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I mean I expect 30 people to be polite but be kind of creeped out and hinting for the interaction to end. So I mean maybe 10 receptive people, and less than 10 actually giving numbers and of those who give numbers a very low amount of people replying and even lower amount leading to actual meeting up. Ofc you can do better dependant on factors but I’m just saying it’s very hard to pull off
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:58 PM
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Dad was a ladykiller back in his day I had only recently found out. He didn’t tell me SHIT. Had some girl issues growing up but ended up figuring it out and doing well. I think fathers shouldn’t tell their sons how to pick up ladies because it’s super uncomfortable and weird imho. What fathers should do is encourage, demonstrate and show their sons how to be healthy (lift/run and sports), good men, do practical manly shit and having an improvement mindset etc. this will set up a boy not only to …
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:48 PM
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Companionship or sex. Like literally the point of seduction. Who said anything about online? I’m talking just random approaching versus a club or being introduced by somebody that the chances are higher.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:30 PM
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Here’s the thing. With cold approaches you have a lower success rate but the redeeming factor is that you can spam it. When I say it’s ass i mean you have a very low chance every time to get something good to happen.. ofc if you repeat it 1009 times you’ll have good things happen. I would say cold approaching in a club is far better than at a mall or library or some shit
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:13 PM
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Let’s just agree it’s relative. 40 approaches I’m surprised 10 people even spoke to him.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:12 PM
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You’re telling me being introduced is bad? This is how I know you’re an idiot. Unless you’re super attractive you’re not doing shit with 100 random people you meet. How is it manipulative. Fuck you have issues man
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:09 PM
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Then maybe try focusing on getting into some hobbies and other things to make more friends who can introduce you to their friends. Also your friends don’t need to be married to introduce you to other single women. What do you like? Go there
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:53 AM
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You don’t really explain it properly other than relax muscles and kegels. Was there an actual process to reversing your PE?
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:34 AM
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Cold approaching is the least working method. The best methods are to be introduced by your friends to their friends or to be attractive and going to a club or bar where people are a bit more receptive and drunk. Cold approaching is ass, the odds are low but man 5 numbers from 40 is pretty good. I never recommend cold approaches their borderline creepy but for some dudes here they have no friends so it’s their “only” option lol
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:29 AM
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Fellow kiwi here. I live in Australia now and as an Islander getting dates is easy (I don’t need them since I’m happily taken) but that maybe because I’m polynesian and “diffeeent”. There is truth that if you go somewhere you might get a little more dates BUT at the end of the day you can always get dates no matter where you are if you improve yourself. Dating was easy in New Zealand too, you can’t blame small population. The shit thing about the small population in nz just meant it was easier f…
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:44 AM
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It’s not deluding. The other guy is right too much negative self talk. In fact you could argue negativity is self delusion
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:34 AM
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Pua is cringe as fuck. But “picking up chicks” ain’t exclusive to pua This sub isn’t just for pua i use it to teach people about self improvement and how it’s helped me a lot in my life and improve my reality. If you’re going out to talk to 1000 women a night with corny pseudo-psychological tricks and not really be interested in people except busting a nut then of course it’s going to be heartless. Like what did you think? If you go out and improve yourself become a better positive and better ve…
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:28 AM
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Brother you’re going to get dragged here. This is not like the other subs where they excuse your shit behaviour to be polite
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:37 PM
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“I took advice that didn’t apply to me and now I blame that advice.“ Remember kids, advice is context specific.
