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I don't know if this helps, but she nexted you...
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:34 PM
2

If it was a shit test, yes. But it's not always a shit test. Sometimes they're committed and are trying to tell you that upfront.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:02 AM
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30-60 minutes is enough with easier girls. 3 dates max for the others. Now that I think about it, I've never not fucked by the second date. I cut loose the ones I wasn't attracted to enough after the first date and women have always done the same to me. I've also had a few that I ended things with on or after the second date. But I've never, ever gone longer than two dates without getting what I wanted.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:23 PM
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This is 100% correct. I've had both Catholic and Orthodox LTRs who said all of the no sex before marriage BS too and they were supposedly virgins. Both sucked my dick and let me fuck them on the first date. It was just a gigantic shit test and they were more than happy to fuck on the first date when I passed it. Something else I learned from the Orthodox girl were that all of her friends and her sister were doing the exact same thing - sneaking around to fuck guys when they weren't even supposed…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:14 PM
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I assume you mean set boundaries by "check her." This really is as simple as telling her what your rules and expectations are and then enforcing them. For example, I never wear shoes in my house, so the first thing I tell every guest is to take off their shoes and point to a rack with spare house shoes. It's my house, so I make the rules and anyone who doesn't like that can either comply or leave. Similarly, it's your frame and she can either accept that or you walk.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:13 PM
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3 months is still not a LTR. Side bar. Now.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 09:00 AM
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He put LTR in the title of the thread....
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:07 PM
2

Say "hi" and and nothing more. Then act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:15 PM
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3 months is not a LTR. Side bar. Now.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:14 PM
1

In the US the legality of recording conversations entirely depends on the state. I'm from Texas and in my state it is 100% legal for me to record audio basically everywhere I go and on all phone calls as Texas is a one party consent state. There are some exceptions - for example, I can't intentionally record the conversations of other people, but if they're next to me at the bar and I'm recording for my own purposes, it's fair game. Other states require the consent of all parties involved to eve…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:19 AM
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Yea, well, 95%+ of guys wouldn't or have never rejected female advances. When they do, everyone just assumes they're gay unless it's known they're married or something.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 02:55 PM
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There are many problems with this idea, but the one that really stands out to me is that people will think you're gay instead of high SMV. Do you really want to pay money to a prostitute to make strangers think you're a homosexual? In fact, you might juat be gay if you're willing to pay one to NOT sleep with her.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:37 AM
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He seems to come here and ask something similar almost every single day.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:18 AM
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I'm a controls technician and can't work if I get hurt either. That's why I have disability insurance.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:56 PM
2

Do BJJ or Judo and get disability insurance. The insurance is cheaper than you think - I pay about $15 per week for both short term and long term disability insurance. I'm also a former Judo competitor and the USJA membership provided me secondary insurance to cover deductables in the event of injuries. BJJ may have something like that too.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 06:27 AM
4

You heard correctly. The book is the way to go.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 06:33 PM
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Do you really think it's a good idea to suggest an open relationship to a girl who has already posted pictures of her riding another guy's shoulders, with her ass cheeks hanging out, on her instagram for you to see?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:38 PM
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Has it ever occurred to you that she might be trying to bait you into doing something that could get you fired for sexual harassment?
/r/askTRP31/08/18 12:06 AM
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Next her and move on to the next girl. Women love to complain about the guys they're fucking to guys they aren't fucking. Don't get yourself put in the male-girlfriend bin with the next one.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 12:32 PM
10

Text her the password and tell her no thanks to the drink.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:31 PM
2

