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Nah I don't second that. She may not have been ready when you asked her for the movies. so look for another opening and then shoot your shot. At this moment she's just trynna see which category to put you in, choose your zone wisely king. Remember, being friendzoned or friendzoning a girl should be out of your own choice. If you're obligated you're on the weaker side.
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:20 AM
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But also be ready and willing to be forgiving and accepting of someone else who doesn't fit the mold of perfection. Be their friend, too. Top dolla advice!
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:20 AM
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Makes sense
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:36 AM
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How old you is?
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:03 AM
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Jump up and down on the balls of your feet, while making caveman or gorilla noises. It helps me to lower my tone and relax my larynx. You can't be serious with this 😂
/r/seduction02/10/21 04:03 PM
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You're in the wrong sub sheikh 😭 perhaps r/tableegh ?? Ok jj
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:04 PM
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'some of us'
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:58 PM
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Says Tyler Durden fan boy :'3. Ok maybe OP's story is not true but that doesn't mean it never happens. Can you prove how it never happened?
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:40 PM
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That might be true for you but everyone has different levels of energy to offer. Just like the concept of extrovert v introvert v ambivert. Maybe OP likes the games bruh.
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:38 PM
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Where I come from they say, never put your trust where women and money are involved. You took her words literally, rookie mistake. I have chicks saying 'i love you' and I know if I fuck up tomorrow she's never gonna text back again.. it's all about how you dance! (Metaphorically speaking) Listen to her but never take her words for what they are. Look for Patterns. One thing is true, women mostly don't lie but they beat around the bush like a mf! so you gotta keep your eyes and ears open at all t…
/r/seduction26/09/21 01:56 PM
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Alright thankss
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:40 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:40 PM
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Sweet! Appreciate it
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:39 PM
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Worddd 🙌🏼🙏🏼
/r/seduction24/09/21 03:06 PM
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Marketing and seduction share the same patterns but the solution to both your situations isn't the same. It's true that people who are good seducers are mostly also good marketers but for people who lack this knowledge, here's the good part; Improving/practicing your skillset in one of these will increase your chances of cracking new patterns and as a result become better at it. It's a matter of collecting and connecting more dots in your subconscious - fucking up many times before you get it ri…
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:05 PM
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Appreciates it
/r/seduction18/09/21 09:46 PM
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Amen and amen. Yes you're right, I knew when the time was right, just that it wasn't the spot to make a move. Will get it deffo next time.
/r/seduction18/09/21 07:15 PM
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I heard someone say use baby powder. And many said it works like magic. I haven't tried cause I dont sweat a lot down there but to anyone who does, you're welcome.
/r/seduction18/09/21 07:11 PM
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She lives in an all girl's dorm 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction18/09/21 06:56 PM
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I agree one hunna. But this is where it gets tricky; like i said if I had a place where I'm living rn, i would've done it easy peasy. Challenge being, how do you work with what you have? A car and a half full parking lot or a dark street with a maximum 2-3 mins before someone pops up and it gets awkward.
/r/seduction18/09/21 06:30 PM
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How u got facts when I was the one holding the conversations? Lmao. And that's because I mentioned a couple of times that if I realized she's wasting time I'd block her. Why you've never said that to a girl? xD also you can choose not to answer that mate. Im out of weed and lost my headphones so it's likely I'm the one overthinking and being salty. Shiieeet.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:02 PM
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Maybe she did maybe she didn't, who knows. If you see it lmk tho. And for the sake of making y'all happy and me sounding less cocky, I'd say she was only Apparently into me.
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:24 PM
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Why you gotta get salty bruh?🤣 Like I'm Really not getting defensive here. Not my fault you can't fathom the scenario. What part of 'she followed me', 'she texted me first', 'she deactivated cause she was afraid I'd block her ass' and 'she unblocked me and is now teasing me' did you not understand? Frr bro, again, I'm not getting defensive I think you didn't get a clear picture of the situation. And the reason why I kinda warned her about my mildly sleazy attitude is cause I didn't wanna get me …
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:56 PM
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Thats exactly the plan my friend, but she IS (edit:) Apparently into me in case you didn't read the post.
