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Fundamentalsnordicdatingmentor/r/seduction23/09/20 08:14 PM
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Fundamentalsnordicdatingmentor/r/seduction12/02/21 11:56 AM
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Lifestylenordicdatingmentor/r/seduction15/10/20 12:19 PM
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Resourcesnordicdatingmentor/r/seduction25/09/20 08:46 PM
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Comprehensivenordicdatingmentor/r/seduction29/09/20 03:56 PM
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Fundamentalsnordicdatingmentor/r/seduction22/09/20 12:51 PM
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Removed: Off-Topicnordicdatingmentor/r/seduction16/02/21 06:41 PM
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Conversationnordicdatingmentor/r/seduction08/10/20 04:56 PM
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Conversationnordicdatingmentor/r/seduction19/02/21 01:31 PM
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Outer Game nordicdatingmentor/r/seduction21/10/20 02:31 PM
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Resourcesnordicdatingmentor/r/seduction31/01/21 01:26 AM
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Conversationnordicdatingmentor/r/seduction04/10/20 03:05 PM
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Conversationnordicdatingmentor/r/seduction19/11/20 11:24 AM
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Sciencenordicdatingmentor/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 01:20 AM
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Wooow
/r/seduction25/02/21 06:56 PM
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Yeah, if you're not slow in the head 100 might be a bit overkill, but I like OP's spirit. He is indeed "special". (Hey jk man, all good fun.)
/r/seduction21/02/21 11:33 PM
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Wtf did I read
/r/seduction21/02/21 07:24 PM
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Yeah right. Agree completely with everything you said. But that's why it would be nice to have a place where experienced guys who seek mastery and deep understanding of specifics could discuss and exchange ideas that are maybe not advanced, but at least not super basic. It's pretty mind boggling if there are no such subreddits here. I mean, it's reddit. It has been an inflation in dating advice recently though, which is part of the explanation I guess. Last 4 years the whole online coaching indu…
/r/seduction19/02/21 02:55 PM
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Haha
/r/seduction17/02/21 07:02 AM
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models Sure. Sure they all looked like models .
/r/seduction16/02/21 10:02 PM
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Interesting. For the first time in 4 months I am intrigued.
/r/seduction16/02/21 09:29 PM
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That's the spirit
/r/seduction16/02/21 09:26 PM
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I bet
/r/seduction16/02/21 09:19 PM
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If you still think that the book of pook is rad, you are stuck at base level PS. Your boos mean nothing, I've seen what makes you cheer.
/r/seduction16/02/21 08:25 PM
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I am
/r/seduction16/02/21 07:00 PM
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RSD had a lot of great content. They have stopped years ago.
/r/seduction16/02/21 06:43 PM
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Hope that answered your question
/r/seduction16/02/21 06:15 PM
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Most POSTERS are not high value. Duh.
/r/seduction16/02/21 08:44 AM
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If the coach is legit he wants the same thing. Think about it. Do you think a coach wants to work with just anyone long-term? He needs to know that the client is a somehwat ok match. Usually we do cheap or free consulting calls etc. first where we go through the situation, talk face to face and the Coach explains what he can offer and what he cannot. If you sign up for a passive program you just have to go through reviews and make sure the money back guarantee is there.
/r/seduction16/02/21 08:40 AM
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Think about how extremely basic his advice is. Then remember that he charges 10K per hour for 1v1 coaching. He can prolly give much better advice in his youtube videos, but he knows it would never fly in marketing.
/r/seduction16/02/21 08:35 AM
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What do you mean? Advice about what? Do you have a coach to hire or not? What kind? I can give one piece of general advice here as a coach myself: A coach is not there to just feed you with info. Info you can find elsewhere. Diagnostics, strategy and mindset training should be in focus. Pushing you, supporting you should also be part of the equation. Consults only do diagnostics. And mentors only give you advice one step at the time to make sure you execute first.
