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nothestrawberrypatch/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:41 PM
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nothestrawberrypatch/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 08:33 PM
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nothestrawberrypatch/r/askMRP08/08/18 06:26 AM
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nothestrawberrypatch/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:34 PM
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nothestrawberrypatch/r/askTRP04/11/18 02:26 AM
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OYS 1 Stats: 39yo, 5 year LTR, Daughter 9 (shared parenting with ex-wife), son 1 year, weight 220lbs, height 6ft. I've come back, not because I've forgotten MRP and the paradigm, but because I clearly have been lazy and I have ended up right back where I started nearly 7 years ago. I was the exact same stats 7 years ago, with a bitchy wife who didn't respect me, and I feel I am headed right back into this again. Its time to turn this ship around before its too late. Goals: Start eating healthy, …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/23 05:23 PM
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Guy says he’s RP yet has to go through her phone? Fuck right off. That’s about as beta as it comes. If you need to go through her phone for validation you have work to do. First order of business is to be honest with yourself.
/r/askMRP05/05/23 05:00 AM
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Dude there’s a lot to uncouple here, but you need to file for custody and parenting time. You also need to talk to a lawyer and if she’s entitled to spousal, and get what an accurate number for child support is. Only pay her that. Cut her off. Why the fuck are you paying for her to fuck someone else on your dime, and you don’t get to see you kid?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/22 04:50 AM
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Yea, we ended it. 4 year long divorce battle. She tried her best to sewer me as a father, but red pill mentality kept me fighting and not giving a fuck. In the end I got 50/50, but starting over financially.
/r/askMRP25/07/22 05:30 AM
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Got a kid? Married? You’re fucked. Take it from me. Time to play some dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 05:04 PM
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Quality post. Been about a year since I’ve fully read a RP post. As I lay here with a recovering dislocated shoulder I’ll take this mantra with me.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 01:19 PM
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On foot in front of the other, judge told my ex she’s essentially delusional when it comes to the money I make, but I didn’t get any more time with my child. Essentially her lawyer spent all the time trying to impute my income that I successfully defended myself against her claims, but I ran out of time to defend my case in getting more time with my kid. I’ll go back and get it though.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:39 PM
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Leaving you on read. Just ignore her.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:28 AM
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Man I nutted in lots of broads in my 20s. She doesn’t want a kid just as much as you don’t. When you’re 35 and have a good job and she’s done riding the CC, that’s when you gotta worry. Stop being an idiot though.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 07:05 AM
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Yea that’s the cause, I would find them the next day after fuckin some new pussy. Not all does it though, just acid pussy lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 07:01 AM
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Hey man, commenting on the red bumps on your dick. I have a forskin and I find some women’s pH will do this to my dick. Don’t sweat it. Your cock just isn’t used to strange pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 06:51 AM
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You are allowed to feel emotions. As long as you understand and acknowledge the feeling you are having.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:02 AM
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This is the douchiest red pill thing I have ever read. Scarcity because of a pendemic? dude..
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:34 AM
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I have court for the first time tomorrow after almost 2 years of her acting like a spoiled child, I will let you know how it goes.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:23 PM
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Yep. Nothing is different, if you live with someone for more than 2 years you are no different than a marriage in Canada.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:55 PM
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You so BIG
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:19 PM
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I’m going through this exact scenario right now. The only difference is the ring is still mine to keep and she is liable to return it. Everything else is as if we were married. I’ve already bought many trips for her to get rag dolled on, a fuckin boat, and god knows how many new wardrobes. Meanwhile I’m rubbing nickels together to make dimes.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 11:26 PM
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I have thought about this too. Don’t touch your face, shower and sanitize your hands after. You’ll be fine... hopefully.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 11:22 PM
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Wallstreetbets
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:54 AM
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WSB
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:44 AM
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Russian men sounds beta as fuck.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:34 AM
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Why has no one mentioned this? Is also clearly a case of oneitis. 30 people in a hostel and he’s only banging one? Sounds like hes in fucking love with his FWB and trying to mateguard.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 11:17 AM
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umm, get helicopter pilot license. Fly helicopter. Get bitches. ​ Seriously though, lots of cool people in the industry if you have nothing holding you down
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:18 PM
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You’re english is terrible and you want to fuck a teacher...
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:04 PM
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Hey buddy, single father of a 6 yo daughter. I let my wife walk after 12 years together. It sucks. Same shit, accusations to rationalize their anger, and contempt. They hide behind these accusations because they don’t have to face the reality; that is what they did to contribute to the failure. I’m amazed at how much forgiveness and understanding I have to give to a women I want nothing to do with anymore. My daughter has a strong father because he’s not going to let that petty woman bullshit co…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 01:34 AM
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Because she wants orbiters. Don’t waste your fucking time.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 02:13 PM
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Overall well written. It reiterates some good points that needed to be said to me right now. You lost me at the god shit. Leave that out of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/20 04:13 AM
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There’s a time and place for hoodies. Most women dig them on men.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:03 PM
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Divorced. Can confirm.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:32 PM
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Im a plant operator. 12 hours a day and I do anywhere from 5 minutes to 1 hour of actual work a day. I study. This shift I have been studying stocks and investing. Learning about ETFs, dividends, reading company financials etc. I opened up a practice trading account, along side a real account. In the practice account Im up 2k on the first day (n00b gainz) but its a testament of what I've read and been following. In the past I've read books on shit that interests me, philosphy, Redpill material. …
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:21 PM
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Ah I thought it was an iron rule - explains why I couldn’t find it
/r/askTRP23/12/19 07:41 PM
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I tried to find the rule but couldn’t. This was just how I had remembered it. I think the rule of thumb is just be conservative with your validation.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 07:37 PM
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For everything she gives you 3 times, you give her one. 3 texts:1 text etc... ​ Basically don't give her free validation, let her work for it. If you are willy nilly calling her, hanging out every waking second, giving up time with your boys, your not making her work for her validation from you. I dont keep track, but sometimes - like right now - I need to remind myself to stop giving it away to her.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 06:05 PM
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Not hanging out with just the boys has had a significant impact on my confidence perception - because I still feel confident, but its not so outwardly projected. I would suspect she feels more in control because more time is spent with her rather than my mates. Call your boys, go do some cool shit, go for a few beers, game some women. I need to do this, because I feel like I'm in the same boat as you. ​ Rememer 3:1 rule
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:55 PM
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Should I quit on my desire to meet more women and settle with this one? The fact you said settle speaks volumes. She sounds like a great woman, but dont let that fool you. AWALT. You've unicorned this woman. Take her off the pedestal. Stop your FOMO. Shes not that special.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/19 05:36 PM
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Lots.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 02:54 PM
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Does she need to put her hand on your cock for you to figure it out? Have you read any sidebar? You would know that women flirt indirectly when they are interested if you did.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:18 PM
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You’re an idiot.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:09 PM
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I’ve been on Prozac for about 2 years. A very low dose, and I went off in April by weening myself off over about 5 weeks. I was fine but my ex is relentless with her emotional abuse and it’s fucked with my head again, so I went back on. What I actually liked about Prozac was that I didn’t feel any different; it didn’t affect my sex drive. It also made it so in order for me to cum during sex it was quite difficult so I could fuck for literally an hour. It was great. Lifting and self help (TRP) ha…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:56 PM
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Quality post. I know when I read a post and it mind fucks new enough to need to read it again; it’s a good one.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 07:12 AM
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Do not talk about red pill.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 01:04 PM
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Do you work on the railroad?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:17 AM
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It’s ok to have a healthy relationship with your emotions. To understand why you’re feeling what your feeling, and how to interpret that into how you should behave. [frame] Men cry. Men hurt. Men get depressed. Men have heartache. Men get angry. Men get sad. Men get upset. Understanding why you’re feeling how your feeling is how a man deals with emotions.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 12:04 PM
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If you feel you fucked up, take responsibility for your actions. If you don’t feel you fucked up. Let her continue her tantrum.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:37 AM
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Nice
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:33 AM
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The op is. Thanks for the generous reply though man. This dude or feminist doesnt deserve your time.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:30 AM
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This is a troll 💯
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:20 AM
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Who fucking cares?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:31 PM
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Also women don’t care about what [monetary amount] benefits her in the end, if she’s pissed off, she will want to fuck you over because she will see that as [emotionally] benefiting her in the end.
/r/askMRP27/10/19 02:15 PM
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I’m in the middle of a divorce, the moment her friends got into her head she turned into a monster. The lawyers have now won, and we’ve got no where. We tried a free mediator at first, we were ONE clause away from finishing. She flipped out when I said what I was initially offering to pay spousal on the basis of what my council had told me, her council told her some astronomical amount, she left the meeting tantruming and served me with papers a few weeks later - just because she can. It’s amazi…
/r/askMRP27/10/19 02:11 PM
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I trust you know better than I. I hope it goes well for you and you have enough money that she just takes it without digging. Edit: my advice is just to get it settled within a few months, before lawyers and her friends get into her head. Draw up an agreement with a cheque in hand.
/r/askMRP27/10/19 02:40 AM
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Dude, I hate to break it to you, unless you already know. You’re going to be paying her spousal until the day you die. I’m sure you know what’s going to happen with assets - I’m talking to a physician here. Someone said to me when I started my divorce “Prepare for the divorce battle”. I didn’t believe them, I thought my ex was going to be logical and shit would be hunky dory. He was right. Prepare for the divorce battle. You’re feelings on the cheating. Number one never confess. Deny. Deny. Deny…
/r/askMRP27/10/19 02:10 AM
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Dude it’s in TRP fundamentals, women don’t overtly compliment you. They give you IOIs. Do some fucking reading
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:52 AM
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Sorry about you friend buddy, thank you for the post.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 09:45 PM
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I donno man, I don’t run my body like a business.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:48 PM
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Just tell you doctor you have performance anxiety. He’ll ask how many pills you want? Get cialis, it’s a rock hard weekend pill.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:10 PM
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You can.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:53 PM
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New edit because last post was gay af. Fuck it, just have fun with it. Don’t take it too seriously.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:56 AM
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Snap is weird, but just make a profile. I ran into this issue gaming any girls less than 28. They all snapped.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:51 AM
