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This will be my last post, it was entertaining until now but I've decided it's unethical to mess with retarded people and fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:02 PM
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There was prominent German woman, one of the singers of the No Angels, who had unprotected sex with several men and infected one with AIDS, while not telling them she had AIDS even though she was aware she had it. Her punishment was 2 years probation and some community service. I think she received some kind of LGBT acceptance price a year after the sentencing. That about sums up my thoughts on Aids
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:00 PM
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I make deliberately trollish deranged posts all the time and they stay up, but when I make an effortpost with studies and everything it gets blocked. This whole subreddit is a gay psyop and I advise everyone to leave now. Also all the mods are gay and have AIDS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:43 PM
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So why make a title about inspiring carnal desire in women and then recommend something that does the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:28 PM
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Women love abusive Chad, it's exciting for them, like bungee jumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:21 PM
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I read this book when I was 18/19 and acting like that in the modern world just makes people think you are weird and gay. Blast from the Past (1999) only works if you look like Brendan Fraser. Also it's not really a book about making romantic connections it's more about the business side of things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:56 AM
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Yes I read this book when I was 18/19 and I tried to apply it for a few years. Trying to act like the book describes definitely will make people think you are weird and gay, and if you are not good looking nobody will be attracted. It's an entirely different world now. Also the book is not really giving dating advice it's more about making business connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:53 AM
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I'm German and I think the French are a bunch of corrupt, tasteless degenerates. Their bread is nice, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:06 AM
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Doesn't match my experience but just believe whatever works for you I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:30 AM
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The dating pool also gets narrower for women as they age. For every single mom a deadbeat dad gets added to the pool, for every woman who gets married a good guy drops out. Most men go fat and bald as they age so if you can just prevent these things from happening you'll be in the top tier when it comes to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:36 AM
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Yet men use words like isolation and solitude. So do women And generally men in most studies and anecdotes express more loneliness and less deep friendship bonds. Not really. Also women are pursued more and ostracized less so they have an easier time forming bonds in some form
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:54 AM
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women have also grown lonelier. In some surveys women are reported to be just as lonely or even lonelier than men. Women also attempt suicide more often and are more dependent on meds to function. with the rise of technology, interpersonal relationships have become less important. When you have a question, need advice, or simply want to vent, you don't need to turn to your neighbour anymore and face a potentially icky social interaction. Instead people now turn to their computer for that stuff. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:18 PM
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Bruh I literally pointed out how one of the researchers is a man. Has nothing to do with 'em being women and everything to do with feminist research being their profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:20 PM
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Study done by: Aife Hopkins-Doyle Areas of specialism : Gender; Sexism; Collective action; Feminism; Political ideology > Aino Lilja Petterson Academic interests: Prejudice & discrimination, Intergroup relations, Ideology & social hierarchies, Gender & sexism, Political psychology, Moral judgments Robbie Sutton Research interests: Just world-beliefs, Conspiracy beliefs, Immanent Justice reasoning, Gender, sexism and inequality (Professor Sutton sounds like he would have a field day on Reddit, lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:58 PM
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What's so hard to rationalize about a pump and dump? It just means she has nothing to offer except her body
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:38 PM
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I mean lately there was this trend going on saying that men are worse than bears - a wild animal with teeth and claws that will literally maul you to death. I think everybody has been getting meaner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:52 AM
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Those men wanna feel sorry for themselves and clinge to unchangeable characteristics so they don't have to improve and make themselves more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:22 PM
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I'm not single
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:17 PM
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Because it gets posted here, so it's obviously targeted at the dudes here, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:13 PM
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Wow, you know how all men and women on earth would respond to this? Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:08 PM
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Of course people attack the shy passive guy, the dominant self confident guy will actually fight back and give them trouble. DUH.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:14 PM
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Literally only one sentence of this post is talking about high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:13 PM
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Yes you did. Even an answer that doesn't directly answer the question is still an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:11 PM
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But you just gave me an objective answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:50 PM
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So we should abolish the US democracy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:45 AM
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You accused me of lying first, so what are you even doing here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:43 AM
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What? I've literally never made antisemitic comments lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:40 AM
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Not in this sub lol. Also it's still not related to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:39 AM
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Yeah that's how it works in a democracy. I mean what else is supposed to happen, change the entire country and override all other voters because one person is unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:49 AM
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Since we are playing the I make up scenarios game that don’t represent anybod No? This happens to me all the time. I am not making this up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:47 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:46 AM
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Well if you don't like it you have the same option as everybody else who's unhappy. Change countries
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:36 AM
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You voted for that. It's called a democracy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:28 AM
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I don't get why this keeps being brought up, most guys struggle to get a date let alone ever get into a position where they are sharing a living space with a woman and having to do chores. Those women picked a lazy Chad who is used to being spoiled
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:29 AM
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No it's not fair to say. Wtf. That's fucking stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:39 AM
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Q: "Would you rather be alone in the woods with a bear or with a man?" Men: "Wtf that's an insane question, a bear will literally maul you to death" Women: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:25 PM
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I would introduce her to one of my femcel friends and watch their Dutch marriage blossom
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:25 PM
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The real question is, "does a bear shit in the woods?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:25 PM
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Damn so what are people like that supposed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:17 AM
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Yes it's a serious question, do you think solitary hobbies are not valid or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:13 AM
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What's a person with solitary hobbies supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:58 PM
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I didn't say that they shouldn't work on themselves, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:51 AM
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Not always
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:25 AM
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I've never had a problem making women cum, it just takes a bit of figuring it out and communication. Dated one woman who told me she couldn't cum because of the medication she was taking, then we figured out a position that gets her off and she was cumming pretty much everytime we fucked, it was from PIV too. All the women I've dated/fucked were horny freaks though and wanted me to be inside them when they came, so my experience is probably quite different from the average redditor. From what I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:45 AM
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Same thing applies to everything in life, some jobs are good for you, many jobs are bad for you, should you thus never seek a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:21 AM
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I think you shouldn’t rely so heavily on your partner to fix your issues. Nobody said that however some issues are naturally fixed in a relationship and take no effort from the partner (e.g. getting hugs every day)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:14 AM
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It's the same thing with nearly everything else in life. A good job can save you, a bad job can absolutely make you miserable and destroy you, should you thus never seek a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:12 AM
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Uuuuuugh how dare you! Only people who own their own washing machine are allowed to get into relationships!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:11 AM
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Women are understandably reluctant to be seen as men's saviors in these scenarios Many women love the 'I can fix him' stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:10 AM
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Would you say someone who's had an amputation should not be in a relationship? After all, he should focus on regrowing his arm first
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:09 AM
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Friends/family absolutely cannot replace having an nice partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:00 AM
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You are basically telling me here that a person cannot be a good friend to a woman unless they have a car they can borrow at all times. Sure you are not the one who thinks women are materialistic here? Also my partner is a woman so according to you she should be the one who has all those magical car sharing friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:56 AM
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What makes you think people with mental problems are incapable of being kind and loving?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:52 AM
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Why do women not benefit from relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:47 AM
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Sounds like they are dating the wrong men!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:09 PM
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Then what business do you have saying something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:03 PM
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Obviously you are dating the wrong men B)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:00 PM
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Life is just playing russian roulette every day in some form or another
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:00 PM
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The car thing is just a hypothetical example, she's actually with me because I'm really good at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:58 PM
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Seriously? I have a friend who is 23 and despite having a good job he cannot even afford to get a drivers license which costs several thousands in my country to get. If you pick your friends depending on how wealthy and able to spoil you with their resources they are I feel sorry for you, and them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:57 PM
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If she had familial support or just a good friend the same issue could also be solved. Unless your friend/family lives with you it will be hard to come by someone who can just borrow you their car every other day on a whim
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:39 PM
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I’d argue they can then open up new issues you never even knew about. It's true, but this also applies to any other change you make in your life. I.e. getting promoted may get you more money but will also make your life more stressful and decrease your free time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:37 PM
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Take the carpill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:36 PM
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But you cant expect your partner to be your therapist. Obviously not but it's also not really necessary. Just getting hugs everyday can be a gamechanger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:36 PM
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Some people get better through relationships, some stay the same, some get worse.... the examples you listed definitely sound like the guy got lazy since their doormat wive was willing to do anything for them. I have a slew of issues to deal with myself but I'm miles ahead to those chumps since I have no problem with chores, cooking, cleaning and things like that, yet most of your colleagues would probably never consider dating me due to me not meeting their looks treshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:34 PM
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A relationship absolutely can solve issues in your life. E.g. my partner was suffering a lot because she didn't have a car and had to rely on shitty public transport. I have a car so whenever she needs it I borrow it to her. She's much happier as a result. everything will fall back apart if you break up Not if you use the time in the relationship to grow. so get some medicine especially since it’s not easy to enter a relationship No thanks I don't wanna get fat and impotent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:28 PM
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Yes especially with men who provide lots of free services and entertainment for them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:47 PM
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Guess women did not evolve to be attracted to people who are great with computers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:45 PM
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Because women NEVER make fun of mens lack of romantic and sexual success, or mens height/physical characteristics/interests etc. Women are pure innocent beings who only speak of love and acceptance. Only men ever say mean stuff online
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:30 AM
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Straight women are literally the demographic most likely to be in a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:00 AM
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OP is correct but a gym and a better wardrobe won't do anything for you if your face is fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:53 PM
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I have this gay friend who has a very attractive face. Women constantly gravitate towards him, like full on touching him without warning or rubbing their ass on his crotch. He always rejects them politely or simply moves away and they often get real fucking mad. I've noticed many women handle rejection poorly, like they will show it in their face that they are upset. Some will start hissing and shouting and I've seen a girl throw a drink on him one time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:23 AM
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No woman would get naked in front of her webcam if there wasn't some men paying for it. Well, maybe a handful of exhibitionist women, but men aren't really complaining about those.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:45 PM
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. Without porn, most men would go crazy You think men went crazy until internet porn existed ? If you have a better solution for those men , just say it . Go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:44 PM
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Where did I say that, obviously women have agency
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:32 PM
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If someone has so little self control that they can't stop looking at online porn they probably wouldn't have been much better off pre-internet. Probably would have been the town drunkard or worse. And you can use the internet for other things. When I was young I got into programming, emulation, hex editing, texture replacements etc. Didn't get me any women but helped me later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:52 AM
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PUA actually encourages men to be hypercompetitive and build a huge social circle because it is a status symbol. Your comment is proof of that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:48 AM
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Internet has helped me meet tons of hot women and gain new perspective and knowledge. Nobody is forcing you to to look at porn 10 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:39 AM
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You can't practice "social aptitude", you can only practice faking it (masking). In which case you will find yourself in the dilemma that nobody actually likes who you are, but only the fake act that you put on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:23 PM
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Do you think gambling is good?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:46 AM
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Idk about dating apps but women definitely act different in environments where there's not many men to go around. Abundance spoils
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:50 AM
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My personality definitely changed for the worse. Used to be really fun and outgoing, now I'm just quiet all the time and never smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:47 AM
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What is survivorship bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:44 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:33 AM
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Idk man I've never been so horny that I wanted to fuck a sea donkey
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:01 PM
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Who cares what some hens at work are saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:10 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:27 AM
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But men and women still experience loneliness, isolation etc just the same. In fact the male suicide rate would assert that men don't respond well to loneliness at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:36 AM
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What makes male sensibilities different from female sensitivities? Again, sounds like sexism to me. Also plenty of men have echoed her experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:22 AM
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Plenty of men have echoed her experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:37 AM
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So what? She was assuming a male perspective and plenty of men have echoed her experience to be accurate. Are you saying empathy is impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:37 AM
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So your argument is that she suffered because she was a woman and a man could've easily taken the same treatment? Sounds like straight up sexism to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:35 AM
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And? Trans is a spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:53 PM
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Explain why not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:07 PM
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Attractive personality: people who agree with me (Chad) Unattractive personality: people who disagree with me (cringe)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:42 PM
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That's kind a transphobic of you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:37 PM
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Why not, if they are fully transitioned and pass as male
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:08 PM
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Who are you to deny Norah's experience and what she described in her own words
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:06 PM
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Only those who decide to live stealth. Out and proud ftms get coddled plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:05 PM
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Whenever I feel down about myself I post a selfie in ftm subreddits and I get flooded with compliments support and people sliding in my dms. It's world's different from the deafening silence a cus man receives out there in the world. I feel as for ftms who refuse to out themselves, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:02 PM
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Wasn't it revealed that South Korea was controlled by some kind of women-centric cult at one point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:56 PM
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You need to get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:45 AM
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They are feminist in the sense that they wanna have basic rights and get a job which is now feminist for some reason... they are not engaged with feminism though. Even when when I went to college there were only a few weird lesbians engaged in feminism and the normie Beckie's and stacies made fun of them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:40 AM
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That link is behind a paywall Voter turnout also reflects this trend Last time I checked far right parties are gaining everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:37 AM
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The US isn't the entire world, plus that study you posted is about self identification so it's basically meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:22 AM
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Only in western countries. The population of Syria for example tripled since 1950, and there's no shortage of people from Africa and the Middle East wanting to get into Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:02 AM
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Feminism is basically just an old lady thing now, if you look at the discourse online it's basically just divorced mom's over 35 posting about how men are trash because their ex husband was a jerk, young women are hardly attracted to it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:58 AM
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Of course submissive women with no personality are not exciting It reminds me of that one rat experiment where the rats were exposed to a cage where they would receive small electroshocks periodically and another cage where there was no stimulus. After being in both cages the rats choose to stay in the shock cage instead of the boring cage. Some stimulus is better than no stimulus. It's the same with the men who end up with some boring pushover woman, they start longing for electric shocks. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:17 PM
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I mostly use the internet for blogging and talking about my interests with people, no bad experiences. Ofc if you give someone your face and address online you're bound to get in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:23 PM
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There was one woman who commented she slept with him as he told her what she wanted to hear and then ghosted her. Man knows how to play the game
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:21 PM
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Being a man sounds exhausting. No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:47 AM
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There are women who are looking for the same kind of relationship as you, however they are usually picky so you better start looksmaxxing. Those women are still sexual beings and they like shapely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:38 AM
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Lol this will be my standard response to Reddit posts from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:29 AM
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Fetlife Biggest shithole site I've ever seen, even the kinky women I know hate it and the scumbags that prowl it. Shame on you for trying to send a young man into that cesspit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:26 AM
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You're basically asking foxes why they won't eat the grapes... no sane, well adjusted person would discard the entire opposite gender as trash
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:34 PM
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It is expected that men react in anger-to-violence when socially ashamed. No it's not. Most men just take the L. If somebody reacts in explosive anger they will soon have a certain reputation. If somebody actually gets violent usually the police will be called. It's generally accepted because the boys will be boys mantra is boilerplate since we were all in kindergarten. Maybe if you were born in like 1965. These days boys are taught to not fight, even if they are attacked first. I'd argue that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:47 PM
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Fun fact: all female juries also give less severe sentences to men who are sentenced for violent crimes against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:24 PM
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You are mixing "expecting" and "accepting". Just because something is expected doesn't mean it is accepted. During sex a pregnancy is expected, so a condom is worn, because the pregnancy is not accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:21 PM
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I've never seen a man punch a wall, ever. Maybe it's because I live in Europe so our walls are pretty solid. You're more likely to break your hand than punch'a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:05 PM
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But it's not acceptable for them to act like that. Your argument is basically going "murder is a reality and happens, therefore it is accepted." We accept bad people exist and bad things happen, that doesn't mean those bad people and their actions are encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:53 PM
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Who would you prefer to be in the same room with, an angry Mataviejitas or an angry Chrischan?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:51 PM
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chris brown is waaaaaaaay more popular than those 2 other women you mentioned. Yeah because he's a famous artist. He can have a job and be free but he shouldn't be a public figure Why should he have a job? If he was a cashier at walmart he'd still be a public figure and show men that you can get away with DV and still make a living, according to you. but society kind of doesn't care that he beat the shit out of Rhianna that's why he wasn't cancelled. He was sentenced and the pictures of Rihanna …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:50 PM
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Riots have happened at Tennis events: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2009/jan/24/australian-open-riot Riots have happened at concerts: https://faroutmagazine.co.uk/10-concerts-that-turned-riots/ Riots have happened at fashion shows: https://nypost.com/2018/03/01/fashion-show-crashers-cause-riot-at-paris-fashion-week/ if you put police instead of not allowing audience into a stadium for matches where you know opposite fans are going to fight, you are sending a clear message "please try not to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:47 PM
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nobody knows who these people are but everyone knows who chris brown is Lawl, not everybody is as ignorant as you. People made movies, songs and tons of other media about these people. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aileen_Wuornos https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_and_Lorena_Bobbitt Chris brown shouldn't still be a public figure because that teaches people that there are no consequences for DV. But he was arrested and had to serve a sentence as well as get anger management training. So clearly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:41 PM
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Yes let's just cancel everything. Nevermind that there's thousands of sporting events where nothing bad happens, instead let's just cancel them all. That will surely solve the problem. But it's still accepted. It's clearly not accepted if it leads to punishment when getting caught. Would you say murder is accepted?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:35 PM
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It's society not liking when grouchy women are mean to service workers and act entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:34 PM
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And none of that stuff is accepted. Point proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:32 PM
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And? My post is about the notion that anger is the only thing men are supposedly allowed to feel even though it's clearly not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:07 PM
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Nah that's called hooliganism and it's frowned upon. Like if you are caught vandalizing and causing fights obviously the cops will arrest you if they can. Fans arrested after causing violence: https://www.telegraph.co.uk/football/2024/01/29/west-brom-vs-wolves-fan-violence-police-injured-arrests/ Football club punished after fan violence: https://sloveniatimes.com/40263/maribor-football-club-punished-over-fan-violence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:00 PM
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Not only Chris brown still has a career Yeah, that's called rehabilitation. Obviously people still have jobs after serving their sentence. What's your solution, sending him to a desert colony for the rest of his life? but some guys defend him And some women defend Aileen Wuornos and Lorena Bobbitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:57 PM
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Try reading it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:30 PM
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Really? How so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:30 PM
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According to the public Who? That's like me saying blue is considered the same as red 'according to the public'. I’ve just pointed out how it happens to woman too And? I never pretended women don't get attacked for displaying anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:10 PM
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No? Anger in general is to be mocked. Although lately I've noticed women talk about "female rage" over miniscule things like when a man looks at them for 5 seconds in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:01 PM
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Road rage? Mass shootings? Bar fights? All things that are generally considered bad and unacceptable. Seriously, mass shootings?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:00 PM
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It’s referred to as woman showing usually anger in public According to whom? At least I gave a citation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:59 AM
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I've never seen a man punch a wall. Ever. Chris brown beat the shit out of Rihanna and still has a career and is doing fine. He went to court and got sentenced. Clearly people were not fine with what he was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:58 AM
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If they are afraid they sure like to mock those same angry men and egg them on further
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:35 AM
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That stuff is so frowned upon that the sports teams themselves get punished when their fans act up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:34 AM
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It’s a label given to most woman who show any negative emotion in public. No it's not Middle aged woman, typically blonde, makes solutions to others' problems an inconvenience to her although she isn't even remotely affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:33 AM
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Yeah it's when grouchy old women are mean to service workers I think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:48 AM
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He got attacked because of his weird demeanour and looks, nothing to do with emotions. A guy like Jordan Peterson might say weird shit and cry but he has his admirers because he knows how to conduct himself, also hair transplant lmao. The nail that sticks out gets the hammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:43 AM
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the same identical male display of anger would be considered normal in Russia Really? From what I see Russians and Slavs are extremely stoic and unimpressed by everything. Public anger would be a gopnik trait. and the other half thinks men are supposed to be rage beasts who try to fuck/kill/destroy everything in sight. Who thinks that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:36 AM
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Name one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:32 AM
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Obviously men are allowed to feel things. Rappers who display extreme levels of narcissism are pretty popular, same with emo or indy rock singers etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:30 AM
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Name 1 example of a man displaying acceptable anger in public that was not towards someone doing something extremely evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:29 AM
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Anger stems from keeping all emotions suppressed. No, anger is an emotion like any other. Let's say you caught me setting your car on fire with your family and your dog inside it, obviously anger would be the natural response.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:28 AM
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Oh no, grouchy mean entitled women will refuse to date me! The horror
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:56 PM
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"huge popularity" bro even in liberal circles people know that stuff is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:58 PM
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Good thing I don't live there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:52 PM
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If I'm earning 1 million a year I'm gonna hire a bunch of nannies and neither of us will have to lift a finger in the household, I would spoil my partner. Of course I want my partner to be horny for me and enjoy sex, DUH. I never understand why the term 'bangmaid' became so popular, if women wanted a guy who is good at sex and does chores nobody would accuse them of wanting a bangbutler like that's such a horrible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:46 AM
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My therapist literally told me I should focus more on others than myself lmao. The constant focus on improoooving yourself and hyper obsessing with every flaw you have ruins you mentally. She also said people with certain brain conditions like mine can never expect to be 'complete' like a normal person but that's a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:40 AM
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No but quite a few of them were seething incels or cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:12 PM
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Yes tech enabled scrawny weak ugly men to become wealthy by working in highly specialised tech jobs. Previously you would have been relegated to becoming a philosopher, cleric or village idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:24 AM
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No, the bad boy simply boosts their ego. "He's a dick to everyone else but nice to ME!" There's also a certain thrill to being with a man who might flip and hurt you, like petting a lion or putting a venomous insect on your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:31 AM
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Software engineers are not high status lol. And yes they feel put down by the fact they can't get a girl because it lowers their status. Older virgin computer nerd is pretty much a classic loser stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:24 AM
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Never understood why this is feminine. Jesus, vikings and samurai are all depicted with long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:37 AM
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Soooo many men have never felt the touch of a women that is just feral horny for them and it shows in their thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:29 AM
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No, men derive their self esteem from their status in society. And since society says "man who is successful with women = cool and trustworthy" and "man who is unsuccessful with women = icky loser," a man's succes with women becomes one of his primary concerns in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:25 AM
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Well, yeah. Youll find 90% of people out there care more about Netflix and videogames than cooking and gardening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:35 AM
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I only have typically male interests so there's no real grounds for friendship with 99% of women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:45 AM
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Ofc nobody will think anything of you when they see you on the subway. However it becomes different when you are meeting people and revealing personal information about yourself. The internet is rife with people saying that men who are virgins by a certain age or do not have female friends have something wrong with them. Those messages seep into the minds of young men and in turn cause the massive insecurity and desperation. "I'm 24 years old and I never had a gf, I must be a loser" Ironically w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:47 PM
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Yeah, maybe if you' are over 40. Young people are much more likely to talk about Netflix shows or Video games than Broccoli.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:14 AM
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It's tedious and boring. You are kidding yourself if you think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:08 AM
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So you haven't dated for 16 years, what business do you have giving advice like that..?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:22 PM
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If you're struggling, maybe try improving yourself? You know, dress better, get some hobbies, take a shower. When was the last time you volunteered at your local soup kitchen?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:09 PM
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. I don’t care how ugly someone is put them in a dope outfit, and people will instantly be interested in them. Im not talking wear well fitting clothes and follow some basic advice, im talking about digging into fashion learning the history, subcultures, importance of physical materials, trying unconventional silhouettes or textures I challenge you to post 1 example of an ugly man who suddenly becomes attractive due to his outfit. a passive hobby is any interest that involves consumption of medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:18 PM
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No but if I'm gonna date them I would still like some common ground and not have to deal with the hassle of argueing with them over everything all the time. That doesn't make them NPCs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:50 AM
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You view people who agree with you as npcs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:33 PM
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The key is not to do chores, it's to do chores and look sexy while doing it Hi the gym until your butt and ass are big so you've got a nice hourglass figure and if your woman doesn't want to fondle your pecs while youre cooking then she is gay and you need to leave her 99,98% of straight women would commit genocide to obtain a himbo housemaid bf and that is scientific FACT
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:11 AM
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Yes my partner goes absolutely feral when I put on my apron and start cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:05 AM
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It's literally all just drawings 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:56 AM
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We don't chase butch/gnc women because they are all lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:06 AM
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Men want women who are physically attractive, DUH
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:59 AM
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No shit. Most people want a partner who agrees with them on things lol. Would you date a man who disagrees with you on everything and is constantly argueing with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:35 AM
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You sure it's not because everything you eat is made of corn syrup. At least African people eat healthy stuff like yams rice and other vegetables.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:21 PM
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The anger was more at dad for leaving the family, the stupid name was just the cherry on top. Parents giving their kids stupid names can lead to serious issues too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:04 AM
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Yeah... And it kills you even faster
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:42 PM
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Mhm no I'd say there's plenty decent non-toxic women out there. Even if all women are toxic the smart choice would be to shrug your shoulders and move on instead of trying to chase or change them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:51 PM
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Mhm nah I'd say there's plenty decent non-toxic women. If all women are toxic the smart response would be to just shrug your shoulders and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:47 PM
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Would be a Chad move tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:23 PM
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Height is something you have no control over that doesn't reflect your personality. So yes if that is a requirement it's toxic. Other requirements like dress, hygiene, fitness etc. that you have control over aren't toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:53 PM
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Might just be a cultural difference, plenty of men in your country do fine I imagine. I get along better with people from places like Eastern Europe or South America too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:41 PM
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if you are eliminating 90%+ of women right off of the bat, your options will take a severe hit. M8 there's like 4 billion women on the planet. Yes and what I'm saying is high quality women have more requirements, including height requirements. If height is a requirement for her she's not high quality IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:40 PM
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If you're young you can probably maxx out your twink/cuteboy potential and easily get a big tiddy alt gf, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:28 PM
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Uhm cool go back to Shanghai I guess? Not really relevant to the thread I think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:27 PM
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I do want to at last once have sex with someone who is very attractive and has big tits and there is nothing unethical about that Get a hooker, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:09 PM
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Buzz has been happily married since 1993, what sour grapes is he missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:08 PM
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Dating apps are absolutely not used by 80% of women. Typically there's 10 men for every woman on a dating app, and not even that many men use dating apps. You'll also find that most straight women are in relationships (even more so than gay bi or lesbian people) so you can't seriously think that they mostly have absurd standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:07 PM
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I think you replied to the wrong topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:05 PM
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Okay, so your argument is that women are really good at hiding all their red flags until it's too late... and your evidence for that is 1 woman who revealed her red flag by herself. Besides that, the fact some people can hide red flags is not an argument to ignore red flags. This effectively weeds out most women, so it's not good Do you want to date most women? I don't want that. Most women don't want to date most men either and are fine. Generally, the more attractive a woman is, the higher her…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:30 PM
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Been an incel for 23 years of my life, I think I have a pretty decent idea
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:14 PM
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Plenty of short guys with wives and girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:20 PM
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I feel like he's the kinda guy who eschews categorizations like that but fair enough. Last time I checked he's like 60 and still has that godly 'fro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:49 AM
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You'd rather be with someone crazy who will fuck up your life than stay alone? If you're down that bad might just crank one out ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:45 AM
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Nobody would care about MGTOWs if they actually shut the fuck up and lived their lives, instead they spend their free time on the internet blabbering about how much they hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:45 AM
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We are also programmed to drink when we're thirsty but it's still a bad idea to gorge yourself on salt water when youre in the ocean. Why can't you look at someone who will fuck up your life with their antics and go "I'm better off without them"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:43 AM
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I disagree, and even if it was true, why do you care about dating still if there are no good women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:49 AM
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Who else remembers Dolly having braces?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:58 AM
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I don't watch porn and I think the whole industry seems pretty scummy with the rampant drug abuse, sexual assault, exploitation and how many porn actors kill themselves. I mean there's just no way for a human to degrade themselves on camera for a living and stay sane. Exceptions may exist, like for people who just do softcore modelling or exhibitionist films with their partner. But I think most people wouldn't want their son or daughter to do porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:56 AM
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I didn't watch porn growing up and people told me it was weird that I didn't. Certainly far more off putting than watching it. As far as I can tell the porn hate is mostly just a cheap way to rag on men because almost all dudes have watched porn at some point in their lives. But it's weirder to never have watched it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:20 PM
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The most grass-touched reply. Friends to lovers is even a popular trope in romantic fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:04 PM
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Would you fuck yourself? Fuck yeah Screw AI, give me a clone bf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:49 PM
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Men who are attractive without trying are called Chads. Think of a kid blessed with a good face, who likes things like surfing and music festivals and likes to make jokes. Tat boy will attract people without trying, as opposed to someone who is by nature a shy video game nerd with no jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:38 PM
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All countries that you wouldn't want to live in, with the exception of the Philippines maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:07 AM
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Bro there's like 120 million people there. They aren't dying out anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:52 AM
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The beauty industry is honestly demonic for trying to give every person on earth body dysmorphia I'm glad I grew up in a time when people could look like people i imagine 10 years from now the west will be like south korea now where plastic surgery for teenagers is normalized and those who can't afford it are driven to suicide out of shame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:41 PM
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I just know
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:02 PM
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I'm straight so whatever makes my dick hard is feminine and whatever turns me off is masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:28 PM
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Just not my preferred body type
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:38 PM
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I can call fat women creepy for existing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:56 AM
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This is the same guy with the niece/auntie obsession lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:55 AM
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Tbh therapy feels like a status symbol to me All these people jerking each other off about how much therapy they got and how many flavours there are to choose from Do these people ever consider that not everybody can afford a therapist? That blowing hundreds of bucks on therapy appointments when you're not getting dates or because someone on the internet thought you're weird is kinda ridiculous?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:00 PM
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If the woman decides she doesn't want kids who is he to pressure her? "Uhm before the marriage we agreed that.." lol. Most women in the western world choose to have kids later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:03 PM
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Uhm it's not like men can just choose to have kids whenever they want. If a guy is married to a woman who doesn't want kids until later there's notuch he can do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:15 PM
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Because most women don't even know or care about their own fertility problems, so why would they about men's? So man couples I know the woman is like "Uhm we are planning to have kids when I'm 35 because muh career".It's largely the women who are forcing men to have children later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:53 AM
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Their mothers do, I wager.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:45 AM
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Ok but the person in the Tiktok is talking about men who earn less than 50k. Why are you turning that into "woman who plays video games all day lives at home and has debt"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:57 PM
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Op why are you equating a jobless women with debt to a guy who earns 48k/year
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:50 PM
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In all honesty who gives a shit what mentally ill women on tiktok are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:46 PM
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Hey, if being nice entitles you to sex, can I get my sex paid out in cash instead? I've been volunteering overtime all month long and now I believe I am entitled to a high class prostitutes nightly salary as compensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:42 PM
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Just compare how many men consume mom porn Vs how many women consume dad porn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:12 PM
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Ngl human relationships can happen at random because they are based on vibe and chemistry. They are not a trade like working to earn money is. Of course you can increase that random chance by putting yourself into social situations where a chance encounter might happen but you can't brute force it. Working on your attractiveness is a factor, but more often than not input is not output. I say this as someone who lucked into more than one relationship without trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:05 PM
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One thing I've noticed is that people on this sub like to create strawmen and argue against them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:44 PM
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Gotta love how women on the internet always talk about how the penis isn't important and lesbians have better sex then this guy shows up and suddenly it's game over? Also apparently straight ftm guys don't exist or something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:11 AM
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Straight ftm men get laid just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:07 AM
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You never heard of ftm men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:06 AM
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Why? He can use his mouth and hands to get her off. After all lesbians cum more. He could even just use a strapon. Straight ftm men do get laid with straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:05 AM
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I honestly don't care tbh, I think I'm pretty awesome and anyone who doesn't like me is probably a big lame-o, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:15 AM
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Crab in a bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:15 PM
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Tell 'em
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:33 PM
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I said pullups and the average person can barely do a single one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:24 PM
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Because random women can give you whatever the fuck advice they want, they have zero stake. Women don't have to do any of the bullshit they tell men to do. It's like asking a fat out of shape guy how to do 10 pullups. He can't do it and he will never have to do it, so what reason or competence does he have to give you the correct answer. That's why when you want to get big and buff and ripped you ask someone for advice who's big and buff and ripped and not some random slob off the streets. You a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:16 PM
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The bar is 'below hell' for men who pass their looks threshold. If the man isn't good looking enough his personality doesn't matter, he is non-existant to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:23 PM
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Nah most average guys are quite alike. The book op mentions is not for average guys it's for guys who struggle with things that aren't a big problem for the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:17 PM
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No it isn't. The average dog has four legs, three legged dogs are pretty rare, yet the number of legs on a dog is pretty narrowly defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:10 PM
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Most average men are masculine by definition, it's the feminine ones who are outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:07 PM
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Most of these normal men with normal jobs are still quite masculine, i.e. assertive, bold, unapologetic etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:04 PM
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One of my professors in college was an outspoken feminist, and one day she went on this bitter rant how all her feminist friends would tease her and make fun of her for doing things she enjoyed like baking a cake for her husband. Feminists can say this and that in theory, but in reality they are just as capable of being fickle and mean like everyone else, and many of them absolutely do look down on housewives and related activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:19 AM
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Everybody likes to get fucked, it's just an easy time to lay back and let somebody else do the work, especially if you have a stressful life where you need to be in control all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:03 AM
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I'm surprised nobody responded with the obvious answer... to read more feminist books
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:53 PM
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How is one supposed to do that when you don't understand women in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:50 PM
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See point 2
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:49 PM
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A lot of the women reading that stuff literally do get off to it, so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:23 PM
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Bill Gates daughter is a horse girl Lol. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:19 AM
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Would you make the same excuse for men who like violent, rapey porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:55 AM
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Like those girls who go to South Korea, take a selfie with a local guy and caption it like "I got myself a Jungkook!"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:19 AM
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When I 'pamper myself' I cook some good food put on 90s hip hop or death metal and play my favourite niche PS2 game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:54 PM
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OP was specifically mentioning things like that, though and it's rather typical. By nature there is no reason to assume high heels = feminine and pretty, it's a result of cultural conditioning. In a hyperconsumerist society like the west women are often brainwashed to think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:51 PM
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Because things like lipstick, nailpaint, dresses, jewelry and so on are fetishistic objects to be bought and sold and squire "femininity". That's why tons of men have a sissy fetish built around objects like that. The closest masculine equivalent would be having a gym body, because masculinity can not be bought or sold, masculinity is tied to what you are and what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:25 PM
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"I got this rock that keeps away elephants." - "I don't see any elephants here." - "See, it works!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:16 PM
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So testosterone makes males monosyllabic cave men, incapable of articulating the most basic of concepts because they are too stupid Nobody said that As far as source goes you can literally just google it: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4949561/ Our findings indicate a strong modulatory influence of testosterone on language‐specific gray and white matter structures as well as functional connectivity. According to researcher Dr Andreas Hahn (Vienna): ‘It has been known for some time …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:29 PM
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erotica As if the erotica women read isn't often gigaweird stuff like A/B/O or Draco x Harry rapey fanfic. The stereotypical "gigarich chad billionaire" stuff is just the tip of the iceberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:51 AM
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No it's because of testosterone and genetic makeup There are literally studies on ftm transgenders revealing that their vocabulary drastically goes down as they go on testosterone even if they identified and lived as males before taking the hormones Also most kids are not raised to be anything, most parents are way too busy to do that, they just hope the kid will figure things out on their own. Why do you think feminine boys are born into very conservative families. It's due to random genetic tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:30 AM
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What about them? They have a tough life and some make it and some break. Guys on this sub really think way too much about women who don't think about them at all. Although having a good dad but no mom is pretty rare I think. I've only known one woman like that. Her mom had BPD and the antics got so bad the whole family had to cut her off. She was threatening suicide on her own daughter constantly and basically made her life hell. The dad was a good guy whose only.mistake was marrying the wrong w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:48 PM
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Most men are unattractive because they are raised by single mothers eating corn syrup and listening to bluepilled advice like "just be yourself" or "just be nice" instead of hitting the gym and looksmaxxing and learning how to be that mysterious vampire Bad Boy that actually gets women tingling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:00 AM
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Yeah because online is easier to navigate. There's little places to meet people especially when you're not normal yourself. Especially now when everyone is glued to their phone constantly. I can't imagine how tough socializing is for teenage to young adult guys now compared to ~10 years ago when it was also tough already. Also a lot of this behaviour you call chronically online is just citing statistics and observing the behaviour of women in spaces where they feel anonymous to explain things we…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:13 AM
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I've talked to women on OkCupid back when the site was usable and no, they weren't desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:05 PM
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Conversions therapy but make it progressive!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:03 PM
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It's not makeup, it's the fact that the average man gets compared to celebrities and K-pop idols who all use surgeries, filters and makeup to maximize the illusion of s perfect appearance. I see women bringing up good looking celebrities like Steve Buscemi as examples of "ugly men" all the time which just tells me their perception of reality is screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:06 AM
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Being an asshole isn't genetic This is 'just world' copium to the max
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:56 AM
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My life is very good and those feelings constantly nip at my heals. So your life isn't very good I think perhaps you've just been miserable too long so you forget which parts of your misery are existential human struggles against our nature and which ones are a result of our choices and environments haunting us. You sound like you are hardcore projecting lol Love and belonging are not needs which must be fulfilled in romance, it sounds like OP has a life in which those things are present, just n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:31 PM