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:17 PM
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Well one of these days I got a lil extra flirty on chat after which she kinda tried to corner and shittest me into thinking I said something wrong. I straight up confronted her and reminded her how I told her early on that I'd cross the line some day and she said she'll be fine with it. After which she laughed it off and said 'oh you don't know me by now? I was jus messing' (if it was any other guy he'd go like 'oh sorry if that made you uncomfortable and the whole thing woulda ended there). So …
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:21 PM
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Bruh don't even try asking here, go to r/askmen . A lot of experienced folks there. I would say, 'A god.'
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:12 PM
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Might be that they are aware of what they're getting themselves into. Cause if she can spend her time enjoying the perks of life with a jerk at the cost of patiently tolerating his behaviour, why waste time on a guy that doesn't have what it takes and she has to tolerate his dumbness? I totally understand that from women's perspective. But reality is a bit different tho. Men aged 28 are more likely to score a girl 20-24 than men their same age cause leadership is a slow process for guys, some ma…
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:13 PM
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Bro fucking have your friend's name saved as a girls and have him text you 'you wanna see something Hun?' every time you trynna get a girls number. G, this is social proof, this shows u got options. Ain't nothing othing better than this. If you are gonna manipulate atleast do it right lol. This isn't the 1600 and you're not a knight. Don't try to save her or make her feel too special unless proven otherwise, these women will squish you the first chance they get. I've seen the most innocent girls…
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:10 AM
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Ohk first of all, why is this Whole comment section putting this girl on a pedestal? Do y'all not know woman nature? DO NOT, and I mean DON'T EVER put a girl on a pedestal. Unless it's part of your process and u know what you're doing. First of all, you're being a total simp (no offence) by texting these long paras and asking so many questions. 2nd, tho she might have many options and you can't stop her from practicing that, what you can do is STAND OUT. Be the best version of yourself, find hob…
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:03 AM
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Ofc dude, he ain't my prophet xD I take what makes sense and let go of what doesn't. I just feel his 'toxic boy' mentality helps in situations more than the other simpy PU advice out there. Also the female nature shit he's on about is also true, if he can't pick a few chicks or freezes, that's on him. He probably got mommy too like a lot of other dudes who've struggled with girls.
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:19 PM
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Dude the first fucked up thing about this whole pick up scenario is all these guys JONZING for some 🐱, and not just that, they wanna fuck every girl that comes their way. They want that validation and they want it way more than normal and I think that's fucked up. You need to fix that mindset first. Learn how to look at girls as humans, interact with them at different levels and sort out your preferences. Don't be a man hoe. [This is adding to what you said]
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:09 PM
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AMS and Hoodville is the only advice you need in 2021 kings
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:02 PM
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Dude so I've been speaking to one of these crazy eyed girls and yea I'm puzzled. I got mad eye contact, I initiated and got her number some how, she liked my energy and slight game on text, we met, and next thing.. she doesn't speak a word. Everything I asked or did to create a conversation would end up with a dead end yes or no answer. Perhaps she was expecting me to grab her by the neck and just kiss her already..? No idea. she still showed interest after the first date tho so idk what she wan…
/r/seduction08/08/21 03:04 PM
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Ok ok I have another way of looking at this, maybe OP is a hot ass mf, and the chicks who sleep with him think he is very sexy and they don't expect a call in return. But this mf shows up again and tries to extend their whatever fling/relationship thing. And when he does that he comes off as needy and makes them think 'this guy better not be getting a lot of pussy if he texts every girl he meets to see them again'. Kinda like a mixture of all the theories bring presented by our fellow seduction …
/r/seduction08/08/21 02:53 PM
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Ikr?? I think the answers on here really have to do with what generation you're from. I'm 24 and I feel like it should be taken slow on the first date, it's a good frame to hold and you don't come off as needy or a creep At All. It looks more natural when it happens ok the 2nd.