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Dude you gotta have snap to game 21 year olds. I’m 35 and it was a learning curve, but chicks love showing their tits and finger blasting for you on there. Even had a cop sending me nudes within a week. They trust it for some reason.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:34 AM
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Confidence, well groomed, charisma, smile, eye contact, firm hand shake. These are red pill things that will get you a job.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 07:16 PM
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You’re relationship has good values, and she values your time. You’re off to a good start. As the honeymoon phase wears off she will want more and more commitment. She will slowly break down your frame to get what she wants. Women are master manipulators, you won’t even know it has happened until your sitting on your couch trying to watch the game and she’s walking around your house in 24/7 pajamas bitching about Karen at work. You’ll scratch you’re head and be like “what the fuck happened?”
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:21 PM
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Nice humble brag, see you Planet Beta in 6 months. She’s not special.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:46 PM
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You claim you’re chad. Why the fuck are you asking us?
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:17 PM
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Don’t use Viagra. That’s for old dudes man with dicks that don’t work at all. You wanna fuck like a rock star all weekend use cialis. It lasts for 3 days and it just helps getting you hard. 10mg is more than enough, basically all that needs to happen is she touches your dick and it’s hard.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:54 AM
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If she says no, hard next. If she is not sure, either soft next or “ok cool”. Get the hamster going.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:15 AM
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You can do both. It’s whatever you feel you want to say. If you feel your giving her an excuse because she will want one then you’re doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:19 PM
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Do some fucking research on this sub and redpill, This very question is answered with defined results with a simple search. Fuck off with this bullshit and dumbing down this sub. Bunch of fucking kids wanting redpill handed to them without any work done.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:05 AM
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I think what this does it is gives you an incredible humble sense of self. What you are fully capable of. Getting completely out of your comfort zone created your character. Your frame is probably rock solid because of it. Good for you man. Keep it up. Also good post.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 07:09 AM
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You’re insecure. Fuck off with that self depreciating mindset. You’re the prize.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:12 PM
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This dudes posting history is a trip. Quite literally. May I recommend MGTOW for you, based on the fact that you’re a 29 year old kissless virgin, who shows no real interest in women.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 03:26 PM
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Learn how to game naturally through texting, snap etc. In my opinion 90% of the fun of a ONS is the game up to laying her. I prefer to meet at a bar, have good conversation, have somewhat of an emotional connection. It makes the sex thereafter much more enjoyable, and not just a fuck. I’m also mid thirties so there’s probably a difference in age between myself and OP.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 05:13 PM
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I beg to differ.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 05:08 PM
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You sound creepy as fuck. None of what you’re doing is coming off naturally and these women are running away from you. Stop being so fucking needy and creepy. “Wanna have your pussy destroyed”. Really? Unless you have fucked this chick like chad already and she wants more this is NOT a line you say to a potential lay. Continue doing what you’re doing though, there’s many chads out there she’s running to.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:48 PM
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You either use what you’ve learned and do this, or never contact this woman again. She wants you for validation when she feels like she’s been used by chad. Edit: just think every time she reaches out “she’s just fucked chad and he’s not returning her texts - So she is texting billy to get her feels” That will get you over her in a real hurry.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:47 AM
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OP if you don’t read this advice and take what he is saying as absolute gospel you’re doomed. Take it from me, I was late to the money spanking party because when I did lay it down she had already branch swung and it was over - all while spending my money. You’re wife does not respect you, and it is your responsibility to command her respect again. You’re nothing but a drunk captain right now.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 05:33 PM
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If you can’t get this spending under control it will destroy your marriage. Your wife is gas lighting you. Just because you don’t cook means you’re not allowed to know what’s spent on food? She does the research for clothes so she’s allowed to spend more? Guess what? I have spent maybe $200 on clothes on my kid in the last year and she still has too much clothes (a pair of boots and shoes in there - so realistically $100). Kids DO NOT COST THAT MUCH FUCKING MONEY. Dude what the fuck - Get your w…
/r/askMRP13/09/19 03:39 PM
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It’s a control thing. You were her billy blue pill beta, then you got some fucking balls and she has no idea how to manipulate you back into that chump again. Women think purely off emotion. They also know there are no consequences for speaking how ever the fuck they want to speak. They essentially lose control over their emotions and have to blame you for how shitty they feel. Light switch effect. Edit: they lack accountability with what they say, because they know there will be no action again…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:38 AM
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I’m speaking from experience, the more I STFU and carried on, the worse her insults and threats got.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:34 AM
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She is only saying this shit because your frame has been rock solid. DO NOT let this get to you, don’t let it break your frame. She will not do these things, STFU and carry on. It’s all blasphemy of a controlling woman losing control over you.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:30 AM
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Working 2/2 I got Snapchat and keep connected this way. Send a selfie, or some stupid fucking video of what your doing. It makes it super easy to get sexual. Tell her what to wear to work, and get her to snap sexy under the desk photos all day. Make bets on sports games - if your team wins you get a photo/video of her jamming her pussy with her favourite toy. You lose? Gotta send a dick pick. 100% of the time I got the video anyway. Also set up dates well In Advance, it gives them hope and somet…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:13 AM
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Great post haven’t seen that before. thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/19 05:19 PM
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OYS 10 Stats: Separated 13 months 35 6'0" 195lbs (last i checked) around 25% BF *6 yo daughter Lifts: Took the month off August, lost accountability, drank too much, did alot of vacationing and eating like shit Hit the gym at work again, lifts are as follows: Bench 190lbs Squat (knee injury) 200lbs Following PPL regiment, seems to be working, I'm gaining weight, not sure if its bulk or fat. Reading: NMMNG - I should read this again Rational male 12 rules of life everything is fucked Subtle art o…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 03:04 PM
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You think about her enough to post about it, that’s what OP means. Take responsibility that you allowed her to treat you like that, and don’t allow that behaviour from anyone every again. MAP and get the fuck on man. She’s nothing more than a failure in your life. Learn from it.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:01 PM
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You’re not submitting if you meet Thursday. She’s picked the day, you pick everything else, time place, when you go hot, when you go cold, when you tease her and when you fuck her brains out. She’s begging you to take charge.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 04:44 PM
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Or better yet “ever been to an amusement park?”
/r/askTRP01/09/19 01:20 AM
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It’s about my standards.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 10:22 PM
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You have some cleanup work to do.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 04:38 PM
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Excellent post, quality TRP content. It is very important to hold yourself accountable for everything and to not get complacent in your thoughts and actions. I have been hit with some serious blows here in the last month, but if it wasn’t for TRP I could’ve easily slipped right back into beta depression land. I did what TRP has taught me. First, ask myself how did I get myself into this mess? And how do I get myself out? Begin implementation. Then I had a almost a month off the gym Due to severa…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 04:36 PM
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Dude why the fuck did you post this 30 times?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 04:28 PM
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I disagree, I had some of the best sex of my life because I could fuck for as long as I wanted.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 04:36 AM
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Anti depressants also have a sweet side effect. You can fuck for hours without cumming.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:47 AM
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Audibles
/r/RedPillBooks14/08/19 06:15 AM
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This. Also OP, your post needs less ramble more structure. A post should never be 5 hard thumb scrolls to read.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:19 PM
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I commented on a post in a well known tinder sub here, because some dude asked me how to stand out. This comment got serious traction, and I found everything I learned from Redpill 101 which is a post buried deep in this sub. If someone can link it please do. It worked to a T. I managed to hook up with every girl I went on a date with either first or second date. Some weeks I had 5 dates in a row lined up and slayed every day. That was a lot of sex and seduction. Keep in mind I have 4 of the 6-6…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:58 PM
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Hey Op I just wanted to compliment you on your posting skills. How tf you post photos in your post? Whether or not your skills will work for the average dude, you possess some of the 6 6’s if not all (don’t know you), that’s enough to make most pussies wet.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 02:36 PM
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I follow islam for the same reason. Bunch of fuckin clowns.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 02:30 PM
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I always wondered about lowering my age, but honestly the few dozen 20-24yos I matched and had convos with it was like talking to a fucking brick. If I was gonna get someone in that demographic at my age (34 at the time) I would just practice cold approach or night clubs. It most certainly would open up your profile to more options, I bet 90% of single and a respectable percentage of [non single] women too between 18-24 are on tinder, I bet they have their range set at 28 though with the excepti…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 10:36 AM
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As some who follows Islam, don’t you think Muhammad would be upset you even follow this group?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 10:31 AM
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DNTAFC? Unsure of this acronym?
/r/askMRP04/08/19 02:47 AM
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I told my ex wife and she took it like I had douped into some kind of a fake marriage. That everything I did for her was to get something in return, like I didn’t actually love her. I mean, it’s likely she just wanted out of the marriage and it was a great way to shame me, but tread lightly my friend. My advice would be to read the book, practise what it preaches in silence. Re-read: EX WIFE.
/r/askMRP03/08/19 10:00 PM
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Looks fine to me
/r/askTRP03/08/19 09:45 PM
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What I’ve noticed is women are baiting guys into actually commenting now. “Type B E A U T Y in separate comments”. and fucking douchebags do it
/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:06 PM
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Maybe you need to practice stoicism better. Don’t treat everything like a shit test. Pick and chose your battles. Amused mastery with the other shit.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:12 AM
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I see nothing but a boy who still has an ego in this question. Kill your fucking ego man.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:14 PM
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This is next level trolling. Well done.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:56 PM
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Was a blue pulled husband, went full dread until marriage ended. Remained stoic. Got on tinder, fucked my first match along with another on the same weekend. I think I went 85% with meets/fucks, if not the first then second date. TRP game principles work to a tee. Mostly gauge IOIs, and escalating through Kino. Old job - boss was a dick, got myself into a position where they needed me more than I needed them, and quit 2 days later. Got the job I wanted Ex wife is a Cunt, it’s hard to bare someti…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:00 AM
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Read, lift, confidence, game, get women. Continue repeating until you are gaming women who you once perceived as a higher SMV than you, but now are lower. Suddenly you get laid like a war lord. Edit: this gets you laid. Wanna get rich, replace women with money, replace game with invest.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:22 AM
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*comfort tests
/r/askTRP30/06/19 04:46 AM
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OYS 9 ​ It's been a while, I only have myself to blame. 35, maintaining 190lbs, probably still over 20% bf, 6'0" tall. ​ Ive recently began to not enjoy going to the gym, same routine over and over again made me bored of it, Top that off without getting any results, or losing any weight, I really lost motivation. Decided after doing some reading to switch it up to a PPL routine. So far so good, back to good workouts, feeling accomplished after the gym, and best of yet - I finally am getting DOMS…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 09:25 PM
24

