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It’s pretty easy to retcon any experience to fit whatever preferred narrative you want. The universe doesn’t supply concepts of “good” and “bad”, but my take is that you should frame it in ways that you find useful going forward, e.g. you can still enjoy the experience of altruism but maybe be more diligent doing research, or you can remember the self-satisfaction of clean living to encourage you to do the same in the future
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 02:24 PM
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Either that, or you’re an idiot that deserves insults
/r/askTRP30/05/21 03:45 AM
0

Got it - then make plans for next weekend
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:28 PM
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She’s asks you to take her out, you reply by saying you’re out of money and want to wait a week…. of course she’s gone. Next time don’t look so low value
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:52 AM
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Statements about populations don’t translate into knowledge about people. TRP regularly confuses this. Take for example male/female career choices - there are certain personality patterns that cause life sciences to tend to be woman-heavy, and hard sciences go be male-heavy. Yet, you can find plenty of men and women in either category. Most TRP observations are like this, but unfortunately it’s interpreted as if men and women are different species. Men and women have different trends based on bi…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:42 PM
2

TRP is not dating advice, it is a predictive model. The PUA stuff is a program than runs on the model, but it’s counterproductive to producing a genuine relationship - it’s more about making up for low natural value. Instead, work on building value and good relationships come naturally without needing to engage in psychological manipulation
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:28 AM
9

Get a job and your own place - problem solved
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:15 PM
1

Don’t double-down on your idiocy - take your lesson and move on
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:01 PM
1

Yeah, you definitely acted like a bitch. It’s a common story here, a girl acts playful and the guy acts disrespected. It shows that you can’t read her playfulness, and your ego is easily wounded. It’s a bad look. Next time you just be playful back.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 12:27 PM
4

You need to go full George Costanza - take every natural impulse you have, then do the opposite
/r/askTRP15/05/21 12:14 PM
3

This is all completely ridiculous. Going out of your way to treat women differently doesn’t increase your value in her eyes, it just makes you an asshole
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:33 PM
6

Your life sucking doesn’t prove or disprove the existence of supernatural deities. That being said, accepting atheism is certainly the most rational way to live your life
/r/askTRP05/03/21 05:08 PM
1

You can add that stuff on at the end - maybe take they $15 dollar an hour job, get to know potential clients. The overweight 30 and 40 somethings that are your bread and butter aren’t watching ig and Tiktok
/r/askTRP27/02/21 02:20 PM
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Yes, you’ll need to up your game. But you have a clear path to get independent, which is more than most people can say. Once you get the ball rolling, a solid social media presence plus word of mouth will get you far. You can also offer online services. If you are good, you will be successful.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 12:54 AM
0

You said you’re a certified personal trainer, and you can’t figure out what to do so you’re looking at stock trading? Go out and train people - good money. You can charge a lot for that stuff.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 12:37 AM
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Don’t need to read - you don’t get “revenge”, you take your lessons, delete, and move on
/r/askTRP25/02/21 06:12 PM
3

No, you don’t need to be woke. Just don’t show up wearing a MAGA hat unless she’s openly conservative And, for what it’s worth, there are plenty of black people that think the woke stuff is infantilizing nonsense - look up Glenn Loury, John McWhorter, Coleman Hughes, Chloé Valdary to start. There is nothing wrong with simultaneously being black and thinking that all this progressive stuff is a giant crock of shit
/r/askTRP25/02/21 02:42 PM
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Men don’t suffer from pregnancy - that’s the root of the entire asymmetry
/r/askTRP20/02/21 02:13 PM
6

“Plate” is not, it’s a metaphor related to the stage act. Dating multiple women is perfectly normal. But, calling women “bitches” and “whores” is absolutely misogynistic. TRP is just evolutionary psychology applied to intersex dynamics - if that leads you to label all women as whores then you’ve got issues
/r/askTRP20/02/21 02:10 PM
1

Target retirement funds - Vanguard 2050 is fine. VFIFX
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:37 PM
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YTA - Valentine’s Day is absolutely part of the traditional LTR experience, no wonder she’s pulling back. Simply being a humbug is not holding frame
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:23 PM
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No
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:53 PM
3

Grow a thicker skin, you are being ridiculous. A joke is a joke
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:31 PM
21

