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| 188 | I asked him why he's poly and the answer is what you'd expect. | LVM LOGIC | oasisreverie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 02:48 PM |
| 165 | Men Who Treat Boundaries like Preferences | oasisreverie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:37 AM | |
| 118 | Just got banned from r/art for calling out misogyny. | REDDIT HATES WOMEN | oasisreverie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:45 PM |
| 32 | A man recounts how he lied to a girl about his age for sex and is applauded. | LIES MEN TELL | oasisreverie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 08:12 PM |
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| 5 | Feeling the need to dump your trauma is a form of codependency. Don’t tell romantic interests your traumas until you’ve vetted them with time and patience. Best case scenario is to never tell them at all.Yes, definitely don't drop all the info on a man, making him your therapist. That is just a recipe for disaster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Do not date "newly single" or "recently separated" men. You are not an emotional support animal.Don't be like me, kids. I dated a man who was still legally married to his wife. He didn't mention that to me at first. He glossed over it like it was no big deal two months in. I was horrified. I thought they had divorced because he told me that she was his ex wife. If a guy has an ex wife and kids, be extra cautious. If they are recently separated, nothing good will come of it. Men refuse to go to therapy because they think having emotions and feelings are a sign of weakness. They run head fir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:50 PM |
| 3 | I mean since we’re talking genders...Be careful. Every time the pay gap gets mentioned online some dude comes in to explain how it's actually a "myth!" Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts?Yes, and libfems never talk about how sex workers have a higher rate of suicide attempts, mental illnesses, and drug addictions, as well as overdoses. They usually gloss over those statistics, but then appropriate and bastardize tantric meditation as a sexual ritual, when it really isn't about sex at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.This is true. I had men who would just treat me like shit, make me chase them, and refuse to put any effort in at all. They would disrespect me constantly. After I finally broke up with them, they would admit that they didn't see us having a future together. They wanted to end things but didn't. The funniest one was when my ex tried to tell me that he was the one who left me! Lmao the truth is I called him out for having a double standard. He told me not to stay friends with an ex, but he was fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Homeboy thought he could disrespect me on a date, so I walked out.I'm glad you got out of there! I honestly think we should stop accepting invitations to the movies with men. The last time I saw a film with a man, the date was pretty boring and lame. I wasn't feeling anything for the guy. But, he ignored my disinterest and tried to coerce me into going to a hotel with him! I told him to his face, "No. I do not want to sleep with you." And, he started saying we didn't have to have sex; we could just hang out. I told him no, it is not happening. Then, I got an U… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Nothing but factsNothing but the truth! And not just straight men, but creepy bisexual and queer men as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 10 | Feeling the need to dump your trauma is a form of codependency. Don’t tell romantic interests your traumas until you’ve vetted them with time and patience. Best case scenario is to never tell them at all.I think that HVM are extremely rare. I'm glad you were blessed with having one as a father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 17 | Feeling the need to dump your trauma is a form of codependency. Don’t tell romantic interests your traumas until you’ve vetted them with time and patience. Best case scenario is to never tell them at all.This makes dating impossible, no? For example, what do I say when a man asks me about my past? Or how close I am with family? I pretty much keep to myself and focus on school. I was raised with trauma and abuse as my "normal." I used to tell men the truth about my life and my past, but they would always use it against me. This has shown that men can not be trusted at all. They are all potential abusers. So, as women, should we just not date men at all? This is a serious question. I've been singl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:03 PM |
| 17 | Imagine the discussion the Netflix bosses had about promoting "Cuties"r/Netflix is shadowbanning every user who talks about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:00 PM |
| 21 | Fake Pick-me friendYikes. I had something like this happen before, and I even was one of the people who tried to forgive the creep. It ended up ruining an entire friend group. I was in the wrong for forgiving him too, and I quit talking to him years ago after he ended up sexually harassing me. In short, I have learned not to give into the social pressure of forgiving toxic people. It was wrong of me, and now I lost a couple of friends in the process. If I could go back in time, I would have stuck to my guns. In th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:58 PM |
| 39 | 🤢🤢 Imagine playing along with literal pedophilia.... “But besides that he’s great!”He's a literal pedophile. My ex was like that. I was 18 and he was 29. We dated for two years. He was into porn and teens. I should have left right away, but I was incredibly naive. I also felt very attached to him because he coerced me into having sex with him within months of getting to know him. As soon as he realized I was attached to him, he began the negging, gaslighting, and breadcrumbing. He was a malignant narcissist. I hope this young lady runs fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 88 | Just got banned from r/art for calling out misogyny.Update: I was just muted by the moderators for responding to their message. So, they can't take any criticism without banning and blocking people. r/art is run by childish men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:49 PM |
| 7 | 😂 they're watching us 👀He acts like he is joking/doing this ironically, but he absolutely is doing this with the intention of getting laid. He knows that women don't take little boys with their mattress on the floor seriously, and he changed it because he is insecure nobody wanna fuck him. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:39 PM |
| 16 | This is 100% FACTS!!! Couldn’t imagine living with myself if I was a LVM either 🤢They continue to run away from themselves because deep down they know how bad a person they are!!Sadly, it also means that they checked out of the relationship, and moved on a long time ago. Men usually keep a roster of "backup" chicks that they start to hit up right before the break up. They will slowly befriend or rekindle old friendships with women as soon as they realize that they are done with you. We have to ruthlessly vet men, and if they aren't putting in tons of effort into the relationship, we have to leave. If you don't leave at the first sign that he's a loser with no intention … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | WAP- The Hypersexualization of Black WomenActing performative and pornographic for men will always be the opposite of empowering. It's enslaving. It's the idea that women should fuck a guy and be his little cum rag. Nothing new or liberating about that bullshit. All these female rappers and performers can keep sucking cock if they want to, but it will never be me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Epstein & Trump defender Alan Dershowitz says “Statutory rape is an outdated concept” 🤢so disgustingHe's definitely a part of the pedophile sex ring that elites take part in. He is actively covering it up for sure. I think I heard of him before all of this too, when he was caught plagiarizing large portions of his book while working at Harvard. He has always been scum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:32 PM |
