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I personally don’t relate to anything you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:55 AM
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This girl knows what’s up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:49 AM
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I love porn, but brazzers is unironically disgusting to me lol. I hate the oiled up bolt on tits to the point where it’s actually a turn off. The fake moans make me want to laugh more than they make me want to jerk off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:31 AM
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Because they get leeway from other insecure/jealous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:29 AM
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Jackhammering feels great as long as it’s not hitting my cervix, that shit hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:22 AM
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As an easy going low maintenance woman I don't really get what the fuss is about, but I kinda can sympathise with men who say that because it's not uncommon for women to not be direct with their needs or 'play games'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:28 PM
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I completely agree. I think women get turned off by hearing guys say physical touch is their love language because a lot of guys genuinely do make physical touch all about sex, when it really should also include non-sexual touch ie. caressing skin, hugging, playing with their hair, holding hands, tickling, massages etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:38 AM
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21 year old virgin women don’t want ran through 35 year old men but keep the fantasy alive bro I’m sure it’ll happen for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:20 AM
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The only people who don’t believe that are people who have no close female friends and don’t have a close relationship with their sisters/mothers. It’s basically a litmus test for whether or not someone knows how to interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:17 AM
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No ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:36 AM
3

“How has it in any way benefited women?” Well I’m a top earner on OF and I don’t have a manager or anyone taking a cut except the platforms themselves. If Sophie Rain is making poor financial decisions I think that’s more a reflection on her than the work itself. I assume she’s still making a gigaton of money though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:55 PM
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Yes but I’m not sure if I’d say that’s the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:28 PM
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that's already illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:02 PM
62

Ban circumcision on babies 📢📢📢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:50 AM
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No?? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:41 AM
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I agree with this even as someone who has enjoyed all of my casual encounters with no regrets. But increased consequences obviously doesn’t mean every encounter for every woman is doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:30 PM
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Very brave opinion ! I’m glad you figured that out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:59 PM
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No. The way you're describing desire sounds like a borderline asexual person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:31 PM
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You don’t cum when you have sex with your husband? 😭 ok I don’t blame you wtf girl I’m sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:47 AM
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Horny Felt good bc I LOVE CUMMING 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:44 AM
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M/m
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:46 AM
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Because m/f porn doesn’t focus on the man at all. It’s designed for straight men; so the men are often unattractive and don’t moan, meanwhile the women fake moan and have gross fake tits and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:52 AM
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Mmmmm penis
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:40 AM
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Men will say women never take responsibility for their actions and then say this shit 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:47 AM
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Wym why 💀 I am on twitter instagram tiktok, everywhere. I am a degenerate internet dweller.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:52 AM
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I DOOOOO. I also never post that shit on YouTube now bc it’s a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:44 AM
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LMAO nah I’ve done a few of those in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:47 AM
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Are you asking me if I’m diddly? Yes I am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:02 AM
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They would still have an issue with it if it was amateur porn created ethically by completely willing participants. People do this all the time where they pretend that their only problem with porn is the trafficked abused women, but when the you give them examples of where that isn’t the case they’re still against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:51 AM
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Doesn’t sound very straight to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:46 AM
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Same lmao. Solo male and gay porn for me thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:46 AM
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Well because throughout quite literally almost all of human history femininity has been demonised whilst masculinity is celebrated, even on a systemic level, where you were afforded more rights simply for being born male. Now we see it more at a cultural level which exerts itself through gender role stereotypes; ie. a bossy woman is a bitch, while a bossy man is just... a boss. Even men who display feminine characteristics are shamed for being feminine, acting 'like a woman' is literally seen as…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:07 AM
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Didn’t realise it was Opposite Day today
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:59 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:21 AM
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It doesn’t matter much to me personally because I already make a lot of money and don’t have a very expensive lifestyle. Stay at home dads are the future 😎✌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:44 AM
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Because women are shamed for wanting to appeal to men. We are called whores, sluts or pick me’s; so the natural result is that women cope that they do it for themselves, because that’s a more socially acceptable answer. Obviously no one deforms their feet in heels and wears makeup in public for themselves, it is because of the excessive pressure placed on women to physically present a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:13 PM
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Poor ME you mean 💀 It was when I was in a relationship with someone who never wanted to have sex and I had a raging high libido. It was torture
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:15 PM
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I believe it was 7 months o_o
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:39 PM
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Those are both clitoral orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:26 PM
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Exactly. Perfect analogy btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:26 PM
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Your examples are really bad. You don’t think the likes of Kanye West can get constant access to sex without getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:31 AM
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This is a self report I fear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:04 PM
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Uhhhh eats my pussy eats my pussy and eats my pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:21 PM
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If you want someone with a high sex drive then those are the people who tend to be more promiscuous. It isn’t exactly rocket science; people who are giga horny are going to seek out sexual experiences more than people with lower sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:03 PM
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It’s the other way around lmao… Women want a man that can provide for them BECAUSE they want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:27 AM
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I personally do the approaching so I guess it’s my responsibility to determine who is a munch or not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:20 AM
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Can’t imagine dating someone who has retroactive jealousy or thinks my orgasm is my responsibility, those two things are the perfect recipe for mid sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:59 PM
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Emotions? Bruh idk i just go braindead and cum. As for what I’m thinking about… uhhh cumming !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:25 PM
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Yeah. I’m the brains he’s the brawns it’s like yin and yang 🖤🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:23 PM
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LMAO You sound unbelievably based
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:30 AM
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There are 8 billion people on this earth, chances are there are tens of thousands, if not hundreds of thousands to millions of people who are compatible enough to be “the one”, we’re lucky enough to live in a time where finding that person is easier than ever before thanks to the internet. So no, I don’t think it sets unrealistic expectations, if anything, people underestimate how many people would be an ideal match for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:27 AM
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No I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:08 PM
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I genuinely think this discourse just comes from women with lower libido or just don’t like sex that much, which is fine, but it’s weird to demonise people just for having a higher sex drive. Obviously if they’re being creepy sex pests then that’s a whole different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:56 PM
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No I think most are average. That’s why they’re called average
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:12 AM
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Men are literally completely topless in gyms 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:52 AM
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Hell yeah men should be even more slutty so I can objectify them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:26 PM
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I don’t care about gift giving at all. Everything else is good :3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:03 PM
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Flinging shit in anger is what op is doing fyi. I’m just matching the energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 12:06 AM
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“all cultures throughout time and history” No tf they haven’t 😭💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:25 PM
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Why would you want to date someone who doesn’t find you physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:24 PM
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Enough for what? I’d hope if she’s having sex with you now she obviously finds you physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:02 PM
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Because it’s not normal to obsess over what your partners past sexual encounters looked like It’s extra weird that you find it insulting, as if she had your insecurities in mind before she even knew you existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:05 AM
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Weird thing to be jealous about imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:59 AM
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Nothing gets me wetter than a man who is insecure about not getting pussy and is jealous of my sexual history 😩💦
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:29 AM
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It is real
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:05 AM
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Fuck traditionalism. I outearn my man and pay for him like the king he is, and in return he sucks my clit and worships my feet whenever I want. The way it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:03 PM
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You’re correct that it’s for attention. Nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:42 AM
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Whoever I think is hot wym who are they 💀 Yes he knows
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:37 AM
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As in do I have sexual fantasies about other people? Yeah of course. I’m horny asf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:57 AM
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Sounds interesting, could you link the studies you’re referring to? I’d be interested in reading them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:47 AM
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If you’re a normal person who has a normal libido then yes. People try to cope and lie about this because they like to do thought policing and think having a fantasy is cheating, but anyone who has a sex drive does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:45 AM
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Yes obviously For me, lust comes first and then love. Never the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:43 AM
0

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:36 PM
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Because they slut shame women who are openly lustful. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:52 AM
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Nope :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:20 PM
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We literally are apes. They don’t get mad at their boyfriend for watching porn because it’s ’hedonistic animal desire’ lmao, they get mad because he’s getting off to another woman that isn’t her. It’s mostly insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:58 AM
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I genuinely think a large portion of it is due to insecurity. I mean if they can’t even stand their boyfriends having a quick glance at an attractive woman in public then obviously they’re going to have a huge issue with them watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:00 AM
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I’ve always been one to approach men and it’s worked out amazing for me. I encourage other women to do the same, but tbh I think most women still prefer to be ‘chased’.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:08 AM
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I’ve never heard anyone say that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:38 PM
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What is your source for the 1 in 11 chance of having a life ruining accusation against you after asking a woman out?
/r/MensRights16/04/25 10:53 AM
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So do you have a source?
/r/MensRights16/04/25 10:51 AM
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I've never heard of a single woman who fears every single man on planet earth being left alone with their child. Even the extreme 'man haters' you're referring to would still have trusted men in their lives ie. husband, brother, dad etc. whom they would feel more than comfortable leaving their child alone with. You genuinely need to touch grass.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 06:33 AM
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No one is saying it so I guess I will. Get off the internet and go to therapy. You would trust a single woman to be left alone with your child because you’re worried they’ll rape or molest him? This literally sounds like a form of OCD delusion. Get help.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 03:36 AM
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As a teenager the guilt I felt was borderline traumatising (I was raised religious too which made it even worse). My best friend told me I was disgusting for admitting to masturbating, and the bible told me I was disgusting for feeling lust. So yeah, we’re pretty much raised to think that there’s something wrong with us for simply experiencing normal human desires. It takes a long time to unlearn all that and feel confident with your sexuality. Couldn’t be happier since living the church :’)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:34 PM
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Height: idk like 5 foot? don't really care Fitness level: fitter than me, I need someone strong to open up jars for me Income: don't care I have money. he could be unemployed as long as he's a hot stay at home dad Unappealing Male Hobbies: don't care it's his hobbies, they don't have to be appealing to me Dates: don't care about planning or price, I tend to prefer unplanned spontaneous stuff when we feel like doing it like once a week Entertainment Value: needs to make me laugh, I'm pretty laid …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:13 AM
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Your comment was removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:02 AM
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Why are you searching through a month old reply instead of taking up my offer to chat 1 on 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:48 AM
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It undoubtedly is body shaming. Shaming people for the way their genitalia looks is weird, and I don’t think it’s cool that people associate negative traits (ie. misogyny) with dick size (ie. “small dick energy”).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:09 AM
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So why are you dating her?
/r/EverydayMisandry07/02/25 05:50 AM
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I don’t believe ‘sacred’ is a good descriptor for sex, no. Porn is perfectly fine in moderation, studies show that most of the issues people have with porn actually come from those who watch it despite there being moral conflict towards porn. If you think porn is gross, don’t watch it. No I would never be with someone who wants to wait till marriage for sex. Sexual compatibility is important to me. Should we shame male athletes because they are naturally stronger than female athletes and therefo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:11 PM
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It means I am a blonde woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:25 AM
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I am blonde woman pilled. Sexually conservative = thinks sex is sacred, thinks masturbation/porn is bad, pro-life, has double standards around women’s body count vs men’s body count, wants to wait to have sex, has very close minded view of kinks/fetishes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:01 AM
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It honestly really depends what their political views are; If they’re sexually conservative/homophobic/pro-life? Fuck no. but if they’re just fiscally conservative, sure why not. The anti-vax types would also be a hard no. Science denial is an immediate turn off, my pussy would instantly dry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:46 AM
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Because I’ve sucked a lot of dick I think I’ve definitely noticed a trend in circumcised men in particular who say blowjobs don’t do much for them, so you could be right. Does vaginal sex or masturbation still feel good for you? or do you think that’s been affected too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:52 AM
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If blowjobs don’t feel like much to you, you haven’t had a good blowjob, or your dick has sensitivity issues, or both. If you just don’t like blowjobs that’s fine, but that doesn’t mean it’s degrading for others that enjoy it. I’ll also add that blowjobs absolutely provide pleasure for me as a woman, it gets me really turned on (I’ve even come close to orgasm just from sucking dick). People can derive pleasure from giving other people pleasure, that’s why so many guys love eating pussy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:09 AM
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Nah we just stopped talking, nothing bad happened between us it’s just that since all this news has come out it made me realise that the dudes probably didn’t consent to stuff being sent to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:49 PM
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TRUE! I didn’t, I’m safe 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:35 PM
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This whole situation is fucked up and I feel horrible for all of the women involved. I haven’t given this any thought in years, but I will say that I was sent someone else’s photo (a man) which, at the time, I presumed the guy gave him permission to send it to me, but now that all this shit has come out, I can only assume it may have actually been sent without consent. So it seems to me like this is something he’s done many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:18 AM
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I’m hot and enjoy showing off my body. but dressing sexy and posting thirst traps is obviously for the attention of others. If you willingly enter a relationship knowing how they dress/present themselves online and THEN you want to start dictating how they dress to appease your insecurities, then yeah that would make you controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:42 AM
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I don’t show my body on twitch. I am a fit nerd though ☝🏻🤓 we exist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:50 AM
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I don’t count? 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:54 AM
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Bro is describing me 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:53 AM
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Sure, but only gooners are spending hours doing that. A quick glance at hot people is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:16 PM
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What? That makes no sense. The people who are delusional enough to think they have a chance with the influencers they follow are obviously going to make an effort to message them & interact with their posts. I’ve rarely come across people who are that delusional, after my 10 years of being online with millions of viewers. I would hope my experience in this area trumps your ‘just a hunch’.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:11 AM
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No, it isn’t. And this is coming from IG model/thot/baddie/influencer. There is only a very tiny amount of people who follow because they think they have a chance. Most will never interact, never message, never like photos etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:44 AM
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“hoping for his chance” Well it’s no wonder you think they’re pathetic losers then. The vast majority of dudes who follow sexy women online aren’t doing it because they think they have a chance at dating/fucking her lol, they just think she’s good to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:55 AM
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Without imagination or a video?? Never lol Are some of you guys really head empty jorking it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:45 PM
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This is like asking women if they truly love the colour blue. Everyone likes different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:55 PM
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any more than if it was a woman saying it about men. so then you agree that it does....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:43 AM
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This is one of those rare cases that calls for a “who hurt you?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:09 AM
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A lot of people’s morals boil down to “I think that’s gross”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:40 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:39 PM
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A cop out…? 💀 Do you reproduce every single time you ejaculate?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:38 PM
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around black MEN, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:39 PM
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It's actually completely normal to be cautious of random men you've never met due to your life experiences! Don't believe me? just wait till you have young daughters and soon enough you'll be teaching them how to be cautious around strange men! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:23 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:49 AM
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r/niceguys isn’t making fun of nice guys, it’s making fun of guys who THINK they’re nice, but are actually just emotionally immature entitled losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:04 AM
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Debate him and tell him why he’s wrong :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:34 PM
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Never because I pursue the guy every time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:09 PM
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Men shame women all the time and I still don’t resort to dick shaming? lol what’s your excuse? Does it make you feel better about your insecurities?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:25 AM
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Wouldn’t it be better to not shame anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:50 PM
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I don’t think men should be shamed for their penis size. But what does that have to do with size queens? Are they not allowed to simply have a preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:38 PM
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? That’s because one is an insult and the other is a descriptor for someone who likes big penises
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:09 PM
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Why do you care if a woman prefers big penises?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:10 PM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:02 PM
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There isn’t a woman alive who won’t acknowledge that we have it better than what we had 100+ years ago. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t point out the issues we still face today? What a strange, pointless post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:44 AM
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Why? Like fine if you have that standard for yourself then you do you, but why do you care about MY sexual endeavours?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:49 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:29 PM
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I’m not asking you specifically lol I’m asking a general question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:29 PM
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Sure, but if there’s a mutual understanding that it’s purely for fun & pleasure (no strings attached), how could that possibly be degrading to either party?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:48 PM
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What if I don't want to 'husband' him up? does that make the sex degrading to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:38 PM
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Surely you didn’t write this for college… It’s filled to the brim with bias and unfounded claims. What degree did you do? Because this doesn’t read like a passable university assignment. You expect us to provide peer reviewed research while using your shitty essay as a source? All the while fixating on the idea of pornography ‘addiction’, which isn’t even formally recognised in the DSM5?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:58 AM
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I met my mans while being promiscuous lol 💀 he was essentially supposed to be a one night stand but we just got along so well that we kept it going I am more sexually attracted to him than anyone else I’ve been with, he just accidentally turned out to be a really good match for me outside of the sex too Imo if you’re a high libido person, fucking around is a great way to find a long term partner bc sexual compatibility is so important
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:09 AM
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EVERY woman! You sure about that? Cause I’m definitely not. My man could literally be unemployed and I wouldn’t care since I am the bread winner anyway. And this is becoming increasingly more common as women start earning more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:43 AM
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Ooo player how demeaning! :o cmon you and I both know that slut shaming is far more prevalent and aggressive towards women. I’m a woman. Women do not slut shame more than men in my experience. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:10 AM
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I am not confused lol. Men can openly talk about their sexuality and express themselves sexually without being called whores/sluts/hoes/for the streets ect. Growing up I was literally made to believe there was something wrong with me, simply because I was horny. Men do not experience this, quite the opposite actually; men are expected to be super horny and are shamed for NOT achieving their sexual escapades.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:30 PM
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Sure. But women are shamed for it 1000x more lol I WISH I could experience the same level of shame men receive for being horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:54 AM
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I do 👁️🫦👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:46 PM
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Well I prefer men who play video games, since I love video games myself. It’s historically been a boys club so less women are into gaming and are therefore less likely to see it as a cool hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:34 AM
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I would never be with a man who doesn’t like going down on me. Instant deal breaker if he ain’t a munch 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:47 AM
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Lost my job and was a broke uni student so I bought a webcam, bought a mic n started uploading
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:31 AM
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There’s a lot I could say 😅 so you gotta be a little more specific
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:38 AM
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Yes 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:26 AM
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Youtube, gaming & onlyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:15 AM
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Idk which mormon village you grew up in but that is not how most people grew up lmao. Maybe if you’re gen alpha and grew up glued to an iPad. But it’s normal for kids to play outside without parent supervision. Now I’m thinking you might be a child yourself? Cause I can’t imagine anyone over the age of like 19 having such a narrow worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:24 PM
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I did read the post, it’s garbage. You’re doubting most women’s experiences solely based on two people’s experience, yours (a man), and your 15 year old sister (who is admittedly never outside without her parents and therefore is rarely in a position where catcalling & street harassment commonly occurs). Once you get outside more and talk to women who trust you, you’ll realise just how common it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:13 PM
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So I'm really curious about this "universal female experience" that doesn't align at all with my experience growing up BECAUSE YOU AREN'T A WOMAN LMAO Of course it doesn't align with your experience as a man. You will almost never have to experience it. What a luxury to be able to question women's experiences of sexual harassment, because you personally have never experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:04 PM
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Reddit porn is still good, if not better imo. Obviously there are spammers, but they usually only spam one single photo/video across multiple subreddits, which only really becomes an issue if you happen to be part of those multiple subreddits. In reality, getting paid for our NSFW content has resulted in much more people posting good shit, which is a good thing for anyone who likes jacking off to porn. Elon Musk making twitter pay to win (aka buying verification so your replies get priority) act…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:29 PM
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Jin, Jungkook, Jimin, Taemin, Kim Tae-hyung
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:01 PM
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Because I obviously don’t associate myself with men who lose respect for women solely because she’s fooled around lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:24 AM
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That’s a big part of it yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:36 PM
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I’m the opposite lol. I’m literally so easy going and low maintenance 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:35 PM
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you're so intellectually dishonest holy fuck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:00 PM
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Okay since you're incapable of honestly engaging with a simple analogy; Preferring a woman who is a microbiologist doesn't mean you have no respect who women who aren't microbiologists
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:38 PM
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What can you all see?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:34 PM
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If you prefer women with blonde hair does that mean you don’t respect brunettes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:47 AM
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"Most women in general greatly prefer their man to make more money than them" is a completely different statement to "Women don't truly respect men who earn less than they do"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:03 AM
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I don't have higher testosterone lol. Just like straight women don't typically get turned on by feminine men. Who's gunna tell him about the entire kpop community
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:41 AM
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Who said anything about aggression? This is exactly what I mean. Why is it that when talking about a confident, boss women, your mind instantly perceives that as aggression?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:37 AM
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You know exactly what I'm talking about don't play dumb :/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:33 AM
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Mhm, and isn’t it interesting how men with attitude are viewed as an alpha boss, while women with attitude are seen as annoying bitches? That’s literally why I get the reaction “oh I thought you were intimidating but you’re actually super cool!” etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:44 AM
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These guys weren’t pursuing me romantically or sexually, so there’s nothing to ‘deal with’ in the first place. Why do you guys have such a problem with admitting that people are often intimidated by confident women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:36 AM
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Most men earn less than me and I would never look down on them for that? Have you ever actually talked to women like that or are you just regurgitating red pill talking points?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:26 AM
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I’ve personally been told by several men that they were intimidated by me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:25 AM
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oftentimes men who have a partner who does OnlyFans are weak and servile, so much so that they do not erect and maintain boundaries Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:20 AM
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Absolutely. It's an outdated practice and it should be illegal to force it on babies. It's honestly shocking that this procedure is still so common today, and that more people aren't against it. It's a blatant violation of human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:28 PM
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I disagree. Men should simp for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:30 PM
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I don’t care if my man watches hardcore porn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:36 AM
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I don’t care about marriage and could happily go my entire life without getting married. I’m the breadwinner so I couldn’t care less how much a man wants to financially provide. I wouldn’t expect him to change his interests, career, sexual satisfaction? etc. for me All that and I STILL hate the manosphere 🤩 Maybe it has something to do with the fact that it’s actually just inherently misogynistic, and not because they’re stopping me from stealing ur precious resources 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:38 AM
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If that is the case with heels you would still be an outlier since most people aren’t toe walkers. What inch heel do you normally prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:51 AM
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That's so sad :( That level of insecurity would be so crippling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:13 PM
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I dress sexy because I like looking sexy and I love attention :p No one wears makeup and heels for themselves lmao, anyone who says otherwise is just lying to themselves. Proven by the fact that they don't wear a full face of makeup and heels around the house when they're home alone; they only wear it when they're going to be perceived by other people. Because it IS for other people. That confidence boost they feel when they wear makeup/dress up is BECAUSE other people view them as more attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:47 AM
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You didn’t cover it, you just said we’re exploiting men’s horniness without any actual explanation as to why it’s exploitative. I don’t need any luck dw :p
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:55 AM
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Ok explain in detail how onlyfans is inherently exploitative towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:56 AM
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I prefer facial hair and go feral for hairy men 🤤😍 It’s my #1 preference tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:45 AM
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Aw we’re forcing the poor men to open their wallets for us 😓 They’re so weak and fragile it’s completely out of their control 😥💔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:44 AM
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No one said they have to know every single anatomy part of the human body. If you don't know what a clit or a penis is, you obviously are going to be bad in bed. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:18 AM
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That's not always it unfortunately.. If you have to communicate to a man what a clit is, it's pretty much doomed from the start. And an alarming amount of men don't realise the clitoris is vital to women's pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:13 AM
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So right wing or fat? Guess I’m choosing Paul
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:33 AM
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I literally never said that being leftist means you’re immune to ‘debilitating fetishes and addiction’. How is that the only takeaway you got from my comment and you STILL got it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:47 AM
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Okay then take it seriously from the scientific research that corroborates what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:51 AM
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Ah I see so when you said to “take accountability”, you didn’t even know what you meant by that. It is interesting how everything you listed does not apply to me though! I don’t have any mental illnesses or trauma, I have a big happy family with my parents still together in a loving marriage, I’m happily married and have never had any issue finding a relationship. Now I wonder if you can say the same? Are your parents together? Do you have a dad? Are you married? Do you have any mental issues? A…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:05 AM
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and?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:59 PM
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I asked you a simple question and you think I'M triggered? Do I sense a bit of projection there buddy? Do you want to actually answer my question now that you've gotten that off your chest?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:58 PM
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It’s ludicrous to suggest that’s a common occurrence. Why base the ethics of an entire industry off the rare extreme cases? Should you even be on the internet right now considering all the illegal unethical activity that goes on around you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:28 AM
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It actually is extremely easy to tell if it is, considering all onlyfans creators need to verify their identity using government official ID. So unless if someone disgruntled ex has stolen their ID or has them locked up in the basement forced to make content you’re just grasping at straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:58 AM
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You surely don’t believe a lot of onlyfans content is revenge porn? How is that pretty likely to be exploitative?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:20 AM
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That’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:00 AM
1