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We need to return to tradition, bring back lavish men's dresses so women can get horny again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:32 PM
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Op talks about being hurt and desperation and despair creeping in. That wouldn't happen if his life was good. Love and belonging is a basic need. Your suggestion is like telling a starving person to just stop wanting a life where they have food.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:44 PM
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"Just stop caring that your life is shit but keep trying to improve while telling yourself that you are fine with things as they are" So basically just become a full time mental gymnast huh, amazing advice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:11 AM
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Just settle for be nice mentally ill girl, they're not as bad as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:59 AM
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There's no such thing as a feminine man, especially not now where everyone can just take hrt and change their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:52 AM
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This is where alienated autistic incels get to bicker with catty old ladies, just grab a popcorn and enjoy the show
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:13 PM
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Ah, the old "Who cares about the state of the world as long as I'm doing fine, jack". A classic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:19 AM
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Alright let's play the fucked up childhood bingo Was your family supportive or abusive? Abusive Did you grow up without a father? Biological father died when I was in elementary school, mom proceeded to date a violently abusive piece of shit man who terrorized the family for years to come Did you grow up poor, middle class, or rich? Poor to middle class (bio dad was hard working, step dad was kind of a failure, mom never had a job) Did your parents sign you up to extracurricular activities such …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:13 AM
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Women absolutely do care about your past, why do you think "bad boy with a tragic past" is such a popular trope in womens romantic fiction The difference is decided by your looks Short, fat, pimply balding guy with crooked teeth AND a bad past = major ew Tall, slender, decent looking guy with a bad past = yum
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:48 AM
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There's multiple factors at play but bullying can add to your attractiveness because it's seen as dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:56 PM
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If Chad is attractive, the girls will take his side and say Billy was being too aggressive when Chad was just having fun. Seen it happen irl all the time that bullying victims get blamed when they fight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:14 AM
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When I was in school the bullies were usually popular with the girls whereas the targeted people were treated like lepers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:18 AM
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Yeah... if your looks get the foot in the door. If that doesn't happen you're just not gonna be attractive. I don't see women lining up to date ugly guys with amazing personalities anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:48 AM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:55 AM
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Female serial killers still exist, so.. how many marriage proposals did Aileen Euornos receive? Or mataviejitas?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:36 PM
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The trend is definitely very strong towards adoring famous or infamous men with dominant traits and certain features. I don't see any tumblr blogs about being in love with the Columbine victims or ChrisChan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:56 AM
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Some of these women do indeed fuck their boyfriends, I've heard of numerous cases where the woman got to have sex with her incarcerated boyfriend and had a baby so the convicted murderer doesn't drop out of the gene pool. There's also those cases where women enable their sociopathic boyfriends/husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:54 AM
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She didn't even do the murder (her boyfriend said that he decided to do the kill on a whim and it was out of her control) and was a lifelong abuse victim... not really comparable to guys like Bundy and Dahmer who sociopathically tortured raped and murdered dozens of randoms is it? That said she also has tons of female fans
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:43 AM
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Imagine if a man got 100+ women interested in talking to him and he turned around and said "They are ALL unattractive! I feel so bad because I can't attract that <1%< girl I want." That man would be mocked shamed and hated to no end. And many womens complaints sound exactly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:37 AM
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The boring, unimpressive stoner may have a very rich, exciting inner world that he doesn't show to you because you come across as a judgemental bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:59 PM
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But have you tried Botox, makeup, injections, surgeries, unhealthy dieting and the other wonders of the cosmetic industry designed to turn you into a Ken doll? I mean... yeah, plenty of men have done that? Just look at Hollywood. Plenty of male actors bogging themselves. The regular men would also be much more likely to get surgery if it was more affordable. People now worship South Korean beauty standards even though it's super toxic and basically requires everyone to get surgery. It's also unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:58 AM
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grinding hard in your 20s to be rich & ripped so you can date a fat single mom once you're 30 Lol. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:36 PM
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The Beautiful Boy is a book by radical feminist academic Germaine Greer, published in 2003 as The Boy in the Commonwealth by Thames & Hudson and in the rest of the world by Rizzoli.[1] Its avowed intention was "to advance women's reclamation of their capacity for and right to visual pleasure". She continues by saying that the ideally attractive boy must be "old enough to be capable of sexual response but not yet old enough to shave. This window of opportunity is not only narrow, it is mostly ill…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:16 PM
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Reddit is soycuck central.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:09 PM
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It works the other way around, too: Woman says: "Women just want a nice guy with a stable job!" Man says: "But I know several women who are dating abusive deadbeats with no future" Woman responds: "Well, those women are dysfunctional and brain damaged! A REAL healthy woman would never act like that." So much for abolishing gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:27 AM
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Lot of feminists are predatory lesbians who try to groom straight women into becoming lesbians. I'm not even joking about this, look up the term "political lesbianism". In the earlier history of feminism straight female feminists were bullied and attacked for being "traitors". in "The Vagina Monologues", a collection of feminist short stories, there is one where a grown woman rapes a drunk 14 year old girl and it's depicted as a good thing ("It was a good rape"). By now the feminists have realis…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:56 PM
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Male strippers, escorts and pornstars don't exactly work for women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:57 AM
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This lol. At clubs only the top 1-10% of men scored.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:18 PM
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I think Bedazzled is a good movie for incels. In the movie, Brandon Frasers character even has almost the same name as Elliott Rodger. The movie addresses both bluepill and redpill strategies: - goes out of its way to show that even a man as good looking as Brendon Fraser can appear weird and pathetic due to the way he acts and dresses. But also that his attempts to "touch grass" fail due to being stuck in a toxic environment and lacking direction. - makes fun of both the redpill and bluepill co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:48 AM
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Not as unhinged as being a communist in almost 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:46 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNcs9DrKYRU
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:44 PM
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Gonna need a citation for that lol. Been to multiple goth/emo concerts in my youth and theres always mostly males there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:10 PM
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Subcultures have been replaced by LGBT stuff, like all the people who would've been goths in the 90s or emos in the 2000s are now they/thems with coloured hair. Also, subcultures have always been male driven because women are normies. And it seems the biggest thing for men now is video games and bodybuilding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:55 AM
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Or, the woman is dominant but wants submission only from tall, highly confident men because submission from meek beta dudes is not exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:01 PM
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Hard to believe, but men who are nice to people they don't want to sleep with exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:59 PM
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"many women" straight women are the demographic most likely to be in a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:57 PM
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Isn't it funny how it's usually male dominated societies that push for open polygamy (e.g. Muslim countries, Mormons, warlord empires etc), it's the men who can't get enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:41 PM
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Most women are incapable of caring about men unless the man is a) extremely good looking b) jumping through hoops for them or c) their son (and c isn't always guaranteed.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:23 PM
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They want a mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:29 AM
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Women: Vote for unchecked immigration, weak law enforcement that lets drug addicts and sex offenders walk free, break down the traditional family then spend all day at their job leaving their kid alone not teaching them any social skills, and then wonder why kids won't play outside anymore Seriously, the main reason your kid doesn't go fishing is because you don't take it. (Also in what world is hunting or fishing an activity for a small kid lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:23 AM
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I mean if you want a man to treat you like that you can just say so. There will be plenty willing to indulge you but they are probably weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:26 PM
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I'm unironically too feminine to socialize with other men lol. I don't like the way men are supposed to socialize in this day and age
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:15 AM
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So, better/easier sex outweighs all the drawbacks of being lgbt such as having to deal with lgbtphobia, increased risk of suicide/violence/homelessness/mental issues..?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:28 PM
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What boomer world do you live in? The average person now can't dream of owning a house, not even a small gross one, unless that person was born into wealth. Let alone 3 kids, pets, 2 cars and a sah wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:00 PM
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Homer had a house and a wife and 3 kids, all with a single income and while being lazy and irresponsible. By today's standards, he is giga-rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:37 PM
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I throw rat carcasses at women while making aggressive chimp noises but they still like me because I do it so confidently. Take the chimppill guys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:34 PM
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These people have major "just world" brain damage. "If he can't find love he must be a BAD GUY! Bad things only happen to bad people. If he was a good guy the Avengers would show up and get him a girlfriend." It's even funnier because 2x is full of posts where woman talk about the obviously terrible men they are dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:25 PM
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I've been reading this over and over for 10 years now. Feminists will either ignore or try to deplatform people who say this because if they were interested in reality they wouldn't be feminists. All of feminism is working backwards from a conclusion ("men bad women good") , finding evidence to support that conclusion and discarding all contrary evidence. E.g. "It's not that bad when women do it" (literally sexism) "The men make women do it" (victim blaming) "If someone denounces feminism after …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:43 AM
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Charismatic = good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:30 AM
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You spend too much time online. "In the mid-1990s, estimates of the size of the Japanese yaoi fandom ranged from 100,000 to 500,000 people.[18] By April 2005, a search for non-Japanese websites resulted in 785,000 English, 49,000 Spanish, 22,400 Korean, 11,900 Italian, and 6,900 Chinese sites.[216] In January 2007, there were approximately five million hits for yaoi.[217]" These numbers are tiny even compared to more conventional shojo stuff when you consider Japan alone has a population of appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:19 AM
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I love all the comments saying that being attracted to men makes you slutty, diseased and unmanly. Like a bi dude can be a virgin and he's still a filthy AIDS demon in these womens eyes. These women are so insecure it's crazy. Also the "I jack off to gay porn so I can't be homophobic" argument LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:48 AM
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The red cross is homophobic, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:41 AM
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A tiny minority of women like that stuff. It's basically a niche within a niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:39 AM
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Lmao he doesn't tower over her, she can literally bridal carry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:54 PM
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But he says all the correct liberal talking points and has so many fans :( That said, she really tolerated him for an awfully long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:15 PM
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Fresh food for thoughts: https://www.reddit.com/r/Destiny/comments/18d743o/reminder_that_destiny_and_melina_breaking_up/ This woman left her rich, well put together boyfriend who allowed her an open relationship to be with a suicidal jobless Swedish twink. Now the rich guy is going to get absolutely fucked in the divorce too. Both the bluepill and redpill BTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:51 AM
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I didn't in most cases but even if I did would it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:54 AM
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The way I see it, women only come out with their horniness after passing a certain threshold. After you get their attention they basically turn into feral beasts to the point they might as well be addicted to you. With men it's the opposite, they may want to fuck upon first sight but lose interest quickly after they spilt their load.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:19 AM
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I've had women beg me for dickpics and lewds lol. Women aren't asexual beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:57 AM
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Whenever male loneliness comes up people insist that men should just go out and make friends or go get drunk at the local pub and if you can't make friends you're probably a bad person. Does the same thing go for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:35 AM
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You weren't for example thought not to stare at others as a child because it's rude? No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:34 PM
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The funny thing about the self improvement meme us how blatantly untrue it is. Like if you could just self improve we'd all be millionaires with chiselled abs speaking 5 languages and poverty would be non existant. Yet somehow that is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:02 PM
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Your mom slapped you? Damn I'm sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:40 PM
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It you feel uncomfortable from being stared at you're a fucking baby, seriously how sheltered is your life that this is what concerns you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:28 PM
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That sounds like a 'you' problem to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:01 PM
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They live in the apocalyptic hellhole known as the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:30 AM
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Men are constantly made fun of for having uncool hobbies or believes, idk why women should be exempt. Maybe we all should be nicer to eachother or something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:31 AM
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Yet many men have a problem don’t just that They just haven't met the right person yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:25 PM
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Id wager most people would say that a doctor has more merit than a bum, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:37 PM
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You don't need to impress "a majority". One is enough. Also if you do something just to impress others, it's not a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:37 PM
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TIL being a doctor is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:57 AM
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Who's to say a woman who's dating a bum isn't a good woman? Sounds like something a hater would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:20 AM
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Real life. Everyone knows at least a few women who are dating bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:58 AM
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What time for a relationship does someone like this have? Okay that's a new one. You prefer dating men who don't work full time? Would you want to be with someone who had this kind of schedule? Heck yeah I would love to date a rich fit woman who gives me plenty of free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:57 AM
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A 22 year old man who just graduated Harvard Most Harvard students are way older than that: https://www.collegefactual.com/colleges/harvard-university/student-life/diversity/chart-age-diversity.html
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:37 AM
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Meth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:28 AM
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took low dose estrogen for about 15 years Jesus Christ, man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:39 AM
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It's true. I'm a brutally ugly, short, autistic unemployed fat goblin but because I have such a great personality women immediately line up to date me when they see how funny and kind I am. Just the other day I tipped m'fedora at a woman and mentioned something about how I support womens rights and she was so charmed by my respectfulness she invited me to meet all her friends. After talking about my love for protecting the environment and volunteering at the local animal shelter half of them pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:15 AM
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You talk to women at the gym? Creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:59 AM
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Why are you shaming women for who they choose to sleep with? You sound awfully judgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:49 AM
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I'm not struggling, so go ask struggling men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:46 AM
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So fat or old women have less merit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:43 AM
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I know ugly dudes who fuck and get married. It's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:33 PM
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when in fact women are being forced by the Elite of men to indulging into hypergamy and promiscutity, and you don't bat an eye Bruh what
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:32 PM
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Dude I literally know a guy who is super into Warhammer and he married his high school sweetheart. His wife is a total qt and she loves his dorky ass. That's like the worst example you could have picked lol. You think women aren't into weird fantasy shit and board games?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:31 PM
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then give up. No. You’re one of the few that’s not meant to have a partner No, it just means that it hasn't happened yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:28 PM
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"good women" go for low status men all the time. It's not merit-based.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:51 PM
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Too high status too have sex? Sex before graduation is degenerate? Okay, that's a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:50 PM
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Data? You’re using a real loose definition of data. I literally posted studies lol. having hobbies that aren’t gaming until you wet yourself. Who does this? Can you talk about a person who isn't a strawman? You can improve your odds of meeting someone compatible by being more social So it's not self improvement. by being in good shape, having a decent job Or you can start doing drugs and meet tons more hot chicks than at your job. What you are going to do is put yourself in the best position to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:38 PM
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One counter example is enough to disprove the idea that dating is a meritocracy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:32 PM
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You'll rarely get one without trying to meet someone and indicating you're into them, for example. And this has nothing to do with self improvement. what makes it more likely will vary from person to person. So it is chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:30 PM
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Incel is literally the most popular insult on the internet right now, not even incels think they are superior in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:32 PM
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Dude virtually everybody has interests. Nobody sits down and goes 'yeah I gotta get really into music so I have something I can talk to women with'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:29 PM
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It's not like it happens randomly. It literally does happen randomly for most people lol. Most relationships happen through chance encounters. It's in your control So what's the magic 'get-you-a-girlfriend' cheatcode?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:05 PM
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I'm not saying it's impossible to get a girlfriend lol. But "getting a girlfriend" is not a goal you can set for yourself because whether or not you get a girlfriend is outside your control. The video explains that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:58 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ioa6BjuSOt4&t=40s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:50 PM
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"Getting a girlfriend" is not an achievable goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:26 PM
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You know you can go to the gym, socialize and then go home play Mario Kart and crank it to hentai right? These aren't exclusive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:03 PM
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If guys who get laid don’t have an Instagram body, then you have 0 excuse for not getting laid if you’re even remotely better looking than him, which you can do by hitting the gym and getting into better shape. You can’t control other people, but you can control yourself. But that's exactly why it's not a meritocracy. Just being better than another guy at some thing doesn't guarantee you a girlfriend. Hell, you can be better than him in every way and still be unsuccessful because he was in the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:50 PM
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Take a chill pill and live their lifes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:43 PM
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Getting a job is dependent on many more factors than just your degree. You can easily get a job, even without a degree, for example if you are great at coding and you can prove it, and you will probably get that job quicker than someone who has a degree but fails at the job interview. You can also get a job through contacts. On the other hand, many people go to college and end up with a shitload of debt. getting into shape, getting a new job to earn more income, going to therapy, taking up new h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:42 PM
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I'm Chad, so I have nothing to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:35 PM
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Why do you care? It proves my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:31 PM
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Whut? Nobody said anything about forcing women to do anything. I'm telling people that extremely flawed people get into relationships all the time and telling guys that they are not worthy of a relationship until they eliminate each and every single one of their tiny flaws is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:30 PM
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I mean yeah, that's what the data suggests, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:21 PM
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Jeremy Meeks was a felon and he got adopted by a billionaires daughter. No self improvement needed, just circumstance. you can improve to attract higher mate value (to you) women that you actually want to be with in a relationship" Again, if this was true, high value women wouldn't be fucking low value men, but they do. You can push all the weights and make all the money you want and still be extremely unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:20 PM
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you want to date women who wants losers. Not what the post says why are you interested in women who have that type of interests in men? Again, not the point of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:16 PM
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They need to take a chill pill. If someone had a gambling addiction and was desperate to score the jackpot, you wouldn't tell him to spend more money to increase his chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:09 PM
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6'3 guy is more attractive than a 5'4 guy. Such merit! He worked so hard for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:07 PM
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Not really. I can go to a concert and enjoy myself and meet chicks. I can't go to the concert if I'm busy grinding in the gym, doing overtime for my boss and learning a new language like the self-impro crowd suggests. Also, if you have to *try hard* to be social, you will also have the problem that you will come across as inauthentic and off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:02 PM
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"Just go out and have sex" wow is it really that easy? Are all these women I meet who are being friendly really just trying to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:19 PM
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I woke up today, this morning I'm bloody, I'm beaten I find that I have been robbed They took my shoes, my wallet I'm still drunk, I say "fuck it" I go to my job Then my boss, he fires me for no good reason No reason at all He says, "if you come back I will call a policeman" I'm hitting the wall So I call home, say "dad, I'm robbed I'm fired, I need money, I need money bad!" He says, "That's bullshit! You're lying! I know you! Need money? Too fuckin' bad!" He says, "son, you gotta get out there …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:59 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:42 PM
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Sure, but someone like the autistic girl can't expect to not be lonely when she never leaves the computer? And those ugly women, why can't they make friends with women? Are women mean to ugly women or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:28 PM
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Why don't these women just go out and make friends? That's what lonely men get told to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:18 PM
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We met online
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:11 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:47 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:54 PM
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Man, this is why I don't go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:02 PM
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No. Source: am a friendless introvert shut in and still have a wonderful partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:57 PM
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It's always the women who insist on hugging me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:13 AM
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So who created this neoliberalism?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:48 PM
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TikTok in China is designed so it shows you interesting, brainy content. TikTok in the west shows you a never ending string of the most demoralising, mentally ill shit you've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:47 PM
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Showing emotions as a man is always a bad idea. it makes others see you as weird or weak women will see you as a baby may be weaponized against you distract you from your tasks in life All very bad things especially if you want to be attractive. It's trendy to act like men need to be more emotional now but the truth is stoic, self-contained and independent men always do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:43 PM
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No but I know gay people. A twink/femboy is incredibly desired. Their inboxes are constantly blowing up. And many of them don't even like masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:39 PM
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You can look up any statistic on who is single and you'll find there's more single men than women until old age when women lose interest in relationships or the men have died off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:37 PM
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Yeah but things aren't gonna turn into s full scale war like that. Grogs are generally capable of living a normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:18 PM
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There's not even enough twinks right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:15 PM
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Nobody said anything about deleting a group of people. That's the answer your mind came up with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:12 PM
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Why would they be competing? Most women are fine being single and there's more single men then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:11 PM
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I'd rather play Age of Empires
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:28 PM
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What makes you think this post is about real life people? Also there are "will AI GFs make women obsolete" posts all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:26 PM
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Because Grogs are indifferent to women. So women have nothing to be afraid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:20 PM
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For people who grow up with out certain freedoms, learning that something like "freedom of religion" exists can indeed be mind-blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:19 PM
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Are physically capable and useful people highly valued? I think physical labourers were largely considered low class and made fun of until their salaries increased? Also I'm amazed it took this long for someone to simply suggest prison and therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:22 PM
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If you think consumerism and work is all there is to life you lack imagination. Think of any great man you admire - Isaac Newton, Nicola Tesla, Michael Jordan or whoever. Were they famed for bedding women - or for something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:37 PM
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You ever heard about a gun?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:29 PM
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Not enough gay twinks to go around I'm afraid. Or start online forums whining about how twinks are beneath them and whining about how all the hot regular men won't give them sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:09 PM
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Grog logic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:55 AM
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I think most men wouldn't be attracted to the Grogs in this scenario. there's no point in having women around. they wouldn't just magically disappear lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:21 AM
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Whut? Women would still go to work and lead normal lives in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:16 AM
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For the concept of a human rights violation to exist you need human rights to exist first and be aware of them. You know not even everybody in the modern world recognises all human rights? For example Muslim countries rejected the UN declaration of Human rights and signed the Cairo declaration instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:39 AM
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Most people also have no idea about algebraic geometry, I guess it doesn't exist and isn't important now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:32 AM
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Maybe if you're a boomer who only talks to other boomers you might think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:31 AM
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Nobody said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:28 AM
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One of the mods a while ago boasted about being part of a research team that analyzes the posts in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:42 PM
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Yeah, college students. You think 4chan is some obscure thing? It's influence is huge. Wojaks and Pepe's are everywhere. I saw a fucking TV report on the origin of memes. Don't even get me started on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:40 PM
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Just because you don't notice something in your bubble doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:13 PM
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It does mean that those dudes are also going for average women who don't look like pornstars.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:07 PM
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Most straight women are in relationships, regardless of tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:05 PM
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Most women are in relationships, including average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:04 PM
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You don't care about all those men who are in commited relationships with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:15 PM
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I have also never met anyone who uses OnlyFans, yet it stays afloat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:30 PM
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Got Trump elected. Also not really relevant to whether or not something is a grift
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:23 PM
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You're seriously gonna tell me the ideologies and words a person is exposed to don't matter because everyone "already knows"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:22 PM
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What does that have to do with the argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:20 PM
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Most average women are in relationships. Are their boyfriends and husband's also desperate to hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:49 PM
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So it's a deliberate government psyop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:47 PM
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Still it proves that men like women even when those women don't look like pornstars. Most women are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:19 PM
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Huh? Who's talking about that? And yeah, people settle sometimes. Both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:18 PM
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Why not? It means men are interested
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:17 PM
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And I only run into people who make fun of OnlyFans, yet somehow it stays afloat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:52 PM
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Bad faith. Same thing could be said about any couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:49 PM
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People don't start spouting terms like "alpha"' or "bangmaid" on their own. That's due to something they have been exposed to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:47 PM
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I mean, I'm pretty fucking ugly and even I get compliments. Those guys who are talking about how they haven't gotten any positive attention from women in years need to realize it's not a "typical male thing" like they say but rather that something is seriously wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:35 PM
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The average or below average woman can just get on Tindr and receive 100 likes within an hour. Your argument is invalid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:33 PM
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And funded by CIA. The "pill" name is of course recent because it came from the Matrix movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:29 PM
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And a psyop doesn't need to target a million people to be a psyop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:29 PM
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You realize the world is not just people you talk to, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:30 PM
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In what way is redpill a grift but feminism is not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:08 PM
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They are NOT huge. So what is huge? These sites and videos gain millions of views and clicks and traffic. Go out and ask 100 random people what they know about redpill or blue pull or pink pill and 90% of them will be confused. Did you do that, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:07 PM
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Really? These communities are huge. Even 10 years ago in college I would run into people who use 4chan or Tumblr all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:56 AM
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The industrial revolution and it's consequences have been a disaster for the human race
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:49 PM
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Just go outside and you'll see plenty of Plain Janes with husbands and boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:15 PM
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You sound like you are very entitled to other peoples stuff. I love my friends and my partner and I don't require them to give me stuff all the time as a proof of love. If you can't value a person for who they are but only for what they can give to YOU you are by definition selfish and materialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:31 PM
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If you can’t give and do for women as a man then YOU are the Selfish One TIL disabled people are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:58 PM
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People love to put down others. It's their favourite past time and they will never let it go, especially if they themselves feel like losers deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:40 PM
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As a guy who recently turned 30, I surely get way more attention than when I was 20, and money or status are not the reason. Experience, maturity and confidence do matter a lot. It helps that I took care of my body. Also, 20 year old guys are too busy playing videogames and jacking off to femboy hentai to talk to women, leaving young women on dry spells.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:45 PM
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Of course you don't stand a chance if you give up before you even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:32 PM
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And yet these guys still find girlfriends and wives no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:31 PM
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It's not super hard. Good diet and grooming = should become habit so it takes 0 effort, maybe a couple of hours of learning how to cook and researching proper meals. Good clothes = should become habit so it takes 0 effort, maybe ~2 hours of shopping per month maximum to find nice clothes. Good hair = see a hairdresser every 6-8 weeks or buzz it yourself, again this is something everyone should do anyways to not look like a caveman. Skincare = takes 5 minutes a day and bottle of Retinol that last…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:29 PM
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You don't need to look like Arnie or Chris Hemsworth to be attractive. Fuck, I myself got compared to Chris Hemsworth in the past, and I'm natty and I don't even lift that much. It's about the vibe you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:24 PM
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I would need to meet your friend to assess that. Me personally, I don't know a single in shape, well dressed guy who is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:22 PM
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Why, are you upset? You can look at real life situations too, it's the same thing. Women crowd around good looking guys over bad looking guys, but a good looking guy doesn't magically become completely uninteresting if there's a slightly better looking guy near.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:21 PM
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No it wouldn't. Look at any boyband. There are always several good looking guys in those, yet the fanbase doesn't always swarm around the one best looking guy. Usually every guy in a boy band has his fans. K-Pop is abundant with good looking men who all have their own fanbase. Same with anywhere else. The existance of one good looking man doesn't automatically render everyone else unattractive. If every man did what I outlined, there would be less single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:13 PM
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n=1. Wow! I guess all those good looking guys who do all that stuff and have girlfriends no longer exist now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:10 PM
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Height is not as important to women as you think. Source: go out in public and you will see plenty of women holding hands with short guys. Most women can't tell mens height accurately anyways. They can't tell if a guy is 5'9 or 6' usually. In-shape, well dressed short guy with nice hair always mogs an unkempt lanklet. In the US less than 15% of men are over 6 feet. That means even if you are short AND assuming your assumption that even a fat smelly ugly tall guy is preferrable to a nice looking …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:08 PM
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If the worth of a person is what they value, that means you are a very self-centred, materialistic person if you only see other people as a utilitarian means to enrich yourself. Funny that someone could read Marc Aurel and leave with this takeaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:29 AM
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Interesting post on this subject from a womans perspective: I have Instagram and I am often recommended romance books that are sexual and are written by women. These books disgust me as they always seem to depict insane age gaps, rape, power imbalance, stalking , bullying and sexual assult as sexy. I literally saw a reel about a book based around a girl's best friends dad taking out her implant and secretly giving her fertility treatment to "keep her". Its literally rape culture and is being dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:33 PM
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Unemployment rate is like 4%. Where are these women finding all these jobless men they keep running into?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:23 PM
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I'd like to know women's take on the subject tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:08 PM
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Whut? I just asked a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:07 PM
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Curious, what do you think is wrong with flings given that safety precautions are taken?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:53 PM
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Curious, why do you think sleeping around is a bad decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:49 PM
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Majority of guys don't even have a chance of denying women sex. Majority of guys do have sex, not everyone is a desperate incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:48 PM
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The uninteresting guys chase girls. The interesting guys have girls chasing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:56 AM
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It won't go well for you lol. Not being a simp doesn't mean to treat people like trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:53 AM
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I stopped being a simp and it's probably the best thing I've ever done for myself. Saves you so much time and women find you more attractive because they hate doormats more than anything. The guys who are going "noooo you don't understand, I HAVE to be a simp" aren't getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:49 AM
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Incel to trans pipeline claims another victim
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:47 AM
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So? The bars have been removed and women can do whatever they wanted if they just decided to 'self improve'. No government needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:13 AM
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It's called giving cultural insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:32 PM
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Nah, women fucking love mentally ill guys especially if they are mentally ill themselves which is the case for lots since women are overdiagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:44 PM
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The difference is 1000 guys may thirst after a toxic woman, but she will only pick the chadliest of them to bed her. Meanwhile 1000 girls thirst after a toxic guy, and he will make sure to bang one after another or sometimes at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:42 PM
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Isn't it odd that the government needs to solve every problem that women have, but all of the mens problems are 'personal problems'? Women get mentoring programs, benefits, quotas, the government enforces feminist policies and education in the public schools and universities, platforms women and feminist thinkers specifically etc. The government needs to reeducate basically the whole population to only think favorably of women. Want to get money from your ex husband? The government will come and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:52 PM
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Nah pretty people are usually chill because their brain isn't filled with negative memories and injuries like that of ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:21 AM
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Men with BPD exist, ya know? It's not a women only disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:43 AM
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A final solution, you say?:format(webp)/cloudfront-eu-central-1.images.arcpublishing.com/madsack/UYIQC3FT5QDEBV2IA6LFNLQRRU.jpg)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:53 PM
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Dude, what the hell is water?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:39 PM
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Woooooow? You mean people on the internet say outrageous shit? Reeeeeally?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:30 PM
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Those normal women just need to take a shower, do basic grooming, hit the gym and volunteer at the local soup kitchen and I'm sure they'll meet the right person. You know, you can't just expect a man to notice you while sitting at home doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:27 PM
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Implies that males are scrutinized at the same rate and intensity as women No it doesn't lol. I responded to Men will never know the horror of being scrutinized for your body, viewed sexually, and harassed for it at such a young age. And men very well do know that horror. Also you didn't provide what I asked for, unsurprisingly. Because it's not relevant to the argument lol. I'm not gonna sit here and do research for your lazy ass about some argument that I didn't even make.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:24 PM
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I'm not friends not do I hang out with shitty people, so idk why you are jumping to conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:35 PM
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Most people are assholes and sometimes you are dependent on them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:27 PM
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Other boys in the dressing room after sports class
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:26 PM
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I did this with people I knew for a long time who I was regularly riding with. One of them was my brother. Excellent way to destroy the good rapport you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:58 PM
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call out colleagues saying misogynistic shit they make fun of you and call you a white knight you are now an outcast while they continue to go about their way Brilliant!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:57 PM
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I'd say about ~10%<. Because women get constant attention and freebies just for being women, they are never forced to develop a personality. As such, most women are boring, lazy, entitled and manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:52 PM
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And you say that based on what...?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:15 PM
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Oh and please provide your proof of men being more heavily scrutinized than women regarding their looks. I never claimed this, just that it also happens for men. Halo effect is real both for men and women and tall men are way overrepresented among CEOs and rich people for example. People rate mens personality based on their looks. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29390018/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:52 PM
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I'd argue it's easier to find relationships too than friends, so....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:03 PM
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So you just debunked yourself. How so? The main motivation for being together is still fucking, something that is not present in regular friendships. You can do that with a stranger. Ah okay, so it is easier to find hookups you are friendly with than to find friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:11 AM
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You're supposed to also love yourself and not work yourself to the bone So what do you say to your partner if they can't get up? "Sorry dear gotta love myself right now, maybe try calling one of your friends or something" lol. Her family didnt visit, her friends? Her mom visited a few times for 2-3 hours tho they still needed my help. Do you expect your friends to quit their jobs to help you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:09 AM
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Fuck buddy is still a buddy. Even with my flings I would do things like just chat, hang out, share activities etc. It's kind of a requirement to be buddies first to get to the 'fuck' stage. And I'm also talking about committed long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:00 AM
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I've cared for my girlfriend 24/7 after she had a back injury and was unable to move... is that a bad thing? Are you not supposed to care for you partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:56 AM
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It's probably easier to get romantic relationships than to find friends. Source: had plenty of relationships and flings but few friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:54 AM
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So what is that rate and intensity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:47 AM
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I'm a man and I also got comments about my appearance and genitals as early as age 10 and still struggle with extreme body dysmorphia from it. It's not a gender unique thing. Difference is I don't get a free pass to talk shit about ugly women because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:33 AM
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No it's not. You can just make friends with other weird people. I'm weird and all my friends are weird and my partner is weird too. You sound like an ant colony would be your dream life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:26 AM
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How is it a bad option?any people love to be feminine, even men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:38 AM
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And? Some people are weird. Nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:36 AM
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I don't think there are many right persons. If there were, there wouldn't be so many breakups and divorces. It's totally normal to not come across someone's you click with for year's
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:33 PM
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Why not? Maybe you just didn't meet the right person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:32 PM
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If you say "I think I'm bad looking", women will usually say "you aren't that bad looking, in fact you are kind of cute, be more confident". If you say "I think I'm good looking" women will say "pfff you are nothing special". Its all just a matter of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:32 PM
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Why would it be over? You might meet your dream girl at the age of 25
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:28 PM
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Producing porn should be banned entirely. We already have enough porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:10 AM
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Feminism demonizes feminine like crazy, though. Also what you describe is Choice Femininism and many feminists really hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:08 AM
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Wholesome, I wish you all the best
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:32 PM
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It's just a corollary of what I said, and in a way it's true. Since women can earn their own money, they can provide for themselves, get a therapist for emotional needs etc. The one thing men still have going for them is having a warm body and hard dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:21 PM
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Men care a lot about their bros and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:20 PM
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This proves the point I was making in another post: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17thvam/why_modern_women_complain_that_men_only_pursue/ Building friendships or platonic relationships with women is simply more effort with less reward compared to doing it with men. You can simply strike up a conversation with a man anytime, any place and he will assume no evil intentions unlike with women where you have to pass a bunch of invisible social stat checks before she will even con…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:58 PM
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It's about being provided for, not spending money. So why did you explicitly mention money and using men for money in your post? A quick reminder that you did: Because you explicitly said 'used' in your post lol. My post didn't mention anything about manipulation. Obviously manipulating people is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:46 PM
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> You don't need a woman to cum. It's about sex, not cumming. > Manipulating some poor woman into sex is rape. ​ Nobody suggested manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:27 PM
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I'm in a happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:41 PM
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Read the post. Women are more difficult to approach and talk to than men, making them less attractive for friendship or platonic connection. Do you have the same set of standards and expectations for non binary persons, for example, too? I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:49 PM
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I'm not talking about this as if it's my personal problem, I see it as more of a societal issue. Because women love to complain that men only hit them up for sex now but at the same time don't do anything to make themselves appealing beyond the sexual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:47 PM
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My experience comes from back when I was still trying to date and socialize. Also observing how women behave both online and offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:45 PM
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No BC my partner is literally the best in every way and no other human can top them <3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:37 PM
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Yeah, that's my resolve. Those women are the minority, though. Most women expect to take and take and never give in relationships. If he makes any demands he is ridiculous and deserves to get dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:36 PM
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I'm just making an observation about modern women and asking a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:30 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:29 PM
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My partner is afab non-binary, so not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:25 PM
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I'm in a loving relationship with an absolutely amazing partner. Nice try, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:17 PM
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I'm talking to you rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:03 PM
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So why bother cohabiting, building a life and planning long-term for someone who offers nothing in the relationship except fucking you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:49 PM
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It's called 'femininity'. Something that has almost been eradicated by modern feminism and neoliberalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:42 PM
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Because you don't need a man to get money. You can just get a job, or try to mooch off of other women. Manipulating some poor sap into funding your laziness is cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:38 PM
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I only date women who offer love and support. These women are hard to come by these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:36 PM
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Sorry I don't watch marvel movies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:29 PM
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Most women are happy with a decent guy who treats them nice and gives them lots of cuddles and loves them lots. You don't need to be rich or anything, just be a big old teddy bear
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:18 PM
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Really? Feminists always advice men to learn to be happy on their own and turn to other men when they need help because women are sick of providing that kind of stuff for men. So in fact a mans bros have replaced partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:14 PM
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I didn't ask those women out, they ask out me. Also when dating I only take interest in women who are interesting in terms of personality, which is the minority of modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:07 PM
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I didn't ask that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:06 PM
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There’s men who make a living off postings thirst traps and salacious selfies lol. Who? Even the most popular males online I've seen get only a fraction of the attention that your basic instathot gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:04 PM
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there are enough women who provide far more than just sex But they don't provide anything that a fat neckbeard male friend doesn't provide, except sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:02 PM
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Most women have a lot more to offer than just their bodies. We are educated, we work, we have interests, we have hobbies, we have friends and a social life, and many of us contribute to our communities in various ways. These are all the things that men also offer. The only thing men don't have is the body. Your negative attitudes and views on women likely seep into every interaction you have with a woman, and then of course she’s not going to respond well to you treating her with contempt and di…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:01 PM
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They can’t offer interesting company, because you can get it from your male friends? It sounds more like you would prefer it from your male friends. It's infinitely easier to have an interesting conversation with a man than with a woman because you don't have to go through x bullshit social stat checks, not to mention that most women still expect the work to be done for them with the man carrying the conversation. So, it's just less hassle. You don’t value women who can offer interesting company…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:58 PM
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They're offering all their skills and talents and effort No they are not. Vast majority of women now expect the man to offer that kind of stuff while they sit there and are entertained. That's why dating and befriending women is so frustrating for men now, because the man is constanly expected to give, give and give, with no return. I'm not even talking about sex here, even small gestures (e.g. complimenting the man, giving flowers etc) are too much to ask from the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:45 PM
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Because it's not an analogy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:33 PM
1

Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:32 PM
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Because money can technically be provided by a robot, an investment, an ATM, a sturdy workhorse etc. It's completely divorced from the persons humanity. If you don’t value anything about another person besides their wet hole is this misogyny? If I valued nothing about a woman except her money, would it not be misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:31 PM
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Yes, even in friendmaking environments I've encountered women hitting me up basically just expecting to be entertained. They give one word replies, expect you to carry the conversation while they don't add anything of value, ghost randomly etc. Conversation with men is infinitely easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:28 PM
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Sure, why not. But those women usually don't provide entertaining conversation in return. Talking to them to them is like talking to a brick wall since they are constantly in "entertain me" mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:58 PM
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Because you don't actually value the other person, just the financial gain they provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:56 PM
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"incel mentality" in this case is just feminist nu-male mentality. Don't turn to women for company, love, and support because you're a nuisance, turn to men instead. That leaves sex as the only motivator to engage with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:52 PM
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I'm talking about modern women, not all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:16 PM
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I mean, yeah. If you can't even appreciate mens bodies and you need them to pay a fee so you tolerate them, it sounds like you don't like them much at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:13 PM
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If you wanna keep telling yourself that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:42 AM
1

Really? Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:41 AM
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Most of those people live in places where prostitution is not illegal, so... It's not the same as experiencing a woman lusting for you. So their problem is feeling undesired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:21 PM
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I wonder what peoples take on lonely young women around here is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:26 PM
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Sex is literally never the main motivator for seeking relationships. If it was only about sex the men could just get a prostitute and be done with it. Obviously there's more going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:25 PM
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So they dont love their kids, they are just 'mimicking'? Is love even real in your world? they get affection and social role You sound like you don't know many foster parents. They often get shit from their surroundings especially if the adopted child is disabled, it's not an easy ticket. I know a pair who adopted 2 disabled boys from an abusive home who would never be able to lead a normal life or even communicate. To say they did it for social role and affection feels downright insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:03 PM
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Some do, some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:18 PM
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TIL foster moms and stepmoms can't love their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:52 PM
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Absolutely psychopathic view of human relationships lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:35 PM
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Just take a shower and basic grooming and you'll be fine lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:34 PM
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I mean, women who love men for who they are exist, so why settle for less. It's like you just want men to be okay with being some heartless womans personal servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:20 PM
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Nah it's just that women want to have sex with top % men and those men don't get into prostitution. There's also the fact women have extra risks when it comes to safety and pregnancy risk not to mention the fact that free sex is a tinder swipe away for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:22 PM
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Never understood men who complain about gold diggers so much, like srsly 9/10 times it's obvious when a woman is trying to golddig you. You can just choose better women. Inb4 "b-but I need sex so bad!" then just get a prostitute. It's the same thing, probably for a cheaper price and with far less humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:45 AM
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Do you also cry slavery when you're living single and have to do cooking and cleaning for yourself without getting paid? Also you are aware that you can just ask your boyfriend to do stuff? I cook and clean for my gf all the time and I don't bitch and cry about not getting paid for it. Btw, you didn't address my point about old childless women also rotting in retirement homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:01 PM
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You know domestic slavery and subjugation aren't inherent to relationships? Even if they are to straight relationships, why are straight women more in relationships than anyone else? (Also lol at comparing household chores to fucking slavery). Women don’t go around threatening that if men don’t settle for them they’re going to die alone with porn. You sure? I see this take quite often. Lonely guy = Anime Video Games Porn in the eyes of the empathetic gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:36 PM
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Straight women are the least likely demographic to be single. They also report more depression, anxiety and loneliness. Doesn't sound all that happy to me tbh the saddest part about all of this is that nursing homes are beginning to see these men in their 40s, 50s, and 60s with no wives, kids or other family to check on them Why is it sad when men are old with no partner and no kids but empowering when it's women? I have a friend who works in a nursing home and there's plenty of old, forgotten w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:40 PM
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Because they are out working the fields, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:25 PM
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Your dad is right lol, being a pussy is the worst trait a man can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:25 PM
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It's called "cottage core", "trad" is too political
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:03 PM
1