I thought the saying was “Don’t talk to strangers... “
/r/askTRP15/06/19 10:38 AM
25

Can confirm.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:16 AM
3

You’ll need to pick up where you left off, but you didn’t leave yourself with much. “Lets make tomorrow more interesting than yesterday?” “Hope today is as boring as yesterday, tomorrow will be better, I promise.” - not a typo, “is as” boring will make her think “is that a typo, or is he being a bit of a dink? I better reply” Something along those lines...
/r/askTRP12/06/19 09:47 AM
1

“Me”
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:29 AM
12

This and follow up with - even if she hasn’t responded -. “Let’s make it more interesting.” If she’s interested she will reply with “hmmm, how so?”. To which you respond “Meet me outside our building when we get off at XX:XX” She’ll say “lol, ok” Better have something interesting lined up. I suggest finding a brewery with some live music.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:20 AM
2

Thanks man, I have slipped the last few months, but I’ve found my stride again. I’m outcome indifferent, trusting the process.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 01:13 PM
2

This is exactly what happened. Haha
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:41 AM
3

Going through the same shit, going to follow your posts if you don’t mind brother. 9 months since she left the house. 9 months of being called every name under the book. 9 months of her family all turning their backs on me because of her bullshit prerogatives trying to excuse her affair. 9 month of bullshit lawyer talk that goes no where. 9 months of waiting on a god damn court system. 9 months of my time slowly being taken away from my daughter. I can’t fucking wait to be sitting in front of a …
/r/askMRP11/06/19 09:36 AM
4

Exactly. She’s yesterday’s news. Just judging by the context of the question, everyone in the post is <25. Too early for LTRs anyway.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 08:07 AM
4

Give her the opportunity to go find herself. You continue to work on your mission. Everyone is happy.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:42 AM
13

Go in and practice frame.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:45 PM
4

Jesus Christ she’s not a HB9. Now your putting her pussy on a pedestal by worrying about what the text her. How about she’s not that hot, and who’s gives a fuck. If you fucked her brains out she’ll call.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:30 PM
2

I don’t give a fuck where my woman is. If she’s got nothing to hide I don’t need to know her location. The fuck is this bullshit about tracking each other? I’ll never let an LTR track my ass, nor would I ask her to do the same.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 06:02 PM
10

Let them go be flakey with some other dude who will put up with that shit. Continue your mission.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:01 PM
2

What the fuck did I just read?
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:44 AM
3

