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obi1andkobe/r/seduction24/06/15 03:53 AM
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Great way to position confident movement. Let’s see how this works out for me lol
/r/seduction22/10/18 12:50 PM
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71 - I do laugh at my own fucking jokes. I see comedy in everything. Nothing is serious when meeting someone. And also my jokes are the shit.
/r/seduction29/09/18 05:45 PM
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I’m there already Joe, you gotta guess who I am.
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:57 PM
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Don’t take this personal. She could have rejected you for a number of reasons, not related to you.
/r/seduction25/09/18 10:09 AM
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Thanks Joe! If you can do a similar one to night one, I think that could be a good foundation for new comers.
/r/seduction23/09/18 11:19 AM
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Joe can this be applied to bar game as well?
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:41 PM
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I want to say if I approach 8 women. I close 1-2.
/r/seduction22/08/18 11:43 AM
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This mindset is 🔥. May need to adopt this.
/r/seduction22/08/18 01:25 AM
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How do you differentiate a shy girl vibe when approaching vs a get out of my face vibe?
/r/seduction20/08/18 01:48 PM
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Bruh brush that shit off, if she’s going to cheat, she’s going to find a way. If she’s loyal, she’s loyal. Don’t stress yourself over this. If a dude asks her out and she cheats, he did you a favor imo
/r/seduction21/06/18 02:29 PM
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Ugh the eye contact burned me a few times. They’re looking at me because I’m looking at them and they’re like trying to figure out why we are looking at them.
/r/seduction04/06/18 06:21 PM
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Always pay attention to a person's eyes and see where they look. For example, I'll make eye contact and ongoing conversation continue to be myself and when I see a girl glancing at my lips, I know she wants a kiss.
/r/seduction04/06/18 02:11 PM
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I've done it on the way in or the way out of the gym. During, IDK I have the skillset to do that or recommend it. Try to catch them on the way in or out and be sincere! i.e. " I wanted to introduce myself earlier, I am John Doe etc. You are?"
/r/seduction04/06/18 02:09 PM
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Me too Op. I’m 32 and love girls between 20-24 They’re a lot harder to pull but enjoy dating them none the less. You have to be mature, a problem solver, and provide wisdom life experiences. That’s the set of compliments I get from that generation. And you have to fuck them like you’re trying to repopulate the earth.
/r/seduction04/06/18 01:05 PM
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OP she didn’t like you? That’s great. You didn’t waste your time. Move onto the next one. Not everyone is going to like you, be lucky that she didn’t use you for entertainment and then shut you down after an hour was wasted. For every 10 girls that I talk to, I get maybe 2-3 numbers. It’s just the game of life. Don’t take this as a situation that you could have controlled. In my oppinion, learn how to bounce back from rejection in life, it’s not personal. There may be circumstances that are agai…
/r/seduction04/06/18 12:56 PM
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Hi Op, Really appreciate you doing this and I’m hoping you could share some more information so that we can learn from you. 1) Tell me a little about yourself. I.e. age a physical description etc. I feel that I am getting old and I need to get my shit together and approach more women. 2) could you add What statement or comment did you open with on the lady? Was it something Like Hi or do you vary etc.
/r/seduction04/06/18 11:46 AM
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Just move on. Onto the next.
/r/seduction04/11/17 10:24 PM
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Move on. People make time for who they like.
/r/seduction04/11/17 10:18 PM
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Someone who is genuine. They don’t need to lie and express themselves honestly. With a base like that, I can compromise else where.
/r/seduction26/10/17 01:19 PM
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This! You will always have more rejections that numbers but you’re going to have fun with those that get to know you. If I approach 10 girls I’ll get 3 numbers most likely. It really comes in waves TBH. sometimes I’ll get numbers back to back other times I’ll have a dry spell of a few nights.
/r/seduction26/10/17 01:17 PM
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I mean as a girl you can be pretty straight forward. The chances are in your favor. I would talk to guy and be like “Hi! I’ve seen you around and you look like a lotta fun, can we go grab a coffee?”
/r/seduction26/10/17 01:15 PM
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Solid night OP.
/r/seduction26/10/17 01:59 AM
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Two messages and move on bruh. Plenty of women out there.
/r/seduction26/10/17 01:52 AM
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You take the time to dance salsa and I have no doubt you will increase your chances 100% with any women. They just love it.
