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nummas/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:27 AM
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nummas/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:56 AM
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nummas/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:18 AM
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nummas/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:39 PM
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Yes. And prenup's
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:58 AM
5

She is just looking for an excuse to end it, as she is most likely interested in someone else, or less likely, is just not feeling it for you any more. A woman always lines someone else up before branch swinging. Take the loss man. Just message her telling you are moving on and don't need to discuss it any further. Ignore all her texts and calls afterwards.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:19 AM
4

It screams soy boy/male feminist/sjw. No sign of masculinity anywhere to be seen. Outfit makeover, more pics of you having fun with others, smiling, get a professional photo shoot even, preferably not by a soy boy photographer or woman.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:35 PM
10

Sounds like she is working an angle to be able to sleep with other guys...
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:11 PM
2

Well? Would you pipe again? Haha. Gold.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:29 AM
8

I'll be one of the rare ones. In my 40s. I don't have kids, never wanted kids, and the older I get, the less I want them. Its a bit selfish and a bit logical for me. I don't want to be locked down socially, financially, with all the time and money needed to raise children. I enjoy being able to just go anywhere because I can. Personal freedom and all that. I have friend's with kids, and honestly I don't catch up with them as much as I use to before they had kids, because I don't really want to s…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:26 AM
9

Tattoos, Entitlement.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:54 AM
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This 100%. I have lived with people when I was younger. Refuse to do it again, I'll happily wear the extra cost of not having to deal with other people and thier mess/issues etc. There is hardly any stress when you are in total control of your own domain. I no longer need to close the door when I'm sitting on the toilet, or when I go to bed. I can listen to "Never Gunna Give You Up" by Rick Astley, or any song by Nickleback and not be judged. /s. If you can afford it, the pros definitely outweig…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:19 AM
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Sounds like she is planning on getting preg. Run...
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:44 PM
1

Twice the competition, twice to chance to stray/cheat.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:45 AM
2

Wants to experience loosing his job because he is too lazy to approach women out of the work place. lol
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:51 PM
1

It because, Grow up, get a job, get married, have children, retire, and die, is what most people have been taught and believe is all life is about. So if you are smart, and and decide to enjoy life the way you want and not waste all that time and money raising children, people get annoyed, because they think you should suffer and be miserable like they did. And fuck you for having nice things because you have more disposable income from not having to raise a kid.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 09:09 PM
1

"This is my future ex"
/r/askTRP29/06/19 05:56 AM
2

The one true way to show dominance, and she is begging for it. Let us know how it goes.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:31 AM
1

Ten Pin Bowling is always fun.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:44 AM
9

^ This guy farts.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 07:11 PM
4

Move the fuck out? How old are you? Are you in a position to move out? Your health and hearing should be a priority well above the bickereof you family.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 09:38 AM
1

Did you just assume her gender?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 04:57 PM
8

Busy with other guys most likely. Those guys have finished with her, so now back to you, the fall back guy, that gives her free attention and validation over text.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 07:42 PM
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Seriously, just got to Walmart or what ever cheap ass clothing store is about and get some new underwear. Don't waste cash on CK or other other name brand shit. I had a plate that playfully teased me about not having CK underwear, I told her if she didn't like them she should take them off me, and she did. I made her put them in the wash and start the washing machine when I had finished with her.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 08:10 PM
2

In fear of fire and brimstone punishment. And a trip to the torture chamber.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 10:47 AM
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Gets new boobs. Gets more attention. More likely to monkey branch or cheat with higher SMV guy due to her implants giving her higher SMV. Definitely do not pay a cent towards it. If it was me, I'd be getting ready to be single.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:02 AM
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She is a plate..... You owe her no explanation. If she messages you why you are away, just let her know you are away for a few weeks and will get in touch when you are back. She doesn't need to know where or with who.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:05 AM
2

"What's his name?" and if she has to think about it, and doesn't answer immediately, she is probably full of shit and you can neg her about it.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:42 PM
1

Your dick has shrunk, or she has gotten looser, possibly from Chad or Tyrone, or monster rubber dildos. Really hope your dick has shrunk for your sake.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:54 PM
1

Also know as " Smell this rag and chill"
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:43 PM
2

Personally if a chick refuses to suck dick, I'm out. Went back to a chicks house one night after hooking up in a club. She refused, I left. She was an entitled bitch about how she never does it which killed the mood for me so bitch didn't get what she wanted if she wasn't willing to give what I wanted.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:36 PM
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Hiding her in fear of her fucking his flatmates, or she is ugly as fuck and he is embarrassed of what his flatmates will think.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:29 AM
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Conspiracy to drag you into a 4way.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:06 AM
1

That is harsh, but allot of harsh truths in the replies also. The one saying that I live by from this site.... She is not yours, it's just your turn.... And for you mate, your turn is up. Always enjoy the here and now with a woman, but ALWAYS, be ready for it to end. Always. It's just how things are, as much as we don't like it. Hypergamy is what it is, AWALT. There will always be the risk of a guy with higher SMV than you. Specially in corporate. And don't live with women.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:44 PM
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Pee on them to show dominance.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:43 AM
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"Bitch better have my money"
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:42 AM
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As long as you are aware of the risk and prepared to possibly get your ass whipped. Go for it.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:30 AM
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C. Telling him will only resolve you of your guilt, but destroy your friendship and things with her and things will get toxic. Own your fuck up and move on.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:08 AM
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It's simple, you should have walked away the first time. There was nothing you could have said or done to turn around the initial rejection, and why you would want to question/continue talking to her instead of approaching more people is beyond me. So as harsh as it may seem, you did harass the entitled bitch by not walking away the first time. You fucked up, learn from your mistake and move on.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:56 PM
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Fuck off it's your fault.... By that statement you are already putting her on a pedestal. Failing miserably. She is getting free attention and validation from your calls and texts and you are getting nothing in return. Propose a time and place to meet up in person that you can actually achieve, if she can't, leave it up to her to reach out to you going forward, and soft next. Minimal to no calls or texts. Start approaching women closer to you. If she is really interested she will make it work. I…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:42 PM
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Celebrities make stupid decisions and follow social expectations like normal people. They are only celebrities, not gods.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 12:18 AM
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It's just a validation Avenue for her. Just say no. You don't have time for snapchat and excessive social media.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:44 AM
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Because it is crack grade reality drama and source of gossip for women. A show about a guy dating multiple women, watched buy women that hate guys who date multiple women. Fucked up hey.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:50 AM
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Go fund me.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:35 AM
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Anywhere you can have a conversation, or where she can talk. Never movies, theatre, or place where you have to sit in silence for first dates.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:14 PM
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She fucks other men for a living ...... So no, probably not LTR material, that's just me.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:02 PM
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That is your only come back? Convince me marriage makes things any better in any way.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 04:21 AM
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If you think only marriage will make a relationship stable you are delusional. A piece of paper, expensive party, a ring that does nothing, and bragging rights will not stop the bride or groom from falling out of love, or potentially cheat, in the future. It will not make any children they have more intelligent, or any different. It is nothing but a status thing that puts a woman on the pedestal where she is the ultimate centre of attention for a day. It does not hold the meaning it once did in …
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:08 PM
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Trickle truth. She told you about the coffee so she could absolve herself of the guilt she was feeling. Guilt of crossing the line, assuming you have set boundaries, or guilt of her kissing or fucking the guy. Handled like a boss. Calmly turned around and dropped her off. No drama from your end. By the book response here. Well done. You have earned some fresh new pussy. Go have fun. I do enjoy reading about a good win on here. It's refreshing.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:52 PM
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Not really my taste in women, but more what I'm willing to tolerate and how much I'm willing to tolerate.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:57 AM
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Manhattan Project has entered the game.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 07:57 AM
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Not sure about where you live, but when my friend ended it with his woman, I advised him to get in touch with every well known divorce lawyer, specially ones that have destroyed many guys, because just talking to them first is technically a conflict of interest, so the woman can't be represented.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 07:21 AM
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Not while women can speak. Not while kids are raised with beta or no father. Not while indoctrination exists. Not with current snowflake generation.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 07:17 AM
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I agree, who the fuck cares. I have eyebrows bushy enough to rake fucking leaves and I still get pussy. Rock what you got and be less insecure.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 07:12 AM
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You have done well to not react on emotion and calmly ask her to leave. The fact that you didn't react and turn it into drama is going to be the best form of revenge against her for you. Hold strong and make no contact with her ever again. Block and delete every form of media associated with her and get ready to move on. Go hang with a guy friend or two and vent if you feel the need. It will sting for a while but you will get through it. Get yourself some rebound pussy if you like too.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 07:07 AM
1

This. Just ignore and change the topic. Her: blah blah ex boyfriend blah. You: Ha ok. Hey have you done much traveling? I'd like to go to blah.....
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:43 AM
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"No thanks, not interested in just being friends, let me know if you change your mind" Now move on.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:52 PM
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Fucking Savage. I thought withdrawing attention was going nuclear, but the seat up is a world ending move.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 05:02 AM
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Do do do do doot
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:28 PM
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Wrap it in Gaffer Tape..... Gaffer fixes everything.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 11:58 PM
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She is an ex, so it really doesn't matter now. And if you still chat with him, just soft next. You may have doged a bullet. No point looking back. Move forward and get on with your life.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 12:37 AM
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You enjoyed the hunt more than the catch. I have same issue most of the time.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 10:19 AM
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No matter how much you try to explain, they will never understand. It's like trying to explain thermal dynamics to a plant. Don't bother.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 09:11 AM
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Random subreddit button on my Reddit app.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:00 AM
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No. Who cares what she imagines. If she asks, just tell her you are not interested in marriage.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:58 PM
1

For me it was most girls I liked contacting me to get in touch with my better looking friend. This was well before I discovered TRP, but I had basically laid the groundwork myself with my thoughts on women and when I stumbled across TRP, it confirmed some of what I already thought and I gained much more valuable information.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:45 PM
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If you still want to go there, send her a message to meet up and see what happens. If she still doesn't want to meet up and would rather get high, think nothing of it and get on with stuff. She may reach out to you at some stage. If your not that interested in her, just get on with stuff as if nothing happened. Just don't overthink it and try and talk to her about shit or apologize. At the end off the day, you said something shit that probably pissed her off and she fired back.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:29 PM
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3 degrees warmer, 3 degrees tighter. And every hole is a goal.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:02 PM
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Demote to Bootycall/Fuck Buddy. Don't contact her unless it's to smash. Ignore all her pics and messages relating to kittens, don't respond. Approach other women and set up a new FWB or two.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 05:40 AM
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You took her home. So whatever her friend said is irrelevant. Just ignore her friend and don't bring it up unless the girl says something, then just say she was jealous and change topic. You don't have time for bullshit.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 07:02 AM
1

I live alone and wouldn't want it any other way. I can't stand the idea of living with anyone anymore be it a guy or a girl. I been living alone for last 5 years. But I'd rather live in the city, not up some mountain, still have needs so city is easy for spinning plates.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 11:43 AM
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Yes. Bail. Jump ship. Time to find a new FWB.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:07 AM
1

Why didn't you block and delete her on all forms of communication when she became you ex?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:05 AM
0

This^ /thread
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:13 PM
2

No problem man. Some will agree with me, others will agree with you. Just different opinions and view points.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:31 PM
5

Sure, if you decide to go some full spastic high top half red half blue died with lightning bolts buzzed in on the side and a wifi signal buzzed in on the back, over a neat hairstyle that suits you.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:14 PM
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I don't see them serving any purpose other than a talking point. Spend all the money, get the work done, now what? Doesn't make your life any easier, or you work any harder, or make you money, or dick bigger. So all I can see is something to show people and compare with others who have them. Like facial piercings and other body mods, just doesn't do anything. Compared to other things that actually service a purpose like a phone, car, watch, shoes. All these items can been seen for validation and…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:04 PM
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"Women are only willing to have nsa sex with extremely high value men (I.e extremely attractive and rich men) and that’s a pretty unattainable goal for regular dudes" This is horse shit. I'm not rich or extremely attractive. I am skinny fat. Dad bod looking mofo. And I have 3 NSA plates I call on when I feel like. sometimes they end it and I go looking to replace them. It's about practice, confidence, and being a fucking warlord in bed. Approach women, fuck them good and make them want to come b…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:39 AM
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Do whatever you like. Do you. Personally I would think you look like another validation seeking try hard regardless what tattoo you get. But fuck me and what I think. You are your own man and can rock whatever you like and you shouldn't give a shit what others think.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:29 AM
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"over and again. I wanna kiss you all over, TILL THE NIGHT CLOSES IN......till the night closes in..,"
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:32 PM
8

Agreed. Just like those who get tattoos. Personally I think it's lame and just a cry for attention, but fuck what I think, be your own man and do what you like. Just keep in mind any modifications you get may negatively impact your chances of getting picked for some jobs.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:44 PM
1

Ok.... So from reading all the posts and replies I have figured out the following. OP is on a religious mission to spread the word that day game is the only one true game.... All beta guys not familiar with TRP need to repent and remove themselves from night game and clubs or feel the wrath of OP. Any one who questions what OP says or offers an opinion of night game or something that does not align with OP's holy self published book will be charged with heresy and sent to live a life of eternal …
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:08 PM
1

