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[–]ofapthirty 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It feels embarrassing because it is embarrassing. Why are you getting angry that a girl doesn't reply right away?
[–]khyuytfffhhjy 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
The more time I spend on dating sites/apps the angrier I get. Right now I feel like I want to rape and torture all women that have ever rejected me.
[–]Lem0nzzx 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOOOOL. Don't know why I found that funny but still.
[–]hunterpua 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
First of all, don't do that shit.
Even if she did actually just ignore you, you're caring way too much and wasting a too much energy by being pissed at her.
I'm giving you this advice not for womens' sake but for your sake. Making comments like "whore" or "bitch" to women who ghost you is just a waste of your fucks to give and it makes you needy. No, it doesn't make you look needy, it makes you be needy. So do yourself a favor and start giving less fucks.
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You can continue the interaction if she still texts you but apologize for the remark you made because the act of apologizing is recognition of bad behavior and you want her to know that you think that being reactive and giving too much of a fuck is a bad thing because those behaviors are turn offs and by not trying to distance yourself from those behaviors in her eyes, she will assume that you're just normally really reactive and give too much of a fuck and will be turned off by you.
All you need to say really is, "Sorry, that was really immature of me." let her acknowledge it and if there is no more word from her about it then proceed with the interaction as usual and give less fucks!
[–]khyuytfffhhjy 7 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
You don't seem to know what the fuck you're talking about. Never apologize.
[–]hunterpua 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Actually, people who say "never" for anything in social interactions are the ones who don't know what they're talking about. They are the equivalent of blue belts in martial arts pretending to be black belts.
A "blue belt" in seduction will give you a list of wrong moves but a black belt knows that there are no wrong or right moves, there are only wrong or right times to do a move.
[–]khyuytfffhhjy-1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
you aint hardly no fucking black belt nigga
[–]khyuytfffhhjy 7 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
This particular woman I'm chatting to right now works at a Thai massage parlor. Probably jerks off dicks and more every day. That makes it even worse. I've talked to such women before and I always stopped after a while because I really don't know if I want to date such a woman. Actually I think it was maybe just one where I stopped texting, but I've talked to maybe two or three others where they stopped replying when I asked if they give happy ending.
[–]ostentagious 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It sounds like you have a significant amount of underlying self-esteem issues that need to be addressed before you will find any dating success, and even if somehow your rejection rate dropped to 0%, that still wouldn't fix these underlying issues.
Why would you assume someone jerks off dicks just because they work at a massage parlor? There is probably a 1% chance, if that, that any masseuse you meet is doing that. And on top of that, of course they would stop replying to you if you asked them that, as it is extremely offensive. You are setting up self-fulfilling prophecies for failure for yourself in falsely assuming these things and then acting upon them or letting them significantly effect your thoughts/emotions/behavior.
And replying "whore" to a woman just because she didn't reply, even if it was out of not being interested in you, demonstrates that they were well founded in this disinterest because what self respecting person would want to be with someone who would react like that? A much better mind set is "no problem on to the next one". You could be the juiciest peach on the tree and there would still be people out there who fucking hate peaches, and thats ok.
My best advice would be to quit the dating apps for now, especially since they only seem to be worsening your self esteem, and invest heavily in working on yourself rather then investing heavily in pursuing women.
Remember, nobody owes you anything, especially women, and fostering ideations of rape and torture to those who have rejected you in the past only means that they made the right decision.
If you want a TLDR on how NOT to think/behave, go take a gander at r/niceguys.
Good luck and I hope you find the right path to go down.
Not wanting to date a prostitute equals me having self-esteem issues? I stopped reading there you flaming fucking faggot cuck.
[–]ostentagious 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No you clearly have a variety of issues because you think and act like a child, and if your on this sub I'm assuming you're an adult. Have fun living a lonely life full of hate and self loathing :)
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