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| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connection | Logistics | nurture420 | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 10:26 PM |
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| 1 | Fumbled a baddie on redditIf someone is triggered by the word chick, it must be a very difficult life for them. Why is everyone so offended by Air these days? | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 06:05 AM |
| 1 | The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!)Man this wreaks of someone under 30 bruh, this is nothing new dude. Good thing you discovered something everyone else already knew since dawn of human time. Glad you’re paying attention, Jesus christ | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 03:58 PM |
| 8 | How to answer - my girlfriend's buddy gave me NEGDude I love the whispering “to make you listen” is fucking gold. This got me laughing so hard, very clever! | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Years of self-help and some therapy later, I still can't approach or find any social success.Personally I have been reading “High Intensity Training the Mike Mentzer Way”, and it’s awesome. Has everything you need to know on how to get started. Any basic training book can help. You can also get nested dumbbells like “Powerblocks”, and workout at home (I do and not a fan of gym culture). Getting bigger muscles and standing taller will do a lot naturally to attract women. Also, I think the thing that will help you the most is building your inner confidence and self belief. The strength tr… | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Years of self-help and some therapy later, I still can't approach or find any social success.I mean physically. Strength training increases your testosterone, confidence and libido. Stop reading and start lifting weights and getting your body as strong and as athletic as you can. Watch your attitude change. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Years of self-help and some therapy later, I still can't approach or find any social success.Hey bro, I don't know if this advice will help or not, but I think the bigger issue is you got to keep working hard to feel better about yourself. I really think rather than worry about approaches, why not spend the next 6 months really training towards a fitness goal? Feeling better about yourself does a WONDER on just making you more naturally upbeat and draws women more towards you. When we get into those downward spirals, they can pick up on that like a scent in the wild. The best thing you … | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Man FUCK I keep getting nauseaous before datesJust go despite the anxiety, fuck it man, just get out there and give it a try. Maybe a few minutes in the anxiety will start to ease. I know many famous musicians would get paralyzing fear even before going on stage, already a big success. Maybe you can use the nerves to your advantage…ask her a lot of questions about herself to help focus on her (and she’ll likely have viewed it as a better conversation anyhow). | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 01:55 AM |
| 11 | Milf (?) wondering how to seduce younger male neighborYou’re going to destroy your marriage, fuck your children up, and lose your home. You’ve been warned. Incredibly selfish. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Hitting up girls from classThere are also things beyond your control: she’s unavailable, she’s uninterested, she has too much going on in life, it’s bad timing. Not every rejection is about you either, it could be just bad conditions. Gotta keep putting yourself out there though, and expect to get turned down more than succeed. But if you keep working on yourself, and caring about yourself, you will be able to keep moving without taking it so personally… | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Went out solo todayI wouldn’t go out on a mission this way, but rather be aware of organic opportunities as they arise IMHO. You will have encounters throughout your day and when you feel a connection with someone—go for rapport building and try to get some contact info! | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionFurthermore, if there was a true chance at romance, I'd find a new dentist and hygienist. Not a PT anymore. Problem solved. Life is too short, carpe diem baby. Especially for genuine love and connection. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionDefinitely a hygienist is not the exact same thing as a doctor. I hate to tell this to you, but this clinic is known for the dentist being a bit of a swinger. It might dishearten you to understand. Unfortunately, seeing my dental hygienist 2X a year for 1 hour is not going to prevent a woman from dating you if she’s really into you. Additionally, I’m not married to my dentist, I can leave as a PT at any time. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 04:08 AM |
| 0 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionLol dude she is a hygienist, not a doctor!! | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionSelf love pal, I'd work on it. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionHey bro, seriously, mental health is probably included in your insurance plan. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionAnyone who jumps into attacks on another person the way you did, clearly has some serious inadequacies man. It wreaks of you. Your twisted brain couldn't understand how a woman could be attracted to you at her workplace, I'm sure. You know life happens. Calling people "dipshits" and going into baby mode is a disturbing thing to witness. I think you have a long way to go on your inner game. This is not how someone who is confident in themselves presents. This presents as someone who despises them… | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionI bet it's your kindness that gets the ladies, am I right? Such a sweet talker you are. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionFor you it has to be pressure. Can't imagine someone would be drawn to your personality. Sorry they fall into me bro. Keep moving. You sound like one unhappy dude. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionp.s, I really appreciate the depth of this response and was very thoughtful. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionI appreciate these thoughts. That's fair. Maybe if I call to get my records, there's a chance, but you're right energetically the tempo is kind of fucked up now. Never know though. She could be thinking about me too. Women catch oneitis too...they get stoked...maybe I was one of the nicer encounters she's had in awhile. But I hear you and it's a mire to start focusing on the missed opportunity. Just keep moving. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionWhile I don't agree with everything here, I think there's some high level wisdom in this, I really appreciate the thoughts. Especially about being decisive. I've been tremendously hurt by a previous bipolar partner (with all the intensity of highs), and so I'm now in a different version of myself. I'm a bit more cautious than I used to be. It really did feel natural to ask in the moment -- I think if I had she'd said yes. I appreciate this thinking. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionThis is actually really good advice. I do have a genuine question for her and need some records forwarded anyhow. The downside is, if we have awkward encounters might not want to go back to this dentist. Fortunately, my ex wife goes here too, and for awhile was considering a new place anyhow to try and carve new neuropathways. But they do such a good job... Will have to consider the pros and cons. I really got a lot of positive signals and it's worth possibly exploring--she was lingering so long… | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionNo wonder you're on this forum. I'm sure chicks don't touch you with a thousand foot pole. You sound sociopathic and evil. Sorry my warm awesome energy gets women leaning all over me and giving me bright eyes. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Tip on how to proceed with next steps following connectionWith all due respect, this is a pretty extreme response. You meet people in life organically, and last I checked, a person (like me) quietly asking for her number in the appropriate way isn't going to lose a person their job. That's actually how people meet each other -- encounters in real life. I mentioned that I chose not to ask because it was not proper timing. That being said, lot's of women are looking for someone, and you never know how you'll meet. Everyone today is so timid and we miss o… | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:15 AM |
| 8 | I cant get a Girl to come over+1 to invite them somewhere nearby, with the option of extending things at your crib. Have your crib ready for her approval. Clean (clean the toilet you scoundrel, just kidding). But really, have it ready and nice so if she does come over its a “nice” feeling and not bringing her into some disheveled situation. This will just get her even more stoked. Anyhow, baby steps my good man. Sounds like at least you’re getting conversations going. Also, maybe you are pushing too fast. Some women really n… | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Woman I had ONS with - hot and cold behaviour (NSFW)She’s playing you and probably has multiple others in her rotation. She’s wanting to keep her schedule free for her other prospects. That’s my best guess | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 02:29 AM |
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