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ofapthirty/r/seduction18/07/17 06:28 PM
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ofapthirty/r/seduction08/08/16 09:17 PM
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They're usually not gonna tell you your dick is big. And in my experience, they're typically pretty clueless about size anyway. Besides, there's a whole lot more to life than your dick. Hell, there's a whole lot more to life than women. If you give people the power to appraise your life by what they think of your dick, you're handing over your life to them. YOU are the only one that should judge anything about your life. Stop giving other people's opinions so much power over yourself.
/r/seduction03/04/19 11:15 PM
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Stop thinking about it so much and have fun. The more you think about it, the more awkward you'll be. Send her something like "hey I'm heading to [insert fun bar type place here] on [Friday/Saturday]. You game?" Straight to the point.
/r/seduction19/02/19 12:33 AM
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That just sounds kinda creepy. I'd say something like "Depends. What's in it for me?"
/r/seduction03/01/19 09:41 PM
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You're making progress. Keep getting just a little better every day and you'll get there. Here's my tip: don't trade nudes. Don't even get explicitly sexual before meeting up. If you're getting that far, the only thing getting her nudes is gonna do for you is help you jerk off when you're not fucking her. Very few women in my experience will progress to meeting after getting sexual over txt/tinder/kik/whatever. They want plausible deniability and for "one thing to lead to another" and getting ov…
/r/seduction26/12/18 09:23 AM
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That's exactly right. Its a cumulative effect. Strength training of the mind. At first you just feel like you've sat there with your eyes closed doing nothing. Eventually you get good enough at self monitoring that you can feel the difference before and after.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 10:13 PM
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It feels embarrassing because it is embarrassing. Why are you getting angry that a girl doesn't reply right away?
/r/seduction11/12/18 08:06 PM
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Agreed. Though maybe ask on mariedredpill
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:03 PM
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Don't. You should be trying to set up a date within 5 messages or so. Trying to maintain a conservation on tinder is a losing game because you have to constantly stay more interesting than the horde of other cocks messaging her constantly.
/r/seduction04/12/18 06:53 PM
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Some of the more sexually open girls will go for it right away, sure. But you'll be limiting your options. Most girls want "one thing to lead to another". I've had the best results not even mentioning sex until I'm already undressing her. If for some reason you can't go out for drinks or some other meet up, yeah some girls will come right over specifically for sex. But they're few and far between. And it makes it a little more awkward when they actually get there. As with all things, you're more…
/r/seduction26/10/18 10:41 PM
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Dude this isn't hopeless. It's easier than you think, actually. But like a muscle you've never worked out, there's going to be a learning curve, and it isn't going to be easy, but if you stay determined and keep at it consistently, you are guaranteed success. My advice as a beginner currently working through it myself, is stop focusing on girls, or pickup, or any of that, and first just focus on developing the self. Because you can either go about this by getting good at acting the right way, wh…
/r/seduction20/07/17 03:58 PM
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Lol are you really starting a pissing contest over who has the worse anxiety? The anxiety I'm talking about is very real. It's the reason I was kissless at 18. I couldn't even talk to women. The prospect of even looking at a woman and directly saying "Hi" would constrict my chest and put a knot in my throat. Let alone have a fucking conversation! Actually talking to women I'd shake, my voice would tremble, I'd sweat, get dizzy, tunnel vision, nausea, and generally be very panicked and unable to …
/r/seduction19/07/17 05:36 PM
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So it started by meeting my wife in an amateur sport we do together several years ago. I was 21 at the time, before I ever even started reading any seduction material. I had been with 3 women at the time. Knew nothing and had no game, but the one thing I did have going is for some reason I've always felt relaxed and confident in this group of people. Literally the only place I've felt that, so I did manage to approach and strike up a cringy conversation that went something like: ... random small…
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:43 PM
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Exactly. I recently moved and during that process I fell out of the habit and lost my sleep schedule. Depression and anxiety set in much faster than I had anticipated. Luckily, however, they also went away much faster when I resumed.
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:34 PM
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No we're not. It's just casual sex for us. We started out as swingers, learned she loves watching me fuck other women, and now here we are!
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:33 PM
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Now that you're a great mediator, start using it to introspect and observe and figure out what's going on and where your bottleneck is
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:31 PM
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I'll start by saying I'm still a beginner myself... Mostly just a lurker, but as someone that up until recently sounded just like you, was getting results just like yours, and never bought into this "inner game" bs, I feel I have some valuable insight for you. It really 100% is about your internal state of mind. You can fake it, and you might succeed after a whole lot of effort, stress, and mostly luck... Or you can develop your inner state such that you get the same results with a whole lot les…
/r/seduction18/07/17 05:36 PM
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Check out the FAQ. but tl;dr escalating touch
/r/seduction31/08/16 03:45 AM
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I'm fairly new to this myself but I do know that yes you should hug her. Most women won't mind it, and it will make her (and probably you) more comfortable from the get-go. Also breaks the touch barrier so kino is easier.
/r/seduction31/08/16 01:46 AM
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Newb here, but I agree. I have been doing a lot of reading & absorbing, and just a little practice when the opportunity arises. I know when I'm in my head and actively thinking about techniques, I'm awkward. When I relax, smile, and just focus on having fun and being lighthearted and laughing, some (but not all) of the techniques start to happen naturally. Sure I'm not checking all the boxes, but it's genuine & not forced and it got me a threesome just the other day so... I think it's a matter o…
/r/seduction29/08/16 05:36 PM
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Do you have a particular approach? Do you usually hit the clubs, or stick to more low key areas? Day game? If you absolutely needed to get laid tonight with someone you haven't met before, where would you go, & how would you game? Also what's your body fat %?
/r/seduction28/08/16 03:51 PM
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Is she at all interested in sleeping with other guys, maybe as part of a couple (i.e. swinging)? We've tried swinging as a couple, and had one mfm as it was one of her fantasies. Turns out she doesn't like sleeping with other men and mostly wants to watch me fuck anyway. So now we're just unicorn hunters. Thanks for the suggestions!
/r/seduction09/08/16 01:55 PM
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