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-3

Acquire both. Take steroids safely and you can smash your way through seduction.
/r/seduction20/12/13 12:30 AM
-1

Sorry my humor doesn't swim the dinosaurs
/r/seduction20/12/13 12:30 AM
0

That's wierd, the women I know all want to call me rather than text.
/r/seduction20/12/13 12:27 AM
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Call her once or twice during the break. Don't text long distance.
/r/seduction20/12/13 12:25 AM
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I agree with this. If you want to really put her in your life and have her think about you, be that guy who calls her. I also want to add... When you become the guy who she can only get a meaningful conversation over calling, you become the chase. Then you call her on your terms when you are not busy.
/r/seduction20/12/13 12:21 AM
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I don't think so. I'm not completely on boat with being a logistical drone about setting up dates. Calling has been time tested to be better
/r/seduction19/12/13 11:22 PM
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Yes, it's how it has been done for centuries.
/r/seduction19/12/13 11:16 PM
1

Sounds like you will give yourself a bad rep in the business. But i've contacted people that I knew from other situations through a phone number that she didn't give me. It usually doesn't work, but it's better than nothing.
/r/seduction19/12/13 06:08 PM
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There comes a point where you want to get rejected rather than being that guy who plays months of mindgames not knowing whether she likes you or not.
/r/seduction19/12/13 05:56 PM
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I have the same exact problem. I come off as too nice and put off a "gay best friend vibe" sometimes to a fault In reality its not even how I really am. I just feel the need to be overly nice to women. I'm slowly understanding that being that person will get you a lot of friends with women. They will like to hang out with you, but you will never get a girlfriend with that unless they are way desperate. I would say my next step is to be more upfront and let me intentions be perfectly clear at the…
/r/seduction19/12/13 05:52 PM
1

Its funny how one extra letter completely ruins this whole FR. I have no clue what you are talking about.
/r/seduction19/12/13 06:07 AM
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Doing Things outside of your house game. Essential.
/r/seduction19/12/13 05:22 AM
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Don't be afraid of telling them they are cute right off the bat and just getting that part over with. They will either reject you or know your intentions and you will feel better about flirting with them.
/r/seduction19/12/13 03:48 AM
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I'll joke around with them. Make them laugh, etc. We exchange numbers and then nothing.
/r/seduction19/12/13 01:45 AM
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Hey man I really feel where you are coming from, but having a "crush" means you havn't done anything about it. If you like her, you need to ask her on a date asap and see if she likes you or not. You would not have this problem if you already asked her out, knew if she liked you or not, and moved on.
/r/seduction18/12/13 05:00 PM
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Not knowing what to say comes from a form of rejection anxiety born with you being worried that what you say will bore her.
/r/seduction23/11/13 12:03 AM
1

