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This is the right answer, the "the worse you treat them the more attracted they become" thing is edgy and nonpractical.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:44 PM
1

On a youtube video, someone made a profile using pictures of an extremely attractive man, he mentioned in the bio that he's (if I remember correctly) been charged with sexual assault of a minor, he still got loads of matches/messages, some even joked about the charges. Go figure.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 01:46 AM
2

Crypto is naught but NFTs and memes at this point, a baseless hype at best. Bitcoin is getting there in terms of fundamentals but it'll be years before any other crypto makes a groundbreaking success, until then, my bet is on it being a bubble.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 04:25 AM
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Don't invest what you can't afford losing, Never FOMO. We're in a bull market, prices will eventually crash hard later this year. Keep this in mind and you might not shoot yourself in the head after investing in crypto. Good luck.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 04:07 AM
0

In my experience, women need to pamper themselves or be pampered by others (to some extent) to function properly, if they go all practical with money like us they'll go bonkers. Some see pampering women as bluepill but I don't think so, it is just so that my bitches, for being my bitches, get to live better lives and have nice things.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 04:16 AM
1

I'm a slowpoke as well and ignoring is my go-to approach most of the time. easy and effective.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:15 AM
1

Have the mentality that women are not mandatory to living a fulfilling life, they're just a nice bonus to have. This relieves a lot of the outcome dependence, at least for me.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:45 AM
1

I know golden boy, the manga gets hella crazy lol.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:59 AM
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To me, they have been eye-opening at best, the beast becomes a puppy at the end and the protagonist put on a pedestal. Also, feminist agenda all over the place with stories about submissive women having it bad and strong girls having it all being quite popular. One must already have an idea about what he's digging for beforehand so he doesn't get mislead.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:40 AM
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I enjoyed it which makes me the OG gay.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 10:12 PM
3

"Skip beat" is a classic, a good example of what's above yet it is (at least I remember it to be) quite funny. It's a romance for females though so you'll have to bear through some stuff.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 06:28 PM
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In Japanese romance manga, the shonen (male-targeted) manga typically has a goofy shmuck as a protagonist who happens to be a chick magnet because he's too kind-hearted, while the shoujo (female-targeted) manga typically has a Chad as the protagonist's love interest. I found that to be so funny even before my RP days.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 11:44 AM
1

If you'd classify judging as a supportive, antagonizing, or neutral action, where would you put it? Anyhow it isn't leaving them alone which is what you should be doing, until they interfere with your business of course.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 05:02 AM
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The first issue is easy, just leave people alone. Why would you antagonize (judge) people whose matters do not concern you? For the second one, TRP teaches about AWALT, but it never teaches that AWALT is wrong or bad (TRP is amoral anyway), any negative ideas about AWALT or female behaviour in general, comes from your head only. You should not hate women for not being what you wanted them to be. In short, the issues are within yourself, not TRP.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:28 AM
9

Preach
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:05 AM
4

I don't see anything blue pill about having kids, but that's just my opinion.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:28 PM
1

One should be aware that this shit happens, one should also be aware that some women fake being victims of assault to gain a benefit of some sort, especially those who bring it up very early in the relationship.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 10:25 AM
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Having a likable presence is a complicated skill that has a lot to do with genetics. Your physical/mental condition, facial expression, tone, body language, and words all play a role in a way that each small variation in these parameters will yield a different likeability outcome, some talented people will effortlessly be likable, most others have to put active work to do it. That being said, I don't think that anyone could effectively help others become more likable unless he does lectures or w…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:52 AM
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Go into deeper discussions about psychology in general, but not about your psychology. Being figured out puts you in a position of weakness. I use amused mastery in such cases, it allows me to deflect the question while not seeming alarmed nor threatened by it.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 11:59 PM
1

Nothing comes at the top of my head but this forum is full of such guides.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:26 PM
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3 steps, be attractive, don't be unattractive, and show sexual interest, or what we call here escalation and kino. The third step is the key point, women will be inert towards an attractive guy who does not escalate, on the other hand, a less attractive guy can get some action if he escalates properly.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:00 PM
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It is true, but remember, female attraction works like a gunpowder explosion, you'll have to make a spark to get that explosive reaction, otherwise, gunpowder is going to remain gunpowder, and you'll be left wondering about the explosion that people talk about.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:22 AM
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Nope, the saying fits better as it is. Men don't switch between women or at least would rather not to since they have the capability to have them all together. We ideally don't take turns between women in relationships. Women are the deciding factor in this formula since they're the ones taking turns between men, because of their hypergamy. Also, taking the phrase at face value is what you should do here, the rental car is not yours, it's just your turn, the phrase reads as is, there are no hidd…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:42 PM
1

If she's exposed to dicks it's ALWAYS safer to assume that she's going to ride one eventually. Desire is hard to predict and harder to control, so unless you lock her up in a basement, the chance of you becoming Chad the cuck is never going to be at a level where it's safe to be dismissed.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 06:55 AM
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Just marry a girl who had a stable family with a strong father figure, be it a 9 or a 7, these tend to be the most stable.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:29 AM
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Different social standing means different shit they have to deal with, which means varying degrees of craziness. Insanely pretty women deal with tons of crazy shit that they don't know how to handle, they tend to be a lot crazier in my experience.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:26 AM
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Today's flash news.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:31 PM
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Yeah, read it then immediately upvoted lol.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:24 PM
1

So the takeaway point is: if you play your cards right it won't be bad. Thanks for the input, I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:09 AM
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I see, thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 03:14 AM
1

Noice. Does it depend only on time management though? what about money, dealing with the bullshit of 2 women, jealousy, meeting their physical and emotional needs, and any other type of effort that the typical LTR requires x2?
/r/askTRP28/02/21 03:09 AM
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Several people are in OLTRs, but is an OLTR the kind of idea that 95% of people would come to the conclusion of it being a bad idea after a while? or is it a viable idea that works out for half the people who tried it?
/r/askTRP28/02/21 03:01 AM
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They did?
/r/askTRP28/02/21 02:51 AM
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Best answer IMO
/r/askTRP27/11/20 12:43 PM
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You know where true mastery is? it's when you subtly let her know that you know she's dump, but you don't point it out directly. It's when you convey the message that you're going easy on her because she does not know any better.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 11:13 AM
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I would have done something very similar to what you have done, but provided that I'm a bit more witty than I actually am, I'd respond with something like "Guess I'll have to plan a wicked Christmas this year then"
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:43 AM
1

I agree, such a childish comment.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:23 AM
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I'll use this one day.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:10 AM
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Whether I personally want to have kids - and I am actually more “agnostic” on the subject - is immaterial to my ability to observe information, assimilate it and use it to inform other men. Personal beliefs are a major source of bias. It is counterintuitive to listen to an atheist's advice on how to get closer to god, of course, an atheist might have read more about religion than a believer, though there's always that risk that the atheist's bias against religion is going to take form in his adv…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 06:28 PM
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What I meant is that you, personally, don't want to have kids.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 10:10 AM
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Hearing advice about having kids from someone who's against having kids is not on my to-do list.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 12:33 AM
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The opinion of a single person should not be considered as a fact. That being said, I think the person who made this overvalues grooming clothing and jewelry over other aspects. take for example these 2 extremes, both have perfect weight and are fit, both have perfect facial structure, one of them has perfect clothes, makeup and grooming but she's flat very short, and has a bad posture, also her eyes, skin and teeth are a complete mess, the other one has perfect eyes skin and teeth and has magni…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 10:32 PM
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several people said that married people should not have close friends of the opposite sex because it can get you into trouble... Key word is "close". Getting too close to people of the opposite sex is asking for trouble. We can care about people and have people care about us from a distance.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 07:42 PM
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/u/Veryanne Basically this comment.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 09:28 AM
6

Honestly, drop the handkerchief.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/20 11:17 PM
0

Totally, where's the moralizing, I don't see it.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 07:23 AM
4

A pretty woman can grab the attention of any man of almost any caliber, history has a minimal regard in this matter. Maintaining a healthy relationship with one though is another story. I have a little to no experience in such matters but if I was to hypothesize, I would say that taking a break to try and improve yourself should be your next step. Only when you realize that whatever baggage you had in the past few years is not holding you down anymore, then you should proceed with having a relat…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 05:52 PM
1

many women often just flirt with men out of boredom or attention. Men overthink it xo Actually If you simply interpret flirtation you'd just think that it's product of interest. Overthinking it is thinking that it might be out of boredom or attention seeking.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 10:27 AM
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Define smile, never have I ever nor any man I know thought that a woman liked us if she smiled during a normal interaction with us, say a conversation with a cashier for example, on the other hand if a stranger woman smiling at me from across the room (while nothing funny is going on) is not flirting, I don't know what is.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 10:20 AM
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Took me a lot of time to comprehend that 3rd point and it still shocks me sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/20 06:02 AM
1

Remember kids. No human deserves the kind of idolization that is oneitis. No one is that important, even if they produce chocolate milk from their breasts.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 01:19 AM
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Great write up, an entertaining story with a good moral. This is top 10% content. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 08:21 PM
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Your life's dream of being a sahm mom went away just like that. At least stay true to the script.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 11:27 PM
1

Ahm, is it against the rules to call out a post for being fake? EDIT: Doesn't matter, this story is so scripted and fake it made me puke a little in my mouth.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 11:12 PM
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What's going on? The fuck knows. It could range from being a shit test to god knows what. If it's something big the signs will be more obvious and consistent. I'd give her the cold shoulder for a while as a warning. I do not condone disrespect.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 10:53 AM
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You'll want your self-respect bar as full as possible all the time. Women can literally fuck themselves if they want to mess with that. I'll choose celibacy over humiliating myself (by any degree) for a woman any day. I have a journey and a mission, women are free to join as long as they assume the support position and not try to dictate things around, if none of them join then that's cool as well.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 09:41 AM
2

lifting means fuck all, you being 6 foot means jack shit. Yeah money doesn't matter too smh. I wonder what kind of game José uses on foreign chicks while he doesn't speak their language.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 04:34 AM
4

Absolutely! You can deal with a chick stirring up conflict between you and friends/family, letting out your secrets or doing stupid shit out of jealousy, but it's the simp culture that keeps me way too formal with women who are not romantic/sexual interests. I didn't have female friends for the past 10 years and I thank myself for that everyday. If you think about it though, it will all come down to women being impulsive and reckless, for they never hesitate to evoke their drunk army even though…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:10 AM
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Let me qoute a comment I wrote with this account 9 months ago to someone asking "How do I get over what this girl did to me in Highschool" You do by understanding that women are dangerous, but not inherently so, they're dangerous because they act on impulse almost without any regard to circumstances. Hopefully once you know that women aren't out there to get you, you'll loosen up a bit. I think that I agree with you lol.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:36 AM
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I'm starting to think that women are either really really bad at assessing risks or they entirely lack the function. The amount of times I've seen a woman do a "fuck all" is ridiculous.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 01:39 AM
3

lift
/r/askTRP02/08/20 01:30 AM
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Women are trouble. I would never get close to one if sex is not involved, and it's a risky trade even then.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 11:28 PM
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It shouldn't be hard to get her interested in you once you are aware of "how things are". You have a gigantic leverage over any other guy who is not acquainted with her yet. The hard part - getting her to trust you - is already done. You now need only to play a few cards right. That of course if you are interested in taking matters into that direction.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:55 PM
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When you're dealing with a female, sexual dynamics are going to get involved no matter how much you pretend they do not exist. The moment you move close to, talk to or think about a woman, there are going to be feelings involved only with sexual interests, these apply to her as well which makes close friendships with women non viable in my opinion, unless both parties find a way to repress those emotions. This is uncertain and an unnecessary burden. The sexual dynamics will play a role and in de…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:03 PM
1

Makes you wonder if they genuinely wanted to commit doesn't it.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 04:58 PM
1

but that doesn’t mean a promiscuous woman wouldn’t want to commit to me As I said, this is not what I have experienced. Commitment was never the goal of the party girls I knew, even whey they boyfriended someone, it never lasted more than a couple of months. It seems very unlikely to me that they were never offered commitment by high value guy.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 04:43 PM
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Not really. They start sleeping with multiple men to cultivate attention, they don't want the attention from a single guy, high value or not. Then, promiscuity becomes a force of habit even when they want to commit. A recent post in the main sub titled: In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman. you might want to give it a read
/r/askTRP21/07/20 04:22 PM
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My experience has been different. There's a reason why promiscuous women are called as such, commitment is not their thing.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 04:06 PM
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They all seem to get annoyed when I don’t want to commit to them Would they commit to you though, the promiscuous ones I mean. Any girl would be annoyed if you state that you're not going to commit since that means - at least to her - that she was of low value, their annoyance doesn't necessarily mean that they want to commit themselves. If you made a promiscuous woman want to commit I'd genuinely be surprised.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:56 PM
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Younger women in general get more attached because they have been with lesser men. Promiscuous women are your best bet if you don't want to deal with attachment issues, but those are not void of trouble for they're usually bundled with craziness and STDs.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:41 PM
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You must be getting with 18-22 year olds exclusively.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:22 PM
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It's a bad idea, not because it makes you feel less human though.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:55 AM
1

Many thanks kind sir.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:50 PM
1

Beta is creepy and disgusting. Not a cool mix.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:58 AM
1

If it makes you feel any better, when I leave the US for the Старая Родина, the Quality of Totty goes up at least two clicks. It's more like 5 click in my opinion. I'm having a hard time finding a slavic woman who's less than a 5 HB, while I'm having a hard time finding a 5 HB anywhere else. It's plainly insane.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:21 AM
1

She has to then stress gets to her then she doesn't. Is there a way to reduce the chances of that happening or is it something we have to live with?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:02 AM
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Let men be attracted to the natural version first then use enhancements to strengthen the attraction. I think that this is the best use of make-up and whatnot. They're like jewelry, they add a sense of exoticism. Of course, if this fails, anything is fair game.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/20 01:40 PM
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To anyone who left the sub today thinking that you need to put out or put “something on the table” to show how much you care without any commitment or trust: please do not get sucked into that thinking. Assuming that "something on the table" does not equal sex, does your argument still stand? In other words, are you against women giving value to the relationship in forms other than sex to inspire men's commitment?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 06:39 PM
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Emotions after a sudden trauma like this are overwhelming. I try not act brave and repress them. Otherwise, I let it all out and experience these feeling to their fullest potential. I might take days out from work and I will most certainly seek condolences and support from the people I trust. This goes on for days, 2 weeks max. It gets better after that as the pain goes into its chronic state, which is way more manageable and it (more than not) heals with time.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 02:06 AM
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Hey, more blowjobs never hurt anyone.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 06:28 AM
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That’s what fosters feelings of emotional intimacy in women and makes them feel like their man is really connected to them— it’s being vulnerable and having that vulnerability honored rather than shat on. This should be taught in schools. Well said.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 02:11 AM
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I don't know but if I have to guess I'll say it depends... Novelty is the reason behind the harmful effects of porn i.e. seeing hundreds of different women naked, so, if you browse hundreds of pictures of only one, two or three women, it won't be harmful. So, if you view nudes of a very limited number of women you should not be concerned in my opinion.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 10:40 AM
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Why can't I tell girls something I just want to say or talk about, even if it doesn't display high value? What you say will either increase your value or decrease it. There's no in-between. you're also telling yourself that the real you is not enough, and you have to manipulate a girl to think you're something when you're not. I can still be enough but use game to maximize my chances, and if was not enough, I'd much rather "lie to myself" than not get laid if lying to myself was the only consequ…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 10:00 AM
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Oh believe me, I love women ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°).
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:57 AM
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Entitled women have inflated standards that the objective Chad could be billy beta in their eyes. Also, to maintain their perceived superiority, Entitled women will shit test the fuck out of possible suitors to break their frame and simp them up, and if they maintain frame, these women will actively fight their instinct to submit thinking that they deserve better. Seducing entitled women is possible but it's such a grind that 95% of the time it's not worth it. TL;DR: entitlement won't stop women…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:44 AM
1

Bravo. The average woman now regards you sexually. The world before and after being in the top 20% is so different it gets really confusing sometimes.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:23 AM
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They do. Vulnerable men are easier to extract resources from. What they need is an invulnerable man however.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:16 AM
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In my experience. Simp culture deludes women into thinking that they deserve such treatment, which is troublesome.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:08 AM
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For example, a man with oneitis for his gf will not fuck a better girl than his girlfriend. A woman who thinks that her man is the best for her won't fuck an objectively better man as well. Anyhow, thanks for sharing your point of view, seems like both of us are strictly standing by our opinions so there's no point of going on with the discussion.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:56 PM
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being content with every chick is not basically oneitis. The one in oneitis is there for a reason.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:31 PM
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Hypergamy for men is not natural as well, and the media promoting soulmates is them basically saying: there's some"one" out there who is the "best" for you. You see what I'm pointing at there right? Thats hypergamy! Hypergamy is not logical for men and it's not always due to scarcity mentality. Think celebrities for example, some of them settle with whom they think are their soulmates.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:31 PM
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Your statement could be true, but it does not negate mine. What I'm asking is, if someone has oneitis, can we safely say that he's showing hypergamous behavior?
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:09 PM
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Anytime man.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 11:12 PM
1

Oneitis is males' version of hypergamy. You perceive her to be of higher status than yourself, that's why she has you in awe and wonder. Figure out why you think very highly of her, then debunk what you figured out.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:47 PM
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...to get to where this kind of stuff doesn’t even faze me. I'm not sure if getting to this point is possible or if it's viable getting there in the first place since I'm not there myself, nor I have ever met somebody with such mastery over himself. Right now I'm totally fine with shit being stirred inside me as long as I don't let the smell get outside.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:32 PM
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Neither you nor anyone can draw a conclusion based on the info provided here. Don't shoot yourself in the leg by assuming anything based on this interaction. If you plan on pursuing her, just do it, you'll find out eventually what she thinks of you, and it won't really matter if it was something negative because you have abundance mentality, right?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:43 PM
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Your edges are not dull by any means, the way I see it you handled her well. I wouldn't even bother to look for a reason behind her flaky behavior since women's emotions stand on a bull's horn.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:27 PM
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The better approach I'd say would be brushing it off. You both know how the situation really is. Not bothering with explaining yourself to her shows true mastery. Anyhow, calling her on her shit is good as well, she'll come around if she's interested.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:22 PM
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Master being unphased by whatever is thrown at you even if you screwed up. At least give the massage that the failure didn't get to you. I'd say that it minimizes the damage by 90%.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:03 PM
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It's expected to go bad but that won't cost you a leg. In fact, it won't cost you anything. You're just going to go back to where you were at. Go for it and expect nothing. Anything you get is going to be a bonus.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:58 PM
1

I'd take a shot in the dark and say that this is a form of shit-testing. When this happens to me I just respond but I never follow up with "are you here?", "hello?", etc when the ghosting happens. It typically takes them a few days to initiate a conversation again.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:28 PM
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I'm a guy so my answer might not what you're particularly looking for. I can respect a person on the first day of meeting them or the fifth year. It depends on the amount of info about them that I collect in that period of time. I can not look up to someone if I don't know their beliefs, lifestyle, decisions and achievements they have made, people they keep around, etc. Otherwise I'm going to feel neutral about them. From my experience, knowing more about a person leads me to feel indifference o…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 04:21 PM
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The feeling is overwhelming and hard to miss. If you want to make sure, ask yourself if you look up to him the way you look up to a certain role model that you have. Then again, feeling neutral towards someone you barely know is only natural.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 12:41 AM
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The good thing about the approach that I suggested is that it should not provoke your fears. If it works it works. If it does not work then you just have fun with the interaction. Giving subtle hints or light flirts does very rarely have negative consequences. Most men will not end up pursuing you after being given subtle hints for many reasons other than you not being attractive, so you should not worry about that. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 07:14 AM
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I think that finding someone new is a good way to move on. Do you come across any men who pique your interest, that you do not pursue because you're sheltering yourself? or is it that you did not find anyone remotely interesting? If it's the former, then I'd say that trying to get their attention with light flirting and letting them do the rest of the pursuing is both safe enough and very effective.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 04:01 AM
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I think that you're used to being loved without giving back that much. Also, you're used to being the one in charge in the relationship because your exes probably gave up control to be with you. this is very fun and rewarding but you'll end up not liking the guy for being a pussy. The red-pill teaches love for respect for a balanced long lasting relationship. You'll have to give up control to the guy that you want and show him respect, loyalty and submissiveness, then vet someone who's going to …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/20 02:20 PM
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I see. You did great btw.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:43 PM
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She sent me a big text afterwards trying to justify her behavior and make it seem like she did nothing wrong. Would love to see how she conjured this one.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:12 PM
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You do by understanding that women are dangerous, but not inherently so, they're dangerous because they act on impulse almost without any regard to circumstances. Hopefully once you know that women aren't out there to get you, you'll loosen up a bit.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 07:49 PM
1

Don't know why this is downvoted, it's true.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:52 PM
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It depends on who you want. If you want someone then she's worth it, you don't want to end up with a chick that you don't want. The thing is, girls who show signs of interest to get validation from you are as into you as any other random girl, which is minimal. So you'll have to get them hooked first. It's a hassle, on one hand you'll have to hold frame and withstand the manipulation, and on the other hand, doing that will give you an edge and she might end up actually wanting you.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:44 PM
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Blue bill conditioning largely consists of inflating women's ego ( strong independent women, don't need men, etc..) I know a thing or two about how submission feels like. I have submitted to people, followed their guidance and supported their cause. I have also read/heard a lot of women's experiences. I know what I'm talking about. OP seemed puzzled about why some women "let go of their control". I aimed to clear the confusion by stating that submitting gives back a positive feeling. I don't see…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 10:12 AM
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It comes naturally to men who evoke that feeling. Correct, I did mention having utmost respect for someone as a requirement for calling them captain i.e. submitting to them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 11:34 PM
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I would never call my husband 'captain'. I've thought it's silly since I joined the sub. Using that word or not doesn't mean anything, certainly not justice The fact that my statement doesn't apply to you, does not make it wrong. It also need not be an ego issue. If she's never found anyone worthy of submitting to Do you think that she has never come across someone who is objectively worthy? I think it's very unlikely, hence why I believe she might be overestimating herself or underestimating pe…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 11:32 PM
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Submission as others have mentioned, comes naturally. The fact that the idea of submission disgusts you means that you have a big ego. Just to put you into perspective, the moment someone earns your utmost respect, calling him captain will feel like it's justice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 10:19 PM
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The thing is, something like that does have a very low chance of working. I'd advice a friend who's in a similar situation to invest his efforts in women who do not live on the other side of the planet.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 12:01 AM
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First I brush it off and keep a straight face, If they don't get the hint either I reduce my exposure to said person or I'll tell them to cut the crap depending on how much the person matters to me. eventually anyone will meet the trash bin if they persist with this behavior. I am going to come across as offended because I regard insults as an offence, though I'm not gonna come across as weak or beta because being insulted is a valid issue that should be addressed.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:26 PM
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I'll speak for myself. I don't let my friends insult me unless it's extremely obvious that it's said in a lighthearted manner. I have enough bullshit from people I hate already.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 06:47 PM
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If you're competing with someone who is a threat, then it's not bad motivation. You'll want to outperform them so they are not a threat anymore. Avoid competing with allies or neutral people since that will hinder your social interactions with them.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 06:17 PM
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Your friend is the stupid one. Let go of this toxic trash.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 06:10 PM
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No such thing as a confident woman, they are all insecure.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:51 AM
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Yeah, can't be a coincidence.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 10:50 PM
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College, Gym and sport. Your life is quite active if you ask me. I think the issue is that you're lonely since you don't have a solid social circle. Unfortunately, I don't have a good advice on how to obtain a decent social circle.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 06:52 PM
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You need someone who can add value that is worth throwing your freedom away for. typically, women give themselves away to men who have strength (in all of it's forms) and influence, because that's what they miss, hence, it's what they need. Your ego has reached a point where no man made you feel that he is of higher power than you are, you stated that you get what you want after all, that's way up there in the power hierarchy. Although, you might have already noticed that this power is slipping …
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 06:23 PM
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This immense, strong feeling is called love in the pop culture, it's called oneitis by TRP people, but I believe this terminology should be alterd. A theory that I'm very fond of says that love/oneitis is the kind of feeling that a man has when he is sexually attracted to a woman who he believes that she 1- has a higher value than him 2- has the highest value around. It's the typical feminine form of attraction, i.e. women typically feel attraction (also called love here) in the form of oneitis,…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 02:53 PM
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Any chance that you go back to your parents, say sorry for your shitty behavior and let them help you?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 01:22 PM
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Despite being attractive or not, being a lone wolf is not practical. We need regular social interactions and friends.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:09 PM
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Yes, they are a typical example. Good guys (aka nice guys) are guys who give copious amounts of their time and other resources to women because they crave sex/pleasure more than they should or because they suffer from a case of oneitis. To a woman, getting resources is not that bad. Although, the reason behind it is what makes her look down on nice guys. For instance, craving pleasure too much means that the man can be manipulated by anyone who can provide it, it also means that being nice will …
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 01:44 PM
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Yes, low value men are dangerous to women as life partners. If a women submits to a man, she's either letting him lead her to safety or demise. So anything leading to letting a low value man guide you to demise is going to leave behind a mix of regret, stress, anxiety, disgust and other negative feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 11:53 PM
