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This is how chris watts and shanann got together so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:44 PM
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Worst shit I have ever seen pulled (by SO MANY guys too) is when they make you upset or cry, or you have a fight that doesn't go well, then the second it is "over" he's like ok sex now? Worse is the pouty type (my last bf!) who bitches and whines all day, isn't happy to see me, really drags the whole mood down the toilet but then he's like ok so sex? Like dude i'm literally still using a tissue from crying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:10 AM
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I agree that anyone who acts on these urges and harms a child should be...dealt with.. I guess I'm just wondering if there is a way to prevent it from getting to that point. Like the guy in this post. He recognizes his sickness but doesn't act on it (yet, at least). Is there a way to intervene? Therapy? Idk. It seems like a really difficult reality that we as a society tend to ignore until a child is harmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:03 PM
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I think about this semi-often. What do we do with pedophiles, as a society? Is therapy effective? Do we even know if it is? Make no mistake, this is a horrifying sickness and pedophilia is 100% wrong but how can we actually deal with it? I am worried to google these things for obvious reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:05 AM
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Lmao this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:26 PM
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Yo same but also we don't actually need men to do any of this shit for us. Discounts are nice but not as empowering as fixing your car yourself. This post is...nice but ignores the fact that most men who offer discounts to pretty women will expect something in return or at the very least act hella creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:46 PM
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If most of the time half of the world is reacting a certain way to what you do...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:15 PM
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I don't know how it is PC at all. It's not correct. It's a complete fantasy. It's about as "politically correct" as saying the pandemic is over. Maybe it makes some people feel a little better for .5 seconds but it's not correct and it serves nobody in the long-term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:22 PM
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This is such a good point. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:03 PM
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Oooo I like this trend way better than the other one (the ex collage) !! I love your plant choices :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:27 PM
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An issue i have with lib feminism is that many of its followers act like gender equality has been achieved already. The expectations they lay out for women (split the bill, give your man emotional support/etc, support kinky sex, etc,) would be great in a society with actual gender equality but that's not what we have right now. If i pay 50% of the bill I'm still making 73 cents to a man's dollar. If I go out of my way to provide emotional support I am still expected to do this for my man wheneve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:05 PM
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I once said a "men do _" statement to a guy I was dating and he got so mad. "I would NEVER say 'all women do __" Sir yes you would and millions of people make statements like that all the damn time specifically about women This same guy said he hated makeup because makeup "implies dishonesty" It's almost like everyone makes generalizations and hyperboles Edit: idk why it bolded part of this, wasn't intentional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:40 PM
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A guy once told me I don't have a clit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:01 AM
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Of course the traditional roles they refer to are actually mother and child. Because he baby. Make me nuggies while I play my games mom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:59 PM
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I curse like a pirate. It's one of my many bad habits. Unclear if I want to change this some day. It's certainly not a priority right now. I don't use "bitch or cunt" but I say shit and fuck all the time. Worth pointing out I'm not a HVW yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:22 PM
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Lots of house visits at 7am you know, for a gentlesir like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:01 AM
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This sub showed me that LVM are all the same and do all the same shit. So damn eye-opening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:53 PM
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Woman posting: "AITA for saving my boyfriend's life from a murderer, hand-dressing his wounds and paying his hospital bills, paying off his student loans, delivering his dog's puppies and then asking him to wash a spoon?" Man posting: "AITA for ignoring my girlfriend for six weeks and then fucking every single one of her coworkers and running over her cat because she asked me to wash a spoon?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:04 PM
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This is garbage and this guy is garbage but also idk who needs to hear this but many kinds of cheese are lactose-free! Not traditional taco cheese but cabot cheddar is I believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:02 PM
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Regardless of whether or not this is real, it really irks me that men see their thoughts/opinions/words as so valuable that everyone must hear them. They never ever question "does anyone care?" They have been raised to think they and everything they do is so, so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:48 AM
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I like to think of the office as a funny show about shitty people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:31 AM
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Buzz cut/pixie cut. Worked for me. But also don't change yourself if you don't want to. Prioritize ignoring these people and/or telling them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:37 PM
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Any guy that talks about his future children as if it is a given they will exist makes me roll my eyes. Especially single guys. who tf gonna make that for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:22 AM
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Tryna get one of those cute cross stitches with that last sentence on it, damn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:27 PM
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My ex was a super preachy vegan and later he said he thought we should just let people die from covid so we can reopen the economy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:18 AM
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Best of luck! I mentioned #1 because I was worried about backlash but was surprised that no one seemed to notice. I hope your friends are cool about it and don't give you a hard time. You got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:55 PM
