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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Women promote ridiculous and overly broad definitions of sexual assaultYeah the case law is that if they are simply intoxicated they have agency yet if they are incapacitated by alcohol they don’t have the agency to consent. I wish more people realized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Has adultery historically been a catastrophe in relationships?No im just kinda curious to why romance values changes quickly over generations. We are influenced by our cultures but people act like it’s somehow innate to them to write love letters or use pet names. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Has adultery historically been a catastrophe in relationships?Isn’t adultery what created the protagonist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Has adultery historically been a catastrophe in relationships?I think it was considered less important in romantic relationships not that is was less important in general. I think we have tied relationships and sex so much together that there can be confusion when talking about one to imply the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?I always feel like I’m walking on eggshells that week and I’m that our relationship is teetering on the edge. And yeah there are probably rational things that upset her like i didn’t rinse my glass or spent money on food without getting her anything. But many times it’s that I took a wrong turn because she said “turn here” so I went right instead of left and to her it’s obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?Should he tell you that your hormones might be attributing to your irritability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?I simply wish that regardless of making mistakes that we can grow as a person. With the women close to me it feels like it’s not something to learn from as I will be on the receiving end of raised voices again soon. With my gf in particular I have brought it up that she is incredibly loud and it makes me want to flee. Her mother has called her out on this as well when she overhears us on the phone. I think that she can learn to be more in control of her behavior when she is more aware of it; she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?That’s not taking accountability for their behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?I’m not allowed to have an opinion about peoples actions that affect me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?That’s very unfortunate and I wish their actions go unexcused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?Just like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:43 PM |
| -1 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?No, I speak softly such that only the person I’m speaking to can hear me regardless of environment. It’s one of the things my gf likes about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?For when either of us thinks thing are getting out of control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:38 PM |
| -4 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?Pain is a need to take care of. My gf only experiences pain on her period and moodiness before her period. That’s about what I experience with my sisters as well. I don’t mind at all helping to ease her pain. I do mind being yelled at instead of communicating with me over trivial things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?She has safe words for a variety of scenarios, we share safe words. She typically only uses the ones to show that she’s scared for like a haunted house or zip lining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?If they complain about their desires they are immature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:09 PM |
| -3 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?I feel more comfortable telling my friends that they need to analyze their state of being because they are irrational. My partner and I have come up with a safe word and she gets frustrated when I use it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?Any guy who blames his hormones for irritable aggressive behavior is quite immature and lacks introspection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?Everyone should be able to keep their composure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?My sisters seem to be aware they are more irritable but don’t make the connection. I don’t think my partner is aware of her actions. I had an older guy come up to us at one point and ask if she needed to be yelling at me and she just said that she wasn’t yelling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?That behavior shouldn’t be humored either, very immature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 04:35 PM |
| 0 | How would you know if your partner was cheating?Yeah same thing happened with my current partner like 5 months into being exclusive she kissed a guy when they had a church get together at her house with alcohol. A week later she broke down and told me, I forgave her. I assume she may have made out with him quite extensively because he was a dude who had been trying to get with her for a long time and she was starting to date him when we first got together. I don’t hear of him anymore now that we are 3 years in but there have been instances wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 07:11 AM |
| 7 | How would you know if your partner was cheating?Yeah I have faith but no matter how much faith we have we are all subject to the human condition or being inebriated such that our self control is lesser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Are beautiful people more well equipped to survive?Yeah very true, although I think androgynous people are perceived as more attractive as it’s what I see in mall posters or magazine stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Are beautiful people more well equipped to survive?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:36 AM |
| 7 | Is casual sex worth the risk of herpes?HSV 1 or 2? you probably wouldn’t know anyways because men are often asymptomatic and they don’t test for it. If you plan on having sex with multiple people then you will probably not have symptoms and because you are asymptomatic you will have an ever so slightly less risk of passing it forward. Just wear a condom, don’t kiss, don’t perform oral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Reassuring your partner about fidelityI tell her I would prefer she didn’t but she knows my password and I don’t really do much on my phone besides social media and texting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Reassuring your partner about fidelityNah her dad is pretty machismo and I’d probably get beat up since I haven’t married her yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Reassuring your partner about fidelityYeah unfortunately although saying things like “I think you’re pretty” feels very genuine to me she things that it’s a bit cliche. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:34 AM |
| 0 | Reassuring your partner about fidelityAlthough I left this bit out of my post, to me it is pretty odd, she does go through my phone every month or so and additionally I have never cheated while a few months after we decided we were mutually exclusive she told me that she had made out with a guy when they hosted a party at her home. It’s been 2 years since then so I don’t hold it against her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Reassuring your partner about fidelitySome people say that I sounds like that over text occasionally, in person you wouldn’t know I was on the ASD spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Reassuring your partner about fidelityMy gfs family is catholic as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Reassuring your partner about fidelitySome things I say aren’t very tactful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 07:43 PM |