Just take the Diogenespill and rid yourself of all worldly possessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:47 PM
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Having standards is dElUsIoN, god both camps in this are fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:21 AM
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set Tinder to Philippines match with 200 girls in a week find the cutest most compatible one do long distance for a bit fly over date IRL for a bit marry That's probably less work than trying to find a match on Tinder in the west tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:30 AM
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Men don't hate on unattractive women, men just don't like unattractive women (fat, unkempt, shitty personality) who act like they're a 10/10 queen. Just like women don't like shitty fat ugly men who act like they are god's gift to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:15 AM
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Becoming a murderer to attract women is not very effective when it comes to cost-benefit lol not to mention the fact most men are not crazy sociopaths who'd commit murder for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:09 AM
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"My mom was a demon and it helped me see women as just regular people" wow really taking parenting tricks in a new direction here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:19 PM
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I didn't say i was on this sub because I'm lonely and sexless lol. I'm just trying to offer a different perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:59 AM
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Started making friends and getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:19 AM
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I will make sure to hug him lots and tell him that I love him and will always be there for him and support his dreams and be interested in him and do my best to keep him out of harmful environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:40 AM
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Just have sex, son
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:35 AM
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My mom did all this and I still ended up in this sub. And No, I do not care if he complains that he doesn’t want to go to baseball practice. He’ll go and he’ll like it. I’ll let him quit only when he reaches the age of 13, Nevermind lol, I feel sorry for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:27 AM
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My parents did all this and I still ended up being a friendless 25 year old loner before I took the redpill. Some people are born genetic trash and you can't change the fact that the world is incredibly brutal to boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:25 AM
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I never get interest IRL but I do get interest in online dating settings where no picture is involved. This tells me that my looks and not my personality are the problem. In online settings where there is a picture involved, it's also zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:19 AM
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Straight women are the demographic most likely to be in a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:51 PM
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Women on XX Why listen to people who have brainrot, srsly go outside. Vast majority of women don't consider a random brief conversation with a man to be harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:50 AM
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Animals in nature also rape and eat each other all time and eat poop, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:35 PM
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Trans men generally say they are treated better by especially men but also women. Really? Are there any statistics to back that up? I seen tons of ftm posts crying about how everyone is mean to them now. Especially that one post that went viral. Even Nora acknowledged that but she had other mental health struggles going on as well as causing dysphoria for herself. If this invalidates someones findings you might as well throw all of your feminist books in the trash lol. Did you not have a mum, fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:08 PM
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Or they might end up being really happy and growing together <3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:17 PM
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Yeah and normal people also fuck up relationships all the time. I guess nobody should be in a relationship then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:10 PM
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And? You can do the self work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:08 PM
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I imagine it's pretty bad once you are decrepit to the point where you no longer can take care of yourself. If you ask older people with health problems what their source of happiness in life is most will say it's their family/friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:01 PM
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It's a very good thing if they try to get better and take care of each other. Why people always act like broken/dysfunctional people don't deserve love lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:59 PM
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singing in schizophrenic voice True love will find you in the end...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:57 PM
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I'm a socially maladjusted freak, but never in my dreams would it occur to me to try and pimp out a girl I was trying to date. Where are you finding these men? Do normie guys really have such extreme brainrot?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:57 AM
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Wut? I just looked at r/women and 6/10 top threads are about men. Well that’s just sad. I think it is sad that redpillers live rent free in your head and you have to bring them up out of nowhere for no reason when the discussion doesn't even relate to them. Get a grip, you are in no position to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:25 AM
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Dude redpill absolutely is about dating, self improvement in the redpill context is something you do to improve your dating. As far as other subreddits go, look at r/women, trollxchromosomes, girlgamers etc. It's the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:57 AM
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Redpill is about dating specifically duh, so of course they talk about women mainly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:13 AM
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I literally gave you an example in 2x lol. I'm talking about spaces where women interact with each other. AskWomen has a distribution of men asking questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:58 AM
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Being jealous is unattractive in general lol, it has nothing to do with being feminine. Nobody wants a jealous partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:55 AM
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If you're unattractive probably not. Women deliberately give unattractive guys a hard time even in casual interactions (see Nora Vincent or other accounts from ftm guys). I didn't have any positive interactions with women growing up until I turned 25 or so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:51 AM
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Didn't know a womans attractiveness is decided by her earning lol or that attractive women's earning is some kind of benchmark
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:37 PM
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And? Men still earn more then women. How much you gotta earn before you can qualify as a provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:34 PM
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Nah modern women are more hybrid when it comes to dating. They want a crafty guy who basically grew up in a remote village who never had contact with porn video games or the internet,but is also super worldly, highly socially intelligent, driven, career oriented, confident and on board with all their political believes. The best of all worlds but belonging to none.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:30 PM
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I'm making fun of your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:00 PM
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It's not a coincidence that people who have been attacked by coloured people before tend to be racist!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:43 PM
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I guess all female pop singers who use male background dancers are guilty of sexualization now. The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:35 PM
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The only unattractive people at Walmart I see are old and fat. People in my age group and younger generally mog the fuck out of me. 5-10% is not a big groupings I mean yeah obviously but everybody pretty much falls into place according to genetics. An average guy will never become Chad no matter how hard he tries. Genetics determine your general and you can vary maybe 1-2 points depending on effort.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 05:28 PM
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Women enforce toxic masculinity way harder than men. So if anything the term 'toxic masculinity' is a cop out because it implies the problem is with masculinity and men while ignoring the part women play in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:57 PM
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No, it's pretty rare for me to see people who are genetic trash that date. I'm talking about bottom % guys and not average dudes
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:48 PM
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Work out, go to a dermatologist, try facial workouts, different clothing styles and fits and skin routines These things only give you a very small degree of control, your success is still decided by genetics. Your fat distribution, skin type, hair pattern, face shape, all genetic and cannot be changed. You can have flawless skin and a perfect bodybuilder body, if your frame, facial symmetry, bone length etc. are shit you are still invisible to women because attractiveness is decided by genetic f…
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:34 PM
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I did the same thing and it got me nowhere. If you are genetic trash all the effort in the world can't outdo shit genetics. That's the whole point of the argument, what works for a genetically gifted person doesn't work for a person with poor genetics. A genetic Chad can go out and just exist and everything will fall in his lap, someone with average genetics may do okay with effort, and someone with trash genetics is fucked for life.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:21 PM
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There are men lining up to date fat old grandmothers, they are nowhere near as picky when it comes to that stuff. Even women who are riddled with mental illnesses and bad looks can easily get a partner
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:20 PM
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Party drugs just make me go fucking wild and start punching people lmao
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:18 PM
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Most entertainers, artists, directors etc who produce the stuff that women consume are men. So yeah, women do find men interesting, in fact probably more so than each other. I mean, most female spaces literally only talk about men, male-female relations or how to appeal to men (beauty stuff etc). Looking at r/2x and every single top post is about men, with the one exception being a post about ovarian cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:09 PM
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Probably because women always talk about how they have flawless character judgement on first sight, i.e. "He was awkward in conversation and didn't make eye contact, ew what a creep!".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:15 AM
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Meeting and hanging out is not the primary purpose of mental institutions lol and getting into one is quite tough at least where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:46 PM
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Involuntarily Chadless
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:06 PM
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Yeah, since being autistic, bipolar etc is literally a disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:06 PM
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What is this notion that society should help the disabled, the poor, the elderly etc? If you're in a wheelchair and can't get up the stairs like normal people, fuck you and seethe about it, nobody wants to hang out with a cripple anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:01 PM
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The femcel phenomenon is so fucking funny tbh. These women really saw hate filled, angry loathsome incels and said "I wanna be like that!! I'm the real loser here!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:53 PM
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DUDE It's all in your head xd Have you like, just tried to be normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:44 AM
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Imagine travelling back to like 2002 and telling them people would spend the future like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:37 AM
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I just come here for a laugh, bro this shit is literally just angry fat women argueing with angry incel men. People in the real world don't even know what a Reddit is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:35 AM
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Most autists can't attract women because they are obnoxious weirdos who blame everything on their autism. I've known sooo many autistic guys who knew exactly they were being rude and obnoxious but still acted like that because "I'm autistic I can't help it" (gloating)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:11 PM
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I think a person doing literally nothing all day is far less common than people who have non-monetary interests in life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:43 PM
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No I am literally 1 unique individual in 8 billion and nobody else will ever be me or experience life the way I do. Wtf are you even asking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:11 AM
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I mean, you can probably find some new age Christian "my religion is whatever the fuck suits me best" hippie type girl. Plenty of them around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:12 AM
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Ah yes the religions that teach women to stay at home while the husband provides, surely the women will be okay with me being a bum there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:03 AM
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It's a rotten world and everybody is brainwashed to center their life around money, women and men alike
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:01 AM
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Me who is volunteering, pursuing my dream of becoming an artist, finding religion, literally donating all my books and clothes regularly and wants to be a househusband: evaporates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:59 AM
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These places still exist but people are too busy with their Netflix/video games/social media to go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:18 AM
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Wow, one random comment that didn't even get any upvotes? The evil of men knows no bounds...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:15 AM
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Reddit in general is not representative of how people in the real world think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:39 PM
2

