I always have that "coach" mindset, especially when online. I always try to help people with their problems and sure its great to an extent, going out of my way to help them is hurting me. Instead of focusing on improving myself and fixing the things I know what I need to fix, I help other people with the same or similar problems. How do I fix that? How do I start fixing my problems (which I pretty much know the solution) instead of helping other people and ignoring my problems?