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Field Reportoglowkey/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 04:40 PM
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You wanting to smash has nothing to do with how she feels. Even if you think she doesn't like you, fuck it. Go for it. (I mean make an attempt don't rape the bitch) To answer your question, if she touches you you have a chance. Girls dismiss dudes that they find unattractive. Pay attention to that gut feeling bro; rarely has it led me astray.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 06:25 PM
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Haha it's ok to be nice to women bro; just keep your distance and make sure they don't disrespect you. You'll feel it in your gut when a chick is testing you and all you got to do it check her. Some girls don't deserve my kindness and some do. It depends on the girl. Confidence does not mean you have to be a dick. If you understand women's nature you can be yourself.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 01:44 PM
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Good man
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:12 PM
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"How did my little guy taste?" She got you bro lol. Drop your ego and keep it moving. What do you have to prove? She still sucked your dick...
/r/askTRP29/05/16 06:48 PM
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Talk is cheap bro
/r/askTRP28/05/16 10:07 PM
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I'm not good when it comes to gaming over text messages but I think you should let this one go. Maybe next time you ask for the number while asking her out. Phrase it like: "Give me your number I want to take you out sometime" or"I'm free on X lets go to X give me your number"
/r/askTRP28/05/16 09:24 PM
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Be honest with her. Ask her out
/r/askTRP28/05/16 09:07 PM
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Yeah but use this as a sign to search for things that interest you. Learn how to be introspective and honest with yourself. To me, happiness came when I had goals and worked towards them. If you're out of shape, eat better and workout. If you have anxiety, try meditation. Don't think about doing things actually DO something.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 12:20 PM
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If you read the sidebar you would have told Kay to fuck off. NOBODY should tell you who you can or cannot talk to. This means you can't tell her who she can or can't talk to either. If she wants to talk to Greg let her. You're not confident enough in your game so you feel threatened by other dudes. You're ego is fucking up your success with this woman bro.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 12:02 PM
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I experienced this. You're transitioning out of the anger phase and you are now learning how to think rationally when dealing with other people. This feeling of emptiness will pass don't worry.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:57 AM
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Yep Bruce Banner is turning into the Hulk!
/r/askTRP25/05/16 11:51 AM
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It's actually a good skill to have. I like to surround myself with people that are as good if not better than me.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 03:28 PM
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Why?
/r/askTRP24/05/16 12:20 AM
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"...but I know the smart decision would be to go"
/r/askTRP24/05/16 12:17 AM
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No. You did all of those things. You could have dismissed the advice like most people but you didn't. You listened and applied the concepts. You're not giving yourself enough credit.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 12:14 AM
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If you know the answer why ask us? You know what you need to do so the next step is to act on it. It's not good to be dependent on others for reaffirmation. This kind of sounds like a brag.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 12:06 AM
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What debt? You don't owe anybody anything man; you're the one who put in the work.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 11:57 PM
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You don't owe the world anything. Do what you can and help those that want to listen.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 10:29 PM
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People keep using that saying incorrectly. When someone says don't forget where you came from its supposed to mean don't forget where you came from so you don't come back. So many people use that saying as a way to hinder someone's progress. Stay awesome and stay arrogant bro but don't get mad at them. It's human nature for others to hate on someone who's shining.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 02:45 PM
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Interesting, which one of Nietzsche's works? I would like to read more.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 08:41 PM
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Yeah but the Hodgetwins are hilarious. You don't watch them for the food you watch them because of the banter and shit talking.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 08:27 PM
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Yep and we have the pleasure of having all of the information laid out for us. I couldn't imagine someone going through the trial and error necessary to acquire all of this knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 05:38 PM
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Brevity is the soul of wit. If your not going to edit yourself at least put a tl;dr at the end.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 01:02 PM
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Yes, kiss her on the first date. Make sure you touch her throughout the date so the kiss isn't jarring to her.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 10:06 AM
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I disagree, you reach something I like to call the idgaf point. You just throw shit out there and the woman you are talking to can feel that you really couldn't care less if they gave you their number or not.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 01:24 PM
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Why do you think marriage is necessary for you to have a family?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:55 PM
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You are overthinking it. Keep the response short and with very little emotion. The reply I suggested isn't salty imo. Tell her to enjoy her trip and if she wants to hit you up again she will if she doesn't she won't. That's why you have other girls on the side so you can let a girl go without thinking about it.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 01:40 PM
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"That's fine. Enjoy your trip hmu if you want"
/r/askTRP11/05/16 01:18 PM
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"If you didn't look good I wouldn't be here with you right now"
/r/askTRP11/05/16 01:10 PM
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I never compliment things that women have no control over. If a girl is fishing for compliments I pull her aside say,"If you didn't look good I wouldn't be with you right now."
/r/askTRP11/05/16 01:09 PM
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What? Get that corny shit out of here.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 12:52 AM
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You fucked up when you confronted her about her guy friends. Don't let a girl know that her having guy friends bothers you; it shows insecurity and that's ammo for her to use against you later on. Often times a woman will purposefully flirt with guys in front of you to see how you react. She's trying to see what will make you go off so she can use this against you whenever she's angry at you. These bitches ain't shit huh? Stop talking to this girl man. She's trying to shame you into apologizing.…
/r/askTRP10/05/16 05:15 PM
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No man don't kill your ego just don't allow it to take over. Emotions are important but letting them dictate your actions is the problem.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 02:51 PM
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Ask yourself questions. Why am I feeling this way? What about this girl is making me feel this way? etc... If the answers to your questions are based on nothing but emotion your superego is taking over and your holding on to this idealistic view of what it means to care for a woman.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 02:34 PM
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You fucked up by saying what's wrong bro. Your girls fickle emotions shouldn't concern you. You have to suppress your ego man, she's not your possession; let girls do what they do. Only talk to her about it when she disrespects you. Learn from this. Next time your girl gives you a negative vibe the best move is to back off. A girl will try and bait you into an argument by acting cold so you can initiate it.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 02:11 PM
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I don't recommend marriage but a LTR is fine. You only have a LTR with someone that you deem worthy enough to train. Preferably with someone that is OK with swinging and/or threesomes.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 11:36 AM
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Tbh dude, I wish I didn't give a fuck about females. Work on yourself and get that money bro. Just to be safe, go to the doctor and check your T levels.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 04:50 PM
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"Who the fuck are you talking to? Delete my number." and then bounce. Next time a girl comes at you like that, check her ass and then stop talking to her. Don't give that level of disrespect validity.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:47 PM
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You have to learn how to suppress your superego and let bitches do what they do. I like to double down and recommend she ask him out. I've conditioned myself to do it without an ounce of sarcasm or disdain. I kindly tell her "Hey if you find a better guy than me leave me. I won't be mad just let me know" It sounds crazy but it works for me.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 04:40 PM
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Look up Intermittent Fasting. It helped a lot for me.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 05:25 PM
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"You Should" R.I.P. Patrice O'neal
/r/askTRP04/05/16 12:49 PM
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You answered your own question; follow your passions. The great thing about being a man is our age and looks aren't very important when it comes to getting girls. That nagging feeling is probably you comparing your life to the status quo. Live for yourself. When you're at your deathbed and you reflect on your life, do you want to regret not doing what you wanted to do because you submitted to the stereotypical relationship bullshit?
/r/askTRP02/05/16 05:08 PM
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Normally dismissal works on women but with real alpha girls (black bitches) sometimes a good stern shut your ass up works. You have to match their aggression with more aggression and its fascinating to watch as they back off and start acting submissive.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 06:30 PM