/r/seduction16/02/21 08:33 AM
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Yeah, I am happy for you man! What's sad though is that the biggest dating subs on reddit, /dating /dating_advice are arguably more effed up at times 😅 Good books and decent, real-life breathing people are the safest routes. It's harder to find good people like that, but easier to connect with them
/r/seduction15/02/21 07:55 PM
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Yep this the truest truth. From todays standpoint, I am almost surprised that you went into it with so unrealistic expectations, but I guess it was another time then. EDIT: Naah when I think about it, it makes sense. I also felt like I had found a river if magic when everyrhing started flowing. That rush makes it hard to stay rational. Maybe you were just braver than me in a way. Took me over a year for my desire to help people to win over the hate and stereotypes I knew were out there. Only the…
/r/seduction15/02/21 07:08 PM
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Yeah ofc, but you have no idea how blocked people like that get in mainstream society. Have you heard about Julien? He got banned from several countries for being a "PUA scam" and now he is basically only working with healing guys trauma. Edit: The point is that he has probably prevented hundreds of guys from taking their lives, but society treated him like a scumbag.
/r/seduction15/02/21 07:05 PM
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Yes, very true. It's our life, we do what we want with it. If we can't take responsibility then we should not take credit either.
/r/seduction15/02/21 05:57 PM
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Well I am a holist through and through so I would agree, but I am biased :)
/r/seduction15/02/21 05:52 PM
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Yeaaah but nobody can market to that. All coaches need niching in this day and age. You wanna find a life coach kinda guy that specialises in something he or she is extraordinarily good at. That's what I do and I am still too much into personal development to really stand out.
/r/seduction15/02/21 04:01 PM
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I am a dating coach on the side when I have the time. Check out my profile, the best booty available. For real, OP describes the ugly side of PUA. I can agree with much of those statements. Trust me though, the posers hardly make any money I mean they make some money, but only short term. And personally I think a lot of the clients kinda deserve it anyway for buying into misogynistic crap. Edit: The downvotes are expected. You should know though that I have helped a lot of guys for free and that…
/r/seduction15/02/21 03:56 PM
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O I wouldn't call them dating coaches. Maybe PUA gurus would be a better term
/r/seduction15/02/21 03:33 PM
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Do you?
/r/seduction12/02/21 09:15 PM
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I live in Finland. EDIT: Guys, I am OP. I just find it hilarious how this European guy was compelled to make a little joke and point out that he lives there. Tribal thinking. Especially in UK.
/r/seduction12/02/21 07:52 PM
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"I get incredibly bored..." yeah she too, because then you clearly suck at texting. Probably you ramble on and on about pointless things or encourage her to do so. (You're welcome. I don't care to be polite for free insights.)
/r/seduction11/02/21 08:53 PM
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Not at all. At the end of the day, it's uo the trainer and the person learning. People who think any OG MA will let you fight off several attackers etc. are obviously living in a fairy tale, but so are people who are dumb enough to think that" boxing beats kicking"
/r/seduction15/01/21 03:45 PM
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Also, no, my friends anger and envy would not be justified but don't project it that way either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:18 PM
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I happen to have defended certain incels and incel communities on several occasions even though they resent me for looking better than them and other guys hate me for defending them. Life is not perfectly fair. Good of you to deal with it :) All we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 04:02 PM
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Fine. For single and repeat sessions, nobody has complained. But we make sure we match first and not everyone have matched. Sample size too small to be statistically reliable, but I would say ca 80 % success rate already from single sessions, where the goals are smaller. I have never coached someone with deformities and really uncommon looks and skin problems. So Idk. I do realize that is a huge deal. You know having cancer is also a big deal. Or being mentally retarded. I work with average guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:57 PM
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I personally don't even charge money until they have had a chance to try my stuff out. And it's not like I force anyone to buy either. But ofc I can't do it for free 24/7. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:28 PM
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Which is a privilege many men cannot afford as they do not have the looks to be picky. This is where you go wrong. This mindset is twisted in all ways, biologically, socially etc. Nowadays I coach men to learn these things. I know it works because they tell me that it does. But I never work with someone who doesn't want to learn it. And never someone who starts with that world view. They can't pay me and I can't fix it anyway. I replied since you said that you are open minded, but this is it. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:04 PM
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I am not going to argue you with you, you have clearly made up your mind. Just clarifying one thing. If I date, and someone wants to have sex with me, I can turn it down. It doesn't mean that I did nothing to deserve her attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 01:52 PM
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First of all, you are not offered sex and intimacy out of the blue, unless maybe if they want you to pay for it. I have had dry spells for years before. Sometimes by choice, other times unwillingly. To answer your question, I would say sex and intimacy are core parts of human identity. Had I never had it I would be unhappy. I have friends in this situation. But being a human can be more than eating, sleeping, having sex. When your higher purpose outweighs your romantic and sexual cravings, you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 01:42 PM
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Envy mindset is self-destructive You know nothing about me, my values or my struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 12:47 PM
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I have watched a lot of stuff early on but I have said no to sex more times than I did it. With women I was physically attracted to. As always, person > gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:25 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 06:37 PM
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I wish I could sleep. I wake to 5 am
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 11:19 AM
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Please calm down with the questiond marks lol, I am not mad at you. I just explained it. As I said, there are certain criteria for how research about Evolution is conducted if it is to be published and I think that you are unfamiliar with them. Which is totally fine ofc. Good luck with your upcoming exam.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 09:39 AM
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My arguments were valid no matter my education. Facts don't care for education. Read what I write. I don't say this to be mad, but because that's how especially a scentist should operate. I got my BSc in bio years ago. I don't want to bias answers, because as you see, it happens easily, so I left that out before. Not gonna tell you my current academical rank. Let's agree now then that gender behaviour is Influenced by different selection pressure, even though evol. psych. Is more out there. Stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 02:37 AM
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Okay so pro tip, don't assume your conversation partner is ignorant, that's how you talk past each other. Idk what made you think we talked about layman stuff here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 02:24 AM
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Help me out here please. I went through the wiki and I don't see the problem. How hard is it to permalink them? I guess I have to count on you to do it for me huh. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 02:17 AM
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Where do I find them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 02:09 AM
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I have to stop you there! Natural selection is proven and there is plenty of empirical data to support it. Since genders differ siginifcantly in behaviour and biology in respect to selection pressures, (observation with your own eyes will tell you that) it can be deducted that there are gender biases. How these biases play out is harder to decode. Now for how you can keep biology and culture separated: yes it is often hard, but sometimes it is really easy. Think. To begin with, anatomy of brain.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 02:02 AM
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Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 01:42 AM
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Evo psych is commonly known to be controversial by many. But why would gender biased natural selection be "soft"? It only means that selection pressures hit genders differently. Do you disagree with that basic premise? Or did you mean something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 01:41 AM
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What science program are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 01:32 AM
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I have a method to be calm around anyone, even the president. Step 1. Be of high value yourself. 2. Know/find out who you are dealing with.
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:24 AM
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Did you try the link he put there? Do you think the nudes he posted on his site were taken without consent? I feel that was the major red flag here.
/r/seduction24/10/20 08:58 AM
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Are the girls okey with you posting their nudes online to market yourself? Agree with the sentiment.
/r/seduction23/10/20 01:09 PM
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Why blur out OP?
/r/seduction21/10/20 04:58 PM
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This will get you action, normally in this order: Attractiveness & personality Seduction and dating skills Open communication + just having a sexuality.
/r/seduction21/10/20 04:15 PM
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Not true. Just a question of discipline and prioritization.
