen to have a st… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Clearing up some misconceptions and lies about GameSo it's kind of moot, IMO - unless you're at least a 6.5 to a 7, don't even bother trying to get a decent woman. It's not going to happen. Not calling you an incel of course, but this would strangely generate many puddles of tears together with fist pumps and raised cups over on their board. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Clearing up some misconceptions and lies about GameQuasi-modo using Game will still, in the end, be Quasi-modo. That's true, the problem is that far too many guys go ahead and erroneously appraise themselves as being quasimodo (a 0) when they they're closer to a 2 who's too lazy to put in the work to become a 5-6. Not every guy can get himself a "10" and not every girl can do the same. Many, many women have to settle or fall down the lonely rabbit-hole into the isolated, man-free depths of Catlandia. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Disorders?Are disorders acceptable excuses for poor social skills in people? To a degree, yes - the cops won't storm into a bar to tackle and apprehend the awkward autistic geek who tried opening the 9 at the bar by confidently explaining his love for Javascript - but if not handled, it comes with a very high cost, namely, distance, ridicule, scorn, disgust, emasculating pity, violence even etc. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 08:33 PM |
| 2 | How to make ex a plate or FWBIs she the only girl left in the World? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Will I ever be able to let my guard down?But will I ever be able to let my guard down? This is easy to confuse with: will I ever be able to be a gentle, sweet, warm-hearted, total open-book, rom-com loving, emotional, world-class snuggle-bunny? Not saying this is you, but give serious thought to what you mean exactly by "letting your guard down". | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Looks vs GameWho would have more success To refine it a little more: how would you define "success"? By the one who gets more numbers? The one who gets laid more? The one who gets the hotter girls? The one who keeps a greater amount of them coming back for more versus the one who starts off strong, but seems to run out of steam faster? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Anyone here went from incel to chad (past 30 years old)?Have you always done this? To a degree, yes, but without being able to really explain why it worked. Much of this came from a severe case of oneitus I developed around 19, when I made a firm decision, from that point onward, that I wasn't going to turn my back on women, but I wasn't going to chase after them either. I truly embodied the mindset, did quite well in the interim (1 LTR for several years and many hook-ups in between) until I dropped the ball once more with another girl during my earl… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Where can I (24F) find a wealthy/successful man for marriage?The type of man I am most attracted is a successful guy who is well respected in the community. So you want something like a John Gotti, sans the criminal component. And preferably wears a suit. Does some sort of business, but not the bad kind. But he has to be wealthy/successful. Two sorts of women ask this question: the one's who are "single" and burnt-out by choice from an unabashed hypergamous dick-eating contest, or bottom of the barrel types who'd amusingly get just what they want over on … | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 10:54 PM |
| 3 | How to best leverage financial success while also avoiding gold diggers?Start saying your in healthcare if you're going to say anything at all. If they start regularly giving you what you want, then the prize is a career-reveal party. Stop "using your success" to pick up girls. Let your game and looks do the speaking. You fill them in on your success once they've let you fill them up with your D. Quid pro quo. End of story. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here went from incel to chad (past 30 years old)?What has your experience been? In what respect? Life has both gotten harder as I've gotten older (body doesn't recover anywhere near as fast as it did in my 20s) and easier (confidence levels are probably at the highest they've ever been, getting girls has gotten easier, not harder) | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 09:59 PM |
| 8 | LTR wanting to go on a 1 week vacationFirst things first, you can't control her (or others), only you. Above all else, stay emotionally composed, now and always. Second, this is why you never marry. Your perfect little princess today could be your monstrous little nightmare tomorrow. Third, forcing yourself to go with her now would look a little sad, being that you'd prefer not to be there, but would be pushing yourself to do so primarily, if not entirely, for the sake of being some sort of a chaperone. To your question: I'd let her… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I want to ask you a question about Erik Von Markovik (Mystery)Not a 10 (to me at least, sure), but she seems pretty cute. Maybe she's a 10 to him. Maybe he doesn't want to put up with the headaches that often come with dealing with 10s. Maybe she's the only one that's found his fart jokes funny. It's not always about more money or bigger tits or the flashier car or the hotter girl, a lesson I'm sure he learned quite some time back through first-hand experience. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 09:15 PM |
| 11 | Anyone here went from incel to chad (past 30 years old)?Seems relevant because dramatic change later in life becomes MUCH harder than earlier on. Yes, it does become more challenging, but don't lose sight of people more easily giving up on themselves later in life. That's a key reason why it becomes "much harder" later in life. They pull up their shirt a bit, let a roll or four of pure fat slide out, look back at their reflection in the mirror, and conclude that this must be it; no hope for this fat fuck, all at the youthful age of 30, so they double… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 09:08 PM |
| 5 | In this day and age, why are there still men who are marrying women?You know how much information there is out there regarding smoking and the detrimental effects it poses on the human body, and people still go through a pack or two a day, even with those warnings printed right on the fucking cigarette pack itself? People are irrational, prone to impulsive behavior, caving to peer pressure, often unable to drown out their emotions for the sake of following dry, sobering, logical counsels. Plug that into your equation and it'll begin to make more sense. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 08:40 PM |
| 8 | Social Media are useless?Many say that Social Media are a must to get women nowadays, but is it actually like that? As false as "you need a Linkedin to get a job nowadays". Anyone who argues the contrary is selling you snake oil, knowingly or not. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 03:25 PM |
| 10 | Post breakupRemove ex from all platforms if applicable (Instagram, Facebook etc.) Don't even stop for a second to consider how this might make you look in her eyes. It's over. Move on and leave her behind. No contact all the way. That's the first move. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Tempted to hit up ex due to not being able to enjoy other females. What should I do?How do I start finding other girls attractive? You don't type up some code and program yourself to make it happen. Takes time, my man. I'll tell you, when I broke up with my LTR back in 2014, it took me about a year and a half to reach the point where I one day realized: "oh shit, I haven't thought about her (my ex) in weeks". A fucking year and a half of mental demons, but they're long gone now. You know what you have to do (lift, go accomplish something), and you know what you have to avoid ('… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Where have I gone wrong and how can I get better?I look @ my friends who have dead end jobs, are no chads themselves who have had way more luck than I have and have a beta mindset. Where do you think they'll be in the long run? At your current rate, given what you're claiming to be habitually doing, where do you think you'll be? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | If you're doing fine with looks and frame, does getting a high-status job really boost your SMV as much as some say?It can, sure, but try looking at it this way: if you spotted some hot girl out somewhere in public - coffee shop, mall, bar etc. - and let's also assume this girl knows nothing about you, you two have never met - do you think you could pick up this girl without ever once mentioning what you do for a living? I mean, do you believe your game is strong enough that you'd never have to give it a "boost" by showcasing your status or wallet? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 02:28 PM |
| 9 | Going on holiday with my ex girlfriend.This is classic using TRP tactics for blue pill goals. Doomed to fail for sure. At the present moment, you are akin to a junkie unable to cut ties with his fix - if you get it, you're out of your mind high and sedated "happy", if you don't, you suffer and crave for the days when you readily had it. Also, if you're seriously "suicidal", you should seek professional help, not counsels from a couple of faceless users on an online message board. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 08:01 PM |
| 7 | Chicks letting you rawdog?You take charge. Be straight up: tell her that you want to keep fucking seeing her, but you don't want to use a condom anymore want to be safe about it. Change your final sentence to read: Kinda awkward It's serious, but and it needs to be done. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 07:49 PM |
| 30 | Chicks letting you rawdog?Some STDs take awhile to reflect a "positive". I believe HIV can go as long as three months before showing up on an STD test. Remember, girls are very much about the present moment. If they're turned on enough, you better believe a frightening majority (in my experience at least) will prefer to keep their eyes closed, submit fully to their feelings and insist that you "just put it in". And yes, from playing that game you've currently played, I caught Chlamydia once and something called "molluscu… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you win a debate?Here's your chance to implement a little amused mastery in a slightly different setting. Start by explaining that "diversity is our strength", and that the United States as it currently stands, has a serious lack of cartels, Brazilian favela gangsters, and jihadists. Use this strategy at your own discretion, of course. All the best. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 06:13 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend says she's not going to be available today, stay home, so denies coming to my place, now suddenly changes it and says she Will go out euth her friendsDo you have it in you to show her the door for good? If you answered "no", why? And if you answered "yes", what would it take for you to do that? Another lie? Catching her on camera fucking your best friend? Find out she slaughtered your entire family in cold blood? You always have to be prepared to move on when in an LTR, especially when you find yourself progressively turning your attention to her whereabouts and trying to catch her slipping (which is also likely an indication that you either … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Reforming an incelBut I can judge them, as they're free to judge me. I feel for some of them, sure, but that mindset/ideology epitomizes the glorification of loserdom. Pure toxicity. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 05:40 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if gal's give you THE look when they're attracted to you whilst speaking.Anywho i know the answers is just approach, but it's a work setting. And do you know the answer to this one too? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Reforming an incelNever called you an incel, only that I find it particularly amusing to find a group of guys who believe that if you don't look just like Chris Hemsworth, it's "all over". | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 05:13 PM |
| 2 | How to know difference between virgin GF liking you but being scared of sex and virgin GF using you and lying to youIf you're fine with it, then wait it out. Best case? It's all worth it and your dreams come true and the light pours in and happiness overcomes you and they make a movie of your perfect relationship. Worst case? You keep posting here regularly, asking the same question with increasing anxiety and frustration ("Guys, it's been close to two years now, and my virgin gf still won't screw me, but I swear, she's crazy about me! You should see some of the stuff she's texted about me to her friends etc.… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 05:03 PM |
| 5 | How to know difference between virgin GF liking you but being scared of sex and virgin GF using you and lying to youWhy would she tolerate this phrase lol And why would you tolerate nailing shut your dick indefinitely for a "virgin gf"? That's the better question. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Reforming an incelI personally find their very own subreddit to be an excellent source of endless humor and patheticness, but apparently several thousand others find it closer to be their own comfortably miserable little version of "home, sweet home" | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Nice girlI know that all women are the same but she seems a bit different, more like a Ltr material. Holy fucking shit dude, you did it! You found a unicorn! Proceed to marry her, give her all your resources, tip your fedora her way on the daily, raise her boyfriend's children etc. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:40 PM |
| 2 | How to know difference between virgin GF liking you but being scared of sex and virgin GF using you and lying to youTell her to take her sweet time, that you'll wait an eternity for her, but you'll be nailing other women until that cherished, glorious, beautiful day cums. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:37 PM |
| 5 | I almost became beta again.You have a question, or just sharing a page from your journal on a sub intended for people with questions? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here managed to turn a hoe into a housewife?Are you interested in trying your hand at this? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:30 PM |
| 9 | Guys who had ''good girl'' properly vetted LTRs. Why did you break up?I got the marriage ultimatum ("wife me up or we're done") a little after being together for four years, so I broke things off. I don't care how "good" or "pure" or "innocent" a girl may be. Marriage is not and won't ever be in my plans. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice to not re-enter prisonThen break up with her and send her back to her parents/friends/some other living space | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice to not re-enter prisonIs her name on the lease? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice to not re-enter prisonDo you live with her? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice to not re-enter prisonI want to know what you guys think I should do? Be as busy as possible until that year of parole is up. If you're not working out, you're either studying for school or you're sleeping. Stay the fuck away from anything that can get you to fall off the straight and narrow (ex. drinking, drugs) Play the part until you're good. Stop reinforcing any and all "I'm trying, but it's sooooo hard! Woe is me!" sort of thinking. Own your fuckups, then overcome them bit by bit, every single day. Tune out anyt… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:01 PM |
| 5 | What does love feel like?Yes, he's talking about love - he wants to know | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 02:03 AM |
| 8 | What's an ideal redpilled answer to "did you do anything interesting lately?" to a girl/woman?You missed the point. Stop looking for 'secret buttons' that'll get "the hamster going". When you personify attractiveness, she searches for the "ideal answer", not you. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 10:18 PM |
| 7 | What's an ideal redpilled answer to "did you do anything interesting lately?" to a girl/woman?I was thinking one possible answer is, "I was actually out of state recently in ___ (state) with some friends and really enjoyed it." Communicates social desirability, money, and adventurousness. If you're going to do things this way, you have at least two potential issues ahead: 1) You're going to have to constantly be doing things for the sake of barfing up an ideal red-pilled answer (in which case, who the fuck are you really living your life for?) or 2) You're going to end up becoming one se… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 09:55 PM |
| 42 | Where to go after TRP?I just feel autistic after reading things like The 48 Laws of Power and TRP posts at this point. Where can I find resources and guidance toward touching this more wholesome aspect of existence that TRP never touches upon? More reading is going to deepen that autistic feeling if you don't start conversing with people in real life. It sounds to me like you're trying to develop a more profound level of sympathy for others. Reading all the literature in the world regarding this subject might make yo… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Growing old and alone. And how old are the guys posting on TRP? Poll?No need to marry to have some sort of life-partner, if that's the sort of thing that interests you. I'm 36 now, been with my LTR for a little over three years, and the advice I'd give is to do what I did and make your opposition to marriage very clear from the beginning. In my case, she's given me some shit on rare occasions, and I always point back to the same response: if you don't like it, I guarantee there's some other schmuck out there who'd gladly hack a limb off in exchange for being able… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 12:44 AM |
| 10 | How to increase masculine energy levels?Now you need to take all of those and put them in the service of (insert your goal[s] here). Simply doing those as a checklist to cross off routinely won't help as much as doing them as a means to make possible, support, strengthen, elevate your end goal(s), whatever that may be. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | What to do when the crushing weight of nihilism and cynicism becomes overwhelming?True to the metaphor, it fades into the distance eventually. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 02:16 AM |
| 1 | What to do when the crushing weight of nihilism and cynicism becomes overwhelming?Nihilism is a crossroad. You can even spend the rest of your life at that very crossroad, or you can go this way and "get busy living", or go the other way and "get busy dying". | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Envy is a horrible thing and with success comes envy. How should one go about dealing with it?It could be envy, could be something else, but the reason I'd advise against going with envy as the certain reason why this dude's giving you the cold shoulder is because it'll mesh with your frame and put you on par mentally as some stuck-up Instagram thot (to use an example) with several thousand followers, where everyone gets thrown into one of two camps: "my people" and "tha haterzz", that kind of bullshit. I'm not saying you'd necessarily become that sort of person, but it's very easy to sl… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Envy is a horrible thing and with success comes envy. How should one go about dealing with it?Been there before, and it fucking sucks for sure. Maybe send him a simple "Happy Birthday" text and leave it at that? Yeah, no need to be banging on his door (or anyone's door for that matter), asking, pleading for him to be a "friend". | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Envy is a horrible thing and with success comes envy. How should one go about dealing with it?Greene mentions how a test of envy is to mention success. When people start to distance themselves it's envy. Maybe, maybe not. I wouldn't treat it like some scientific fact though. People ghost for some of the strangest reasons. Sometimes people don't like your face. Sometimes people think you give off a weird vibe. Better to treat it like something odd you acknowledge for a second or two, then casually dismiss because you have better things to do (which, in your case, you clearly do) It's unse… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 07:14 PM |
| 7 | Got punched while drunkWould you leave it at that? If I were in your shoes at this very moment, probably not, but since I'm not, I'm not sure I'd push for you to go thank this guy who decked you, but definitely start cutting waaaaay back on the drinking (ideally, removing alcohol completely) and give some serious thought to the environments you place yourself in and the risk that comes with it. You may be in complete control of yourself, but at a bar or club, you are typically engulfed by a bunch of other drunken and/… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Envy is a horrible thing and with success comes envy. How should one go about dealing with it?It's the byproduct, unfortunately (or fortunately? some people feed off of it and use it to propel themselves to even loftier heights) The other option (which I think and I hope you won't exercise) is deliberately holding yourself back, enjoying (?) the company of those at the bottom, casting aspersions at the few climbing to the top or the ones already on top. All of Greene's counsels are great, in my view. Out of sight, out of mind works great, and giving people less of a reason to hate on you… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Advice for TRP at 17 y/o?Of course it doesn't apply in school or class | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | On Drugs-BIOHACKINGSo now it's not that it's a "top 3 ways to get laid" issue, but one concerning options made by "well adjusted adults"? Speaking of "adults", you millennials really are quick to shoot from the hip without putting a drop of critical thinking into what you say or write. I'll walk you through your fuck-ups. First, you assumed not only that I myself spike a girl's drink in order to get laid, but that's part of my "top 3" ways to get it done. I wouldn't put it past you that you probably even assumed w… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 04:51 AM |
| 1 | On Drugs-BIOHACKINGStill don't see it homie. Keep digging... | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 02:48 AM |
| 1 | On Drugs-BIOHACKINGShow me where I said that's one of my "top 3 ways to get laid" | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 11:11 PM |
| 11 | Manly subredditsThat's been my experience too. I'm under the impression that most of these 'chivalrous' types are somewhere between their late teens to mid-late 20s too? Their "moderate" on the Left-Right spectrum would be considered "Fascist" and their "right" would be "Literally Hitler", respectively. A very sensitive crowd. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to vacation with single friendProbably because it's quite apropos in your case, as you've demonstrated it beautifully twice now. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 09:03 PM |
| 0 | LTR wants to vacation with single friendI still very much appreciate your autistic splitting of hairs. You've got your work seriously cut out for you with the influx of incels on this sub. All the best. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 08:30 PM |
| 2 | On Drugs-BIOHACKINGValue is largely contingent on the environment. A regular at a bar bringing in well over $100k a year, fucking all the front of staff and instructed by management to be constantly given VIP treatment can find himself to be completely ignored and a total nobody at a Playboy pool party. You said it yourself: it transcends money (where I agree), but I don't think it necessarily includes a specific figure as a base. I'd put the value of a man more on what he can do to influence his surroundings (eit… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 08:28 PM |
| 0 | LTR wants to vacation with single friendI constantly forget to include footnotes for the autistically-impaired. In this case, assuming he has the proper frame in place, the question is coming from a position of "let's see how much she values this relationship" (strong frame) instead of asking "like a frightened little child" (weak frame), but I know, you're going to say that simply asking the question could only come from a position of fear and apprehension. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 07:46 PM |
| 0 | On Drugs-BIOHACKINGKeep digging through the top posts on the main site and the sidebar, of course. You don't have to be popping bottles in the VIP or wearing fancy suits or able to buy an all-you-can pussy-buffet to be a "high value male". | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | On Drugs-BIOHACKINGThe utility in spending for the lay outweighs buying a handle of vodka and jerking off at home. Some solid erroneous binary thinking there, that you're either killing it making "six figzZ!" and that is how to get pussy on tap or it's you and Xvideos out in the middle of no man's land. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | On Drugs-BIOHACKINGAnd I bet in that same club there's a bartender who 1) doesn't drink 2) doesn't work out 3) takes public transport for a living 4) pocketed $50 in tips from said "corporate lawyer" alone and 5) still gets a nice laugh at those who need alcohol for a "guaranteed lay", but is very grateful for that 'system' as it keeps the lights on in his place and lets him buy groceries and other amenities regularly. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 07:19 PM |
| 3 | On Drugs-BIOHACKINGThink of how many people don't consume caffeine for "productivity purposes". Greatly weakens the argument in favor of it. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 07:02 PM |
| 7 | On Drugs-BIOHACKINGDouble-edged sword and incredibly easy to justify their usage. Look at your very own post. Nerves got you shitting your pants and can't talk to a girl? Go chug a shot of whiskey. Work got you stressed? Fire up that blunt. Tired of astrology? Don't have the first clue how to observe the World around you? Stems and caps can be found in the baggy next to all the other veggies in the fridge. Want to virtually guarantee you're getting laid by some chick without having to "game" her, becoming "attract… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 06:46 PM |
| 8 | About blackpillWhat if it's all true? What if life is ultimately meaningless and everything you do will eventually be swallowed up in due time and completely forgotten? What then? Blow your brains out? "Black pill" as many people as possible before offing yourself? Become the World's greatest creator of retarded Black pill memes? Nobody here (or anywhere else for that matter) can give you some "objective, factual, sterile, bias-free revelation concerning The Truth of Existence". What conclusions would you draw… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Plate wants us to stay friendsYou played it well. You didn't get pissed, you didn't try to shame her, you didn't fall apart like it was your last chance at a girl for the rest of your life. You accepted where the chips fell, and you moved along, onto the next chapter. I'd continue to be cool with her, but know when to cut it short and return your attention to girls who reciprocate/your studies/time with your friends/fitness goals etc. Always preferable to end things on good terms than to throw down the gauntlet. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Does alpha widower exist? What to do about it?My friends however don't want to 'settle' and are still looking for a new unicorn. This is like saying "No, I will not accept that Santa isn't real! I won't! I'll never stop looking!" Not as delusional (because you can find an actual woman versus finding a flying morbidly obese bearded old guy), but it still comes down to an inability to accept (or even begin to inquire into) what is real, and what isn't. How is this "alpha widower" situation solved? Easy. The same way the whole "Santa" stupidit… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:02 PM |
| 0 | LTR wants to vacation with single friendFar preferable than the loser incels who come on here trying to spread their ideology glorifying their patheticness. "Girls totally aren't worth it guys! Come on, let's go play video games and jerk off together!" | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 04:33 PM |
| 2 | LTR wants to vacation with single friendI can tell you to do X, then do Y, and quick! Do Z immediately after! but, all of it will be for naught if you are either terrified of losing her and/or intending on 'evening the score' in some way. It's more important to slide into the stronger frame of mind than having someone move your arms/legs/mouth for you so that you get the outcome that you want (but maybe we could negotiate something if the number$ are right...???) Be prepared to lose her, bud, and I'm not foreboding what will happen - … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:19 AM |
| 3 | LTR wants to vacation with single friendYou want to avoid administering any sort of consequence and her being confused as to why you are withdrawing, so I'd first give some thought to whether or not you'll leave her for good if she goes (you don't have to tell her that you'll pull this card, btw, just like she won't be telling you if someone demolished her cervix - keep that in mind...), then bring up the forthcoming vacation again, ask if she still intends on going, and if she says "yes", keep it short and simple that you're clear on… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants to vacation with single friendSoft next or hard next. Choose. And whatever you choose, make sure you stick with your decision. Being a pushover is an excellent way to keep a woman's panties Sahara-dry. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 04:23 AM |
| 5 | LTR wants to vacation with single friendFirst, in a situation like this one, you don't "demand" that she not go. You express your displeasure (aka laying out your boundaries) in a non-needy fashion ("I really wouldn't appreciate you going on this vacation, but I won't stop you" vs. "you have no idea how angry this vacation is going to make me and how many inanimate objects I will smash out of pure rage"), and you then choose to express the consequences or not of crossing said boundary. You always give women the freedom of choice, and … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 04:15 AM |
| 2 | More options = attractive?The "shy/insecure" thing is easy to get tripped up by. They're still women. They still love getting lost in waves of orgasmic bliss, playing the sweet and demure girl in public, and the sexual beast behind closed doors. It's AWALT all the way down. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 11:58 PM |
| 2 | More options = attractive?Tension contributes to attraction, but there is such a thing as "too much tension". Some girls can't handle it, some girls openly love it, some girls secretly get outrageously hot and bothered with the thought alone that other women would give themselves with zero resistance to their AF. I've been in your shoes, and my advice is to play something of the "noble alpha". You know that she now knows that she has competition, she knows that you know that she has competition you have options, but you'… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 11:43 PM |
| 2 | One thing I don’t understand about AF/BBHaven't you heard? "There's a sucker born every minute" You're grossly underestimating the level of desperation, obliviousness, and utter lack of self-respect some of these men posses nowadays. A woman is more willing to share a winner than to have a loser all to herself, and a BB is more willing to take it up the ass for the sake of a few scraps from a girl than be left ought in the cold with his dick in his hand. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Do women really cheat that much?Is this a mandate for all other guys to follow your infinite wisdom or you're just letting us know that the only way you leave the basement is in a body bag? | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 08:06 AM |
| 3 | Becoming the man women wantThat's part of it, but make sure to remove the autism.exe and the hopelessly-incel.exe files. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Emotional toughness/resilience"I'm the sort of person who knows what he wants, goes after what he wants, and rarely fails to attain what he wants" How closely would you say this describes you? Are you better at surviving when caught up in a storm of adversity, or at pushing through the adversity so that you're either no longer dealing with it, perhaps even using it to your advantage? To word it another way, are you more the type to keep wheeling and dealing until you get what you want, drawing hard boundaries indicating what… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:33 AM |
| 12 | I think my boss is trying to get me to fuck her, advice needed!You can be pre-emptive too. For example, ask her what you think would be a good gift for a girl you're beginning to get serious with. Tell her "I'm so bad at these things lol", the whole "woe is my beta-ass" schtick. Tell her you really dig this girl, and you want her to know what a "nice guy" you really are. Dial up the blue-pill way of doing things. If she presses you for details, be reticent and say you like to keep most details away from your professional life. Add a little stupid faux laugh… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How To Break High School Clique/Tribe Mentality?Why would I hate? You're talking to someone whose views are largely conservative and lives in one of the most profoundly liberal meccas in the U.S. (NYC). There's an art to being able to get along with everyone despite their petty, stupid, largely irrelevant extremely personal, important, sacred political outlooks. Are you not trying to transcend the "high school clique/tribe mentality"? Well, this is how you do it, by seeing past it, by finding what you can find redeemable, and dismissing what … | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | How To Break High School Clique/Tribe Mentality?Bad news: the tribal mentality will continue on throughout the rest of your life. Good news: the tribal mentality will continue on throughout the rest of your life. In other words, use this to your advantage. Find a group that suits you best (not perfectly, but best). Accept that you may come across, let's say in your specific case, a bunch of skateboarders you admire greatly, but they all turn out to have severe oneitis for one specific girl respectively. Accept that and resist the urge to get … | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Teasing girls about orbitersTeasing girls about orbiters isn't "bad", but not having a care in the world for them (nor demonstrating your lack of care for them) is, without question, far superior. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 06:59 PM |
| 14 | What are signs a possible LTR has ridden the cock carousel?You can always more or less issue an ultimatum of sorts by requesting that she take a full STD panel (you'd be doing the same, of course), a very reasonable proposition these days, I think. That's about as good as it's going to get. From there on, the best course of action to ensure a sustained degree of peace of mind would be to only concern yourself with very obvious signs something is off (ex. frequent girl's night out/returns some point the next day, acting overly protective with her phone).… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider this disrespect?You're failing to realize that making it a priority to send the message that you "see through the BS" is a loss of frame. It's a bit harder to eradicate the feeling of being slighted, so the best course of action is to proceed precisely as the sort of guy who'd sleep just fine regardless of the outcome, and to continue behaving in such fashion until it clicks. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 09:59 PM |
| 7 | Cold approach is exhaustingI'm going to assume all of this cold approaching has more or less vanquished most of your feelings of nervousness when talking to women people you've never met, so piggyback off the confidence you've likely earned from this exercise and start trying to develop (or get involved with ready-made) social circles. If you can introduce yourself to a complete stranger, moving around social circles becomes a fucking breeze ("Oh, you know [insert your friend's name here] too? Nice to meet you, I'm [inser… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider this disrespect?Look a year or two down the line. You want to get to the point where you look back on a question like this one and say something like: "Jesus. How cringey of me to even ask that. If a girl flaked on me for some obvious bullshit like that now, I wouldn't think twice about calling any one of the 3-5 girls who keep blowing up my phone so that I could blow my load inside of them." You don't want to get used and abused by a woman, sure, I get that, but the more you investigate the life of a woman and… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Should I go all out on my dream or play it carefullyTwo ways of approaching this: 1) Going all in - to maximize your odds of being successful, if you must support yourself financially, either try to get the job that pays the most for the least amount of your time/energy, or get a job in which you can even work on your project while still getting paid, albeit shit wages (think night-time security gig). Either way, when you're not on the clock, you're on the other clock, the one pertaining to your dreams. Constantly remind yourself that you have to… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone noticed how extremely autistic this sub has been lately?Funny you say that, as I recently had the pleasure of interacting with one of these special types who believe TRP and Incel-osophy are largely in agreement (more specifically, that the only way to get girls is to either be born looking like Ryan Gosling and/or have Warren Buffet sort of $. If neither apply to you, it's Pornhub-4-life as that's all the action you'll ever get) | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 06:15 PM |
| 0 | What’s going on here?Ah, the good ol' "there's this one chick" scenario. The truth is, that at it's core, this usually boils down to an issue centered on a lack of abundance. You need to acquire a taste first for closing deals, then you move on to closing bigger and better deals, not spending your time being thrown around by "maybes". The better deals, of course, become more easily obtainable the better the product - that means, of course, you. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Why are women so vehemently disgusted by the idea of having to make any kind of decision, no matter how big or small?Basically what I see too. OP, there are more affirmative sort of girls out there, but dating one could lead to a new problem - at the extreme, one where it's a constant struggle for who gets to wear the pants in the relationship. It's not one or the other, empty vessel or tyrannical feminist, but in my personal experience, it's far easier (I'd also argue dramatically less tiring) to pump a bit of assertiveness into the timid than it is to get the more domineering to disarm and submit. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | What’s so wrong with being introverted?The better question is how many women have you screwed? Judging by the way you write, I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if you're a "not young" virgin, but chances are you've gotten a few scraps (a 3 here, maybe a drunken 4 there), looked around, surveyed the landscape, saw a sea of true-blue average joes mixed together with a crop of incel loser types, and came up with the conclusion that if a guy isn't 'feasting', he must be 'famining', and c'est la vie. I stopped keeping count of my "notc… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What’s so wrong with being introverted?You must be new here. I bet you're also very young. As for myself, I'd say I'm a solid 7 or so, and I've gotten many girls in my 36 years on this Earth many times with these exact women have very little to no idea of what I do for a living, how much money I possess, and all this at times without spending so much as a fucking dime. TRP is not of the belief that godly looks together with warehouses stocked with cash is "the only way" to get a girl interested in you. Keep reading & learning and may… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | What’s so wrong with being introverted?So the incels are spot on and TRP is dead wrong. How much this sub has to learn from you. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What’s so wrong with being introverted?Because it's clearly "Chris Hemsworth" or "regular dude" nothing. Got it. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | What’s so wrong with being introverted?You say that now, but would you stand by that mindset should you reach the point where at least 7s and 8s regularly begin handing themselves over to you on a platter? You haven't really been tested yet... | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Anger phase to indifference?I’m past anger phase but I’m also deeply indifferent and kind of like a rudderless boat - any advice? You need a goal or goals, and one that you really give a fuck about accomplishing. Things will begin to come together if this is your central driving force. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Agree and amplifyDemonstrates a willingness to take a risk and have the whole thing go to shit. In other words, that you have fucking balls. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Pursuing the “maybe” girlsFor every "maybe" girl, have at least one "hell yeah" to match and prevent you from wasting your time, finding yourself futilely chasing a tease. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Tried to talk to girl at workYou got a nice little case of oneitis running through your system at the moment, judging from the way your post reads. What do I think? I think you need more women in your life - like, many, many more women. You're not on the path of abundance if you're asking if you "still have a chance", especially with a girl you work with. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 02:49 PM |