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"If you want a relationship with me you have to compete. If you're not down with that stop talking to me"
/r/askTRP30/04/16 04:17 PM
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I don't recommend going to the gym everyday. It's good to have a couple of days off so you can stick to your schedule. I recommend meditation. Trust me it's not because of that hippie shit. meditation helped me a lot with my mood and allowed me to control my thoughts.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:52 PM
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Because a lot of friendships between women are based on proximity and nothing else, that and the fact that women are prone to gossiping. Have you ever scrolled through your FB feed on the second or third day of classes? You'll see pictures of girls with the caption "Besties!!" I'm thinking to myself "I bet these bitches don't even know each other's last names."
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:49 PM
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I recommend stop trying to get this girl. Practice your new found confidence on new girls. This girl has seen how you were before so the work needed to change how she perceives you is not worth the effort in my opinion. The best way to get an Alpha girl is to be more Alpha than it sometimes seems necessary. I mess with black girls and the only way to get them is to not back down and sometimes lean towards abusive behavior. It sounds fucked up but you have to shock them out of their dominant beha…
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:39 PM
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Don't let her set the conditions for the relationship. I would recommend saying "that's fine I don't want a relationship now so if you can't deal with that delete my number" and then bounce. You have to think ahead. If you concede to her setting the ground rules this early it will only go downhill.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:29 PM
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Well you have to train your girl to stop talking about that low level shit. Dismiss stupid topics and embrace philosophical discussions. What I've noticed is when a woman loves you she'll start looking into topics that you are interested in. Trust me her ego won't allow her to feel stupid around you, especially if you dismiss her dumb statements.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 01:21 PM
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There are no pros and cons in this particular situation. Your relationship with this girl has nothing to do with them. Worry about your shit and let everything that's out of your control be.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 05:15 PM
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It's because you are still immature. Liking a girl because she doesn't like you is irrational and contradictory to what you ultimately want. Would you purposefully miss shots in game five of the NBA finals because you're noticing that you are blowing the other team out? No right? Because thats irrational and your ego is getting in the way of an easy win.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 01:31 PM
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Hate and love are two sides of the same coin. Never forget that women love to hate. They want to feel something, if their indifferent it's over with. The trick is to quickly shift from arrogant to a little vulnerable. There was this girl I used to work with and the first interaction we had she asked me a question and I completely ignored her. I then started teasing her. Later in the day I walked up to her and told her a story to get her attention. She then did what most girls do and made it abou…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 01:14 PM
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Jumping through hoops is not the same thing as being proactive. The hoops a lot of men jump through are arbitrary and were created by women. TRP teaches us how to be proactive while simultaneously keeping our dignity and not compromising our happiness.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 03:51 PM
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That sounds good but it has very little substance dude. There are a lot of subtle things that go into building attraction and getting sex. Not being needy helps get the girls attention but at the end of the day you have to be proactive.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 03:34 PM
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Happiness. For a heterosexual man sex is a part of a plethora of things that contribute to our happiness. The problem is, sex is the only thing we have no control over. Not only do we have no control over it we often times have to jump through hoops just to get it. TRP gives us the knowledge that a lot of young men weren't given. As corny as it sounds knowledge is power. With TRP I can be happy in a relationship because I know how to diffuse situations that are caused by women's emotions.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 03:13 PM
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Have you tried using the principles TRP teaches before completely dismissing it. Your opinion is based on nothing but emotion. You have no evidence to prove TRP wrong yet you are confident enough in your opinion to dismiss it? I've applied what I've learned and it works dude. You may not want to believe it but it does.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 02:52 PM
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Try it out with your ex? If so what's the point? I recommend going out on your own and building a team.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 02:26 PM
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You have to be reasonable. You can't just be cocky and say outlandish shit for no reason. If your girls asks you a dumb question its alright to say something a little mean but if she's watching TV you can't just randomly run up on her and tell her to shut the fuck up.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 05:01 PM
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Sounds like a knee jerk emotional response. You should have just said that you miss both. It is possible to train your girl to be aware of the manipulative and abusive things she does but you have to slowly introduce her to it. You can't just come out of nowhere and throw terms at her that she doesn't understand.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 01:07 PM
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I recommend you just practice spitting game to lower ranked girls. You got to get out of this feeling of helplessness. If you have a couple of hoes on your team (no matter what they look like) you'll inevitably have the confidence necessary to talk to any woman because you know you have others.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 01:53 AM
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You got to be willing to bounce bro. Tell her this: "I'm free on X at X lets go to to X" If she makes an excuse cut her off. But if you go along with the date you got to back off a little bit. Have fun and try to fuck. If she gives you an excuse spit game and talk her into it or back away.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 01:49 AM
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She probably met someone at the event. When she texted you that she doesn't want to be exclusive that means you did things that caused her to assume a LTR was an immediate possibility. In other words you gave her too much affection and time too early. The problem is you should have set the ground rules first. Let her know that this isn't going to be exclusive prior to taking her out. When she said she doesn't want a LTR you should have said " I never said this was exclusive but if you feel this …
/r/askTRP25/04/16 01:23 AM
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I mean you can smash this girl but it's got to be once or twice at most. You have to get in and get out before she catches feelings and keep it moving.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 10:53 AM
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If you feel bad after rejecting offers you're acting like a pussy. Just be honest and keep it moving.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 02:54 PM
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Its too late imo, you should learn from this. Ask for a girls number during the first interaction after you notice she's into you. Don't waste time. If you bump into her again try to set something up but don't go out of your way to chase this girl.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:46 AM
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I think this girl just gave you a shitty excuse for not wanting to see you anymore. Forget about it.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:38 AM
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You should have said no when she rescheduled and deleted her number. You already lost attraction when you even considered waiting until next fall for her.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:17 AM
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Whats wrong with reading about philosophy? Do you not realize that TRP is a philosophy? Bruce Lee's quote about being like water was a philosophical concept. Do you think Bruce Lee was lame? Work out all you want but if you really want to win with women you have to get into her mind.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 01:33 AM
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You say this like this girl is a special case. All girls do this man so whats the point of getting angry. Do whatever you want but you should stop issuing ultimatums with no consequences. Next time you tell her to stop bothering you and she keeps going, break up with her.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 01:25 AM
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When it comes to meditation consistency is key. I recommend binaural beats if you find meditating on your own difficult. Just get a pair of stereo headphones and relax and listen. I am currently listening to this: https://youtu.be/YJFVYPDv_Ts?list=PLmc810SEMNsDbWaRzLKOxgkeLOyPIHL0i
/r/askTRP21/04/16 11:03 PM
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Pushups every morning. Start meditating at least 10 minutes a day for a clearer mind and a calmer more consistent mood. Do some research on TRP. I'm happy for you man. I'm only 20 and I wish I had this much information when I was 14. An important tip for high school is to remove yourself from the cliquey atmosphere. If you learn the importance of individuality at your age, you'll thrive in HS.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 10:45 PM
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Good man. It becomes second nature after a while.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 10:35 PM
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The most important thing is to never become abusive. Don't get me wrong, some girls like dudes that act like gorillas but most girls just want a calm cool and collected guy that keeps them in check and gives them direction. Often times being too alpha is when you try to control your girl. Women aren't our property; you have to convince your girl to want to roll with you.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 10:22 PM
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Tell her the truth. If she's asking you such a direct question like that she probably knows the truth anyway. The trick is to say it unapologetically. She will only get mad because she feels like she has to. Now hear me out, if she gets mad I would give her the option to not go to prom with you if she doesn't want to. Just nonchalantly say "If this makes you that angry you don't have to go to prom with me if you don't want to" You have to play the long game bro. She will without a doubt use this…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 05:56 PM