I didn't read the full comment but saw things like "I got stood up by her twice" so my automatic decision is that she isn't interested. Maybe she is trying to get under your skin or bully you or what ever. But an easier explanation is that she just isn't sexually interested.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:38 PM
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No. Women only shit test men they're sexually attracted to. If she isn't shit testing you, she probably isn't sexually attracted unless your SMV is way higher than hers.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:20 PM
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I actually had a girls do this to me more than once. Well not just that, but one of them also made a Facebook account to do so (disclaimer: this was in the days when Facebook had just began to allow non-university students to sign up and MySpace was still popular). I took it as a bit odd and assumed they were super in to me, which proved to be 100% correct. But all of them ended up being very needy and that trait is 100x worse in men.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:39 PM
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Uh, well you're doing well if 1 out of 10 women you approach fuck you and that is all we care about around here. Keep on gaming and the numbers will work themselves out.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:05 AM
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Came here to pretty much say this. I personally like using "I sell drugs" and then change the topic.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:35 AM
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You don't directly answer the question because women often ask this question to filter men or get them to qualify themselves to her. Don't want play her little game when she ask what you do? Tell her "I sell drugs."
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:34 AM
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The answer is having abundance mentality because you read the sidebar and know how to spin plates.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 09:35 AM
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You should ask about this over at r/keto
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:56 AM
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Here's what I got from your post: She made eye contact with you a few times hoping to get you to approach her, but that didn't work so she initiated small talk. You were completely in her frame and dragged on the waiter thing rather than taking it as an opener and taking control of the conversation by introducing yourself. She noticed that you didn't take the opener as an opener and was turned off by an awkward conversation about kids in Africa. You then stalked her to the bathroom and she was c…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 01:44 PM
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If you're posting here, you should know what it means when women won't tell you who they're meeting. But if you don't know, she's getting fucked by Chad. Let her know, in no uncertain terms, that the relationship is over and hard next her ass. Don't negotiate or take her back no matter what she says.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:16 AM
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No, it's worse. I transplanted myself from a big city to a small town. People in the city want to make friends because they're all transplants too. Small town people have grown up in that small town and have had their friends since grade school and they're rarely interested in outsiders. The pros include low crime and quiet, safe neighborhoods at affordable prices.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:58 AM
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A soft next is cutting off all communication for a shirt period of time (typically 3-7 days) based on how severe the offense was. When time is up, you initiate contact again as if it never happened. Soft nexts are a form of punishment for very bad behavior, drama, disrespect, etc. A hard next means she is dead to you and it's never to be undone.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:48 PM
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20 is a bit younger than most men can grow a full beard so this sounds pretty normal. I think I was 25 before my beard could fully come in. Have you thought about going to a barber, not a stylist or whatever they call them but a real barber, for advice about beard styles? That's what I do and mine recommended a beard style and cut that looks great on me and gets results.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:49 AM
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First, you need to start reading the sidebar. Second, you have 2 jobs that involve meeting new people all day, everyday. How are you not meeting women?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:50 PM
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No, I'm saying that sitting around the house passively waiting for something to happen is not TRP way of living. We don't wait around for women to approach is either. See that side bar? Use some of your waiting time to read and start improving yourself.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 10:22 PM
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Stop being so passive. You say that you sit around All day waiting for responses to job applications - why don't you leave the house and go meet people? Some of the people you meet will k ow about job openings.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 10:09 PM
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I too live about an hour from one of the other major metro areas in Texas and love it with a few caveats. First, you need to understand that in small towns people don't want to make friends. They've lived there their whole lives and have known everyone they know since grade school. You will always be an outsider for this reason. Second, no one from the big city wants to come to your little town so expect to do 100% of the traveling, 100% of the time. Third, people will be significantly different…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 05:16 AM
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I've had it happen quite a few times. One even bothered to take them off while using (or pretending to use) the toilet and then carefully buried them in my laundry basket. They do it to either mark their territory or have an excuse to come back.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:45 PM
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Do you really need to ask? He has the genes women want for their babies while the doctors and engineers don't.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 10:47 AM
3

This really isn't complicated - a better dick came along and she decided to fuck it and not you.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:07 AM
1