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I quit drinking this year! Here is my advice: 1. Don't make an announcement or tell anyone. When people are out drinking and partying they won't even notice what you are or aren't drinking. 2. Displacement is really helpful. I drank beer so I switched to seltzer. A wine replacement could be cranberry juice or something like that. 3. Change your environment. Even just rearranging furniture can help. You likely have formed an association between the place you drink and the feeling of drinking. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:31 AM
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THIS. It is striking. This sub really helped me connect the dots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:17 AM
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This seems equally if not more plausible than my take. I did look back and notice she said she has "seen" the porn her bf watches. I've never done anything like this but I have noticed that guys I dated who talked a little too freely about exes and other girls would become instantly upset if I turned the tables.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:09 AM
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Ok this is my take from reading this: the dude looks at gay porn. And he thinks this was her way of outing him. Hence all his shame about it. What guy acts ashamed of looking at porn of women? Let's be real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:30 PM
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Yessssss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:34 AM
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Like 90% of guys i have known in my twenties have been hung up on an ex, often their first gf, and I have never ever met a woman who gives a singular shit about their exes from longer than a year ago. Wtf is up with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:01 PM
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Did you tell the wife??? Not that you have to but I'm just curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:37 PM
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In my really low self esteem days, I matched with a guy on tinder who, within the first few sentences, started venting hardcore about an ex he dated for four years and had broken up with THAT WEEK. Omg. It was so toxic. I let him vent a bit but quickly ghosted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:25 PM
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Ah, gotcha. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:30 PM
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I'm curious about the attorney thing and why it works, do you know? Or rather how do guilty vs innocent suspects reply to that question?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:08 PM
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I highly recommend volunteering at a cat shelter, or any shelter, but cat shelters often need volunteers to "socialize" the cats aka sit with them, pet them, etc (dog shelter volunteers, ime, do more cleaning and active playing with the dogs). It is rewarding and really good for your mental health. And theirs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:01 PM
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I'm a taurus and I don't follow astrology much but I have never seen a taurus meme or taurus stereotype of any sort, while I see a lot of those for other signs. So this is the first one I have seen and I legit don't understand it at all but I do like food so I guess it fits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:02 AM
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Phd student and minimalist-curious here. You are GOALS. Reading this was so empowering. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:32 AM
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I am so glad you left. I hope you are doing okay. that is some traumatic shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:24 PM
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I keep saying it's the pandemic. Harder to meet people + more time to use the internet + the myriad of impacts on mental health = more people getting sucked into anti-woman ideologies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:46 PM
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Oh my god you poor soul. That's awful. These people have really ruined the whole industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:45 AM
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...DURING A PANDEMIC???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:45 AM
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Worst thing about the latter type you describe is they have no idea how to communicate their knowledge in a way that is interesting to anyone at all. And they think that because their lecture topics go over most peoples' heads, they must be smarter than everyone else. Nah bro you're just boring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:24 PM
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That's so messed up. And the guys I have known in tech have been quite young - early to mid-twenties. But alas, more reason to not date tech bros...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:19 PM
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Related: if you work in tech and your only interest is tech, gtfo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:46 PM
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I do but only because 99% of them are bad at it. And then I met someone who was good at it. Total scrote but he had a gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:18 PM
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Back in my OLD days I met a very nice man. He was legitimately so nice and gentle, honest, humble. It was a nice break from...the rest of them. I was a little unsure about us as a match but he never raised any red flags so I went on a couple dates with him. What killed it was that he would text me and we would chat a bit but after the first text or so I would have to carry the entire conversation. And while he was nice, he wasn't especially fascinating. Only guy I feel a little bad about ghostin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:11 PM
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You too!! We won't go back to that :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:07 PM
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Same. Same same same. All of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:47 PM
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Regardless, if you have to ask, it suggests he has low self-awareness and is sloppy. He should try to make a good first impression with his first message. And anyone who knows any woman at all knows about negging and other shitty OLD tactics lvm use, so they should know better than to cross into potential negging territory. But for what it's worth this is a neg for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:42 PM
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I have had similar experiences. I think moving forward, if someone spills their trauma to me like this, I will find a way to politely ask if they are seeing a professional about this or if they are considering doing so. If they say no (or, as is my experience with men, act defensive at even the suggestion) then that's a red flag and time for me to go. If someone has "sob stories" they are still raw about and they are not doing anything to heal, they are bad news. They will use you as a free ther…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:48 PM
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Omg I cackled because this is literally me (but I'm not out here trying to sign a prenup over it lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:35 PM
