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1

You are in no position to be dating if you cannot understand what consent means
/r/seduction30/06/22 06:50 PM
4

The answer to this question is always salsa dancing classes and I have no idea why it isn’t stickied.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:57 AM
2

Don’t lose weight. You sound fine. It is absurd that someone would tell a 130 pound person to lose weight. The other posters that said focus on presenting your feminine side are correct. You don’t have to faint like a damsel in distress, but wearing dresses, feminine tops, done up appearance all will make you stand out to guys. The most important thing is to be you. If deep down you’re a girl that wears pjs to the mall, then be that person and hope you find the guy that matches that energy. If y…
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:49 AM
1

I’m pretty funny, or like to think I am, and I’ve found that I go for the quick and easy laugh from a self deprecating joke too often. Getting laughter out of people is addicting. It makes you feel worthwhile and validated when you get laughs. I put in place a new rule, I can only allow SD jokes after I’ve displayed some value, and the depreciation comes in the form of very light and easy to forget. An example? I would call myself a cave man for not understanding some Nuanced cultural thing that…
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:34 AM
1

Post your stats and rate your looks
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:29 AM
1

How many times and places are you going to post this?
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:22 PM
36

Jesus Christ dude yea
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:49 AM
1

You’re chasing party girls. That’s what they do. They party. If you want to be with them, you must party. No, these are notAndrew wk lyrics. I don’t drink, I have no problem meeting women, but I’m older, and I would sooner suck on an exhaust pipe than go dancing at clubs. Figure out where you want to be in the world and then make space for yourself there.
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:03 AM
1

Totally agree. I’m sure there’s some kind of choose your own adventure career sub
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:23 AM
28

Say it with confidence and in person and it works almost all of the time. Occasionally you’ll get a “why do you want to go to a bar if you don’t drink?” This is a logistics question and a shit test all in one. I reply with “well if I asked ya to go sit across from me in silence over a game of checkers you’d probably say no” or a simple “figured a bar would be more comfortable for you” will work. Good luck
/r/seduction23/06/22 06:05 PM
72

I never drank in my life, have had no issues with this. “Hey I’m not a drinker but would you want to get a drink with me and I’ll get a coke and awkwardly hold onto it like it’s a life preserver?” Asking out for coffee can work, but it’s a difficult set up, you’re meeting in the daytime, schedules may not allow for hanging after, and coffee dates end up in the friend zone a lot because inhibitions are high at 2pm.
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:49 PM
1

Get it out of your system now. Wrap it up.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:52 AM
1

It’s more yes than no, but not a guarantee
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:40 AM
7

No
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:41 PM
2

Op could also ask two friends what they suspect the issue was and before asking them, resolve to accept their answers as the truth, then move on
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:53 PM
2

I went through this. It fucked me up for a year+ because I was so head over heels for the girl. I wish I had that year of wondering what I did wrong back. She was just one of those people that has to be aloof and could not be accountable to anyone else. Sprinkle in some depression on the mess and there ya have it- Instant ghost. The only positive thing you can take from this is that you feel like shit, and will never want to make another person feel this way in your life, and you will treat futu…
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:52 PM
3

Godspeed
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:28 PM
1

He came here with a pretty honest question and is just getting real shit replies. I have flubbed the Ig game pretty hard so I’m following intently here. I would however say that scouring her profile, find a thing she posted that you know some shit about or are also interested, and then like the pic and send a dm about it “I thought I was the only person in the neighborhood that cared about west African bullfrogs! We should go to the bullfrog convention next week”
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:19 PM
3

Leave the girl alone. If she wants to talk, talk, but you do not have the resources to maintain an international relationship with her. Consider it a fun time on vacation and move on.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:14 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:12 PM
2

How far away does she live
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:10 PM
2

Bud, she’s done with you. It’s ok. Everyone had fun on vacation.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:07 PM
1

Buy a hat. Hit the gym.
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:53 PM
1

This is good advice
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:16 PM
1

I wouldn’t say they are unbelievably hot but there is certainly a disparity between what women and men look like here.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:27 PM
1

i am guilty of having far too many band tshirts. I bought a pretty nice denim jacket that kinda makes the band tshirt a background piece, even if it's a zombie eating the corpse of jesus or whatever is going on with the artwork. Might not wear it for a date but have certainly got numbers wearing it.
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:53 PM
1

I wish this was hypothetical but I see this play out about twice a week while bartending. I have no clue how zeldaguy gets the OLD date, I don't do it, but i'm guessing staring at a screen is where they are more comfortable spending their time?
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:50 PM
2

i spent entirely too much on my vintage darkthrone longsleeve to take it off just for sex
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:47 PM
33