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:25 PM
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I think you have the right intention but the wrong ideas imho cmiiw. Average men aren’t ugly, they’re just not “stand out” you could say invisible but I think that’s not accurate tbh. The reason being is that average looking men can easily be seen or considered attractive just by being interesting. Sorry to sound pedantic I just feel like it’s an important point. Secondly, when people overdress i agree 100%. Looking great with clothes I always say that “less is more” some would argue you should …
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:22 PM
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I usually give 1 chance, maybe 2 if I’m really interested in a girl.. but she better do something spectacular on that first date. So my current gf now who’s amazing and basically the love of my life flaked on our first date lmao. People get really nervous , dating is hard tbh. I knew she was making up bs to get out of it, so I just thought cool that’s fine I won’t pursue her and if she wants to see me she will ask me on a date. She did, she paid picked me up and was amazing to be around. I didn’…
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:02 PM
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And if you watch anything of his he’s fucking cringe. Seriously you can get the same results by just improving gym/career/study/job/passions etc. he just had the added benefit of overanalysing normal social situations and writing a book about it
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:04 PM
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Yeah sometimes with friends I used to party ALOT so I’m used to the lifestyle I just don’t really try to talk with women or take anybody home is all. I enjoy drinking and being out and about though I’m same, 6”5 but quite big maybe not muscular but kinda skinny and bulky I find picking up women was more about my appearance though mind you verbally my game is great too. You’re overthinking it it’s just like being anywhere else except women are a bit more open.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:46 PM
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Lost weight and wore better clothes while improving my mindset and study. Absolute game changer
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:06 PM
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Fair point. I mean what are your goals? Are you trying to get laid or do you just want to be social? I admit 90% of me getting laid is pretty much clubbing, the rest is either tinder or girl friends I hung out with in high school. So it’s hard to not go out when you want to have sex. I would say realistically you need to either force yourself to get used to it and develop an interest by will, or find types of clubs that attract you. For example I love hip hop and will always go to a hip hop club…
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:22 AM
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If you’re going heavy 5 days a week it is most likely cns burnout or you’re not eating correctly. Or sleeping correctly. Other than that it just sounds like a mental thing. I know it sounds dumb but try have the mentality that you want to go out and be social to improve. Treat it like lifting start small and work up and eventually the enthusiasm should come and therefor the energy
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:58 AM
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Stop being fat? You can’t change height you can’t change skin colour (mostly) but you can change your weight. You can also change your mindset. Everything else sounds like you’re working on it just do those two things and I promise you’ll fix 95% of your issues lol
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:24 AM
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Do you work out properly and sleep well? I feel like that’s half of it. Oh and when you’re doing something you’re passionate about it’s easy not to think about how tired you are
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:58 AM
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Ego: everybody else is easy, I know I can get them. This girl is hard I need to prove to myself I can get her. This isn’t necessarily a hood or bad thing, but please don’t make my mistake and twist it into some romanticised thing where you pursue them over that single fact. Done that, got rejected by a girl and my ego couldn’t take it so I pursued her and ended up getting her. Got bored and it ended in a nasty way, realised I didn’t care about her I just cared about my ego proving I could get he…
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:44 AM
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Not necessarily. They can date ugly girls but from what I’ve seen they date confident well adjusted women. Hardly ever ugly. But these are the same positive guys who wouldn’t care so much about looks versus personality
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:33 PM
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That’s true, but I’m talking like guys who I’ve asked women about and they say are ugly. And legit objectively aren’t that great looking if you want to trust me on that.. BUT they’re such great people and energy to be around it’s only natural they eventually find a mate. Sure somebody with the same exact energy as them but attractive will find it way easier, but as humans we don’t really celebrate the losses we don’t see. We notice the wins of others
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:06 PM
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I think you’re really over thinking this. I know plenty of ugly guys who pull, you don’t need to look amazing just be social and as somebody else said it’s an indirect numbers game
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:27 AM
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She’s probably just kidding/flirting relax man and flirt back. “You can call me daddy you can call me whatever you want baby, are you down?” It doesn’t matter what exactly you say as long as you’re meeting them interest and flirt wise.