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Tingles are a sign from your brain telling you that the person at your presence is powerful and is to be respected/submitted to. mix that with sexual desire and you get infatuation/attraction. Men's red pill tactics focus basically on those 2 points, it preaches increasing your value or behaving like a high value (power) man. It also preaches to use Kino (firing sexual desire) as quick as possible to get women hooked (infatuated), then it's game. So, attraction = Power*sexual desire. don't forge…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 10:52 PM
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He's not fulfilling you. You are not fulfilling him because you "lack that chemistry". This went on for 3 years. Don't waste another second. Break it off then go find yourself a Bradley. Many of them out there.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 09:11 PM
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neglecting advances of guys you like, aka playing hard to get, is essentially telling the man that you are with someone who's better than him or that you are usually with men who are better than him. This, depending on the guy, will lead to one of 3 outcomes: He'll move on and go after women who are receptive of his advances. This is the rational option if the girl is not something special. He'll give it another shot after he improves himself. This is the rational option if the girl is something…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 01:08 AM
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I'd give her a bad time for a while so she knows that this kind of behavior is not tolerable. I wouldn't next her. When dealing with women and kids you'll have to excuse a lot of their bullshit because doing stupid shit runs in their blood.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:06 PM
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Preach!
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 04:49 PM
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Why should you react if it has nothing to do with you personally? You'll be more than a great brother if you show him why you're concerned then leave him be. He's your brother not your kid, you're better off worrying about your own issues.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:15 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:08 PM
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If you're attractive people will want to talk to you. Doesn't matter if you're quiet or not.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 10:16 PM
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Your goal is fine and possible in my opinion. It's just that the competition is fierce. Setting a high standard is risky because either you win the jackpot or you die trying.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 03:08 PM
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Just try to not make him feel uncomfortable. He most likely will screw up a couple of things. Try not to show disappointment nor mockery and try to be graceful and understanding. This is more than enough I'd say.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 01:49 PM
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My advice is to just restrain yourself from going to see him. Time will surely do its thing. Though it's not 100% bad idea nor impossible to manage to meet with him. It is somewhere between 95% and 99% nonetheless.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 12:43 AM
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Well I'll try to let my turn be as long as possible.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 10:23 PM
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I see where your coming from and I agree 100%. Unfortunately (or fortunately) I'm not a plate spinner and I don't aim to be one. to me it will come down to having 2 or more serious relationships (where everyone knows of everyone) coupled with serious boundaries to minimize the occurrence of this bullshit. You guys don't like tackling your girls' freedom as that would make one look insecure, but that doesn't matter as long as the boundaries are kept. Yes I aim to have more than one girl all while…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 08:32 PM
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I notice and I care. I prefer a pretty woman who has an outfit that fits her well, not made from garbage material and has a design/color code that's easy on the eyes, to a pretty woman who dresses in whatever she laid eyes on first thing in the morning. Knowing how to dress yourself properly is a rare talent that I appreciate.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/19 07:35 PM
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I get from your story that I can do everything right, get her attracted and all, and she might one day be like "imma fuck it all up" just because she felt like it?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 07:21 PM
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started basking in the glory of male attention because “she was never truly independent” in her life and “wanted to know what it was like” Okay, what happened? were you the reason behind her behavioral change? Was she actually attracted or did you assume she was at the time? or did she just figure out that she craved riding the carousal out of nowhere? I'd assume that she lost attraction a year or two before things went down. At least, that's what I hope.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 04:07 PM
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I can understand AWALT, it makes perfect sense to me, but I don't understand your story. I can't see why a woman would insist on a an average guy who's being an ass to her. Women seek men for protection and you didn't seem like you could provide that. Actually, all women are like that, and they are like that for a good reason. Assuming your story is true, you were her top choice for some reason, if that ever changed, you would have been dropped without remorse.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 03:48 PM
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Set a goal you really want to achieve, try to achieve it.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 07:34 PM
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Would a dad tell his young kid about any kind of struggles at all, unless it's really necessary? Your girl is not your friend, she's your girl. She's as much as dependent on you as your little kid would be.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:45 AM
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I'd answer immediately because I don't give a fuck. If you have what matters, little gibberish like this won't have any effects.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:29 AM
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This is a singular attempt to scaling beauty, which is cool if you want to have an idea about the opinions of another person, but nothing else. I dream of a day where a bunch of people set down and make a scientifically objective scaling method for men, so each of us would know their SMV without any bias.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 07:10 PM
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Is basically soft nexting your own mom the right answer? I'm not going to change and I'm not going to fight her over it. I dont see another option. How about not taking her seriously? If she talks about it again just laugh, throw a joke or two and let it go with ease. No need for tension the way I see it. Be a sport. You can handle rants from your mom, she handled your smelly diapers for years.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:27 PM