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You can't force it. The best thing to do is pull back and focus on yourself or hit up some other chicks. Don't pick up the phone or text back as quickly as you used to. She will begin to feel insecure and understand that you're attention is important to her. Never forget to be willing to break up at any moment.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 05:50 PM
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As men we have to actively seek out women. Women aren't going to come to you. It is possible to get women without chasing them. The most important thing is to not compromise your dignity and beliefs while trying to get women.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 08:05 PM
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This isn't really the subreddit for your particular question. I would however recommend meditation to help with depression and stress. Forget about that new age nonsense. Google different meditation techniques and get started.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 08:01 PM
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Don't bend who you are to appease her. Do what YOU want to do the way you want to do it. If she doesn't like it let her bounce there are girl like her EVERYWHERE. I like to go to a place where me and the girl can talk. But do whatever you feel like. I'd recommend splitting the bill also.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 11:01 AM
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I don't maintain eye contact foreal. Eye contact is a sign of respect to me. I don't give my full attention to someone until they earn it. If you're girl ain't saying shit don't give her your full attention. Tbh bro, I think you're overthinking it.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 10:21 AM
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Take her out nigga! The fact that you are asking about this means you haven't internalized the sidebar. Relax bro it's the first date so you need to set the tone for the rest of the possible relationship. I don't know much about Norwegian girl but if she's anything like American girls she will test you at some point. Just make sure you're ready to check her ass.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 10:18 AM
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Read the sidebar bro. Also, WTF!?
/r/askTRP10/04/16 01:47 AM
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My personal philosophy when it comes to LTRs is, you have to train your girl to be the way you want her to be early on in the relationship. This is why it's important to know what you want from your girl prior to making it a long term thing. You can't force your girl to do shit. If you told her once and she says no ask her one more time and then drop it. You have to convince her that dressing a certain way is the best thing for the relationship. How you do that is up to you bro. I like to say "y…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 11:26 PM
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Fair enough that's why I added that caveat. You're right I should let him find it out on his own. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:14 PM
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Tell her. Do you have open conversations about sex with her? If not you should start. I like removing the taboo aspects of talking about sex. Let her know what you find sexy.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:38 PM
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Idk about that it puts pressure back on her. I've been gaming women for a while now so I can finesse a little bit. If you're just starting out go by the book until you grasp the fundamentals.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:35 PM
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Damn nigga I think you overreacted a little bit. I would have just texted her "why not?" and used sophistry to convince her that not going out is a bad idea. Bitches are dumb bro, I've used fallacious arguments to game women before. Or if you're not feeling it just don't respond.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:30 PM
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Tell her the truth. If you say it confidently she will most likely stay with you. The tip is to set yourself up to allow her to leave AT ANY MOMENT. "This is how I want to set my life up and if you don't want to be a part of it that's fine. You don't have to be with me if you don't want to. If you want to leave nobodies stopping you" I'm serious, if you remove all emotion from your explanation she will probably stay. Women don't leave until they know leaving will hurt you. Stay cool bro!
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:25 PM
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Set your relationship up in a way where you are the head of the household. Don't listen to these lame relationship magazines. TRP is based on nature and at the end of the day nature always wins.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:19 PM
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Work out and meditate. It helps Work out and meditate. It helps alleviate stress and problems we face on a day to day basis. Meditation helps you clear your mind and find out things about yourself that you may have never contemplated. Keep an open mind. Use binaural beats if applicable and take it slow. Good luck on your journey!
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:16 PM
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I recommend learning about meditation. If you do it long enough you can eventually condition yourself to block anxious thoughts. It also has been proven to reduce stress.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:10 PM
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I think you are overthinking it. Don't stop trying to get them, just make sure you don't let one type of girl fuck your mojo up.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 01:48 AM
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Don't hate the player, hate the game. It's not your friend's fault you fucked it up. We should be encouraging our male friends, not hating on them. Keep researching and step your game up!
/r/askTRP29/02/16 01:24 AM
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HAHAHAHA
/r/askTRP22/02/16 07:15 PM
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This may seem like crazy advice but every time I feel down I embrace it. I don't lie to myself and say it's gonna be alright, I'm honest and I don't fight how I feel. I've found that doubling down and marinating in the funk I'm in makes me appreciate things when I feel better.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 02:59 PM
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In my opinion it's one of two reasons. The first being they don't care that they are losers. They are comfortable with who they are and have a confidence about them that attracts women because of it. The second reason is they abuse the women you see that come through. When a man abuses a woman he is using fear to put her in a submissive position. This is where women want to be. The problem with this is it only works on some women and it will eventually backfire. Another possibility is they are j…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 04:15 PM
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I'm happy that you are questioning trp it's best to not have an echo chamber. I don't really understand the point you are trying to make here. Can you maybe elaborate? Are you saying a girl would automatically cheat if a hot guy walked up to her? Your cousin does not represent men as a whole. I actually think it's fair to say your cousin is an outlier. We don't want our women to be assholes. Men generally just want peace. Women are attracted to assholes it is what it is. I kind of agree with thi…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 03:20 PM
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Fair enough
/r/askTRP21/02/16 02:59 PM
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That wasn't a BP response imo. He belittled her and made her look stupid. I think he did a good job.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 02:34 PM
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I'm so happy you asked this. There is a misconception going around that RP is anti-family or anti-woman. This is absolutely false. RP is more about improving ones happiness. There are a lot of great women out there but they are still women. And by that I mean there are innate behaviors that you have to learn how to deal with if you want your relationship to last. If you find a girl that is genuinely a good girl and you want to marry her go ahead. If you want to have kids you can do that too. Jus…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 02:25 PM
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In the context of revealing truth to those that are ignorant I believe it applies. Why do you say it does not? Is Catholicism not religious philosophy? There are a list of rules a Catholic must live by to be granted access into heaven. The same applies to RP philosophy but instead the rules help with overall happiness.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 02:11 PM
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I'm not upset at all. It's her loss. She missed out on a great guy.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:23 PM
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The reason you just gave me was flowery nonsense. You have to be more specific than that. What part of you? Why does she make you feel this way? You have to ask yourself these questions so you can ground yourself when dealing with women. To your second question, yes. Enjoy the time you have with her but don't allow her to dictate your enjoyment. You have to be happy with or without her approval, she's just there for the ride.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 12:08 PM
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As men we have the ability to rationalize our feelings. This is when introspection becomes important. Ask yourself, why do I feel this way about this woman? If you have either no answer or a list of generic character traits then it is lust. There is nothing wrong with liking a girl. You just have to have an understanding of their nature. Learn how to separate who they are as a person from their innate behaviors. Tell yourself that at any moment this woman could turn into a complete and total bit…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:02 AM
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Just make sure you don't text her about it. If she says anything but yes back off.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 10:06 AM
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Thinking about acting like a pussy on purpose makes me sick to my stomach. Just break up with her.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 07:44 PM
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That's because you are putting yourself in her shoes. Women are different than us. They naturally want to follow a strong man. If you are staring at her and leaning in it makes them feel uncomfortable. You should communicate with your body language that you are a man she needs to follow. Also make sure you slow down your speech and keep the volume of your voice low. This is hard to explain but you'll know when it's working. She'll be looking at you a certain type of way. Almost like she's hypnot…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 06:03 PM
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Make sure when you talk to a girl you stand still. Also, you don't have to keep eye contact. Look away every once in a while but never look down always look away even turn your head if you want. It's kind of hard to explain but you have to give off a "I could leave at any moment" kind of attitude. You have to be a little arrogant but humble at the same time.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 05:45 PM
12