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:04 PM
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It’s so crazy huh. I’ve met attractive as fuck women who are just intelligent as shit.. ugly women who are dumb as bricks which really challenged the stereotype for me. All it taught me was to always expect the unexpected
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:56 PM
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Bruh imagine you treated him like that, He’d probably off himself. Move on king and keep working on yourself and approaching
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:02 PM
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Well then we agree? I’m not sure why you’re trying to downplay what I’m saying. I never said assuming attraction wasn’t helpful? I’m saying that self improvement helps with the self esteem issues and you said those two are not mutually exclusive.. that means you’re wrong. And stop downplaying it by saying “whatever you’re advocating” when you literally acknowledged it in the previous sentence as a legitimate practice. No I’m not saying visualisation is wrong, I you’re wrong to say that self impr…
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:02 PM
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It’s ok to have some already thought out plans. But it’s better to be natural and let things happen because it makes you seem more confident interesting and not as creepy and serious. Use the game plan as training wheels and don’t get rattled if you have to take them off
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:55 AM
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I know what you’re saying but it’s literally wrong. I never said visualisation doesn’t work? I’m saying that assuming attraction and raising self esteem work when you actually improve yourself. The fact you’re calling “going to the gym” or going to therapy mental masturbation while calling visualisation a proven science makes me realise I’m talking to somebody who knows nothing.
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:50 AM
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You’re missing what I’m saying. You are limited by the reality of your situation. Here’s an example: if you’re 500lbs and never shower and wanted to assume attraction you couldn’t assume the same attraction as Henry Cavill without being delusional. Therefore there is an upper limit on how you can feel attractive compared to your attraction in reality. This is why I said workin on yourself to become actually more attractive has the side benefit of giving you that self esteem to feel more attracti…
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:42 AM
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You have an idea but remember it doesn’t have to be that scripted. Social or attraction can be chaos as long as you know how to control it in a general “overall”. To answer your question though, yes dominance but this doesn’t mean arrogance. And yea showing sexual attraction this doesn’t mean being a creep (sorry if you already know this I just put this here for others to see who aren’t familiar with these concepts) Then there’s masculinity, this doesn’t mean being too stupid and overly manly. B…
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:32 AM
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It is. You can only fake self esteem so much before it becomes delusion. When you work for your things you have no choice but to raise that self esteem
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:24 AM
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The best way is to honestly work on yourself. Gym career fashion mental health etc. and I mean not half assed. When you reach your max potential you will have no choice but to be proud of yourself and assume attraction.
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:05 AM
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They say horrors get people excited or “aroused” with anxiety which makes them more prone to cuddling up or being physical. I reckon a comedy or something corny that’s easy to make commentary on throughout so it’s more of a social activity than watching an actual movie
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:09 AM
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Yea unless you’re medically exempt or incompetent.
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:41 AM
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I cannot comment on your personal anecdotes except that we can’t use them as general fact.
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:06 AM
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Agree to disagree? I think it’s way harder to not intimidate a female by being a random stranger in a random situation. To get more quantity? Maybe? And that’s not because it’s easier to pick up though, it’s because there’s literally more opportunity to cold approach than to meet through mutual friends. So imo it’s still the hardest method to pick up
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:05 AM
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Sometimes I think a good way to shoot your shot is to comment on a story. This works when you know them and they are attracted to you.
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:05 AM
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I find it like rugby. The day I’m not nervous before a game is the day I quit. That’s when I know I’ve lost the passion or excitement for it.
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:01 AM
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Like I said, you find other ones who do care? It’s not that difficult to understand bro. Plus that isn’t exclusive to being out of college? That’s exclusive so the person. I feel like op is just trying to avoid the effort by blaming his situation. I downvoted you not because of the disagreement but because you’re ignoring my points and making bad faith assumptions which means it’s not adding to the conversation.. which is literally the point of the upvote system. But fair, I will take away my do…
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:54 AM
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If they exist why are saying “how do you expect somebody to make them?” By putting in effort. Dude you’re really make generalisations, you’re assuming all work people are busy outside of work? And then you’re assuming college friends are great? I feel you haven’t met enough people if that’s what you think. People are individual and their situation depends on their lives.. please don’t make those assumptions. Wrong, because you’re relying on generalisations
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:40 AM
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Then find ones that will? Are you seriously going to sit there and tell me that work friends don’t exist, sport friends, friends from your hobbies all don’t exist? Also putting in effort doesn’t mean just putting in effort to your friends it means putting effort to yourself so you’re in situations where you’re more likely to make friends. Next
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:33 AM
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By putting in effort. Quit being ignorant
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:24 AM
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I read most of it in high school. It makes good points and goes over some techniques but imo it’s overanalysis on basic social skills. For example don’t be weird and keep on bothering people (clinginess), put yourself first etc. the things like negging are interesting but again are normal social skills that people cultivate over time. The thing I like about the book is that it dumbs down these social skills for people who lack them. Other than that the rest seems like mental masturbation and bra…
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:10 AM
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It does. You just got to be willing to go further. Behind every dominant “boss bitch” is a girl who wants a stronger “bossier” guy to pass her shit tests. The question is, are you willing to constantly be that guy to appease her? I’ve pulled so many “bossy bitches” just by standing my ground that much longer.. 99% of the time they’re all the same. Applies to men as well.
