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People overestimate what they can do in a year, but underestimate what they can accomplish in a decade.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:01 PM
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I can say with brutal honesty that before my divorce, when I was bitter from being a nice guy, I resorted to video game playing. I do feel bad to read your post today. But, I have learned my lesson.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 06:16 PM
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What's a solid way to tell what your league is, In your perspective?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 08:58 PM
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What's a solid way to tell what your league is, In your perspective?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 08:58 PM
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What's a solid way to tell what your league is, I your perspective?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 08:58 PM
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What's a solid way to tell what your league is, I your perspective?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 08:58 PM
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What's a solid way to tell what your league is, I your perspective?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 08:58 PM
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And if OP understood Buddhism he wouldn't be looked for sexual strategy and shit. There are things that exist in the world that give more pleasure than sex and women.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 08:25 PM
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Do what you do and don't listen to bitches here. The whole red pill idea is cringe worthy from a blue pulled faggot perspective.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 08:23 PM
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Fuck this comment and anything else condescending. He owned it, fuck anyone else cringing. The while world is cringing at the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 08:22 PM
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A home inspector came in to my home for insurance the other day. He was so happy to see my home gym and was telling me how he still lifts. The guy is 77 and was in great shape for any age. This guy still slays, his smirk told me.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 09:56 PM
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That's your belief and observation. I live in New England and it is the exact opposite. The HB 8-9 is almost always with a hulking figure who has muscle to spare.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 09:55 PM
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This. This privacy shit is overplayed. I bet you this poster here does not lift for shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 09:53 PM
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Yeah. I wish there was some quality control. Everyone here is an alpha, the Sammy sossa in their prime of pussy slaying. Either that or they do not read sidebar material, and never seem to get out of misogyny.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 09:52 PM
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Yeah, so what do you propose as the indicator of confidence? I am sick and tired of premature fucks starting and commenting on threads. Someone actually said that they found red pill a week ago and it changed their life.wtf.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 09:50 PM
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With all due respect. ALL ACTIVITIES ONLINE ARE TRACEABLE, including your deleted posts.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 09:49 PM
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4 any day, with the only exception that she not be a fucking whale. Can't stand whales, will fuck uglies. Learn to be in the moment, and very little will turn you off in terms of looks.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 09:25 PM
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Asking for Uber receipt is anti abundance mentality as fuck. You really got time for this? Instead, make a video of you squatting your PR and let us check your form. GTFO with asking chick to prove something by showing you something. Trust but verify is not meant to be this literal. I am cringing now thinking about you asking her for a verification of the fact that she only slept with (insert number here) dudes, hope she kept the receipt from those dates. She done fucked that night, it just wasn…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 04:10 AM
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I worked on the root cause. It took me a while. I can give you a list of things here, but I believe that you will PM me when you are ready.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:45 PM
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Also dries a women like Sahara when you do this.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:27 PM
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This is a whole another set of problem and a trait that codependents show. Not being able to take compliments as merely an expression of the other person's perception at that moment and not saying 'thank you', and rather analyzing it or fishing for more compliments is an indication of low self esteem. I worked really hard to overcome mine. Take it or leave it.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:26 PM
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Honest ask: I find myself going alpha-beta-alpha although currently the alpha phase stays longer. Actually, I don't even like to call myself alpha, it's more about how solid NY frame is. Has anyone who was a real beta that transformed to someone who can hold frame regardless, tell me what is the single most important thing that turned it around for them?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 10:53 PM
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Also, getting laid after trying hard, is not appealing to me. I simply am getting to a point where there are more amazing things in life than a woman's attention.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 03:36 PM
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I have seen that living in a city that us not very friendly to people that moved there later in life, my SMV, no matter how much it grows, won't be that of someone in a solid social circle. BUT, I also know that working on myself has already had its benefits. Any other city I visit, especially outside the country, my confidence and persona gets me so much attention. I am working on myself, getting on my grind to try to become that person in this city. I love the city otherwise and will not move …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 03:34 PM
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A man can be sensitive, just not in the presence of a woman. Immediate devaluation and dryness will occur. Especially if the said slipping behavior occurs more than once.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 03:21 PM
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Losing battle, you should only date up if you are ALWAYS upping your SMV. To do that is a lot of work, and not ALWAYS possible. One needs a woman that won't immediately devalue you for slipping once or twice. Slipping is inevitable try to slip when a woman is not around. I have made mistakes of slipping in front of a woman. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 03:20 PM
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Yeah, I hate this "everything I don't do is weak and beta". Some of the most success people that I know have survived addiction. The poster about you obviously does not understand addiction.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 04:28 PM
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Is this through social circle or mostly online dating?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 07:40 PM
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What can one do to get the bigger picture earlier than the 50s? Do you think the advice that is given here about lifting is also relevant later in life? Thank you for taking the time to reply.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 03:48 PM
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Hey man, I was just wondering how it must be like to be TRP in your 50s. I am 32 and would really appreciate if you could PM a little bit about your perspective on women, while you were in your 20s 30s 40s and now. Any advice other than the ones most discussed here on TRP would also be appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:36 PM
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Sad to read this, thinking that I would have been this guy had I not grown a set and let her go. Damn! Just finished a couple round of body beast, ordered a power rack and oly weights. Want to do 240/280/320 big three in 3 months. Wow,I came a long way from being a neckbeard beta who felt entitled to get shit in a relationship. Slowly, but surely making tangible progress and loving myself. I am so happy this summer day!