/r/seduction21/10/20 02:52 PM
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Yep 100% 🤜🏼🤛🏼 I know there are guys hiding on shadows even here with way more pickup XP than me. I also know they usually don't bother helping beginners though 😜
/r/seduction21/10/20 02:43 PM
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Keeping it real for the future gen. 😂
/r/seduction21/10/20 02:39 PM
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🙄🙄🙄🙄 Ofc they are not hard to start practise. I have friends within kickboxning and I admit any day Muy thai is more badass than karate. So what? Do you want a fucking medal?
/r/seduction15/10/20 10:10 PM
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EDIT: I snapped and have to apologize for poor ad hominem. My points were You are a clueless fanboy. Spending hours watching UFC does not make you expert. I have done that shit too. MMA is not representative of MA and I won't waste time explaining why, you would not get it anyway. Using aikido as counter example is beyond stupid. It's like me saying that cars are useless because bikes are slower than mopeds. Or that Muy thai sucks cuz you don't wrap hands in the streets. Whatever. Read my other …
/r/seduction15/10/20 10:08 PM
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Also, no personal disrespect but 4 years is nothing when it comes to MA. Try 20 or at least ten if you want to pull the authority card. Your point is not more valid cuz you dabbled with these. Just saying.
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:45 PM
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Yeah, wrestling makes sense 1-1 and boxing could have been including in my list. Tbh, the reason I did not include these was cuz I see them more like fighting sports than MA. When I think of MA used on average joes for self defense I think of 1 strike KO or instant submission, rather than long winded brawls and fights. Ofc wrestling and boxing can be very effective, I just didn't think of it that way.
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:43 PM
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It is true not all TKD is useful. But blocking kicks? Come on, everyone knows you dodge or counter them. I figure people here are smart enough to take this seriously. And those who don't take MA seriously should not do MA. Let me tell you a story. I have been very lucky. In Denmark, I saw a master of OG TKD and a champion of Taekkyeon in action during sparring with the group. He was deadly. Now I have trained with karate black belts that can kill me easily, 1 of them have been BB for 25+ years. …
/r/seduction15/10/20 05:53 PM
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How useful for beginners 🙄 Everything is not about your ego dude. I am not US based and all of reddit is not either. There are great places to learn in Europe at least.
/r/seduction15/10/20 05:05 PM
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You sound like another brainwashed "boxning is manly" dude to me when you say shit like that. You are wrong. Old school Taekwondo is great. Your talk about kicks above waist tells me you hane zero knowledge of actual Taekwondo, not to mention old school. Yeah Muy Thai is epic, but certainly not for the average Joe. Only for true, dedicated fighters.
/r/seduction15/10/20 04:47 PM
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I mean karate and muy thai are superior for hard strikes but that is more advanced.
/r/seduction15/10/20 04:12 PM
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OG Taekwondo does.
/r/seduction15/10/20 03:02 PM
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Yeah good point!
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:03 PM
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Wrong premise
/r/seduction15/10/20 12:31 AM
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The spark is just a hormone rush and then some. Love is an act of will. The crush-phase will come back in force if you manage to build real intimacy This is hard if you jumped into a relation with a mismatch
/r/seduction14/10/20 12:23 PM
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The losers are getting triggered and downvoting you. Jealousy is so sexy lol.
/r/seduction13/10/20 03:18 PM
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Even though I agree with the conclusion, his poor spelling probably scared off the first 100. Like for real. Flawed test
/r/seduction13/10/20 10:59 AM
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I had a stroke
/r/seduction13/10/20 10:57 AM
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Good idea, that would be verbal framing! The reason I don't speed-coach this is partly because it is already medium level. The other topics I do take seriously as well, sure, but those concepts beginners can more easily implement. Verbal framing is just picking a more daring comment and using less innocent language. I wrote a guide recently where I mention it. It's about gently steering the chat in a flirty direction in a joking, cheeky manner. E.g. Say "hot" instead of "cute", "sexy" instead of…
/r/seduction08/10/20 10:21 PM
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Some of still passes it along. Among with other things ofc.