Can you explain why you believe self produced porn is problematic? It almost completely eliminates all the issues that the mainstream porn industry has.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:00 AM
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What should I be taking accountability for?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:56 AM
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I love porn and honestly prefer men who watch porn in moderation since those guys (in my experience) tend to be more sexually liberal, open to new experiences and more sex positive. Almost all of the issues I have with the mainstream porn industry are alleviated by the existence of onlyfans and other forms of creator-lead content. The anti-porn crowd constantly lie about the adverse effects of watching pornography; insinuating that any amount of porn consumption permanently alters your brain fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:53 AM
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“If they don’t, there’s no relationship in the first place” Exactly…? so for the relationship to work there is an expectation for mutual feelings. I don’t know why you’re trying to mental gymnastics this so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:32 PM
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No one said anything about faking emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:20 PM
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What aren’t you getting here? If you’re in a relationship with someone obviously you expect them to also be in love with you and show you affection. If they didn’t, it would destroy the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:20 PM
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Do you not expect love & affection in return…?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:47 AM
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Fr I met mine on the rift (league of legends)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:40 AM
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They aren’t. I just don’t find the typical ‘Brad Pitts’ that attractive and prefer video game nerds which would be a turn off for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:38 AM
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That isn’t virtue signaling. I’ve been told numerous times I have a weird taste in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:57 AM
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This is kinda hard to answer because a guy who you consider to be average might be hot to me or vice versa. I like nerdy dudes with facial hair who are more on the muscular side; so the things that make someone more attractive TO ME is if they’re smart, funny, nice cock, with shared interests ie. gaming etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:30 AM
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Because it’s about consent. Looking sexy doesn’t mean I want strangers to touch me without my consent. Being hot doesn’t mean I want people to sexually harass me? 💀 What part of that do you not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:01 AM
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I’m a provider woman but I don’t automatically view a stay at home husband/dad as a submissive role. I just make way more money so it makes sense for me to be the primary financial provider while he takes on more household chores. I don’t think that’s inherently submissive; household work and child rearing is just unpaid labour. It’s just as important, if not more, than being the breadwinner. You just want a woman who’s the breadwinner, which is already harder to find because women tend to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:28 AM
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xD What do you need help with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:31 AM
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No we don’t. We gotta stop lying to ourselves ladies 😖 You feel more confident and sexy BECAUSE of how other people perceive you. It’s not for yourself. If it was truly just for yourself you would also get dressed up and wear a full face of makeup while you’re home alone (almost no one does that). The fact that you don’t do it when you’re alone is telling that it’s not for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:56 AM
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Because one of them is misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:47 AM
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Ask him if he had a big cumshot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:18 AM
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Literally no one shames you for not wearing makeup or not shaving your body hair wym 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:35 PM
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Yall say this and yet we're called disgusting if we don't wear makeup or a bra or don't shave our underarms. We can't win xD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:37 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:31 AM
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Misogyny it's as simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:56 PM
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Same and I’m a woman. I feel like OP is telling on himself a little here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:40 AM
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No. If they care that much they can just click on my profile to see my age and how fit I am
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:36 AM
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AI can never replace real women having real orgasms and experiencing real pleasure. Sure, it will be popular, just as hentai is, but it will never replace real porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:51 AM
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Purity culture isn’t just perpetuated by religious people. Women especially are shamed for masturbation because culturally we are expected to be ‘sexually pure’. It’s just sexism. When I was in school I remember the boys would speak very candidly about their masturbation habits without shame. But as soon as I mentioned that I masturbate too, I was told I’m disgusting and they’ll never look at me the same way again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:26 AM
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You’re kinda proving my point here lol. Your husband admittedly never gets his dick sucked (despite the fact that he loves it) because you dislike doing it. I think it’s completely fair for people to make sure they’re sexually compatible BEFORE they get married, so things like this don’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:24 PM
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You say this like oral sex isn’t a super important part of many people’s sex lives? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:04 AM
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You absolutely can’t talk about your preferred frequency without having sex lol. What if she realises she hates giving blow jobs, but he really loves receiving blow jobs? What happens then? Is he just supposed to accept that he’ll never get his dick sucked? Or is she supposed to engage in a sex act she hates doing? Sexual compatibility is SO important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:53 AM
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No? Zoomers are usually the ones crying online about age gaps, AKA YOUNG PEOPLE
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:50 AM
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I’m not lol. A simp is essentially someone who will bend over backwards for your pussy/cock. Everyone simps for a specific person eventually, you can’t tell me having a girl who’s a massive simp for you isn’t an amazing thing. So sorry you haven’t experienced that 😔🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:47 AM
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I love simps. I’m not sure how that video you included is supposed to represent a simp? A simp isn’t just a guy who cries or is a feminist. I feel like you’re changing the definition of a simp to suit your own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:59 AM
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These videos are age restricted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:46 AM
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Yep, they don’t think that far ahead though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:17 PM
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Like I said, I think terms like ‘hoe’ are relatively meaningless because people use that insult towards women just for being women. I’ve basically reclaimed the word and really only use it to describe people who are attractive. It’s basically become liberal/gay lingo now 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:48 AM
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Me 💅🏻✨🎀🌸💕 But serious answer, hoe, slut, whore etc. has no real meaning and is just used towards any woman no matter how many sexual partners she’s had. The first time I was called a slut I was a child who had never even kissed a boy yet, let alone had sex. It’s just another meaningless misogynistic insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:54 AM
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This is like saying any man who can’t cum from having his balls massaged just has sexual trauma or a very low libido. Our clit is like your dick. Can you imagine having sex without your dick ever being touched?? Sure, ball massages feel great, but could you cum from that alone? PS. this is coming from someone with no sexual trauma, who can literally cum in 10 seconds from clitoral stimulation (and I’ve masturbated probably 1000+ times and never cum from penetration alone). YOURE JUST WRONG SORRY…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:46 AM
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Nah I totally get it bc they annoy me too xd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:17 PM
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Sure, technically anything I post could be vaguely considered an advertisement since I’m a content creator. But that isn’t the reason I engage on PPD. Like I said, I just like engaging in debates, whether I do OF or not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:09 PM
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That might be true for other creators on OF but not me lol. I’ve been very open about this stuff online before OF even existed (you can check my twitter for evidence of that). I also don’t need to advertise my OF on purple pill debate 💀 I already have a massive following online not to toot my own horn, I’m just autistically online and like engaging in debate circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:55 AM
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Who would’ve thought women who do OF tend to be very upfront about their sexuality 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:11 AM
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I don't believe in being 'slut zoned'. I've never purposely looked for a relationship. My marriage started out with having zero intentions of a romantic relationship, I was slut zoning him too, but then it just accidentally worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:37 AM
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I wouldn’t say it to a complete stranger ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:18 AM
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Too bad people shame women into not being sexually assertive 🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:23 PM
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Yes I’m very blunt. When I’m interested in a guy I’ll just straight up tell him I want to suck his cock
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:43 AM
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If it considerably changes your appearance, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:16 PM
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Sure, I never said otherwise. Although I’d put money on the fact that destinys community is getting more pussy than the red pill community.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:00 AM
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I don't see anyone complaining about getting pussy everyday. But then again most of the red pill community are single men who don't get pussy in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:31 PM
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Semantics. You don't find them disgusting is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:16 PM
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So not knowing the person instantly means any consensual sexual interaction between them is objectification...? So then why didn't you say I'm the one objectifying my fans? I know them even less than they know me. I have an exhibitionism fetish so by jerking off to me they're feeding my own sexual gratification. Does that mean I'm objectifying them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:15 PM
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No I don't. I wouldn't like anyone to violate my consent and go beyond the sexual parameters I have set. I don't allow anyone on my OF to degrade me or treat me like I'm not a human being. What makes you think jacking off to a photo of someone who wants to be jerked off to = treating someone like they aren't a human being?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:09 PM
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Consent doesn't make something more or less objectifying. It absolutely does lmao. See the example I just gave. Or do you think men should stop telling their gfs they have a nice ass because that would be objectifying? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:59 PM
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You realise the entire meaning of objectification boils down to consent, right? If my bf stares at my tits and tells me I have a nice ass that isn't objectification, but if the random crackhead on the train does it, that's objectification. I do not feel objectified whatsoever by doing OF, I'm literally consenting to people fapping to me, and I get sexual gratification out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:55 PM
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Yes, and similarly you love promiscuous women. Yall just pretend to hate them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:49 PM
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I agree 100% I wish people didn't feel the need to dehumanise or objectify someone simply because they wouldn't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:48 PM
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Yes it helps me understand how they aim to dehumanise women, and that the people who say stuff like that are disgusting and not worth taking seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:24 PM
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Yes, because I didn't say that xD I said people who think promiscuous women are disgusting yet still sleep with them must have low self worth. I don't find it unattractive personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:21 PM
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Sure, to normal people, it's not uncommon in the red pill world though. I regularly touch grass so I know these guys aren't representative of most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:00 PM
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Did you even read the original question? I'm ONLY talking about guys who claim they basically despise promiscuous women and yet still want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:53 PM
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I'm only interested in hearing from the men who still desire to have sex with women they deem low value, so don't just reply saying "I don't". fucking called it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:51 PM
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I've never in my life said " even though shes hot that chick's and evil feminist,so I won't smash" Heaps of guys say stuff like that though lol I've slept with hundreds if not 1000s of women I would never marry or even bring to my home..who politics I don't agree with whom I really don't even care about.. Serious question, are you in a relationship? Do you think a woman who isn't also promiscuous herself would accept a man who has admittedly slept with 1000s of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:50 PM
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This you would be ok with? It's better. At least then they're being a bit more morally consistent and self aware. ​ It doesn't matter who says it, promiscuous woman are undesirable for relationships. To you. What people find valuable in a partner is completely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:43 PM
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Nope. I'm trying to figure out if they're lying about finding those women disgusting, or if they're actually willing to fuck anyone even if they find them disgusting (which would indicate that have very low self worth imo).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:41 PM
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ooo good analogy, now answer this If you say you hate icecream and cake, and you think it's disgusting, why would you still eat it? Why would you fantasise about eating it? Why would you eat it whenever you get the chance to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:39 PM
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You are just plain wrong sorry. Obviously too much of a sex hormone is going to have an adverse effect on your sexual function holy fuck how can you be aware that your balls will shrink but still deny that it will not lower sex drive?? WHERE DO YOU THINK MOST OF YOUR TESTOSERONE COMES FROM? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:37 PM
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man I love when people can't fathom a woman having a high sex drive so they just assume I'm lying >:) ​ If this was actually true you would understand that if your only options were attractive but low value men you would go with them because you need it. Yes, if I was desperate and had low self worth I would fuck anyone. I understand that, so why don't these guys just admit they have low self worth hence why they're able to fuck people they're disgusted by?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:24 PM
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Nope, never had any kind of mental illnesses. ​ testosterone is what makes a person horny and the higher that is the hornier you’ll be This isn't even true? testosterone that is TOO high will literally cause a lowered sex drive. Beefed up gym bros can tell you how much their anabolic-androgenic steroid use has shrunk their balls up and lowered their sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:21 PM
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someone who's makin sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:13 PM
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Ah I see, so the difference is that I don't dehumanise the people that I'm not interested in marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:11 PM
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If you want to see it in action, google "pig woman experiment". So does this essentially boil down to these dudes having such low self worth that they're basically willing to fuck anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:57 PM
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I already mentioned this in another comment, but I was a borderline sex addict and even men with a super high sex drive couldn't keep up with me lol. I understand what that drive feels like more than most people xd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:55 PM
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uhhh ngl my dude I think you're in the minority if you'd tap that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:53 PM
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LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:38 PM
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you just proved my point xd ​ Most 304s end up marrying low, value men that they don't respect and end up either resenting or divorcing. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:35 PM
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as long as she's female, most straight men are ok sleeping with her. This isn't even true. I don't think most men would want to have sex with someone who weighs 500kg, because they find that disgusting. Most people wouldn't want to have sex with someone who they find disgusting, hence my original question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:33 PM
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It absolutely does matter lmao, I've literally experienced having a higher sex drive than most men, EVERY SINGLE DAY, not just 'a few times a day during a certain time of the month'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:31 PM
2