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:29 PM
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Prior to RP this would be some crazy shit one would say while high and only while high. Just to entertain your beta friends and to laugh about it. But this is the truth. I am just waking up to the realization that women make it so God damned easy for you to fuck them. I still don't get the signs sometimes because of some ingrained RP shit and time and again try to put them on a pedestal, soon as I do that they're gone. Nothing turns a woman off quicker than a guy that topics them on a pedestal. …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:38 PM
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Thanks for you time. I bought a larger house than I actually need for this purpose.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:47 PM
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No need to give him hell. Plenty of college Sophomors can be had for this guy.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:15 PM
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Coach Corey Wayne, who is RP af has something to say about low self esteem women. Look it up. However, I don't think her low self esteem is a concern in and of itself. AWALT, Frame up, proceed with caution.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 05:14 PM
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This, this. I have actually been going semi monk mode because the type of woman I want is just not here. I remember when I traveling the Philippines there was this one particular girl that was EXACTLY what I wanted in a woman,and she still calls me sometimes after 2 years. Just coz I gave her the dicking of a lifetime. Women that I fuck half heartedly call me ONLY if I was deliberately dominant. For someone I really really like, the dominance is a natural occurrence. This post also gives me hope…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 12:03 PM
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This, fucking this. I hate asking questions sometimes because some asshole will not have critical reading skills. I did not quiet know what was it that pissed me off about that, but now I do. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 01:28 PM
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Life is not all about getting pussy all the time. TRP is ironic in a sense that it is a sexual strategy for men, but most core teachings is to build yourself. Take your wins and become a better man, rail will follow you
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 06:25 PM
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Don't use game. read Models by Mark Manson. That will get you on track. Don't be afraid of rejections. I am almost twice your age and get rejected 90% of the time. Sometimes 100% of the time in a given time period. Life is not just about getting pussy. Explore the city, go see Notre-Dame Basilica.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 06:19 PM
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I'd say a STRONG sense of self. Especially self love and acceptance, with a desire to become better every day. Do not expect instant results. I guarantee you, if you develop what you listed there, and add some amused mastery to your life and interactions. You will swim in more tail by the time you are 25 then most men your age. You are young. Stay humble and learn and apply, dont be afraid to try different things. Stay away from drugs and alcohol and potheads.I don't think smoking little weed is…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 06:16 PM
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Congratulations on being a young RP. You can go so far in life. Dress classy. Like James Dean. Learn to create a wardrobe. Do not go to cheap stores to buy clothes if you can avoid it. Hit up used clothing store, have an idea of good brands and buy things that fit. Talk slow, deliberate. Avoid using 'like' or other fillers in your speech. Lots of good luck to you on your journey. Treat women nicely, you are young, just because you are RP doesn't mean you have to act "alpha", you have plenty of t…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 02:51 PM
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Glad you got a laugh out if it.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 05:23 AM
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Probably, and having anxiety does not help.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 05:21 AM
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Just be silent the next time. Look her in the eyes and be silent. You need to work on your frame.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:15 PM
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I don't know about misanthrophy, but my desire to please women is so little at this time that anytime I sense slight disinterest from women,I don't want to keep trying at all. This has meant a lot of no dates. Also, I feel that if someone is not into me a 100%, I don't even want to bother dating them. I don't think I need to explain how slippery this slope is..