/r/seduction08/10/20 08:37 PM
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A medium level post which is actually about seduction? Amazing!
/r/seduction08/10/20 08:48 AM
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Welcome to reality brother! Rare to see seduction in the seduction reddit.
/r/seduction07/10/20 05:33 PM
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You'll make it worse.
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:37 PM
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Yeah that's great. And in like 3 years this new outlook might actually cause you to get a gf. Having a life and not focusing on women 24/7 is one of the three main pillars of attraction.
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:16 PM
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Yeah. I was in a new relation with my current gf and since she is working in another country atm we did not see each other for 6 months.
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:14 PM
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I would say that this is normal, female common sense. Decent, common sense for new relationships in particular. I would not classify it as seduction.
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:53 PM
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That's a selfish mentality though. Coming here, I thought there would be at least medium level discussions of game and some new techs, not just needy noobs asking for free help on how to say hi.
/r/seduction04/10/20 03:57 PM
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Meet up or say goodbye
/r/seduction30/09/20 11:04 AM
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Here are some of my thoughts on it. One of the best texts I have written for PUA beginners imo https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/j21ze0/long_she_is_not_your_enemy/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/seduction30/09/20 11:03 AM
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From the start , yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:38 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ixmr6i/how_to_efficiently_improve_your_game/
/r/seduction26/09/20 11:21 PM
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Amen. There are even guys who are social otherwise but bad with girls, who will learn how to hit their dream goals after like 5 interactions. Just do it.
/r/seduction26/09/20 08:41 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction24/09/20 11:00 PM
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Abundance is part of the equation for "A-game". Important, but more like a final piece of a puzzle than a key. Also, you don't get abundance by just focusing on abundance. Just saying this so people get it.
/r/seduction24/09/20 10:27 PM
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Yeah avoid tinder and try smt else for a while
/r/seduction24/09/20 10:16 PM
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Well said, Sir. Well said. Add reasons, but be proud of yourself as well. Being a human is not to be taken lightly. Also. Not everyone is a worthy human being from a societal standpoint, but when you think you are, you become.
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:47 PM
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How is the report coming along?
/r/seduction24/09/20 06:36 PM
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I think I gotta agree here. I guess there are cases where you can subtly wait for them to finish, but why.
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:33 PM
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Yep I know and I agree
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:28 PM
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You are goddamn right
/r/seduction24/09/20 03:53 PM
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Asking the real questions. **
/r/seduction24/09/20 02:52 PM
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Maybe you are a gal :D
/r/seduction24/09/20 02:39 PM
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Yep I agree with you that it takes time, make it in your own pace. However, don't believe that everyone needs years to move forward. Sometimes we quantum leap. Some people, like Bill Gates and Bezos, had many leaps in order to be where they are now.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:41 PM
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That level of dedication I did not expect to see here to be honest. Well done!
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:26 PM
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To be brief, emotional needs are real. They also evolve as your brain quite literally rewires itself over time (if you are thinking and progressing in life). Acknowledge your emotions always. Wisdom comes from understanding emotions. Base instincts are not emotions. Feelings go deeper.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:22 PM
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Thank you too sir 😎
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:16 PM
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Plan for low stake settings such as grab coffee and a walk instead of a food place Not asking for numbers but instead asking for social media (where they can easily block you) Ask them the day before if they are on (Most risky) Literally tell them that you are worth their time and say that you hope they won't waste yours.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:13 PM
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My favourite part is when you said that you should have gotten their insta. Asking for their number would be way riskier, insta is safer bet. Good thinking there. Just do it next time.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:07 PM
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Happy Cake day!
/r/seduction24/09/20 12:20 PM
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😂
/r/seduction24/09/20 11:17 AM
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Thank you man 🤜🏼🤛🏼
/r/seduction24/09/20 10:40 AM
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For real though, if we wait until after Corona lifts, do you think some guys with real game will come back and save the reddit? What do you think? I am quite new here so.