Make sure you don't agree and amplify a straight up insult. If a girl says something disrespectful, check her. Don't get angry, just calmly throw it back at her face. "Do you honestly believe what you just said was a respectful thing to say?" The trick is to make them feel stupid. Do it anyway you can just don't get angry. Or if you're dealing with a ghetto bitch tell her to shut the fuck up.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 03:25 PM
10

Don't confront her if you do she'll use it against you. Lay low and prepare yourself for whatever might happen. Educate yourself on the subject. Make sure after you hook up with a girl. Get her to text you that she consented. These girls are a different breed, protect yourself brother.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 03:15 PM
3

The most important thing, as lame as it sounds, is to be yourself. If you aren't a drinker don't drink it's that simple. Don't rely on a substance to be able to interact with other people. And to your second question yeah man go ahead. The girls aren't going anywhere but it's good to approach a couple if you can. You don't have to overdo it just have a set number in your head and follow through.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 12:46 PM
1

Tbh she sounds like a good girl she's just doing what she thinks she's supposed to do. Good job staying calm if she gets out of pocket like that again drop her and don't look back.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 06:00 PM
25

Bitches can never just let a guy win. If she's miserable everybody has to be miserable.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:43 PM
1

She should not make your happiness. You might slip up every once in a while but live your life prepared to leave at any moment. That doesn't mean don't have fun but don't walk down the street holding her hand,or cuddling on a park bench.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 05:28 PM
39

Haha this bitch is hating. Why do they care so much about what men are doing? I'm curious, has any man ever given a damn about what a woman is doing on her free time?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:17 PM
1

Rosebudd the American Pimp If you can get past the nomenclature there's some valuable information in this book, especially if you have a lot of hoes. I read this book before I found trp and my game has increased since using the knowledge from both sources.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 05:38 AM
15

It doesn't matter if they are in a relationship. If they like you and you give them plausible deniability they'll cheat.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 05:35 AM
3

Everyday
/r/askTRP19/02/16 12:36 AM
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It's good to still talk to girls even if you're not able to meet up imo. If you take a break from playing an instrument, when you finally come back from that break you're a little rusty right? The same applies to talking to women. Also you may meet some women that will wait until you're not busy. Women love to chase so if you're being illusive it's a turn on. Edit: Just make sure you don't go out of your way for them. If you feel like messaging these girls is getting in the way of your work, cut…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 07:11 PM
1

I mean you can but only if you think your girl deserves half your stuff, which she probably doesn't. Marriage is a problem because your girl will get too comfortable. She will begin to feel like she is entitled to certain things. And since you can't just cut her off whenever you want she'll inevitably become abusive and unappreciative. It takes a lot of training to remove the entitled way the average woman thinks. If you have good game you can marry her and keep it strong but it's a lot of work.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 05:24 PM
1

That's the problem what does her being with another guy have to do with you. As long as she's fucking you while she's with you then that's all that matters. But everybody's different, some people just don't like it and that's fine. Also that text message is hilarious does she have HPD?
/r/askTRP18/02/16 02:04 PM
1

I think you're masking your possessiveness by saying you feel bad for some other guy. If you tell her to try some stuff with another guy than you should genuinely not care. Don't lie to her to try and bait her you have to condition yourself to legitimately not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 01:36 PM
6

Unless you want to be an alcoholic your whole life you have to practice while sober. You know all the information so I don't understand how being drunk, which lessens your inhibitions, makes you better.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 05:02 AM
7

There is nothing wrong with letting women know that you have other women. Monogamy isn't that important to women tbh if you're a valuable person in their eyes they'll cheat on their bf in a minute.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 02:18 AM
5

Yea you failed that one. She now knows what will get a reaction out of you. She will without a doubt use that against you when she feels like being abusive. Next time ignore her completely. Tbh even if she fucked the guy you still have to condition yourself to not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 01:58 AM
10

I'm excited for the future tbh. These girls are getting out of pocket and you can only fuck with a demographic for so long until they fight back. Men will come back just wait.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:18 PM
1

Well you fucked up when you half naked cuddled with this bitch wtf haha. But seriously I wouldn't worry about it just take the loss. Prepare for the possibility of her acting passive aggressive though. She might try and bait you into apologizing but don't fall for it you did nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:20 PM
11

DONT DO IT. As much as it's not fair ain't no bitch worth going to jail over. Just stay cool and give her a verbal pimp slap.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 08:53 PM
3

There are so many images of how a man is supposed to live. Bitchmade dudes live life based in what they're told, Real men live life the way they want. And there are a lot of bitchmade guys out there.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 08:50 PM
4

You can read all the books you want but you have to put the work in. You have to just talk to as many women as you can and get rejected ALOT. And remember to not dwell too much on the rejection. It's about numbers for men. Nobody can tell you how to approach women because we all have different styles. You can get a little guidance from books and videos but following their advice verbatim isn't a good idea imo. It's good that your reading trp while you're young so you can learn what not to do, bu…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 12:23 AM
2

Wtf how old are you?
/r/askTRP16/02/16 09:56 PM
7

"Fair enough" and stop messaging her. That's my go to when I want to dismiss ridiculous behavior.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:46 PM
1

You're young so you probably don't know this. A hoe will do whatever she can to convince you that she's not one. And even if she is one who cares? You got to get passed that shit, her past has nothing to do with you.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:05 PM
5

"Nah not really" and give her a smile.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:00 PM
2

Sex is an important part of a relationship. If you're not getting it from her and you look elsewhere that's fine imo. Why the fuck would I be in a LTR with someone I don't have sex with. That's called friendship and I'm not expected to pay for a friends meal. I honestly wouldn't bring it up in your situation since you've already showed her that she's on a pedestal since you take her out AND pay for her meal while expecting nothing in return. if you confront her about it she will get emotional an…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:22 AM
14

First of all you don't ask for sex. You make a move and if she says no you either talk her through it or back off completely. Begging for anything is unattractive to a woman. You fucked up because you let her know how important sex is to you. When a woman knows your weakness she will inevitably exploit that and use it as a way to manipulate you. Never allow something a girl does dictate your happiness, because she will have no problem taking it away when she gets emotional. You can't fight it ma…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 07:22 AM
4

This is insane. Be your own man and live your life the way you want it. Like minded people or people who find you interesting will naturally want to be around you. Fuck trying to fit in and if you find yourself around people that hate you for being yourself stop being around those people.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 11:49 PM
2

You said she's inexperienced right? You chasing her has given her the power she has never felt before. It's gonna be harder because power corrupts. If you don't give a fuck I would stop talking to her. But if you got it in you when she texts you about coming over say: "Don't worry about it. If you don't want to have sex I can't force you but my time is very important to me and you coming over and playing these games is wasting my time." You have to give off a idgaf attitude without coming off as…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 12:20 PM
7

In the future never tell friends of the girl that you like her. Her friends will tell her trust me. Her being single means nothing if she likes you she will at least give you her number. When you talk to a girl you have to have a goal in mind. Don't waste time. During that ten minute conversation you should be saying the proper things to either get her number or take her out. Idk about other people but when I talk to a girl I find attractive I AT LEAST try to get her number after the first inter…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:01 PM
0

Wtf just masturbate to porn. Why do you masturbate to girls you know?
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:56 PM
10

If your doing it just to impress one girl it's a waste of effort. Everything you do has to be righteous. Never do anything just because you want to attract women, if you get nothing out of it don't do it. It depends really. If you throw the party and just disappear what's the point. But if you throw the party and walk around socializing and telling stories controlling the tone of the room you're smv will skyrocket.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:54 PM
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Here's the solution. To not care about her being cold you have to first condition yourself to not care when she's hot. Your emotions have to be consistent. She's the one who is all over the fucking place. When she says "omg newtothis you're so amazing lol" you have to have the same reaction as "wow newtothis I don't like you today" If you allow your emotions to change based on how she feels you will go insane trying to please her. Practice not reacting I know it's hard but it's a necessary skill…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 01:53 AM
7