Because you haven't blocked her number and every possible form or social media.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 04:46 AM
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Start looking for your own place and prepare yourself to be single.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:53 PM
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2 weeks of pure hatred and spite for anything with a vagina, after that things calmed down and it was a case of not giving a fuck about the problems that women had from there on in. i.e. Chick friends coming to me with guy problems were politely told to fuck off and go bitch to someone else. There will always be underlying disappointment for what women are and how much of a pussy ass bitch i was in my beta days, but I just accept it now and act and approach accordingly when I feel like it. It's …
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:15 PM
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Feminist - instant next.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 12:29 AM
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If your a virgin, how do you know what kind of sex you desire.? At a guess, I think you crave the intimacy/passion but don't want the commitment. You need a fried with benifits.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:46 PM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 08:25 AM
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Hypergamy. I was just watching this vid. It explains things real well. https://youtu.be/3r6kKn5_hUc
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:51 PM
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When she tells you it's over, just be overly cool about it and say, "no problem, it was fun, best of luck" with a smile at the end. And tell her you have to go cause you have something on. Have her things ready for her to take as she leaves. Don't discuss it or let her try and explain her decision to you. Just move on and go do something fun. The fact that you are not phased by it or providing her any sort of drama will be the best form of retribution.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:38 PM
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this. She has found someone better and there is nothing you can do about it. It's time to move on and start approaching other women.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:27 PM
14

I wouldn't worry too much about texting if the dates on the same day. I would have texted her in front of her so she has your number and you see her get the message, that way you know she didn't give you a fake number. In this case, just go and see if she shows up. I usally give 20 minutes and if she hasn't arrived or sent you a text that she will be late, it's time to move on. Chat to other people while you are waiting if you can. If she doesn't show, think nothing of it and do something else a…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:55 PM
2

It means it's time to prepare to be single.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 02:26 PM
2

I always send a confirmation text the night before or on the day. But the rest is fine. I had a first meet up date last sat. She messaged me she was 30 min away, which would get her there around agreed time. I got there on time, she didnt show or msg she was running late and I had a drink and after 20 min I got up and left. It happens.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:46 AM
2

Giving a fuck what others thought of me.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:08 AM
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Nah. 2 people can hire a lane and have as much fun as a group.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:06 AM
2

Something fun. Bowling, indoor mini golf. Or just go to a classy bar that has an open fire. As long as you can talk, apply keno, and have fun.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:10 AM
2

It's spelt "ex-girlfriend"
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:50 PM
1

This. It's good practice. she probably won't be interested, but you can use it as practice. Like having a go at a video game on hard. Nothing to loose.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:28 AM
3

Rubber up. She is a plate, should it really matter? Just don't LTR. Simple.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:24 AM
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I'd appreciate he was respectful enough to ask. So yeah, I'd have no issues, I've had my turn.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:07 PM
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Alphabay. Oh wait.. That site got taken down.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:25 AM
3

"what's his name?" If she doesn't answer immediately or has to think about it, she is probably full of shit. Poke fun at her for using that excuse. i.e. "ha, you don't know his name? well my name is ZenAckley, you won't forget that I hope."
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:22 PM
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+1. Chemical warfare rite here.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 08:22 PM
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Its a case of becoming the guy women don't want to leave because you are that confident, fun, well dressed, you lift, you don't get but hurt, you pass shit tests with ease, dread when nessisary, and if she disrespects you she is the one that's easily replaced without a second thought. It's much easier with abundance mentality and remembering one of the most life changing quotes on here "She is not yours, it's just your turn" All this info is in...... Sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:43 PM
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Ok so she's not cheating, she is just fucking other guy(s). It shouldn't matter cause, you know, plate and all. I would have said something playful like "cool, healthy compitition" and changed the topic. If she is fishing for info about you and other girls, agree and amplify. Her- "I bet you sleep with other girls" You- "yeah, I am a product tester at a brothel" or "yes, all of them" or "only the ones who can afford me" Just don't go into details about others you plate. Keep her wondering.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:30 PM
1

Do you want to fuck her or not? Set up a date. If she agrees you best seal the deal that night.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:51 PM
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She is plate so you shouldn't give a fuck. She admits she is cheating on someone, so instantly not LTR worthy. Continue to smash or work on replacing with a new plate.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 07:41 PM
1

I usally laugh to myself when I here feminist horse shit and just ignore it. I see them as the lesser of the species and most of the crap they spew is as believable as the tooth fairy, Santa, and Easter bunny. I don't have time to discuss logic with a brick wall so I don't bother and get on with living life.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:17 PM
2

+1 It's surprising how many girls get turned on by this.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:05 PM
1

"ok cool, let me know if I'd doesn't work out" Soft next. If she still wants to fuck you again she will reach out to you. Continue plating other women.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:58 PM
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"(not a fan of blocking people.....)" lol you would rather let people get into your head and bring drama to your life than reduce your validation pool (aka friends on social media) by 1? Now that you have blocked your ex on all social media, an I mean all... and her number blocked on your phone.. Put her behind you. She no longer exists. And never see her in person again. If she shows up at your work again tell her to leave and don't come back or police will be involved. In regards to B, just ha…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:53 PM
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/asktrp is still up though?
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:40 AM
7

This guy fucks.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 07:11 AM
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"ok" and soft next. She hasn't offered counter so more than likely she is not interested.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 07:09 AM
4

Never put any woman above career opportunity and your future. Ever. There will always be other women for potential LTR. Career progression chances, not as much. This should be a cardinal rule.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:20 PM
1

Epic fail.... Never have your first, or second date even, at the movies. You can't talk there or escalate easy. You should be taking her somewhere fun, like bowling, mini golf, drinks at a bar, beach.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:19 PM
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"How can I prevent it?"... Why would you want to? You can't force yourself to remain attracted to someone. Specially when there is so much choice.... I'm the same. Back when I use to date exclusively, I was bored within the first 12 months. I don't even entertain the idea of an LTR anymore. I'm man enough to know I'll probably cheat, so why bother being exclusive. Spinning plates is it now, and honestly, I'm much happier this way. Don't have to answer to any woman, don't need permission to do an…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:14 PM
1

Good work. Happy foreign hunting.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:16 AM
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Men are biologically programed to spread thier seed. So a guy not thinking about fucking every decent woman he sees is near non-existent, married or not.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 05:32 AM
1

Rejection & Disappointment
/r/askTRP18/09/18 05:25 AM
1

There is an active movement for single motherhood brought in by feminist shit, basically saying that men are not needed. It's promoted on morning shows and the like. Same mind set as when they push fat women as beautiful.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:57 PM
2

Looks like you have your answer.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:25 PM
2

Google translate. I took a girl home from a night club once. She was Russian, didn't speak any English. Goigle translate got me laid.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:23 PM
3

You will not. You will instead forget this girl exists. There is no salvaging this, you were and still are too pathetic. Side bar, front to back every day for a month min.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 08:44 PM
4

Lied to your face, blatant disrespect, I would hard next. But if you did fuck her Tuesday and don't care that she lied and was fucking other guy, because had sex, then line up your next fuck and continue to approach other woman.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 08:37 PM
2

I was 26 when I thought about kids. I wasn't ready, and strangely, the older I got the less I wanted them. Also the older I got, the more logical I became. I don't see any benifits of having kids besides a 50/50 chance they will help look after me when I'm older. But that's a massive gamble, with all the time and money and the sacrificie of your social life, and the possibilities of something happening to your child before then. Not sure why, but I don't enjoy the company of any kids, not even k…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 08:05 PM
6

Pee on her to show dominance
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:24 PM
1

Why buy a second hand car that needs work when you can get one in A1 condition for the same price?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:47 PM
2

She may also just want the free food drinks and attention/validation. Escalate and if she still not giving it up tell her you have other plans and she will have to go. Obviously have a backup plan in place for this.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:16 PM
1

Or OP could continue to fuck her aswell as others if he can accept the idea of her fucking other guys. Basically a demotion to plate.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:02 AM
2

She is looking for attention and drama and you are spoon feeding her. Regardless of who says what she still wins because you are giving her a response and attention. The only weapon or revenge against a woman is silence. Block her or of remain the pussy ass bitch you seem to be.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 05:45 AM
1

Must of had Mexican last night. Butt hurt.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:38 PM
8

"ok, well this isn't working out for me, thanks for the good times. Best of luck" And begin you new life.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:27 AM
1

Not a case of wanting them to fail. More like waiting for them to fail.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:08 AM
1

Zero fucks would be given. Not your business. As a plate is one of multiple women who you fuck on a non exclusive basis, it is assumed she has multiple other dicks to ride aswell. So yes, you would be a hypocrite, or an idiot that does not know the meaning of the term plate.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:46 AM
1

Nomination for /asktrp comment of the year.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:36 AM
0

Good friend Yes. Colleague not so much.. Possible shit storm that may risk your career.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 04:06 AM
2

A thumb in her ass gives her a little more class.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:07 PM
14

Propose a time to fuck during the week. See if she is keen. If not, continue to fuck her on weekends. Its simple.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:17 AM
2

Every hole is a goal. Fuck em' if you want, or not. Realy doesn't matter. Personal choice/decision. What others thinks is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:33 AM
1

Maybe she was excited to show OP off to her friends for approval and didn't think how detrimental could be. Oh well. OP best bring game.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:24 AM
2

Bring Morgan Freeman
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:22 AM
2

"you should take me for dinner then"
/r/askTRP25/08/18 06:29 AM
3

Do what you want. If your happy to triple date, the do it. If not, don't. You don't owe anyone an explanation or apology. What thier girls think of your high turnover of women is irrelevant. Invite your friends for drinks at a bar or something if you like. Boys night if you like, or if your happy to invite this girls do it. Bring your date or don't. It doesn't matter really. Do what you feel like doing.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 06:04 AM
4

Why do you give a fuck what one hoe thinks? Ignore. Do you.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:14 PM
7

Tell her to join you for a drink (don't ask) and if she is keen escalate. If she isn't keen move on and don't waste time on her.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:38 PM
10

Looks like you were late so she asked someone else. So it's more of a fuck you than a shit test. Sounds like she sees you as one of her orbiter boys she calls on when she needs help with study. Go game other girls.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:00 PM
4

Disrespect from her there. Ghost.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:57 AM
5

Your going to be a dad. Lol
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:45 PM
3

end thread/
/r/askTRP11/08/18 12:22 AM
7

Accept nothing less than head.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:22 AM
2

A law should be in place where if you and your partner both plan to have a child it should be signed and registered, and if the parents decide to separate, and only then child support should be compulsory. So in cases if you get sperm jacked or even just be a dick and not wear a rubber, the chick gets pregnant, and decides to keep it, you are not obligated to pay child support for a child you didn't plan to have and get your income syphoned for 18 years.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:36 AM
3

Will your career be at risk if it doesn't work out with her? Can she go to your HR department? I'm guessing not... So no. You can always get a coffee or lunch at a different location. The only thing is she knows where you work, so vet for crazyness in case she is the type that comes to your work after it ends.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 10:04 AM
1

Random button on reddit app.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 06:56 AM
2

Or just "not sexualy attracted to you"
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:57 AM
1

Most likely she will be meeting high SMV guys through her stint on TV so be prepared for her to be fucking them. So you may need to keep your SMV high in order to complete, or she may disappear. But at the end of the day she is only a plate so it shouldn't matter either way, and you should be fucking other chicks anyway.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:25 AM
-1

"let's fuck and you can decide for yourself"
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:02 AM
1

This 100%. I'm confident that there will not be a shortage of potential plates once your well.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:16 PM
1

"all of the female Latino population between ages of 18 to 29" or some variation of that.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:12 PM
2

Hight risk and pretty much fuck all reward. You literally gain nothing. Let me know something good you can only get by getting married.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:03 PM
2

Fuck yeah. I'm with OP here. I'm getting close to 40, I have had relationships in the past and have zero interest now and just have a few plates. And even less interest in kids. I like the freedom way more that the commitment.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 11:53 AM
1

If you don't want to know. Don't ask.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 10:06 AM
3

"Cop that you fat slag"
/r/askTRP02/07/18 04:13 AM
1

I'm more than happy to be seen as selfish for the quality of life I have and the money I save.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:25 PM
2

/thread
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:41 PM
1

Agreed. She probably thinks your off to fuck other women, just tell her what you are doing and give her a little reassurance. It's not too much to ask.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:11 PM
1

Well the most powerful weapon against women is silence.... But is she just a plate? If so, you have nothing to be pissy about as it's not exclusive. Think nothing of it. Don't bring it up or be salty about it. Continue to flirt, and get on with life.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:52 AM
1

The most feminist not gay by any means guy that has ever posted on here at the very least.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:43 AM
1

You got sex? Who cares.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 09:16 PM
1

Morpheus. Cartman. Derrick. Keith. Gaylord. Iian. (with 2 eyes) makes bitches laugh. Sfen. Rocky. Ling ling. Capitan hero. Namey McName face. Pikachu. It really up to you.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:37 AM
2

Eventually, most of the time. There is always someone better out there for guys and girls. I know I'm not a "fuck one pussy for the rest of my life" kind of guy. I'm sure many other guys can relate. Most girls would have the same line of though as well.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:27 AM
1

No
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:06 AM
1

Does you actually watch that shit?
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:05 AM
2

Fuck this. Only bitches do spiteful shit like that. Your better than this and have a better things to do with your life.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:52 AM
3