If they admit they have such low self worth that they're willing to fuck just about anyone even if they find the person repulsive, sure! But they don't want to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:20 PM
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A woman's value is tied not from the men that she can get sex from but from those she can get commitment from. You red pillers don't even believe this lol. You still call '304s' low value even if they're married or in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:18 PM
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I'm not conflating that at all, you're still missing the entire point of my post. I've happily fucked guys that I would never date, but I don't consider them low value or disgusting. The question is: How do you fuck someone you're disgusted by?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:13 PM
-1

I already said this in another comment, but I've been with super high sex drive guys who couldn't even keep up with me. I'm not the person you should be saying this to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:10 PM
3

This is oddly validating. It's the guys who would literally fuck a pile of dirt who use this kind of rhetoric whilst being promiscuous themselves. One more reason to not take anything they say seriously 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:06 PM
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Thanks for mentioning it. I'd normally have to pay for this kind of advertisement but guys who randomly mention it in reddit comments do it for free !
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:01 PM
-2

Men don't need to even like a woman to desire sex. Nor do I. I still would never have sex with a man who I consider to be repulsive. ​ So think of you horniest day, then multiply by 20. This is only one of the many reasons. You are saying this to someone who was a borderline sex addict and even men with a super high sex drive couldn't keep up with me. I have experienced horniness more than the average man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:51 PM
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I've had sex with men who I would never date, but I don't view them as low value or detestable, they're good people who I just wasn't romantically interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:47 PM
-1

Why not? because if you truly viewed someone as low value or disgusting, that would be a turn off to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:42 PM
1

So is this the result of low self worth? because you feel you can't get any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:41 PM
3

Who men choose to have sex with is vastly difterent than who they would consider wife material. Obviously, that's not what I'm asking. There are men I would fuck that I wouldn't date, but I don't view them as low value or gross 💀 We just wouldn't be a good fit romantically. My questions is if they are so repulsive, why would they even still want to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:39 PM
0

Congrats on missing the entire point of my post. Why do you still want to have sex with them? Answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:35 PM
-8

No it doesn't, it refers to their entire being. If you think someone is repulsive, why would you want to have sex with them???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:33 PM
-6

I wouldn't have sex with a man who I find repulsive. That isn't a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:31 PM
4

You aren’t getting it my dude. You don’t know better, you are in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:56 AM
1

It’s not an obligation thing, the drive is just there. It doesn’t need to be sparked by someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:28 PM
2

It sounds like you haven’t actually met a hyper sexual woman, because of this one sentence: “They do not want to have sex everyday or mention sex everyday or be horny everyday” Hyper sexual women absolutely do want sex everyday and are horny everyday. I’ve been with guys who are hyper sexual and even they couldn’t keep up with me, I literally would drain them dry to the point where their dicks could no longer stand up from nutting too much in one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:26 PM
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I hate to break it to you guys but it’s because we tell our friends to get the guy away from us 💀 Sorry you had to find out the hard way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:20 PM
3

No one is saying they’re the same. If you shame women for having sex, yet still have sex with those very women, that’s the definition of being a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:39 PM
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Because you’re massive hypocrites more often than not (and liars). You say you hate sluts but are more than happy to essentially ‘create’ them by having sex with them. Comparing women who have consensual sex, to men who are sexual predators, murderers and misogynists is fucking insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:03 AM
2

This is literally a normal question to ask someone who you're getting to know wym 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:04 PM
12

A psychopath has the most EQ because he has to learn, study, and watch people's emotions and has to practice them just to 'fit in' which in turn also grants them lifetime experience of also manipulating emotions. No. It's literally the complete opposite. Psychopaths have LOW emotional intelligence, and resort to mimicking people's behaviour in order to mask their low emotional intelligence. You have it completely backwards. You don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:43 AM
1

I don’t care about money or status at all. But I do care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:52 AM
2

I tend to like guys that are a bit thicker, whether that be muscle or fat. Not into the body builder aesthetic or super skinny (unless if they’re a femboy then skinny is fine)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:38 AM
1

Well I’m pretty sure my followings list in public on both Twitter and IG but that’s over 1.6k accounts to sift through if you can really be bothered lol. I follow a bunch of solo male creators on reddit too but that’s a private list. Sure it might not be the norm, but that’s why we shouldn’t talk in absolutes by saying women aren’t attracted to men’s bodies ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:16 AM
1

Probably over 300 So I would say that’s more than the average man’s following 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:47 AM
1

Don’t use that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:48 PM
2

Nowhere near the extent that men are attracted to women's bodies. according to who? 🤨 I feel like I've always appreciated men's bodies to the same extent that men do with women's bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:19 PM
3

lmao 😅 thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:04 PM
10

Careful, some guys who have a humiliation kink specifically send girls unsolicited dick pics just to get this very reaction. You might be unknowingly feeding into someone's fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:47 PM
2

What? I'm definitely attracted to men's bodies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:44 PM
6

Perfect question for me considering I receive hundreds a week (I rate dick pics for a living) ​ Women have you ever opened one from a strangers and been turned on? Wanted to have sex with them? UNSOLICITED? No. It grosses me out and annoys me because it violates my clear boundaries I have set around dick pics. If they go through the correct means to send me a dick pic ie. I asked for it, or they paid for a rating, then yes that turns me on. Solicited dick pics are HOTTTT
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:42 PM
2

Nah it sounds like you do an amazing job and are a super supportive partner. Times are changin and a lot of people are still stuck in the past!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:47 AM
2

Not entirely. You should still obviously clean up after yourself and help out when it’s needed. But it makes sense for the other person to be doing most of the chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:43 AM
5

I wear makeup and I’ve never been pumped and dumped lol Almost like it depends on the guy you’re sleeping with, not whether or not you wear makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:03 AM
1

Older. Idk they just look better usually, fuller facial hair n stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:16 AM
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If you expect your partners to be non-promiscuous then you should live up to those values yourself too. I don’t see an issue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:11 AM
4

Doesn't matter what they say. We know they're watching MILF porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:52 PM
6

that's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:11 PM
1

I agree, concerts and festivals should just have unisex bathrooms.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 05:19 AM
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But the main issue is that most of those said women would have a fit if men were filling up the female bathroom. But unlike them, men and the other men in the bathroom kept our mouths shut because we know that speaking out would do no good because you know, women are always the victim and always get their own way. Why is that the main issue? Isn't that exactly what you're doing here? Having a fit about it on reddit and calling for the stadium and Olympic Park to address the issue?
/r/MensRights26/02/24 04:57 AM
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Would it be acceptable for men to invade the woman's bathroom if they needed to take a shit and all the stalls were full in the men's bathroom and the women's bathroom was "empty"? Yes of course. Why would I want men shitting themselves rather than simply using the empty women's bathroom? That's an obvious solution.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 04:43 AM
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So the only man in the entire bathroom was able to use a stall quickly and efficiently? What's the issue?
/r/MensRights26/02/24 04:41 AM
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I don't want any woman standing in the washroom when I'm taking a piss as simple as that. Then use the stall.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 04:04 AM
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I think these images perfectly illustrate how much of a non issue this is; there are about 30 women in there with you being the only male. At a Taylor Swift concert, it would basically be an empty bathroom if the women weren't there. I've definitely been in situations where the women's bathroom was completely full and the men's bathroom was empty, so I just used the men's. No one cared, and similarly I wouldn't care if a man desperately needed to use the women's bathroom.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 03:40 AM
1

If you’re a woman causing a dead bedroom, but still love your partner and want to be with him, why deny him the opportunity to get sexual fulfilment elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:26 AM
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Red pillers constantly obsess over womens ’peak fertility’ and ‘hitting the wall’. Don’t lie to me xD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:40 AM
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Jealous? Why in the ever living fuck would I want to have a child at 64?? Not having to worry about getting pregnant when I’m 50+ is a great thing. Red pillers act like women instantly become infertile at 30 and all our eggs dry up, and we understandably make fun of them for it 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:30 AM
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Capitalism is good. Overall could use a bit of tweaking of course, but I think it’s the best economical system we have today. Why would you assume otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:35 AM
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My future children aren’t going to be raised as conservative bullies, so that won’t be a problem. Does it pain you to know that your mother has taken countless creampies? She was lapping up that cum & taking it deep inside her pussy when she made you. Does it bother you knowing what a horndog your mum is? Like come on, we’re all sexual creatures, we’re not 7 years old anymore, time to get over your cooties.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:35 AM
1

I already have several streams of income outside of onlyfans xd Worry about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:27 AM
1

I think you underestimate how much people value watching a real woman experiencing real pleasure For many, if not most people who watch porn, knowing the person you're watching is experiencing sexual pleasure is one of the biggest turn ons. AI can never replace that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:12 PM
4

and?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:28 PM
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I'm educated, healthy, wealthy, funny, cute, fertile, caring, family oriented, love giving back tickles and head rubs, have really nice feet, perky tits, play video games, fun, laid back and fairly low maintenance, high EQ, & I have a cum fetish so I'm really good for lapping up cum also great at cooking, and I love going fishing :p
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:48 AM
1

You implied it since you claimed that ‘AI will kill OF’. If the chatting aspect only serves a particular group of people, how could it possibly kill OF?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:18 AM
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I’m a top creator on OF, the vast majority of my subscribers never DM me. This idea that men are mostly subscribing to onlyfans creators to chat women up is not true. Also, to gain access to posting on OF you must show verified government ID. A real human must be behind every account.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:52 AM
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It's a common misconception that women make more money on twitch (independent of any money made on outside platforms) compared to men, so that's why I corrected him. If OP had of said women make more money on OF then of course that's an easy agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:51 AM
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No they don't, women who use twitch as a funnel for their only fans make by far more Then why even bother mentioning Twitch if you're talking about onlyfans?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:29 AM
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Because they don’t know they’re hot (aka my idea of hot)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:00 AM
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True! I follow a lot of ‘looks advice’ subreddits and so many of the guys that post on there are literally hot, but they think they’re below average. I sometimes get the urge to tell a guy when he’s attractive just bc they rarely get random compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:46 AM
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Making money on Twitch Men make the most money on Twitch by a mile, and they don't even have to be attractive to do so, so this is a really weak argument. ​ never being forced to fight in war You have never been forced to fight in war. Nor has any man in America for the last 50 years, since that's how long ago the last draft was. Weak point. ​ being the first hostage to be released, being the first to be evacuated during an emergency, Again, you've never been in this situation ? Most people will…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:19 AM
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Yep. It’s totally possible to have good communication skills + emotional intelligence without having relationship experience. There are men who have never been in a relationship who are better communicators than men who have always been in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:47 AM
1

Yeah I mean content creation in general isn’t for everyone let alone NSFW content. You basically have to be immune to insults (which admittedly takes a special kind of person)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:25 AM
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Because onlyfans is 100000x more fun I make 1000000x more money 😅 I’m a top creator on the platform so I’m really not the right person to ask why I don’t just get a regular job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:29 AM
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I already do sex work so.... but I'd love to be a housewife too, so I'm happy either way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:21 PM
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My bf is tho. you guys stay safe out there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:11 AM
1

Yes, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:54 AM
1

Not at all, I think people who have even the slightest interest in femdom and/or humiliation can much more easily go down the cuck route based on how much shaming is thrown their way If the internet didn't shame cucks as hard as they do there would be half as many cucks imo. If you guys just stayed quiet about people's kinks less people would be interested in learning more about cucking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:06 AM
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Blonde pilled > single and miserable (aka you)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:10 AM
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If shame & humiliation are intrinsic aspects of cuckholdry, what makes you think shame will deter other people from wanting to be a cuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:08 AM
2

It’s always the nofap people too 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:05 AM
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Men are averse to sex toys?? Speak for yourself I’ve never had sex with a man who felt negatively towards sex toys. They’ve only ever been excited by them, and that’s an extremely common reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:02 AM
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“Shame is an effective way to prevent its normalization” Cucks literally get off on shaming wym 💀💀💀 You guys have no idea what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:59 AM
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LMAO WHAT Context needed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:57 AM
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No, I’ll just say thank you and move on Compliments are still nice to hear even if I’m not physically attracted to the person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:16 PM
3

Just straight up tell me you think I’m cute or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:14 PM
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I'm a super straight forward person so I like that from men too just straight up tell me how you feel 😎👌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:33 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:08 AM
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If people call you a dumbass are you going to accept that label too ? What kind of logic is that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:53 PM
1

Onlyfans is great for me too 🤩☝🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:32 AM
1

Yeah. To get sex lol I also do onlyfans so career wise yes 🤓☝🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:04 AM
1