| 135 | What are some common mental fallacies that i can avoid in my life?That you don't have options. There's always another job, always another apartment/house, always another girl etc. Once you truly internalize this, the behaviors will naturally follow and the neediness will gradually evaporate. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 02:35 PM |
| 3 | What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women?Take their train of thought and amplify it in a way you find amusing. Example: Girl: "so like, are you a player?" You: "I'm not a player, I just fuck a lot (of different chicks)" Edit: RIP Pun | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone else looked back at their bluepill self and cringed? Semi-struggling at the momentIt's ok to be repulsed by your past self, but it brought you to where you currently are. What matters now is that you strive not to repeat those errors (and to forgive yourself if you do, then back on the saddle, moving onward) Also, rid yourself of any inclinations toward self-pity and/or self-loathing - they are completely anathema to your progression into the man you are endeavoring to become. Understand and accept that mistakes will be made. Perhaps you will lose sight of your path a bit. Ma… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 11:17 PM |
| 6 | How to get abundance when one has none?You basically answer your own post with these two lines read together: Its my anxiety and predisposition to failure that prevents me from doing anything. and I guess I'm stuck to making posts like this every few months. Even if you brought yourself to look like this, you'd still look like this mentally. Simply put: your mindset is defeatist to the core. You think like a beggar, but want to live like a king? Either it never happens (most likely), or it does, but you remain miserable at all times … | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | what's so wrong with the mgtow philosophy? Is it so wrong to want nothing to do with women?So your post wasn't truly a question, it was rhetorical in nature and you are, in fact, schooling all of us to back the fuck up and go play with ourselves in a dark corner until we meet our maker. Got it. Thanks dude! | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 12:55 PM |
| 17 | LTR liking every single picture of a guy on instagramOP, re-read the above comment. I've been in your shoes before. Many of us have. You've probably lost a sleep over this. Difficulty concentrating at work, and why not? You're wracking your mind, trying to gather more information, considering possibilities, plotting your next move. Exhausting shit - can we agree? Replace the questions you used to close your post with questions like: "why do I care so much about losing this one?" "Do I truly believe I'll be fine if we split apart?" "Is not just pus… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 07:08 AM |
| 2 | What are some lesser known NAWLT and AWALT truths?Girls settle down there too, but they constantly keep their eyes wide open for Chad like the rest, and given the general vain, vapid atmosphere, you better believe Chad is a very real thing in Miami. As you may imagine, girls often also frequently bitch about how much Miami's dating scene sucks, and I'd say a lot of that has to do with some combination of a) a wealth of wannabe Chads b) not having access to Chad at all c) getting plowed by Chad, but him refusing to get locked down due to his see… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 05:23 PM |
| 5 | What are some lesser known NAWLT and AWALT truths?/u/Morphs_ /u/plenty_of_eesh So how do guys go about dating in Miami if all the women are so terrible? A lot of settling and/or significantly lengthy droughts are common among guys. When it's firmly established that a preponderance of 6s and 7s often appraise themselves as 8s and 9s down there, the consensus rather quickly becomes one centered on frustration and hopelessness. Ask 10 native guys, each at least in their early 20s, what a "typical Miami girl" is, and watch each of them roll their e… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 02:29 PM |
| 6 | What are some lesser known NAWLT and AWALT truths?Born and raised in Miami. Moved out not long before my 33rd bday. Explaining the dating scene to my current gf (or virtually any other girl not from there) is like detailing life behind bars, shedding light on that world by saying stuff like "stabbings are normal" "cheating is normal". I can absolutely see how someone from an insulated, slow-paced part of middle America would find the philosophy behind TRP mostly, if not entirely, perversely alien. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 12:03 PM |
| 5 | Do you have a girlfriend?"I don't call her that, but there's someone.." Basically suggests that you're fucking someone (pre-selection), but nothing 'official'. If pushed to tell more, draw the line there and assertively state that you'd rather not discuss your private life any further. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 02:58 AM |
| 7 | What’s the deal with male feminists?...and expect to get banned before all the screeching and sperging cracks your screen | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | So tired with my life, how do you stay motivated?but ppl here have really conservative mindset Definitely seek out like-minded people, but a great conversationalist, someone well-versed in the world of social dynamics, will be able to look beyond almost any single person's views on the world and find what it is that they have in common. Becoming that sort of individual can take work, but the key is to go in with the mentality that you are confident that you two have something in common, the only question being "what is that thing or two (or 30… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 06:47 PM |
| 29 | So tired with my life, how do you stay motivated?If you were in same situation what would you do? Take 15-20 minutes a day to stop and consider how many different ways you can veer off course from your day-to-day routine. If not, you risk getting stuck in the same loop, hopelessly chasing your tail while wishing things would change (they most likely won't - you have to make the change) Step away from all the theory and basically anything with a screen for awhile. You're "replaying your mistakes" because you're buried inside your own head, and … | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 03:30 PM |
| 31 | What’s the reason mothers bluepills their sons?The foundation of their child-rearing does not typically stem from a mindset based on "what would make my son a strong, powerful, and respected man?", partly because that question has more than likely never even popped into their heads, partly because keeping their sons as their "baby" is more emotionally fulfilling than some grizzled, muscled-up, battle-tested, hardened and fearless warrior. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 02:17 PM |
| 10 | Is it ok to listen to LTR's problems?This is one area where "treating them like children" really comes handy, and to drive the point further, when I say "children", think of her as being one of your very own children. In such a case, you offer 'support' (ex. a hug, a kiss on the forehead, repeatedly telling her "I know, I know.." or "you'll get through this" in a consoling way, something like that) for a rather short period of time, then you switch to discussing something else entirely different. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 02:04 PM |
| 15 | LTR verbally expressed to me that she wants to fuck me as often as I want so I never have eyes for anyone else ( LOL)Always remember to attach the "right now" after whatever a girl says, especially when she vomits up her emotions, meaning, this is subject to change at some point in the future. This is not in any way an attempt to cast a shadow on the feast headed your way, but to 1) put things in proper perspective and remind you of the fickleness of women 2) prepare you for the worst case scenario (remember, "she's not your's; only your turn") despite there being zero indication of it being there or headed in… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 10:52 PM |
| 10 | Getting any girlfriend/plate is not your problem.80% of men are below average, according to female OK Cupid users. And not only OKCupid users. Ask any girl how many guys she finds attractive on average for every 10 guys she comes across out in public, and watch how their respective answers will virtually always conform to the Pareto Principle. From personal experience trying this, I don't think I've ever heard a girl say anything above 3. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 11:12 PM |
| 2 | A high-SMV guy gets married. What is more likely to happen over the long term?Not enough information, for starters. What's their relationship been like before the marriage? Even if it was "perfect", she can grow lazy and get fat ("I already have him anyway, so what's the point in continuing to torture myself with working out?"). She can grow bored with "Mr. Perfect" and find their kid's pediatrician irresistible and AWALT her way onto his D. Tell this "friend" of your's to look at the actual data concerning how many marriages end up in divorce. If he insists, tell him to … | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Acne is ruining my lifeI think my lower back pain made me an outlier. I wouldn't expect that to be the case with you, but you never know. Worse case, it's all over after six months (iirc, a cycle lasts for six months) No mental side effects that I can remember, no. I was seriously in the dumps thanks to my acne, so every time I popped one of those pills, I was crawling my way out of the darkness. Things got a little worse before they got better - I remember that. I had some very minor recurrences after the cycle, but … | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 08:41 AM |
| 4 | Acne is ruining my lifeI'll second the rave reviews of Accutane. I'm in my mid 30s now, but I too suffered from acne that progressively got worse and worse with time, beginning close to my 16th birthday and reaching a high point (low point?) a little after my 17th bday, until I decided to take on whatever risks came with Accutane and successfully handled my acne for good from there on out. Forget all the Clearasil or whatever other facial products they're pumping to the masses these days. Go nuclear. Go Accutane. Your… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Did someone breaks the rules ‘’ don’t shit where you eat’’Definitely. I had my eyes an my ex's sister from day one, endlessly fantasizing, often even imagining my ex was her as I'd go to town on my ex-gf in the sack. From the very beginning, my ex told me that nothing would cut her more deeply than me fucking around with her sister. Her sister was shameless, had allegedly fooled around with former boyfriends of my ex. I believe it to this day. God knows what that girl's N-count is by now. Hot, but crazy and reckless. They both had big, round asses, but… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 08:40 PM |
| 13 | "Big Dick Energy" - Female's own theory that confirms RP truthsAnd for Christ's sake stop texting these chicks so much you thirsty bitches. Or the flip side: "Go ahead, blow up their phones. Text them until your fingers break. Have your journey until you're desperate enough to seek help and to actually take careful notes so that you never burn yourself from sheer pathetic stupidity ever again" | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 07:31 AM |
| 8 | I can’t small talk or connect to people at all. Why is this? Feel like I forget how to communicate sometimes. Different interests.I can’t seem to find anything right to say, why is that? Probably because you're looking for the "right thing to say". Do you have any close friends where it seems like all it takes is opening your mouth, and whatever flows out can be turned into a conversation somehow, or laughed at in jest and good fun? This is the 'spirit' you should try to aim at, not conversing in a way that's built around both trying to find the right buttons to push while avoiding the wrong ones that can ruin your preciou… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:14 AM |
| 3 | How badly did I fuck up this possible F-close?Years ago, there was a better version of this video by the same dude. The concept is self-explanatory: the answer to shit going awry in the field is to gather more and more prospects, both to increase your odds of going the distance and to decrease the fucks you may give about it working out with any one girl. You're on the right track though. What you did this past Friday night? Do that several more times every time you go out. For the time being, I'd set two goals on your horizon: 1) to acquir… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 02:14 AM |
| 89 | FR: If a girl wants you she will move heaven and earth. First hand experienceshe can't do a relationship cause she always ends up cheating because she's weak etc. This is a full confession that she loves drama. There is, without question, absolutely no way LTRing would ever end well. Proceed with caution. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Do tattoos increase smv for men?My argument(s) were that tattoos do not "objectively increase a man's SMV, and that yes, in some cases they totally make sense, not that "a lot of women don't* like a guy with tattoos". You're ability to infer is horse shit. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Do tattoos increase smv for men?Fuck, another one with his oneitis' name on his ankle? I said up above that in some places it does bump up your SMV, but it's not some "objective truth". It's fucking art. Some people would pawn their kids for the Mona Lisa, other people think their dog's feces has more value. Same concept applies. Read more closely next time. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Do tattoos increase smv for men?And I love how you have no idea how to discern between subjective and objective. You are projecting your experiences with tats onto the World, as if "hey, worked for me, absolutely must work for everyone else!" But I get it - you got sensitive because I called out people who get inked up to get women. Listen buddy, I'm an artist myself, even follow a shit ton of tattoo artists on IG (ex. Vincent Castigilia, Ediablo, Alvin Chong, Bob Tyrell), and I can appreciate all of that without slipping into… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Do tattoos increase smv for men?I'm familiar with Nikko Hurtado/Shawn Barber etc. Sorry for calling out your flawed, childish reasoning. Go get that "well done" tramp-stamp you've been saving up for. I won't "judge". | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 08:51 PM |
| 0 | Do tattoos increase smv for men?You didn't do too well of a job explaining it. By your "logic" (and your exact words), "if done well", it increases your SMV by a few percent. You then went on to agree with me that it's "an irrefutable, objective fact", as if every woman is going to secrete a few more drops of pussy juice if she comes across a "well-done tat". Did you even see that pic I posted above? I mean, fuck, that definitely qualifies as "well done" if you ask me. Your autism is contributing to your limited "objective" pe… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 08:43 PM |
| -6 | Do tattoos increase smv for men?So a hyper-realistic tattoo of a dick resting on a guy's eyebrows would increase his SMV "by a few percent"? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 08:37 PM |
| -2 | Do tattoos increase smv for men?lol that's pretty judgemental. That's too bad. I'm sure the tattoo(ed) community considers me to be a "normie" or a "lame" or belonging to some sort of category that excludes me from their group by way of lacking ink. C'est la fucking vie. it does increase your smv by a few percent, though Are you absolutely 100% sure that's an irrefutable, objective fact? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Do tattoos increase smv for men?You can achieve that without plastering a tribal on your arm or inking an "inspirational quote" on your forearm or slapping your own name in cursive letters on your neck etc. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Do tattoos increase smv for men?You can always go full-retard, deliberately commit a felony, and get Hep C inked up behind bars so as to claim to be neither. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 07:30 PM |
| 14 | Do tattoos increase smv for men?In my view, there are few deeds more idiotic than inking yourself primarily, or worse, entirely, for the sake of attracting women. There are some places where you can fit right in with the crowd (ex. SoCal) by doing so, but is that really want you want? To join the mob? And are you prepared to look something like this by the time you hit 60? Are you prepared for the possibility that what you might think is "so fucking sick, bro!" at 25, might strike you as juvenile and not at all in-line with yo… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 07:27 PM |
| 6 | Did my dancing cost me a shot with this girl?Your issue(s) revolve much more around "this girl" than your "dancing". You're too focused on one specific girl, when the only person you should ever be zeroing in on, is you. The person that is you shouldn't ever be driven to endless worrying about any one specific girl. Doesn't work out with (fill in the blank)? Onto the next, and so on and so on. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Any redpill advice specifically for school?Aside from putting in the hours to know the material, find and/or befriend the "nerds". Build your own study groups. Remember, you are the average of the five people you constantly spend your time around. Also, develop a relationship with the teacher to the best of your ability. Don't become just another number, dragging your feet to class, barely keeping yourself awake while in class, then mindlessly shuffling your way back out into the real world. Make your time count while you're there. It mi… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Are muscles really that useful?I'm just getting rejected every time. How many approaches have you done in total? Where are you doing these approaches? The answer to these questions won't say tell the whole story, but they can reveal plenty. If you've only approached, let's say, 12 times over the last month and a half, then I'd start by pointing out that you haven't approached enough. If you've done well over 100 approaches over the course of three months, and you've gotten rejected "every time", I'd say there's a very high ch… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 11:30 PM |
| 33 | Female blogger unknowingly confirms TRP principles to a tee.Yeah, I was leveled by it too. I brought it up to my sister, a fucking nurse practitioner, and she wasn't aware of it either (not that she necessarily should because she's in medical, but I figured the odds would be quite high on her end that it'd be common knowledge). Now, all those stories of girls in their thirties (many of which I know personally) going the in vitro route makes so much more sense. Truly chilling stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 11:03 PM |
| 44 | Female blogger unknowingly confirms TRP principles to a tee.Beyond their delusions of believing that they'll be as coveted into their 30s as they are/were in their 20s, I sincerely wonder how many womyn are aware of this.. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 10:38 PM |
| 20 | Women do not have political opinions.I've experienced exactly the same with my current LTR. I might as well be a member of the SS in her book, but holy fuck does she love soaking the sheets and getting ravaged in the sack by me, her "literal Nazi" boyfriend, over and over and over again. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 02:33 PM |
| 7 | If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men?And that crossroad right there is what separates the men from the boys. One group will cave and say something like: "Fuck, you're right - I'll introduce you to my parents tonight and we'll rent some mover trucks this weekend to transport all your belongings into my place." The other group will stand their ground and say something like: "well, if this isn't working for you anymore, you know where the door is." | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Chad's easy peasy lifeAn involuntary celibate man, usually resentful of the Chads and "Stacys" of the World, perpetually observing the game with a scornful eye as an outsider and an outcast (in his mind), a philosophy he ends up further internalizing and deepening with time. Resentful that "just be yourself!" has failed him, and it kills him inside that he must do as Chad does (i.e. take the necessary steps to dominate the game) to put an end to his pathetic, sexless existence (some incels take their level of patheti… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 06:50 PM |
| 19 | If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men?The issue is a bit complex Quite so. To my understanding, comparing Japanese women specifically to women here in the States is flawed from the get go. For starters, the weeds of feminism haven't grown wild over there like they have here, so (to take one effect resulting precisely from that point) their culture doesn't celebrate "you go gyrl!!" hyper-promiscuity like it commonly is over here. If guys did begin to start dropping like flies from the dating game, I'd predict women would dial up the … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 04:34 PM |
| 25 | Chad's easy peasy lifeYour breath still smells of incel. Go wash it out with some sidebar. You can find it where it's always been, right over ...there ----------------------> | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 04:11 PM |
| 7 | Taking a semester off, what's a good job?long hours shit pay (with few exceptions, like a popular and/or fine-dining spot in a major city) no insurance on your feet the duration of your shift strong likelihood of dealing with at least one or two royal dickheads a night (who probably will add insult to injury with a shitty tip) co-workers are usually misanthropic, chimney-smoking nobodies with zero direction in life management is usually emotionally and mentally fried themselves (arguably the worst position to hold in the industry) clas… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 08:34 PM |
| 17 | Do many women flirt with the idea of threesomes to lure you in with sexuality then close that door because they wanted a serious relationship the entire time?The threesome talk ideally ought to be coming up in conversation after you two have screwed (and several times at that). I don't know what you look like or what your personality/character is like either, but "former stem nerd" and the nature of this question suggests to me that you probably ought to be spending a lot of time in the gym and at the very least loading up your phone with as many women as possible (you're going to want to close at least one or two of these of course). ...and keep dri… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 07:08 PM |
| 18 | Taking a semester off, what's a good job?Go work in the restaurant industry and learn from experience what taking even more semesters off can potentially lead to. Edit: I'm assuming that you're studying something of value of course (and not gender studies) | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Is there any book by a celebrity womanizer where they detail their sexual exploits?Not sure such a book exists, but I can guarantee you such a man would have frame (read: unbreakable self-confidence) strong enough to move mountains. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Is there any book by a celebrity womanizer where they detail their sexual exploits?The men you singled out waaaay more than likely had the women coming to them. Any 'legwork' on their end was probably not much more than simply saying "hi" - their status did all the work for them. What would be more interesting (and maybe what you're actually looking for?) is the book by the gas attendant or building nightwatchman and how he seduced thousands of women despite his lack of status. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:13 PM |
| 2 | How does the red pill fit into marriage?The bullet is spelled "d-i-v-o-r-c-e" and all the wonderful blessings it may (and almost surely will) bring into your life (especially if there are children involved). Had you not played the game though, well... ...but that's for you to decide. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 08:53 PM |
| 3 | How does the red pill fit into marriage?You're probably aware by now that we here compare marriage to Russian Roulette quite often, and for good reason. Within the context of a marriage, think of TRP, when applied properly, as removing as many bullets in the gun pointed right at you, but never being able to bring it all the way down to zero. You could be Ghenkis Di Caprio Chamberlain, and there'd always be at least one bullet in that chamber as long as you remain married. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Best responses when she says she has a boyfriendThe most important area to turn your attention to is the degree of importance you place on her saying that. Some examples to demonstrate what I mean: Girl A tells you: "I have a boyfriend" "I have AIDS" Your likely response: "Oh, shit. Wow. I'm so sorry to hear that" (tone of future interactions dramatically changes; in fact, you'll probably go ahead and disqualify yourself for the sake of self-preservation) or Girl A tells you: "I have a boyfriend" "I have a pair of Nike tennis shoes" Your like… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 03:33 PM |
| 6 | How to get rid of lazy part of my brain telling me not to lift weights, & to just jerk off & surf the Internet all day?Go to the extreme if you truly believe it's necessary and physically remove whatever you're addicted to. Out of sight, out of mind. With enough practice (and with as many distractions out of the way as possible), you'll hopefully come to choose two sorts of pain: either the pain of pushing yourself to grow, or the pain of allowing yourself to rot. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 12:32 PM |
| 8 | Henry Cavill says he’s hesitant to hit on women bc of #metoo and the female collective goes crazyAll great points, but the common thread running through every single one is that the burden of responsibility will inevitably be thrown back to men (i.e. the oppressors) - always. It's "the oppressors" that perceive black people as criminals, thereby leading to their arrests in precipitous numbers, and if in fact they truly are guilty of committing the crime(s), it's because the oppressors put them in a position to do so (socio-economically speaking). Same with the LGBT example: it's the oppress… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Sex dropped down in LTR. I went nuclear and flatly stated it needs to increase or we're breaking up. Was this a poor way to handle it?Even if you do succeed and somehow persuade her to start giving it up again, do you really want that? A girl who's fucking you not out of genuine desire, but because she fears losing her safety net you? It's like busting your ass in a high-stress, low-paying job: yes, you'll get your nut money, but it will never feel like it's worth it, especially if you've tasted the complete opposite before. Here's a red pill involving relationships: they're very difficult to turn around in you're favor once t… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Help with micropenis?Assuming you actually do have a micropenis, you have a couple courses of action that you can explore: 1) Become a master of foreplay. I can usually get my current LTR to literally soak the bed with her juices without the use of my dick before having sex. You can learn the same tricks. No doubt. 2) Years back, a girl I used to mess around with once told me that she knew a guy who claimed he too had a micropenis, and that one of the most terrifying, yet liberating and arousing things he ever did w… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 11:22 PM |
| 9 | My ex-wife has gone off the deep end as a result of my transformation. Has this broken her monkey-branching calculations? Are there any resources for this? I can't seem to find any other examples of this question being asked.You are witnessing a scorned woman, and you know what they say about 'em.. Girls can be vicious like this, especially when what they consider to be their 'turf' gets threatened. After parting ways with an ex of mine, she'd shamelessly tear down potential prospects to my face ("are you fucking serious? You're hooking up with that nasty-ass slut? So you don't care about STDs now? What the fuck is wrong with you???") The one after that, she Your ex-wife right now is like the guy pinned to the floor… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | I haven't heard from my friends since deleting social media 5 weeks ago. I'm terrible at making friends and don't know how to be more fun instead of rigid and stoic like..?Here's my two cents: 1) get away from the PC and/or phone and try to put yourself in more situations where you can socialize with people, face to face. If you don't know how to start, try simply asking people for directions or if they've ever been to such and such location and take it from there. As you slowly get in the habit of normalizing talking to complete strangers, then look into ways to add to your exchanges. Ask more questions, be more observant, add compliments, stuff like that, but it… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Dread game didn't work outYour 'punishment' didn't really fit the 'crime'. You came down with a death-sentence on a misdemeanor. Next time, ignore that part of the conversation (her discussing other guys), then re-engage as if that was never even brought up. If she keeps it up like she's deliberately trying to get under your skin, then yes, ditch the girl, but if gets brought up more randomly, downplay, agree & amplify, or flat-out ignore. Another way of looking at it goes like this: imagine you're a dude who's bedded 1,… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 10:01 PM |
| 7 | So my girlfriendfinally dumped meTo glean insight from this, I'd suggest asking how it got to that point (that a girl would openly scorn her bf for not going along with getting cucked). One possibility is that the relationship got off on the wrong foot - she was the primary shot-caller from the get-go, and he went along with it. She accumulated more and more evidence throughout the LTR that he'll take orders and disrespect with little or no resistance. In other words, she was able to judge the situation OP recently found himsel… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Been working on myself a lot. Old friends are starting to change their behavior around me. Normal, or my fault?Even the good friends of mine who I keep in touch with and see personally at least 2-3 times each year in person have drifted immensely since I moved away just over three years ago. Change can be subtle in the beginning, but give it time, and it snowballs. It's easier to brush it off when you haven't really set roots with someone, but people you've know for close to two decades? That's a bit harder to digest to put it mildly, at least in my personal experience. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Besides lifting weights/physical exercise, what are the activities/hobbies/habits that you've been able to draw continuous and tangible benefits from over a long-term period of time?I'll absolutely agree on that point - they are not the best to try the LTR thing with | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Besides lifting weights/physical exercise, what are the activities/hobbies/habits that you've been able to draw continuous and tangible benefits from over a long-term period of time?There's a subreddit for that sort of thing if you want to film yourself and snatch some brief posthumous fame in the process of doing just that. Good thing we don't live in such a binary world (to dance, or shoot yourself in the face) | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:23 PM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on mother's love?I can't speak for every single Mom out there, but my Mom would literally break her back for me. 110% in my corner. I had a little bit of resistance there on her end while trying to grow up and do what I felt needed to be done to become a man, but she understood. She's fallible, she's human, she sometimes even grates on my nerves, but she is the ultimate woman in my life without question. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Besides lifting weights/physical exercise, what are the activities/hobbies/habits that you've been able to draw continuous and tangible benefits from over a long-term period of time?If a dude is not into that sort of thing at all, then yes, absolutely, no need to force it. Plenty different ways to skin a pussy. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Besides lifting weights/physical exercise, what are the activities/hobbies/habits that you've been able to draw continuous and tangible benefits from over a long-term period of time?The chances are overwhelming that you'd change your tone (or at least come to understand the argument in favor of picking up dancing as a plausible deniability chip) if you were to see some of the scorchingly hot women that congregate at several Salsa/Merengue spots in Miami. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Besides lifting weights/physical exercise, what are the activities/hobbies/habits that you've been able to draw continuous and tangible benefits from over a long-term period of time?my legs were twigs no matter how many brutal leg days i did for years. Got serious into skiing like obsession level and all of a sudden i got tree trunks for legs I had a similar experience. Thin legs, started putting in more and more miles on the bike every day, and in just under a year it's like I tripled the size of my quads. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:04 PM |
| 4 | What have you experienced first-hand sicne taking the red pill that has shocked you?On multiple occasions, I've had women confess to me that they absolutely revel in being able to throw off the world with an outward appearance of utter innocence. Not surprisingly, you're more prone to finding this type of girl in more sexually-repressive cities or social circles. Women love juicy little secrets. They use it to taunt or make men jealous (women use dread too, and very well). They use them to brag to their friends ("you're not going to be believe who texted me back at 3 AM last ni… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 09:15 PM |
| 25 | Habits, routines, daily activities and you.Or the other classic: "No girl is going to date you if you don't have a Facebook or Instagram" | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 08:30 PM |
| 3 | What are 3 laws from the book 48 laws of power that you think every man should definitely know for navigating daily life?Law 18 - Do not build fortresses to protect yourself; isolation is dangerous Basically, learn how to make allies. Opportunities come from this, and so do safety-nets in those rare times of need. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 01:57 PM |
| 181 | Stop believing that a woman can change.Onto the next. That's the spirit. Leave any resentment and/or "what if?"s behind but always retain the lessons learned. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Just ONE more step, then I quit pursuing women and get to business in life instead. Motivation drained after MASSIVE failure.There will always be shit-talkers, gossipers, naysayers, slanderers etc. Always. If you can't figure out how to use them as motivation, figure out how to tune them out completely. And as for above - please don't kill yourself either. Seek professional help if you're truly at that stage. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Just ONE more step, then I quit pursuing women and get to business in life instead. Motivation drained after MASSIVE failure.I think more events like that could just push me over the edge, making me do something really stupid. Please don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Regarding the endless Debate between PUA and TRP: Just pick one and do it.As far as I'm aware, PUA has taken notice of its earlier deficiencies and attempted to correct them by taking the man's actual life into account more instead of primarily, if not entirely focusing on parlor tricks, sleight of hand, verbal wizardry etc. like it did in the past, although I'm not sure I see a "debate" between the two as much as I see an overlap, perhaps even a stepping stone from one (PUA) to the other (TRP). The two can definitely compliment one another - learn how to make interac… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Height Theory: Taller vs Shorter WomenInteresting observation. I haven't been with enough tall girls to compare notes, but my current LTR is about 5'10" to my 5'11", and she's told me a handful of times about how much more of a burden than an upside her height has been in so far as dating is concerned. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Women should no longer be sent to prison unless they have committed a serious crime says Justice SecretaryI can't imagine how anyone could think that sending some dopehead Jerry down to a prison full of gangbangers could make him any better once he comes out. Because the U.S. doesn't do "rehabilitation", it does punishment. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 10:46 PM |
| 8 | How to curb porn when at home?Get out of the house more. The house is your "idle hands", so make it imperative that you get out and go do something - run, bike, hit the gym, paint, fix a car, martial arts, work on your game/small talk with others, network, read etc. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 12:16 PM |
| 12 | my iPhone 7 won’t charge.. what do?Agree and amplify | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 12:11 PM |
| 7 | Are girls attracted to crazy men the way men are attracted to crazy girls?Pretty bitter pill for betas to swallow: attraction is ultimately height, muscle, and capability for violence "But...but...I'm already that!" -God knows how many incels | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 01:48 AM |
| 4 | How do you know if you have good bodybuilding genetics?Right from the onset, you sound like you're setting yourself up for defeat. Hypothetical: let's say your genetics "wouldn't allow it", as you put it - what would be your next move? Plastic surgery? Throw in the towel and a beer and doritos diet with zero exercise from here until the end? I've got friends who have naturally enormous calves. I wasn't 'gifted' with those, but that didn't stop me from hitting the iron, and I've got a friend with pectus excavatum who'd kill to have the chest I've bui… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 01:03 AM |