Move on. She not that interested
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:43 AM
1

Been mentioned on here a fair bit, but dont hesitate to cut people out of your life that are toxic or bring you down. No one has time for that shit.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:09 AM
6

No, tattoos will always be unattractive to me in 90% of cases. And will always be a sign of attention seeking. Would consider ONS with a tat chick that hasn't gone overboard with them, but would never LTR.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:45 PM
3

As cold as it may sound. You need to put yourself first and foremost in this situation. Your life is always, ALWAYS, more important than hers regardless what you may have been told growing up.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:36 PM
1

A vast majority of guy (and female) friends do it. They find an LTR and disappear of the face of the planet due to putting pussy on the pedestal. Specially guys involved with girls who run the relationship, he doesn't want to upset her by hanging with friends instead of her, cause you know, he may never find another woman like her. Aka scarcity mind set. Nothing you can really do about it. Invit him to a few things, if he rejects all of them, soft next him. Go hang with other friends and or make…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:32 PM
3

Women need to talk like a guy needs to take a shit. Let her yammer, as long as it's not about other guys she has fucked or some other disrespectable shit towards you. Are you fucking her?
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:24 PM
12

Haha, Gold. Done something similar with a bra I found in my room once. Think nothing of it. Laugh it off. You are not exclusive so you have nothing to apologise for.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 04:31 AM
3

This. Fatty just pissed she ain't getting any length off you.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 04:20 AM
1

Any piercing in my view is just like tattoos, a cry for attention. I personally find non-ear piercings a turn off, as with most tattoos.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:10 PM
1

They have a stigma attached for freely shitting in the streets in thier country.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 07:21 PM
1

For the back hair get a bakblade 2.0. I have been using for last 12 months, not expensive and easy to use. Find them at most grooming stores or ebay..
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:06 AM
3

The fact that she has a BF is not really your concern. As long as you realise the BF may want to kick your ass if he finds out. And if he dose she will try to pin it all on you and he may or may not believe her. All that aside, if you want to fuck her then escalate and have fun. Just don't ever consider her as GF material. She is willing to cheat on him, so most likely will cheat on you.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:18 AM
1

Feminist don't like to know the truth behind that statement so no matter what you say or what stat's and proof you tell them they won't have a bar of if. So your options are ignore her. Or wind her up saying "why don't companies exclusively employ women then, it will save them money?" Or sarcastically agree with her. "I know rite! It's a tragedy!" Regardless, it doesn't matter what you say, because she has made up her mind and that's that.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:00 PM
1

I personally tell them I don't believe in Facebook because I have better things to do with my life. Or something along those lines.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:57 AM
1

Epic opportunity for attention for the chick. Army of white knights, and betas at her desposal. Like a drama OD for a woman.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 06:31 AM
1

No. As soon as attraction is gone, or she has resentment to you for any reason, it's over and there is nothing you can do to get it back. Don't waste your time trying.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:12 AM
1

No response is the best response. She has made it clear she is not interested or willing to try. You have better things to do now than respond to her.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:58 AM
8

"Whats his name?" and if she doesn't answer immediately, or has to think about it, call her bluff and continue flirting.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:37 AM
1

Yeah, just time to move on, soft next. She did counter offer her flakes, but too many times. Probably another guy. Could be genuinely busy. It doesn't matter, enough of your time has been wasted. Get to approaching and lining up your next dates with other women.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:34 AM
1

Me 38, personally don't have and never want kids. Just not interested and don't see the point. Social life and freedoms take a hit. Expensive to raise so you usally have to miss out on the finer things in life. A lot to give up just for possible bragging rights and pride and possibly of being cared for when you get old. But hey, that's just my opinion. Like what the others say, make sure you are in the best position to raise a kid if you must have one.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:58 AM
3

You have better shit to do than worry about a reply.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:01 AM
3

You can date whoever the fuck you like. Your not in LTR with anyone. But keep in mind the tinder girl might talk about you to the other chick now, so you may have to be honest about dates with them both. But only if asked and no details to be given, they can discuss that with each other.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:19 PM
36

Every hole is a goal.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:54 AM
1

What do you think you have to gain by getting married? Weather she is willing to 3som or not.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:27 AM
1

Unless the original barber is an emotional gay barber, I doubt he will care. I have a friend who owns a barber shop. He would always cut my hair for free, at times I would have to leave cash on his counter and run so he doesn't try to give it back. I tried a new barber in town that I didn't know, and he did a better job than my friend. So I started going there instead. I was willing to pay to get a better cut rather than a free cut at my friend's. I would drop in and say hi to my fried still, he…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:27 PM
3

Who cares, you tried to initiate, she didn't respond. Her loss. Next.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:49 PM
1

OK doctors orders. What did her dentist say?
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:17 PM
3

Dread.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:44 AM
1

Just use this time to practice approaching women. By the time you lose the weight there will be no approach anxiety issues, it will be second nature, and your quality of women will improve.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:11 PM
6

But if she is showing too much ankle, that's a red flag.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 12:44 AM
1

Once a woman is over you its delusional to think you can get back together and things will be better this time. She ended it because your SMV dropped and probably better guys with higher SMV are lining up to get thier dicks sucked. You can can continue down this path of delusion if you like but she will never see you as the guy you once were when you first hooked up. She will have that beta view of you no matter what you do. Face reality, move the fuck on, and fuck other women.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 08:05 PM
3

You broke one of the cardnel rules. Don't shit where you eat. And you have oneitis. Your only option is date other women and be strictly professional at work and start looking for another job. You fucked up.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 07:50 PM
1

You shouldn't have to ask her to reschedule. The fact that she didn't offer to reschedule when she cancelled is enough proof she is not interested.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:13 AM
2

Fuck getting married. You gain nothing.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:08 AM
1

Those
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:53 AM
1

This. As much as the white knight friend is a pain in the ass and has it in for her and jealous of you, he is rite, and also needs to follow his own advice. "Don't shit where you eat" out ranks everything else in this post. Unless you or her plan on leaving the company in the next few weeks. Remember the hierarchy of what should matter in your life 1. You 2. Your career/income 3. Family 4. Everyone else
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:32 PM
4

+1. This guy is lit. Get a copy of his book and watxh his YouTube vids.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 09:45 AM
2

They are not interested. Maybe be better in bed and they will want a second helping.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:04 PM
9

You: How I plan to take you to X on day X at X time. Something like that. Pushing for a date before you get cought in some pointless or excessive text conversation.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:53 AM
4

/thread.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:46 AM
2

Just do it. Make sure you don't pay more attention to the 3rd wheel. If she is thinking about this I wouldn't consider marriage as an option period. Just means she could possibly leave you for a another guy or girl now.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 01:13 AM
1

Sure be her friend. Watch her with her endless supply of guys, be there for her when she is upset that guys don't treat her rite. Make sure you do everything for her. Take her wherever she need to go. And make sure she never does anything for you, cause that would be just silly rite? That's what friends are for. She will soon see how a guy should treat her with all that effort you put in and will be all like "I'm such a silly girl, levelup1by1 is my kind of guy, what was I thinking!?" and at tha…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 03:14 AM
1

Why are any fucks being given?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 11:21 AM
1

Eat all your vegetables
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:47 PM
4

Every hole is a goal. Nothing to loose
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:38 PM
1

We do the same when out for dinner. First one to touch phone pays for all the meals.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:44 PM
11

/thread
/r/askTRP13/02/18 07:43 AM
2

Lol, this guy fucks. Level 999.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:13 AM
11

Text book. You were blue beta bitch. You found TRP. You unplugged. Hopefully you know where you fucked up. You ended it. Now delete her from your life and do not think about trying again. Time for you to fuck other women.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 09:45 AM
2

Aussie here. For me it was kind of easy as I had started to unplug before I even knew about TRP. Was a typical blue when I was younger, father left when I was 7 so raised by mother. Friend zoned left and right, too nice etc, and finally had enough. Snapped and unleashed on a chick I liked cause she called me asking for info on a friend of mine she was keen on. Had a pure hatred for all women for a few weeks (anger phase) and once the dust settled I suddenly stopped giving any fucks about women a…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:53 PM
1

Because she is a fucking female. Attention and validation is what they live for. She probably wants, or even already has, multiple dicks to chose from. And mind games. She is probably very well aware that you like her more than your willing to admit and is getting off on making you jealous, or wants to see how far you will go for her seems you are locked in her frame and are her bitch. Like I said, find other girls to casually fuck so you can shake this oneitis. Or look for other job. As things …
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:47 AM
2

Honesty I don't care if your not looking for advice about shitting where you eat, because this is one of the reasons you don't. You fuck a girl from work, now she wants to fuck another guy you work with. You are struggling to deal with it because oneitis. Now your place of employment may become toxic because you have to work with them both. Your option now is to deal with it and fuck other women, not from your work, which may help you get over it, or find another job.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 08:39 PM
1

Nope. I get bored. Need variety. Fuck, even if I was fucking a super model, I would still get bored. Biologically we are hear to spread our seed far and wide, and reproduce with multiple partners. Why limit yourself.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 07:52 AM
11

Be fucked.... I don't think I have ever seen so many positive replies on one thread in asktrp. Well done OP. Keep the dream alive.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:19 AM
2

Agreed, her opinion means nothing, you don't plan to hook up with women you work with do you, because your smart enough to not shit where you eat, so if she thinks you less of a man because you apologise and want to keep your down syndrome client happy, who gives a fuck. Income not at risk.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 08:24 PM
1

"I don't need to marry to be happy and have a good life, but hey, that's just me" and change conversation.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:22 AM
2

Found something better most likely. Slight chance she is actually not well. Possibly just getting off on how far you are willing to go to see her. Who knows. Ghost time.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 12:42 AM
2

https://youtu.be/-_n5nbx0Z9s
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:49 PM
3

This guy knows what up.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 04:31 AM
3

Or just looking for a free meal. Go for the kiss on that first date, if she rejects it, you need to improve or she is just there for free attention, meals, validation.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 04:18 AM
5

You need to change your mindset. Settling down is not the end game of life as everyone had been led to believe. Sure, meet women and after long vetting processes, go LTR if you feel the need to be exclusive. But never settle. The first sign of any bullshit from any woman, you be ready to end it without hesitation. Then rinse and repeat the process if you need. Life should be about being the best version of you possible and enjoying it. Women are a side bonus only. They should be privileged to be…
/r/askTRP22/12/17 08:10 PM
5

Haha. Fuck it, if she asked me I would. I once fucked a girl that loved tossing salad. Everyone has different quirks.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 01:14 AM
7

This guy fucks.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:10 AM
32

Plausible deniability. So basically if you two end up hooking up and fucking like rabbits, she thinks she is free of any responsibility because you knew she had a husband/boyfriend and any repercussions that may occur are squarely your fault.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:08 AM
1

Yep. Unless she text you first, I wouldn't bother untill she has time to date. Otherwise your putting yourself in a position as her time hoe and potentially fried zone.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 08:25 PM
3

I agree, tattoos are way mainstream now that you would look like every other guy looking for validation. Why not be one of the rare guys who doesn't have or need one? Bitches ain't going to knock you back if you don't have one and you are confident and know how to fuck. Honestly so many girls where I'm from with hideous tattoos in the most stupid places, it's not cool or attractive. But that just me.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 08:18 PM
3

Ignore all her bullshit, only contact her for smash, take out you anger and discust for her by smashing her good and hard, send bitch home, get on with life. If she gets too much, soft next and find a less cunty plate. Simple.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 08:11 PM
1

I'm listening.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 01:56 AM
1

She wants an instant dad for her kid and wants him, or any guy she hooks up with, to be a part of this kids life. If it was me I'd be hard nexting faster than a Chuck Norris round house kick.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 08:35 PM
1

You don't think you have it in you to provide a stable environment without the need to get married? What difference does signing a piece of paper and wasting money on a party to put a woman on the highest pedestal make?
/r/askTRP14/12/17 08:14 PM
1

That because a majority of people on here see no value in marage, myself included. And maybe half see no value in having children, once again, myself included. What value do you see in marage?
/r/askTRP14/12/17 07:48 PM
15

/thread.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 11:44 PM
1

Context? Your gf? Your mum? Class mate? Favourite hooker? Without knowing much just say ok. And prepare to say no next time she asks for your help with something.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:51 PM
3

Sure, be honest if you like and only if she asks. But not all bitches can handle the truth, so don't be surprised or upset if she bails, as she is only a potential plate.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 04:53 PM
5

Quitting is not the issue. It's a potential being let go in favour of her if HR get involved. I'd start looking regardless.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 03:44 AM
3

Does the time and place work for you? And will it be just you two? If yes then that's no big deal. Go along, escalate and smash. If you are good in bed she will probably be more likely to try your idea next time. And don't be afraid to say no if she tries to control the next date, this will show her you are not going to be her whipping boy.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 07:23 PM
3

Make an effort to find available women. Approach, tinder, practice day game, night game, do something. There are billions on this planet. So unless you are living on Mars, I call bullshit on "no available women"
/r/askTRP19/11/17 09:24 PM
3

I smell a troll.... Anyway, time to ghost hard. Block her on everything and hide. Let some other shmuck bust a nut in her and be the unplanned dad. I had an LTR once who wanted a baby because her friend was having one. She was single soon after.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:13 PM
12