Are those men who are not approaching the ones complaining, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:11 PM
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Deranged enough to post on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:59 PM
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Even throughout history only about 40% of men reproduced as to 80% of women. ​ Truth is there was never a guarantee for every man to find a wife or even have sex. In fact today it's probably easier than ever even for very unfortunate men. Also, if you look at a 50s or 60s yearbook, you barely see any overweight/deformed looking men because our current lifestyle is much more degenerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:44 AM
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Just match women of your age and similar or greater wealth. They will be married already because they started dating 10 years before you. Being financially stable means you are less anxious about work, not more Literally no lol. Most middle class "financially stable" people report greater anxiety because they live in fear of losing their wealth. If you have your own home, some passive income or at least just a good stash This is literally impossible to achieve now unless you were born into money…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:24 AM
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> If no - you are still good. Or you might realize that you wasted your youth chasing money to be a wheel in the coorperate machine while everybody else was getting laid and having fun. Now your hair is falling out, your body is getting fatter and you have little hope of finding a partner who is actually attracted to you and not just gold digging you. ​ > Then talk to her online - probably long time. Then go for a date. Then another date. Somewhere in the process you realize you have no chemistr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:54 AM
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> man must expect to find partner. Why? We are talking about men who are trying to find a partner at some point in their life ​ > This is exactly the wrong thinking that I criticize in the OP Yet you encourage it by encouraging people to not look for a partner, curious! ​ > If you are not hermit, you'll have some experience in communicating with people. It is not necessary to go on dates for that. ​ Communicating with your colleagues at work is different from flirting with someone on a date lol.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:36 AM
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How can you expect to find a partner if you never try to find a partner? Do you think a woman is magically going to appear in your room once your income hits a certain amount? Also, how are you going to make up for your lack of dating and romantic experience? Most women think 25 year old kissless virgin men who don't know how to talk to women are weird. It still leeches time Bruh online dating takes a couple minutes per week at most. You can also try to meet women while doing fun stuff. Do you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:00 AM
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Do people who give this advice think young guys just chase women 24/7? Most young guys are in school or working. They are already focussing on their career because that's what everyone does. NEETS are the exception. You can both focus on yourself and try to meet women at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:46 AM
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I wouldn't choose either of them tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:23 AM
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An anxious girl probably wants a chadly extroverted guy who gets her out of her rut
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:18 AM
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Because they are shy and anxious themselves and don't need more of that in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:13 AM
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So you hang out in a bubble of sociopaths, fitting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:06 AM
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The fact people pretend the bar is s good place to meet people when it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:55 AM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder sweetie. ​ Also Eva Braun was not related to Hitler, you are probably thinking of Geli Raubal. No need to make him sound worse than he was
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:07 PM
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​ <image> Average face. Balding. Not fit/ Pudgy. Not tall (I think he’s like 5’8) He doesn’t care about coming off hyper masculine. And yet, he has a cute girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:55 PM
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It has worked for me so I think it's always worth it to give it a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:02 PM
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Ugly stoic guy = who cares Hot stoic guy = omg so mysterious, I wonder what's his secret??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:00 PM
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Fuck yes I absolutely would date a muscular, tall deranged schizoid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:43 PM
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Yeah but there are better options than going to a bar and people pretending it's the best way for everyone have their head in their asses
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:42 PM
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Is it really such an alien concept to you that what works for you doesn't work for everyone else and that some people find those kind of environments extremely uncomfortable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:22 PM
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Why are Redditors so sociopathically low in empathy and gloating about it, you never hear anyone talk like this in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:19 PM
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Because it's just not true. A bar is literally the worst place to meet people, especially if you're not normal. You are gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:27 PM
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Who's talking about being a victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:19 PM
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I see you're one of the good ones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:14 PM
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Yeah fuck making the world more inclusive I guess A partner isn't going to pop up in your room Nobody asks for this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:13 PM
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You realize people with autism, social phobia etc exist for whom places like that feel like torture, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:45 PM
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Sex feels good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:03 AM
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ugly people should not reproduce Least sociopathic woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:01 AM
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Porn is useless The porn industry is evil as fuck Porn is not a substitute for sex, love or intimacy Nobody needs porn to jack off All porn does is make you worse But then, op started the argument with "yeah it gives you ED.." so I guess this is just a troll lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:41 AM
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We have a lot of derogatory words for those people. Rich kid, trust fund kid, nepo baby, silver spoon which you even said in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:27 AM
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Almost everyone in the modern world is dysfunctional to one degree or another, finding a decent well adjusted functional person is like searching for a needle in a haystack. And just like a starved person will be grateful for even burnt food after a few years of going without love and companionship you're gonna start craving even the mental headcase personality disorder girl. Especially if you know that you yourself are fucked in the head and don't really deserve the good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:01 AM
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They're not 'doing the same things' getting laid is a lot more difficult for men than it is for women. So the 'stud' actually has some kind of achievement whereas the woman simply opened her legs, there is nothing impressive about what she did unless she managed to bag an insanely high value man like a movie star or billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:55 PM
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Those are hobby groups where women can go unbothered by strange men. Then they go home to be with their boyfriends or look for a boyfriend. They don't live a "women-only" life. More than 70% of straight women are in relationships. Moreso than straight men or even non-straight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:49 PM
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Given the fact that straight women are most likely to be in a relationship with over 70% of them chosing to be in a relationship rather than single, and that all attempts at women-only-communes have fizzled out faster than you can say "personality disorder", I think that talk can be chalked up to a few delusional terminally online radical feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:46 PM
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Thanks officer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:33 PM
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If you think women are less horny and objectifying than men you simply don't know many women that well. They are often just as perverted, they are just more covert about it or its seen as cute (e.g. the way women will be obsessed over the private life's of their celebrity crush is just gossip whereas men taking the same level of interest in strange women they don't know are seen as creepy stalkers in a parasocial relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:36 PM
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Most mass shootings are done by professional assassins in cooperation with the government and police, they just foil some poor mentally ill dude as a patsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:21 AM
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It's called being prison gay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:13 AM
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So it's easy, just bring a camera
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:21 AM
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Here's a guy asking out 100 women and not a single one tried to ruin his life over it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mC34TSXNKiY
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:05 PM
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Because OkCupid was changed and they made it exactly like all the other dating apps. It's just a more wordy Tindr now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:35 PM
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Fat girl chasers exist. That said, I think some chubby and even very fat women can look cute/hot if it suits them. But most people would better if they lost weight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:34 AM
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Yeah, that's not a direct confrontation lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:55 AM
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Your mom ever gave you advice or tried to help you? Damn, I'm jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:42 PM
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Women don't even criticize other women openly, because women are agreeable and adverse to direct confrontations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:05 PM
0