| 2 | They placed a giggle button on the space between the legs of a doll designed for girls under the age of four. They will stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia. This is not ok.Deleting Facebook is so essential nowadays. It is even trashier than Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | They placed a giggle button on the space between the legs of a doll designed for girls under the age of four. They will stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia. This is not ok.Wait until you read Hilary Clinton's emails and you figure out that Pizz@ Gate stuff was actually real. Yup, we sure do live in a p*dophilic world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do LVM shame promiscuous women, but at the same time expect every woman to sleep with them???🤔Why did Reddit ban r/blackpillfeminism but keep r/redpill? I'll never understand why this website is allowed to be so fucking misogynistic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | PSA Please stop linking to other subs - we could get bannedFunny how reddit wants us gone so badly, but they keep up all-male misogynistic subs like it's no big deal. Fuck it. If they ban us, we can all just boycott this site. This site is censored because its mostly owned by totalitarian China. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."Why waste all your time talking to this mysoginist, when you could have just blocked him? That was dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?Nah, I disagree. I don't think there really are any good men out there. I think even if HVMs do exist, it's probably one percent of the population of males. I'm utterly black pilled. I have dated many, many men. It has always been a draining, exhausting process for me. Usually, it ended in a toxic way, with the man going off on me and calling me names when I tell them I don't want to see them anymore. Men are dangerous and parasitic. They're not worth a woman's time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Do you girls find it funny how days, weeks, months can easily go by before you ever see a guy that’s even slightly attractive enough to take double take?I haven't seen a handsome man in months. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Wow I really hit a nerve talking about the movie Juno in this askreddit about movie villains. Think I hit a nerve?Men sympathize with pedophiles and groomers more than they do young women and children. This is why it is so important to vet men. To see that over 90 percent of them are complete trash, and realize that it isn't even worth the effort to talk to them anymore. I miss BlackPillFeminism so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:03 PM |
| 9 | The “Let’s Grab A Coffee” Outfit 🤣💀Is she parodying the types of outfits men wear? I have literally met up to date men, and they showed up wearing some sweatpants and a hoodie. I later realized that this is actually a form of negging. It's a man's way of saying, "You're not good enough for me to even get dressed for. Sit down and drink your two dollar drink. You're my free prostitute now." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Woman wonders why FWB doesn’t care about foreplay. She’s so close to getting it, as well. 🤦🏾♀️Men don't make love to women. They masturbate into them. This is disgusting. And, also why I've been single for two years and celibate for one year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Proof that whatever a woman was wearing at the time she was assaulted/harassed/abused/stalked/catcalled/raped had NOTHING to do with it.Facebook is trash. I deleted mine for years. No regrets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 3 | So a women looking for love on a dating app is creepy but a man looking for sex isn’t?True that. I've been there before. I worked two jobs, took care of my mother and my niece, and even took care of a grown ass man who refused to get a damn job! I tell women in my life to never take care of a man. You're right that men want everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Men are extremely emotional. Sometimes I would hold in my beliefs and contradicting ideas, because they would react in unstable ways. It's one of the reasons I love being single. Not dealing with the lack of emotional intelligence.Definitely. It was a super weird phone conversation. I kept calling out his weird arguments, and telling him how messed up they were. And, he would just double down again and again, trying to see if he could get me to succumb to his lack of ethics. Eventually, he would just argue that it's okay to watch those films if they're pirated, which is the most White Man Redditor thing I've ever heard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | PSA: arguing/fighting is not normalMight I also suggest trying to only date people who are moderate to high in agreeableness? You know the Big 5 Personality Traits? OCEAN for short. They're: Openness Conscientiousness Extroversion Agreeableness Neuroticism I would not suggest dating someone who is low in agreeableness because they tend to fight and argue a lot. My exes were really low in agreeableness and would intentionally play Devil's Advocate when it came to anything from animal cruelty to rape. It was pretty disgusting to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Men are extremely emotional. Sometimes I would hold in my beliefs and contradicting ideas, because they would react in unstable ways. It's one of the reasons I love being single. Not dealing with the lack of emotional intelligence.I was a dumbass! Lol I stayed afterwards because I thought maybe he was trying to make a weird point or play devil's advocate. Nah, he was super creepy. We broke up after dating for just a couple of months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Man: “I am (age) and I act how a normal human should act.” *Gets a bunch of awards and upvotes* (the fact that males get praised for doing the bare minimum smh)Him and his comedian friends are so rapey. It's fucking disgusting and creepy. I saw the video of Joey Diaz telling Joe Rogan that he used to force women to give him oral sex before they were allowed to go on stage and perform stand-up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Dumped him because he didn't get me a b-day giftYou're right. It was a total procrastination on his part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:10 PM |
| 27 | Peak Pickmeism 🤪🤪Yes, it made them unattractive to me. I remember multiple exes of mine reminded me of children, which diminished my sexual attraction towards them right away. They would literally burst into tears and cry about how they didn't want to work a service job because they "deserved better." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Why do I feel like we all have been here. SORRY THIS IS THE LAST ONE I PROMISE! (Not my image: found on fb)Honestly, they're so vague, they remind me of "Repeat Stuff" by Bo Burnham. Lmao "I love your eyes, and their brownish blueish color." https://youtu.be/NlvQyTZkdxk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:06 PM |
| 7 | So a women looking for love on a dating app is creepy but a man looking for sex isn’t?Honestly, I don't look for men anymore anywhere. Lol I recommend focusing on yourself. If you accidentally meet a nice man one day, then awesome. If not, at least you're one hell of a human being after investing in yourself for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:04 PM |
| 2 | How dare he?! 😂This post gave me the warm fuzzies. You handled this so well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Dumped him because he didn't get me a b-day giftWhat a dumb little man. He could have went to a damn Trader Joe's and bought you a simple sunflower bouquet with chocolates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Thank you, ladies. I told a man to fuck off for the very first time and feel incredible.Black Obsidian says that when someone is extremely seductive, and quick to want to have sex, they are more likely to have an STD. She argues that STDs have a way of controlling the subconscious, just like when a parasite drives a snail to get itself eaten by a bird. I think you dodged a bullet. This sounds like a creepy was dude who would have put your body in danger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | If he wanted to, he would. (HVM prepares a 30 days of birthday surprise)I'm personally glad that this was filmed. We need people to see that this standard is easily attainable, so long as men out forth the time and energy into the relationship. Honestly, anything less than this isn't worth a woman's time. Men have to put in effort for special occasions, or else it shows they don't give a shit about their partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 2 | “I just don’t feel like I’m good enough for you”You're right. And, instead of trying to match your ambitious energy by working hard and involving themselves in the community or with hobbies, they will just try to bring you down with them. I worked two jobs and was busy with undergraduate studies. I remember my ex noticed how busy I was with work and homework. He seemed jealous me, but also jealous that my energy was going into myself, rather than him. Instead of breaking up with him, I stayed with him for a few months. I later learned that he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Why do I feel like we all have been here. SORRY THIS IS THE LAST ONE I PROMISE! (Not my image: found on fb)"I like you" = "I think you're really hot, and want to fuck you. But, really I would fuck anything or anyone." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | A Man Seriously Compared Not Being Able to Comment on FDS to Nazi Germany.This subreddit is just as bad as genocide! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | I mentioned the steps I’m taking to invest in real estate in the near future with my SO. Interestingly he began using “we/us” pronouns surrounding the decisions that will be made with my money.Honestly, it sounds like you two are in a casual relationship, but he's trying to get some of your money. If this isn't a serious relationship, and you're seeing this as enough of a red flag to post about it online, why are you two still together? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | PSA!!!!!And if a man tells you he can't provide for you or can't be there for you when you need him, just ghost him. He's letting you know that you're settling for him. That he truly ain't shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:44 PM |
| 13 | I have no words for thisHe's probably not even straight. Most men are closeted. Change my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:00 PM |
