| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 245 | Found FDS principles out in the wild (Instagram).. DUMP HIM! | FDS MEMES | noseatbeltsong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 06:17 PM |
| 27 | Proud of myself for making better choices | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | noseatbeltsong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 05:08 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsI gotta see that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:50 PM |
| 48 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsI tell them that I’ll put something up my rear end after I put something up theirs. Haven’t had a man take me up on it yet thankfully lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:49 PM |
| 51 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”I can’t unsee it 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:53 PM |
| 102 | Woman comments “we Stan a short king” on random videos on Tik Tok. Men take the bait every single timeThat man is no taller than 5’8” mark my words lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:26 PM |
| 4 | Make sure you are his first option. Men can fake and pretend you’re his #1 because they’re lonely, when in fact you aren’t the one they want.Well said and I agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 04:35 PM |
| 31 | Make sure you are his first option. Men can fake and pretend you’re his #1 because they’re lonely, when in fact you aren’t the one they want.Yeah but HOW can we do this? This is why we always have to keep vetting. Because men LIE that we are their #1 choice. We may just be the convenient choice, or the easier choice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:25 AM |
| 32 | Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩Yesssss. My ex used to say “Aw I love your little belly, this extra weight looks good on you” and at the time I was thinking how I felt shitty about myself and how that should make me feel better, but 1.5 years post relationship I’ve realized he was doing it to keep me down 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 05:01 PM |
| 27 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manReplying here because I was asked for examples but the commenter isn't verified. I used the Clip function on Audible so I would recall for book club, so I do have many examples (too many honestly)! This is my time to shine lol. For the record, I dont think Camilla is HV either. Less than 1 minute into the book he begins describing his incredibly dysfunctional parents and home life. For instance, his mother began verbally abusing his father about how fat he is and his father FLIPPED THE DINING RO… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 04:47 PM |
| 81 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manDid anyone read his book? I committed to it for book club and the whole thing was filled with red flags. He’s a disgusting narcissist. I have zero respect for him. Not surprised at all by this quote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 04:40 AM |
| 25 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.I am so grateful I have the choice of living on my own, leaving my house without an escort, wearing shorts and tank tops, choosing who I want to date or marry. I maintain that I am still critical of women’s lack of rights under US law and genera misogyny in the western world. We can def feel both privileged and yet desire better, more. If you want to gain some perspective and light history on the Afghanistan situation, read the historical novel A Thousand Splendid Suns. I read it when it was pub… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 04:23 PM |
| 29 | Oh btw…she mentions in the comments that she’s caught him chatting with other women, too. Also that he makes her feel crazy but that she is mentally ill so it might really be her.What did I just read 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:10 PM |
| 10 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsHow is this the new normal ? Keep in mind you’re on Reddit. I don’t think most of the world thinks like the misogynistic Reddit hive mind. Everyone I know IRL would tell me to run from that guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Don’t confuse “jealousy” for boundary pushing.Yes agreed. Good points. Also want to mention that it doesn’t matter if he thinks it’s ok, the cool girls think it’s ok, your friends think it’s ok. What matters is what YOU are comfortable with. If you aren’t comfortable with the situation, then he should remedy the problem. If he can’t remedy or or won’t remedy it, then you’re better off single. There will be a man who doesn’t want to hang out with other women alone. There is nothing this man has to offer you that you can’t get somewhere else.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 03:18 PM |
| 24 | This is what happens when you marry a Scrote and do the 50/50 thingI just found the post and the update. She said in the update that her parents passed when she was very young, she was raised by her grandparents and they passed in her late teens. She said she grew up in poverty and wasn’t even able to make ends meet before meeting and then moving across the country w him. Unfortunately a lot of young women who are in dire financial situations or have no support and are more susceptible to manipulation date/move in with men who are older (myself included, around… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 29 | "Male feminsts" tend to focus on the "sex work is work", "sex work is empowering" and are heavy porn addicts.Yes! I don’t have kids and live alone, but I still have other chores to do. Most of the people who say they’re distracted working from home are men I find. Because they don’t know how to prioritize | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 08:31 PM |
| 59 | I was on urban dictionary to look something up, and what do you know... today's word of the day is "pick me"Yep I’ve seen it on Instagram - and then pick nes vehemently defending their actions in the comments lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 08:42 PM |
| 8 | Ikea knows what's upI think I’d like to scream “FIRE” if there was an actual emergency bc people are more likely to react to that than random screaming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 16 - Walk Dates are For Dogs - (feat. Viral Tik Tok Star @Kokobeaute)FYI it doesn’t seem to be working on Apple podcasts - so I’m listening on YouTube instead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 07:52 PM |
| 27 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meThis is so disturbing to me for some reason. First of all, she did all of these things before they were together, and she clearly had the intelligence and autonomy to make these decisions on her own. As another commenter said, they don’t just give mortgages and grad school scholarships to people acting on a whim. She clearly thought these things through, and he was not part of her decision making process for obvious reasons. I find it really interesting that the reason they got into a fight was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Britney Spears is a QUEEN who is STANDING UP for what's RIGHT!Absolute angel. I stan britney. This poor woman has been abused by her father her entire life. I hope that she gets her rights back. She deserves to live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 11:18 PM |
| 5 | The way we are constantly gaslit as women.Maybe I’m on the left side of the bell curve then because I specifically remember having a conversation with my 1st grade best friend that we were going to be strippers when we grew up because we’d make a lot of money (we were dirt poor). Have no idea how we knew/why we thought strippers made tons of cash at like 6 years old. We were overly sexually charged at that age. I never did SW for obvi reasons but it’s a pretty terrifying thought. Neither of us were sexually abused as far as I know and w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 08:54 PM |
