offbeatbouquet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
275	Emptiness and loneliness as a man	General	offbeatbouquet	/r/MensRights	22/10/22 03:36 PM
115	Why do men always have to propose marriage?	Marriage/Children	offbeatbouquet	/r/MensRights	04/08/23 10:27 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a break Guy thinks friendly girl at work is flirting with him, tries to flirt back, gets labeled as a creep at the office or worse reported to HR for harassment. Happens all the time to men. Even just allegations or dropped charges can ruin a man that's done nothing wrong. That is infact dangerous and a real risk for men. Meanwhile women are virtually never labeled as sexual harassers and you can get away with a lot with little consequences. After misinterpreting different things as flirting, the risks,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 07:35 PM
1	The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a break How does the average guy develop "game" if he's constantly faced rejection? If you constantly got rejected for something you'd just say fuck that I'm doing something else. At the same time, men don't want to play silly subtle flirty games, just be direct and suddenly those men might open up more. They don't want to play it either because it's all ambiguous and I guarantee every guy has experienced what he thought was flirting but the girl was just being nice, and misunderstandings for guys can b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 11:34 AM
4	The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a break Socialized to depend on their partner for emotional fulfillment is a nice way of saying boys are raised differently from birth and aren't allowed to express most emotions. If a woman cries everyone rushes to comfort her, if a man cries people will look at him with disgust and even be a bit afraid. If every time you ever opened up about your emotions it was shut down, laughed at, and alienated you, you'd bottle that shit up too. Once a man is comfortably in love only then does he finally let go a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 11:27 AM
2	Emptiness and loneliness as a man You said exactly what I was thinking but couldn't put into words. If a woman posts that they need support, they get flooded with it. Men and women are there for them. But if a man needs support, even in this very community, the responses are basically "Something's wrong with you. Stop whining and go fix it and stay busy". Afterwards you've also lost the respect of most fellow men for even asking and any attraction a woman might have had for you.	/r/MensRights	23/10/22 12:45 PM
11	Why is every question or topic men bring up regarding women misrepresented / mislabeled? Literally modifying the appearance of your face, artificially increasing your height with uncomfortable shoes, or wearing a push up bra? Oh that's just a normal well adjusted individual and shame on you for questioning it. Clearly that's all for themselves somehow. Man drives a big truck without saying a word? INSECURE! COMPENSATING!	/r/MensRights	23/10/22 12:29 PM
13	Emptiness and loneliness as a man This is the kind of shit I'm talking about. "Just man up bro focus on your purpose then you don't feel anything" Maybe that works for you guys but idk how you guys bottle it up for decades. We're human. We're social animals. We have emotions. At least I do. Pursuing money and fitness hasn't fixed anything for me. I need community and deep connections not money and drinking bros to discuss how much I can lift with.	/r/MensRights	22/10/22 03:55 PM