I don't think he is wrong, but from what I know about Tony Robbins, he's coming more from the perspective of professional and sales approach. In light of that, he is absolutely right that you should mirror the body language and ideas of MEN you want to build rapport with. With that said, I doubt it's the right approach to take with women you want to fuck.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:10 PM
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Yes, it's subconscious. Completely subconscious. I remember failing a series of shit tests horribly about 10 years ago - in my earliest of red pill days - and ghosted the girl as a result. She got in touch with me a few weeks later wanting to know what happened and I, foolishly in hindsight, told her that she had been testing the living shit out of me and I bailed because I knew I wasn't going to recover from it. She was confused and said something like " I don't know what the hell you're talkin…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:33 PM
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I think it comes down to them wanting a guy they can relate to from their worldview. I have an engineering degree and used to be an automation engineer and have done projects all over the US and South America. I used to have a fancy office job, where I spent a lot of time in meetings, drinking coffee, and bullshitting to avoid doing actual work. I got fed up with it all and decided to change everything about my life (think of Office Space) and in the process also decided to approach a young serv…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 12:24 AM
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The examples you gave all make it sound like a is your boss and uses "please" to soften direct orders.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:04 PM
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It's the 'I don't give a fuck' attitude and not being needy. Women find the IDGAF attitude incredibly attractive because it's the polar opposite of the female experience, which is basically worrying about EVERYTHING, all of the time and basing everything they do on what others think.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:15 AM
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But he is right. Amused mastery is the answer to this and it's basic side bar material.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:37 AM
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She's running dread on you to make you jealous - that's the whole purpose of dread. Women are naturals at this. Of course she's going to say that she wants a relationship with the right person, but that doesn't mean that she really wants a relationship all. She's just hamstering away reasons why she isn't a slut for sleeping with multiple guys. Women are never direct and she's never going to tell you that she just wants something casual. She's already told you that she wants a relationship "with…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:24 PM
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You're one of her plates and she's running dread game on you. Read side bar material and this would be obvious.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:16 PM
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What good would soft nexting her do? She has already soft nexted you. Hard next her and move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:11 PM
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Why do you assume that she's not seeing anyone now? The only take away I think you should get from this is: 1) She was not willing to meet with you alone in the past. 2) She was recently willing to meet with you on her terms and with a friend present. I wouldn't assume that you missed out at a shot on a three way or even a one way. Maybe she just wanted attention and assumed that after 2 months you'd be willing to give her some on her terms?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:08 PM
2

You've got oneitis. Read the side bar, go fuck 10 other girls, and the re-read your question.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 01:40 PM
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"You have to earn it."
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:33 AM
1

I really don't need you to come here and post a wall of text when you were the one who asked the question in the first place. Your problem is not being able to maintain frame, you came here and asked what the problem is, and I told you what the problem is. I really don't give a fuck about what you think, nor am I going to read your wall of text response to my advice.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:01 AM
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You're going to have to start improving yourself and learn to build and maintain frame (all side bar material). Frame is a concept we use to understand our mental view of the world. In order for absolutely any interaction with women to be successful, you must have a stronger frame than her. Ever notice how women share many of the same interested with the guy they're fucking? Ever notice how those interests change with the guys? This is because women absolutely need to enter their men's worlds an…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:33 AM
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You need to start reading the side bar. The cause of what you're seeing is that women in their 50s and 60s aren't even remotely sexually interested in you while younger girls may see you as a potential sexual partner. Women in their teens through early 30s get hit on by men literally all of the time, so they use certain techniques to reduce the number of men who waste their time. Imagine a world full of pushy salesmen who approach you and give you their pitch everywhere you go. How would you sta…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:17 AM
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/r/askTRP07/04/18 11:38 PM
1

No, a soft next dictates that the man reestablishes contact when the period he established is completed. This is typically between 3 days and one week, depending on the severity of the offense.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:13 AM
1

Go ahead and do it if you want to destroy whatever amount of attraction she has for you.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:07 AM
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This is 100% correct. Women talk about EVERYTHING with other women, even those who aren't their friends. 13 years ago, in my most blue pill of blue pill days, I was in a LTR with a girl who I fucked the ever loving shit out of. I choked her, I spanked her, I told her that I was going to fuck her like I was paying for it, I told her to moan so fucking loud that our neighbors knew we we fucking and then I held her jaw shut so that she couldn't do it. She told all of her friends about it and severa…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:48 AM
1

