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Generalnrverma/r/MensRights07/03/25 01:20 AM
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Marriage rates are in decline Birth rates are in decline Circumcision rates are in decline To what degree the Men's Rights Movement has influenced these issues, it is difficult to say. But I think we can take some credit for these trends!
/r/MensRights22/07/26 10:55 AM
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Although I agree with you in principle, there were specific issues with the Platner campaign. The most recent polls indicated that the accusations had damaged his chances of winning. Platner campaign quietly polls potential replacements as pressure mounts Planter has dropped to 42% approval, compared to incumbent Senator Susan Collins approval of 47%. The issue was further exacerbated by the fact that Troy Jackson (a potential replacement) is leading Senator Collins in a hypothetical election (4…
/r/MensRights09/07/26 03:06 PM
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DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights09/07/26 10:28 AM
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He is correct! America's family court system is based on the Tender Years Doctrine, which gives preferential treatment to mothers in custody rulings. The Tender Years Doctrine Until there are serious reforms to the family court system (mandatory paternity testing, abolishing child support, abolishing the Tender Years Doctrine, etcetera), I would advise against any man reproducing. Just get your vasectomy and be done with it. Only when birth rates start to plummet will politicians be motivated to…
/r/MensRights02/07/26 07:55 PM
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"It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman". Proverbs 21:19
/r/MensRights24/06/26 12:35 AM
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DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights23/06/26 04:41 PM
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DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights23/06/26 03:18 PM
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Yes! Female-to-male trans individuals are welcome allies! Upon transitioning, many transexual men realize the inherent advantages that biological women have in western society! How Trans Men Expose Female Privilege Trans man realizes how hard it is to be a man!
/r/MensRights23/06/26 03:07 PM
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Remember, it is a fundamental tenet of feminism to never take personal responsibility for your actions. Westernized women voluntarily choose to their male romantic/sexual partners, and then proceed to spend the rest of their lives complaining about the choices that they made.
/r/MensRights22/06/26 08:03 PM
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Common-law marriage (Wikipedia) The fact that common-law marriages are still even recognized is beyond absurd! Men, do not get married, do not reproduce, and do not cohabitate. At all. Ever. The system sees you as nothing more than a wage slave.
/r/MensRights18/06/26 06:26 PM
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Women are responsible for 70-80% of consumer spending. As long as this is the case, corporations (and, by extension, governments and media outlets) will continue to acquiesce to women. If we really want to see significant change in the system, we have to start using the leverage that we have. The three pillars of misandry in Western civilization are: -Divorce Laws/Courts -Family Laws/Courts -Domestic Violence Laws/Courts In order to undermine these institutions, I would advise against any man ge…
/r/MensRights18/06/26 02:53 PM
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"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men." -Frederick Douglass Although I appreciate the sentiment of this article, the organization that wrote it (Both Parents Matter) is an organization that is reactive, rather than proactive. Helping men who are suffering in the family court system is a good thing, but what really needs to be done is to encourage men to avoid family court systems all together. Until family court systems undergo major reforms (mandatory paternity testin…
/r/MensRights17/06/26 12:11 AM
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Thank you so much for saying this! Change will not occur unless efforts are made. Even small efforts can have a cumulative effect!
/r/MensRights16/06/26 04:22 PM
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Although I can not speak to this specific case, the United Nations is a misandric organization. When the United Nations evaluates gender discrimination, it only counts discrimination against women. Discrimination against men is not included in their reports. For example, the United Nations Women's Office ranks nations based on female political representation. The rankings are completely unilateral; even as female political representation climbs above 50%, nations will continue to rise in ranking…
/r/MensRights15/06/26 06:55 PM
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DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights10/06/26 10:44 AM
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Bingo. Actions speak louder than words. Until politicians start to eliminate the gynocentric aspects of society, their words will continue to be meaningless. I do encourage individuals to contact their representatives. Tell them that you refuse to marry, reproduce and/or cohabitate until changes are made to the family/divorce/domestic violence systems. If enough of us start speaking out, change can be elicited.
/r/MensRights10/06/26 10:31 AM
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I absolutely concur! It is absolutely absurd that we still incarcerate people over debt! People can not generate income while they are incarcerated!
/r/MensRights04/06/26 04:40 PM
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Birth rates are declining Marriage rates are declining Circumcision rates are declining Although the men's rights movement is not solely responsible for these trends, I think it is reasonable to infer that our efforts are having some degree of impact on society.
/r/MensRights01/06/26 02:47 PM
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Bingo. The Child Support Enforcement Program (CSE) Men, do not reproduce. At all. Ever. Just get your vasectomy at the age of 18 and be done with it. Every time you reproduce, you only feed the child support machine. Unless birth rates start dropping rapidly, politicians have zero motivation to change the system.