Finally some advice that people will actually want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:33 AM
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There are plenty of groups where you can find women... I am in a volunteer gardening project and an acrobatics class and it's mostly women there. The thing is, those women don't want anything to do with you if you're ugly..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:00 AM
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https://www.amazon.de/-/en/Shane-Burcaw/dp/1626727708
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:58 AM
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"Just save up 20000$ to pay for face surgery bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:56 AM
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You can do all this and still be an incel. I did all this and was a champion wrestler in college. Deadlift 400, Bench 250, Bitches 0. Women don't care how much you lift if your face is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:53 AM
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I don't know man, I didn't have the internet growing up and my parents only allowed video games for 1 hour per week. I still developed pretty bad social anxiety and awkwardness. I didn't have friends in school and spent most of the time daydreaming in the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:50 PM
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It's always "Men will fuck anything" Vs "Men only want to fuck supermodels and porn stars" on this sub. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:59 PM
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Yeah, myself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:55 AM
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It's true, but at this point most people are too brain damaged by social media, porn and consumer culture. Short of a solar flare that destroys all electronics on earth the trend won't be reversed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:06 AM
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I have a really good skincare and haircare routine and I hit the gym regularily. Still 3/10 facially until I scratch the couple thousand bucks together to get surgery. Just trying to keep things realistic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:48 PM
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What is confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:26 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:26 PM
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Ah yes, all men are fat drunk slobs because that's what you saw growing up in the 80s lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:23 PM
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This is the biggest bullshit ever lol. If your bone structure is shit you'll still be an uggo even with perfect skin and hair. Plus there is literally a paywall to all this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:19 PM
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The sort of women who go to furry conventions are often the BPD types who will stab you in your sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:03 PM
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Nah it doesn't matter if he's attractive. Socially awkward hot guy = cute Socially awkward ugly guy = definitely a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:01 PM
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Not really if you are poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:47 PM
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Most women cause their dating issues They have too high standards. No men under 6 feet, no fat men, no virgin men, no men younger than them. That eliminates most men yet women will still try gaslight men into thinking that women have low standards (they dont). Womens high standards cause their down fall in dating, if an average girl thinks shes too good for a fat guy then shes delusional in todays dating climate. Women nowadays are bitter and resentful of men. Just because men are bigger and str…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:02 AM
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I'm not extremely isolated. I'm fairly outgoing and I can talk to people easily without coming across as some gigasperg. Therapy has mostly been trying to fix my trauma, but it hasn't really done anything I wouldn't say therapy has done nothing. It has made me feel worse in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:08 AM
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"Just accepted being an unlovable loser for the rest of your life" suicide honestly seems like a better option lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:05 AM
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Been going since I was 21 and I'm 30 now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:00 AM
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I've gone to therapy lol. Therapy does nothing to make you more attractive or get out of that bottom 1%. Still a lazy eyed, acne scarred, bald slab of flesh with no prospects for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:58 AM
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I'm one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:53 AM
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When you admit that you are a bottom 1% man people will immediately tell you that you need more confidence and that you are too negative with yourself... that kind of self awareness is actually discouraged lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:48 AM
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Does he?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:43 AM
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Nah it's a "shit bitter women on Reddit say" phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:12 PM
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I'm guessing those women don't leave the house given the chance of randomly being near a man outside the house then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:11 PM
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It's a lot easier ever since so many dudes are getting blackpilled to death at an early age and just give up on dating entirely, there are so many women desperate for sex and romance now its absolutely crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:41 PM
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After you feel love you actually realize it's not that special and comes with a host of new problems
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:11 PM
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'Hot' according to whom? Beauty is subjective sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:13 PM
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Hot both in terms of personality and looks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:31 PM
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America probably needs that lol but your government doesnt give a shit. By all metrics Japan is one of the safest and healthiest countries in the world for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:31 PM
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Like who? Ted Bundy and Dahmer weren't ugly. There's plenty of examples of unattractive criminals who nobody wants to fuck, eg Stephen McDaniel. At most those serial killers benefit from getting huge coverage on national news etc, exposing them to more women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:24 PM
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If you look at the average woman sleeping with drug addicts, she’s probably not the type of woman you’re seeking. Some of those women are super hot, wtf are you talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:15 PM
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Men who are shitbags and get laid are attractive. If you are unattractive, being a shitbag won't improve your odds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:15 PM
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Because they don't see men as people, they just want a high status accessoire to brag with before their friends. House husband is not something to brag with because deep down they know housework is inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:53 PM
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Women can just open their own doors lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:35 PM
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Japan is autism: the country. It has nothing to do with the quality of men there. Men in the west are probably far worse than the average Japanese guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:35 PM
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OP discovers that supermodel guys only exist in model photoshoots with perfect makeup and lighting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:26 PM
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Men complain that women are no longer trad and feminine but then also complain when women actually want a trad masculine man, like gee why do you think your 50s trad wife would be okay with you being a limp wristed nu male?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:59 AM
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OP is correct
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:54 AM
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I have literally never heard of Andrew Tate before everybody started talking about how much they hate him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:37 AM
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Dude feminism is a big shittest, not even women believe in that shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:43 AM
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Enjoy life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:02 PM
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More men are in the gym and seeking hairloss treatments than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:12 AM
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You just don't notice the men who have moved on because they keep quiet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:19 AM
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Uhhmm actually you must be evil and that's why you get rejected, woman can detect such things 100% of the time. Now excuse me while I go read some Ted Bundy fan fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:58 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/3794995/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:04 PM
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Given the fact that women are just as lonely or even lonelier than men even when they have more friends, probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:37 PM
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A bloo bloo bloo, I have to get a job and be a functional adult, life is so hard for me ; (
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:07 PM
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Men actually care more about fellow men than women care about fellow women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:08 PM
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They want men to have a small dating pool and not be outgoing. Someone with less options is more desperate and easier to control. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:55 PM
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They need to stop acting entitled to other peoples money, and start working on themselves so they actually have something to offer. You are not entitled to a raise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:18 PM
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"If women want better pay, why do they not ask for higher wages as often as men do?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:44 PM
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it's an "OP makes up a conversation in his head and gets mad" episode A timeless classic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:42 PM
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Adult woman is into things like lego or videogames = cute and quirky Adult man is into things like lego or videogames = icky manchild
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:33 PM
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You know you can have high testosterone and not act like a horny ape, right? It's called self control. We don't need some Children of Men-style scenario where we chemically castrate everybody to 'fix things'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:12 PM
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"I known a guy who..." look at the science. Generally women score way higher neuroticism, i.e. they are more fearful, anxious, insecure and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:10 AM
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Nah, your lack of understanding of the sitation and thinking social media posts constitute a study is unnerving lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:44 PM
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That was directed at your "well they will be lonely in 35 years..." threat. Also, there's no debate to be had with that person. Their dad is a shitty person, it happens. They need a therapist. My mom was a shitty person too, I don't go around saying "All women are bad because my mom...". That would be completely ridiculous, but for some reason it's acceptable for women to project their dad problems onto the whole population.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:33 PM
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They care if you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:17 AM
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When men deliberately take interest in women's stuff they are accused of being creepy intruders, or gay lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:16 AM
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I don't know a single person who uses an AI girlfriend, and I talk to plenty of losers, outcasts and weirdos. It's only a few Redditors who somehow bring the topic up constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:06 AM
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The real 80/20 are the friends we made along the way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:31 PM
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A while ago a homeless dude posted a selfie on a subreddit asking for skincare advice. He was good looking. The comment section was full of people gushing over his looks and saying over and over how stunning he was, and joking about wanting to house him. The dude didn't have to pass a safety check, didn't have to build rapport or status, didn't even have to take a shower, and he got showered with possitive affirmation and thirst just for having good face genetics. No bad judgement for his charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:58 PM
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I responded to the wrong thread. My bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:58 PM
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Here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Skincare_Addiction/comments/16in8p7/homeless_with_acne/ ​ Apparently, he's got a modelling contract after posting that selfie lol: https://www.reddit.com/r/homeless/comments/16jp8og/got_modeling_contracts_while_homeless/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:46 PM
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When you're truly weird, you get tough fast or life breaks you. You grow a thick skin, you have convictions, you learn to not back down when confronted. And some people may find that endearing. Basically, you're A boy named Sue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:29 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:24 PM
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Lot of assumptions there, you are basically making the equivalent of a "you WILL be a sad catlady" threat lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:47 PM
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How do men benefit from women not approaching them? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:20 PM
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men set it up Are those men in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:28 PM
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Damn, that's cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:24 PM
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Because guys are constantly told to have interests and be passionate about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:22 PM
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Idk how you got to that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:40 PM
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I think male loneliness isn't that special. Women are just as lonely, in fact some studies reveal that women are even lonelier. MRA/manosphere types just screech about male loneliness because they wanna be victims too in some way. That said, it's easier for women to branch out and meet people since women are generally seen as harmless and wonderful while by now it's almost a crime for a man to be socially awkward in public. That kind of thing chips away at mens self esteem much more. If it wasn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:28 PM
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What about female loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:23 PM
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Intuition
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:29 PM
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I'd argue most men are also only attracted to 20% or less of women. Namely young, skinny, attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:23 PM
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IIRC it's based on one OKCupid study which also showed that those women were unlikely to be interested in the 'attractive' men. Women don't like men who are too attractive because it makes them insecure, and they think being beautiful is their domain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:22 PM
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Guarantee you the women who post on that sub largely have terminal brainrot, or were born male.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:20 PM
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I don't think anyone claims women never get rejected by men. In fact women are terrified of rejection, which is why they largely refuse to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:19 PM
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You shouldn't do what most people do. Idk where you live but I see hot young women pretty much everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:18 PM
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Your study doesn’t do that. There’s no bridge or be built here. The study literally shows your assumption is wrong, so idk what else there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:12 PM
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Women being terrified of slightly awkward guys is really funny tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:09 PM
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You think an 18 year old looks 12. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:05 PM
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I live in Europe. You can see attractive women at any bus stop here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:40 PM
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What are you talking about? I never said any of this stuff. Stop projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:10 PM
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Nobody is asking to be rescued. You are basically making up a person in your head and then getting mad at that person. My original post was literally just one sentence lol. Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:27 PM
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If you manage to spend all day painting miniatures Nobody deliberately ostracizes you for your choice of hobby. They just let you go off alone and don't hunt you down to save you from your choices. Sounds like you have a deeply resentful, stereotypical view of people with a-typical interests. You should go seek therapy to reflect on those hateful views.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:02 PM
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What makes me chronically online? I just go on Reddit when I'm bored and have nothing to do. Can you try making an argument instead of flinging personal attacks and assumptions? who is reacting defensively to “consideration is good” I didn't do that. I posted a study that shows you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:56 AM
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You choose your hobbies. You can't 'choose' to be interested in something. Unless you mean brainwashing yourself or whatever... some people will always gravitate more towards certain things than others. If a guy naturally feels more joy painting miniatures than he does doing whatever you consider a more worthwhile, social hobby, why should he be forced to go through the effort of brainwashing himself to enjoy something else. You just decided that painting miniatures was much much more important …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:53 AM
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It’s a tweet from one person that resonated with 100s of thousands of others. In research we call that a massive qualitative study. Yeah, on Twitter, which is where mentally ill and terminally online people live lmao. It didn't really resonate with me, since the men in my family were quite traditional but also had tons of friends and none of my grandpas spent their old age being alone. When you stop being defensive, my OP is unpacking the bond portion. Nah you are basically saying that men are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:10 AM
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Yeah it's a tweet from one person. N=1. It's not evidence. I posted a study. I am making which is “male loneliness” extends past what incels think of it as which seems to be “not having sex.” If you actually talked to men who talk about feeling lonely you will find most of them are young, have no family, struggle to make friends and feel they have 0% chance at finding a partner despite trying their best, and they resonate with the experience of the likes of Norah Vincent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:59 AM
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The men in that video have wife and kids. They are not the ones complaining about loneliness. Your whole argument hinges on connecting two different social media posts. The truth is, men aren't significantly lonelier than women. In fact there's little difference or women feel lonelier than men despite having more friends. But when men say they are lonely, they get jumped on and blamed "It must be your fault, you're probably an asshole just like my dad!!!!" while women receive sympathy and suppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:43 AM
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But the dads in the video have wives and kids. They are not the ones complaining about loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:22 AM
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I don't have a problem scoring... I can still acknowledge that a lot of suffering could be avoided if general society was more engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:23 PM
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Society taking some responsibility and caring about people is good, not deflecting everything to "personal problem" and pretending it can't be fixed on a global scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:03 PM
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I thought the difference was more about being able to speak, not being mentally disabled, e.g. the difference between something like Aspergers and full blown nonverbal autism. That’s gonna be a really hard sell on the dating market I just date women who have the same problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:00 PM
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Good for them, but not everyone can be a social butterfly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:49 PM
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Idk about you but I live in a country with social welfare and public healthcare and I think that's much better than letting people go homeless or bankrupt because they got medical bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:47 PM
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I’m making the argument that going from meet -> date is much much easier when meeting in the context of your social circle vs meeting in the context of cold approaching or online dating. No it's not. In fact social circle makes it harder to engage with new people because most people will stay in their own circle and it becomes difficult to branch outside or get someone else to come out of their circle. That mythical thing where someone from your friend circle introduces you to someone they know …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:40 PM
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It's not hard to meet women. Literally just go to any public place, walk up to someone and start a chat. You don't need a social circle for that. Making friends is actually insanely easy if you actually just go do stuff. That's how you make aquaintances, not friends. Just being someones DnD comrade or whatever won't make them care about you as a person. If it was 'insanely easy' there wouldn't be so many people (men and women) struggling with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:26 PM
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> Do you have interesting, social hobbies? ​ Is there even an objective definition of this? Why should people who gravitate towards solitary or quirky activities be ostracized?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:17 PM
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I find it easier to bang women than to make friends. Banging women is easy, making friends is hard. Do you have a core group of friends? Do you have interesting, social hobbies? Does your social circle include both genders? This is completely irrelevant to getting laid btw
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:15 PM
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There are definitely things that could be done to help alleviate or even fix these problems. You are just downplaying societal responsibility while emphasizing personal responsibility. It's like saying "Poor people just need to work harder on themselves." The whole thinking is very neoliberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:14 PM
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TIL apparently I'm low functioning. Thanks, Doctor!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:43 PM
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I'm just repeating the feminist argument. Basically, if in a population there's 10 suicidal men out of which nine succeed in killing themselves and 20 suicidal women out of which 3 succeed in killing themselves that means the women are doing worse because they are more suicidal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:19 PM
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Are any of these people in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:39 PM
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Yeah, because they are better at self deleting, due factors like being more likely to own a gun etc. However women still have way more suicide attempts, so they do worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:20 PM
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Just means that women struggle more and need meds to function? Fwiw, the difference between men and women when it comes to seeking help is only like 5% so it's not like it's a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:15 PM
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Men prefer to do things that we like, not mundane things that our partners/families drag us into and we are not really invested in. We go along because our loved ones would be sad if we didn't. What this has to do with male loneliness I have no idea. Pretty much all hobby groups/leisure activities I attend are dominated by men who are happy to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:11 PM
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Women attempt suicide more often, they just use less efficient methods. At least that's the argument that feminists always make to prove women still have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:56 PM
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I was joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:56 AM
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You don't have to be a Chad to get laid with hot girls. Personality unironically can outdo all your flaws. I'm unemployed, deranged and pretty ugly, but I score. All you have to do is make her laugh, be genuinely interested in her as a person and allow a deeper connection to establish (e.g. make her feel that she is knowing the real you and not just a personality that you put on to impress her.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:10 PM
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They just need to work harder on themselves and stop acting entitled to other peoples wealth. You can still totally live a meaningful and awesome life while being poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:47 PM
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This is the result of feminism teaching sensitive young men that merely looking at a woman is literally rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:15 PM
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Still needed to point that out... as if ugly people can't have good looking children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:51 PM
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You literally said choosing a fit, tall partner is the superior choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:37 PM
0