| 3 | How do i become more fun to talk to?Learn how to be attentive. The more you can pickup from whatever it is that you see, that you read, that you hear, the more material you have to work with. With that in mind, it's crucial that you also learn how to listen. It's generally quite impressive when you can remember key details of what someone told you earlier in a conversation (even more so if that conversation took place hours, day, weeks, months, years back), and it reflects horribly if you demonstrate that you're physically there, … | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | What are the most important considerations when moving to a new city?I've only lived in Miami and (presently) NYC, but I'll chime in. Miami has the hotter women and you're more likely to literally see more skin there than you will in NYC given the climate. Generally speaking, Miami is more clique-ish and more hostile to outsiders (i.e. non-natives). NYC has more people packed into a smaller amount of space, but far more diversity than Miami. If you have a racial or ethnic preference in women, say, latinas, then I'd say go with Miami - without question. I think it… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Become dangerousyou are making excuses, and it's based on ego, the ego is a good thing but women tend not to fall in love with it. Fucking lol So wrapping it up as a way to prevent the acquisition of STDs (especially HIV/Herpes/Hepatitis) is "makes excuses" and "based on ego". Brilliant. Incredibly incoherent response, but just ...brilliant | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 03:28 PM |
| 8 | Sugar and its potency in inducing needinessI haven't noticed a connection between sugar and neediness, but I've avoided the stuff anyway like the plague for years now. Screws your palate up, ultimately threatening your physique (i.e. shitty food), in addition to the host of complications associated with it, like diabetes, restlessness, sugar-crashes, dental caries/cavities etc. If sugar's only vice was "neediness", it would absolutely warrant being completely avoided, but it causes far more damage than that, so fuck sugar. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Become dangerousare you speaking from experience ? What does that even mean in this context? "Yeah, I have HIV from doing exactly as you've done (going 'raw' because I haven't didn't had have any consequences until now), so do as I say, not as I do?" Even if I wasn't speaking from experience, would it be necessary to play a round of Russian Roulette and blow my brains out to truly understand the lethal consequences involved with playing that stupid game? I notice you haven't shared any stories or experiences , … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Become dangerousThat is a life based on fear, you wrap it up and keep yourself safe, but It feels better to me to go raw, and seeing how I never had any consequences for it (yet!)*, I realized STDs aren't as dangerous as everyone makes them sound There's a certain point where fearlessness crosses over into lunacy/sheer stupidity, and it looks like you may have crossed that line. This is truly the epitome of "keep an open mind, but not so open that your brain falls out" | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 02:22 AM |
| 5 | How to stop taking girls seriously?"She's never your's; it's only your turn" - plates eventually fall and break, the spark of a relationship eventually dims, and a marriage is all of that with legal repercussions to boot. When your eye drifts from this maxim, you begin to contemplate self-destructive questions like "how do I catch and keep this one?", then proceed to counter-productively scheme all sorts of ways to make a reality from an exercise with a high rate of failure. You must consistently remind yourself that women come a… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell my LTR she can't get implants?Ahh, there's the piece I was missing. It is her choice, but the implication that I must be ok with it it's false. Of course. It's an extension of "she's never wrong". You have the right to dissent, and if she puts you on mute and decides she's going to spit in your face and defiantly do as she pleases, you simply ...walk away. Be a gentleman and allow some neutered male-feminist to step right up and 'handle' her insecurities and entitlement issues. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Do you catcall?I personally imagine cat-calling to be something similar to a pushy, bimbo hostess attempting to corral me into her obscenely over-priced, tourist-trap of a restaurant. I'd chalk it up to either very weak game or no game at all, just a step above pulling your dick out in public and lecherously asking her if she's 'hungry'. Women do want to be objectified, but cat-calling is one of the least smooth ways to go about it, even if it's done by men they find sexually attractive. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Should I tell my LTR she can't get implants?Every post on the internet will say "Her body, her choice", but I'm certain that's not how it works in the RP realm. No, I'd say that works here too, the difference being that they (meaning, those posts and subs outside of TRP) will conflate "her body, her choice" together with "don't judge her, but you must accept/tell her she's beautiful!" etc., while TRP endorses freedom of choice together with the appropriate, fitting consequences of said choice(s). Never lose sight of your freedom to walk a… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 09:51 PM |
| 82 | do girls regularly bend over in front of you to flirt ?One of the handiest instruments in a woman's box of tools is plausible deniability, and this chick is showing you just how well she can play that game. Mid 30's, single, and oops! putting her ass in your face like that? She's advertising the goods, my man, so make sure not to 'over-pay' for what's likely being offered to you at a very low-price. My two cents? Play right back. If, for example, she shows up in some tight jeans or yoga pants or whatever, tell her you have an ex you want to get a pa… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 06:04 AM |
| 6 | What is the ideal girl in terms of TRP?Good luck with that in 2018. If you stick to what is prescribed (see sidebar), all your campaigning will be done for you by 2020. Two years of hard work is typically enough to widen the gap between you and 'the competition' (blue pill/numales, self-absorbed women etc.) | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been rejected all year and I’m losing motivation.Try expanding your social circle, or better - belonging to more social circles. This also provides you with a legitimate degree of plausible deniability to see several different prospective women on a regular basis. You don't have to rush it this way, and you'll inevitably get to know one another some way or another eventually. You can also crank up the dread in this realm with relative ease. My advice is to keep cold approaching, but deliberately use it as a tool, a means to an end to help you … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 08:45 AM |
| 2 | What to study?How much you will be paying for that degree is a huge issue. The closer you are to paying full-sticker price for the ride, the more you should reconsider another route (one exception would be if you come from a family of wealth and footing the bill would be a breeze) I also always suggest to those interested in a career in law (presumably as an attorney?) to spend sometime in an actual law office, ideally as a paralegal or 'attorney assistant'. That's as close as you'll be able to get to feeling… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 08:26 PM |
| 3 | What are the things you do to keep it down low when your friends girlfriends are around?I tune girls out who fit this description. Almost twenty years ago now, I can vividly recall a brawl nearly breaking out between two groups (each group with 5-7 people, mostly guys to each group, but each group had at least two girls) outside of a club. I can't remember why it started, but there was lots of shouting, lots of chest-thumping. Nothing happened though, not yet at least. As both groups started walking their separate ways, this drunk chick, a girlfriend of a giant meathead from one of… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 12:24 PM |
| 2 | How to handle a plate not respondingNewsflash - you too "could be hooking up with other girls (or guys if that's your thing)" | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Attractiveness/smv affects how people percieve your actions? RSD mentors downplay the value of raw attraction like facial features/genetics so they get more income?You're not a bad looking guy at all. Ditch the RSD preaching-to-the-choir-of-betas, go lift, make something of your life, and simply aim to master befriending women (this will be the platform from which your game will sprout from). Your post and subsequent comments contain way too much over-analyzing, all which point to a serious amount of doubt which leads back to a core lacking confidence. You're too hooked on trying to follow what RSD says, what RSD does, if a 4.238226 can pull a 7.533334, is… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | She’s mad cause a jokeStep 1 - Actually convince yourself that she'll get over it in due time (she will) Step 2 - Carry on as if nothing every happened | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 11:28 PM |
| 18 | Laser Hair Removal for Facial HairNot really beta, but definitely look into a 2-for-1 special where you get your facial hair removed forever and balls clipped off for the price of one procedure. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 11:25 PM |
| 6 | Does being rude and insulting work?Does trying them rudely and insulting them yield positive results? This is the sort of question that gets a "yes, but please see foot-notes!*" *If you're autistic, this approach is more than likely not for you, as the odds are that you'll probably blow your own feet off by deliberately being an insufferable dick in order to get laid. *If you're busted, fat, or a short, smelly, hermetic neck-beard, being "rude and insulting" will be on par with forcing your finger into a girl's face and demanding… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever successfully fully stopped being a 'nice guy'?Maybe you're trying to jump too many gears at once? So, let's say "nice guy" is all the way on one end, and "not a nice guy" (i.e. "asshole") is on the other, why not shift it into neutral first? Why not try not responding at all for awhile? Try starting there, and then work your way up to being more assertive, more affirmative, with a good, solid foundation no longer built on a knee-jerk response mechanism tailored to meet the wishes and approval of others, but on stillness and calm in the pres… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts from the Anger PhaseHow do you cope with the possibility that she could leave you? Turn the question around a bit and ask it this way: why do I fear her leaving me (assuming you do, of course)? why is my happiness (frame) contingent on whether or not I have her by my side (and not only a woman in general, but her specifically)? As for me personally, I've been there before, and I was able to look back and see how I fucked it up, both by what I did together with what I didn't do, but to get to the heart of your quest… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 11:56 PM |
| 8 | Scientific Research validates Hypergamic Instincts in Women. The Redpill verified by science.Exactly. Think of this the next time you hear a girl say: "...at least I'm going back to him at the end of the night". Beta cucks have their own version too, of course: "...at least she's coming back to me at the end of the night". | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 09:04 PM |
| 15 | I am quite surprised by the reaction of my buddy's GF and her 3 friends in relation to a hypothetical scenario. This is the type of shit that I can't wrap my melon around. Are men not worth anything?At least you're aware of it. That's step one, owning up to the part of your overall game that needs work. When in doubt, better to err on the side of less words and more agreeable. Downplay. Minimize. "Yeah kids, blue bubble-gum-pistachio flavored ice cream really is the best flavor in the World. Yep." Once you get many more of these sorts of scenarios under your belt, then you can blatantly unleash the full-blown misogynistic responses because you've taken the time to understand the rules befor… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 02:46 PM |
| 3 | What do you wish you knew at 18?It's typically difficult to balance delayed gratification for the sake of achieving your goals and habitual weed usage. Some people can actually manage, but nearly every user will likely downplay and say that it's not a problem, they can handle smoking and knocking off all their goals uninhibited (i.e. rationalize). It also has a way of acting as a nice little safety net to retreat to. "As long as there's weed, everything's good, maaan". It can be difficult to see far along enough down the road … | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | The game Neil straus - good book?Think of it as something like Intro to Game 1101, but by no means, the end of your education. In fact, the deeper you go, and the more you reflect on that one book in particular, the more you'll see it's shortcomings, but it definitely laid the groundwork for much of the headway that followed. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 05:24 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend is getting fatUpvote for proper, respectful use of pronouns. Devolve into a slob, get referred to as "it". | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 05:11 PM |
| 98 | Confessions of a fine dining waiter (response to Destroyer Chad)To be fair, he expressed doubt about their sex life, not asserted that, at best, within the parameters of their relationship, they're getting served some sort of prison food, sexually speaking. On the other hand, you raise a good counter-point, another angle of the red pill I don't see around these parts quite often: the alleged beta locked into an LTR, getting scraps at home but binging on prime pussy behind Wifey's back, Chadding it up on the streets left and right. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Brand new plate sends screenshots of other guysIf there's ever a next time, tell her to forward the screenshots to her therapist. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 10:03 PM |
| 5 | I find it strange that people with more conservative views are Blue Pill/old fashioned with dating compared to the Left.“befriend women and get comfortable around them before seeking a relationship”. I honestly don't see anything wrong with this approach, but that is because I am aware that both a red-pill-aware sort of guy and your stereotypical blue-piller can both employ the exact same strategy while both coming from a different place internally. Someone early into the unplugging phase may look at that sort of "advice" and think: "that is exactly the sort of lie that's kept me hopelessly trapped in my basement… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | When a Girl Gets on Her Phone, What Do You Do?One more reason not to put all your eggs attention in one basket one girl. Really, if the bulk of your energy is directed toward accomplishing your own personal goals, you will (or should) begin to perceive any time away from that as something that ought to be "worth it", and if not, you let it be, walk away, move on to something else that will prove worthy of your time (another girl willing to provide you that attention) or, of course, that which will pay dividends in the future (i.e. your life… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm not happy with my overall choices, 23 years old now.I've wasted precious time and energy. It will never come back, will I ever be able to look at it more confidently again? The better question is: are you going to stop wasting precious time and energy? What are you currently doing to make sure you won't say the exact same thing ten years from now? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 08:40 PM |
| 3 | TearsThe whole sex shaming and cover up culture is a feminine invention - and it's a shit test. And so is sex-positive feminism, also a shit test. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/18 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Advice on career path.Have you looked into nursing? In demand/great career prospects, virtual guarantee you won't be sitting in an office, very decent starting pay, lots of mobility, lots of different types of medical specialties to explore, and you can easily become a travel nurse. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 09:19 AM |
| 4 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.You validate her feelings, but invalidate her ability to take it out on you. You establish your boundaries and self-respect without losing frame Great point, and you allow her to do the emotional song-and-dance she's just dying to do. A woman and bottled emotions is the recipe for a Molotov cocktail of rage. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Skinny Guy Bulking DilemmaPeanut butter. Approximately 180 calories and 8g of protein for every two teaspoons. Toss a giant scoop or two into your daily milkshakes. Pay the extra buck or so and stick to all-natural peanut butter too. You should be able to easily go through one regular sized container a week, maybe even come close to going through two if you're ambitious and determined enough. Do that consistently for a minimum of six months while ferociously hitting the gym. You'll gain. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Want good advice? Only 10% of the population are worth talking to.You probably also believe there's a mathematical formula to spike attraction. Want good advice back? Pour your heart and soul into writing the 15,000 page book trapped inside of you: The Game Decoded: Autist's Edition | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Serious question about marriage.I'm in the United States military stationed in Japan and I've been seeing this girl on and off for about two years that I'm thinking about marrying. Any half-decent reason why? This the only girl you can get? Is this the only girl you've ever been with? Anyone who has ever been in the military will tell you it makes it hard not to get married for the wrong reasons (not like there are any good reasons). So you want to go through with something that lacks a single "good reason" to do it. Do you ev… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 02:09 PM |
| 2 | I've been an active user of braincels and mgtow for half a year and I want to get out of thisPushups. Lots and lots and lots of pushups. Always trying to do more than what you did previously. Same for squats and lunges. Mountain-climbers. Burpees. All of these you can do from the comfort of your own home. No excuses. If the gym fucks with your head too much (it shouldn't; that's severely over-played, but I'm sympathetic), you have no reason not to develop a very respectable physique by simply constantly doing those bodyweight exercises while striving to raise the number of reps and/or r… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 09:13 AM |
| 1 | After TRP I'm filled with disgustI can't believe the lies, the cheating, the normalization of cheating, backstabbing, gossip. I'm still in the anger phase as you can see. I clench my teeth everytime I read something in this sub. It sometimes gets worse before it gets better Unfortunately, this sort of behavior extends to men as well. I'm not trying to exonerate women, nor am I trying to bring everyone down to some base and monstrous level, but if you look around, you will see that sort of behavior everywhere, so throw that into… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What happened to your old Oneitis?she still cries, says she thought of me sexually many times, still loves me etc. These are "bread crumbs", nothing substantial, mere lip service, the reason why it's so commonly preached around here to give weight to her actions, not to her words. Her words only carry weight in so far as she consistently backs them up through her deeds, otherwise it's just hot air, one empty promise after another. When you pair this concept with "she's never your's; it's only your turn", you come to learn that a… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | What happened to your old Oneitis?21 and sticking around makes more sense the lower her SMV, and that's not even counting all of the red flags you listed. With those in mind, it's foolish to even contemplate if, but when you two will break up. Your politics were far less significant than you think, I'm betting. If she gave you the "I need space" spiel, I'd wager her demand for distance had far more to do with a general lack of attraction toward you. A girl with raging tingles for a man will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to j… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 11:02 PM |
| 3 | What happened to your old Oneitis?She broke up with me, no contact for about three months, she sent me a Happy Birthday text on my birthday, and I haven't heard from her personally nor have we communicated in any capacity since (a little over three and a half years ago now). Around this time last year though, I started messing with the Instagram stories feature for the first time, and she began consistently showing up as a viewer despite her and I not following one another. I don't know if (at the time) she was aware that I coul… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 10:46 PM |
| 1 | How to develop a personality that people like to be around?Women think men can bond over anything and i tend to agree. I've got to hand it to women - they're naturals in that domain: "OMG! Where did you get this sOoOoper cute shirt girl!?" I have little doubt that that exact opener (and similar variations) is responsible for fuck knows how many BFFs. Gay dudes own in that department as well. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 05:05 AM |
| 58 | Women honor strong frame.I wonder how long it will take for analysts to notice Vox to "explain" the productivity gap between sexes? "Trevor Noah explains why, in one word, female co-working spaces are failing ... PATRIARCHY" | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 07:18 AM |
| 1 | What's holding you back from using your powers for evil?“Now that you’ve swallowed the pill and understand how amoral the environment around you is, what are your personal justifications for continuing to play by the rules?” Let's turn the tables for a moment. I don't know what your physical dimensions are, but if you're on the sub, you're likely a guy, probably anywhere between 15 and 35 years old, give or take a few years. If you fit into that categorization, you're probably able to physically overpower both children and the elderly with ease, prob… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 07:18 PM |
| 4 | What's holding you back from using your powers for evil?Lovely benefits at the low cost No, there is no "low cost" once you decide to become a criminal, because you are putting your very own life on the line for the sake of the 'rewards', unless of course you don't value your life very highly. A couple questions for you: have you ever done time before? If yes, county, state or fed? And if yes to any of those, why would ever put yourself into a position of going back? have you yourself, some friend or some family member ever been the victim of some cr… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What's holding you back from using your powers for evil?What's your anchor that keeps you from turning into Heisenberg or Joker tomorrow? Because in real life, the odds are astronomical that you will either end up doing a life sentence with zero possibility of parole, or dead, and if you're fortunate enough not to find yourself in one of those two camps, you'll probably be living a life of all-consuming paranoia, not sure who's going to catch you first: someone on the side of law-enforcement, or someone else from the criminal underworld. Also, if you… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 03:57 AM |
| 10 | Indicators that yo're the AF or BB?AF - she both talks the talk and walks the walk; she'll make you feel like a king; you'll likely find yourself thinking to yourself "this is too easy"; she'll fuck you (or ask to get fucked) like she has a vampiric craving for your semen deep inside of her BB - she's mostly (or entirely) all talk; empty promises; canceled dates; mixed signals; starfish sex; you may find yourself to be the one anxious to lose her while she's the one who seems to be indifferent to whether or not you vanish Note: t… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with guilt from Alpha Widowing a girl.Yeah, I'm more of an advocate for ripping the bandaid off and being done with it, but if he's going to dial up the beta as a means to an end, he might as well crank up other traits that might help out his cause and have some juvenile fun in the process (ex. loudly farting in front of her and some dorky friend of her's, bombarding her with obnoxious and non-sensical jokes, leaving a massive turd behind in the toilet for her to discover, being an embarrassment in general). In short, appeal to her … | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 03:05 AM |
| 3 | How important is chemistry with sex and plates?Good question. In my experience, chemistry goes hand and hand with (and can lead to) heightened sexual tension, which will typically lead to fiery sex once it goes down. On a more personal note, I find that the best sex I have is always with a girl I've fucked many times, each time fine-tuning the sex itself to the point that an understanding of what does it for the two of us becomes unconscious, automatic. I've never gotten anywhere even remotely close to achieving this state with any girl I've… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?It’s hilarious this simple rule needs daily reminders. Along with a few other classics, such as: No, "plating your ex" is like asking if it's ok to run a 5k the day after fracturing both your legs. You will fail gloriously. No, you can't save your buddy, especially considering you just found this site two months ago. No, you can't text your way into a girl's panties, especially when you can't do it any other way to begin with. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 09:08 PM |
| 6 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?You're asking for the gun that has only one bullet in the chamber, but you're still playing Russian Roulette mu'fuckah | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 02:45 PM |
| 9 | Why does only texting for logistics work?How are you going to get physical with her through texting? Ergo, texting is a means to put you in a position so that you can get physical with her. Texting (essentially words is her home court), action(s) is your's | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants to start going to the gym with me.Do it. Let this be a test to see how true you are to (the continuation of) your goal of getting in tip-top shape. Will this remain your top priority, or will you turn into a little bitch, neglecting the weights and wasting time with this girl like some fickle, apathetic, phone-addicted millennial. Much to gain (frame, physical fitness, discipline, integrity ) much to lose (frame, physical fitness, discipline, integrity, the progress you've made in the gym so far) . Go see what you're made of. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 05:10 AM |
| 2 | What is it with the cuckolding shit now a days?It can be argued that porn itself (in this case, I'm talking something as basic as one dude, one girl) is already a form of lite cuckolding. The female pornstar may not be your gf or wife, but you have her, a girl you'd presumably want to fuck, a guy fucking her, and you watching as you rub one out to it. Lite cuckolding. Is it that big of a step up to say: "ok, I'm tired of jerking off to women I don't know personally getting drilled by another man - let's sub my girlfriend/my wife in for the r… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone slept with a girl with a BF? and are these IOIs?I just want to try out how good my game is. How often do you fuck girls in general? Your question regarding signs suggests your game needs a good deal of work. Typically, if a guy has average to above-average game, he'll get results that'll more or less confirm where he stands (results = his penis does the thing where it repeatedly enters her vagina). If he's asking questions like "she looked at me from across the room - IOI?", it means he's going backwards (ex. head injury/autistic/riding his s… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 04:15 PM |
| 21 | LTR went out last night, still isn't back. Instant hard next?Shame this isn't stickied at the top. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 11:32 AM |
| 3 | To remove from all social media or not ?In your case, I'd go with yes because 1) it looks like you're failing to get what it is that you want from this one and 2) you're admitting to the development of oneitis. Sorry dude, but it's this many IDGAFs to ride this one, but keep reading and playing the game - you'll get there. If you delete her (which you should), make sure you keep her locked out for good. Don't be one of these softies who folds and takes her back because she sends you a "I miss u" text out of the blue 28 days later. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 10:31 PM |
| 3 | LTR going on ‘girls holiday’, Thoughts?You're only 17. You'll probably rail 17 different girls (minimum) throughout your time at U of Wherever if you keep internalizing the lessons on here (17 different girls during your first semester alone if you're a little more ambitious about sampling the variety of flavors) Read up on abundance. If you're suffering from oneitis, it means the weeds of scarcity have run amok and are clouding your better judgment. Lack of abundance = weak game. Focus on school/getting good grades/career trajectory… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 07:40 PM |
| 33 | Helping beta friendAgree & Amplify "You're absolutely correct, but you do realize that, at some point, you're going to have to get yourself a private jet to take her on vacations and grow out a 13 1/2 inch dick to keep her, right?" Let him learn the hard way that women have fangs too, and maybe after that he'll be receptive to whatever you seem to be dying to get off your chest and school him with. tl;dr - stop trying to save blue pillers | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 07:07 PM |
| 7 | Those with their reputation ruined by an ex or a beta, what's your story?Ride solo for awhile. Prove it to yourself that you don't need women or friends to make your way through life. The idea is to weave a frame around a fearlessness of 'ground zero', and then begin to slowly reintroduce people into your life, but always aware of this concept. Ultimately, try to aim to never dread dismissing/moving on from toxic people, but never afraid to add people to your life either. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Main Plate/ Future Ltr comfort test?She wanted reassurance from you that you desire her. Once you successfully do this, she'll feel sexy and womanly, and in turn you'll often see a "horny and passionate" side of her consequently reveal itself. Make it a habit of sparingly slapping her ass, telling her how much you love her tits, how much you'd love for her to make you your favorite breakfast in the world (which just so happens to be waking up with a woman straddling your face) etc. Talk to her like any normal girl, withdraw attent… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 01:04 PM |
| 13 | Men think logically, women think emotionally - need help, just not getting it.I've been RP'd for a while. Highly questionable given this very post. Women rely heavily on their emotions to make decisions in life. What else is there to get? | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | This girl has a bf, but is always happy to go out with me. I want to escalate now!How do I escalate? I've never flirted with her before. What makes "her" so special? You ever escalated or flirted with any other girls before? Go make your bones with a bunch of other girls that aren't this one, then after you've gamed several hundred women, ask yourself if you still feel driven to get this one girl. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 12:26 PM |
| 1 | In a LTR of 5 years, sex has slowed down recently.do I just straight up just tell her "either you fuck me or I'll find someone who will" .. ? Are you going to tear her a new asshole (figuratively, excuse the pun) if she obliges, but gives you starfish sex in return? Who wins that deal? Are you prepared for that? And what exactly do you think will be running through her mind if she allows you to use her as a meat-hole to jack off into? You think that's going to kickstart some irrepressible sexual urge for you? Start building up a steady base of … | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 11:01 AM |
| 37 | GF deletes all her WhatsApp chatsHow much space do WhatsApp text messages actually take up? How much (or how little?) space does her phone have? This one's a little hard to believe. Also, she wants to keep her phone "clean" huh? Funny little Freudian slip maybe? If your gf had hyper-realistic portrayals of your face repeatedly tattooed all over her body that still wouldn't mean shit as far as a testament of fidelity is concerned. How much she professes to cherish you on an online platform won't stop her snatch from self-lubrica… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 10:26 AM |
| 7 | Red flags you ignored/missed that had bad consequencesyou deserve better " Heard this very line before. Could also mean "I only want Chad, you're not Chad, and I hope you can read between the lines and get out of my ragingly-hypergamous way" as well as "I'm a broken, lying, two-timing little slut", but in the end it's all the same: stay the fuck away tl;dr - girl tells you she's no good for you? Believe her. NEXT. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 03:38 AM |
| 1 | I think TRP has exhausted everything it has to offer me. Everything I see here comes across as extremely obvious, yet nothing helps me anymore. Now what?but I never get any answers on what TO do. You're only 20; it's ok not to have a perfectly mapped-out course for the rest of your life, but it's not ok to use it (or continue to use it) as an excuse for your shortcomings. Why can't you get a job? Are you a convicted felon? What's holding you back? Also, what's holding you back from doing bodyweight exercises? You don't truly need a gym to get in a great shape. And finally, what do you want to do with your life? What do you want to achieve? Which… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 01:11 AM |
| 17 | Red flags you ignored/missed that had bad consequencesIn a nutshell, the reason I found this sub is because I grew lazy and decided I'd rather reach out to a former FWB than get new pussy. I thought because I once had her eating out of my hand, this would be an exercise in shooting fish in a barrel. Holy fuck was I wrong. To answer your question, let's just say, when a girl is sending you mixed signals, find another prospect(s), or abort completely if you plan to keep her as your lone prospect. I guess you could say, my story was one in which I suc… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Off to do my first cold approaches today. What is the best thing I can aim to learn?Talk it up with everyone you meet and be thankful you have the freedom to dedicate a day to something as simple and fun as meeting new people. Excellent point. Some people don't even have that option at their disposal. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 12:20 AM |
| 9 | Off to do my first cold approaches today. What is the best thing I can aim to learn?What is the best thing I can aim to learn? Start with getting comfortable with simply approaching and developing a sense of indifference toward fucks given by others. That ought to be your very first step. Also, try doing this with anyone and everyone. Don't think "must.approach.8s or higher.only". | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Does getting angry turn women off or make you less attractive?Specific examples don't matter that much. What matters is that you indiscriminately apply TRP to every single situation. Examples: The TRP way of going to sleep The TRP way to take a shit The TRP way to brush your teeth The TRP way to drive your car The TRP way to drink water So on and so forth. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 10:29 PM |
| 0 | What are dominant 3 word quotes to personify yourself?Indestructibly_Autistic_xoxo | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Picking up a cougar on FBI'm really tempted to digitally approach her FTFY Same rules apply: Maintain solid eye contact, maintain a dominant posture/ dominant body language, kino every now and then etc. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Are there any tactics women use just to turn a guy into their orbiter?If you're not banging her, want to, but she manages to keep you around without you ever getting to do so, congratulations - you are ...her orbiter. This is why you escalate on a girl you're interested in. Either she'll tell you to fuck off (which is good, because now you know you're wasting your time with that one in particular) or she gives you the green light and allows you to play with her. What you need to watch out for is getting a soft denial from her, one where she stops you in your track… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 06:17 PM |
| 20 | fell on the sauna heater in my gym last night ad broke a top board off should I call and tell themApply dread game. Show them you have options by conveniently talking about other gyms in the area. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 04:29 PM |
| 11 | Need advice on keeping competition away when taking girls to a bar, or meeting them there.Very kindly try explaining to these "buff guys" that your SMV is still a bit on the low side, and that you're "in the middle of applying TRP to the situation, and like, this is kind of your only chance, cuz like, ummm, there aren't that many other girls, so like, ummm, hehe, yeah.." In addition, try telling the girls you're with not to look in the direction of the "buff guys". Or you can accept that there will always be competition, and rise to the occasion by stepping your game up, fucking lift… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 02:59 PM |
| 16 | Girl told someone I was “annoying”Why didn’t she tell me? Because she doesn't respect you (and rightfully so). Your entire post reads like it was written by an anxiously confused 13 year old girl. she got upset saying she didn’t owe me an explanation and I am wrong. She's actually right - she doesn't you owe shit. What’s the next best play? The next "best play" is for you to start putting in the work to become a man, from the ground up, brick by brick. No more leading by the hand. Dig through TRP posts in search of accomplishing… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 11:49 AM |
| 4 | How do you know when to "fight for your relationship" and when to not give a shit so you don't appear needy?you are letting her do whatever she wants and that makes you weak Definitely never let her do whatever she wants. Absolutely. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Tattoo ideas?"It's never your's; it's only your turn" right above your dick. L-I-F-T on knuckles. "Pre-selected" in Old English letters on upper back. "Dread" covering your throat. Hyper-realistic, ripped biceps and triceps on your ...biceps and triceps. "NEXT" over your belly button. "Daddy's little angel" in cursive letters above your ass. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 10:36 AM |
| 1 | What are some ways introverts can work on becoming more extroverted?Get good at asking questions | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | What is the goal of my ex?I want some insight on my her behavior Trying to actually understand (why I want her back so bad). If you want to learn something (instead of trying to weasel your way back into her pants with disingenuous questions), this is the path you ought to be on, not "looking for actual insight a way to get my security blanket back" | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Gaming an older woman, who is a bartenderTake a stab at it, sure, but from someone who worked for far too long in that sort of environment, I'll tell you this much: 1) if they're not "fishing for tips", they're fishing for excitement to break the grinding monotony and/or stress of the job 2) bartenders (more specifically, female bartenders) are like the lite version of strippers - the core of their job is to squeeze as much out of your wallet as possible, often through charming, alluring magnetism. They're essentially practicing this s… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 03:56 PM |