| 14 | Men are extremely emotional. Sometimes I would hold in my beliefs and contradicting ideas, because they would react in unstable ways. It's one of the reasons I love being single. Not dealing with the lack of emotional intelligence.I honestly think one of the reasons men love to argue and create drama is because they are energy vampires. I remember one time my ex called me up. We were dating at the time. I was excited to answer his phone call. But, then the whole conversation was focused on how he thinks it's okay to harm animals in film. He was adamant that there is nothing wrong with killing buffalos or other animals for entertainment purposes. I remember telling him that is a cruel way to think about things, and that I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 105 | Peak Pickmeism 🤪🤪Yikes. This is shit I used to do. And, I look back and feel disgusted with men. No matter how much you do for him, he won't appreciate you. He thinks you're easy, a doormat really. Men don't respect this shit. And they certainly don't fall in love with this type of shit either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:51 PM |
| 4 | When you stick around waiting for him to changeGreat! Now he'll learn some more information and terminology to persuade you that he is the victim! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:48 PM |
| 38 | So a women looking for love on a dating app is creepy but a man looking for sex isn’t?Avoid Tinder at all costs. Actually, any app that markets itself as a fast way to swipe and hook up is going to be a magnet for Fuck boys. I recommend not using any dating apps, and meeting people organically. But, if you ask me, about 95 percent of men in our society are only looking for sex. It's best to be single and avoid men as much as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 30 | The audacity these men have. Haven’t even gone out with him and already pulling the attitude card. Fair to say I will be cancelingJust block him. Men literally get off on being rude and domineering. It's so disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeisha accepts proposal in McDonald'sHer eyes look like she is dead inside. And, this asshole is smirking because he knows he doesn't have to put any effort in. Truly disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻I was nervous! I miss my r/pinkpillfeminism and r/blackpillfeminism. I also miss r/pornfreerelationships Fuck reddit. But not you, ladies. You make this male-dominated cesspool worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Put yourself first.This happened to me before. I worked two jobs, paid my own bills, and helped take care of my niece and my parents, who were all on disability at the time. My ex, K would ask me for money constantly. I'd stupidly give it to him, and then I was going broke. I hardly ever had money to buy myself clothes or do things for myself. I worked so much that I didn't have time for any hobbies either. I ended up feeling extremely drained and suicidal after months of this. I've been single ever since. And, I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 12 | NEVER feel bad for having high standards ladies especially when it can ruin your lifeHe was a slimy boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Child sex dolls based on real children are freely available online. Child. Sex. Dolls.What's disgusting is that even if they are castrated, they still offend again. I'm a psychology major in community college. We were asking the professor how this can be, and she said that the pedophiles will resort to using their hands or objects to molest children. So, maybe we should just never let them near children again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Child sex dolls based on real children are freely available online. Child. Sex. Dolls.Yes, and it becomes a choice once they continue to watch it and get off to it, despite realizing that it can cause unwanted thoughts and urges. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:16 PM |
| 7 | Child sex dolls based on real children are freely available online. Child. Sex. Dolls.It is a nice concept, but wouldn't work in public places. As much as I would love to advocate for children having their play time together without parents, it would be a horrible idea in practice. There's too much damn human trafficking going on for me to support free-range parenting (lmao what a concept). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 4 | OBESE PRE DIABETIC SCROTE WITH ED DEMANDS QWEEN GET BUTT LIFT SURGERYHis ED is probably from porn, but nice projection, buddy. Amazing how these dudes blame their issues on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 3 | I hate the trend where women are praising men for not drugging them. We need to do better. 🤦🏾♀️His voice and mannerisms remind me of the Sprouse twins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:02 PM |
| 16 | Not sure if this has been here posted yetJust don't use Tik Tok in general. It is literally a Chinese app with Spyware. Fuck that noise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 142 | Child sex dolls based on real children are freely available online. Child. Sex. Dolls.This is literally a slippery slope. It starts with men having sexual thoughts about children they see in the media and in real life. Then, men will masturbate to the thought of fucking children. Then, they start to masturbate to pedophilic images and videos. Then, they buy a child sex doll and fuck it. Then, they start thinking that they need to just try the real thing once. And then they go out and rape and murder a child. These people will not do any good for our society. May they rot in priso… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Reverse psychology?....Easy no for this one.LVM bingo-winning profile right here! And, he wants kids someday, but he's not willing to commit. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:26 PM |
| 2 | I didn’t even read the whole thing; title was enough WTF for meLmao at how everything in this story is a massive fail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Something I madeAren't most male rapes caused by other males in prison? They really have the audacity to blame things on women that have nothing to do with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Getting to know a new male coworker better made me think of you ladies.My ex pulled some bullshit like this with me before when I was young and naive. He told me that his ex wife, the mother of his children cheated on him. I later found out that he has no proof that she cheated but she "acted suspicious" and "lied" to him. The kicker: He cheated on her! He kissed another woman from his college class. Then after he and his ex wife split up, he slept with her friends. Hate to admit that we dated for almost 6 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Even female friends refuse to listen to the horrors about porn...Cognitive dissonance. I get similar reactions when I try to tell my friends about porn and media. They tell me that they enjoy it, but there is some hope. They are starting to admit that they know it is wrong, and that they aren't watching it as often anymore. It's hard to stand up for justice because it hurts people's egos to know that their actions are not always beneficial to society. They feel like it is an insult on their lifestyles, but then they begin to accept the truth about reality. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown.You have a good point. He sounds entitled. Btw, it's "beckoned call," not "beck and call." It's a common mondegreen. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Just say you are broke and go. 🥱Imagine thinking that it is too expensive to buy a woman dinner. Lmao How are dudes struggling to spend less than 100 dollars on a date? That isn't that much money at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...Men are lazy in the body and mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Homosocial tendencies within heterosexual male relationships. It all makes sense now.Most men are bisexual or homosexual. If you talk to them and pay attention to the things they say, it almost always comes out. I found out that multiple exes of mine would experiment with other males in college and high school. I think most men are more homosexual than they are hetero, but they enjoy many more benefits when they have relationships with women. In short, they're using us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:13 AM |
| 1 | And content...This sub and r/conspiracy are two of the only places talking about this. Reddit has also become complicit (in most subs) when it comes to censorship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:08 AM |
| 5 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolMen don't have personalities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:43 AM |