/r/seduction24/09/20 10:20 AM
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Ok 👍🏻 Would actually be nice to see a Mod take on this.
/r/seduction24/09/20 09:03 AM
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✌️
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:07 AM
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Tell that to Julien Blanc.
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:07 AM
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Well I guess for most people (not for all), being single very long would affect their self worth. But pulling and being loved is not the same. As I said don't let your self esteem DEPEND ON being liked. Furthermore, if you are not loved already and you put all your hope on a future mysterious SO before you respect yourself, you usually won't be very happy down the road. Do you see now that this isn't just platitude? Final note. Most people who hate this post are not at all ready for actual, prac…
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:06 AM
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Thank you. Winners treasure the truth, others get triggered by it. All haters here are not necessarily envious per se, but some people hate what they don't understand. This post is not for everybody and if they can't pick up on it without getting mad, then we won't explain it further here either 👌
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:38 AM
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You transformed jealousy into anger, got mad at yourself and channeled it.
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:20 AM
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Your username agrees
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:18 AM
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Thx for your input 😊
/r/seduction23/09/20 11:11 PM
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I don't care that you disagree. That is not why I think you are not paying attention. PS. We clarified this in the other thread you started.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:43 PM
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Ok! Now I am going to answer your question as I promised! No.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:37 PM
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If you really can't see that then I actually did overestimate you and I can't expect you to catch up. Ok, my bad. I'll explain a few things then. I never never said that my post was a general statement meant to be understood in the same exact way by everybody who happens to read it You confuse your own beliefs with what I say and mean. I never said you should slack off for example. There is nothing in my post that makes that induction. People don't get entitled because they have self worth, self…
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:24 PM
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That was not easy at all it seems, because you made a statement about your own beliefs instead of answering the actual question. This is why I say you don't pay attention and this is why I say you don't think. I know you can do better. --> EDIT: I was wrong. He cannot do better. I overestimated by conversation partner here.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:08 PM
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Yep 😁
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:01 PM
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Oh I know I'm a boss It seems to me that you have barely scratched the surface yet but not because of me just sitting around doing nothing, because I've actually achieved a bunch of things. Faulty/arbitrary premise and I disagree with the conclusion. Why would you think someone isn't thinking just because they disagree with you? Invalid premise. I fucking don't 🦄🙌
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:58 PM
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I m not going to answer your question unless you answer mine.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:44 PM
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Why take any action and make anything of yourself when you're already enough? Exactly. Why indeed.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:02 PM
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You are not thinking, you are responding per automatic with the same thoughts you already have. You are trying to be a loser instead of accepting your greatness. You are scared of your own potential. If you weren't, you would not waste time arguing with me about whether you are a boss or not.
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:49 PM
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You are missing my point because you are arguing instead of paying attention. EDIT: If this comment triggers you snowflakes here, I still don't fucking care LOL.
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:44 PM
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*Ok, edited my response as well
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:37 PM
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I am honored that a veteran like yourself would be the first to comment. Happy Cake Day! Watch out for demons.
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:31 PM
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I was not sure if you were trolling or just very new here. Do not take it is an insult. Now you know. The hard way.
/r/seduction23/09/20 03:38 PM
3

Are you serious? Pickup lines do not work.
/r/seduction23/09/20 01:41 PM
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Weird if you don't know what you wrote, or did you misread what I wrote maybe? Anyway, forget about it if it triggers you. I did not come here to start a beef lol. Take a rest bro. I'm gonna nap myself.
/r/seduction23/09/20 01:12 PM
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No. You said girls act like this.
/r/seduction23/09/20 12:53 PM
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Well, I have some experience myself and my teachers have even more, and based on that I have to say that I think that you are generalizing a lot here. That said, I do see your honest intentions and where you are coming from. Overly "nice" can be viewed by "girls" as if you want something from them. However, this is usually the case when the guy DO want smt from them which is not really called for at that point. Such as sex, or even a compliment.
