nycgirl777 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	Need Perspective	ADVICE	nycgirl777	/r/RedPillWives	27/03/21 12:07 AM
18	Husband Stopped Wearing Wedding Band	ADVICE	nycgirl777	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/21 06:40 PM
10	Need Advice	ADVICE	nycgirl777	/r/RedPillWives	03/04/21 08:36 PM
4	Time Management	ADVICE	nycgirl777	/r/RedPillWives	04/04/21 04:57 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-4	What do I even do with this information? Next time he asks you about ice cream tell him you’re over it. Never bring it in the house again or have it in front of him again. When he’s at work or you’re on your own, eat as much ice cream as you want. Just get rid of the evidence.	/r/RedPillWives	06/09/21 12:15 AM
7	How to meet likeminded women to befriend? Same!	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/21 10:04 PM
1	Husband Stopped Wearing Wedding Band No he hasn’t gained weight.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/05/21 04:40 AM
2	Husband Stopped Wearing Wedding Band Yes this is the approach I’m trying to take. It only bothers me if I let it. Focus on the positive, approach him with gratitude rather than noticing the bare finger. The hardest part is letting go of the sadness and disappointment I have knowing that our rings no longer carry any meaning for him. They were so special and important to us for years. Neither of us left the house without it. They were our good luck charms and a symbol of happiness at finally having found each other + gratitude for o…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/21 09:32 PM
6	Husband Stopped Wearing Wedding Band Thanks for this thoughtful response. I know he doesn’t question my commitment or feel he is losing me. We have sex mostly daily, sometimes twice a day. 5-7 times a week on average. We did have some issues back in 2019.... nothing out of the ordinary for a couple with young children who both work full time.... meaning no one cheated or anything scandalous——— it was the normal exhaustion, infrequent sex, feeling the baby and toddler took over our marriage, they were the priority over him, etc.... …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/21 09:26 PM
12	Husband Stopped Wearing Wedding Band But also, do most married RP guys not wear their wedding bands? He always has been RP but the ring still held a lot of value to him	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/21 06:56 PM
1	Husband Stopped Wearing Wedding Band He has been RP for years, not a sudden change in that regard.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/21 06:47 PM
8	Any wives familiar with Laura Doyle’s Intimacy Skills want to start a discussion group (Surrendered Circle)? It’s important to know that his actions have nothing to do with you. Just as it’s not a spouses fault if their alcoholic spouse takes a sip of booze, or a smoker lights a cigarette, or a gambling addict places “one last bet” They are compulsions in response to an addiction (or a disease, depending on what you believe). I think it’s great that you’re implementing Laura Doyle’s principles and it certainly will benefit your marriage when he’s healthy and able to be fully present again. But addicts …	/r/RedPillWives	03/04/21 02:39 AM
1	What to do when your husband is “manly” when gender roles benefit him and extremely “un-manly” when they don’t? I also agree with the poster above. I’m late to this but the thread came up in a different search and I’m responding in case you’re still dealing with this. My husband also does this- if we have different interpretations of events I’m wrong/gaslighting him/a horrible person because his memory is perfect and he’s always right. When we argue he can scream and yell and say terrible things to me or just laugh at me and walk away - but if I’m stressed about something else and seem short in a response…	/r/RedPillWives	09/03/21 05:54 PM