Exactly. I’m yet to come across a self described incel who is not also a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:59 AM
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I’m not sure you know what projection means because there wasn’t any in my comment. Simply having negative experiences with women doesn’t turn people into incels, being terminally online in extremist spaces does. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:24 AM
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Sure, but almost everyone has bad experiences with dating or pursuing sexual interest, and not everyone turns into an incel. Engaging in niche online spaces that perpetuate misogynistic ideas would be the obvious catalyst to becoming an incel, no? That’s why there’s a distinction between being a self described incel, and simply being someone who doesn’t have much luck getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:06 AM
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I don’t really buy the whole “years of being called a nazi is what actually turned me into a nazi” thing. I imagine you’ve been active in spaces online that discuss sex/gender/dating etc. and expressed opinions that closely aline with incel ideology? Engaging in these spaces is the worst possible thing you could do for yourself, the conversations you have about women and with women online is not reflective of how women actually interact irl. How often would you say you spend time interacting wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:40 AM
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But do you unironically call yourself an incel? Or are you just someone who’s not having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:00 AM
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Where are these elusive incels who aren’t misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:40 AM
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I’ve literally never heard anyone say that “women only engage in penetration for their partner”, and I’ve been in feminist, gender/political spaces for over a decade. I think it’s safe to say you’re misinterpreting people’s words
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:43 AM
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If you watched breaking bad and wanted to be like Walter White you did not understand the show correctly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:05 AM
1

Me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:44 AM
2

My boyfriend is the result of a casual hookup with the hottest guy I only had that visceral lust for and we just accidentally fell in love So yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:40 AM
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“they hardly develop any real skills, personality, interests, etc” Completely baseless claim. It sounds like you’re the one objectifying us. I think you’ve been watching a little too many red pill podcasts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:04 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:50 AM
1

Why do people get so mad over the fact that I love doing onlyfans and personally find it empowering?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:18 AM
4

Genetics is the biggest component undoubtedly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:13 AM
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Don’t you think we would’ve bred out the ugly by now if that were true? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:31 AM
1

huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:22 PM
1

Oh yeah I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:30 AM
1

What does that have to do with what I just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:19 AM
2

I’m only attracted to non traditional men. To me this means a man with liberal values, emotional intelligence, and open-mindedness particularly pertaining to sex. This doesn’t mean he can’t be the breadwinner or protector/provider, it just means he doesn’t view being the breadwinner as the ‘be all and end all’. If I make more money then it makes more sense for me to be the primary financial provider while he does more household chores. I don’t want to be with a traditional man who’s going to fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:45 AM
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It’s almost always asked in a condescending manner, as if to imply that she has little to offer. Hence why they never ask men this question; only women who they view as ‘low value’. It also feels weird to answer the question tbh. You’re essentially asking me to brag about how great I am to a person who already thinks little of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:02 AM
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MY romantic and sexual interest? Says who? You don't know anything about me. Red pill dudes say money makes a man 'high value' but I couldn't care less about that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:53 AM
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You treat people differently based on if you have romantic/sexual interest in them* Not wanting to date someone doesn't mean you think they're 'low value'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:27 AM
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Yes it does. No one outside of niche internet spaces thinks like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:06 AM
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and normal people who aren't reddit brained will continue to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:30 AM
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I don't view human beings as low value, especially when based solely on their appearance, financial status, education etc. I think it's pathetic if anyone unironically subscribes to this 'value' system in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:58 AM
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To test if you’re being good faith. Which you clearly aren’t, you just have a vendetta against trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:56 AM
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No you aren’t lol stop lying. You would assume it’s a creeper cis man, AND SO WOULD I. Anyone who doesn’t know what Buck Angel looks like, google him and tell me if women would feel safe having him in the bathroom with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:53 AM
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Are you okay with people who look like Buck Angel (aka trans men) using the women’s bathrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:39 AM
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No it isn’t. And the worrying part of this thinking is that cis women who look more masculine are getting falsely accused of being trans and get harassed in bathrooms as a result. My friend literally got berated in the womens bathroom because someone thought they were a man even though they were born with a vagina. This is the reality of ‘trans checking’ people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:21 AM
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The restroom ‘issue’ is so overblown. Never in my life have I noticed a trans woman in the bathroom. I go in there, piss, and leave. If they use the women’s restroom no one notices If they use the men’s restroom they’d get beat up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:09 AM
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LMAOOOOO literally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:41 PM
1

Right ok that makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:22 PM
1

So you would still get horny before him? but just not necessarily directed at a particular person?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:00 AM
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Yes. But then you said mentioned that I can’t do the same, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:57 AM
1

So you’ve admittedly never felt sexual desire towards someone and I’m supposed to believe it’s not about being less horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:18 AM
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Demisexual is just a nice label for “less horny” let’s be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:15 AM
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During sex the male doesn’t experience any degree of pain from deep penetration, no fluid is excreted into the body How do you think men contract STD's from an infected woman? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:05 AM
2

Stop dating bpd women and then expecting most women to be like that The average woman will be glad you don't negatively judge her for her past
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:11 AM
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I get those comments pretty much every time I share my experiences with dating/sex etc. It's so flattering that the men in here think I'm such a mystical unicorn that they can't even fathom me being such a cool person with cool experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:33 AM
1

No. This is like a self fulfilling prophecy. If you got results that you didn't want to hear, you would start treating him differently, which will inevitably lead to relationship issues down the line. If you know your partner well and have good communication, a test like this wouldn't be necessary in the first place. Same goes for paternity tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:30 AM
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Not at all. It shows me that they're confident
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:28 AM
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Why not just own being insecure then? Why is there always an effort to ensure people that you aren’t doing it out of insecurity (which is what you did in this post)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:19 PM
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Then why are you mad that women are “attacking you” by calling you insecure if it’s true?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:57 PM
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In a relationship, this type of woman is terrifying. Ideally, a man wants a woman with a high admission cost. Because then he can feel more secure knowing it's far harder for other men to come in and have sex with her, compared to the low admission cost women. So you admit that it’s because you feel insecure that your partner might cheat on you? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:29 PM
1

More productive such as…?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:49 AM
1

Did it ever occur to you that I make money? my mans literally doesn't even need a job lmao of course I'm going to pick poor hot guy over a guy I'm not even attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:13 AM
1

I’m being serious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:59 AM
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It's one of the better subs for women, I'll give you that. I don't get massively downvoted or banned for sharing my 'blue pill' opinions here. I'd get banned simply for disagreeing on red pill-esque subs, so at least this sub welcomes debate and ideas from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:44 PM
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The examples I shared were just to demonstrate that shaming female promiscuity while celebrating male promiscuity, is not a universal standard. Slut shaming is largely the result of religious puritanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:33 AM
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How does one not perpetuate the whore/ stud double standard? Huh? I mean I exist, and I don't perpetuate the double standard? ​ What are some examples of cultures that don’t have learned or ingrained misogyny? How do you know it’s learned? What if its just instinctual? Our sexual behaviour and anatomy is the result of evolution; humans are literally built for promiscuity. The size and shape of the human testes and penis reflects higher sperm competition, though not quite as much as our most prom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:56 AM
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Are you saying you believe most or all people are misogynistic/ strongly prejudiced against women? Including other women? I'm saying people who perpetuate the whore/stud double standard are being misogynistic yes. Yes, that includes other women. ​ So in other words Your belief is: people shame women who are sexual/ promiscuous because both men and women are inherently misogynistic? Inherently? No. This is a cultural standard that is learned. ​ If men are shamed by society for not being hyper mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:30 AM
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Well I disagree with the entire premise of your post. I don't think the double standard is misunderstood at all, people are misogynistic and therefore shame women who are sexual. Men aren't expected to be sexually 'pure', and therefore don't experience the same level of societal shaming when it comes to being promiscuous, in fact the opposite is true for men; they're expected to be hyper masculine and sexual, therefore if a man can't get sex, he's shamed for being inexperienced or a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:57 AM
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No man will take them seriously. This is a complete lie and just wishful thinking on your part. It's not hard to find a man who has progressive views on sex and/or sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:47 AM
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You are absolutely right. People love to impose their revenge fantasies on women who do OF when in reality, every single woman I know who does OF (including myself) has no problems with dating and, more often than not, are already in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:41 AM
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You guys are impressed if a woman can get a rich guy? ...why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:22 AM
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Yeah as long as he's been tested I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:32 AM
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Saying ‘partner’ is extremely normal in Australia. Idk maybe you’re just not considering that it’s the norm for a lot of people on here? Not everyone lives where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:24 PM
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Sure. It helps me better understand the arguments from the other side, which makes me form better arguments myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:44 AM
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So it definitely doesn’t help you then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:41 AM
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Woman, dating a man Yes :-) I’m fortunate enough to make enough money to provide for both of us so I wouldn’t mind covering 100% of expenses for any amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:08 AM
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Next to none? We were teenagers in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:05 AM
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In this circumstance yes it’s unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:07 AM
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I don't hate men or think they're all predators, and I don't think 90% of the women here do either. It's probably like 2% at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:10 AM
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Sure, but the clit isn't one of those places like many men seem to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:41 AM
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"If he don't he's dumb or blind" It's an extremely common experience for women to be having sex with a guy who with pays 0 attention to her clit, or rubs her flaps thinking it's her clitoris. So most are dumb or blind I guess! But yes if you have some obscure way of getting off, then expecting someone to automatically know that is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:27 AM
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Let's be real women on average expect the man to know how her body works... Yes we expect men to know what a clitoris is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:12 AM
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What kind of degree is that? I have a bachelors degree in psychological science. ​ but than it's weird to brag about being educated when you don't even need to know how to write for your profession. Then* I definitely do need to know how to write for my profession lol.And that's not weird at all? The person I was responding to implied that my parents don't care about my future, which isn't the case at all & is a very dumb comment to make considering I have a successful career AND a backup plan t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:09 AM
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My education does have some practical implications with my work in that I’ve studied sleep, mental health, sex; all things I’ve implemented in my videos, as well as IT studies which help with editing. But overall my education isn’t necessary to do my current job, which is totally fine. I’m making more money anyway and enjoy it more than any industry job I would’ve gotten if I did follow my education path.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:42 AM
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Ok? Eating a piece of chocolate changes your neural pathways Giving someone a hug changes your neural pathways That on its own doesn’t mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:19 AM
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I know because science is on my side. There is no scientific evidence to support the perceived benefits of no fap, and there is no evidence to suggest that masturbation is harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:51 AM
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No fap is bs. You don’t gain super powers or clarity by not nutting. Theres nothing wrong with nutting everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:39 AM
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It is scientifically correct that men with healthy testosterone levels should have a healthy libido and enjoy cooming regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:45 AM
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Coomers are based high testosterone kings
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:25 AM
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A bit niche? MILF is one of the most popular porn categories lmao. The market for that is more popular than ever before and will continue to grow in popularity. So that’s obviously not an issue if I do choose to continue this line of work. But yes making enough to retire by then would be ideal!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:45 AM
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Any addiction is, by definition, damaging to a person. In order for it to be classed as an addiction it must be negatively affecting a persons life ie. work life, personal relationships, physical or mental health. The problem is that anti-porn people are pushing this idea that literally ANY amount of pornography consumption is detrimental to someone’s health or wellbeing, and they call casual consumers porn addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:28 AM
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Wym future? I’m happy, healthy, educated and wealthy 💀 That’s literally best case scenario. Policing what your adult daughter does with her vagina is just a creepy incest kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:58 AM
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Bro full offense but I probably pay more in my yearly taxes than what you make in your 5 year salary, the income of the average OF creator is clearly irrelevant to this conversation. If you want to talk about 'contributing to your community' I can easily argue that my YouTube videos have contributed to literally tens of millions of people bettering their physical & mental health. And what do you do for work?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:49 PM
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Incorrect once again. My dad is extremely proud that I’m doing something I love and that I make a lot of money doing it 😅 I’ve even had him join on my twitch livestreams to cull any misinformed assumptions like the ones you’re making now. I could still choose any other job, you’re right, but I choose to do what I actually enjoy and make 1000x more money doing so. It’s literally a win-win lol. It must really bother you that I have supportive parents while doing something you personally disagree w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:21 AM
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My father is in my life too and we are very close, parents still together, I see them literally everyday etc. So clearly whatever assumptions you have about my upbringing are wrong lol I know it challenges your entire worldview to hear this but I don’t have any trauma, had an amazing upbringing, and love what I do for work now :) I love sex and I love being open about my sexuality, that’s just who I am. It’s not that deep. It’s gross to worry about who your (not even born yet) future adult daugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:35 AM
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Why would you, as a father, be concerned with which men are masturbating to images of your adult daughter online? Your child’s not even born yet and you’re already thinking about men fapping to her? That’s so fucking weird lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:32 PM
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uhhh they have.. it's called working out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:44 AM
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Exactly this. Growing up I literally thought there was something wrong with me because I was taught that women weren't supposed to get horny like men. It's concerning that men aged 20+, or even 30+ (who are presumed sexually active) still peddle this myth though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:41 AM
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They think you're lower than them You think they're lower than you Neither of these are actually true lol this is just a personal opinion you have ​ It does in this context, because the only thing you offer that's different from porn is the personal connection. Which again, is praying on loneliness. Do you honestly think if there weren't lonely men that OF would be this big? Onlyfans success is directly proportional to male sexlessness. I don't offer any kind of personal connection, I offer nich…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:08 PM
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They'll jerk off to you, they'd never date you That doesn't mean they think I'm disgusting? ​ And you'd never date them That doesn't mean I think they're disgusting ​ This is such a common thing with e-girls that I don't even need to post proof that it happens. Maybe you personally don't but I'm sure you've heard of it happening. I think it's gross what they're doing too, I just think it's overblown how common it actually is. Most OF creators don't offer the 'girlfriend experience' package. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:59 PM
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How are men being exploited?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:31 AM
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The men who pay for my onlyfans don’t think I’m disgusting I don’t think the men who pay for my onlyfans are disgusting I’ve never lied about my relationship status How?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:29 AM
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My bf looks like the final boss of chads. He’s a 6ft athletic muscly bearded up sexy tradie, and I pay his rent 💅🏻 No my relationship does not fit the RP narrative at all lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:52 AM
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So when you say “there’s no such thing as sexual compatibility” you actually mean that it just doesn’t matter that much to you, since you’re clearly very easy going when it comes to sex. The average person would care a lot if their partner didn’t want any vaginal penetration, or no blowjobs. This is what we call sexual incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:01 AM
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So if she found vaginal sex painful and didn’t want to do that, you’d be fine with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:40 AM
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Ok and what if after learning together she learns that she hates giving bjs? Would someone who never wants to suck dick be sexually compatible with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:27 AM
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Thank you for letting me know I’m unique n not like most girls :3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:51 PM
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50 we’re having a mega island orgy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:35 AM
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No you just assumed that. And now I’m telling you that assumption is incorrect. “Personality matters a lot less for fucking than it does dating, but it still matters” is a perfectly reasonable thing to say lmao an ounce of nuance would go a long way here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:47 PM
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Except I’m not willing to fuck dipshits just cause they’re hot. Personality still matters there, just a lot less so than my needs for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:33 PM
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You know the vast majority of people get married in their lifetime right? That would include the unattractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:31 PM
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No, leafy is an awful person and he could be the most attractive looking man on earth and that still wouldn’t change anything for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:20 PM
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A prerequisite doesn't mean it's more important, it just gets you to the next stage, it doesn't guarantee anything. A prerequisite for a high paying job could be a particular degree, but heaps of other people have the same prerequisite. Simply having that degree doesn't mean you'll get the job. What sets you apart from others is the job interview, but if you flunk the interview because of your shitty personality you won't get the job. Don't have the prerequisite? Try going for a lower paying job…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:34 PM
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Yes. Would you date someone you're not phsycially attracted to whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:05 PM
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damn you guys really do think that personality doesn't matter at all to women? what a sad perspective to have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:04 PM
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Of course lol. Have you never seen an ugly guy with a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:57 PM
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Okay then, a non famous guy who's equally as confident and funny as Michael Cera wouldn't have problems dating either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:49 PM
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Because I genuinely think it does matter more, at least to me. And that doesn't mean that I think looks aren't important, they are too. Saying that personality matters more doesn't mean looks don't matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:47 PM
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Two people who are beloved my millions because of their personality is supposed to prove that personality is optional to women? Michael Cera wouldn't have any problems with dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:37 PM
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mfers will hear the word "gaslight" once and then call everything gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:12 PM
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huh? so then you agree that personality matters a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:10 PM
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Personality is optional?? 😭 That just isn't how the world works cmon. People want to date people that fit their personality standards whilst also finding them physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:06 PM
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Personality is literally the difference between the men I want to date and men I just want to fuck wym? It's not just a 'nice bonus', it's a requirement for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:01 PM
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I’m confused. Are you surprised that women want to date men that they find both attractive AND have a good personality at the same time? Real shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:26 PM
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Of course you’re insecure if you feel the need to undergo invasive surgery to have large blobs of silicone placed in your chest. You think they’re just doing it for funsies? Idk what you’re arguing, men are insecure if they feel like they have to do all those things and so are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:14 AM
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I’ve never met a guy whose height made me more or less attracted to him. Height isn’t something I’ve ever thought about in terms of dating or fucking someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:21 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:15 PM
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Honestly I prefer dad bod out of all of these, mostly because gym bro is a liiiittle too muscular than what I’d normally like, and I love hairy dudes 🤌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:58 AM
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A guy not liking oral would definitely be a dealbreaker for me lol Not eating pussy every single time we fuck is fine, but if he doesn't like eating pussy/foreplay in general then that's cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:14 PM
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I remember the cat calling started at around 12-13.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:31 AM
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If he had one I would 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:28 PM
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Lol I pay 90% of the costs and I will never feel resentful over it. I would happily pay 100% but my man insists on paying a little 😅 If the only thing a man can provide is money, that’s kinda sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:06 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:49 AM
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bro thinks I mean ancestors like 5 generations ago 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:20 PM
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Is FDS still a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:14 PM
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ok you're a troll ​ You men are all the same. lol click on my profile real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:11 PM
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No it doesn't? I'm talking about the red pill community as a whole, not this one person. That's why I said "they're obsessed" and not "you're obsessed"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:10 PM
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Yes they were. Having sex in private is exclusive to modern human societies, we are the only animal in existence who primarily has sex in private. Seeing other people have sex literally IS natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:16 AM
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Ok? I never said otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:14 AM
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We literally have observed hunter-gatherer human societies and have a good understanding of primate evolutionary behaviour. Likening a fantasy fiction book to scientific research is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:49 AM
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So based
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:06 AM
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Unnatural? Do you think our ancestors went to their bedrooms and locked the door behind them so they could fuck? Nah. We were straight up raw dogging in front of everyone. This hyper fixation the red pill community has on cuckolding makes me wonder if these guys have a secret fetish for it. They’re obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:04 AM
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No amount of money is ever going to make me look at a guy and go from 🤮 to 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:47 AM
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My audience isn’t entirely men lol. On my SFW platforms my gender demographics are as high as 40% female. The men who pay for my NSFW content aren’t the ones who give me hate. “Obviously you will receive hate for throwing your OF in every post”. Uhhh I don’t do that, so that clearly isn’t the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:59 PM
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The problem is that women don't want to articulate what they find attractive in men, because we're shamed for being shallow if we do. As a result, women are expected to answer that question in the most vague romanticised way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:39 PM
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Hi I’m an onlyfans creator and most of the hate I receive on a daily basis comes 95% from men. Those women definitely do exist yes, but it’s mostly men by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:40 AM
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Oh I absolutely understand why men are jealous about it, I just wish they were actually honest about their jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:18 AM
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I’m the exact same ahaha I love hearing all the details about peoples sex lives
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:15 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:52 AM
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If they don’t want a friendship with me solely because I’m a woman who he can’t fuck? Uh yeah? I wouldn’t be upset about it or anything but that is objectifying by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:34 AM
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I remember a guy telling his wife was a smart professional that was taking vitamin C because her doctor told her that she needed calcium. Yes, she thought vitamin C was the same as Calcium. Vitamin C can increase the absorption of calcium in the body. I take vitamin C for my low iron for that exact reason. Just thought I'd mention that before you label someone an idiot, since it's quite possible that her doctor recommended she take vitamin C.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:15 PM
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I’m OCE 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:50 AM
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I mostly just play league and roblox atm xD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:37 AM
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Well lust is very simple! If we were talking about love my answer would be very different And yes I’m a gamer ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:11 AM
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I’m bein serious :( why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:04 AM
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Intelligent gamers with facial hair 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:17 AM
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He could be unemployed lol I literally do not care how much he makes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:09 AM
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If you’re bad with your money, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:36 PM
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Hundreds a day. But I’m a content creator so that’s so be expected lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:20 PM
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Women don’t pay for porn. Gay men and straight men do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:18 PM
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It most certainly is if you’re a top 1% creator
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:18 PM
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They said the vast majority of sexual interactions entail using the woman’s body as an object. I don’t doubt that it does happen, but to claim that it’s the ‘vast majority’ of interactions is insane. You can’t make insane claims like that just because you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:01 AM
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“Because for the vast majority of interactions that’s what it is.” Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:16 AM
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For me it was option A
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:17 PM
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Why is it men using my body as an object, and not me using their body as an object? Why do you see sex as a ‘thing’ men do to women, rather than a mutually fun and pleasurable activity?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:17 PM
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I'm the provider 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:20 PM
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I would reject any guy if he was redpilled, regardless of how he looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:12 AM
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Attractive poor man 😍💅🏻🤰🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:31 AM
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I mean technically yes? but only from talking online so I couldn't even see what they looked like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:27 PM
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Hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:11 PM
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SHOULD you? Not if you don't want to. Your relationship dynamics should reflect what you and your partner want, not what traditional relationship stereotypes tell you. I'm a woman who pays for most things in my relationship simply because I have the means to. It doesn't make sense to have a man pay for everything for me when I'm making my own money. But if you're going after traditional women, then yes, you'll be expected to pay for everything.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 04:14 PM
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Many reasons ​ She doesn't want to give the guy the impression that she just wants to fuck him Women are generally more cautious around men we don't know Women are taught to be submissive and let the man lead Women don't want to be the pursuers because they don't want to be labelled 'easy' or 'sluts'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:08 PM
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You are arguing with a fucking ghost lmao. No one he is making that argument, you’re just triggered that I said I wouldn’t want a second date with an unattractive catfish
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:51 PM
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Obviously, and you would prefer women who you subjectively find attractive, over women you find unattractive, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:31 AM
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So you prefer unattractive women? Stop the cap
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:08 AM
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Yes, my type is attractive men who aren’t catfish, which is exactly the same as your taste in women. What a shocker!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:54 AM
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I would feel like that'd be the last time we hang out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:51 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:52 AM
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Yes. All throughout my life I’ve usually had at least one close male friend. Ofc it’s possible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:53 AM
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It’s not abusive, but you are a controlling loser who should be single. Knowingly getting into a relationship with a man who watches porn occasionally, and then later insisting that he stops watching porn entirely is weird as fuck. If a man watching porn is a complete dealbreaker to you, DONT DATE MEN WHO WATCH PORN. Same goes for Jonah Hill, it’s absolutely braindead to date a surfer who posts surfing pictures and then later demand that she never post any surfing pics or never surf with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:39 PM
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NO IT ISNT LMFAOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:13 PM
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I mean that’s just not true lol. If gay people make you uncomfortable it’s not normal to ask people to stop being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:07 PM
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When that ‘career decision’ is to forbid them from working with men entirely (when men make up 90% of surfers), that is absolutely not a normal thing to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:30 AM
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He knew she was a surfing Instagram model BEFORE they started dating. Telling her she can’t do any of that once they started dating is literally insane and completely unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:37 AM
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I’m genuinely concerned by the amount of people I’ve seen saying that his boundaries were completely normal & healthy. Obviously her posting the screenshots was fucked up and completely unnecessary, but my god the reactions to his completely unreasonable boundaries has been very blue pilling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:31 AM
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Yes, a lot of women are deranged when it comes to jealousy in relationships. I am equally critical of those women as I am Jonah Hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:06 AM
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The screenshots revealed that he doesn’t want her surfing with any men, no? That’s nothing to do with partying. I’m also hyper critical of women who do this kind of stuff too, I think it’s pathetic. I honestly think her posting the screenshots is worse than anything he said though, none of this needed to be public.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:55 AM
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I don’t think it is fair lol. Why did he start dating a professional surfer if it makes him so uncomfortable? That’s not a normal boundary to have, dudes mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:03 AM
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You can't lol I've been with a guy who told me he had experience and found out months later that he was actually a virgin. I had no reason to suspect otherwise since the sex was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:55 AM
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Yes ^-^
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:35 PM
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No one is surprised that people look at them when they’re wearing a hyper sexualised outfit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:22 AM
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We don’t. If all you’re doing is ‘checking us out’ there’s a good chance we won’t even notice you doing it. But if you come up to me, say something gross, touch me etc. then I have a problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:21 AM
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The average woman has a lifetime body count of about 4-5 partners. Red pillers are lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:17 AM
2