This. Providing the fucking is good, this is a minor inconvenience. Find other plates to suck you dong.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:04 PM
0

r/womensfashion
/r/askTRP15/11/17 08:37 AM
1

Autism maybe?
/r/askTRP12/11/17 04:46 AM
1

/thread
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:03 AM
2

For your financial future, it's the only option. Deflect till you secure a different job.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 01:03 AM
2

I also work in a job with many fine ass women. In my group alone there are 7 out of 8 women HB8 and above. The boss has a preference for good looking women obviously. 3 of these girls flirt with me even though they are all married. I have accepted the fact that I can't do anything with any of them in fear of loosing my high paying job. Only if I get another job, or they do, would I consider perusing.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:33 PM
1

This. /thread
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:18 PM
20

She is giving you tips and explains why rather than looking for dick elsewhere. Take her advice and stop being self conscious about it. She is still attracted to you and wants to make things work. I give tips to girls I sleep with, they learn and enjoy the results of there efforts. Occasionally I get told pointers and apply without question. Everyone is happy.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 07:13 PM
2

Unattractive to her perhaps, but not necessarily to every woman on the planet. The fact that one particular woman does not find you attractive is irrelevant. Feel nothing. Laugh it of and smile. Say something like "well you mother thinks I'm cute." It really doesn't matter. Just don't act/look but hurt/pissy/offended.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:57 PM
2

Unfortunately in some countries, she only has to be living with you for 6 months, not even married, and with the rite lawyer can still take you for half your shit or more. Prenups can be overturned and I have heard of women managing to get stuff in a family trust. There is no safe place from women an lawyers.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:49 PM
1

Weather you cheat on her or not is not the issue here. It's that fact that she has cheated before and it will be highly likely that she will again. One thing you would want in an LTR is knowing the girl hasn't cheated in the past. This doesn't mean she never would in the future, it's just less likely to happen.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 01:52 AM
0

If you are just hooking up and not yet in an LTR, her past and what's on her phone are irrelevant. If your thinking about and LTR your an idiot, you now she has cheated in the past, what makes you think she won't cheat on you? Continue to hook up, enjoy it, but also hook up with other girls. This one is Not LTR worthy.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 08:07 PM
1

Why the justice/vengeance? You want him to end it with her so you have her to your self? Knowing she is a cheating whore? Also knowing it may end your supply of fun free pussy? What's the end game here? I don't understand.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:40 AM
3

If she won't offer the sex, you should not be offering her a committed relationship. It's that simple. Why respect her wishes if she is not going to respect your need for sex in an exclusive relationship? Currently you are her time and validation whore. Pretty much a pushover. Leave her and find yourself another girl who will have sex. Never commit to a girl that won't have sex.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:54 PM
1

Shooting at festivals is frowned upon these days after the Vegas one. Maybe she was turned off by the idea.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 02:34 AM
2

Good man. High 5. Glad we could help.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 09:48 PM
1

Yeah, so any other logical reason to consider it?
/r/askTRP28/10/17 09:28 PM
1

There is still no point to marriage, even if you found a way to secure you cash and assets. Tell us, how does it benefit you? Do you get a pay rise if you marry? Does you government give you a free house or car? Where is the incentive?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:50 PM
2

It was a slip up, she won't do it again, you can trust her. Propose to her, that will help fix everything..... /s
/r/askTRP26/10/17 01:05 AM
0

If you want to be a generic sheep in a flock of boring. Sure, do what the social masses advise you instead of what you want to do.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:14 AM
1

Good guess about knowing everyone will tell you to next her. OP hasn't replied to any of the comments, I'm wondering if he knows what's waiting here and doesn't want to read the truth. I'm guessing he will be a bitch and forgive her and let the marriage go on. Because, you know, she promised never to do it again.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 08:17 PM
1

Just don't validate them, don't compliment them, dont comment or like thier social media crap, no unnecessary messages. Be comfortable saying no when they as for your help and suggest some outer guy to help them. But sure, have a laugh with them, tease and such. Specially if they have hot friends. And don't be shy to let them see you chatting to other women if they are around.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:14 PM
3

Fuck multiple hb 8's & 9's, and not get oneitis.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 05:41 PM
1

Flip a coin.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 11:00 AM
1

Become a pimp or a drug carte leader.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 06:17 AM
1

What was the point of this post then?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 06:59 PM
1

They have a stigma of being loud and annoying, hot tempered, entitled, disrespectful, aggressive and a majority rock the big booty which I personally find unattractive. Would still fuck black woman if I found her attractive. Haven't been in that position yet.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 08:26 PM
2

She is noy your friend. She is a Ice Queen Cock Blocking Thunder Cunt and needs to be removed from your life. I had had my share of cock blocking in the past but this is definitely the worst i have heard of. I Feel for you here champ. As the others said, isolation was your failure here. Lesson learned. But Dam, that's fucked.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 08:14 PM
1

Fuck getting on her good side. The fact that this bitch is the one making the call on who gets to fuck the prize here is enough for a Kim Jong Un style nuclear ghosting. Bitch aint worth being acknowledged that she even exists.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 08:07 PM
2

What relevance does a random woman being pregnant have to do with TRP?
/r/askTRP23/09/17 05:46 AM
4

Savage. /thread
/r/askTRP13/09/17 09:01 PM
2

Get back to reading the side bar, set your self some goals and tests like in NMMNG. Self punish yourself for thinking the old ways by lifting.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 08:58 PM
3

Just smile, and think how funny his point of view is, and how much of a Beta Bitch he is, and be confident that you won't be a pussy ass dick like that. You have said your legit point of view, not much more you need to do.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 08:54 PM
1

Study, workout, be social in person i.e. Join a club or sports team. Hang with guy friends, goto parties and gatherings and practice approaching guys and girls, read in your downtime. Yes, stop wasting time with social media, pc/console games, and excess TV. Also go no fap if applicable.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 08:46 PM
8

Well you seem to have handled it well considering. Immediate blocking and such. It's going to hurt for a bit, nothing to be ashamed of there. Just do not contact her or reply to anything she says. Soon enough she will get the hint and leave you alone. You just need to look forward and focus on your future. Go hang with guy friends, focus on work. It will pass.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 09:40 AM
2

This. Maybe she wants OP to be more like the Chad socially or physically and thinks OP needs to see how amazing he is so OP can start his transformation .
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:53 PM
2

So after an hour talking you was her as an LTR? Ffs. Why do you give a fuck about her ex? You shouldn't have even asked about the pic on her phone. You should have been escalating to get her in bed, fucked her hard and given her new fresh feels. If you were good it could have been a pic of your dick on her phone instead. And you could have had a new plate.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:41 PM
1

No. Late 30s guy here. The older I get the less I want kids. Logically, kids cost allot to bring up, massive restrictions to your social life, mentally draining In some cases, good chance of custody battles with the mother costing you more. And all this money, time, and effort for a 50/50 chance that your kid will help look after you when your older. Does that sound good to you? Fuck that.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:42 AM
1

Yeah, allot of Aussie girls are entitled bitches. You just have to make more of an effort. Think Gaming bitches on medium.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 09:00 AM
1

Some girls like it, some don't. I'm a hairy cunt. I only shave my back and shoulders. Trim my junk. Haven't had a girl bail on me due to a hairy chest.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 08:55 AM
1

Yes she is out of your league. You are too attractive for her.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 04:13 AM
7

Get her to take Morning after to be on safe side. If your worried about catching something wait 2 weeks and go to doctor for a full spectrum STD/STI check up. Continue to fuck with rubbers in the meantime.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 04:04 AM
6

Are you spinning other plates? Or you falling for the first woman that shows you attention?
/r/askTRP25/08/17 08:53 PM
2

Sounds like he needs a new woman more than a new job.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 08:09 PM
3

That's nice, but untill she knows you want more, and agrees to exclusivity, she is still a plate. And i stick by what I said. She has done nothing wrong. You need to get over the fact that she bailed and you couldn't show her off to your friends for validation. If you want something more, don't do or say anything to look but hurt or needy. Play your cards rite and read the side bar and see how things turn out. But also be ready to move on if she is not interested in LTR.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 06:15 AM
4

"Introduce to close friends who haven't met her yet?" .... Sounds like you want to turn her into more than a plate.... If not, she bails due to a hangover? Who cares. She is a plate. "How to deal with it?" Go hang with friends without her. She hasn't really done anything wrong, she advised you she is hung over and may not come. Think no more of it. She is a plate, not your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 05:50 AM
1

Sounds a bit clingy. Ignore, during work hours or when you are busy. Occasionally reply. Arrange next date. Hopefully she will get the hint that you have better things to do than constantly text.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 03:06 AM
1

This is the best questions yet.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 09:23 PM
1

Sometimes it faster than going around.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 07:43 PM
1

If your a guy, and you have a RP related question this is it. But before you ask, read the side bar, and do a search for similar questions in this sub first to see if your questions had already been answered.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 07:41 PM
1

Holy fuck. Answer of the year rite here. /thread
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:53 PM
2

But this is a suspicious play from your ex, so nut 'n' go in this case. Free hugs for everyone else if you like.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:33 PM
1

Op must not give her the chance to cuddle. Bang her, nut, get dressed and say you have to go, no post-bonk talk. Take your triple wrap with you and dispose elsewhere incase she has a sinister plan.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 07:27 PM
6

Dam. I just nut.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 07:05 AM
9

Yeah ok.... Seriously, if she wants to think like that you need to ghost her. Disrespectful bitch. Go fuck other women.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:47 PM
1

I remember reading on here somewhere. "If the rite moment presents itself, EVERYONE is capable of cheating." Doesn't mean they will, but there is a good chance that it will happen. This goes for men and women. Those who think a woman or a guy will never cheat are delusional. There is always a chance.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 09:43 AM
1

There is no law that states you have to reply withing 5 min of receiving the msg. If it's something worth replying to then reply, but whatever you do don't say sorry for not replying sooner. If it's not worth replying to, then don't.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 09:31 AM
1

Face first and burry it in the sand.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:21 AM
1

It's beta as fuck to think you need tattoos to make you Alpha. If you want a tattoo get it for you, not for the attention and validation of others.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:24 PM
1

I'm in my late 30's. Never married, never plan to. Don't have kids, don't ever want kids. Life is good. Still live somewhat of a Bachelor life. Life is what you make it. Don't base your potential future on the choice of others.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 01:38 AM
4

Mostly entitled bitches hear in OZ, just keep approaching and you will eventually find a diamond in the rough. That's what I do.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 08:04 PM
3

Every hole is a goal.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 11:00 AM
-1

Speaking without permission. Any sign of the bottom lip dropping after being told no. Not putting out when she is told.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:38 AM
1

Run
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:27 AM
1

Girl next door feel? There is a reason why some people find her attractive, I just can'tput my finger on it...... Because she won't let me.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 01:10 AM
3

Wild theory here. Try fuck her again the ol' pullout method. If she refuses, I'd be thinking she has been fucking someone else and has caught something or wants to get tested before she barebacks with you again. But by the looks of the other posts you probably won't entertain the idea as this woman isn't like that and you know best.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 05:19 AM
1

And the mentally challenged.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 06:50 PM
1

Try and find out.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 08:28 AM
2

It's one of the biggest risks you will take in your life. High risk low reward.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 05:15 PM
2

Usually with confidence, knowing you have your life on track, genuinely keen to meet people, a smile on your face as you walk in like you just got laid with a model, and not giving a fuck if the people you meet will like you. Having this mindset and loving life aditude helps reflect a positive energy and approachability with you. This can help people want to meet and get to know you. That's just my thoughts.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 08:23 AM
3

It's hard to say without know what you look like, how you hold yourself, how you dress, if you're fit or not, your conversation skills. Do you own the room when you walk in? or do you look all nervous with minimal eye contact like a puppy that has pissed on the floor. It could be anything. Don't think too much on it. If they aren't interested who cares, just say hi when appropriate and get on with life. It may take time. Practice out in the city, enjoy your time and not worry if the room mates a…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:55 AM
4

Dam, remind me not to piss you off...... Hey wanna be friends?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 08:08 PM
1

This is the most logical answer.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 08:04 PM
3

Just end it. Tell her it's not working out for you. You need to think of your wants and needs, not her feelings. I'm sure you have been told no in the past. It's not that much different. Don't explain your reasoning. She will only try to change your mind and you will be back where you started. You want better things in life so go after them. The longer you wait the harder it gets. Act now .
/r/askTRP06/07/17 08:01 PM
1

I think they look lame, desperate and serve no purpose, just like any item of jewelry, but that's just my opinion. As others have said. Who gives a fuck. Own your own style. It's not that much different than fat chicks, most don't like, a small percentage do.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 07:33 AM
2

Good to see. Own you mistake and learn from it. You may have lost your chance with this girl now. Try other girls
/r/askTRP04/07/17 02:14 AM
1

Who else she fucks or dates and how she arranges those is not of your concern. Aslong as she spreads her legs for you and you wear a rubber is all you need to be concerned about. Go forth and smash.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:44 PM
1

Check this out https://www.indifferentlanguages.com/words/run
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:39 PM
2

Leave whatever bullshit situation you are in that forces you to marry.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:36 PM
2

To lower the risk, don't say hello or make eye contact to women with strangely coloured hair or who are overweight.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:32 PM
1

What the...... I can't even..... Oneitis or a screw loose? Surely this is sarcasm rite?
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:30 PM
1