PUA books are not for beginners unfortunately. The ones that are will give you very little instruction and first tell you go out and start meeting women. These are all personal evolutions dealing with inward psychological barriers. Once you start getting a hang of approaching, pua, etc then you will be able to find useful pointers from these books. I don't subscribe to the thinking that these books do not work. They are mostly memoirs of inner/outer game and can be useful for adding to your exis…
/r/seduction23/11/13 12:01 AM
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If this is your first day going out to approach women. I'll give you advice that I wish I had. Do not try to do anything you read anywhere. The only thing you should judge your success on that night is whether or not you had the balls to approach to women and went through with this. This is not like warm approaches or class game, etc. You are not not used to approaching women you have no connection with. Just focus on going up to a woman you think is attractive, and telling her so. After that, y…
/r/seduction22/11/13 11:56 PM
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It's only going to be bad if you come off with an awkward vibe. You are just starting. You are going to be terrible at holding smooth conversations for a long time. This is going to affect getting dates with some girls. If you keep going at it, it will become second nature and you will start noticing it's the girls who have trouble keeping conversations and not you.
/r/seduction22/11/13 11:52 PM
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Again you're speaking on things you have no experience with and making pretty broad assumptions. How do you know it is too far removed? You have no first hand experience, and by the looks of things, you are confused about the science of it as well. You keep making these analogies and they prove my point even further. The difference testosterone does for men compared to a "good diet" is apples and oranges. This is a substance that replaces or augments something that people could not get from anyw…
/r/seduction22/11/13 11:45 PM
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very myopic stance. Seduction starts at the brain. Medicine can alter how you think for good or bad. Look, I understand that "omg steroids are bad" and thats why you want to delete my post, but to give me this bs that Testosterone doesn't have to do with Picking up women is slapping evolutionary biology in the face. Testosterone augments primary and secondary sex characteristics. It is proven. Sex drive and confidence have more to do with seduction than chicken parm and LSAT. Nice try buddy. Hon…
/r/seduction22/11/13 06:46 PM
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It does. Especially when they question why a girl who is "hot" would choose to go out with them.
/r/seduction22/11/13 05:49 PM
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My submission isn't purely about "getting into shape" There's also nothing basic about using cutting edge medicine.
/r/seduction22/11/13 05:49 PM
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Talks a lot about being "alpha." Proceeds to write about things that make him the contrary.
/r/seduction22/11/13 02:24 AM
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"I never get turned down for dates" Stopped reading there.
/r/seduction22/11/13 02:15 AM
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I'm saying something in direct response to what you wrote. When you question why some girl is going out with you, it makes me cringe.
/r/seduction22/11/13 02:14 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction22/11/13 02:13 AM
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Or he's just speaking his mind. If they aren't down with it and it meshes with you it just means that you guys are parting in your interests.
/r/seduction22/11/13 01:34 AM
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Hang out with people you want to hang out with. If you do this, you should never have any problems.
/r/seduction22/11/13 01:33 AM
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The only people who say the "I had to meet you because I thought you were cute/attractive/like your style" approach doesn't work is those who are too scared to do it. Or they think it is a 100% deal.
/r/seduction22/11/13 01:33 AM
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This is looking bleak. I would say you go to the meetup. Keep the vibe as you hitting on her and not trying to just be friends. See what happens when she has a couple drinks in her or she gets to know you better. If you accept the friendzone you are only going to get the friendzone. Worst case scenario is that she doesn't respond to your advances and you cut bait. One word of advice: If you only want a romantic relationship with her, you need to eject by the 3rd week if she isn't responding at a…
/r/seduction22/11/13 01:31 AM
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what a fucking terrible mentality to live with.
/r/seduction22/11/13 12:58 AM
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Read the title, won't read the post. I already know you're setting yourself up for failure. When your title reads: "Random Girl on Tinder, don't know anything about her. This should be interesting" you will have a better time.
/r/seduction22/11/13 12:55 AM
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Use it if you feel like that's your best shot in showing an abundance/less invested persona in dating. There are many less douchey ways to go about this though.
/r/seduction22/11/13 12:51 AM
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The game is different for everyone.
/r/seduction22/11/13 12:50 AM
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You just wrote your problem, reasoning behind it, and solution. What exactly are you asking?
/r/seduction22/11/13 12:13 AM
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You know what sucks more than striking out. Striking out and not learning from it.
/r/seduction20/11/13 07:35 PM
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I have to say you are thinking too much about what you want to do and you think she is doing. If you really wanted to kiss her, do it. It's the first date she had to have expected it.
/r/seduction20/11/13 07:34 PM
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Because you're inexperienced
/r/seduction20/11/13 07:31 PM
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I have the same problem. It's about getting risky and stating your interest/intentions. Once she knows that she is giving her number to someone who is 100% trying to date her and not be friends, the numbers will start be less flakey.
/r/seduction20/11/13 07:31 PM
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playing it safe will give me a contact list full of friends. Playing it risky will give me less numbers but i'll have multiple dates every week and get laid more often.
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:59 PM
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Let me give the biggest tip to avoid flakes or bad numbers. Create more attraction while face-to-face. This sounds easy, but sometimes we go for a number too fast or do it under the pretenses of "being friends". Then when we try to ask to hangout or date on texts/phone, they get ambushed and say no. This is always going to be a numbers game, and you want your chances toward getting a "GOOD" number to be the goal. If you want your chances of getting every girl to not reject you, its easy. Just be…
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:58 PM
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This works, but it's not the only way. Probably this poster knows that too. This is a decent flow. Many people say that you don't need to read up on pickup to be good. Some of that is true, but you pick up things here that can help make you better. I never had problems talking to girls. I would just only get numbers and then become their gay best friend. What I found out from here is that I was playing things too safe. I started stating my attraction earlier and getting rejected more, but I also…
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:11 PM
1

READ THE FUCKING BOOK
/r/seduction20/11/13 05:10 AM
1

Perception is everything. Once you start understanding that, game will be easier.
/r/seduction20/11/13 04:32 AM
1

