notsofastmyfriends Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Should I invite her out Fair chance that she’s already moved on, not necessarily because of anything you’ve done wrong, but that these moments are kind of fleeting. Women meet dudes like this every time they go out, so sometimes you have to capitalize in the moment. Good learning experience.	/r/seduction	25/07/26 06:59 PM
3	How to make women feel the "spark" for you? Nobody said anything about being jacked but you, sweetie. You, an overweight man, took great offense to me saying that being “in shape” is a good idea ( amongst other good ideas) for someone trying to pursue women and now you’re just trying to save face while moving the goalposts, digging yourself into a deeper and deeper hole, while exposing yourself as witless fatty. Your time would be much better spent on a treadmill. Good luck! 🫶🏼	/r/seduction	23/07/26 04:27 PM
9	How to make women feel the "spark" for you? Take it to the treadmill, brother! Sorry you took my comment so personally and got your panties in a bunch, but if you take a step back and really think about, you know it’s good advice. You can do it! 🫶🏼	/r/seduction	23/07/26 04:16 PM
5	How to make women feel the "spark" for you? Your idea of wit is pretty underwhelming, but have a great day! Believe in yourself and perhaps make time for the treadmill, even! 🫶🏼	/r/seduction	23/07/26 04:09 PM
12	How to make women feel the "spark" for you? You can still get girls being a fat slob but you’re super dumb if you don’t think being in shape makes things a lot easier. Hope this helps! 🫶🏼	/r/seduction	23/07/26 03:28 PM
65	How to make women feel the "spark" for you? You should be fun, funny, interesting, charming, genuine, and witty. Can you hold an interesting conversation with men and women of all ages? Are you in shape? Can you lead? Do you have your shit together?	/r/seduction	23/07/26 12:13 AM
25	Has anyone been able to seduce someone after they said they don't feel a spark? Honestly I just put them in my spank bank and think about them while I’m plowing fatties.	/r/seduction	20/07/26 03:49 AM
11	Sliding into a girls dms: ask her out immediately or text first for a couple of days? If she’s into you then it won’t matter either way and same if she’s not (mostly).	/r/seduction	12/07/26 06:32 PM
8	Do you always pay for dinner on dates If they offer to pay I tell them you get the next one…and I let them get the next one! It’s a good way to both get them thinking about hanging out with you again and also letting them know you’re not desperate, in a way. Works for me, anyway	/r/seduction	09/07/26 12:05 AM
32	Why is every woman on the street wearing headphones? dudes all about it too , it’s not a gender thing but if it was then it’s to avoid creeps like you lfg	/r/seduction	06/07/26 11:37 PM
10	I (M26) hooked up with a girl (F28) twice over the weekend. When should I reach out again? usually if she likes you then it doesn’t matter. If she doesn’t like you then it doesn’t matter. Technically you can still screw it up, but it most cases this doesn’t matter so don’t overthink it.	/r/seduction	24/06/26 11:04 PM
4	How tf do you actually build sexual tension ? Make them laugh. Have a lot of friends. Don’t be too available. Pretend you don’t care. Playing the long game that way has always worked best for me.	/r/seduction	18/06/26 01:25 AM
1	How tf do you actually build sexual tension ? Have you thought about being fun, funny, witty, genuine, and charming? Having a well-rounded personality? Being able to talk to women like they’re humans? Going to the gym? Having great hobbies? Give it a shot.	/r/seduction	18/06/26 01:16 AM
13	Nudes Nah don’t do that. The type of girl that’s going to send one doesn’t need to be asked, she either wants to turn you on and wants validation, or she doesn’t . If you’re doing it right, then you’ll get one	/r/seduction	01/04/25 12:47 AM
8	What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms? be interesting, charming, genuine, smart, witty, fun, funny, and probably a little aggressive	/r/seduction	02/02/25 05:29 PM
23	What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms? seduce her mind, dude	/r/seduction	02/02/25 04:12 PM
18	when is it appropriate to ask a girl's std status? you’re not ready for sex, sport	/r/seduction	05/07/24 01:47 AM
0	Stop Texting Her! i just keep hoping that somebody will post some good advice again here some day. hasn't happened in years, but i still like to post the occasional reality check in the comments section, as a service to my fellow redditors. best of luck to you, chief.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 01:50 AM