Dude I had a puck knock out half my front tooth. Take a bad ass photo. Call your dentist. They will fit you in. Mine got fixed the next day. Also, the bad ass picture got me a lot of matches opening up conversations in tinder and bumble.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:31 AM
16

Sounds like you asked for a beej. You dont ask for bj's. In the heat of the moment you tell her to suck your dick. never had a woman not comply.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:48 AM
1

True
/r/askTRP15/03/19 06:49 PM
3

Haha I’m playing. I could give a fuck if it was an NHL team.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:57 PM
1

Hahah I feel like you’re one of my boys Trollin me
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:55 PM
1

I’ve suggested. We get to the destination at 4-5am then.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:46 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:20 AM
1

I just don’t want to be exclusive. That’s where I lost frame was allowing her insecurities control my decision. I didn’t know any other way to regain frame in this situation other than drop the label.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:09 PM
1

One red flag with her is her jealousy. I’m not sure if she could handle that! Good suggestion tho
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:11 PM
3

Thanks. Great advice.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 07:50 PM
2

Thanks man
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:45 PM
21

Excellent reply thanks man
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:44 PM
5

She asked once in the very beginning “I don’t want to do this unless this will turn into an LTR”. I said “of course, any one I date could potentially be an LTR in 6 months or a year, it’s too soon to tel right now though”
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:41 PM
6

I understand that but I was very clear from our first conversation and throughout the last 3 months what my intentions were. She slowly made her into my frame and I don’t know how.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:29 PM
1

If the organization knows you have these skills. Sit back and stop doing them until they realize your skills are beneficial. In the meantime stfu and just do your part as needed.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 11:50 PM
3

No. Orbiters are not ok if you’re in an LTR. She’s taking attention off you and giving some to another male. If you were everything she desired she wouldn’t even consider or need an orbiter in her life.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:27 AM
15

What fucking good is snooping going to go? We all know wtf the is going on. Best advice is top comment.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:23 PM
1

I feel this should be answered by one of the many Redpilled Therapists in this sub.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 08:14 PM
1

This is called fight or flight.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 01:59 PM
6

“Accept miseries with the stoicism of a cow standing in the rain.”
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:53 PM
1

Yea I understand this.. the same girl has shown me her tinder. 3300+ likes and 372 unanswered messages. I pick her up on tinder btw. Go me haha
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:52 PM
1

She already knows this.. and Thanks for your response!
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:50 PM
1

No. I said I’m close to 28. I’m not 28.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:13 AM
1

I hear what your saying. I guess I would draw the line then 18. Something about 17 is fucked up to me.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:13 AM
-2

Nah I fuck her brains out. And I’d fuck an 18 year olds brains out too.... but she’s had to be out of high school. That’s where I draw the line.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:46 PM
0

Thanks
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:05 PM
-2

Nah, not white knighting. I said what I said, she agreed. End of conversation. I’m just perplexed by it. I’m new to dating after a 12 year marriage, I want to know what are red flags and what are just me hamstering.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:05 PM
0

I would view every plate as a potential LTR. I’m not interested in banging broads I don’t have an emotional connection with. Seems like a waste of my valuable time to me.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:48 PM
4

I have issue with the fact a grown man is picking his girlfriend up at high school and no one in her family- including yourself sees the issue here. I get it’s consent, but it’s fucked up.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:45 PM
4

Don’t say anything. Move on.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:48 PM
0

Talk if you feel like talking. Don’t talk if you don’t feel like talking. Just don’t create small talk. Not talking for 4 days you will likely have a lot of women get cold feet and or forget about you. Keep the banter going. Couple texts here and there, if she’s easy to talk to get some sexting going, feel her out. One game I find keeps chatting and bullshit “how’s your day” convos to a minimal is 21 questions. Easy way to get sexual too. EDIT: I love the downvotes. I work away from home and hav…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:20 AM
2

Well 3 of them in my group chat are, it’s really one in particular who thinks he’s gods gift to woman is the one most vocal about discrediting me. Not sure why I care. I guess I just want them to be interested in me; which is validation seeking. Need to stop it.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:03 PM
1

Yea this is my conclusion too. Also it’s out of character for me to be this way considering I was a bluepill beta my whole life with them. I think they almost see this new me as a threat to their “legacy” they left behind when they were single and now see me doing better than they ever did. I definitely understand why it’s unbelievable to them - I’ve ever said this .
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:52 PM
2

Yea I don’t talk about RP, they just ask how a date went and I tell them she opened her mouth wide when I came and swallowed my load like a champ, and they think I’m lying. Next time I guess just say “it well well, she’s a good girl”
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:41 PM
1

I’m a sole proprietor so my personal income wouldn’t increase. Just my business earning potential. Which is in a *deficit right now due to shitty economy a few years back. So it wouldn’t matter at this point. Thanks though
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/18 08:33 PM
1

OYS 8 It’s been a while since I’ve posted. Divorce week 15? Status: offer pending. Stats: 183lbs, 6’0” abs “V” coming in. Body fat slowly declining, I feel like I’m getting stronger, I need to start recording weights. Been intermittent fasting 16:8 for about 2 months. I love it. I dropped 10lbs but found my body plateaued again at 183. I started incorporating more cardio to my work outs again. Should get back into HIIT again. I’m beer hungry and most certainly don’t overeat anymore. Need to fine…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/18 03:11 PM
4

I work away from home, so texting/commutation with plates is somewhat blue pill. I also like to talk. So texting was normal, in be beginning I played her fucking game as per red pill text game code. Then she stopped and communicated normally. If she was actually busy I knew it, if she wasn’t she responded. So there was an effort to curb her shitty habit for me. Once the effort to please me was gone, she was back to her old ways of leaving me on read for 24 hours - then always apologizing the nex…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 03:10 PM
3

She had terrible text game habits. I called her out on it early on. She was better, then I lost her interest slightly due to logistics. The lazy texting/communication became an issue again, she would always apologize for her shitty texting, she was busy or blah blah... I told her that her shitty texting habits are a deal breaker for me. Next. It sucks, but my time is valuable and I’m not going to be played. I started developing a oneitis for her aswell which made me too tolerant of this behaviou…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 03:01 PM
6

She’s doing something to please you. Accept it. Get her to drop you off at home, you have “shit to do, See you tomorrow”
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:51 AM
10

Dude I started playing hockey at 24. I’m 34 now and play on two teams. One which I run. I fucking love it. Great exercise, it’s guy time, and chicks dig it. Don’t be a fucking wuss. Side note : I’m the worst player on both teams and no one gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:49 PM
2

Yea I’m uncircumcised, I have this problem with blow jobs, never with sex. I think it’s just not a sloppy enough blow job. Because some bj’s are excellent and not painful, but most are a little painful. So maybe with sex it’s the difference between a wet pussy and dry pussy.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:19 AM
1

Really then I stand corrected!
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:43 AM
1

No I’m in Canada. I would just think if you’re in a city, a bar probably wouldn’t care if you could sell booze.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:39 AM
1

Fuck that. All a bar cares about is can you sell booze? Are you moderately good looking? Can you hold a conversation? Can you flirt? At the end of the day if you’re a plug who works 9-5 they won’t hire you based on that. If you’re outgoing and easy to talk to, they won’t give a rats ass. Ive been thinking of doing it myself. But I have a kid and I work 2 weeks on 2 weeks off. The only thing preventing me is my kid. My schedule wouldn’t matter if I was good.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:33 AM
1

Why the fuck not? What’s stopping you? A kid? A wife? A girlfriend? If you answered no to all of these; it’s not unrealistic.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:24 AM
1

I don’t message any of the girls I’m talking to first, and I always end it before the conversation dies out.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:22 AM
3