They know what they want. It's just what they want is degrading so they do mental gymnastics to convince themselves that it's not what they want.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:45 AM
4

I should have rephrased that. I meant if you cuff a bitch ONLY because she shows you affection. A woman has to like you to fuck you. A man doesn't even have to know a girl to fuck her. To want to provide for/ love a girl she has to have things about her other than just her loving you.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:41 AM
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The point I'm trying to make is we make a conscious decision whether or not this woman is worth our time and love. It's not a feeling like it is for women its more practical than that. Any man that cuffs a bitch because she shows him affection either has low self esteem or has been conditioned to do so. Yes, we do enjoy taking care of women because we are providers by nature. The problem now is a lot of men are pussies and have given these women affection for no reason and these women have devel…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:03 AM
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The main problem is a majority of women are not honest with themselves. There is a constant battle in women's heads between the type of man they're told they should like and the type of man they actually like. They don't want to be equal to men. they think they want to be equal to men because they have been told they should be equal to men. In reality a woman cannot be happy with a man she finds his equal because it goes against nature. The female is the submissive sex and the male is the domina…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 09:05 PM
3

You're supposed to keep it to yourself. Only help someone when they explicitly ask for advice.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 02:08 PM
1

What was your goal when you decided to talk to her? If you wanted to ask her out say the proper things to put yourself in the position to do so. You could have gotten her number or asked her out right there. She let you touch her. You may think this isn't a big deal but if a woman let's you touch her and she doesn't get weirded out she's comfortable around you. Which is very important to women. I don't like to waste time. When I see a girl that's attractive and shows interest I try to AT LEAST g…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 03:55 PM
2

It depends on the woman. Some women get turned off immediately. it's shocking to watch and kind of funny. If you say the wrong thing she fucking dismisses your existence. Some women's attraction decreases each time you fail. Picture a cup full of water and each time you fail a test some water gets poured out until it's completely empty. The best thing to do is to practice dealing with them until you pass every time. It's hard work but it gets easier the more you do it.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 04:46 PM
5

She doesn't like you. When she said maybe she was shit testing you. When a girl says anything but yes AND doesn't walk away it's a shit test. Next time a girl says maybe say. " I'm not texting you later about it. It's a yes or no question. If you don't want to go out its fine just don't waste my time" The trick is to say it in a calm non threatening way. you have to let her know that you're willing to leave at anytime.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 03:58 PM
2

It takes time. What you are doing is conditioning yourself to actually listen to what women say. Before you heard the words but you never listened. It's good that you notice them later because you can practice how to combat them when they're said by a different girl. In time you will naturally know when you are being disrespected.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 03:53 PM
2

Just be honest with them. Who cares how they feel? You need to learn how to not care about a woman's emotions when telling her the truth. It's a good skill to develop early because a woman will use her emotions to try to manipulate, or shame you in your future relationships. You don't have to be a dick. Just be honest. "I'm not interested" and walk away don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 01:32 PM
2

Is this a joke?
/r/askTRP05/02/16 12:15 AM
1

"...and the fat one will always be sad." LOL
/r/askTRP04/02/16 11:25 PM
2

Check her on the manipulation now. The longer you wait the worse its gonna get because trust me if she knows threatening to break up is gonna make you apologize she will use it every time she's angry at you. Don't talk about working out. Another thing to do is to start dressing nicely for no reason. Like go to the store dressed above what you usually wear. If she asks you why you're dressed up say "I just want to look better for myself" she will think you are talking to other girls and that will…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 11:17 PM
1

You have to deconstruct why what she said to you was disrespectful. Fortunately your girl seems intelligent so this may not be so difficult. I would say something along the lines of "If you want to break up over this that's fine just let me know ahead of time. I'm not angry at you, you feel how you feel and I have no control over that but your attempt to try and shame me into apologizing for caring about your health is pathetic." Now you have to be willing to break up at any moment during the re…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 10:57 PM
3

You can't force a woman to do anything she has to want to workout. You have to stop talking to her about it. Never bring it up again but if you notice her gaining weight the best thing to do is to not lie when she asks you "do you think I'm gaining weight?" Also I can tell by that last message that her way of manipulation is through shaming which is something you should have checked her on a long time ago. what do you typically say when she gets like that?
/r/askTRP04/02/16 10:35 PM
2

Ive noticed this too. i'd love to find out more about the psychology behind it.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 10:21 PM
11

You already are a beta male if you don't have the balls to break up with your girl.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 10:18 PM
3

"Ditto" or don't respond
/r/askTRP04/02/16 07:25 PM
1

I disagree she disrespected me while in my car. If I allow her to act that way and just brush it off I'm rewarding that behavior. She didn't expect me to go all out and kick her out. Also she's a ghetto girl meaning she has an aggressive personality. There are some women who don't respond to deflecting you actually have to engage them and verbally check them.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 06:14 PM
4

I also recommend buying curtains that allow no light to get in. Make sure you're room is completely dark when you go to sleep.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 02:54 PM
3

Dude you just said why you shouldn't but gave no reason for why you should haha. You already know the answer you're just asking someone to make the decision for you which is a sign of immaturity. You're still young so I understand but you need to condition yourself to use logic when approaching a situation. You know you shouldn't so have the confidence necessary to believe in the decision you make.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 02:50 PM
4

You have to act like you don't give a fuck I know it's hard but you have to do it. If you got her mind then you should be confident enough to know your girl wouldn't fuck this up. Keep talking to other girls on the side and have options set up if you feel something might be going on. Remember you don't control her. If she tells you she hung out with him again say "thanks for letting me know" and play it cool. She knows what she's doing and if you don't react it will drive her crazy.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 04:36 AM
1

If she expects you to do it? If that's what she's thinking she can keep waiting because it's the woman who initiates it being exclusive. Before considering making her your girlfriend tell me what she has done to earn being the only woman in your life?
/r/askTRP04/02/16 03:36 AM
3

An example of this is something I did unintentionally in high school. During prom I said fuck it and started dancing by myself and I noticed my date would come over to me start to dance then excuse herself. This happened several times throughout the night. I didn't care I decided to have fun with or without her. At the afterparty I fucked her and some random dudes girl who probably saw me dancing alone not giving a fuck. What I realized now is she was baiting me to go with her since she wasn't t…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 03:06 AM
3

You have to practice emotional intelligence. Being depressed because you're not the best is unreasonable. You have to learn how to become introspective, once you do this you will never feel inadequate because you know your pros and cons. But remember to keep working on those cons and attempt to make you're pros even better. Being competitive is an innate human trait but you need to condition yourself to only care about whether or not you're trying your best.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 02:55 AM
1

Great explanation but I disagree with every man for himself. If someone comes to me for relationship advice I'll help them because I know I wish I had someone to give me some guidance when I was out there alone not knowing what I was doing. Trp teaches you to open your mind to ideas and philosophies that you would once dismiss. This generation of men are a byproduct of the environment we were raised in. Women have taken control socially and the roles are all fucked up. We've been denied Knowledg…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 02:46 AM
2

Don't save this bitch man think about you for a minute. What are you getting from spending your money on her school?
/r/askTRP04/02/16 12:31 AM
2

Don't change a damn thing. You shouldn't have even entertained what she said. She didn't ask you or make a suggestion this bitch DEMANDED that you change who you are, the audacity. Next time she demands you do something look away and don't even respond to it.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 12:14 AM
2