So... yay for eugenics?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:19 AM
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I'd say about 50% of a man's income goes to the state through. Then about 25-40% on rent, food, insurance, energy costs and other basic life stuff depending on where you live. If the remaining 10% is still big enough that you can spend it on women, indulge yourself I guess. Personally I've never spent a dime on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:25 AM
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Who went to the store to purchase your first video game console/electronic? Your dad? I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:22 AM
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You can't force a woman to bang you, but you also can't force a man to be your friend. Personally, I'd argue it's easier with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:13 PM
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Whut? Men hit the gym, buy expensive clothes and status symbols and practice their rhetoric just to impress women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:07 PM
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I would jump right into the fray and defend that m'lady with my life Then lean in, tip my fedora and whisper "It was my privilege"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:56 PM
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Dude even a complete beginner can achieve these lifts by lifting and eating right consistently for about a year or so lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:17 AM
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You know we could just call these women toxic and insane and move on, but that's misogyny because it's just their preference. Meanwhile guys who talk about being icked out by women with a ton partners are reviled and called every bad word in the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:17 PM
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I started getting laid when I stopped giving a fuck about "self improving" and started living life as my authentic self. I stopped trying to be a normie or gym bro and embraced being an edgy mentally ill lunatic. And yes the girls I started to attract were also mental headcases but they were hot and had cool personalities. Self impro to get laid is a toxic mindset because there is always someone buffer, richer and funnier so you will never be good enough. There is only one authentic you, and try…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:32 PM
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Oneitis is a pretty old word and it just means someone who is pathologically infatuated with someone who doesn't return the interest. Words aren't bad just because you don't understand them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:07 AM
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Sounds like he just had a bad case of oneitis. A simp would move on to a different woman. Also lol @ the fact that Gonne refused the softboy writer and instead married a violent nationalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:23 PM
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You forget that in the system of courtly love, simping paid off. If a lady choose a man and he performed the required amount of quests (simping), she was obliged to put out and reward him with minne (sex), If she asked for too much and did not put out it was considered a violation of the contract. Whereas today women can harvest simps as much as they want. Also, the courtly love you describe is only an idealized version that mostly existed in songs, and only applied to high status people of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:53 PM
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Do you have evidence to support your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:32 PM
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Nobody is talking about doing that, though, unless you think single sex schools and military subscription are somehow imprisonment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:21 AM
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If women committed the majority of violent crimes, were more likely to be unemployed, addicted and lacking self control and agency where they couldn't do anything without getting male attention as a reward, something definitely would need to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:31 AM
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Are you a violent addict with no impulse control? If yes maybe do something about it. If no this post doesn't really speak to you does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:28 AM
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Yeah, there's something called 130 Stgb (Volksverhetzung) with thousands of convictions each year. There was recent case of somebody getting sacked for spamming incel memes online while hiding his anonymity. https://de.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Volksverhetzung
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:09 PM
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Yeah, because it would be less deserving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:05 PM
1

I'm from Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:03 PM
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IIRC Holes was about the prison complex and the inmates were basically just doing useless labor. I was thinking of something more meaningful, like gardening or building roads.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:26 AM
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It's internalized misandry to believe men should take care of themselves and not be brainbroken addicts?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:02 AM
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But is that true? no. Most these women would be deemed as unattractive by men. The first 3 are hot. Bottom 2 are still attractive to men in their age group. Besides, you should keep your weight in check for health reasons, not just because men are attracted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:52 AM
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for having an opinion. Or expressing an opinion Saying shit like "all women should be raped" online isn't an opinion worth protecting. Most western countries don't tolerate that shit, go say that in Germany or Britain and you will at the very least pay a fine, not to mention the social repercussions. Those countries are hardly draconian dictatorships. If anything, rounding them all up and putting them together to suffer for their opinions would only bolster them honestly. I have a friend who is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:13 AM
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The very existence of silicon valley or a steeply higher rate of virginity at top rank universities Do you have a single statistic to back up this claim? Besides, how is virginity a measure of success? I'd rather be a virgin with a Harvard degree and a Silicon Valley job than a bum who fucks a different crackwhore every week. the destruction of gender identity for heterosexual individuals What destruction of gender identity? You are as free to be a heterosexual man as you always were.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:59 AM
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Nobody forces you to do some shit job, having to do that kind of job can be avoided by just going to school, nobodys stopping you from having a "comfy" womens job like teacher or journalist. Besides those hard labour jobs are usually fairly well paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:56 AM
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How exactly does society treat certain men? Why do those men turn to self destructive behaviour instead of finding productive solutions? The men who succeed shouldn't be punished with draconian measures Single sex education, military service and forced therapy aren't some draconian scary dictatorship thing. Even a fairly liberal country like Germany had mandatory military/social service until fairly recently, and will forcibly institutionalize people who threaten murder or suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:54 AM
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So men would rather start a civil war than stop being incels, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:51 AM
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I don't think forced labor is okay The US literally forces people to do forced labour over harmless shit like selling weed. Most countries, even fairly liberal ones realize labour is incredibly important to resocialization. I don't think comparing men to dogs is okay Lee Kuan Yew did it, and his country has done fairly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:50 AM
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Trump derangement syndrome, get help There's a world outside the US and most countries have hate speech laws without turning into scary dictatorships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:48 AM
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These people refuse to get help or better themselves, so rounding them up and sending them to a camp or institution is literally the only thing that would help unless you want to continue leaving them to rot and be a burden on society. Like the other poster said, mandatory military service is a thing in many countries and it's not some scary dictatorship thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:47 AM
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Funny cause men on average lean more towards authoritarianism, vote more conservative and favour brutal punishments. Besides advocating for single sex schools, military service and resocialization through labor isn't super authoritarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:50 AM
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It's not hard to get respect. Besides, the natural, healthy response to net getting respect would be to put in some work, not sedate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:47 AM
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There is backlash, so idk what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:45 AM
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I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:44 AM
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How is masculinity not rewarded today? Everybody fawns over well put together driven men and hates feminine shy guys. Men who did military service generally do well in society with the discipline and courage they learned. Men didn't just randomly change. Yeah, they got exceedingly easier access to porn, drugs and electronic entertainments and are not handling it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:37 PM
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We already lock people up for miniscule things like not paying their bills, is it really such a big leap to lock up incels who spew misogynist shit online all day? misandrist Hard to not be a little misandrist when you look at the facts and the shit men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:23 PM
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Men on average do worse than women though. Do worse in school, more likely to be addicted, criminal, suffer an early death etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:01 PM
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The solution is simply, destroy all electronical technology and ban hormonal contraceptives. That way the average man doesn't have to complete with movie star/boyband male image in the media anymore and women will be hornier since their libido isn't suppressed by the pill anymore. This will also be good for women because men won't have anymore porn and video games to rot their brains with. The downside is you'll probably die from an infection or getting your brains bashed in by a rival tribe, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:11 PM
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These women are mad because when men refuse them friendship they realise they have nothing to offer except their pussy. They don't have interesting personalities, they aren't pleasant to be around, they waste their life doing nothing but watching Netflix and drinking. Women who are actually fun to be around don't have a problem finding and keeping male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:36 PM
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Because they were raised by single mothers and female teachers to be non-aggressive and with feminist messages like "It's okay for boys to be feminine and weak". Then they grow up and realize that it's in fact not okay to be feminine and weak, and it sends them into an existential turmoil. Basically they were a promised a world where they can be vulnerable and don't need to be masculine only to find out they were lied to and that men are still very much required to be men even though everyone pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:41 AM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:28 AM
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Being more aggressive, provocative and just giving less of a fuck in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:01 AM
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By cutting out the bullshit and being honest about how women and humans in general act.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:39 PM
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Yeah, me. I'm pretty ugly but I do okay with women now and I've had sex/flings with some pretty hot girls. Before adapting I was a bluepilled eternal virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:37 PM
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Bruh there are so many men who would kill for a tall queen. There are nowhere near as many women who lust after short men in the same way. The reason men often don't approach tall women is intimidation and their own fear of heightism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:29 PM
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If gay men alone can beef up the male creators like that why are lesbians not doing the same for their content creating sisters? Are lesbians sex workerphobic or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:58 PM
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As soon as a woman smells you her subconscious will check for certain chemicals that indicate your immune systems are compatible. If you are compatible BOOM, there's attraction. You can be the the most handsome rich guy in the world and yet certain women will feel absolutely nothing when near you even if they found you attractive in photos. I'm not joking. Smell is king. Take the sniffpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:54 PM
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Yeah those are hot guys. For every hot unemployed guy there's probably a dozen who are permanently out of the dating. And most sane women will never have a long term relationship with a penniless dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:46 PM
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Times changed. In the 80s you could have a regular old working class job and it would pay for your house, your wife and your 4 kids. Men now have less to offer simply for economic reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:37 PM
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IF ONLY I COULD ​ MAKE A DEAL WITH GOD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:41 PM
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No Get a face transplant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:27 AM
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I don't know but I went TRP when I was depressed and at my lowest and it turned me into a completely different person and I feel much better now. I was a bluepill cuck in denial of reality for years, the sooner you stop believing the lies the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:30 AM
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I'm pretty ugly but I think it's worth it. It's a nice confidence boost to know that you can get a woman off despite your looks and women will like you more and be nicer to you if you make them cum. Women also like to talk about their sex life with their female friends so if you give good dick she will brag about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:46 AM
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0 because I'm a bottom 1% man and nobody wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:58 PM
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I think a beard is just makeup for men because it hides half their face and a weak jaw. For some men it's also their autistic special interest. I'm a pretty ugly guy so I get told to grow a beard all the time only for it to come out scraggly and thin like pubes. Damned if I do, damned if I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:42 AM
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Being very unattractive or unpleasant to look at; offensive to the sense of beauty; displeasing in appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:09 PM
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None of those things are abnormal defects, literally almost everyone has an asymmetrical face, is skinny, fat or pale, acne is normal as like 90% of people have it at some point, what even does "face doesn't fit the body" mean? By this logic something like 90% of the population is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:50 PM
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Are women who like plushies childish now? I'm an adult and I know quite a few grown women who are into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:51 PM
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Those dudes aren't average, first is literally a 25 year old virgin and the second is on a 4 year long dryspell, they are pick me boys looking to get some asspats. 3rd guy is good looking and only made the post to flex. Edit: also isn't it telling that the "average" guys are incels while one "average" girl is in a relationship with two dudes at once lmao and the other is married and has kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:34 PM
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Those are all normal things. If you said women with those features were ugly you'd get grilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:31 PM
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What makes them ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:01 AM
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Plain Jane is literally the most attractive woman to men according to studies. Men rate averageness higher than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:30 AM
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I find that often these supposedly "ugly guys who get girlfriends" are really not that ugly, they are just normal dudes. But everyone who doesn't look like a movie star is considered below average these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:07 AM
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Please read another book
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:34 AM
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Leftist men will be more attractive to women when they actually start taking power and dominating their opponents. Oh, and not looking like a soyjack also helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:24 AM
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Health and genetic fitness are timeless and always win.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:01 PM
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https://www.newsweek.com/hpv-oral-sex-men-higher-risk-686645 Eating pussy can literally give you cancer, lol. Not wanting to eat pussy is valid. (I still eat pussy because im reckless and uncaring).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:42 PM
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Tfw no manipulative psycho gf. Why even live?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:15 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:12 AM
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If you take anything you read on Reddit seriously you are a lost cause. Especially when it comes to human interactions, gender politics etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:07 PM
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Better than remaining an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:48 AM
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If he wasn't a fat fuck hed pull way more, if he didn't have the PUA approach he wouldn't pull at all. Idk what you are trying to prove, not everyone can look good so it's good that other approaches exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:34 AM
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Women basically see men as one of 5 things: - walking dildo - ATM - social ladder - emotional tampon - free food dispenser If you are very good looking, you can be her dildo. If you have money, you can be her ATM. If you have status, you can be her social ladder. If you have emotional and verbal intelligence, she may cry on your shoulder after one of the first 3 hurt her feelings. If you are unremarkable but have a job, you can always be free food to her after she failed to get married to one of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:26 AM
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For me, it's the fact that they all include their boobs in their selfies lmao.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 08:49 AM
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You could probably find a guy like that easily in a place like Taize or other religious gatherings here in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:47 PM
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Okay, how does the number change? And how many autistic people without comorbidities are there?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:36 AM
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In the UK something like 80% of autistic people are unemployed. In the US it's even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:22 AM
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Some women like vikings and some like Asian twinks on TV shows. Wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:07 PM
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I'm ugly as fuck. But I also don't go on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:01 PM
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Well I'm edgy, ugly and broke and it works pretty good for me. I guess being tall is that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:14 PM
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Nice=boring, it's that simple. Always putting on the customer service face is a great way to be liked by all and loved by none. That doesn't mean to act like an obnoxious asshole all the time, but a little bit of edge does wonders. Walk into any group of people and tell the most inhuman joke you know. Chance is a few people may be offended, some may not care, and some will laugh their ass to off and think "wow this guy is different". Being nice gets none of that reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:26 PM
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That's life in general now, not just dating. People will rather vanish without explanation than going through the hassle of simply typing a text message. If your contact is only electronical there's no reason to extend basic courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:06 AM
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Germanys birthrate has been below reproduction rate since 1970.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:25 PM
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If anything he had an advantage due to his unusually aggressive nature. Average German guy is shy and asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:55 PM
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Yes and hobbies and passions are what actually makes the personality and not how you act in a restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:54 PM
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I feel like this post is talking about some specific group of migrants. Maybe the biggest pussyslayer I've ever known was a Turkish guy living here in Germany working as a nurse. He was short and not amazing looking, but he was banging every hot woman at his job and picking up women at every party he went to. Mind you Turkish men have a bad reputation in this country. The reason why he was so successful: he was aggressive + didn't give a fuck + was in the right place surrounded by female co-work…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:44 PM
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You didn't mention anything about his life. The guy you described could be either Hank Hill or Max Cady lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:33 PM
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Bro none of what you described has anything to do with personality. You can be an absolutely rotten sack of shit and still conduct yourself demanding respect while being polite to the waiter. Meanwhile the kindest most interesting guys may not even be able to keep eye contact. What you are describing is a mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:08 PM
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Women do approach and give compliments, but only to attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:14 PM
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Nah I've been there already.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:05 PM
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facially deformed ugly women still had sex with several different men Lord have mercy on us
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:41 PM
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Funnily enough that birthrate isn't far off from other countries like Germany. Pretty much all 1st world countries have birthrates below replacement levels since the introduction of the pill. Nobody wants to have kids anymore because everyone is psyopped and traumatized by the public school system. Our economy is inflationary so nobody can even afford a house and a car at this point. Most of the population is content idling their life away playing with electronic gadgets and doing drugs. The dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:42 AM
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Plenty of people are in therapy and still depressed, bipolar, schizophrenic etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:28 PM
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Many mental problems may very well last a lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:26 PM
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No, outsiders and losers always existed. That said it was much easier for example to move out of your parents house. My dad had a working class wage and he had his own house, car, 4 kids and a wife by his mid-20s with my mom staying at home and never needing to get a job. There were also much less electronic distractions (no social media, no Netflix, TV only had like 4 programs, a 16 bit video game cost like 70 bucks to buy) so people were forced to go out and socialize much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:05 PM
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Do you want people with problems to not have relationships? Are you some kind of eugenicist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:55 AM
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Depressed, mentally ill, unstable people get into relationships all the time. Also, if somebody is completely indifferent to human contact and affirmation that's not normal, that's schizoid personality disorder. That kind of advice isn't advice at all, it's people telling you to shut up and go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:21 PM
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Social media has really done a number on men's psyche by elevating the voices of histrionic/narcissistic/BPD women huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:54 AM
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What are you gonna do about capitalism? There's not really anything you can do about it. You could be a communist but they don't like trad people and most of them are motivated by abolishing you, ignoring the fact that being a communist is completely hopeless in this day and age. You could try being a Monarchist but that's even more hopeless. Short of becoming a Unabomber there aren't really any options there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:11 PM
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The internet used to be a lot more friendly and talkative. Only when they let all the normies in through facebook and other cancer social media it became the shithole it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:29 AM
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Especially if it's love for hunting, joy of lifting weights, pride of having a high paying job, hope to buy a second house soon, and happiness for being in good health.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:27 AM
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Nature did not put men here to talk about their feelings, you were put here to hunt, fight, fuck and die. When you are doing anything else women sense that you are a waste of their time and it's time for them to move on and find Grug. That's why the general response to emotional men is telling them to fuck off. If you are a man you are better off looking to other men for advice because they have some stake in you being mentally fit ("This guy can't fight while being this emotional, so I better h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:02 AM
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Ideal partner in the eyes of women is either a caveman with a soft side or a rapey vampire billionaire. Anything else and you get into child replacement territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:07 PM
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The men with bugatis definitely get to have more options than your average frustrated chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:03 PM
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I think being a neckbeard is fun. You get to live without a care. And this sub is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:42 PM
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Defeatist attitude? I'm happy bro, isn't that the goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:34 PM
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Okay, I am perfectly content being a jobless neckbeard though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:19 PM
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Losing weight shouldn't even be marketed as self improvement, that's just being healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:18 PM
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"Self improvement" has become a huge cancer. It's basically become the ultimate cop-out when things get too difficult and society level problems become apparent. You're unhappy and unsuccessful? Well, just gotta improoooove a little more, if you can't make it you're just too stupid and selfish and you can go back and rot in Your Moms Basement(TM). What, you think society should be less shitty to autistic people? No that's not possible, society is perfectly good, you are just an entitled incel. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:45 AM
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Whaaaaaat? You mean humans are sometimes irrational and do not always compute the SMV of their mate with 100% accuracy? Reeeeeally?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:35 AM
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be me look out the window see plenty of mid dudes with girlfriends and wives I guess women are still enslaved where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:08 PM
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Try self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:05 PM
1

