TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

notusingthisforlong1 Archive

View 2 posts and 30 comments by notusingthisforlong1 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
8

For those who are harping on my anti humanities or arts majors stance, I'm speaking in generalizations. Of course it's possible to have those majors and have a good career but if you aren't being smart about it, many people with these majors later regret it and find it didn't help them earn the way a STEM or business major would have. Here's my proof. The Washington post lists the most regretted majors and in a twist shocking no one, humanities and arts are the most regretted: https://www.washin…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 03:41 PM
9

Good advice especially around finding your niche!
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 02:48 PM
3

Yes I agree. I don't like how judgemental and keeping up with Joneses many people in this area are like. Some have been sweet and welcoming and others cold and rigid. Crazy Rich Asians was great. I thought it showed a good balance of showing respect to the different culture or class you're attemping to join but standing up for yourself and not letting them make you feel like a lesser person for coming from an average background.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 02:46 PM
13

I didn't say this is something everyone can do because of course UC and UMC families gatekeep. But even old families are becoming more modern and liberal and less strict about who can marry in so there's more opportunity now than there was 30 or more years ago. But I didn't want to see women put themselves at a disadvantage by passing up a degree because idiots on youtube or tiktok say men don't want an educated woman. Not getting that degree could make certain men from certain classes value you…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 02:43 PM
2

As I mentioned in the first part of the post, I fell down a red pill dating rabbit hole and guess who always pops up (Tate) even if you're looking for women based advice. There are tons of women in the comments or stitching on tiktok agreeing with him and people treat him like he is the definition of class because he has a Lamborghini. I think his messages around dating for the most part are harmful as is his business advice. I wanted to indicate that no one with real money seems him as legit, i…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 02:37 PM
5

It's a step in the right direction and you didn't pay full price for those 2 years so it's not all bad
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 01:59 AM
9

Tell me why you think that it is pathetic or sad? I'm not saying only pick it for men. If you are awful at math, don't do that as a major, but don't be a dance major and complain about not meeting many straight men in class or in your work. If you have a very clear plan for what you'd do with a humanities degree then that's an exception but most of the girls I went to school with just picked a humanities or art major because it was fun or interesting or "easier" than other topics. They didn't re…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 01:55 AM
2

Yes it definitely helps. Anything that makes it seem like you've had a traditional education is a big help.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 01:32 AM
3

No I'm catholic, married to a Jewish man. My avatar is random, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 11:39 PM
8

Yes this! I don't have any tattoos and neither do any of the women I know who married up. In my area, the wealthy families are either protestant or Jewish and neither community looks favorably on tattoos. My in-laws would be horrified if I had one, especially if it was large and visible.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 10:44 PM
3

Oh I didn't know that! Yeah, I might make a different one in a few weeks when I have more time post holidays. But this will be up for at least a few weeks. I might repost it there and downplay some of the aspects of my wealth because people like to target richer people because they either hate capitalism or want to get money out of them. This is my 1st red pill post but I've made a few other red pill comments and I notice that within the 1st few minutes they always get downvoted before they get …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 08:33 PM
10

Yep. My MIL has a masters from an Ivy and she has a great marriage with her husband.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 08:17 PM
21

Wow I'm glad you liked it. I just went back and deleted some more personal posts around a medical condition I have that I didn't want out there on the internet for long, maybe I'll keep this account around. I'm also considering starting a website or blog or something about red pill dating. I've been coaching my single friends of both genders for the last 2 years and they've had some good successes and think I have a talent for dating advice. One even sent me steaks in the mail as a thank you aft…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 08:16 PM
2

I don't think it should be too hard to find what you're looking for, especially if you look for late 30s, early 40s. I don't think it's horrible if they have been married once before if the split was amicable for the most part and they aren't still in each others lives. Its smart to make your desire for marriage and children clear but In my experience, opening a new relationship with how much you wanna get married and have babies will scare even a traditional man away because he doesn't want to …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/22 07:11 PM
2

Very good points, totally agree with all this
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/22 06:54 PM
1

What info are you trying to get exactly if you dint mind me asking
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/22 07:00 PM
2

Two serious relationships is nothing to sneeze at. I'm sure you've learned valuable things during those two relationships. 28 isnt over the hill by any means. Idk what your situation or goals are but I found my husband by looking for men who were 5 to 15 years older than me and found a lot more husband material than then the 22 yos I was dating.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/22 05:28 PM
34