| 2 | What is the goal of my ex?I was basically begging to get back with her I'm terrible with women You never "beg" a woman for her attention and/or sexual services. You can make a case for begging for your life when, say, looking down the barrel of a gun, but is your life at stake here? Would you die if your ties to a women were severed? If no, then why the fuck did you "basically beg" this girl? If yes, you are in seriously bad shape, and it would behoove you to start reading and re-reading that sidebar as many times as is … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Why do most people older than you (namely parents, older siblings, family members, etc) give such bad advice on attracting women? Advice like "be her friend".It's not something many have ever even stopped to reflect on, so that if something like "you need to show her that you really care about her" fails, it's because you "caught her at the wrong time", or maybe you didn't "do it right", or maybe she's "damaged" and not that the advice itself is flawed. Notice too how attacking the approach is generally received. "Jesus Christ man, why so bitter? Who burned you?" | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 01:48 PM |
| 5 | Made new girl orgasm with my hand and dick a total of maybe 3 - 4 times.Meaning, you're either a) lying b) someone who suddenly learned how to use their dick c) someone with a tiny pecker and (finally?) found a girl with either a matching tiny pussy or is herself a liar d) a half-decent troll | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Made new girl orgasm with my hand and dick a total of maybe 3 - 4 times.The good news: you're getting some The not-so-good news: you still care too much Here's a thought experiment for you: if you published this post verbatim pertaining to the 50th girl you ever banged, what do you think it'd say about you? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Does getting angry turn women off or make you less attractive?Double-edged, so can work for or against you. Very contextual. In one scenario, it might make her hot and bothered that you don't take shit from others, and in another scenario, your temper might be perceived as undesirable and potentially make you look like an out-of-control hot head. If you're going to "keep it gangster", as the expression goes, don't fucking do it for a girl - ever. You do it for you, but above all else, don't lose sight of where these boiling emotions of your's can lead you … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 12:15 AM |
| 5 | Why does TRP believe that Donald Trump is an alpha male?As if this subject has to be further beaten to death on this board, and no, the views of TRP as a whole are not unanimous that Trump is one way ("alpha") or the other ("beta") Type in "Trump" in the search bar, comb through the volume of posts and see for yourself | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Somewhat depressive post RPThe deal is: being RP aware is making me depressive (been there for a couple years before, prescribed pills and everything) So, you want to drop the blame on TRP, but then you concede that you were popping pills even before finding TRP? Something off with your story here.. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 12:04 AM |
| 5 | What About The Redpill drew you in to join and stick around?Edgy. If you go through with it, please share with us what grade you earned | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 02:49 PM |
| 4 | How to employ proper dread game?Live with LTR of 5 years. Core of your issues are right there, but at least I don't see the word "wife" in there anywhere. I could be wrong, but I'd be willing to bet that if I were to walk into this place of residency where the two of you live, it'd appear and feel more like her place than either your or "our" place. Just because you bring the bread and butter home doesn't mean that you run the show. Who really calls the shot there? the family You guys have a kid(s) together? The plot thickens.… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Why does no one on TRP care about their bloodline?Careful with that broad brush there, huh? If you want to go ahead and further your "bloodline", go ahead, do you. No one's instructing you not to have children. There's, "don't have children", and then there's "these are the risks with having children, particularly nowadays". If you're set on having children anyway, learn as much as you can to protect yourself and your family, and proceed onward. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Guys who are in their 30s, 40s and older, what do you regret doing when you were in your 20s?It leads to a downward spiral, an appetite that never fully gets fulfilled. It typically turns into a vicious cycle, one in which the addiction keeps growing stronger (and/or never becoming weaker) because it keeps getting fed the very thing it craves, over and over and over. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 08:05 AM |
| 6 | Ltr spending a lot of time with her new bossI'm not stalking your LTR (but I would if we worked $omething out), and you shouldn't go down that road either (this includes looking through her phone, btw). You always have to be prepared to part ways when in an LTR - always. Your state of mind, your sanity is at risk if you don't. It might begin with a subtle inkling. You pick up on a deviation from a familiar pattern, but you tell yourself to let it go. You see it come up again a few days later, so you return to your original apprehension, o… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Guys, would you prefer a stay-at-home wife or career-oriented wife?Well, for starters, fuck marriage, so the "wife" component is moot for me - the furthest I'll go is an LTR - in which case, everything more or less boils down to her not being a nagging bitch, not weaponizing sex, not being an overall hyper-emotional/pain in the ass, and being enjoyable/easy to be around. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 02:18 AM |
| 2 | How to handle little bit** boys (An example)Getting called out for having a little one on IG really got under your skin huh? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 02:06 AM |
| 1 | How to handle little bit** boys (An example)What's your question? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 02:01 AM |
| 18 | Do we friendzone girls? (Develop orbiters)Is it a good idea to develop female orbiters ourselves? Yes, because women desire a desired man, and female orbiters can introduce you to other members of the Hivemind Sisterhood, some of which very well may also take an interest in getting prodded by you, in turn building up your base of female orbiters, making your job even easier, so on and so forth. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Having trouble with "don't care what others think of you."Can someone explain this concept to me? Why don't you explain to us first what you enjoy in life. Serious question. Let's start there. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 06:15 AM |
| 1 | How to get better at public speakingFind an open mic night (if you have any in your city) and run your speech in front of whatever crowd you've got there. Give karaoke a shot too. Yeah, not exactly public speaking per se, but the experience comes packed with all those healthy IDGAF nutrients that will likely carry over to your public speaking. And finally, try giving your speeches into a camera, review them, note where you did well, spot the flaws, rinse and repeat. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 05:58 AM |
| 23 | Do I call out a white knight?So a decent buddy of mine This very move ought to mark the end of your relationship with him in my view. Massive bitch move. He doesn't have your back, and who knows how else he's capable of throwing you under the bus (there's a chance he's done it before without your knowledge too). Let the chips fall where they may with whatever you have going on with your ex, but stand up for yourself and put this "decent buddy" of your's in his place. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 05:52 AM |
| 6 | Plan to smoothly leave LTR of 4 years after she raises marriage and buying a house together.My first real relationship lasted about 4.5 years, and it ended for this very reason, because she wanted the ring with kids to follow, and I wanted neither. There simply isn't any way to compromise on these issues. You're married to a specific girl, or you're not. You have a child/children with a specific girl, or you don't. It comes down to this: either you get over your guilt and end it (so that she can find a beta bucks candidate to give her what she wants), or you suck it up and take a deal … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 03:22 AM |
| 8 | LTR issuesWithdraw from visiting her place and have her start coming over to your place from now on where you will be enforcing your ground rules. Same for the car situation. Stop driving her car and begin to drive your own car. She sounds tyrannically-controlling and annoying as fuck, to be honest. Turning this around in your favor (i.e. having her submit to her frame instead of the other way around) is likely to be a long, protracted effort over the course of a considerable amount of time. I'm not telli… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 10:45 PM |
| 2 | My chick says she normally runs away from guys that are good for her. Red flag?She gets fucked and chucked a lot, despises it in theory, but carries it out over and over in action. If you fall in line with being one of the "good guys" in her eyes, then you will be invisible to her. If you are one of the guys she claimed are "bad" for her, she'll provide you with every orifice in her body for you to stick your dick into, more than likely will never insist on you using a condom when banging her, and will indulge all of your sexual fantasies provided you remain an 'unavailabl… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 10:23 PM |
| 4 | GOD SOMEONE PLEASE just fucking tell me what to do with this girlThe rule involving situations with "this one girl" almost always lead to "move on". This post of your's is not the exception. You're all over the place and completely overtaken by your emotions, just like a woman. Take our advice, leave this one behind and reset yourself psychologically, or insist on continuing down the chaotic route of self-torture you presently find yourself on. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 10:13 PM |
| 4 | [UPDATE] Just discovered my fiance has a very promiscuous past and I have thoughts of ending it. Am I being too rash?Chances are they knew she wasn't worth keeping around for the long term, only a warm hole to use for self-gratification until extreme boredom kicked in and/or another warm, more inviting hole became available | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 11:52 AM |
| 1 | What’s TRP’s position on reverse white knighting?If you can't see the pettiness of that trifle (and the countless others just like it), then you have a very long way to go. Your concern rubs me a lot like newcomers determined to "save" their friends, who want nothing more than to have their friends see The Light (of TRP), and who autistically fuck it all up in classic "good intentions, horrible outcome" fashion because they found this site last week and want to mindlessly "apply TRP" to everything they set their eyes on. You seem driven to do … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 11:45 AM |
| 2 | What’s TRP’s position on reverse white knighting?If ever there were such a thing as autistic empathy, I think this case would qualify. You feel for this guy, but you're missing the bigger picture: who got him into that ordeal with that chick to begin with? Why do you feel conflicted whether or not you ought to jump in? Don't you have bigger fish to fry than worrying about some silly beef on social media? Do you now see why I suggested that if you jump into this one, what's to stop you from combing Instagtam, Facebook, Twitter, Reddit, LinkedIn… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 11:02 AM |
| 2 | What’s TRP’s position on reverse white knighting?There is no "reverse white-knighting", only white-knighting. Do you know how many more back and forths there are all over the Internet between men and women that highly resemble this one that "irritates" you? Are you going to jump in the fray for those too? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 10:46 AM |
| 3 | Aggressive Beta Males are the Worst. Know How to Deal with Them.Many years ago, I had a friend 5'4", maybe 5'5" max, and 140 lbs at the most. Sure, he used to hit the gym quite regularly, but we're talking a very small dude here. He used to love the "it's not the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog" line, and nothing described him better the few times shit actually went down. The guy was very cool, very civil, never looking to cause a fight, but if it ever made its way in his direction, he was all in, ready to tear off heads wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Can you tell me if I have broad shoulders?Have you tried applying this yet? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 01:45 AM |
| 6 | Guys who are in their 30s, 40s and older, what do you regret doing when you were in your 20s?Porn. Stay the fuck away from that shit. Say "no" once and for all and be done with it. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Marriage alternatives?A "wife" is a title conferred to a partner or girlfriend with the legal means to raid your hard-earned money and resources. Think long and hard if there is any way in the world for a woman to physically fulfill that role (the role of raising a child/children, I imagine you are insinuating) without being legally regarded as your "wife". And please, spare me the defense of a hypothetical woman ("yeah but like, what woman is going to do some insane crazy shyt like dat!?") | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Just discovered my fiance has a very promiscuous past and I have thoughts of ending it. Am I being too rash?End it before you start dropping serious money (or any more money if you already have) toward the fulfillment of a contract with someone you have grown to become highly suspicious of (you shouldn't get married anyway, even if you trusted her with your life, but you've already been told that on here I see) You will lock yourself up in a cage of your own doing if you go through with this marriage. You can end it now, or shell out an ungodly amount for the marriage and festivities, then go through … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Just discovered my fiance has a very promiscuous past and I have thoughts of ending it. Am I being too rash?Jump on Plenty of Fish Old Hags and acquire exactly that | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 03:22 AM |
| 12 | Still Wanna Get Married?Yep. Once you get the ultimatum or the "I just feel like I'm wasting my time" or "where is this going?" speech, the relationship enters the life-support stage. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 11:31 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with people like this at work?1) Lift (some, not all, but some will be deterred from overstepping and getting their face caved in) 2) Get better at what you do 3) Meditate (get your emotions under control) 4) Accept that this (guys checking you) is a fact of life, so toughen up 5) Become self-employed | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Are men that get off on female domination inherently beta?No, your "friend" isn't a submissive soy-boy. Tell "him" that it's extremely alpha to have a girl shove a hitachi wand up his ass as a way to 'unwind' | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 10:39 PM |
| 9 | Shit test "I don't date men older then ..." or "You're too old for me"I say I'm 29, she says she doesn't date men older then 27 "Who said anything about dating? What, are we going to be talking marriage and babies in 15 minutes?" If you can't think of anything on the spot, either ignore and seamlessly proceed, or agree and amplify ("oh yeah, I don't date older men either. Fuck that. So tell me about why you think you qualify as an interesting person...") | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 10:34 PM |
| 3 | How did you beat your Approach Anxiety?To add a third (not exactly necessary, but helpful) point: record yourself whenever possible to achieve the fly-on-the-wall, as-close-to-objective-as-possible perspective on yourself. Over time, you'll start to see patterns, like what you're doing well, what you're doing ok, and what needs work. The more approaches you do and the more you try to refine those approaches, the better your sets will eventually become | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 08:09 PM |
| 78 | How do you continue gaming LTRs?See each other at least once a week, but beyond three times is asking for trouble (you want to stay interesting, don't you?) Stay focused on making money/side-hustles, getting/staying fit, non-negotiable alone time for yourself to do as you please, preferably some sort of hobby, time to hang out with your friends/family without having to always bring her along fuck her like it's the last time you'll ever fuck her, every.single.time. remind yourself continuously that she's never yours; it's only … | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 02:10 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of women like Lauren Southern, Tommie Lauren, Faith Goldy ... ?lol Faith is the one I'd be the least surprised to find getting DPed and gang-banged on Pornhub. Probably has something to do with those inflated, cum-bubble blowing lips and thousand cock stare (especially when interviewing) . | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to truly internalize RP without having been in a relationship?What LTRs offer that plates really don't is the ability to see for yourself, from experience, how loyal a woman can be to you over the course of the relationship, how her level of interest in you can fluctuate, how she treats orbiters, how she treats your friends and family, how she treats you around her friends and family, how far she's willing to go for you. The loose ties involved with having a plate don't reveal nearly as much by definition, but most importantly, everything I wrote above, wi… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 10:21 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of women like Lauren Southern, Tommie Lauren, Faith Goldy ... ?Opinions can change, but biology cannot. I'm not saying that they're being disingenuous, but don't forget that they have a market and host of subscribers to produce material for. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend doesn't let me touch her phone.Now that you've identified your achilles heel (i.e. your insecurity), the next step involves doing something to overcome it. There's a 'softer' version of plate-spinning (if can even be called that, really) that you ought to add to your life to balance things out a bit, and it's there's not much more to it than simply getting good at talking to girls. Forget approach, forget escalating, forget all the PUA bells and whistles - concentrate only on developing a knack for talking to them and befrien… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | I had a bad day yesterday, and I’m just mentally exhausted on how and I’m with women, and people in general.I’ve been trying to improve myself. Began meditating a while back. I’ve began lifting consistently 3 weeks ago. Been reading a lot of books too. But it’s not achieved what I wanted : a happy mind. Hate to break it to you, but this isn't going to happen over the span of three weeks. Besides, what I think you really ought to be aiming for is a tranquil mind. Not a sedated mind, not an anesthetized mind, but a calm mind. Your goal ought to be remaining consistent over a longer and longer period of … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 04:32 AM |
| 5 | I have little/no need or urge to meet women, have sex or relationships. Does this indicate anything?Assuming it's not owing to some sort of physical deficiency, I'd say "lucky you". Who knows how many men never even sniffed their potential because they were so hungry for pussy. Keep on keeping on. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 04:00 AM |
| 2 | ‘All Men are Trash’The reason why men are supposedly the only sex capable of sexism or whites are the only race capable of racism is called Marxism. "Ladies, minorities, xirs, for the sake of identification, would you like for all of us men to wear swastika armbands from now on or would you prefer we walk through that gate with the sign above it reading 'Love Trumps Hate', straight into the gas chambers?" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/18 04:20 AM |
| 3 | ‘All Men are Trash’I'd shuffle around the pieces of that statement some and revise it a small amount in order to read: "I hate when 80% of men objectify me, unless it's the 20% of hawt men we're talking about" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/18 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Calibrated approach on facebook?I haven't had Facebook for over six years now, but is "poking" still a feature on there? Have you tried that? Try the poke, followed by, I don't know, the high-five emoji, then another poke, which should lead to a real poke in real life. -solidFBgame FTW | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Question regarding my mom. Advice would be appreciated.I am unemployed with no friends and desperately trying to figure my own shit out I understand that it's your Mom and all, but you have too much time on your hands to analyze this stuff through and through, day in and day out. Your focus should be placed on figuring out your own life first and foremost. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 10:23 PM |
| 4 | Preselection: how to make use of a unattractive woman interested in me?Keep them around, but make sure to hit on girls you're truly gunning for in front of them (or at the very least, make it known that you're hunting for other women that aren't these unattractive ones in question) The objective is to do your best, through your actions, to communicate that they've been friend-zoned without every having to say it. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 10:17 PM |
| 11 | How did you overcome your Nihilism?Start equating nihilism with "defeatism" instead of some sort of profound insight into the mystery of the universe effectively granting you license to indulge in endless amounts of weed, porn and mental masturbation Put the nihilism revelations to a rest, dedicate the next 365 days to getting into the best shape of your life, then, at the end of that period, specifically following an intense workout, soaked in sweat and so pumped that you're ready to bench an Audi next, ask yourself if you'd lik… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 09:30 PM |
| 5 | How to handle male shit tests/ power play?"You keep saying that like you secretly want me or something. I mean, I don't have an issue with dudes being gay, but own it if that's your thing" | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 07:56 PM |
| 9 | What are the main things i should remember when flirting with a girlive read a couple of game books and videos I'd wager the bulk of your problem is right there. It's the sort of thing you need to learn how to get a feel for. Intellectualizing your way through the experience is how you refine it, but you need a foundation first to get to that point, meaning, you first need to get comfortable talking with girls, holding a conversation with them for a period of time, that sort of thing. If you digest all sorts of theory and then expect for that to translate to pro… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Update to "my gf met her ex while I was on holiday"The 3 guys who I know who pull more tail than anyone else all fake dumb. One of them quite literally misspells everything and he's actually one of the most intelligent people I know, but with women he acts like a donkey with half a brain and it works wonders. Impressive on several counts (the execution itself, and not becoming one of them in the process) | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Update to "my gf met her ex while I was on holiday"Even if OP is close buddies with the five smartest people in the World, this association alone would entirely negate whatever upside that would bring | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 09:21 PM |
| 39 | Update to "my gf met her ex while I was on holiday"Is there some sort of a Millenial-Speak Translator in existence to decode all of that? | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | what is the redpills opinion on alcohol ?As far as the red pill goes, I've seen some on here encourage others to go ahead and drink up - no big deal -, I've seen others say "yes, but proceed with caution; moderation is key etc.", and lastly there are those opposed to drinking, the teetotalers. I find myself in the last group, and neither regret this route nor experience any pangs to return to drinking. It's financially costly (especially at bars), it's physically costly (ex. I feel slower and more dim-witted the more boozed up I get; s… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 09:06 PM |
| 3 | TRP in LTR / or how not to be beta-ized?How can I get back on track because I became a beta? A poster already correctly summarized your issue being a fear of losing her. I'd go one step further and tell you that there is a virtual guarantee that the two of you will part ways at some point in the future. Unless you both die together in a plane/car crash (while still together in an LTR), you will break apart from one another, so it would serve you well to remind yourself continuously that your relationship will arrive at an end someday … | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 08:44 PM |
| 7 | How can I apply Law 16 from "The 48 Laws of Power" on a potential SO?a business that you prioritize highly a workout routine that you also prioritize highly a group of friends that you enjoy hanging out with a side hustle some sort of hobby that you take great interest in All of these put the ball in her court. She either "respects and honors" the rules (translation: your priorities), or she checks out to go play a different game (i.e. she finds herself another guy). The more you available you make yourself, the more you compromise the law in question. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 10:51 PM |
| 3 | At what point did you realize, "I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks anymore", and how did you get there?Bad trips are fairly easy to avoid. A solid high from edibles (weed) is like a first cousin of tripping on LSD/shrooms. Not exactly the same, but comes very close. You can start there to get your feet wet. Going back to avoiding bad trips, my suggestions would be: trip with at least one other person, preferably someone who's tripped before and who you generally feel very much at ease around, someone you trust. Avoid judgmental and negative types. People who tend to be either mellow, easy-going, … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 09:19 PM |
| 3 | At what point did you realize, "I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks anymore", and how did you get there?Same, but with shrooms. While this is up here, for those interested in exploring this route (especially first timers), don't forget to prepare with some form of retaining whatever you can of the experience, be it the ol' pen and paper, talking into some recording app on your phone etc. You don't want to develop a weekend warrior habit where Saturdays and/or Sundays are dedicated to popping stems and caps for the sake of "enlightenment". For those who've seen the movie "Limitless", there's a scen… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 09:04 PM |
| 7 | How to forcefully swallow the red pill?Start by tossing all your weed out. Don't buy anymore for at least one full year (ideally, never again, but start with a year first). Next, go out and feel the pain of getting brutally rejected by a woman (it's bound to happen - law of averages says so) You want to bring yourself to the point where you truly feel like you are sick of the abuse, sick of being trampled on, sick of not getting what you want, and are set on doing something (productive, of course - we don't need anymore violence beca… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Question about college and career. Not women.The full sticker price for a trip through Law School sure as hell isn't. Exceptions would be if someone has a massive reduction in cost through scholarship money, someone willing to foot the bill (ex. family inheritance, rich parents), they stumble on a very low cost for the stint, or connection(s) waiting for them once they exit Law School with the promise of making a killing from day 1 in the field. If they are like everyone else, signing up for well over $100K in student loans and some vague … | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Women Are Liars"Just the tip" or "he only fingered/ate me out", something like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 09:07 PM |
| 21 | I hate that TRP is the truth, but it is.Keep the blue pill version nearby too to remind yourself of what not to do: "The One" is out there somewhere, and your mission is to find her If you take her out on enough dates, constantly bombard her with enthusiastic, emoji-filled text messages, shower her with gifts and relentless affection, you will eventually win her over. Fight for her! Never forget that you are a privileged cis-male; know your place, especially when she is in your presence Be emotionally vulnerable Be (and remain) her fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/18 02:42 AM |
| 9 | Tried being a wingman for BP friend, got thrown under the busyou'd think you'd change your technique after so much failure eventually. Unless you're convinced all of these women just don't "get it" ("I'm trying to save them from the Chads of the World, goddamn it!!! and hopefully this leads to my dick getting wet"), but that it's a matter of continuing to fight "the good fight" (i.e. doing the same retarded shit over and over and over) until you get through to at least one. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble visualizing the man I want to be.How did you guys find out what lit a fire in you? This question alone immediately springs to mind a bunch of different roads. For instance, you may find that a ton of people have a "never again" built into that very thing that propelled them in the direction of their choosing, be it "never again (will I be short for $)", so they prioritized a lucrative career field. Someone else may have vowed to "never again (work for someone else)", so they went the way of the entrepreneur. Some other person m… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 07:27 PM |
| 7 | Why is there rarely a mention of STI's on here?Variety of different ways to explain that. One possibility is that some are not being fully forthcoming, are infected, know it, but are refusing to divulge the truth. Another possibility is that some are infected, but don't know it because they're either asymptomatic or dismissed an outbreak as something else (and possibly have gone a lengthy amount of time without ever experiencing another outbreak). Yet another possibility is that many are doing well to protect themselves. One more possibility… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 06:16 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend thinks I have a small dick, told her friendswhy don't you want to get married? Username checks out, or so it appears heh. I plan on starting to look for a serious relationship and starting a family in my late 20s early 30s. There is no legislation that mandates one to be married in order to start a family, only societal pressure. Also, a man is fully capable of spending as much time as he likes within the parameters of a LTR without bringing the state into the picture (i.e. marriage). To take the gamble on getting divorce raped primarily … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 04:15 AM |
| 23 | Girlfriend thinks I have a small dick, told her friendsLet's work with the facts first: the average penis length is something like 5.5" to 6.5", somewhere in that range. Unless you're packing something like 9-10 inches minimum, expect the girl in question to have 'dealt' with a bigger dick at some point in her life. Odds go up with age. If you don't make peace with this, there will always be a chink in your armor frame, and this will gnaw and eat you up from within until you become an insecure and insufferable twat few (if any) girls will want to pu… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | It seems like all high SMV men I know in their 30s are married or in LTRs, what about experiences of high SMV men in their 30s that decided to stay single?What I've found very telling is how my bachelorhood is often received by others - either it is met with some degree of confusion, but with an undertone of optimism, as if "the one" is just around the corner (common), admiration (rare), or suspicion/ridicule/contempt (a bit more common than "admiration", but still somewhat rare). No matter how much each of those reactions may betray about society's general perception of "free agency", forgive the cliche, but you have to make the choice for yourse… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 02:12 AM |
| 12 | A bit of advice on giving adviceThe Bible contains an abundance of idiocy, but there is a good deal of wisdom in there as well. As it pertains to your post, my only contention, the one we so often make around here, would revolve around: "ask, and you shall receive" Until then, keep a lid on it, continue doing you, and let the betas beta | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 05:39 AM |
| 28 | Sir Ian Mckellan on the sex scandal controversy: women sent directors nude photographs that said" DRR' — directors' rights respected. "- Offering sex in favour for roles..It's the short (and arguably less-offensive) version of the old joke: How do you spell "regret"? R-A-P-E | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 09:12 PM |
| 3 | This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.Agree. Been there before myself, several years back. I was fortunate enough on two fronts: 1) although she was the hottest girl I've ever been with and had the tightest pussy I've ever experienced, she seemed to suffer from vaginismus, making it too unbearable for her to have sex for more than 5-7 minutes tops, so I was on the verge of ending it anyway on account of sexual frustration 2) one night, only a single month into our 'relationship', a small disagreement quickly escalated to my surprise… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 11:48 PM |
| 7 | This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.Absolutely plausible, yes. In fact, I personally know of worse, in my opinion. I have a good friend who after the brutal realization that he had been a blissfully unaware cuck for close to a year and a half, raising another man's child who looked nothing like my friend (or the mother for that matter), left her and the kid, contemplated his next move for a few months, and pitifully chose to return to living life as a willing cuck. It wasn't until he found himself in jail not even a year later for… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 02:22 AM |
| 0 | Do chicks tell their chick best friends about fucking you?Definitely, and it can get weird at times. For instance, many moons back, I was out eating somewhere with a FWB and her friend, and I was going on and on about God knows what, I said something to the effect of "it was really thick", and her friend abruptly chimed in with "...that's what she said". It caught me off guard, took me a second or two to process and understand what exactly she was referring to, but it immediately confirmed that my FWB was doing her share of kiss-and-tell to her friend.… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Men tend to be much more capable, even in disagreement, of civil conversation about a topic without letting emotions boil over. (Video inside)Very few offer facts and true deductive reasoning or logic. It probably shouldn't be expected either when you take into account the volume of women who preface a point with: "I feel that..." It's right there in plain sight that her feelz are doing the "talking". | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 12:01 AM |
| 1 | A question about frame controlArrange the date to take place at your place. If she relents, make something up, tell her you have something work-related to take care of early in the AM. Tell her that she can "take it or leave it" if she continues to hesitate. If you get this far, at some point in the night, you must actually get her "on her knees" for your own sadistic satisfaction. If the power-struggle continues, move on from this one. Way too early to be engaging in grudge matches. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 09:19 PM |
| 18 | Next level amog...Classic "choose your battles" sort of situation. Bloodshed is never worth the price for a piece of ass. If she told you to meet her at this one specific bar knowing full-well both who the bouncer is and that he will be there, then it looks far more like you were being used as a pawn than her sincerely desiring you. Fuck whether she truly "wants" you or not - the mere fact that she put you in the position to be at risk of getting pummeled ought to be enough to hard next her for life. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on completing my life - 20yWhat does your diet consist of? And give us an idea of what your workout routine (if you have one) looks like. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Older red pillers, what would you tell your self in high school if you knew what you know nowSelf belief is the most powerful thing in the world. Of course. You're 19, and above insisted that you're "not wrong" (19 & "not wrong" is redundant anyway), so yeah, do you man, and keep schooling us 'old farts' as to how it's done. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Older red pillers, what would you tell your self in high school if you knew what you know nowLooking back, it actually depends on who's mouth the advice came from. At 18, the odds of me tuning into my parent's counsels were extremely low, but if I could have had a 1-on-1 with my current 35 year old self, I most certainly would have kicked the idiotic FOMO and reckless behavior that went along with it (i.e. blacking-out from excessive drinking, driving home inebriated and counting my blessings I didn't kill someone and/or kill myself in doing so the following morning/afternoon) The issue… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Learning new languages?My homebase is Miami. Move there and you'll be able to easily write your very own Spanish novela in roughly six months. Partly joking, but it helps a great deal to be compelled to understand it and to speak it. You'll essentially be 'quizzed' every time you speak and/or hear it. If that's not exactly an option, gobble up as much media (ex. Youtube, movies) as you can in Spanish. Use subtitles as necessary. This book is fantastic too. Verb conjugation is crucial. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 10:47 PM |
| 7 | Next week I’ll move out of the country, and I have proof against two of the bitchiest women Ikkve worked with in my last job. Would you send it to the entire office?I've found that not to be the case unless you live in an extremely small town. I've been living in NYC for a little over two years now, and it blows me away sometimes how "small town-esque" this place can be at times, especially when you narrow it down to industry (i.e. everyone within one industry seems to know everyone else within that industry, the more prominent names at least) | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | What is your take on NoFap?There's NoFap the cult-like community where are bunch of dudes check in on each other constantly to talk about how they've kept their hands off their dicks for a grand total of three hours now and girls are walking into walls and street posts because they're enchanted by their glowing, mythical powers borne of their semen-retention, and then there are the guys who happen to either rarely fap or not fap at all because they're too busy achieving things and have actual vaginas to insert their dicks… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Is the world that black and white?Is the world that black and white? No, you either lack a considerable amount of experience and/or you are not looking closely enough to see the wealth of nuance that the world has to offer. What makes that girl different from the next? And what about that guy? What makes him different from the next? Resist the urge to shoot from the hip and either bundle them together or separate one from the other simply because you've picked out a single idiosyncrasy("they're both millenial twats addicted to t… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 07:24 PM |
| 37 | Girlfriend Cheated, best stuff to read to get though it?Let her. She's doing you a favor. Look at it this way: the longer she sticks around, the greater the odds of some explosive fight or her manipulating you back into her clutches (i.e. drama) There's plenty of material on this sub and the main one dealing with getting oneself together following a break up, but I'd suggest you do more and read less. Aim to do a little bit more every single day - more reps, another lap around the park, more studying, more meditation etc. Reading helps, yes, immensel… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 03:33 PM |
| 15 | Consequences of Modern Feminism for WomenWe've heard this one line before, and we continue to hear it today with respect to other retarded ideologies... Most of us won't be alive in 100 years, but we might as well start giving future generations of men (and women) a head's up as to what they will be bombarded with once we're gone. Despite a preponderance of irrefutable evidence of feminism repeatedly failing society as a whole over the decades, causing widespread ruin and suffering on both sides of the aisle, even a non-betting man can… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 02:08 AM |
| 8 | An evening with an Alpha (married guy)It's a vicious downward spiral, really. Wife calls him out for a being a little beta-bitch, he proves her right, she receives confirmation and gets both further vindicated and disgusted, later on he tries (again) to crawl out of the hole he himself keeps making deeper, she laughs at his pathetic fantasy of one day crawling out, he doesn't, she grows even more disgusted and convinced he truly is a bitch (his conviction that he actually is a bitch naturally strengthens too), on and on etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/17 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Older woman at work asked if I had a gfI usually like to go with "something like that..." to the "do you have a gf?" question. Keeps it vague, but provides enough information to suggest I presently have someone in the rotation. If I want to keep a potential orbiter at bay, or simply someone I want off my back, I go with a more affirmative "yes, I have someone", even if I truly don't. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 07:35 PM |
| 5 | Make a plate out of cheating ex?It would not be hard at all to keep things strickly to us fucking. So it wouldn't be hard on you to take back a cheating ex and repeatedly give her the gift of your D, over and over and over again? Here's another question for you: how hard would it be for you to find another girl? If you answered "not hard" to that question, then why aren't you insisting on going in that direction? Why do you need this one? And please, spare us all the "but she's a great lay! And she's crazy for me!" hamstering.… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 07:19 PM |
| 3 | I just pulled an all-nighter devouring the side bar. Here from /r/deadbedrooms. I think my gf does nothing but shit test me.All sorts of dudes show up seeking counsel at TRP, but the ones who (in my view) are faced with the most difficult dilemmas are the ones who find themselves caught up in relationships where the disrespect is palpable and perfectly clear, much like the one you presently find yourself in. We teach here that it is far better (and far easier) to begin with a new woman than to try pushing a boulder uphill by attempting to rehabilitate a failing (or failed) relationship. Forget mini-conferences aka "t… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 05:39 PM |
| 54 | Sometimes do you rather just fap than deal with bs?Plow through med school. You'll have stacks and stacks of plates to pick and choose from once you get out. I know I personally would loathe myself to no end if I allowed myself to get tripped up by a girl while undertaking something as serious as med school. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 05:25 PM |
| 3 | called out gf for wrong behavior, might have lost frame?she starts to rest her head in his arm and looks right at me like she is rubbing it in my face Yes, this is asking for a breakup. What led up to this moment? How long have you two been together? Has she tried something like this before? Some context is needed, but this sort of behavior still merits a termination of contract. Turning things around so that she begins to demonstrate unequivocal respect toward you will likely prove extremely challenging once it reaches this point. this is possibly b… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 05:20 PM |
| 110 | [FR] Female coworkers around the water cooler"If you're lying to me already, how am I supposed to be with you?". Shuts them down and they can't play the "asshole" card against you. I can hear it already: "OMG! 'Lying' and 'testing' are like two toOooOtally different things! Ugh!!!" | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 12:17 AM |
| 17 | Girl gives me money to buy her a drink - was this a shit test?preoccupied by her phone This fucking millennial bullshit right here, coupled together with her request, would prompt me to tell her: "can I borrow your tits for a minute so I can get the drink faster?" | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 07:29 PM |
| 2 | How to get a girl who is playing hard to getI know for a fact that she likes me. Various signs such as always teasing me, gets jealous when I help other girls. And she will always say something to get my attention in group situations if I haven't spoken to her. Once she quickly mentioned an ex bf and she paused and said "I don't have a BF now" Twinkle, twinkle, little star orbiter... I havnt spoken to her in a while. 5 months. (I've been dating girls closer to me, going to gym and working a lot). I message her, and she is happy and enthus… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 07:22 PM |
| 2 | What RedPill wisdom/quote/art would you hang on your wall?"What are you waiting for?" | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being angry (and comparing myself to other players)?Turning "anger" into motivation, discipline, action, makes some, and destroys others. It doesn't sound like it's working for you though. I'm under the impression that your main issues are that you don't know how to get what you want, it turns to anger and frustration, in turn making it even more frustrating to get what it is that you want, giving rise to even more anger and frustration, and that you haven't accepted the gruesome and seemingly 'unfair' aspects of reality at large, feeding your an… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 07:05 PM |
| 2 | I took a cold shower todayMind over matter. It offers an advantage over others - in a competitive sense, more or less - that you can endure something they likely can't. This can be used to tackle other difficult pursuits, with full knowledge and awareness that you are accustomed to (perhaps even enjoy) partaking in that which is difficult and uncomfortable. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Tell Ex I can't be friends?I was expecting to turn her into a fuck buddy , any way to do this? Hit the reset button, give it a second or two for the first opening scene to display, then on your controller immediately hit "up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, alpha, alpha, AMOG". Next, hold the AMOG button until the official opening scene with Chad decking Beta Billy square in the non-existent jaw completes, select the "options" icon on the bottom half of the screen, and you should (now) have "turn her into a fuck… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Practical tips for improving conscientiousness?Focus on learning how to listen more often and how to listen more effectively. Try to step outside of yourself and see if you are more driven to get your point across or to better understand that of others. If the former describes you more accurately, endeavor to strengthen the latter. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Should I just quit gaming once and forever?Whaty should i do in my free time to fill that void made by quitting gaming? IDK WHAT TO DO INSTEAD OF GAMING Write a book. Maybe you can call it, oh, I don't know... "What To Do Instead Of Gaming" | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with stupid workplace arguments.By chance, are you new to the bar/restaurant industry? I have a couple of years of experience in that world, so I'll chime in with my two pennies: The basic guiding principle of that industry is "do your best not to fuck this up". Don't take too long making drinks/delivering food Don't fuck up the order by entering the wrong menu item Don't forget that asshole X sitting at table 13 has a peanut allergy Don't forget to wipe down the tables or the bar after every customer leaves Don't drop any dri… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Are girls more into the cute look or stud look when it comes to attraction? What would you consider a cute Chad or a Stud Chad to look like?Lassoing Anonymous Retarded Ponies | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 07:51 PM |
| 7 | Revenge on hipergamyHypergamy* You did alright, but you want to aim to reach a state in which the idea of "revenge" on a specific woman (or worse, women in general) evaporates completely from your worldview. You don't curse the knife because you mishandled it and badly lacerated your hand as a consequence - you either learn how to handle knives better (and to your advantage), or stay away from them altogether. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 07:46 PM |
| 5 | She got “mad” at me for ignoring her Snapchat... shit test passed?This is it right here. It's like a woman losing her shit for the duration of the night because you sneezed at the dinner table, or because she had a dream of you glancing over staring at another girl walking by in a bikini at the beach. This is only the tip of her iceberg of crazy. Stick around; party's only getting started... | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Are girls more into the cute look or stud look when it comes to attraction? What would you consider a cute Chad or a Stud Chad to look like?Are you more interested in the ego validation, or the actual acquisition of the vagina attached to those providing the ego validation? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Boys vs girls, upbringing.The latter. It is a much harder and far more precarious 'tightrope' to walk in life for a woman who disavows men (though still yearning for them sexually) because her hypergamous drives cannot even begin to scratch a modicum of satisfaction (translation: too many pussified males in the dating pool), than it is for a man who disavows women (though still yearning for them sexually) | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 07:47 PM |
| 3 | I'm 18, how do i prepare for life?I'm often told that I'm "very good with my money", but all that really stands behind that observation is my commitment to saving my money. You start by not making a habit of giving into stupid shit that will slowly burrow a hole through your wallet, like not making a routine of buying the $5 latte, not shopping for clothes "just because", not getting a pair of Beats by Dre Headphones because they're "sick" and "everyone has them", not throwing away money at the bar etc. In short, aspire to make … | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What are the most important aspects of life you wish you knew when you were 18?The amount of doors that open up through a built-up network of contacts. Simply put, there's a shit-ton of truth to the old adage: "it's not what you know, but who you know". Expressed differently, what you know (or rather, what you don't know) can be greatly forgiven if you know people willing to gamble with you instead of a more knowledgeable 'nobody', simply on account of your friendship with them. Work hard, learn as much as you can, stand up for yourself, but know how to make and preserve a… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 04:55 PM |
| 4 | What does this say about my SMV?I'd argue that your SMV is on the right side of average, and that you're perceived to be at least a solid 8 or 9 in that particular college town you matched in. My hometown is Miami, it's where I was first introduced to Tinder, and in just over a week of usage, I think I got somewhere around 40 matches, and only a few very I would have considered "hot". Some time shortly after that experience, I flew up to Atlanta to visit a buddy, and I tallied up roughly 150+ matches in a span of three days, m… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 04:38 PM |
| 2 | The life of a pervert!Yeah, "the visionary" and "the commander" sound like what you'd throw in the blender to whip up the "charismatic leader", or 1 oz. gift of oratory/articulation of thoughts 1 oz. excellent sense of humor 1 oz. grit 1 oz. empathy 1 oz. ruthlessness Shake and serve over ice Something like that, I suppose | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 06:57 AM |
| 4 | Dating A Girl With Asperger's...All these "Aspergirls" seem to pride themselves on that. As soon as a girl openly demonstrates pride in some sort of condition, a red flag goes up. Whether you saw it or not (or chose to turn away from it) is another story.. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Advice for a High Schooler?Why the grades? Because the better your grades, the better your odds of both getting into a better university and receiving scholarship money to attend said school. The closer you get to a "free ride", the less you have to worry about paying any loans back when you get out of school, if there's even anything for you to pay back at all. Couple this with the likelihood of getting a higher starting salary (assuming you both do well in school and pick a career track that's in demand, that pays) and … | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 08:01 PM |
| 2 | The life of a pervert!So this 'dog whistle' thing works afterall /s | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 07:55 PM |
| 3 | The life of a pervert!Keep your eyes peeled for real-life examples. They're out there. The archetype of the "charismatic leader" is precisely what I'm talking about. Very likable, but not a bitch in the slightest. Looks out for others (or at least knows how to sell the appearance that he does), but is unquestionably driven to achieve great things, his own goals. Knows how to loosen up when the time is right, but usually only after he's rolled up his sleeves and done what's needed to be done. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How to improve my game as fast as possible?my main issue is what to say and what not. You think that is the main issue, but I bet the "main issue" is actually getting the ball rolling by opening and having a conversation. You're probably too far along in your head and envisioning some smooth-talker leading a conversation in whichever which direction he chooses, then gracefully leading it to a date at some point in the near future or straight to some private location to go in for the kill. The first building block to achieving this level … | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 09:00 PM |
| 7 | Complimenting a woman.Hmmmm, interesting questions. You sure do love to do lines of "theory", don't you. I remember suggesting that you go out and approach 50 chicks quite recently (instead of binging on theory and questions), so I'll go ahead and tackle your questions, one by one: Approach 50 100 girls and find out Approach 50 100 girls and find out Approach 50 100 girls and find out Approach 50 100 girls and find out Approach 50 100 girls and find out Approach 50 100 girls and find out Approach 50 100 girls and fin… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 06:45 PM |
| 2 | How do you find time to workout?It doesn't have to be all (i.e. 90 minutes of the gym) or nothing. Something is better than nothing. One option would be to cut your gym time in half. Another would be to gradually piece together a home gym, dumbbell by dumbbell, perhaps throwing more body weight exercises into the fold for the time being (assuming you already don't have anything remotely close to a "home gym") If your weekends are reserved for partying with the bros, then scale that back and make that your new gym time. You hav… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 06:37 PM |
| 4 | How does one answer the question: "have you ever been in love?"?(hetero beta) Not exactly pertinent to your question, but this has a very SJW vernacular, "cis-gender"-esque sort of ring to it. Made me laugh though. I digress.. This is a Frame 101 issue. Everyone gets stumped every now and then, blindsided by unexpected comments, occasionally finding themselves at a loss for words. The more often this happens to you, the more it gets under your skin and gnaws at you, and the longer it weighs on you, the more it is an indication of a weak frame. Paradoxically,… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 06:27 PM |
| 38 | What do you do when you get more enjoyment out of the chase than the actual sex?"What do you do when you get more enjoyment out of the chase than the actual sex?" Start charging guys to learn how to pick up women | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 03:23 AM |
| 6 | Ugly female friend says I can come over and sleep at her place tomorrow. Not sure what the deal is.If I officially friendzone her, shes gonna stop doing work for me! Not necessarily, no. I have a female friend who I've firmly planted in the friendzone for a handful of years now, and the girl keeps trying to see if I'll crack and give in to her persistent attempts, still traveling many miles to come see me and do things for me. A couple of 'reasons' to keep in your back pocket if it escalates to an undesirable level: "I've done this sort of thing before, mixing a friendship with romantic inter… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Is she dumping my ass?cool | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 02:25 AM |
| 4 | Should you expose a cheating girl to her BF?So your desire for "justice" was borne from frustration with "being an emotional cushion and boytoy". I won't tell you what choice you should make, but do keep that in mind going forward. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 02:25 AM |
| 7 | LTR broke up with me. How to proceed?Was I ok with that reply? How to proceed now? Don't ruin a good thing. Not one more word. You nailed it. So, it's kinda sad to let this go. Any advice? Yes, it can be, especially when things seem to be going swimmingly, but you must accept the reality of your situation (which you seem to be doing quite well, considering your reply). What you do now is you stick by your word, remain steadfast, and push onward in whichever direction you wish to steer your life irrespective of her place in it (or l… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Is she dumping my ass?We are meeting tomorrow. Should I simply end things there? Yes. I've been where you've been before, the state of mind you find yourself in right now, and it burns to be letdown by a girl. Everything that comes out of their mouth simply seems 'wrong', everything amounts to a jab to the ego. If it's something ostensibly "nice" (ex. "you're a great guy, and you're going to make a great husband for a lucky girl some day"), it will come across as revoltingly disingenuous. If it's blunt and completely… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Setting goals as a teenagerLong-term goals are a bunch of short-term goals stacked up on top of one another. With that said, read a little each day. Write a little each day. It all adds up. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 01:56 AM |
| 4 | Is she dumping my ass?I feel that I'm already past the point of no-return, though - she started to rationalize. You're right, she's made her decision. Trust me when I tell you, the more you try to force the relationship back to whatever state you want it to return to, the more she will perceive you as pathetic and gross. You're neediness is through the roof at the moment (as your post demonstrates), something she's probably very well aware of, and either one of the main reasons, or the main reason, why she wants to p… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Should we quit from social media ? SMV and ReframingIf you channel your autism into something you're excited about and stick with it for at least a solid year , I promise your life will eventually look dramatically different | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys fuck chicks that are falling over drunk?I one of those leftfield, weird sort of dudes who likes his girls conscious and as sober as possible, especially in matters involving fucking, but that's just my personal preference. You do you. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Give me your best disqualifier to this statement"The Russians hacked my phone. If you don't believe me, you're a bigoted racist misogynist." | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree that one never reaches the top of mountin?This one should have remained in your private journals for you to continue pondering | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Recently Got Back Together With My "Oneitis"So let's hear it, brutal truth. I need it. You want to hear a thousand different ways you can be called a bitch? Is that what you're after? Here's the template for what you're essentially saying: "I parted ways with (X). I know (X) is bad for me, I can even go into full detail why (X) is bad for me, but I have an uncontrollable longing for (X). I know, I know, I'm rationalizing, and I know I should turn my back on (X), once and for all, but, I just ...ughhh, I can't! Fellas, go on - tell me how … | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Fwb has hpvNietzsche made a good point when he wrote: "It's not that you lied to me, but that I can no longer trust you" Now doubt oozes in every which direction. "Is she telling the truth, or is she lying? Also, is she holding anything back?" You do as you wish, but personally, this would make the 'relationship' far too stressful for me to advance. The cognitive dissonance would be agonizingly unbearable. I consider someone jeopardizing my health to be a very serious offense. Yes man, fucking a wet pussy … | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | If relationships are just a big farce/facade, then what is the point of having or pursuing one? Should I just give up hope now? (I feel like I'm choking on TRP after swallowing it)Now the blinders are off, and I'm realizing life isn't a fucking Disney movie that's going to turn out the way I want it to, and girls aren't these valuable, sacred creatures that I used to think they were. I'd advise you to beware of swinging from one extreme (and false) interpretation of the world, to another extreme and false interpretation of the world. Have you ever experienced a woman completely giving herself to you in the "my body exists for your pleasure; do as you wish..." sense? This … | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Things I Can Do to Be More of An AssholeAnything that spits in the face of the feminist worldview will earn you those beloved assholes stripes ye seek. "Yes, that dress looks great on you, but nothing turns me on like a silent you" "I meant to call you over the other day, but I wasn't in the mood for sex, so I figured, what's the point?" "Explaining the concept of responsibility to your kind - you know, women - makes as much sense as pumping air into a slashed tire" Disclaimer: there is an art to pulling these off without ruining your… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/17 03:08 AM |
| 1 | What are your views in trying to get a woman who already has a boyfriend?I'm not endorsing "cheating", but this is one unequivocal area where "she's never yours; it's only your turn" fits like a glove. If you can accept this in both directions (i.e. she'll swing from him to me, and from me to some other dick at some point in the future), then you'll likely find the game to be much more enjoyable. This concept also pairs very nicely with "Don't Fucking Get Married". | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 07:21 PM |
| 23 | Any tips for short and ugly men?I'd start with shaving the hair. Full head of hair, or shave it off. That massive forehead like a vacant billboard together with a half head of hair screams pervy incel chronic masturbator, like wearing a jersey for Team Low SMV. Then, get in serious shape. After that, then issues like wardrobe and talking to humans 1101 can be addressed. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Tips for getting rid of porn addictionA couple things: no casually looking at porn. This will eventually set-off a relapse if you absolutely must jerk off and can't contain the urge, do so without porn keep it simple: the less time online staring at a screen and the more time getting out there and being physically active, the better Stick by those three points, and you'll be fine | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend going to school to become a firefighter. Should I be worried?Is there a higher chance of her cheating when she's a firefighter? The short answer is "yes". This does not mean that it will happen, but odds go further up for sure. Why? Well, she's a good looking girl, who will constantly be around a handful (at the very least) of good looking guys, for extended periods of time (allowing a great deal of time to bond), will be one of the very few (if not the only) women belonging to the unit (again, a good looking one at that), so it's a guarantee she'll get h… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Should I tell my 24 year old FWB to stop being a slut and find a real man before she becomes a bitter single old man hating feminist who sabotages younger women.And the motive behind this is more so for me and my conscious not so much her life. When I'm older I don't wanna think back on the damage I might have cause her. I was in very similar shoes to the ones you find yourself in once. I had a FWB, incredible sex, "good girl", and we had that going for a full year until she couldn't take it anymore and guess what ...she moved on to snatch her beta bucks (about 99% sure she had him lined up as we were doing our thing, so so much for the pure and innocen… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Is there any character/scene that made it click for you "Woah! So that's how you build a frame!"?Yes, movies and fiction can certainly help, but nothing beats real-life experience, being tested out there where the pain is real and the rejection(s) really hurts. I'm not only talking about a woman shooting you down as soon as you say "hi" ("you're like, not even hot enough to talk to me pffftt"), I'm talking about the salesman on the street trying to hustle some bucks out of your wallet. I'm talking about your boss suggesting maybe you should have repeated a grade or two growing up. I'm talki… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Should I tell my 24 year old FWB to stop being a slut and find a real man before she becomes a bitter single old man hating feminist who sabotages younger women.You're too bogged down with guilt, probably based off a well-intentioned albeit very naive perception of the world. She can leave whenever she wants. She's making the choice - over and over and over - to return to you to have sex. I personally don't want to feel like I partook in preventing her from having a potential husband and children. This is exactly the well-intentioned guilt I'm talking about. If she wants those things, she'll acquire them at some point in her life. If you're not forcing … | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Should I tell my 24 year old FWB to stop being a slut and find a real man before she becomes a bitter single old man hating feminist who sabotages younger women.What exactly are you going to do if she vomits out every piece of 'wisdom' you imparted on her and gets cream-pied by Chad next weekend? Tell her again? Scream at her? Board her up? Tell her parents? Mercy-kill her? Haven't you heard? Women have the freedom to do as they please. And why would you stop at saving your FWB only? What, you don't care about the millions of other women doing exactly the same? Funny, it sounds like the real "bitter man hating feminist" in the making here, is you | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 04:08 PM |
| -1 | Younger plate of mine calls me old manOh, I see now, you wanted something a little more ...serious. Ok, so sit her down, pull out a sheet of paper, write "28" on one line, "21" on the one below, then get down to some good ol' fashioned subtraction. You should then have an answer of "7", at which point you can then say: "younger plate, I'm only 7 years older than you ...that's ...that's... really, that's not that much older than you. Can you stop calling me 'old man', please?'" That's right, logic and reasons ought to solve (no pun h… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Younger plate of mine calls me old man"Exactly as I suspected ...only good for anal" Actually follow through by screwing her up the ass is a solid 'response' also. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Can you relate a situation where you think you went too far with dread game?Yes. Many, many years ago, I confessed to my GF-at-the-time that not only would I check out other girls, I'd play out a few fantasies in my mind about what I'd like to do with them. She broke down crying shortly thereafter, I think largely in part because she'd occasionally see other girls throw themselves at me, so it may have struck her as a very real possibility, that I'd (one day) take the bait and fuck one of these chicks. Her Father cheating on her Mom and subsequently breaking apart the f… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 03:24 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about the various interesting comments made here?You're missing that you're literally drowning your chances of success with more and more theory, and more and more questions. If I were you, I'd say: "No more theory until I do 50 approaches". That's right, fifty approaches. Your problem is that you are digging tunnels into your own head and furthering yourself from what it is that you once upon a time set out to achieve. Get away from the computer. Get away from the books. Stop the theorizing and the navel-gazing. From this point, again, if you… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Where the hell do you guys draw the line regarding sexual past? (Honestly only interested in experienced opinions)It's a complete exercise in futility, and it looks extremely pathetic if you try to tease out her true number (which you can never know for certain anyway) If she's inviting you to a party between her sugarwalls and you decline because "standards", then congratulations: you are the real "Most Valuable Fag" | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 01:19 AM |
| 2 | LDR question (girl is abroad for semester)Sorry to be so straight-up, but you have much to learn, grass hopper. To be troubled enough to generate a post inquiring about your fear of her potentially cheating on you completely undermines the (false) notion you have of yourself possessing an abundance mentality. True abundance would sound something like: "I don't even care if she fucks around behind my back - I can snap my fingers and have another girl soaking my bed tonight". You do not - cannot - have abundance mindset while (also) havin… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Are There Any Top Rated / EC created posts that say - "Don't wait around until you're "good enough" to start approaching. Just start approaching now, while you improve."Why don't you add an "EC" beside your username in Photoshop and create that very thread (in Photoshop of course) with those exact words? Once you do that, yes, you will no longer have to "wait around until you're 'good enough' to start approaching. Just start approaching now, while you improve'". So really, the only thing standing between you and "approaching now, while you improve" ...is Photoshop. Bizarre dilemma, but certainly doable. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 11:29 PM |
| 2 | LDR question (girl is abroad for semester)she seems really eager to see me and seems deeply in love, but is it all a farce? The optimal mindset to adopt is one in which you render such a question completely irrelevant. "Does she really love me?" would absolutely crack the Top 10 Hall of Fame Questions a Beta Loses Sleep Over. I'll give you my very simple recipe to use as a guide when dealing with a woman: I only concern myself with how much sex I'm getting from her (quality too), and the amount of drama and 'noise' she brings into my li… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 11:24 PM |
| 1 | For those of you in a relationship, what would you do/how would you react if she suddenly ended it?Plenty of people have told you how best to handle getting blindsided with a sudden notice that it's over, so I'll add something I do to this very day to help minimize the shock: I always remind myself that it can end this way, suddenly, seemingly out of nowhere, even if everything seemed to be going just fine, even if we fucked each other's brain out only a few days ago and had plans to go on vacation in a few weeks. Shit like this happens. It's why "she's never your's; is only your turn" is suc… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 10:56 PM |
| 16 | Difficulties turning One Night Stands to Fuck BuddiesIn my experience, turning a girl into a FB is much easier through social circles than same-night pulls. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 03:50 PM |
| 9 | Is it weird that its pissing me off?r/autism | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 03:43 PM |
| 11 | Caught fiance texting random dudes during her friend's bachelorette party. Any way around this besides ending it?Or am I delusional? Is there any other answer besides calling off this engagement? You can invest loads of money on a private investigator who reports to you with a daily report of her whereabouts You can also tie her up and never allow her to leave the basement. You can also rig your house with cameras, her car with audio recording devices. You can ask her to report to you every 15 minutes when she's not with you (or confirm with the private investigator; see first option) See? So many wonderfu… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 03:37 PM |
| 8 | Is it weird that its pissing me off?Repeat after me: "I chose to get with this girl, and I am presently choosing to stay with her until I decide to end it or until she decides to end it" Let that really sink in, then take it from there. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 03:24 PM |
| 18 | How do old guys start over?How do I build a social circle from here that will lead to a better class of acquaintances that will expand my social proof, and eventually get me back into meeting more women? Sidebar doesn’t have a lot for older guys. I’m not going clubbing, or joining a a beer league at this point. You don't need to link up with a bunch of pot-bellied slugs who have nothing better than to laugh at and gripe about the pathetic simps they've become, how little respect they get from their wife, the last time the… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Healthy habits?Make it a point to get out of the house and be physically active. Becoming a shut-in will probably only make matters worse. So will constantly browsing social media and fucking around with your phone. Get out there, run, bike, lift, play pickup basketball - something physical - and while you're out there, take a notebook with you and set aside 10-15 minutes minimum to jot down ideas concerning your priorities. Do this over and over and over until it becomes your new routine. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Tinder Plus: Is it genuinely worth it?I'd consider giving it a shot if I was traveling and would go to a lot of cities for a day or two each since you can change locations, but you can always hack your gps (most tech inclined people here do it for privacy reasons). This. Plus, in my own experience at least, results have varied from city to city. My results in Miami were fairly weak, a little bit better in NYC, and insane in Atlanta (something like 150+ matches in 2-3 days) | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Help me find a study about secrets and lies, denoting a gap between what they say and what they do?Somebody on TRP's mainpage (perhaps the author himself?) linked this channel on there recently. I think it still needs a little work (like maybe some veritable 8s and 9s interviewed along with some post-wall women), but the guy seems to have started the channel only six months ago, and I think he's doing well so far. Looks like he gets the women's guard down enough for them to reveal plenty about the very question that you're fielding here. Observe their reactions to the questions: the giggling,… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Who are some of you're favorite RP style music artists?An oldie but a goldie from back in the day, and although the song is really about strippers and slutty-ass women, the message is still very much woven around "she's never your's; it's only your turn", and breaking down and crying because she isn't your's or because she fucked some other guy is a telltale sign of not understanding how the game is played. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 03:09 PM |
| 6 | I supported my wife through grad school and now she changed her mind.Now I'm stuck working a dead end job and basically poor. What am I supposed to do now? Well, I suppose she can't exactly take you to the cleaners if there's nothing to be cleaned out, right? Maybe cut your losses now and part ways while the financial losses will be essentially insignificant? And for the love of all that is reasonable in this world, if there is only one lesson that you ought to take away from all of this, it's simple: don't fucking get married ever again. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 03:02 PM |
| 2 | I only agree with a part of TRP philosophy, aware meI do think that women need to be treated like human beings, not like dogs. At face value I agree with you, but we might find ourselves in sharp disagreement with one another according to what you mean by "human beings" and "dogs". For example, I am opposed to cohabiting with a woman I am involved with for a variety a reasons - I may stand firm behind my view that doing so is treating her like a "human being", but maybe you perceive that as treating her like a "dog". That's only an example, and I… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | I asked out a girl but she said this, what do I do?The other went to her own house, but during the group outing I was smacking her butt with my foot alot and she let me ( i was making it obvious. I would smack her butt with my foot over and over, she looked at me, I did it again u know.), so I figured she likes me so I asked her out: Solid IDGAF game right there. Interesting, because you became a GAF sort of guy immediately after with the rest of your post following that part (i.e. asking a million questions about what to do next). Go back to wh… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 11:35 PM |
| 2 | #metoo I raised a question on human nature and got called a rapist in return.What would you all advise me to do? First, if you're going to insist on making videos regarding this topic, at least slow it down to a much more bearable pace. Second, I'd ignore and continue to seek mastery over yourself, including the ability to remain stoic in the face of a buzzing crowd ("Omg!! #metoo" etc. etc.) There are a variety of different characters you can play in this whole #metoo fiasco. a) the virtue-signaling white-knight - he wants to show women and the rest of the world that he… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 11:07 PM |
| 4 | Why is AskMrp so full of Douchebags?You want us to coddle you and run our fingers through the thinning hair attached to your autistic noggin? Hard next, sweet heart. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What should I do with this girlWhen there's a "there's this one girl..." sort of concern, the core problem is a profound level of scarcity. You want to reach the point where any girl who's giving you issues can be summarily dismissed because either you can't be bothered to bang your head into a wall trying to 'figure out' ..."this one girl..." because either you have more important things to do, and/or because you have another girl or other girls who don't leave you perplexed and yearning for quick-fix solutions - you know wh… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Staying soberMost respect my decision to abstain. I don't argue with the minority of women who try to bend my arm to drink - distancing myself is easier, less draining, and more effective. I don't have a problem with them choosing to run themselves into the ground, but I do have a problem with them trying to get me to join in on the "fun" self-destruction. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | What is The Red Pill? What Is Masculinity?Foot note: How do I know what is true? Half of the posts are troll posts, endorsed contributor included. Like how can I take TRP seriously, if their endorsed guys celebrate trolling their own users? What is true Red Pill around here? Gobbling down the sidebar is a good start, but discerning "what is true" can be (and often is) a very gradual process over a considerable amount of time (the more time, the better). Notice how often it is the case that we have someone drop in on this sub, claim to "… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 09:35 PM |