| 3 | Something I've encountered on the apps lately as a 30-something...I dated a sociopath once who had Peter Pan Syndrome. I remember he told me had planned on backpacking in Europe for the Summer, and visiting some friends in the UK. At the time, he had just come back from a different vacation after quitting his secure construction job to get high and drunk with his friends all day out of state. When he came back to our home state with no money, and a newly acquired debt of 10k to a jeep he couldn't afford after his old car broke down, I knew something was wrong … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Man asks for tips to help him stalk a Twitch streamer because her likes her. We can’t have anything nice without men trying to insert themselves and their desires.Men are so 500 Days of Summer with their strange infatuation and obsession. How is liking Star Wars even something that is brought up in the context of dating? Lmao I hope for this poor bloke's sake, he is only a deluded teenager. I can't imagine a grown man with this ridiculous logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been with someone who gets so disturbed youre “unhappy” they can’t listen to the problemIn my personal experiences, if a man makes the issues about his feelings, refuses to communicate, and refuses to apologize, he is most likely a narcissist. He will likely be like this for the entirety of the relationship. I think that it is a combination of them being emotionally immature, but also a sign of manipulation. I would say even if men lack self awareness, and don't mean to do it on purpose, we should still run! But, I do really think that men know what they are doing. Stone-walling, g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been with someone who gets so disturbed youre “unhappy” they can’t listen to the problemThis happened with almost all of my exes, sadly. It is a gaslighting/diversion from the conversation, as well as a display of piss-poor emotional intelligence. It would be so much easier for them to simply apologize and move on, but like I frequently say, men are mostly energy vampires. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Am I just being a prude or is this too much for someone who has only spoken to me for 5 minutes? #datingwhenyoure30I had an ex blatantly admit to me that he would use women for weed, money and sex. This seems like a similar type of man because it looks like he only wants to date you for sex. I would just block him. His messages are creepy. When I'm getting to know someone, I usually keep conversations focused on hobbies, interests, beliefs, travel, etc. Him bringing up sex seems extremely forced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Better late than never!She's saying he's spiritually bankrupt. He does not have a strong sense of Self or what that means. He does not know his true Self or the nature of reality. He's a materialist obsessed with worldy possessions and pleasures of the flesh. He lacks any depth and is a weak alchemist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:29 PM |
| 2 | “We’Re OpPrEsSeD ToO”Imagine thinking you're so innocent that you've never done anything wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite?You like incestual scenes in films? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite?American Beauty. I'm positive my ex boyfriend is a ppedophile after he showed me this movie. It literally has a pdo actor portraying a p*do character and enacting real sex scenes with minors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Ab so lu te ly worthless. I felt like a generous goddess today so I told him off instead of just blocking him outright as is tradition. You can't polish a turd to make a sparkly diamond, unfortunately.This person is not an English teacher. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:47 AM |
| 2 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.You're better off signing up for unemployment, or finding a position in your field. A BA in psychology is pretty broad too, so that you can apply to many places. Why not try something in education or working with children? I think you would be more valued in a teaching position. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Our Impact 🙌😭. Sis needed a level up about 40 years ago.She is complicit in a pedophile sex ring. You really think being a "pick-me" is her problem? Lmao (Let's all unite to take out the common enemies: democrats and republicans.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:18 AM |
| -1 | Painfully accurateI know this subreddit may not be the target audience for this comment, but I think that the song Lateralus by Tool is really good. I like the lyric: "Over thinking, over analyzing separates the body from the mind. Withering my intuition..." Don't doubt and question your thoughts so harshly. Trust your intuition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Just more proof of men being trash, the most he said was “yeah”Men like this look at women like we are their AI assistant. They, let us know when they have a question or need help, but won't listen to us when we want to speak. My ex would just sit there in silence most of the time. I'd have to ask him if he was even listening over and over. Luckily, I realize these men have no interest in women and just want an AI buddy on female mode. Now, I can step back and be single. It's a lot easier this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Does she wipe his ass, too?Aww, he loves his mama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | So Audi put a sexually suggestive picture of a little girl eating a banana in from of their car and decided to use the slogan “Let’s your heart beat faster in every aspect” 🤮🤮P*do culture seeping into the mainstream, and it is becoming more blatant. Babylonian wildness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:42 PM |
| 7 | Stay wokeLiars are cowards and manipulators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:06 PM |
| 2 | It’S biOloGiCaL male strikes againHe is literally saying that his gender has no free will and is enslaved by their biology. How can you pretend to be self aware while making such a large cop-out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:47 AM |
| 23 | This was previously posted on r/EntitledBitch, but who would want to swim in a piss-infested pool? Good on her for having standards.Fact: Men of Reddit want you to lower your standards so they can get laid easier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how do we feel about this post? Until he renders the ring, he’s not my man and isn’t entitled to my time and energy 🤷🏻♀️ Men go throw money at women in strip clubs because they look good to them, so miss me with that logic SIR!!!! 💅🏽Until a man invests everything in me, I'm not interested in any type of relationship with him. If he doesn't spend on me, sorry but why should I be interested in him? If he isn't buying me gifts and taking me out, why should I be attracted to him? I'm not just going to "hang out" with men while they string me along. I want real dates. I want nice gifts. I want complete and utter generosity. I want to see him actually invest his time and money into me. He needs to risk something and prove that I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:21 AM |
| 0 | Interesting...still researching the validity but this is why we protect ourselves!This is fear-mongering propaganda. Covid-19 has a 96 percent survival rate. The true cause of deaths in patients is being on a ventilator. Look into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:17 AM |
| 2 | A Men's Rights Activist Is Suspected Of Killing A Federal Judge's Son And Shooting Her Husband.It was a hitman hired to silence her because she is working on the Epstein case. Of course we was found dead soon after. I would avoid buzzfeed news and try to find something more reputable. This is 100 percent a conspiracy to protect pedophiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:08 AM |
| 6 | NICKI MINAJ IS A PICKME?!!!!Most celebrities are p*dophiles. It's a tough pill to swallow. But, once you accept this and move on from idol worship, your life will change. Delete social media. Boycott Hollywood and mainstream media. You'll become naturally more full of love and positivity once you expel this satanic culture from your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I be concerned? It was a family photo and this is his little brother. (Ignore the red face I did that)Agreed. Most males are sociopaths who should remain alone forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:45 AM |
| 1 | NVM unexpectedly strangles girlfriend during sex and injures her, top comment from pickmeisha blames her for not warning him prior that she wasn’t into being strangled...Pickmes pollute our society and make the patriarchy worse. I can't believe this little idiot is comparing sexual assault to doing chores. This world is dystopian. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | He got what he deserved!I wonder if men are autistic or if they have something else wrong with them. It always seems like they aren't human-like. They seem to be reading from a script, quoting movies, or reposting lyrics. Like nothing they do or say is originally or derived from their own minds. Men are inauthentic and then boast about how it "works." It doesn't. It backfires and gets men rejected 90 percent of the time. Even pickmes know better than to date guys like this. Lmao ** | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:28 PM |
| 3 | LVM prefer forever-gfs over being single!Men will stay with you and use you for money, sex, and emotional support. They won't leave until they find someone better. Most men won't break up with a woman even if he isn't attracted her. One reason for this is that men are energy vampires. They want to usurp the as much of the feminine essence as they can. That's why the parasites always need a host to feed. They have not yet discovered ways to take and give energy symbiotically and harmoniously. Women are born with this talent, as we are c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:56 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else tired of conspiracy theory reddit bros sensationalizing terrible things?This post is extremely ignorant, as well as the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 6 | "BDSM is empowering" is pickme cope. EVERY man who gets sexual pleasure from seeing a woman in pain is dangerous, and being the "cool girl" who's okay with this kind of behavior will get you hurt, every time. Period.What is this Orwellian newspeak oxymoron speech they are using to describe rape play? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Saw this on TumblrWhat's the point in sifting through countless abusive, shitty, lazy, worthless, narcissistic men, just to find a supposed "high value man?" There is no such thing as a high value man! Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:45 AM |