-4	Stop Texting Her! this is total bullshit. you can build great rapport via text and fuck on the first date when you do meet. some girls like to text a lot, back off for those who don't.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 12:16 AM
2	I think my professor wants to fuck me and I'm not sure what to do Use her as practice, not necessarily sex, but seduction practice, so that when you do meet someone you are interested in, it is old hat and you don't fuck it up. Experience and repetitions are key to being good at anything.	/r/seduction	05/07/17 01:50 AM
-1	At 32, I'm tired of just fucking random girls, and just want a loving romantic relationship You're a whiner who needs to get your shit together. Once you've done that, it's becomes a numbers game- you have to meet enough women and have an attractive enough life that they would want to be a part of it. It's really seduction 101. Stop whining and work towards building the life you want. No girl worth dating long term is gonna be attracted to this shit.	/r/seduction	07/12/16 10:29 PM
1	Does anyone have good enough game to pick up girls off Instagram? meow!	/r/seduction	26/01/16 02:46 AM
1	Should I Play Girls? i think you should practice making friends with girls, without taking advantage of them. do things with them, hang out, etc, but be honest. you might even find a girl that just wants to get laid, too/ doesn't want a bf.	/r/seduction	26/01/16 02:00 AM
3	Oneits?? go about your life. flirt with her if you want when you see her and hang with her, but stop asking her out. play it cool and always smile/ be happy around her. hopefully she'll see you with other girls and wonder why you're not paying as much attention to her anymore, but be distant without looking like you're trying to be distant. DO NOT tell her how you really feel.	/r/seduction	25/01/16 07:25 AM
1	On not being too available: how much should I go out with a girl in the beginning of a relationship? depends on the girl. listen and trust your instincts.	/r/seduction	25/01/16 03:20 AM
1	Friends and reputation people notice when you try too hard. you have to make it look more natural, and pick your spots better/ let things happen and develop sometimes.	/r/seduction	25/01/16 01:42 AM
1	Asking 'impertinent' questions when daygaming she's just not that into you.	/r/seduction	24/01/16 09:23 PM
4	Do girls see the guy thats flirting with multiple women in a negative way? "The book was his red pill".	/r/seduction	06/01/16 12:46 AM
1	[FR] Extremely unexpected night, had to restrain myself my point is that she is getting ready to break up with this guy and move on to her next relationship. it can be with you or with someone else.	/r/seduction	17/11/15 06:40 AM
1	[FR] Extremely unexpected night, had to restrain myself i'm saying that she's not really cheating. she's checked out of the relationship, but she hasn't broken up with the guy b/c she doesn't want to be alone (or "doesn't know how" to). some girls are like that. some guys are like that. play the game or don't.	/r/seduction	17/11/15 02:35 AM
1	[FR] Extremely unexpected night, had to restrain myself she is going to do that to you, when she's ready to not be your gf anymore, either b/c you didn't keep her interested, or b/c she just flakey- b/c that's what relationships are like at that age. she had already checked out of that one. unless you think that you're going to marry your high school sweetheart and you want to be in a long term, multiple year, serious relationship. it's got nothing to do with integrity though, but keep believing in fairytales and prince charming, cinderella.	/r/seduction	17/11/15 01:44 AM
0	[FR] Extremely unexpected night, had to restrain myself well you're not the type of guy that's going to make a girl you've had a crush on the whole year your gf then, and it's not really cheating since the old relationship is over for all intents and purposes.	/r/seduction	16/11/15 10:27 PM
0	[FR] Extremely unexpected night, had to restrain myself this girl could be your gf right now, but you blew it. there's no such thing as being a "homewrecker" at this age. relationships are too fleeting during these years for that. she's looking for her next boyfriend, before she breaks up with the last one, and making it clear that she wants it to be you.	/r/seduction	16/11/15 10:15 PM
2	She has never kissed anyone. "Hard girl" oh, i don't know...get to know her? create a real connection with her? flirt? hit it off? hang out and build something real with her? or move on to the next one that isn't dead set on finding prince charming...(unless you can pull off prince charming, but sounds like you can't).	/r/seduction	11/11/15 11:17 PM
1	How do I ask out my first crush in high school? (x-post /r/Advice) read the sidebar.	/r/seduction	25/10/15 04:54 PM