| 10 | WTF is happening to men nowadays?lol "Hey! You! Where the fuck do you think you're go***?!" "Can somebody please explain to me what the fuck is happen*** here?" "Watch your fucking language - we have children sitt*** right there" | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Having a girlfriend is making me lazyWhy don't you try explaining this to your girlfriend? Maybe she will choose how best to handle this sort of situation for you since you seem incapable of doing it yourself.. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 07:43 PM |
| 9 | Fucking ugly girls?? Full of regretHere's an extreme, insanely radical, completely leftfield, never-been-tried-before, absolutely batshit-crazy idea: stop drinking | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 07:35 PM |
| 42 | WTF is happening to men nowadays?dudes, i'm really fuck*** surprised (especially after being on TRP for so long) You shouldn't be. You must have missed the part where a sliver of men (roughly 20%) are drilling an overwhelming amount of the available women (roughly 80%). What's happening to men nowadays? Complacency. Mediocrity. A gradual embracing of their feminine side inner basic bitch, usually from a young age (thank you feminism!). Does this sound like a buffet a choosy customer like a woman would salivate over? | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 03:02 PM |
| 1 | On the verge of first year together LTR is confusedI'm going to take the tail end of your post and revise it a bit to give you some perspective: This has been a shitty year so far, I don't have other options, no abundance mentality and at best the only other girl job .who.might want to fuck to hire me is a 4/10 and a fatty Taco Bell or McDonalds as a cashier. Where do I go next. What do I do? You level up, bucko. Hit the weights. Dress better. Work on building up a better outlook on life, even if you aren't anywhere close to where you'd like to … | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Girls sitting next to me in librarySo I've only been on trp for about 2 weeks now The rest of your post strongly backs this up. You have a lot more reading to do. Sidebar. Go. Now. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 02:41 PM |
| 1 | My life is a mess, I am trying to sort it out. Where is the best place to start? Do things actually get better?Keep losing weight and lifting... find another job... develop hobbies.. get out more.. socialize more.. etc? What else could I be doing ? Dedicate yourself fully to about a year of the activities you pointed out here, and then you can check in again if you still find yourself up to the gills in doubt and anxiety | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 02:21 PM |
| 2 | How to answer "you're so mysterious and closed"Downplay. Whatever your response, craft it around you simply being "that way", no different than your height or eye-color. Don't apologize, don't vow to change, don't taunt her by saying something emo and pretentious like "everyone always tries, but no one will ever understand me". That's simply who you are. Shrug. Seems like you have the right idea according to your post. Stay the course. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 07:27 PM |
| 3 | I want a trp Input from a former post I made. Essentially broke up with a girl because she lied about shutting dudes down.The older you get, the more your value you rises, the deeper your understanding of the game grows, the less room there ought to be for drama in your life. Leave all the fighting, all the heavy, negative energy, all the back-and-forth bullshit for the idiots who find that sort of behavior essential for keeping her around (the epitome of a scarcity-driven mindset, btw) You want to become more affirmative and less compromising (for petty, stupid nonsense like mate-guarding and "talks" for the sake … | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 07:14 PM |
| 5 | Have any women you've never touched verbally asked you to touch them? Can you give some details?So I read some dating advice from TRP and related subreddits that I consider quite problematic I consider your use of the word "problematic" as being problematic. The classical faggotry that follows is also troubling, but not surprising upon looking at your post history | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 07:04 PM |
| 2 | How to forget your blue pill times?This doesn't have to do with shaking off any memories of the blue version of you, but giving too much weight to what other people think, especially what they think about you. The new you - let's say, the red you - needs to let more things slide, see more humor in the world, see the opinions and views of other's a bit like that of a child: "You think I'm a big meanie (or a poopie-head or blue smurf?) Haha! That's cute", and on with your day. You have some blue to drain from your veins if what oth… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 06:50 PM |
| 7 | I have a question for guys who are now married but used to get around: was having sex with a lot of women worth it?I'll be "real" with you and assure you that it is not unrealistic at all to find a girl completely supportive of your goals in life. In fact, in my experience, there tends to be a strong correlation between the level of attraction a girl holds for you and how supportive she is of what you're trying to achieve. Frame is crucial too. A weak frame will cost you her support. If a man constantly yields to a woman (i.e. consistently choosing to Netflix & Chill with her rather than work on his goals, v… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Still have one-itis for a chick from my past, back in my blue-pill daysback in my blue-pill days You're clearly still living in a nice and shiny blue bubble | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Is This Offensive Enough?You're not using your God-given full-blown autism to the best of your ability by doing this | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Did 4 approaches and lost motivationHow great do you think Da Vinci would have been if he had drawn a grand total of four sketches over a span of two months before saying "fuck this art shit - not for me"? | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Cold weather kino-able date ideasDinner at your place and you're making the most memorable hot cocoa right after then off to Netflix & Chill(ing) in your very warm bed | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 03:32 PM |
| 2 | How to pull her in?Ignore ignore ignore. If you can make him irrelevant mentally, he will become irrelevant. Perception becomes reality. If she keeps trying to make it an issue as if she's furiously determined to get under your skin, hard next. ...or game her sister (or bestie ...or Mom) | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Cold weather kino-able date ideasThis one has "Netflix & Chill" written all over it. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I find my mission/purpose in life?LSD can help, but the odds of you having a breakthrough while tripping are not in your favor, I think. Chances are you'll drift into a surreal world of half-baked thoughts leading you somewhere between fascination at the mechanics of the world and endless laughter. Fun, seemingly enlightening, but there's a better, more sustained (and more sustainable) way about it. Take the problem seriously, but not so seriously that you become anxious, irritable, and intolerable to be around. Give it some tho… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Asked gf for nudes. She shot me down. What's my next move?Hah Netflix & Chill Cuddle | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 12:01 AM |
| 1 | I followed everyone's advice and nexted her because we weren't having sex. Now she wants to put out. Yes or No?She's saying all the right things now, but she wasn't doing all the right things when it mattered. You can try plating her, and although I'm not a betting man, I'd put up a good chunk of my savings that trying your hand at that game won't end well on your part. I'd focus on school if I were you. Try to invite (and only keep) women who want to fuck you (and don't have to be logically-reasoned into doing so) | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 06:51 AM |
| 3 | What's you favorite red pillish classic movie? I just watched the original oceans 11 and those guys had swagger. In one scene Dean Martin tells Sammy Davis jr that he would like to change the constitution to make women slaves! No shit!I'll nominate Glengarry Glen Ross. Zero women, all men, but a masterful depiction of solid vs. weak frame from start to finish. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Why do I fall so hard for new girls?Have you ever experienced the wonderful, beautiful journey of treasuring a woman to the point that every moment of every single day is filled with thoughts of you and her together in blissful unity, and then, over time, grown to see you revile and loathe her with such contempt that, when speaking of her, you only seem to refer to her as "this fucking girl..."? Once you get a taste of this bitter venom, you realize that the antidote is distance... It becomes something you develop a feel for, some… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 06:47 PM |
| 2 | LTR loves dramaHere are perhaps the most important areas to focus on in your post. Exhibit A: I simply don't have time for bullshit. and exhibit B: (besides the easy access to sex lol). Don't put up with the former simply because it's a price you're willing to pay for the latter. I suspect that's why you've kept her around for a long as you have, along with the possibility that you are around the same age as she is and don't have too much experience (yet). Don't torture yourself. This is the breeding ground fo… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do women, especially those that are female friends, try to preserve beta males and beta qualities?Yes, they find this unsettling and arousing at the same time | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Can a red pill guy turn into blue pillThe actions are all that matter, ultimately, lest it morphs into a "do as I say, not as a do" sort of hypocrisy. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Had sex now whatBut she doesn't seem super interested in labels or commitment/marriage so I'm not quite sure how to continue. And you shouldn't either if you're interested in learning how to play the game like a plate-collecting pro. How should long should I wait and how should I approach reaching out? Nothing wrong with reaching out. Keep it simple, direct, affirmative, something like: "let's do drinks at 9. I'll swing by your place and pick you up". If she hesitates with a: "umm, not sure. Kinda already have … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Why do women, especially those that are female friends, try to preserve beta males and beta qualities?The implied frame of reference in your post is one from "us men", or "me as a man". When, if ever, do you think a woman stop's to consider the world through that lens? In fact, go back, comb through your post and find the many abstractions that women intuitively are aware of, sure, but probably never ever dissect and illuminate with conscious awareness? You think your average woman cuts society into a "blue pill" half and a "red pill" half? You think your average woman can be much more specific … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 07:48 PM |
| 5 | Why hasn't The Red Pill posted anything about Harvey Weinstein?Being used (and will continue to be used) as leverage by feminists, as proof-positive of the evils of "the patriarchy" i.e. white cis-gender males, why males ought to be further castrated 'educated', why women ought to become more like men stronger etc. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 03:47 PM |
| 2 | I'm confused, women LIKE dirty talk???Think of it this way: the ultimate goal is to make her feel desired and desirable, and "dirty talk" is one way of making that take place, but the fireworks really only happen if it comes from a man she desires - most other men will make her recoil and feel threatened and disgusted if they try their hand at it. No, it's not essential, but it's a way of letting her know how bad you want her, that you find your primal urges irrepressible and that you will stop at nothing to dominate her in the sack… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Girl keeps on asking me to be more romanticSo I took this girl on a date last weekend and we talk everyday on phone for hours. The bluest advice in the world would probably sound exactly like what you're doing with this girl right now. Not even a girl that you've been with for years should you be doing this with, definitely not regularly like you are describing. The weekend is not that far away - kill the beta backsliding phone-calling and go straight for meeting her in person. She also teases me by saying that I should show her that I c… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Better question, if she cheats, does it matter?I share the same view these days, and although I can't speak for them, I suspect they do it for the same reason I do: the peace of mind. I cringe when I think of the days when I'd walk around all day with a knot in my stomach and a war in my head, plotting my next move to uncover the truth ("do I straight up ask her if there's someone else?" "do I try to break into her phone when she's in the shower?" "was it me or was that a suspicious reaction when she got that text?" "should I start asking he… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 07:23 PM |
| 3 | How can I make my life more interestingWe all have to start somewhere. That's like saying "oh, gee, I wish I could draw or paint like a badass, but I'm terrified of someone seeing what an amateur I am; I just want to jump straight into being a badass". Doesn't work like that, and the best part is that most people really don't give a fuck, and after you're part of the fold (say a few weeks in, maybe a month or two or three down the line), you will be the one introducing newcomers to the group. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Unwanted thoughtsI'll tell it to you as if I had a younger bro: Thoughts of her fucking someone else, texting other guys ready to move on, that she's not as into me like she says (Even though her actions say otherwise) the game has "laws of gravity" that every single man is subjected to, and this is one of them. Even the best of the best can (and have, and will continue to) experience what you've described above. It's ok to feel a bit of pain of it happens, but it is not ok to have your entire life turned upside… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a girl that must be in control?Jesus Christ how fucking obnoxious. Way too draining over the long term, methinks. Brings to mind the fallacious interpretation of what constitutes a "strong, independent and empowered woman", by women, when what it typically amounts to is nothing more than a raging garden-variety, insecure, annoyingly-confrontational bitch. Maybe some nice hate fucks can be extracted out of this situation, but doesn't sound like the juice is worth the squeeze, personally. She has never been split up with and ev… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Excessive masturbationIf you cannot restrain yourself and have to rub one out, always do it without porn. Also, do your best from even looking at porn. Get out of the house more. Be more physically active. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 07:08 AM |
| 5 | The "Am i getting fat?" TestI like your responses, your frame, but let me see if I'm getting this straight here: you like her "chubby", but the "new belly" is proving to be too much? If you're this forward with her, either tell her it's time to tone it down (gym), or leave her to be herself with someone else. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Witty remarks to "talking about previous guys" shit test?The girl you're talking about in your original post is making it ambiguous for you (thus your post), but the girls I described in my hypothetical are making it very, very clear what they'd like to do. If that still doesn't make sense, find a girl (or girls) who make it apparent that they want to 'play' | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 12:14 AM |
| 236 | Plate is getting married.. Wants to continue to our physical relationship behind the husband's backThe main reason I tend to avoid participating in a situation like the one you're facing is the very real possibility that he finds out and I end up unexpectedly stabbed or shot one day because the dude lost it and had to exact revenge on the guy who he thinks is responsible for ruining his innocent, little unicorn. Edit: forgot to mention that she wants me to impregnate her and have my kid without the guy knowing. Absolutely horrendous idea, worse than simply fucking her as a married woman. This… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 10:19 AM |
| 1 | The trust shit testHer: "i can't trust you" You: "Cool. My address is 45 MAGA Blvd., BlahBlahBlah, CA 90013" Her: "lol hello! Um, like, srsly, I can't trust you!" You: "See you at 9 P.M. then" | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 02:55 AM |
| 3 | How am i supposed to respond when a bunch of guys are always asking me outIf you really, truly, genuinely, absolutely wanted it all to come to an end, you'd become a blue-haired, septum-piercing sporting, tatted-up, angry, overweight feminist | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 01:35 AM |
| 1 | How to fix dumping a girl?I think she likes me enough to sacrifice her ego for me, which was the root problem. Oh man. Looks like you're resigned to learning the hard way. Don't doubt taking her back this point. You need to get on the phone ASAP with your best "baby, ummm, so like, ughhh, I think ughhh ...oh god, I miss you so much!!!" The more tears, the better. I mean, really uncork all of that pent-up scarcity and make it rain on her. On a more serious note, the more a woman is attracted to a man, the more she "sacrif… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 01:11 AM |
| 5 | How to fix dumping a girl?I'm second-guessing my decision to break up an LTR. Ok. Let's see why... Reasons: I must have failed at frame or sex because a few weeks ago she started developing a snappy, bitchy attitude and frequency of sex declined to every 2-3 days. She went out with friends two nights in a row and the second night when she got home told me "not to touch her" because she didn't want sex. Yes, fuck that. Better alone than in bad company. Sticking around in this sort of situation is worse than going back out… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Spinning two plates -> Turn one into an LTRShould I just continue plating both until one of them brings up being exclusive? If it doesn't interfere with your grades and you're having fun having both of them around, then I don't see why not. Should I also mention to both we are not exclusive currently? Doing that is essentially another way of bringing about "the talk", and it negates remaining silent about the point above regarding exclusivity. I keep it firmly implanted in my head (frame) that everything is going about just fine, we get … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Witty remarks to "talking about previous guys" shit test?Here's a hypothetical for you to chew on: if you had a few more prospects lined up (including the one you are referring to in your post), and one or two of them were clutching your hand and forcing you to grab them by the (very wet) pussy, would you still feel compelled to jump on asktrp to ask... does this behavior indicate that I'm an orbiter? How do I play my cards at this point? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 11:51 PM |
| 9 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.Some of us know the game well enough not to need to probe further - someone gives us a few key details, and we can tell what's going on; we've seen it before, heard it before, and been through it before. You yourself spelled out "the root of" your issues in your post: your insecurities. The reasons why you may fear losing her (some possibilities: doubt whether you can find better, scared of going through a drought, afraid of a man 'better' than you taking her from you) are all a reflection of a … | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Today I finally managed to hit it off. It changed my view over pussy..You want this "genuine romantic love" to flow from you to her, her to you, or both? Also, what do you regard as "genuine romantic love"? Much has been detailed on this very sub about how women love and loving women in the rom-com sense (i.e. endless cuddling while eskimo-kissing one another, wanting her to "want me for me", wanting her to only desire me) | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | So what's wrong with treating plate spinning and sex as a main "hobby"?He lost the thrill and novelty of fucking one girl after another. I suppose he imagined himself plating women until he couldn't get it up any longer (or died) and found the possibility hollow and hopelessly unfulfilling. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 12:26 AM |
| 16 | Today I finally managed to hit it off. It changed my view over pussy..Obviously, it was the moment where I truly realized how ignorant it is to make pussy one's life goal. Ironically life revolves around sex. Perhaps two of the biggest pillars of red pill thought right there. I don't know how you undo such a realization, especially when you look around and see so many suckers getting flat out played thanks to the exploitation of their placing vagina on the highest altar. From this point onward, either you decide you've seen enough and wish not to even expose yours… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 09:41 PM |
| 22 | Today I finally managed to hit it off. It changed my view over pussy..It's the quick and easy cop-out to spare anyone from doing actual research, much like labeling all Trump voters/supporters or anyone on the right "Nazis". Seek first to understand, then to be understood These days, it's far more common to see it play out like: Seek first to divide understand, then to conquer be understood Thus, "TRP is all about raping women etc." | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 09:24 PM |
| 8 | Why is this so hard?I need some advice on this because I am trying to fuck this girl I saw at the bar. I'm not necessarily telling you to compromise the quality of your approaches/interactions, but I am telling you that your quantity has to go much further up than "this (one) girl". You're too focused on one chick. I think because I am black I can't use the red pill to its full extent. The red pill isn't racist, unless there's something about self-betterment in general (which is essentially what TRP comes down to) … | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Going on date with acneIn my mid 30s and still have a full head of thick hair. The adverse effects I experienced were the typically dry skin (ex. lips constantly splitting open if I wasn't applying chapstick every 5-10 min), acne getting worse before getting better, and a great deal of back pain while on the meds (disappeared once I discontinued daily intake). | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 07:08 PM |
| 2 | I am constantly sad and angry. How can i fix this?"You are what you eat" applies to the mind as well. Take a good look at all that you are mentally consuming (ex. news, youtube, movies, social media, music, books). Also, look into "positive brainwashing". That may at least lead you away from a darker path. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 06:32 PM |
| 13 | Going on date with acneedit: fuckit im going life is too short Looks like you answered your own question, but I'm sympathetic because acne severely screwed with my own mind nearly two decades ago when I was in high school, so I highly recommend going 'nuclear' and starting accutane (if you haven't already). Yes, there are some serious risks involved, but it basically knocked out my acne for good after I finished the treatment. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 06:28 PM |
| 4 | How to present my disability towards woman? I am legally blind.Check out the movie Scent of a Woman if you've never seen it. Al Pacino's character has razor-sharp frame and is completely blind in the film. Yeah, it's fiction, but it can possibly spark some ideas for you to craft your character and sense of style moving forward. All the best. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 12:26 PM |
| 16 | Why does being such an asshole work?For better or worse, an asshole activates a woman's feelz. Run of the mill nice guys provide as much excitement as a dentist's waiting room - they don't feed the emotions of a woman like an asshole does. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 12:15 PM |
| 7 | Why do women who date alpha males or assholes go fuck and date beta males after they are dumped?In a nutshell, the alpha is high risk (ex. greater chance of being played/cheated on) but high reward (pre-selected man = tingles), and the beta is low risk (ex. greater chance of offering security and fidelity, more predictable) and low reward (sexually speaking, mostly i.e. a low to non-existent desire to fuck him) | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamous women are less likely to branch swing if-Sounds like a great tag line for an Eau de Chad brand of cologne | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 04:19 PM |
| 1 | The girl i wanna fuck gives me everything except sex.Would you be willing to become her sex deprived beta bucks hubby in a decade or so once she hits the wall and tires of getting pumped and dumped by Chads? If yes, continue to offer her whatever she wants and especially continue to do this our late night talks about life and philosophy bullshit. The only other options are to either ride solo for a bit and/or find a girl willing to fuck your brains out without any hassle (i.e. getting friendzoned), but that's extreme and requires work and is incre… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Recently started taking my daily Rx of TRP. Need help with responding to an ex, if I even should?You shouldn't be considering what to respond, let alone if you should respond. Don't get pulled into her little games, regardless if you think you can handle it or are "totally over her" or want to get one final dig in (which, a lifetime of the silent treatment is the greatest dig you can get in btw) Stay the course. Ignore for eternity. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 01:34 PM |
| 5 | Do you think a multi-racial country can actually exist?Multi racial yes. Multi values No. This is a great summation to the query. The issue comes down more to values than it does race. Look at where America presently stands. At the moment, the differences between the left and the right appear irreconcilable. Those on the left especially who write off anyone on the right (or anyone who doesn't adhere to a leftist worldview) as "Nazis/literally Hitler/racists/bigots/misogynists/Islamophobe/homophobe/transphobe" etc. make dialogue between the two sides… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 03:08 AM |
| 3 | One month plate is holding out on sex, but otherwise has been red pilled pretty good. What gives?Could be very many things, but always remember that if one door closes (it hasn't ...not yet at least) that you yourself can open one, five, ten, twenty, fifty more if you so like. Get more girls, in other words. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Any good movies?Vicki Cristina is the best from the bunch, I'd say, and yes, Bardem's approach (especially his frame) was impeccable. The others cover a lot of what is discussed on here: women settling for betas/low-SMV men and growing irritable and resentful for doing so, women's tunnel vision for alphas borne from their tingles, how much a man's status matters to women, but how largely indifferent men are to a woman's status, the fickle nature of women etc. You'd swear Woody Allen once was (or still is) a pos… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 02:36 AM |
| 2 | What tenet of The Red Pill has been the most beneficial to you?"She's never your's; it's only your turn" Because of this, I don't ever bother to get some Wikileaks thing going with whatever's going on in her life outside of the time we're together. No looking through her phone, no trying to catch her offguard with trick questions, no mate-guarding etc. I accept that it will eventually come to an end, and only concern myself with what she brings to the table (i.e. sex, good company) and what she doesn't bring to the table (i.e. drama, negative energy) | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Any good movies?Woody Allen has a sweet tooth for depicting women's hypergamous impulses and alpha fux/beta bucks in his movies. Check out Vicki Cristina Barcelona. Also Blue Jasmine and Midnight in Paris. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 08:38 PM |
| 8 | What is the solution to the growing inpermanence of relationships?You have the first part down, which is awareness of what is going on. The second part is accepting it ("enjoy the decline" is one common way of expressing it) Once you get a few flings/relationships under your belt, you get a better idea of which require 'work', and which flow like a stream. I only entertain relationships with girls that fall into the latter until it becomes work (at which point I recognize that the relationship is headed for, or has come to, the end) am not sure what it means f… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Does it get easier??It's been very eloquently phrased before: "Do not ask for a lighter load; ask for broader shoulders" You seem more concerned with the former when you ought to be aiming for the latter | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Girl i used to sleep with keeps telling me about guys she wants to hook up with and who are hot, I told her in what world does she think I want to hear this? She continues?The ideal outcome here according to my prideful ego would be for her to understand that I’m sick of her shit and she needs to learn her fucking place and stop challenging me. This is how it really presently stands. A higher ideal would be you imagining yourself locked in a house with her forever and still being able to be one cool, calm and completely unphased dude regardless of how many tales of getting dicked down and bukkaked she may spew in your direction. Your amused mastery game needs more… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Does it get easier??I wanted to test what it was like to actually work on myself for a week to see what all that entailed. Kinda "see what im getting myself into" type of thing. A single week... Next week, see if you can get down to 5% bodyfat and chisel out a six pack, again in a single week. Feel free to report back with a 'defeated' post if you don't. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Is game massively overrated?Perhaps the best aspect of your post is that you're not theorizing from an armchair; it seems like you've gotten out there, put "game" to the test, and returned with results that have led you to question the value of game. It would behoove anyone subscribed to TRP to do likewise and see what works for them personally. An alternate view is that the value of "game" is one akin to a stepping stone, bringing you out of inceldom/awkward autist and onto the next level where it is then eventually disce… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 01:39 AM |
| 15 | Why do girls love being second place?She's probably the hottest girl I've ever had up to this point in my life. Fixed that for you. You'll also learn, with experience, that "the hottest" doesn't necessarily amount to "the best". For instance, the hottest I've personally ever had was one of the worst in bed and turned out to be the most mentally unhinged. One of the very best I've ever had (sexually) was probably the most bland and boring outside of the bedroom. The girl I'm presently with is definitely not one of the prettiest girl… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 01:21 AM |
| 5 | How do you stay on top of your shit in an LTR? Mainly, how do I know my approach skills and ability to easily tease and sweet talk women (which I spent three years establishing) won't fadeA close friend of mine is very much what would be considered a "natural", but all that really stands behind that label is many, many, many interactions with women - that's it. Anytime he's talking to a girl, there's a discernible sexual undertone (at least to me), and he continues to be like this to very day, even with a wife and two kids - he's never lost 'it'. You simply have to make a habit of talking up girls with little regard to the outcome - that's all. Jump out of the "must approach" min… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Problem with my Classmates :When one of them is seated, very calmly walk toward their desk as if you must walk in that direction, maybe drop a pen right beside their desk, turn your ass toward their face as if you are preparing to pick it up, and let the nastiest fart you can possibly rip blast right into their face. Beyond that, study hard and LIFT. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Guy I dont really know in a social circle just stole my bike, what do I do?The odds are very high that the regret will eat you alive if you do absolutely nothing. You certainly could regret something you may do as well, but I'd advise you to at least confront this fucker for your own sake. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 06:20 AM |
| 4 | LTR wants me to not go outLet's lay out your options for a moment: a) you stick to your end of the bargain and self-impose your own lockdown. This clearly is not what you want and will surely lead to you growing resentful toward her (caveat: she may not hold up her end of the deal and still go out behind your back) b) you scrap this bargain between the two of you primarily (if not entirely) for your own sake, enabling you to go out while allowing her to do the same. c) you put your foot down and stay the course you've de… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth it to sleep with an uglier girl to end a dry spell, or do you usually regret it too much?In most cases, I'll go with yes, it is worth it, mostly so that you personally can get a more accurate gage of the value of pussy and how much it means to you (again) on a personal note. There's more upside to downside, in my view. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/17 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Coffee with a friendHere, there's a little more no consequence. Fixed that for you. Abundance, my friend. There will be more women, there always are more women. Do not dread letting this opportunity fall by the wayside. You're just getting warmed up for the countless amounts of women you will get to experience in your life - this is how you have to perceive it. You become your thoughts. Think abundance. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 08:24 AM |
| 5 | how to keep your cool in all situations and is it always necessary to?Before experience itself educates you, perhaps a mentor will counsel you here and there, offer you perspective, keep you grounded, let you know that what you may experience, perhaps what you already are experiencing, is not worth yanking your hair out or going nuclear - that's one way of keeping your cool in your younger years. This forum is a great start. I won't deceive you and tell you I've graduated to become an impervious stone, but I've certainly gotten much better at choosing my battles (… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 08:15 AM |
| 10 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameI'd revise that to marriages only (more specifically, a marriage with children involved) being TRP on hard mode. An LTR becomes "TRP on hard mode" as soon as you discard the mantra that "she's never yours; it's only your turn". If you fully accept that it can end at any time, then the so-called difficulty of 'managing' a LTR vanishes completely. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/17 01:45 AM |
| 7 | Western-Educated Chinese Women in Beijing: The straight-up open and honest hypergamy is amazing to witness. This is what all women THINK in the West, but don't say out of their mouths.Well done. I conducted a similar hypothetical to a co-worker sometime back after witnessing her express frustration over some "creep" who incessantly continued to ask her out (and fail). I asked her if she'd rather have a rotation of 100 single guys consistently on her ass (i.e. calling her, texting her, asking her to hang out) every day of the year, or a taken guy she's actually attracted to express interest once every blue moon (more specifically, meaning this would only take place once or twi… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/17 06:16 PM |
| 9 | Any ideas why TRP and MGTOW are generally not accepted at NoFap?Because (from what I've gathered) a large sect of nofap continues to operate under the premise that the blue-pill world is the true world, and porn was a main or the main hindrance holding them back from fully realizing it. In a way, it's similar to guys who attempt to use TRP to make their blue fantasies come true, only the nofap community doesn't even make it that far (ex. they'll still orbit girls, they'll still fall apart if Chad swoops in and takes her, they'll still entertain the idea of "… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 01:39 PM |
| 12 | Thoughts on Witnessing a Guy Get Rejected During a Cold ApproachAdd to that the consistency with which they are validated based on their looks (ex. compliments, preferential treatment, double takes, staring) and the brutal crash they experience when someone either behaves with complete indifference or 'negatively' (scowl, grow frustrated, sharply disagree) toward them. It may sound preposterous, but there probably are women out there who get downright destroyed when a selfie only gets 8,903 likes and they're accustomed to breaking the 10,000 mark with regula… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/17 02:01 PM |
| 4 | What are the circumstances in which it's ok to plate an ex gf?I'm going to play the other side of the street and say go for it. No more questions, just do it. Dive in head-first. Now for the important part: in a week or month or however long it may take (probably won't be very long), once the dust has cleared but the sting is still red and burns considerably, you will be in a position of actual real-life experience to both know for yourself and to tell others why getting back with an ex is such a horrendous idea. Don't let what I wrote stop you though. Go … | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Outside of getting pussy, do single men even have a social life after the age of 30?Absolutely. Lots of guys do running meetups, biking meetups, pickup basketball/soccer/baseball, even assembling groups by way of their line of work (for example, my neighbor is a contractor, and he's met a ton of other contractors by way of his business page on Instagram). It's very doable. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 02:12 AM |
| 6 | What should my strategy be if a girl is already attracted to me?Ok, so "most women you come across are physically attracted to you", but then the good ol' "there's this one girl (your exact words) at work" that's got your attention and you want some pointers on how to figure this one out. If most women are (already) attracted to you, why are you insisting on playing with fire by attempting to make a move on a girl at your place of employment? If most women get all starry-eyed when you're around, why not get out and about more (somewhere other than work) and … | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 02:00 AM |
| 8 | Considering a therapist. And actually, considering a female therapist.I'm considering a female therapist because I believe all women are red pilled. They all know the game, even if they're feminists or hate on TRP. They all know what women want. They may (intuitively) know what "they want", but they have a proven track-record for being god-awful at communicating and prescribing what a man ought to do (and not do) in order to properly rouse these sentiments (read: tingles) in her. It's as if they're cursed to fully feel the experience, but rarely get to effectively… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 01:50 AM |