| 2 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Zach Braff punched a 12-year old on the show Punk'd. He admits it. It was over his car being vandalized (but it was just a prank, bro). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:38 AM |
| 2 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.He tried to rape that woman! She tried to leave and he was chasing her around his house trying to grab her. And he kept shoving his fingers down her throat! (Pornsick rapist) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:36 AM |
| 2 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.There's allegations that he's a predator too. Wouldn't surprise me. Him and all his low value "comedian" friends all seem like degenerates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.Reddit is pro pedophilia, pornography, censorship, tyranny, police state, racism, and misogyny. This place has turned into a shit hole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:31 AM |
| 2 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.No one should join the military. What do we get out of bombing countries full of brown people for rich Zionist Jewish assholes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:27 AM |
| 52 | Your insecurity about him watching porn is valid, and reason enough to expect a no-porn in your relationship.Being uncomfortable with something and setting a boundary sounds like something a secure person would do. Why do we associate setting boundaries with jealousy and insecurity? These men be scammin' with these fallacious accusations. I'm not envious of sex workers. I am uncomfortable with a man mentally role-playing the act of fucking other women. I am uncomfortable with a man getting erectile dysfunction because he's a porn addict. I am uncomfortable with a man who wants to dehumanize me because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Imagine that: Chris D'elia dropped by CAA and shows cancelled because he's a predator.He always gave me bad vibes. He played a pedophile in the show Workaholics and You. In the show You, he's just playing himself: a comedian who grooms and lures teens into his house for sexual reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:44 PM |
| 6 | [Copy & Paste] Dread Game DebunkedMy main concern is it will just teach men to better manipulate us. But I do agree that dread game makes them look foolish, and will cause them to be rejected more often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:06 PM |
| 35 | Where art thou charger? Missing for 11 days due to be 12 days by a PickMe in recovery"Tell a man how to act" This is so awkward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:46 PM |
| 26 | [Copy & Paste] Dread Game DebunkedRed Pill men have no self esteem or self worth. They're unoriginal and unwitty. Most of them are LARPing incels who get constantly rejected. I accidentally dated one before. I didn't notice the signs because I thought he had autism. He seemed very inauthentic. It wasn't until later that I realized he was likely repeating lines like a shitty actor. Anyways, I wouldn't try to talk to these men about how to improve. They're mostly narcissistic assholes. Let them fall victim to their own social inep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | This type of gaslighting is still abundant on mainstream Reddit subs. WTF is this absurd comment??A woman who stands up for herself and sets boundaries is not insecure. This is invalidation and flat out bullshit. Women who know what they want and don't want are confident. Women who stick to their standards are strong. Also, being uncomfortable with men masturbating to other women is perfectly normal. What men are doing, on the other hand, is completely out of line and innapropriate. Jacking off to women is tactless, trashy and a form of cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | I feel proud that this kind of stuff is being spread more on tiktok and girls in the comments are saying they never want to talk to men again/have always felt uncomfy with this stuff but didn’t know whyBecause women were seen as the property of their husbands, and were thus viewed as minors. We were second class citizens and objectified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 12:00 PM |
| 1 | History book displays photograph of a 22yo man and his 9yo child bride and calls it “cultural relativity” instead of child rape and enslavement.Cultural relativism aka look the other way, and let men r*pe girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:52 AM |
| 5 | When a poly guy is trying to get you REALLY HARD to continue a conversationIt hurt itself in confusion! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 05:57 PM |
| 46 | That was a big shock to me at the time thoI didn't learn this until college because I kept being told I was too sensitive, and that me crying was my fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:40 PM |
| 43 | A hilariously accurate live illustration of how pickmeishas interpret communication from LVMThis actually hurt my feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:38 PM |
| 6 | At least for now, friendship is the most important thing to meHooking up with other guys will just make things worse. I have been there. Trust me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:32 PM |
| 7 | It's always extremely sad to read posts about NVM from such young women. Your twenties should be about education, growth, fun, and adventure, not taking care of man babies!People will always vilify a narcissist's partner. Especially if his partner is a woman. She literally does everything, and he is a man-baby, and their mutual friends take his side? Fuck that. Dump him and find better friends. It's so obvious that he is a lazy, parasitic asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Girl has sex with her “boyfriend” on his flea ridden mattress. Shit makes me sadI have a similar story. I was 18 dating a 29 year-old male. He was so low value, he was negative value. Absolutely abusive and callous towards me. I found out what NPD was by Googling his behavior. I kept getting bitten by fleas at his apartment. He told me my flea bites were just pimples I had on my body! Like what the fuck?! I don't have body acne. He tried to get his mom to take in his cats, and even threatened to have them put down because he didn't feel like treating them for fleas. Probabl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 07:55 PM |
| 46 | He charges her for coffee at his home.You're right. They purposely date kind "empaths," aka women who will make excuses for their behavior. This is why it's so important to educate women about the true nature of men. Men are not dumb. They are selfish and abusive, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 07:24 PM |
| 3 | No HVM where I live?We have the same problem here in Stockton. Too many men are aggressive and violent out here. A lot of men try to kiss and have sex on the first date. Most men out here have no money and live with their mamas still. I'm now more open to exploring my bisexuality and dating women. About 99 percent of men out here are dusty af. I'd rather date women. Online dating is the same way. Way too many lazy men who don't take time to put in a minute of effort on an app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 07:22 PM |
| 120 | He charges her for coffee at his home.Probably just a redpill douche bag using her for money and sex. Don't redpill guys have a stance against paying for women? I have a feeling he knows exactly what he's doing. They always do. This isn't about culture. He's an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 06:16 PM |
| 34 | The disturbing fact that he’s tweeting this like it’s a cute joke. No sir, YOU’RE the jokeMen are parasitic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 06:06 PM |
| 16 | Good luck, sis.The problem is that you're supposed to leave when you see red flags, not try to change him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:42 AM |
| 4 | I wish I'd found this sub sooner.So many men have no business dating. If we wants to be a quirky minimalist, it's fine. But how the hell is going to date a woman when he can't even make her comfortable. He sounds selfish af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Should I cut things offHe's just not into you. Sorry. Delete and block him. Move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, the bar continues to be so deep beneath the floor that it is in HellI feel like him having that bio and "liking" you should be considered a form of sexual harassment. It's just so gross. And ew, why are his lips like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 02:41 AM |