| 10 | A HVM won’t be in contact with his exProud of yours too! 💕 Thank you for sharing your thoughts, hopefully this group effort will validate more women’s experiences! Edit: pressed ok before I was done 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 32 | A HVM won’t be in contact with his exI wish I read this two years ago! It would have saved me a major depression episode. Instead I got gaslit by my ex and in a relationship subreddit I posted on - “YoUrE iNsEcUrE”. No sir, I just don’t want my bf relying on his exes for emotional support?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 07:49 PM |
| 11 | Sat folding my underwear & getting upset.Wait, people fold their underwear? I just throw mine in the underwear draw and then rummage around everyday for the most comfortable looking pair lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:53 AM |
| 8 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.Are you me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:12 AM |
| 17 | Found FDS principles out in the wild (Instagram).. DUMP HIM!Our girl needs someone to shake her and tell her it’s been two years too long. This is embarrassing, I hope it gave her perspective | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Men sending her hatred online launched her career. Stay mad.FDS should write a book with that title. “Men: ThE LoGiCaL & RaTiOnAL SeX - Why women actually rule the world” - I’d be happy to contribute a chapter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:18 PM |
| 12 | Ok why do they all look like they've never been in front of a camera before tho'I read the situation totally differently. The way she set it up I thought she probably got a Cameo from him to make her TikTok go viral | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:05 PM |
| 5 | tw: sexual assault(??)// A sexual encounter with my ex makes me feel sick to my stomach when I think about it nowThis was rape. I’m sorry you went through this and you’re reliving it now. Do you have access to therapy? A counselor should be able to help you work through all of your confusing thoughts. He had no right to use your body for his own pleasure while you were barely able to keep your eyes open. You weren’t blinded, his gross intentions just finally came of light when you were vulnerable. You cannot blame yourself for this, you did nothing wrong. You are a human being and having a bad day and he t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:16 PM |
| 7 | How to get closure – while blocking & deletingJournaling is very underrated. I’ve spent a lot of time over the years writing out my feelings about fuck boys, exes, ex friends. It’s very therapeutic to get your feelings out without giving the other person the opportunity to respond. If formality or sticking to a schedule isn’t your thing, I’d suggest just jot down the date at the top of your page in your notebook and start spewing off. It doesn’t have to even be readable, you don’t need to use nice handwriting. It doesn’t have to make sense.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 09:46 PM |
| 19 | Anybody see thisWow just wow. I’m speechless Edit #2 for confidentiality purposes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:03 AM |
| 10 | Henry VIII's wives if they'd never met himThis is my favorite time period to study and I love this so much. These women were fed a raw deal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:55 AM |
| 91 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOI lived in the Fuck zone for way too long. I have a BIG BEEF with the “fRiEnD zOnE”. The worst part is that when I was younger I was so naïve to this. I had guy friends that used to do laundry with me, go out to eat and insist on paying, bring me presents for no reason, help me study, help me put furniture together. I was always dating someone else so I was never really an “option” to them or so I thought, not that I was interested in any of them. When I WAS single I would talk about other guys … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:38 PM |
| 69 | Don’t call him a HVM too soon. Someone who says/does the right things can also be a wolf in sheep’s skin. TW: sexual assaultI’ve had TWO exes do this to me. My last ex thought it was funny bc I was so drunk that I took off my clothes in the car and fell asleep naked while he was driving home, then he took a Fucking PICTURE of him fingering me while I was dead out. So it’s funny? It’s ok bc I was drunk and you wanted to show me how passed out I was? It really bothered me at the time. I didn’t know why and I never considered it rape, but it is. He’s someone who would claim “NoT aLL mEn” too if sexual assault was brough… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:04 PM |
| 20 | I appreciate FDS for being one of the few places to actually be FEMALE ONLYI’d like to know how we can ask to be invited to the discord? Mod mail? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 54 | 🙄What to do when he texts you but the texts have turned boring and/or too low effort?🥱Wow so much good advice in this thread! I recently started talking to a guy. And I felt the feelings 🥰 I actually liked him. First one I’ve felt that for in years. We talked on the phone 📱 a couple of times, FaceTimed, and we were supposed to go out the next night. 🌙 I found out I had a family emergency and had to fly across the country the next day. ✈️ I texted him in the middle of the night 🕛 as a heads up that I wouldn’t be able to go out bc of a family emergency and we could go out when I co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:43 AM |
| 50 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.I just looked up dread gaming and that’s the shit of nightmares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:33 AM |
| 62 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.For the first four or five months my therapist didn’t say it but then I called her during a breakdown bc he was spending time with other women behind my back and OH BOY she diagnosed him w NPD that day in her office. Unofficially of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:29 AM |
| 78 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.Just reinforces that women are completely responsible for the burden even if men “wanted” the children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:10 AM |
| 12 | Dating in the 21st century. Funniest roast of men I've ever seen. Her twitter is yellowspoongirl110% a pickme but this was funny regardless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 07:42 AM |
| 22 | Never take a man at face valueWow what a gross story for the lawyer to be like, bragging about? Drive her the fuck home or get an Uber you pig. It’s literally the bare minimum if she’s stuck at your condo Good job on making the decision about your bf. I’m so glad we can see the red flags so clearly now. Queen shit 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:32 AM |
| 3 | Held off on sex, it was horribleI’m stealing that shoulder rub tactic. That’s absolutely perfect and I could see the correlation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 07:49 AM |
| 19 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?That’s how I found this sub too lol and tbh every time I write a comment in another sub I’m afraid some dude is gonna thru my post history and start and argument about how my comment is invalid bc I post here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:50 PM |
| 14 | Honestly such an underrated FDS anthem🙌🏻A friend and I did a dance and lip synced this for a middle school talent show! That’s embarrassing lol but it’s such a great song! It held up to the test of time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:20 AM |
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