Uhm there's plenty of sex education both for teens and adults. Try reading a book once in a while. The ideal sex life is one where both people love and respect eachother and get enough out of it to be satisfied. It's so simple even teenage me understood it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:53 PM
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I don't want to speak for women so I'll wait for them to chime in And yet you couldn't resist making that post. If one can so easily replace a desire for love or romance with a detached obsession for sex, then one didn't truly desire love or romance in the first place. This is cult logic btw. Also the desire is not materially replaced, just suppressed while shifting the focus elsewhere, like a neglected child will start overeating to ease the pain of emotional neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:19 PM
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Nobody even brought up the word looksmaxxing. Get a grip on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:16 PM
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People have in-group lingo, yes. Do you also get mad at kids these days for using words like "hangry"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:52 PM
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That's also what bluepillers espouse. It's literally the most basic common sense advice you can give at dating, like who the fuck would disagree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:50 AM
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Women police men who show that kind of emotion, if you say you want love or romance as a man most women think you are closeted gay or an emotionally stunted manchild. That's why most men replace that need for love and emotional intimacy with an obsession with detached mechanistic fucking, just like men in the real world have been banished to calculated mechanistic work like finance, stem, construction and so on. Because showing any kind of softness lowers your attractiveness in the eyes of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:47 AM
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There's no gym for your self confidence. You can be a buff business man with the insecurity levels of a little boy. Self confidence and your ability to be confident are mostly determined by your upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:52 PM
7

If you work out and eat right it's literally impossible to be overweight by definition. That extra weight would be muscle. That said, overweight and muscular women have tons of dating options, so why care about those men who don't want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:44 PM
7

Women are not a monolith, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:57 PM
2

She doesn't really care and is happy, how is she supposed to feel? She's my girlfriend, not my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:53 PM
6

I'm gonna disagree as someone who has no friends but has a girlfriend. Having no friends didn't stop me from getting laid and I don't really need more than 1 close person. Also having a gf does do wonders for your self esteem and mental health. I'm a borderline schizoid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:46 PM
2

Most men do want that type, goth gf became a whole meme. From my experience those scenes are full of men, like you usually see men 2-3 for every woman at a punk show, and for metal shows its even worse. Also, a chunk of the women there have boyfriends or want to fuck the band guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:31 PM
1

Bejeweled and Candy Crush do not have beautiful boys. And Tetris doesn't have beautiful girls, those games don't even have humans in them lol. Look at something like Stardew Valley. South Park, GTA, and most horror games South Park being crude is literally its thing. I'm not that familiar with GTA but Trevor being ugly is part of the joke and everybody else is a generic crime movie hunk. Not super familiar with horror games but Resident Evil and Silent Hill are full of hotties
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:42 PM
0

Not me, I want le dommy mommy. Unfortunately women like that don't exist, so I'm forced to settle down. To me the whole 'men want submissive women only' thing is moot because all women are submissive (and men probably would be too if they could get away with it).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:21 PM
11

Dating is stupid, anyways. I think it would be better if we all could find a partner through formal application, or drawing straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:34 PM
3

If you were bullied and excluded all your life which is common in the west there's not much you can do. A change of environment is probably the best thing you can do because other cultures are much more accepting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:34 PM
2

Games made for women are also full of hyper beautiful guys idk what the problem here is, nobody wants to see uggos in their escapism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:24 PM
1

NOOOOO YOU CAN'T JUST LEAVE THE PLACE WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY AND START ANEW SOMEWHERE ELSE!!!! YOU HAVE TO STAY HERE AND WORK ON YOURSELF!!!! YOU OWE IT US, YOUR HOST SOCIETY!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:14 PM
2

I'm a lowlife, and I think that women who are into lowlifes are more desirable. They are often more beautiful, have interesting personalities and opinions, and hobbies. They take interest in lowlifes and edgy men because they have a strong character themselves. They are also very likely to be into freaky sex stuff. If I was a boring good guy, I would have no chance with these vixens and would be forced to stay an incel forever or settle with a boring frigid Becky. I'm glad women like that exist …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:04 PM
2

I think women shouldn't feel bad about men preferring "beautiful thin women" over "ugly fat women" because those men aren't worth chasing in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:01 PM
3

According to the same study women were also messaging those same below average guys and barely touching the good ones, so it really doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:04 AM
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According to the same study women were also messaging those same below average guys and barely touching the good ones, so it really doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:04 AM
3

Women have it easier in life. They are constantly coddled, encouraged, get countless benefits from womens programs and quotas, are allowed to talk about their feelings and advocate for themselves, they are less likely to die from suicides, violent death or workplace accidents, they are not required to go and die defending their countries in wars, they get sentenced to lighter sentences and so on and so forth. "Women are wonderful" effect is huge. There's also less pressure on them to succeed in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:18 AM
4

Why shouldn't there be "losers" in the global economy? Why is it wrong a lot of people will starve?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:22 PM
5

OP has discovered that normal women don't see a random conversation with a man as some kind of horrifying traumatic event. He touched grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:32 PM
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Dieting down to 10-12% is nearly impossible unless you are extremely dedicated or genetically gifted. I've been going to the gym and watching my diet for years and the leanest I ever got was the 15-18% range and it made no impact on my dating success. If abs were easy to get way more people would have, but even hanging out with really athletic people it's rare to see someone who's actually ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:26 PM
1

What if women choose poorly? Like the types who date a guy who will abuse them and cheat on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:19 PM
1

I am a tall unattractive autistic guy and I wouldn't even want to be a good looking short neurotypical guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:36 PM
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It put all the ugly women with personality disorders into one space so general society doesn't have to deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:40 AM
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Yes, his video on JK Rowling for example is plainly a deliberate hitpiece with no intention to represent the issue fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:38 PM
1

Good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:21 PM
2

You think ugly nerds who are nice don't exist? attractive assholes over the unattractive assholes This just confirms women only have a very specific type and almost never find the quiet nerd attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:29 AM
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Quiet nerd who is nice = still unattractive Jock who is a dick = attractive That's what it is. Niceness matters very little, the internet is riddled with women admitting they are dating psychotic assholes because of physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:41 AM
4

https://datepsychology.com/are-27-of-young-men-really-virgins-and-why/ For men over age 25 (but not older than 30), only 1.9% are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:22 AM
3

his mild sass is much less grating on my ears than the self centered, whiny, bitter, spiteful immaturity of the people he tends to criticize. Yeah and urine is less grating than shit but I'm still not putting either of those things in my mouth. he does a lot of research into his videos and cites his sources. what specifically does he misrepresent? His whole identity is built around his lefty politics so he will always deliberately lie, misrepresent and omit things that contradict his worldview, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:32 AM
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Because they were raised with blue pill bullshit like "just be nice and you'll find someone", even now stating that athletic chads are generally more attractive can be seen as controversial in some spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:30 AM
2

Except almost nobody ever makes it to the status of multimillionaire while something like 98% of men have sex at some point in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:47 AM
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Lot of words to say "I have a giant inferiority complex" Can you name any time in all of human history where women were so low valued and disposable that elites would just collect them all and send them to die horribly? Yeah elites would literally collect women in harems and they would often die during childbirth. But being a disposable breeding slave probably sounds better to you than being disposable cannon fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:39 AM
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He is just indirectly confirming incel/rp talking points by admitting that jocks are attractive and quiet nerds are not. RP guys will agree and tell you to turn yourself into a jock.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:36 AM
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Lol no he doesn't, he's a stereotypical YouTube video essayist. Always misrepresenting, being manipulative, smug, I feel sorry for anyone who watches that garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:34 AM
11

How about you leave the virgin and FA sub and join something where sexhavers are so you can maybe learn from them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:08 AM
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Male virgins hellbent on defending their title as the biggest losers, damn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:49 PM
7

This guy gives me cuck vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:48 PM
1

I have a great personality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:40 PM
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Were your parents outcasts? No Was your dad around? He died Your mom? She started dating another guy who was extremely abusive Did you have siblings? 3 What activities were you involved in? Hiding out in the woods from my stepdad Did you have friends growing up? No Basically, what in the upbringing of a man who is successful with women is different from you guys? Probably having a supportive home, a good father figure and a lot more positive experiences to build their self confidence early on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:32 PM
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If you admit as a guy that you have incredibly low standards for a partner, e.g. being okay with an ugly unwell woman, people will call you creepy and desperate. Also, ugly people when being approached by another ugly person will immediately sense that it's because of their own ugliness, causing immediate resentment. At best they will settle for each other. Also, ugly women have way more options thanks to online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:54 PM
1

No technology will ever be able to replace intimacy and love, the feeling of being "chosen".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:18 PM
1

If you're ugly just find a woman who's into that, there's plenty of monsterfuckers around. Downside is that you may have to pretend to be a feral beast during sex. I wish I was joking but this is how I get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:15 PM
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Yeah I'd rather have sex with my hot girlfriend who loves me, this kind of stuff just seems really icky
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:37 AM
1

People would probably be way happier because women wouldn't get bothered by desperate men so much and men would seek out partners that they like instead of just getting any woman for the sake of having a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:03 AM
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Women won't care unless you are in the top 1% in terms of looks, and all the other attention if there was any would come from gay men which is uncomfy for most straight dudes. Just look at all the subs were people post pics of themselves, women get 100x the attention while even men with chiselled bodies struggle to get upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:57 PM
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Those men would rather be with someone toxic than be alone, its difficult enough to get a relationship at all, you can't ask for a relationship with an amazing supportive person. It's like a worker who prefers his toxic mining job over going unemployed for fear of starving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:04 PM
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You could reverse the sexes in this statement and it would be just as true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:44 PM
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As an ex-incel, there's a wide variety of incels. People online who like to use incels as a punching bag like to pretend that there is only one kind of incel, the hateful evil kind, but in reality most incels are docile shy guys who are terribly afraid of being found out as incels. Even many people who like to shit on incels are technically incel themselves. Anyways, most common causes of inceldom are probably being ugly, socially awkward and having untreated mental illness. But people really li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:42 PM
1

Sex feels good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:48 PM
2

The whole book is so beautiful, it's like a god damn painting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:37 PM
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Survivorship bias? Unattractive/mid dudes who can't find a partner at all won't be there. Look at places where single men gather for the contrast.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:36 PM
5

Read the book 'My Antonia'. It's from a hundred years ago but it has several tomboyish characters. Antonia, the title character is a muscular, tanned bossy tomboy who can work like a man, at one point she even asks the male main character to 'feel her muscles'. The tomboy fascination is old and it has nothing to do with the internet or low testosterone levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:41 PM
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I've never been able to get below 15%, even when doing cardio and weight training multiple times a week and counting calories, even with hardcore fasting routines where I didn't eat for 5-10 days I've never seen my abs, my body only ever loses muscle. I've talked to people in the health industry who said that even in cancer patients who are extremely starved due to their disease the body somehow keeps holding on small amounts of fat. I genuinely doubt it's possible for most of the population to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:08 PM
3

So nobody is attracted to quiet nerds and good looking Chads can get away with murder, got it. Way to confirm the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:41 AM
0

Imagine still caring about this queen years after he faded from relevance, and even worse getting some dopamine rush because you view converting to another religion and changing career paths as an "L" somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:14 PM
2

Doesn't really work I think because by that logic extra paid content in modern video games wouldn't exist. They will probably make some kind of AI gf with loot crates where you have to pay so you can gamble for her to sext with you or something lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:38 PM
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I'm just at the end of my rope as far as this shit goes because it's so callous. Rather than try to find solutions for why men are lonelier, and maybe try to build up their resiliency to rejection or get them better at interacting with women, society would rather keep them lonely and charge them a dollar a minute for fake intimacy. Welcome to capitalism, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:35 PM
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They were created from male bone marrow, so not possible in a world without males. They weren't able to create functional sperm. When they tried out their artificial sperm creation method with mice, out of 210 attempts there were only 7 births and they all died within 5 months. Not to mention the ethical nightmare that it would be to try this with humans
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:28 PM
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That's why blackpill is not real. Yes, women are focused on looks, but you don't have to be 10/10. You just have to look decent. So the blackpill is real if you are below decent looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:33 PM
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"Better communicators" usually means that they use more words and comprehend lengthy texts better. It doesn't mean they are going to respond quickly or be honest. In fact, women tend to be more agreeable and try to avoid conflicts, such as telling you to bugger off because they got a boyfriend and no use for you at the moment, hence they choose the soft route of ghosting and euthanazing the conversation..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:56 AM
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https://careersmart.org.uk/occupations/equality/which-jobs-do-men-and-women-do-occupational-breakdown-gender ​ I think this site puts it into perspective. Over 90% of your electricians, vehicle mechanics, carpenters, truck drivers, engineers, IT experts etc. will be gone. 82% of farmers will be gone. Even if the general need goes down by 50%, with no food being produced and no truck drivers around to deliver the goods and no workers to maintain the infrastructure a chunk of the population will s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:58 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:39 AM
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"until we developed the tech of artificial sperm" Bold to assume that is even possible let alone doable when the population will have to first figure out how to replace the 95% of manual labourers who are now missing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:59 AM
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Judgement may be passed for other reasons, like if the woman is low status, too old, extremely unconventional (i.e. fat, transgender) or other things. Like medieval nobles could agree that peasant girls can be hot and fuckable, but they still couldn't be seen courting them in public for status reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:54 PM
8

Just like every ugly man is an incelish basement dweller.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:44 PM
1

Not the point. The point was that nobody ever gets female attention anymore without working hard and busting ass. Which is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:43 PM
4

No, men probably place bigger value on "will I be seen as a loser with this broad in public". Most men have no problem banging uggos but don't want to be seen with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:33 PM
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Ugly women tend to be invisible to men because they tend gather in places where there are little to no men, that is reading and writing weird fanfiction on the internet, attending gender studies classes and vegging at home with their cat watching Netflix. If they just took a shower and worked on their personality they would be more attractive no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:55 PM
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Because men do the chasing and pursueing, women do the selecting, this dynamic is implicitly understood by all. Which is why even bluepilled advice tells men to self improve and tells women to filter harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:51 PM
1

And yet there's young guys who get their first gf at the age of 13 or 14 without ever having to lift a weight in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:49 PM
0

You are not really required to do all that, most regular men find dates and relationships naturally... there's plenty of posts from women on Reddit dating ugly, stupid men who don't wash their ass and neglect their own kids. The whole "you have to self improoove in order to be worthy of a womans attention" is more some blue pill myth that online forums put in the head of lonely dudes who are on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:03 PM
6

Well realistically, society would collapse and humanity goes extinct within a generation. ​ If reproduction was still possible, effeminate twinkish men would become the new women (and butch lesbians would become the new men if it was men who disappeared).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:54 PM
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There are many things you can't improve, or at least not immediately. Your genetics (ugly, short, balding etc.), your financial situation if you are poor, your mental state (autistic, bipolar, schizoid etc) your social circle which is entirely dependent on luck etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:49 PM
1

This is a very privileged and sheltered viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:25 PM
3

If you need a TV show to explain to you how to be a good dad you shouldn't have kids, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:11 PM
3

What if you are incapable of improving your own situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:58 PM
3

This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:53 PM
5

Or desperate and hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:46 PM
9

You don't get to decide who is allowed to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:00 PM
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Basically sometimes women just become infatuated with dudes at random, like it gets triggered by their sense of smell and it's not a logical process you can control. And sometimes that dude is a piece of shit who doesn't wash his ass. Dating and attraction aren't fair or logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:09 AM
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Because they empower men, especially socially awkward unsuccessful men, and gynocentric society doesn't like that. They don't like it when loser men try to climb the ladder and gain confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:39 PM
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Stopped playing video games when I was 18. Didn't really help me have sex, in fact it probably hurt me because lots of hot girls are gamers now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:10 AM
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Women tend to put on the "afraid" face when I'm in the same room.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:45 AM
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How about she self improooooves so she can attract a man worth procreating with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:13 PM
7

I've never heard a woman say that a man holding a baby is sexy, ever. I've heard plenty women say that men with guitars are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:00 PM
5

Worse in what way? And how overweight are we talking? There's a difference between overweight as in slightly chubby and overweight as in obese. An overweight woman can easily find hundreds of potential suitors online but may struggle with health and self esteem issues. The broke man is pussy repelling, he may also have health and self esteem issues but he can find solace in doing pull-ups I guess. As a broke man I would not want to be an overweight woman or even an overweight wealthy man, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:58 PM
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I don't care for celebs but I have a thing for female Japanese MMA fighters, like Megumi Fujii.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:43 AM
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I mean, this is just basic social skills, but it only works if you're decently attractive. If you are not, you will just be "that creepy guy who keeps trying to be alone in the elevator with me". It leaves extremely little room for action for you as a guy. Unless you are lucky enough to have someone near you who is on your level, who you are attracted to and who is near you often enough that you can strike up these kind of cordial little conversations, you are fucked because you can't create the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:41 AM
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There was a guy at my university who made the mistake of trying to approach women in the same spot everyday. From what I know he was never creepy, he would approach by saying normal small talk stuff and back off when the person wasn't interested. However after a while people caught on and started taking pictures and talking about him on social media. I don't think anyone called the cops but people were speculating on how to get him arrested or expelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:36 PM
0

Sex in 3 months? Awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:41 AM
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If these men are considered "ugly and grotesque" then I guess I don't even count as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:39 AM
1

I think "survivorship bias" is what you are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:31 PM
4

OP is 100% correct. Especially the part about evolutionary facts giving people the jimmies. Kinda sad that you need to be a sociologist to have a somewhat nuanced view of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:29 PM
4

But it's people who claim they want to dismantle gender norms who are virgin shaming. I doubt your movement will succeed when you still relish in the current power structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:59 PM
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I do most of that. Been lifting weights for a while, my deadlift is 200 kgs, my bench 115 kgs. Women don't care about that. Can't afford hairloss meds, even if I could my doctor would not prescribe me finasteride because I am diagnosed with depression. I also do skincare, I use moisturizer and some very gentle vitamin c and hyaluronic acid products since almost anything upsets my skin. Even with flawless skin I would not look good due to my fucked up features. I looked at your profile and you lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:31 PM
4

Ugly, introverted, mentally ill and unsuccessful in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:19 PM
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I'd rather not, I would become a blackopscel tier internet meme if I did. Let me just tell you that I have a brutally asymmetric face, weak chin, balding, extreme premature aging, large skin pores and a skin condition which basically causes me to look constantly irritated and inflamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:18 PM
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The "current power structure" isn't virgin shaming me, it's mostly liberal white women and their allies who do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:14 PM
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