Probably too needy.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:19 AM
1

My time is very limited with my schedule. It would have happened already but I’m out of town a lot... had her in my bed second date but she gave me 3 hard no’s so I drove her home. Sex would happen the next time we meet which is another reason I think Shes getting cold feet. She likes me and doesn’t want to just be a fuck buddy to me.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:42 PM
1

Yes, this. I would not, she wants to talk today and I feel I need to bring this up if she wants more commitment from me. She just checks all the other boxes, we’ve had sexual conversations and we’re definitely into the same shit sexually. Another reason I’m having trouble letting this one go. I want to fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:19 PM
6

For one you have her on a pedestal. She’s not a fucking 10. My motto has been treat her like a 6 fuck her like a 10. Works great. This chick knows she’s hot. Don’t validate her by being awkward and treating her any differently. Don’t tell her how beautiful she is or blah blah.. You’re likely young - She knows her greatest weapon is her SMV. Treat her like she’s not a high SMV, and you will be rewarded. Also don’t smoke weed with chicks you just met and want to bang.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 11:24 AM
5

Stop wasting your fucking time. Get good at gaming less hotter chicks. If she’s making you chase her already on tinder shes not going to come around. Odds are you were part of a game with her and her friends, or one of her friends got a hold of her phone and started swiping. If I cant get a solid banter session going right away, I soft next them. Maybe one day they’ll send a message , but I’m not going to continue feeding their validation feelz by chasing.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:03 PM
2

I work 2/2, I’m finding the same thing, but still managing to spin a few. Here’s what’s I’ve found; you need to do some shit that could be considered little BP because I’ve found being aloof doesn’t really translate well when your gone 50% of the time anyway. •Snapchat them stories, include them every once in a while in your day. If it’s a blue collar job like mine, they love work selfies. Obviously don’t over do it. •give them a phone call not text; once every week or two. Every girl I have on …
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:59 AM
5

Look the heart comment was gold, but why engage with this negative banter though? Also, no you will not face legal trouble for telling someone they have no heart. I’m in Canada, doesn’t mean we’re all progressive liberal snowflakes.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:49 AM
13

What the fuck is this shit? Get your life together. Your fighting with chicks on tinder, and you have verbal diarrhea that is not funny in your profile. I’d call your lame ass out too.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:33 AM
2

I like the open phone trick. A cute girl and I started chatting at a coffee shop the other day. She was clearly interested, I didn’t ask for her number for a few reasons: Simply just didn’t any time for her in the next month I had my daughter beside me, and I don’t want to be gaming women in front of her - our interaction was completely normal for me. I didn’t know a more subtle way to get her number.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 06:42 AM
-1

Sounds good man. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 06:24 PM
1

Thanks. I’m over estimating for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 03:54 PM
2

Great advice thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 02:28 PM
1

Never heard of them?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 08:34 PM
1

I was also angry and feeling vindictive while posting this. Not in the sense that I want to make her feel like shit, or prove her wrong. In these sense that I felt validated that everything I have read and implemented into my life via RP sidebar was entirely predictable. I felt my mission is on track, and that this sub has given me strength to see through the bullshit, and keep moving forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 07:49 PM
1

Accurate - and I’m completely fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 07:44 PM
1

*also maybe I’m not being completely accurate in my BF% assumption, I could still very well be in the 20s. I’m only going off what I started at, photos of what a certain % may look like, and how much fat I have lost since. This could be why you have the mental picture of this lanky dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 07:42 PM
3

I most certainly didn’t down vote you. I give everyone who comments an upvote. It’s all learning for me. I have also not taken any offence to anything you’ve said. I have nothing to prove to you or anyone else. I look good and I know it. I’m only going to look better. I appreciate your desire to want to slap me in the face but I really don’t need that at this point. I lift to what my body needs, if I feel something isn’t right I research why and change it. I’m conversing with you because you hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 07:27 PM
1

Will do thanks brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 07:17 PM
2

Yes I understand the HB scale is very subjective. Your 8 might be my 6 and vice versa. They are HB8s to me. I don’t need validation that they are or aren’t.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 06:09 PM
1

Yes, and from what I always read in here (well TRP main sub) is your SMV is essentially the same SMV of girls you can pull effortlessly. I would say I pull HB8s effortlessly.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 05:56 PM
2

I mean, my exwife Barely knows how to manipulate Facebook, and I know she has no idea wha reddit is.. but word for word it’s the exact same story circa 4 months ago. We hav a child yes. I stopped “caring” for her volatile emotions when she couldn’t control them around my daughter. I let her leave because of that. To protect my daughter from seeing how a woman should NOT treat her husband or any man. I have zero respect for anyone who cannot control their emotions.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 04:32 PM
1

Really trying my hardest to learn how not to be a Steve.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 04:11 PM
3

You’re right. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 04:00 PM
1

You are probably very accurate in that assumption. She may have been having an emotional affair for years for all I know.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 03:38 PM
1

There’s no denying what shell of a man I used to be. If I don’t recognize where I came from; how am I supposed to improve? How do I develop internal frame if I don’t know what red flags I will not put up with in relationships?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 03:37 PM
2

I would 100% not take her back. My life has dramatically improved without her in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 03:34 PM
-1

Though this is an accurate observation, I’m no 6 or 7, and I’ll never be a 10 because who would actually call themselves a 10? The best I will ever be is a 9.5. Though I might be 10 right now in some women’s eyes. That all that matters to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 03:32 PM
2

Step one - get out of emotional abusive marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 03:29 PM
4

My exwife began to see someone else because I stopped being her emotional tampon for her emotionally abusive episodes. I began setting boundaries on what I would and would not put up with. Once she realized that she couldn’t “change me” anymore she clearly branch swung.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 03:29 PM
1

Thanks man. I’ve done my best to kill my ego. I know I’m a good friend, a good worker, a good father and a good lover. I know what I’m good at, and where to draw the line of confidence within myself. I don’t go around parading myself that I have a fairly high SMV, or that I’ve got a good job that pays well. I have humility, I’m not perfect nor will I ever be. What has been nice, however, is seeing what a high SMV does for you. When I’m smiling my day is just so much better. The barista in the mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 03:25 PM
6

Right. SMV is based solely on muscle and Bf comp.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 06:23 AM
5

Understood. Working on internal frame everyday
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 06:21 AM
7

Though I appreciate your sentiment. A part of me does GAF. Do I give enough fucks for it to alter my mission? No. Do I give enough fucks that I am going to allow her to manipulate me anymore? No. I don’t give a flying fuck about her feelings anymore. It’s liberating.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 01:42 AM
4

Thanks for seeing what it is. I’ve accepted my responsibility in the failure, I’m no longer going to live within her frame. I get she still has an emotional connection with me, that does not mean my internal frame is weak. I’ve been emotionally abused for over a decade, she knows what used to work on me.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 12:13 AM
6

Whatever tf this means
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 11:17 PM
20

Working on it
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 10:22 PM
3

I think the hardest part for me posting here is to keep it short; but finer details obviously lack. I get a FR could have a TL;DR, but I don’t use a computer for mobile first is my only means of posting and post is short. You might not be getting the full picture, I’m mostly posting here to hear what you guys have to say and get me back into line if I am straying from it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 08:57 PM
2

I’ve been dealing with my intellect. I’m quite intellectually sound - a year ago not so much. I was in a total [different] frame of mind. Hers actually. Everything I have learned from here has played out exactly as I predicted. My marriage was far gone from saviour. I sleep well at night knowing everything I’ve done I can. She left me. “I don’t leave my wife, my wife leaves me” I’m not the schizophrenic one in this endeavour. Thanks for your response.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 08:54 PM
2

OYS 7 Separation week 7-8. Mission: Spend quality time with daughter. Hit the gym, lose final 5lbs - see ab/chest definition. Get *more educated. Become sought after in work and life. Get laid like a god. Stats: 182.4lbs 6’0”. BF% has got to be around 17% now. I should get this tested again. Separation: Got in to see a lawyer, she gave me some sound advice and I hired her as legal help to construct an agreement. I told her I don’t want to pay Spousal support if I am Giving her 80% of assets and …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/18 01:57 AM
1