So she's an entitled bitch. She isn't the only one I'm sure. Think to yourself of what the potential beta boyfriend has to deal with and have a chuckle. Get on with your day.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:25 PM
5

Fuck that. I wouldn't even consider a pump and dump with this one. 2 flakes and already asking for money. I would not respond. Block all comms and ghost hard and fast.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:12 PM
2

You fucked up. You are not in an exclusive relationship with this girl and you get all jealous that she is chatting to other guys and storm out like a bitch. It's not disrespectful if she is single.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:01 PM
1

Are you in the top 5% of good looking guys in your area? No? Don't waste your time. Only other guys on tinder are desperate beta.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:44 AM
2

Unless it's brought up, just act like it never happened. Be civil with them as you would with anyone in social situation, showing that you don't dwell on that past and have a life.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:39 AM
3

Random subreddit button.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 05:54 PM
1

Let her hit on you, otherwise forget it. If she does hit on you, you know she cheats, so don't entertain the possibility of a LTR. Simple as fuck.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 08:25 AM
–

This guy kinda knows. https://youtu.be/79tjHotvuy4
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:57 PM
1

100% spot on here. Take note OP.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:41 PM
11

Your going to be a father.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 06:18 AM
7

Your response should be: "Ok, best of luck, it was fun while it lasted" and break all contact. Move on, find other women.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 09:15 PM
1

Step 1. Do NOT move in with any woman, let alone your LTR.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 04:24 AM
1

Not sure if troll post.....
/r/askTRP06/06/17 09:14 PM
15

Withhold attention and see if partner comes back. But in the meantime, prepare yourself for the possibility of being single as there maybe someone else, and attraction for you may have faded.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 04:22 AM
1

Or even if you didn't have abundance and are just half smart, you wouldn't take a risk deemed unworthy.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 08:08 PM
7

Talk to ham about it. Confirm the do's and don'ts. Be respectful, be ready to stop without hesitation if either of them change thier mind. If you feel it to be too risky, don't go ahead with it. It's a ballancing act and there is no guarantee how things will pan out after. Could be smiles and high fives or could be complicated. Make your choice with you head, not your dick.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 07:58 AM
1

I have an undersized soldier. I have not had any girl change her mind once she sees it. Don't worry bout it. 99% of women will be too horny by the time they see it to change their minds.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 04:59 AM
2

Probably because the guy didn't give the reaction she was hoping for, by being all dramatic and begging for her to reconsider and diving face first into her frame. Instead guy accepted the break up and was a man about it rather than a bitch. Girls mind goes into epic melt down because this is not how things were ment to go. Hamster spinning. Score: Girl 0, Guy 1. Guy now needs to get on with life.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 03:36 AM
3

Maybe we should rename this sub to asktrp&dontmarry
/r/askTRP16/05/17 03:24 AM
1

I only use FB to keep an eye on upcoming events like concerts, festivals, shows and such, where I can potentially meet women face to face. I have maybe 60 friends on there. I unfollow every one of them as I'm not interested in what anyone has to post or any cries for validation. So to me these days it's nothing more than a popular gig guide.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 02:52 AM
7

Tell her it's no longer working and it's over, then walk away. Do not explain why and ignore any further contact she tries to make. Block all social media and her number. Make sure you have everything you want back off her beforehand​ so neither of you have an excuse to make contact. Why torture yourself with this woman. Get on with your life.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 05:40 AM
1

If you are happy to fuck the same woman over and over again untill she gets bored of you and starts looking elsewhere for her next adventure and decides to end it or cheat, then sure, enjoy your solitary pussy LTR. As others have mentioned, not everyone is against monogamous LTR, there are just those, including myself, who don't see the point. I currently have 4 plates on the go, 4 different girls that enjoy my company and are fun to hang with in their own ways, 4 different pussys to chose from …
/r/askTRP20/04/17 09:33 PM
9

Well you have told her now. Let it sink in, see how it works, if it doesn't work out and you want to go back to your freedom, end it and don't drag it out.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:50 AM
1

Ok. Was there a purpose to this question?
/r/askTRP19/04/17 06:32 AM
1

Short answer- who cares? Just smile and ignore. Enjoy the company of the girls you are there to get with and business as usual.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 06:28 AM
3

Nope. The older I get the more I hate the idea of kids. Late 30s now. Massive cost and responsibilities and drain on social life and freedom's I currently enjoy and wish to continue enjoying till I die. Not planning on partnering up at all now. Had my goes at LTRs in the past. I get bored real fast and am big enough to admit I would not be faithful no matter if she was a virgin supermodel, I would still stray.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 06:15 AM
13

37, never married, no kids, still don't want either. Life is good. Spinning plates, enjoying life to the fullest. Doing all the things I want to do without having to negotiate or explain myself.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 06:43 AM
1

I realised this shit before I discovered RP.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 08:55 PM
3

I use to bang a chick in an open relationship. Never met the guy, but he called her once while I was there and she told him she was with a guy she met out. He didn't seem phased. It's up to you OP, if you think it's legit and he won't he a problem, tap that ass. Obviously not LTR worthy, so don't go falling for her.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 09:25 PM
1

There is no biological DNA strand programing saying all white girls must avoid brown guys. Get out there and find out. You won't know if you don't try. Continue approaching.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 03:09 AM
1

You only approached 5. Approach another 45.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 11:31 PM
2

Always assume BPD until proven otherwise.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 06:25 AM
1

And whoever wins gets the D as the prize.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 09:21 PM
1

Cool story bro
/r/askTRP09/03/17 10:48 AM
4

Most guys are beta fucks then. If you want to respect you mother you have mother's Day. This woman's Day is just women putting themselves on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 08:04 PM
3

Haha most legit answer today. +1
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:33 PM
1

3 degrees warmer, 3 degrees tighter.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:59 PM
2

She doesn't have to make you a sandwich. That's her reward.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 11:39 PM
5

"Ask your mother"
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:54 PM
2

Ok here is the easy answers. Will she get half? Yes if not more if she wants to. Do we have to be married... No, you only need to be living under the same roof for 6 months and she can go for your stuff. Defacto.... Google it. Will she get the kids.... Yes if she wants to fight for sole custody, unless she is drug fucked junky and you can prove it, she will most likely get majority custody. Child support. If she cares for kids more than you and depending of she works you will have to give up a p…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:32 AM
1

Anything without lyrics is usually the go.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 01:06 AM
1

We have only just met. Calm down. Then change the topic.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 03:28 AM
2

This is the question. Demote to plate probably best course of action. If your not willing to plate, just mentality prepare yourself for the fact that it could very well happen again by either of you and be ready to move on. In the meantime, get over it and business as usual.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:34 PM
0

Yeah the time can be a drag. But if your are smart you can be spinning 2 or 3 plates and have a little variety. I have 3, they all know I sleep with other women, and I know they sleep with other guys. It's a mutual agreement between all. So if I can't be bothered wasting time getting new tail, I have them to fall back on. If I'm keen to put some effort in practice my game I can do so without any drama.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:04 AM
1

And on the other side is me who is in late 30s and only likes casual sex. Have no interest in setting down now or in the foreseeable future. Go for what YOU want OP, not what you think others expect of you.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:38 AM
0

Not at your phone, or down at the floor. Always look ahead like you own the ground you walk on. It shows confidence. Looking down gives off insecurities and weakness. Practice holding eye contact with strangers. If you have to look away look sideways, it shows you see something more interesting, looking down shows your a weak pussy who got embarrassed.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:36 AM
1

I go when I'm ready to go. Could be midnight, could be 6am.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:56 AM
2

Does OP should English learn?
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:51 AM
2

Don't go back to what you know or are use to. Live a little. Find other women to fuck. They probably fuck and like to be fucked differently and it could be mind blowing. Fucking treat yourself.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:37 AM
2

Doesn't like giving blow jobs... That's an instant next for me. It's a prerequisite in my books. Just my preference though.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:27 AM
1

Once you have been zoned, it's hard and most of the time, not worth trying again. She is use to your orbiter qualities and wants the validation you nice gave. Personally I would ghost her, ignore all her messages and attempts to contact and move the fuck on. Abundance mentality is key.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:13 AM
1

Try again when she is a little more sober. If she pulls the just friends shit again, move on and game other women. Don't do her any favours, just be civil and have fun.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 12:45 AM
1

Like others have said, could just because yeast infection or something. Casually mention to her it's probably worth both of you getting checked out but play it cool. She will be fair insecure about it when you bring it up, if she is not already.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:25 PM
17

Well you will see it plastered everywhere: "Don't shit where you eat" hopefully the crew here won't destroy you too much for your fuck up as it happened before you found trp. Basically you are in a sticky situation. Be social with the girl as you don't want to piss her off or it could potentially lead to you loosing your job. But definitely don't flirt anymore unless you or her find another job. Keep it professional.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:05 PM
4

That's bitch thinking. Are you a woman? Read the side bar and grow the fuck up.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:48 AM
3

WTF? It's your best friends girl. Not your best friend. So really, who gives a flying fuck? How does it affect you? Seriously..
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:27 AM
8

Delete/Block her number. She is an ex for a reason. And she is just looking for validation. Better yourself and plate other women. You don't want to fall back in your old ways so don't go back to her.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:28 AM
3

Cut back the cooking yourself. Make yourself basic meals like minute noodles or Eggs on toast. Let her know you want to see her pull her weight with cooking meals before you go back to cooking your nice meals. Work towards a schedule where she has to cook solo for you once or twice a week.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:31 PM
1

Ignore and talk to less dumb girls.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:04 AM
2

I know I like the facial hair I have. And if I meet a woman that doesn't, sux to be her, I ain't changing for no one. Some girls like it, some like clean shaven. It's what you like that matters.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 01:41 AM
1

I lived with people for 30+ years. Since living by myself I would never considered going back to living with people again, specially women. It's awesome. No arguments, bring home whoever you like whenever you like. Can walk around naked if you like. Listen to and watch whatever you like. It's your place. People who are use to living with others worry because they think they will get lonely. I don't. I make plans to catch up with friends if I feel the need. Since living alone I have a more stress…
/r/askTRP13/01/17 05:29 AM
1

It's no different than going into a news agency and asking for a specific magazine and being told no, they don't stock it. Then seeing the girl who served you again a few month's later. Are you going to avoid her for that? Say hi, pretend it didn't happen, show that you are not phased by it at all, have few minutes of small talk if you like, then talk to other women. A bonus is to let her see you being confident and tuning other women, she may like what she sees.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 08:24 PM
1

The general consensus is to withdraw attention, go do something else or chill with friend. If you act annoyed, pissy, butt hurt, you are showing emotions and giving her a reaction which they live for, and in turn you break frame. In future she will learn that when she crosses the line, you are capable of leaving her and doing something else without responding to her shit. The "take no shit" actions you show her will help enforce that you can end it at anytime and replace her without a second tho…
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:52 AM
3

Fish hook shaped ftw
/r/askTRP09/01/17 04:47 AM
1

Time for a change. Improve yourself. Lift, satrt reading sidebar. Make new friends.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:57 PM
2

Your a busy guy. You don't have time for pointless messages. Only reply if you have a genuine question on the end of it. I.e. "Morning, what time is that thing on?" or ”Good night, don't forget to bring that thing tomorrow"
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:21 AM
1

Yes. Tell original plate that something came up and setup another date. Work on new plate.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 03:35 AM
3

There is heaps of posts about no fap on here. Have a look. In short, you get use to the feeling of fap and the visual of above average women on porn doing things that most women wont do. Start by cutting back fap to once a week. Use your imagination instead of visual porn.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 10:02 AM
7

No Fap. No porn. Lift. Eat rite. Work on removing any self conscious isues you may have by reading side bar.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:43 AM
30

Walking away was the best move in this situation. There would have been too many white knights there who would be all in your face for hitting a woman, even if she hit you first.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 07:40 PM
1

What your ex says or thinks is irrelevant. If she is salty about it that's her problem. Not yours.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 09:09 AM
1

Not really. If you don't want to know, don't as.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 08:45 AM
2

Those on TRP who advise against marriage, myself included, see that there is no logical benefit to men by being married. There is more risk, i.e. devorce rape and having to handover over houses and other assets, than reward, what is the reward? All I see is putting the woman on the ultimate pedestal, making her the centre of attention and giving her braging rights. And most guys tend to do it because it's expected of them by partners, parents, and general social and cultural expectations.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 01:48 AM
1

Hide your card until you move out.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 01:43 AM
2

Are you getting her a gift? If so, why even bother with a card? Is the gift that shit that you need a card to make up for it?
/r/askTRP23/12/16 01:41 AM
1

I agree with this. If it was just a fling, Don't bring it up unless asked. If you want to keep your friendship with your mate and want her as a plate, have the balls to ask. If he don't mind, have fun with her but don't bring it up with him any further. If he would rather you not, my advise is to find other plates and retain your friendship rather than risk it for pussy. But it's your call.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:05 AM
1

Pretty much. If you are aware of RP you should know part of it it to help break free of the social expectations drilled into you head as you grew up. Start reading side bar I say.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 02:14 AM
4

Approach new women. Fuck Facebook. Why do these women have to be your exact age?
/r/askTRP19/12/16 06:49 PM
3