Does wanting a taller, stronger etc. man mean they’re complaining about a lack of masculine men? Those are two completely different things
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:43 AM
3

Solo male is all I watch 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:12 AM
3

I personally don’t have an issue with it, but I don’t think most women would enjoy being asked that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:11 AM
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This is not how vaginas work pal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:59 PM
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If you're incredibly attracted to a woman, and she's very attracted to you, but she can ONLY get off if you shit on her during sex, would you still be sexually compatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:59 PM
3

Yeah I mentioned it the thread how a lot of the dudes here have a fetish for knocking women down a peg
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:20 AM
2

Does that include wearing a bikini at the beach? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:09 AM
2

90% of the guys in here unironically are the 2nd woman in the burqa
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:08 AM
2

I posted my photo here the other day and people tried calling me ugly & fat when I look more like that first picture lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:34 AM
2

You’re welcome king 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:31 PM
4

god that's so based
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:06 PM
3

what is a malewife o_o You have a great body btw! Are you a blue pilled chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:55 PM
2

link
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:20 PM
12

Nah it's the opposite. Where are the hot men in this subreddit? Someone prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:07 PM
1

There’s a lot of millionaires on this subreddit!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:22 AM
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They can have a pretty/attractive face. I don’t find obese body types attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:29 AM
1

You guys aren’t going to convince that the average person shames athletes for being naturally gifted at sports. That’s cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:48 PM
1

Omg lol I wasn’t expecting you to agree that you judge all those kinds of people. You weren’t supposed to take the bait 💀💀💀 No one in their right mind would shame those people for those things. I think that goes to show how desperate you are to defend such an irrational position.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:38 PM
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Having an easier time getting sex isn’t “consistently taking the easy route”, that’s just one tiny aspect of their life. It’s incredibly weird to make entire moral judgements and character assassinations towards someone because ONE aspect of their life is easier for them to get than others. Do you shame extremely attractive men for having an easier time getting sex? Do you shame athletes who are naturally athletically gifted over the average person and therefore have an easier time getting a car…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:17 AM
1

Something being ‘easy’ to obtain isn’t a logical reason to shame someone though. It’s not a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:46 AM
3

So it’s related to gender then…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:27 AM
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It’s definitely the former. I have been slut shamed since before I ever even kissed a boy. Simply being a woman pretty much guarantees you’ll be slut shamed at some point, regardless of who you have sex with, or if you’ve even had sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:21 AM
1

oh that sounds awful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:40 PM
-1

Casual sex is fun, but the way you’re describing it doesn’t sound that fun to me (clubbing, drunken sex etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:44 AM
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I never said that chimps invest in their offspring to the exact same capacity that humans do. I said that male chimps do invest in their offspring , and even the offspring of other males.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:11 AM
5

Who are the males mating with then? if none of the females are being shared around other males? That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:05 AM
4

That isn’t true. Most animals on earth aren’t monogamous. One quick google search can confirm that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:52 AM
5

Are you trying to argue that ALL male animals hate sharing partners? Because that would be very dumb. Countless non-monogamous species exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:19 AM
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Exactly. Feeling disgust towards promiscuity is a result of purity culture, not our biology. It doesn’t sound like we disagree on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:18 AM
2

Evolution does not care about purity culture. Humans are designed for promiscuous, non-monogamous mating behaviour. Our current societal norms don’t change that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:07 AM
2

Exactly… an evolutionary advantage that would only exist among species where mate sharing is prevalent. Humans are literally designed for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:02 AM
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I never said sperm competition has no relevance to all living male animals, I said the mating behaviours of a goat have no relevance to humans. Sperm competition is not equal across all animals; some animals have greater sperm competition than others, depending on how promiscuous the species is. This notion that naturally promiscuous and non-monogamous male animals hate mate sharing is complete lie. Their/our bodies are literally designed for mate sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:01 AM
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I don’t think you understand how important shared recourses and child rearing are in collectivist cultures including in great ape societies. They all work together to ensure the survival of offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:25 AM
4

They ABSOLUTELY do. Chimpanzees and bonobos would be extinct if they didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:45 AM
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Mating behaviours and sperm competition of say.. goats, is completely irrelevant to humans. Try researching mate sharing behaviours of our closest living relatives, AKA other great apes ie. chimpanzees, bonobos etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:40 AM
3

False equivalency
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:10 AM
1

You are the first person in this entire subreddit to admit that it's because of insecurity. Congrats! At least you're actually self aware Edit: oh you're a woman. I take that back, no man on this subreddit can admit it's because of insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:09 AM
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Being an intelligent woman IS attractive to the kind of man I want to attract. I obviously don't want to be with the type of men who couldn't care less if their partner was dumb as rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:07 AM
1

Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:17 AM
1

Scruffy looking nerdy guys with facial hair are my type
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:02 AM
1

Because I find them sexually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:18 PM
1

Most of the people I've had sex with are people that I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with. Why? because sex feels good and it's fun. It's really that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:21 PM
3

Because it would make more sense if a 13 year old was asking if women to are able to enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:56 AM
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Yes they are basic biological facts. If women didn’t enjoy sex the human race would’ve gone exist a long time ago. Sex is evolutionarily designed to be pleasurable so that our species is encouraged to reproduce. If you look at the replies here, the answer to your question is a resounding “yes”. I’m not sure why you think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:50 AM
32

You guys are always saying how you hope your political opponents ‘don’t reproduce’, “please don’t have children”, but then when some of them actually decide not to have children suddenly it’s the collapse of the west 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:39 AM
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You don’t need to discuss sex with a woman to know that women enjoy sex, this is easily googleable information. Virginity doesn’t stop you from knowing basic biological facts. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:35 AM
3

He's single thankfully
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:28 PM
1

Yes you're a hypocrite. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:27 PM
1

Yep I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:11 AM
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It seems like a paradox where on one hand women are easily bored by guys who aren’t emotional and passionate enough, but are equally turned off by it? No these are different women. I think you'll find that women with high emotional intelligence want men who are also emotionally intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:37 AM
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Fuck no. Money isn’t a factor for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:57 AM
1

If I was working I wouldn't be opposed to that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:35 PM
4

I would laugh at them, and then wonder if they hit their head really hard. ​ I’m the furthest thing from a homophobic I’d feel very uncomfortable with a male penis doc because I can’t imagine a straight guy choosing that profession. This is a deranged take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:40 PM
1

I definitely don’t wear makeup or nice dresses when I’m home alone if that’s what you’re asking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:15 AM
2

You guys are getting really hung up on the word “fuckable”. It just means you’re trying to make yourself more sexually attractive. If you don’t wear uncomfortable heels, dresses, makeup etc. at home by yourself then obviously you do it for other people. And that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:22 AM
1

Exactly. So you do it for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:19 AM
2

“so you feel more comfortable with who you are in the context of society” AKA so you look more attractive to society. Look, if you aren’t dressing nicely and getting dolled up while you’re at home alone the same way you do when you go out, then obviously you are doing it for other people. There’s nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:27 PM
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If you acknowledge that we use others as a point of reference for attraction, then you admit that you put effort into your appearance for the sake of others. And that’s okay, there’s nothing wrong with that. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to look attractive to other people. That doesn’t mean you want to fuck everyone ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:09 PM
2

Yes. I love oral so writing off all oral sex would probably be a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:22 PM
8

We have to be wary of men. We don’t know which men are the bad men, so it’s better to be safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:20 PM
3

Do you dress nice and wear makeup when you’re home alone? Or is it only when you’re going to be seen by others? Have a think about why that is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:17 PM
2

Why do you think they care about appearing more conventionally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:48 AM
4

So… they do it for other people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:17 AM
6

EVERYONE craves human attention
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:37 AM
1