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our ancestors be like, "girl grow vaggie to fit dick or you killed."
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 04:21 PM
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A girl out of your league is a girl that has access to males with higher value than yourself. If you are a 7 and 8s for example flirt with her all the time then you shouldn't get your expectations high. it doesn't matter if she's a 3 or a 10. Her seemingly looking as if she's out of your league shouldn't drastically change your approach though. If you like what you see, go get it. There's nothing to lose most of the time.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:48 AM
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Exactly. There's a plethora of reasons behind the flaking that OP doesn't know about and shouldn't concern himself with.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:39 PM
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Should I ask my girlfriend if she put sunscreen on when we're outside? I mean, this concern is real because her skin is sensitive and her father has had cancer. Yes. You are a care taker. Sometimes when I'm at her place I'll do the dishes after dinner (as she does most cooking) because.. I'm just productive and I'd rather help at something than just sit and watch TV. She referred a few times to this behavior as "cute", am I the child? Nah. As long as it's something you want to do, not so that yo…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:19 PM
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She's conflicted. She's shit-testing you to know if you're actually worth her time or if she should try to secure a "superior" guy. She's covertly saying "convince me that you're better than this guy". Good replies would have been "You think that I'd appoint someone as my superior because he's tall and handsome?" "pfft, superior? yeah right." or you can brush it off "whatever you say babe" and leave her to her thoughts. Every girl can branch swing at any moment, signs of disinterest like the shi…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 02:35 PM
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Forcing your way in with a woman doesn't have to be outcome dependent. You can be using your power to get her just because you can and still be fine if it doesn't work out (not advocating breaking the law either). As in being 100% outcome independent. I personally think that it's impossible and stupid. Some girls are going to add value that is hard to compensate and losing them is going to bite you in the ass. I think that you can let yourself be somewhat outcome dependent as long as you put you…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:45 AM
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You don't answer vaguely because you want to look cool. You answer vaguely or refrain from answering all together because 90% of the time, it's non of her business. Or, there is no point to you in answering. Looking cool is a byproduct. First you have to feel that this kind of questions is redundant, responses then come on their own. “So why aren’t you with your friends as always?” "Didn't feel like it", "Should I be always with them?", "I don't hangout with them on (insert day here). Her: Why? …
/r/askTRP23/07/19 12:57 AM
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I'd have to disagree on the idea that what we're dealing with now was forced upon us by the media and the likes. People wanted to have sex with zero consequences, industrial/technological revolution came along, contraception became a thing and poof, women can get inappropriately cheap attention and men can get inappropriately cheap sex. If you try to use people to your advantage (the way the media does now), you'll find it way more effective to exploit their existing destructive tendencies than …
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:53 PM
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Here's an unpopular opinion, it's actually men's fault. Beta men put them in a place of power/independence, and alpha men don't want to provide anymore. When you leave women alone they have to have masculine traits to survive. Telling women to be submissive nowadays is a bad advice. With betas it's impossible. With alphas she's going to be taken advantage of then thrown away. Well, unless she finds an alpha who's welling to provide which is not very likely. The media just rides the wave. It does…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:01 PM
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I'm more interested in facial aesthetics than I'd like to admit. Mind telling me where I can acquire this kind of info? BTW thanks a lot man. Your response is something!
/r/askTRP21/07/19 02:18 PM
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She's your prey dude (not in a rapey way though), act like it. Edit: to elaborate, you have to be comfortable with showing the girl that you want to fuck her. In your mind, this should be totally normal, and if she doesn't like it, that's on her. There is nothing wrong in showing sexual interest. To implement this mindset you need to see it work in action, you either try it yourself, or if you want the easier path, there are dozens of videos of guys covertly showing sexual interest and getting p…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 02:16 PM
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I'm okay when it comes to structural things, bit of a long face and somewhat big nose but that's it, cheek bones and jawline are not bad, also eyes mouth shape and placement are cool. I look like a drug addict though, and I used to look way better than this so I know it can be improved. skin color and texture look bad ( don't know how, it just looks bad ) my expressions look terrible and I have a poor fat distribution, I have a bit of excess fat that rather than being distributed around my face,…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 07:45 PM
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Many thanks bro ♂. Two more things though, my facial expressions are dull at best, I can be dying from laughter in the inside but it minimally translates to expressions in my face. I observe that most of people around are like me. But in some instances I see people who have every single muscle fibril in their face working wonderfully to form expressions. I wonder if that can be improved. The other thing is about muscle definition. You've mentioned chewing gum. Is it enough for working out facial…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 07:28 PM
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Dude you should write a post.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 07:02 PM
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Much less than the average joe, which is the point.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 11:26 PM
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Think of the perfect alpha, do you think that he would have your problem? Get closer to being the perfect alpha by lifting, being successful and earning power and you won't have this problem anymore.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 08:56 PM
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I doubt that you have never seen a woman that's prettier than Misty. You regard her highly (i.e. respect her). That have skewed your vision as well as your heart. The moment you take that respect away she'll be no more than a ho with a pretty face and ass. Once you have second thoughts about that good side of hers, the magic will go away. Once it does, get back to me with an objective HB rating.
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