| 2 | For those of you who are spiritual, have you ever felt like the entrance of a (lvm) man in your life has almost literally disturbed your spirit?I dated an energy vampire before. He was truly sociopathic and evil. He would lie about everything and use you for every penny you had because he was too lazy to work. He loved making me mad, sad, upset, etc. Any emotion I would exude was a drug for him. Maybe because he possessed very little emotion himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 11:35 AM |
| 4 | For those of you who are spiritual, have you ever felt like the entrance of a (lvm) man in your life has almost literally disturbed your spirit?In Gnosticism, we believe that there is a false God known as the Demiurge. We agree that he is cruel and tyrannical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 11:33 AM |
| 7 | Am I wrong ?! Boyfriend doesn’t want to introduce me to his children after 3 years together.It definitely sounds like he doesn't take you seriously as a partner. I think you should break up with him. There are more serious men who will commit to you fully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Truth...I have experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Newsflash: Intelligent women are scary y’all ¯\_(ツ)_/¯He sounds like the anti-intellectuals in the movie Idiocracy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 03:18 AM |
| 6 | LVM truly lie like they breathLmao he really is trying to prove his innocence! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 4 | This subreddit is changing my lifeWe are learning to be bold and focus on ourselves. Men were taught this at birth, and we were conditioned to be subdued and submissive in our childhoods. Now it's time for us to put ourselves first the way men have been doing forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 12:08 AM |
| 7 | What you can expect from late 30 somethings.He never had any intention of sleeping with you. You made a misconception. If you initiated sex with him, he would have declined. /s Lol he is so full of shit. If he just wants to hook up, he needs to admit it and own it. What a little bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Ladies I need urgent advice!! My date is in 8 hoursI think those people have real poetic talent. ❤💕😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Ladies I need urgent advice!! My date is in 8 hoursYou're thinking plant-based. Veganism is an animal rights movement. Because vegans also abstain from fur and leather, it's considered a lifestyle/activism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Ladies I need urgent advice!! My date is in 8 hoursHe honestly sounds like a sadist. He enjoys making you uncomfortable. It's not him who is going to change and be vegetarian. It's you who is going to have to be okay with all his jokes and references to animal cruelty. I'm vegan too. I once went on a date with a guy who purposely ordered steak at Red Robin to try to trigger me. They didn't even have steak. He was a moron. He had to order chicken tenders instead to try to upset me. I didn't care. I just found him to be embarrassing/socially inept… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 03:45 PM |
| 16 | We are staunchly Pro - Ghosting on this sub. Any comments guilt tripping women for dropping communication with men without explanation will be removed.Most men who get ghosted deserve it. If a guy can't even put in effort and act respectfully, why should I even communicate with him. He's not worth the effort. Men love attention. Even negative attention. I'd rather spend my time focusing on myself than send a paragraph. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:43 AM |
| 26 | High School Boy plays Pornhub Intro at black history month program. The entire assembly laughs - Extremely disappointing kids are so exposed today they can all recognize a 3 second riff as pornThis is extremely disrespectful towards African Americans too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 02:01 PM |
| 27 | High School Boy plays Pornhub Intro at black history month program. The entire assembly laughs - Extremely disappointing kids are so exposed today they can all recognize a 3 second riff as pornBrave New World predicted this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 02:00 PM |
| 4 | A guy picking out flaws and telling you? Please let me know your experiences.It's called negging. Men hate to see women who have the divine spark within them. They put us down to try to make us have low self esteem. It's part of their ploy to make us think of low of ourselves and highly of them. Men, nothing will ever make us need you. You'll never be the prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 08:16 AM |
| 7 | The term empath is way overused and normalizes LVM/NVM's bad behavior by shifting blame onto women for being overly-sensitive.My friend is a huge pick me and she uses the guise of being an empath to mask this. I think I used to do this for a long time too. I tried to psychoqnalyze people and make up all these excuses for things they would do. Then one day it hit me. I have been through terrible trauma. I'm not perfect, but I certainly don't act like narcissistic men. I haven't used men for sex and money the way they used me for it when I was a pick me. Finally I decided that there is no excuse for abuse. No amount of t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 08:11 AM |
| 6 | Woman develops eating disorder because of her bf's porn use; in shocking turn, majority of comments are anti-porn! I have never felt so validated by a mainstream thread.We have to continue facilitating the paradigm shift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 07:56 AM |
| 16 | DON’T BE BORING.... Proceeds to be the most basic fuckboy imaginableI have noticed a lot it fuckboys watch The Office. Not sure why the correlation is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:40 PM |
| 4 | I think my problem is that I want someone who will be attached to the hip with meDon't play hard to get. Actually be hard to get. Stay busy with hobbies. This way, when you tell a man that you're busy, it's authentic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 06:21 PM |
| 42 | stop overanalyzing why low effort guys act the way they do... some people just suck"Overthinking, overanalyzing separates the body from the mind." -Tool In short, he's just an asshole. Who cares why? Real men don't need excuses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:38 PM |
| 12 | Advice needed - how to exert queen energy via text? How to deal when men get defensive?Why the hell is painting his deck when he knows he has a date that night? What a moron. He never was interested in the date. He was more into painting. I'm glad you blocked him. He wants a woman whose time he can waste. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:57 PM |
| 66 | I hate it that pickmeishas and men fetishize bisexual women.I've tried exploring my bisexuality by dating women, but online dating is a fucking disaster. Women on OLD are looking for threesomes with their boyfriends. Men are looking for side pieces while they're married. It's gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Catfish MTV: Women that aren't a size 0 being rejected by ugly LVM or NVMNev once punched a woman at a party. Look into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:53 PM |
| 14 | My favorite OLD strategy is asking men about their weirdest date and letting them weed themselves out. He said he had a ‘perfect’ date with this girl then she turned crazy years later after no contact. Stay safe out there.I once had a guy on Bumble tell me a very similar story. He said he had a good friend who got drunk at his house, and started accusing him of rape. Then he invited me over at 5 AM. I unmatched him because I was so uncomfortable. He sort of looked like Brock Turner too. Yikes all around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:51 PM |
| 7 | Why do men fetishize "crazy" (mentally ill) women? and also use "crazy" to gaslight women?Just goes to show that men know exactly what they're doing. They lack empathy, which allows them to literally use women who have mental health problems and trouble establishing boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:44 AM |
| 10 | asking to hangout then ghosting for the rest of the day then messaging you the next day like nothing happened is an instant indicator of a LVMIf you allow someone to flake on you a lot, and you're always there for them, that's a great way to become narcissist bait. I used to let guys treat me like an option, and in turn I was used by narcissists and a sociopath. Once I learned to love and respect myself, I also learned to raise my standards. FDS is a really strong mindset to internalize and it will change your life for the better. ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 03:55 AM |
| 6 | 33F not yet married after 12 year relationship - beat some sense into meHe doesn't communicate with you and won't sleep with you. He doesn't seem like he's interested in being with you anymore. Please leave him and find someone who will love you and actually show it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 04:13 AM |
| 3 | What was your turning point to follow FDS?Finally a sub that has common sense about porn, BDSM, polyamory, and friends with benefits. I started feeling an aversion to the mentioned lifestyles and activities. This sub helped me understand why I felt this way. We need FDS in this hypersexual Brave New World. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 10:34 PM |
| 33 | In which depraved men of Reddit openly admit to being pornsick pedosPedophiles have been trying to infiltrate the LBG community for years and years in order to make their mental illness and depravity seen as normal. It's disgusting and we should stigmatize these people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 06:06 PM |
