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Thanks man, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction24/04/17 06:09 PM
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I do like to be in charge and pick the direction of things, but only sometimes. I pretty open minded to try new things as well. I would literally do anything with someone if they showed they were interested in the things I do as well. For instance we bought gov ball tickets even though I wasn't interested in the artists playing. I think in the end we just weren't compatible and maybe I have a tendency to try and fix people who aren't broken. I'm just always trying to be better and I make the ass…
/r/seduction24/04/17 10:47 AM
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Definitely. I fucked something up but she once texted me saying that she doesn't like to make the decisions so I started giving suggestions. This whole thing is so weird. It must of been just subtle things. I'm obviously overthinking it like crazy. Some of the claims are also like the opposite of how I am (i think), like I avoid conflict like crazy but she could of just meant about what we do? I don't know man, probably just better to move on. Hurts though!
/r/seduction23/04/17 09:58 PM
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Yeah it happened twice so it just hurts. Can't help feeling like there is something wrong with me. I think maybe the confident persona I sometimes put on is overpowering a bit? Also, both girls had different world perspectives. I want to be successful and do new things while they were more just like regular people, which is fine, I think my ambition overwhelms people. Didn't know that I wasn't giving her orgasms though. That was my bad. She did offer her perspective on it though. She said "I thi…
/r/seduction23/04/17 06:29 PM
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Hey so I did ask her and my take from is it is that she thinks I'm pretentious? Idk. She said "I think our personalities clash. you like to be in charge and be the authority and it just starting to feel condescending" and then "and sex is pretty important to me but I havent has a single orgasm this whole time. and that didn't seem important to you". I mainly try to take charge since thats what the suggestions seem to be here, show her your world, bring to new experiences etc.
/r/seduction23/04/17 06:25 PM
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Didn't cancel and she came over. She's the type of girl I want, quiet considerate but she's just not into it unfortunately. Probably just need to disconnect but it's difficult since we were friends. I wasn't just looking for sex but for a companion and maybe that scared her off. Just need to get back out there and get as healthy as possible. I noticed I was being more mean to her, maybe just a bit bitter but she's not one to strike back. Always as a joke but that's not the way I normally treated…
/r/seduction31/01/17 03:39 AM
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You're totally right. It's more about just maning the fuck up and doing it at some point. Have any tips on going in for the kiss? Thanks man.
/r/seduction25/01/17 01:31 PM
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Think I needed to see this. I got way to attached since she was beautiful, put her on on a pedestal etc. I tried to play it cool, not text her too much, invite her to cool events etc. but at some point decided to let my guard down a bit and just be more casual with her. I never felt like we truly clicked though. I always felt like she wanted to move to Paris and find some French dude, which she has done before. I think I made her nervous too and couldn't make her feel more comfortable. I'm good …
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:32 AM
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On point 8, what if the girl occasionally has to cancel but offers to reschedule? Would the appropriate move be to say that you need to stop doing that or just let her do what she wants to do and keep looking for other?
/r/seduction19/01/17 05:05 AM
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Thanks for the response. Any tips on rapport building or good resources to check out? Taking it slow initially at the start of the night I think helped and we did end up having sex last night so probably there is something there, but would like to get to that next level with her. I think I'm most likely more of an open book then she is. I pretty quickly give people clues as to who I am and open up to receptive people but she doesn't seem to be the same way. To be completely honest, we are also v…
/r/seduction13/01/17 12:59 AM
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I think slowly escalating and focusing on making out might of helped. I try to be direct with my intentions with her and have definitely done this at certain points when we were both drinking (it's a little easier then) but sometimes I think she can feel a bit awkward. She's a smart girl but also quiet so sometime aggressive make out sessions don't feel appropriate. Tough call though!
/r/seduction12/01/17 12:45 PM
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With all of the info above do you still think that she is not that into it? I prefer not to waste my time and would like to escalate this into a relationship if possible. Probably need to keep meeting girls so i don't get too hung up, especially since I saw Coffee Meets Bagel on her phone yesterday. I'm still on the apps as well but mainly to not get too hung up on her. Is it ever a good idea to just let your intentions be known, like, "hey I like you do you want to move this forward? What do yo…
/r/seduction12/01/17 12:42 PM
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While I do like sex, I think that a large part why I'm seeing this girl is because I like to get out and go to shows etc. I might have been over compensating by escalating a bit too much. Last night by focusing on just talking with her and only began escalating by putting my hand on her leg during the show I think went a lot smoother. She did head out before morning sex though, which she always does, but maybe that's just the way she is?
/r/seduction12/01/17 12:31 PM
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I think you have a lot of great points in here and I read this before I met up with her last night. I focused a lot more on just trying to have good conversation with her and not necessarily trying to escalate or be too "jokey". She did want to come back to my place instead of heading home and we hung out in my room. We ended up hooking up and I took it really slow until she seemed like she wanted it and then we had sex. She's a bit of a quiet girl so I know I may have to go slow with her but I …
/r/seduction12/01/17 12:27 PM
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Yeah I think it's possible I'm jumping to far ahead. And we are mainly in the living room since my room is a bit small and we play guitar and what not out there.
/r/seduction11/01/17 05:48 PM
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Hmm good idea.
/r/seduction11/01/17 05:44 PM
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Idk about that. It's possible but we keep making plans together and I think my intentions are pretty clear. I've always met her friends, she's met mine and few other indicators that she is interested. Are there ways to avoid becoming friend zoned? Topics to avoid?
/r/seduction11/01/17 05:23 PM
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I think it definitely could be a push pull thing. She likes to make out and I'm not really that into that. I'll do it but I prefer to feel her if that makes sense. Possibly just need to spend some more time making her comfortable and not rush.
/r/seduction11/01/17 05:18 PM
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Not official or anything but have been seeing each other in a "romantic" sense for the last few weeks. Go to the movies and hold hands, hook up at my apartment, have a date planned to walk around a museum. We didn't have sex on our last encounter and now after the museum she said she will need to go home to pack for a trip the following day. I just feel like it's difficult to sleep with her when she's not drinking. Once she even said I make her nervous when I was escalating things. I'm pretty jo…
/r/seduction11/01/17 05:16 PM
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I have a question for you, what if saying something like "I think your fucking hot" is just not the way you communicate. I think Luke feel much more comfortable with, I think your gorgeous or specifically complimenting her hips, figure etc. any difference there or as long as you say it with confidence it doesn't matter? I have a girl who clearly likes me but we only have sex occasionally and I would like to make the relationship more sexual, beside just making out and touching.
/r/seduction11/01/17 01:43 PM
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I texted her saying that the plans <town 30 mins away> are not serious and I would love to go. I also do love house parties so I really did want to go. She texted me back "Yay!" so I think she was excited as well. Now, my friends are all going to be meeting an hour away and I'm actually interested in where they are going (old friends house we use to have a lot of fun at) and I'm torn. Might just go to the house first and then meet up with her. Ideal situation would be her and her friend came to …
/r/seduction30/12/16 07:37 PM
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You're the best man. Happy New Year to you as well :)
/r/seduction30/12/16 04:53 PM
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