At that sporting venue she expects you to act like how you have always been acting. You need to change her frame of you to be universal and not just that one date.
/r/seduction07/11/13 10:38 PM
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Success.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:09 AM
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Nothing wrong with going up to a girl and telling her she's attractive or you like her style. So what if you get a rejected a couple of times. Indirect openers just keep whether or not she's interested or not left up to question longer. I would rather get my intentions out of the way so I don't waste my time talking to someone who's just humoring me ect.
/r/seduction06/11/13 04:55 PM
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Not even close.
/r/seduction06/11/13 12:15 AM
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Let's hear about the phone call OP.
/r/seduction05/11/13 11:54 PM
2

Hey man I'm the OP from the thread. I was thinking even further and we can have a Daily 10 location stay the same for a couple of days and get plenty of people on board. I will do Campus tomorrow and get 10. I'll post my results here. I have a shitty schedule on Mondays and pretty much sit in class most of the day. I did get some FR's in. This all took place on campus so I guess it applies. Campus gym. I have weight training class with a couple of guys and one girl. I open the girl during class …
/r/seduction05/11/13 05:43 AM
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What are you talking about. Unlessing sarging has changed i'm pretty sure approaching girls you are attracted too is still successful.
/r/seduction05/11/13 05:14 AM
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You are clueless
/r/seduction04/11/13 04:30 AM
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You:"Hey are you seeing any other guys?" Her:"yeah" You:"I kind of want to be with you and not share you." ----- fork in the road ------- Her:"Nah i'm kinda ok with where I'm at." You:"Oh ok, i'm not ok with seeing someone who is doing that so i'm going to stop seeing you" ---- OR she says ------- Her:"You know, I really like you. I think I'm going to cut ties with the rest of them and be with just you" You: unzips pants
/r/seduction03/11/13 05:40 AM
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Oh god, you're one those people who try and play semantic games with things you have little understand about. You can be outcome independent and have goals. You just don't let it bother you when you fail. DERP, therefore outcome independent. Again you say "Was I being outcome dependent with that girl? Aww shit!"....... You are clueless, you just quoted someone who has a bad grasp of inner game. Someone with strong inner game would NOT be outcome dependent and not doubting himself. Look sport, I …
/r/seduction03/11/13 05:37 AM
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Standard taking a cliche line and completely butchering the meaning. Go ahead and chat up someone you think is cute if it isn't busy. I would guess that your success rate might not be the best due to the circumstances, but it doesn't hurt. On to what the real problem with this post is. "I'm too anxious to approach girls on campus". THIS IS HOW YOU GET WOMEN THE EASIEST. and by easiest I mean after you drop your anxiety it will be the most reliable way to get dates. It's not easy to drop your anx…
/r/seduction03/11/13 05:31 AM
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He's fine with whatever situation is he in. It's not uncommon for recent grads to be back at home for a year or so. Anywho, it looks like you're not meeting enough people in whatever you are doing right now. You can approach during the day, which is imo the easiest way of just brute forcing plenty of dates. You can also join clubs, classes, etc, to meet women. The reason why I think online dating is dumb, is because it is pretty much daygame for pussies and ultimate less results. You barely get …
/r/seduction03/11/13 05:23 AM
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"negging" is pretty much a cookie cutter way to showing her that you aren't 100% invested in her. There are easier ways of going about this and they don't require you coming off as a prick. I would only recommend negging for someone who is actually an an asswipe.
/r/seduction03/11/13 05:17 AM
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Or don't use dated Strauss shit and just say you think shes cute but that isn't going to win you over alone. You'd be surprised how women start changing when they start to notice that you're still judging them and just because you approached them doesn't mean you're 100% sold on them.
/r/seduction03/11/13 05:15 AM
1

You definitely do have control over peoples emotions and behaviours and thats not even from a pickup standpoint but from a universal standpoint. Everything you are saying implies that we must have a solid inner game which is an extension of this pickup community. Stop reading "The Game" and start reading the newer material out there. Pretty much i'll sum up what you just wrote: Don't be outcome dependant(pickup theory), don't blame yourself or defeat yourself(pickup inner game), Strong confidenc…
/r/seduction03/11/13 05:11 AM
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This guy has some good points, but he doesn't see that he contradicted himself. Girls want the "whole package" So someone who has studied pickup will have a better personality, lifestyle, etc. Therefore pickup is worth learning. HOWEVER, he is right in the analysis paralysis. That's why you need to be constantly doing sets.
/r/seduction03/11/13 04:19 AM
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It's because your perceived attractiveness is not matching up with the success that you think you should be getting. What do you want? More hookups or a girlfriend who you think you deserve?
/r/seduction03/11/13 01:44 AM
1