| 1 | For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both?Before she was on the pill about 3 times a day now that she is on BC about 3 times a week. I like it about once a day for peak performance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 03:17 AM |
| 2 | how important is oral / fore play for you as a woman in terms of how much you like a man?I feel I’ve dated a lot of women on the other extreme side of the spectrum; I accused my now girlfriend for placating me every time she told me she didn’t like me touching, licking or sucking her clit in any manner, although that’s just how she is. She’s sensitive enough that anything inside her get her off in a couple minutes or less. Honestly I slightly feel as if I missed out on mastering my sexual skills with women because I haven’t dealt with anyone who couldn’t cum easily with a penis or f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Nonverbal consentThat’s kinda how I feel thus I usually ask in a more clinical fashion to be certain. But because I do so it “ruins the mood” and called irrational or out of touch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:25 AM |
| 0 | Nonverbal consentIt does seem like the explicit approaches are too awkward for people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Nonverbal consentBut say if someone wanted to kiss you would you want them to directly ask “would you like to kiss” or would you like them to lean in and feel it out? You don’t really explain, you just said that women are less reciprocal to advances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Nonverbal consentI would say you are in the majority, most women doing like it when I’m straightforward, but I usually play it off well I think so I can get to a point I know what she wants. First few dates I’m still getting to know someone and it would be unclear if I’m pushing them and they are only going along because they don’t want to upset me. Now that we’ve been together for a year I don’t ask I just start kissing her neck before taking off her clothes. Yet if I say something like that plain and simple it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Nonverbal consentNever heard it called condescending before, I’d rather ask so it’s not ambiguous to whether they really want it or are just going along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Nonverbal consentCulture is a better word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Nonverbal consentLet me put it this way. She has a more extreme version of non verbal communication than I understand. I was lectured for an hour when I got home because as we were walking back we saw a man struggling to remove furniture from their apartment, I asked if he needed a hand and he told me he had it under control. My partner grilled me for not going to assist anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Nonverbal consentI’m talking more about how I would ask things like “may I hold your hand, I don’t want you to end up in the ER?” or “would you like to kiss” while we were skating. Although I said it in a pretty normal way, she thought it was awkward enough to tell me to stop in a serious enough tone. We’ve been together for a year so I’ve caught on but it’s been like this in many facets of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 04:58 PM |
| 5 | Are attractive woman generally extroverted?I mean I think there are correlations. “Weird / odd looking and behaving kids got treated different which probably dramatically affects their behavior and outgoing ness as adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?I have a feeling you’d go crazy for this 6’3” gal I dated once; she’s a bit too assertive for my taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?You’d make a cute femboy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 05:31 PM |
| 0 | cmv: I think dating multiple people at once is not only morally awful, and but also effectively awful.I go on dates with people till I’m confident I want to ask one to be exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingHow would they pay in your analogy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingMen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 01:34 AM |
| 9 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingThey pay by being attractive and high class? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingI think it’s more that if overnight all men suddenly became super attractive many women’s standards would change to the top few of that new attractive bunch of men they could get once more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingI think the principle most men despise is how picky women are and even if they feel they are equally accomplished and charismatic as the women they seek they will be shot down myriad times. I don’t think they claim to be entitled to it. They simply are frustrated women want to date someone more accomplished than they are in many cases. I can sympathize with them and their frustrations, but I don’t like how it often turns into resentment. I’m really glad I found a young lady in a Starbucks a coup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers should stop bringing up evo psych and dating studies because it makes their argument much weakerYup it’s a balancing act of both you and the top prior, investment and spreading seed to get the most and most successful offspring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Men who don't have sex equate having sex with self-worthI think it’s also other women’s perception of my worth based on my experience with women previously; it’s likely not a conscious association, but I’ve noticed that if they feel they have competition or that I’ve been fucking around they will humor me to a greater degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Hookups and LTRs have different standards. If you weren’t upfront about just wanting sex, it’s your fault that you were strung along.I’d say it’s more subconscious that you don’t think they are as valuable as a sexual conquest so even if someone who wants a romantic relationship with you and takes you back after the first date and is still only adequate looking there will be less of a subconscious desire to respond sexually to their advances than an attractive man doing similar or even less romantically inclined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:56 PM |
| 3 | There's no way to know if a guy has taken the Red Pill unless he explicitly tells youTrue Red pillers don’t blame women’s psychology they simply understand it and use it to their advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | There's no way to know if a guy has taken the Red Pill unless he explicitly tells youIf this is the case they may identify as such but they don’t practice the core ideology of sophistication and accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:17 PM |
| 3 | what’s the appeal in dating a woman with no experience?I kinda feel this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | If you're a guy whose goal is to have as many children as possible, what is your best course of action?I could elaborate if you’d like. Evolution is all about being able to produce the most offspring at the lowest cost. But it also needs to account for the survivability of those offspring. Because we have social services to assist even in absent fathers it’s no longer necessary for a father to be there evolutionarily speaking because the child will survive. No matter how unethical that sounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 11:20 PM |
| 2 | If you're a guy whose goal is to have as many children as possible, what is your best course of action?Ultimately male humans are selfish sperm doners. It used to be the best strategy to keep your offspring alive was to provide for them. It’s no longer that way so evolution is taking it’s own hands to warp us even if we aren’t conscious of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 06:43 PM |
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