My husband texted me asking for a phone number, at the time I was in the car, so I forwarded the screenshot of the phone number, which was how the person I got it from sent it to me.

A few minutes later I got home and was due on a conference call for work, when he called me asking me why I had the nerve to send a screenshot, criticizing me, calling me names....

because I should have entered the number into my phone and sent him a contact that he could click to call. He said it was ridiculous that I expect him to have to go back and forth between a screenshot to dial a number, etc.

I told him it was how I received it, I was in the car when I sent it, but that I’d enter it myself into my phone and then send him the number as a contact instead (which I did).

I then asked if that was the only reason he called, he said yes and that he’s coming home soon. I said ok and sighed, to which he responded “well then F—- you” and hung up on me.

When he got home he said I had an attitude problem and that he was now not going to dinner with me. He asked why I sighed, I said because I was disappointed that that was the only reason he called. (Hoping to get a “how’s your day” or really anything else besides anger and contempt)

Then he left the house and has barely been speaking to me the rest of the evening because of my “attitude” — which literally was me sighing and saying Ok.

Does the punishment fit the crime here? How do I handle this?