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My anger these days is focused squarely on myself for playing the nice guy for 36 years of my life and allowing myself to be so soft.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 03:53 PM
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I actually don't think you're completely wrong. TRP has helped me immensely in life since my divorce, but I still don't see it as black and white. I harbor zero anger or disrespect towards women, but I do loathe a certain ideology that women are precious and held do a different standard than those lowly men folk. I believe women are strong and amazing creatures who are capable of many things, and I respect them fully. I believe the same about men, but I think the amazing things we can do are jus…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 10:24 PM
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Certainly understand the intent of this post, but there are times in your life where a yes mindset can really be helpful. If you ever move somewhere where you don't know a soul, it can be good to say yest to everything for awhile to get out and meet new people and raise your social proof. Also... sometimes people have great suggestions for activities that you've never thought of. Broadening your horizons and finding new interests is always a positive. I think you mean not giving your time away w…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 03:48 PM
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I've noticed since doing IF that I absolutely cannot eat nearly as much in one sitting.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 05:07 PM
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Dude, this woman has pushed me to the ground while holding my son, dislocated my shoulder, punched me in the face, kicked me in the back of my knees, called me every name under the sun. If it makes me cruel to chuckle a bit at her misery, then I’ll happily own it.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:15 PM
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Ha. On one hand, I’m sorry. On the hand, congratulations!
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:14 PM
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Good question. It's entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 08:15 PM
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After my wife cheated on me and we divorced at 36, she thought the dude she cheated with would be her new man. Dude pumped and dumped, and she has been alone and miserable since. Actually has texted me a few times that she was contemplating checking into a mental facility. She can't understand why it's so hard to find a good guy who is tall, handsome, has a good job, will take her places, and be committed to her... basically all the things I was to her. My reply was that anyone who is single and…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 07:24 PM
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Nice, man. AT one point in my life, I went from 392 to 180. It was absolutely dumbfounding how much differently people treated me.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 03:32 PM
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Yep, this is typical, right-wing, angry at everything drivel that only sorta-kinda touches on anything red pill. That I would associate with anything people like this believe makes me question my own choices.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 03:09 PM
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You never see white on white or black on black crimes in the MSM? I see it all the time, dude. This is one of the worst posts I've seen on here in some time.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 03:02 PM
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I live out on the coast, west of Portland, so it’s not as bad. But I spend a lot of time in the Portland area. It’s offensive how many betas are there.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 01:50 PM
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Fellow Oregonian here. This state is absolutely full of soy boys. Especially in the willamette valley.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 03:51 AM
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This is a complete trash post. Women are 100% amazing creatures with gifts that we do not possess. They give life, they nurture, they do all kinds of amazing things. Just because we are red pilled does not mean we trash women. We understand and accept who and what they are. To me, that's the very essence of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 09:39 PM
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This is a good post. One of the sort of ideas that I've been kicking around is that porn makes men complacent and that is good for feminism. By regularly looking at it, men drain themselves of that life energy and don't engage fully as men. This is good for feminism, because (here's my assumption) if men are constantly sexually satisfied on their own, then they are more open to silly, feminine primary ideas.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 10:10 PM
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Yup. I've experienced nothing even resembling roid rage. If anything, I'm a lot more subdued. Not in a passive way, but just in a way that I don't feel like I have anything to prove. My boss was commenting on my "presence" the other day. I'm in a job where I do a ton of public speaking and presenting, taking questions and answers. He said he had never seen anyone with my kind of presence, and that I was slightly intimidating, but also very authoritative in the way I speak, without being too forc…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 03:48 PM
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This sub has gone full retard
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 06:09 PM
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After having learned all about this stuff, it’s amazing how much bro science is out there. “Roid rage” is actually a symptom of higher estrogen levels, not testosterone. And of course, as you mentioned, the shrinking balls thing. I pin HCG 24 hours before each test shot and have had no issues
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 04:29 PM
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Yeah, man. I like it a lot. I identify as democrat, not really liberal in the ways that most people who identify as liberal believe and I am absolutely sick of identity politics. With that said, I also cannot stand the far right these days. I really have no tolerance for either of the main extremes. Your blog speaks my language.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:14 PM
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That your blog? I'm quite taken by it.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 05:16 PM
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(not a new idea, but a way of describing an old idea that I hadn't seen before) Time isn't money, per se, but it is currency. Just like with money, you can decide to piss away your time and efforts, or you can decide to invest it. If you decide to invest your time in activities that make you a better person, you will see returns in much the same way you see returns from investment of currency.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 06:33 PM
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The next generation has weak men because they have weak fathers. The silly hippies of the baby boom started this. The good news is there's hope. Boys need men to show them the way. I saw a bunch of "men" walking around in furry animal costumes downtown when I was at a conference last week, and all I could think was that this was a very sad display of what it means to be an adult biological male in 2018. We've basically given up on masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 06:50 PM
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Movements are convenient for people who don't want to think too much and want to cling to an identity. Those are both the opposite of red pill to me.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 08:00 PM