You’re not a professional - the 30 peak really only matters at the tail end of the distribution of athleticm. That is to say, you can play recreational basketball for much longer assuming you don’t have major injuries and take care of your body. So concentrate on that
/r/askTRP11/02/21 03:49 AM
2

Single arm work (DB bench press, push press) but I would not work out only one side. Just limit weight based on what your weaker side can do with good form, which will start to balance things out.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 01:18 PM
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I stopped reading when you mentioned your son’s name. Edit that shit out of that’s his real name. And talk to a lawyer about getting a real custody schedule that’s been filed with the court
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:41 PM
1

I hear heroin is pretty great too But really, PMO sucks compared to sex. Edge when you’re inside a woman
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:38 PM
1

Well if you meet up with a girl and you don’t go for the kiss she’ll think you’re wasting her time, which in fairness you are. You just need to sack up and do it. Otherwise it’s instinct. Every woman’s anti-slut defense (or lack thereof) is different
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:27 PM
4

It's been a long time and i've gone no contact and forgotten about her. Apparently not
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:23 PM
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The idea of a male “optimal strategy” is looking at behavior through the lens of maximizing genetic descendants. There is zero reason why this needs to be anyone’s practical goal. Condoms and vasectomies are perfectly fine, so is choosing monogamy. Also, in legit Christianity a woman must be respectful and submissive. The Bible literally says that. More modern takes on Christianity tend to water that part down. But baseline Christianity is broadly compatible with a RP understanding of how sexual…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 11:08 PM
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TRP is essentially just evolutionary psychology applied to intersex relationships in a modern society. You’ll get some useful models for explaining some behavior. It tends to view behavior as closer to hardwired than pure free will, which is pretty reasonable and consistent with work by people like Daniel Kahneman. However it doesn’t explain every behavior every time
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:43 PM
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You should have stopped replying after “no sorry I don’t feel like hanging out today”. There was zero reason to say anything more, everything after is pure orbiting
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:39 PM
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I don’t know about that, but your focus should be whatever you want it to be. And that can certainly be a healthy balance of giving and receiving. The trap he’s probably trying to avoid is thinking that sex is at some fundamental level “about” giving pleasure as some weird act of sacrifice. Some women just want to get ploughed, and that’s fine
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:33 PM
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Yes, you overreacted. You shouldn’t feel disrespected by an obvious joke
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:57 PM
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Some women like playing the role of brat. She’s wanting you to laugh it off, maybe pretend to be offended as part of a game. It’s banter - do not take such things personally
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:51 PM
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The fact that she’s under your skin is the problem, not her. A joke is just a joke, acting all wounded under the pretense of “disrespect” is just you nursing your bruised ego. Stop taking her so damn seriously, go out, have fun
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:46 PM
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Grow a thicker skin and get over it
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:41 PM
12

Uh, she sounds like she’s just a mom. Work on yourself so you can smile and nod at her without getting worked up to write whiny screeds on Reddit. It you want a tattoo, just get it for crying out loud
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:06 AM
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So is paying for all your own maintenance and real estate taxes - pick your poison
/r/askTRP26/01/21 05:29 PM
2

Diversification - it’s tying up a lot of money in one asset. The right way to invest in real estate is through a real-estate investment trust that owns many properties over a larger region, as part of a larger portfolio of other assets. It’s the same reason it’s better to invest in a mutual fund rather than a single stock
/r/askTRP26/01/21 05:28 PM
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Just rent. A home is not a good financial vehicle for investment. It is however useful if you want to highly customize your space and plan on not moving for a very long time. If what you really want is autonomy, I’d find a cozy place to rent, maybe even just a room in a house
/r/askTRP26/01/21 01:51 PM
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The exact same behavior can be interpreted either way - those are really just labels applied after the fact that indicate attraction (assertive) or not (aggressive). Same with confident/arrogant, or funny/“an asshole”
/r/askTRP26/01/21 01:09 PM
1