| 12 | My boyfriend sent me a half naked picture of an instagram model saying that “ he wants me to take a picture like this” but I can’t help it now hut think of him as LVM , what do you think ladies ?My ex used to bring up things other women did that turned him on in order to make me jealous. In addition to this, he would use his old sexual encounters with other women to try to get me to do them with him as well. It's manipulative, and some would call it negging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 06:02 PM |
| 7 | Rant about liberal feminism and why I’ve grown to hate it. (TW: mentions of rape, child endangerment).I blame liberal feminism and pop stars for pushing the idea that liberation equals hypersexuality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:51 PM |
| 8 | Male friends? What are your thoughts/ experiences? + little storyThey tend to seek out female friends who they find attractive. Their intentions are often to blur the lines of friendship, and to become friends with benefits. A lot of men have ulterior motives for friendships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Sis, you can’t make this up.Does she have any evidence that he is NOT married? I think this might be a troll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:27 AM |
| 6 | Reminder: Rich and Famous does NOT equal high value. Gail Dines exposes a Hollywood legend who beat two prostitutes to the point of physical and mental disability.So, he's not acting when he plays psychopathic characters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 6 | Kinkmeisha Reform School 101: The BasicsI never said I didn't have friends. I said I no longer keep male friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 9 | Get outHe is not a HVM. You made the right choice. Don't go back to him or he will hurt you. He is pressuring and coercing you. That's not okay. When you say "no" and tell him you're exhausted, he should be apologizing. Then he should let you sleep and stop bothering you. This guy sounds hella creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:41 AM |
| 9 | Kinkmeisha Reform School 101: The BasicsDoes anyone else feel like we're living in an overly sexual and sinful society like Brave New World? The way feminism and women's liberation has become centered around sex is very alarming to me. I have dated a man who was very pornsick and into BDSM. It was a traumatic time in my life. I told him I was "vanilla" when we met. His response was that he would change me. I should have known this was a massive red flag. I had grown up with trauma and abuse. My mental state was low, and I let a lot of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Why can't LVM get over you???Please don't respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 05:33 AM |
| 42 | I have been seeing a surge of these kinds of tweets lately— I love it. We’re doing something right ladies 😜What helped me love myself was lots of introspection and spirituality. But everyone can find self love in their own ways. ❤ Remembering that it's okay to be alone, and that it's awesome to be alone helps a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Broke Dusty gifts a woman a basic drawing of her ass as an anniversary gift. HVW exposes the low effort. Pick me’s and LVM try (but fail) to defend mediocrity. Another day in hell.Low effort, broke, fuckboy shit. He straight reduced her to her ass. The fuck? "Art is dead." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Protect your energy and pay attention to the messages you consume via the media. Especially the music you listen to on your way to a dateMost media is actually controlled by the CIA to brainwash people. Look up Operation Mockingbird. I quit listening to angry rock music recently and have been much more relaxed. I usually listen to piano music or music from Studio Ghibli. It's important to listen to music with positive vibrations in order to keep your spirits high. Our consciousness takes everything in all the time. This happens whether we notice it or not. So choose what media you consume wisely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Suggesting young women deserve safety and dignity has always been a controversial statement.We live in an overly sexual Brave New World society. Sex and media are used to distract people from the fact that our freedoms are being stripped from us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 07:16 PM |
| 44 | We see through all of LVM’s hypocrisy used to further invalidate, devalue and discard women; to shut us and our voices down. They will never succeed. We will only be louder, prouder and stronger. 👑 👑 👑But, men get raped more in prison! By who? Well, other men. But still! Feel sorry for men! They need attention and talking points. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:52 PM |
| 5 | 6years with incredibly cheap but well-off bf who will never commit and resents paying for both of usThis man will give you wrinkles and gray hair. Run. Fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 05:15 PM |
| 66 | Remember this, Queens. 👑No. Men may be narcissistic and even sociopathic in a lot of cases, but I will not lose my empathy and be like them. I will not lose my warmth and turn into a reptile like them. Just because they put themselves above their families and children doesn't mean we have to be this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:17 PM |
| 36 | Bold of men who have mommy issues going on but let's blame it all on women, shall we?It's like when men bring up how they are raped more in prison. By who? Oh, that's right. Other men. Stop trying to insult women and make our issues about you. You're just proving our points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:56 PM |
| 5 | You do not “attract” abusive men. You are not responsible for your own abuse.Look into the Oneness and the solipsistic nature of consciousness. It's a fascinating idea that really resonates with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 06:16 PM |
| 21 | You do not “attract” abusive men. You are not responsible for your own abuse.I agree. My philosophy is that we are all one. We come from a lonely God who made all of this to search for itself. In essence, we are God's manifestation of himself, exploring and learning where we came from. The only separation from God is an illusion that our minds create. God is eternal love. The force wants us all to unite and flourish. Abusive relationships and suffering are a part of the illusion. Love, respect and unity is the Christ Consciousness/ Nirvana. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:26 PM |
| 21 | Sisters, what led you to realize you needed the knowledge from this subreddit instead of dating the conventional way. In other words, what made you woke to the game?I used to wine and dine men on a minimum wage salary. I worked two jobs, and thought it was being equal to take care of men. It isn't. I was just lonely and had low self esteem. My depression was making me lose control of my free will. After a life-changing experience where I almost lost my life, I woke up. Now I realize I have worth and purpose in this world. I love the Hermit tarot card, and feel much self love in solitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:38 PM |
| 8 | Sisters, what led you to realize you needed the knowledge from this subreddit instead of dating the conventional way. In other words, what made you woke to the game?Fool me once, shame on you. Full me twice, shame on me. I kept making the same mistakes and letting men use and abuse me. I finally had enough and also learned that sexual energy is sacred. I became abstinent for a myriad of reasons, leading me to realize that much inner wisdom is gained in solitude. A lot of things started clicking, and then I found this sub and all the pieces tell together. I hope women all around the world find this mindset soon! It will save you from narcissists and sociopat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Is jealousy a pickme trait?Jealousy is a form of territorialism. It's animalistic, and regressive. It's normal to set boundaries for how men talk to or about other women. Men must be respectful, and not triangulate us with other women. If a man does things that make you question his intentions with other women, it is best to just walk away. Have a clean break and leave. Staying with him will lead to intrusive thoughts and resentment. There is no need to get possessive or feel like you must fight with other women. Always b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:31 PM |
| 3 | I'm starting to think liberal feminism might actually be antifeminismLiberal feminism is halting our progress in the patriarchal world. It is a form of self harm in women who practice it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Men who live by pride and ego.Men who never apologize are awful. I dated a narcissist for two years. I was 18 and he was 29 when we met. At the time, I was too young and naive to truly recognize the red flags. This so-called man would disrespect me every single day. He would talk about other women and porn stars, ignore me for sports, and lie about his past. When I would tell him how awful he made me feel, he'd either double down on the rude things he was saying, or give me the silent treatment. I remember multiple occasions… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Movies with HVM leads?Jenny was molested by her father. She wishes to be able to fly like a bird as a child. She gets her wish when she is able to travel the world. Unfortunately, she is opened up to situations in which men abuse and use her. Everyone picks on Jenny, but would you date Forest? A man who beat the shit out of your college boyfriend for no reason? A man with severe mental delays? Probably not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 10:52 AM |