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Yeah, my thought was similar. I think it's mislabeled, but the point is still a good one. If I let myeself think, "Ok, I have to go to the gym, run a 35-minute HIIT session, perform these six lifts, then get back to work for x meeting," I let myself start to talk myself out of it. If I think, "Alright time to get up from my desk and get some fresh air," I don't psych myself out nearly as much.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 07:51 PM
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There's really no explaining it. I agree with the "It's a mating strategy" comment. I'm all for other men being supplicating betas. They can go right ahead and let their women walk all over them and scream from the rafters with virtue signals. Women want men, not idiot betas who embrace feminism and partake in childish activities. So long as women's biological nature doesn't change, the scales are still tipped in the favor of men who embrace their masculinity as positive and do things to better …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 02:19 AM
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Ohhhhh hahaha, does THAT ever sound like my ex wife!?! She confided in me over text that she had slept with 20 guys since our divorce and how absolutely crushed she was that none of them wanted a relationship with her.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 10:34 PM
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Being controlling is the exact opposite of being alpha in my book. If you are the prize and you have abundance mentality, the woman should get one warning, then you move on, not whine and cry and act like your words should make her behave the way you expect.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 10:12 PM
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One thing I'd really like to work on is expanding my social circle. But at 38, a career, two kids that I have half-time, I don't have much time to really cultivate male friendships with people my age. Where have other dudes in my age bracket been able to plug in and make new friends?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 12:28 AM
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No, it's that women like men, not children. Dressing up in costumes and playing games is the way of children. There is simply nothing sophisticated or manly about that kind of stuff. You can still like nerdy stuff, but defy the stereotype of a basement dweller. Work out, eat well, dress well and have other interesting hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 09:14 PM
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I tend to loathe insincerity, so the PUA stuff has always seemed like bullshit to me. I’m handsome, I make six figures, I know how to take care of myself, I’m a role model for many people. If that’s not your thing, it’s your loss. Not mine. Go talk to the dweeb doing magic tricks in a bar if that’s your thing. I’ll hold out for a female who actually has a brain.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 08:11 PM
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I don’t think there’s any reason to give you shit for that. You like what you like. I’m all about the nerdy, curvy girls. Not giant dorks and not giant fat girls. Just cute girls who like geeky stuff and are capable of carrying on a decent conversation.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 04:22 AM
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I feel the exact opposite. If I'm gaming on a smart woman, especially one with a good career, I'm most at ease. But I'm also 38 and am pretty much at the top of my profession. I'm also in a field that all the, "I love to travel" types find fascinating (urban design and planning). Escalate to a walk around the city that includes me spitting some knowledge about city form and architecture, and they are putty in my hands. I've literally never once done this and not closed the deal. I don't think it…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 12:25 AM
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What the hell did I just quit reading 1/4 of the way through?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 08:10 PM
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Completely agree. Trump is a buffoon and not in any way a leader. Peterson is smart, on-message, and speaks in a thought-provoking, coherent manner.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 08:54 PM
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I don't know what to say here, but I do want to offer my support. My ex-wife accused me of being abusive because I tried to control who she talked to, meaning I told her that if she continued speaking with the coworker she had an affair with, that I was done. Hint: she didn't. Sounds like you have a great hold on your life and your direction, so that's awesome. Happy for you, man.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 05:27 PM
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I don’t know if I’ve ever considered myself liberal, but Ive always been a solid democrat. But I can NOT support this crap. It’s pathetic, and the fact that anyone can support this, let alone expect an apology from aziz, is very well beyond me. If the republicans can moderate on some issues, I will gladly switch parties.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 07:38 PM
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I’ve gotten to the point where I honestly cannot even listen to love songs. So freaking stupid. I’m a huge Phish fan, and I appreciate that there aren’t really any love songs, just pure silliness and jamming.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 07:57 PM
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I don’t know. I don’t really care enough to argue with you. Good day, sir.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 03:10 PM
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I don’t know which females you know, but I’ve known plenty of them whose only source of self value was the attention they received from men.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 02:37 PM
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It’s weird. I’ve been following this site for a long time. And internalizing what I’ve learned from it. I used to be a very weak man, but not now. I embrace the world with an attitude of plenty and of being the best version of myself I can be. Feminism is not to blame for anything that I care about in my world. I’m not angry. I’m not bitter. I’m strong. I’m strong for my kids and for myself. There is no root problem that I see other than my own upbringing and attitude. My ltr is a classical femi…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:52 AM
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Why? Let the bashful betas stay like that. More for us
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 07:58 PM
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Shame we only get one upvote.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:52 PM
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That’s the right play. I’m only six months out from my divorce, but we’ve been apart for a year. Two kids. In the year since we split, my ex has told me that she cheated on every guy she’s ever been with, that she was selfish, unhappy, bipolar, and how she screwed everything up by sleeping with her coworker. Now, she’s broke, miserable, and asking for me back. I’m having no part of it. I’m feeling better than I have in forever, dating girls fifteen years younger than I am, new job making six fig…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:49 PM
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Thanks, man. Keep that fire lit, man. Mine pushed me for a solid year, then suddenly I️ learned that I️ wasn’t the same person anymore. I️ wasn’t angry. I️ wasn’t hurt. And I️ didn’t hate her anymore. In fact, I️ even buried the hatchet one night with the dude she cheated with. He made a remark about how I️ definitely traded up (referring to the girl I️ was with).