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:13 PM
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Your SMV is increasing. I don't even ask these days and get random hugs and off the chain cuddling out of the blue in broad daylight with women. Maintain frame. This is also a shit test. Also, read about the Benjamin Franklin effect, if they are doing you favors, sleeping with them is that much easier.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 02:21 PM
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Not always. You have to be a tad beta with her sometimes. AWALT, but beta insecure women can be managed much better than your strong independent types. You have to make them feel that they are protected. You have to have strong boundaries and everything else TRP mandates. She will cheat if you are beta and a pushover.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 02:17 PM
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I personally would not let an insecure girl go just because of that. Keep frame at all times. Pass her comfort tests. For every 3 times she says I love you, you say it once. Treat her like a child. I had a plate who was insecure and Beta (she was alpha with the guy she was with before, coz she walked all over him). I have thought about upgrading her to semi LTR just because how insecure she was and how well I managed her. She never gave me shit when I passes comfort tests.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 02:14 PM
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This is a deeper issue than some realize. There is something deep rooted even among the most alpha men about getting sick. I think this is one of those times that men feel like they need care. Because our mothers were there and still are when we are sick. We feel we need the same from the partner. There are different levels of AWALT and how high you are values in her eyes. If she is a raging slut, might as well forget about it. If not, you should try to either not show her that your diseases dim…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 11:58 AM
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I meant, act like you are sure, even if you are not.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:43 AM
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First, you must realize that she is gaming you too, by making you feel like the authority in Sydney restaurants. Be slightly aloof and be absolutely sure that where you are going has the best xyz on the menu. Once ordered, if she says she does not like it, give her a wink and say "it's acquired taste, baby. Hope you cook at least as good a breafast". Wink.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:42 AM
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This just makes so much more sense that "dreading" women by saying things out loud. I think I reached a whole another level of amused mastery today. I would like your perspective on LTR, is dating down the way to go, you think? As dreading gets much easier ad I am finding with the women that you don't really care for all that much.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 11:49 PM
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Hey man, initially, I thought you were being a dick. I am not sure how to thank you for making this so clear for me.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 11:47 PM
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Could you share some examples of what you think it means?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:41 PM
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This should be a #1 stickie post. Nuggets like this don't get dropped on RP on a daily. Damn this nigga knows his shit! Kudos.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 05:19 PM
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Communication is not the solution in that case. No matter how big of an asshole you are about it, how much you demand changes instead of asking politely, or how much you bluster and threaten. By communicating at all, you are whining. You are confirming that she is right to disrespect you. She already knows she’s being a shitty cunt. Verbally confronting her about it is an admission that you can’t control this situation any other way. That you’re powerless and have to resort to asking her to gran…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 05:17 PM
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Oh and I feel like smh every time someone simplistically says "dread" game. It works!!!! Maybe it does, if you find a woman that has no self confidence (which means tons of other shitty behavior). I don't want to use "dread" game. Matter of fact, if you have to get to the point where you have to apply dread, you have already fucked up. You just don't realize it yet. Leave.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 05:14 PM
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Fuck dude, don't know what that is. Chasing tail is fucked up because of all this shit. AWALT and most of them have something.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 11:39 PM
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32 also. And kind of in OPs position. I am over the anger phase and don't chase after women I feel are inferior to my SMV. Resulted in a rut. Male friends are BP. But, life is still great, nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 10:31 PM
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This. I made a mistake AGAIN getting into an argument with SJW type feminists. Although I didn't lose frame, I should have just stayed quiet.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 08:27 PM
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Hey man, PM me. I am actually wondering if arranged marriage might be a good idea myself. Maybe we can bounce some ideas off of each other.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:25 PM
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If you actually fucking read my post..