Imagine what it’s like for a woman to spent two hours+ getting dressed and putting on makeup to show up to a date where the dude is 15 min late, wearing a half clean band tshirt and his biggest achievement in life is beating Zelda. Goes both ways.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:31 PM
0

you have a very dark idea of love and relationships and i hope you can find a way to see that people can be valued for who they are and not the sum of their parts
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:02 AM
0

I would say that higher value is a motivator in seduction. I have plenty of friends that are millionaires that still can't get women, and i have friends that are low level famous and have no money and get laid every time they want to.
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:48 AM
4

this sounds like a person with some demons, possible mental illness from your description of mania when she opens up to you. I understand that maybe this is the hottest girl that's ever given you attention, but this is not the way. Help this human. Your inner game will explode from how good it feels to genuinely help someone so much you can change their life for the better, without using your penis.
/r/seduction04/06/22 07:32 PM
8

You could dedicate your life to something the same way that these famous actors and musicians do and see some incredible results. Do you really think drake just works a couple hours and reads Reddit all afternoon? The kind of women you are lusting over are status symbols. Get your status if that’s what matters to you.
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:50 PM
7

Get a job bartending
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:58 AM
8

Ghosting is the shittiest move
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:01 AM
2

Legend move
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:16 PM
2

god damn legend
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:17 AM
1

I think you’re too worried about other people. Go talk to a cute girl at a coffee shop and put the slide rules and abacus away
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:18 PM
2

You’re looking for perfect conditions and permission. You gotta just make it happen or move on
/r/seduction24/05/22 05:01 AM
1

I think you are in the wrong sub for this conversation
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:48 PM
2

God bless Mantis Toboggan
/r/seduction20/05/22 06:52 AM
1

Write down exactly what kind of man you want to be in 5 years, 10, 20 years and when you die. Become that genuine person. People will love you for your genuine self because you will love who you are.
/r/seduction20/05/22 06:39 AM
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She had another guy on the line when you two went out and picked him instead. Likely she chose wrong and realizes it now but since she ghosted, liking your posts is a chance to make you aware of her again. Don’t text her. If you run into her out somewhere, make a singular joke AT MOST about her ghosting you, but do not be aggressive with it. Keep it light hearted and fleeting. If it’s a quick meet in passing at a store, just act like nothing happened “hey great to see you, hope all is well. I ca…
/r/seduction20/05/22 06:34 AM
7

Has more to do with how you say it than what you say. Literally could read a phone book to them.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:08 PM
1

I have been sober my whole life, and honestly i've maybe never had success going out alone at night. This is an unbelievable challenge and you shouldn't be hard on yourself.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:30 AM
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go to the same coffee shop a couple times a week and sit with your laptop or a book. go out in the world.
/r/seduction13/05/22 06:49 AM
2

Don’t do this
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:06 PM
3

tell me you're a virgin without telling me you're a virgin
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:18 PM
1

Address her like she is a human being sitting next to you. It has worked for me in the past.
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:54 PM
16

There’s videos on the internet that show you where things go
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:38 PM
60

This is sexual harassment. Report him. No need to get your hands dirty with this loser. I personally would beat his ass but I’m a knuckle dragging caveman.
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:39 AM
3

Dress up
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:27 AM
2

telling your date you have high value is like having to tell someone a joke you just said was funny.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:59 PM
3

Pretty frustrating my man. Sorry wish I had better advice
/r/seduction01/05/22 06:10 AM
1

Do you follow up with a definitive yes?
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:59 AM
2

You can’t just say “bring that to me” next time she sends you a dirty pic?
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:50 AM
30

No guy will ever get the avalanche of attention over apps that a remotely hot girl will get. If you can adjust your expectations on that front, I think you are hitting your stride my man!
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:29 PM
2

unless these are the last 2 men on earth, then i think you should move on from both. there's cool guys out that that you can be in love with that can also bang good. you just haven't met them yet.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:11 PM
1

man that is super cool. would love to chat sometime about what life is like there as an ex pat. i'm going to guess that meetup.com doesn't have events there, right?
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:04 PM
1

Which country are you in?
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:52 PM
2

Dude you need to just make some friends and build out a social circle
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:59 PM
5