You have a post history? So you have been reading on here? It is a cardinal rule plastered everywhere. Never live with a woman.... Specially at your age. I did it when I was younger, lasted 6 months. My advice, don't get comfortable and start talking to other women, as it won't be long before the fights and resentment will start and one of you will be moving out and you will have no LTR
/r/askTRP14/12/16 07:26 PM
1

It's a polite way of saying that your desperation for a relationship and to be loved is a massive turn off for them. Read the side bar and be the confident alpha man that women are looking for.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 08:59 PM
1

For: 1) pussy on tap without having to chase. 2) support I guess? 3)... It's late, I have nothing else. Against: 1) spinning multiple plates if you know what you are doing without consequences 2) no one to question or bitch at things you do or decisions you make. 3) saving money?
/r/askTRP09/12/16 03:31 PM
4

They are plates, not LTR's. Tell them when you like. If you plan on coming back and fucking them again in the future, give then a little warning perhaps. If not, don't say anything if you don't want.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:20 PM
1

If you play Wonder Wall at parties then yes, get a new hobby.... If not, keep practising and enjoy what you do.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:07 PM
1

Put on your most white outfit, as you will be her emotional tampon.... Or be a man and Ignore her and get on with your life.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:19 PM
2

It will hurt. Continue to lift, take your anger out there. Ignore your ex, remove her from your life, block her number and all social media. Start approaching other women to build up your confidence again and get down to fucking theses new women. Have yourself 2 or 3 booty calls on the go. You will soon forget your ex. Do not fall for the first new woman you fuck. Spend time with guy friends. Refresh yourself with the side bar. Is monogamy rite you ask? Personally I no longer believe in it. Many…
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:01 PM
2

Say a generic hi if she greets you and Ignore her for the rest of the time, don't let her see you are annoyed with her being there, enjoy your night/day and approach other girls.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 08:22 AM
1

Haha tell her she ain't the tightest cunt you have fucked and laugh. Followed by ghost. Just don't be or let her see you are but hurt.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 03:56 AM
6

If she leaves him for you she will leave you for someone else at some stage. You know she ain't LTR worthy. Just plate and don't get caught I guess.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 05:20 AM
3

She couldn't have made it any more clear. Forget her, move on, and don't act but hurt.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 03:26 AM
3

I pee on her to show dominance.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 03:23 AM
2

She is wanting a reaction. Don't give her the pleasure or you fall into her frame and potentially risk your job. Ignore. ignore. ignore. Get on with your job.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:14 AM
1

When i was in early 20's, I ended a 1 year LTR, few weeks later the ex made an effort to tell me in person about a guy she fucked who apparently had a bigger dick than me. As harsh as it was, I did reply something like; "well you ain't the tightest cunt I have fucked".
/r/askTRP28/10/16 01:22 PM
1

Stop thinking that girls or having a relationship will, or is the only thing that will, make you happy. Do other things that you enjoy and that isn't time wasting.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 10:32 PM
3

Yeah disrespect there. Soft next like I mentioned, don't show her you are but hurt or she will be less likely to reschedule in the future.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 01:27 AM
1

Bro's before hoes. She needs to get use to it. You are your own person, not hers. And if she doesn't like it she can move on and find a more appropriate beta bitch.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 12:26 AM
16

You were fine to cancel, just should have done it as soon as she said it will be short and she had plans rather than last minute. I would have said or texted "ok, another time" and soft nexted, wait till she made an effort to reschedule. And start approaching other women. Dont let it get to you.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 12:23 AM
3

Could be a few things. Religious reasons, wants to wait till marriage or something bad happened in the past and it brings back bad memories. Has an STI/STD she hasn't mentioned. Hard to say unless she opens up.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:34 PM
1

This is exactly it. You pay to jump the line and get straight to fucking and she treats you like a king, then leaves wanting nothing else from you with the exception of maybe repeat business. Time is money, how much time have you just saved by jumping the line.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:54 AM
1

Haha maybe. Maybe she is keen for 2 guys at once. But is he brave enough.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 04:54 AM
3

Yeah see is a plate. Why do you care if it's a girl or guy she is with. Asking makes you sound beta or jealous, so that's a fail and she seen that. When she advised she is with a friend you should have said ok, or not even reply. If you are concerned about her slutyness, find a different plate. If not, just take precautions. Get your frame back and stop giving a shit about her activities outside your bedroom or wherever, then push for a 3som.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 12:34 AM
2

You doing well. Those messages are her wanting a reaction. Keep ignoring. Even better block her on all social media and chats. Delete her number. It's time to move on and forget she exists. Stay strong.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 11:55 PM
1

Find make new friends that do add value. Start seeing the low value friends less, start declining thier invites to do lame things. It's simple.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 10:21 PM
18

Agreed. Telling her because you feel guilty will only destroy her and make you feel even worse. Own your mistake and move on. Don't tell anyone.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 10:12 PM
1

I had a friend a few years back. He was a fitness instructor, short but fit as fuck. Bald and a definitely not so good looking face, and he knew it. He still managed to hook up with one of his HB7 clients and was in a LTR with her for years. So the answer is yes. Lift and approach.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 09:09 PM
1

Yeah. Ignore. The misfortunes of others due to decisions they made is not your concern. I snicker to myself when I hear people bitch about their lives due to having kids as I don't have or want kids and my life is fairly good. As it is a work place and source of income, it's best not to get in an argument with those you work with over there miserable story's. If you need to, just go talk to other people or chat with the easy going chick. Be civil and I probably don't need to remind you, but don'…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 12:37 PM
1

Do it. Nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:32 AM
2

Total fucks that should be given about this girl and most others is???..... Yeah it's zero.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:20 AM
2

You are obsessed with her. Oneitis. She sensed your desperation and nuclear grade neediness and will not consider you anything more than a source of validation. You mentioned you want vengeance... The one and only thing that will piss her off and getting her hamstring is ignoring her. It sends them nuts. And fuck other women, for your own sanity, to help shake this unhealthy obsession you have for her.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 06:04 AM
3

They were not insulting your mistakes, they were pointing them out so you know not to do it again. The damage is done now. Move on from her and don't look back. With all that beta bullshit you said to her and such, you have lost all credibility in her eyes. Delete all forms of social media you have with her, and her number off your phone so you are not tempted to contact her again. Find yourself other women to approach and learn from this mistake.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 05:30 AM
1

Tell her you are keen. Let her talk to her bi friend about it and arrange a meet up for all 3 of you for drinks. Might not happen the first time as the bi friend may want to assess you before she decides. Or it may happen that night. Just be positive and cool about it.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:59 AM
1

Was this typed up in a haze of bong smoke?
/r/askTRP25/09/16 09:28 PM
3

Why have you reposted this same question? Didn't like the answers in the other post? https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/54d4ef/how_do_i_handle_this_gf_had_an_affair/
/r/askTRP25/09/16 09:01 PM
4

Because you are ignoring her every attempt to contact you and it's sending her bat shit crazy. She is wanting to talk to justify her affair and turn the blame on you somehow. No contact/ghosting/radio silence is like cancer to women. Hold your frame and avoid that bitch like the plague. Follow the advice already mentioned.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 04:44 AM
1

Do you have any photos where you actually smile? Or enjoying yourself with friends? And full body shots? All I see is 2 low quality pics of "resting bitch face" Selfies.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 08:46 PM
1

Context?
/r/askTRP24/09/16 12:07 PM
2

Pee on her to show dominance
/r/askTRP23/09/16 08:33 PM
2

I know I can't be faithful so I chose to make it clear from the beginning that im not looking to settle down. I can't just fuck one chick exclusively, it gets old real fast for me. I like variety. And it's easier and more enjoyable to be single and spin plates. It's the thrill of the chase I enjoy more that the catch aswell.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 08:00 PM
3

Tell her who it is and see if she is keen to meet for a drink. If she tells you to get lost, move on. No big deal.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 05:44 AM
1

It happens. Have a back up plan in the future so if this happens again you can go do something else. Even better, instead of standing there like a lost sheep, practice approaching women. Laugh it off, block the bitch for disrespecting you and leaving you hanging. Don't contact her again. Move on.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 03:24 AM
3

Just agree and amplify like you did with the come closer line. Don't act but hurt or offended and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 08:47 PM
2

Nothing to do with fat chicks. OP wants to fuck a hot 40 yo woman and he is a loser? Who gives a fuck if she is older? Op wants advice on how text game, not your approval of age bracket.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 11:16 AM
1

Lol pussy is pussy. You frigid bro?
/r/askTRP19/09/16 10:36 AM
2

That's a good OP. Enjoy the RP life.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 03:14 AM
1

This is gospel advice. Cardinal rule. Fucking obey this OP
/r/askTRP18/09/16 10:22 PM
2

No. Be brutally honest. "I'm not looking for anything at the moment" or "I don't "need" a girlfriend" Or "I haven't found the what I'm looking for yet" what ever the reason may be.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 10:18 PM
1

She is a lost cause now. An ex for a reason. Getting back with her will not be different than before. Ignore her, get a hobby, hang with and make new friends. She is getting high on how pussy whipped you are for her. She has probably already fucked other guys. Move the fuck on or be a miserable beat bitch for the rest of your life. Delete her number, block all social media of her.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 02:42 PM
1

Allot of the same advice here. End it. Honestly I agree completely whit the ending it idea. If you won't take the advice of the masses at least try this. STOP THE WEDDING. If you want tho try and fix this with all the advice, DO NOT MARRY! Give the relationship at minimum 12 months to change. And if by some miracle the sex life improves, hold off for another 12 months at least before you consider marriage again, make sure she is not faking it for the ring. Make sure it's not the same relationshi…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 09:39 PM
1

Gym is not a source of income. Work is.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 09:00 PM
2

Just be honest and tell her she needs practice, and offer to educate her. She will either be happy to be educated, or be all defensive which is where you soft next and find a girl who is better at sucking dick or willing to learn.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 03:27 AM
3

Yeah well the crew here has spoken and are pretty much in agreement. How about you counter offer and arrange so both of you can watch her ex fuck another woman. Thats just as educational in my eyes and she won't be fucking him in front of you and you will get a good idea how she wants it. If she is happy to do that then it's something, if she doesn't like that idea then it just backs up what everyone else here is saying how she wants to fuck her ex, if she isn't already. Let us know what she say…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:07 AM
1

My personal mission is to be enjoying life to the fullest without the social expectations of settling down, getting married, and having children and not being scared about being alone. Loving it so far.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 01:52 AM
3

I personally prefer Bacon Reader. But that's just me.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 01:32 AM
1

ig fucking nore. If you say that you sound like a but hurt bitch. Fuck other women. Delete and block all trace if your ex. She is an ex for a reason.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:54 PM
1

Tell her she probably needs her cunt tightened...... Nah, probably don't say that unless you don't plan of fucking her now I think about it.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:49 PM
3

No.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:42 AM
1

It's simple. Just ignore it and don't bring it up unless she asks what you think, just say you are not interested and of you need to bullshit to get her off yoir back tell her you are interested in someone else, not from work. But don't sound offended when you answer to avoid her getting all pissy. This is your place of income and you don't want any tension.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 12:13 AM
1

Telecommunications Construction Supervisor
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:44 PM
3

Ignore. Block. Delete.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 06:20 AM
1

Pee on them to show dominance. They will not question your decisions then.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:29 AM
2

Don't shit where you eat. If you want your job to last, don't try to hook up with any work colleagues, shit gets very complicated when things go south. Your place of work is your income, you can't afford to risk it for pussy. Be social and nothing more.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 07:13 AM
3

You need to stop giving a fuck. I'm guessing you have a jealously issue? How many bitches have you fucked? More than one? Double standards in play if so. You need to keep telling yourself that "I can't complain, I have fucked several chicks, get a grip lostinpennsylvania" every time you start to think about it. Next time you meet a girl. Don't ask how many she has been with. If she asks you, tell her that's for you to know and change the topic immediately.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 08:25 PM
1

Stop watching Gilmore Girls. And yes, the advice most of the others mentioned on here.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 02:06 AM
7

She is an ex for a reason. Don't hook up with her again, your just giving her post break up validation and you will probably just fall back into old ways. You need to find other pussy to fuck, that's your best bet. Even better, multiple pussy, less likely to get oneitis. Get your fuck on bro.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:23 AM
1

If he disrespects you have a quiet word to him. If he is just being a dick in general it's not your problem. Just ignore him and invite him less to places. He needs to see the outcome of his stupidly himself, not hear it from you or the group. Like dread with a disrespecting woman.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 09:28 PM
1

Just because everyone you know is getting married and having kids doesn't mean you have to. That's you falling victim to social expectations. I'm in my mid 30s, never married, never will, no kids, don't want them. Yes most of my friends are getting married and all that shit aswell. Still no reason I "need" to. I have had a few LTR in the past. Been on a few dates and all that shit. The thing that makes me angry is more that my friends are throwing their lives away with all the marriage family sh…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 08:23 AM
3

Because she is officially not your problem. I had an ex who I left because she couldn't handle her alcohol and became a thunder cunt when she drank. found out a few years later she was seeing a guy, felt relieved. Think nothing of it, best you are happy for her than a jealous but hurt bitch.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:22 PM
1

OP. Why does she have to be a GF immediately turned into a Wife? Why is this so important? Why not a plate or two? It sounds like you are at gunpoint by someone to have a wife. Please explain.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:08 PM
4

