How do you make a coffee date fun?

HappyJerk · 2013-10-26T23:19:57+00:00

talk about the following shit:

1) deep shit 2) silly shit 3) your own emotions 4) her emotions

Nooreally · 2013-10-26T23:37:40+00:00

Use it as an opening scene to gauge interest and either have something else to do planned if time and interest in her allows; or walk around and find something random and join in if you walk by.

I usually do the second. Or at least portray the first as the second. Theres a museum downtown where I live that has some pretty weird and wacky exhibits, and its by the waterfront, so I meet up by the waterfront and just walk up that way. Some pointers though, try different coffee venues, specifically the ones that aren't like Starbucks or Tim Hortons if you live in Canada like me. Try local ones, its good for their business and allows you to enjoy different blends if you love coffee like I do.

Just to add, coffee in itself is pretty boring but puts you on mutual ground. Your both there to see if each one is interesting to the other in a non threatening environment. She has to be the deciding factor in if its going somewhere else, theres been plenty of times where 30 minutes into talking to the girl "Hey Ive got prior engagements and I have to go".

nowwaitjustoneminute · 2013-10-27T23:54:56+00:00

A coffee date is the definitive interview. Think of it as an interview for the real date: Do I like this person enough to buy her dinner? It's your job to find out, and her job to make the sale.

DO NOT try to make a coffee date romantic. That basically makes no sense. Meeting for coffee is intrinsically platonic. It's a very powerful and no nonsense way to meet people. Don't try to make it something it's not.

Or, to directly answer your question: Bring yourself. The whole goal is that you two find each other fun. If that's present you won't need to engineer a source of fun. Besides, you shouldn't want to do that. A person where you need to work to have fun on day one is a person where you'll need to work to have fun every succeeding day. A person who effortlessly finds you fun will be far easier to keep entertained.

Royale28 · 2013-10-26T23:01:07+00:00

by being a fun person

BallisticBux · 2013-10-27T00:12:38+00:00

It's an interview for both of you so you should have fun and if she does her part (has fun) it worked. The more you make her smile and laugh the better you do and the same goes for her about making you smile and laugh.

Title	How do you make a coffee date fun?
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Date	October 26, 2013 10:27 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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