The book does explain this and this book is side bar material.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:33 PM
1

OK it sounds like you're doing the date thing correctly, however, as you said in your orignal post, you were trying too hard and talking too much. Trying too hard and talking too much is caused by being needy and it is extremely off putting to women. This is probably what you need to focus on.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:33 PM
1

Let's take your last date for example. Did you ask her out to dinner at a restaurant or straight to your house? Regardless of the answer, what was your true intention? Did you directly convey that to her? How many men do you think a HB8 gets date requests from per month? 90-95% of these men also hide their true intentions behind things like asking her out for dinner or a movie when they really just want to fuck her.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:21 PM
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I think you should pick up Mark Manson's book titled Models. You're looking at what makes men attractive from the eyes of a man and not the women you're putting off. Models will help you see the error in your ways. The social circle and hobbies sound like the two things you're doing right. You also sound like a slave to your work. Women find this very unattractive. When you learn to stop being needy and just be 100% truly honest with women you will become the prize because you become that 5-10% …
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:16 PM
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Skilled jobs that involve working with your hands are always manly and always in demand. Good examples include electrician, plumber, and industrial mechanic.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 08:22 PM
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You really need to stop asking the same question over and over. You don't even understand the most fundamental basics of how women view men. What you should do in this case is 1) hard next the girl and 2) READ THE SIDE BAR MATERIAL!
/r/askTRP01/04/18 06:11 PM
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No, you won't. What you will find is that your entire world view is currently incorrect and that this isn't a shit test because she wasn't sexually interested in you in the first place. But you need to read ALL of the side bar material to get started on changing how you view the world. And that's just the start.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:34 PM
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This wasn't a shit test - it was blatant disrespect. You need to get to reading all of the side bar material ASAP.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:10 PM
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When she asked "where's this sudden urge to get together is coming from" why didn't you just be honest with her? You already said "Well obviously, I do have an aim for this get together. It's to pull the girl that i have my eyes on, pretty i'd say HB7.5-8. " so why didn't you just tell her that you want to get together with her? Women see through all of this bullshit about 10x better than men do, so you might as well tell her that you want to get together with her. Believe it or not, she'll resp…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:57 AM
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He won't make 100k doing any of those things in his first 10 years, but this is solid advice. I'm an industrial controls technician (like an electrician, but higher skill level) and make 70k with only 5 years in the field. 100k is attainable by getting promotions at work in other areas, but not as any type of tradesman. Good companies will promote you to positions where you manage people or projects and you can make in the 100k range. But it won't happen in 1 year - 10+ years is more realistic.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 12:30 AM
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Pretty much this. I remember once talking about the movie Requiem for a Dream with a male bar tender when one of the servers, who I had never spoken to before, came up in the middle of the conversation. We were just getting to the part where the girl in the movie became addicted to heroin and started sucking her black dealer's dick and doing ass to ass in front of a group of men to get her fix. The girl immediately looked at me with an elevator eye contact motion that I didn't even register at t…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 11:16 PM
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You didn't next her, she nexted you.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 03:03 PM
1

Nah he was just trying to act tough in front of her and to be fair I had been dissing him to his face.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 09:49 PM
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Isn't it clear that she was using Tinder to get validation? She got what she wanted and was done. No, don't hit her up again as she'll just laugh about it with her friends
/r/askTRP24/03/18 03:09 AM
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Treat it exactly like a shit test from a woman because that's what it is. Years ago I was out with a girl I was gaming and some of our friends when another guy came to our table to game her. She straight up told him he might as well fuck off, but I let him stick around and join the group conversation. During the conversation he randomly said to me "how many weeks do you think I'm willing to do in county for throwing you over this balcony?" To which I replied "Probably none" with a smirk.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:42 AM
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