| 7 | Girl wants to fuck, has a boyfriendYou're not standing far away enough from the issue to see why it's typically advised not to play this card. You're assuming two things that many on this board had to learn the hard way: 1) that he's going to receive this well - you may want to hear this bitter truth ("hey man, sorry to break it to you, but your girl is trying to pull a fast one on you behind your back"), but you're projecting that mindset onto him. You may be correct, he may want to hear that, but the consequences of not receivi… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 01:32 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else realize if you just smirk all the time everything becomes easyIf there is a way to trick your entire being into one of complete amused mastery, this would certainly qualify. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 04:25 AM |
| 1 | What is there to really look forward to in life as you get older and peak outside of sex and money?That's just one conclusion that follows from unearthing the endless layers of nothingness behind existence, not the only conclusion. Hint: you can always aim higher than just "sex and money"... | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Struggling with a big life decision I have coming up...issue is if I could actually land them. Thinking like this won't make it happen, that much I can tell you. Put some self-assurance back in your diet! Of course these hoes are gonna want this D! | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I take a job that offers remote work and total freedom to travel at the cost of possible isolation and lack of community?Or should I take this opportunity to own my schedule, travel around the world, and be free? Definitely this. Before you find yourself laying on your back staring at your ceiling or gazing at your phone for hours on end, think of a variety of activities you'd like to give a shot before you head over to destination X. Write them out somewhere, maybe prioritize them in order from most to least interesting, then do that. So let's say you pick San Diego, maybe you'd want to do bike riding along the b… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Question on Dealing with Enemies.Step 1: work hard, stay focused, but assume you already have the job and are better than all the other interns Step 2: I don't know what this "rival's" name may happen to be, nor does it matter, because from this point forward he will be known as "this little bitch". From now on, always refer to this guy as "this little bitch" (mentally, of course, mentally) In your mind, you will no longer see him as your "rival" but as the new brand I have just provided above. Do this until you can only see hi… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Once you found TRP, did you start seeing it all around you?It helped me put into words what I had either experienced myself, witnessed, read about, or heard about. So, for instance, I always knew women would get outrageously hot and bothered for some men (feral would probably be a better word), lukewarm at best for others, and completely indifferent to the mere existence of another set of guys. Both "AF/BB" and "hypergamy" helped shed a ton of light on this occurrence, and paired together with "AWALT" got me one hell of a schematic of the organism known… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Fix her feelz?Often times, the best 'tool' to "fix her feelz" is the one dangling between your legs.. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 06:01 PM |
| 2 | What broke you?Bit of a long story, but in a nutshell, I was completely AF with a girl for a solid year, split apart, then returned to her out of pure scarcity and under the extreme misconception that I could easily pick up where I left off and use her as a cum dumpster on speed-dial. The only way to do it (i.e. get back in her pants) was to go full-on BB (her demands, meaning I was operating completely within her frame) until I finally got what I wanted after 5 months of frustrating orbiting - then the pain r… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Moving to L.A. to pursue acting. Should I be concerned with getting BP roles?Well, here's a curveball for you: if it seems to come down to only "BP roles" (and thus getting your foot in the door) or nothing at all, what would you do? | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 05:38 PM |
| 4 | LTR with threesomes. What are your thoughts on pulling women with your LTR? Have you done it before? Do you think it's like having the best of both worlds?Assuming your girl isn't bringing it up on her own, one way of going about it is to first bring up the thought of her and another girl together: "you know what would be so fucking hot? Watching you dominate another girl and have your way with her", or the same first line and "...watching you and another girl go to town on one another". If she's receptive to the thought, then you could say "you know, the more I think about it, I don't think there's any way I could just stand there and watch - I'd… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 11:12 AM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on having objectively low SMV friends, but whose company you enjoy?are good people This matters more than this friends with objectively lower than average SMV GoodPeopleLivesMatter | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 02:30 PM |
| 7 | Ex making a lot of contact after I declined being just friends.The main takeaways: you're new to TRP a former FWB/plate wants to possibly rekindle what you two once had another guy is in the mix She wants the best of both worlds. She doesn't seem closed off to fucking you (then later hamstering away that she was "drunk" or "out of sorts" or some other excuse), but would like to keep you around as a backup to whatever else she's focusing on (the other dude[s]). She can also use you against one another to better assess each other's respective values, even if … | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Help for moving on from a LTR.Reformat your post. No one is scrolling the length of 3.2 football fields to read your story, regardless of how interesting it may be. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Mid/late twenties, not sure what to do with my lifeOne possibility - you learn how to extract your inner hustler and develop a work-ethic like you never thought imaginable. The constant fire under your ass makes you figure shit out along the way and you become a veritable beast of a man in the process. Another possibility - you learn how to survive in a fast-paced city like NYC, but the water finds its level and you eventually stagnate as you learn how to simply "get by", otherwise known as becoming mediocre One more possibility - you crash and … | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 12:05 AM |
| 6 | I know a guy, that dude is obese and he got girlsHe doesn't care about anything There you have it - the often talked-about and revered IDGAF attitude. He's probably also funny or energetic, maybe also has a lot of guys friends? | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Which traits are needed for better LTR?Worry first about getting the girls (that takes becoming someone girls want to pursue). Then worry about whether they're good enough or not to qualify for the honor of being your gf. Don't start trying to 'sculpt' yourself in a way that makes you some kind of "LTR-friendly" sort of guy - you might as well go full blue-pill if that's what you're aiming for (ex. "hey, girls! I'll always show up on time for ours date!" "I'll always be there to cuddle with you!" "We can have as many Netflix and chil… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | I'm a black guy that'll be starting college in a few weeks at a predominantly white school. Will my race affect me with girls? Any tips?What you are making is an assertion, not an argument (most teenagers these days don't know the difference, so don't feel slighted). If you call me "ignorant" or "racist" or a "bigot", the burden is on you to prove why that is the case, not imply that it's self-evident, and each time I ask you to make your case, you reply with laughing emoticons or double-down and call me "ignorant" some more if I can't read "subtext" or "extrapolate thought" (whatever the fuck that even means). I often wonder "h… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm a black guy that'll be starting college in a few weeks at a predominantly white school. Will my race affect me with girls? Any tips?You still haven't demonstrated how though but I guess that flew over your head. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm a black guy that'll be starting college in a few weeks at a predominantly white school. Will my race affect me with girls? Any tips?And (predictably) still not an argument. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 07:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm a black guy that'll be starting college in a few weeks at a predominantly white school. Will my race affect me with girls? Any tips?I'm Latin, so next time write it out as "only a non-Black person could say something this oblivious". Please don't take this as me getting in the way of your victim mentality. Carry on. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 07:43 PM |
| 9 | What hard truth do you wish you were told earlier in life?Don't count on others to look out for you/be there for you/stick up for you/put their neck on the line to save your's, especially in the work force, and if anyone does, look at it as a bonus, a kind gesture, but never expect it. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Can't get over that one plateBut she randomly started ignoring and we just never fucked again. With any girl you're fucking, always always always remind yourself not only that "it's your turn" blah blah blah, but that it can end at any time, without a head's up, just like that. I've been in your shoes several times before, looking back at old conquests wistfully, thinking to myself: "Jesus, that was some sizzling piece of ass. I don't think I'll get one like that ever again", and sure enough, some time down the line, I get … | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps bringing up her ex boyfriend.I would like to control her behavior to make her submissive in a way that I find fun. No, a real smooth-talking, so-suave kind of guy is anything but controlling - that reeks of desperation, lack of options, the antithesis of attractiveness. The dynamic is backwards, as it is she who ought to be pondering how to control you, yet ultimately yielding to be as you wish her to be - submissive and fun. I can hear you asking already: "Ok so like, how did I like, make that happen and stuff?" Simple: be… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 10:30 PM |
| 1 | I feel like minorities make a way bigger deal about race than white people do in social interactions, any other ethnic guys with similar experiences?Depending on where you live, whites will too, but in a different way, so that if race does come up, with very few exceptions will be sympathetic towards non-whites, and derogatory or patronizing towards other whites (i.e. virtue-signaling). This sort of thing is more common in areas where whites find themselves either even or less in numbers to other "minorities". I live in NYC now, and though what you say does hold a lot of truth, the whites here have a tendency to do what I described above, an… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 02:37 AM |
| 22 | This 9/10 is going literally bananas for me, but if I give I know she'll stopWhat would you do? Tell her that if she wishes for you to talk to her again, she has to pay for the crack on your phone's screen that she caused. Hard next if she doesn't. No contact forever. Dis bitch gon' learn 'bout yo abundance mindset real quick... | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 08:55 AM |
| 6 | My SMV is going DOWN as I get older... Age 33 -- wish I was 25 and hadn't even heard of TRPIt's not your SMV taking a dip that you ought to be concerned about - it's your mindset. Tough love here, but you talk/think like a straight-up loser, a quitter, someone yearning for pity and coddling, and my god are you one little whiny first-world bitch ass. Fucking read this shit that you wrote: I make $130K/year, live in a big city, lift, am in good shape and dress well. ...I also have a tiny social circle -- like, super tiny. In college and ages 22-25, I rolled in a big crowd. Now it's most… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 08:50 AM |
| 3 | I'm a black guy that'll be starting college in a few weeks at a predominantly white school. Will my race affect me with girls? Any tips?You'll find your biggest enemy staring right back at you in the mirror. The more you look for prejudice/racism, the more likely you are to find it (even if partially or entirely manufactured in your mind), thus making you more bitter, more unlikable, more likely to read prejudice/racism into people disliking (probably because you're simply an insufferable person, your race simply being incidental) Treat them all the same. Get along with everyone. Try to always be in a good mood. Most people grav… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Ever had one that just never contacted you again?Yes, majority I've never heard from again. Doesn't matter. The show must go on. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 08:34 AM |
| 9 | Why does TRP oppose Islam?Opposing "Islam" and opposing "immigration" are not one and the same. That's your first error. Your second error is assuming TRP as whole opposes either or both of those two. Game over Insert coin to create new troll thread and try again... | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with a wishy washy femaleStop wasting time. Judging by the multiple posts you've made on this very subject, you seem very - what's the word - eager, driven, so get to the point, skip a few steps, straight up tell her that you love her and that she's going to miss "the opportunity of a lifetime" if she turns you down. Call her again, and if she doesn't pick up, sing a passionate Michael Bolton song over voicemail until the very end or until the "BEEP!" cuts you off. "No one said it would be easy, they just said it would … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 05:50 PM |
| 8 | How The Destructive Nature of Women Is Breaking Down Civilized Society (A Dialogue)You forgot "racist" and "Islamophobe" and "homophobe" and "beanerphobe" because all oppressed people are equal now (...but some are "more equal than others" i.e. more oppressed than others) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 05:27 PM |
| 5 | What's a good arrogant/red pill way to answer this text?I'd rather not give you the fish and tell you how to fish instead, and by that I mean you shouldn't give text messages like these so much thought that you need to bring others in to help you craft the wittiest, most "red pill" response imaginable. How do you achieve that? By bringing yourself to become absolutely convinced that whatever you text is the funniest/sharpest/most clever message anyone can possibly whip up. The long term solution you're gunning for here is to stop second-guessing your… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Thinking about unprotected, pull out sex with LTR. tips?I used to work at a children's hospital many years ago, both in the E.R. and Admitting/Outpatient department. I used to see at least 50 or so "parents" every single work day no older than 20 (some as young as 13), majority with a bewildered, hopeless look in their eyes, the look of the world weighing down on their shoulders while probably still having Mommy clean their shit-stained undies and considering $500 a week to be "a lot of money". Don't find yourself in those shoes sometime next year. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 04:38 PM |
| 6 | LTR refuses sex for past 3 weeks ? Need adviceI'd circle a date on the calendar at which point you end the relationship if it has not improved to your standards. Don't tell her about this idea, simply go through with it on your own. I've been in your shoes before, and I know how outrageously frustrating it can be. Trust me when I say that having a 'talk' is not very likely to sway her to spread her legs, and even if she does, I'm willing to bet the enthusiasm will certainly not be there, breeding resentment in her ("ughh. I can't believe I'… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 04:21 PM |
| 1 | I need to get off the computer.. But what should I do instead?Get rid of it. And if you 'need' it for school, get outside of the house as soon as possible after waking up. Physically distance yourself from the computer. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 04:11 PM |
| 3 | is this a flirty line or badI hear the crickets already. Out of curiosity: how long can you hold a conversation for with a decent-looking girl? You sound like you need to go back to the fundamentals (i.e. chatting up girls and holding their attention for at least a few minutes) | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Drink cultureTry this: 1) first, read up extensively on frame (what it is, various examples of people exhibiting impenetrable frame), then after doing that 2) reflect on your current position and who you want to be I've put the dots down for you; now all you have to do is connect them | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 11:32 PM |
| 12 | What does your ideal marriage look like?Obviously this doesn't apply if you have no intentions of getting married live in reality On a more serious note, I think you'll get responses more to your liking in the Blue Pill sub (ex. "woman I can share all my failures with, cry in front of, share tampons with") | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 03:58 PM |
| 33 | Wife gets pissed/makes fun of certain hobbiesRespect is sorely lacking, perhaps not even there for you, and it clearly shows from what you're describing. Talking is not going to work - in fact, I'd bet it will only dig your grave deeper. I'm not even sure if it's too late to begin standing up for yourself or not, but for God's sake, at least try doing so for your own self-respect. Here's what I'd do: Next time, pre-emptively tell her that "you don't want to hear it". Catch her as soon as you see her, then straight up let her have it. Treat… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 06:33 AM |
| 8 | Skinny guy bulking upThere's almost no way for you not to gain with the help of peanut butter | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Women Lie alotlol It's like the letters ADD deserve to be stuffed somewhere into the word "millenial" by now | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 07:47 PM |
| 6 | new to the red pilldo you have any red pill advice for me. Take advantage of this living situation of your's: I live with multiple woman Study them as if they were a strange breed of insect that you find endlessly fascinating (i.e. eating habits, hygiene habits, consumption habits, how hypergamy affects them, what they talk about, how emotionally-driven they are, how they react to 'boring' subjects, what sort of guys they bring over, the relationship between what they say and what they do, how quickly they get ove… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | What is the advantage of being a man?You can try the trans-gender route if you're so bitter about being a man? Should only cost you several thousand $, some time away from your job for all the surgeries (including slicing off your dick) but look at the bright side - you'll never have to "work for it" ever again! | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Socialist Feminist author cedes that one of the core analyses of Redpillers is correct & needs addressingWasn't it about how women have agency except when something went wrong, then they have no agency and clearly were manipulated | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Ways to show confidence?Strong eye-contact and a strong sense of calm. The trick is to keep a steady cycle going where you interact/approach a handful of girls, go back to the theory (to assess what you did well and what needs work), then back to gaming, then back to theory, over and over until you start seeing results. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Past Authoring from Dr Peterson just triggered my anger phase again, I think.First, you duped yourself, not she duped you. Did she force you to stick around for four years with your dick locked up in a cage? Take responsibility for where you went wrong, and you'll at least begin to start fighting the fight you're supposed to be fighting - the one against your beta self. Next, Father Time will take care of her. He'll get you too eventually, but he'll get her first. I don't know what she looks like now, but if you think she'll be a smokeshow by her mid to late 30s, you're … | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Recently swallowed the pill. How do I behave continuing forward?So long as you're perfectly willing and prepared for any plate to walk out of your life, respond as you wish. The idea is to drill this mentality so deep into your psyche that you won't ever ask for the optimal response for specific situations because your frame will consistently show you the way. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 02:27 PM |
| 1 | So what's wrong with treating plate spinning and sex as a main "hobby"?How old are you? Look ahead and try to visualize the very real possibility of growing tired of fucking one girl after another after another after another. Sex-drive tapers off with age. People tend to evolve, yourself included. Your tastes will likely change. I'm not suggesting that you stop or reconsider - if you throughly enjoy plating, then plate away until you reach the point at which you think it's time to 'move on' - but keep that in mind, the day when this hobby will no longer excite you … | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I am in a weird situation right now, and I don't know how to use RP correctly and effectively.I have read all about the RP theory (shot testing kino raptore etc), but I am such a pussy to start applying them. I don't usually go out. Are you fishing this forum for someone to hold your hand? Throw you a surprise pity party? Because it seems like you know what you have to do, but simply aren't ...doing it. Set goals and knock them out. Definitely put "no more bitching/no more hamstering/procrastinating, no more self-loathing" near the very top, if not at the very top. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 12:56 PM |
| 1 | I have a gut feeling...His post clearly suggests that he's in the dark about what's going on. Two, yes, there is a considerable amount of emotional-attachment evident in his post (understandable - it's his girlfriend), and combined with his apparent lack of experience in these matters, he cannot just "up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right" on some controller to 'unlock' her relationship status and turn her into a plate. Maybe if he devours the sidebar, internalizes the theory, and implements it, he'll be able t… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Why Quality of Women Varies Enormously By LocationI know what you mean. A few years back now, I downloaded Tinder for the very first time when I was still living back home in Miami, and I got close to 40 matches in one week. Incidentally, I travelled up to Atlanta at the end of that week to visit a close friend, and racked up well over 200 matches in three days. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/17 08:30 AM |
| 12 | I have a gut feeling...Because that's next-level player shit that I highly doubt OP is even remotely prepared for (no offense to him). The fact that he's seeking advice through this post alone is a testament to that. Maybe he can pull that off down the line once he can laugh to himself because he knows from experience how these sorts of scenarios play out, but for now, he should ditch her entirely, move on, and go no-contact forever. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Americans who have been, how easy or hard has western europe been for you game wise?Last time I went (2010 and 2011), I discovered a little happy-accident of sorts by responding to the question "where are you from?" with "Miami" instead of "U.S.A." or "America" or "The States" or something like that (which my friend continuously insisted on, resulting in dry and meh reactions until I told him to start telling them what city specifically we're coming from) Nearly every single native seemed to perceive Miami as some sort of dreamland-paradise judging by their responses ("oh my go… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 04:41 AM |
| 3 | How to handle a new dog situation?I've been dating a plate for some months and now I'm thinking in upgrading her to a LTR. In my view, she just fucked it up for herself. Failed This is your apartment and your puppy - what's next? "Are you serious??? I don't like the shirt you're wearing - go put on another one" "I've always hated this bed - get another one" "I don't have forever you know - time to put a ring on me, your queen" "I don't have forever you know - time for kids" You want some solid insight into the character of anoth… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 04:23 AM |
| 4 | Should you still try with girls you screwed up on?Switch to this question for a second: "Are there millions of other women out there you haven't screwed up with?" Now return to your original question. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls love pop singers with beta male blue-pilled lyrics like Shawn Mendes?Absolutely true. I still remember when Akinyele's hit "Put It In Your Mouth" came out in '99 and the countless amounts of girls who'd repeat the lyrics - scream the lyrics - in the car on the way to the bar/club, at the bar/club, on the way back home in the bar/club, at school, wherever, without ever really taking a second to step back and ask "wait, am I not basically slut-signaling every time I repeat these lyrics out loud?" "Whatever! It's just like, a song! Ughhh" "...but yeah, I'm totally a… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 03:30 AM |
| 6 | I have a gut feeling...From experience, once a relationship goes sour the way you're describing, the worst thing you can do is fight until the very bitter end in hope of saving it. The mental suffering is simply not worth it. Perhaps the last hurdle is the drive to mate-guard and keep her from this shadowy figure lurking in the dark? Don't give into this trap - that's how you hold onto something that will drive you to the brink of lunacy, maybe all the way over the edge even and into the abyss. If you end it now, you … | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Early 20s, heading into career with high pay and brutal hours. Is it worth it from an RP perspective?How long will this gig go on for? What's the end game here? Forget the "red pill perspective", especially considering that you already have two insights into how this will likely turn out. Do you want this? This job will own you, and you ought to factor in that you might not even have much of a desire to roll out of bed on that day or two off from work considering the exhaustion. Think ahead. Are you trying to lay the groundwork to make partner at some point in the future? Are you trying to accu… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Walked out off 6year long relationship.Listen to everyone here telling you to delete her off your social media. You raise the issue of "weakness", but you're not fully thinking it through. What you are concerned about is being perceived as weak by her when you ought to be doing everything to get yourself to an indefinite state of indifference. If you care about whether or not she perceives you as weak, then you still care about her perception of you. Keeping her around on social media will fuck with your odds of getting to that point… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 07:20 PM |
| 15 | Where the women at?There are a lot of "right" answers to this one, but fitness is an especially good one because you'll knock out a few birds with one stone, those birdies being: 1) putting your stellar physique on proud (and very visible) display (and if you don't have a body that doesn't pull an eyebrow or two to the North, get on it) 2) sharpening your already (or en-route to being) chiseled physique 3) putting you in contact with women who prioritize the well-being of their bodies Yoga, running meetups, biking… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 04:33 PM |
| 6 | Is an LTR break acceptable if you initiate it?Quick thought-experiment: you follow through with this idea of your's to initiate a break, you go do your thing for a period of time, reach out to her again, and one of the following takes place - 1) she's single but has no interest in getting back together with you 2) you find out she now has a boyfriend and won't entertain doing anything with you 3) she's on the fence about getting back together with you because a Chad (or 3) have given her eye-rolling plowings while you were away and she want… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take?It took me somewhere in the range of a year and half. Everyone's oneitis recovery period has a variety of different variables factored into it, so, as an example, it's not like one guy lands a date with the oneitis of his life, that goes nowhere, he gets friend-zoned, and both he and every single guy faced with the same exact scenario will recover in 45 hours precisely. It doesn't work that way. We're not robots, everyone is different, and everyone's experiences are different. What took me a yea… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | My LTR is starting to look elsewhereSo you want to "salvage" this at any cost, even if that cost is every drop of your dignity and self-respect? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How to digest that women don't like men for what they are but for what they accomplished?What is your "true self" anyway? Not in a philosophical sense, but in a personal, average joe sense. Some regular guy with some regular shirt, working some regular job there and, you know, likes some regular stuff every now and then, living some regular life? Is this really the sort of guy you think women will spend hours talking about and losing sleep over? What does he have that at least 80% of other men don't have? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Sex with ex and how to go forthwe dont have much animosity and the sex was great. You clearly have your eye on the carrot but are hamstering away that spiked-stick ready to punish your transgressing-ass (perhaps in a sexual way again, but more likely in a seeing-red borderline kind of way) When a girl shows you that she's got a bat-shit joker card up her sleeve, you don't entertain any 'deals' - you bail. Make sure to let us know somewhere down the line how it turns out if your lust gets the best of you and you go back to you… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 05:27 AM |
| 2 | How can I lead people while respecting and loving them? I have resentment against people.Missed these questions. How did you learn these? The hard way - opting out of the white-collar world, working shit jobs, and learning how to 'make allies' with those fighting the same fight I was fighting. Are you repeating ideas or do you actually have these ideas? I'm speaking primarily from experience. Are you old? I'm 34. I want to be able to have some wisdom or use wisdom. I usually ignore wisdom. I am 25 and I'm newly paying attention. Get out there. Put yourself in tough situations. Keep … | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 05:03 AM |
| 1 | How can I lead people while respecting and loving them? I have resentment against people.Think of it as the best form of training in order to become the leader that you aspire to one day become. It will help you relate much more easily to those 'below' you once that time rolls around, you'll be able to bring back the memories of when you were there ("yes, I'll never forgot how awful working that entry level role was or how frightening my first fight as a white belt was, so I can sympathize with them, I can feel their fear, their confusion, their pain, I know what they're going throu… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Committed relationship - Social media presence on her accountsWill her social media relationship-status physically hold her back from cheating if she was so inclined? The only way you can 100% prevent her from cheating on you is to either: 1) physically restrain her 2) keep an eye on her 24/7 (ex. cameras, maybe some combination of you spying and/or someone else helping you out to know of her whereabouts Do you seriously want to follow through with either one of those options? I think you can answer this one. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How can I lead people while respecting and loving them? I have resentment against people.It's a very gradual adjustment, learning how to slowly flush out resentment and impatience with others, even seeing others as "stupid" or "weak". It helps greatly to put yourself in a very humbling experience, an area where you have little to no experience and are very vulnerable - there you can put yourself in a very real and literal position to feel what it's like to be at the bottom and at the mercy of others. From that point of view, you will find yourself able to develop your awareness for … | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 03:55 AM |
| 3 | RP has made me depressed over time.Keep deadlifting 1200 and you should be fine | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Plate tells me about lunch with her ex, then cancels the lunchIs this just another one of her "tricks" to try and convince me into one? Yes Do I address this at all next time I see her or just ignore it. Carry on as if it's too stupid and childish to utter even one more single little word about. What you are witnessing before you is classic female dread game. This is what she's trying to tell you: "Listen, I dig you, like really fucking dig you, but I want you to know that I have an option B - you're my option A, but please please please don't push me to s… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:29 PM |
| 2 | What are your tips/techniques/advice for how to maintain "frame?"Truly believe your own propaganda - that's the essence of it. How you piece together that propaganda is the other half of it. I'll give you a quick example: "I am the most confident motherfucker on this planet. I don't ever act confident because I am confidence." You will be on your way to developing your frame once you begin to completely buy into the belief that you can essentially condition your character to be whatever you will it to be. You can even configure your frame to swallow up "mista… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 11:05 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop being envious of "Top 1%" men?For starters, why do you want to reach the "top 1%" to begin with? Would you be ok with hitting, say, 50 years of age, and saying "well, I fucking hated every minute of the 26 years it took to build up this business I actually have zero genuine interest in, but at least I'm now a millionaire"? Also, are you aware that there will always be someone 'better' than you in some respect? Better looks, bigger muscles, bigger bank account, bigger business, bigger dick, bigger following etc. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 02:19 AM |
| 23 | The pill has me conflicted afIts all fucking fake. See, that's where you're wrong and possibly "conflicted" - it's actually all "fucking real", only now you're seeing through "the fake" to the truth. People seek value in some way, shape, or form, all the time, and often look for ways to 'level up'. Surprise! There's real joy in offering value to others though. The basic idea is to become 'valuable' first while learning to say no along the way (yes, there are manipulators and value-leeches out there, but don't fret - they're… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 02:06 AM |
| 6 | How to answer to an Ultimatum ?I wouldn't call that an "ultimatum", but that's a bit beside the point. I'm under the impression she's still willing to let you hit it, so if you're still interested in that sort of thing with her, I'd be succinct about it and respond with something like: "My place. Tomorrow night". That's it. Do not hash things out over the phone or over text. Be prepared for some sort of 'talk' from her ("so, where is this going? What happened between us?" etc.). Again, if you still want her, tell her you were… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 10:30 AM |
| 1 | need help with toxic manipulative "friend" gas lighting meMy god, you have it too (the horrendous grammar). Need to get that fixed if you want to be taken seriously in this World. Also, by your logic, if all you have is a conniving, crackhead 'friend' to "go out with", are you really going to tell me you'd go out with him because hey, who else are you going to out with? Your problems run deep, frendo | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 08:05 AM |
| 2 | need help with toxic manipulative "friend" gas lighting meI'd end the friendship mostly for the vicious, flagrant butchery of the English language. Consider this the equivalent of asking advice over an argument you had with an HB2 oneitis. The issue isn't who's "right" or who's "wrong", but why on God's green Earth are you even associating with this organism?? Ditch this sucka and get to work bigly on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Some advice requestedYou're essentially admitting that you're willing to settle for whatever to put an end to your drought. I've been there before, and it's a very bad place to be coming at the dating life from (you can argue the same applies to almost anything else in life, but I digress). Remember the old saying: "better alone than in bad company" | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Some advice requestedFirst, that strikes me as a great deal of distance to be traveling to meet a girl (your schedules being the insult to injury) Second, dude, your health and well-being cums before a woman does - always always always. Forget this fear of revealing "weakness" nonsense. Give her the head's up on your situation and let the chips fall where they may. When I put it all together, it sounds like way too much all-around hustle for one particular chick and a considerable amount of mental weakness on your e… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Im a feminine man and I hate all this "alpha" stuffId like to know your opinions and if this is counter productive for my self imñrovement No, I think I can relate to a greater extent, and I do considerably well too with the ladies. I'm an artist myself, but I draw the line on making it some contribution to the worldwide cultural-Marxist orgy by means of art, or becoming an emo, self-hating slug sporting a Che Guevara t-shirt and septum piercing like so many other artists. I'm also into fitness and lifting, but I don't want any part of the I-sho… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | What books do you guys recommend for being better in social situations or better with woman? Self love books?You have to learn how to both truly love and truly believe in yourself first if you want to get there. Your self-love and self-belief ought to spill over into the realm of the irrational, even, so that if you get rejected (and you will), you'll never think "damn, there it is again - proof that my repulsive-ass is worthless", but instead think something more in line with "that's too bad - shame she decided to choose a life without me" or a simple "lol". Edit: I know you originally asked about sel… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 11:43 AM |
| 4 | And red pillers here in an LTR? Looking for another point of view.LTRs are entirely doable, and although frame is paramount, it's not one that you have to dread, like holding in a massive log of shit with no nearby bathroom access ("omg! LTRs are TRP on hard mode! Must..hold...frame..at..all...times!!!!") Simply maintain the basics drilled into your mind and carry on accordingly: 1) she's never your's; it's only your turn (meaning, it's bound to end sooner or later) 2) your strongest card available to you is the ability to walk away when things are no longer s… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Receptionist I barely interact with has gone completely cold. Missed opportunity?It may not be "extreme oneitis", but this is how it typically starts, with a thread on a "gym receptionist" who OP only very recently learned her name and him scrambling for a way to "salvage" the big, fat nothingburger they have going on between them. Once you develop a keen eye for it, you don't even need more specifics to diagnose the situation, it becomes apparent that there's a core issue at work - scarcity mentality - and that's why it's encouraged to move on to other prospects and leave o… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Receptionist I barely interact with has gone completely cold. Missed opportunity?Is this just another lesson in moving fast when opportunity presents itself, or is there a chance to salvage this? Pretty neat that this happened at the gym, because this is more like another lesson in avoiding a scarcity mentality and building up abundance mentality 'muscle-mass'. What about the millions of other women roaming the globe? Go game them and forget this one. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 03:27 AM |