You feel this way because you have low self-esteem. Go get more meaningful connections.
/r/seduction03/11/13 01:36 AM
1

Just tell her you felt pretty down all day and you hope it didn't have an effect on the date. Tell her you would like to see her again
/r/seduction03/11/13 01:35 AM
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All you can do is get back into whatever state you want to be in with her. Get back to seducing her..?
/r/seduction03/11/13 01:32 AM
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The best way to improve your own sets is incorporate things into your game that you truly believe will work for you. If you are normally a more seductive and less of a funny/interesting guy, perhaps opening with silly lyrics or joking/sarcasm isn't your routine. Once you know what you're comfortable with in terms of game, record yourself opening sets and you can find plenty of things that you did wrong to improve on.
/r/seduction02/11/13 11:18 PM
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You've just got to transition to it whenever you feel you want to. Whether she bites on it depends on the girl.
/r/seduction02/11/13 11:16 PM
0

It seems he is looking for that routine that will work for every approach 100% of the time.
/r/seduction02/11/13 11:03 PM
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No. Everyone pretends like you shouldn't walk up to people and ask their name etc. Approaching is something men who know what they want do. Plain and simple. So what if they reject you? You took the chance and sometimes it goes your way. If you never approach, it will never go your way. People use culture as a reason not to do what you want. You make your own culture and people either get in line or dont
/r/seduction02/11/13 10:23 PM
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I WANT to go hang out with my friends for a bit, I'll be back. The risk of doing this is that she might find somebody else during that time. Fixed for people who aren't being told by their mothers to hang out with their friends.
/r/seduction31/10/13 11:27 PM
1

I'm not the best at this, but something I'm moving toward is going past the # close on first meeting. I feel like that should be the last resort. If this were me, I would try and get her on a date right then.
/r/seduction31/10/13 02:51 PM
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I would have called her out on it pretty quickly. Its wierd how women can say whatever they want on dates but guys have to be "nice" all the time. If someone is legit fucking up on a date with me i'll call her on it. I've recently started shifting from a "make the date fun for her mentality" to a "lets see if this girl is worth dating mentality". One you make that shift, you will feel better about telling a girl off when hes lame. If you're trying to make the date fun for her, then of course you…
/r/seduction31/10/13 02:48 PM
1

Be outcome independent. I will usually invite a girl a couple of times to having drinks or coffee or hangout. I never get pissed or mad though if they say no or ignore etc. After a while I lose interest if they always flake or say they are busy.
/r/seduction31/10/13 03:51 AM
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You know it takes approaches like these for us to say, "damn I really should have just talked to her on the train" Thats how you grow my friend. good luck
/r/seduction29/10/13 10:59 PM
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If this is actually how it went down. You have a very bad eye for what is going on. The girl still gave her number so you were doing things right, but apparently you bailed.
/r/seduction29/10/13 10:53 PM
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Ok you don't know anybody there. First rule is to find some guys who are pretty cool and say your friends recommended that you check out this fraternity and might consider pledging. They will be cool with you and can fall back to them if you need somewhere to chill. If you immediately creep on girls without getting to know any of the guys there you are setting yourself up for failure. After getting a drink or two with them, then go ahead and start opening on girls. Easy as shit at these parties.…
/r/seduction29/10/13 10:50 PM
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yelp.com
/r/seduction29/10/13 10:47 PM
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Heres the dirty little secret, Plenty of girls text guys they like all the time. Maybe if you are 25+ this is less of the case, but everyone texts. I usually will text back and forth every now and then with a girl, especially from class. The thing is, you must build Sexual tension through texts. If you are just joking all day long, it isn't really going to get you anywhere in terms of relationship. Calling her sexy, or flirting through texts is not a bad idea. Keep in mind that most girls who ar…
/r/seduction29/10/13 10:41 PM
1

"Oh my god, thats the guy who told me I was cute. What a creepy guy. Like why would he EVER call me cute? Why would he want to go out with me?" Hrmm
/r/seduction29/10/13 09:37 PM
1

Why is my computer so slow after opening that link?
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:25 PM
4

You're about to have sex, why are you worried about how the condom gets on?
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:24 PM
3