/r/askTRP30/05/16 12:40 AM
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I have known and internalized this since meeting TRP. This is the zest of TRP. If one can master these tests, very little needs to be taught.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:52 PM
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I hear you. I do lift. I am jot as jacked as I would like to be, I am in good shape. None of these friends are someone I trust. They will not hesitate to backstab to seek and gain female approval.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:23 PM
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Why are you escalating shit on text messages? Drop this bitch before your self esteem starts taking a hit. I am sure you have a pretty fucked up frame, if you are arguing with the bitch. Arguing with a bitch is not RP at all. Frame, Frame, Frame.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 06:52 PM
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Tough Love to Indian Race Trolls. Ban anyone who posts race insecurity related question. Useless garbage. Self hating motherfuckers. There was one Indian asshole that tried to constantly cockblock me. Fucking assholes.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 10:20 PM
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There is a lot of vitriol in this comment. TRP is white oriented so it's understandable, also tone policing is discouraged here. Having said that, Betas put white women on a pedestal and worship the ground they walk on. You have a point. Work on your inner game, you seem way too angry at other races hitting on white women. Take them off the pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 10:18 PM
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South Asian man here. 32 in shape and unplugged. Currently monk mode. I am not your typical alpha physically, but I am a leader. Increasing my SMV all the time, job in tech. I get tons of action from women. Only time when I don't is when I hangout with white beta feminists or dirty looking beta Indians who go to the gym to hop on the treadmill. Race whining is for those who do not understand how to become successful. End.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 01:59 AM
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I have been there. I am glad you are OK.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:50 PM
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Important. Very fucking important. Especially cats that don't do well with condoms, there is no better way to fuck yourself over than to say "this time only" . If you go limp with a condom, try taking it easy, breathe and if it does not happen, put on your stoic face and leave or do something other than penetrate trying to prove your manhood. I have this problem with going limp without a condom and that is one reason I am willing to get married and go hard mode. I want kids, but I do not want to…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:43 PM
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It's called not having anything in common. Don't get hung up on fucking HBX find connection first. I don't mean by pedestalizing or beta behavior, but by polarization. Read Mark Manson Models.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 05:59 PM
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I am not black, but angry white dudes is a thing, but like you said. I don't believe anger is towards us, but more towards their own inadequacies. I always get angry super tall white dudes try to fuck my frame up at social settings. I am short and stoic. Most white dudes especially TRPs can tell I am a TRP and we get along fine.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 05:56 PM
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As a non American born, now American ethnic 30+ TRP, here is what I have observed. I get more attention from women now than when non TRP. Going TRP helped me have the white guy mindset, where I am no longer busy in fighting for identity groups and yes manning SJWs. I see things for what they are. I came to America for a reason and I am starting to focus on just that. Make a life around myself that suits me. I am not butt hurt by the realities of not being born here, but I embrace myself and my b…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 05:46 PM
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Fuck! Your BEFORE was me in my previous relationship. Never again. Thank you for the detailed list of things.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:23 PM
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Be careful, although this is great advice, you do not want to be crazy, and invite crazy women in your life, If you don't think it's sustainable. You should act what is closer to your true nature, and crush it.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:07 PM
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Could you elaborate on how or where you are meeting or approaching quieter, shier girls. Admittedly, not being raised in the USA, I sometimes miss the social cues and can't tell personalities without interacting with them a few times.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:04 PM
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3 is great.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:02 PM
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Excellent advice. Especially #1.I am working out like crazy. Went from hiit past year to lifting this year. I have made substantial progress. I really appreciate your time.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:01 PM
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Can't thank you enough. Urologist has chalked it up to anxiety related to divorce. I am not going for the fratboy approach, but a more confident gentleman approach. I may be overdoing the confidence thing, but I am running a group on meet up and I have a standard that I have set up for myself. I don't want to run it like some chump and have people walk all over me. There are enough sheeps that will try to fill in if the wolf is absent and in the end they will run the pack to hell. But I hear you…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:00 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 02:49 PM
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Does she patronize you?/ Verbally abuse you even in the tiniest form? Something is turning you off. I faced a similar issue with my relationship, although a longer one. I was getting tired of pleasing her and then there were insecurities because I did not feel that she was enjoying me enough. She was also patronizing and verbally abusive at times, especially during conflict. Needless to say, I was a uber apologizing deep blue pill person then. I felt the polarity was dead at some point in the re…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 02:49 PM
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Having been through kind of what OP is going through, I can tell that OP is not gay. I think there is more to the story though.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 02:42 PM
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Don't dwell on it. Anxiety will do that to you. Fuck it and move on. Plenty of Fish.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 06:30 PM
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Absolutely read, No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 06:27 PM
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Mark Manson Models, duiscusses this in details, section "demographics".