You’re right.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 04:00 PM
2

The way I saw it was she’s smoked for 14 years and wants to quit - what better way to get a plate to be submissive that getting her to give up a habit for you. She would deserve such a reward for this. I hear what you are saying though. She’s never been the one to initiate though, I’m definitely wasnt chasing though for the first 12 days or so away, although I feel like I am now, considering I am home, I offered to see through our deal next weekend and I’ve yet to hear from her.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 03:48 PM
1

Who cares? Go out tonight and pick up another girl. Work on better escalation, she wanted to smash but you didn’t pull the trigger.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 02:59 PM
1

Do whatever the fuck you want. Just don’t be needy .
/r/askTRP15/09/18 03:34 AM
1

OYS 5. Week 7-8 separated. 6’0” 183lbs Self. Still don’t give a fuck about ex’s feels. Lifting has been hindered due to long hours at work and living as a single Dad on days off. Still losing weight with IF, but no gains. Not a big issue, will get back on track tonight. Ex-wife. Shes still very emotional. Flinging shit, whatever she can think of to try and make me emotional, it doesn’t work. She can talk like an adult twice a week for about 15 minutes. Then the feels come out. I tell her I won’t…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 08:33 PM
1

Lol it does sounds strange. Let me rephrase. Before I fuck her.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 11:08 PM
1

So the night got away on us. Fuck I can talk. Too much. I passed all of her shit tests. “What are you looking for?” “I’d like to find someone to teach me play guitar”. She laughs. I answer her question honestly though, she agrees to the terms I set out. “I’m not just your typical tinder whore who you can fuck on a first date” “What makes you think I’m a tinder whore who fucks on a first date?”. This is when I should have closed. The look in her eyes was I want to fuck you right now. Next thing y…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:49 PM
1

Thanks it was easy yes. The RP lawyer’s office website is justice for men. So I just figured he likely follows RP Ideals if you know what I mean Edit: after researching and reading his credentials.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/18 01:50 AM
2

Will do bud thanks.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 11:25 PM
5

She’s trying her best to mind fuck me and make me feel some sort of emotion. It doesn’t work. If anything it’s making me feel less guilty that I have 3 tinder dates set up for the next 3 nights with 3 different women.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 11:22 PM
2

Yea I agree. If exwife messages me at 10 that she’s out. I’ll cab it home. I’ve got a box of whe, beer chillin and whiskey (she likes whiskey) in the cupboard. Even baileys for the morning. If she’s not gone, I’ll jus escalate at the pub, kino, kissing. Set up for a second date before I head back to work. EDT: fuck I gotta quick calling her wife
/r/askTRP29/08/18 11:20 PM
5

We’re split up. She’s in raging blame me for all of our failures bitch mode. It’s for the better. I realized all of her psychological abuse mechanisms through learning NMMNG and TRP principles.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 11:10 PM
1

Yea this chick knows its recent. Initially offered go to a pub near her place in another town but she said she doesn’t mind coming out my way. I took that as her place might be off limits. Also RP ways have taught me to make them come to you.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:40 PM
1

I’m going for tinder drinks myself tonight for the first time since i split with my [ex]wife. Thanks for the post. My only issue with tonight is it’s that my [ex]wife is moving the last of her shit out of the house. I’m thinking I might need to hotel it if it escalates?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:20 PM
6

STFU 100%. It’s hard but the times of compassion she had did not outweigh in the slightest the unjustified anger she’s grown toward me.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 03:57 PM
2

Exactly my point. You don’t get our humour.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 02:37 PM
17

I had this conversation with my wife. It helped and it didn’t. It helped when she wanted to feel compassion for me. It also didn’t help when she wanted to be angry and blame me for something. She didn’t quite understand what a covert contract was. She thought every single thing I did for her our whole relationship was to get something from her. So she lost trust in me. Once she lost that the relationship began to unfold. NMMNG warned me of this. TRP made it so I’m not sulking in my bedroom alone…
/r/askMRP29/08/18 02:17 PM
7

On behalf of Canada, Fuck off. We’re full.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 02:07 PM
9

OYS 4 Aug 28, 2018 Current stats: 6’0” 186lbs and falling •Weeks 3 to 4 of separation. •Wife is back to being super bitch •I’m not giving a fuck First thing. SEPARATION: Came home from work after 2 weeks away, wife was cool, we chatted. She fucked off for the weekend. I didn’t ask her where. Didn’t care. She came back today and I said we need to talk about how we are going to break the news of our separation to our daughter. I named a time and a place, and got care for my daughter. I got with 15…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 09:04 AM
1

My aftermarket Chinese iPhone screen fucking sucks, or my thumbs are too fat and I keep responding in the wrong thread. Thanks for help
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 04:01 PM
1

Someone asked me “When should I stop caring?” I feel I should stop once the agreement is in place. My main goal here is to get this done as quickly and painlessly as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 03:17 PM
2

I’m going to need to let this one sink in for a bit.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 02:58 PM
1

She definitely wanted to keep the plow attached. We’ve moved beyond shared living now and she’s moving out this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 02:48 PM
1

“you replied to OYS, not me or some other response i'm curious, have you determined who "the other guy" is yet?” My bad. No, but I don’t give a shit if there is. In my opinion if there is it will likely make this whole process a lot easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 02:46 PM
1

A positive conversation is one where she is not slinging shit and she’s keeping her emotions in check. Edit: she probably does not. I can lead her to that though.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 02:32 PM
1

She definitely wanted to keep the plow attached. We’ve moved beyond shared living now and she’s moving out this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 02:29 PM
1

The following day in told her I wasn’t going to entertain this conversation any longer until we could make a positive conversation moving forward. I asked her what does she feel is fair. She wouldn’t answer. Just kept slinging shit. I simply responded to every verbal Diarrhoea outbursts with: “Answer my question.” It took 3 times and she responded with: “I don’t know, I haven’t even thought about it” I said. “Think about it, call me when you do” Later that night she was apologizing for the state…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 02:19 PM
1

Get back in line with my goal of not going to court and/or needing to hire lawyers.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 02:11 PM
1

Thank you, I am the prize. That said: The prize at this point in the separation game is my wife’s feels. If her feels fall off the deep end I’m going to get divorced fucked; because we all know when she gets hate feels the reality feels disappear.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 01:16 AM
1

Tf is this suppose to mean? [insert constructive redpill criticism here]
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 12:32 AM
8

Read this guys post history. My fucking God.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:25 AM
1

You’re right
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 04:15 PM
1

IMO in a pre-separation agreement state trust is imperative. After the separation agreement is signed then I could give a fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 03:45 PM
1

Wouldn’t chasing be saying [I want] to earn your trust? [I will] is accepting my failure, making myself accountable and instilling confidence that I will improve. Not giving a fuck about what she thinks, because I will get that respect I deserve.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 03:24 PM
1

OYS 3 34, 6’0” 187lbs separated; 4 yo daughter Started intermittent fasting and I am down 2lbs already. I feel better; no bloating ever. The hunger in the last few hours of my fast is getting easier to handle and my discipline to not snack during my fast is 100%. Week 2 of separation was no where near as cordial as week one. She wanted to discuss a shared living for the interim and I brought up some financial situations instead of sharing a house. She lost her mind completely. Im assuming she we…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 02:01 PM
1

The tell tale giveaway is the texting abbreviations. What man who’s either 40 or over 40 texts or types like that. That’s a millennial generational thing.
/r/askMRP20/08/18 02:59 PM
2

This post reeks of troll.
/r/askMRP20/08/18 02:01 AM
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Fuck what your parents think. Do what YOU want to do.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 02:02 AM
1