| 2 | My 30yo coworker has many plates and women love him... and he lives with his parents! How is he pulling it off???I was that guy many years ago (not 30, but approaching late 20s), living at home at the time, and I'd bang girls over and over on my squeaky twin-sized bed and they'd still cum back for more. There could be a number of ways to explain it, but one would be that when a girl has a very high level of attraction for a guy, she also has a very high level of forgiveness for arguably inexcusable characteristics and traits, such as still living at home when the guy in question ought to be (and likely eve… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 09:12 PM |
| 15 | How to respond to a nude while performing no contactYou're probably coming at this with the mindset of "how do I win in this sort of situation?" The answer is always "ignore". Where a lot of dudes going no contact get tripped up is in their knee-jerk compulsion to do something, to "respond" in a way that gives them the upper hand etc., but they often fail to realize that ignoring is a 'move' on the chessboard, and it's your strongest one considering the attention-seeking creature you're dealing with. You don't think she's thinking to herself that… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 11:10 AM |
| 4 | Mastered how to have one night stands. but now I want to learn how to improve my relationship skillsSure, it's "hard" to an extent, but it can be significantly made easier by: only entering into a LTR with a girl who's unmistakably into you (the less interest she demonstrates, the more mixed signals she sends, the more difficult the relationship will be, assuming you even get to that stage) constantly reminding yourself that it can end at any moment ("she's never yours, it's only your turn") (she can blindside you without you ever seeing it that she's simply not into you any longer for reasons… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 08:34 AM |
| 2 | One thing I've noticed is younger chicks don't seem to care about my career, only older women are impressed. Any thoughts?Downplay. Girl: "So what do you do?" You: "I'm in the medical field" If you want to go a little more specific without giving away too much, you could instead say something like: "I'm in Orthopedics. Deal with fractures, that sort of thing" See? You're neither bragging nor dodging, but revealing just enough. It's all frame, man. Nobody needs to know what you do exactly (and if they act like they do then you know who to avoid), and you don't need to be telling others what you do or who you are to … | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 07:54 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend's neediness is starting to annoy the shit out of meIf you don't make it clear to her that you're not an emotional guy (to use your own words), then she will continue to twist your arm over and over until you sing the song she likes. I don't know if it's intended to be manipulative, but it ultimately amounts to being so, meaning this can progressively be used to lay a foundation for a bed you may have zero intention of ever lying in (at least with this specific girl) some day (I'm talking marriage, babies/family, perhaps working a job you loathe … | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 07:39 AM |
| 6 | After being in a LTR for 5 years and being bluepilled, how do you change in the middle of the relationship without it being too drastic?One of the harder feats to achieve as far as TRP is concerned is turning around a relationship so that the man is unequivocally in the captain's seat and his girl is sitting beside, looking at him with awe and admiration, especially when he was riding coach for a long while or since the very beginning even. Do not conflate your personal mission with 'saving' this relationship if it is too-far gone or if it seems like there's no way for her to scrub the thought of you as her trustworthy little be… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What does this woman mean?Always reply with either "what?" or "huh?" anytime she ever says that to you. Grab and/or slap her ass each time you say it. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Returning to educationI'd only associate with the sharpest each class has to offer. Find them, befriend them, learn from them, and offer value in return however best you can (i.e. "life wisdom" as you'll have a decade and a half on most of the class probably) | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Girl giving mixed signals and it's getting oldThat said, I have zero investment in that chick Yet here you are, making a post asking how to untangle yourself from the "mixed signals" she's sending you. I'm basically aiming for her to outright reject me so that I next/ghost her ass for good. Is that the right idea or should I just cut contact anyway? Why do you need her to essentially dictate whether or not you continue to orbit her (which is, by the way, what's going on here - let's not try to fool ourselves) You're allowing yourself to be … | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Tips for new city and being freshly red pilledKnockout grad school first, then worry about getting a new circle of friends | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Ended it with my first LTR and first sexual partner, feel lostShe'll recover. She'll laugh about this years down the line with her friends ("omg! Remember how much ice cream I ate right after the breakup? lololol!") She'll also probably use the experience to console a friend going through whatever this girl is going through right now ("trust me, it gets better") She's still a teenager. Trust me, she'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 03:15 PM |
| 3 | What's your best AWALT story?I'm not sure this is my "best" AWALT experience, but I count it as one of the more important ones in leading me to the red pill some 8-9 months later. I worked with a girl a good year or so before we started fucking regularly. I was 100% her Chad. I didn't do relationships and only wanted freaky sex - that's it. She understood the terms of the deal and willingly obliged, constantly concerned that I might be seeing other girls beside her (dread), and always trying to up her game as a result (drea… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 01:22 PM |
| 17 | How do you know when it's time to end a relationship?The cost(s) begin to outweigh the benefit(s) and flipping the equation around becomes too exhausting of a task. To be a little more concrete, maybe sex is dwindling and bitchiness (on her end) is going up. Maybe now you suspect you're 'losing' her, so you begin to worry and demonstrate neediness (loss of frame) when that wasn't the case in the beginning. Personally, if I find myself consistently thinking about how to salvage a relationship to the point that I'm creating threads to seek advice or… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 12:40 PM |
| 13 | On Female Consequences and Ditching Your Revenge Porn FantasiesYou cough up the red pill each time you entertain revenge fantasies is one way of looking at it. You cannot be "red pilled" and indulge some recurring dream-scenario involving your ex or an entitled Instagram model-celebrity you've never met getting ripped apart by some contraption featuring surgically-implanted hooks you'd find in a Saw movie or some other sadistic horror flick. One step further, I'd say you can't be red-pilled and be so interested in the life of another person that you boil in… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/17 07:49 PM |
| 2 | How are some of you able to "next" people so easily?The more you depend on someone else for X (i.e. validation, comfort, money, purpose), the harder it will be to next them. That's all there's to it, really. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 12:03 AM |
| 4 | Sister cheated on her BF. How to approach the situationI have a younger sister (year and a half younger), so I can relate. One of the more terrifying things for a younger sister to come from her older brother is castigation in the form of harsh judgement, especially if she looks up to you. The shame and guilt will absolutely crush her if you viciously condemn what she did. Now, I'm not telling you to lean in the other direction and cushion her fall with some "you go girl!" bullshit, but don't kick her while she's down either. It's a little tricky, b… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Tips to a different state?Go for it and figure it out along the way. Once you do this, you'll likely demand to have your independence by doing whatever it takes to keep your own roof over your head. Don't worry about the social aspect at first. Your top concern should be building an excellent work ethic along with a strong sense of discipline and personal responsibility. Once you get that part down, then you can begin to give more attention to building up a social circle. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 10:49 AM |
| 2 | She gave me HPV, any legal options?If there is a way (with an attorney involved of course..) to get her to produce evidence that she's been both tested and made aware that she has what she gave you, then I'd imagine you have a pretty good case. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think AWALT?Are you trying to find holes in AWALT (no pun) in order to confirm NAWALT to be true (that is, prove NAWALT as a means to go out, find a unicorn and then be able to say to everyone - yourself included - "see? They exist, and I have one!) | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 02:20 AM |
| 10 | AWALT or how I managed to awake manipulative instincts on a seemingly innocent girlI'm not sure you're drawing the right conclusions here. From the details you've provided, I'm under the impression that the girl simply wasn't into you - that's all the "strange behavior" really amounted to. For future reference, don't disclose your cards to other people ("yo, I think that girl that works downstairs is mad cute bro. Thinking about running game on her. What do you think?" etc.) Also, next time a girl tries to "manipulate" you, try walking away from her without either saying a wor… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Why getting back with an Ex is a bad idea: your Cinderella is really the Paper Bag PrincessVery well-written, and can relate with virtually every single point. When I look back at the ride I allowed myself to be taken on with my ex, I can now smile because it dumped me right here, at the gates of TRP. I've been in the habit of taking screen shots and saving them for several years now, and only a few weeks ago while organizing some files on my MAC did I come across a trove of captures with chunks of text highlighted in each image, each bringing me back to my crumbling, desperate-for-an… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/17 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Why people are disgusted by low SMV people being attracted to themYes, but both sexes will use that to their advantage and go for someone beneath them (lower SMV than they have, but only so low...) if they are looking to heighten the odds of fidelity, pledges of absolute allegiance, adoration and "love" etc. Don't ever try explaining this particular brutal truth to someone who registers below a "5" or so - it probably won't end well. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/17 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Struggling to readjust to a new placeYou're choices are simple, really: double-down on your depression, sink into "complete isolation and lose the happy, positive you", or double-down on your efforts not to get sucked into a downward spiral and work harder than you've ever had to become the toughest, most resilient, most optimistic version of you that's existed to date. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Shit tests in a LTR; Wanting me to hang out with her guy friends.You're being dishonest (with yourself, ultimately). You said in one of your opening lines that she "always" had a lot of guy friends. That right there is a red flag screaming for your attention. You missed it. Make sure you keep your eyes peeled for the next one. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Shit tests in a LTR; Wanting me to hang out with her guy friends.Trying to figure out what the next move is with girls like this one will tear your sanity apart at the seams. You bit off more than you could chew. Whatever. Happens. Don't let this girl drive you mad trying to keep up with her/how to counter her rolodex of orbiters/ how to handle "gym guy" etc. Better to tap out of this one and go back to the drawing board for a bit for a stronger return into the ring. It's probably better for your own sake to go ahead and end it sooner rather than later in ord… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 10:09 AM |
| 3 | What should I do about my LTR situation?I'm going to take a wild guess here that that same personality trait was responsible to some extent for drawing her in once upon a time, but for some reason or another, attraction took a dip, and now the personality she once found endearing she currently finds annoying and off-putting. If you "filter" yourself, you're actually going to dig the ditch deeper because you're going to become a diluted and bland version of yourself that the both of you will dislike, causing her attraction level (low) … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 09:52 AM |
| 5 | What does a LTR offer you that benefits you?The grass is always greener on the other pesticide. lol Agree with everything, but this was just brilliant | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | What's your stance on your girl smoking?I find smoking itself profoundly disgusting, and basically everything else linked to is disgusting as well (the smell it leaves on clothes, in the house, in the car, in the breath, the mucus-heavy coughing, the irritability when a craving arises etc.) I had an ex who decreased her usage to only a casual cigarette here and there on the weekends when out with friends because I maintained a hardline policy that if she wanted to smoke, I'd find a way to either disappear or tune out if I couldn't phy… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Plate girls with a Chad?"If you find Buddha Chad on the road, kill him." The more you care about Chad, the more power you feed him. Your best bet at out-Chadding Chad is to treat him as a faceless nobody. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Bitch Slap MeI'll give you two paths from which you will choose from: you walk ... You know that is what you must do, but, ahhh! The sex! It's just ...man! It's so fucking good! "Fellas, hit me upside the head with a 2 x 4! but please tell me there's hope for this one to work someway, somehow! Please!!!" you stay ... You drown out the voice of reason wherever it shows its face and chain yourself to a life of pain and suffering. You (continue) to hamster that a (dwindling) piece of ass here and there makes it… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Sex with an Ex that cheated on me. Am I being a fucking idiot or am I just playing a game with her?if I'm being honest, she's a smokeshow and the sex is better than what the other girls have been like. And you must be honest with yourself, lest you perish by the fire of your own base cravings. Your understanding of how the game works is competing against the powers of sizzling pussy. Dry, lifeless text is no match against a round ass, a pair of perky tits, and a wet, tight vagina aching to be mercilessly drilled by you. Do I really have to tell you which is bound to win out in the end if this… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 07:39 PM |
| 2 | A very useful set of tips when cold approaching. From a waiter that earns quite a bit in tips.Good post, and can relate as someone with a decent amount of experience waiting tables. One more key point to extract through the eyes of a waiter specifically: don't freak out; there will be more tables, so keep your cool if one seems to be en route to falling off the rails (or already has). Don't let it screw up the rest of your day. Sometimes, your expectations are completely flipped, so the table you surely thought you'd get a massive tip from leaves you squat, and the table you thought woul… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 07:10 PM |
| 1 | According to TRP, what is the complete man?Please take note that the title of your post and the "TL;DR" differ slightly in that one asks what is "the complete man according to TRP", and the other "in your eyes?" Those who have swallowed the pill should ultimately strive to figure out the latter, but understanding first the basic framework of the former is bound to help a great deal in reaching that point. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 06:52 PM |
| 9 | [FR] She wants monogamy and a boyfriend when her pussy isn't getting her what she wantsMakes total sense. Which one of us wants a woman who fundamentally operates along the lines of "nothing is true; everything is permitted"? And I say this as an agnostic myself. There's little doubt that hypergamous impulses stand a better chance of being kept in check by a religious girl than one lacking any sort of faith (but only a fool or typical blue-piller would be led to believe that a faith, religion or ideology could fully suppress the power of her emotions) | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Controlling vs. LeadingI think permitting her to cross boundaries (to the point of encouraging her even) and then taking her back (out of "loyalty" and "honor") is a perfect recipe for blowing your feet right off. Whether she vocalizes it or not, she will have received evidence that there is little to nothing to fear with you personally or as far as losing you to free-agency/another girl. No fear of any repercussions of any sort. If you think you will convey to her that you are a "man's man", a "man of his word", an "… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 08:49 PM |
| 11 | My 3 step guide to an awesome first approach.Do you understand myopic, retarded oversimplifications? Guess not. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/17 08:41 PM |
| 8 | My 3 step guide to an awesome first approach.If the person in Miami isnt Cuban, they are probably from N.Y.. Jesus your cup (of stupidity) runneth over | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/17 08:13 PM |
| 2 | My 3 step guide to an awesome first approach."Dumb" or not, we do that in Miami too, so add that to your (growing) list of places where girls are commonly referred to as "guys" when in a pack. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/17 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Controlling vs. LeadingOf course it's difficult. I think only someone who was never emotionally connected at all would find it to be a walk in the park. Take solace in that 1) you know what you have to do and 2) if you take her back you do so at your own peril | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Controlling vs. Leading"Gf who's currently in a different country for the Summer" - oh God, no. Just, no no no. You can't control her, only yourself, and forget "leading" a girl from thousands of miles away, let alone one you won't be seeing in person for what? months? and one who (now) wants to scope out an amusement park with another guy (that good 'ol hypergamy DNA - it's a bitch, I tell ya) You can 'keep' her, but time to bring her down a notch or two to plate level, and it's definitely time for you to explore doi… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Plates and them knowing of other platesIf a girl thinks she has open access to things like my computer, phone, notebooks etc., then I know something's wrong, and it's usually that either I haven't sent the message that there's a sacred modicum of privacy I'm absolutely entitled to, she has received the message and either doesn't care or is testing, or I sent the wrong message some way, somehow (i.e. "oh yeah, I'm a total open book! Mi casa es tu casa! Like, literally! lol") Part of my personal frame is that if she crosses one of thos… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 06:22 PM |
| 1 | What advice can u give for someone going into sales?Learn from your rejections (and the number of rejections will far outnumber the number of closed sales, in all likelihood, so it would behoove you to get used to rejections). Treat your rejections more as feedback than as something to beat yourself up over. A couple of questions for the sake of self-analysis: Am I coming across as pushy? Would I want to have a conversation with me if I was someone else? Am I afraid to go for the close? Do I know how to control/steer the interaction without comin… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Need opinions of guys who are average height or close to itI think it's for the best that you learn how to make peace with that (scratching off any interest in her sexual history), regardless of which road you opt for: playing the game and understanding that sometimes you will be a woman's greatest Chad ever (i.e. the one permitted to do whatever he desires to her body, perhaps the one to alpha-widow her once you two part ways) playing the game and understanding that sometimes you will be a woman's greatest Chad up until now (i.e. also the one permitted… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 08:19 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend has massive pain during penetration. - What to do?I crossed paths with a girl with (presumably) this once. Tightest vagina I've ever experienced in my life (I'm talking, nearly asshole-tight), and you'd think that necessarily also amounted to the best sex imaginable, but it was, in fact, the complete opposite. Girl grimaced every single time I inserted, and the sex couldn't go on for longer than 5 minutes before she'd start to ask if I was going to cum soon (because the pain was reaching excruciating levels). There's no hope in these sort of ca… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Is there a word for this?The word for that sort of behavior? annoying The word for consistently putting up with that sort of behavior? spineless You have to draw the line somewhere. Ignore her until she gets the hint. If she doesn't change her behavior and you continue to allow it, then shame on you. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 08:02 PM |
| 7 | How would you respond to this shit test?You're going to eventually crack if you allow yourself to slip into a mindset where you must always be prepared to shoot from the hip or be shot down yourself (by shit-tests, in this case) Other options always at your disposal are: - Pretending you didn't hear it - Taking as long as you wish to respond (if you'll respond at all) because you aren't the type to be pressured into doing or saying things you don't want to do - Smirk, then continuing whatever it was you were doing I probably would hav… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Older man with a LTR of a younger woman, parents are cockblocking and forcing her to break up.The best move you should make in this case would be to get a girl who lives within driving range of where you live. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Plate vs. LTRThen you need to be absolutely clear and put the burden on her to know the difference, but at the same time it looks like you want to "minimize risk" while also maximizing the best of both worlds (i.e. I get to have sex with this girl, cuddle her, take her on "road trips", cherish her, then have both of us carry on as if it's just a fuck-buddy thing we have going on) Be more honest with yourself first. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Plate vs. LTRThat's the risk that comes with playing the game. Don't want to get hurt (or cause anyone to get hurt), then don't play. Can't have it both ways. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Older man with a LTR of a younger woman, parents are cockblocking and forcing her to break up.First things first, it's always a case of AWALT, "she's not yours, it's only your turn". To think otherwise is to start entertaining the possibility that 1) unicorns exist 2) zomg! I think I caught one! I digress. In your case, what are you going to do? Forbid her from talking to her Mom? Gaslight her Mom in return? This can happen in a number of other ways, like a friend telling her you're "too old", or "crazy" or "a loser" or something else discrediting. Focus on being the best "you" and getti… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Plate vs. LTRLook at it this way: if you want to keep them as plates, then you must err on the side of coldness and distance (i.e. sex only). Once you start permitting warmth and affection to come in (i.e. "going out to eat, short trips"), then you've also begun laying the foundation for an LTR whether you like it or not. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Girl being weird afHow do you know? I've been gaming 3 other women and had sex with one 2 days ago. Because (according to you) this is the second post you make about gaining the services of a specific girl. You could have no other girls but this one, you could have a thousand girls in addition to this one, but the mindset is not there if you're pining after one in particular and she's not reciprocating. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 05:36 PM |
| 3 | What is this pain fromGet a full-panel STD test while you're at it. It could very well be Chlamydia (a breeze to clear up btw, so don't fret), but absolutely go out and make sure what it is. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Girl being weird afStep 1? Let this specific girl go. You're too hung up on her, and she's running circles around you. I didn't read your last post, but this post alone demonstrates that the more you try with this one, the further you'll sink into a gelatinous pile of anxiety-driven betaness. Step 2? Try to get several girls to text, any other girls but this one. If one doesn't respond, or takes forever to respond, or ignores questions of yours via text - whatever - you'll learn how to move onto the one that actua… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 05:25 PM |
| -3 | About 60+ hrs w/no alcohol so far. Thoughts & advice pleaseThat's painful to read. Check yourself into detox if you absolutely must. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Should I forgive LTR or next?I'd either bring her down to plate level or next completely. Going from LTR to plate level will likely present its own challenges and probably culminate in an implosion of the relationship anyway, leaving you with pulling the plug completely, which you ought to strongly consider for the sake of your own self-respect and to put an end to feeding your hamster (which your posts suggests you've already done plenty of). Edit:this part is extremely relevant the sex is pretty great Many of us have been… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Nothing excites me anymore...Some of the best 'medicine' in your case may be something that humbles you, something that knocks you to the ground and leaves you dazed and confused (perhaps literally too). Try your hand at some martial art (preferably one where you can both hit and get hit) and see if that rattles your system. Try taking up some form of dance and see if you can make it through without dancing like a complete buffoon. Try going to a live drawing session and see how your drawing of the model compares to some of… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Study: There aren't enough good men because they were raised by womenThat statement would piss off so many divorced men with man-boobs in more ways than one | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/17 10:52 PM |
| 4 | What am I doing wrong on Tinder?He's trying to tell you that Tinder is a complete waste of time unless you look like Johnny Depp (or are Johnny Depp). If either of those two applies to you, then keep on keeping on. If not, delete and take your game to the streets (literally) | /r/askTRP | 13/06/17 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here managed to go from socially awkward kid to suave kind of guy? If so, what was your transition story?It sounds like you're already en route to becoming that guy. Don't rush or force it. Keep chatting people up. Ask more questions and ask better questions. Sparingly give compliments. Be honest and compassionate. Try to be genuinely interested in the other person (or people) you are holding a conversation with. It will all slowly come together with time (as it already is) | /r/askTRP | 13/06/17 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Regaining my old self - or - How do I become more confident (again?)You can't step in the same river twice. Your "old self" is dead. That was another person in another time. The new you will be built on the ashes of every version of "you" that's existed up until now, including the version(s) you'd rather sweep under the rug and keep out of sight. Perspective can be a hard thing, but over-thinking can fuck things up badly for you and make a challenging situation seem virtually impossible. Less thinking, more doing - make that your mantra from now on. I'm not tell… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Is this work environment normal, am I being overworked or is this normal?Not all managers are the same, but this is where your negotiation/persuasion skills come into play. You can't dread management. A lot of this comes down to your specific line of work too. If you're in an industry that's known for brutal hours, then I don't know what else to tell you besides finding a new job or a new industry altogether. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Is this work environment normal, am I being overworked or is this normal?Don't let panic and anxiety contribute to the wear and tear. If you have to ask for a day off here and there to recover, then do it. Also, save as much $ as you can in case you can't handle the load and need to bow out to find a new job. Talk with your manager (or whoever does your schedule) if the hours are too overwhelming. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Should I trust my gut feeling over what my girlfriend says?Don't sweat it then. You're both very young. Whatever happens, there will be many, many more. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Is this work environment normal, am I being overworked or is this normal?Wherever you can squeeze in time for physical fitness, no questions asked, do it. An over-worked, tired, but in shape man stands a far better chance than an over-worked, tired, out-of-shape man, both in work and out of work. If this drags on for too long (I'm talking somewhere between half a year to a year or so), then you probably should either clear things up with a manager or find a situation that suits you and your family better. To clarify, when you say "every day", do you mean Monday throu… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Girl complaining about bar i choose before we get thereThat's fine. That's what this sub is here for. Get a chick that's all about you and wants to be your own little personal fucktoy and these "issues" will completely vanish all on their own. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Girl complaining about bar i choose before we get thereLearn this: not replying, remaining silent, going no-contact etc., all of those are "moves" (and often, very good ones at that, depending on the context of course) Don't succumb to some feeling that you must "do" something (i.e. write something back, either witty, or pointed, or "masculine" or anything like that) She doesn't merit any more of your time. Ignore her unless she sends something so obvious and overt that even the most densely autistic virgin couldn't fumble it if he tried, something … | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Girl complaining about bar i choose before we get thereYou really want to clear this many hurdles to simply get a girl alone on a date? Too much hassle. Either she herself is annoying, not into you, or worse: both. I'd throw this one back out into the sea. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 10:48 AM |
| 3 | Should I trust my gut feeling over what my girlfriend says?No, you're not "crazy", but this sort of thing can certainly drive you in that direction, and that's something you certainly don't want to lose sight of. I think you've seen enough, so resist any temptation to start digging for dirt, because as the saying goes, you will find some. I think you're onto something, sure, but it's not anything I'd break up with her over either. How long have you two been together, and what are your respective ages? The way I take your situation is that she's probably… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Scared of being scoldedBecause having a solid frame must become your entire character, not something you do a few 'reps' of until you tire and then retreat to the couch huffing and puffing. It has to become you and not a 'fad' of sorts, not a mask that you eventually remove because you find it uncomfortable and weird and so-not "you". May the pain of rejection be the master that finally drills the concepts into your mind - for good - necessary to get the vag (and others things in life) that you desire. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 08:09 AM |
| 1 | I finally got a placeThis is it right here. Keep your place as tidy as possible at all times as well. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 06:03 AM |
| 4 | Masturbation and it's effects - does anybody else feel a loss of drive after fapping?Don't mind him and his full-blown autistic understanding of AMOGing. He does that shit all the time. Autists gonna autist. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 05:56 AM |
| 2 | How do you become a great conversationalist?talk to as many people as you can (preferably, people you've never met, but people you've recently met works too). Talking to old friends is good practice too, but it won't push you like talking with someone you've just met. find someone you regard as a great conversationalist in your own personal life. Carefully observe them when they engage another person or a group of people. Watch their body language, watch what they say, what they don't say, the topics discussed, the tone, the flow, how the… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 05:48 AM |
| 1 | THE ART OF MONEY GETTING: or The Golden Rules for Making MoneyREAD THE NEWSPAPERS Always take a trustworthy newspaper, and thus keep thoroughly posted in regard to the transactions of the world. He who is without a newspaper is cut off from his species. In these days of telegraphs and steam, many important inventions and improvements in every branch of trade are being made, and he who don't consult the newspapers will soon find himself and his business left out in the cold. Heh This section would have read very differently (or cut out altogether?) if writt… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/17 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Stood up by 1 yr LTR tonightNot bad. Now you'll be able to quite easily tell how much she values the relationship from this point forward. Be prepared to walk at any moment in the future if she crosses your boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Gym game?You can try talking to her, or not. If you do, it may lead to a nice little surprise (#, then date, then hanky-panky?), or it may lead to another post titled: "Guys, gamed this girl at my gym, now things are super awkward. Advice?" If you don't, well, nothing lost, but nothing gained either. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Advice for a young maleCareer (school), finances, development of social skills by engaging with as many people as possible. Lay a solid foundation, and you'll reap the rewards a bit later in life. No need to rush anything at the moment. Get perspective. Habitually take some time to ponder the big questions, like "what do I want to do with my life?" Everything is secondary to that one, I'd argue. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:43 AM |
| 2 | FUCKProgress is not linear. In fact, it looks something like a heart-rate monitor, but sometimes the line even shoots both down and backwards before going forward again, let alone even up. You were done a solid by (let's say) the universe, in a way, forced to choose between submitting or rising to the challenge. There will be more 'tests' like this one, and that's a good thing. Use them to your advantage. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Should I ditch these guys?Slowly begin to go your own separate way by becoming less and less available. The guy you don't want to become is the self-righteous dick who can't resist the urge to preach to his "loser friends" that they ought to "lift" and should "take a shit on anything feminism-related" and "dude, you just don't get it - she's never yours; it's only your turn", blah blah blah. So if the "bro, you've changed" observation ever comes up with a crabs-in-bucket- undertone, simply roll with something like "yeah,… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Complete ApathyPlease don't take this as some covert attempt to steer you towards "NoFap", but do you even PMO (that's essentially "jerk off to porn" in NoFap vernacular - I digress). According to many (myself included), porn has a way of generating sentiments of apathy regarding women, but maybe this isn't your case? I'd be more curious with your case if you already abstain from porn and are, say, under 40 or so. I myself do not have any personal experience with sinking into a state of indefinite apathy and n… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Stood up by 1 yr LTR tonightHow did it play out? I hope you didn't flip out on her or berate her, because these sort of situations are better handled with ice than with fire. The idea is to build your frame around a mindset like: "If my time is not important to you, then the attention I provide you with is not important to me" The hardest part about this stage involves holding back from becoming one massively passive-agressive monster (although, in a way, it is rather inevitable with the removal of attention and overall wa… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 09:11 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else secretly wish they were a male pornstarThe experience itself is very fake though. Girls are acting (to some degree at least), you have God knows how many people on the other side of the camera shining bright lights at you and telling you to switch position etc., a lot of the girls are actually pretty nasty when the makeup comes off, not to mention the junkie lifestyle purportedly existing in that World. I suspect there's more hype than substance to the whole thing, to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 06:29 AM |
| 3 | Fear of rejection has held me back most of my life.Most men are like this - terrified to walk up to a girl for fear of what comes next. Understand that if you cross over to the other side, everyone else will recognize you for having the brass balls they believe it takes to simply strike up conversation with a member of the opposite sex. Keep that firmly in mind the next time you see a girl you want to talk to. Convince yourself that you don't want to be like every other chump, and that you are capable of doing something majority of men are too t… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl has shown interest but posts screenshots of guys she's ignoring as they are hitting her up on her Instagram.Let's ask one for him: OP, do you know what a question is? Because one is needed around these here parts, thus the name of the sub "askTRP" | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 06:00 AM |
| 2 | How do you approach women on the street of a city where it's standard operating procedure to completely ignore strangers? - Yes, NYC.Take pointers from those dudes patrolling parts of the bigger subway stations and the streets soliciting passerbys. They typically get someone to stop by means of a question, then segue into their pitch. You have to be this aggressive in NYC (I live here, so I know), or odds are that they'll simply keep walking with zero interest for you or anything bound to come out of your mouth. Borrow from their style and tweak it until you get something that works. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 06:00 AM |
| 3 | Am I the only one who is routinely disappointed, once her clothes come off?WOW | /r/askTRP | 08/06/17 04:45 PM |
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