Just a tip when you ask a girl out you never really ask. By that I mean you make declarative statements. Instead of "wanna go out with me?" of "can I have you're number?" Say "let's go out" or "Give me your number"
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:37 PM
1

Don't make excuses your past shaped who you are but change is only a decision away. Be aware of pussy behavior in your everyday life and eliminate it at all costs until you remove it completely. It'll take time and you'll fuck up but it's worth it.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:43 PM
1

This is one of the most vaginal things I have ever read no offense just some tough love. As a man you're supposed to be independent and have your own opinions and feeling about various topics. When you change yourself to conform to other people you are acting like a woman. You come off as someone with low self esteem and it's difficult to teach someone confidence. Dude try this next time you're In a conversation with someone make a statement and then look away signaling his or her time to respon…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:15 PM
3

Dude be yourself man wtf don't listen to these ridiculous comments. There is no such thing as acting white I'm black and I have the ability to have an intelligent conversation with someone AND I have a lot of sneakers and listen to rap music. It's about being yourself and having confidence in who you are. I'm thinking you are young so you probably don't know yourself yet so don't overthink it. Race means very little to women their attraction is a feeling they genuinely don't care tbh with you if…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:58 PM
2

Oh my apologies I assumed you moved to the US but after reading your post again you said the second best school in the country. I don't have an understanding of the social differences but all women are attracted to alpha males it's nature.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 08:26 AM
1

Also if she says no in an emotional way DON'T REACT EMOTIONALLY AND DON'T APOLOGIZE. Stay cool if you have good game you can turn a no into a yes so practice things to say if she says no so you don't fuck it up.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 08:09 AM
3

Don't be direct women want to be tricked into being hoes they don't want to be held accountable for anything they do. I hate the fact that Netflix and chill became popular because it was mine and a lot of my friends go to so think of something you can do. Like "come over let's eat something" or "I wanna Learn more about you come over" If y'all smoke say "let's smoke" whatever you can do to get her to your place do it if you don't fuck it up you'll probably fuck.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 08:06 AM
2

knowing when you're being a pussy is better than most people who are in denial. It's hard to teach someone confidence because it's really a journey of understanding you're value as a man. You are not the same person you were a couple years ago, shit you're not the same person you were last week you're growing everyday man. True confidence is saying or doing things without anyone's approval. Say what you want and don't look around at people to see if they like what you say just make a statement a…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:52 AM
2

Haha my man you got this girl goin crazy. After she said you're very good I would have just said "yep" but it worked out so what do I know. Now after that bullshit emotional ass last paragraph I hope you didn't respond.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:37 AM
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You have something amazing that a lot of guys don't. You're an interesting person. In college no girls really care about money trust me I'm also in college and a date is pizza in my dorm room and she pays half. Don't worry about the money bro just practice these principles and never forget how amazing your life experiences are. Share your past with them especially sorority girls. They're so used to hooking up with the same guys they're thirsting for new experiences. Be yourself never try to prov…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:31 AM
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This is normal at first you have to fight through it. right now you're going through a stage. You're seeing women for who they really are and you're comparing them to men. Women will never be as interesting, cool, or enlightened as us because they don't have to be to get validation from the opposite sex. Learn to get what you want from them which is initially sex. Get laid as much as you can with as many different women as you can until you find a girl worthy of training and making your girlfrie…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:05 AM
3

Work on those core values everyday trust me when I say working on these things will help you build confidence. Practice by talking to as many girls as you can just start with hello and then work from there you need to learn how to be comfortable around women. Or a drastic strategy is to go out and purposefully bomb as many times as you can so you can build a resistance to rejection it depends on you. Relax man I can tell by reading this that you lack confidence and don't beat yourself up if you …
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:05 AM
2

Chill, these "feelings" are excitement from getting a new bitch. Act exactly the same its HER who initiates exclusivity you then decide whether you want to or not. Here's a way to help write down all the things that make her worthy of girlfriend material (other than sex) if it's something that you can get from a guy friend then she's not worth it. From then on you have to train her how to be you're girlfriend worthy of your love.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:56 AM
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"If she wants excitement she can take her ass to the movies" -A Pimp Named Slickback. if she's still fucking you and being a good girl to your face don't change anything. What she says to her friends has nothing to do with you because remember women's emotions are inconsistent. If she starts switching up be willing to leave.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:48 AM
2

You have the knowledge to know how to help you're friend so use it. Sit him down and give him some tough love. Don't worry if he doesn't accept it and it may ruin your friendship but when things inevitably go bad your words will resonate. It's like when your parents would give you wisdom but you wouldn't listen and you only found out they were right through experience. You're a better friend than most since you care enough to think about his future so do what you can. Don't add unnecessary stres…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:34 AM
2

$500!? These guys are scum this knowledge should be given to all men for free. Just do some reading man or listen to the black Phillip show on YouTube and then the beige Phillip show on iTunes. Don't pay for knowledge that you can get for free.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:06 AM
2

What does that mean?
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:55 AM
3

If you have to pay for it don't go. There is enough information for free and with a little work and discipline you will learn all the principles.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:49 AM
2

It also depends on the girl some women only respond to verbal abuse (usually women with bad childhoods) normal women respond to kind confidence with a little teasing every once in a while.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:46 AM
2

Girls have many different tactics to bring down a mans confidence and swagger saying why do you hate me is a tactic to bait you into saying"oh no I don't hate you I'm sorry" and she then never forgives you and you're stuck feeling like the bad guy. Don't react the next time a girl asks you that either turn your head or walk away don't fall for the trap. She probably likes you because if she didn't why would she care?
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:37 AM
3

"That's what the dates for" hit her with that and say nothing else.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:41 PM
3

I actually like women tbh once you understand them you learn to love their quirks and strange behavior women are funny and interesting to me but not intentionally. It's good to have women friends because it helps you build comfort around women and you can practice deflecting shit tests and dealing with their emotions it's good practice for future relationships. It also helps build attraction from other women because women like men who are liked by women. Just remember to not go out of your way f…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:05 PM
1

Then don't flirt with her anymore if she gets annoyed now ok cut off all the affection. She's being emotionally inconsistent as all girls are. You're job is to be emotionally mature so if she acts disrespectful and switches up ignore her and remove all the attention and validation. Every once in a while you're girl will test you by acting irrational you're supposed to stay rational and cold. Good luck bro
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:49 PM
1

She's a girl and as a girl she is going to be emotionally fickle so don't put too much focus on what they say it really doesn't matter at the end of the day. Focus on you're happiness and if alienating her means you'll be happy in the end do it and don't look back.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:04 PM
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Think before you talk you don't have to answer something immediately. We tend to ramble when our thoughts aren't together next time you're asked something look away think about it and answer it wisely. This takes practice but after a while you condition yourself to think before you talk and your responses will take less time but with the same amount of thought.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 08:55 PM
1

I did not say that. I'm saying the WAY men love women is different than the way women love men. A woman's love is pure and she can't see anything past you. If you love a woman like that she will innately think you are a pussy because loving a woman like a woman loves a man means you're giving off feminine energy.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 08:22 PM
2