/r/seduction06/08/21 07:54 AM
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😂 if that's satire, Fuckin A. If not, BRUH! Look up Elliot, he an OG. Lot of good advice in their but take it with a pinch of salt.
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:14 PM
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What you said sounds true but it is not very practical for every situation and person. I guess that's why so many -s ? Like for instance the girl I got with is from my office, and I didn't wanna do Anything cringy that might mess up my next and last couple months at the job (I'm leaving). I can do it on a second date and at my own pace than rush it.
/r/seduction05/08/21 08:50 PM
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I think what OP said is more about deeper inner game. As in the amount of years a guy has to spend on himself and his game in order to achieve what his desired results. It can be different for anyone.. For upfront outer game it's mostly about spontaneity but not always.. there are cases where you have to pace it slow. That being said, PACE should always be in your hands. Period.
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:52 PM
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Ok word!!
/r/seduction18/07/21 06:28 AM
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Why do you think everyone would want an ace 10er blonde bombshell or whatever your definitions of a perfect woman are. Maybe there's this good person who knows he's only as good as a factory worker, and he likes a 6-5 and he marries her and they're simply happy. Don't you think that happens in the world too? The reason these stories don't get mentioned in 'history' is because they aren't stories of great seduction. They might have had other great stories tho, very inspiring as well, but not abou…
/r/seduction17/07/21 08:04 PM
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But couldn't it also be that if the girl approaches the guy the guy might feel like she already has really high expectations with regards to his game and the guy feels overwhelmed by that? Doubts like, will I be witty enough to withhold that standard through my lines and jokes and all? And one wrong move or cringy thing could be a direct turn off? She might forgive/overlook those things in the case of a average looking dude but with a guy looking like a 'gamer' (in her head) she might be coming …
/r/seduction15/07/21 09:34 AM
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Thanks buddy
/r/seduction15/07/21 07:39 AM
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Gotcha g ✊🏽
/r/seduction14/07/21 10:38 PM
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You dropped this king 👑
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:51 PM
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It's alright till the wingman part but the stepson jokes?? Anyway I also call it a cap cause man goes to the pub like 'once' a year and this happens, sounds just too good to be true.
/r/seduction04/07/21 10:16 PM
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Does this seem a little twisted to anyone else? Not what OP did, he handled it like a champ. But what the ladies did feels kinda odd, any relates?
/r/seduction04/07/21 08:55 PM
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I'm not a guru but here's what a guru would tell you. Things like indifference come with a high value mindset. When you know you actually really don't give a Fawwk about a girl leaving you, or testing your ass to see what you're made off. Having said that, some bitches can sniff off the fake in you, and they know you're ambitious but at this point in life you're faking it, and so she'll look at your patterns and use it against you. Coming back to the high value mindset, if you have 5 chicks on y…
/r/seduction27/06/21 11:34 AM
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Yup, not a Jim and Pam story At All, but probably a Jim x Katie situation. Idk. Haven't seen The Office but I do get the references to an extent.
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:03 AM
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Exactly dude.. no one likes to get gaze raped for 5-6 hours straight so I'm gonna test the waters and look for crazy and discretion as one of the comments said. Tho I am curious about what everyone means when they say be careful in the work place, like I have an idea but How bad can it get? Do you have any prior experience or stories to share?
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:46 AM
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Umm job security isn't that much of an issue but basic self respect in the work place is, and that's exactly where I was a little confused with the hard approach. But yes, like it's not normal how much she stares me down. Any other girl would throw occasional side gazes but this one, naaah. As I said it even makes me uncomfortable at times.. But appreciated, loved the pulling a prank idea. Big ups.
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:31 PM
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I feel you 100 percent, thats great advice dude, appreciate it.
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:25 PM
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Haha wasn't it 'I got Joe Goldberg vibes' before? Bruh I recently watched the show and beck literally was the first thing that popped into my head 😂
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:12 PM
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