You just survived a global pandemic, a near civil war, and now possibly a Third World War. Give yourself a break. Seems like you handled the last couple years in a healthy way
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:44 PM
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I get questioned often, don’t have a percentage or anything. My family were all alcoholics, so when I was 13 or so I decided I just wasn’t going out like that. Never touched the stuff. One in five girls you meet will make a thing about it, and tell you how you’re better than them, and they are awful, so on and so forth. I used to have a script in my head for that to turn it around, but at this point in my life I just don’t care. The person I’m looking to meet knows she has value and will never d…
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:06 AM
75

i've never drank in my life. I just get a coke and don't make it a thing.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:01 AM
2

I've always lived by the "if i have to ask if this is too far, it's too far" edict
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:03 AM
13

Could just mean that women aren’t objects that men get to own
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:57 PM
1

Go to a strip club and put in some reps talking to dancers there. Buy them drinks.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:59 AM
-1

these are questions you should be working out with a therapist, but we all support you bud.
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:35 AM
4

It's only too much when she decides it's too much. none of your business what they do before they meet you.
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:26 AM
1

Search him on YouTube. Not going to hype the troll any more
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:32 PM
2

That dude David bond runs ig ads to meet women and boost his profile in the algorithm. Interesting concept. Not sure if I’d pay money to make me stuck refreshing IG any more than I already do.
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:09 PM
1

If you know she isn’t the one for you, respect her time enough to just shut it down. If it was a fwb situation, then it’s all fine and good to keep looking but feelings are involved and you’re burning your good years in life being in a relationship that you’re so-so on.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:35 AM
2

Go study Vince Vaughn in swingers and wedding crashers
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:54 PM
2

Not really
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:08 PM
3

The joke was right there.. had to take it haha
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:07 PM
11

I have a friend that is 5’5 and has dated nothing but good looking women. He’s in a band that sucks, puts on this fake nice guy thing that is supposed to be charming, dresses well, and projects a confidence that I simply do not care for because it is also inauthentic but hey it works for him. Lose the excuses and believe in yourself
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:51 PM
1

Cute is a safe term for girls to throw at a guy to compliment without any escalation. I’d take it man.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:43 PM
23

You’re a bass player. Be thankful anyone knows your first name
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:39 PM
1

You want something that the average boy your age isn't capable of. You'll have to date someone a little older that understands courtship. Also don't have sex for the first couple of dates.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:21 AM
1

then next time you go out, just pretend to be him. see how that works. speak how he speaks, reply how he would.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:12 AM
1

sounds like you spend too much time alone and are inside your own head. go do some social stuff with people. all of the pickup places you have mentioned are isolated endeavors.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:05 AM
1

do you have a big friend group?
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:58 AM
3

you are very likely oblivious to women's signs of attraction. you are a good looking dude, and should have no issues. there are endless youtube videos outlining how women show interest.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:54 AM
2

i'd assume you got the downvotes for the "both virgin but not for too long" comment bud. comes off predatory but maybe english is your second language and you chose a poor phrase there? ​ thank you for sharing your thoughts on women in the balkans though. interesting.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:45 AM
1

I would argue that the song selection is irrelevant, as long as you aren't singing the lyrics to cannibal corpse.
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:16 PM
1

this will be 100% presentation and delivery. if you are busking, you'll look homeless, if you are just strumming along and not busking, you're going to look like some emo guy that is looking for attention. The broke musician thing plays. I made a life out of it in my 20's. Being in touring bands, women assign a value to you, even though you are a god damn smelly idiot that makes fart jokes in your van for 7 hours a day with your friends, while you all try to split up the 50 dollars you got paid …
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:14 PM
1

only a person who has had sex 3 times, with the lights off would ask such a question
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:47 PM
102

opening with hi, you look beautiful is a fucking terrrible open. drop it immediately. You need to be interesting. A vending machine that hands out compliments is not interesting. Have hobbies, find women in those hobbies. have some bite to your personality. opinions are important.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:46 PM
0

why is it hard to get laid there? curious because i have considered getting out of the country for a while to do the whole digital nomad thing. eastern europe was definitely on my list of places to chill out before the ukraine thing happened.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:43 PM
5

This is 100% the best advice you will ever get to your honest question.
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:45 AM
7

I read that Dan bilzerian uses an affiliate system basically. If you know a bunch of hot chicks, introduce him to one that he likes or ends up banging, he pays you x amount. So a lot of the models that he flexed with on IG may just be “working” or networking him to other hot babes for their commission. I could absolutely see other super wealthy dudes doing the same.
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:42 AM
2

I wish you godspeed
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:36 PM
16

Every guy has put a girl on a pedestal at least once in their lives. OP nailed it
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:18 PM
3

it is like stepping onto a tball field when you're 40 and not a giant piece of shit. everything is easier because you know how to get out of your own way.
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:07 PM
0