Honestly reconsider your stance on medication. Think of it as training wheels until you learn to ride
/r/askTRP26/01/21 02:30 AM
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IMO your 20s and 30s for the most part are about setting a foundation. Get your nutrition and exercise dialed in, find a fulfilling career path, explore new hobbies. You’re not a professional athlete that peaks at 27-30. If an opportunity presents itself, by all means take it. But don’t feel like you have to everything now, men have the luxury of a long peak through their 50s if you stay focused and disciplined.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 04:49 PM
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Her: “WTF is the matter with this guy? He keeps poking me with his dick and falling asleep. Why won’t he fuck me?”
/r/askTRP23/01/21 02:33 PM
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Oh you’ve been with a few other girls 🙄 Yes I’m sure. Stop moping and live your life
/r/askTRP23/01/21 02:54 AM
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Textbook oneitis - you realize that there are many many other women out there that can give you the same or better experience, yes? Stop wallowing in self pity
/r/askTRP23/01/21 12:44 AM
2

You are indeed a fat fuck, so you very correct to want to do something about it. At this stage I wouldn’t count calories, rather start concentrating on food quality. No processed shit, minimal dairy, no added sugar. Stay around the perimeter of the grocery store. People have been lean for thousands of generations without counting calories because their brains natural hunger cues combined with the food environment produced a lean homeostasis. Our hyperpalatable food environment plus our ancestral…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 07:03 PM
8

Every two weeks isn’t a relationship, it’s barely FWB. Move on
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:49 PM
1

Go do CrossFit five days a week, you will lean out and build some pretty decent muscle. If at that point you want to supplement with some powerlifting you can, but honestly a well-rounded exercise program plus not eating like a pig will work wonders
/r/askTRP20/01/21 06:10 PM
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Like other reply, just making conversation
/r/askTRP19/01/21 08:32 PM
2

This isn’t even a shit test, she’s just being playful, inviting you to say something playful back, probably about your dick. Don’t be dumb and autistic and get defensive
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:58 PM
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Masturbation, or masturbation to porn? Different beasts entirely. IMO rubbing one out without porn when you feel a natural urge is just working with your sex drive. When you start mixing in the hyper-stimulus of porn you are influencing your sex drive in unpredictable ways.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:53 PM
5

This question isn’t worth the brain cells to ponder - just move on
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:39 PM
4

Omg sidebar
/r/askTRP15/11/20 02:06 PM
1

There is a happy medium between “entertainment / slut” and “the meaning of your life”. TRP is about radical self-honesty and understanding intersexual dynamics, you can apply in your life however you want.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:23 PM
1

If you don’t want to play games, don’t. Saying “I don’t play games” is absolutely playing her game. Next time just put your phone down and do something else. It’s just sexting anyway, who cares
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:49 PM
3

Looks like you had a bizarre meltdown over some texting fun - don’t get it at all
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:35 PM
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Yeah might not be too much fallout, but there’s certainly no advantage to saying it
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:26 PM
81

Yeah, keep that to yourself. Makes a person look pathetic (she must have cheated for a reason) and insecure (I’m afraid you will cheat on me)
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:28 PM
1

What’s the ICD-10 dx code for oneitis?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:04 AM
12

Prenuptial agreements are pretty comprehensive these days, talk to a lawyer
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:00 AM
35

Call a lawyer, like today. Start documenting everything - bank accounts, investment accounts, etc. There’s a good chance she’s already banging the guy. Don’t tell her a thing, just start getting your ducks lined up.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:26 PM
3

Selfishness drives co-operation. We give a little to get a little. The key is making sure you’re getting good value back - don’t let people take advantage of you and you’ll be fine
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:53 PM
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Narcissism is essentially a lack of empathy. A lack of empathy is a deficit of knowledge and creates an inability to model other people’s behavior, which is a handicap in navigating the world. Additionally, the trait of grandiose narcissism where you cannot see your weaknesses is itself a weakness. How are you to improve if you can’t admit where you need work? Finally, vulnerable narcissists act like victims of the world. A victim mentality is huge barrier to accomplishing your mission.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 04:53 PM
2

It’s just how you choose to frame it. You also need to have a fulfilling life on your own terms
/r/askTRP22/10/20 11:58 AM
5

There’s no reason not to simply enjoy the attention of women. There’s nothing wrong with desiring it either. Winning is supposed to be fun. The problem is with “need”, which suggests that you might feel incomplete to not have such attention. No man should have female validation as a component of his identity
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:43 AM
1

When she flakes, “ok”. When she asks if you’re mad, “no”
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:26 PM
4

You’re dramatically overthinking. First, tune out her social media. Second, if you want to get together and smash, get together and smash. Obviously an exclusive relationship is a terrible idea.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:24 PM
36

new phone who dis
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:05 PM
5

The whole “men neeeeeeeeed to cum” is a bullshit line used to guilt wives and girlfriends into having unwanted sex. Definitely don’t PMO, you might wake up one day with a serious chicks with dicks fetish. If you need “release”, jerk in the shower to nothing (not even saved porn images in your head), or jerk thinking about sex with someone you are seeing or about to see. Better yet, don’t jerk at all - sex is great after a few days off
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:18 PM
37

AirBnB - then it feels like a getaway, not a whorehouse
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:08 PM
14

You just live your best life and stay friends. Change has to be motivated from within, the only thing you can do is provide an example for him to reference
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:07 PM
5

You are completely clinging to something that is in the past - any word you say will convey that. Just move on, if you hook up again great if not oh well
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:35 PM
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I rarely masturbate - maybe once a month in the shower, to absolutely nothing. The visual stimulation is completely unnecessary
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:02 PM
1

In my view at least, porn is pretty pathetic - jerking it to virtual sex workers is basically giving up on being a man as it usually becomes a substitute for a real sex life. So if you’re feeling guilt/shame around it, that could be why. Note that I don’t have the same feelings around masturbation, if it feels good why not? Just do it for yourself, not because you’re getting manipulated by some fucked it porn studio or to inflate the ego of amateur Reddit sluts
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:57 PM
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Did you use porn? Maybe that’s the difference
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:37 PM
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In my early 40s I got in shape (CrossFit) - it’s hugely impactful
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:51 PM
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“Creepy” is a post-hoc characterization of the interaction. It’s not the moves that are creepy or not - the same actions with different people at different times can make wildly different impressions. Don’t overthink it, just learn to go with the flow with whoever you are with. It’s not about “moves” but the overall interaction
/r/askTRP08/10/20 12:38 PM
2

Have sex, next thing you know you’re working for the Yankees
/r/askTRP08/10/20 12:32 PM
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I don’t even need to read this, you’re asking advice about an ex. Move the fuck on
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:16 AM
5

Then abstaining might be better for you
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:32 PM
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My advice is to masturbate if you want to, but there is zero good reason to use porn. Don’t expose yourself to that shit, the orgasm is the same
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:27 PM
2

All weight loss work basically the same - it’s a caloric deficit. Keto tries to work slightly differently by putting your body into a state that uses fat for fuel. I’d recommend this if you were say 300 lb and wanted to bulk lose weight, but that’s not your case. Your body adapts to your diet and training regimen, so really you should focus more on sustainability. That’s why Keto is a decent strategy for a one time loss, but once you go off your weight will just shift based on what you are doing…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:08 PM
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Yeah, stop eating like a pig. Sugar soda is just drinking diabetes, candy is similarly moronic. Keto is overkill, all you have to really do is stop eating garbage food. Our bodies evolved to process a large range of types of food, so really just stick to fresh/minimally processed stuff. Avoid pasta and cheese. Make sure you are getting enough protein to support muscle growth and enough carbohydrate to fuel workouts.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:54 PM
1

Making a decision is a complicated process. Your brain takes a zillion inputs around the immediate circumstances, the state of your body, current mood, etc and formulates a decision that you eventually become consciously aware of. In the case of meeting someone, the decision output can be “cool” or “creep”. “Creepy behavior” is a post-hoc labeling of a of behavior where the overall output was “creep”. But behavior is just one of the inputs - the exact same behavior in different circumstances can…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:34 PM
2

Being fat is massively disadvantageous (no pun intended). Being skinny-fat isn’t much better. If you’re dealt a bad genetic hand, you may as well make the best of it. And it’s not just “lifting” as much as being athletic/in-shape, which has positive spillover in all areas of life, not just being beach-attractive. All men should lift and exercise.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 07:08 PM
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A lot of the work is just about describing intersexual dynamics in a clinical, unvarnished way. In that sense it’s just a form of anthropology. What you do with that with regard to value judgements is up to you. Personally, people acting according their natures isn’t generally something to condemn a person for. However, you can also see how people that want to deny some of these insights end up in unhappy relationships. So the right approach isn’t to judge, but work within the framework to make …
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