The new girls don't need to know if and what you are faking, its irrelevant. It doesn't matter if she is amazing in bed, do you really want to be her worthless bitch? No pussy is worth the position you are in now. Keep chasing women untill you find a plate as good as her, if not better. Ghost the fuck out of her, you had 50 or 60 and not satisfied? Keep hunting, fuck 100-200 the planet is thriving with pussy. Pack your shit when she is out, block her number and all social media, do not attempt t…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:59 PM
1

Social media is just a validation platform for women and partly for advertising. Not much else use really. I have a fake FB account which I only use to keep an eye on upcoming music events, festivals, concerts. The places where you can approach in person. Never had a twitter account, snap chat, my space, or any other sort if social media.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:12 AM
1

Fuck other women. You were never exclusive with her, why should you care? If she is not fucking you she is probably fucking someone else. Abundance mentality
/r/askTRP18/07/16 10:34 PM
2

Besides some tax benefits in some countries, there is no logical advantage to getting married, only risk. Risk that she will get half or most of your stuff during divorce. Risk of you getting bored of her or her of you which will lead to cheating. Besides social expectations from family and friends telling you "it's what you're ment to do" can OP or anyone give me any reason to consider it?
/r/askTRP07/07/16 03:00 AM
3

+1 This exactly. Been in the exact same position and when mine admitted she had feels, and I reminded her of my position, she didn't have grounds for an argument, and continued to be plate.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 09:53 PM
8

Make her work for it, get her to tongue your ass, or toss the salad as it is known, you may like it. Then she can go prodding with lube. I'm not into guys myself but a recent ex of mine had no dramas doing kinky stuff like that to me. What you got to lose? Kinky gf ftw.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 09:40 PM
1

"What's his name?" And if she doesn't answer straight away and has to think about it, call bull shit on her.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 08:38 AM
10

Goa, progressive, trance, Psy, mostly stuff without vocals.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 12:42 PM
2

I read a lot of posts on asktrp, but for some reason this one got me wound up. If a girlfriend/LTR or Plate (notice how I didn't put wife? Because I don't believe in marriage lol) did that to me, publicly claiming I pay for her shit, I would invoke a nuclear next. That's a big steaming dump on the chest. Best go with what u/MaxLorenz posted. Let it be known to her that you don't take disrespectful shit lightly and hopefully she is immediately educated. Good luck.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:54 PM
-1

Yeah, this is a hard one. Personally I don't rate girls with tats, in my eyes only a very small percentage of girls can pull off a tattoo but the majority look cheep. No point arguing about it, it's her body and she will do with it what she wants I guess. If it doesn't bother you then no issue. If it does bother you there is not much you can do besides suck it up or leave. If it was my choice I would be soft nexting, but that just me.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:30 PM
2

She just wants validation. Do not respond to her and move on. Be civil if you cross paths, plate other women. It's easy.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 11:58 AM
2

She called you a "Sack of shit" that's fairly disrespectful in my books, unless you like being her verbal bitch toy. Put her in her place by telling her you don't appreciate being spoken to/disrespected like that.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:32 AM
1

She is disrespecting you. Put her in her place, and if she doesn't listen, soft next and go plate other women.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:59 AM
7

She called you bitch.... She doesn't deserve a response. If she asked politely you could have replied "I have plans" let her hamster.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:53 AM
2

Meet up with the couple and see if you get along first, maybe at a bar. If you don't want to have the guy suck your dick or whatever your limit may be let them know or ask if that's what he was hoping for to get everyone on the same page. If all are in agreement and keen to proceed, set a time and place and have fun. Myself and a guy friend of mine have had several MFM threesoms, we don't touch each other's junk or anything like that, but once you have done it a few times its easy.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 09:13 PM
1

All this. Word for Word. It's just bitch book or validation book and nothing more.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:09 AM
1

He is a lost cause. Nothing you can say or do. You need to let it go.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 10:51 PM
2

I have cheated. Worth it? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Situational really. But I realized after cheating that I can't help myself and know I will cheat again given the chance. So I just don't bother with LTR's at all now to avoid any potential drama or guilt.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 09:24 PM
4

Respect is earned, not a woman's right. I don't respect many. But the occasional one is possible.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 06:07 AM
3

MDMA is my choice. Don't do it often, maybe once every 3 months but when I do I'm in my prime. Once made out with 3 different girls on the dance floor within 2 minutes. And am sure I met all 680 people in the club that night. Ahh the memories. Alcohol, sometimes works but not as well. I don't dabble with other hard drugs.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 12:38 PM
1

Ok, yeah you fell for her and she could tell. Beta has risen. She can sense it and is probably looking to friendzone now. Let her contact you next and try and be a little more alpha if she does. If you don't hear from her soft next. In the meantime, get back to spinning plates so you don't obsess over her.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 07:53 AM
1

Chocolate bar wrapper and rubber band. Problem solved. /s
/r/askTRP16/06/16 07:38 PM
1

Ok, it sounds like she wants you to start being her bitch with house work and such. Like others mentioned, reward good behavior. But never reward with house chores. Take her out or something is OK because she knows your not going to do it every night, or the Occasional gift. Making the bed, mowing the lawn, washing dishes or any other chore is not on. It's her house and she is responsible for it, you are a guest.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:56 PM
1

Ok, it sounds like she wants you to start being her bitch with house work and such. Like others mentioned, reward good behavior. But never reward with house chores. Take her out or something is OK because she knows your not going to do it every night, or the Occasional gift. Making the bed, mowing the lawn, washing dishes or any other chore is not on. It's her house and she is responsible for it, you are a guest.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:56 PM
1

Ok, it sounds like she wants you to start being her bitch with house work and such. Like others mentioned, reward good behavior. But never reward with house chores. Take her out or something is OK because she knows your not going to do it every night, or the Occasional gift. Making the bed, mowing the lawns, washing dishes or any other chore is not on. It's her house and she is responsible for it.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:55 PM
1

Ok, it sounds like she wants you to start being her bitch with house work and such. Like others mentioned, reward good behavior. But never reward with house chores. Take her out or something is OK because she knows your not going to do it every night, or the Occasional gift. Making the bed, mowing the lawns, washing dishes or any other chore is not on. It's her house and she is responsible for it.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:55 PM
3

Best advice yet. Gold.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 10:31 PM
1

Keep off the fried chicken and sugar laced food and soft drinks/soda. And you might see less pimples. And shower, dont forget to shower.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:37 PM
1

As long as she isn't just in it for validation go for it. The fact she has a guy isn't your concern, it's hers.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 02:09 AM
1

I don't believe in Facebook.
/r/seduction07/06/16 11:51 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat. Getting involved with co-workers can go south and can cost you your job. Remember there are countless other women on the planet. Why risk your job?
/r/seduction06/06/16 07:44 PM
1

Some good pointers here. I recently went on a first meet up date with a hb7, had dinner, few drinks and such. The whole time she did not take her phone out once, I couldn't believe it, she obviously knows a little about respect and manners. Instant points there.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 08:58 PM
1

This 100%. You need to get this whole "have to marry because that's what is expected of me and most people do" idea out of your head and find other things that complete you and make you feel good.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 11:22 AM
8

Say "that's nice" and change the subject.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:01 AM
1

This is a good play list I use heaps. https://open.spotify.com/user/1239987859/playlist/5cSNxDHOv8SZWw4rJgwtsj
/r/askTRP07/05/16 01:08 PM
2

Do it bro if you're confident and want to bone her. Like the others said, if you don't want to touch the other guys dick just make it clear. A guy friend of mine and I MFM chick's regularly without any strangeness. It's fun once you get over the first 1 or 2 times.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 04:35 AM
3

Most of that sounds achievable. How about a social gathering at your apparent? Invite guys and girls you know.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 11:52 AM
1

Nah. I'm not a fan. That's just me.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 10:54 AM
1

Haha this is gold. I have said some funny shit and sent messages that I probably shouldn't have when under the influence of substance. While I haven't asked anyone if they were a Trans, I have messaged chick's I know that I want to have my way with them sexualy. Once the head is clear and I review what I sent to who, I laugh it off, sometimes message saying "looks like a was having a good night" but don't apologize. Sometimes they laugh it off, sometime no reply. Either way, no harm done. No one…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 12:16 AM
5

If you don't want to commit, it's time to let her go. Be honest and say you are not interested in being exclusive and it was fun while it lasted. She can go find someone who wants an LTR. On the other hand of you are considering LTR with this girl, have a good read in this sub on how to maintain rp frame and such in the LTR world.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 11:47 PM
2

I'm brutally honest and make it clear from the start that I don't plan on getting serious now or in the future, they can move on or stay and play, totally their choice. Honesty works surprisingly well.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 05:14 AM
0

Definitely not me. Usually feel relieved and tired.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 10:28 AM
1

Also if you want to fell good afterwards, it should be from getting your dick sucked, not helping someone with study.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 09:00 AM
8

You can feel sorry for people and do nothing. Its not hard. If you help you will be her goto beta guy. You need to focus on your study not hers. There will be other beta pussy's she can goto for help.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 08:59 AM
1

I have cheated before and if was in LTR I would no doubt do it again. So I don't see the point being in an LTR. Spinning plates is more easy for me as I have no interest in getting married or having kids.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:42 PM
1

Agreed, the next day in the afternoon or day after. Need to give the impression that you have a busy life so not first thing next morning or you will seem desperate.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:50 AM
1

Her being married is between her and her partner. Not your concern. Obviously you know how trustworthy she is so forget the idea of LTR with her and enjoy the sex.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 05:09 AM
2

Another time has been agreed, no issue there. They have lives, make sure you do too. Don't text anymore after the time and place is agreed, otherwise you will seem needy.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 09:29 AM
4

Technique bro. Looks aside, if it feels good it feels good. Close your eyes. Use your imagination. I haven't had a BJ from a dude so I can't compare. In my pre-rp days I use to get a BJ off a not very attractive bird. Got me off in less than a min while hotter girls took longer. Technique is key for me.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:43 PM
5

Haha this is funny. I would have done the same as OP. Get a BJ or two for been led on. It's the least she could do for bull shitting.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:07 PM
2

I personally find it a turn off cause I would feel tied down to her now. Knowing I can fuck who I like when I like is what I enjoy. That's just me.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:12 AM
1

Mid 30s here. On par I'd say. Busy times and quiet times.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 06:45 AM
4

Tell her. I would. I don't find it attractive either. To me it screams "I'm desperate and want attention". Phuk dat bich.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 06:44 AM
1

Last time a plate admitted she had feelings for me I told her that I would probably cheat on her, which is true, if we went exclusive and I don't need the drama of that. She continued to be my plate
/r/askTRP03/04/16 08:10 PM
9

OP. Well I can give you my situation. I am in my mid 30s and making $100,000+ per year. I tend to look at big decisions with a logical view and how things will benefit me. 1) Marriage does not benefit me in any way shape or form. So as I got older I disliked the idea even more. Specially the risk of divorce and the women taking everything. I have seen it happen too often. And the thought of having sex with the same woman for the rest of your life? That I definitely can not do, I'm being realisti…
/r/askTRP03/04/16 08:01 PM
1

Set a time and place for Thursday. No further contact until Thursday and that's a message to confirm the date.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 03:32 AM
1

If you just want to fuck, I say go for it. Her boyfriend is her issue not yours. But obviously if you want to be exclusive with her you now know she will have no problem cheating on you too.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 08:25 PM
1

If a chick asks me and I have no intention of becoming exclusive, I'm upfront and tell it like it is. That's just me.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 03:26 AM
1

Shots fired...
/r/askTRP29/03/16 07:32 AM
1

It's been on for about 12 to 18 months. I'm in my mid 30s.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 02:22 AM
2

From the start for me. We were introduced through a mutual friend. And we both wanted nothing more than casual sex which we discussed from day 1.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 08:08 PM
2

I'm have a FWB that I fuck Sundays or Mondays if I like. I never contact her unless I'll want to fuck and vice versa. I send a text saying "what to fuck?" she says "yes" or "I'm busy tonight". I either go to hers or not. No charades or unnecessary contact. It's simple.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:29 PM
1

I stand corrected with the injury. You need to feel free, not bad. You only feel bad cause you are having trouble letting go. When you wake up next your mission is to approach women. Arrange several dates and work towards getting laid. At least 2 chick on the go or you may get oneitis
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:27 PM
1

You state "since I recovered from my injury".... I'm not convinced that you have.... The answers on here are all the same and obvious as fuck. No contact. Throw all her shit out, all if it. And stop asking stupid questions to try and get the answer that no one is going to give you. She is a cheating whore and you need to say that to yourself over and over until you finally believe it. She deserves even less than nothing from you, she can buy new stuff with that other guys money. If you make any …
/r/askTRP17/03/16 08:34 PM
4

I'm mid 30s and the best decision personally for me was to never marry or want children, and still to this day have no interest in either. I have a great job with good income to use as I wish without being questioned. I see so many guys that married and chose to raise a family that are Regretting the choice now and are depressed from missing out on so much.. Always put yourself first.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 07:34 PM
2

She having a bf is not your problem, it's hers to deal with if you get her in bed. With the exception of him maybe finding out and wanting to beat you up for sleeping with his girl. Providing you just want to sleep with her and want nothing more you can play along. If you have/get feels for her and want to get serious, you would have seen first hand her level of loyalty to guys and know you will no doubt get cheated on in the future. Plate option = sure. LTR = Fuck no.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 07:25 PM
2