I've got a better idea, set up a date AFTER work. Youll seem like less of an idiot
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:22 PM
2

if your intention was for her to be your school friend who you said was attractive and then never followed up, then brag/joke about school, you were a success, but she wasn't feeling it.
/r/seduction28/10/13 03:37 AM
1

I would say the reason why, is because these are what women don't want CREEPS to do to them. We all know women love effective kino, so it debunks about half the shit on that list.
/r/seduction28/10/13 01:15 AM
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I'm wondering about this too. I'm at the point where I will get a # and assume attraction, but then I get flaked or nothing comes of it. Sometimes it feels like a pity number. All I can say is that I snap out of that pretty quickly and feel good again when things work out. Thought you connected and she flakes on a date? Thought you had a great first date and she loses interest? Had a bunch of rejections? I pretty much get over all of those by working harder to get my next success. It's a "what y…
/r/seduction28/10/13 01:13 AM
1

That list is a good example of why you don't take women's advice on what they want when being picked up.
/r/seduction28/10/13 01:09 AM
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I need a bar flowchart. Someone please give me the gist of how to interact there. I feel like its pretty much a restaurant where everyone is doing their own thing.
/r/seduction28/10/13 12:04 AM
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Threads like these........ How to give a response without calling op a pussy...
/r/seduction27/10/13 11:18 PM
1

How about you own up to being a prick and give her an outcome independent apology for starters. Then give it some time and ask her later.
/r/seduction27/10/13 11:17 PM
0

Nice hostility. I think I'm beginning to understand what your problem is.
/r/seduction27/10/13 12:47 AM
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List of excuses(from second part down only): - Couple years older than me (why does this matter?) - Party dies down so you drop all game, no change of venue, just a casual fb add. Pretty much the worst type of contact information exchange you can do for relationships. - Waiting for girls to come up to you. Who's chosing the mate here? The man or female..? -From what I understand you didn't try state your intentions with the "HB&7"(stop using that for valueing women its pretty pathetic) Because y…
/r/seduction26/10/13 11:33 PM
1

by being a fun person
/r/seduction26/10/13 11:01 PM
1

You do get what I'm saying, but you won't admit it to yourself. You need to look inside yourself and figure out why you are unhappy with your looks.
/r/seduction26/10/13 09:05 PM
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Again, I DONT KNOW if shes is lying or not. But 70 different sexual partners is pretty ridiculous. 3 different rapes is a pretty big deal too. My guess is that she wants you to know she wants to take things slow. You have to be persistent yet understanding.
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:57 PM
2

I close my eyes and see myself as a full person, not just a shell of looks. The only reason why this would bother you is if you were self-conscious. That means that you think people won't accept you for your looks. So it is about what women want.
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:55 PM
1

You're forgetting that shes a woman and its completely different socially for them to approach.
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:17 PM
1

Not to sound cynical, but this is probably NOT true. You probably should have to asked her why she wouldn't let you kiss her in the lips at first, it seemed like she was sending a resistance signal at you and you just jumped to oral without even doing the makeout.
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:16 PM
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This is what I don't get. You're not a women and you're not attracted to men, so why do you think you know what women think is attractive. You always see a ton of guys who look just like you with girlfriends. Some of those girls are even "way above your league". You realize you are delusional about your looks, but you don't realize you are delusional about knowing exactly what women want.
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:09 PM
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You need to tell us WHY you feel like that before we can help you, or you can help yourself. I would probably guess you dont want to fail in front of your friends.
/r/seduction26/10/13 05:08 PM
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You're going to break all the rules you set up, and get fucked emotionally in the process if you actually end up doing this. That being said, this is a good time to get just have as much sex as possible?
/r/seduction26/10/13 05:06 PM
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If you want to get into fraternity parties, pledge one. If you want to show up to fraternity parties and you're not a brother or a girl, expect it to be an uphill battle. The ONLY reason I would go to a fraternities party if I was a GDI was to either get to know the members so I could pledge, or steal shit.
/r/seduction26/10/13 05:04 PM
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You do know that the fact that you still don't understand makes you come off as more ignorant not less. Keep swinging tiger
/r/seduction26/10/13 05:02 PM
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I don't think you need an invitation to talk to people or hang out with people at a party... Just walk up and shoot the shit and build some rapport. "Hey guys, I know ______, whats up?" if you feel the need to validate yourself to them. Most of the time you can just butt in on people talking about something you are familiar with.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:59 PM
1