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 06:14 PM
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I love hearing detailed shit of guys crushing it like you. Way to go my brother. I am soon going to turn 32, due to PUA/MGTOW/TRP and many other Manosphere techniques, I have gained the following in the last year and a half: A sense of Style Confidence IDGAF attitude, still working on it, I was a real "Nice Guy" More love for my borthers in the struggle Putting women off of the pedestal - Like crazy Getting laid even though I have stopped drinking Spotting crazy women and cutting ties, even befo…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 06:00 PM
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I have read The Power of Now and Models. I will try Meditations. Thanks a lot man. I will get better at it, whatever it takes.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 11:53 PM
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I get that. Good analogy. All I am saying is, RP just started working for me, and I see many changes in my approach to women. Naturally, I am getting women to come around, but I am not a natural "Alpha" , I don't necessaily even believe that its possible to become 100% Alpha, if you are not a natural to begin with. It is possible to not be Beta, I think there should be a term for people who are somewhere in between, under-alpha, above beta. That would allow a lot of guys from not beating themsel…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:07 PM
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Do not fucking take her back. You deserve better. remember you served, and that is appreciated by a lot of people, you have an edge already, use it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:53 PM
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It is much better than checking. You did the right thing. ALPHA is paraded around like they are immortals, infalliable creatures when in reality ALPHA is a relative term. Don't aspire to be Alpha, aspire to be yourself, don't beat yourself up.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:51 PM
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Understood. Thanks
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:40 PM
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Its mostly anxiety indudec, I have had physical tests in the past and it is not Organic.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:40 PM
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"Holding Frame" by its premise is nothing but an avoidance tactic, until you master it. It is a way to "cry" about it, only much better. There are BETAs, that will kick an "Alpha's" ass within their domain. Place your average alpha in a surrounding that is completely foreign to him, will he still remain "Alpha", if yes? Then OK, he is "Alpha", I highly doubt it. BUDDHA was alpha, but he did not "suck it up", he naturally understood that reaction is futile. But if anyone has to "suck it up" its f…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:39 PM
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Thanks man. You are absolutely right, it's super anxiety based. I was a REAL beta... I put women on pedestal all the time, sex was a huge deal to me. But now, I can consistently put women where they should be, and hold frame for the most part. Your advice is really awesome because it allows me to see how I can actually change my behavior.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 05:46 PM
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I have moved from typical nice guy tendencies to a jerk, more or less for now. I would really like to start meditation. Do you have another book recommendation in regards to not be offended easy?
/r/askTRP08/01/16 03:10 PM
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Again, not trying to bait you into an argument with the earlier question. I do understand that I have some issues with that being offended easy. But I think swallowing the rp or trying to swallow it has made me have more of a 'fuck you' attitude, where I am unwilling to make amends for my actions, especially with women.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 03:07 PM
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So, I am trying to understand... Do you or veteran rpers not let women know when you are offended?
/r/askTRP08/01/16 03:02 PM
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I have read that book, a couple of times actually. I think this is definitely due to self esteem issues in ways that I do not understand. But I promise to myself today that I will work on it a 100% starting today.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:59 PM
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This, is ultimately what happened.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:45 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to reply. I am learning so much about myself because of the red pill stuff.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:44 PM
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Yes, I am working towards it. I have got some very good advice here. I was not seeing the whole picture.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:44 PM
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That's an interesting thought. Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:43 PM
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Alcohol, will slow your metabolism. Fuck alcohol. I quit since last February. Never going back.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:51 AM
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Great book. Be vulnerable but not needy. Wear your weaknesses, own them and use your strength to succeed.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:49 AM
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Thanks, I will go push-pull on her and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 11:23 PM
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I get it. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 11:22 PM
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Yeah, that my friend is the whole purpose of taking the rp in terms of dating. Because women don't.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 11:20 PM
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do you mean, she could still be a slut?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:09 AM
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Just have some self respect and move on. Why do you want to be with someone who, obviously is not excited to see you. Pipe burst .. really?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:06 AM