But the self confidence comes from the fact that they garner more male attention and appear more fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:34 AM
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literally only 1 or 2 of the things I listed could be considered superficial lol what? Do you think hobbies are superficial or shallow? "I will take care of your dying parents for you" is an insane unhinged answer to that question. BE FOR REAL AHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:31 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:09 PM
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If you're on the date, clearly there was some interest. That's what I meant by my original point though, the only men who have asked me this question are misogynistic red pill dudes online who are just trying to dunk on me because they assume I have nothing going for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:37 PM
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I don't have to prove myself to someone I'm not interested in dating in the first place. I can sit here and talk about how I'm a financially successful business owner, university educated woman who plays video games and bass guitar and manages her own garden with free range chickens and I have perfect perky tits if you really want me to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:24 PM
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Because often the person asking it is already insinuating that you don’t have a lot to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:52 AM
1

Sure, but the same thing would happen to the womens data, which is still lower than mens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:05 AM
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Did you only click on the first link? Or are you purposely ignoring the data that was collected in 2019? ​ And no like I said under 25/30 63% of men are single You didn't say that. You said 63% of men are single, which means something completely different. That stat makes a lot more sense now that you've clarified the age bracket, considering many women are dating older men outside of that age bracket. ​ 50% of men under 25 are virgins This is completely bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:53 PM
1

Riddle me this, if 63% of men are single, then wouldn't around 63% of women also be single? Studies: 1, 2, 3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:44 PM
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According to statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:01 AM
3

The average man has more sexual partners in his lifetime than the average woman does, so clearly the average man does have access to that ‘privilege’
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:42 AM
1

But a lot are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:09 AM
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If women only dated men who aren’t abusive or bad natures, there would be a lot of women who will never have boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:04 AM
5

Vibrators can be used on dicks too, or even as a back massager lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:40 AM
3

Because I like to masturbate and I sometimes enjoy using toys during sex too. It’s really not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:40 AM
2

I would also expect that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:30 AM
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Most feminists I speak to agree that there are certain privileges afforded to women that men don’t have, although men arguably have a lot more. In fact aren’t men online often the ones arguing that men DONT have privilege whilst women do? And on FGM, obviously all forms of genital mutilation are bad, male or female, but cutting off someone’s clitoris (aka the most extreme form of female genital mutilation) is objectively more destructive in terms of practically removing someone’s ability to ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:37 AM
0

Can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:43 PM
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Yes of course, but the criticisms I mostly see on that subreddit are, like I said, non issues and often is just misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:37 PM
0

Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:34 PM
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Yes, making fun of random internet feminists is a non issue. Seriously go and look at the mensrights subreddit and look at how many posts are about feminists. They talk about feminists even more than they talk about men LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:31 PM
1

I pretty much did everything on that list as a hot 21 year old except travel. So now that I'm 25 I'm hoping to get some more travelling in with my hot girl money
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:49 AM
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It's the best subreddit for discussing men's rights in an actually constructive way. Meanwhile the "Mens rights" subreddit is just another misogynistic subreddit for men to screech about absolute non-issues
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:36 AM
3

Very well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:49 PM
7

Uhhh I can’t relate to this topic I literally cum in 20 seconds which is probably quicker than most men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:18 PM
1

I wouldn't care, but there's a lot of homophobic people out there so a lot of women would care
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:53 PM
1

I mean you literally did ask a question, whether it was hypothetical or not I don't care :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:20 AM
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I don’t care:) that’s why I fuck on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:58 AM
1

Yeah I did, that’s what I just said
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:48 PM
4

I can’t imagine setting an arbitrary time limit on when I can have sex LMAOOO If I’m super into a guy, of course we’re fucking ASAP?? And if that filters out the red pill guys who don’t respect ‘easy women’ then that’s even better!! 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:29 AM
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Having a preference for shaving isn't misogynistic. Saying women who don't shave are disgusting, dirty, masculine, ugly etc. is misogynistic. People who complain about women not shaving often are the latter, hence why you hear a lot of people say that not being attracted to armpit hair is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:28 PM
6

Stop dating women who have aneurisms every time you look at another woman. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:58 AM
12

No 💅🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:57 AM
7

my pussy would fall off
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:26 AM
0

Probably because women are taught to be submissive and indirect so now both parties play around that I’ve literally never experienced these “games” because I’m always super direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:56 AM
3

I agree, it's about controlling women. I'm glad someone here is actually being honest about it instead of pretending they aren't being a controlling bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:53 AM
5

At least someone here can admit that it’s about control
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:57 AM
1

For those who say it’s just a boundary: are you okay with your girl going to the beach in a bikini?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:53 AM
2

No. I’m not going to be everyone’s cup of tea, move on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:50 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:04 PM
1

Are you referring to Ted Bundy as an alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:41 PM
3

Then I think that proves that ‘high value male’ is a really stupid term 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:04 PM
7

Since heaps of women frothed over Ted Bundy, does that make him a high value male?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:28 AM
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It’s a really dumb term imo. The men that people here describe as ‘high value’ are men who would be complete turn offs for me. I don’t think they understand that what people find valuable in a partner is completely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:59 AM
1

Interesting, so you think youtube is a real job?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:05 AM
1

No, I asked you what job I can get that pays AS GOOD as OF does, with as much freedom. Please let me know when you think of one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:10 AM
2

I enjoy asking people what job I should get when they tell me to “get a real job” because they always have no actual answer :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:48 AM
2

Lots of things. I have a degree as well and still chose to go the OF route. Which turned out being an amazing decision
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:08 AM
1

What job do you suggest I get which pays as good and has as much freedom?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:03 AM
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Not necessarily no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:50 PM
1

What do you mean? The alternative would be to not be a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:06 AM
0

I have a man already, but I would never be interested in men who aren’t super sexually liberal regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:12 AM
0

I wouldn’t consider it a problem to be off the dating roster for those men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:05 AM
2

Calling them names, shaming them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:54 AM
1

Do you know what subreddit you're on?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:53 AM
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It's not. I think there are valid reasons to not be interested in dating people who do any kind of online content for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:53 AM
3

Do you watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:51 AM
3

I don't think porn stars are akin to drug dealers, at least not with hard drugs, since that's objectively more harmful than watching porn. But hey if we can both agree it's hypocritical then that's the main thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:49 AM
2

No, I'm obviously using your logic against you, since I don't see sex work as 'the lowest of lows'. I'm surprised I even have to explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:48 AM
2

Not wanting to have a long term commitment with an OF girl is not talking negative about them I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:45 AM
3

I'm not saying anything about whether or not you should date them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:45 AM
2

Based!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:44 AM
6

If you are an avid weed smoker and you think pot dealers are degenerates, that would also make you a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:44 AM
3

If you think sex work is the lowest of lows yet you still consume their work by jacking off to porn, you are admitting that you are below them. You are literally creating work for the people you claim to despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:42 AM
2

You don't just benefit from it, you engage in it, you purposely seek it out, you consume it. Do you currently engage in murder and genocide? No? Then your analogy sucks. ​ every person who consumes meat contributes to the existence of a slaughterhouse. But few people want to have a slaughterhouse in their home and personally watch the animals die and listen to their squeals, boos and squeaks. Or personally go and kill the animals one by one for a few days, all covered in their blood. That's why …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:40 AM
3

I agree with you there. I'm specifically talking about the people who call OF girls sexist names & things along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:36 AM
3

65%? lol You're a pimp at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:34 AM
0

If the people who create the content you spend hours a day consuming and worshipping with your dick are worthless, what does that make you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:33 AM
2

What does it explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:31 AM
3

A lot. I'm like a top 0.4% creator
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:23 AM
4

Yeah I hate how it's framed as an easy way to make money when most of the creators on OF make pennies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:21 AM
2

No actual defence, as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:13 AM
2

I have all of that and I'm the opposite of traditional
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:32 AM
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In the nicest way possible, submissive could be described as someone who is accommodating without doing a disservice to themselves, or simply doesn't like leadership roles. Being a doormat implies that are doing a disservice to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:53 AM
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They mostly mean the same thing to me, at least in the way conservatives describe ‘submissive’. Which is why I cringe when I hear a man say he wants a ‘submissive woman’. All I hear is that he wants a quiet pushover who won’t stand up for herself. Someone who he can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:20 AM
1

Naming some ugly actors doesn’t change the fact that most actors/singers etc. overwhelmingly are attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:35 AM
-1

Entertainers overwhelmingly are attractive people wym? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:58 AM
3

They don’t. You’ve likely just fallen for the “haha hot women dumb” trope. In reality you probably just hang around more average looking people, therefore you come across more interesting people vs. a smaller pool of very hot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:14 AM
2

Shawn easily
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:53 PM
1

You need to scrub up on your evolutionary biology. Do you think bonobos and chimpanzees (our closest living relatives) care about paternal certainty when they’re fucking every ape that glances their way? Do you think all living organisms on earth are monogamous?? Denying the importance of paternal certainty is not the same thing as denying the drive for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:34 PM
1

So if they aren’t pretending to be single or that the men have a chance at dating them then it’s fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:11 PM
1

That only makes sense in an individualist culture that pushes for monogamy. Humans naturally evolved from collectivist societies, where children would get raised by the collective, rather than just 2 parents, hence paternal certainty wasn’t a dire need. This idea that it’s ingrained in our DNA to care about your partner being seen naked is complete bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:09 PM
1

He wouldn’t care if I did nude content lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:21 PM
0

Hell yeah he’s a simp for me, I simp for him too 😍😍 Have you ever considered that not everyone cares about sexual exclusivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:20 PM
1

I’m not offended. Why not answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:16 PM
1

How can they be using it wrong if you just said they have the same definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:13 AM
1

Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:10 AM
0

That’s not true at all. I’m dating a super attractive man and I do OF. Not to mention that most OF girls I know also have super hot boyfriends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:02 AM
4

How is cumming suffering? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:57 AM
2

If it’s the same definition, why do you have a problem with women using the word ‘settle’? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:47 AM
1

I have :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:59 AM
5

I would never settle for a man, I would compromise for a man. There’s a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:02 AM
1

Well it does matter, there’s a difference between a completely random person saying something behind my back vs someone I’ve been intimate with talking shit. I wouldn’t care whatsoever about the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:23 PM
2

As in someone I’ve had sex with or a random person who’s just trying to be insulting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:55 AM
2

When did I say you’re lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:30 AM
-3

Don’t you think it’s a bit dramatic to describe someone occasionally making a comment about your height (not even to your face) as being treated like you’re sub-human? I don’t doubt that people can be really rude about mens height, but I think guys on here are really dramatic about the extent and severity of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:56 AM
4

Ok so then it shouldn’t be hard to list just one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:24 AM
2

You can’t even list one?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:18 AM
-4

What real life experiences have you had with women treating you as sub-human because of your height?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:48 AM
17

If it’s exactly as you described, it’s probably too discreet for me to even notice it’s happening. BUT I do enjoy knowing I’m being checked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:45 AM
1

Do her boobs offend you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/23 05:59 AM
2

I’m not bothered by it. But I also acknowledge that the way I feel about that kind of stuff isn’t typical, as many women who do content creation can get really upset over it. You need some really thick skin to not be bothered by it from what I’m told.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:25 AM
2

You can ask them here if you want I’m really bad at responding to DMs 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:51 AM
8

I say the same thing about women. Why do women complain about how their boyfriends want sex so much more than them but they’re vehemently against their boyfriends getting that sexual attention elsewhere? They straight up just expect their partners to be in a sexless marriage with zero compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:23 AM
2

That’s like asking me if I think greyhound racing dogs are inherently fast dogs. They are literally bred for speed. Human beings have artificially designed them to be faster than other dogs. The same goes for pitbulls with aggression. And you knowing 2 pitbulls who aren’t aggressive doesn’t change the fact that they have been artificially selected for fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:31 PM
2

If so many men claim that they prefer women without makeup, how could she possibly be at a disadvantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:26 PM
1

And then everyone clapped
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:26 AM
1

No thanks. hot guys for me pls
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:21 AM
2

What happened to y’all saying you prefer women who don’t wear makeup 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:35 AM
2

Other dog breeds being less aggressive does not magically make pit bulls less aggressive and less deadly. Pit bulls account for over 60% of dog related human deaths, despite only making up a fraction of the dog population. That’s insane
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:47 PM
3

Hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:35 PM
1

I don’t think the vast majority of women shame men who are short, but those who do suck, yes. Just like men who slut shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:14 PM
1

I think we do? There’s nothing wrong with wanting to date tall men, but if you shame men for being short then you suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:53 PM
1

I’m glad we agree that both of those things are wrong :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:32 PM
5

“A slut not acting on their whims is still a slut” bro what? What even is a slut then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:31 PM
8

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:06 PM
6

Likening casual sex to pedophillia is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:05 PM
0

No it’s not actually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:50 PM
107

It’s not a phase 😎 it’s a lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:11 AM
1

Disgust is a very strong emotion to feel towards something that you supposedly don’t even know why you’re feeling that way. When I say I find misogynistic men disgusting I know the reasoning is because I believe they treat women badly and have abhorrent beliefs. Why is it so difficult for you to answer the reasoning behind your preference? Is it because you haven’t given it any actual thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:57 AM
2

The reason for wanting a tall partner is for physical attraction. The reason for wanting an adventurous partner is for fun opportunities & active lifestyle. The reason for wanting a funny partner is for fun times and intimate connection. There are reasons why you have preferences, whether you like it or not. Now answer the question ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:21 AM
3

So you just said “I don’t have an answer for you” for no reason? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:28 AM
6

Why don’t you have an answer? You’re claiming sexuality is a choice so the question should be very easy for you to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:11 AM
3

You didn’t answer the question. Do you wake up every day and have to consciously choose to be attracted to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:54 AM
3

So you’re saying that as a man you wake up and choose to be attracted to women every day? That’s a conscious choice you have to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:20 AM
3

“I simply wouldn't consider a serious, romantic relationship with them.” Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:14 AM
7

Here’s why these examples don’t work. ‘Hypocrite’ implies that you are making a negative moral judgment towards someone, even though you possess that trait you’re criticising as well. None of your examples are moral preferences. N count is, because you’re making a moral judgement towards the person. Height, age etc. are not moral preferences, so wanting to date a tall person when you’re short is not hypocritical. If you were to instead say “I won’t date liars, because liars are untrustworthy” an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:04 AM
1

Then what other reason is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:44 AM
-1

insecurity is about you. as in, if you fear of your partner wanting someone else because you don't feel good enough about yourself Exactly... and things like feeling uncomfortable with your partner liking someone else's photos would absolutely fall under that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:33 PM
-1

Jealousy within your relationship is literally just the manifestation of insecurities. Really think about it for a second, what are you actually jealous of? It literally all stems from fear of competition, fear of losing your partner, fear of them wanting something else, AKA insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:09 AM
0

Huh? What’s the difference? Literally everything posted publicly online is for attention, it wouldn’t be posted if no one was going to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:23 AM
2

Because some people don’t take that harmless shit so seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:20 AM
-2

Yes they should both be fine, and yes they’re both insecure. There is literally no other reason to feel uncomfortable by those things other than insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:19 AM
2

Not really since I understand that the red pill is an obscure subset of men who spend more time on the internet than they do actually interacting with people irl, so I don’t really need to worry about them much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:47 AM
1

I personally couldn’t care less how much money a guy has. It has nothing to do with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:29 AM
1

lol no you just got caught saying something stupid it’s ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:35 AM
3

You’re either trolling or you’re a virgin. So either way your opinion can be disregarded on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:59 AM
3

Using the “two organs you use to urinate” to “inject white goo into the other” so you’re saying you cum into the urethra…?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:38 AM
5

I feel bad for you if that’s how you view sex. Do you even enjoy having sex at that point? (Also vaginas aren’t used to urinate?)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:25 AM
3

My responsibilities are whatever I want them to be within my own relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:26 AM
3

Hey, I was raised religious so I engaged in slut shaming in my teen years. I left the church at around 15 yrs old and had to do some serious unlearning. Religious trauma, ESPECIALLY AROUND SEX, is something that isn’t spoken enough about. It can be debilitating and have seriously damaging effects on your sex life & self esteem. Sex is completely natural and something that is supposed to be fun and stress free. Religion and puritanism has turned it into something that feels ‘dirty’, this is just …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:24 AM
1

I’d make a lot less money. That’s about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:19 PM
1

Pretty much anything to do with sexual experience and money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:30 AM
10

Value is subjective. What you believe is a ‘high value male’ is likely the opposite to me, since conservative men are a complete dealbreaker for me. So you understand that if the only thing I’m missing out on is sexually conservative men, I’m not actually missing out on anything that I want or value… right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:41 AM
15