/r/MensRights24/05/26 02:57 PM
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I concur! Given the current laws governing reproduction are extremely favorable to women, I would not even dare risk storing my sperm in a sperm bank. The only way the laws will change is if we completely remove any possibility of reproduction. Men, get your vasectomies and just be done with it. Do not reproduce, at all, ever. And do not store your sperm at a sperm bank. Only when birth rates start to collapse will governments be willing to discuss changes to family/child custody laws.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 06:22 PM
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The game is rigged. But you can not lose, if you do not play. Men, just forego romantic relationships, especially in Western civilization. Modern women care nothing for the pain, misery and suffering that men have to endure on a regular basis. Most women only value you for your money, and will not hesitate to ruin your life with a false accusation.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 05:54 PM
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77% of all murder victims are men. It is a testament to the power of feminist propaganda that the general public believes that women are at greater risk of being victims of violent crime.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 09:39 PM
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Are there any lawyers present? Can someone please explain whether or not this could be successfully challenged in court?
/r/MensRights08/05/26 02:51 AM
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Even broken watches are right twice a day!
/r/MensRights06/05/26 07:25 PM
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HOW MANY TIMES DOES THIS HAVE TO KEEP HAPPENING?!?!? First, it was the "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" Facebook groups. Then, it was the "Tea" smartphone application. Now, it is this "NameHim" website. Every single time someone tries to create a space for women to anonymously accuse men, it is flooded with female predators and false accusers. And yet, people continue to insist that men are the problem!
/r/MensRights06/05/26 06:45 PM
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This is a universal problem. Boys Bear the Brunt of School Discipline
/r/MensRights06/05/26 03:31 PM
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Look, I know it is easy to be cynical, given how Western civilization has completely ignored men for decades. I am of the opinion, however, that any progress is good progress. The fact that people and governments are even talking about men's issues is a step in the right direction. Even if you think that politicians are simply pandering to men for votes, I would rather be pandered to than be ignored. We have to continue to work on undoing the damage that has been done. Now that society is finall…
/r/MensRights06/05/26 11:17 AM
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Men who have suffered consequences after being falsely accused need to start holding institutions accountable. I know that the initial reaction is to try and hold the accuser accountable, but it can be difficult to prove lying/perjury beyond a reasonable doubt in a criminal court. Even if the accused successfully sues the accuser in a civil court for slander/defamation, accusers often do not have much money/assets to begin with. Stefon Diggs could sue his former employer, the New England Patriot…
/r/MensRights06/05/26 10:56 AM
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When you have been privileged all your life, equality feels like prejudice!
/r/MensRights06/05/26 10:30 AM
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https://www.intactglobal.org/ This is the organization that is funding this case. Please send what money you can to the organization; even a small amount will help move the case forward!
/r/MensRights05/05/26 03:25 AM
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I suspect this is the real reason. Once the majority of her claims were dismissed, she and her legal team probably realized that, even if they did win on the remaining claims, it would not be worth the money and effort. Also, Blake Lively has four children. Spending time with her children is probably more important to her than sitting in a courtroom all day.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 03:15 AM
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Oh wow! I knew this phenomenon existed, but I was unaware it had a term! GreatBasinPower, you are absolutely correct. Men, do not reproduce. At all. Ever. Get your vasectomy at the age of 18, and just be done with it. The family courts of western civilization are amongst the three pillars of misandry (along with divorce courts and domestic violence courts). The only way that governments will start taking these issues seriously is if birth rates start falling dramatically.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 04:37 PM
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Not only is it tolerated, but it is perpetuated by the American criminal justice system! When Male Rape Victims Are Accountable for Child Support Hermesmann v. Seyer (Kansas State Supreme Court case that confirmed female pedophile rapists can sue their victims for child support)
/r/MensRights24/04/26 02:33 AM
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This infographic is a small step in the right direction. I appreciate that it does highlight some of the issues concerning modern relationship dynamics (including the discrepancy in divorce filings between husbands and wives, and the extreme disproportionality of online dating). Nevertheless, it fails to address the reality of marriage. Marriage is a contract between two people; nothing more, and nothing less. You would never sign a contract where one party is rewarded for breaking the contract.…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 03:37 AM
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A very small step in the right direction. I would prefer to see a more comprehensive platform addressing systemic issues, including: -Mandatory paternity testing -Abolishing child support -Abolishing the Tender Years Doctrine -Abolishing the Duluth Model -Abolishing the Selective Service Draft
/r/MensRights21/04/26 01:43 AM
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The injustice of family law is seemingly limitless! Even if a father is granted joint custody (which is rare), he still has to fight for access to his children! Gentleman, do not reproduce. At all. Ever. Get your vasectomy at the age of 18 and just be done with it. The only way the state will start changing family laws is if the birthrate decreases significantly.