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:42 AM
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Thanks a lot of idiots here don’t know the difference when you say “stand your ground” they instantly think you’re the kfc guy.. so annoying
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:40 AM
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It’s just a compliment and being flirty i wouldn’t read too much into it.
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:24 AM
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Making friends is only a “dead end” because you’re admitting you don’t want to put the work in. These options aren’t dead ends bro, it’s your attitude toward them which is a dead end. You can find girls anywhere given the skill/attitude/prep-work (gym career etc). But we’re not worrying about that atm, we’re worrying about the fact that you’re not willing to put in time and effort. Look at it this way. Do you think it’s fair that somebody wanted you all for themselves, all your time, effort and …
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:57 AM
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Let me get this straight. You want advice on how to pick up women, but it’s not allowed to be hard and has to suit the habits you already do that make you bad with women? Please man, I’m not trying to be a dick. But you realise to get something you’ve never had you have to do things you’ve never done.. right? Like if you think maintaining friends is hard and you enjoy being alone, don’t you think maintaining a healthy relationship is going to be harder? Pick your sacrifice bro.
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:52 AM
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Why don’t you work on yourself and build up your social circle? You’re going to limit yourself to the worst way of picking up women because you don’t want to make friends like a real human bean?
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:35 AM
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Didn’t read your novel sorry but came to say this. No, cold approaches are almost the worst way to pick up women. In fact cold day approaches imho are nearly impossible if the woman doesn’t already want you in which case your approach wasn’t really the relevant factor. BUT it is possible to pick up women with cold approaches it’s just way harder than say meeting someone through friends, at clubs, through hobbies or family etc. in fact the most common way to meet a partner is through family and f…
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:27 AM
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Just don’t neg. I understand the concept of negging it’s to bring somebody down to your level. By why don’t you raise your level so high by working on yourself that you don’t have to bring nobody down, but you wish to bring them up Once I understood that concept women started to flock. Negging works here and there as small ego busters on egotistical women, but as a man you want long term and tangible success you work on yourself and say fuck you to the negativity bro.
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:23 AM
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I never said it did. I’m just saying it’s a good indicator. Obviously the only thing that makes her not easy is that she’s not easy, but that’s not something we can measure by asking her right xD
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:02 AM
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I can ageee with what you say. For me my limit is she has to NOT fuck me unless it’s the third date because I don’t want to be on a relationship with somebody easy. My current gf of 5 years we had sex on the 3rd or 4th time we met at my house. Idk if it’s a foolproof plan but in conjunction with other personal things she told me it proved she was a modest girl. And it stood the test of time. Anyway how do you fuck girls on the first date OP? I’ve only managed to do that with girls I meet in club…
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:01 PM
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I’d just not tell anybody about the people I’m sleeping w on the low. Even when I was in my early 20s being a fuccboii (lol) I didn’t go into too much depth about it with my closest friends. Kissing and telling is cringe
/r/seduction27/06/22 10:30 PM
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Sure. The only thing I can say is that the attraction starts months beforehand. All the gym work you put in, all the socialising and changing to a positive mindset. All the career improvements or uni grades etc. all the gathering interesting stories by doing fun hobbies or things. Making sure you dress really well look great and are in a great mood with good friends once you have that down pat you have a chance. If not make sure you work on that before you dream of getting a top grade woman, and…
/r/seduction27/06/22 10:26 PM
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Sure but more likely than not she’ll care if you don’t pay her attention. Happens like clockwork. Reason being is her orbiters give her too much attention and you’re different.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:34 AM
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What’s fear mongering? I’m just saying go get laid but don’t call yourself a fuckboy. You’re almost 30, just keep quiet and have sex nobody needs to hear about it and you don’t need to label it
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:20 AM
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Sure you can just don’t call it a “fuckboy phase” you’re not 18 no more. Just get laid and keep quiet and humble about it.