No. You said “they can get what they want”, I would never want to date a conservative man or a hypocrite, so I’m not missing out on anything there. Tell me what I can’t get that I would actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:13 AM
9

… and that story is? I’d really love to know what they can get that I can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:07 AM
8

And you think as an attractive promiscuous woman I can’t get what I want? lol You don’t get to decide what moral rules apply to everyone else except you, that makes you a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:03 AM
7

Not if they uphold those values themselves. But I hate hypocrites, so if you’re a promiscuous man who expects a woman to be sexually conservative then I will laugh at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:47 AM
0

Yes. Anyone who says no to this is emotionally abusive and should not be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:37 AM
4

I personally did, I can’t speak for others I don’t think it’s bad to still find other people attractive while you’re with someone else though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:31 AM
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I’ve had the opposite experience so in that case yes it is very appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:55 AM
0

Is that your experience? Because I’ve had really positive casual sex experiences that were super fun and I cum 99% of the time, so I’d say the guys do make an effort in my case at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:25 PM
1

I agree. That doesn’t change the fact that the main appeal of being promiscuous is because sex feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:18 PM
1

Why not? Do you feel bad after you have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:23 PM
7

I've never felt terrible after having casual sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:16 PM
3

Promiscuous women obviously do see it as an advantage, otherwise they wouldn't be taking advantage of it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:53 PM
21

what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman? Sex?... Obviously? Cumming? idk how else I can explain that sex and cumming feels good and therefore is the main appeal of having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:33 PM
1

In this subreddit they do. But I don’t think this subreddit is an accurate portrayal of the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:11 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:16 AM
1

I’m one of those super direct girls who just straight up asks guys to fuck and a guy being ‘too easy’ is definitely not an issue lmao playing hard to get is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:13 AM
1

W
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:14 AM
3

You definitely did give it a negative connotation since you said men should re-evaluate being with a woman like that. But you've since edited your comment But yeah I agree that it isn't a common fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:02 AM
2

I care because I have a cum fetish so it turns me on a lot more if I'm getting absolutely cum blasted. So maybe I'm not a 'normal' woman lol but I'm fine with that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:40 AM
4

Speak for yourself 😳 I have a cum fetish so it's extremely hot when a guy cums a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:33 AM
2

YES it's my biggest turn on lol. The more cum the better imo But in my experience it has nothing to do with how long it's been since he last nutted, some guys are just cum cannons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:31 AM
1

Not single but I got 38.1% “Down to earth” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:16 PM
1

They are. You guys (but maybe not you personally OP) just don't want to date the women who are overtly sexual and lust over men's hot bodies because you think we're sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:53 AM
10

Women who are hyper insecure/jealous and have a meltdown if their man so much as looks as another woman are incredibly annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:48 AM
1

Fuck no I’m only interested in guys who play games. Video games are my #1 hobby and I even play games for a living so it’s important that my partner also enjoys something that’s such a huge part of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:50 AM
1

No?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:43 AM
3

I’m talking about average men as well. On average men have more sex partners than women in their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:40 AM
1

I would love to be a stay at home mum, I wouldn’t mind my partner being the stay at home dad either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:41 AM
3

Men have more sex partners on average than women wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:37 AM
3

This makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:31 AM
-1

Then you’re the exception. The vast majority of guys who have a problem with it engage in slut shaming and are very misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:01 AM
7

Why respect someone who doesn’t respect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:26 AM
2

All male actors and celebrities are now gay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:49 PM
1

What?
/r/MensRights01/03/23 05:10 AM
1

She’s obviously bisexual, like what the original post is about lol. There is no mention of her being a lesbian anywhere. I’m not sure why you even mentioned the word lesbian in your OP title
/r/MensRights01/03/23 02:50 AM
1

But finding a particular race attractive isn’t a sexuality. Finding women more attractive than men because you’re lesbian/bi IS a sexuality. Are gay men not allowed to state that they don’t find women sexually attractive at all now? Or do they have to coddle me so I don’t get offended by their gender preferences?
/r/MensRights01/03/23 02:36 AM
0

I mean yeah it’s weird but they’re just stating their preferences, that in itself isn’t body shaming
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:46 AM
-2

Well it’s weird that you didn’t include any of those ‘way worse’ comments and instead only showed non offensive comments
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:38 AM
-9

By saying that she finds mens bodies attractive…?
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:37 AM
-10

Which comment in particular? I don’t see how any of those are overtly body shaming
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:26 AM
-11

How is this body shaming? She’s saying that she has a sexual preference for women
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:21 AM
8

You need to get outside more and talk to people if that shocks you 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:05 PM
2

Oh so you don’t think women lose value when they have sex? Awesome! Glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:02 PM
4

Women are turned off by dicks what ?????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:51 PM
5

If your dick diminishes the value of whoever it enters then you must be of even lower value
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:36 PM
-1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:43 AM
1

There is no catch. I earn enough money to support the both of us to the point where I don’t even care if he has a job or not. I pay most of our bills ie. rent, food, electricity, water, internet etc. while he does the majority of the housework. We’ve lived together for 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:58 AM
1

Yeah idc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:23 PM
1

I don't think anyone should have to put up with objectification for any reason, because it's wrong to objectify people. You seem to think otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:58 PM
2

You aren't just recognizing that they exist though, you're essentially complaining that women won't accept the consequences. Why should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:26 PM
1

...because they want the benefits that come from sexualization but none of the consequences! This implies that you believe women should just accept the consequences, therefore further insinuating that you believe those consequences are justified
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:11 PM
3

Objectification occurs regardless of whether or not someone looks sexy. But why should that be a consequence anyway? Why would you want people to be objectified?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:23 PM
2

I show him my conversations on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:07 AM
1

Why does there need to be ‘consequences’ for looking sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:06 AM
1

Feminist OF creator here, I love being able to profit off my sexuality. There you go
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:03 AM
1

I’m straightforward just like you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:24 AM
1

Mens average I mean, so a couple of minutes to 5 mins. Never done the leg squeezing technique lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:39 AM
1

Most of the time it’s around the same time as mens refractory period, so I sometimes have to hold back from cumming too early during sex. But on the rare occasion it’s 0. I have no idea what syntribation is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:42 AM
2

I’ve had a lot of sex and masturbated 100x more with vibrators and toys and I still prematurely nut in 20 seconds. How is this possible :ooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:34 AM
5

If I had to put a number on it, I'd say nurture plays 90% of the role. We can see behavioural differences across different cultures, and what people believe are 'universal' differences, aren't actually universally observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:15 AM
2

A crush as in ROMANTIC attraction? fuck no ​ A crush as in "he's hot I wonder what his cock tastes like"? Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:37 PM
4

also chossing not to date some promiscuous has nothing to do with morals judgement, fuck who you want , but you can't tell men who to date So then why do you choose not to date them? If not a moral reason, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:06 PM
7

I meant just his looks alone, if you don't like that example then just think of any hot chad who effortlessly gets sex just because he's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:39 AM
7

Be for real. Virgin women aren't marrying the men who "bang the sluts".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:17 AM
8

If you expect your partner to be a virgin when you aren’t also a virgin, you’re a hypocrite. If you make negative moral judgements about people who engage in casual sex, when you also engage in casual sex, you’re a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:59 AM
11

I just enjoy pointing out hypocrisy, and hopefully I can get people to think critically about their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:21 AM
12

I wish more men here were as honest as you, because the main reason why men slut shame women is exactly that, because they're jealous that we can get sex so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:25 AM
6

No it's just misogyny and double standards. You don't slut shame the Brad Pitts of the world because it's ridiculously easy for them to get sex, it's only the women that you have an issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:03 AM
18

You are a part of the highway of cock. Rules for thee but not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:28 AM
16

And they think the virgin women are going to want to commit to a man who “bangs sluts”? You guys are living in a fantasy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:31 AM
30

“My girlfriend must be a virgin but I’d love to hook up with sexy women” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:58 AM
1

I’m going off the criticisms in this thread where multiple people are calling women lairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:48 AM
0

Sure, but it doesn’t mean that person as a whole is fake or a liar. I think that’s a bit dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:27 AM
0

Is wearing clothes also fake because you’re hiding what your true body looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:42 AM
1

Or tinted sunscreen 😍😍😍 dudes need to be protecting their skin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:00 AM
0

I wouldn’t call a guy fake and dishonest for wearing platformed shoes. I agree that there is a level of makeup, hair etc. when it becomes an issue of no longer being able to recognise that person without it. But I don’t think that applies to everyone who wears makeup, I think it’s a minority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:59 AM
2

Same username as my reddit go crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:55 AM
2

Go through my IG and tell me which of my pictures are without any makeup. I have a lot so it should be easy for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:57 AM
1

It’s more than just me though, that’s my point. I think it’a a minority of people who look u recognisable with makeup on, so it doesn’t really make sense to call all makeup wearers liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:51 AM
6

Yall can’t even tell when a woman is wearing makeup or not 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:18 AM
9

I guarantee I could wear just a concealer on my face and you would think I’m not wearing any makeup. Foundation does the same thing, it just depends on how strong the coverage is. You can get concealers that have less coverage than some foundations. Imo powder foundation is what makes the biggest difference in someone’s skin tone & texture, but you can still make powder look natural too. It really just comes down to how many products you’re using and how they’re applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:16 AM
3

Yeah I’ve never felt like I NEED makeup, I just like wearing it sometimes, especially for my work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:07 AM
6

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:09 AM
5

Do you even know what concealer is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:08 AM
4

I don’t wear it everyday and from my experience most people can’t even tell when I’m not wearing makeup in my pictures online. I’m just sayin I think people really exaggerate how much makeup changes the appearance of the average makeup wearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:32 AM
8

I wear what I would consider ‘heavy makeup’, but I’m still recognisable & pretty without it. I think it’s greatly over-exaggerated in red pill spaces how much makeup changes the average persons face. Unless if you’re really skilled with makeup, doing serious contour and wearing crazy fake lashes, you’re not going to look like an entirely different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:16 AM
26

Does wearing makeup automatically qualify you as a ‘fake and dishonest’ woman? If I’m still recognisable and cute without makeup I don’t see why that should mean I’m fake or dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:05 AM
1

A few hours at most. I’d just hop on tinder and grindr and if that somehow fails I’d just pay for sex. Gotta take advantage of my new penis 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:00 AM
2

Source that women wanting a 6ft tall guy leads to societal collapse?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:49 PM
7

But not to the point where if a woman doesn't have a perfect set of tits I treat her as an unlovable social reject. Why you gotta take it to the extremes lmao. Saying "I would not date someone shorter than me" is not the same thing as treating someone as an 'unlovable social reject'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:36 PM
6

A. It's typically a lie. You could like a short guy, you just pretend you don't so you can win the status Olympics. I don't think they're lying, they genuinely prefer taller men and find them more attractive for that reason, just like some men prefer tall women. ​ B. A funny guy brings joy. What does height bring except something you can brag about to your equally shallow girlfriends? Also joy. If your partner has a quality you deem extremely attractive then I imagine that would bring you a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:20 PM
6

“his forehead is an inch lower than I’d like so I can’t value him as a human being”. No one is saying this though. It's simply "I don't find that attractive". And is there really something so wrong about that? Why is that "shallow, narrow minded and basic", but wanting a funny guy isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:01 PM
5

That doesn’t really make much sense though. You could want a 6ft tall man but still value other qualities more highly, so are they ‘extremely shallow’ or not shallow at all? Your definition doesn’t hold up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:41 AM
7

If people can have personality dealbreakers, why can’t they have physical appearance dealbreakers? Seems perfectly reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:38 AM
25

Literally any physical preferences fall under the definition of being ‘shallow’, we’ve just decided that being shallow is a bad thing, when it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:14 AM
1

thank you 🥺🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:05 AM
3

I just like arguing with people online, so this is a good place for that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:57 AM
4

I don’t find it creepy or weird at all. I wouldn’t even notice it honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:47 AM
2

Yes. If you feel like you can’t compete with a piece of plastic, and then project that insecurity onto me, that is very pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:02 PM
2

He is satisfying me. It’s just a quick fap that takes 30 seconds. It’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:38 AM
3

I literally use my vibrator by myself, nut, and then still fuck my boyfriend the same day and nut again. Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:34 AM
0

I have close to 100 sex toys (even the crazy auto thrusting, full vibrating, turbo spinning, waterproof double penetration toys) AND YET none of them feel as good as sex with a man. I understand why some men feel insecure about sex toys, but I also think it’s pathetic that they feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:31 AM
7

Initially, my perception of the hoe phase (based on what other women have said) was the expectation of exploring different partners, figuring out your sexuality and sexual preferences, and "living your best life" while being single. I think many go into it expecting mind-blowing orgasms from super hot men and feeling like the sexiest woman alive. This unironically was my exact experience with having a hoe phase. I've never regretted a single sexual experience, it was all fun & hot. SEX AND CUMMI…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:24 AM
1

I think it just depends on the person. My desire for sex & masturbation has been so strong (borderline addiction levels) that I'm sure I felt more pleasure than the average man. I mean I can literally orgasm in 20 seconds if that speaks to my sensitivity at all. But this obviously isn't the typical experience for women OR for men, so like I said, it likely just depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:55 AM
3

If they’re adults I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:30 AM
2

Huh..?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:26 AM
1

This article goes over some of the human societies where non-monogamy is common https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fevo.2019.00230/full
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:56 AM
4

Non-monogamy has been well documented in many human cultures, and it isn't just 'sharing women'. Paternity testing is completely unnecessary in collectivist cultures, which is how humans began; children were raised and looked after by the collective group, so paternal certainty wasn't a priority like it is today in our individualist culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:55 AM
1

I'm just explaining why it's seen as a taboo, non-monogamy simply not being your personal preference doesn't = a taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:19 AM
5

Because religion has dictated what is taboo, particularly regarding sex, for thousands of years, and those beliefs are hard to shake off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:42 AM
1

Oh ahahah, yeah I’ve been an internet degen way before I started YT :-) Although I only really started using reddit like 3 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:22 PM
1

Why ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:11 AM
1

Of course I can see why they might see it as a problem, but I think those reasons are stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:32 PM
6

You have a hand, and yet you would rather fuck someone you admittedly find disgusting? It doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:51 PM
12

You go to the bathroom out of necessity, you have sex with women you deem 'gross' purely on your own accord. If they were that gross to you, sex wouldn't even be an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:45 PM
11

used up women are gross Ah, but not gross enough for you to still want to have sex with them. Wouldn't that mean you have extremely low standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:37 PM
13

Alrighty, have fun ruminating about the other dicks that have entered your girlfriend then. Even if it's just one other dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:26 PM
40

I’ve never sucked a dick that I didn’t fuck but this is so funny that people actually care about this. Ain’t no way you’re mentally torturing yourselves by imagining all the other men while you’re kissing your girlfriend 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:44 AM
1

My simp army disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:00 AM
1

Simping doesn’t require being ‘lead on’. Men absolutely would love to have an army of women thirsting to fuck them, it’s silly to suggest otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:25 AM
1

Why are you acting like men don’t wish they had women simping for them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:19 AM
2

So men hit the wall at 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:54 AM
2

I would count any guy, regardless of whether or not I find him attractive Is that the answer you were expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:23 AM
1

I get a lot of attention from men lol Small boobs don’t stop anything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:22 AM
1

No one gets to define what's 'high value', because it's completely subjective. What you think is high value won't be the same as the next person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:12 AM
1

I don't like calling people 'low value', I think it's mostly used as a synonym for "incompatible for my dating standards", but that doesn't necessarily mean they have lower value as a human being. The main attribute that I think makes a woman not a good dating partner, is extreme insecurity which just infects every other aspect of their life. Like the type of women who will start a fight with their partner if he so much as glances at another woman in public, or if he follows women on social medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:11 AM
1

I'm not making any claims about the prevalence of STDs per a certain group
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:37 AM
1

So you’ve never been tested before is what you’re saying? And how many women have you slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:13 AM
1

I literally said “that the vast majority of people who make this argument have never even been tested themselves” To anyone with more than 2 brain cells I am obviously talking about other people. You had an opportunity to actually take this conversation somewhere but instead you just want to be stuck on you being a virgin. Idgaf, I’m out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:12 AM
1

In one of my last conversations on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:08 AM
1

It isn’t incorrectly applied here. That’s why it seems like you’re justifying it, because it obviously is a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:07 AM
1

Oh okay so you are hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:03 PM
1

Why would I prize any virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:01 PM
0