/r/seduction26/10/17 01:50 AM
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Let me ask you, are you happy with yourself? If not name me three things you want to change. Then make a plan to change them. Make little goals everyday. For example, I used to be obese. I started setting myself little goals throughout the day. I.e. workout for 30 minutes and have one healthy meal and snack. Then a few weeks later: workout 45 minutes and have one healthy meal and two healthy snacks. Then after a few more weeks. I have two healthy meals two healthy snacks and one hour of working …
/r/seduction26/10/17 01:34 AM
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Remember guys and gals. We are here to experience the universe. Better put: We are the universe experiencing itself. Don’t turn down a fun time. I don’t care if you work in the morning go for a little have two drinks and bounce home. Make the most of this one life. Staying at home will not create opportunities.
/r/seduction26/10/17 01:30 AM
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I text at first and when I know she’s some what interested I’ll hit her with “Can you talk?” They normally say yes or tell you to call around this time. Then bam you call. Works really well because girls don’t get calls from guys anymore.
/r/seduction26/10/17 12:56 AM
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“Well you ladies have an amazing night” and bam you walk away. Dats it. You’ll never see them again just be polite and excuse yourself. You want to make it fancy you can be like “well my friends are waiting for me, it was nice meeting you, have an awesome night “ This way they may be like “hmmm he isn’t such a creeper” and maybe the chat you up later that night. It’s worked for me.
/r/seduction26/10/17 12:54 AM
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OP I hold eye contact to establish dominance. When women look away, it shows they’ve been dominated and I add their name to my spreadsheet. Jk. I think society has become taboo about eye contact. Kinda like casual sex. Nothing wrong with it but people don’t feel comfortable about it. Kinda like if it was rude but it’s not in my oppinion.
/r/seduction26/10/17 12:52 AM
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Be selfish. Always make yourself first.
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:23 AM
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Happens to me too dude. Sometimes other things are going on. There could be other guys or an ex came back. I normally try a few times but then let it go. I had this girl I liked go ghost on me. I texted her like a week later asking “why is it so hard to earn your attention?” She told me that her and her ex were rekindling. Bam mystery solved.
/r/seduction04/09/17 09:56 PM
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We’re all busy man. What I do is I keep a list of everything I want to accomplish for my day. Then after I do everything I wanted to do for me I’ll throw in a date. So for example during the week I know I finish my workout at 8:30 PM. The workout is the last part of my day. I’ll go Ahead and schedule a late night date. “If you’re free, I would like for you to meet me at X at 9:30-10” If a girl wants to go, she’ll go. Or include her in something you do for you. For example I dated this girl who w…
/r/seduction04/09/17 09:53 PM
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I give them three tries aka meaning three date offers, if she doesn’t make time I let it die or kill it. Think abundance. Lots of women in the world, I don’t need to fixate on one.
/r/seduction04/09/17 09:41 PM
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Beast
/r/seduction04/09/17 09:39 PM
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Hey! Sorry for getting back to you so late but you really got into my head and you're right. I've been going about this the wrong way. I don't have AA, so I just walk up to girls and say what's on my mind as long as it's not offensive or a poor tasting joke. But i feel that for the amount of talking I do to strangers, I should have more than one date for every 10 attempts. A first I thought maybe it's something about me but I'm 6'5" and I workout, I would say I am a solid 6. Anyways, I think you…
/r/seduction02/09/17 04:17 PM
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What a beast
/r/seduction01/09/17 08:33 PM
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Hit her with the “Hey you”
/r/seduction01/09/17 07:30 PM
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Fire Emoji
/r/seduction01/09/17 07:28 PM
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Do you have an example exchange for me to review ? I need work then lol
/r/seduction01/09/17 06:19 PM
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Why a bad approach? I think it was perfect. Straight to the point. That is what works for me. I see a girl and I’ll run over and be like “I know I’m a complete stranger but I think you’re absolutely gorgeous and I would like to introduce myself” He did the same by telling she’s pretty and wanted her number. Don’t you think?
/r/seduction01/09/17 06:09 AM
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Thanks for the post. Question on the Asian hottie, how did you transition into talking about bars?