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:51 AM
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“Oh that’s nice! I’m sure you’ll have fun there then :)” ignore. She’ll come back, and if she doesn’t consider yourself lucky.
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:15 AM
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It’s harder than being with a good group of friends. But it’s more than just sitting at home and having a 100% fail rate.
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:54 AM
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Imho I think the best course of action would be casual conversation, or even if you’re up to it an ice breaker like “heeey.. I know you from somewhere.” Play it off lol. Do the whole “do you go to the local [insert activity here] place?” And the “did you go to my class?” And finally if she doesn’t already bring it up that you saw her on tinder maybe bring it up.. but that technique requires a little bit of confidence, gift of the gab and some social awareness and ability to abort that approach (…
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:05 AM
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Nah bro don’t do that you’re borderline stalking. 1) Talk to her in person and make a good impression/build rapport 2) add her on social media 3) react and reply to her lame story as an ice breaker so that it’s casual and not so confrontational that she just ignore you and you get the message or casual that she can respond and start a convo
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:40 AM
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my current gf was so into me when we first met on “talking terms” in the club that her friend tried to cock block me all night, he other guy friend tried to play the “hey bro this is my girlfriend” to which I said “oh shit really? Damn imma let you be with your girl then.” And walked off And she almost screamed “No!! He’s not.” Kinda thing. Like literally everything was against me that night her best friends even my ex gf being there trying to cock block me.. anyway the girl (current gf) ends up…
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:06 AM
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To add to this point we can freeze our sperm so “technically” we could be fathers past 70 or even past death if we wanted.. it literally is the female that is the main factor
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:58 PM
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Ok, I want to agree with you but this sounds like a bitter rant from a female who is angry at biology for some weird reason. 1) correct as a male it’s harder to have kids the older you get 2) BUT when people say you have more time we mean compared to women. We have almost 2x more time than women to have children. This isn’t about being super human or a tough guy this is simply biology. Men don’t carry the same risks as women do when it comes to child birth, the trade off is that women have the l…
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:57 PM
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This probably happened because you were delusional from the jump. My friend does the same shit he hangs around a girl (stripper) who uses him doesn’t respect him even fucks w other guys and he does the whole new age “yo I’m so cool with that I’m not a jealous boyfriend man!” Then hangs out with her thinking that confessing his love means she’ll fucken Disney and turn around and fall in love with him. She didn’t like him from the get go, hanging out with him just confirmed how boring and lame he …
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:39 PM
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This. Something happens when a girl turns 25.. seriously it’s like they feel they’re old and out of date and would more likely go for older guys to feel a bit younger. But at 22 feel like they’re on top of the world. It’s strabge
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:12 PM
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Damn guess I will never want to be with a model. Lol idk if you’re right but this makes sense.. I’m not a model but I’m a guy who loves to party and get stupid etc. my gf is the polar opposite she’s a homebody and loves to do “boring” shit and that’s what initially attracted me to her.. thanks for helping me realise that after 5 years lol. Yes sometimes I do miss the single bachelor life and being able to do blah blah and blah. But I feel like she’s an oasis I can be stable with. And eventually …
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:27 PM
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Don’t take it too seriously we as humans have this tendency to be like “aghhhh if I fuck this up I’m forever alone!” My best dates came from me just having the mindset of “oh nice I’m out tonight I’ll meet somebody and I’m gonna have fun with it regardless of how they are gonna act even if they try their best to fuck with me.” Everything should be light hearted and most things (unless she talks about her dead dad) should be kinda playful and a joke.. in that mindset there’s no pressure and best …
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:52 PM
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Read some good advice in the other thread (possibly from you) that if you do sit across from them you can go “yooo lemme show you photos on my phone of x” and then sit next to them I thought that was smart
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:49 PM
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This may sound dumb but could you provide an example? Just so I can understand exactly what you mean? Thanks
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:44 PM
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I can say I sorta did that.. didn’t leave my gf to try “game” but we broke up because she was toxic and so was I and I was looking forward to seeing other women. The first thing I did was get my house in order.. I lost a duck load of weight and got into a degree and a growth mindset reconnect with friends and family etc. Looked better dressed better felt better improved in every aspect and that was 90% of the struggle. In my case I like to think I was a completely new man and even though those t…
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:09 AM
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You didn’t fail, she kept responding lol. You would have failed if you got super defensive and went serious and said “NO NO NO PLEASE UR THE ONLY GIRL I FLIRT WITH!!!!” When a girl says anything like that to me “do you say that to all the girls?” I like to say “nah just the pretty ones.” It’s less effective than playing it off or doing the agree and amplify thing like “yeah I flirt with all the girls like that.” Etc. But to me it’s more funny so I like to do that.
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:53 PM
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Yeah you did, it was just a lame shit test. In fact I wouldn’t even call it a shit test I’d call it small bantz.
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:49 PM
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Thanks for sharing I felt like my best pickups was when I acted like this guy without even thinking about it. Funny, honest, joking, masculine and showing interest without being desperate. In other words, seeing how far my jokes could go with women while also thinking “fuck it” she’s happy she’s getting attention I’m laughing and getting practice in lol..
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:40 PM
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I been that dude who fucks a girl and sees her as a lay. I been that guy who wanted to wife a girl. The real answer is that it depends on the girl. Not every girl gets fucked every week or even every year.. you just had certain experiences lol.
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:50 PM
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My condolences
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:16 PM
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What type of attitude do you appreciate most when a male approaches?
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:15 PM
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Nice nice, look I’ll be honest I’ve only cold approached when I’m drunk and yes it’s worked a few times took girls home but tbh doesn’t count cos they were drunk too and it wasn’t as hard what you’d have to do but if I could give a suggestion I feel maybe you went a bit quick on the asking her out thing? Honestly if she was single I’m sure she would have said yes but I wonder if it works better when you sort of show interest and then chill like “sweet that’s cool nice to get to know you anyway” …
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:08 PM
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Could be. The easiest way to find out is to stop texting them or mirror their “enthusiasm” if you ghost them for a bit and they text back they were shit testing. If they don’t then they’re just not interested anymore. In either case it’s lame but hey.. we all already know it’s just a game
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:50 AM
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Yeah, this is why I don’t watch anything horror on Netflix in case it sets the mood for the other person to murder me.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:35 AM
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No. Nobody does this. This never works unless the person is already interested in you anyway, in which case anything you do would work.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:34 AM
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Need more info, are you a girl/boy are they girl/boy. Are they interested in you? Is this something out of nowhere? If you’re just bringing this shit up as a guy out of nowhere then I’d say you’d have to hint at it very subtly so they can reject you subtly without much shame or discomfort. Or if they’re interested they’ll play along and pretty much push it further (be careful if they’re just playing you along though) If you’re a girl asking a boy just do the same thing but a lot more obvious.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:33 AM
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I used to do this to get other girls attention. But this only works on girls you got something to do with. For example if some girl you never talk to or always ignoring you and u try date a girl for attention it won’t work. It worked on girls who I was sorta “seeing” but then would try ghost me or say let’s not see each other or think I was an asshole so they would “dump” me to make me pursue them. I would sometimes just see my ex or somebody who I knew wanted to smash and snap story us having d…
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:25 AM
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Very important my friend is a loser, has no other friends but cries about not having a gf and really simping over any girl who says hi to him. I think him having a group of strong male friends would make him learn how to act and conduct himself
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:40 PM
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What type of extra curricular activities do you mean? All of mine are like rugby and mma so they’re my passions but I don’t meet many girls lol
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:39 PM
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