Okay? And that's bad, we shouldn't encourage double standards lol ​ Women scream about beauty standards while her last sexual partners have been big black men What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:59 PM
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idgaf if you're a virgin I'm obviously speaking about other people. ​ And go ahead, you try asking a woman to get tested for STDs. I’ll wait. Okay? I have. What now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:58 PM
1

"This thing is easier to achieve for this person therefore shaming them is justified" is not a good argument though. That is my point. Stop trying to make sense of a double standard, the reasoning behind it is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:57 PM
1

Comparing two different genders of people to two different species of animals 💀 Our situations are not that different for an analogy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:50 AM
1

If you believed that people who do drugs, alcohol etc. are dirty disgusting low moral people and then you date someone who does those things, yes that would be hypocritical of you. What you're saying here is that you don't actually mind if someone drinks etc. so you aren't actually making any moral judgements towards people who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:41 AM
5

because they are hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:35 AM
1

You are comparing physical attributes to moral attributes, which is not a good comparison. It isn't hypocritical to want to date a tall man if you are a short woman, it IS hypocritical to place certain moral attributes on someone (ie. no having sex with more than one person) when you yourself don't even live up to those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:33 AM
1

Yes, and the women who perpetuate it suck too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:30 AM
7

That is literally another double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:29 AM
1

D. Doesn't matter since I will make the moves anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:21 AM
3

“He can just date one that will be clean 100%” How do you know they’re 100% clean? Because they’re a virgin? How do you know that they’re a virgin? You should be getting tested yourself after every new sex partner if you care at all about STDs and your sexual health. How many times have you been tested?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:28 AM
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I’m arguing that the “but STDs” argument is stupid because people can easily just get tested for STDs before having sex with someone. Not to mention that the vast majority of people who make this argument have never even been tested themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:24 AM
0

So you agree that both are bad? Refusing to date someone solely because they are bi is biphobic, or homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:17 PM
5

This reasoning is so stupid though. Just get tested for STD's? Have you ever even been tested yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:16 PM
2

Okay? and he’s hotter in the 2nd pic so I’d prefer that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:34 AM
2

Yes lol It basically just comes down to an incompatibility for what I need in a relationship, which I am extremely picky about. It's not that they're bad people or anything, just incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:06 PM
2

His muscles and his cock :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:45 PM
1

Couldn’t care less
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:05 PM
0

They aren't exactly the most consistent bunch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:50 PM
3

Yeah that's an interesting point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:17 PM
-1

If you fell for a woman who already has kids I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:16 PM
2

Does this mean you believe people who watch porn aren't monogamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:38 PM
1

Yeah as long as he's not spending a large portion of his money on it, buying content here and there is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:36 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:30 AM
4

Because it’s interesting how all the men on this subreddit with ridiculous expectations for a virgin woman in her 20s are single
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:29 AM
1

And you’re single?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:19 AM
2

And how many times have you had this conversation with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:57 AM
6

Meeeee and yes most of the posts I read on here do not apply to me whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:15 PM
0

Yes. You have one short life and it's fair to want to live that life to the fullest & happiest. You should strive to be the best partner you can be, and also strive to be with the best partner you could have, if that's what's important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:28 PM
2

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:18 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:44 PM
4

Yes of course. ​ If so, what was this man like ? They were hot ​ And what do you feel made this man sexually appealing to you? They were hot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:17 PM
2

I’ve dated people with low confidence, which is why it is now a dealbreaker for me. It results in a lot of jealousy/insecurity around the relationship. They also just aren’t as fun to be around lol. Imagine being at a social event and your partner refuses to dance with you because they lack confidence and care too much about what others think. It’s so boring & such a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:35 PM
-1

It's applicable to both men and women, what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:58 PM
-1

What does that have to do with cucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:58 PM
-1

Yes, retroactive jealously is something that can be controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:01 AM
3

My casual sex experiences have always been mutually respectful imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:44 PM
7

I believe there tends to be more women on average than men who are religious. Not to mention astrology, so yeah I’d say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:22 PM
1

Slutshaming isn't a widespread phenomenon anymore Yes it is.... I literally experience it on a daily basis. This sub in particular is full of it, you must be new here? YOU'RE EVEN DOING IT IN THIS POST ​ the main issue nowadays is virginshaming Both of these issues exist, one doesn't minimize the other. Women are targeted by one, and men are targeted by the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:52 AM
1

I mean I look as feminine as they get and enjoy looking physically feminine but my personality and interests are definitely what people would consider to be more on the masculine side ie. dominant, assertive, confident, direct etc. I'm very sexually assertive too, so I'm the one to pursue people that I'm interested in rather than waiting for the guy to make a move. And my #1 hobby is gaming which people automatically think is a dude thing. According to my blood tests I have normal estrogen level…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:26 PM
0

It's a good thing lol wym existential crisis even if I'm not interested I love being noticed by men :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:17 PM
1

Sexy gamers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:59 AM
7

Period blood makes for surprisingly good lube lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:06 PM
0

Do you masturbate instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:00 PM
3

Answering as an already established onlyfans creator: A) If he is hot you would do it and split revenue. Would not do it if you are not attracted. If it would be financially beneficial for me to do so I would. So he would have to be a popular creator, and I'd at least have to enjoy his content. It would likely be a collab scenario, so split revenue wouldn't be needed. B) If he offers some form of pay. Please specify how much money you would find acceptable. Depends how much he makes from his OF …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:41 PM
45

If you're a woman, you aren't on your period. You think a period will stop me?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:33 PM
5

Nope. I don’t expect that unless we’ve explicitly discussed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:39 AM
1

There’s nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:36 AM
1

1000000% People are lying to themselves when they say "looks don't matter" ok then date someone who find physically repulsive. They never do. It's just humble bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:07 AM
1

I don’t care about how much money they have but no debt would be preferred. I’ll go with option 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:36 AM
1

Yes I’m always honest on here :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:07 AM
7

I couldn't stop fantasising about sex in my teen years lol. Before I ever had sex, I couldn't wait to try sex, and once I did have sex, I wanted to have A LOT of sex. So yes, I was definitely enthusiastic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:23 PM
1

So it represents the ultimate kind of love, without actually being the ultimate kind of love? ngl this sounds like a great defence for casual sex 8-) Since it isn't actually the ultimate kind of love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:02 AM
1

How is that different?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:34 AM
1

Sex is not a requirement for soulmate status... However, I think soulmate status should be a requirement for sex. So then it isn't the 'ultimate kind of love'
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:31 AM
1

"I think sex is a symbol for the ultimate kind of love" isn't a very good rationale for why you think those things are morally wrong. I also doubt you ACTUALLY believe that. When you're 80+ and no longer have a strong desire for sex, does that mean you no longer love your partner since you aren't showing them that 'ultimate kind of love' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:51 AM
0

I think that’s highly dependent on the individual. It’s honestly made me so much more confident, and most women I’ve spoken to who do OF say the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:40 AM
3

I mean I wouldn’t advise anyone to do it either, but that’s because of how much of a taboo it still is, not because I think it’s inherently a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:00 AM
2

The ‘stereotype’ that women are sexual objects is placed on women, by misogynists, regardless of what they do with their bodies. I don’t perpetuate that stereotype, misogynists do. And I don’t believe monetising your sexuality is inherently a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:17 AM
3

Why for women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:09 AM
2

For the women who do it themselves? Or for women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:06 AM
1

So is it fair to say that your perception on whether it’s a good thing or not is solely based around how much money they make doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:03 AM
21

Women who are ultra jealous in relationships. Like the type to go ballistic if their man so much as glances at another woman in public. Very cringe!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:02 AM
0

Well I do, and it’s practically my dream job :) I fail to see the downside here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:00 AM
1

They shouldn't be blamed whatsoever in my opinion, they aren't the ones who signed up to the social contract. The responsibility to not cheat is solely on the people within the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:28 PM
0

I can find a man physically attractive like a nice vase or a painting but have zero interest in him personally or sexually I think that's the kind of immediate physical attraction that OP is talking about though. Like you don't need to spend time with someone to know if they look nice or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:14 AM
2

I actually agree with OP. Of course attraction can grow stronger once you get to know a person better, but purely physical attraction is something that is determined just by looking at the person. If straight women can tell when other women are attractive, why do they need to ‘get to know a guy’ before they can tell if he’s attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:36 PM
2

Fair enough. One thing I HAVE noticed is that women who aren’t sex workers, will praise women who do sex work, but demonise the men who pay for sex workers services.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:32 AM
1

I do OF myself so I often speak to other women who do onlyfans too, and I can't say that it's typical for them to hate the dudes paying them? I've honestly never come across someone who fits that narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:03 AM
1

They shouldn't. I wish women were more confident when it came to pursuing men. But we've been taught not to. It's so deeply ingrained in our culture that we are to be pursued, we're practically slut shamed and viewed as 'easy' for going after men. But I personally don't care about these social norms, I pursue the men I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:56 AM
1

Yes 😎 I think I’ve probably kissed more girls than I have guys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:39 PM
1

Online? Yes absolutely an everyday occurrence. In person? It happens rarely but is also highly context dependent. If I’m at a bar/club there is a 100% chance I’ll get hit on, but if I’m just doing everyday stuff like shopping I get approached maybe once or twice a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:37 PM
0

Yes you are. It is visually arousing stimuli. Do you think our ancestors locked themselves in their little cave rooms so no one else could watch them have sex? Humans are the only species on planet earth who value privacy when it comes to sex, THAT is not natural, that is learned behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:34 AM
1

I do not like jealousy. I think it’s a huge turn off if his jealousy is influencing his behaviour rather than rational thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:29 AM
8

I mostly wear it for men and other women tbh I like the attention 😄 and I like being able to make myself look older by wearing makeup lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:53 AM
10

I don’t wear it most of the time. I still enjoy doing my makeup though :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:36 AM
49

I wish throwing a bucket of water on my face could remove makeup. That would save me a lot of time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:34 AM
3

Yep! Met my partner through League of Legends lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:43 AM
5

Clit stimulation. Penetration feels great but I can never actually cum from that alone. So any position where my clit can get rubbed at the same time is the best! Any kind of talk about cum is like hitting the nut button for me. If he says he's about to cum I nut instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:42 AM
1

Yes, you are focusing your attention on that one woman who you are not in a relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:04 AM
2

“I can find plenty of women” Yeah because you’re single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:48 AM
3

You’re still on tinder. You are single. “Really creepy you try to scrub through my post history freak” It is literally the first post that comes up on your profile you loser xDDD Lying about not being single is all I need to know about what kind of person you are lol. Deeply insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:41 AM
3

You just lied about not being single to try and win some internet points lmao so pathetic. If you’re going to lie about something like that at least make sure your last reddit post isn’t about how single you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:19 AM
3

So you are single xD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:06 AM
3

You made a reddit post asking for advice on how to improve your tinder profile one week ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:57 AM
3

That’s very immature of you. It sounds like you really lack any flexibility in mental capacity. Is that why you’re single but I’m not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:42 AM
5

So now you see exactly why I refuse to date conservatives, but that’s “immature” and “lacking flexibility” to you? lmfao touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:51 AM
3

Ah yes, let me ask you… Do you think a conservative man is going to want to date me? Someone who does onlyfans, hates religion, doesn’t want to get married, and wants non-monogamy? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:31 AM
4

That’s not immature at all. Conservative men are completely incompatible when it comes to dating me, our morals are not aligned, our sexual needs will not be aligned, and that would be a complete disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:26 AM
16

That isn't ironic. You can enjoy friendly debates with conservatives but still find them incompatible for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:45 PM
5

based
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:43 PM
5

My relationship is great, and I'm even willing to bet it's lasted longer than any relationship you've had. Which is why it's so comical being told that "a guy who wants a life partner will care. Those who don’t, just want to have fun" from a guy who presumably isn't married or doesn't have a life partner, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:07 AM
4

I’m not interested in marriage, but I do have a life partner. So there goes your theory out the window?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:08 AM
9

If it mattered THAT much to them, they would ask about it. And no, you can’t tell. You might be able to get a good idea, but there is no telling 100% without actually asking someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:57 AM
7

I think dudes on this subreddit severely overestimate how much men care about a woman’s sexual history. Most men literally don’t even ask about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:47 AM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:42 AM
13

Most of the men on here have a problem with women's height preferences. That's why I mentioned it. I don't like people being hypocritical which is why I'm highly critical of men who have a sexual history themselves, but hate women with a sexual history. I don't think it's simply 'a preference' at that point, it's just misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:26 AM
43

It is the same reaction a girl gets when a guy is too short So you think it's silly then? when a man deeply cares about a woman's past sexual history? Since you guys are always complaining about how dumb height preferences are...?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:07 AM
1

I've never heard of that happening ngl. But in my opinion if you want strict monogamy which includes your girl never posting sexy pics online, then you shouldn't be liking sexy pictures of other women online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:04 AM
2

Oh 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:44 AM
1

sooo a metaphorically big cock?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:41 AM
1

I have a vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:56 AM
1

There are always more options, you don't need to be approached by someone to know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:41 AM
5

I've had sex with a few virgins and they've all been really great experiences, but that's likely because I often take the lead during sex & I'm super communicative so there probably isn't much room for them to fuck it up. Simply being comfortable with the person makes all the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:36 AM
2

I have 0 obligation to be immediately exclusive with someone I've just met, that seems really silly to me. If a guy would not consider me because he found out I was seeing or talking to other guys when we make their first date plans, then he's doing me a favour, because that's a huge red flag for me. I wouldn't want to date him either if that's how he felt. It comes off as very irrational/insecure to me and that's a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:24 AM
1

Yeah I agree it’s definitely not most feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:57 PM
1

Not important at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:22 PM
1

I wasn’t asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:52 AM
1

But being sexually desired is not inherently dehumanizing. Are models being dehumanized because their work is solely about their appearance and looking desirable? I would hope you’d say no. I think this ultimately comes down to just you having negative feelings towards sex work. I don’t feel dehumanized, so who are you to say I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:51 AM
1

But I am presenting myself as a human, a sexy human, yes, but a human nonetheless. I think you’re projecting your own bias onto me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:03 AM
1

True lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:55 AM
1

Can you define dehumanizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:12 AM
2

I'm an exhibitionist and love that people are jerking off to me, I don't feel dehumanized by that whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:05 AM
2

I'm a 25 year old woman who loves doing OF. So can you explain how it's 'inherently dehumanizing'?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:25 AM
2

No they aren't ahaha. Have you heard of the term SWERF?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:24 AM
2

I choose to do OF, can you explain how that is "incredibly harmful" to me? Because I don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:21 AM
4

May I ask what form of exploitation do you think I experience by doing onlyfans?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:18 AM
1

If he earns significantly more than me? Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:37 AM
6

well I do have the opportunity, and still, what the fuck is this 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:00 AM
1

I think you'll find that the people who shame men for using the services provided by sex workers are also the same people who shame sex workers. As someone who does sex work, I definitely feel like I have to be cautious about who I tell, because it's still a huge taboo. I've also been in social situations where men have talked about going to a brothel or seeing escorts and no one cared. It really just depends on the crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:54 PM
1

That isn’t a problem. That’s normal xD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:19 AM
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As you’ve implied, it’s a two way street; I’m always upfront & honest about my intentions, so I expect the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:03 AM
21

I learned that guys who care about body count spend a lot of time on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:39 AM
6

I’m going to vaginally fuck myself in honour of this post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:39 AM
1

Because no one is going to want to sign up for that. Just stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:34 AM
2

Why would you base your opinions around what people outside of the relationship think? If the people within the relationship don’t see it as creepy or predatory then what’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:19 AM
1

Why would you complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:20 AM
7

I don't think the age gap on it's own is problematic. I think other issues can arise as a result of a large difference in age, but I don't think the age gap itself is inherently bad. Most of the age gap discourse I see just seems like a subtle way of infantilising adult women, since they only ever seen to have an issue with older men dating younger women, not the other way around. It's insulting honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:00 PM
3

Everything lol. I love looking at men’s chests, idk why you would assume that it’s only worth looking at if someone has cleavage. The stomach is probably my favourite though, then ass, arms, legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:01 AM
1

I would prefer a bi man who has had sexual experiences with men, or at least wants to have sexual experiences with men. The man you’re describing sounds like he has a lot of internalised homophobia and hang ups about masculinity, which is a big turn off for me and ultimately a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:03 AM
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The male equivalent for this would be showing skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:59 AM
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