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:06 AM
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I don’t know. I don’t cheap out on clothes for work, nor do I go crazy. I buy everything from Banana Republic, almost always when there’s a sale. Usually can stock up for a season for 300. That doesn’t seem outlandish. At the same time, it’s pretty obvious when someone wears cheap clothes from Kohl’s. You can just tell.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 10:46 PM
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No Kidding. The just friends thing is what ended my marriage (praise be to allah). They were just friends when she lied about where she was because she knew I’d be upset. She was just having a beer on his porch, though. They were just friends when she made out with him “for a few minute while drunk,” but of course she stopped him. They were just friends when I was devastated and heartbroken that I had been cheated on. They were just friends when she continued texting him while we were trying to …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 09:46 PM
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Wow, that chart sure explains Trump to a T
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 04:41 PM
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Pretty much nailed it for me. I don’t see the red pill as a means to nail as many chicks as possible. I’m in a ltr right now after banging tons of young girls between my last ex and this girl. I put up with zero and don’t hesitate to call her out in front of friends if she gives me a shit test in their presence. I’ve made it very clear that I will not put up with bullshit and that I’ll leave in a heartbeat and delete her from my phone and life if I don’t like how things are going. The other nigh…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 04:07 PM
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Anti education, politically driven drivel.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 12:02 AM
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I should probably try that.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 07:11 AM
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The hoody thing is weird. When I'm at the gym, I don't care what anyone else thinks. I'm on a voyage of self improvement, and I will wear whatever I damn well please. Usually a Phish shirt and running shoes.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 04:52 AM
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There's nothing wrong with women having their own stuff. if you feel like there's a need for male-only car insurance, knock yourself out, bro. I'm still a noob here, but I don't interpret TRP as having anything to do with women not being able to have their own things.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 08:14 PM
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Ran 20 miles this week, which had been a goal for awhile. Also biked 40 one evening. Dealt with some stuff at work that I had been way too involved in and decided to pull back. Slept 12 hours last night and woke up feeling amazing today.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 05:31 PM
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Ok, dude. Take this with a grain of salt, but I'd give anything to have discovered these things at age 22. I'm in my late 30's, fresh off a divorce, see my kids half-time, and have PTSD from being married to a psycho for a decade (a psycho with whom I still have to coparent, mind you). My wife had an affair with a coworker and left me a sad, resentful wreck. I cried on the floor begging her to stay. I took my anger out in ways that I never once thought I was even capable of. I was a "really nice…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:23 PM
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I wish I had seen this prior to marrying my ex.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 10:11 PM
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This is a thing? They won't proceed with you unless you have a proper number of IG followers? God I'm glad I'm in my late 30's.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 03:11 PM
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I wonder how many of us on here are here because of a cheating ex-wife that we recently divorced. Many of the comments here lead me to believe there are many of us. My ex wife has blamed me repeatedly for her affair for various reasons. Recently, I finally told her the reason why she had an affair was that I was a needy beta male who changed all the diapers, did all the laundry, and generally was at her beck and call, and that it taught me a lot about why I would never give up my power in a rela…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:40 PM
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This is timely for me. I'm reading, "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" right now, and was just reading some parts last night about what's your fault vs your responsibility. These things are not your fault, but they are your responsibility. It hit me hard last night because my divorce has been like this. It's not my fault, but how I deal with it is my responsibility. Funny how this is so basic, but it took me reading someone else's words to actually understand it.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 05:45 PM
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Opening line advice makes my stomach turn. I honestly don't think I've ever used one.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 04:15 PM
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I really find the whole idea that all RPers are right wingers to be a little weird. I sure as hell didn't vote for Trump and never would have even considered it. My degree is in public policy, and I understand laws and regulations pretty well. I'm probably as middle of the road as you can get, but I'm completely on board with this sub. I guess I don't really see the connection between being an ultra conservative and subscribing to RP truths.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 05:16 PM
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This post hits home with me quite a bit. Last June, my wife had an affair with a coworker. I blamed her, became an angry mess, and was just generally bitter and resentful. For years, I did everything. I changed all the diapers, gave the kids all their baths, put them to bed, got them ready in the morning. Gave her little things and took her on trips. As I've learned from "No More Mr. Nice Guy," I was giving to get, and when I wasn't getting, I was very resentful. I never acted like a man or real…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:39 PM
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