She has to like you MORE for the relationship to work out. Even you like her more or equally she will become abusive. Women want a man that can lead them, protect them, and provide them with emotional stability. If you show her more or the same affection she shows you she will innately find you unattractive, it's nature man.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 08:17 PM
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Well I'm a spiritual person but I make sure my beliefs don't interfere with the truth. Unfortunately some spiritual teachings talk about treating all people the same but women are not men so they should not be treated the same. Keep reading the book if you want but remember this subreddit is the truth. Use the knowledge you learn from trp and create your own style but never forget the principles you've learned.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 07:57 PM
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You are all over the place man. You're young so if you fuck this up you'll learn from it. The problem is when you first noticed her you should have made a move the longer you wait the more she's gonna think you're a pussy. Next time you see a girl you think is bad say something right when you see her don't hesitate. Now the nervous thing can only be fixed by you talking to a bunch of girls. go out and say your gonna talk to 5 girls a day without any intentions just say something. I don't know mu…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 06:32 PM
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Block her profile if you know you can't help yourself, force it. Nobody knows you like yourself. you need to actively try to get girls. If you're at the store and you see a bad bitch say something to her do what you need to do. This feeling you have is not about her it's about YOU. You're ego is getting in the way of your rational thinking you don't miss her you miss having someone there for you whenever you need them. Meditate, read or do something else that calms you down. You're single man en…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 06:19 PM
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Her behavior has nothing to do with you bro the only time you should call her out is if her behavior is interfering with your happiness. Now when you're boy finally breaks up with that bitch sit you're boy down and give him some knowledge about the game. Stay cool
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:13 PM
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That is the best option rise above the stupidity but don't be a pussy. Someone comes at you with disrespect you throw it back at them. " really? If I did what you just did to me what would you do? You'd be mad right? So what's stopping me from punching you in your face? I'm not even gonna bring myself down to your level" and don't acknowledge them after that. I'm serious man stay cool
/r/askTRP02/02/16 03:55 PM
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First of all why would you surround yourself with people who do goofy stuff like that? If you have no control over it that's fine. Learn how to deflect. They want your attention don't give it to them. If they disrespect you tell them to chill with that shit but don't be emotional be indifferent don't make eye contact with them. You almost have to actively ignore ridiculous behavior. Practice emotional intelligence don't fall for the traps bro.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 06:02 PM
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Also she's in her early thirties texting like that? Wtf I thought at a certain age you'd grow out of that bs haha
/r/askTRP01/02/16 05:43 PM
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This is pretty bad I'm not a psychiatrist but this need for companionship is unhealthy. You're coming off like someone who NEEDS a girlfriend you should WANT to have a girl worthy of being you're girlfriend. You don't understand how valuable you are you have a place, a car, interesting hobbies, and you seem smart why are you putting yourself down like this? I know bums with multiple girlfriends and they have them because they have an inflated sense of themselves. You're a good guy and you're des…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:38 AM
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Do you want to try and fuck her? It's you're decision bro if you know how to then try if not learn how and then try. Don't ask others to make decisions for you man
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:09 AM
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Omg man she is pimping you. You are in an emotionally abusive relationship and she is trying to shame you into changing how you feel. You saying if you want to kiss me kiss me is a reasonable thing to say but she shames you into bowing down and you end up feeling like the bad guy. You're in a bad situation because you didn't check her on the manipulation early on. Next time she pulls that shit dig deep inside and tell her how you really feel. If she wants to get in an argument say "I'm not argui…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 08:44 AM
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No you're not being unreasonable she's playing this game because you want it too much. She won't do what you want OK she wants to play a game you play it better. Ignore her don't give her validation but don't be mean about it just be indifferent towards her. Jerk off and stay cool if she's not giving it DONT WANT IT. Take away what she wants learn how to dismiss selfish behavior wait it out she'll come to you trying to put the blame on you, dismiss it. Say "You feel how you feel but I want to fu…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 08:03 AM
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Well you have to tell yourself it's you're fault women are a reflection of us. Think back and write down what you did right and what you did wrong. Learn from this and get some pussy or jack off.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 05:15 AM
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Why do you care? Her past has nothing to do with YOU. Stay in the moment don't question her past.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 05:08 AM
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It's ok as long as you present yourself as a different person. Tell her this is what I want and if you can't do it we can't be together. But you have to know yourself first. If you know you can't handle just hooking up you'll slip and fuck it all up.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 05:52 AM
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It's all good man they're just being emotional as long as you stay you and don't let her emotions move you, you'll be attractive to her. Hatred from a woman is just as good as love if she's indifferent then you have a problem.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 05:35 PM
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This is on you man you have to decide what you want first because it's about YOU. she's gonna love you first anyway so make a decision you have to have a plan.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 08:26 AM
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Comfort is the most important thing with girls like this. Reassure her that as humans we have sexual desires and there's nothing wrong with acting on them. Let her know that you won't look at her differently and these feelings of regret she's having are all in her head. Remember, comfort is the most important thing. Good luck
/r/askTRP29/12/15 04:09 AM
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Exactly. When a woman loves you you'll notice her emulate your mannerisms, speech pattern and a lot of different subtleties. It's fascinating to watch.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:50 AM
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What you and a lot of men need to realize is women are different than us. They don't objectify like we do they're attraction is a feeling. That's why when you understand the principles of the game you can convince almost any woman to be attracted to you based on the fact that you are tapping into what makes a man instinctually attractive to a woman. If you remain a man that doesn't take shit from your woman she will genuinely look past whatever insecurities you have. But if you show weakness and…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:03 AM
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Huh I guess when I used that line on my side bitch it worked because I was lucky? You don't know what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 12:48 PM
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Explain to her that you loving me has nothing to do with me loving you. We are two separate people in a relationship just because one person feels one way doesn't mean the other person automatically feels the same way.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:33 AM
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Chill she's just a girl this feeling you have is only sexual attraction. You have to believe you have something of value to offer her if you don't believe this you'll fail. Think about what aspects of yourself are valuable and tell yourself "I am or I have X and I know I would make her life better because I'm the shit"
/r/askTRP09/12/15 07:29 PM
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Calm down she said yes because she obviously feels comfortable around you. What do you want from this girl, sex or a relationship?
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:58 PM
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You need to put focus on different girls. You're too attached to this bitch
/r/askTRP02/12/15 05:13 AM
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Remember this is a journey I messed up a lot on the way to where I am now. You have to practice enough of the fundamentals until it becomes second nature. And relax these hoes ain't going nowhere.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 05:11 AM
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I like to befriend smart philosophical people with different points of view on various subjects. You don't really have to do much with guys to have a good time. Me and my friends can just hang anywhere and have discussions about almost anything. A lot of the activities you said are physical but maybe consider training your mind and having discussions with them.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:40 PM
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A lot of it has to do with your walk im serious. Practice walking with purpose and have a little swag with it. You'll get looks but ignore them I'm telling you walking like your the shit helps a lot.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:28 AM
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My guess is most men who don't know about women lie more since they think they have to to get pussy.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:25 AM
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Come on man your driving 1.5 hours and your taking her out and you're acting like she's doing you a favor? She's not some magical creature she's just a girl man. Talk to her and listen to what she says and when you feel you disagree with her state your opinion and be firm. Be yourself and I mean how you really are don't be some super pussy lap dog be confident about who you are and relax you're doing HER a favor bro you sound like a winner so be a winner.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 05:44 PM
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It doesn't matter man girls like men for different reasons you have to be in her mind. Some girls like to flirt in front of you to see if you get jealous. You have to play it cool even if it hurts you. When you react she won't stop messing with you so just learn to not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 05:36 PM
