nowwaitjustoneminute Archive

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3	How do you make a coffee date fun? A coffee date is the definitive interview. Think of it as an interview for the real date: Do I like this person enough to buy her dinner? It's your job to find out, and her job to make the sale. DO NOT try to make a coffee date romantic. That basically makes no sense. Meeting for coffee is intrinsically platonic. It's a very powerful and no nonsense way to meet people. Don't try to make it something it's not. Or, to directly answer your question: Bring yourself. The whole goal is that you two fi…	/r/seduction	27/10/13 11:54 PM
2	Us girls are sometimes told that men don't approach us because of our beauty, rather than our lack of it. Is there any truth to this? Absolutely true. It's not even so much a lack of confidence, but a lack of perspective. Many men, especially the really nice guys, have been shot down earlier in life (being a jerk, bad boy, or "cool" are often appreciated most in a man's formative years). Thus, when women get older and begin to look for real partners it is just these men who have "learned" that they are undesirable. They genuinely don't realize that their stock has risen once the bad boys have proven to be poor investments. So,…	/r/seduction	05/04/13 10:24 PM
2	I just got my first kiss! This is clearly the only right answer.	/r/seduction	21/10/12 05:23 PM
1	I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out. I just want to say thanks: If more women presented their criticisms of male ideas/behavior in as polite and considerate a fashion we'd all be better off. Keep up being awesome.	/r/seduction	19/08/12 01:36 PM
3	how can I hint to him that I want to go further then kissing. I think its partly ny fault because while we were dating he wanted to kiss me for a while and I was to shy to. And now that we finally have I'm not shy about it haha but idk if he is doing it out of respect to me. This! I don't want to blame you, so please don't take it that way. It's just a mis-communcation thing that happens very often in the early stages of relationships. I can tell you that if he's a nice guy, which sounds like it's the case, you've already given him serious reasons to think…	/r/seduction	30/07/12 01:54 AM
1	Is coming over my house for dinner (homemade) and a movie too much for the second date? I'd generally save it for three, but if things went really well on one then I'd say it's okay to go for it. Going back to a man's place is a much more serious thing than going out with him. It puts a girl in his space, and is a lot more dangerous (either in the real, but mostly the subconscious sense). I think it's better to show her you can have a great night together, and that you're gonna respect her boundaries, out in public before bringing her back to the cave.	/r/seduction	30/07/12 01:44 AM
1	Shit Tests: From a Women's Perspective This. I appreciate your insight. I have begun to notice a lot of women have done this to me over the years...	/r/seduction	13/06/12 02:53 AM
1	Shit Tests: From a Women's Perspective Yes, it could have. I hoped merely to illustrate a situation where I believe that by showing that I was interesting and had other things to do I may have helped myself out. I can't guarantee that this specific situation was one where this was the case, but many like it will be. Style note: Italics are for emphasis because I find them very effective in capturing the nuance of my ideas, not to be pretentious. I appreciate very much your friendly and kind discussion, and welcome your ideas. Please …	/r/seduction	13/06/12 02:51 AM
8	Shit Tests: From a Women's Perspective I'm new here, but I think I have a good example: I asked a girl I was interested in out to Coffee, arranged a place and time to meet. Beforehand she texts saying she's gonna be late, and "is that okay?" Nice guy me says yes. Thirty minutes later, she texts indicating another delay. Stupid guy me says "no problem, just let me know when you're ready." We finally met up, and Coffee went great, but nothing more came after that. This was totally a shit test, and I'm sure it was unconscious. She learn…	/r/seduction	13/06/12 01:44 AM