Checklist for going to a place where you don't know anybody. I like to think of it as being a "virus". (very bad connotation, but whatever, the analogy works) It even works if you don't know anybody there, but if you know one person, thats all you need. Go meet/hang out with the person you know, Introduce yourself to his/her circle. break off from initial friend, and hang out with one of his/her friends that you introduced yourself to. Congratulations at this point you made one more friend, if n…
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:56 PM
1

Too many "godmodes" on this forum seem like just a happy feeling when someone works out. I would guess "godmode" is overly hyperbole for what actually happens afterwards in most cases.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:42 PM
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You are completely ignorant to other cultures, therefore you are creepier to more of the world than he is.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:38 PM
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Read Part 3: God mode, expected god mode things to happen. Instead, I saw someone playing things safe. My godmode is probably different than yours. If i was feeling indestructible, I would have probably tried to pull the last girl home or to another venue. Don't take this as me bagging on you because what you did before that was good stuff in my book. My opinion is just that if you think what you did there was "god mode", when you actually get the confidence to let it all go and move all in on s…
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:35 PM
3

Honestly from about the second half of the FR down, this FR just degenerated into a list of excuses. Read your FR again and look at the reasons why you didn't find someone to have fun with that night.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:28 PM
1

Could have done a lot of things better, they will come in time. For instance, you told her she was cute, which was good, but if you look at it from her perspective or even yours, you ambushed her at the end. I say ambushed because you created a rapport with her that is AT MOST friendly guy who sits next to her. You didn't try much to really start conversations in class, for one reason or another. So, you find her outside of class and immediately up the ante by calling her cute, which is a good m…
/r/seduction09/10/13 04:53 PM
1

Give your opinions on the situation and be genuine.
/r/seduction29/09/13 02:51 AM
1

You shouldn't let her friends pull her away. Just introduce yourself to her friends and see where the connection goes.
/r/seduction29/09/13 01:33 AM
0

The HB rating system is dated and ultimately useless. You're either attracted to her or not.
/r/seduction27/09/13 12:04 AM
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Anybody who has a concrete idea of what 10 is for a guy is gay or bi. Just like how we have different interpretations of what a 10 is for a women in terms of the whole package. Now, there are certain societal norms in which most women subscribe to which can increase your chances of being a 10 to more women, but in the end its all up to eye of the beholder. If you want to find out what a 10 is for the lowest common denominator do this: Find every magazine for women that fit your demographic of wh…
/r/seduction26/09/13 10:22 PM
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For those who are looking for this as an excuse to try to get with the friend at some point, you're mistaken and missing the point.
/r/seduction26/09/13 08:06 PM
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Transition your day-game time to a hobby where you can meet women who are more in tune with your interests. For instance, join a yoga/aerobics/cooking class and open the same exact way.
/r/seduction25/09/13 06:42 PM
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What he is saying is that he will initiate the conversation, by saying "Hey". Then he will try and let her carry the conversation for a little bit. Doesn't work with everyone. You definitely have to have a whole lot of outward value (Confident, well put-together, etc). Most of all, you need to be ok with girls not biting all the time.
/r/seduction25/09/13 06:40 PM
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New to cold approaching for the most part. I deal with AA. The best way to pump myself up is to get a couple approaches out of the way very quickly
/r/seduction19/09/13 03:47 AM
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I have trouble with this too, but honestly the answer has to be: Get her attention, "Hi", "excuse me", etc, Tell her you're interested in her, "You're cute", "I like your style", or "I've noticed you waiting for the next class", Then express that you would like to get to know her better, "I want to get to know you better", "Do you like _____ (food, restaurant), or interview her.
/r/seduction16/09/13 10:12 PM
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You pretty much pinpointed your problem, what are you asking exactly?
/r/seduction16/09/13 10:08 PM
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Escalate buddy. She will tell you if you are doing anything shes uncomfortable with.
/r/seduction15/09/13 08:48 PM
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Good job, though taking the girl back with you would help you better with LTR and dating, you really just chickened out and let the cockblock dictate what was up.
/r/seduction15/09/13 08:24 PM
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This is very good and teaches about numbers game. However, the 500$ is quite deceiving for some. For some on this board, who never go approach. They are at 0$. They have a % chance to succeed with any approach no matter the girl, some may be higher or lower, of course. You aren't gaining anything by not approaching, you are saving your ego. As your ego is not purely attached to how you do on that approach, (you can always heal it later) you aren't really risking that in the approach indefinitely…
/r/seduction12/09/13 06:31 PM
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