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I can see why he hasn’t been with anyone in months.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:21 AM
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Is it just me or does this scrote not make any sense at all? He’s literally talking in third person then makes a switch to first person. But then he goes on about how he would smack the moose in the head like wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:52 PM
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I cringe when I hear let’s have a walk date. Especially if they set up a walk date close to the area they live near. I’m not a dog, I don’t need to be walked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:16 PM
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Omg girl, the first one about the man dragging you out just to get your phone number? Damn well that man should have known that you were 15! To the last tip as well, yes. I always thought that it would be okay to talk to an ex at my house or his. Nope, the same thing that happened to you, happened to me. It actually put goosebumps on me because I remembered how I thought I was going to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:17 AM
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I wish I could too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:48 AM
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Honestly I was so pissed. I didn’t even look. I thought it was a joke. I had to replay it 5 times to make sure I was seeing it correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:06 PM
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He’s asking a girl why she’s insecure then goes and says things that would make someone insecure. I’m asian and even though I typically only date outside my race. Attraction is attraction. He’s pretty ignorant in terms of what he thinks a “typical” asian girl looks like. My moms side of the family all are thick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:40 PM
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I’ve been personally traumatized by even ramen too 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:22 PM
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At this point, I’ve told my parents that they’re 6 billion people out there. Everyone is replaceable. I’m not staying and ruining my sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:58 PM
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Also your surroundings deeply influence mindset too as well. My parents generation were taught to just “stick shit through”, that things will get better. Yeaaaaaah, no. This mentality is toxic and I realized a lot of women are being fed this advice from their friends or family members. Shit doesn’t get better, you just deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:35 PM
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I realized some people just ask for advice solely because they aren’t confident in the choice they were going to make prior and having someone else confirm their choices makes them feel less alone. At this point now, If I give someone advice once or twice and they don’t end up taking my advice. The next time around I tell them straight up, don’t ask for my advice if you already know what you’re going to do. It’s frustrating because you want to help, but they never listen anyways 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:14 AM
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He obviously must not own any mirrors in his house. He doesn’t get enough action in his normal day to day life. He has to create commotion so anyone will even pay attention. Might even low key be interested in Indian women and this is his lure to draw them in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:37 PM
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Only one dude out of those five knew how to even create a sentence. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:03 AM
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She obviously hasn’t seen what isolation has done to people in this pandemic. If I’m blocking someone, I’m doing it because I want to. No ones telling me what I can and cannot do. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:40 PM
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His ankles look ashy 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:21 PM
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Does your friend or you have any pictures of each other on your pages? If so, he must have a pretty good understanding that you guys must know each other or are friends. I’ve had instances where this has happened before and I usually just tell the man that I’m not into “homie hoppers.” There are six billion people out there. I’ll find another one eventually. Next ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:15 PM
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He’s already screaming “IM THE POSSESSIVE TYPE.” & that if he doesn’t get his way, he impulsively acts out. Bye scrub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:29 AM
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I completely agree that majority of the men OLD are either fuckboys, creeps or la basura. Even living in a decent sized city, some of the guys that I’ve seen out and look familiar are the same ones OLD! Therefore I realized, if you cannot approach me in person but are actively exchanging messages with me. Bye ✌️ Ive also encountered too many married men on there. I don’t have the time and patience anymore to deal with bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:35 PM
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At what point did this dude think it was okay to joke around with shit like this? I call bullshit. He definitely thought about hitting her, especially because they were in a heated argument. He also knew she was in an abusive relationship prior which makes it even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:03 AM
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If he apparently wasn’t “attracted” to her in the first place. Why did he even date her? Bullshit, He’s obviously trying to kill her self confidence so she ends up staying because she doesn’t think she can get anything else. Trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:13 PM
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He doesn’t want to watch movies in a confined space but wants to come over? This dude is obviously cheap and broke 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:36 AM
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I love this so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:09 AM
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Thanks babe, I am & hope you get through this too. Nope, nothing will ever be good enough for these men. It’s only because they can’t even be good enough for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:40 AM
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I’m sorry you went through this. Trust me, it doesn’t get better. My ex did the same exact thing and I only felt that way because I myself was not comfortable with my own self. You have to learn to love yourself because if you don’t. You let men or even people in general dictate your self-worth. I eventually ended up losing so much weight I looked sick. I would constantly worry about what I ate and I went to the gym twice a day for months on end. No matter how tiny I got, I still thought I was f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:31 PM
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I completely agree with others that at this point you should not be dating. You mentioned that your psych stated you’re still in a grieving process and that alone is daunting. Dating on top of that would only further create more emotional baggage. I literally left a two and a half year mentally and physically abusive relationship and vowed to myself I wouldn’t do it again to only get back into another long ass abusive relationship because I jumped back into dating way too soon. I’ve officially b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:21 AM