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I rarely order food but every time I have done this since covid the person lingers until I come out. Kinda defeats the purpose of contact free...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:32 AM
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Might not work for narcissists...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:43 PM
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Men who don't take care of themselves and instead rely on a youthful metabolism to stay skinny and the emotional labor of others to survive at all (parents, roommates, college gf, etc) generally lose all that in their thirties. They hit a wall, no one will date them, and their only hope is young naive women who don't know better. Those young naive women then get sick of their shit, find FDS or a great therapist and bloom in their thirties. Men know this and thus the "women over 30 bad" lie was b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:21 PM
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Lofty demands from a man with no jawline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:16 PM
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So many things in my life since I was 11 makes sense now that I know what porn does to people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:44 AM
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I am! Late twenties, but I have been immune to this for my life until now. I think it is just men being thirsty and bored during quarantine. I was at the gym yesterday and saw someone peaking in at another girl while I was leaving. I've also had my fair share of old fuck boys from waaaaay too long ago "resurface" lately. Wonder if everyone has just been guzzling porn for six months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:29 AM
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Where is this list posted? On my end it looks like facebook. If so who tf asked?? If it is on a dating website: he is definitely infauated with a specific person who won't date him so he is looking for her exact replica
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:50 PM
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Sorry but WTF??? A business page? Jesus christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:06 PM
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In my city every gym is like this. So annoying. A ballet studio though....holy shit fuck that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:01 PM
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I would call the police if someone sent me this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:06 AM
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All this trash aside, why is it on people he doesn't like to swipe left on him? He can just swipe left and they won't be matched...easy... Oh wait, because LVM just swipe right on everyone. That is a legitimate verified tactic of LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:21 AM
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Holy shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:30 PM
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This will be me in a few years! Lol. I'm pretty good at living on a low wage though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:08 PM
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Some people seem to think that the value of one's job is directly proportional to their salary. But the people literally doing basic research to cure, treat, and prevent disease and other insults to humanity make like 30k a year. And it's so insulting to have our work belittled by people who take all past scientific progress for granted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:38 PM
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I'm a researcher and this is is why I don't date guys in tech or finance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:15 AM
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A lot of mediocre kids do get in via legacy/connections. But it takes an impressive resume to get into an ivy league without these things. Today it is too easy for wealthy parents to buy their kids an advantage by paying for volunteering abroad, unpaid internships, private tutoring, test prep classes, lessons in instruments/extracurriculars, private school, etc etc. This can produce...entitled adults. To answer the second half of your question: Look at the people running the US government right …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:26 AM
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I worked in a lab at Harvard. I've only worked in about 5 labs at 5 different institutions, but Harvard undergraduates were the WORST undergraduates I have ever had the misfortune of encountering in a lab. A few were truly brilliant - these were generally kids who overcame significant obstacles to get to Harvard. But most were lazy, entitled, stupid kids with no common sense, no work ethic, nothing. NEVER EQUATE STATUS WITH VALUE. Most status is inherited, not earned. I personally consider an iv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 09:37 PM
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Some wealthy people are only wealthy due to generational wealth. Trust fund mommas boys can absolutely be NV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:01 AM
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I'm in my 20s and many men I know (though I'm surrounded by privilege, which may explain things somewhat) were coddled to death by their mommies. Told they were special, gifted, smart, handsome, etc so many times that they are unable to see themselves any other way. Anecdotally, it feels kind of like men of my generation were raised this way while women were raised the opposite. It's probably not that simple but I'm in a mood today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:52 PM
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"sir this is Wendy's"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:03 PM
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Went on 2 dates with a guy. After the 2nd date, he started venting to me over text...A LOT. About how he was clearly insecure about his weight*, and how his coworkers would comment on it. He was getting really emotional about it, too. I was already pretty turned off by all this when he subtly asked me my weight. I told him - it's a healthy weight and I have a lot of muscle. Then he said something like "I thought girls your height were supposed to be closer to [15 lbs lighter than my weight]." I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:11 PM
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I believe it is a red flag if anyone self-describes themselves as extraordinarily anything, or assigns themself a superlative. Examples: - "I'm such an empath" if they say this RUN - "I'm really a nice guy" - "I'm actually quite generous" - [any external measure of their intelligence such as test scores, past enrollment in "hard classes" as a child, IQ, etc - even more of a red flag if these metrics were assessed a long time ago] - "i'm the ___est" any superlative at all, positive or negative, u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:47 PM
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OMG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:59 PM
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Every time I see a 18-24yo with a 30+ yo I'm just like nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:18 AM
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My old roommate used to dog-sit this big bernese mountain dog occasionally. I found him on tinder one night and his second pic was the dog. Not him and the dog. JUST the dog. No one does that if it isn't their dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:13 AM
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Oh my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:05 PM