I was a virgin til 21, not by choice but by stupidity, obstinacy and maturity. However I am glad that I waited til I lost it with a girlfriend who was also a virgin. Right now, you just want to get rid of it. 20 years from now, you will feel like you did one thing right in your life by waiting to lose it with someone that means something to you.
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:52 PM
1

Just give a quick "hi, how are ya?" After all, you know her first name now, but never stop your momentum and continue walking past them.
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:54 PM
1

Has to be prison
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:19 AM
3

Bud, your writing ability sucks. You need to work on this so you can be a better communicator. It sounds like every problem in your relationship with this girl stemmed from terrible communication. Being a better writer and communicator will help you in your texts, future relationships, meeting women, and your friendships. I would suggest reading Henry Miller “tropic of Capricorn” and “Tropic of Cancer” to start.
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:16 AM
15

Dude I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but I’ve driven a hell of a lot more than 40km to bang a chick before.
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:07 AM
8

Then you will get to find out what it’s like to be the last man on earth if it is that isolated that no one is coming in or out. Please let us know what this is actually like.
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:44 AM
36

They will be banging other dudes in that pool all summer. You would do better to game their friends that come over. You will have an unlimited supply of girls vs 2.
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:12 PM
-2

Dude anyone with self respect is going to say no to an improv show. Ask her to something that won’t make her want to escape out of the bathroom window
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:27 PM
1

I only chimed in here because I’ve done the same exact thing man. Happens to the best of us.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:00 AM
2

Sounds like you blew 4 hours of your life on a manic episode she was having. Move on. Will be trouble later. Nothing wrong with you. Take nothing from this interaction because during a manic episode you simply cannot do any wrong. Your attention is all that matters to them.
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:38 AM
2

Bout to enter the bone zone
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:35 AM
2

You’re missing the point
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:35 PM
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Imagine if a 6’4 300 pound hairy gorilla Of a man showed up to your job ringing up groceries at target and asked if he could suck your dick. Your coworkers hear it. You tell him no thank you. He continues to talk to you. You never wanted to attract this kind of attention, and you will lose your job if you overreact. He comes back the next week. Maybe he takes your line. Maybe he goes to another cashier. You’re certainly embarrassed, a little threatened because this monster can suck your dick any…
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:02 PM
3

Pro tip: don’t do this
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:54 AM
2

Chasing anything average in life isn’t worth it
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:14 AM
1

Smaller town is still worth doing but maybe not for a career. Downsides are as follows: -late nights. You will sleep late and miss part of the day if that matters to you. -you will eventually get annoyed with customers in a small town and just plain ol know too much -physically demanding job. I enjoy that part, some don’t. -the drunks and difficult people wear you down, sure. If you just realize it isn’t personal and that people are usually at their worst behavior on a weekend, like yourself, yo…
/r/seduction27/03/22 09:14 PM
3

Bartending is the single best job to have to meet people. You will have a couple hundred interactions a night, and will have no time to get in your head about talking to people. It is the truest trial by fire for social skills.
/r/seduction27/03/22 07:33 PM
2

You are overthinking and worried about succeeding. Go meet babes. Be nice to them. Don’t bore them.
/r/seduction25/03/22 08:50 PM
7

This is solid advice. Maybe something to respond with next time she calls you girl “keep calling me girl and I’m about to come out of the closet on you and tell you my feelings.” If you don’t sell this with the confidence of ric flair on prime time tv with 3 rails of Colombian in his nose hair, this will collapse on you like my stock portfolio.
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:42 PM
2

My job is based on arbitrage, and honestly I think you would find the best results looking at dating in the same way. Source your potential partners from a place where you are more valued. Whether that is online, in the Indian American/Asian community, or even leaving the country. It is very shitty how prejudiced America is towards Indian men and women, and I’m here to stand next to you to fight against it, but if you want to just slam ass and stack chicks, you might need to think outside the bo…
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:13 PM
1

You’re dating to meet a potential partner, friend, fwb, so on…How do you want that relationship’s foundation to be built? By asking them to one thing, then throwing something completely different at them? How will you ever build consistency and trust? Do what you say you will do, be who you say you are.
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:08 PM
1

You asked her out for drinks. Maybe go get drinks.
/r/seduction20/03/22 06:59 PM
3

The “scared to meet someone from online” is a shit test bud
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:20 AM
2

You didn’t ask her out, you admitted your crush on her. She didn’t respond the way you wanted. That’s ok. There’s 4 billion women in the world. Go find the one that will reciprocate your feelings.
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:15 AM
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