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Suuuuuper low value behavior in general. How long have you guys been together? Sounds more like a kid to me then a man, especially since he’s whining about getting up at 6am. Don’t put up with that shit because could you only imagine that if you let this behavior continue. Two to three years from now? Oh hell no. Girl, we can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:44 AM
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I feel like he is contacting you because he thinks he has a chance again. the fact that he thinks you’ll accept that shit because you did for your husband is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:35 AM
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He’s literally saying “ I don’t give a fuck about your feelings or you. “ The audacity of this LVM. For him to email you too? Pft, BYE SCROTE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:30 AM
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I use to have a shit ton of piercings and actually had my nipples double pierced. TBH they got infected and never healed correctly. I feel like if your body is rejecting the piercing I would listen to it. Piercings are also a form of expression but like others mentioned. If you had the piercings to create attention for yourself from men then that would be pickmeisha attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:15 AM
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I realized that my ex had already wasted enough of my time. I didn’t want to waste anymore. I had to go through a phase of acknowledgement that anger and resentment were bound to happen. This comes along with sadness too. I know it’s hard at the moment, but every time I felt that anger come on. I would tell myself “look, you’re a bad ass bitch. He’s not even worth the energy.” Then I’ll go look for positive vibes or positive things to do like listen to podcasts or exercise. We deserve better, we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:53 AM
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Congratulations 🎊 I’m on the same boat as you. I no longer am in a constant state of anxiety and have so much love for myself it’s amazing. “ I can do bad all by myself “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:39 AM
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Are you me? I legit stopped dating because I realized I needed to fix my mindset and to stop relying for men’s validation if I didn’t receive a text back after a date. I would get all in my feels and spiral down a negative mindset that would mentally put me in a shitty mood and made me think I would never be good enough. When you see yourself as a HVW. No longer will you care about these NVM. If someone can’t maintain a consistent vibe with me. Bye 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:37 AM
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QUEEEEEEN 🙌 I never realized how much I value my freedom until I’ve became single. Here’s to one and a half years of dealing with no ones shit but my own ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:43 AM
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Whoa, hold up. Did we date the same guy? Because honestly I can’t even begin to explain the fact of how similar my situation is to yours. I’m with you 100%, never settling for little boys anymore. icandobadallbymyself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:36 PM
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I totally get it, but don’t define your self worth from other people’s opinions. I get the ego blow, because I had such an issue with that before. It only sent me down to suuuuper depression mode and I started hating myself because I thought my value needed to be defined by someone else. Fuuuuuuck that. You’re in your 20’s, still developing. Don’t settle baby girl. Keep developing yourself and someone will come along. It’s better to be single and wait then be tied up in a toxic ass relationship …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:17 AM
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The mashed potatoes reference had me dying. This post gave me life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 01:47 AM
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I legit thought nobody else would talk about this trash ass man. LA BASURA The smirk he kept on his face the whole time 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:28 AM
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The STD situation might not be the only red flag in his post. His poor articulation in the way he projects this concern is disgusting. Do people still use “u” for you? 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:19 PM
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My friends and I were just discussing over the weekend and honestly size matters 100%. If we’re talking about blow jobs, okay maybe then to a certain extent but come on now. The worst situation is when you’re so attracted to a guy and hit it off to only find out after coping a feel that the penis is non-existent. nosmalldickteamhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:42 PM
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This actually makes me angry vs scared. The fact that her neighbor thinks it’s okay to intrude in her space with no regards to her privacy. I don’t care if it was a man or a woman at that point. I would legit have a ring doorbell installed or a security system installed to have activity be monitored or recorded at all points. I don’t care, you’re not going to fuck with my sanity or privacy ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:35 PM
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He’s back in my neck of the woods again. I’m interested in why he keeps moving back to the same area thinking that he won’t bump into the same women he’s dated or talk to before? Also the fact that he thinks his old flings would even attempt to match back with him on bumble. He’s clearly stating he doesn’t know what he wants but he doesn’t want the other women to be talking to other guys? Lolllllllllll ok, no. Bye Joe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:19 PM
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Oh god, no def bad idea to the max. Especially if you have caught him cheating. You don’t know if he’s going to put you in harms way by catching something from someone else and then giving it back to you. Dick is so easy to find nowadays that if you really needed sex. You could get it, real easy. I also have been in your same standpoint and I realized the longer I kept that toxic person in my life. The longer I was prolonging my healing process. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:31 AM
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YASSSS QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:08 PM
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I recently have been going through the same thing. I kinda hold off on dating when I’m not at my best because I know if I’m looking for a HVM in the future that I need to be my best self. But I realized that I shouldn’t isolate myself from certain things or people because of physical attributes. I take it as a process, that way I’m not stressing and going crazy over losing weight, because I have been there. I don’t want to be in that mindset again. Loving yourself at every stage is something I’m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:22 AM
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What dating app is that? Is it similar to SA?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:17 PM
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