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A lot of these guys say they want intellectual "conversation" but they actually just want a chance to lecture and be told they are smart. Dated a guy like this. If I disagreed with anything he said (you know, as folks do in intellectual conversations) he would completely shut down and have a tantrum. Also see: contrarianism (?) as a form of manipulation. Disagreeing with everything one says to have a chance at winning the conversation and proving someone wrong, to exert some sort of intellectual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:03 PM
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What is the context for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:17 AM
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Any discussion of an ex or past crush Pic of a dog on their profile that isn't theirs Interrupting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:18 PM
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With a side order of "I'm definitely going to air all my dirty laundry on the second date"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:30 AM
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Doesn't help that common calorie counting apps vastly underestimate the calories a fit woman needs. Myfitnesspal thinks I should eat 1400 cals a day when I need 2000-2500.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:39 PM
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I'm super careful to not mention exes for the first several dates (and even beyond that) because I have like, novice social skills. Mentioning an ex ONCE on an early date = it's done, I'm out. Anyone who puts any effort into dating won't mention an ex on a date. If they do they have done 0 work to get over their ex and 0 work to prepare themselves to date again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:23 AM
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I'm 26 and extremely in shape. There are 3 kinds of men my age: those in their fitness phase that won't last a second after they start dating someone, skinny chipotle addicts whose metabolism will crash tomorrow, and fat guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:17 AM
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I personally think it is a red flag if a guy talks about expectations for his future children that are out of his control. Including their existence. In this case it kinda screams "I'm gonna be really mad if my partner doesn't give me a boy first" but also "even if I do have a son I'm gonna pressure him to conform to toxic masculine standards"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:56 AM
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Not OP but I have experienced countless times a guy in his twenties who is still hung up on a long-term ex, even ones from >5 years ago. I never knew how to screen for it because I never imagined someone could be hung up on a high school ex in their mid twenties. But sooo many younger LVM still have their first "real" gf on a pedestal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:03 PM
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fire that man's plastic surgeon good god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:54 PM
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Ah ok. My hometown has arrest records online that are easy to find so I thought that was normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:01 PM
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Dogs can be trained to ignore interesting stimuli
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:20 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:21 PM
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This reminds me of an article I read about how, during the pandemic, more people are experiencing delusions where they believe they are in a relationship with a celebrity (there is a term for this but I forget it). To me this girl looks pathologically lonely. She drove across the country for a boy and she posts way too much personal stuff on social media. I feel really sad for her. I hope she gets help and finds this sub or something. Edit to add: she's swiping on people thousands of miles away …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:25 PM
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If this is true (which you must find out) then he permanently ruined someone's life. Through clever internet stalking, you may be able to find the roommate and ask them. Someone in the comments please correct me if this is a terrible idea. I just know I would love to spill the beans on the guy who molested me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:19 PM
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There is no question that men and women have biological differences in their behavior but we really don't understand them very well. And we definitely didn't when this book was written. Any study on this is too confounded by environmental factors (ie cultural differences in how boys and girls are raised) to draw meaningful conclusions from. (A big hinderance is that there is no good animal model for a menstruating human. The hormonal cycles in most other mammals are vastly different. And we need…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:11 PM
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Is any of this stuff not possible to find via vigorous internet stalking in the US?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:51 PM
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Nothing more than typical roommate stuff. They've all been around my size (smol) and non-threatening. I am pretty good at screening roommates. Romantic partners...not so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:42 AM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you :( one thing this sub has taught me (long time lurker, recently made an acct) is that some people just treat women like shit and it has nothing to do with her beauty or personality or anything about her. Many of the most conventionally beautiful women have been treated like shit. Beyonce! Beyonce was cheated on! Some people just hate women. And we owe it to ourselves to keep those people out of our lives. That's not always easy. A lot of us were raised by these …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:00 AM
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I'm a gal who chooses to live with random craigslist dudes because it just works, for some reason. I'm not conventionally attractive so I don't worry about them crushing on me and it has never happened. But a guy who is specifically looking for a female roommate is a huge no-no and half the fucking craigslist posts are like this near me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:44 AM
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One guy I dated asked me to buy a corset. (I asked him to clarify and he definitely meant the non-sexy kind) Another guy told me he "doesn't trust women who wear makeup." Then introduced me to his closest female friends, both wearing a full face of makeup. Same guy above invited me to a holiday party and specifically told me it was formal. I had no dresses so I had to buy one. When I got there he was really cold and distant. Later he explained it was because he really hates when girls dress up l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:03 AM
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Tried to turn myself into the woman he was blatantly still into. It ended awhile ago but sometimes I still have to ask myself if I am doing a thing because i want to do it or because I had been conditioned to believe I was supposed to do it to earn someone's approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:50 PM
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