/r/seduction08/07/17 04:52 AM
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I found out years ago I was addicted to the surroundings not the drinking. Turns out I was drinking because I was there. So what I did was take a different approach. I either drink Diet/Zero Coke or a I drink water with Lime in it. It gives the same feeling of drinking and it lets me fit in with the social situation. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction18/06/17 02:15 AM
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I had a rough night too. Only approached three girls got two numbers and the one I really liked called me a creep and told me not to touch her when I tapped her on the shoulder to approach LOL
/r/seduction05/07/15 02:32 PM
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Remember you should continue meeting other girls and almost like build up an inventory of ladies. Then you'll see that everything starts happening. You shouldn't have to wait for anything because you're already working on something else.
/r/seduction05/07/15 02:30 PM
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I mean everybody. Doesn't matter who they are. You should even be friending the Barista at Starbucks.
/r/seduction05/07/15 02:28 PM
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Why are you waiting for a reply? You meet, hook, close and move on to the next. While you're working on the next girl, the previous should message you. Essentially, you're never waiting on the original girl because you're working on the current girls you meet. Keep that going in a cycle.
/r/seduction05/07/15 06:51 AM
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Here's my tip: Talk to as many people as you can throughout the day. Literally, randomly talk to everyone. Store clerk, strangers, friends, etc. Give it one week and you'll see how good you get it.
/r/seduction05/07/15 06:19 AM
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Fucking leads to relationships. The girl finds out you like her while you're fucking her. In summary, you should try to fuck every girl that you meet. Then you worry about the relationship portion.
/r/seduction05/07/15 06:16 AM
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Define for me what ghosting is and I'll help.
/r/seduction05/07/15 06:13 AM
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Same boat here - I haven't been able to night game for this reason. However, day game alone is going well.
/r/seduction04/07/15 07:01 PM
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What a genius idea! I'm not even cologne shopping but that would be a great day at the mall to open using this technique.
/r/seduction04/07/15 06:59 PM
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Just by trying to lose weight and going to the gym you'll see how quickly the confidence builds. Take my word for it. I've lost about 30 pounds and my confidence is back.
/r/seduction04/07/15 01:58 AM
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This is the same way I started. I set myself a tiny goal. Now my goal is to approach someone everywhere I go. Trust me, it becomes addicting. You'll see how much fun it is.
/r/seduction04/07/15 12:35 AM
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Although you sealed the deal, she was pretty much for it from the get go. I think OPs situation is more cold approach where he doesn't know if the girl likes him. In your case, she wanted your D before you opened lol
/r/seduction03/07/15 03:38 PM
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Okay there two ways you can go about this: 1) High five them and they run by and smile. Make sure you stare into their eyes as if you're going to fuck the soul out of her. 2) Adjust your pace and run next to her or if she's coming from the opposite direction do a quick 180 and open to her.
/r/seduction03/07/15 12:28 AM
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Approach on the subway OP. I've had success there. Walk up to the first girl you see and open
/r/seduction26/06/15 10:08 PM
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OP you killed it. You didn't fail at all. Now set your goal to approach two girls in one day. Then three. The more interactions you get the better you will become. Remember you will never see these girls again. If the blow you off, fuck them. Move on to the next lady. Just walk up to some random girl today and be like Hi I'm _______. Say that shit like she's been waiting all week to meet you. While saying hi be sure to have a smile and stare into her eyes. I want you to see her fucking soul in h…
/r/seduction26/06/15 10:07 PM
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Same thing here at first but I learned it was my confidence in the approach wasn't there. Approach the girl as if you know she's in love with you and you're making her day. I realize that most of my approaches failed because I wasn't being confident.
/r/seduction24/06/15 10:48 PM
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I have a friend that doesn't have a car and he is successful with girls. In my opinion if you have a way to get from point a to point b. That's all you need. Just think about the money you're saving. More money to buy fly shit, travel, etc.
/r/seduction24/06/15 10:39 PM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction24/06/15 10:37 PM
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Thanks. I appreciate the advice.
/r/seduction24/06/15 02:42 PM
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Thanks so the best move is to abandon the set?
/r/seduction24/06/15 12:21 PM
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Thanks so the best move is to abandon the set?
/r/seduction24/06/15 12:20 PM
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Gym and diet like a monster. Women are attracted to fit men.
/r/seduction19/10/14 04:17 PM
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Check your local Groupon. When you find fitness deals, you can see how many people have bought one. Go with the popular ones.
/r/seduction06/07/14 09:07 PM
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