/r/MensRights06/04/26 05:46 PM
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This documentary movie goes into detail on the absolute nightmare that divorce cases entail. DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights04/04/26 11:26 AM
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Nora Vincent wrote a book about her experiences called Self-Made Man: One Woman's Year Disguised as a Man. Here are the links: Self-Made Man (Wikipedia)) Self-Made Man (Amazon) Nora Vincent also did an accompanying mini-documentary about her experiences with ABC News: 2006 Self Made Man: Norah Vincent chooses Female Privilege over Male Privilege
/r/MensRights04/04/26 10:58 AM
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I think what we need to make clear is not so much that the gender pay gap does not exist, but the reasons as to why it exists. This video goes into good detail, explaining how the gender pay gap is multifactorial: Explained | Why Women Are Paid Less | FULL EPISODE | Netflix Some of the points that the video makes: -The biggest reason for the gender pay gap is reproduction. When women reproduce (especially if they reproduce two or more times), their workforce participation rate plummets. We can s…
/r/MensRights29/03/26 05:23 PM
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There are divorce lawyers that specialize in male clients. Just type in "divorce lawyers for men in Missouri" into an internet search engine, and see what you find. Here are a few that I found: https://cordellcordell.com/practice-areas/divorce/ https://bardollaw.com/how-to-choose-a-divorce-lawyer-for-men/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/cynthiaalbin
/r/MensRights26/03/26 10:38 AM
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Any progress is good progress! We need to realize that our movement is still very nascent. The fact that we have a candidate for the United States Senate even talking about men's issues is a step in the right direction. Hopefully, as our movement continues to grow, more specific policies (mandatory paternity testing, abolish the sex selective draft, etcetera) will become more mainstream.
/r/MensRights24/03/26 10:37 AM
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Women are responsible for 85% of consumer spending (either directly, or indirectly) The capitalists support any endeavor that puts money into a women's pocket (alimony, child support, etcetera), because that is more money that women have to spend on consumer goods. If the men's rights movement achieves its goals, there will be a massive drop in female purchasing power. The capitalists are well aware of this. That is why they align with the feminists. The best that we can hope for from the capita…
/r/MensRights21/03/26 09:11 PM
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Someone wrote a whole book on this phenomenon!
/r/MensRights18/03/26 10:45 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me the lengths that governments will go to, just to extract child support payments from a man. Gentleman, do not reproduce. At all. Ever. Get your vasectomy at the age of 18 and just be done with it. The only way these laws will start changing is if men outright refuse to reproduce.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 03:59 PM
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This article goes into detail concerning child custody law when crossing state lines.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 11:58 AM
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Exactly. I do feel some degree of sympathy. There may have been a few well-intentioned individuals when the subreddit first started. Although I did not agree with their proposals, at least they were willing to acknowledge men's issues. Alas, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. They chose to align with the feminists. Modern western feminists are lying misandric sociopaths, and any movement that aligns with them is doomed to fail.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 04:17 AM
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Any progress is good progress! Although I think that child support should just be abolished, this legislation makes the system more balanced between mothers and fathers. Hopefully, further reforms (like mandatory paternity testing and abolishing the Tender Years Doctrine) will follow.
/r/MensRights16/02/26 01:54 PM
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The findings of this paper are disappointing, but not surprising. Divorce and family courts are notoriously misandric institutions. The reality of the divorce and family court system is that perjury is rampant. Lawyers have been encouraging female clients to lie with impunity for decades, as judges will rarely hold women accountable. Divorce Laws F*ck Men Tender years doctrine The Silver Bullet Method: The Rise of False Allegations in Divorce and Custody Cases At a certain point, you have to sta…
/r/MensRights15/02/26 03:16 PM
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Thank you for posting this informational video! Child support should just be abolished, for a myriad of reasons: At the most basic philosophical level, the concept of child support is invalid, especially in the 21st century. If the law allows a woman to forego motherhood, then the law shall allow a man to forego fatherhood. There is a greater encompassing philosophical quandary here as well. The concept of child support is based on the idea that one citizen must directly subsidize another citize…
/r/MensRights15/02/26 01:38 AM
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I understand the intention behind this type of legislation. No fault divorce essentially legalizes theft, as a spouse can simply initiate divorce proceedings and be awarded money and assets through divorce court. The real issue, however, is the very nature of the marriage contract. Marriage is the only contract where terms of the contract are negotiated at the end of the contract (during divorce proceedings). In all other contracts, the terms of the contract are negotiated before the contract is…
/r/MensRights13/02/26 07:01 PM
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Keir Starmer (the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom) has launched a national summit to discuss issues facing boys and men. Gretchen Whitmer (Governor of the state of Michigan) Signs Executive Directive Expanding Access to College and Skills Training for Michigan Men Wes Moore (Governor of the state of Maryland) Announces Initiatives to Strengthen Maryland’s Teacher Workforce and Uplift Men and Boys Gavin Newsom (Governor of the state of California) issues executive order to support young men …
/r/MensRights04/02/26 11:27 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lZTOT6DKfZ8 DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights20/01/26 11:49 AM
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"Never argue with fools! Onlookers may not be able to tell the difference!" Feminism has degraded into a sexist supremacist ideology. There is no point in even trying to engage with them. They are unabashed liars, hypocrites and absolute sociopaths who care nothing for others. I do think there is value in observing feminists, so you can know your enemy. But do not waste your time engaging with them.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 06:10 PM
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The game is rigged. But you can not lose, if you do not play. The three largest repositories for misandry in current western civilization is divorce law, family law and domestic violence law. The laws in these three fields are openly misandric: The Tender Years Doctrine The Duluth Model The best way to defeat these institutions is to simply avoid them. Do not get married, do not reproduce, and do not cohabitate with women. If enough men refuse to engage with these systems, western civilization w…
/r/MensRights10/01/26 12:07 PM
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Thank you so much for this article! It is good to finally see the legal system acknowledging this problem. The first step to solving a problem is acknowledging the problem exists. Hopefully, articles like this will lead to reforms within the family/divorce law system. Nevertheless, until those reforms are passed, I would advise against any man getting married and/or reproducing.
/r/MensRights02/01/26 02:27 PM
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I absolutely concur! The problem is the very nature of marriage itself. Marriage is a contract between two parties; nothing more, and nothing less. The problem is the structure of the marriage contract. Typically, the parameters of a contract are defined before the contract is signed. However, in a marriage contract, the parameters are defined at the end of the contract (during divorce proceedings). This is completely backwards! By defining the contract parameters during divorce proceedings, you…
/r/MensRights21/12/25 09:55 PM
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ABSOLUTELY AWESOME! Keep fighting! Success is not guaranteed if you try, but failure is guaranteed if you quit! If you do not try, you will never succeed!
/r/MensRights13/12/25 10:31 PM
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Any progress is good progress! The fact that these issues are even being discussed in mainstream media is a sign of the advancement of our movement. Do I wish individuals like Dr. Galloway and Dr. Reeves were more critical of feminism? Yes, I do. Do I also wish these individuals identified the societal structures that oppress men (family courts, divorce courts, the selective service draft, etcetera)? Yes, I do. Alas, the movement has to start somewhere. Identifying and disseminating the statisti…
/r/MensRights06/12/25 05:43 PM
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This is exactly why I advise against cohabitation! The main problem with the domestic violence system in America is that it is based on the Duluth Model. The Duluth Model is a misandric domestic violence model, whose base premise is that domestic violence is something that a man perpetuates onto a woman. The Duluth Model Because the entire domestic violence system is based on the Duluth model (including courts, judges, laws, social workers, etcetera), men are at a complete disadvantage. Domestic…
/r/MensRights19/11/25 02:55 AM
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"If you wait for perfect, you wait forever." Look, I know this bill is less than ideal. But any progress is good progress. The fact that governments are finally looking to reform the family court system would seem to indicate that our movement is having some degree of success. This is just one more step in the journey. We have to keep fighting! Success is not guaranteed if you try, but failure is guaranteed if you quit!
/r/MensRights18/11/25 12:08 PM
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Precisely! The origins of alimony and child support come from a time in which women did not work. Without a husband/father, a divorce would leave women and children destitute. The concepts of alimony and child support emerged to prevent this from happening, and in those times, these concepts were sensible. The problem is that none of these laws changed, despite women entering the working world. Family and divorce courts still operate as if we are in the early 20th century!
/r/MensRights14/11/25 04:32 PM
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Thank you for posting this! It is encouraging to see mainstream media acknowledge these issues.
/r/MensRights14/11/25 04:16 AM
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DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights10/11/25 02:09 PM
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I concur my friend! Marriage rates are in decline Birth rates are in decline Circumcision rates are in decline To what degree the Men's Rights Movement has had an effect on these issues is difficult to say. Nevertheless, I think some of these encouraging trends are secondary to the work that the movement has done. We need to keep fighting! Success is not guaranteed if you try, but failure is guaranteed if you quit!
/r/MensRights02/11/25 04:50 AM
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Although this may be true, I think we can still take it as a sign of progress. Being pandered to is not ideal, but it is superior to being ignored. The fact that politicians are even mentioning these issues is a good sign. We still have to keep pushing for more definite action, but this is a good start.
/r/MensRights20/10/25 01:17 AM
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The game is rigged, but you can not lose, if you do not play. Although these movements are encouraging, I can not, in good conscience, advise any man to reproduce until there are massive changes within the family court system. Those change would include: -Mandatory Paternity Testing -Abolish the Tender Years Doctrine -Abolish Child Support Although there are other changes I advocate for, these three would be the bare minimum requirements before I would even consider reproducing (especially as a …
/r/MensRights17/10/25 04:04 PM
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I will take any good news where I can get it at this point. I hope that the criminal justice system (and society at large) starts taking false accusations more seriously. Every day, men are terminated from their jobs, expelled from school and incarcerated in jails due to false allegations. It is a serious problem that society refuses to take seriously!
/r/MensRights12/10/25 07:21 PM
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This documentary film goes into detail about the terrible process of divorce proceedings. It is not necessarily centered on men's rights, but it is still a good documentary. I frequently cite it when arguing against marriage.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 04:54 AM
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Oh wow! Thank you for posting this! I credit Cenk Uygur and Ana Kasparian for being objective. The Young Turks is a progressive news network, and they are ideologically aligned with individuals like Representative Ocasio-Cortez. Nevertheless, they acknowledge that mocking individuals for their physical appearance is counterproductive. I especially appreciate that they noted that such behavior would not be tolerated if the situation was reversed (if a male politician mocked a female government of…
/r/MensRights11/10/25 01:24 AM
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DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights06/10/25 11:33 PM
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Correct! Women control/influence 85% of consumer spending. Television/radio/internet platforms are aware of this. These platforms need the advertising dollars of consumer goods corporations to operate. Ergo, they cater to female sensibilities in order to draw in female viewers, who will then buy the products they see on advertisements. This is also the reason why most media outlets ignore/malign the men's rights movement! The policies that the movement advocates for (abolishing marriage/alimony/…
/r/MensRights03/10/25 02:05 AM
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DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights27/09/25 04:26 PM
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The example can also be applied in the opposite direction. One of the feminist counter-arguments to holding women accountable for false rape accusations is that false rape accusations are extremely rare. Although this may be true, it only takes one single false accusation to ruin a man's life. Emmett Till Lynching of Sam Hose Crystal Mangum, who accused three Duke lacrosse players of rape, now says she lied The terrifying inside story of how an innocent dad was tortured and killed by a group of …
/r/MensRights09/09/25 09:52 PM
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I concur my friend! The idea that women do not perpetuate violence is a complete falsehood! 71% of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers. Fourth National Incidence Study of Child Abuse and Neglect: Report to Congress
/r/MensRights08/09/25 08:04 PM
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Doctor Warren Farrell experienced this as well! Doctor Farrell was one of the most prominent male feminists in the 1970s and 1980s, but he left the National Organization of Women in the 1990s after they started endorsing the Tender Years Doctrine. Doctor Warren Farrell The Tender Years Doctrine
/r/MensRights08/09/25 07:52 PM
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I concur! In my opinion, we should just get rid of marriage entirely. Marriage is nothing more than a contract between two parties, and you should never sign a contract in which one party is rewarded for breaking the contract. Marriage contracts are also unusual in that the terms of the contract are negotiated at the end of the contract (during divorce proceedings). States should only recognize civil union contracts. In a civil union, terms of the contract (including asset distribution and child…
/r/MensRights02/09/25 10:53 AM
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DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights26/08/25 01:31 PM
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It would appear that governments are finally beginning to realize the inherent injustice of divorce law. Although I would still advocate for the abolishment of marriage entirely, this type of legislation is a sign of progress.
/r/MensRights24/08/25 01:07 AM
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I concur! Look, this is how politics works. Politicians respond to what gets them votes. Do I wish there were more altruistic people in politics who did things because it is the morally correct choice? Yes, I do! Alas, that is not how the world works. People, in general, will act when it serves their best interests. Governor Newsom is pandering, but pandering is far superior to being ignored. We have to keep fighting; other governors (like Michigan's Gretchen Whitmer and Maryland's Wes Moore) ha…
/r/MensRights01/08/25 01:12 PM
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I concur! This video goes into greater detail about this phenomenon. Essentially, China passed these laws because women were exploiting the divorce laws. Women were marrying men, only to divorce them soon after to claim their property in divorce court. Men were hesitant to get married, over fears of being exploited (and rightfully so). Although this type of legislation is an improvement, it still does not address the foundational issue with marriage. Marriage is, fundamentally, a contract betwee…
/r/MensRights23/07/25 03:22 PM
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Words are a start, but actions must follow. Dr. El-Sayed is running for the federal United States Senate, so I would like to hear his opinion on federal legislation that subjugates men. Is he going to make the Selective Service Draft unisex (or abolish it)? Is he going to revoke the Violence Against Women Act (or at least modify it to include male victims)? Is he going to end the practice of the federal government reimbursing states for collecting child support? There are many things that the fe…
/r/MensRights22/07/25 02:08 PM
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DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights22/06/25 06:39 PM
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DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights07/06/25 12:23 PM
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Thank you so much for telling your story! Dr. Richard Reeves is a senior fellow at the Brookings Institute, who wrote a book about the difficulties facing men and boys in modern society. Of Boys and Men, by Dr. Richard Reeves I know that Dr. Reeves is a polarizing individual on this forum, but I think he does a good job of summarizing many of the issues affecting boys and men. Doctor Reeves also gave a TED talk about the issues young men and boys are facing in our education system; he specifical…
/r/MensRights05/06/25 01:38 AM
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I completely agree! Falsely accused individuals need to start going after these institutions for wrongful termination. Suing the accuser accomplishes almost nothing, as the accusers rarely have many resources to begin with. Also, as you stated, if there is a ruling against the accuser, the insurance company typically covers it. Prosecuting attorneys rarely file criminal charges against false accusers (even if the evidence is definitive), and even if they do secure a conviction, the sentencing is…
/r/MensRights05/06/25 01:05 AM
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The fact that politicians are now starting to speak about men's issues is a sign of progress. It may not be much, but it is better than being completely ignored. Words are a start, but actions must follow. It is encouraging that Governor Moore did mention some specific policies (including increasing the number of male teachers and male mental health providers, and advocating for paternity leave). Keep fighting! Our efforts are starting to yield change, but there is still much to fight for! "The …
/r/MensRights02/06/25 02:11 PM
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Before she was a justice on the United States Supreme Court, Ruth Bader Ginsberg represented a man who challenged a provision in the United States Tax Code that was discriminatory against men! Moritz v. Commissioner In 1968, Charles Moritz was caring for his mother, who was medically incapacitated. He filed for a tax deduction that was typically awarded to caregivers. The Internal Revenue Service initially denied him the deduction, as the tax code specified that the tax deduction was only availa…
/r/MensRights02/06/25 01:09 PM
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This is exactly why I advise men against reproduction! Family law courts will extract every resource that a man has, and there will be no legal recourse!
/r/MensRights25/05/25 05:32 PM
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For anyone living in Oregon, contact your state senators and tell them to oppose this legislation!
/r/MensRights16/05/25 01:12 PM
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Is this the one you speak of? Catfights over handbags and tears in the toilets. When this producer launched a women-only TV company she thought she'd kissed goodbye to conflict...
/r/MensRights15/05/25 02:19 AM
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I am Jack's complete lack of surprise.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 01:10 AM
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"The game is rigged; but you can not lose if you do not play." The transfer of wealth from men to women is one of the greatest weapons that misandrists wield. The transfer is either through law (alimony and child support) or by custom (men paying for dates when courting women). I advise men to avoid marriage, reproduction and cohabitation. Be safe and secure in your wealth and possessions. When engaging in courtship, only give her what she gives you. If all she gives you is her time, all you giv…
/r/MensRights13/05/25 04:52 PM
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I completely concur! They are entitled because they believe either: a. Women are superior to men and/or b. Men oppress women, and so men owe them compensation for their perceived subjugation They are bitter that the lies they were told in their youth did not come to fruition. As far as I am concerned, they can wallow in their misery.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 01:16 AM
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Thank you so much for posting this! Any progress is good progress! Family courts have long been repositories for misandry. Most family law is based on the Tender Years Doctrine, which explicitly favors mothers over fathers. The Tender Years Doctrine The fact that governments are finally taking notice of these injustices is a good start. Hopefully, these hearings will lead to long overdue reforms!
/r/MensRights07/05/25 11:32 PM
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Here is a link to a circulating petition to help this man get justice! Please sign it, and contribute what you can to the cause! An innocent man's life is at stake!
/r/MensRights29/04/25 10:25 AM
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I concur! DO! NOT! GET! MARRIED! EVER!
/r/MensRights16/04/25 01:59 AM
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I concur! The most important thing to realize about false accusers is that they are absolute sociopaths. They care nothing for the pain, misery and suffering they inflict on other people, or on society at large. Ignoring false accusations just makes them worse, because general society has been conditioned by feminist ideology to believe female accusers. You have to fight back, and fight back hard! I know it is frustrating; there are no good options in this scenario. What should you do if you are…
/r/MensRights15/04/25 12:37 AM
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This is absolutely false! Trans men have been vocal about the unexpected social isolation that comes with being male! Trans men are great allies to the Men's Rights movement, as they have firsthand knowledge about the biases that men have to face!
/r/MensRights01/04/25 10:37 AM
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DO. NOT. GET. MARRIED. EVER!
/r/MensRights29/03/25 02:30 PM
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The Empathy Gap: Male Disadvantages and the Mechanisms of Their Neglect
/r/MensRights13/03/25 02:18 AM
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Any progress is good progress! It is especially notable that Governor Whitmer specifically mentioned increasing male enrollment in post-secondary education, where men have been lagging behind for decades. Hopefully, other politicians will follow suit and begin to address other systemic biases against men (divorce law, suicide rates, etcetera).
/r/MensRights28/02/25 01:30 AM
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Thank you for posting this video! I know that Dr. Reeves is a polarizing figure on this forum. Do I wish he was more aggressive in criticizing feminism? Yes, I do. Do I also wish he brought up the specific mechanisms that are used to subjugate men (alimony, child support/paternity fraud, the selective service draft, etcetera)? Yes, I do. Alas, most of the general populous is oblivious to the plight of men. If you try to inform people about men's rights issues by aggressively criticizing feminism…
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:53 PM
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Vice President Vance is NOT an ally of the Men's Rights Movement. Vice President Vance openly encourages marriage and reproduction. He has no regard for the fact that divorce and family courts are some of the most misandric institutions in Western civilization. 95% of all alimony is paid by men to women. Most state family courts operate under the Tender Years Doctrine, which favors mothers over fathers in child custody cases. Anyone who encourages men to risk engaging in these institutions is NO…
/r/MensRights24/02/25 02:17 PM
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Jealous?
/r/MensRights31/12/24 03:48 AM
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97% of military combat deaths are men. 93% of workplace deaths are men. 93% of homicide victims are men. 80% of suicides are men. Seems like a lot of death to me.
/r/MensRights29/12/24 02:43 AM
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I concur! Family courts are notoriously misandric. Increased transparency can only help shed light on the biases of family courts towards women and mothers. As more information is revealed, it can hopefully sway public opinion towards a more equitable system.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 03:35 AM
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DO. NOT. GET. MARRIED. EVER!
/r/MensRights22/12/24 04:31 AM
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Polling question answer: I participate in both the Men's Rights Advocacy and manosphere communities. Although I agree with the general philosophical argument you present, there are several practical obstacles that need to be taken into consideration. The major pillars of society (government, military, religion, corporations) have a vested interest in controlling their citizenry. Citizens, especially men, are far easier to control if they are married and/or have reproduced (as the man now has to …
/r/MensRights18/12/24 04:04 AM
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"No company is better than bad company." At this stage of my life, I am no longer actively pursuing romantic relationships. I am open to meeting someone organically, but if it does not happen, I am fine being by myself. I have my own life to live, and I am not interested in someone if they are more trouble than they are worth. In my experience, most women in Western civilization are extremely demanding (they expect men to initiate relationships, they expect men to pay for everything, etcetera). …
/r/MensRights16/12/24 11:49 AM
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He is probably the most prominent academic who is talking about the issues facing boys and men. Although I do not agree with all of his proposed solutions, I think that any progress is good progress. The fact that we have a prominent mainstream academic talking about these issues is a sign of progress for the movement.
/r/MensRights16/12/24 03:40 AM
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I found some books that may be helpful: Nothing's Wrong: A Man's Guide to Managing Emotions You Will Get Through This: A Mental Health Tool Kit―Help for Depression, Anxiety, Grief, and More Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, and Live Fearlessly The Art of Being ALONE: Solitude Is My HOME, Loneliness Was My Cage The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma Triggers: How We Can Stop Reacting and Start Healing
/r/MensRights03/12/24 01:43 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing this experience! This film goes into detail about this particular phenomenon, as well as other problems in the divorce court system.
/r/MensRights01/12/24 04:31 PM
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Respectfully, I would advise against marriage. Although some jurisdictions are more lenient than others, the divorce court system is extremely punitive towards men overall. Especially considering the financial situation that you have just described (concerning you and your fiancee). I would highly advise that you watch this documentary film. It goes into great detail about the absolute nightmare that marriage/divorce entails. Remember, a marriage has nothing to do with love, God or commitment. I…
/r/MensRights21/11/24 01:33 AM
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How to Win Friends and Influence People One of the original self-help books. It has a lot of good advice for dealing with people in general.
/r/MensRights17/11/24 02:10 PM
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She is absolutely correct. When a woman assaults a man, the man cannot win. If the man fights back, he is a coward for striking a woman. But if he sits there and absorbs the abuse, then he is a wimp for being beaten by a woman.
/r/MensRights10/10/24 03:31 AM
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...That's a shame.
/r/MensRights24/09/24 10:39 PM
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The fact that this is even possible is absurd! Why do governments even allow people to lie on official documents? Establishing paternity needs to be a governmental responsibility. Paternity testing should be mandatory. There can be no claim to paternity until the government conducts a paternity test through a public health agency.
/r/MensRights24/09/24 01:09 PM
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This is disappointing, but not surprising. It further confirms the societal asymmetry between men and women. Society is quick to judge and point out any faults or problems with men, while completely ignoring the systemic biases against men. The overwhelming majority of military combat deaths, workplace deaths, suicides, homicide victims, drug overdose deaths, incarcerated individuals and homeless individuals are men. But society in general is silent on these disparities.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 01:05 AM
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Although I appreciate this data being published by a mainstream media outlet, it still frames infidelity in the typical feminist double standard. When a man engages in infidelity, it is because he lacks self-control. But when a woman engages in infidelity, it is because her male parter is not meeting her needs. Either way, the man is at fault.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 12:44 AM
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Thank you so much for posting this video! Playing the victim is a foundational strategy for feminists.
/r/MensRights20/09/24 11:30 PM
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I think the greater issue is the idea of filial piety. Filial piety - Wikipedia Many traditionalist cultures view children as property of their parents, and not as individual human beings. Children are expected to live their lives for the benefit of their family. The child's individual wants and needs are disregarded, even as the child grows into adulthood. Children who pursue their own goals are seen as selfish and ungrateful. This mindset is somewhat understandable, given that historically, re…
/r/MensRights20/09/24 04:41 PM
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“If feminists did not have double standards, they would not have any standards at all!”
/r/MensRights20/09/24 03:05 PM
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There are several trends currently happening in western civilization that can be attributed, at least to some degree, to the men's rights movement. Marriage rates are in decline Birth rates are in decline Circumcision rates are in decline There may not be a direct link from the men's rights movement to these trends; nevertheless, something has to be causing them. As long as we keep working, we can continue to make progress on these issues.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 02:34 AM
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Thank you so much for posting this interview! Dr. Murrey has a GoFundMe page to help with his legal bills. Any amount of money you send his way will help the cause!
/r/MensRights22/08/24 02:16 AM
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"The game is rigged. But you can not lose, if you do not play." One of the strategies that I advise (especially for men) is to simply disengage from misandrist institutions. Divorce courts and family courts are notoriously misandric. By simply avoiding marriage and reproduction, you can undermine the influence these institutions have. Declining marriage rates Declining birth rates
/r/MensRights22/07/24 09:55 PM
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https://www.livenowfox.com/video/1428819 Is there any way to support this individual? Does he have a crowdfunding website set up?
/r/MensRights21/03/24 07:39 PM
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"The game is rigged, but you can not lose if you do not play." There is no winning for men on these applications. It is not worth your health and/or sanity trying to fight these algorithms. I would advise any man to never engage with these systems.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 04:34 AM
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Any progress is good progress! We have to keep fighting; if anyone lives in Tennessee, please contact your state legislators and the governor's office, and encourage them to support this bill!
/r/MensRights08/08/23 02:24 PM
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She did an accompanying video with ABC news: Norah Vincent: Self Made Man (2006)-ABC News
/r/MensRights08/08/23 02:16 PM
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In general, I concur with what he says. "What is the difference between sex for money and sex for free? Sex for money is cheaper!"
/r/MensRights09/07/23 04:06 AM
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Thank you so much for bringing attention to a wonderful human being! I found another video concerning her work: Breakdown Of The Family-Erin Pizzey
/r/MensRights01/07/23 03:19 PM
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First, I just want to say thank you for sharing your story. Although I am glad you were able to get equal custody with the child's mother, it is depressing to see how much you had to do to justify equal custody. Custody law is still heavily based in The Tender Years Doctrine, which favors women. Hopefully, stories like yours can help push the law to a more equitable default status.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 08:12 PM
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If feminists did not have double standards, they would not have any standards at all!
/r/MensRights13/06/23 09:56 PM
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33% of women admit to going on dates with men just for the free food! These are the women who are willing to admit it. I am sure the actual number is even higher!
/r/MensRights10/06/23 02:16 PM
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I would highly advise against your current course of action. Divorce court judges retain broad latitude to terminate pre-nuptial agreements for a variety of reasons. Even if the agreement is developed by a lawyer, it can still be dissolved by a judge. Unless there is more to the story, your fiancé is expressing behavioral patterns that are deeply concerning. DO NOT GET MARRIED. EVER.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 09:35 AM
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This is a good find! The fact that an increasing number of men's rights advocates are appearing on mainstream media outlets is a sign of progress for the movement!
/r/MensRights29/05/23 03:12 AM
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The only way that these type of situations will end is with a massive counter-suit, specifically against the Buffalo Bills. As long as there is no punishment for wrongful termination, men will continue to have their lives ruined based on accusations alone. I am not a lawyer, but I have to imagine that suing the accusers will not cause much change. Even if it is proven that they are liars, it is highly unlikely that criminal charges will follow. I also doubt they have any substantial assets for a…
/r/MensRights09/05/23 01:41 AM
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Good riddance. Diamond engagement rings are one of the most grotesque scams in human history! The Diamond Cartel: History's Greatest Monopoly Why Engagement Rings Are a Scam - Adam Ruins Everything
/r/MensRights26/04/23 12:50 AM
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If there is a copyright strike against the full video, here are some clips from the official Dr. Phil Youtube channel: The Debate on Andrew Tate and Gender Roles He Helped Cancel Andrew Tate on Youtube Andrew Tate Inspired Him to "Come Out of his Shell" This "Sexual Energy Coach" Says Andrew Tate is a Positive, Masculine Role Model
/r/MensRights08/02/23 12:51 PM
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I concur my friend! Here are a couple of informative videos concerning this issue: Sweden considers "male abortions" Should men have "financial abortion" rights?
/r/MensRights31/01/23 08:05 PM
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I concur my friend! We need to pick our battles. Arguing with random individuals (either in-person or on the internet) serves no purpose. We should focus on legislation and court cases, and support the individuals fighting the important battles. https://avoiceformen.com/ https://ncfm.org/
/r/MensRights14/12/22 02:24 AM
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The Duluth Model claims another victim.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 02:18 AM
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This may have something to do with it: The Tender Years Doctrine
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/22 12:42 AM
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"First, they ignore you. Then, they mock you. Then, they fight you. Then, you win." -Mohandas Gandhi (paraphrased from Freedom's Battle)
/r/MensRights18/11/22 03:30 AM
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Thank you so much for this! Send a message to the moderators about this directory; they may want to pin it to the top of the subreddit so that everyone who visits can benefit from it.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 04:54 PM
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My friend, not only is change possible, change is happening right before our eyes! Two of the greatest weapons that women have when it comes to undermining men are divorce courts and family courts. These entities are notoriously misandrist (Alimony-Men versus Women, Child Custody-Men versus Women). In the United States of America, marriage and birth rates are plummeting (Declining Marriage Rates-United States of America, Declining Birth Rate-United States of America). There are many reasons why …
/r/MensRights28/10/22 04:22 PM
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There was not a singular moment when it occurred. I do not know if I would even apply the label of Men's Rights Advocate to myself. However, the cause of the Men's Rights movement generally aligns with my philosophical views. I have primarily studied the philosophers of Greek antiquity (Socrates, Plato, Aristotle), philosophers of Chinese antiquity (Sun Tzu, Confucius), and philosophers of the Enlightenment (John Locke, David Hume, Thomas Hobbes, Thomas Paine). Throughout my studies, I have come…
/r/MensRights23/10/22 11:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/wiki/doctors/ The childfree subreddit has a list of physicians who will sterilize patients upon request.
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