Lol I missed a 0. Edited that.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 03:31 AM
1

OYS August 14, 2018 Background: 34, married 7 years, 1st week of separation, 5 year old daughter. 6’0” 189lbs. Unsure of BF% but probably under 20% now. Workout 5-6 days a week. Eating GF, dairy free. Staying away from empty carbs and keeping a minimum intake of sugars. First week of separation - see earlier r/askMRP post on this. We still haven’t told family of our situation, I Talk to my daughter everyday, and the communication between my wife and I remains cordial. No animosity. I’ve been mon…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 12:20 AM
1

I could not relate to this post anymore at this point in my life. Saved.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 04:08 PM
1

That’s what you picked up through all of this? Getting a full free beer, sometimes two on a 1 hour flight is a small victory. Clearly you don’t fly very much.
/r/askMRP09/08/18 12:42 PM
1

I am and this is helping me recognize that I need to be more clear concise and honest
/r/askMRP09/08/18 04:48 AM
2

Wife doesn’t know. It was my choice to not fuck her. She was begging for it. Literally. At the time I just wanted validation from a woman. Definitely not embarrassed about it. I’m happy I didn’t stick my dick in crazy, shit where I ate etc... Again - she’s the reason I began RP. I was your text book case of a nice guy. I’m a better man, father, friend and co worker today than I was this time last year. I still have work to do, but internally I am much more confident than I have ever been with my…
/r/askMRP09/08/18 04:02 AM
2

Best advice given. Will do.
/r/askMRP09/08/18 03:19 AM
1

Yeah, this was all pre-RP. I’m not worried about falling into that trap again.
/r/askMRP09/08/18 02:16 AM
1

I understand whatever problems I have now will manifest in the future without any further improvements. My wife is very good at getting me to enter her frame via gaslighting. I have no idea wtf she is even talking about with this emotional connection BS. I said to her yesterday it sounded like she wants to be married to a woman, or the beta she was married to before (I didn’t say that part) I lived in my wife’s frame for 10 years, and that’s why we lasted.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 08:11 PM
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You’re right in the sense that I am in her frame. As stated before, she’s very good at gaslighting me into hers. When I first started my RP journey I went Rambo, and discovered with my social status, personality, and looks how well this theory worked and had to back off a bit. That being said I clearly lost some of what I had learned initially and need to sidebar again. I always said my wife leaves me, I don’t leave her. I sensed this time she had no more fight left and I essentially coached her…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 07:59 PM
2

Noted. Thank you
/r/askMRP08/08/18 07:00 PM
1

I understand whatever problems I have now will manifest in the future without any further improvements. My wife is very good at getting me to enter her frame via gaslighting. I have no idea wtf she is even talking about with this emotional connection BS. I said to her yesterday it sounded like she wants to be married to a woman, or the beta she was married to before (I didn’t say that part) I lived in my wife’s frame for 10 years, and that’s why we lasted.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 06:57 PM
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Understood. My life goes on pause for the 2 weeks I am away. This is just day 1. Digesting it all today.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 05:29 PM
1

Dread games - I started with steps 1-5, Which is essentially imo RP theory. Owning my shit: Started out 220lbs. Now still 190 can’t shake the last 10lbs. I know it’s a diet thing, and maybe testosterone. Been dairy free, GF for a couple years. Need to change it up somehow.. First thing I do when I get out of camp is get a haircut from the same HB8, get a little flirt in and go home, not without catching the same seat on the plane to game the fight attendants who sit directly across from me on ta…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 04:20 PM
1

Is this a redditor? Can you link?
/r/askMRP08/08/18 04:01 PM
1

Thanks. We’ve been through the mountain of resentment for the past 2 or 3 years. Had countless deep lows but never separated, always worked through it to a point of contempt. I call it the serpent of our relationship, she cannot forgive me for how she perceived I should’ve acted in the first year of my daughters birth. Not getting into details but short - daughter was very cauliky, wife contacted c-diff and both were quite sick. I was working 12-14 hour days mid winter and very tired. Bottom lin…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 03:40 PM
1

No I definitely haven’t, and I didn’t decide to end it.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 08:49 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 08:12 AM
3

In the 12 years we’ve been together We’ve travelled all over the place, we’ve moved cities, bought and sold houses, she’s gone to school twice - once for nurse, second for massage therapy. I was a trucker for the first 6 years, became a helicopter pilot. We sold everything and moved into an RV to follow my line of work. We’ve since moved back home but I work 2/2 as a gas plant operator and recently invested in a bunch of hiking ad camping gear to explore our province we live in and planned a shi…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 08:11 AM
0

You’re right - own my shit. It was an affair I just didn’t fuck her.
/r/askMRP08/08/18 08:07 AM
2

Clearly you don’t end it in one night. Does the 4 year dead bedroom not give a clear indication of a timeline here? I looked over several early red flags because I fell in love with a fantasy of marrying this woman at a young age. Def: Oneitis - I see this now. Details of the convo? I asked after a weekend away from each other where her head is at with regards to us. The tone of the conversation was essentially agreeing upon putting a disease ridden dog down. Mutual tears and a hug at the end. S…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 08:06 AM
1

My daughter and I have a great relationship. I bring her everywhere with me. We meet people and kids randomly all the time, camping, the beach, hiking etc.. Strong fathers raise strong daughters. I just want to still be there for her like i am now.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 05:08 AM
3

Whoa there Rambo.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:38 AM
3

I second this. We recently lost our dog, she was crying over and over again how it was her fault and it wasn’t of course. I ended up getting frustrated and changed my tone of voice some and that was it. That’s all she will remember now during that time she just needed me to listen.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 02:11 AM
3

Get a hotel ya bum.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:38 AM
8

Maybe it’s because you spend too much time worrying about your social rank and that someone blue collar is lower than you? I’ve never put on a pair of khakis or stepped foot in a cubicle. I’ve made 6 figures since I was 28 years old. I also don’t know what the fuck a blue collar woman is? A welder? No body wants welder pussy.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 02:35 AM
1

Found a post by u/archwinger about the power to walk away. It’s forever changed my life and given me confidence in everything I do.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 01:59 AM
1

This is how I start. I talk to everyone. Random stranger whom I have come into contact with in one way or another: “ Me - “Hey, hows it going?” RS - “Good, yourself?” I was at an airport event the other day with many military men and women this is how every conversation started. ...Then I ask; “Where are you based?” And then begin your conversation from there... I typically enjoy hearing people’s stories. -what are their goals -what are their dreams -what is their job -what exactly does that job…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:56 PM
3

Rambo. Stfu.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:53 AM
12

What app is this?
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:23 AM
2

Thanks brother. I’ll be sure to call my doc on Monday.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 03:06 PM
1

I’ve been on 2mg of Prozac for about 8 months. It cleared up any anxiety I was having, the negative thoughts I was having stopped, and nothing irritates me anymore; whereas everything irritated me before, I wanted to die, and my self confidence was at an all time low. I ran out last week, and I haven’t been able to make it to my doctor to get filled. We’ll see if I need to or not. Last summer if I went 2 days without I would feel very anxious and irritable. Im about 5 days off these things and I…
/r/askMRP24/02/18 02:18 PM
1

The fact that frame is in quotations is a clear indication that this is a troll.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:26 AM
1

Well if no one is calling you back - call them. Change your resume and re apply. Do whatever it fucking takes to get the job. Seek professional help with your resume.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:40 AM
1

I’ve gotten any job I’ve ever wanted. You can get anything you want if you want it bad enough. Garbage opinion.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:38 AM
1

Squeaky wheel gets the grease. You wanna work somewhere? Make it damn well known you do. You’ll get a job.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:14 AM
3

Do people judge when they see other with braces or vaneers? No. In fact they soon forget how they used to look and are constantly reminded on how nice of teeth they have every tine they see them.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 03:00 AM
1