/r/seduction23/09/20 12:48 PM
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This is only true for a specific subset of girls though. It is not true for all "girls" (age range?) in general.
/r/seduction23/09/20 12:41 PM
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So much going on here. And still we need more details to be able to give really good response. DM me if you actually are serious and want detailed advice. In summary though, yes you could have done more and you gave up too easily. I agree that calibration is something for you to work on, but from my perspective you need to learn some fundamentals first. Keep it up bro!
/r/seduction23/09/20 12:01 PM
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You are welcome. And you are right about smalltalk, it is boring.
/r/seduction22/09/20 04:14 PM
2

Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate. But you can't calibrate if you can't read people. You need to understand what effects you are having on the other person. Then "flatlining" and "spiking" will come natural. Emotional impact won't come unless you really vibe and connect with the other person. Throwing in jokes and teases do little on their own.
/r/seduction22/09/20 03:06 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:23 PM
1

Just asking, since you put the number there lol
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:16 PM
1

You literally said that as a 23m he can expect disappointment.
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:12 PM
1

Why would 23 be a bad age?
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:00 PM
1

Agreed. Worse is that this gal clearly targets ultra rookies who won't realize how bad advice that is. OP if you truly believe this in good faith, reconsider.
/r/seduction21/09/20 09:53 PM
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This is trolling right
/r/seduction21/09/20 09:46 PM
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Agreed. But take care of your health. Sidenote, there was this german (?) guy with a bent spine. He got mad at his doctor and lifts 300 kg easily now.
/r/seduction21/09/20 09:45 PM
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"When is it okay to be vulnerable with a girl" --> When you trust her. Or alternatively when your self esteem is through the roof and you can handle it either way.
/r/seduction21/09/20 09:41 PM
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Well why do you? It is only creepy if your intentions are creepy.
/r/seduction21/09/20 09:38 PM
1

Word
/r/seduction19/09/20 08:05 PM
1

I can't say if both played in but mainly profit.
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:05 AM
1

Warm up to begin with. Also, realize that your fear is partly biological. It stems from a time when the stakes were higher. Ignore it.
/r/seduction18/09/20 11:31 PM
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Btw just look at the videos being bot-posted in /RSD to see what they spend their time on. Ofc some of it is rehashed material for passive income, but far from all of it
/r/seduction18/09/20 11:23 PM
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Use breaks between paragraphs bro :)
/r/seduction18/09/20 10:57 PM
2

Ofc I am not saying RSD is a scam. But some others are, to some extent. I don't want to shame anyone in particular but that market it saturated after RSD. And I really do think Owen is still making money.
/r/seduction18/09/20 10:42 PM
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Owen has children too. Anyway I would advise you to avoid formal systems and pick role models based on personality. Systems and styles are just support wheels anyway. Some are even scams. Anyway, since I am starting out myself I am a bit biased in what I like, but I'll reply here if someone really good imo comes to my mind.
/r/seduction18/09/20 10:34 PM
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Was this a vent? Either way you need to calm down my friend, you are playing mind games on yourself at this point. Clarity is power. Take a break, get some distance.
/r/seduction18/09/20 10:29 PM
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I am serious, but it was their choice. Owen and Julien and others are still active in other niches. So don't worry, keep doing your thing man. I believe Owen is done with pickup. He did not approve my plan to become a dating coach either haha. When the dating niche in general was brought up (I am not into PUA per se btw) he wrote, and I quote: "Avoid, avoid, avoid" x 2. That's all I'm gonna say. EDIT: To be clear, I don't think they regret anything, just business you know.
/r/seduction18/09/20 10:18 PM
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Good stuff, good model to follow when you need structure. Looking forward to next one.
/r/seduction18/09/20 10:12 PM
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They moved on to other things, self help. Owen told me that leaving the dating niche cost him a lot of money but I think he good now.
/r/seduction18/09/20 10:07 PM
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