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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed.	Conversation	notanicegai	/r/seduction	31/01/26 07:21 PM

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1	M30 confused by mixed signals after 3 dates — she asked for the kiss, then disappeared do you know when was her last relationship/breakup?	/r/seduction	04/02/26 01:47 AM
3	Strong first date, agreed to see each other next day, then flake day of. What happened? think about it from her perspective. what if she never joined the apps for a relationship (or meaningful dates). she thought, "lets see whats out there, i wanna know if i am desirable to all the men in my city". she never really intended to get anything substantial from this match or even her future matches. you are doing good if you are getting matches and dates. trust me as i say this, i have had my fair share of similar struggles.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 01:13 AM
2	Strong first date, agreed to see each other next day, then flake day of. What happened? be her best choice. you must read this as working on yourself and being the best possible version that you can, and want to be. however, you should also note the reality. some (or perhaps most) of these women are confused and don't really know what they want. dare i say they are all dopamine addicts and treat men from the apps in a very disposable manner.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 01:04 AM
2	Strong first date, agreed to see each other next day, then flake day of. What happened? you don't want to fix them, do you? realise the reality and move on. it also helps to invest attention in women who you meet off the apps.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 12:56 AM
1	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. what city/location are you in/were might i ask?	/r/seduction	02/02/26 12:15 AM
10	Strong first date, agreed to see each other next day, then flake day of. What happened? classic avoidant. the apps are full of such women imo. they can never settle and hop onto a new match every hour. it also helps to note what city/location you are in. any women is going to be badly spoilt for choices if she has 20 odd above average dudes offering her dates that very weekend.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 12:14 AM
1	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. i have thought about 2 a lot. and have had my friends look at my profile. none of them mentioned i didn’t look like my profile. the height part could be true. but almost everyone lies online. so i’m not sure how to even the playing field if i am being radically honest. i did start off being honest about my height but that changed over time as i met more male friends. now about 1. i moved cities and found myself quite lonely due to a lack of a solid friend group. as an anecdote a date did mention…	/r/seduction	02/02/26 12:09 AM
1	Not sure how to manage post hinge date. this actually is a very good advice. the problem is we as men never really realise how good a woman’s ability to read a man is. dare i say, most of them are born with “game”.	/r/seduction	01/02/26 09:09 PM
1	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. that’s sound advice imo. and i can see that being a thing. how would asking qualifying questions and escalation happen at the same time in one date, though? i ask this because it feels awkward to kino a women right after you asked her about personal hygiene habits.	/r/seduction	01/02/26 12:43 AM
1	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. sure. how do you define “chase”? i don’t text them a lot a after exchanging numbers. however, i do act interested on the date and generally be in a good mood on the date. i do ask them questions. are you saying that’s bad? i fail to see why would a lady not like all of that after all they want to be desired. or is my approach too “moderate”? and i would be much better off being a little more aggressive?	/r/seduction	31/01/26 10:31 PM
2	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. - Do you have your actual height on your profile? (my height is +2 inches on the apps which I doubt is noticeable unless she is the same height as me.) - Do you video chat with women before meeting them to check the vibe? (i did for a bit but not anymore) - Are you looking for the same thing these women are? Have you checked? (i am honest about my intentions of looking for a ltr. a lot of these women are just testing the waters and say open to whatever) - Are you flirting / teasing them on the d…	/r/seduction	31/01/26 07:40 PM
-6	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. Do I get second dates? Yes. Do I get second dates with the ones I would like to? No. Do I get a lot of second dates? No. How do you think my behaviour could be coming across? Do I need to sexualise a little more?	/r/seduction	31/01/26 07:29 PM
-7	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. I literally mentioned that the count of second dates is really low for me.	/r/seduction	31/01/26 07:24 PM