Excellent advice
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:00 PM
4

Start in Amsterdam, stay at the flying pig hostel with a vague itinerary of where you want to go. You’ll create your own trip every day you wake up. 3 days max in Amsterdam.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:33 PM
1

Thanks will do
/r/askMRP01/01/18 02:01 AM
2

She was just as sexually frustrated as me and really desired and fantasized to be dominated. I just hit a home run with how she wants to get fucked. She was just as tired as me rubbing one out all the time. We didn’t fuck at all my last days off (too stressed out and she was really turning me off). I don’t think she’s got a side piece, as she never leaves the house and my daughter can’t sleep in bed without my wife next to her. (Another issue but I gave up on that one years ago). She’s noticed a…
/r/askMRP31/12/17 02:27 PM
0

Very insightful and I will read this again to digest it some more tomorrow. A lot of what I have been reading on RP doesn’t make a lot of sense at first, I’ll need to read this again to apply it into my life. The deep voice thing is the tip of the iceberg. Typically when we get to that point I’m already annoyed that she’s stressed out about something minuscule. What I don’t quite understand is how do I stop letting my feelings control my actions?
/r/askMRP31/12/17 07:16 AM
1

Often I wonder if I am too supportive; one thing I have discovered is I didn’t put myself first in the past. I don’t do that anymore. I’m weening my wife off the easy train with me. I understand it’s a process and some days I might go Rambo (like in the beginning of swallowing RP). Whatever she’s wanted, I’ve given. Whatever dreams we’ve had, we’ve achieved. I’ve never said no - until recently. I just don’t really know how to handle it when she throws the “your so selfish” shit test to me, when …
/r/askMRP31/12/17 07:04 AM
1

In the past I would say it was a covert contract, but I now know my wife is DTF whenever I want it. Throw her ass on the bed and manhandle her. I do these things because I like to cook, I have a strict diet, and it makes her life easier. I leave the house when she’s on nights because I don’t want to hear about how she couldn’t sleep all day and how it was my fault. My daughter also doesn’t quite understand to leave mommy alone either.
/r/askMRP31/12/17 06:57 AM
2

Thank you
/r/askMRP31/12/17 06:40 AM
1

Solid advice, just to be clear - I definitely do not think I’m redpilled in 3 months at all, but what I have discovered is that I have been incredibly unhappy for a very long time. Im trying to figure out if my relationship is one of those reason. As far as fun goes - I’m feeling like I’m back to my old self. I’m pretty care free and willing to try anything. There really isn’t anyone I don’t get along with and I can make anyone laugh - I’ve always been like that. I’m an excellent conversationali…
/r/askMRP31/12/17 06:37 AM
7

I like fucking with them only cause I’m married. It helps keep an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:07 PM
2

Get a hooker. Loose the v card. Gain some confidence. Use that confidence to go fuck a new broad who’s not a hooker. Repeat.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 05:56 AM
1

Sounds like you have made your decision and are just looking for some RP validation.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 01:10 PM
4

In my opinion man. Just get to the gym. Find something on the internet for beginners so you don’t fatigue and injure your muscles that have no muscle memory from never working out. Going straight into a strong lift program will likely injure you and cause you to stop going to the gym again. Get to the gym, get on a beginner program, see results, get addicted. Edit: I have had very positive results with HIIT work out regime. You burn fat like another fucker all while building muscle.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 04:49 PM
2

Contiki is guided tours usually 2-3 weeks. Basically tour some random country with 25 other people. Get drunk and fuck. Also, I’m no expert of bulkin. I’m personally trying to cut rn. 6 ft and 190. 25%bf trying to be 185 14%
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:33 AM
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Sound tall and skinny. Some chicks dig this, but build some muscle, and then travel. Go on a contiki tour this summer and bang some Spanish broads. Fuck your grades, chicks don’t dig that shit until your GPA matches your fuckin bank account x 6 zeros. Edit: still get good grades none the less, but that shit ain’t gonna get panties wet.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:37 AM
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You came to the right place brother. Listen to what these guys are saying. If you have no children with her you dodged a huge fuckin bullet. She will come back to you, and by then you will have realized your self worth, and she will be nothing but dust in the wind to you. She wanted to fuck another dude with your consent. Fuck that shit. Walk.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 05:51 AM
1

Thanks for the insight - I work in oil and gas.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 01:40 AM
2

I work in a camp where I live with the same 12 people for 2 weeks of my life every month. Our camp attendant is a HB9. She’s wanted me for a long time and we both know this, but I wouldn’t fuck her (don’t shit where I eat and I’m also married). Now she is dating one of the other guys in camp for which I feel happened because I wasn’t giving her the validation she was looking for. She is constantly shit testing me to the point where you could cut the sexual tension in the air. It’s got to be noti…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 03:46 AM
1

Dude, I’m a good looking guy, have been most of my life, but even I felt like absolute shit the last 5 or 6 years. I thought I was ugly, undesirable and worthless. I began validation seeking, and it only got me anxiety if people didn’t give me what I needed. I changed my diet, I then discovered I was depressed and started taking care of my mental state. I began lifting; Shortly after I discovered TRP. The change I have felt in my life in the last 3 months of swallowing the pill is literally nigh…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 02:07 AM
3

What the fuck do you have to lose? If anything your training yourself to not give a fuck about rejection. Who also cares what other people are saying. They are only trying to break your frame. Quit being a pussy, be confident that she will say yes and she probably will. If you go in there with your defeatist attitude you’re going to lose.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:54 PM
10

What’s with all the cunts in this sub lately? Fuck off with your dumbass comments - go troll r/askmen.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:38 AM
1

I pick/bits the skin around my nails too. I fucking hate this habit. Bought a pedi motor filer last night. Haven’t picked at all today - hoping this fixes the problem!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 03:29 AM
1

Yeah but at least he’s ugly with muscles and easily pulls 10s
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:47 AM
1

Remember when carrot top looked like a skinny piece of ginger shit?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:54 AM
0

Yikes. I had no idea the single parents of America are the reason why the country is in the shitter. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 02:28 PM
2

High intensity interval training. Do cardio while lifting and burn fat like a mother fucker.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 02:17 PM
1

Fuck that. You can find plenty of work that’s “respectful” without uni or college. What I don’t respect is someone with an arts degree, 45k in debt and working at Starbucks. What a fabulous waste of money. Get a trade, make bank. Not everyone has the aptitude or discipline to go to med school.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 10:15 AM
1

First OYS post Me: Age: 33 Height: 6’0” Weight: 191lbs SMV: 8.5 Bf: no clue but will have this analyzed this week Realized I was moderately depressed in August due to being too hard on myself for too long trying to please everyone. Gained over 30lbs, had to start buying bigger clothes, fell further into depression hole and felt like shit. All foods upset my guts. Suffered from constipation, bad foul gas. Stopped showering regularly. Went and got food sensitivity testing done and found myself mil…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 06:41 PM
2

Lifting will help you look better, because you will feel better. Look good, feel good, play good - As the coach would always say. 5’10” is not short. Pack on some muscle, and start looking in the mirror and loving yourself and the process. Stop with the pity party. I see this one dude at the gym who must be 90lbs and 5’8”. Get your bitch ass out of bed and get lifting.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 06:53 PM
1

What about cigars?
/r/askTRP15/11/17 02:54 AM
2

You stuck out like a sore thumb. Who goes to a Halloween party and doesn't dress up? You look like you're no fun. Witches and bitches saw right through your weak ass game. Go to spirit Halloween tomorrow and buy a go to 50% discount costume for last minute shit next year and the year after. Hell, buy a nice white sheet for a toga FFS, don't ever go out on Halloween as nothing. Bitches put a lot of thought into Halloween, you should at least look like give a fuck.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 02:41 AM
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