Put yourself first. Not women. Stop caring for them. Ignore any text they send about any issues they have. If they call and start bitching about a guy cut the conversation short and say you have to go, or if you have the balls, tell them you're not interested, and advise them to chat to someone else about it. They will get pissy and think your a cunt, but don't let that bother you. If they bring up "I thought we were friends" tell them you have enough friends and want something more.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 12:02 PM
3

When I had enough of being Mr Nice guy and getting friend zoned in college. Had a week or so of hating all women. Once things calmed down I just showed no attention and put myself first. Best move ever.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:49 AM
2

Speak/Talk
/r/askTRP11/03/16 01:29 AM
2

No. Just text her a confirmation text on the day of the date and leave it at that. Save all your conversations for in person.
/r/seduction09/03/16 11:36 PM
3

I can kind of relate. One drunk night I went home with a below average chick. She made it very clear that she doesn't suck dick. I said to her, it won't get hard if she didn't, and fell asleep instead. Left the next morning. Bitch not willing to suck dick, she won't get any. Simple
/r/askTRP06/03/16 06:47 AM
1

I deleted my main account years ago. Have a dummy account with a different name and only use it to keep an eye out for music events and festivals. Have maybe 20 close friends I know on it. But un followed all of them as I don't want to see what they post as its usually crap. I never post anything. If people ask to add me to face book I tell them I don't believe in Facebook (I know, a lie of sorts) and prefer face to face of a phone call.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:43 AM
1

I have this issue all the time. For this reason I don't go down the path of LTR or exclusively. This way I don't have to go through the fun process of ending things. Have a hand full of casual girls to sleep with, that way you won't get bored so easily.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:36 PM
3

SMV? Validation perhaps? Wanting to know how they rate in comparison?
/r/askTRP01/03/16 09:09 AM
2

Career progression Own Nice car & house Travel Fuck women casual only Never marry Never have kids. Die a happy man
/r/askTRP29/02/16 11:47 AM
1

And when you realize that you have been lured in you have the choice to soft next.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 09:54 PM
1

This is true. It's a risk you take with all women regardless if they have kids or not. Sperm jacking is real.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 12:25 AM
1

Be honest up front and let them now that you are happy to fuck but have no interest in being part of their kids life. This way you have covered yourself if she wants to talk about it. They can take it or leave it.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 11:20 PM
1

Not sure about other countries, but where I'm from, you don't even need to be married for a woman to get at least half your stuff. You just need to be in a relationship and living under the same roof for 6 months. So in turn I refuse to entertain the whole idea of marriage and will not live with a female.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 10:36 PM
3

Dont waste anymore time. Move on.
/r/seduction31/01/16 07:56 AM
1

Enjoy socializing with friends. Get a hobby. Travel. Enjoy life. Marrage and kids is not a nessity in life despite what the majority think.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 07:55 AM
1

My response when I hear that is; I have enough friends and don't need any more. Smile and move on, as you have been told, don't be a dick about it, and next.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 07:56 AM
3

I'm in my mid 30s and also have zero interest in the social expectations of settling down, getting married, and raising a family. I get asked all the time, I'm brutally honest and tell them I'm not interested and plan to live my life to the fullest doing things I enjoy instead. Like most have mentioned, you don't have to prove yourself to the closed mindedness of others. Enjoy life.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 06:23 AM
2

+1 this. Generally most of my friends and family can't fathom the fact that LTR's no longer interests me. I have had a handful of decent LTR's in the past but now I'm a bit older and I finally see the world how it is, I prefer 2 or 3 plates that know it won't go further than a casual arrangement. They have the chance to leave and find something more permanent at anytime if they wish. They know they can sleep with other guys without concern from me. I find life so much more free as a single, non …
/r/askTRP15/01/16 09:49 AM
1

Simple answer. No. What Benefits does marriage bring regardless if women are twats or not?
/r/askTRP13/01/16 06:48 AM
1

Meh
/r/askTRP02/01/16 08:08 AM
1

Single mums always looking for instant replacement dads. You really want to dive into that mess and throw your life away? Don't be a dick. Life has so much to offer and you will be throwing it away for a woman with potentially bad taste in men. I'm in my mid 30's and will never entertain the idea of kids, my own or someone else's, ever...
/r/askTRP02/01/16 06:47 AM
1

Ignore the question and start talking about something else.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 05:39 AM
1

Hard next.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 12:40 AM
1

Sounds like your her fall back guy. She has control not you. If it was me I'd be telling her that I'm not a fall back and move on and see if she changes her mind.
/r/seduction01/01/16 11:38 PM
1

Let's Just Be Friends
/r/askTRP01/01/16 05:55 AM
1

Yeah, no use advising. If the excess makeup Realy bothers you, best look for girl who doesn't use so much. Abundance
/r/askTRP25/11/15 04:35 AM
5

Please introduce her to me. But all seriousness, the majority of women on this planet want what you want, the whole marry and happy families dream. You will have no problem finding one that wants all that jazz. Man up and let this one go so she can find one of the like minded guys that dream of this, and you find what best suits you.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 08:31 AM
-1

No top knots.........that is all.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 10:50 AM
1

OP I know the feeling. I'm genuinely not in any anger phase at all, life is good, I haven't been in a serious relationship for 4+ years, tried something recently but realised I'm happier living the single life. I see absolutely no point in having a wife or girlfriend. I know I will only cheat on them anyway so why bother going through all the bull shit. I'm in my my mid 30s and have 3 or 4 plates that I can call. Monogamous relationships suck ass because temptaion is a bitch.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 07:13 PM
6

Reply saying something like; "I'm more of an in person kind of guy, let's do coffee (insert time & place here)" I think it shows your more mature than most who just text all the time. And most chick's like mature guys. Thats my thoughts anyway.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 08:14 PM
1

Just a slip up. You apologised, move on with your life and don't dwell on it. If she dwells on it, it's her problem, bitches should not be dressing all slutty and getting offended when called out on it. Showing her any further sign of feeling guilty looks beta as.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 08:33 PM
2

Interesting read. A few interesting opinions. But like a few said, this is probably not the subreddit for this. Im in my 30s had a few LTRs in my 20s, but not many and none longer than 12 months, so does that even classify as LTR? No idea. Persionally i get bored real easy, i dont like to commit or be in a position where i am questioned about what i want to do or locked down to one girl. Its all well and good to say that finding the best that suits you is the big thing to a strong LTR. But how m…
/r/seduction04/10/15 11:13 PM
1

Trust is earned. Personally the very few people i truly trust are all guys (im a guy). What she thinks about your ways of thinking is irrelevant. If she keeps at you about it, ignore her till she lets it go or cut her loose. Go find a better plate that doesnt question your ways of thinking. You have nothing to prove to her.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:48 AM
2

This. Your one and only priority is to make a good impression and get laid, if she if fucking or seeing other guys, that's not your problem, and why would you want to know or care. Rubber up and get your rocks off and make her want you back for more. Golden rule; never concern yourself with the baggage of others.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:45 PM
1

Yes. Like you wouldn't believe. This is why I avoid relationships, because the dont last due to my desire for pussy variety. I always push for FWB where possible.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 09:18 PM
1

Lots of good points in the comments. I have been with bi-sexual girl, we both point out and comment on women. Been with girl that doesn't mind me looking, and in turn I'm cool with her checking out other guys. Also was with a girl that threw something at my head while I was driving because looked at another girl, instant next there. There is a fine line when on a date like this. If it was me, I'd be expected to be allowed to look but, not make it blatantly obvious, and put a majority of my time …
/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:44 AM
1

I have to agree with those who said Fat Chick
/r/askTRP11/05/15 09:10 PM
0

Most parents are stuck in the old ways of thinking, where life to them is all about finding a job, getting a partner, settling down, getting married and having kids. People these days need to realise that you can have an enjoyable life without all the social expectation bull shit of having a gf.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 09:23 PM
18

Response = That's great, neither am I, let's just fuck.
/r/seduction23/04/15 09:30 AM
6

Only text to set up a date. Do all the conversation in person like you prefer. Keep the text direct and short . "I'll met you at preferred Cafe at 5" Punctuation is a must. Spell all words correctly. No emoticons or lol's. Makes you look more alpha and professional. Bad grammar and stupid smiley faces make you look like a giggling teenager.
/r/seduction22/04/15 08:47 PM
1

OP sounds so much like me. I'm not a; Fuck one woman for the rest of my life kinda guy. Don't believe in marriage of any kind. Get bored with women real fast, enjoy the thrill of the chase. Like to have options what girls that I sleep with. I'm much more against the idea of kids than OP. If Kids come to a social gathering my mood drops instantly. I see no logical reason for having kids and throwing 18+ years of my life and money to raise one. I'm on a good income, I can afford nice place to live…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 01:54 AM
2

Glad to help. But honestly, I do wish you luck and hope it works out
/r/askTRP08/03/15 12:03 AM
1

Be ready for the reality that a 20 something guy will most likely not be a life long relationship. Enjoy your time if it becomes exclusive and take note of things you learn during it. Remember its easy for an alpha to up and leave find something else, so don't piss him off with attitude or mood swings.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:30 PM
1

My advice is make her hang with her friends. If she hangs off you too much you will get sick of her real fast.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 09:22 PM
1

Holy fuck. I thought I was the only one. I couldn't agree more. Women that hate kids as much as me is a turn on.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 10:12 AM
1

Make friends. You don't need to be married to be not lonely.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 09:03 AM
5

I have 2. Usually see each one once a week. One did admit that she has strong feelings for me, I was honest and said it's not going to be anything more than it is, and if she wanted to move on i would be ok with it with the friendship continued. Just lay the ground rules down in the beginning. That way all parties know how it is, and feel more relaxed and not worry about the other becoming possessive or attached.
/r/seduction08/12/14 05:34 AM
2

That's a fair question. Why get married? Why not just enjoy each other's company and not be held back together without all the expectations of modern day society?
/r/seduction13/11/14 06:02 AM
1

I'll back you here. I'm not a "fuck one chick for the rest of my life" kind of guy. You meet one woman, and soon after you will see one better and want her.
/r/seduction12/11/14 08:20 PM
2

I can see that with some people I know. All the talk about the pride and joy of raising a child and such. I have friends in family situation that are very happy. I also have friends that are very depressed because they are in a situation they didn't think through, can't go and do things they once could due to the responsibility of having to care for a child and or a evil bitch of a partner. While I can respect those who chose the family life, I'm more selfish and chose to put myself and my persp…
/r/seduction12/11/14 08:05 PM
7

Sure. Marriage / relationship answer :My issue is that I get bored with the same partner after around 12 months on average, I also know I can't be faithful to one girl for long and given opportunity, I would probably not hesitate to go home with another woman. I'm loving the freedom of not having to explain my decisions to go somewhere, weather it be a trip over seas, or a music festival, or whatever. Not all women In relationships give you that freedom of choice. So in turn I rather not get inv…
/r/seduction12/11/14 10:22 AM
15

Marriage is just social expectation in my opinion. I'm 35 and still have zero interest in settling down and getting married or raising a family. I plan on doing what I want and enjoying life as much as possible without being held back.
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:02 AM
1

Put it behind you. Don't bring it up. It will probably make things awkward. Worry about the now.
/r/seduction08/11/14 08:55 AM
1

Stupid
/r/seduction12/10/14 10:09 AM
1

I'm not most of us and have no plans to settle down and I'm in my 30's. There is too much life to enjoy and things to see and do to wast years of your life settling down and throwing hard earned money into raising kids and a wife. But it is an interesting question. I'm lucky to spend a day every few week on approaches and picking up. But when I do its a good feeling. For some it might be an addiction perhaps?
/r/seduction01/09/14 09:19 PM
1

Being able to not give a fuck about things that really don't matter, like what other people think and social expectations of today, and being able to teach others to follow the same thinking for a more stress free and enjoyable life (only if they want, I don't push)
/r/seduction29/07/14 08:07 PM
6

I'm happy to give it a try. False sense of whatever or not.
/r/seduction14/07/14 09:49 PM
1

Oberyn
/r/seduction14/07/14 09:27 PM
1

I totally agree. I'm a new my mid 30's and have been single for over 2 years now. I have cheated once in the past and learnt from my mistake. Then I made sure I ended it with my partner at the time before I done it again. I am not interested in getting serious now as I know I get bored easily regardless of how hot the girl is. I have casual partners now and it's a great arrangement for tending to each others needs without been locked I to commitment. I have a different outlook on life and it doe…
/r/seduction19/05/14 05:24 AM
0

Shots fired.
/r/seduction02/05/14 02:25 AM
2

He OP, Just calm the fuck down. Ask yourself; Am I any worse off? If not, who gives a fuck. Take it as a hint from her for something do with her some day if things go anywhere.
/r/seduction18/04/14 10:22 PM
7

Back hand?
/r/seduction21/02/14 10:24 AM
1

Humor is key. Do you really give a poop what she thinks of other guys? It's all about you. Answer with funny shit like... Meh. I herd he has a small wang. He's got nothing on me. You haven't seen my muscle. He can't dress for shit. Etc...
/r/seduction21/02/14 10:23 AM
2

E - high 5
/r/seduction14/02/14 08:02 AM
-1

I'm sold.
/r/seduction12/02/14 08:58 AM
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