| 11 | MoodHe's a creepy scientologist. Some say Tom Cruise was a weirdo and would hold auditions for his girlfriends. He allegedly had women sign contracts and after a period of time would go by, they could finally leave him. She spreads her arms out like a bird that is finally free to fly in that picture. I wouldn't be surprised if it was true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 04:48 AM |
| 10 | Since men are still not speaking up against porn and male pedophilia on the rise they certainly deserve to be under suspicion in these situations. If they want to not be “unfairly targeted” maybe they should have been speaking up against their male peers who are normalizing pedophilia and pornSame for me. Part is from misophonia and part is from him abusing me physically as a child. I hope to get disability and financial aid to move out one day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 10:34 PM |
| 23 | Another Stephen King DragStephen King is so creepy. He describes the girl's locker room setting in Carrie. I had to quit reading once I read the sentence about Carrie's nipples. Why would you describe a teenager's nude body? Couldn't leave it our imaginations? I don't care about that info. It isn't pertinent to how Carrie doesn't know what a period is or how the girls bully her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 11:26 PM |
| 18 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Is globalism allowing patriarchal standards to spread throughout mainstream culture? What is leading to these thought patterns within men and women who are not awakened enough to notice how imbalanced relationships have become? We must continue to wake up our fellow sisters about how men are pushing the narrative that they no longer must put any effort into pursuing a woman. The bar is so low right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Dead Bedroom subreddit at the cringe again... I genuinely feel so bad for this woman I am baffled that this is a real situation that she continues to stay inWhy would you want to fuck a smelly NEET? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | All women need to be woken up so that we can raise our standards as a collective. Let's present a unified front, with a steady increase in required investment from men. One that reflects our worth. Every woman we can wake up, adds to our momentum. We can be an unstoppable force for change, together.You're absolutely right. I love your metaphor of dating and how it is a market of its own. I also wanted to add that since we are all one consciousness, we can awaken to this idea of self love and high standards, creating a massive paradigm shift in women world wide. For this to happen, we must all awaken and embrace the truth. I'm ready to receive high effort and High Value People in my life. As more and more of us accept this energy, it will be the new normal for all women. 💕🌸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Why men obsessing with virginity, high N-count, and women's age has nothing to do with biologyAren't concepts like virginity and sexuality considered social constructs in anthropology? I don't think having a proclivity for sex with a "virgin" is biological. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that men are seven times more likely to leave a sick partner than women are. Also, what a major asshole (full text in comments)I'm a cancer survivor. If he was wearing a really strong cologne it probably made his ex wife nauseous and sick. He's such a selfish piece of shit for leaving her during such a hard time. I'm so fucking mad reading this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Don’t let this be you, sis.This happens when your partner is narcissistic and parasitic. They give you tiny bits of affection but make you beg for more and chase them! From now on I will let the other person chase me and prove themselves to me. I am the prize. And so are you. ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Don't Date Much Older Men!!! My Story of Dating my ProfessorI related to this post a lot. I dated someone 11 years older than me for a year and a half. He would give me the silent treatment, ignore me, turn his phone off after hanging up on me, break up with me repeatedly, kick me out of his house, scream at me, drive crazy with me in the car, and call me a bitch. I thought I was in love with him. When we met he seemed so confident, attractive, intelligent and funny. But in reality he was a narcissist using and controlling me because I was much younger t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 12:51 AM |
| 3 | If your partner cries and makes a big self pity fuss every time you call him out on his shit, he's already worthless0_0 My eyes widened in response to this. Yikes. I swear men are very grimy these days. That's why I've been practicing celibacy and staying single right now. I need to avoid toxic energy right now, and many men are like this. It's sad but not anomalous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 02:28 AM |
| 3 | If your partner cries and makes a big self pity fuss every time you call him out on his shit, he's already worthlessMy ex would refuse to get a full time job and sob whenever he went broke. One time I got sick of paying for dates and told him I needed to save my money. He started sobbing because I wouldn't buy him movie tickets to go see a film with his friends. It's so pitiful and ridiculous that I laugh when I look back on it. And yes, I've learned my lesson not to pay for dates. I would only date someone who had a strong work ethic and saved money. Dating broke men is honestly not worth it. It's draining a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Instant Left SwipeThis and when theyy only have pictures where they're wearing sunglasses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 01:08 AM |
| 84 | A man recounts how he lied to a girl about his age for sex and is applauded.What's disgusting is how everyone applauds him. He said he had sex and took a girl's virginity and then she got "clingy." Of course an underage girl wanted a relationship and didn't want to be ghosted afterwards. He expected her to just have sex with him and then act like it was nothing even though it was her first time. Then he has the audacity to try to kiss other girls on the cruise. Men are sick from a young age. What makes them so insensitive and hypersexual? Notice how he says that the gir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 08:15 PM |
| 20 | I asked him why he's poly and the answer is what you'd expect."Gay and bisexual men have the largest number of new diagnoses in the United States." https://www.hiv.gov/hiv-basics/overview/about-hiv-and-aids/who-is-at-risk-for-hiv "In 2014, gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men accounted for 83% of primary and secondary syphilis cases where sex of sex partner was known in the United States. Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men often get other STDs, including chlamydia and gonorrhea infections. HPV (Human papillomavirus), the most … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 05:49 PM |
| 3 | So bored due to this forced quarantine by my state that I almost went out with a LVMRead a book. Watch/listen to a podcast. Play a game. Watch a documentary. Take a free course from Coursera or Khan Academy. Work out. There are plenty of workouts you can do at home. I use a pedometer app and walk in place while watching television. Write in your journal. Clean your house. You need to find things to do to occupy your time and be happy. Don't use boredom or loneliness as an excuse to go out with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:32 PM |
| 18 | What an absolute waste of space.He says he can make good food. I wonder if he is referring to Cup O' Noodles as 5 star cuisine. You go, king. Enjoy your ramen in your mom's house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Lmfaooooooo Btw he asks sick of what because my bio is “Just a nerdy chick who’s sick of your shit” Swerved his negging and he went OFF. Like dayum guess I’ll just take the ladies (I am bisexual) on dates with my money since I’m so MONEY HUNGRYMen are so rude and disgusting. This is what happens when narcissism and psychopathy become prevalent in males. We end up with men abusing women right from the start. The first interactions they have with us they use to insult and berate us for no reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Where we conditioned/raised to try and fix broken men?Romantic comedies are just one example of how media and society perpetuate the message that women must be tolerant, subservient and unconditionally in love with men. Just recently I watched He's Just not that Into You and Valentines Day on Netflix. These both are examples of films that display women putting up with way too much bullshit from men. Take HJNTIY for example. Ben Affleck's character refuses to marry Jennifer Anniston until she accepts the fact that he doesn't believe in marriage. She… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:29 AM |
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