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THIS is ME. Among things that have already been prescribed here, what kind of is working for me is focusing on myself and my needs. I also take PROBIOTICS, it has helped me immensely. I am learning to put my needs first and foremost. I am starting to see my needs as priority rather than an issue or a problem to fix. ALso remember, thoughts are thoughts.. they are not a mandate for action. Similarly, Feelings are Feelings, you have no control over them, don't fight them. Accept them, knowing that…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:54 AM
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Send this Guy to Juvenile detention center. Being RP =/= being an attention whore.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:51 AM
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To add, the probability of being raped the second time after being raped once is pretty high compared to a first time rape. Basically, I am not saying that the rape(s) did not happen. What I am saying is that it is too much of a burden for you to bear at this point and tread carefully.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:45 AM
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TL;DR : IF SHE IS NOT GOING TO TAKE LEGAL ACTION, DON"T BE THE KNIGHT WITH THE ARMOR. IF SHE IS, THEN YOU USE DISCRETION TO SUPPORT HER. Have you Had Sex with this girl? It could be one of the two Real Occurrence, but from the way it has been described, I am not fully convinced. Attention seeking behavior, possible stage 5 clinger, unstable, attention whore.. etc. The oddity of the situation is, you cannot "FIX" and should not try to "FIX" her emotional state. Even if it happened, she should pro…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:43 AM
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Thought I'd update. She actually came out and said that all the weird behavior was due to her liking me. I told her I like her too, but am not pursuing relationships. Matter Settled for now , I think. Thanks All.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:30 AM
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May be not a 100% RP, but I am learning: She is yakity yaking .. and says her Name was used in a movie and the character was a slut. I said well that's great. She immediately demanded apology "Apologize to me for calling me a slut" Mind you, I did not call her that at all. I said "I won't apologize, because I did not say anything offensive" She says : "being called a slut is very offensive to me" I say: "She's gotta be kidding me and I won't apologize" Her: "So you won't apologize for calling me…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:50 PM
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They literally have no sexual value for you because they are sluts. Sluts just don't have the same level of value that you want. ^ Couldn't have said it better. But on an average, most women I meet are "sluts".. the shy ones, are very hard to come by.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:43 PM
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. Sex is not the big deal you're making it out to be. This ^ is something very blue pill of me. I believe its one of those things that once is lifted, I will truly be free. I come from a culture where women are seen extremely pure, and this belief is deep rooted. This must be the very first blue pill thing I swallowed, because I cannot seem to be able to shake it off .
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:42 PM
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(Alt+11) I definitely think I need something deeper. How can I ask for something, still maintaining frame? I mean should I just weed out the "sluts" and just go with the shy ones?
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:40 PM
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Any tips on how to? I know I need some kind of mindset alteration.. but how do I get there?
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:53 PM
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Euphemism, Def.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:52 PM
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Bingo. Could you please give me an example of the last line.. have you had any experience where a girl has actually told you that she was more scared..?
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:52 PM
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Amen to that!
/r/askTRP29/12/15 02:45 PM
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Thanks! very well said.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 02:45 PM
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Invoke the white night.... Will have to look that up.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 08:04 PM
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You hit it right on the head. Thanks man!
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:33 PM
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Yeah, I don't orbit. We made out pretty heavily and she was reaching for it the last time we were together in a relatively public space.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:27 PM
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I was thinking along the same lines, I won't beta on it lol. Thanks
/r/askTRP20/10/15 07:03 PM
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Wow, some hard shit...Live and you learn. I am meeting her in a couple of days, should I just cancel that?
/r/askTRP15/10/15 01:39 PM
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Do you keep a journal? I know a lot of people will tell you tricks getting around feeling lonely, but one thing I don't hear is the power of materializing what you are going through. The real kicker is when you come back in a month and read what was bothering you and how insignificant it looks atm. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 03:00 PM
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So.. I realize that the original post got messed uo Text Co versatile with indentation. The original post gave a completely wrong idea. We have not gone out yet. Me: if xyz don't show, we make it a date Her: excited Xyz decides to go with us Her: you and xyz can make out (xyz is a dude) Me: women normally send nudes followed by these texts. Please don't! Her: what? Ewe, what kind of women do you go out with? Me: grown and sexy only ...
/r/askTRP14/10/15 02:51 PM
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Improve your social circle. You might be lying to yourself by thinking she is the one. Guess what? You already know what to do, so snap out of it. Not worth wasting time being friends with anyone you want to sleep with.
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