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This comment is why men are where we are now. We don't help each other out so men end up going to women for relationship advice which is the last thing to do. Dude sit your friend down and give him some harsh truth. He may be in denial at first but tell him to try it at least for a little bit and see where things go. You may lose a friend for now but when time goes on and he wakes up from this love daze he's in he'll come back. HELP THESE MEN OUT.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 06:30 PM
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He has been talking about the red pill in his comedy for a long time. At the time this type of stuff wasn't (and still isn't) a popular way of thinking. His appearances on O & A and his stand up made him hated by women and men who didnt know any better.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:30 PM
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You need to stop making them friends first. Don't friendship your way into pussy. After the first date with a girl show hints that you want to have sex with her as soon as possible and have her say not yet or yes. When you've been with her for a while and you notice she keeps playing games tell her your not trying to make friends. Say I find you attractive and I want to fuck you. Haha it sound crazy but it works. If she says I'm not into you that way say that ok and stop talking to her and move …
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:52 PM
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I would have said hell yeah and my fav pornstar is x. It wasn't really a shit test it was women picking on men they think are weak. Don't be ashamed of anything and if you are play it cool. Their power is in their ability to manipulate men. By being honest and not caring you take that power away. Also don't ask for hugs when you become familiar with a girl just give her a hug and don't be weird or awkward about it.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:38 PM
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Where you go doesn't matter as much as how you set it up. When you set the date up with her say " we're going to x at x" and that's it. No negotiations or asking her where she wants to go just be firm. A good thing to do is actually listen to what she says. A lot of guys fear being honest because they think women will look at them negatively. Listen to her and question her statements by asking why(not everything she says but with things that don't make sense to you) and stick by your guns. After…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:28 PM
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She was probably interested in you. Girls lack the ability to talk their way into a date with a man. I've been stared at by women before and it's a creepy weird stare that usually means " come talk to me". Next time you catch a girl looking at you don't avert your gaze and wait for her to turn away. (It's good to practice your look in the mirror so you don't look creepy) then when she looks away get up and ask for her number almost immediately. It shows dominance and your ability go after things…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:17 PM
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Never give up man it's a fight. You're a boss and she's trying to bring you down so she can have power over you. Right now she likes you but she'll never admit it so she wants to fuck with you. When you get fed up show her a side of yourself she's never seen. Be firm and say stop asking me to do stuff for you you're.not her slave and drop the conversation. I BET she'll stop messing with you it works trust me. If she keeps doing it drop the bitch but let her know why be honest man and stay strong…
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Relax! You don't even know if you like this girl yet so play it cool. You've already made out so you broke the touch barrier. You got this man. What do you want from this girl casual sex or a relationship?
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Too many words in that email Jesus Christ!You got her pregnant so in her head "he's mine I don't have to work for his affection anymore". You're being too emotional. the minute you could tell she wasn't listening you should have kept quiet and gave her the cold shoulder. When she comes to you with her stories treat her how she treated you. You're giving her too much attention for no reason. A girl is like a cat and you're a ball of yarn you have to keep her wanting you're attention.This is hard …
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You sound like a pussy and I don't want to offend you I'm just giving you some tough love. You're going about this the wrong way and that learn how to be happy by yourself thing isn't bullshit it's the truth. Women can sense desperation and it's a huge turn off you don't go out and meet women to get a girlfriend you go out to try and fuck them she's the one who initiates wanting to be exclusive. You're a goofy guy who wants intimacy fight through the loneliness and learn how to be happy alone pi…
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You just answered your own question. Not only did you say you don't like talking about yourself for no reason you even provided an explanation for why you don't do it.
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Save your money bro. There's no need to go all out.
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Ever read Plato's allegory of the cave? If you try to force him to see the truth he will reject it and attack you. You have to either wait for him to come to you or be clever and slowly introduce him to a different way of thinking.
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My suggestion to you is to not get too deep into MGTOW. Take what you can from them but please be your own man. Don't allow a group to define you.
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It's good that you have found trp early in life. It will save you a lot of trouble later on. Now my only advice to you is to read and internalize the information given in the sidebar. This sub is really for people who have specific questions. I will however give you one important piece of advice. There are no cool kids. Be your own man and work on yourself and you will find out all this stress about popularity is a waste of time.
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"No problem" and drop it. If she messages you again after Sunday try again and if she says no delete the number.
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I wouldn't do anything yet. Her situation doesn't seem to be interfering with your happiness yet so my guess is things are all good.
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Good man. You have to give her some pimpin. I like to use analogies, so next time she starts acting up hit her with this: "I can't force you to do anything. Everything you do for me is out of desire. If I want to fuck and you don't, It wouldn't be fair for me to try and force you to fuck me would it? That would be rape. Now, what makes you think it's ok for you to try and force me to do something I'm not ready to do? Marriage is forever. Do you really want to marry someone that doesn't want to m…
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Did she walk away? If she says that and is looking at you for a response then you have a shot. If she walks away it's over.
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Dude don't text her shit you did nothing wrong. Her being insecure has nothing to do with you. Plus if you text her that she'll get angry and you'll only dig a deeper hole for yourself. Just chill go out with her and see where it goes. If she brings it up don't apologize just let her know there's no reason for her to feel that way.
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Nah I meant a loss in terms of you not fucking that day. Don't worry about it you're overthinking the situation. Keep fucking this girl just prepare for her acting passive aggressive because of what happened.
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Rephrase your question. What's over?
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Wtf she came and wanted to leave after 5 minutes? And you spent 25 minutes trying to keep her there? You should have let her ass leave.This bitch is playing you and getting off on the power. Don't contact her anymore she knows what she's doing.
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Reading this proves to me that you have the mental capacity to do what you want. Let me share a little secret with you, those people you see that are losers are losers because they made a decision to become complacent. Yes, some people are born with more opportunities than others but bitching about something you have no control over is a waste of your time. You just have to work harder than those who've had everything given to them. Keep reading, watching videos, or listening to podcasts that ha…
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I honestly didn't want to believe so many men were that whipped and so many women that narcissistic but it makes sense.
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Tbh man when asked a dumb question like that I wouldn't have even responded. If she asks you why you didn't text her back say "I don't answer stupid questions". Girls are ridiculous man she was probably trying to flirt with you but don't play her game. If you wanna make a move the longer you wait the less likely you'll get anywhere with this girl. I recommend you ignore her and keep bettering yourself while pursuing other women.
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Sounds like a good girl. Don't make it exclusive if she doesn't bring it up. Is she the only girl you're seeing?
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Come on man he's curious about this subreddit and he asked a genuine question. Don't be a dick help him out.
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Ok ask yourself this question "what about this girl is worthy of me feeling this way about her?" If it's any trait that a guy can have then you don't have feelings for her you are instead in love with the idea of love. Love is a beautiful concept but the type of love you've been exposed to is love from the point of view of a woman. Men do not love like that we are not as emotional as women our love is practical and rational. You are a victim of this woman run society and if you learn to apply th…
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You're being played and I'm not trying to be mean. She lets you do things that are intimate and benefit her but she won't do anything that benefits you. Drop her and don't talk to her anymore you're putting way too much effort in this girl. If she hits you up say "my time is valuable to me I wanna fuck if you don't that's fine" and don't text her again move on bro
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Don't change your game make her see that your way is the right way. Be you and if she feels uncomfortable convince her that there is nothing wrong with me admitting that I find you sexually attractive. If she's still playing around be confident enough in yourself to tell her this is who I am and if you ain't down you don't have to fuck with me. The confidence in a statement like that might turn her around and if it doesn't move on.
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Be 100 with her. Phrase the proposition as a statement. "I'm free on X I got a place reserved you should come through" or something along those lines. Your energy has to be that of a man who is doing her a favor and if she says no you got 3 other hoes on deck. I'm telling you if you tip toe around and ask her like a pussy its finished.
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Mental stress doesn't make you stronger. What makes you stronger is your ability to perform well under mental stress. Dealing with arguments and emotional manipulation on a daily basis without attempting to remain cool is like running into a brick wall.
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