I'm 30 and I've never been cheated on (or cheated, for the record). I'm married, but I dated a lot in my younger years. It is not just to be expected. When men sense that you hold yourself in high esteem and you will not tolerate bad behavior they either live up to the standard or get scared off and go back to women they know they can mess around with.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/22 12:37 AM
1

I'm in therapy already as I mentioned above. 2020-2021 was extremely brutal for me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/22 09:46 PM
3

It's not problematic to expect someone to be turned on by their sexual partner. If you can only be turned on by women who are sex workers but not women in a consensual loving relationship, there is something wrong with you. It reeks of porn induced sexual disfunction ehich is a real thing. If he doesn't want to have sex in a romantic partnership, and she does, she is well within her right to leave. He may not owe her sex but she doesn't owe him celibacy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/22 03:27 PM
-4

You're missing the point. It's not about me doing them or not. I've done all of things he has asked or have needed to be done. It's about my response to it, seeing all chores or domestic labor as a bad or demeaning thing is the issue I'm trying to overcome. I will no longer be a SAHM sometime in the following year once my son is a adjusted to preschool but I still have several months left until then so I'm trying to manage.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 11:02 PM
1

Thanks for your reply. I think the problem is we didn't in detail discuss what I'd be doing exactly when I decided not to look for another job. I loved my job and it felt like a punch in the gut when I got laid off but they had to cut half their staff just to stay afloat so I don't blame them. Because it was a surprise and not me deciding I'm gonna take time off to me a mom, I just kinda had to figure it out on my own. We never went over what exactly I'd do and he'd do. We now have it more figur…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 07:42 PM
2

Thanks for your reply!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 07:38 PM
1

Thanks for your input. The problem is that my mom interpreted that my dad not holding up his end of the deal as "Any chore a woman does for a man is bad and a sign of being held back by society." She also never did him any favors. Any requests like "can you hold the door open for me while I bring in groceries or I'm having a really stressful week, can you run a load of my laundry while I'm working the nightshift" was met with "why can't you do it yourself?" Regardless of who is the breadwinner, …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 07:33 PM
1

When it comes to my husband, he is a workaholic. He was like this before we met, before we married and before I had my son and stopped working. He has made it his mission to be the richest person to have his last name and having a wife who works or doesn't work wouldn't change that. His grandfather was big real estate developer back in the 90s and he basically challenged my husband to out do his legacy. His family is very competitive like that. I've asked him would he stop working so hard if i g…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 07:16 PM
26

You are not the problem! You're a loving girlfriend trying to engage in sexual intimacy with your boyfriend. I think the problem is porn and lap dances are sexualized acts where he can objectify and emotionally distance himself from the objects of his desire. It doesn't matter if the stripper is having a good time or if the woman in the video actually likes what's happening to her, they are paid to pretend to turn men on. But in a relationship, he has to see you as a person. Some men who grew up…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 05:10 PM
3

To me, being red pill isn't giving up your own ambitions to be some 50s housewife, it's just acknowledging the difference between men and women on a bio level and that feminism had downsides as well as upsides. I definitely think you need to see a therapist for sure. Are you currently living at home and need college to leave or are you an adult living away from your abusers but think college will help you heal? If it's the first one, then I think you need to do whatever you need to do to leave a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 02:13 PM
1

Sorry I'm a few days late to this but I wanted to say I noticed you said in the comments his body count was 30 which is more than twice yours. The man doesn't have a leg to stand on if he has more than you and he slept with you on the first date. Men don't get a free pass and then expect us to be pure virgins. If he thinks it's bad for women to have a high body count and engage in hook up culture, he shouldn't be contributing to it. Lying about yours wasn't great but honestly you got to see his …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 01:59 PM
2

I know I'm a month late but I just got to this subreddit. Please don't listen to Tate. He is in fact an abused and tramatized child himself and he has channeled his trauma into hurting others. The stories he tells about his father are really upsetting and the man clearly abused his kids and his wife. Some abused kids identify with their abuser as a way to cope with what is happening to me. "Dad can't be abusing me if he is teaching to me strong or how to talk to a woman. Hitting me was for my ow…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 01:43 PM
1

Am I missing something? How is this cruel? Why is working through a pandemic suddenly mean you're more valuable? Like everyone who still had a job had to work through the pandemic. When you have a large company isn't not possible for everyone to sit down with a manager for a termination. This is what an at will employment agreement means.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:12 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter